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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. So I pride myself

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Speaker 1: in my co parenting situation. Okay, me and Jamal get

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Speaker 1: our co parenting old. Okay, Robin's leaving the building. Something

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Speaker 1: has happened. Okay, let you let me drink my smoothie here.

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Speaker 1: The last same team is right now? Can you start?

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Speaker 1: That's because I need to be fired? Yes, okay? Wait?

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Speaker 1: Can we can we do the same thing we did

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Speaker 1: before because we did record it through year. Oh so

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Speaker 1: so it's okay, Okay, let's keep going. Let's keep going. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So we we're having a little bit of um some

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Speaker 1: audio issues. So in like the first half of this

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Speaker 1: podcast might sound a little different from the second half.

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Speaker 1: Just bear with this, guys, just tell them I did

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Speaker 1: it again. I forgot to press record. Yes, okay, Robin

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Speaker 1: Dixon is getting fired, so yeah, I'm wanna get fired.

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Speaker 1: Who's my replacement? Guys? Um? Yeah, good luck finding one. Hello,

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Speaker 1: and welcome to another episode of reason Only Shandy. I

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Speaker 1: am Gazelle Ryan. What's that everyone? I'm Robin Dixon. We

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Speaker 1: are bad and you must address us properly. Naw, you

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Speaker 1: must what's our name? Our name is Umble, a CP

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Speaker 1: Image Award nomine Yes, get that straight. When you see us,

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Speaker 1: I'm up to us and you bowed down and you

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Speaker 1: say hello a CP Image Awards reasonably reasonably show down

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Speaker 1: for real? Okay, so we got the shock of our lives.

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Speaker 1: Yes we did. When it's so crazy. A friend of

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Speaker 1: mine actually texted me a picture like a post from Instagram.

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Speaker 1: It was like congratulations time. And I was like, what's

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Speaker 1: What's she congratulated me for? And so I looked at

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Speaker 1: the picture. I was like my mouth dropped. We literally

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Speaker 1: were nominated for Outstanding Arts and Entertainment Podcasts, Yes, for

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Speaker 1: the n double ACP Image Awards. Like this is huge,

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Speaker 1: Like Hugh Mons, there's a million podcasts out there, there's

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Speaker 1: a million arts and entertainment podcasts, and they chose us.

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Speaker 1: It's like five of us, it was, and we're nominated

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Speaker 1: amongst amazing podcasts Sharks Podcast, Jamal Hills podcast, Quest Loves Podcast,

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Speaker 1: and Keegan Michael Keats podcast, Like these are all people

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Speaker 1: that like you don't know about, Like yes, okay, these

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Speaker 1: these podcasts have been rocking and rolling for a while,

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Speaker 1: like right, we haven't even been on for years. So

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Speaker 1: I mean, I know we thank you all all the time,

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Speaker 1: and we want to thank you all again. Yes, you know,

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Speaker 1: without you all, we wouldn't be nominated now, we wouldn't

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Speaker 1: be not made for a damn thing. Now. We also

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Speaker 1: want to thank Black Effect because you know we are

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Speaker 1: on this Black Effect beautiful platform. We want to thank

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Speaker 1: you know, we don't just do this by ourselves, and

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Speaker 1: we do want to thank our producer Taylor. Yes. So

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Speaker 1: you all always hear us talk about um Carly. You know,

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Speaker 1: Carly is the one who's like in the room with us.

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Speaker 1: But when we finished recording, we send everything to Taylor. Yep,

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Speaker 1: Taylor is a gentleman. Yes, who hasn't hatten in George, Jorge,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, right, So we want to thank Taylor and

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Speaker 1: Joe Yes for holding it down for us for you know,

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Speaker 1: a so this sound effect right here, that was Taylor, right,

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Speaker 1: Taylor did that right. So Taylor is the one that like,

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Speaker 1: you know, he's the one that's that's putting our show

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Speaker 1: on the airwave so that you all can hear us.

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Speaker 1: So Taylor, thank you so much. And I want to

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Speaker 1: see to Taylor's mother. You raised an amazing man. Thank

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Speaker 1: you so much for being Taylor's mother and for raising

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Speaker 1: such an awesome person because he like as soon as

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Speaker 1: we send him our audio files, he is on it. Right.

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Speaker 1: We don't have we don't have to ask Taylor for anything.

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Speaker 1: So Taylor, we really really appreciate you so much. We do,

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Speaker 1: and we also appreciate our director of operations, Carl Eves

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Speaker 1: in the room with us and helps us. Okay, this

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Speaker 1: is the deal, guys. We really kind of want to win.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it was like now to be nominated, but

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Speaker 1: in whatder for us when you guys have to vote? Okay,

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Speaker 1: So voting is necessary for from you people that when

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Speaker 1: we don't ask so much, we just ask you to vote.

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Speaker 1: So I think you go to n double a CP

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Speaker 1: dot ACP Image Awards dot net, dot net. Go there,

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Speaker 1: now cast your vote. You better vote for a reasonably

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Speaker 1: shady and we really appreciate it. Yes, no, how exciting them,

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Speaker 1: it would be amazing. In less than one year, one

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Speaker 1: Ok Okay, so we're gonna get back to business as

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Speaker 1: usual and we have our reasonably shady moment of the week. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'll have to start because my this this week, this

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Speaker 1: two is starting out with a bang for me for you,

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Speaker 1: So I decided that this is the year that I

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Speaker 1: employed in my life a trainer. This is your first

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Speaker 1: time ever, no, no here, years ago, it's been a man, sorry,

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Speaker 1: our trainer. His names should say his name Tar Room.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, like I imagine. Um, he's a nice something guy,

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Speaker 1: nice something guy anyway. So I told him my focus

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Speaker 1: because he asked me what my focus was. Is that

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Speaker 1: I have a washboard stomach, like a six pack, like

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Speaker 1: me rich to shreds. Okay, so a little cut on side. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all of that, All of that, and I don't have

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Speaker 1: to like fake an Instagram picture like it's a real thing,

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Speaker 1: Like no airbrushing here. So your apps are already like

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Speaker 1: super flass, Yes, but I want I want some definition. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So he was like cool, he's up to the challenge.

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Speaker 1: So he had a session. Now, mind you, Tarron is Spencer, okay,

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Speaker 1: like expency, Like ya know, I'm sasing with the capital. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's a controllion dollars and I'm like, I keep saying

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Speaker 1: that's not the shading part. The shading part is I

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Speaker 1: told this black man, Oh he's black, did Tyrone? I

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Speaker 1: told him, black man, I want to abbs of steel? Okay.

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Speaker 1: So he had the obsession and the next thing, I

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Speaker 1: my phone. But my stomach didn't hurt. There was no

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Speaker 1: soreness in the area that I told him to concentrate on. Really, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm tying around your shading. Oh is he shad just bad? No,

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Speaker 1: he's not bad. No, I'm sorry. He's very spencive. He's

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Speaker 1: worth every penny. Okay, Oh, he's worth every penny. He's amazing.

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Speaker 1: But Tyrone did not handle the area that I told

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Speaker 1: him to concentrate. But you know when you do like abbs,

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Speaker 1: like core workout involves like your whole body almost kind

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Speaker 1: So you want I want your workout sessions an hour,

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Speaker 1: So you want to go work out with Tyrone for

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Speaker 1: god damn video, I don't home, Like now I need Tyrone.

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Speaker 1: He's worth that, deputy, I'm shotting here to day. He's

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Speaker 1: worth that. Okay. So that probably goes against that probably

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Speaker 1: goes against Tyrone's you know, ethics as a trainer. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Well I'm gonna give him more opportunities and I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: get my body time to formulate these the ripness that

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Speaker 1: I'm that I need to see. Okay, So did you

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Speaker 1: that's fine. Yes, okay, Um, I don't really get out much,

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Speaker 1: it's not really a whole lot of opportunity for people

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Speaker 1: made me look like I haven't got my eyelash done

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Speaker 1: like rabby, you know I'm supposed to do that. I

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Speaker 1: know I'm not, but I must have like a fidgeting

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Speaker 1: I can showing my pile. I don't want to say that.

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Speaker 1: it's like a clean freaking you cannot come in out

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Speaker 1: but I'm attached to like four real outlets. Okay, you know,

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Speaker 1: Like testimonies all testo cashing. I hate people. I don't

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Speaker 1: feel like reading. I don't want to hear your side story.

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Speaker 1: I don't care. However, Robbins caption was every time. Oh

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Speaker 1: it was so beautiful, like you talked about. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: Rob's senior challenge. It looks beautiful of both pictures. But

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Speaker 1: gonna talk about this today. She talked about the person

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Speaker 1: that she was. Yes, you are getting your fights in

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Speaker 1: twenty now, mind you some of y'all with y'all tend

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Speaker 1: your challenges. I'm aneth y'all stop just number one. Y'all

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Speaker 1: lying because y'all do not look at the same. Okay,

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Speaker 1: y'all trying to act like y'all look the same y'all

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Speaker 1: an Instagram filter. Okay, now Robin does look better. But

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Speaker 1: she talked about who she us in twelve and that

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Speaker 1: lot of love was crying. So I know, Like, it's

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Speaker 1: I don't say never. I don't really do tenor challenge

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Speaker 1: pictures and stuff like, right, But like when I thought

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Speaker 1: twelve was the most horrible year of my life. So

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Speaker 1: they act all silly and weird. Same thing with Kanye

419
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Speaker 1: and Kim. Kanye out here in the streets taking a

420
00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:38,879
Speaker 1: girl trying to turn in some random girl into another

421
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:43,520
Speaker 1: Kim and having why is she participating in this random behavior?

422
00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:46,879
Speaker 1: We got to talk. That's like a whole separate conversation

423
00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:50,200
Speaker 1: I gotta talk about. But like, um, I feel like

424
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 1: when there's like bitterness and it's still fresh, that's when

425
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:55,720
Speaker 1: people act like like they can't they can't be the

426
00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:58,920
Speaker 1: bigger people and put the kids first. So when you

427
00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 1: and Jamal first vorce or when you you know, when

428
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:04,240
Speaker 1: you divert, how is your relationship then? Was it strained?

429
00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 1: Were you communicating? Um? You know? Did it take you

430
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:09,280
Speaker 1: a while to get to the point where you all

431
00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:11,920
Speaker 1: can be great co parents? It does take a minute.

432
00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna say this that Jamal Brian knows how

433
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:17,040
Speaker 1: to pluck a nerve. Okay, So when we first split up,

434
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 1: was he trying to plug my nerves? Was he trying

435
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:20,959
Speaker 1: to make me mad? Was he trying to do anything

436
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 1: under the sun to just be in a hole? Absolutely,

437
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,359
Speaker 1: that's just what they do. So how do we get so?

438
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:30,840
Speaker 1: So how did you work through that? Like, how did

439
00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:32,919
Speaker 1: you deal with them then at that time? And then

440
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 1: how did you work through that? Okay? So I decided,

441
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 1: Gazelle decided, I don't care what this man does to

442
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 1: plug my nerves. This is all about the kids. So

443
00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:44,800
Speaker 1: if you want to act like we having separate parties,

444
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:47,800
Speaker 1: I would always be like, no, bro, we only do

445
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 1: that because you're invited to this party. We're going to

446
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:53,680
Speaker 1: make sure that the children feel like they don't lack

447
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 1: anything because we're not together. Because It's about them, not

448
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:00,959
Speaker 1: about your ego, not about a pride. I just swallowed

449
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:04,280
Speaker 1: my pride fourteen million hundred times. Why because my kids

450
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:08,359
Speaker 1: deserve that. And I know that of the two of us,

451
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 1: me and Jamal, I'm the more mature one. Yes, so

452
00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:14,119
Speaker 1: I'm going to be more mature. I just think it's

453
00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:17,159
Speaker 1: right and I get that. It's just really hard for

454
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:20,200
Speaker 1: people in those situations, especially like Kanye and Kim, when

455
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:24,200
Speaker 1: it's like they're almost flaunting their relationships out in public

456
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:27,240
Speaker 1: to make each other jealous or something, you know, like

457
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:32,399
Speaker 1: Kim with Pete Davidson, which is so now got to

458
00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:34,920
Speaker 1: be a big penis. Ain't no question about I want

459
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:36,720
Speaker 1: to see. Yeah, we need to get to the bottom

460
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:39,080
Speaker 1: of it. Listen, Kim, do us all a favor. Take

461
00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 1: a picture that penis money and then leak it. Okay, penis,

462
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 1: It might it might even actually be brown. You know

463
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 1: how Kada says her husband's penis is brad. It might

464
00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:53,639
Speaker 1: even actually be brown. Um. But anyway, I really feel like,

465
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 1: in all in all seriousness, if you are in a

466
00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:01,080
Speaker 1: co patenting situation, it is so horrible for the kids

467
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 1: when it is toxic, like let it go, just let

468
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:06,320
Speaker 1: it go and just think, you know what, what would

469
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 1: your zell do? And she would just be the bigger person.

470
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:12,879
Speaker 1: Just be me, y'all, just beat me, Just beat yourself. Okay,

471
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,960
Speaker 1: So we have to discuss because you know, I have

472
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 1: been an Adele fan. And then she trashed the housewise,

473
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 1: but I was still in Adele fan. But I think

474
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 1: I'm falling off. Okay, I'm following off the Adele train.

475
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 1: What happened? So I decided I wanted to go see

476
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 1: her in Las Vegas. So I went to go look

477
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:34,879
Speaker 1: for some tickets and the tickets made a small tear

478
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:38,399
Speaker 1: come down the side of my face because the tickets

479
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:41,560
Speaker 1: are like twenty five hundred dollars. And I said, what

480
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 1: the hell, that's insane? Insane, Adele, what are you doing

481
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:48,920
Speaker 1: to me? Like? Can I afford this ticket? Yes? Do

482
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 1: I want to spend twenty five hundred dollars to come

483
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 1: see you sing a song that might make me cry? No?

484
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:58,680
Speaker 1: I don't, I do not. Well, you know how I

485
00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:01,679
Speaker 1: feel about it. Yes, you think Adela is like whatever

486
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 1: I could sing? I think I could sing Adele for you? Okay, No,

487
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 1: but in all fairness, like come on, now, that's ridiculous,

488
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 1: that's it's so the tickets that I saw were all

489
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 1: the way down to like fift hundred. All of that

490
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 1: is unheard of. Is what in the nosebleed? Yes, so

491
00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 1: like right now, I think the nosebleeds came down a

492
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 1: little bit. The nosebleeds are like eight hundred. Oh now

493
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:27,560
Speaker 1: they're coming down, coming down a little bit, eight hundred.

494
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 1: Like I'm sorry, but I don't think you okay, eight hundred.

495
00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:32,880
Speaker 1: I feel like you would pay that, but I don't

496
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 1: think you would want to sit in the nose. I

497
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:36,760
Speaker 1: don't want to sit back there. I'm not sitting back

498
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:39,159
Speaker 1: there with y'all. No offense to y'all who's sitting back there,

499
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 1: but I'm not sitting back there with y'all. And I

500
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:43,919
Speaker 1: want to say, like I was paying for these tickets?

501
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 1: Who was paying for these tickets? And and how many

502
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 1: shows is it? Is? It? Like okay, ship like every

503
00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 1: day like like like how long? Like every day for

504
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:53,240
Speaker 1: how long? I don't know how long Adele is on

505
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 1: this run. But I want to say, Adele, if you

506
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,159
Speaker 1: want to do that, that's fine, but you need to

507
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 1: have like two shows that our budget, but that are

508
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 1: in the budget, and that's what you need to call them, Adele,

509
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 1: tickets on budget and Gizell will come to that show. Okay,

510
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,919
Speaker 1: but clearly somebody's paying for it. It's just not going

511
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:15,960
Speaker 1: to adjust her ticket prices for cheap people like you here.

512
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:17,919
Speaker 1: You're not cheap, You're not cheating. I want to pay

513
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 1: for Okay. Let me put in my perspective. Okay, if

514
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 1: it was Beyonce, it was done Beyonce. It's never done that. Yeah,

515
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 1: but okay, and let's put this in perspective. I've been

516
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:30,879
Speaker 1: to a million Beyonce concerts. They've never been that offensive. No,

517
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:34,199
Speaker 1: but it's but okay, I assume Adele is a more

518
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 1: intimate venue, so right, and Beyonce's as a little is

519
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 1: she's in freaking football stadiums. Yeah, true, true, true, Tree Okay,

520
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 1: well do okay, this is my suggestion, Adele, do a

521
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 1: budget show and cut out four songs, you know what

522
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 1: I mean, like give it, give us a concert on

523
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: the cheap. Adele said, I'm not getting out of bed

524
00:28:56,240 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 1: for lesson. Okay. Now, this this chief over here is

525
00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:05,240
Speaker 1: gonna stay home, so you're gonna have to watch the

526
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:10,239
Speaker 1: Netflix special. And I'm totally fine with that now, um

527
00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 1: speaking of you got you're gonna have to find you

528
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 1: a rich boyfriend. Well, it's not even that. Can I

529
00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 1: afford this? Yes, but I wanted to, Like, Okay, it's

530
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,520
Speaker 1: sometimes things print principle. It's the prince. It is the principle.

531
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 1: It's like, come on now, it's like I can't afford it,

532
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:26,600
Speaker 1: but there's so many people that cannot And why would

533
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 1: you do that to your fan base? Right, That's how

534
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 1: I feel about it. True. I'm taking it for the team.

535
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 1: I'm taking it for the fan base. You're protesting, protiing protesting,

536
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 1: protesting base. Yes, okay, Now, Robin, do you have a

537
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 1: COVID test? Did you order a COVID Oh my god? Okay, okay, y'all,

538
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:47,959
Speaker 1: kudos to the US government for sending for COVID tests

539
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 1: to every residential home. Yes. And I know that this

540
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 1: is not news to you all listening, because I know

541
00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 1: everybody in the damn mama texted you or emailed you

542
00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:01,240
Speaker 1: or called you to tell you about it. Right, So,

543
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 1: yesterday I get um a text in one of my

544
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:07,720
Speaker 1: group chats, my first one. It was like COVID tests.

545
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh awesome. I clicked on it ordered them Bam, done,

546
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 1: and then it was like COVID. Then it was like

547
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:18,800
Speaker 1: message after message after message, COVID test, COVID, COVID, Hey girl,

548
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 1: just sharing, Hey girl, did you know? Hey, make sure

549
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:24,120
Speaker 1: you get your COVID tests and then email. I even

550
00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 1: I texted my mother the COVID test link and she

551
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 1: emailed me the COVID test link, like you are lying, Like, Mom,

552
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:39,160
Speaker 1: did you not get my text? Clearly? So anyway, I

553
00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 1: hope by now everyone that's listening, yes, has he gotten

554
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 1: their COVID tests? Yes, sent to their house every And

555
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 1: I wonder when we're gonna get it, like they say

556
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 1: we're gonna get at the end of JA. We're probably

557
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:52,960
Speaker 1: gonna get it in March or when COVID is gone.

558
00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 1: Who knows. But but kudos to the Biden administration. Yes,

559
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 1: kudos to them, because for whatever reason, people don't like y'all.

560
00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:05,760
Speaker 1: Right now, I'm not really like, okay, I need to

561
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 1: keep up with politics. It's so it's really sad. It's

562
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 1: like when Trump was in office, it was literally like

563
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 1: watching your train wreck and you couldn't take your eyes

564
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 1: off right, so you knew everything that was going on.

565
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 1: You're like watching like all day what do you say, now,

566
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:19,480
Speaker 1: what's going on? What's happening? And now I'm like, I

567
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:22,360
Speaker 1: really don't know what's going on in US politics, but

568
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 1: I do know that Biden's approval rating is low. Yes,

569
00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 1: But speaking of train Rex, I need to talk about

570
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:33,240
Speaker 1: the one that hits close to home with US. Robin Um,

571
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 1: one of the coaches for the university of men's men's

572
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 1: basketball coach at the University of Maryland, got suspended. He

573
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 1: should be fired because he was soliciting a prostitute who

574
00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 1: a whore, a strumpet. He was offering eighty dollars eighty

575
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 1: eight dollars. Okay, wait, this is this is the report

576
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 1: that straight up he gave a woman an undercover cop

577
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 1: or undercover undercover cop, eighty dollars for sex, not knowing

578
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 1: obviously that this person is undercover. And so then he

579
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:12,680
Speaker 1: was arrested. But and it was conducted like on like

580
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 1: he met. I guess maybe there's some platform online where

581
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:17,479
Speaker 1: you meet these prostitutes. Yeah, they don't. They don't want

582
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 1: streets anymore, right, prostitution is now online. So so he's

583
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 1: so I wonder where he got for eighty dollars. Well,

584
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:26,720
Speaker 1: you got arrested for eighty dollars. He got arrested, but

585
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 1: he wonder what he ordered, right, He probably ordered a

586
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 1: blow job in a hand jot, who knows. But I'm

587
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 1: just like, dude, just sit at the bar. Well he

588
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 1: is apparently unsadly married with children, Okay, but dude, just

589
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 1: sit at the bar like there's gonna be somebody that

590
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:46,120
Speaker 1: don't You don't listen. You have too much to lose

591
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,960
Speaker 1: to be paying out here paying for sex. Okay. That's so.

592
00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 1: It made me think in my private moments that he

593
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 1: clearly needs to be fired and so does whoever the

594
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 1: head coaches right now? And one Dixon one, and dont

595
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 1: Dixon is a middle name, Antonio is one. And Tonio

596
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:08,440
Speaker 1: Dixon needs to be the head coach at Maryland. You know, hmm,

597
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 1: you know I will say this, um, that would be amazing.

598
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 1: Okay for those who yall who don't know, I'm gonna

599
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:18,560
Speaker 1: just to this horn real quick. So right now is

600
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:20,760
Speaker 1: this is not like far fetched because one is a

601
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 1: head coach at Coppin State, which is a black college

602
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 1: here in town. And he did bring the University of

603
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 1: Maryland a national championship. It's first and only, first and

604
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:33,160
Speaker 1: only national championship that was on the back of one Dixon.

605
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 1: So at this point in time, just give him the

606
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:37,719
Speaker 1: damn job. I mean, you know, that would make sense, right,

607
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:39,960
Speaker 1: that would that would make total sense. I have to, like,

608
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 1: you know, be careful with what I say because he

609
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:44,479
Speaker 1: does have a current job, and so I don't want

610
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 1: to take away we love copy from his current job.

611
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 1: Yeah right, okay, Like I want him to be very

612
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 1: successful at copping. But I can say, um, that's been

613
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:57,040
Speaker 1: his dream since he was you know, pretty much in

614
00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 1: the NBA when he knew he wanted to coach. It's

615
00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 1: been his dream, that's been his vision, and he said, gosh,

616
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 1: it would be so amazing if one day, like he's

617
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 1: he's actually kind of like a visionary. He actually when

618
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 1: he was a kid, like knew he was gonna make

619
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:13,880
Speaker 1: it to the NBA, which is like insane because he

620
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:16,240
Speaker 1: was like a hundred and forty five pounds in college

621
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 1: or high school. So anyway, he when he was in

622
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 1: the NBA, he knew, I want to go back to

623
00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 1: my alma mater that I love and that I you know, Um,

624
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 1: that means so much to me and that he did

625
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 1: so much for on the basketball court. And be a

626
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:34,600
Speaker 1: head coach there one day. So I know that that's

627
00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 1: his dream. I know that that's his dream. Um, but

628
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,360
Speaker 1: you know, we just gotta see if that's in the plans.

629
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:41,279
Speaker 1: We gotta see if that's in the plans, it's in

630
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 1: the plants, it's from. We don't know when it's gonna happen.

631
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:45,759
Speaker 1: I would I would absolutely love that because that's my

632
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:48,800
Speaker 1: alma mater too. It's like, you know, we can go

633
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:52,440
Speaker 1: back and bring some excitement back to the kids. It's

634
00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 1: going down, I'm just saying, And why is not going

635
00:34:54,719 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 1: to solicit a prostitute? He's not it caught in these

636
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 1: streets with strumpets and holes. So I think this is

637
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 1: better than what they got. Now, that's all I got

638
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:08,879
Speaker 1: to say about lat Yeah. I don't want I don't

639
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 1: want to talk down on on my alma mater what's

640
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 1: going on, But um, you know, some new energy would

641
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 1: be amazing, some new Dickson energy. Okay, we put it

642
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 1: out into the atmosphere, right, moving on. Okay, So, Robin,

643
00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:30,919
Speaker 1: we did ask the people to send us emails about yes,

644
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 1: right because we have a new segment, and we got

645
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:34,800
Speaker 1: so many of them. So we got our new segment.

646
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 1: Um reason is it reasonably? Was a shady you know,

647
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:40,840
Speaker 1: and oh, y'all got a whole lot of stuff going on.

648
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:43,759
Speaker 1: We asked people to email their scenarios and we'll give

649
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:48,320
Speaker 1: our honest, you know, opinions, um and maybe even a

650
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:53,480
Speaker 1: little bit of advice on how to proceed. Yes, yes, okay, right,

651
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:03,920
Speaker 1: so we got an email. Um, I think we can

652
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 1: just protect people's names. Um from Len, I'll just say

653
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 1: the first name, Lena. Lena says, Hi, I watch all

654
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 1: on rhop, love you both now and I'm hooked on

655
00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 1: this podcast, looking forward to it every Monday. Thank you

656
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:20,360
Speaker 1: for them. Um. Oh, she said she is a robin.

657
00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:24,200
Speaker 1: She loves her thongs. Yeah. So, by the way, I

658
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 1: got the Chateau nine of them. Did you try? Do

659
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:30,000
Speaker 1: you like them? Did I like them? I wear them now?

660
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:33,879
Speaker 1: I just I want to wear underwear to bed, right yeah? Yeah, yeah,

661
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:36,400
Speaker 1: but I can't wear those to bed. No, No, I

662
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 1: think you can wear something comfortable to be yeah. Okay, yeah,

663
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:43,920
Speaker 1: especially when you because you buy yourself and I like it.

664
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:47,279
Speaker 1: It was the rather shady today, y'all, because she didn't

665
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 1: tell me I'll buy myself in the bed. Ain't nobody

666
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:55,080
Speaker 1: in there with me, Me and my pillows. Anyway, um,

667
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 1: she said, I want to share a super shadey thing

668
00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 1: that happened to me during Christmas. So on my Christmas

669
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 1: birthday party, my boss approaches me with an envelope and says,

670
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 1: this is so you know you are appreciated. Thank you

671
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:10,200
Speaker 1: for your hard work. So I opened the envelope and

672
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:14,439
Speaker 1: see clearly that it clearly is a regifted twenty dollar

673
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 1: gift card. And I said to her, am I missing

674
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:20,879
Speaker 1: something here. She goes, no, really, thank you for all

675
00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 1: you do. So I said, okay, no, biggie, she's a

676
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 1: little ratchet sometimes. Then I go to the cleaners to

677
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:30,680
Speaker 1: pick up a coat and the card declined. I thought

678
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:33,960
Speaker 1: it's okay, Maybe I have to activate it online. So

679
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,160
Speaker 1: I go to use it to pay a toll toll

680
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 1: ticket online, and it declined that re gift had already

681
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 1: been gifted. Yes, it gets better. So I go to

682
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:48,200
Speaker 1: check the balance on the card online and the last

683
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 1: transaction was in what she gave me a gift card

684
00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:59,720
Speaker 1: with zero dollars on it. That is that is nowhere

685
00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 1: near reasonable. That is one shady, it's a matter like

686
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 1: it's mean, it's mean, shade it ain't even nice shade.

687
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:08,160
Speaker 1: It's okay, can we just you know me, I'm like,

688
00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:13,760
Speaker 1: maybe the boss did not realize it was you stop

689
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 1: you think, but okay, I'm sorry if I'm the boss, Like,

690
00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 1: I'm so embarrassed, Like how embarrassing is that you give

691
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 1: a gift? Oh this is You're you're so appreciate, you

692
00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 1: give a gift and then it's there's nothing on it?

693
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:27,640
Speaker 1: Like so she knew there was nothing on it, but

694
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 1: what she didn't have anything? And she was like, you know,

695
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:31,879
Speaker 1: so a lot of times you get a gift card

696
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:33,239
Speaker 1: and you never use it, or you get a gift

697
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,279
Speaker 1: card and it just like sits around for six months.

698
00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:37,360
Speaker 1: That happens all the time. So she was thinking, this

699
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 1: girl will not figure out anytime soon that there's nothing

700
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 1: on this card. I mean, but if it's like a

701
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:45,680
Speaker 1: Visa gift card, I'm using it. If don't say any

702
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 1: gift card, well yeah, any gift but if it's like

703
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 1: you know, if it's store specific, then you know it's

704
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 1: less like that you're gonna use it. But if someone

705
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 1: gives you like clearly this was like a Visa gift

706
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:56,360
Speaker 1: card or something just a general card that had some

707
00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 1: money on it, right, So okay, so what does she

708
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:06,239
Speaker 1: I think the boss? First of all, it was regifted clearly, right,

709
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:08,880
Speaker 1: So whether there was something on it or not, it

710
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:11,400
Speaker 1: definitely was not a brand new card, right, So it

711
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 1: definitely was regifted. So that's shady number one alone. Like that,

712
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 1: you're I guess I'm shady. Okay. Robin regifts all the time, y'all.

713
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:25,520
Speaker 1: Just for the record, all the time, all the time. Okay,

714
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:28,759
Speaker 1: but okay, this is shade, this is this is mean.

715
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 1: Actually it's just it's just beyond shady's mean. Okay, but

716
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 1: is it one of those things? All right? You're like,

717
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 1: it's the last minute. You're it's a party, last minute,

718
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 1: You're like, oh my god, I gotta bring something, what

719
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 1: do I have? And you're like rumaging, you know, through

720
00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:44,680
Speaker 1: your cabinets in your drawers to see what you have.

721
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:47,360
Speaker 1: Let me tell you what you can do, because and

722
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 1: Robin is giving us this information quite sinctly. Is that

723
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:55,920
Speaker 1: the word because she doesn't sounds familiar to that, Yes,

724
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:57,759
Speaker 1: sounds very familiar. So what you could do in the

725
00:39:57,840 --> 00:39:59,560
Speaker 1: last minute, you can go online and you can get

726
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:03,680
Speaker 1: a gift card online. Very true, and yeah, print it

727
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 1: out or email it to the girl. That's very true. Shady. Okay,

728
00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:11,879
Speaker 1: what you got next? Okay, shady? But does she say

729
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 1: to her boss, hey, thank you so much for thinking

730
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:15,920
Speaker 1: of me in that gift card. But just want to

731
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:17,680
Speaker 1: let you know there was it was zero, there was

732
00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:20,440
Speaker 1: nothing on it. I wouldn't say anything. I know, I

733
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:24,920
Speaker 1: let it go. Would you quit? I wouldn't quit. I

734
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:27,759
Speaker 1: would just be like this bitch a right, bitch, ain't

735
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:32,399
Speaker 1: my friend or my boss. It's horrible. Oh, chock it up. Okay, Yes,

736
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:34,759
Speaker 1: it's shady to read gift a gift card that you

737
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:38,120
Speaker 1: clearly no, you didn't just purchase. You didn't buy it

738
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 1: for her, and you didn't bother to check. I would

739
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 1: I would check the bud if I was, I could

740
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:45,520
Speaker 1: gift you a gift card right now, Giselle, We'll give

741
00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:47,919
Speaker 1: it to me. Okay, well it doesn't have any money

742
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:53,320
Speaker 1: on it? Sure how much? I don't know what? I

743
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 1: want you to read the next scenario? Okay, Oh, we

744
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:01,080
Speaker 1: got one more and then were about the ounce um

745
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:03,720
Speaker 1: and we got and you know this is a segment,

746
00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 1: so we're gonna keep doing that. Oh yeah, this is

747
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 1: this is a segment. Is called Is it reasonable? Or

748
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 1: is it shady okay in this scenario, and it's some

749
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:15,440
Speaker 1: funny because these are scenarios that pretty much probably happened

750
00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:18,040
Speaker 1: quite frequently. Um, okay, So this from Lisa. So, my

751
00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:21,439
Speaker 1: best friend of thirty plus years, who I usually speak

752
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:24,640
Speaker 1: to at least once or twice a week. Apparently she

753
00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:28,840
Speaker 1: has a new boyfriend. I found this information out on Facebook.

754
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 1: Never said a word to me. The bitch never said

755
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:35,880
Speaker 1: a word to me, y'all. Then the bitch I'm ad living.

756
00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:38,640
Speaker 1: Then the bitch goes ghost for like the last three weeks.

757
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:43,160
Speaker 1: I'm getting mad, right. So then um, I text to

758
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:45,920
Speaker 1: see if we can talk this last weekend and never called.

759
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:50,680
Speaker 1: She didn't even answer when I tried calling her. Dumb

760
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 1: being a friend for a new dude, you know, for

761
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 1: a month's reasonable the new boyfriend. This is my thoughts.

762
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 1: Is the girl's ex? Oh lord, so you're getting real deep?

763
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:04,960
Speaker 1: Well I think so, like, why would you not tell

764
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 1: your girlfriend that you have a new dude in your life?

765
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:09,000
Speaker 1: Why would you Why would you not tell her that?

766
00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:11,600
Speaker 1: You're not telling her that because your girlfriend used to

767
00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:16,160
Speaker 1: have sex with that man? Okay, I mean it's like

768
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:20,440
Speaker 1: but no, see, I also feel like and I've I've

769
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:23,320
Speaker 1: seen this happen over like many many times, Like a

770
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 1: friend that has been single for a long time finally

771
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:30,000
Speaker 1: meets a guy and she's you know, hit over heels

772
00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 1: and you know, in this honeymoon phase and she literally

773
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:37,840
Speaker 1: just pieces out all of her friends. Yes, yes, that

774
00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:39,879
Speaker 1: has happened. I mean that happened so much. And that's

775
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:42,440
Speaker 1: so like messed up because clearly this person, these friends

776
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 1: have talked at least once or twice a week consistently,

777
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:48,560
Speaker 1: and it's like, damn, so were you only talking to me?

778
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:51,880
Speaker 1: Was our friendship only because you were single and you

779
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 1: had nothing else to do? So it's like a convenient friendship,

780
00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:58,320
Speaker 1: right a thirty years? Thirty years our best friend of

781
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 1: third years? So so this more to this? More to

782
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 1: it with this man, I don't think so, I don't

783
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:07,319
Speaker 1: think so. I promise you. This happens so much where

784
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:10,400
Speaker 1: women get with a guy or in a relationship with

785
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 1: someone and they totally just forget about all their friends.

786
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 1: And then you know, when you hear from your friend

787
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 1: again when they break up, and they're like, oh, what

788
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:25,080
Speaker 1: should I do? Yeah? So I think, I mean, I

789
00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:28,839
Speaker 1: think the friend with the new boyfriend is definitely shady. Um,

790
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 1: I do want to give her a slight benefit of

791
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:35,319
Speaker 1: the doubt and just say she's probably a little head

792
00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:38,920
Speaker 1: over heels and in the honeymoon phase and this happens

793
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:41,880
Speaker 1: quite frequently. Or she's embarrassed about him, like he probably

794
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:44,960
Speaker 1: doesn't have any tea, or he has like a couple

795
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:48,439
Speaker 1: of missing fingers. Something's wrong with him. No, he doesn't

796
00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:51,200
Speaker 1: want to bring him around. No, nothing's wrong with him.

797
00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:53,960
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I think she is like so

798
00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:57,040
Speaker 1: excited that she has a boyfriend and she's so into him,

799
00:43:57,239 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 1: and she has forgotten about her friends. I don't happy

800
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 1: that pressed, right, I think she's like super pressed. And

801
00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 1: then I promise you when when they break up, she's

802
00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 1: gonna be talking to her friend every week again, Yes, okay, listen,

803
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:11,440
Speaker 1: And you shouldn't do that. Girlfriend shouldn't know. And that's

804
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:13,239
Speaker 1: the thing, Like that's the point, Like, you shouldn't do that.

805
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 1: But I do think that if you've been best friends

806
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:20,880
Speaker 1: for thirty years, that um deserves. I know she's not

807
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:23,600
Speaker 1: quite picking up your phone calls or whatever because she's

808
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:25,799
Speaker 1: so head overheels, but so at least now text her

809
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 1: and tell you how you feel and say, listen, you know,

810
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 1: I mean it was kind of shady. She had to

811
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:33,240
Speaker 1: find out that the woman has a new boyfriend on Facebook.

812
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:36,360
Speaker 1: That's real shady. Yeah, yeah, that's really shady. Like you

813
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:40,480
Speaker 1: gotta tell her how you feel. I always think like relationships, um,

814
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:44,719
Speaker 1: issues with relationships happen because of communication problems. You know,

815
00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:49,800
Speaker 1: So as her friend, you know whether she gets offended

816
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 1: or not or you know, denies it or not. I

817
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:56,279
Speaker 1: think it's on you, Lisa, to text her because at

818
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:57,759
Speaker 1: this point she's not pick up your calls and tell

819
00:44:57,840 --> 00:45:00,560
Speaker 1: her what you've noticed, how you feel, know how it's

820
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:03,279
Speaker 1: making you feel, and you know, let her take it

821
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 1: from there and put the ball in her court. And no,

822
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 1: dick is worth losing your girlfriend's. No, it's not. Because

823
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 1: they come and go. The penises come and go. They

824
00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 1: come and go, so out here, you know, in one

825
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:15,920
Speaker 1: minute out the next. Yes, when you find a new

826
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:18,560
Speaker 1: man or a new partner or a new interest, do

827
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:23,320
Speaker 1: not forget your friends. Different shapes inside penis is a

828
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 1: here today, gone to mall. So definitely treat your girlfriends

829
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 1: with respect and like let them know, let him know

830
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:32,839
Speaker 1: you got a new penis in your life. Right, that's

831
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:35,720
Speaker 1: that's the that's the I feel like it's more shady

832
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 1: that she didn't tell her then the fact that she's

833
00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:42,320
Speaker 1: just you know, ghosts a little been ghosts lately. The

834
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Speaker 1: fact that she has not told her it's like really strange.

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Speaker 1: I don't like. But clearly it's just like a whirlwind relationship.

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Speaker 1: Is it? Whirlwind? I need to see I mean, we

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Speaker 1: need to see more of course, to like really give

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Speaker 1: like yeah next time since like screenshot, yes, you know,

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Speaker 1: give us a little more so we can really dissect

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Speaker 1: the situation. But from me, I just think your friend

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Speaker 1: is just caught up in the matrix with this man

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Speaker 1: and it's so excited and forgot about her friends and

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Speaker 1: that's not okay. But you need to communicate with her

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Speaker 1: and tell her how you feel. And don't be shocked

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Speaker 1: if that man is your ex boyfriend. Oh god, all right,

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