1
00:00:01,800 --> 00:00:03,519
Speaker 1: Get your head us together, and we're going to start

2
00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:04,000
Speaker 1: to party.

3
00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:04,920
Speaker 2: Start.

4
00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:13,120
Speaker 1: I'm reading a party, the Elvis Duran After Party.

5
00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:17,200
Speaker 2: It is the after Party podcast. The party's done. This

6
00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:19,680
Speaker 2: is after the party. Therefore, over here, over there in

7
00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:22,720
Speaker 2: the Serial Killers podcast room is Scotty b. Look at that,

8
00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:25,720
Speaker 2: Look at my de fine, thank you? Uh. And here's

9
00:00:25,880 --> 00:00:30,920
Speaker 2: Gandhi and Scary, and I see Garrett, and I see Danielle,

10
00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:33,360
Speaker 2: and there's Nate.

11
00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:34,160
Speaker 3: Hello there.

12
00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:36,680
Speaker 2: Well hold it, so this get going. You want to

13
00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:39,360
Speaker 2: talk about last night? What happened? GONDI you actually got

14
00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:43,040
Speaker 2: to feel like, yes, a person who'd been stood up

15
00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:43,480
Speaker 2: on a date.

16
00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:45,600
Speaker 4: I was a person who was stood up on a date. No,

17
00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:47,360
Speaker 4: you weren't for so long.

18
00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:49,320
Speaker 2: Just sitting around thirteen minutes late.

19
00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:52,440
Speaker 4: To my Elvis said hey, let's meet and have a

20
00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:54,280
Speaker 4: drink and a snack. Yes, I was starving, had a

21
00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:56,160
Speaker 4: really long day. So I hopped on a train and

22
00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:58,040
Speaker 4: I went to the location. I was actually early to

23
00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:00,319
Speaker 4: be fair like ten to fifteen minutes, and I get

24
00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:01,640
Speaker 4: a text from him saying he was going to be

25
00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:04,800
Speaker 4: late because his Uber driver went the wrong way and

26
00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:06,440
Speaker 4: they were arguing about which way to get there, and

27
00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:09,080
Speaker 4: you know sometimes getting a Times Square could take forever.

28
00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:13,759
Speaker 2: Times Square is the center of Manhattan other than Central Park.

29
00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,480
Speaker 2: It's impossible to miss Time Square. I said, take me

30
00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:21,679
Speaker 2: to Times Square and he starts going south from downtown

31
00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:23,720
Speaker 2: and it's an argument with an Uber. Do you ever

32
00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:25,120
Speaker 2: have arguments with your drivers?

33
00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:27,280
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, absolutely Yeah.

34
00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:29,479
Speaker 5: That resulted in a one star rating for me. So

35
00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:33,000
Speaker 5: I don't get into arguments anymore with Uber drivers.

36
00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:35,360
Speaker 2: So okay, So you're sitting there in this very busy place.

37
00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:36,280
Speaker 2: Everyone else had a date.

38
00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:39,120
Speaker 4: Yes, everyone had dates. There were like people from business

39
00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:42,399
Speaker 4: meetings all hanging out. The waiter asked me multiple times,

40
00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:45,280
Speaker 4: is someone actually coming? I said, yes, they are. I

41
00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:47,840
Speaker 4: will order food. Okay. So I finally ordered a little

42
00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:49,720
Speaker 4: appetizer and then I was texting him like, hey, you

43
00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:51,360
Speaker 4: want any food. I sent a picture of the menu,

44
00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:54,120
Speaker 4: ordered a flatbread, and then he did show up, and

45
00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:56,280
Speaker 4: I think the waiter was like, oh, she's not lying,

46
00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:58,120
Speaker 4: but I can see in the looks there were two

47
00:01:58,120 --> 00:01:59,960
Speaker 4: glasses of water on the table and only one meat.

48
00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:01,160
Speaker 4: Now I know what it feels like.

49
00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:06,880
Speaker 3: He feels like to be alone, right, Totally.

50
00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:08,000
Speaker 4: Different if I shut up alone and there was only

51
00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:09,760
Speaker 4: one glass of water sitting on the table, that's a

52
00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:12,400
Speaker 4: totally different story. But when there are two and that

53
00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:15,760
Speaker 4: second glass just sits there forever, having no sip taken,

54
00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:17,080
Speaker 4: you look like a loser.

55
00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:21,519
Speaker 2: So question, has anyone on the panel ever been stood up?

56
00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:24,120
Speaker 2: And I had to make a decision, Well, do I

57
00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:27,680
Speaker 2: just eat a little something to leave or should I stay?

58
00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:29,360
Speaker 2: Nate has I'm sure?

59
00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:34,320
Speaker 3: I think yes. I think that happened once, and I

60
00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:35,440
Speaker 3: think what was his name?

61
00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:40,240
Speaker 6: Very funny, and I think she was just running so

62
00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:43,480
Speaker 6: late that I just said, I'm not waiting. You know,

63
00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:47,520
Speaker 6: I respect myself way too much for somebody else to

64
00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:48,520
Speaker 6: waste my time.

65
00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:50,640
Speaker 2: Okay, well, let's talk about how you did that to

66
00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:55,120
Speaker 2: me one time or twice. We would go to lunch

67
00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:58,040
Speaker 2: at Odeon all the time, and this is back when

68
00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:00,320
Speaker 2: our office was only maybe seven blah.

69
00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:01,560
Speaker 6: Oh, that did happen once?

70
00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:05,200
Speaker 2: Oh I sat there for forty minutes.

71
00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:09,720
Speaker 3: Waiting for you, and then I show up. How many

72
00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:10,440
Speaker 3: glasses of wine?

73
00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:13,880
Speaker 2: And you guys getting tanked up? Man, I'm like, I'm

74
00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:16,040
Speaker 2: just sitting there. Luckily I know people there, Luckily they

75
00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:17,000
Speaker 2: have lots of wine.

76
00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:19,600
Speaker 3: Well that I knew in the back of my head.

77
00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:21,360
Speaker 2: The fact that, but you never said I'm running late.

78
00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:22,560
Speaker 2: You never said them on my way you.

79
00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:26,000
Speaker 6: Say at one point, and then I didn't respond for

80
00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:28,080
Speaker 6: like another thirty minutes because I was busy doing something.

81
00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:30,280
Speaker 3: But you know what that was. It made me feel

82
00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:31,120
Speaker 3: I stood you up.

83
00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:33,440
Speaker 2: Well, so why would I sit there and waste my

84
00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:36,320
Speaker 2: time if you exactly okay, I'm done.

85
00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:42,240
Speaker 5: Okay, keeping that one. I'm a story this right here.

86
00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:45,880
Speaker 5: You guys know each other, and it was it was

87
00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:48,600
Speaker 5: just like a man date. You know, that's different. I

88
00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:51,040
Speaker 5: got stood up on an actual date years ago when

89
00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:53,280
Speaker 5: I was on match dot com. I was supposed to

90
00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:56,119
Speaker 5: meet this woman at the Calico Kitchen on Root forty six.

91
00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:59,560
Speaker 5: I didn't Did you drown even know if it's still there?

92
00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:00,440
Speaker 3: The Calico Kitchen.

93
00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:03,120
Speaker 5: It was like a forty five minutes when hour drive

94
00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:05,960
Speaker 5: from where I was living in Brooklyn at the time,

95
00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:09,440
Speaker 5: And then she didn't show up, So I wasted all

96
00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:12,120
Speaker 5: that gas and tolls and I'm sitting there like a

97
00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:13,040
Speaker 5: freaking putts.

98
00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:16,159
Speaker 2: Do you think she did show up and she saw

99
00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:18,479
Speaker 2: you and decided she would leave.

100
00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:22,800
Speaker 5: You know, it was before the days of social media

101
00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:24,599
Speaker 5: and even it was like the dawn of the Internet.

102
00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:29,880
Speaker 2: So it before you knew doctor fat loss away before?

103
00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:31,400
Speaker 4: Wait, how did you meet her then?

104
00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:35,400
Speaker 5: On the request line? On the request line? Match dot

105
00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:36,760
Speaker 5: com date? It was a match dot com date?

106
00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:38,200
Speaker 4: Yes, Oh, so she could have seen a picture?

107
00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:41,120
Speaker 5: She might, Yes she did, But maybe I was a

108
00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:43,039
Speaker 5: little dishonest with my pictures.

109
00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:44,920
Speaker 4: Was that first quarter scary and fourth showed up?

110
00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:48,359
Speaker 3: Yeah? Back then I wasn't. I did a little doctoring

111
00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:53,840
Speaker 3: of my pictures before it's time. No, no, no, no, it

112
00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:56,600
Speaker 3: was match dot com. Yeah, but everyone else I met

113
00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:58,280
Speaker 3: on the request did you stay in order food?

114
00:04:58,920 --> 00:04:59,000
Speaker 1: No?

115
00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:01,119
Speaker 3: I left, But it was it was such a waste

116
00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:04,000
Speaker 3: of my time. It was terrible. It was. It was bad.

117
00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:06,040
Speaker 3: I hated. I hated my life. At that point, I'm like,

118
00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:07,320
Speaker 3: should I ever even do this again?

119
00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:08,320
Speaker 2: Wow?

120
00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:11,840
Speaker 3: Did you know he just went to the Aol chat

121
00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:12,520
Speaker 3: rooms after that?

122
00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:17,760
Speaker 4: We all know someone here who went on a date

123
00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:20,680
Speaker 4: they'd met on one of the apps. Her pictures might

124
00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:23,000
Speaker 4: have been a little nicer looking than her in person.

125
00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:25,440
Speaker 4: She goes to the date. They had one glass of wine.

126
00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:26,880
Speaker 4: The guy said he was going to the bathroom, and

127
00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:30,040
Speaker 4: he left. She sat there for another forty minutes waiting

128
00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:30,560
Speaker 4: for him to come.

129
00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:30,720
Speaker 1: Back.

130
00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:31,360
Speaker 2: I see that suck.

131
00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:32,800
Speaker 4: Forty minutes. That's crazy.

132
00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:34,000
Speaker 3: Yety minutes.

133
00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:38,680
Speaker 2: He had some fiber issues exactly, I mean forty minutes.

134
00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:39,239
Speaker 2: I wouldn't.

135
00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:43,040
Speaker 4: It's also so rude. Forty minutes is too nate.

136
00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:47,599
Speaker 6: Yeah, I would never make someone wait forty minutes.

137
00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:49,520
Speaker 2: Well he did. He made me wait forty minutes. But

138
00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:51,280
Speaker 2: I was on my sixteenth class of wine.

139
00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:51,880
Speaker 3: Well that's okay.

140
00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:54,160
Speaker 4: Is there any way to resolve that issue between the two, No.

141
00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:55,680
Speaker 2: I just want to It's something I would be bitching

142
00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:56,760
Speaker 2: ammonia about forevermore.

143
00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:01,960
Speaker 3: It's it's so easy to find that.

144
00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:03,520
Speaker 2: Get close to the microphone.

145
00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:05,080
Speaker 3: You're sorry, you can't.

146
00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:06,880
Speaker 5: Help but feel dejected because it's like, you know what

147
00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:10,240
Speaker 5: this person doesn't value, doesn't value my time.

148
00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:12,200
Speaker 2: Exactly, You did not value my time. Not that this

149
00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:12,680
Speaker 2: is about me.

150
00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:15,000
Speaker 3: So, Danielle, you've never been stood up on a dat. No.

151
00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:20,320
Speaker 2: Do you have any friends who are chronically late?

152
00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:26,080
Speaker 4: Yes, my god, yes we know somebody. We know somebody,

153
00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:28,159
Speaker 4: and I have friends. All of my friends in Miami

154
00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:31,240
Speaker 4: are chronically late to everything, right, they'll say, and now

155
00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:32,960
Speaker 4: thank god, because you can say, I don't believe you

156
00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:34,360
Speaker 4: dropped me a pin? Are you right?

157
00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:37,200
Speaker 6: We were waiting for a reservation. There was a group

158
00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:41,160
Speaker 6: of us and Ghani goes my friend's usually late, and

159
00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:45,240
Speaker 6: we missed our reservation. And then finally it was what

160
00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:47,919
Speaker 6: the perpetual I'm fifteen minutes away. Gani is on the

161
00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:51,640
Speaker 6: phone and says, drop me a pin right now where

162
00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:53,279
Speaker 6: you're at, and she she did.

163
00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:55,480
Speaker 3: That was the night of poppy Stick and we missed

164
00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:59,600
Speaker 3: a freaking res that was that was far away? Was she?

165
00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:00,200
Speaker 5: Oh?

166
00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:02,080
Speaker 4: I think at that point she was about thirty minutes

167
00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:04,440
Speaker 4: when she dropped the pin. But she had been saying

168
00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:06,839
Speaker 4: ten minutes, fifteen minutes, ten minutes, fifty minutes for a while.

169
00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:09,640
Speaker 4: So I don't lie to me. I will ask for

170
00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:10,000
Speaker 4: the pin.

171
00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:13,400
Speaker 2: Well. I had a friend who also worked with who

172
00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:16,280
Speaker 2: is no longer in my life. I'm on my way,

173
00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:19,440
Speaker 2: I'm almost there. Hadn't even let the house shop. I

174
00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:23,760
Speaker 2: hate that, and that happened all the time. I don't

175
00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:27,680
Speaker 2: know why people just don't fix that, that tardiness thing,

176
00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:29,000
Speaker 2: or at least.

177
00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:31,080
Speaker 4: Be honest about it. I haven't left the house yet. Cool,

178
00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:33,080
Speaker 4: So now I can adjust my plans and not stand

179
00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:34,720
Speaker 4: here like an ass waiting on you.

180
00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:38,120
Speaker 2: How short sighted it is? It to say I'm there

181
00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:39,800
Speaker 2: in five minutes, and you you know for a fact

182
00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:41,800
Speaker 2: it's gonna be thirty minutes. Yea, why would you? I mean,

183
00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:43,840
Speaker 2: you're's gonna it's gonna make them twice as many.

184
00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:46,160
Speaker 5: Well, we know somebody who if something starts at ten o'clock,

185
00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:48,280
Speaker 5: we have to tell them, oh no, eight thirty, so

186
00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:50,280
Speaker 5: that they get there on time at ten o'clock.

187
00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:53,640
Speaker 3: That's how bad it is. Difference. Oh, we know, Ghanhi

188
00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:55,040
Speaker 3: knows what I'm talking about that.

189
00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:57,000
Speaker 2: But what happens if they actually that and I go,

190
00:07:57,040 --> 00:07:58,360
Speaker 2: you know what, tonight, I'm gonna be on time.

191
00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:00,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, well they'll sit there like Gandhi did, wait for.

192
00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:02,760
Speaker 7: You exactly see for me, if I'm on time, I'm late.

193
00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:05,200
Speaker 7: I'm always the first guy at the party, always, and

194
00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:06,400
Speaker 7: it pisses people off sometimes.

195
00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:07,480
Speaker 2: Don't be the first of the party.

196
00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:10,480
Speaker 3: Don't be the first around the block at a la.

197
00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:12,200
Speaker 2: She used to get so mad at me. Okay, the

198
00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:16,200
Speaker 2: party starts at seven, let's be start seven. But no, no, no, no, no,

199
00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:19,360
Speaker 2: no no no, you don't be there's the earliest.

200
00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:21,520
Speaker 4: Unless it's a surprise party, you have to give it

201
00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:23,320
Speaker 4: a few show up early to.

202
00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:26,640
Speaker 5: Help him set up No, Scotty was the first person

203
00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:29,040
Speaker 5: at your house last summer, and it was like, you're

204
00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:30,920
Speaker 5: still setting up and he's sitting on a chair, just

205
00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:32,439
Speaker 5: like watching everybody set up.

206
00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:34,319
Speaker 2: But I was on time to that point. I mean,

207
00:08:34,720 --> 00:08:36,080
Speaker 2: I'm not having that party until July.

208
00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:40,200
Speaker 3: He's already at my house, chilling, Scotty.

209
00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:41,920
Speaker 2: That was a good line.

210
00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:43,400
Speaker 1: All right.

211
00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:49,719
Speaker 2: So today's podcast was about timeliness being prompt. Remember, you

212
00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:53,560
Speaker 2: lose points when you're late constantly. That's right, unless you

213
00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:54,360
Speaker 2: come up with a big lie.

214
00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:55,760
Speaker 3: And apparently if you're early too.

215
00:08:56,640 --> 00:08:59,400
Speaker 7: I would have never date somebody that's late ever. Wow,

216
00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:00,640
Speaker 7: I'll be done with them immediately.

217
00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:01,280
Speaker 3: Wow.

218
00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:02,840
Speaker 7: Punctuality is very important to me.

219
00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:03,760
Speaker 4: That's your line.

220
00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:05,360
Speaker 7: I'm just saying it.

221
00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:08,080
Speaker 3: Go before that.

222
00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:10,480
Speaker 7: But no, punctuality is very like at the first you're

223
00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:12,760
Speaker 7: late to the first date, that's a huge red flag

224
00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:13,000
Speaker 7: for me.

225
00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:14,839
Speaker 2: I got you.

226
00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:19,680
Speaker 7: Unless they're hot, well, I wouldn't ate anybody but hot.

227
00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:24,360
Speaker 3: Oh please, I've seen a few of those.

228
00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:30,040
Speaker 2: All Right, we're done. The after Party podcast is done.

229
00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:34,120
Speaker 1: Piece the Elvis Terran After Party