1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,719 Speaker 1: Okay, guys, the High and Mighty Tour is about to begin. 2 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: Tour starts on February thirteenth, everybody, DC, I will see 3 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 1: you there to jump things off. February fourteenth, Atlantic City, 4 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:16,759 Speaker 1: which I just added, Madison, Wisconsin, Milwaukee, Wisconsin, Detroit, Michigan, Cleveland, Columbus, 5 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:23,599 Speaker 1: and Cincinnati, Ohio, Denver, Colorado, Portland, Maine, Providence, Rhode Island, Springfield, Massachusetts. 6 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:26,760 Speaker 2: April third, which is in Rohnert Park, California. That has 7 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 2: just been added. 8 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 1: Chicago, of course, Indianapolis, Indiana, Louisville, Kentucky, Albuquerque, Masa, Arizona, 9 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:41,600 Speaker 1: Kansas City, Missouri, Saint Louis, Missouri, Minneapolis, Minnesota, Nashville, Tennessee, Charlotte, 10 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 1: North Carolina, Durham, North Carolina. May sixth, I'm doing Netflix 11 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:48,480 Speaker 1: as a Joke festival. I will be in Los Angeles. 12 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 1: That is a new announcement. Saratoga, California, Monterey, California, Modesto, California, 13 00:00:54,840 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 1: and port Chester, New York, Boston, Massachusetts, Portland, Ore and Seattle, Washington. 14 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 2: I will be touring. 15 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 1: From February through June. Go to Chelseahandler dot com for 16 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:10,120 Speaker 1: tickets if you want to come see me perform. I 17 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 1: will be on the High and Mighty Tour. 18 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 2: Hi Catherine, Hi Chelsea. How's it going well. 19 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:19,960 Speaker 1: I'm still recovering from Vegas. I had a real quick turnaround. 20 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 1: I did one of my shows this weekend for my residency. 21 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 1: I had a lot of people come, a lot of friends. 22 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:28,759 Speaker 1: We went to dinner, then we went to my show. 23 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 1: Really fun, working on all my new material for my 24 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:35,120 Speaker 1: new tour, and then we went and gambled. I won 25 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: thirty five hundred dollars. I mean, I'm unstoppable, basically. I've 26 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 1: also I'm betting on the super Bowl, so that's good. 27 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 2: Oh, she's a sports betting girly. Yeah, I'm bored. I'm 28 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:46,679 Speaker 2: betting with sports. Yeah. Me and my new friend are 29 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 2: betting a lot. 30 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: He's a gambler, so I've just decided to join his 31 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 1: gambling addiction. 32 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 2: And I'm into it. As long as you keep winning, 33 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 2: it's great. 34 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 1: But I had a six am flight out of Vegas, 35 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 1: so I got home at one point thirty and then 36 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: at four I was like, guys, I don't know that 37 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 1: I'm gonna make this flight. I said to my assistance, 38 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 1: I'm like you guys, so you know have a backup one, 39 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: but I don't like spending the day in Vegas, and 40 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:10,639 Speaker 1: the next direct flight back to Vancouver was at four 41 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 1: forty five, so I went to bed at one thirty, 42 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 1: woke up at four point thirty to make my six 43 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:18,359 Speaker 1: thirty flight, six fifteen flight out of Vegas to Vancouver. 44 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:21,920 Speaker 1: I was drunk at the airport. I was a mess. 45 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:24,920 Speaker 1: I got to Vancouver. I spent the entire time looking 46 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 1: at ridiculous videos of the people that trend where people 47 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 1: call their parents and say the police are coming following 48 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 1: them back to their house because they told them their 49 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:35,359 Speaker 1: parents had fallen, so that when they get home to 50 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 1: their house, their parents have to be on the ground 51 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 1: acting like they felt down the stairs. I mean, I 52 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 1: was laughing so hard on the flight. I was so delirious. 53 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 1: I finally sobered up. I got to Vancouver. I get 54 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:50,119 Speaker 1: off the plane and I forget I had a tote 55 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 1: bag because Carlos brings all my stuff from LA so 56 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 1: I don't have to travel with a lot. But I 57 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 1: forgot my tote bag, which had my computer, like all 58 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 1: my stuff. 59 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 2: I left it in the overhead. Been just completely forgot. 60 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: I hadn't even had bags yeah, walked all the way 61 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:04,799 Speaker 1: to customs and this woman is like. 62 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 2: Miss miss you left your bag in the overhead been 63 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 2: and she was another passenger. Oh my god, who ever 64 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 2: pays attention? And she didn't recognize me because she didn't 65 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 2: say miss handler. Yes, yeah she didn't. She was just like, 66 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 2: miss I brought this for you, you left me. 67 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:21,640 Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh my god, I'm like, who pays 68 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 1: attention to other people's luggage? Like I don't pay attention 69 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 1: to who's putting what in the overhead bit it was 70 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:28,519 Speaker 1: real nice. 71 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:31,440 Speaker 2: I'm like, thank you so much. I mean it was Yeah, 72 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 2: that was stories of faith in humanity. I know, I know, 73 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 2: I know. I'm a lucky girl. 74 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I do have to ask you, what do 75 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 3: you think about all this Beckham drama? 76 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 2: Are you keeping up on this a little bit about 77 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 2: Victoria Beckham and the kids? 78 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't really know anything about them, but 79 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 1: it tracks from what I do know, it does. 80 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 2: It sounds plausible. 81 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 3: I feel like there's probably bad behavior on both sides. 82 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 3: But I feel like the big red flag is that 83 00:03:57,400 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 3: the like son and daughter in law just had like 84 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 3: they renew their vows already, like they had a vow renewal. 85 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 3: I'm like, when you have to do that a year 86 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 3: or two in, Yeah, I think it's curtains. Yeah, it's 87 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 3: a bad sign. I think, yeah, you're probably right about that. Yeah, 88 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 3: I don't know. 89 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 2: I don't know. 90 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: I don't find that much interest in the and that 91 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 1: and that story. But I mean, yeah, it's kind of. 92 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 2: I just like people airing their dirty laundry that I 93 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 2: find out. 94 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 1: What about the Blake Lively and Taylor Swift messages and 95 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 1: all the what not? Even first of all, Taylor Swift 96 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:28,039 Speaker 1: comes out looking awesome once again. Of course, Blake Lively 97 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 1: and Ryan Rednells like, oh my god, so embarrassing to 98 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 1: have all of those texts and voice memos released. 99 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 2: It's so embarrassing. 100 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:41,480 Speaker 3: Can you imagine every random thing you texted your front 101 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 3: no way, no way. 102 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 1: God is just like stop it. Those two must be 103 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 1: like under a curtain somewhere and like stop, make this 104 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 1: go away. 105 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:52,159 Speaker 3: They didn't get the Oprah advice of like imagine it 106 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,159 Speaker 3: on the front page of the New York Times, like 107 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 3: whatever you're. 108 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: Sending it a text or you think about that when 109 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,720 Speaker 1: I text people anything, I'm like, does you imagine this 110 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:00,360 Speaker 1: is going to be public at some point, because it 111 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:02,840 Speaker 1: probably will well. 112 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 2: Our guest today is going to the Olympics. 113 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:08,839 Speaker 1: I know, yes, you guys, the Olympics are happening. Today's 114 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 1: guest is a world champion and Olympic he's so funny too, 115 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 1: and an Olympic snowboarder, entrepreneur, philanthropists. He's won two Olympic medals, 116 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 1: ten X game medals, five World half Pipe Championship gold medals, 117 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: and he's headed to try and snag the gold this 118 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 1: month at the Olympics in Milan Courtina. His new documentary 119 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:31,040 Speaker 1: is called pipe Dream. It's on Netflix now, so please 120 00:05:31,080 --> 00:05:36,239 Speaker 1: welcome Scottie James. Scottie James, Welcome to Dear Chelsea. 121 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 4: Hi, Hi, thank you for having me. 122 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:41,160 Speaker 1: Thanks for taking the time to catch up during your 123 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:43,840 Speaker 1: season with the Olympics about to happen. 124 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 2: You're having an incredible season. 125 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 1: I know you just won again in Switzerland, so congrats 126 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 1: on that. 127 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:53,799 Speaker 4: How are you feeling, I'm feeling good. Look, we needed 128 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 4: to catch up Chelsea before the Olympics. We know we're 129 00:05:56,920 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 4: approaching closely, so I just needed your inside before we 130 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 4: head over to Italy. But so far the season's been 131 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:07,279 Speaker 4: been great. But now I'm feeling really good and yeah, 132 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:09,479 Speaker 4: and naturally, obviously getting and went under the belt this 133 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 4: time of year is a good confidence boost. So yeah, 134 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 4: looking forward to the rest of the season. 135 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 2: I want to know all of it. 136 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:18,840 Speaker 1: I want to know how what your process is, how 137 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:23,160 Speaker 1: you maintain what you do before you race. I mean, listen, 138 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:25,479 Speaker 1: your favorite to win gold at the Olympics this year, 139 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:28,840 Speaker 1: so no pressure. You are a snowboarder, so I take 140 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:30,720 Speaker 1: issue with that because we're going to have to discuss 141 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:32,840 Speaker 1: that etiquette as well. The only two times I've been 142 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:36,840 Speaker 1: hit on a ski mountain are by snowboarders, two snowboarders, 143 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:39,599 Speaker 1: and one happened the other day too. But first of all, okay, 144 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 1: let's talk gold at the Olympics and Milan Courtina. So 145 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 1: tell me how you're feeling about it, How you look 146 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 1: at things like this, What do you do with the 147 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:50,480 Speaker 1: pressure that is put upon you by being so good. 148 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 4: At what you do? Yeah, I mean, naturally, coming into 149 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:56,160 Speaker 4: this games, it's you know, you feel that pressure. I 150 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:59,599 Speaker 4: think there's always the pressure you put on yourself, but 151 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:02,679 Speaker 4: then you know, there's all this exterior pressure that people 152 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:04,400 Speaker 4: put on you to want to they want you to 153 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:07,360 Speaker 4: show up and deliver maybe the result that they expect, 154 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 4: and that's from the fans to your country that you're representing, 155 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 4: and I think most importantly more so myself. I think 156 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 4: I do go into every event with the intent to 157 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 4: want to do my best and put my best foot 158 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 4: forward to win, and that's the approach with the Games. 159 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 4: But yeah, I mean when you're out there wearing your 160 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 4: country colors and you're flat flying the flag and there's 161 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 4: obviously a lot more attention, you know, you feel that 162 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 4: pressure a bit more. But I mean it's my fifth 163 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 4: go around now, so from the pressure perspective, but also experience, 164 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 4: I feel a little bit more vintage, which is a 165 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 4: good thing I think in this case. So I'm no 166 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 4: to be honest, I'm really excited. I feel like I've 167 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 4: had a great preparation and the leadup's been awesome. So 168 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 4: I just have to focus on the important things like 169 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:59,679 Speaker 4: fundamentals and making sure that I'm prepared from a practical 170 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 4: stamp point snowboarding and the rest will we'll do what 171 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 4: it will do. 172 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 1: And what happens the day of what happens the day 173 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 1: of a big competition, Like are you superstitious? 174 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 2: What is your regimen? What is your ritual. 175 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 4: I don't have too many rituals. I necessarily do before 176 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 4: the event, but I always wear my red gloves in 177 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 4: the events, Like I guess that's a ritual. It's something 178 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 4: that I always have. I listened to a lot of 179 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 4: music actually when I'm training and competing as well, No 180 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 4: specific artists, just depends how I'm feeling on. 181 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:32,080 Speaker 2: The day, elevator music. Wait, what's with the red gloves? 182 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 2: Where did those come from? Is that to remind people 183 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 2: that you're a redhead? 184 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 4: Exactly? Yeah, yeah, just because you know, I got so 185 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:40,200 Speaker 4: much equipment on and you know, it's hard to see 186 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 4: the red hair sometimes. But now, in two thousand and seventeen, 187 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 4: I want to say, I won my first X Games 188 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 4: gold medal and I'd come from another event in Switzerland 189 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 4: and I saw these red gloves, which a brand at 190 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 4: the time had sent me in. Anyway, I put the 191 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 4: gloves on, and I felt like I was coming out 192 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:01,240 Speaker 4: to fight a bit that week, a bit of strength 193 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 4: and adversity, and I won the event and it was 194 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 4: obviously a huge market event for us, and ever since 195 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 4: then it's been my thing. I always wear my red gloves, 196 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:13,080 Speaker 4: so it's been a fun little narrative. 197 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 2: Oh, I like that. 198 00:09:14,720 --> 00:09:16,480 Speaker 1: There was just a gambling movie that I watched with 199 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:19,960 Speaker 1: Colin Farrell where he wore gloves while he gambled, but 200 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 1: he lost all the time. And I'm like, how does 201 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:24,559 Speaker 1: superstitions maintain when they don't work. 202 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:25,719 Speaker 2: A lot of the time, you know what I mean? 203 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:27,199 Speaker 1: When people are like, I've got to do it this way, 204 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 1: I've got to do it, and it's like it's not 205 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 1: working for you, so stop doing that. 206 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 4: He doesn't have the right gloves on your calling some 207 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 4: of the red. 208 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 2: Onesah, how many pairs of red gloves do you have? 209 00:09:36,120 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 4: By the way, many many? Well, we make our own gloves, 210 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:43,680 Speaker 4: we sell them. But you know I also have I 211 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:46,080 Speaker 4: mean through a season, I actually don't use that many. 212 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:49,959 Speaker 4: Like one pair. They're pretty durable and good. But yeah, 213 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:52,559 Speaker 4: in a season, I try and keep one pair because 214 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 4: when I wear one pair, it's a bit superstitious. Like 215 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:58,960 Speaker 4: I'm like, I got to keep wearing them, particularly if 216 00:09:59,000 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 4: it's a good season. 217 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 1: So yeah, And so I know you're friends with Sean Waite. 218 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 1: You guys are buddies, right, You competed a lot together 219 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:08,599 Speaker 1: and now you've you've surpassed him. I mean you're the 220 00:10:08,640 --> 00:10:11,200 Speaker 1: greatest snowboarder of all time as we sit here today. 221 00:10:11,280 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 1: So how does that impact your relationship? Because I know 222 00:10:14,559 --> 00:10:15,439 Speaker 1: how insecure he is. 223 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:16,440 Speaker 4: I'm just kidding. 224 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:18,000 Speaker 2: I do know how insecure he is. 225 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:22,719 Speaker 4: So but we all are, We all are, That's very true. Well, 226 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 4: if you look hard enough, everyone's got one, that's right. 227 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 4: I think we have a good relationship. Actually, I think 228 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 4: naturally evolved over time because you know, I was a 229 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:34,680 Speaker 4: little kid, put him on a pedestal and you know, 230 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:37,199 Speaker 4: as a hero, and yeah, naturally, you know, with respect 231 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:40,319 Speaker 4: the Shawn, he's one of the greats in my discipline. 232 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 4: So always looked up to him, and from when I 233 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 4: was a kid to watching to I guess to try 234 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 4: and emulate the kind of success he had in the career, 235 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 4: and then being able to do that in my own way, 236 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 4: and then us building a relationship on the mountain. Obviously competitors. 237 00:10:57,200 --> 00:10:59,440 Speaker 4: We both wore our heart on our sleeves at times. 238 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 4: There's ten to them, him retiring and now you know, 239 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:05,240 Speaker 4: we text and we have a good relationship. So yeah, 240 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 4: it's been a fun journey, I guess, to say the least. 241 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:10,360 Speaker 4: But yeah, I have a lot of respect for him. 242 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:12,320 Speaker 4: I think he's been amazing on the hill. 243 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 1: I want to know more about what you guys do 244 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:16,440 Speaker 1: when you What do you do when you when when 245 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 1: you win? 246 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 2: How do you celebrate? 247 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:20,560 Speaker 1: Because I was talking to Mikaela Schiffrin and she just 248 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:23,080 Speaker 1: like found out about Champagne a year ago, and I'm like, sister, 249 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 1: what is the point of winning all of these and 250 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 1: being on all these podiums and winning all of these 251 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 1: races if you don't know how to celebrate. She's like, 252 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 1: it just never occurred to us. She's like, I didn't 253 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 1: even know. And then once I think she celebrated once, 254 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:37,679 Speaker 1: she's like, oh wait, wait, wait, this is actually a 255 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 1: really good time. 256 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 2: We should do this more often. 257 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 4: Well, unlike Mikayla Shifferin and Chelsea, you be very proud 258 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 4: of me. I discovered the Champagne celebrations a little while ago. 259 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 2: So you're Australian, so I do believe you. I do 260 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 2: believe you. The only people who drink more than Americans 261 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:56,400 Speaker 2: are Australians, so I get it. Exactly where did you 262 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 2: grow up in Australia. 263 00:11:57,559 --> 00:11:59,959 Speaker 4: I grew up in a little town about forty five. 264 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 4: I mean it's out of Melbourne. The city called Warrem Knighte. 265 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 4: So it's a tongue twister that you can try and 266 00:12:06,040 --> 00:12:07,199 Speaker 4: say it Warren Knight. 267 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 2: Warren Date. Okay, I tried it and it worked. So 268 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 2: it's a huge six. Get a bottle of champagne. 269 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:16,679 Speaker 4: Hold on one second, You're allowed to enter our local pub. 270 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 4: It's like, you know, it's the right of passage if 271 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:21,560 Speaker 4: you can say Warren Ntte. So yeah, no, little town 272 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 4: and my family still live there and I've got a 273 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 4: house not far from there. 274 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:28,840 Speaker 1: So yeah, and so how does one get into snowboarding? 275 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 1: I know a lot of skiing happens in Australia. People 276 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 1: come over here. 277 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:32,840 Speaker 2: I love. 278 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 1: I'm in Whistler, Canada right now and where this mountain 279 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:36,319 Speaker 1: is filled with ausie. 280 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:39,400 Speaker 2: So how did you start in? Like what age? You're 281 00:12:39,400 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 2: like three years old? 282 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 4: Right? Yeah, I was really young when I started. I 283 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 4: don't even remember the first day, the first day I 284 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:49,560 Speaker 4: went on the hill first time. I kind of remember snowboarding. 285 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 4: I would have been probably seven or eight years old, 286 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:55,080 Speaker 4: maybe ten, but i'd started. Yeah, when I was three. 287 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 4: At least I was on skis I think for a 288 00:12:57,880 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 4: little bit, which is a bit controversial, but transferred over 289 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 4: to snowboarding. Yeah we I mean in Australia, we do 290 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 4: have mountains, we have snowy mountains. 291 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 5: You know. 292 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:12,480 Speaker 4: My local resort in Australia's Threadbos. So we we just 293 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 4: don't have a long season, so we were always having 294 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 4: to travel overseas. I actually spent a lot of time 295 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:19,960 Speaker 4: in Canada and BC. We just got a mountain called 296 00:13:19,960 --> 00:13:22,840 Speaker 4: Big White. I went to Whistler. Yeah, yeah, we loved 297 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:26,600 Speaker 4: it over there. So my family weren't your typical Aussie 298 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:29,160 Speaker 4: family playing tennis, to going to the beach or doing 299 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:33,120 Speaker 4: you know those summer sports that most Australians do. We 300 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:35,559 Speaker 4: were chasing the winter so it's fun. 301 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:38,440 Speaker 1: And so at what age did you go okay, this 302 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 1: is going to be I want to know how something 303 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 1: like this happens when you start so early, Like what 304 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 1: percentage of your parents' encouragement was it, what percentage passion 305 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:49,520 Speaker 1: was it? Like what's the ratio of how things started 306 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 1: to get serious for. 307 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 4: You in this sport. I would say I think others 308 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:57,080 Speaker 4: made that decision for me, because you know, so young, 309 00:13:57,160 --> 00:14:00,520 Speaker 4: you don't really snowboarding. Such a young demograph we have. 310 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 4: You know, I'm now thirty one and I'm competing against 311 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:06,720 Speaker 4: eighteen year olds, and even before that, if you're you know, 312 00:14:06,840 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 4: extraordinary talent, you're sixteen and you know you're competing with 313 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:13,840 Speaker 4: the men. So it's you do have to start young 314 00:14:13,920 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 4: and get good young so you can start to repel 315 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 4: yourself into the career. So I really don't think I 316 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:24,720 Speaker 4: realized that it was a professional career or something that 317 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 4: I would comprehend until I was about thirteen or twelve 318 00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 4: or thirteen years old. But before that, you know, even 319 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 4: now speaking to my parents, they had to kind of 320 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:37,880 Speaker 4: realize that dream for me. It is something that I 321 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 4: obviously wanted to do, but they had to create the 322 00:14:40,960 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 4: pathway for me from when I was, you know, seven 323 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:47,120 Speaker 4: or eight years old. I obviously had no awareness of that. 324 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:49,160 Speaker 4: I was just up on the mountain enjoying what I 325 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 4: was doing and having fun and I still do that, 326 00:14:51,400 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 4: but they were, you know, creating that avenue for me 327 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 4: if it's something that I really wanted to do down 328 00:14:57,320 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 4: the line. So that point would have been, I would 329 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 4: say twelve eleven or twelve years old was when I 330 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:04,960 Speaker 4: was like, okay, I want to take that leap into 331 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:08,680 Speaker 4: realizing this as a potential profession. 332 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:11,880 Speaker 1: Because you're one of you're the youngest of four kids. Yeah, yeah, 333 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:13,640 Speaker 1: and so are you. Were you the only one in 334 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 1: your family that got that passionate about sport? 335 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, youngest in my family of four, the most spoilt one. 336 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:21,440 Speaker 4: Apparently in the midst too. 337 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:23,640 Speaker 1: I'm the youngest of sex and it's the best position 338 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:24,000 Speaker 1: to be in. 339 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 2: The youngest is the best. 340 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 4: I mean, Chelsea, look at us, we're the best. I mean, 341 00:15:28,120 --> 00:15:30,520 Speaker 4: it just is what it is, you know, but not 342 00:15:30,720 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 4: I think it was ten or eleven. I propelled myself 343 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:34,560 Speaker 4: into it. 344 00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 3: I have a question about like, as your body is 345 00:15:37,240 --> 00:15:39,960 Speaker 3: changing when you're starting that young. I know, you're pretty 346 00:15:40,120 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 3: tall for a snowboarder, Like you're starting with one center 347 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:46,840 Speaker 3: of gravity, and you know, growing into a very different 348 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:47,880 Speaker 3: shaped human. 349 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 2: What was that like and were there struggles with that? 350 00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 4: Absolutely? Yeah, I would. I would say I'm a very 351 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:56,720 Speaker 4: differently shaped human up there on the mountain. 352 00:15:57,640 --> 00:15:59,600 Speaker 1: Did you try to stunt your growth so it could 353 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:01,920 Speaker 1: be a little bit more operational for you? I guess 354 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 1: it's not really having that much of an impact for you. 355 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 1: So if you were shorter, who knows if you'd be 356 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 1: able to accomplish all. 357 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:07,640 Speaker 2: Of these things. 358 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:11,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it might have helped, and maybe my 359 00:16:11,520 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 4: parents looked into that They're like, oh boy, how are 360 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:16,320 Speaker 4: we going to stop this growth thing from happening? But no, 361 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 4: it's yeah. I mean a lot of my competitors are 362 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:22,320 Speaker 4: five four five three six foot two, so it's a 363 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 4: it's a significant difference, And where that can be challenging is, 364 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 4: without getting into too much snowboarding lingo, the half pipe, 365 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:33,520 Speaker 4: the walls twenty two foot high, and typically when you're 366 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 4: riding up the wall, you're hitting a lot of g force. 367 00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 4: So when you have a lower center of gravity, you 368 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:40,840 Speaker 4: naturally don't have as much force pulling you down into 369 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:43,120 Speaker 4: the ground, and you can kind of just you're just 370 00:16:43,160 --> 00:16:45,280 Speaker 4: a little bit more in control. You have a bit 371 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 4: more awareness of your your surroundings. And for me, sometimes 372 00:16:49,800 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 4: I feel a little bit like Bamby, like my limbs 373 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:54,200 Speaker 4: are flying every direction and I'm trying to pull them 374 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 4: back in. So I'm compact like the other guys, but 375 00:16:57,840 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 4: you know, naturally I also have some benefits whereas I'm 376 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 4: a bit heavier. So when it's snowing, we know we're 377 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:07,879 Speaker 4: in an unpredictable profession where it snows, when there's a 378 00:17:07,920 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 4: lot of variables in those conditions, I'm a bit heavier, 379 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:13,840 Speaker 4: so I can carry more speed. Amplitude is a big 380 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 4: criteria in our sport, so it can be also beneficial, 381 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:20,600 Speaker 4: So I like to focus on the positives, I guess, 382 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:22,600 Speaker 4: but it is a very big difference. 383 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:23,359 Speaker 2: Yeah. 384 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:26,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, And you're married to your wife, says she's your 385 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:28,640 Speaker 1: Your wife name is Chloe, she says, she's the CEO 386 00:17:28,720 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 1: of your life. She's an heiress to the Aston Martin fortune. 387 00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:34,920 Speaker 1: So you're basically a kept man by your wife. So 388 00:17:34,960 --> 00:17:37,200 Speaker 1: how does that feel as a professional athlete? 389 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:41,119 Speaker 4: Yep, she's the CEO of Scutty James, as she says, 390 00:17:41,560 --> 00:17:43,639 Speaker 4: and she keeps the trains on the tracks. 391 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:46,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, how did you lock that down? Scudy? 392 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:48,919 Speaker 4: Well, I mean, should we go down the whole the 393 00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 4: whole story? She always says, I don't tell the story 394 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:53,720 Speaker 4: in detail, but today I can make the exception of 395 00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:54,159 Speaker 4: doing that. 396 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:54,960 Speaker 2: Absolutely. 397 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:57,160 Speaker 1: We have a lot of female listeners, so they definitely 398 00:17:57,160 --> 00:17:58,040 Speaker 1: want the details. 399 00:17:58,200 --> 00:18:02,040 Speaker 4: So yeah, gotcha. Okay, Well, I explained it in my 400 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:05,879 Speaker 4: wedding speeches, me being Carrie Bradshaw from Sex and the City, 401 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:09,200 Speaker 4: and I was in New York City walking down one 402 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:11,320 Speaker 4: of the streets in New York and I was thinking, 403 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 4: you know, maybe tonight's the night my love story is 404 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:16,640 Speaker 4: about to begin. And I was playing that that audio 405 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:20,240 Speaker 4: in my head. Walked to a restaurant called Motel Morris 406 00:18:20,240 --> 00:18:22,639 Speaker 4: in New York City. It's on the corner of I 407 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:25,120 Speaker 4: wan't say seventh and eighteenth, but I could be wrong. 408 00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:28,280 Speaker 4: We got to the restaurant, I met Chloe. I knew 409 00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:31,920 Speaker 4: her brother actually before I met Chloe connected us and 410 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:35,720 Speaker 4: sure enough here we are married with a little little 411 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 4: guy as well, and I'm still friends with her brother. 412 00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:41,960 Speaker 1: So so what was your move? What did you say 413 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:43,679 Speaker 1: to her? When did you know that you liked her? 414 00:18:43,680 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 1: And then how did you follow up on it? 415 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:50,879 Speaker 4: M I mean, I think initially she was probably a 416 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:55,920 Speaker 4: bit skeptical, had a very similar experience as yourself with snowboarders. 417 00:18:56,359 --> 00:18:59,720 Speaker 4: Her dad frankly didn't like the idea of a snowboarder. 418 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:03,400 Speaker 4: Apparently when she was younger, she was also run over 419 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:06,399 Speaker 4: by a snowboarder, so off to a bad start before 420 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 4: I even walked into the restaurant, so approval from dad 421 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:14,320 Speaker 4: was like big no, no, snowboarder. Naturally, over time, the 422 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:17,800 Speaker 4: accent played a bit of a role and you know, 423 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 4: we both shared a couple of bottles of wine and 424 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:21,840 Speaker 4: that helps. 425 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:26,399 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, okay, that does help. The accent also helps. 426 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:31,240 Speaker 1: For some reason, Americans are just like, she's American, right, Canadian? Canadian? 427 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:33,960 Speaker 1: Was same thing? Well actually not now, but usually it's 428 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:37,920 Speaker 1: the same thing. But yes, yes, and we're suckers for accents. 429 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:41,560 Speaker 1: It doesn't really matter which one any will do. We 430 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:45,200 Speaker 1: just love an accent. So that gets you, That gets 431 00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 1: you further for. 432 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:49,440 Speaker 4: Sure, hopefully in some cases. Yes, yeah, yeah. 433 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:50,720 Speaker 2: And now you guys have a kid. You have a 434 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:51,359 Speaker 2: one year old? 435 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, little Leo. He's one in a few months now. 436 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:57,120 Speaker 4: I'm told myself, I'm not going to be the dad 437 00:19:57,119 --> 00:19:59,840 Speaker 4: that says like says it by the months. I'm like, 438 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:02,720 Speaker 4: he's won in three months. I'm I'm not going to 439 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:05,359 Speaker 4: be like a he's a twenty month No, I would 440 00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 4: do it too confusing. Just he's one year and a bit. 441 00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:10,200 Speaker 4: That's where that's where he's at that moment. 442 00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:13,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly exactly. The people who talk in months. 443 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:15,919 Speaker 1: I once had somebody talk to me and said, Tommy 444 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:17,760 Speaker 1: that her child was seventy two months. 445 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:20,600 Speaker 2: I was like, what, I was like, is that five? 446 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:22,760 Speaker 2: What are you talking about do you mean five? 447 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:25,480 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't even know what seventy two months is, 448 00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:27,119 Speaker 1: but it's long and I don't have time for that. 449 00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:29,920 Speaker 1: Has your son hit the slopes yet? Have you put 450 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:31,640 Speaker 1: him on a snowboard yet? 451 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:34,760 Speaker 4: Not yet? No? No. I went up on the hill 452 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:37,119 Speaker 4: and I put him in the backpack and we went riding, 453 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:39,879 Speaker 4: which was really fun. But I haven't got him on 454 00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:42,040 Speaker 4: the board yet. A lot of people ask me that question. 455 00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:45,440 Speaker 4: But we'll see when the time's right he can give 456 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:45,760 Speaker 4: it a go. 457 00:20:46,040 --> 00:20:46,600 Speaker 2: Absolutely. 458 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:49,440 Speaker 1: Okay, let's move on to snowboarding and why it's what 459 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:54,440 Speaker 1: is the what is the problem? What when you are 460 00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:58,399 Speaker 1: not a professional athlete like yourself. I want to know, 461 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 1: and I don't want to shame snow borders. I'm dating 462 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:03,000 Speaker 1: as somebody who's snowboards right now. I'm trying to transition 463 00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:04,359 Speaker 1: him to skiing, but I don't know that could be 464 00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:05,160 Speaker 1: a bigger commitment. 465 00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:08,399 Speaker 2: But what is the issue. 466 00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:10,960 Speaker 1: Between skiers and snowboarders and where does it come from? 467 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:14,159 Speaker 1: And are there different two different sets of etiquette or 468 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:15,520 Speaker 1: one set of etiquette? 469 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:18,040 Speaker 4: I mean, I think I think it's more so the 470 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:20,920 Speaker 4: skiers have the problem with the snowboarders, not the other 471 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:23,880 Speaker 4: way around. I mean, it's just it's the history. 472 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:28,240 Speaker 2: And but why is there such tension. Why why it's 473 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:29,560 Speaker 2: like England and Ireland. 474 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 1: Why you don't think snowboarders care about skiers. They don't 475 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 1: have a problem, They wouldn't want a snowboard only mountain. 476 00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:41,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. I don't know what the gripe is between the two. 477 00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,399 Speaker 4: I don't have an agenda. I'm like, if you like 478 00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:45,919 Speaker 4: the mountains and you have as much fun as I do, 479 00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 4: go ahead. But you know, maybe snowboarders in this case 480 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:52,640 Speaker 4: where you're getting run over and you know, Chloe's been 481 00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:55,040 Speaker 4: run over in the past, is just not building a 482 00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:58,439 Speaker 4: great strong case for us. There's also mountains still in 483 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:02,880 Speaker 4: the US where you're not allowed to snowboard. So yeah. 484 00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:05,439 Speaker 4: I actually, funnily enough, when I stayed at the hotel 485 00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:08,119 Speaker 4: at one of those mountains before, and it's quite a 486 00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:11,120 Speaker 4: strange experience, fighting with not going out on the hill 487 00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 4: but staying in the hotels, felt like I was really 488 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 4: in the wrong territory. 489 00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:17,800 Speaker 2: Where were you at Deer Valley? Are you talking about 490 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:18,320 Speaker 2: Deer Valley? 491 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:21,000 Speaker 4: Yeah? I was there, Yeah, Yeah, I know. 492 00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:24,280 Speaker 2: I love it there because there are no snowboarders. I mean, 493 00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:26,359 Speaker 2: I want us to get along. I do. I just 494 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:28,600 Speaker 2: don't understand that. It's like it's like a different ilk. 495 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:31,200 Speaker 1: It's like they just come and it's so rough, and 496 00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:33,200 Speaker 1: then you hear them and you can't see them, and 497 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:35,520 Speaker 1: and but it's not it's not the behavior of the 498 00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:39,439 Speaker 1: snowboard obviously, it's the behavior of the snowboarder. There's just 499 00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:43,000 Speaker 1: a more of all you. 500 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:43,560 Speaker 2: Guys think. 501 00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:47,679 Speaker 4: No, then we don't think it. It's just that we 502 00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:50,359 Speaker 4: can talk about facts. I mean, it's it's important to 503 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 4: get back to the show. You know. We we're more comfortable. 504 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:56,680 Speaker 4: We walk around like in shoes. You know, we could 505 00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:59,359 Speaker 4: wake up, roll out of our bed. It's like slippers 506 00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:01,400 Speaker 4: and I could wear those until I go to bed 507 00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:03,639 Speaker 4: at night. I just also think that skiers are a 508 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:07,320 Speaker 4: little bit upset and they're just like they're just angry 509 00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:08,320 Speaker 4: that they can't do that. 510 00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:11,359 Speaker 1: Here we go, here it comes. I don't think we 511 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:15,240 Speaker 1: have a problem with skiers. And now he unleashes, unleashes 512 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:18,359 Speaker 1: this vitriol. How old were you when you went to 513 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:19,440 Speaker 1: your first Olympics? 514 00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:22,200 Speaker 4: First Olympics, I was fifteen. 515 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:24,360 Speaker 2: Okay, so that's crazy, and how old were you when 516 00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:25,040 Speaker 2: you left home. 517 00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:28,919 Speaker 4: I left home when I was sort of pursue it 518 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:33,160 Speaker 4: when my parents decided, well and myself, it was all 519 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:36,399 Speaker 4: of us and my family collectively decided I wanted to 520 00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:39,680 Speaker 4: pursue it professionally. I was twelve. I was really young, 521 00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 4: so it was a massive commitment from my parents to 522 00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:45,560 Speaker 4: have the trust in my coach at the time and 523 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:48,159 Speaker 4: his sister to look after me not only on the mountain, 524 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:50,960 Speaker 4: but off the mountain as well. And through that time 525 00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:55,119 Speaker 4: from twelve, I was able to realize a professional career 526 00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:58,679 Speaker 4: in the sport. And then by fourteen I was offered 527 00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:01,639 Speaker 4: the opportunity to go on wrappers in Australia, which was 528 00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:06,360 Speaker 4: a unique special experience and you know, fortunately making it there. 529 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:09,920 Speaker 4: I was fifteen at the time and taking full adventage 530 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:12,080 Speaker 4: of all the free McDonald's in Vancouver. 531 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,600 Speaker 1: That's nice that you could take you McDonald's while you're 532 00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:16,919 Speaker 1: a teenager growing up and. 533 00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:19,840 Speaker 4: The case anymore, No, no, you can't. 534 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,080 Speaker 2: As soon as you're an adult. You have to stop that. 535 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 1: But what was it like leaving your family at twelve 536 00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:28,400 Speaker 1: years old? I mean that must have been emotional and 537 00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:31,520 Speaker 1: for all of you guys, for your siblings, for your parents, 538 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:32,080 Speaker 1: for you. 539 00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:37,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, it was hugely emotional. And recently we just made 540 00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:41,000 Speaker 4: a documentary and for the first time in a long time, 541 00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:44,159 Speaker 4: you know, it was kind of the first time that 542 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:47,480 Speaker 4: I'd really heard everyone else's experience about that. I mean, 543 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:51,240 Speaker 4: it's almost been twenty years since since that moment when 544 00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 4: I left Melbourne and going away overseas on my own. 545 00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:57,239 Speaker 4: I remember being at the airport and it was just 546 00:24:57,400 --> 00:25:01,160 Speaker 4: the floodgates are open. Everyone was very emotional, myself included. 547 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 4: All the way through the flight from Melbourne to Sydney, 548 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 4: I was crying, and then all the way over to Europe. 549 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:10,920 Speaker 4: And yeah, I think that my parents didn't even realize 550 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:14,400 Speaker 4: how emotional I was until we watched the film recently. 551 00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:17,359 Speaker 4: And then I didn't realize out their side of the 552 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:20,960 Speaker 4: story until we watched it recently as well. And my 553 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 4: mum said to me the other day, She's like, you know, 554 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:25,480 Speaker 4: if we had have known how upset you were, we 555 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:27,440 Speaker 4: never would have sent you. And I said to Mum, 556 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:29,720 Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, but look what we've realized, Like 557 00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:32,840 Speaker 4: as much as much as it was so hard in 558 00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:35,080 Speaker 4: the moment, and you know, I do think that all 559 00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:39,680 Speaker 4: extraordinary things that you want to try and accomplish takes hardship, 560 00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,919 Speaker 4: and you know that was mine. But I was able 561 00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:46,119 Speaker 4: to travel with great people and I was in a 562 00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 4: good and safe environment. It was a challenging time. But 563 00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:50,960 Speaker 4: it's nice to reflect on now. 564 00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would imagine it just gives you so much. A. 565 00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:58,679 Speaker 1: You grew up real quick, right, and B you just 566 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,359 Speaker 1: become really independent and self sufficient at a young age, 567 00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:02,960 Speaker 1: even if you do have people helping you. 568 00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely. And I think you know even more so 569 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:11,120 Speaker 4: is you know the stigma. It's snowboarding, it's smarking, it's drinking, 570 00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:14,480 Speaker 4: it's partying, it's you know, it's it's a wild same 571 00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:15,600 Speaker 4: still today as. 572 00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:19,880 Speaker 1: I love all things I love and start snowboarding exactly, 573 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:21,000 Speaker 1: you can do that while you ski. 574 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:22,040 Speaker 2: Also, by the way, just. 575 00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:28,560 Speaker 4: So my parents isn't there naturally, I mean now I'm 576 00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:31,359 Speaker 4: a data would be thinking about that. The environment and 577 00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:33,280 Speaker 4: the and the world you got into. It's evolved a 578 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,879 Speaker 4: lot since then, but yeah, a lot of factors for 579 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:37,520 Speaker 4: them to think about, which I'm sure and I lost 580 00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:38,159 Speaker 4: sleep over. 581 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:41,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, and also I'm sure, and also it's such a 582 00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:43,120 Speaker 1: and you're the baby on top of it. 583 00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:45,640 Speaker 2: But it's also such a solitary sport. 584 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:46,000 Speaker 5: You know. 585 00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:47,960 Speaker 1: It's like, I mean, I guess all these kind of 586 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:51,760 Speaker 1: mountain sports are very solitary unless you're doing you know, 587 00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:54,840 Speaker 1: like you know, you're working together. But like, how does 588 00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:58,760 Speaker 1: how does that impact your relationship with other athletes, and 589 00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:01,199 Speaker 1: how does it impact your relationship with your coaches like 590 00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:04,080 Speaker 1: you become is it like would you compare it to 591 00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:06,400 Speaker 1: maybe like a tennis player or do you feel more 592 00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:07,879 Speaker 1: like you're on more of a team. 593 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:11,440 Speaker 4: Yeah? Sure, so I think the unique thing about snowboarding 594 00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:14,960 Speaker 4: or our world, which is very cool, is everyone does 595 00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:16,920 Speaker 4: have a good relationship. So you're up there at the 596 00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 4: top of the pipe, for example, you know, some might 597 00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:22,760 Speaker 4: wish each other luck, like it's a little bit more 598 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:26,399 Speaker 4: call it happy go lucky in the sense of being 599 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:29,800 Speaker 4: a little bit less cutthroat. I'm probably more so on 600 00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:31,920 Speaker 4: the other side where I'm up there, I have intention, 601 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:36,240 Speaker 4: I'm not necessarily focused on making friends in that exact moment. 602 00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:40,320 Speaker 4: But yeah, I would say that there is a sense 603 00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:44,080 Speaker 4: of solitude that you have to be okay with being alone, 604 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:49,680 Speaker 4: be okay with being extremely selfish about what your endeavors are. 605 00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 4: You're you're not doing it for anyone. You have to 606 00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:54,280 Speaker 4: be so I guess obsessed with the craft to want 607 00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:57,160 Speaker 4: to do it for yourself. I've always found my team 608 00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:59,840 Speaker 4: is more so you know, my family, other people that 609 00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:02,720 Speaker 4: have helped me in my journey. Like that's the kind 610 00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,320 Speaker 4: of weight that I ride with. Is. I'm doing it 611 00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:07,679 Speaker 4: because it wouldn't be satisfying enough for me if I 612 00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:09,920 Speaker 4: was just up there with my own intent every week 613 00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 4: to just do it for myself. I think my team 614 00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:15,160 Speaker 4: is I want to do well for them. But yeah, 615 00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:17,560 Speaker 4: you're right, there is. It's a little bit more like 616 00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:20,680 Speaker 4: a tennis player rather than a football team for sure. 617 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 2: M Yeah, that's interesting. 618 00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:25,159 Speaker 1: Well, I mean you get to travel all over to 619 00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:27,760 Speaker 1: the world to train in different places. 620 00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:31,000 Speaker 2: What is there anywhere you prefer never to go back to? 621 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:39,040 Speaker 4: Uh? We did World Championships in Georgia a couple of 622 00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:39,600 Speaker 4: years ago. 623 00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:41,560 Speaker 2: Georgia the country the country? 624 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:45,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, the country in Georgia. I forget the 625 00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:47,840 Speaker 4: name of the mountain. We were very far from anywhere 626 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:50,920 Speaker 4: more so it's actually the country was cool, but this 627 00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:54,880 Speaker 4: where we were, the weather conditions it was out there, 628 00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:56,760 Speaker 4: so probably there. 629 00:28:57,440 --> 00:28:59,360 Speaker 1: I think Georgia is the country where I saw that 630 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:03,080 Speaker 1: video that viral one year with like the gondola where 631 00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,600 Speaker 1: the gondola chairs were put on backwards and then they 632 00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:08,640 Speaker 1: started turning. They they've flipped it and reversed it, and 633 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:11,440 Speaker 1: then people were just flying off of the gondola because 634 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:14,800 Speaker 1: it was coming around like sixteen kilometers an hour. 635 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:19,000 Speaker 4: It was like flippingly sounds like sounds like something I 636 00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:22,479 Speaker 4: would have seen when I was there, So it probably was. 637 00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:26,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, tell us about your documentary. I want to hear 638 00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:26,520 Speaker 2: about that. 639 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, it was. It's been really fun. I mean, as 640 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:34,240 Speaker 4: the we made the documentary called pipe Dream and came 641 00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:37,560 Speaker 4: out on Netflix and December nineteen, so it's still early 642 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:42,240 Speaker 4: days fun, which is yeah, it has been awesome, and yeah, 643 00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:46,800 Speaker 4: I think overall it's obviously incredibly rewarding to have been 644 00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:49,680 Speaker 4: able to go on such an amazing platform for myself, 645 00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:53,880 Speaker 4: but also just for snowbarding. Is really exciting just to 646 00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:57,920 Speaker 4: get more people, hopefully more viewers and eyes and everyone 647 00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:01,040 Speaker 4: engaged in and what we're doing here in the mountains. 648 00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:05,920 Speaker 4: And it was a pretty emotional like process getting it 649 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:09,400 Speaker 4: all together and obviously hearing from my family and other 650 00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:13,760 Speaker 4: peers and hearing from other you know, snowboarding competitors present 651 00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:16,840 Speaker 4: in the past, and so it's quite cool to hear 652 00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:20,040 Speaker 4: a lot of people's perspective which I actually haven't heard before. 653 00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:23,400 Speaker 4: So yeah, it was a rewarding process, long process, but 654 00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:26,080 Speaker 4: really really cool. And I've never told my story like 655 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,120 Speaker 4: that before, which was which was fun to do. 656 00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:29,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't wait to see it. 657 00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:33,200 Speaker 1: That's that's that must be really interesting to see all 658 00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:35,480 Speaker 1: these people talk about you, because I think in life, 659 00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:37,600 Speaker 1: you know, we talk about this a lot on this podcast, 660 00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:41,160 Speaker 1: like you don't really have time necessarily to reflect on 661 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 1: things like especially when you're going, like you're an athlete, 662 00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:45,480 Speaker 1: like you're training all year long. 663 00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:47,600 Speaker 2: Literally what you have like a month off a year 664 00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:50,480 Speaker 2: or something? Is that right? A month off? 665 00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:54,120 Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, it's probably say three months because you go 666 00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:58,840 Speaker 4: Northern Hemisphere season which starts in October, goes through to 667 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,720 Speaker 4: April week of May, then you have June off, then 668 00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:06,160 Speaker 4: you you know, then the Southern Hemisphere win to start, 669 00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:09,480 Speaker 4: so you're kind of obviously is always constantly chasing winter, 670 00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:11,560 Speaker 4: so you get a few months off a year. 671 00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:13,920 Speaker 1: Okay, So if you had to describe before we move 672 00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:15,320 Speaker 1: on to the next part of that, I just want 673 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:18,120 Speaker 1: to I want to know what you when you are 674 00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:21,520 Speaker 1: starting and you're competing, and you're listening to music to 675 00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:24,320 Speaker 1: get ready once it starts. What is in your head 676 00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:27,440 Speaker 1: if you fall behind by a fraction of a second 677 00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:29,480 Speaker 1: or you don't hit the same there's something that you 678 00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:31,920 Speaker 1: want to hit. What do you say to yourself in 679 00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:34,360 Speaker 1: that moment when something doesn't land like it's supposed to 680 00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:35,600 Speaker 1: land one hundred percent? 681 00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 4: Honestly, I reflect on in that exact moment, I'd just say, 682 00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:46,360 Speaker 4: fuck it, let's just go get it done, because you 683 00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:48,840 Speaker 4: can spend so much time thinking about, Oh, I should 684 00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:51,320 Speaker 4: have done this better, did I prepare well enough? What's 685 00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:55,480 Speaker 4: he going to do? You know, everyone's watching, everyone's expecting. 686 00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:58,440 Speaker 4: It's like, that's what I do. I just say effort, 687 00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:03,160 Speaker 4: And I think there is this really amazing piece in 688 00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:07,800 Speaker 4: being able to say that confidently, because that's like the 689 00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:10,640 Speaker 4: best part about what I do is when you can 690 00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:13,600 Speaker 4: drop in and just be so present in the moment 691 00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:18,400 Speaker 4: with every trick and enjoying the environment. That's what That's 692 00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:19,920 Speaker 4: what I try and focus on. It would be in 693 00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 4: the case. I'm sure it's similar for you. If you're 694 00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:24,600 Speaker 4: going out for a big gig or doing stand up, 695 00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:28,520 Speaker 4: it's like, you've prepared so much, you have ten more seconds. 696 00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:31,760 Speaker 4: What else can you do other than just be like, like, 697 00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:33,880 Speaker 4: let's just get after it and see how we go 698 00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:36,520 Speaker 4: and if things happen, it happens, and you're going to 699 00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:39,920 Speaker 4: learn from it. And that's what I do. Embrace that 700 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,920 Speaker 4: a lot. I think that, you know, you do spend 701 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,200 Speaker 4: a lot of time preparing, and you can become way 702 00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:48,200 Speaker 4: too meticulous and overthinking and over over everything that you 703 00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:52,720 Speaker 4: end up actually giving yourself. You have no satisfaction because 704 00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:54,360 Speaker 4: you're like, well, what was all the work for if 705 00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:55,920 Speaker 4: I can't just embrace the moment? 706 00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:59,280 Speaker 1: So I do focus on that, yeah, yeah, And do 707 00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,520 Speaker 1: you find that that's different now as you've gotten older, 708 00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:03,480 Speaker 1: that you're more in the present moment than you were 709 00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:05,160 Speaker 1: when you were competing as a younger person. 710 00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:10,600 Speaker 4: Definitely, one hundred percent, I think naturally, you know, still young, 711 00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:15,320 Speaker 4: but going through you know time when you're younger, you 712 00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 4: do spend and waste so much time thinking about things 713 00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:21,320 Speaker 4: that just do not matter at all, whether that's on 714 00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:23,760 Speaker 4: the mountain or off the mountain. You know, I did that, 715 00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:27,680 Speaker 4: went through that, whereas now I'm very much yeah, very present, 716 00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:30,520 Speaker 4: you know, I know what I want to accomplish. I 717 00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:32,600 Speaker 4: know who I am as a person. My two feet 718 00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:35,480 Speaker 4: are on the ground, and I do lean into that. 719 00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:38,080 Speaker 1: Like if you had one weakness that you would that 720 00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:39,960 Speaker 1: you would like to work on, or that you were 721 00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:41,400 Speaker 1: working on, what would that be. 722 00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:45,600 Speaker 4: It's a good question. I My weakness would probably. 723 00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:48,440 Speaker 2: Be besides being a snowboarder. 724 00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:54,440 Speaker 4: Besides being a snowboater, it would be, to be honest, 725 00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:57,480 Speaker 4: It's still it's funny like even after having found such 726 00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:00,360 Speaker 4: a groove in you know, maybe whatever you do find 727 00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:03,680 Speaker 4: success as in my case, being able to compete really 728 00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:07,480 Speaker 4: well and do well in advance, is still belief. Like you, 729 00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:11,680 Speaker 4: I still have moments where you know you prepare so 730 00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:15,920 Speaker 4: well and you're like, all I have to do is 731 00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:17,879 Speaker 4: show up and put my best foot forward and land 732 00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:20,160 Speaker 4: a really amazing run and it all you know, it'll 733 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,959 Speaker 4: go my way where well enough and in tune enough 734 00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:24,839 Speaker 4: that we know when we have the tools to win. 735 00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:27,000 Speaker 4: If you don't, you know where you're kind of at. 736 00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:31,560 Speaker 4: And I still sometimes I battle with that belief of 737 00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:36,640 Speaker 4: can I actually realize now what I'm trying to accomplish 738 00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:39,200 Speaker 4: and have I taken the right steps to get there? 739 00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:42,560 Speaker 4: So I would say that that's something that I continue 740 00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:46,760 Speaker 4: to work on. But because as much as I still 741 00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:48,799 Speaker 4: I am working on, I also think it's kind of 742 00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:51,640 Speaker 4: my blessing because then I don't take advantage of any 743 00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:55,880 Speaker 4: day every opportunity is an opportunity. I try and squeeze 744 00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:59,440 Speaker 4: every opportunity that I can training, And maybe that's that 745 00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:02,200 Speaker 4: lack of belief that it makes me go overboard in 746 00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:04,680 Speaker 4: term with my preparation my training. So I don't know, 747 00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,759 Speaker 4: it's probably whether it's a weakness or maybe it could 748 00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:10,160 Speaker 4: might not be, but that would be right, Yeah. 749 00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:12,799 Speaker 1: I mean circling back to this subject or the like 750 00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:15,440 Speaker 1: the topic of reflection, like I always think, you know, 751 00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:18,239 Speaker 1: if there's something big, high stakes in my life which 752 00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:21,080 Speaker 1: is obviously very different than yours, but like I always think, okay, 753 00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:23,640 Speaker 1: think about all the things that led to you being here, Like, 754 00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:26,000 Speaker 1: think about all of where you came from. So like 755 00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:28,280 Speaker 1: when I talk about reflection, like I know, as an athlete, 756 00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:31,080 Speaker 1: you're you know, you're moving so fast, you're training so much, 757 00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:34,960 Speaker 1: you have limited time off or limited off season, and 758 00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:37,360 Speaker 1: it's like you you really have to take note of 759 00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:40,480 Speaker 1: where you began and where you've come, how far you've 760 00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:43,680 Speaker 1: come you know, as a reminder for anyone really in 761 00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:46,120 Speaker 1: any situation, it's like, oh, I'm the one who got 762 00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:48,600 Speaker 1: myself all the way here, obviously with help of coaches 763 00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:51,960 Speaker 1: and support from your family, et cetera, but to and 764 00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:53,799 Speaker 1: your wife, but also. 765 00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:57,400 Speaker 2: To really remember, like how you know how far you've come? 766 00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely. And I think that the one I always 767 00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:05,400 Speaker 4: sit on a lot is the courage. I think everyone 768 00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:08,520 Speaker 4: we all have passions, we all have something that we 769 00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:12,000 Speaker 4: want to realize in our lives. And I feel very 770 00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:14,200 Speaker 4: fortunate that I'm one of the ones that was had 771 00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:17,640 Speaker 4: the courage to actually continue and go for it, particularly 772 00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:20,799 Speaker 4: with you know, the setbacks that you have when you're young. 773 00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:24,440 Speaker 4: And I think that's across a lot of people always 774 00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:26,160 Speaker 4: ask me like, oh, who do you look up to? 775 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:28,799 Speaker 4: Who do you know admire in your life? And to 776 00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,920 Speaker 4: be honest, I don't have one person. It's always people 777 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:34,239 Speaker 4: that I look at and I hear their story and 778 00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:37,920 Speaker 4: I hear about their adversity and their courage who actually 779 00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:39,799 Speaker 4: pursue what they want to do in their life. And 780 00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:43,040 Speaker 4: that's hard. So I do focus on that too. Is 781 00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:46,480 Speaker 4: the courage. Takes a lot of courage to actually commit 782 00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:49,879 Speaker 4: to your passion in life. And I've done that, which 783 00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:54,000 Speaker 4: has been rewarding and fortunately worked out. But yeah, yeah. 784 00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:56,200 Speaker 2: People always say that to me. Who do you look 785 00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:56,520 Speaker 2: up to? 786 00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:56,799 Speaker 4: Like? 787 00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:57,840 Speaker 2: Who is your favorite? 788 00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:00,000 Speaker 1: I was like, well, Bill Cosby, but that didn't really 789 00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:02,120 Speaker 1: work out for me, So I have to stop mentioning it. 790 00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:04,560 Speaker 2: That's not it's not a hero anymore. 791 00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:06,520 Speaker 1: Anyway, We're gonna take a break and we're gonna be 792 00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:14,520 Speaker 1: right back with Scottie James. Okay, And we're back with 793 00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:15,320 Speaker 1: Scotty James. 794 00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:15,800 Speaker 2: Okay. 795 00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:18,000 Speaker 1: Scotty James is on his way to the Olympics. So 796 00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,400 Speaker 1: and this is not his first time at the Olympics. 797 00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:21,760 Speaker 1: This is your fifth time. 798 00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:22,360 Speaker 2: At the Olympics. 799 00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,960 Speaker 4: Fifth Yes, vintage. 800 00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:28,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, vintage, fifth time, my gosh. Okay, So we now 801 00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:30,240 Speaker 1: we take questions from caller Scotty. 802 00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:30,880 Speaker 2: Are you ready? 803 00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:34,640 Speaker 1: I'm ready, You seem ready, You seem ready, yes, Catherine, what. 804 00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:35,080 Speaker 2: Do we got? 805 00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:35,600 Speaker 5: All? Right? 806 00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,560 Speaker 3: Well, we're gonna start with a couple skiing snowboarding questions, 807 00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:40,960 Speaker 3: but then move on to some interpersonal, juicy stuff. 808 00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:43,920 Speaker 1: So then we're gonna move on to some guynecology questions 809 00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:47,560 Speaker 1: just to keep you comfortable exactly right in your Wheelhouse. 810 00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:49,799 Speaker 3: So we're gonna start with a brand news segment, which 811 00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:52,360 Speaker 3: is our one drink question. And this is just a 812 00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:56,400 Speaker 3: little quickie. So our listener says, Dear Chelsea, this is 813 00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:58,000 Speaker 3: not an incredibly deep question. 814 00:37:58,280 --> 00:37:59,280 Speaker 2: It is about skiing. 815 00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:02,560 Speaker 3: I grew up snowboarding and decided I wanted to switch 816 00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:06,200 Speaker 3: to skiing after college. For longevity purposes. I visualize a 817 00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:08,440 Speaker 3: fifty year old version of myself who is a badass 818 00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:10,520 Speaker 3: gear and spends a third of my year and tell 819 00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:11,040 Speaker 3: you're ride. 820 00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:12,320 Speaker 2: Here are my questions. 821 00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:16,120 Speaker 3: One what age did you start spending serious time skiing? 822 00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:18,600 Speaker 2: Do you think thirty one is too late now? 823 00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:18,960 Speaker 4: Two? 824 00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:21,920 Speaker 3: How long did it take you to feel confident on blacks? 825 00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:25,279 Speaker 3: With age, my fearlessness has faded and I'm frustrated with 826 00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:27,879 Speaker 3: how much hesitation I have going down the mountain. How 827 00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:30,520 Speaker 3: many lessons did you have before you felt really capable 828 00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:32,360 Speaker 3: and confident to handle all terrain? 829 00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:35,719 Speaker 2: Great questions. I love it. First of all, I didn't 830 00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:36,480 Speaker 2: start getting. 831 00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:39,880 Speaker 1: Into skiing like seriously, seriously until I was like thirty nine. 832 00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,920 Speaker 1: I mean, I skied for in my thirties, but I 833 00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:46,520 Speaker 1: didn't start like taking like actual private instruction which are 834 00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:47,360 Speaker 1: pretty expensive. 835 00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:49,080 Speaker 2: So if you can afford that, great, But. 836 00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:53,919 Speaker 1: If not, your fearlessness gets replaced by competency. I would say, 837 00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:57,520 Speaker 1: you know, what you lose in fearlessness, you gain incompetency 838 00:38:57,560 --> 00:39:00,319 Speaker 1: and capability. So the more time you spend and on 839 00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:03,480 Speaker 1: the mountain, and the more runs you do in bad conditions, 840 00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:07,000 Speaker 1: in good conditions, in powder and groomers, all of it, 841 00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:10,120 Speaker 1: you become a better skier. And I like, I'm a 842 00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:13,040 Speaker 1: really good skier now. I could ski down pretty much anything. 843 00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:15,319 Speaker 1: My friends took me down something like two days ago 844 00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,839 Speaker 1: that I was like, if I had done that ten 845 00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:19,640 Speaker 1: years ago, I would never have taken I would never 846 00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:21,600 Speaker 1: have made it right. I would have been like, no way, 847 00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:23,960 Speaker 1: So that would have felt really good. But you know, 848 00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:27,080 Speaker 1: thirty one, Yeah, you're down. You could do whatever it takes, 849 00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,480 Speaker 1: like I think it takes a good one hundred days 850 00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:31,520 Speaker 1: on a mount but you want to get instruction from 851 00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:34,000 Speaker 1: someone who knows what they're doing so you don't create 852 00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:38,320 Speaker 1: really bad habits and then beat up your body, right Scotty. 853 00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:41,880 Speaker 4: Whoever asked the question lost me it. I transferred to skiing. 854 00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:46,600 Speaker 1: So my comment, first of all, and also to our 855 00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:49,959 Speaker 1: writer in you're doing the right thing by leaving snowboarding 856 00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:53,160 Speaker 1: and transferring to skiing. Scotty and I are from two 857 00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:56,400 Speaker 1: different schools of thought obviously, and I support you one 858 00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:57,120 Speaker 1: hundred percent. 859 00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:01,400 Speaker 2: And that's it. Problem solved, all right? It cheers. 860 00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:05,279 Speaker 4: Is that our one trick? Yes, Scotty and I can 861 00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:09,319 Speaker 4: confirm Chelsea is actually looking at potentially you told me 862 00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:12,520 Speaker 4: earlier you're looking at doing some instructing at a local resort. 863 00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:15,239 Speaker 4: So maybe, right, maybe you could take that on. 864 00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:17,399 Speaker 2: I got to get my level ones first. I gotta 865 00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:19,160 Speaker 2: get my level three and four. 866 00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:19,439 Speaker 4: Yeah. 867 00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:22,120 Speaker 1: Double blacks, Yeah, it takes a while to get down there. 868 00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:23,800 Speaker 1: But by the way, once you get good at skiing 869 00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:25,799 Speaker 1: and double black you don't even look at whether it's 870 00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:28,840 Speaker 1: black or blue or it doesn't matter. You're fine. 871 00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:32,480 Speaker 4: It's true now that to second you, you're right. I 872 00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:35,520 Speaker 4: think the more consistency you have and the more often 873 00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:39,160 Speaker 4: you do it and your curiosity is the way you 874 00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:41,399 Speaker 4: will win. So go for it. But you should stand 875 00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:41,960 Speaker 4: on board. 876 00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:43,759 Speaker 2: Yeah all right. 877 00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:47,560 Speaker 3: Well, our first caller today is Jess, and she is 878 00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:53,319 Speaker 3: calling in from Vancouver. So she says, dear Chelsea, I've 879 00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:56,319 Speaker 3: fallen up. This is another skiing question, but it will 880 00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:59,480 Speaker 3: make sense to you, Scottie. So I've fallen out of 881 00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:02,720 Speaker 3: love with skiing. Growing up, some of my best memories 882 00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:04,719 Speaker 3: were spent on the slopes, and I chose a grad 883 00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:07,960 Speaker 3: school partly based on proximity to a hill. Post COVID, 884 00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:10,320 Speaker 3: I took a break from my studies and moved to Queenstown, 885 00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:12,799 Speaker 3: New Zealand to work on the ski field. I got 886 00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:15,960 Speaker 3: paid to ski every day and loved it. Wanting to improve, 887 00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:18,799 Speaker 3: I signed up for a ski instructor exam. I really 888 00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:22,080 Speaker 3: enjoyed developing my technique, and Chelsea, I too, ended up 889 00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:23,440 Speaker 3: sleeping with my ski instructor. 890 00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:24,320 Speaker 2: We're now married. 891 00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:27,920 Speaker 3: My husband is a highly skilled now sports professional and 892 00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,720 Speaker 3: skiing is central to his world. But within that world 893 00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:33,840 Speaker 3: I often don't feel welcome. When we're with his friends, 894 00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:38,040 Speaker 3: conversation revolves almost exclusively around ski technique and criticism of 895 00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:42,000 Speaker 3: the industry, and I largely feel excluded. Being surrounded by 896 00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:45,240 Speaker 3: constant evaluation has made me wonder what he thinks about 897 00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:48,160 Speaker 3: my skiing, what his peers think too. It's such a 898 00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:51,080 Speaker 3: visible sport, and I've seen the ego driven underside of it. 899 00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:54,200 Speaker 3: Over time, I've come to associate skiing with feeling inferior 900 00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:56,839 Speaker 3: when my husband and I do ski together, the days 901 00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:59,400 Speaker 3: have slowly morphed into being about filming him for YouTube 902 00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:02,879 Speaker 3: and marketing his way business. I've become the cliche. I've 903 00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:06,880 Speaker 3: become the cliche Instagram girlfriend. We moved to BC a 904 00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:10,160 Speaker 3: couple of years ago and have incredible skiing available to us. 905 00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:13,960 Speaker 3: We've had conversations about this, but I find myself sabotaging 906 00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:16,600 Speaker 3: ski days by offering just a film without being asked, 907 00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:18,240 Speaker 3: just to avoid skiing myself. 908 00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:21,360 Speaker 2: Honestly, I'd rather be in the lodge with a margarita. Chelsea. 909 00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:23,640 Speaker 3: How can I build my ski self esteem and fall 910 00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:25,080 Speaker 3: back in love with the mountains again? 911 00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:26,400 Speaker 2: Thanks so much, Jess. 912 00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:29,080 Speaker 1: Well, Jess, it feels like you got to find a 913 00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:31,480 Speaker 1: group of like women to ski with so that you 914 00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:33,279 Speaker 1: don't feel like that you got a new I mean, 915 00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:34,680 Speaker 1: it doesn't even have to be women. It just has 916 00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:37,880 Speaker 1: to be people that aren't that judgy or so psychotically 917 00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:40,000 Speaker 1: talking about skiing all the time. 918 00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:40,879 Speaker 2: That's not fun either. 919 00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:43,240 Speaker 1: Nobody wants to talk about technique all the time unless 920 00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:45,080 Speaker 1: you're Scotty and you're on your way to the Olympics 921 00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:46,160 Speaker 1: and that's all you have. 922 00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:46,680 Speaker 2: To talk about. 923 00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:48,960 Speaker 4: Even I don't do that, I promise. 924 00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:52,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, actually go back and tell them Scotty James doesn't 925 00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:54,239 Speaker 1: even talk about it as much as you guys do, 926 00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:55,960 Speaker 1: and he's competing in the Olympics. 927 00:42:57,040 --> 00:43:00,319 Speaker 5: Yeah. When I was in New Zealand, we had worked 928 00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:02,080 Speaker 5: in the industry a little bit and I found some 929 00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:04,840 Speaker 5: group of women that were a little bit less intense 930 00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:07,200 Speaker 5: about it, so it was really fun. But I haven't 931 00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:10,680 Speaker 5: quite found that yere in BC and Canada. But yeah, 932 00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:11,840 Speaker 5: I think that's a great idea. 933 00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:14,040 Speaker 2: But you know what, you could find ski groups online. 934 00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:16,799 Speaker 1: You know there's like I'm in a ski group on Saturdays, 935 00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:19,640 Speaker 1: like Club Link at Whistler Black Home where I ski. 936 00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:21,319 Speaker 1: You know, we have a guy that just cuts the 937 00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:23,360 Speaker 1: lines for us, you know when it's busy and like 938 00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:23,880 Speaker 1: takes us. 939 00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:25,600 Speaker 2: It's fun. You can do that. 940 00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:29,160 Speaker 1: You can join and then Cyprus and Grouse are in Vancouver. 941 00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:31,759 Speaker 2: I mean that's so much fun night skiing. I love that. 942 00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:34,359 Speaker 2: But yeah, I would just change the channel. Like, first 943 00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:35,600 Speaker 2: of all, stop. 944 00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:38,560 Speaker 1: Going and recording your boyfriend husband whatever he is, Like, 945 00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:39,680 Speaker 1: why what are. 946 00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:43,560 Speaker 2: You as assistant? I mean that's not fun for anyone. 947 00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:47,400 Speaker 2: I mean, do you have children, No, not yet exactly but. 948 00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:50,680 Speaker 1: That's why you shouldn't been filming anybody, because he's an 949 00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:54,279 Speaker 1: adult man. I mean, you know, Scotty, what do you 950 00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:55,640 Speaker 1: have to say to this anything? 951 00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:59,000 Speaker 4: I would say. Firstly, you welcome over to our side 952 00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:01,160 Speaker 4: any day of the week. The snowboarding can get you 953 00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:04,799 Speaker 4: some snowboards, yeah we can. We can bring you in. 954 00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:09,400 Speaker 4: It'll be a warm welcome. Secondly, it's actually really interesting. 955 00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:11,960 Speaker 4: My ears pricked up when you said that you sometimes 956 00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:15,160 Speaker 4: don't feel like you fit in into conversation. It doesn't 957 00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:18,640 Speaker 4: matter your level. I have that same feeling in my world. 958 00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:23,400 Speaker 4: Sometimes there's maybe a certain type of person or a 959 00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:27,840 Speaker 4: certain type of you know, way that people perceive snowboarders 960 00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:29,920 Speaker 4: or skis in this case to be and if you 961 00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:32,879 Speaker 4: don't fit that mold, you don't really feel like you're 962 00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:36,200 Speaker 4: a part of what they're doing. And it's you know, 963 00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:38,759 Speaker 4: even for me, I always got a bit insecure about that. 964 00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:42,360 Speaker 4: But I think that the second that you realize, I 965 00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:44,600 Speaker 4: guess who you are and what you're doing and why 966 00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:47,560 Speaker 4: you're actually even out there. Like firstly, you're just wanting 967 00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:49,719 Speaker 4: to have fun, and that's what anyone should be up 968 00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:53,080 Speaker 4: there doing. If you're not pursuing it professionally, I think, 969 00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:56,080 Speaker 4: just find a bit of sanity and that you actually 970 00:44:56,200 --> 00:44:58,400 Speaker 4: enjoy it. And if people start to have a go 971 00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:01,720 Speaker 4: at you about not being on that level of knowledge, 972 00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:05,439 Speaker 4: like he gives a shit, it doesn't matter, like at all. 973 00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:08,719 Speaker 5: It is quite a made up sport, I suppose to, 974 00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:11,040 Speaker 5: you know, unless you're in a gate and you're trying 975 00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:13,319 Speaker 5: to get from A to B really quickly, or you're 976 00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:15,600 Speaker 5: being judged on specific criteria. 977 00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:16,160 Speaker 4: Is made up. 978 00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:17,920 Speaker 5: So I do try to tell myself that, like, it 979 00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:20,000 Speaker 5: doesn't really matter what I look like. I'm still having 980 00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:22,680 Speaker 5: fun and that's the point. But but yeah, there's definitely 981 00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:25,520 Speaker 5: a little bit of ego and I think that comparison 982 00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:26,720 Speaker 5: that yeah. 983 00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:28,520 Speaker 2: But that's men. I mean that's why, like don't sky 984 00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:30,680 Speaker 2: with a group of men, Like that's just not fun. 985 00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:32,560 Speaker 2: You know, you have solution. 986 00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:35,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like one exceptions. 987 00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:38,120 Speaker 1: Yeah there are Scott, You're seem like a really nice guy, 988 00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:41,080 Speaker 1: but again, you know, still a snowboarder, a world champion, 989 00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:44,440 Speaker 1: but a snowboarder nonetheless, So you just got to get 990 00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:46,200 Speaker 1: you got to change the channel and decide who you're 991 00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:48,000 Speaker 1: skiing with and just be honest with your partner and 992 00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:50,200 Speaker 1: be like, listen, it's not fun. I don't feel like 993 00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:52,240 Speaker 1: I want to have fun on skis. I'm like losing 994 00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:54,560 Speaker 1: my love. Have you expressed that to him, by the way. 995 00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:56,399 Speaker 6: Yeah, we've We've talked about it a bit. 996 00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:59,080 Speaker 5: I think the worst season was last season, just I 997 00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:01,520 Speaker 5: didn't actually get as day to ski to myself, But 998 00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:05,120 Speaker 5: he knows how I feel. The issue is that he's 999 00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:08,400 Speaker 5: trying to make YouTube his business, and I'm kind of 1000 00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:11,680 Speaker 5: tied into that as well, right, Like, he doesn't really 1001 00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:14,080 Speaker 5: have anyone else to go out with him, so sometimes 1002 00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:17,160 Speaker 5: sometimes I kind of get pulled into that. But I 1003 00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:19,880 Speaker 5: guess trying to make that boundary or draw that line. 1004 00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:21,719 Speaker 2: A college student, find a college student to do that. 1005 00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:23,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, that's a good idea. 1006 00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:25,160 Speaker 1: Great idea, And I wasn't going to say that, but 1007 00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:26,799 Speaker 1: I was going to say, you can also do you know, 1008 00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:29,040 Speaker 1: you do something for him and then he does, you know, 1009 00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:31,160 Speaker 1: and then okay, in exchange for that, you get to 1010 00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:34,080 Speaker 1: go skiing alone, or you go skiing with a group 1011 00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:35,800 Speaker 1: of people, or you go skiing and he's not allowed 1012 00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:38,279 Speaker 1: to talk about skiing for the entire day. You know, 1013 00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:42,160 Speaker 1: like figure out what the compromise is while you're skiing. 1014 00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:45,320 Speaker 2: He's you're not allowed to talk about skiing. Wall we're skiing. 1015 00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:51,160 Speaker 4: It's one margarite, I mean, come on, yeah, oh good negotiation. 1016 00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:53,760 Speaker 1: What is your drink of choice on the mountain, Scotty, 1017 00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:55,960 Speaker 1: When you can have a drink when you are celebrating, 1018 00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:56,400 Speaker 1: what is it? 1019 00:46:56,880 --> 00:47:01,560 Speaker 4: Good question after like an event? Probably champagne. 1020 00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:03,920 Speaker 1: Actually yeah, I mean that's because they're spraying it all 1021 00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:05,320 Speaker 1: over you so readily available. 1022 00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:07,480 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, I like. 1023 00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:09,480 Speaker 1: A moscow mule on the mountain, or I like a 1024 00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:12,279 Speaker 1: stiff margarita because I like to have a margarita juice 1025 00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:14,839 Speaker 1: boost at around eleven. If I go out around nine, 1026 00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:17,280 Speaker 1: I like to stop, have a little margarita at eleventh, 1027 00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:17,640 Speaker 1: and then. 1028 00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:19,840 Speaker 2: Go back out and have a little more bravery. 1029 00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:23,080 Speaker 4: This is this is the Olympics of Skiing drinking knowledge 1030 00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:23,760 Speaker 4: by Chelsea. 1031 00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:24,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1032 00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:27,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, so there you go, Jess, and hopefully I'll run 1033 00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:29,200 Speaker 1: into you one of these mountains. 1034 00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:31,600 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, we're going to go into the interior in 1035 00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:32,799 Speaker 5: a few weeks in February. 1036 00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:33,719 Speaker 2: So fun. 1037 00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:36,759 Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, oh good, Okay, well yeah, but don't 1038 00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:38,440 Speaker 1: lose your love, you know, if you love skiing, like 1039 00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:41,280 Speaker 1: make sure you like you've got to like garden your passions, 1040 00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:42,600 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, just like you have to 1041 00:47:42,640 --> 00:47:45,120 Speaker 1: like garden your relationship. You have to like make sure 1042 00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:47,440 Speaker 1: you do what you want to do and enjoy something 1043 00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:50,080 Speaker 1: that you love that you like kind of got ruined 1044 00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:50,879 Speaker 1: by somebody else. 1045 00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:53,359 Speaker 2: Like don't let that, don't let them take that away. 1046 00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:57,080 Speaker 1: You know, go and be like true to yourself and 1047 00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:57,959 Speaker 1: get back out there. 1048 00:47:58,400 --> 00:47:58,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1049 00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:00,560 Speaker 5: I think the idea of finding women to ski with 1050 00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:01,279 Speaker 5: is a good one. 1051 00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:04,279 Speaker 1: Yeahs always if you're a woman. I like, you know, 1052 00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:06,920 Speaker 1: skiing with women. I like women guides every I'm like, 1053 00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:08,480 Speaker 1: if she could move her body like that, then I 1054 00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:11,160 Speaker 1: can move my body like that. You know, it's easier 1055 00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:13,080 Speaker 1: sometimes with a woman when you are a woman. 1056 00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:16,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's a good point. Okay, thanks to think about it. 1057 00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:16,920 Speaker 6: Thank you guys. 1058 00:48:17,239 --> 00:48:19,440 Speaker 2: Okay, great, thanks for going. Take care. 1059 00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:20,080 Speaker 6: Thanks. 1060 00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:20,560 Speaker 2: Thanks. 1061 00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:22,560 Speaker 1: I would love to do and like a thing where 1062 00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:25,879 Speaker 1: they had to with spectators had to compete drinking while 1063 00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:29,399 Speaker 1: at the Olympics and then interviewing the athletes after who 1064 00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:30,680 Speaker 1: could do that the best? 1065 00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:33,000 Speaker 2: And that would be me. I would now lose my shit. 1066 00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:36,960 Speaker 1: The more alcohol in my system, the more clarity I get. 1067 00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:39,200 Speaker 4: I mean, I think that's a fair pitch. 1068 00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:41,600 Speaker 2: I do too. Actually, I don't know why I'm not 1069 00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:42,520 Speaker 2: doing that. I don't know. 1070 00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:47,040 Speaker 1: They must have hired somebody else, somebody more reliable. Okay, Catherine, 1071 00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:48,640 Speaker 1: what else? What else do we got? 1072 00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:49,120 Speaker 5: Well? 1073 00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:52,680 Speaker 3: Our next caller is Rebecca. She says, you're Chelsea. I 1074 00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:54,600 Speaker 3: am a forty two year old who moved to a 1075 00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:57,200 Speaker 3: Greek island on my own just over a year ago. 1076 00:48:57,440 --> 00:49:00,480 Speaker 3: After nannying and waiting tables my whole life, I decided 1077 00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:02,640 Speaker 3: it was time to live my dream and stop waiting 1078 00:49:02,640 --> 00:49:05,160 Speaker 3: for my person for my life to begin. So I 1079 00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:07,600 Speaker 3: use my savings to do the Golden Visa and buy 1080 00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:10,239 Speaker 3: property in Greece, while giving myself a few years to 1081 00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:12,759 Speaker 3: really give my all to my business and gain clients. 1082 00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:14,719 Speaker 3: I know it will take some time to support this 1083 00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:17,960 Speaker 3: life financially. With a savvy budget, I can support myself 1084 00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:20,440 Speaker 3: with savings for another year until my business picks up, 1085 00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:22,160 Speaker 3: or I have to go back to the US and 1086 00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:25,640 Speaker 3: find another nanny job. Recently, I got on a dating 1087 00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:28,560 Speaker 3: app and found a really great guy who's also an expat. 1088 00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:31,880 Speaker 3: Our relationship is quite new, but we're very compatible and 1089 00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:35,000 Speaker 3: we're falling fast for each other. He's in a very 1090 00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:38,800 Speaker 3: different financial situation. He recently retired. He's in his fifties, 1091 00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:41,960 Speaker 3: with plenty of money, and is constantly taking lavish vacations 1092 00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:44,960 Speaker 3: all over the world. At first, it sounds amazing, right, 1093 00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:46,799 Speaker 3: But when I really think about it, I'm not in 1094 00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:49,919 Speaker 3: a position to actually join him on these vacations. Even 1095 00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:51,879 Speaker 3: though I can work from anywhere. Just paying for one 1096 00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:53,920 Speaker 3: splurgey meal on a trip would cost the same as 1097 00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:56,759 Speaker 3: my budget for two weeks here. So my question is 1098 00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:59,880 Speaker 3: how and when do I approach this money conversation. I 1099 00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,880 Speaker 3: just turned down trips with him. He's currently angling for 1100 00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:05,560 Speaker 3: a getaway to the Maldives. We're only six weeks in, 1101 00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:08,120 Speaker 3: so is it too soon to talk finances? 1102 00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:11,560 Speaker 2: Rebecca Well, I mean, hi, Rebecca, how are you? 1103 00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:12,279 Speaker 5: Hi? 1104 00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:13,480 Speaker 2: Hi? 1105 00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:16,160 Speaker 1: This is our special guest, Scottie James. He's heading to 1106 00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:19,440 Speaker 1: the Olympics. He's the best snowboarder of all time. So 1107 00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:21,600 Speaker 1: you came to the right place because he's got lots 1108 00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:22,520 Speaker 1: of answers for you. 1109 00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:25,279 Speaker 2: Has it come up yet? Have you guys been on 1110 00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:25,840 Speaker 2: a vacation? 1111 00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:28,200 Speaker 1: I mean, usually the person that wants to go on 1112 00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:31,000 Speaker 1: the vacation that badly is happy to pay for it, 1113 00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:33,799 Speaker 1: but have have you guys been on a vacation like 1114 00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:35,879 Speaker 1: that together, like a nice vacation. 1115 00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:39,279 Speaker 7: Yet Yeah, we went to Vienna for New Year's He 1116 00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:41,040 Speaker 7: paid for most of it, but I had to pay 1117 00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:44,120 Speaker 7: for my plane ticket, which wasn't that much, but it's 1118 00:50:44,120 --> 00:50:46,759 Speaker 7: still significant for me. So I just kind of have 1119 00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:48,480 Speaker 7: to measure, like how many times can I do that. 1120 00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:51,359 Speaker 7: We're going to Santorini in a couple weeks, and again 1121 00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:53,480 Speaker 7: he's paying for the trip, but I'm paying for my 1122 00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:58,000 Speaker 7: plane ticket, and so yeah, it's you know, I'm not 1123 00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:00,160 Speaker 7: really sure how to I'm not great at time talking 1124 00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,600 Speaker 7: about it yet, and I'm not sure because it's so new, 1125 00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:04,319 Speaker 7: what the best way to do it is. 1126 00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:06,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, well I don't think for Yeah, I know it's 1127 00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:09,160 Speaker 1: not a sexy conversation to talk about finances, especially when 1128 00:51:09,160 --> 00:51:11,600 Speaker 1: they're like you're strapped for them, But I think you 1129 00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:14,000 Speaker 1: should just have a very honest conversation and just let 1130 00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:17,080 Speaker 1: him know, like what your situation is. Be like, I'm sorry, 1131 00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:19,839 Speaker 1: I'm not as established like these vacations really, Like even 1132 00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:21,520 Speaker 1: the plane ticket is a lot for me, that's like 1133 00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:24,160 Speaker 1: my budget for however, I mean, plane tickets are fairly 1134 00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:26,400 Speaker 1: if you're in Greece and you're going to Santorini. 1135 00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:28,279 Speaker 2: Obviously that's a little bit more affordable. 1136 00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:31,279 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, that's true. That's true. 1137 00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:35,360 Speaker 7: It's more that they that they add up and yeah, 1138 00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:37,799 Speaker 7: and also just things like this summer, I don't like 1139 00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:40,440 Speaker 7: to be here for August because it's too hot and 1140 00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:42,960 Speaker 7: too crowded. So like, if I were single, I would 1141 00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:45,800 Speaker 7: be looking for a house swap or looking to house 1142 00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:47,839 Speaker 7: it like something free that I could do. 1143 00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:49,080 Speaker 6: Like, he keeps talking. 1144 00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:51,280 Speaker 7: About going to the Maldives, and he keeps like hinting, 1145 00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:53,200 Speaker 7: like do you want to come or not? He has 1146 00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:55,400 Speaker 7: actually directly said that, but he said, like, do you 1147 00:51:55,480 --> 00:51:56,279 Speaker 7: like the Maldives? 1148 00:51:56,280 --> 00:51:58,080 Speaker 6: Do you think you'd ever want to come? So it's 1149 00:51:58,080 --> 00:51:59,360 Speaker 6: like we're not quite there. 1150 00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:02,000 Speaker 7: Yet to like plan that, But then I need to 1151 00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:05,480 Speaker 7: also be planning my my life just in case we 1152 00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:05,960 Speaker 7: don't go. 1153 00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:08,800 Speaker 1: But I think you should enter this card, Listen, Scott, 1154 00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:10,759 Speaker 1: he's married to an heiress, so he's in the same 1155 00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:18,960 Speaker 1: boat basically as you are. Okay, but I think you 1156 00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:21,760 Speaker 1: should just bring a lightness to this conversation and be like, Listen, 1157 00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:24,480 Speaker 1: I am excited about all of this potential, and I 1158 00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:26,480 Speaker 1: know we're very new but I just really. 1159 00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:27,400 Speaker 2: Want to be transparent. 1160 00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:30,399 Speaker 1: This should be like an in person conversation about where 1161 00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:33,520 Speaker 1: you are financially, what your plan is. Like everything you 1162 00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:36,000 Speaker 1: just mentioned in your letter is worthwhile knowledge. Like you 1163 00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:37,759 Speaker 1: move to Greece, you have a year to set up 1164 00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:39,960 Speaker 1: your business, you know, or before you have to go 1165 00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:41,920 Speaker 1: back to the States, which you definitely don't want to 1166 00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:44,560 Speaker 1: do right now. So you, like, you know, just be 1167 00:52:44,680 --> 00:52:48,279 Speaker 1: very transparent without asking or expecting, you know what I mean, 1168 00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:51,040 Speaker 1: just saying like I want to figure this out together, 1169 00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:53,520 Speaker 1: and I don't expect you to pay for everything. I 1170 00:52:53,560 --> 00:52:56,200 Speaker 1: want to contribute, So what's the best way I can 1171 00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:58,120 Speaker 1: do that. Maybe there's a different way that you can 1172 00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:00,560 Speaker 1: contribute that isn't fiduciary, you. 1173 00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:03,400 Speaker 2: Know, like, well maybe you can, you know, I don't know. 1174 00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:05,560 Speaker 1: Maybe you can be involved in the planning more, or 1175 00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:07,319 Speaker 1: you could pick up the restaurants or do some more 1176 00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:09,880 Speaker 1: of the legwork, you know, figure out a way to 1177 00:53:09,920 --> 00:53:12,560 Speaker 1: contribute if he's cool with it. But I think you 1178 00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:15,439 Speaker 1: should just you know, don't make it dire, just say hey, 1179 00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:16,960 Speaker 1: I want to just start talking about this. I know 1180 00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:19,799 Speaker 1: it's not a sexy conversation, but I want to be transparent, 1181 00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:22,600 Speaker 1: and I don't want to like take advantage of this situation, 1182 00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:24,480 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, just be very honest. I 1183 00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:26,719 Speaker 1: think that gets the ball rolling in the right kind 1184 00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:31,439 Speaker 1: of candor and transparency. Especially at the beginning of a relationship. 1185 00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:33,400 Speaker 1: It's important to say those things. 1186 00:53:33,840 --> 00:53:35,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, Yeah, that's really helpful. 1187 00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:39,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, and then also giving him the option of, like, 1188 00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:41,160 Speaker 3: if it doesn't work for you know, you to spring 1189 00:53:41,239 --> 00:53:43,239 Speaker 3: for the vacation, like I'm totally cool to do a 1190 00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:44,920 Speaker 3: house swap, and like I'll see in a month. 1191 00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:46,160 Speaker 2: When you get back from the Mamaldi's. 1192 00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:48,759 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, threaten him. 1193 00:53:51,080 --> 00:53:53,200 Speaker 2: Who knows who I might meet that time? Yeah, who 1194 00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:55,960 Speaker 2: knows well to meet while you go to the Maldives. 1195 00:53:58,040 --> 00:53:58,680 Speaker 2: That always. 1196 00:53:58,800 --> 00:54:04,520 Speaker 4: Congrats on having the courage to move to try something different. 1197 00:54:04,600 --> 00:54:06,800 Speaker 4: I think that I think that takes a lot of carage. 1198 00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:08,040 Speaker 4: So respect for doing that. 1199 00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:10,200 Speaker 2: Oh thank you. Yeah, it does. 1200 00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:12,239 Speaker 1: It does to get up and move to someplace where 1201 00:54:12,280 --> 00:54:15,120 Speaker 1: you don't know anyone and so far away, Like I 1202 00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:17,880 Speaker 1: love that move and I think you'll you'll get rewarded. 1203 00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:20,920 Speaker 1: I mean, there's Greece is always always a good place 1204 00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:21,160 Speaker 1: to be. 1205 00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:24,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I love it here so far. 1206 00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:27,279 Speaker 1: Okay, well, good good luck and yeah, let us know 1207 00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:28,359 Speaker 1: how that conversation goes. 1208 00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:29,759 Speaker 2: We like follow up calls. 1209 00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:34,840 Speaker 6: Okay, awesome, Yeah, thank you so much, Thanks Rebecca. Okay, bye, 1210 00:54:35,320 --> 00:54:36,040 Speaker 6: bye bye. 1211 00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:37,920 Speaker 1: We're gonna take a quick break and we're gonna be 1212 00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:41,880 Speaker 1: right back to wrap up with Scotty James. 1213 00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:45,760 Speaker 2: And we're back with Scotty James. 1214 00:54:46,040 --> 00:54:47,520 Speaker 1: Scotty, do you spend a lot of time on the 1215 00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:49,359 Speaker 1: mountain when you're not like, do you spend any time 1216 00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:51,040 Speaker 1: on the mountain when you're not training? 1217 00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:55,719 Speaker 4: Yeah? I would say when my family's around, yes, Like 1218 00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:59,120 Speaker 4: my dad loves snowboarding, so he's always keen to be 1219 00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:02,279 Speaker 4: on the hill. He's the guy that's up at the 1220 00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:05,080 Speaker 4: lift line first and waiting for the chairlift to open. 1221 00:55:05,239 --> 00:55:08,200 Speaker 4: So I definitely when he's around, I'm up there just 1222 00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:11,359 Speaker 4: for fun and to go cruise around. But to be honest, 1223 00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:13,799 Speaker 4: during a competition week, I'm not on the hill too 1224 00:55:13,840 --> 00:55:16,480 Speaker 4: much other than competing and training. 1225 00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:18,400 Speaker 2: What is your meal right before you compete? 1226 00:55:19,160 --> 00:55:24,000 Speaker 4: I love spaghetti bolonnes. Yeah, I just I mean probably 1227 00:55:24,040 --> 00:55:26,160 Speaker 4: the night before, because if I had it right before 1228 00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:28,279 Speaker 4: I compete might be a little on the heavy side. 1229 00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:33,399 Speaker 4: I'm already heavy as I explained earlier. So throwing around 1230 00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:36,560 Speaker 4: spaghetti bolonnies in my stomach doing flips is not a 1231 00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:40,719 Speaker 4: great outcome, but yeah, probably that I would say. 1232 00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:43,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's nice to have to eat spaghetti bolonniers for 1233 00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:46,799 Speaker 1: your profession, since you need to carbload and you need 1234 00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:48,120 Speaker 1: to get your body stored up. 1235 00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:50,360 Speaker 2: It's nice to have that kind of responsibility. 1236 00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:52,480 Speaker 4: True, Yeah, this is true. 1237 00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:55,120 Speaker 2: And will your family Your family's going to be at 1238 00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:55,600 Speaker 2: the Olympics. 1239 00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:58,799 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so the fan will be there, which will 1240 00:55:58,840 --> 00:56:01,520 Speaker 4: be really nice. They I would see. With the last 1241 00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:05,040 Speaker 4: Olympics was in China, the country was still closed, so 1242 00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:09,000 Speaker 4: it was pretty interesting experience. It was like just us 1243 00:56:09,120 --> 00:56:11,759 Speaker 4: and robots. Didn't really feel like an Olympics and robots 1244 00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:15,080 Speaker 4: and it was strange. So it wasn't like I didn't 1245 00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:18,320 Speaker 4: really feel that the energy last time. So it'd be 1246 00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:21,439 Speaker 4: nice to have. You know, Italy will be great. Yeah, 1247 00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:24,840 Speaker 4: Italy is a country spaghetti bowl and AI's on hand 1248 00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:29,760 Speaker 4: obviously whenever, but it'll be massed out of family. That'll 1249 00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:30,080 Speaker 4: be good. 1250 00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:32,920 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I cannot wait to see you win a 1251 00:56:32,960 --> 00:56:36,799 Speaker 1: gold medal, so we will be watching. It was delightful 1252 00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:38,600 Speaker 1: speaking with you. I hope I get to meet you 1253 00:56:38,640 --> 00:56:41,080 Speaker 1: someday in person. Maybe i'll pop by the Olympics this year. 1254 00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:42,840 Speaker 1: Who knows, anything's possible. 1255 00:56:43,360 --> 00:56:47,279 Speaker 4: If I get the job done, We'll promise you one thing. 1256 00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:53,520 Speaker 4: We're going snowboarding together. Let me shake on it. Well okay, yeah, 1257 00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:55,680 Speaker 4: I'm going to take a photo of it and be 1258 00:56:55,880 --> 00:56:57,480 Speaker 4: like she's transitioned. 1259 00:56:58,360 --> 00:57:02,960 Speaker 1: Yes, transition more ways than one. Thank you, Scotti, thanks 1260 00:57:03,040 --> 00:57:03,760 Speaker 1: for being here. 1261 00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:07,120 Speaker 4: Thank you guys so much for having me appreciate gay. 1262 00:57:07,120 --> 00:57:07,600 Speaker 2: Take care. 1263 00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:10,800 Speaker 1: Okay, guys, the High and Mighty Tour is about to begin. 1264 00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:15,200 Speaker 1: I'm in DC February thirteenth. February fourteenth, Atlantic city which 1265 00:57:15,239 --> 00:57:20,040 Speaker 1: I just added. Fifteenth is Norfolk, Virginia. February nineteenth, Madison, Wisconsin. 1266 00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:24,520 Speaker 1: February twentieth is Milwaukee, Wisconsin. February twenty first, Detroit, Michigan. 1267 00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:29,160 Speaker 1: February twenty second, Rama, Ontario. That's Canada for those of 1268 00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:36,120 Speaker 1: you who don't speak Canadia. March thirteenth, Cleveland, Ohio. 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