WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Too Late To Apologize

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we just need to apologize right now for taking

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<v Speaker 1>over your TikTok for you page.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, sorry, yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>All the old ones are going viral, but the new

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<v Speaker 1>ones are so much better. Okay, I'm so glad you

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<v Speaker 1>found them. Follow like whatever you're supposed to do on

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<v Speaker 1>these podcasts and just sit back and listen the.

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<v Speaker 4>Second date of date.

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<v Speaker 5>The number one reason that people email, call, or try

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<v Speaker 5>and get in contact with the show is obviously feet picks,

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<v Speaker 5>and both Jose and Alexis have given theirs out countless times.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, wait, people want Jose's feet picks.

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<v Speaker 3>I've seen you in foot PLoP. I'm sorry, Love, I

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<v Speaker 3>just some people.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like how some people enjoy horror movies. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>same deal.

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<v Speaker 5>But the second most common reason people reach out to

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<v Speaker 5>us is to get another date when someone's blowing you off.

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<v Speaker 5>And while our listener Nick says he would like another date,

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<v Speaker 5>there's something even more important that he wants to do,

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<v Speaker 5>and that's to say, I'm sorry, So Nick, welcome to

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<v Speaker 5>the show. I'm sorry that you have to call it.

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<v Speaker 5>So I'd like to apologize. First, you must be at

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<v Speaker 5>a super low point in your life. If you're reaching

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<v Speaker 5>out to this show.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna lie it's not good.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's a powerful phrase. I'm sorry, you know, people

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<v Speaker 3>don't say it enough. So already I feel like you're

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<v Speaker 3>in a good place.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so tell us about the woman that you'd like

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<v Speaker 5>to apologize too.

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<v Speaker 4>What's her name?

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<v Speaker 2>Her name is Alicia?

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<v Speaker 3>Alicia?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, and I'm guessing you met her on a dating

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<v Speaker 1>app just.

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<v Speaker 2>To stab in theod guess a psychic Okay, Brooke.

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<v Speaker 4>What did they do for their date?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, good dinner.

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<v Speaker 5>We don't even need to talk to you, Nick, We're

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<v Speaker 5>just gonna ask what she thinks.

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<v Speaker 4>Happy her brooks?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I do always like to know, like what it

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<v Speaker 1>was about her that stood out to you.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, what did you like about Alicia?

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<v Speaker 2>She's definitely cute, fatigue, she got this beautiful smile and

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<v Speaker 2>so yeah, we got to chatting, and that's where it

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<v Speaker 2>really like kicked in because we were talking for a

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<v Speaker 2>little over a week and we were just vibing. Right.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, so the chatting actually made things better for you.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't have that experience.

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<v Speaker 3>You just like go with the date, even though the

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<v Speaker 3>conversation gets worse.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just saying as soon as I start talking, that's

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<v Speaker 5>where things start to.

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<v Speaker 4>Go down hill. But for Nick, apparently, what's the opposite way?

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<v Speaker 4>Good for you?

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<v Speaker 2>Man?

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe he should take your job.

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<v Speaker 2>It was the chatting that was great. When we got

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<v Speaker 2>to the talking is where I think I screwed it up.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you're talking about in person.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So what happened on the date?

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<v Speaker 2>You know what. It didn't happen on the date. It

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<v Speaker 2>happened before the date. I got two parking tickets that day,

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<v Speaker 2>like back to back, and then we're going out that

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<v Speaker 2>night and I'm just I was kind of pissed off.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, franky Nick was walking into the date.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I was like, I don't know, I had

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<v Speaker 2>this rapport with her and I just felt maybe a

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<v Speaker 2>little too comfortable because I wasn't first date mode anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just ready. I just had to like vent

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<v Speaker 2>and I did it, and I complained and yeah, did

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<v Speaker 2>you have to.

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<v Speaker 4>Drive to the date and park again because you're.

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<v Speaker 3>Worried about his parking decisions?

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<v Speaker 2>Definitely second guessing every time I leave that card out.

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<v Speaker 1>So are you saying, like, I mean, you guys are

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<v Speaker 1>sitting down at dinner in the entire time, that's all

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking.

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<v Speaker 3>About or did you launch in right from the beginning, Like.

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<v Speaker 2>I did launch in from the beginning, and I could

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<v Speaker 2>tell it was a mood killer, and so I tried

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<v Speaker 2>to pivot. I tried to make some jokes. They didn't land.

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<v Speaker 2>She was like looking at her phone a lot, Like

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<v Speaker 2>got that when it's just going to be over.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's hard to go into a date and

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<v Speaker 1>the first thing you get is negative, like you wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to get to ask about you, not hear about them

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<v Speaker 1>complain about their.

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<v Speaker 5>Lives exactly, Like this is that why you want to

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<v Speaker 5>apologize to Alicia?

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<v Speaker 4>Because you complained?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh yeah, what I did something? I'm I'm so embarrassed

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<v Speaker 2>to even tell you guys this. I'm always going to

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<v Speaker 2>regret this. I said, you know what, if this is

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<v Speaker 2>going to be our last date and I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>enjoy everything that I paid for, what does that mean?

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<v Speaker 2>I reached across the table, I grabbed Margarita, and I

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<v Speaker 2>just chugged it in front of her.

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<v Speaker 1>Why you like chugged her Margarita, Well, it's because.

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<v Speaker 5>She was on her phone not paying attention to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I knew that I came in negative, but I

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<v Speaker 2>felt like she was kind of being a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>of it. Can I say anyway.

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<v Speaker 3>If you ever start with can I say, just don't

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<v Speaker 3>say it?

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<v Speaker 2>But you know, she said, like what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>Then I said, I can tell you're not interested. Let's

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<v Speaker 2>just call it what it is, like, what are you

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<v Speaker 2>gonna eat the rest of my salad? And and yeah

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<v Speaker 2>you did?

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<v Speaker 3>Huh just really chewing. Theres so much chewing on that

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<v Speaker 3>salad you did.

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<v Speaker 2>There's nothing so sad as just like angry salad eating.

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<v Speaker 4>You really did.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean she got off and left, but I

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<v Speaker 2>used to goat there and ate the damn salad.

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<v Speaker 3>Man, I think we should call her. Girls are into

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<v Speaker 3>guys that are jerks. I think you need to chalk

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<v Speaker 3>this up as a really big lesson. But like, that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 5>He said that he wanted to say sorry. Now it's

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<v Speaker 5>making a whole lot more sense.

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<v Speaker 2>Why.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he doesn't expect to date here. He just wants

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<v Speaker 4>to say, look, I'm sorry you caught me in a

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<v Speaker 4>bad moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Even if you would have done it without the line

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<v Speaker 1>like that I paid for.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you guys are like, that's not a conversation you

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<v Speaker 5>should have to after marriage for sure.

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<v Speaker 4>So have you even tried. Have you tried to apologize

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<v Speaker 4>just by yourself yet?

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<v Speaker 2>Nick? Oh? Yeah, she blocked me right, and I know

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<v Speaker 2>I was terrible, and I really do just I do

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<v Speaker 2>just want to apologize, but also like, I've been on

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<v Speaker 2>three dates since then, and nothing even starts to compare

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<v Speaker 2>to what we kind of had when you know before

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<v Speaker 2>that night.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, did you drink all those dates alcoholic beverage?

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<v Speaker 2>I listen. I'm not a fast learner, but some lessons

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<v Speaker 2>are learned quickly, and that's why I will do it again.

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<v Speaker 3>We're about growth.

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<v Speaker 4>It's all about growth. I was just going to say,

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<v Speaker 4>you fell on your sword.

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<v Speaker 5>You admitted you're wrong, so let's right, you're wrong, and uh,

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<v Speaker 5>I'll be here for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>I like when Jose does my job. We're gonna play

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I love it. I love it.

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<v Speaker 5>We're gonna do a second date update next because of

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<v Speaker 5>everything Jose said. Yeah, a lot of people believe in

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<v Speaker 5>the idea of love at first sight, love it first kiss. Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>oh yeah, on this show, we're hoping for love at

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<v Speaker 5>first apology.

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<v Speaker 4>Nick blew it big time on his first date. Where

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<v Speaker 4>did he go the most wrong?

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<v Speaker 5>Was it when he came in hot and vented about

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<v Speaker 5>the two parking tickets that he got earlier that day

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<v Speaker 5>or was it when he reached across the table, grabbed

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<v Speaker 5>her margarita and gulped it down in front of her

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<v Speaker 5>in frustration, cringe.

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<v Speaker 4>Ate her salad as she got up and walked away.

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<v Speaker 4>Imagine yelling at her with a mouthful. Oh yeah, well

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<v Speaker 4>take this.

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<v Speaker 5>So Nick knows he messed up and badly wants to

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<v Speaker 5>apologize to see if there's any chance for him to

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<v Speaker 5>get another date and Brooke, are there any hurtful things

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<v Speaker 5>that you would like to say to him to make

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<v Speaker 5>him feel worse before we do this, because that's kind

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<v Speaker 5>of been the trend lately.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, Matt that you're blaming it.

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<v Speaker 4>His name is nickister.

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<v Speaker 3>I met Nick. You can interchange a Mat and a Nick.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean anyway, Wow, okay, listen, Nick, I do think

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<v Speaker 1>that you need to be very careful in this phone

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<v Speaker 1>call that you do not have any big emotion, because

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<v Speaker 1>you have to show her if you're going to apologize

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<v Speaker 1>that you can't actually control your emotions.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I totally agree with you. I mean, I'm in

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<v Speaker 2>a much calmer place today. I don't no barking tickets today.

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing's going on.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, the day is early, Ben. You don't know

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<v Speaker 4>how this is going to go? All right, Kyle, Okay, whatever, Tim,

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<v Speaker 4>let's just do this. I'm just messing around.

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<v Speaker 2>Nick.

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<v Speaker 5>We're going to call Alicia hopefully let you do your

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<v Speaker 5>apology and maybe get you a second date.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if you guys should throw off a hail Mary

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<v Speaker 2>at the end there, but that'd be amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>You took a margarita from a woman. I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>We're going to do our best. Here we go. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>a dialar number right now. Hello, Hey, is this Alicia?

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<v Speaker 3>She sounds so nice, she does.

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<v Speaker 5>I hope we don't ruin your day with this, but

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<v Speaker 5>we're calling from a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 5>in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Hi, Alicia, Oka, not ruined yet.

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<v Speaker 6>Hill.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm feeling really bad about what we're going to do here.

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<v Speaker 5>We want to do something a little bit awkward with

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<v Speaker 5>you called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Okay. The idea is.

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<v Speaker 5>We help our listeners who've gone out on a bad

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<v Speaker 5>date recently try and redeem themselves and hopefully get things

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<v Speaker 5>back on track. And recently you went out with one

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<v Speaker 5>of our listeners named Nick, Yeah, yeah, Nick does not

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<v Speaker 5>like how your first date went.

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<v Speaker 3>No, he doesn't like how he acted.

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<v Speaker 4>I think, Yeah, you know what we're talking about.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, that was probably like the most ridiculous date I've

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<v Speaker 6>ever been on.

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<v Speaker 2>Ye.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and Nick actually agrees with you on that.

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<v Speaker 6>He does. That's surprising.

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<v Speaker 5>You mean, he had a moment of self awareness after

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<v Speaker 5>everything was over, and he knows that he.

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<v Speaker 4>Acted like a total child about the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to know what it was like from her perspective.

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<v Speaker 4>Really good, I'm guessing.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, what were you thinking?

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<v Speaker 6>We went on this day and he was clearly having

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<v Speaker 6>like a bad day. He came in off the bat

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<v Speaker 6>hot about his parking tickets.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, so we do know this part of the story.

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<v Speaker 5>Nick told us he was complaining about parking tickets, and

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<v Speaker 5>she's regretful for he made some bad jokes, he said,

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<v Speaker 5>And the worst part was when he drank your margarita

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<v Speaker 5>in front of him, my margarito.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, oh my god, that was the statement piece of

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<v Speaker 6>the night.

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<v Speaker 1>What god I would have been. I mean, obviously you

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<v Speaker 1>got up and left right because you were so angry.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I left when he started eating my taco salad.

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<v Speaker 3>Salad, what a monster. Honestly, he is a monsterous What was.

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<v Speaker 4>What was your main feeling there? Other than hunger and thirst?

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<v Speaker 6>The main feeling was probably just confusion.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, yeah, well, so here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 5>Nick reached out to us because he's seen the air

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<v Speaker 5>of his ways. And I'm not asking you to go

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<v Speaker 5>out with him again right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not.

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<v Speaker 5>But I am asking if you would consider hearing Nick.

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<v Speaker 3>Out here in his apology.

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<v Speaker 5>As a favor to me, the guy that you just

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<v Speaker 5>met over the phone, favorite.

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<v Speaker 6>To you guys, as a favorite to you guys. I mean,

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<v Speaker 6>I guess I could hear him out. You could tell

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<v Speaker 6>him to call me, but like, oh not, not too bad,

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<v Speaker 6>I have to like unblock his number fish.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, well you don't even have to unblock his number,

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<v Speaker 5>because actually we have good news, or I guess news.

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<v Speaker 5>Nick is actually on the other line listening right now

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<v Speaker 5>and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 6>So you're gonna call Nick now or what?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not gonna do anything except step away and let

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<v Speaker 5>Nick talk because he's already there.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, Nick, Hi, it's me.

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<v Speaker 6>What exactly is happening?

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<v Speaker 2>Nick?

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<v Speaker 4>Do you want to explain? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I do. I I just want to apologize to you

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<v Speaker 2>because for what happened, because it was definitely rude. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, but I'm just saying, like I wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 2>done it if you had like laughed at one of

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<v Speaker 2>my jokes, dropped in secure, wait for a second, So

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<v Speaker 2>apologize it or you're not like not I am. I

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<v Speaker 2>am totally owning what I did was so wrong. I

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<v Speaker 2>am so sorry. I was rude, And the only thing

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying is that it is a two way street.

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<v Speaker 2>Like and you also did stuff that like you triggered me.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh really, it's my fault that you drank my Margarita?

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<v Speaker 4>What the hell?

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<v Speaker 1>No, No, get her on the phone for you to

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<v Speaker 1>harass her again?

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<v Speaker 4>Did you say she triggered you?

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<v Speaker 2>Like you you knew I was in a bad place,

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<v Speaker 2>Like that was obvious, right, I mean, I know I

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<v Speaker 2>came in too hot, but like I thought, we had

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<v Speaker 2>a good rapport and you understood me, and.

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<v Speaker 3>She didn't guide you to happiness.

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<v Speaker 5>He was a ticking time bomb when he came in,

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<v Speaker 5>and she should have diffused it rather than let it

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<v Speaker 5>go off.

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<v Speaker 3>She responsible for your emotions or the way you react

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<v Speaker 3>to things.

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<v Speaker 4>You've triggered me, So many times on this show. Have

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<v Speaker 4>you never said a single back.

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<v Speaker 3>You're in charge of your own emotions. Nobody else is.

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<v Speaker 2>I am in charge of my emotion. I'm just saying,

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<v Speaker 2>if somebody is down, you don't like kick them when

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<v Speaker 2>they're down, You like to pick them up.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it's so nice.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't say what, honestly, like, I thought she was

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<v Speaker 1>going to go on a tirade about you when we

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<v Speaker 1>called her and she didn't know you were on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line.

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<v Speaker 3>She didn't say anything actually mean about you.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe, but that's the problem. She didn't say anything.

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<v Speaker 5>And sometimes when you say nothing actually speaks more than

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<v Speaker 5>when you say something sarcastic.

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<v Speaker 3>And Nick is going to understand it.

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<v Speaker 5>I understand the pain of what it's like when you

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<v Speaker 5>tell a joke or you try and say something nice

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<v Speaker 5>and get nothing better.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, exactly, thank you, Nick.

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<v Speaker 1>It really honestly sounds like you're blaming her for not

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<v Speaker 1>laughing at your jokes, and that's why you reacted that way.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, no, I am I am sorry. I definitely

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<v Speaker 2>did something so wrong. Yes, I just I judge it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just a two way street. I'm not the only

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<v Speaker 2>person who was at that table bro, this is one.

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<v Speaker 5>Alicia, would you like to take the opportunity to apologize for.

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<v Speaker 4>So insecure?

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks for giving her an He's joking, Alicia, or maybe.

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<v Speaker 4>Not, Alicia.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm sorry that I didn't offer to pay your parking ticket.

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<v Speaker 3>Dang, do not say that she's joking? Now you're joking, right, Alicia?

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<v Speaker 2>Of course?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, you don't feel bad that you made him feel insecure.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not sure how I made him feel in shore.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you.

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<v Speaker 3>DEI true colors.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just glad that he's not in the same room

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<v Speaker 5>with her because he'd be eating her breakfast right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's my coffee.

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<v Speaker 3>I paid for it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Actually, we would like to give you that opportunity and

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<v Speaker 5>send you out on another date. I mean, Alicia, did

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<v Speaker 5>his apology not fill you with romantic feelings?

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<v Speaker 6>An apology?

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<v Speaker 5>I heard him say so at least four or five

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<v Speaker 5>times in Two Way Street.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna have bad days in my life. You're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>have bad days in my life. And I like, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not just talking about this moment. I'm talking about how

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<v Speaker 2>two people can like help each other in life.

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<v Speaker 5>Nick, we want to send you onto one of his

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<v Speaker 5>bad days and we'll pay for What do you say, Alicia?

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<v Speaker 6>I say, you can send Nick on a date and

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<v Speaker 6>he can order to launcheres.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh so it's a yes, but not with her, just

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<v Speaker 4>by myself. Okay? Can I count that as a win?

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<v Speaker 2>Sure?

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<v Speaker 1>Again?

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<v Speaker 3>Nick?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Is everyone done taking shots at this guy?

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<v Speaker 4>You said shots and Alexis got excited?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, text board is not a big fan of Nick

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<v Speaker 4>right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Shocking.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, clearly he made a couple pretty bad mistakes

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<v Speaker 4>on his first date.

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<v Speaker 5>We didn't even talk about how rude it was that

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<v Speaker 5>she was on her phone in front of him. Normally

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<v Speaker 5>we'd say that's really rude. But for him to trump

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<v Speaker 5>that and be like, forget you down her margarita, that's

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<v Speaker 5>just savage.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's like two rudes don't make a right. How

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<v Speaker 3>it goes? Is that right?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Like his apology was worse though, What a terrible apology?

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<v Speaker 3>Can you imagine be in a relationship with that guy?

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<v Speaker 3>Can you scream these people better before you ring on?

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<v Speaker 4>And well, I'm sorry you feel that way?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I don't know what the margarita thing? Would

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<v Speaker 5>you guys ever do that as a joke, even with

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<v Speaker 5>your friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, God, if someone touched my margarita, even if my friend,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not funny.

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<v Speaker 3>Unless unless they had to margarita's behind their back that

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<v Speaker 3>they're gonna get that be kind of funny.

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<v Speaker 1>It was one of your children, Brooke, drinking my margarita,

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<v Speaker 1>then we have bigger problem.

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<v Speaker 4>Thought mom was gonna be proud of her five year

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<v Speaker 4>old at that point.

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<v Speaker 5>So yeah, I mean, I don't even funny. Necessarily feel

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<v Speaker 5>bad for Nick for not getting.

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<v Speaker 4>Another date there. He's got a lot of work to do.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel bad that we've wasted her time like that.

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<v Speaker 5>She was so nice, she gave him an opening to apologize,

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<v Speaker 5>and he couldn't even do that right.

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<v Speaker 4>As Brooke said many many times.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe he'll learn now. Yeah, I doubt it.

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<v Speaker 5>But there's always hope. Okay, yeah, we could maybe be

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<v Speaker 5>your hope. Email the show. We'll call the person who

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<v Speaker 5>wasn't calling

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<v Speaker 3>You back Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,