WEBVTT - Shady Honorees! 0:00:00.720 --> 0:00:04.360 Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect 0:00:04.400 --> 0:00:14.960 Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. So I pride myself 0:00:15.200 --> 0:00:19.000 in my co parenting situation. Okay, me and Jamal get 0:00:19.000 --> 0:00:25.000 our co parenting old. Okay, Robin's leaving the building. Something 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:32.680 has happened. Okay, let you let me drink my smoothie here. 0:00:34.200 --> 0:00:38.440 The last same team is right now? Can you start? 0:00:38.520 --> 0:00:46.520 That's because I need to be fired? Yes, okay? Wait? 0:00:48.080 --> 0:00:49.720 Can we can we do the same thing we did 0:00:49.760 --> 0:00:52.639 before because we did record it through year. Oh so 0:00:52.840 --> 0:00:58.840 so it's okay, Okay, let's keep going. Let's keep going. Okay, 0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:01.840 So we we're having a little bit of um some 0:01:01.920 --> 0:01:05.600 audio issues. So in like the first half of this 0:01:05.680 --> 0:01:08.319 podcast might sound a little different from the second half. 0:01:08.600 --> 0:01:10.640 Just bear with this, guys, just tell them I did 0:01:10.680 --> 0:01:14.080 it again. I forgot to press record. Yes, okay, Robin 0:01:14.160 --> 0:01:17.360 Dixon is getting fired, so yeah, I'm wanna get fired. 0:01:17.360 --> 0:01:33.319 Who's my replacement? Guys? Um? Yeah, good luck finding one. Hello, 0:01:33.400 --> 0:01:36.679 and welcome to another episode of reason Only Shandy. I 0:01:36.720 --> 0:01:40.520 am Gazelle Ryan. What's that everyone? I'm Robin Dixon. We 0:01:40.600 --> 0:01:46.280 are bad and you must address us properly. Naw, you 0:01:46.360 --> 0:01:52.240 must what's our name? Our name is Umble, a CP 0:01:52.440 --> 0:01:58.480 Image Award nomine Yes, get that straight. When you see us, 0:02:00.000 --> 0:02:02.520 I'm up to us and you bowed down and you 0:02:02.600 --> 0:02:09.800 say hello a CP Image Awards reasonably reasonably show down 0:02:12.080 --> 0:02:15.240 for real? Okay, so we got the shock of our lives. 0:02:15.320 --> 0:02:18.560 Yes we did. When it's so crazy. A friend of 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:22.799 mine actually texted me a picture like a post from Instagram. 0:02:22.880 --> 0:02:24.960 It was like congratulations time. And I was like, what's 0:02:25.000 --> 0:02:26.880 What's she congratulated me for? And so I looked at 0:02:26.880 --> 0:02:30.760 the picture. I was like my mouth dropped. We literally 0:02:31.440 --> 0:02:38.480 were nominated for Outstanding Arts and Entertainment Podcasts, Yes, for 0:02:38.600 --> 0:02:42.760 the n double ACP Image Awards. Like this is huge, 0:02:43.080 --> 0:02:45.959 Like Hugh Mons, there's a million podcasts out there, there's 0:02:45.960 --> 0:02:49.760 a million arts and entertainment podcasts, and they chose us. 0:02:50.200 --> 0:02:52.680 It's like five of us, it was, and we're nominated 0:02:52.760 --> 0:03:00.560 amongst amazing podcasts Sharks Podcast, Jamal Hills podcast, Quest Loves Podcast, 0:03:01.520 --> 0:03:04.959 and Keegan Michael Keats podcast, Like these are all people 0:03:05.040 --> 0:03:10.359 that like you don't know about, Like yes, okay, these 0:03:10.520 --> 0:03:12.440 these podcasts have been rocking and rolling for a while, 0:03:12.560 --> 0:03:15.239 like right, we haven't even been on for years. So 0:03:15.560 --> 0:03:17.760 I mean, I know we thank you all all the time, 0:03:18.080 --> 0:03:21.239 and we want to thank you all again. Yes, you know, 0:03:21.360 --> 0:03:24.720 without you all, we wouldn't be nominated now, we wouldn't 0:03:24.720 --> 0:03:26.480 be not made for a damn thing. Now. We also 0:03:26.560 --> 0:03:28.520 want to thank Black Effect because you know we are 0:03:28.760 --> 0:03:31.639 on this Black Effect beautiful platform. We want to thank 0:03:31.680 --> 0:03:33.280 you know, we don't just do this by ourselves, and 0:03:33.360 --> 0:03:37.400 we do want to thank our producer Taylor. Yes. So 0:03:37.560 --> 0:03:40.480 you all always hear us talk about um Carly. You know, 0:03:40.600 --> 0:03:42.560 Carly is the one who's like in the room with us. 0:03:43.440 --> 0:03:47.360 But when we finished recording, we send everything to Taylor. Yep, 0:03:48.000 --> 0:03:51.520 Taylor is a gentleman. Yes, who hasn't hatten in George, Jorge, 0:03:52.280 --> 0:03:55.400 I'm sorry, right, So we want to thank Taylor and 0:03:55.640 --> 0:03:59.560 Joe Yes for holding it down for us for you know, 0:03:59.760 --> 0:04:05.280 a so this sound effect right here, that was Taylor, right, 0:04:07.240 --> 0:04:10.000 Taylor did that right. So Taylor is the one that like, 0:04:10.200 --> 0:04:12.600 you know, he's the one that's that's putting our show 0:04:12.960 --> 0:04:15.120 on the airwave so that you all can hear us. 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:16.920 So Taylor, thank you so much. And I want to 0:04:16.920 --> 0:04:22.280 see to Taylor's mother. You raised an amazing man. Thank 0:04:22.320 --> 0:04:25.799 you so much for being Taylor's mother and for raising 0:04:25.920 --> 0:04:28.720 such an awesome person because he like as soon as 0:04:28.760 --> 0:04:31.720 we send him our audio files, he is on it. Right. 0:04:31.920 --> 0:04:34.400 We don't have we don't have to ask Taylor for anything. 0:04:34.480 --> 0:04:36.800 So Taylor, we really really appreciate you so much. We do, 0:04:37.000 --> 0:04:40.320 and we also appreciate our director of operations, Carl Eves 0:04:40.400 --> 0:04:42.520 in the room with us and helps us. Okay, this 0:04:42.640 --> 0:04:44.600 is the deal, guys. We really kind of want to win. 0:04:44.720 --> 0:04:46.440 I mean, it was like now to be nominated, but 0:04:46.520 --> 0:04:49.120 in whatder for us when you guys have to vote? Okay, 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:54.600 So voting is necessary for from you people that when 0:04:54.760 --> 0:04:56.520 we don't ask so much, we just ask you to vote. 0:04:56.520 --> 0:04:58.000 So I think you go to n double a CP 0:04:58.960 --> 0:05:04.320 vote dot okay, so you go to vote dot vote 0:05:04.400 --> 0:05:08.880 dot ACP Image Awards dot net, dot net. Go there, 0:05:08.920 --> 0:05:11.760 now cast your vote. You better vote for a reasonably 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:15.520 shady and we really appreciate it. Yes, no, how exciting them, 0:05:16.320 --> 0:05:18.800 it would be amazing. In less than one year, one 0:05:18.839 --> 0:05:23.040 million downloads, over one million downloads image award. Right, what 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:27.240 is next? We're gonna get an oscar? I don't know, 0:05:29.600 --> 0:05:31.920 all right, we gotta get down, okay, and now guess 0:05:31.960 --> 0:05:33.920 what Now that we've been nominated, the pressures on, we 0:05:34.000 --> 0:05:37.799 gotta make this podcasts good. Oh my gosh, oh god. 0:05:38.960 --> 0:05:41.440 Ok Okay, so we're gonna get back to business as 0:05:41.560 --> 0:05:50.920 usual and we have our reasonably shady moment of the week. Okay, 0:05:50.960 --> 0:05:52.960 I'll have to start because my this this week, this 0:05:53.640 --> 0:05:56.040 two is starting out with a bang for me for you, 0:05:56.520 --> 0:06:00.880 a good at bang or a bad one an interesting okay? Okay. 0:06:00.960 --> 0:06:03.000 So I decided that this is the year that I 0:06:03.760 --> 0:06:06.560 employed in my life a trainer. This is your first 0:06:06.600 --> 0:06:11.000 time ever, no, no here, years ago, it's been a man, sorry, 0:06:11.400 --> 0:06:14.360 our trainer. His names should say his name Tar Room. 0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:21.680 Oh yes, like I imagine. Um, he's a nice something guy, 0:06:22.080 --> 0:06:26.440 nice something guy anyway. So I told him my focus 0:06:26.480 --> 0:06:28.480 because he asked me what my focus was. Is that 0:06:28.560 --> 0:06:30.960 I have a washboard stomach, like a six pack, like 0:06:31.160 --> 0:06:33.640 wash when I had my bikini. And you're gonna see 0:06:33.680 --> 0:06:37.720 me rich to shreds. Okay, so a little cut on side. Yeah, 0:06:37.760 --> 0:06:39.200 all of that, All of that, and I don't have 0:06:39.320 --> 0:06:42.480 to like fake an Instagram picture like it's a real thing, 0:06:42.920 --> 0:06:46.920 Like no airbrushing here. So your apps are already like 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:50.640 super flass, Yes, but I want I want some definition. Okay. 0:06:51.000 --> 0:06:52.680 So he was like cool, he's up to the challenge. 0:06:52.760 --> 0:06:57.880 So he had a session. Now, mind you, Tarron is Spencer, okay, 0:06:58.160 --> 0:07:02.599 like expency, Like ya know, I'm sasing with the capital. Yeah, 0:07:02.640 --> 0:07:05.080 he's a controllion dollars and I'm like, I keep saying 0:07:05.120 --> 0:07:08.280 I'm the richest cheapest woman, y'all whatever means. Okay, So 0:07:08.560 --> 0:07:11.120 that's not the shading part. The shading part is I 0:07:11.280 --> 0:07:14.520 told this black man, Oh he's black, did Tyrone? I 0:07:14.640 --> 0:07:17.920 told him, black man, I want to abbs of steel? Okay. 0:07:18.120 --> 0:07:21.120 So he had the obsession and the next thing, I 0:07:21.200 --> 0:07:23.400 could not sit on the toilet because of my legs 0:07:23.440 --> 0:07:26.040 are my arms. I could not pick up anything but 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:29.960 my phone. But my stomach didn't hurt. There was no 0:07:30.400 --> 0:07:34.920 soreness in the area that I told him to concentrate on. Really, Yeah, 0:07:35.040 --> 0:07:38.960 I'm tying around your shading. Oh is he shad just bad? No, 0:07:39.160 --> 0:07:41.920 he's not bad. No, I'm sorry. He's very spencive. He's 0:07:41.960 --> 0:07:44.800 worth every penny. Okay, Oh, he's worth every penny. He's amazing. 0:07:45.280 --> 0:07:48.760 But Tyrone did not handle the area that I told 0:07:48.800 --> 0:07:51.680 him to concentrate. But you know when you do like abbs, 0:07:52.320 --> 0:07:55.480 like core workout involves like your whole body almost kind 0:07:55.560 --> 0:07:57.720 of kind of yeah, I mean okay, so tell me this. 0:07:58.040 --> 0:08:00.280 So you want I want your workout sessions an hour, 0:08:01.080 --> 0:08:03.040 So you want to go work out with Tyrone for 0:08:03.160 --> 0:08:08.000 an hour on just drafts? I think so, like, girl, 0:08:08.120 --> 0:08:12.760 god damn video, I don't home, Like now I need Tyrone. 0:08:12.840 --> 0:08:15.160 He's worth that, deputy, I'm shotting here to day. He's 0:08:15.160 --> 0:08:18.160 worth that. Okay. So that probably goes against that probably 0:08:18.200 --> 0:08:23.040 goes against Tyrone's you know, ethics as a trainer. Okay, 0:08:23.480 --> 0:08:26.040 but in their mind, like in order to to work 0:08:26.120 --> 0:08:29.760 your your ab court, you gotta work your whole body. Okay. 0:08:29.880 --> 0:08:32.079 Well I'm gonna give him more opportunities and I'm gonna 0:08:32.080 --> 0:08:35.040 get my body time to formulate these the ripness that 0:08:35.120 --> 0:08:36.959 I'm that I need to see. Okay, So did you 0:08:37.000 --> 0:08:40.320 ask Tarron? Like what happened? How long? Like? Okay, Now, 0:08:40.400 --> 0:08:41.840 I'm gonna see him in a couple of days. I'm 0:08:41.880 --> 0:08:44.680 gonna ask him then, yes, so I will get back 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:46.760 to you on what he says. But for right now 0:08:46.800 --> 0:08:49.640 in the shape okay, yes, that's my momentother week okay, 0:08:49.720 --> 0:08:54.240 that's fine. Yes, okay, Um, I don't really get out much, 0:08:54.679 --> 0:08:57.319 so a lot of my last spride shocker, Okay, I'm 0:08:57.440 --> 0:09:01.439 home body, m so a lot of my any moments 0:09:01.480 --> 0:09:07.640 go to myself because I don't get off. You know, 0:09:07.720 --> 0:09:09.560 it's not really a whole lot of opportunity for people 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:12.320 to do shady things to me, right, So I'm showing 0:09:12.360 --> 0:09:14.320 it to myself because I think one of the last 0:09:14.400 --> 0:09:16.920 podcast I was talking about how amazing that that's just 0:09:17.040 --> 0:09:19.720 made me look like I haven't got my eyelash done 0:09:19.720 --> 0:09:23.480 this alone? And who else look an ugly and now 0:09:23.520 --> 0:09:27.439 I'm looking pretty right Well, I'm shaving yourself because I 0:09:27.480 --> 0:09:29.400 still want to couch. When I picked my eyelashes off 0:09:29.880 --> 0:09:33.800 like rabby, you know I'm supposed to do that. I 0:09:34.000 --> 0:09:36.199 know I'm not, but I must have like a fidgeting 0:09:36.280 --> 0:09:39.040 problem or something, because I literally it's like I picked 0:09:39.120 --> 0:09:41.440 them off and then I put them all in a pile. 0:09:41.800 --> 0:09:43.959 I can showing my pile. I don't want to say that. 0:09:45.480 --> 0:09:48.960 But are you also taking out No? Are you also 0:09:49.000 --> 0:09:51.160 taking out your eye? No? No, no no no, I'm 0:09:51.160 --> 0:09:53.839 trying like so so I don't make sure I'm not 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:57.959 taking out like my my real, because that's like the 0:09:58.000 --> 0:10:00.560 bad parts just like pulled. Like know, if you feel 0:10:00.640 --> 0:10:04.880 one like just pull this off and then you look 0:10:04.960 --> 0:10:06.800 up and I literally have like a power like twenty 0:10:06.920 --> 0:10:09.679 on my coffee table and then want to is that 0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:17.160 okay your one? I can't. I can't, by the way, one, 0:10:17.200 --> 0:10:18.839 it's like a clean freaking you cannot come in out 0:10:19.000 --> 0:10:21.719 just shoots on. So I sneak in the house with 0:10:21.800 --> 0:10:24.280 my shoes on, and I apologize to one so he 0:10:24.280 --> 0:10:26.720 doesn't yellow. She runs to the room. Yeah real quick. 0:10:27.120 --> 0:10:28.959 And then but even even if you're watching the room, 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:31.480 he's like looking on the floor. Yes, I want to 0:10:31.520 --> 0:10:35.600 be doing shoe inspections and at the door shoot inspections. 0:10:35.640 --> 0:10:39.080 I ain't mad, as I'm mad, so yes, I'm shady, 0:10:39.160 --> 0:10:40.959 and I have this. I do have this one clump 0:10:41.120 --> 0:10:42.679 right now that I want to pull out so bad, 0:10:42.720 --> 0:10:46.280 but I'm attached to like four real outlets. Okay, you know, 0:10:46.440 --> 0:10:48.760 leave it alone. How about you made another point in 0:10:48.800 --> 0:10:51.640 the Brenda, Let's just do that because I don't want 0:10:51.640 --> 0:10:54.839 to leave that. Okay, Okay, let's move on alright. So 0:10:55.120 --> 0:10:57.719 on the Instagram a couple of days ago, maybe we 0:10:57.760 --> 0:11:02.319 could go where I'll being and posted her tenure challenge right, 0:11:03.640 --> 0:11:06.280 and she gave like this long and I hate when 0:11:06.320 --> 0:11:10.040 people leave long. Uh what is this called a comment? 0:11:10.280 --> 0:11:15.559 Like testimonies all testo cashing. I hate people. I don't 0:11:15.600 --> 0:11:18.439 feel like reading. I don't want to hear your side story. 0:11:18.960 --> 0:11:25.079 I don't care. However, Robbins caption was every time. Oh 0:11:25.559 --> 0:11:28.400 it was so beautiful, like you talked about. Okay, so 0:11:28.559 --> 0:11:31.640 Rob's senior challenge. It looks beautiful of both pictures. But 0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:33.480 she talks about and you don't even know what we're 0:11:33.480 --> 0:11:36.640 gonna talk about this today. She talked about the person 0:11:36.720 --> 0:11:39.480 that she was. Yes, you are getting your fights in 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:42.480 twenty now, mind you some of y'all with y'all tend 0:11:42.520 --> 0:11:45.400 your challenges. I'm aneth y'all stop just number one. Y'all 0:11:45.480 --> 0:11:47.920 lying because y'all do not look at the same. Okay, 0:11:48.040 --> 0:11:49.920 y'all trying to act like y'all look the same y'all 0:11:49.960 --> 0:11:52.839 did in ten years. Go y'all lying? Okay, that is 0:11:52.880 --> 0:11:58.240 an Instagram filter. Okay, now Robin does look better. But 0:11:58.320 --> 0:12:01.640 she talked about who she us in twelve and that 0:12:01.920 --> 0:12:05.920 she was a broken woman. When I read that, a 0:12:06.000 --> 0:12:09.240 lot of love was crying. So I know, Like, it's 0:12:09.280 --> 0:12:12.040 so crazy when I I probably never, I don't know, 0:12:12.080 --> 0:12:14.120 I don't say never. I don't really do tenor challenge 0:12:14.200 --> 0:12:16.880 pictures and stuff like, right, But like when I thought 0:12:16.920 --> 0:12:18.360 about it, I was like, oh, if I go sits 0:12:18.400 --> 0:12:20.120 here channels, like what would I post? And I'm like, 0:12:20.600 --> 0:12:22.240 oh my god. Like when I thought about it, I'm like, 0:12:22.360 --> 0:12:26.240 twelve was the most horrible year of my life. So 0:12:26.400 --> 0:12:30.520 that actual picture that was UM two days after my 0:12:30.679 --> 0:12:34.319 friend took his life. But I just found out like 0:12:34.400 --> 0:12:38.160 he was, you know, scamming people, scamming us. Was like 0:12:38.400 --> 0:12:40.599 like so when I say, like in that picture, I 0:12:40.720 --> 0:12:43.199 was a brokeman, I was like, like my whole you know, 0:12:43.559 --> 0:12:46.480 when and I had one and I had divorced already. Um, 0:12:46.679 --> 0:12:49.760 it was just like my life was like w t 0:12:49.960 --> 0:12:53.240 F is going on? Right, So it's so crazy. When 0:12:53.240 --> 0:12:55.080 I looked at that picture, I'm like, wow, I can 0:12:55.200 --> 0:12:58.960 remember that day. I was working UM for the PR 0:12:59.000 --> 0:13:00.880 agency that I used to work for and he had 0:13:00.920 --> 0:13:04.240 a big fashion event at Tyson's Galeria. So that was 0:13:04.280 --> 0:13:06.200 seeking like great by the run way at Tyson's Gloria 0:13:06.200 --> 0:13:09.000 and I can just remember that whole just working, pushing 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:11.240 through it, but you gotta work and that whole time 0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:16.120 just being like a crazy fall of like like I 0:13:16.240 --> 0:13:19.800 can't believe this happened. I can't believe, like this is life, 0:13:19.960 --> 0:13:22.040 Like what is you know? Where? Like what are we 0:13:22.080 --> 0:13:24.079 going to do next? All that typisode, right, but she 0:13:24.120 --> 0:13:27.280 talked about how you were totally faithful, you pushed through 0:13:27.559 --> 0:13:30.240 and look at where you are now, you're Imageward nomineque. 0:13:30.720 --> 0:13:34.160 What is it that crazy? It's crazy and you're like 0:13:34.520 --> 0:13:38.720 breaking beautiful and you're on a hit reality television show 0:13:38.920 --> 0:13:43.040 on bra Bo. You're it's so crazy, Like it's insane. Yes, really, 0:13:43.160 --> 0:13:45.240 it's so insane to think about how much can change 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:49.960 in ten years and in twenty twelve that I envisioned 0:13:50.040 --> 0:13:53.800 this for myself. No, but in a way I knew 0:13:53.800 --> 0:13:55.560 I had a story to tell. I didn't know how 0:13:55.600 --> 0:13:58.400 I was going to tell it or where, but you know, 0:13:58.440 --> 0:14:00.600 I knew I had an experience and it's sory to tell. 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:04.040 And you know, thankfully I'm I'm not a prideful person. 0:14:04.600 --> 0:14:06.520 So it's like something we're like, okay, I have storage talking. 0:14:06.520 --> 0:14:08.480 I'm gonna tell it somehow, some way, I don't know 0:14:09.160 --> 0:14:12.240 in what form, right, So you know, maybe you know 0:14:12.640 --> 0:14:16.440 us we were already friends then, but like maybe us 0:14:16.559 --> 0:14:20.360 coming into each other's lives was like, you know they're 0:14:20.440 --> 0:14:24.320 playing Yes, it's God's playing stats. Yes, you know with 0:14:24.440 --> 0:14:28.480 God just out there's no Robin, I don't know. Yeah, 0:14:28.760 --> 0:14:32.480 you know what I'm saying. So listen, it was God's 0:14:32.520 --> 0:14:34.120 plan for us to get on a show and just 0:14:34.200 --> 0:14:37.040 be shady, right true, And there were all types of 0:14:37.280 --> 0:14:40.440 entertain yes, and speaking to talk about right, speaking of 0:14:40.560 --> 0:14:43.280 that show, they were on potone Me the O Geez 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:48.240 got together like the original crew like cars that are left. 0:14:48.280 --> 0:14:53.160 So it's Karen, myself, Robin and Ashley. So we are 0:14:53.280 --> 0:14:57.440 the four remaining original cast members. And for you all 0:14:57.520 --> 0:14:59.520 to know that don't know, this is unheard of in 0:14:59.600 --> 0:15:03.560 brob Street, Like we are now embarking on season seven, 0:15:04.040 --> 0:15:07.240 and I believe that four o gs have not remained 0:15:07.320 --> 0:15:10.320 past like season three. Right, Yeah, no, it's it's actually 0:15:10.360 --> 0:15:12.080 it's really special that the four of us are still 0:15:12.120 --> 0:15:15.760 on the show. But I think that's what makes our show. 0:15:15.960 --> 0:15:18.280 All the shows are very unique in their own way, right, 0:15:18.520 --> 0:15:20.320 And I think that's one of the things that makes 0:15:20.400 --> 0:15:23.400 our show unique is that, you know, we have a 0:15:23.600 --> 0:15:28.680 core that has people have been able to really like, like, 0:15:28.800 --> 0:15:32.440 I think that there's something to say for like consistency 0:15:32.640 --> 0:15:35.720 and friendship, right, friendships and the ups and downs and 0:15:35.840 --> 0:15:39.600 friendships and when you like shovel in some people so 0:15:39.880 --> 0:15:43.920 often the chemistry is not there, right, it's lost. Yes, Yeah, 0:15:43.960 --> 0:15:46.720 I love our chemistry. I love getting together. I mean, 0:15:46.760 --> 0:15:49.560 you have understanding. Four of us have been through We've 0:15:49.640 --> 0:15:51.640 traveled around the world together. At this point in time, 0:15:51.920 --> 0:15:54.880 we have so many stories. There's nobody that we don't 0:15:54.920 --> 0:15:57.560 get together and we're not cracking up laughing, so I 0:15:57.760 --> 0:16:00.120 might get a fork like staff in their chest, I 0:16:00.160 --> 0:16:02.440 mean something, so many things to happen, and it's just 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:05.640 like amazing, No, no, it should like gets charged and 0:16:05.680 --> 0:16:07.400 that didn't happen. But we had such a good time. 0:16:07.480 --> 0:16:08.960 We did. And that was actually the first time the 0:16:09.000 --> 0:16:11.880 four of us, just the four of us got together, 0:16:12.080 --> 0:16:15.200 got together off camera even I feel like even on camera, 0:16:15.280 --> 0:16:17.360 I don't know that that there's ever been just the 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:20.240 four of us. I don't know, but but that Cara's 0:16:20.240 --> 0:16:22.200 in rare form and we love with Karen. It's just 0:16:22.520 --> 0:16:27.480 a normal shady, crazy lady Karen. Yeah, we missed them, 0:16:29.280 --> 0:16:31.240 and so it's a by the way, So we did 0:16:31.280 --> 0:16:33.880 a bunch of tiktoks that Ashley, of course always makes 0:16:33.960 --> 0:16:37.680 us to tiktoks. And Ashley looks grading these tiktoks and 0:16:37.760 --> 0:16:41.480 we look crazy. We look we don't we're not dancing well. 0:16:41.520 --> 0:16:46.560 Actually gets a lot of practice and all of them TikTok. Ashley, 0:16:46.640 --> 0:16:51.320 it's a TikTok per Okay, I join a new mom. 0:16:51.440 --> 0:16:54.280 Shouldn't get me raising your children now you're too busy 0:16:54.600 --> 0:17:00.440 driving lights hot the TikTok. That's like in your show 0:17:00.520 --> 0:17:03.720 the answer with the tiptoe, it probably should be listen. 0:17:03.800 --> 0:17:08.200 Actually is a guest or she's as a contestant and 0:17:08.320 --> 0:17:16.879 she is days in her heart. Okay, well, I school 0:17:16.920 --> 0:17:18.600 last thing I want to say about the ogs. We 0:17:19.000 --> 0:17:21.200 you know, you see a lot on our show, good, 0:17:21.240 --> 0:17:22.840 bad and in different but we do love each other 0:17:22.920 --> 0:17:24.840 at the end of the day. We love each other, 0:17:25.040 --> 0:17:28.440 and I think that's a beauty and the secretary success, right. Absolutely, 0:17:28.480 --> 0:17:30.399 we love each other. We want the best for each other, 0:17:30.760 --> 0:17:33.200 want each other to have success. Honestly, I want every 0:17:33.240 --> 0:17:37.640 single woman that has been on our show to have success. Yes, 0:17:37.880 --> 0:17:41.000 the more success that everyone has, the betterness for the show, 0:17:41.080 --> 0:17:43.240 and so I kind of hate it when you know, 0:17:43.400 --> 0:17:45.560 people like I don't I did see, like, oh four 0:17:45.560 --> 0:17:48.119 of us got there, like oh they plotting what they 0:17:48.200 --> 0:17:53.480 put Okay and shade, No, we're not, no, actually just 0:17:53.600 --> 0:17:57.280 celebrating each other. We're actually saying, Wow, we've been doing 0:17:57.320 --> 0:17:59.080 this for a minute, let's take time to have lunch 0:17:59.119 --> 0:18:02.280 and enjoy one enough um or I don't know, I 0:18:02.400 --> 0:18:04.680 just like I get it, like people like to infuse 0:18:04.760 --> 0:18:09.320 competition in these shows, but it's like, really when it 0:18:09.400 --> 0:18:11.119 comes out to the people on the show. So I 0:18:11.160 --> 0:18:13.200 can't speak for everyone. I don't speak for myself, Like 0:18:13.320 --> 0:18:16.480 there's no competition. Now. We're all different, we're all unique. 0:18:16.520 --> 0:18:20.160 My competition is with me, My competition with the robin, 0:18:20.440 --> 0:18:26.879 you know, ross competition is that couch. Okay, I'm just saying, 0:18:35.640 --> 0:18:37.159 so now, let's just talk about a little bit of 0:18:37.200 --> 0:18:40.679 co parenting, Okay, because I take pride in what Jamal 0:18:40.720 --> 0:18:42.920 and I have done as it relates to co parenting. 0:18:43.160 --> 0:18:46.920 Very important. Yes, our three lovely daughters. They are well adjusted, 0:18:46.960 --> 0:18:49.760 they're well behaved. Sometimes they get on my nerves, but 0:18:49.920 --> 0:18:55.760 for the most part they're amazing. Yeah, Now we have 0:18:55.880 --> 0:19:00.280 Porsche and Dennis. Yes, we have Kanye and Kim. We've 0:19:00.320 --> 0:19:02.200 seen a lot of drama out here in these streets, 0:19:02.240 --> 0:19:04.320 and we said we'd never talked about Kanye again. And 0:19:04.440 --> 0:19:06.840 I know I don't want to talk about him, but 0:19:06.880 --> 0:19:08.200 we got to talk about him. We do have to 0:19:08.200 --> 0:19:09.880 talk about because I think he's a liar. His pants 0:19:09.920 --> 0:19:13.920 on five. Okay, So for y'all who don't know Little Chicago, 0:19:14.000 --> 0:19:15.800 and I think she's the cutest of the I hate 0:19:15.800 --> 0:19:18.800 to say this, but she's so cute to me, you 0:19:18.840 --> 0:19:21.600 can just eat her up. Okay, So Little Chicago turned four. 0:19:21.640 --> 0:19:25.520 That's Kim and Kanye's kid. Supposedly he was not invited 0:19:25.560 --> 0:19:28.639 to the party. He gets on Instagram live. He starts 0:19:28.680 --> 0:19:31.240 talking about Kim give me the invitation to tell me 0:19:31.320 --> 0:19:33.280 where the party is. And I can't find out where 0:19:33.280 --> 0:19:35.160 the party is. And y'all, this ain't right. She's using 0:19:35.200 --> 0:19:38.840 the kid against me. Chicago's gonna be scarred forever if 0:19:38.880 --> 0:19:41.480 I don't come to the party. I can't believe he 0:19:41.520 --> 0:19:43.440 did that. I can't believe he did that was so 0:19:43.640 --> 0:19:46.639 I mean, I know Kanye is different, but that to 0:19:46.760 --> 0:19:48.600 me was like something that I would never think that 0:19:48.720 --> 0:19:51.399 Kanye would do, Like run to was it Instagram, Like 0:19:51.480 --> 0:19:53.520 did he where did he post that on instage? He 0:19:53.560 --> 0:19:56.680 posts on Instagram? Yeah, Like like that sounds like something 0:19:56.840 --> 0:20:00.880 literally like that, like you know Jojo down the street 0:20:00.920 --> 0:20:02.520 to do when he's mad at his baby mama. Like 0:20:02.560 --> 0:20:04.760 all right, I was just like, what the hell like that? 0:20:04.960 --> 0:20:08.360 There's that, there's I don't worry. There's way he's way 0:20:08.359 --> 0:20:11.080 about that. That's internal. There's some things that are called 0:20:11.200 --> 0:20:13.680 house business, family business. That has nothing to do. I 0:20:13.800 --> 0:20:15.320 don't need to know if you and Kim a beef 0:20:15.359 --> 0:20:17.520 and over a goddamn birthday party, that's none of my business. 0:20:17.520 --> 0:20:20.000 Like what is what is telling us going on? How's 0:20:20.000 --> 0:20:23.919 that going to help the situation? Make it better? Like honestly, 0:20:23.920 --> 0:20:25.840 you're making it worse now. As soon as I saw 0:20:25.920 --> 0:20:28.080 the video, I was like, he lying, there's no way 0:20:28.240 --> 0:20:32.760 like something when you know, something happens miscommunication. Kim is 0:20:32.800 --> 0:20:35.440 not keeping the kids from Kanye, Like I don't believe 0:20:35.520 --> 0:20:39.960 that on their birthday? Who know? So supposedly where it 0:20:40.040 --> 0:20:42.920 comes out that Kanye said he was gonna play his 0:20:43.000 --> 0:20:45.920 own party, so they were gonna have separate parties. So fine, 0:20:45.960 --> 0:20:47.560 if we have to having separate parties, that means you 0:20:47.600 --> 0:20:49.680 ain't coming to mind, because I ain't going to yours. 0:20:50.560 --> 0:20:53.800 I still don't even believe all of that. Long story short, 0:20:53.960 --> 0:20:57.239 he had to call Tristan to try to find out 0:20:57.280 --> 0:21:00.520 what the party was. Did he really he did? Oh 0:21:00.600 --> 0:21:04.080 my god, Now when you gotta call the excommunicated baby 0:21:04.160 --> 0:21:08.639 daddy of the sister of your baby mama, it's a problem. 0:21:08.960 --> 0:21:12.640 And why didn't even know that? And then he said 0:21:12.680 --> 0:21:15.000 he called Travis because you know it's a joint party. 0:21:15.200 --> 0:21:18.119 Travis is but a little stormy anyway, and so and 0:21:18.119 --> 0:21:20.440 I'm sure the guys are like, YO, leave me out 0:21:20.480 --> 0:21:22.879 of this, Like they're probably like, yo, I don't know. 0:21:23.000 --> 0:21:24.480 I don't know what I'm supposed to tell. I don't 0:21:24.520 --> 0:21:26.040 know what I'm supposed to not to tell, Like why 0:21:26.160 --> 0:21:28.480 is this a secret? Like this is a mess. It's 0:21:28.480 --> 0:21:31.119 a mass. Now you know, y'all know. I love Porsche. 0:21:31.160 --> 0:21:36.800 I think she's amazing. So on Porsche's family matters, we 0:21:36.960 --> 0:21:39.040 have about twenty people that are trying to blend a 0:21:39.160 --> 0:21:43.200 family over a two year old, over polar the little 0:21:43.240 --> 0:21:45.680 p J. She's so cute. Little p J is so cute. 0:21:46.440 --> 0:21:49.919 But nobody can't get it together. Nobody can act right 0:21:50.040 --> 0:21:53.200 nobody can act like an adult for this two year old? 0:21:53.600 --> 0:21:57.000 What what are we mad about? And for the life 0:21:57.080 --> 0:21:59.199 of me, I can't understand what the problem is, right, 0:21:59.320 --> 0:22:01.480 what is the problem? I don't know what the problem is. 0:22:02.520 --> 0:22:04.399 So but it seems as if Dennis has being a 0:22:04.440 --> 0:22:07.560 great dad, like he's you know, taking the girl to 0:22:07.880 --> 0:22:10.480 you know, he's buying her clothes. You know, he's buying 0:22:10.520 --> 0:22:13.920 out stores, so she has clothes on her back. Pors. 0:22:14.000 --> 0:22:16.520 She said, he pays for her school. Okay, what more 0:22:16.560 --> 0:22:19.080 does this? Does? He spend time with her like what 0:22:19.680 --> 0:22:21.920 her up? And he takes her on the weekend. So 0:22:22.000 --> 0:22:24.080 I don't watch the show, so you have to tell me, 0:22:24.280 --> 0:22:26.440 like I don't want you to show. But of course 0:22:26.480 --> 0:22:28.080 I look on Instagram and I see there's a whole 0:22:28.119 --> 0:22:34.640 bunch of rumbles and the jungles and people arguinguffs. Okay, yes, 0:22:34.920 --> 0:22:38.200 and then um something. The most recent thing I saw 0:22:38.359 --> 0:22:41.920