Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect
Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. So I pride myself
Speaker 1: in my co parenting situation. Okay, me and Jamal get
Speaker 1: our co parenting old. Okay, Robin's leaving the building. Something
Speaker 1: has happened. Okay, let you let me drink my smoothie here.
Speaker 1: The last same team is right now? Can you start?
Speaker 1: That's because I need to be fired? Yes, okay? Wait?
Speaker 1: Can we can we do the same thing we did
Speaker 1: before because we did record it through year. Oh so
Speaker 1: so it's okay, Okay, let's keep going. Let's keep going. Okay,
Speaker 1: So we we're having a little bit of um some
Speaker 1: audio issues. So in like the first half of this
Speaker 1: podcast might sound a little different from the second half.
Speaker 1: Just bear with this, guys, just tell them I did
Speaker 1: it again. I forgot to press record. Yes, okay, Robin
Speaker 1: Dixon is getting fired, so yeah, I'm wanna get fired.
Speaker 1: Who's my replacement? Guys? Um? Yeah, good luck finding one. Hello,
Speaker 1: and welcome to another episode of reason Only Shandy. I
Speaker 1: am Gazelle Ryan. What's that everyone? I'm Robin Dixon. We
Speaker 1: are bad and you must address us properly. Naw, you
Speaker 1: must what's our name? Our name is Umble, a CP
Speaker 1: Image Award nomine Yes, get that straight. When you see us,
Speaker 1: I'm up to us and you bowed down and you
Speaker 1: say hello a CP Image Awards reasonably reasonably show down
Speaker 1: for real? Okay, so we got the shock of our lives.
Speaker 1: Yes we did. When it's so crazy. A friend of
Speaker 1: mine actually texted me a picture like a post from Instagram.
Speaker 1: It was like congratulations time. And I was like, what's
Speaker 1: What's she congratulated me for? And so I looked at
Speaker 1: the picture. I was like my mouth dropped. We literally
Speaker 1: were nominated for Outstanding Arts and Entertainment Podcasts, Yes, for
Speaker 1: the n double ACP Image Awards. Like this is huge,
Speaker 1: Like Hugh Mons, there's a million podcasts out there, there's
Speaker 1: a million arts and entertainment podcasts, and they chose us.
Speaker 1: It's like five of us, it was, and we're nominated
Speaker 1: amongst amazing podcasts Sharks Podcast, Jamal Hills podcast, Quest Loves Podcast,
Speaker 1: and Keegan Michael Keats podcast, Like these are all people
Speaker 1: that like you don't know about, Like yes, okay, these
Speaker 1: these podcasts have been rocking and rolling for a while,
Speaker 1: like right, we haven't even been on for years. So
Speaker 1: I mean, I know we thank you all all the time,
Speaker 1: and we want to thank you all again. Yes, you know,
Speaker 1: without you all, we wouldn't be nominated now, we wouldn't
Speaker 1: be not made for a damn thing. Now. We also
Speaker 1: want to thank Black Effect because you know we are
Speaker 1: on this Black Effect beautiful platform. We want to thank
Speaker 1: you know, we don't just do this by ourselves, and
Speaker 1: we do want to thank our producer Taylor. Yes. So
Speaker 1: you all always hear us talk about um Carly. You know,
Speaker 1: Carly is the one who's like in the room with us.
Speaker 1: But when we finished recording, we send everything to Taylor. Yep,
Speaker 1: Taylor is a gentleman. Yes, who hasn't hatten in George, Jorge,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, right, So we want to thank Taylor and
Speaker 1: Joe Yes for holding it down for us for you know,
Speaker 1: a so this sound effect right here, that was Taylor, right,
Speaker 1: Taylor did that right. So Taylor is the one that like,
Speaker 1: you know, he's the one that's that's putting our show
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Speaker 1: So Taylor, thank you so much. And I want to
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Speaker 1: such an awesome person because he like as soon as
Speaker 1: we send him our audio files, he is on it. Right.
Speaker 1: We don't have we don't have to ask Taylor for anything.
Speaker 1: So Taylor, we really really appreciate you so much. We do,
Speaker 1: and we also appreciate our director of operations, Carl Eves
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Speaker 1: is the deal, guys. We really kind of want to win.
Speaker 1: I mean, it was like now to be nominated, but
Speaker 1: in whatder for us when you guys have to vote? Okay,
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Speaker 1: shady and we really appreciate it. Yes, no, how exciting them,
Speaker 1: it would be amazing. In less than one year, one
Speaker 1: million downloads, over one million downloads image award. Right, what
Speaker 1: is next? We're gonna get an oscar? I don't know,
Speaker 1: all right, we gotta get down, okay, and now guess
Speaker 1: what Now that we've been nominated, the pressures on, we
Speaker 1: gotta make this podcasts good. Oh my gosh, oh god.
Speaker 1: Ok Okay, so we're gonna get back to business as
Speaker 1: usual and we have our reasonably shady moment of the week. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'll have to start because my this this week, this
Speaker 1: two is starting out with a bang for me for you,
Speaker 1: a good at bang or a bad one an interesting okay? Okay.
Speaker 1: So I decided that this is the year that I
Speaker 1: employed in my life a trainer. This is your first
Speaker 1: time ever, no, no here, years ago, it's been a man, sorry,
Speaker 1: our trainer. His names should say his name Tar Room.
Speaker 1: Oh yes, like I imagine. Um, he's a nice something guy,
Speaker 1: nice something guy anyway. So I told him my focus
Speaker 1: because he asked me what my focus was. Is that
Speaker 1: I have a washboard stomach, like a six pack, like
Speaker 1: wash when I had my bikini. And you're gonna see
Speaker 1: me rich to shreds. Okay, so a little cut on side. Yeah,
Speaker 1: all of that, All of that, and I don't have
Speaker 1: to like fake an Instagram picture like it's a real thing,
Speaker 1: Like no airbrushing here. So your apps are already like
Speaker 1: super flass, Yes, but I want I want some definition. Okay.
Speaker 1: So he was like cool, he's up to the challenge.
Speaker 1: So he had a session. Now, mind you, Tarron is Spencer, okay,
Speaker 1: like expency, Like ya know, I'm sasing with the capital. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's a controllion dollars and I'm like, I keep saying
Speaker 1: I'm the richest cheapest woman, y'all whatever means. Okay, So
Speaker 1: that's not the shading part. The shading part is I
Speaker 1: told this black man, Oh he's black, did Tyrone? I
Speaker 1: told him, black man, I want to abbs of steel? Okay.
Speaker 1: So he had the obsession and the next thing, I
Speaker 1: could not sit on the toilet because of my legs
Speaker 1: are my arms. I could not pick up anything but
Speaker 1: my phone. But my stomach didn't hurt. There was no
Speaker 1: soreness in the area that I told him to concentrate on. Really, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm tying around your shading. Oh is he shad just bad? No,
Speaker 1: he's not bad. No, I'm sorry. He's very spencive. He's
Speaker 1: worth every penny. Okay, Oh, he's worth every penny. He's amazing.
Speaker 1: But Tyrone did not handle the area that I told
Speaker 1: him to concentrate. But you know when you do like abbs,
Speaker 1: like core workout involves like your whole body almost kind
Speaker 1: of kind of yeah, I mean okay, so tell me this.
Speaker 1: So you want I want your workout sessions an hour,
Speaker 1: So you want to go work out with Tyrone for
Speaker 1: an hour on just drafts? I think so, like, girl,
Speaker 1: god damn video, I don't home, Like now I need Tyrone.
Speaker 1: He's worth that, deputy, I'm shotting here to day. He's
Speaker 1: worth that. Okay. So that probably goes against that probably
Speaker 1: goes against Tyrone's you know, ethics as a trainer. Okay,
Speaker 1: but in their mind, like in order to to work
Speaker 1: your your ab court, you gotta work your whole body. Okay.
Speaker 1: Well I'm gonna give him more opportunities and I'm gonna
Speaker 1: get my body time to formulate these the ripness that
Speaker 1: I'm that I need to see. Okay, So did you
Speaker 1: ask Tarron? Like what happened? How long? Like? Okay, Now,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna see him in a couple of days. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna ask him then, yes, so I will get back
Speaker 1: to you on what he says. But for right now
Speaker 1: in the shape okay, yes, that's my momentother week okay,
Speaker 1: that's fine. Yes, okay, Um, I don't really get out much,
Speaker 1: so a lot of my last spride shocker, Okay, I'm
Speaker 1: home body, m so a lot of my any moments
Speaker 1: go to myself because I don't get off. You know,
Speaker 1: it's not really a whole lot of opportunity for people
Speaker 1: to do shady things to me, right, So I'm showing
Speaker 1: it to myself because I think one of the last
Speaker 1: podcast I was talking about how amazing that that's just
Speaker 1: made me look like I haven't got my eyelash done
Speaker 1: this alone? And who else look an ugly and now
Speaker 1: I'm looking pretty right Well, I'm shaving yourself because I
Speaker 1: still want to couch. When I picked my eyelashes off
Speaker 1: like rabby, you know I'm supposed to do that. I
Speaker 1: know I'm not, but I must have like a fidgeting
Speaker 1: problem or something, because I literally it's like I picked
Speaker 1: them off and then I put them all in a pile.
Speaker 1: I can showing my pile. I don't want to say that.
Speaker 1: But are you also taking out No? Are you also
Speaker 1: taking out your eye? No? No, no no no, I'm
Speaker 1: trying like so so I don't make sure I'm not
Speaker 1: taking out like my my real, because that's like the
Speaker 1: bad parts just like pulled. Like know, if you feel
Speaker 1: one like just pull this off and then you look
Speaker 1: up and I literally have like a power like twenty
Speaker 1: on my coffee table and then want to is that
Speaker 1: okay your one? I can't. I can't, by the way, one,
Speaker 1: it's like a clean freaking you cannot come in out
Speaker 1: just shoots on. So I sneak in the house with
Speaker 1: my shoes on, and I apologize to one so he
Speaker 1: doesn't yellow. She runs to the room. Yeah real quick.
Speaker 1: And then but even even if you're watching the room,
Speaker 1: he's like looking on the floor. Yes, I want to
Speaker 1: be doing shoe inspections and at the door shoot inspections.
Speaker 1: I ain't mad, as I'm mad, so yes, I'm shady,
Speaker 1: and I have this. I do have this one clump
Speaker 1: right now that I want to pull out so bad,
Speaker 1: but I'm attached to like four real outlets. Okay, you know,
Speaker 1: leave it alone. How about you made another point in
Speaker 1: the Brenda, Let's just do that because I don't want
Speaker 1: to leave that. Okay, Okay, let's move on alright. So
Speaker 1: on the Instagram a couple of days ago, maybe we
Speaker 1: could go where I'll being and posted her tenure challenge right,
Speaker 1: and she gave like this long and I hate when
Speaker 1: people leave long. Uh what is this called a comment?
Speaker 1: Like testimonies all testo cashing. I hate people. I don't
Speaker 1: feel like reading. I don't want to hear your side story.
Speaker 1: I don't care. However, Robbins caption was every time. Oh
Speaker 1: it was so beautiful, like you talked about. Okay, so
Speaker 1: Rob's senior challenge. It looks beautiful of both pictures. But
Speaker 1: she talks about and you don't even know what we're
Speaker 1: gonna talk about this today. She talked about the person
Speaker 1: that she was. Yes, you are getting your fights in
Speaker 1: twenty now, mind you some of y'all with y'all tend
Speaker 1: your challenges. I'm aneth y'all stop just number one. Y'all
Speaker 1: lying because y'all do not look at the same. Okay,
Speaker 1: y'all trying to act like y'all look the same y'all
Speaker 1: did in ten years. Go y'all lying? Okay, that is
Speaker 1: an Instagram filter. Okay, now Robin does look better. But
Speaker 1: she talked about who she us in twelve and that
Speaker 1: she was a broken woman. When I read that, a
Speaker 1: lot of love was crying. So I know, Like, it's
Speaker 1: so crazy when I I probably never, I don't know,
Speaker 1: I don't say never. I don't really do tenor challenge
Speaker 1: pictures and stuff like, right, But like when I thought
Speaker 1: about it, I was like, oh, if I go sits
Speaker 1: here channels, like what would I post? And I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh my god. Like when I thought about it, I'm like,
Speaker 1: twelve was the most horrible year of my life. So
Speaker 1: that actual picture that was UM two days after my
Speaker 1: friend took his life. But I just found out like
Speaker 1: he was, you know, scamming people, scamming us. Was like
Speaker 1: like so when I say, like in that picture, I
Speaker 1: was a brokeman, I was like, like my whole you know,
Speaker 1: when and I had one and I had divorced already. Um,
Speaker 1: it was just like my life was like w t
Speaker 1: F is going on? Right, So it's so crazy. When
Speaker 1: I looked at that picture, I'm like, wow, I can
Speaker 1: remember that day. I was working UM for the PR
Speaker 1: agency that I used to work for and he had
Speaker 1: a big fashion event at Tyson's Galeria. So that was
Speaker 1: seeking like great by the run way at Tyson's Gloria
Speaker 1: and I can just remember that whole just working, pushing
Speaker 1: through it, but you gotta work and that whole time
Speaker 1: just being like a crazy fall of like like I
Speaker 1: can't believe this happened. I can't believe, like this is life,
Speaker 1: Like what is you know? Where? Like what are we
Speaker 1: going to do next? All that typisode, right, but she
Speaker 1: talked about how you were totally faithful, you pushed through
Speaker 1: and look at where you are now, you're Imageward nomineque.
Speaker 1: What is it that crazy? It's crazy and you're like
Speaker 1: breaking beautiful and you're on a hit reality television show
Speaker 1: on bra Bo. You're it's so crazy, Like it's insane. Yes, really,
Speaker 1: it's so insane to think about how much can change
Speaker 1: in ten years and in twenty twelve that I envisioned
Speaker 1: this for myself. No, but in a way I knew
Speaker 1: I had a story to tell. I didn't know how
Speaker 1: I was going to tell it or where, but you know,
Speaker 1: I knew I had an experience and it's sory to tell.
Speaker 1: And you know, thankfully I'm I'm not a prideful person.
Speaker 1: So it's like something we're like, okay, I have storage talking.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell it somehow, some way, I don't know
Speaker 1: in what form, right, So you know, maybe you know
Speaker 1: us we were already friends then, but like maybe us
Speaker 1: coming into each other's lives was like, you know they're
Speaker 1: playing Yes, it's God's playing stats. Yes, you know with
Speaker 1: God just out there's no Robin, I don't know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So listen, it was God's
Speaker 1: plan for us to get on a show and just
Speaker 1: be shady, right true, And there were all types of
Speaker 1: entertain yes, and speaking to talk about right, speaking of
Speaker 1: that show, they were on potone Me the O Geez
Speaker 1: got together like the original crew like cars that are left.
Speaker 1: So it's Karen, myself, Robin and Ashley. So we are
Speaker 1: the four remaining original cast members. And for you all
Speaker 1: to know that don't know, this is unheard of in
Speaker 1: brob Street, Like we are now embarking on season seven,
Speaker 1: and I believe that four o gs have not remained
Speaker 1: past like season three. Right, Yeah, no, it's it's actually
Speaker 1: it's really special that the four of us are still
Speaker 1: on the show. But I think that's what makes our show.
Speaker 1: All the shows are very unique in their own way, right,
Speaker 1: And I think that's one of the things that makes
Speaker 1: our show unique is that, you know, we have a
Speaker 1: core that has people have been able to really like, like,
Speaker 1: I think that there's something to say for like consistency
Speaker 1: and friendship, right, friendships and the ups and downs and
Speaker 1: friendships and when you like shovel in some people so
Speaker 1: often the chemistry is not there, right, it's lost. Yes, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I love our chemistry. I love getting together. I mean,
Speaker 1: you have understanding. Four of us have been through We've
Speaker 1: traveled around the world together. At this point in time,
Speaker 1: we have so many stories. There's nobody that we don't
Speaker 1: get together and we're not cracking up laughing, so I
Speaker 1: might get a fork like staff in their chest, I
Speaker 1: mean something, so many things to happen, and it's just
Speaker 1: like amazing, No, no, it should like gets charged and
Speaker 1: that didn't happen. But we had such a good time.
Speaker 1: We did. And that was actually the first time the
Speaker 1: four of us, just the four of us got together,
Speaker 1: got together off camera even I feel like even on camera,
Speaker 1: I don't know that that there's ever been just the
Speaker 1: four of us. I don't know, but but that Cara's
Speaker 1: in rare form and we love with Karen. It's just
Speaker 1: a normal shady, crazy lady Karen. Yeah, we missed them,
Speaker 1: and so it's a by the way, So we did
Speaker 1: a bunch of tiktoks that Ashley, of course always makes
Speaker 1: us to tiktoks. And Ashley looks grading these tiktoks and
Speaker 1: we look crazy. We look we don't we're not dancing well.
Speaker 1: Actually gets a lot of practice and all of them TikTok. Ashley,
Speaker 1: it's a TikTok per Okay, I join a new mom.
Speaker 1: Shouldn't get me raising your children now you're too busy
Speaker 1: driving lights hot the TikTok. That's like in your show
Speaker 1: the answer with the tiptoe, it probably should be listen.
Speaker 1: Actually is a guest or she's as a contestant and
Speaker 1: she is days in her heart. Okay, well, I school
Speaker 1: last thing I want to say about the ogs. We
Speaker 1: you know, you see a lot on our show, good,
Speaker 1: bad and in different but we do love each other
Speaker 1: at the end of the day. We love each other,
Speaker 1: and I think that's a beauty and the secretary success, right. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: we love each other. We want the best for each other,
Speaker 1: want each other to have success. Honestly, I want every
Speaker 1: single woman that has been on our show to have success. Yes,
Speaker 1: the more success that everyone has, the betterness for the show,
Speaker 1: and so I kind of hate it when you know,
Speaker 1: people like I don't I did see, like, oh four
Speaker 1: of us got there, like oh they plotting what they
Speaker 1: put Okay and shade, No, we're not, no, actually just
Speaker 1: celebrating each other. We're actually saying, Wow, we've been doing
Speaker 1: this for a minute, let's take time to have lunch
Speaker 1: and enjoy one enough um or I don't know, I
Speaker 1: just like I get it, like people like to infuse
Speaker 1: competition in these shows, but it's like, really when it
Speaker 1: comes out to the people on the show. So I
Speaker 1: can't speak for everyone. I don't speak for myself, Like
Speaker 1: there's no competition. Now. We're all different, we're all unique.
Speaker 1: My competition is with me, My competition with the robin,
Speaker 1: you know, ross competition is that couch. Okay, I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: so now, let's just talk about a little bit of
Speaker 1: co parenting, Okay, because I take pride in what Jamal
Speaker 1: and I have done as it relates to co parenting.
Speaker 1: Very important. Yes, our three lovely daughters. They are well adjusted,
Speaker 1: they're well behaved. Sometimes they get on my nerves, but
Speaker 1: for the most part they're amazing. Yeah, Now we have
Speaker 1: Porsche and Dennis. Yes, we have Kanye and Kim. We've
Speaker 1: seen a lot of drama out here in these streets,
Speaker 1: and we said we'd never talked about Kanye again. And
Speaker 1: I know I don't want to talk about him, but
Speaker 1: we got to talk about him. We do have to
Speaker 1: talk about because I think he's a liar. His pants
Speaker 1: on five. Okay, So for y'all who don't know Little Chicago,
Speaker 1: and I think she's the cutest of the I hate
Speaker 1: to say this, but she's so cute to me, you
Speaker 1: can just eat her up. Okay, So Little Chicago turned four.
Speaker 1: That's Kim and Kanye's kid. Supposedly he was not invited
Speaker 1: to the party. He gets on Instagram live. He starts
Speaker 1: talking about Kim give me the invitation to tell me
Speaker 1: where the party is. And I can't find out where
Speaker 1: the party is. And y'all, this ain't right. She's using
Speaker 1: the kid against me. Chicago's gonna be scarred forever if
Speaker 1: I don't come to the party. I can't believe he
Speaker 1: did that. I can't believe he did that was so
Speaker 1: I mean, I know Kanye is different, but that to
Speaker 1: me was like something that I would never think that
Speaker 1: Kanye would do, Like run to was it Instagram, Like
Speaker 1: did he where did he post that on instage? He
Speaker 1: posts on Instagram? Yeah, Like like that sounds like something
Speaker 1: literally like that, like you know Jojo down the street
Speaker 1: to do when he's mad at his baby mama. Like
Speaker 1: all right, I was just like, what the hell like that?
Speaker 1: There's that, there's I don't worry. There's way he's way
Speaker 1: about that. That's internal. There's some things that are called
Speaker 1: house business, family business. That has nothing to do. I
Speaker 1: don't need to know if you and Kim a beef
Speaker 1: and over a goddamn birthday party, that's none of my business.
Speaker 1: Like what is what is telling us going on? How's
Speaker 1: that going to help the situation? Make it better? Like honestly,
Speaker 1: you're making it worse now. As soon as I saw
Speaker 1: the video, I was like, he lying, there's no way
Speaker 1: like something when you know, something happens miscommunication. Kim is
Speaker 1: not keeping the kids from Kanye, Like I don't believe
Speaker 1: that on their birthday? Who know? So supposedly where it
Speaker 1: comes out that Kanye said he was gonna play his
Speaker 1: own party, so they were gonna have separate parties. So fine,
Speaker 1: if we have to having separate parties, that means you
Speaker 1: ain't coming to mind, because I ain't going to yours.
Speaker 1: I still don't even believe all of that. Long story short,
Speaker 1: he had to call Tristan to try to find out
Speaker 1: what the party was. Did he really he did? Oh
Speaker 1: my god, Now when you gotta call the excommunicated baby
Speaker 1: daddy of the sister of your baby mama, it's a problem.
Speaker 1: And why didn't even know that? And then he said
Speaker 1: he called Travis because you know it's a joint party.
Speaker 1: Travis is but a little stormy anyway, and so and
Speaker 1: I'm sure the guys are like, YO, leave me out
Speaker 1: of this, Like they're probably like, yo, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm supposed to tell. I don't
Speaker 1: know what I'm supposed to not to tell, Like why
Speaker 1: is this a secret? Like this is a mess. It's
Speaker 1: a mass. Now you know, y'all know. I love Porsche.
Speaker 1: I think she's amazing. So on Porsche's family matters, we
Speaker 1: have about twenty people that are trying to blend a
Speaker 1: family over a two year old, over polar the little
Speaker 1: p J. She's so cute. Little p J is so cute.
Speaker 1: But nobody can't get it together. Nobody can act right
Speaker 1: nobody can act like an adult for this two year old?
Speaker 1: What what are we mad about? And for the life
Speaker 1: of me, I can't understand what the problem is, right,
Speaker 1: what is the problem? I don't know what the problem is.
Speaker 1: So but it seems as if Dennis has being a
Speaker 1: great dad, like he's you know, taking the girl to
Speaker 1: you know, he's buying her clothes. You know, he's buying
Speaker 1: out stores, so she has clothes on her back. Pors.
Speaker 1: She said, he pays for her school. Okay, what more
Speaker 1: does this? Does? He spend time with her like what
Speaker 1: her up? And he takes her on the weekend. So
Speaker 1: I don't watch the show, so you have to tell me,
Speaker 1: like I don't want you to show. But of course
Speaker 1: I look on Instagram and I see there's a whole
Speaker 1: bunch of rumbles and the jungles and people arguinguffs. Okay, yes,
Speaker 1: and then um something. The most recent thing I saw
Speaker 1: was Dennis threatened to I don't know, go to court
Speaker 1: or so I don't know, said he needs a parenting plan. Okay,
Speaker 1: the parenting plan is everything. And so it's like custody,
Speaker 1: it is religion, it's education, it's um health Okay, so
Speaker 1: you know portion was like, huh what who said? What?
Speaker 1: The court judge? You know, and it got ugly and
Speaker 1: I get that, but I'm just gonna say this, win
Speaker 1: in doubt, be like me and Jamal, And I thought
Speaker 1: I would never say that, but win in doubt. Think
Speaker 1: about what would Zell and Jamal do? And they would
Speaker 1: just talk about it and they would figure out what's
Speaker 1: best for the kids, and then they would just do that.
Speaker 1: But I feel like, okay, so tell me this when
Speaker 1: you okay, So, Portion and Dennis their relationship, you know
Speaker 1: it's over, it's over, but it's still kind of like
Speaker 1: fresh wounds. Right, it hasn't been that long. So you
Speaker 1: know when people have like bitter breakups and stuff, you know,
Speaker 1: they act all silly and weird. Same thing with Kanye
Speaker 1: and Kim. Kanye out here in the streets taking a
Speaker 1: girl trying to turn in some random girl into another
Speaker 1: Kim and having why is she participating in this random behavior?
Speaker 1: We got to talk. That's like a whole separate conversation
Speaker 1: I gotta talk about. But like, um, I feel like
Speaker 1: when there's like bitterness and it's still fresh, that's when
Speaker 1: people act like like they can't they can't be the
Speaker 1: bigger people and put the kids first. So when you
Speaker 1: and Jamal first vorce or when you you know, when
Speaker 1: you divert, how is your relationship then? Was it strained?
Speaker 1: Were you communicating? Um? You know? Did it take you
Speaker 1: a while to get to the point where you all
Speaker 1: can be great co parents? It does take a minute.
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna say this that Jamal Brian knows how
Speaker 1: to pluck a nerve. Okay, So when we first split up,
Speaker 1: was he trying to plug my nerves? Was he trying
Speaker 1: to make me mad? Was he trying to do anything
Speaker 1: under the sun to just be in a hole? Absolutely,
Speaker 1: that's just what they do. So how do we get so?
Speaker 1: So how did you work through that? Like, how did
Speaker 1: you deal with them then at that time? And then
Speaker 1: how did you work through that? Okay? So I decided,
Speaker 1: Gazelle decided, I don't care what this man does to
Speaker 1: plug my nerves. This is all about the kids. So
Speaker 1: if you want to act like we having separate parties,
Speaker 1: I would always be like, no, bro, we only do
Speaker 1: that because you're invited to this party. We're going to
Speaker 1: make sure that the children feel like they don't lack
Speaker 1: anything because we're not together. Because It's about them, not
Speaker 1: about your ego, not about a pride. I just swallowed
Speaker 1: my pride fourteen million hundred times. Why because my kids
Speaker 1: deserve that. And I know that of the two of us,
Speaker 1: me and Jamal, I'm the more mature one. Yes, so
Speaker 1: I'm going to be more mature. I just think it's
Speaker 1: right and I get that. It's just really hard for
Speaker 1: people in those situations, especially like Kanye and Kim, when
Speaker 1: it's like they're almost flaunting their relationships out in public
Speaker 1: to make each other jealous or something, you know, like
Speaker 1: Kim with Pete Davidson, which is so now got to
Speaker 1: be a big penis. Ain't no question about I want
Speaker 1: to see. Yeah, we need to get to the bottom
Speaker 1: of it. Listen, Kim, do us all a favor. Take
Speaker 1: a picture that penis money and then leak it. Okay, penis,
Speaker 1: It might it might even actually be brown. You know
Speaker 1: how Kada says her husband's penis is brad. It might
Speaker 1: even actually be brown. Um. But anyway, I really feel like,
Speaker 1: in all in all seriousness, if you are in a
Speaker 1: co patenting situation, it is so horrible for the kids
Speaker 1: when it is toxic, like let it go, just let
Speaker 1: it go and just think, you know what, what would
Speaker 1: your zell do? And she would just be the bigger person.
Speaker 1: Just be me, y'all, just beat me, Just beat yourself. Okay,
Speaker 1: So we have to discuss because you know, I have
Speaker 1: been an Adele fan. And then she trashed the housewise,
Speaker 1: but I was still in Adele fan. But I think
Speaker 1: I'm falling off. Okay, I'm following off the Adele train.
Speaker 1: What happened? So I decided I wanted to go see
Speaker 1: her in Las Vegas. So I went to go look
Speaker 1: for some tickets and the tickets made a small tear
Speaker 1: come down the side of my face because the tickets
Speaker 1: are like twenty five hundred dollars. And I said, what
Speaker 1: the hell, that's insane? Insane, Adele, what are you doing
Speaker 1: to me? Like? Can I afford this ticket? Yes? Do
Speaker 1: I want to spend twenty five hundred dollars to come
Speaker 1: see you sing a song that might make me cry? No?
Speaker 1: I don't, I do not. Well, you know how I
Speaker 1: feel about it. Yes, you think Adela is like whatever
Speaker 1: I could sing? I think I could sing Adele for you? Okay, No,
Speaker 1: but in all fairness, like come on, now, that's ridiculous,
Speaker 1: that's it's so the tickets that I saw were all
Speaker 1: the way down to like fift hundred. All of that
Speaker 1: is unheard of. Is what in the nosebleed? Yes, so
Speaker 1: like right now, I think the nosebleeds came down a
Speaker 1: little bit. The nosebleeds are like eight hundred. Oh now
Speaker 1: they're coming down, coming down a little bit, eight hundred.
Speaker 1: Like I'm sorry, but I don't think you okay, eight hundred.
Speaker 1: I feel like you would pay that, but I don't
Speaker 1: think you would want to sit in the nose. I
Speaker 1: don't want to sit back there. I'm not sitting back
Speaker 1: there with y'all. No offense to y'all who's sitting back there,
Speaker 1: but I'm not sitting back there with y'all. And I
Speaker 1: want to say, like I was paying for these tickets?
Speaker 1: Who was paying for these tickets? And and how many
Speaker 1: shows is it? Is? It? Like okay, ship like every
Speaker 1: day like like like how long? Like every day for
Speaker 1: how long? I don't know how long Adele is on
Speaker 1: this run. But I want to say, Adele, if you
Speaker 1: want to do that, that's fine, but you need to
Speaker 1: have like two shows that our budget, but that are
Speaker 1: in the budget, and that's what you need to call them, Adele,
Speaker 1: tickets on budget and Gizell will come to that show. Okay,
Speaker 1: but clearly somebody's paying for it. It's just not going
Speaker 1: to adjust her ticket prices for cheap people like you here.
Speaker 1: You're not cheap, You're not cheating. I want to pay
Speaker 1: for Okay. Let me put in my perspective. Okay, if
Speaker 1: it was Beyonce, it was done Beyonce. It's never done that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but okay, and let's put this in perspective. I've been
Speaker 1: to a million Beyonce concerts. They've never been that offensive. No,
Speaker 1: but it's but okay, I assume Adele is a more
Speaker 1: intimate venue, so right, and Beyonce's as a little is
Speaker 1: she's in freaking football stadiums. Yeah, true, true, true, Tree Okay,
Speaker 1: well do okay, this is my suggestion, Adele, do a
Speaker 1: budget show and cut out four songs, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, like give it, give us a concert on
Speaker 1: the cheap. Adele said, I'm not getting out of bed
Speaker 1: for lesson. Okay. Now, this this chief over here is
Speaker 1: gonna stay home, so you're gonna have to watch the
Speaker 1: Netflix special. And I'm totally fine with that now, um
Speaker 1: speaking of you got you're gonna have to find you
Speaker 1: a rich boyfriend. Well, it's not even that. Can I
Speaker 1: afford this? Yes, but I wanted to, Like, Okay, it's
Speaker 1: sometimes things print principle. It's the prince. It is the principle.
Speaker 1: It's like, come on now, it's like I can't afford it,
Speaker 1: but there's so many people that cannot And why would
Speaker 1: you do that to your fan base? Right, That's how
Speaker 1: I feel about it. True. I'm taking it for the team.
Speaker 1: I'm taking it for the fan base. You're protesting, protiing protesting,
Speaker 1: protesting base. Yes, okay, Now, Robin, do you have a
Speaker 1: COVID test? Did you order a COVID Oh my god? Okay, okay, y'all,
Speaker 1: kudos to the US government for sending for COVID tests
Speaker 1: to every residential home. Yes. And I know that this
Speaker 1: is not news to you all listening, because I know
Speaker 1: everybody in the damn mama texted you or emailed you
Speaker 1: or called you to tell you about it. Right, So,
Speaker 1: yesterday I get um a text in one of my
Speaker 1: group chats, my first one. It was like COVID tests.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh awesome. I clicked on it ordered them Bam, done,
Speaker 1: and then it was like COVID. Then it was like
Speaker 1: message after message after message, COVID test, COVID, COVID, Hey girl,
Speaker 1: just sharing, Hey girl, did you know? Hey, make sure
Speaker 1: you get your COVID tests and then email. I even
Speaker 1: I texted my mother the COVID test link and she
Speaker 1: emailed me the COVID test link, like you are lying, Like, Mom,
Speaker 1: did you not get my text? Clearly? So anyway, I
Speaker 1: hope by now everyone that's listening, yes, has he gotten
Speaker 1: their COVID tests? Yes, sent to their house every And
Speaker 1: I wonder when we're gonna get it, like they say
Speaker 1: we're gonna get at the end of JA. We're probably
Speaker 1: gonna get it in March or when COVID is gone.
Speaker 1: Who knows. But but kudos to the Biden administration. Yes,
Speaker 1: kudos to them, because for whatever reason, people don't like y'all.
Speaker 1: Right now, I'm not really like, okay, I need to
Speaker 1: keep up with politics. It's so it's really sad. It's
Speaker 1: like when Trump was in office, it was literally like
Speaker 1: watching your train wreck and you couldn't take your eyes
Speaker 1: off right, so you knew everything that was going on.
Speaker 1: You're like watching like all day what do you say, now,
Speaker 1: what's going on? What's happening? And now I'm like, I
Speaker 1: really don't know what's going on in US politics, but
Speaker 1: I do know that Biden's approval rating is low. Yes,
Speaker 1: But speaking of train Rex, I need to talk about
Speaker 1: the one that hits close to home with US. Robin Um,
Speaker 1: one of the coaches for the university of men's men's
Speaker 1: basketball coach at the University of Maryland, got suspended. He
Speaker 1: should be fired because he was soliciting a prostitute who
Speaker 1: a whore, a strumpet. He was offering eighty dollars eighty
Speaker 1: eight dollars. Okay, wait, this is this is the report
Speaker 1: that straight up he gave a woman an undercover cop
Speaker 1: or undercover undercover cop, eighty dollars for sex, not knowing
Speaker 1: obviously that this person is undercover. And so then he
Speaker 1: was arrested. But and it was conducted like on like
Speaker 1: he met. I guess maybe there's some platform online where
Speaker 1: you meet these prostitutes. Yeah, they don't. They don't want
Speaker 1: streets anymore, right, prostitution is now online. So so he's
Speaker 1: so I wonder where he got for eighty dollars. Well,
Speaker 1: you got arrested for eighty dollars. He got arrested, but
Speaker 1: he wonder what he ordered, right, He probably ordered a
Speaker 1: blow job in a hand jot, who knows. But I'm
Speaker 1: just like, dude, just sit at the bar. Well he
Speaker 1: is apparently unsadly married with children, Okay, but dude, just
Speaker 1: sit at the bar like there's gonna be somebody that
Speaker 1: don't You don't listen. You have too much to lose
Speaker 1: to be paying out here paying for sex. Okay. That's so.
Speaker 1: It made me think in my private moments that he
Speaker 1: clearly needs to be fired and so does whoever the
Speaker 1: head coaches right now? And one Dixon one, and dont
Speaker 1: Dixon is a middle name, Antonio is one. And Tonio
Speaker 1: Dixon needs to be the head coach at Maryland. You know, hmm,
Speaker 1: you know I will say this, um, that would be amazing.
Speaker 1: Okay for those who yall who don't know, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: just to this horn real quick. So right now is
Speaker 1: this is not like far fetched because one is a
Speaker 1: head coach at Coppin State, which is a black college
Speaker 1: here in town. And he did bring the University of
Speaker 1: Maryland a national championship. It's first and only, first and
Speaker 1: only national championship that was on the back of one Dixon.
Speaker 1: So at this point in time, just give him the
Speaker 1: damn job. I mean, you know, that would make sense, right,
Speaker 1: that would that would make total sense. I have to, like,
Speaker 1: you know, be careful with what I say because he
Speaker 1: does have a current job, and so I don't want
Speaker 1: to take away we love copy from his current job.
Speaker 1: Yeah right, okay, Like I want him to be very
Speaker 1: successful at copping. But I can say, um, that's been
Speaker 1: his dream since he was you know, pretty much in
Speaker 1: the NBA when he knew he wanted to coach. It's
Speaker 1: been his dream, that's been his vision, and he said, gosh,
Speaker 1: it would be so amazing if one day, like he's
Speaker 1: he's actually kind of like a visionary. He actually when
Speaker 1: he was a kid, like knew he was gonna make
Speaker 1: it to the NBA, which is like insane because he
Speaker 1: was like a hundred and forty five pounds in college
Speaker 1: or high school. So anyway, he when he was in
Speaker 1: the NBA, he knew, I want to go back to
Speaker 1: my alma mater that I love and that I you know, Um,
Speaker 1: that means so much to me and that he did
Speaker 1: so much for on the basketball court. And be a
Speaker 1: head coach there one day. So I know that that's
Speaker 1: his dream. I know that that's his dream. Um, but
Speaker 1: you know, we just gotta see if that's in the plans.
Speaker 1: We gotta see if that's in the plans, it's in
Speaker 1: the plants, it's from. We don't know when it's gonna happen.
Speaker 1: I would I would absolutely love that because that's my
Speaker 1: alma mater too. It's like, you know, we can go
Speaker 1: back and bring some excitement back to the kids. It's
Speaker 1: going down, I'm just saying, And why is not going
Speaker 1: to solicit a prostitute? He's not it caught in these
Speaker 1: streets with strumpets and holes. So I think this is
Speaker 1: better than what they got. Now, that's all I got
Speaker 1: to say about lat Yeah. I don't want I don't
Speaker 1: want to talk down on on my alma mater what's
Speaker 1: going on, But um, you know, some new energy would
Speaker 1: be amazing, some new Dickson energy. Okay, we put it
Speaker 1: out into the atmosphere, right, moving on. Okay, So, Robin,
Speaker 1: we did ask the people to send us emails about yes,
Speaker 1: right because we have a new segment, and we got
Speaker 1: so many of them. So we got our new segment.
Speaker 1: Um reason is it reasonably? Was a shady you know,
Speaker 1: and oh, y'all got a whole lot of stuff going on.
Speaker 1: We asked people to email their scenarios and we'll give
Speaker 1: our honest, you know, opinions, um and maybe even a
Speaker 1: little bit of advice on how to proceed. Yes, yes, okay, right,
Speaker 1: so we got an email. Um, I think we can
Speaker 1: just protect people's names. Um from Len, I'll just say
Speaker 1: the first name, Lena. Lena says, Hi, I watch all
Speaker 1: on rhop, love you both now and I'm hooked on
Speaker 1: this podcast, looking forward to it every Monday. Thank you
Speaker 1: for them. Um. Oh, she said she is a robin.
Speaker 1: She loves her thongs. Yeah. So, by the way, I
Speaker 1: got the Chateau nine of them. Did you try? Do
Speaker 1: you like them? Did I like them? I wear them now?
Speaker 1: I just I want to wear underwear to bed, right yeah? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: but I can't wear those to bed. No, No, I
Speaker 1: think you can wear something comfortable to be yeah. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: especially when you because you buy yourself and I like it.
Speaker 1: It was the rather shady today, y'all, because she didn't
Speaker 1: tell me I'll buy myself in the bed. Ain't nobody
Speaker 1: in there with me, Me and my pillows. Anyway, um,
Speaker 1: she said, I want to share a super shadey thing
Speaker 1: that happened to me during Christmas. So on my Christmas
Speaker 1: birthday party, my boss approaches me with an envelope and says,
Speaker 1: this is so you know you are appreciated. Thank you
Speaker 1: for your hard work. So I opened the envelope and
Speaker 1: see clearly that it clearly is a regifted twenty dollar
Speaker 1: gift card. And I said to her, am I missing
Speaker 1: something here. She goes, no, really, thank you for all
Speaker 1: you do. So I said, okay, no, biggie, she's a
Speaker 1: little ratchet sometimes. Then I go to the cleaners to
Speaker 1: pick up a coat and the card declined. I thought
Speaker 1: it's okay, Maybe I have to activate it online. So
Speaker 1: I go to use it to pay a toll toll
Speaker 1: ticket online, and it declined that re gift had already
Speaker 1: been gifted. Yes, it gets better. So I go to
Speaker 1: check the balance on the card online and the last
Speaker 1: transaction was in what she gave me a gift card
Speaker 1: with zero dollars on it. That is that is nowhere
Speaker 1: near reasonable. That is one shady, it's a matter like
Speaker 1: it's mean, it's mean, shade it ain't even nice shade.
Speaker 1: It's okay, can we just you know me, I'm like,
Speaker 1: maybe the boss did not realize it was you stop
Speaker 1: you think, but okay, I'm sorry if I'm the boss, Like,
Speaker 1: I'm so embarrassed, Like how embarrassing is that you give
Speaker 1: a gift? Oh this is You're you're so appreciate, you
Speaker 1: give a gift and then it's there's nothing on it?
Speaker 1: Like so she knew there was nothing on it, but
Speaker 1: what she didn't have anything? And she was like, you know,
Speaker 1: so a lot of times you get a gift card
Speaker 1: and you never use it, or you get a gift
Speaker 1: card and it just like sits around for six months.
Speaker 1: That happens all the time. So she was thinking, this
Speaker 1: girl will not figure out anytime soon that there's nothing
Speaker 1: on this card. I mean, but if it's like a
Speaker 1: Visa gift card, I'm using it. If don't say any
Speaker 1: gift card, well yeah, any gift but if it's like
Speaker 1: you know, if it's store specific, then you know it's
Speaker 1: less like that you're gonna use it. But if someone
Speaker 1: gives you like clearly this was like a Visa gift
Speaker 1: card or something just a general card that had some
Speaker 1: money on it, right, So okay, so what does she
Speaker 1: I think the boss? First of all, it was regifted clearly, right,
Speaker 1: So whether there was something on it or not, it
Speaker 1: definitely was not a brand new card, right, So it
Speaker 1: definitely was regifted. So that's shady number one alone. Like that,
Speaker 1: you're I guess I'm shady. Okay. Robin regifts all the time, y'all.
Speaker 1: Just for the record, all the time, all the time. Okay,
Speaker 1: but okay, this is shade, this is this is mean.
Speaker 1: Actually it's just it's just beyond shady's mean. Okay, but
Speaker 1: is it one of those things? All right? You're like,
Speaker 1: it's the last minute. You're it's a party, last minute,
Speaker 1: You're like, oh my god, I gotta bring something, what
Speaker 1: do I have? And you're like rumaging, you know, through
Speaker 1: your cabinets in your drawers to see what you have.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you what you can do, because and
Speaker 1: Robin is giving us this information quite sinctly. Is that
Speaker 1: the word because she doesn't sounds familiar to that, Yes,
Speaker 1: sounds very familiar. So what you could do in the
Speaker 1: last minute, you can go online and you can get
Speaker 1: a gift card online. Very true, and yeah, print it
Speaker 1: out or email it to the girl. That's very true. Shady. Okay,
Speaker 1: what you got next? Okay, shady? But does she say
Speaker 1: to her boss, hey, thank you so much for thinking
Speaker 1: of me in that gift card. But just want to
Speaker 1: let you know there was it was zero, there was
Speaker 1: nothing on it. I wouldn't say anything. I know, I
Speaker 1: let it go. Would you quit? I wouldn't quit. I
Speaker 1: would just be like this bitch a right, bitch, ain't
Speaker 1: my friend or my boss. It's horrible. Oh, chock it up. Okay, Yes,
Speaker 1: it's shady to read gift a gift card that you
Speaker 1: clearly no, you didn't just purchase. You didn't buy it
Speaker 1: for her, and you didn't bother to check. I would
Speaker 1: I would check the bud if I was, I could
Speaker 1: gift you a gift card right now, Giselle, We'll give
Speaker 1: it to me. Okay, well it doesn't have any money
Speaker 1: on it? Sure how much? I don't know what? I
Speaker 1: want you to read the next scenario? Okay, Oh, we
Speaker 1: got one more and then were about the ounce um
Speaker 1: and we got and you know this is a segment,
Speaker 1: so we're gonna keep doing that. Oh yeah, this is
Speaker 1: this is a segment. Is called Is it reasonable? Or
Speaker 1: is it shady okay in this scenario, and it's some
Speaker 1: funny because these are scenarios that pretty much probably happened
Speaker 1: quite frequently. Um, okay, So this from Lisa. So, my
Speaker 1: best friend of thirty plus years, who I usually speak
Speaker 1: to at least once or twice a week. Apparently she
Speaker 1: has a new boyfriend. I found this information out on Facebook.
Speaker 1: Never said a word to me. The bitch never said
Speaker 1: a word to me, y'all. Then the bitch I'm ad living.
Speaker 1: Then the bitch goes ghost for like the last three weeks.
Speaker 1: I'm getting mad, right. So then um, I text to
Speaker 1: see if we can talk this last weekend and never called.
Speaker 1: She didn't even answer when I tried calling her. Dumb
Speaker 1: being a friend for a new dude, you know, for
Speaker 1: a month's reasonable the new boyfriend. This is my thoughts.
Speaker 1: Is the girl's ex? Oh lord, so you're getting real deep?
Speaker 1: Well I think so, like, why would you not tell
Speaker 1: your girlfriend that you have a new dude in your life?
Speaker 1: Why would you Why would you not tell her that?
Speaker 1: You're not telling her that because your girlfriend used to
Speaker 1: have sex with that man? Okay, I mean it's like
Speaker 1: but no, see, I also feel like and I've I've
Speaker 1: seen this happen over like many many times, Like a
Speaker 1: friend that has been single for a long time finally
Speaker 1: meets a guy and she's you know, hit over heels
Speaker 1: and you know, in this honeymoon phase and she literally
Speaker 1: just pieces out all of her friends. Yes, yes, that
Speaker 1: has happened. I mean that happened so much. And that's
Speaker 1: so like messed up because clearly this person, these friends
Speaker 1: have talked at least once or twice a week consistently,
Speaker 1: and it's like, damn, so were you only talking to me?
Speaker 1: Was our friendship only because you were single and you
Speaker 1: had nothing else to do? So it's like a convenient friendship,
Speaker 1: right a thirty years? Thirty years our best friend of
Speaker 1: third years? So so this more to this? More to
Speaker 1: it with this man, I don't think so, I don't
Speaker 1: think so. I promise you. This happens so much where
Speaker 1: women get with a guy or in a relationship with
Speaker 1: someone and they totally just forget about all their friends.
Speaker 1: And then you know, when you hear from your friend
Speaker 1: again when they break up, and they're like, oh, what
Speaker 1: should I do? Yeah? So I think, I mean, I
Speaker 1: think the friend with the new boyfriend is definitely shady. Um,
Speaker 1: I do want to give her a slight benefit of
Speaker 1: the doubt and just say she's probably a little head
Speaker 1: over heels and in the honeymoon phase and this happens
Speaker 1: quite frequently. Or she's embarrassed about him, like he probably
Speaker 1: doesn't have any tea, or he has like a couple
Speaker 1: of missing fingers. Something's wrong with him. No, he doesn't
Speaker 1: want to bring him around. No, nothing's wrong with him.
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I think she is like so
Speaker 1: excited that she has a boyfriend and she's so into him,
Speaker 1: and she has forgotten about her friends. I don't happy
Speaker 1: that pressed, right, I think she's like super pressed. And
Speaker 1: then I promise you when when they break up, she's
Speaker 1: gonna be talking to her friend every week again, Yes, okay, listen,
Speaker 1: And you shouldn't do that. Girlfriend shouldn't know. And that's
Speaker 1: the thing, Like that's the point, Like, you shouldn't do that.
Speaker 1: But I do think that if you've been best friends
Speaker 1: for thirty years, that um deserves. I know she's not
Speaker 1: quite picking up your phone calls or whatever because she's
Speaker 1: so head overheels, but so at least now text her
Speaker 1: and tell you how you feel and say, listen, you know,
Speaker 1: I mean it was kind of shady. She had to
Speaker 1: find out that the woman has a new boyfriend on Facebook.
Speaker 1: That's real shady. Yeah, yeah, that's really shady. Like you
Speaker 1: gotta tell her how you feel. I always think like relationships, um,
Speaker 1: issues with relationships happen because of communication problems. You know,
Speaker 1: So as her friend, you know whether she gets offended
Speaker 1: or not or you know, denies it or not. I
Speaker 1: think it's on you, Lisa, to text her because at
Speaker 1: this point she's not pick up your calls and tell
Speaker 1: her what you've noticed, how you feel, know how it's
Speaker 1: making you feel, and you know, let her take it
Speaker 1: from there and put the ball in her court. And no,
Speaker 1: dick is worth losing your girlfriend's. No, it's not. Because
Speaker 1: they come and go. The penises come and go. They
Speaker 1: come and go, so out here, you know, in one
Speaker 1: minute out the next. Yes, when you find a new
Speaker 1: man or a new partner or a new interest, do
Speaker 1: not forget your friends. Different shapes inside penis is a
Speaker 1: here today, gone to mall. So definitely treat your girlfriends
Speaker 1: with respect and like let them know, let him know
Speaker 1: you got a new penis in your life. Right, that's
Speaker 1: that's the that's the I feel like it's more shady
Speaker 1: that she didn't tell her then the fact that she's
Speaker 1: just you know, ghosts a little been ghosts lately. The
Speaker 1: fact that she has not told her it's like really strange.
Speaker 1: I don't like. But clearly it's just like a whirlwind relationship.
Speaker 1: Is it? Whirlwind? I need to see I mean, we
Speaker 1: need to see more of course, to like really give
Speaker 1: like yeah next time since like screenshot, yes, you know,
Speaker 1: give us a little more so we can really dissect
Speaker 1: the situation. But from me, I just think your friend
Speaker 1: is just caught up in the matrix with this man
Speaker 1: and it's so excited and forgot about her friends and
Speaker 1: that's not okay. But you need to communicate with her
Speaker 1: and tell her how you feel. And don't be shocked
Speaker 1: if that man is your ex boyfriend. Oh god, all right,
Speaker 1: we gotta go. We're out of here. Don't forget to
Speaker 1: live your life reasonable or shady or both? Y'all? All right,
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