Speaker 1: Okay, we just need to apologize right now for taking
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Sorry, sorry, yeah yeah.
Speaker 1: All the old ones are going viral, but the new
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Speaker 4: Second date of date.
Speaker 5: The number one reason that people email, call, or try
Speaker 5: and get in contact with the show is obviously feet picks,
Speaker 5: and both Jose and Alexis have given theirs out countless times.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, wait, people want Jose's feet picks.
Speaker 3: I've seen you in foot PLoP. I'm sorry, Love, I
Speaker 3: just some people.
Speaker 4: It's like how some people enjoy horror movies. You know,
Speaker 4: same deal.
Speaker 5: But the second most common reason people reach out to
Speaker 5: us is to get another date when someone's blowing you off.
Speaker 5: And while our listener Nick says he would like another date,
Speaker 5: there's something even more important that he wants to do,
Speaker 5: and that's to say, I'm sorry, So Nick, welcome to
Speaker 5: the show. I'm sorry that you have to call it.
Speaker 5: So I'd like to apologize. First, you must be at
Speaker 5: a super low point in your life. If you're reaching
Speaker 5: out to this show.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie it's not good.
Speaker 3: But that's a powerful phrase. I'm sorry, you know, people
Speaker 3: don't say it enough. So already I feel like you're
Speaker 3: in a good place.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so tell us about the woman that you'd like
Speaker 5: to apologize too.
Speaker 4: What's her name?
Speaker 2: Her name is Alicia?
Speaker 3: Alicia?
Speaker 1: Okay, and I'm guessing you met her on a dating
Speaker 1: app just.
Speaker 2: To stab in theod guess a psychic Okay, Brooke.
Speaker 4: What did they do for their date?
Speaker 2: I don't know, good dinner.
Speaker 5: We don't even need to talk to you, Nick, We're
Speaker 5: just gonna ask what she thinks.
Speaker 4: Happy her brooks?
Speaker 1: No, I do always like to know, like what it
Speaker 1: was about her that stood out to you.
Speaker 3: You know, what did you like about Alicia?
Speaker 2: She's definitely cute, fatigue, she got this beautiful smile and
Speaker 2: so yeah, we got to chatting, and that's where it
Speaker 2: really like kicked in because we were talking for a
Speaker 2: little over a week and we were just vibing. Right.
Speaker 5: Oh, so the chatting actually made things better for you.
Speaker 4: I don't have that experience.
Speaker 3: You just like go with the date, even though the
Speaker 3: conversation gets worse.
Speaker 5: I'm just saying as soon as I start talking, that's
Speaker 5: where things start to.
Speaker 4: Go down hill. But for Nick, apparently, what's the opposite way?
Speaker 4: Good for you?
Speaker 2: Man?
Speaker 3: Maybe he should take your job.
Speaker 2: It was the chatting that was great. When we got
Speaker 2: to the talking is where I think I screwed it up.
Speaker 3: Okay, you're talking about in person.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So what happened on the date?
Speaker 2: You know what. It didn't happen on the date. It
Speaker 2: happened before the date. I got two parking tickets that day,
Speaker 2: like back to back, and then we're going out that
Speaker 2: night and I'm just I was kind of pissed off.
Speaker 3: Yeah, franky Nick was walking into the date.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I was like, I don't know, I had
Speaker 2: this rapport with her and I just felt maybe a
Speaker 2: little too comfortable because I wasn't first date mode anymore.
Speaker 2: I was just ready. I just had to like vent
Speaker 2: and I did it, and I complained and yeah, did
Speaker 2: you have to.
Speaker 4: Drive to the date and park again because you're.
Speaker 3: Worried about his parking decisions?
Speaker 2: Definitely second guessing every time I leave that card out.
Speaker 1: So are you saying, like, I mean, you guys are
Speaker 1: sitting down at dinner in the entire time, that's all
Speaker 1: you're talking.
Speaker 3: About or did you launch in right from the beginning, Like.
Speaker 2: I did launch in from the beginning, and I could
Speaker 2: tell it was a mood killer, and so I tried
Speaker 2: to pivot. I tried to make some jokes. They didn't land.
Speaker 2: She was like looking at her phone a lot, Like
Speaker 2: got that when it's just going to be over.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's hard to go into a date and
Speaker 1: the first thing you get is negative, like you wanted
Speaker 1: to get to ask about you, not hear about them
Speaker 1: complain about their.
Speaker 5: Lives exactly, Like this is that why you want to
Speaker 5: apologize to Alicia?
Speaker 4: Because you complained?
Speaker 1: Wow?
Speaker 2: Uh yeah, what I did something? I'm I'm so embarrassed
Speaker 2: to even tell you guys this. I'm always going to
Speaker 2: regret this. I said, you know what, if this is
Speaker 2: going to be our last date and I'm going to
Speaker 2: enjoy everything that I paid for, what does that mean?
Speaker 2: I reached across the table, I grabbed Margarita, and I
Speaker 2: just chugged it in front of her.
Speaker 1: Why you like chugged her Margarita, Well, it's because.
Speaker 5: She was on her phone not paying attention to you.
Speaker 2: Like I knew that I came in negative, but I
Speaker 2: felt like she was kind of being a little bit
Speaker 2: of it. Can I say anyway.
Speaker 3: If you ever start with can I say, just don't
Speaker 3: say it?
Speaker 2: But you know, she said, like what are you doing?
Speaker 2: Then I said, I can tell you're not interested. Let's
Speaker 2: just call it what it is, like, what are you
Speaker 2: gonna eat the rest of my salad? And and yeah
Speaker 2: you did?
Speaker 3: Huh just really chewing. Theres so much chewing on that
Speaker 3: salad you did.
Speaker 2: There's nothing so sad as just like angry salad eating.
Speaker 4: You really did.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean she got off and left, but I
Speaker 2: used to goat there and ate the damn salad.
Speaker 3: Man, I think we should call her. Girls are into
Speaker 3: guys that are jerks. I think you need to chalk
Speaker 3: this up as a really big lesson. But like, that's crazy.
Speaker 5: He said that he wanted to say sorry. Now it's
Speaker 5: making a whole lot more sense.
Speaker 2: Why.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he doesn't expect to date here. He just wants
Speaker 4: to say, look, I'm sorry you caught me in a
Speaker 4: bad moment.
Speaker 1: Even if you would have done it without the line
Speaker 1: like that I paid for.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you guys are like, that's not a conversation you
Speaker 5: should have to after marriage for sure.
Speaker 4: So have you even tried. Have you tried to apologize
Speaker 4: just by yourself yet?
Speaker 2: Nick? Oh? Yeah, she blocked me right, and I know
Speaker 2: I was terrible, and I really do just I do
Speaker 2: just want to apologize, but also like, I've been on
Speaker 2: three dates since then, and nothing even starts to compare
Speaker 2: to what we kind of had when you know before
Speaker 2: that night.
Speaker 1: Yeah, did you drink all those dates alcoholic beverage?
Speaker 2: I listen. I'm not a fast learner, but some lessons
Speaker 2: are learned quickly, and that's why I will do it again.
Speaker 3: We're about growth.
Speaker 4: It's all about growth. I was just going to say,
Speaker 4: you fell on your sword.
Speaker 5: You admitted you're wrong, so let's right, you're wrong, and uh,
Speaker 5: I'll be here for you.
Speaker 2: Thank you.
Speaker 4: I like when Jose does my job. We're gonna play
Speaker 4: you know, I love it. I love it.
Speaker 5: We're gonna do a second date update next because of
Speaker 5: everything Jose said. Yeah, a lot of people believe in
Speaker 5: the idea of love at first sight, love it first kiss. Okay,
Speaker 5: oh yeah, on this show, we're hoping for love at
Speaker 5: first apology.
Speaker 4: Nick blew it big time on his first date. Where
Speaker 4: did he go the most wrong?
Speaker 5: Was it when he came in hot and vented about
Speaker 5: the two parking tickets that he got earlier that day
Speaker 5: or was it when he reached across the table, grabbed
Speaker 5: her margarita and gulped it down in front of her
Speaker 5: in frustration, cringe.
Speaker 4: Ate her salad as she got up and walked away.
Speaker 4: Imagine yelling at her with a mouthful. Oh yeah, well
Speaker 4: take this.
Speaker 5: So Nick knows he messed up and badly wants to
Speaker 5: apologize to see if there's any chance for him to
Speaker 5: get another date and Brooke, are there any hurtful things
Speaker 5: that you would like to say to him to make
Speaker 5: him feel worse before we do this, because that's kind
Speaker 5: of been the trend lately.
Speaker 3: I know, Matt that you're blaming it.
Speaker 4: His name is nickister.
Speaker 3: I met Nick. You can interchange a Mat and a Nick.
Speaker 1: I mean anyway, Wow, okay, listen, Nick, I do think
Speaker 1: that you need to be very careful in this phone
Speaker 1: call that you do not have any big emotion, because
Speaker 1: you have to show her if you're going to apologize
Speaker 1: that you can't actually control your emotions.
Speaker 2: No, I totally agree with you. I mean, I'm in
Speaker 2: a much calmer place today. I don't no barking tickets today.
Speaker 2: Nothing's going on.
Speaker 4: I mean, the day is early, Ben. You don't know
Speaker 4: how this is going to go? All right, Kyle, Okay, whatever, Tim,
Speaker 4: let's just do this. I'm just messing around.
Speaker 2: Nick.
Speaker 5: We're going to call Alicia hopefully let you do your
Speaker 5: apology and maybe get you a second date.
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you guys should throw off a hail Mary
Speaker 2: at the end there, but that'd be amazing.
Speaker 3: You took a margarita from a woman. I don't.
Speaker 4: We're going to do our best. Here we go. I'm
Speaker 4: a dialar number right now. Hello, Hey, is this Alicia?
Speaker 3: She sounds so nice, she does.
Speaker 5: I hope we don't ruin your day with this, but
Speaker 5: we're calling from a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 5: in the Morning.
Speaker 3: Okay, Hi, Alicia, Oka, not ruined yet.
Speaker 6: Hill.
Speaker 3: I'm feeling really bad about what we're going to do here.
Speaker 5: We want to do something a little bit awkward with
Speaker 5: you called a second date update.
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay. The idea is.
Speaker 5: We help our listeners who've gone out on a bad
Speaker 5: date recently try and redeem themselves and hopefully get things
Speaker 5: back on track. And recently you went out with one
Speaker 5: of our listeners named Nick, Yeah, yeah, Nick does not
Speaker 5: like how your first date went.
Speaker 3: No, he doesn't like how he acted.
Speaker 4: I think, Yeah, you know what we're talking about.
Speaker 6: Yes, that was probably like the most ridiculous date I've
Speaker 6: ever been on.
Speaker 2: Ye.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and Nick actually agrees with you on that.
Speaker 6: He does. That's surprising.
Speaker 5: You mean, he had a moment of self awareness after
Speaker 5: everything was over, and he knows that he.
Speaker 4: Acted like a total child about the whole thing.
Speaker 3: I want to know what it was like from her perspective.
Speaker 4: Really good, I'm guessing.
Speaker 3: I mean, what were you thinking?
Speaker 6: We went on this day and he was clearly having
Speaker 6: like a bad day. He came in off the bat
Speaker 6: hot about his parking tickets.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, so we do know this part of the story.
Speaker 5: Nick told us he was complaining about parking tickets, and
Speaker 5: she's regretful for he made some bad jokes, he said,
Speaker 5: And the worst part was when he drank your margarita
Speaker 5: in front of him, my margarito.
Speaker 6: Yes, oh my god, that was the statement piece of
Speaker 6: the night.
Speaker 1: What god I would have been. I mean, obviously you
Speaker 1: got up and left right because you were so angry.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I left when he started eating my taco salad.
Speaker 3: Salad, what a monster. Honestly, he is a monsterous What was.
Speaker 4: What was your main feeling there? Other than hunger and thirst?
Speaker 6: The main feeling was probably just confusion.
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, well, so here's the thing.
Speaker 5: Nick reached out to us because he's seen the air
Speaker 5: of his ways. And I'm not asking you to go
Speaker 5: out with him again right now.
Speaker 2: I'm not.
Speaker 5: But I am asking if you would consider hearing Nick.
Speaker 3: Out here in his apology.
Speaker 5: As a favor to me, the guy that you just
Speaker 5: met over the phone, favorite.
Speaker 6: To you guys, as a favorite to you guys. I mean,
Speaker 6: I guess I could hear him out. You could tell
Speaker 6: him to call me, but like, oh not, not too bad,
Speaker 6: I have to like unblock his number fish.
Speaker 5: Okay, well you don't even have to unblock his number,
Speaker 5: because actually we have good news, or I guess news.
Speaker 5: Nick is actually on the other line listening right now
Speaker 5: and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 6: So you're gonna call Nick now or what?
Speaker 4: No, I'm not.
Speaker 5: I'm not gonna do anything except step away and let
Speaker 5: Nick talk because he's already there.
Speaker 4: Yes, Nick, Hi, it's me.
Speaker 6: What exactly is happening?
Speaker 2: Nick?
Speaker 4: Do you want to explain? Yeah?
Speaker 2: I do. I I just want to apologize to you
Speaker 2: because for what happened, because it was definitely rude. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean, but I'm just saying, like I wouldn't have
Speaker 2: done it if you had like laughed at one of
Speaker 2: my jokes, dropped in secure, wait for a second, So
Speaker 2: apologize it or you're not like not I am. I
Speaker 2: am totally owning what I did was so wrong. I
Speaker 2: am so sorry. I was rude, And the only thing
Speaker 2: I'm just saying is that it is a two way street.
Speaker 2: Like and you also did stuff that like you triggered me.
Speaker 6: Oh really, it's my fault that you drank my Margarita?
Speaker 4: What the hell?
Speaker 1: No, No, get her on the phone for you to
Speaker 1: harass her again?
Speaker 4: Did you say she triggered you?
Speaker 2: Like you you knew I was in a bad place,
Speaker 2: Like that was obvious, right, I mean, I know I
Speaker 2: came in too hot, but like I thought, we had
Speaker 2: a good rapport and you understood me, and.
Speaker 3: She didn't guide you to happiness.
Speaker 5: He was a ticking time bomb when he came in,
Speaker 5: and she should have diffused it rather than let it
Speaker 5: go off.
Speaker 3: She responsible for your emotions or the way you react
Speaker 3: to things.
Speaker 4: You've triggered me, So many times on this show. Have
Speaker 4: you never said a single back.
Speaker 3: You're in charge of your own emotions. Nobody else is.
Speaker 2: I am in charge of my emotion. I'm just saying,
Speaker 2: if somebody is down, you don't like kick them when
Speaker 2: they're down, You like to pick them up.
Speaker 3: You know, it's so nice.
Speaker 1: She didn't say what, honestly, like, I thought she was
Speaker 1: going to go on a tirade about you when we
Speaker 1: called her and she didn't know you were on the
Speaker 1: other line.
Speaker 3: She didn't say anything actually mean about you.
Speaker 4: Maybe, but that's the problem. She didn't say anything.
Speaker 5: And sometimes when you say nothing actually speaks more than
Speaker 5: when you say something sarcastic.
Speaker 3: And Nick is going to understand it.
Speaker 5: I understand the pain of what it's like when you
Speaker 5: tell a joke or you try and say something nice
Speaker 5: and get nothing better.
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, thank you, Nick.
Speaker 1: It really honestly sounds like you're blaming her for not
Speaker 1: laughing at your jokes, and that's why you reacted that way.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, I am I am sorry. I definitely
Speaker 2: did something so wrong. Yes, I just I judge it.
Speaker 2: It's just a two way street. I'm not the only
Speaker 2: person who was at that table bro, this is one.
Speaker 5: Alicia, would you like to take the opportunity to apologize for.
Speaker 4: So insecure?
Speaker 3: Thanks for giving her an He's joking, Alicia, or maybe.
Speaker 4: Not, Alicia.
Speaker 6: I'm sorry that I didn't offer to pay your parking ticket.
Speaker 3: Dang, do not say that she's joking? Now you're joking, right, Alicia?
Speaker 2: Of course?
Speaker 5: Okay, you don't feel bad that you made him feel insecure.
Speaker 6: I'm not sure how I made him feel in shore.
Speaker 2: I think you.
Speaker 3: DEI true colors.
Speaker 5: I'm just glad that he's not in the same room
Speaker 5: with her because he'd be eating her breakfast right now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's my coffee.
Speaker 3: I paid for it.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Actually, we would like to give you that opportunity and
Speaker 5: send you out on another date. I mean, Alicia, did
Speaker 5: his apology not fill you with romantic feelings?
Speaker 6: An apology?
Speaker 5: I heard him say so at least four or five
Speaker 5: times in Two Way Street.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have bad days in my life. You're gonna
Speaker 2: have bad days in my life. And I like, I'm
Speaker 2: not just talking about this moment. I'm talking about how
Speaker 2: two people can like help each other in life.
Speaker 5: Nick, we want to send you onto one of his
Speaker 5: bad days and we'll pay for What do you say, Alicia?
Speaker 6: I say, you can send Nick on a date and
Speaker 6: he can order to launcheres.
Speaker 4: Oh so it's a yes, but not with her, just
Speaker 4: by myself. Okay? Can I count that as a win?
Speaker 2: Sure?
Speaker 1: Again?
Speaker 3: Nick?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 2: Is everyone done taking shots at this guy?
Speaker 4: You said shots and Alexis got excited?
Speaker 1: Yeah, freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: Well, text board is not a big fan of Nick
Speaker 4: right now.
Speaker 3: Shocking.
Speaker 4: I mean, clearly he made a couple pretty bad mistakes
Speaker 4: on his first date.
Speaker 5: We didn't even talk about how rude it was that
Speaker 5: she was on her phone in front of him. Normally
Speaker 5: we'd say that's really rude. But for him to trump
Speaker 5: that and be like, forget you down her margarita, that's
Speaker 5: just savage.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like two rudes don't make a right. How
Speaker 3: it goes? Is that right?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Like his apology was worse though, What a terrible apology?
Speaker 3: Can you imagine be in a relationship with that guy?
Speaker 3: Can you scream these people better before you ring on?
Speaker 4: And well, I'm sorry you feel that way?
Speaker 3: Yeah exactly.
Speaker 5: I mean I don't know what the margarita thing? Would
Speaker 5: you guys ever do that as a joke, even with
Speaker 5: your friends.
Speaker 1: Honestly, God, if someone touched my margarita, even if my friend,
Speaker 1: that's not funny.
Speaker 3: Unless unless they had to margarita's behind their back that
Speaker 3: they're gonna get that be kind of funny.
Speaker 1: It was one of your children, Brooke, drinking my margarita,
Speaker 1: then we have bigger problem.
Speaker 4: Thought mom was gonna be proud of her five year
Speaker 4: old at that point.
Speaker 5: So yeah, I mean, I don't even funny. Necessarily feel
Speaker 5: bad for Nick for not getting.
Speaker 4: Another date there. He's got a lot of work to do.
Speaker 3: I feel bad that we've wasted her time like that.
Speaker 5: She was so nice, she gave him an opening to apologize,
Speaker 5: and he couldn't even do that right.
Speaker 4: As Brooke said many many times.
Speaker 3: Maybe he'll learn now. Yeah, I doubt it.
Speaker 5: But there's always hope. Okay, yeah, we could maybe be
Speaker 5: your hope. Email the show. We'll call the person who
Speaker 5: wasn't calling
Speaker 3: You back Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,