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Speaker 1: Okay, guys, the High and Mighty Tour is about to begin.

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Speaker 1: Tour starts on February thirteenth, everybody, DC, I will see

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Speaker 1: you there to jump things off. February fourteenth, Atlantic City,

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Speaker 1: which I just added, Madison, Wisconsin, Milwaukee, Wisconsin, Detroit, Michigan, Cleveland, Columbus,

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Speaker 1: and Cincinnati, Ohio, Denver, Colorado, Portland, Maine, Providence, Rhode Island, Springfield, Massachusetts.

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Speaker 1: April third, which is in Rohnert Park, California. That has

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Speaker 1: Kansas City, Missouri, Saint Louis, Missouri, Minneapolis, Minnesota, Nashville, Tennessee, Charlotte,

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Speaker 1: North Carolina, Durham, North Carolina. May sixth, I'm doing Netflix

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Speaker 1: as a Joke festival. I will be in Los Angeles.

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Speaker 1: That is a new announcement. Saratoga, California, Monterey, California, Modesto, California,

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Speaker 1: and port Chester, New York, Boston, Massachusetts, Portland, Ore and Seattle, Washington.

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Speaker 1: I will be touring from February through June. Go to

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Speaker 1: Chelseahandler dot com for tickets if you want to come

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Speaker 1: see me perform. I will be on the High and

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Speaker 1: Mighty tour. Hi Catherine, Welcome to a minnisode. Welcome to

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Speaker 1: a Dear Chelsea Minichow.

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Speaker 2: It's actually very exciting.

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Speaker 3: We're doing these on video now because we're on Netflix.

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Speaker 2: Hi Netflix, Hello, Hi Netflix.

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Speaker 1: No, I'll see you at the Netflix is a joke

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Speaker 1: festival on the sixth of May, and.

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Speaker 3: People gonna get tickets to that right on Chelsea Handler

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Speaker 3: dot com.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the best place to get tickets for my show

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Speaker 1: is Chelseahandler dot com, so you don't get gouged by ticketmaster.

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Speaker 2: Okay, perfect.

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Speaker 3: Well I've got some follow ups from a couple previous callers.

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Speaker 3: So one is from our Haileyloo Richardson episode she was

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Speaker 3: dating online and kind of lived in a small town

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Speaker 3: more opportunity. The advice and kind of like dip your

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Speaker 2: People, and like the cities because you can always travel

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Speaker 3: So Lauren says, I just wanted to send an update

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Speaker 2: May first.

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Speaker 3: I just wanted to say thanks again for the awesome

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Speaker 3: her great advice. I see that Chelsea has a show

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Speaker 3: in Saint Louis on April twenty fourth. I plan to

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Speaker 3: attend with friends and can't wait. Thank you, Lauren.

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Speaker 4: Oh great, that's exciting. And she moved. Yes, love it,

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Speaker 3: Yes, you're always encouraging people to take big moves, and

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Speaker 2: When people do.

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Speaker 4: I'm always encouraging people to move. Yeah, that really changes

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Speaker 3: It does it?

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 3: Somebody was saying this was Caleb Heron, who I don't

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Speaker 2: He's an amazing, hilarious comic. But he was saying, he's

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Speaker 3: He was living in la He's like, I felt like

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Speaker 2: So he still travels here.

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Speaker 3: A lot, but he moved to like Missouri and it's

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Speaker 4: I feel like Nikki lives in Saint Louis, Missouri. NICKI

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Speaker 3: Our next follow up is from Ethan. He'd called in

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Speaker 3: So our caller today is Marie, and she's having some

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Speaker 3: I'm dreading the way they'll find out Save the dates

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Speaker 3: Women finding out they're the only ones not invited because

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Speaker 3: they didn't get one. So my question is it better

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Speaker 3: And in a situation where it feels like I'm too

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Speaker 3: enough to actually invite them, You're the queen of sisterhood

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Speaker 3: and what it means to be honest and a good friend.

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Speaker 2: So I love your opinion.

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Speaker 4: Marie Hi, Marie Hi, Hi, You're so cute.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, thank you.

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Speaker 4: You're welcome to How many of them?

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Speaker 5: So you're cute?

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Speaker 4: How many of the girls did you?

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Speaker 1: Out of the twenty girls, were you not able to

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Speaker 5: Just horriful because I feel like if it was a

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Speaker 5: I would just let it like play out naturally, but

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and there's no way to include them even without

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Speaker 5: Not. Really, I've just compromised so much with my fiance,

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Speaker 5: I just feel like, again, I'm like confident in the

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Speaker 1: No, I definitely think three is a tricky number to

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Speaker 1: Like we have a limit, and we have limited funds,

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Speaker 1: you know, and that makes it clear that they're not

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Speaker 1: and you can also say, I know you're going to understand.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, one of them has. And I think, like what

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Speaker 5: So I think that's like playing in my mind a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know, but but I think it's

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Speaker 4: Listen, your friendship is very meaningful to me.

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Speaker 1: I don't want you to take this as a sign

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I love the idea of sending them something,

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Speaker 3: it's like, really, there's a strict number.

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Speaker 5: I like it. I mean, I yeah, I had a

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Speaker 5: But yeah, something felt wrong about.

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Speaker 5: It just like happened, especially because we are so active

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Speaker 3: So you might also think about the girls that are invited,

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Speaker 4: I love it. Well, thank you. Yeah, okay, the.

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Speaker 5: Numbers small, so it's weird. I hate that the numbers three.

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Speaker 4: I don't like that either, So that's what's bumping me.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, and make sure you put that at the

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 1: This is just one of the things that I'm not

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Speaker 5: Unless people say no, then they can be on the

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Speaker 5: second tier. But that feels.

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Speaker 2: Worse, right yeah right, yeah, yeah, I don't like this.

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Speaker 4: Well, you're getting married. Try and focus on the positive.

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Speaker 2: I gues, true, very true.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, you know, okay, thanks for calling so

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Speaker 4: much fun.

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Speaker 2: Bye bye bye. All right, Well that's our minisode for today, Chelsea.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I love it. Wonderful, wonderful.

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Speaker 1: Okay, guys, the High and Mighty Tour is about to begin.

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Speaker 1: I'm in DC February thirteenth. February fourteenth Atlantic City which

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Speaker 1: April tenth is Chicago. I'll be at the Chicago Theater

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Speaker 1: Netflix as a joke festival. I will be in Los Angeles.

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Speaker 1: That is a new announcement. And May fifteenth Saratoga, California.

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Speaker 1: May sixteenth Monterey, California. May seventeenth Modesto, California.

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Speaker 4: And then June fourth Portchester, New York.

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Speaker 1: June fifth is Boston, mass And June twelfth is Portland, Oregon.

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