1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,200 Speaker 1: I feel like I can't even breathe. That's like my 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:08,200 Speaker 1: pants are so dyky. Scrubbing in with Scatilly and Tanya 3 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: Brat and I Heart Radio and People's Choice Award winning podcast. 4 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 1: Good morning everybody, It's Tuesday. Don't let that Caden spool you. 5 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 1: We are struggling today. You guys sound ready to go. 6 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 1: You know, as you get older, they're like all nighters. 7 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 1: Really they hit hard, but not even all nighters. We 8 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 1: have like three in a row and so but not really. 9 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:45,239 Speaker 1: We slept late. You slept late. I slept. I've never 10 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: slept until noon since. Like, Yeah. It was so nice 11 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 1: for me because I was like, oh my god. I 12 00:00:53,560 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 1: mean I knew that regardless, she could go on her 13 00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:58,200 Speaker 1: runs or do whatever she needed to do in the 14 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 1: morning and I could sleep. But like you when someone's 15 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 1: getting ready, you are obviously um interrupted in your sleep. 16 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:08,840 Speaker 1: And I would look over and it would be like 17 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 1: eleven and she'd still be sleeping. So I just roll 18 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: over and pray to God. She stayed that way really late, 19 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 1: and I got my period, and when I'm on my period, 20 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 1: I'm like extra tired. So I think all the combination 21 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:26,960 Speaker 1: of it was just like not good. I said till 22 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 1: noon the first day, and then I think, I think 23 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: noon every day. Yeah, so sick. Anyways, you're both saying 24 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: that our pants are very tight. Today a great time. 25 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 1: Everything's tight. We drank a lot, we ate a lot. 26 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:44,400 Speaker 1: And this wasn't just a normal weekend. This was a 27 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 1: very special weekend because it was Jared at the Bachelor 28 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: Royal wedding. Yeah, three and a half full days together. 29 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 1: Yeah Tanya's famous clothes. Three and a half full days, 30 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:08,520 Speaker 1: which doesn't actually make sense, but I guess I meant 31 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 1: three and a half like full days, like we're going 32 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 1: to pack those days full. Oh, I see exactly, we 33 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 1: packed the half day. To where do we start? I mean, 34 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: should we just start from the beginning of what time, 35 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 1: like Friday and how we booked a super early flight 36 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 1: and okay, I'll start. I do have a really good story, 37 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 1: non related to the wedding, but I'll save it to 38 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 1: the end because I got a d M from a 39 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 1: celebrity crush of mine. Yeah. So, um, we planned actually 40 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: invited us to go. They had a welcome party, um 41 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: boat sail like boat ride sail boat right, And that 42 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 1: was on Friday night, And I thought, like let's just 43 00:02:57,760 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 1: go Friday. We'll go on the boat. Like how nice 44 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:04,960 Speaker 1: and Newport It's like the cutest place and made me 45 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: feel like I was going to be like a rich 46 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:11,920 Speaker 1: person on a sailboat sailing in to the o or something. 47 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 1: So we booked a six am flight. We were told 48 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 1: there were two options. We could either fly into Boston 49 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:22,799 Speaker 1: it was a direct flight from l A and then 50 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 1: drive an hour and a half like rent a car. 51 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 1: Or we could fly into Providence, but we would have 52 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 1: a layover somewhere and it was like a thirty to 53 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 1: forty five minute drive. So we were like, well, we're 54 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 1: gonna fly early. For us to even make the boat ride, 55 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 1: we had to take the direct flight to Boston. So 56 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: we booked the six am flight. I was really proud 57 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 1: of Becca because she really took the reins and she 58 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 1: was like, we're gonna leave at six A and we're 59 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:48,040 Speaker 1: gonna land. We're gonna take an hour. It's gonna take 60 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 1: a and have to get to the hotel. We'll check in, 61 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 1: we'll get ready. You know. She was eating Inbecca is 62 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 1: not super organized, but she really had this buttoned up 63 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 1: and I was like, Okay, this sounds great. It sounds 64 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 1: like it's gonna work. It sounds a plan so naturally, 65 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: because my natural body does not go to sleep to 66 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: like twelve or one am, I just like him up 67 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 1: because I sleep in, and even if I don't sleep in, 68 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: it's it's like that. Um. I just decided I'm gonna 69 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 1: stay away because we were told that there was I 70 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: gotta alert that there was severe construction to l A 71 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 1: X so that we should get there three hours before 72 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 1: because and I heard on the radio people are having 73 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 1: to get out on the freeway and with their suitcases 74 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:31,920 Speaker 1: trying to walk. Yeah, And I was like that nothing 75 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 1: sounds worse than doing that and missing our flight at 76 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 1: three am. So we get We leave our apartments at four, 77 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 1: little a little earlier, a little three. So I just 78 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 1: figured I'm not going to sleep. We splurge and got 79 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 1: the lay down seats because we knew it was gonna 80 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 1: be a long day. So I was like, and I am, 81 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 1: my body is just the most weak body out there, 82 00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:00,840 Speaker 1: and I can't sleep unless I'm going flat out. It's 83 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:03,039 Speaker 1: a game changer. I do have to say that was truly. 84 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:05,159 Speaker 1: I don't think I can never fly East Coast and 85 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:09,160 Speaker 1: not sleep like that. I usually sleep just for everybody listening. 86 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 1: I usually sleep in like the fetal position with my 87 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 1: head on the like what's the Danielle has seen me 88 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 1: sleep to New York. But yeah, I sleep with my 89 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 1: head on the tray table up with like the worst 90 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 1: creak in my neck. I have to sleep like the 91 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:27,160 Speaker 1: full five hours like that, and it's it's truly not great. 92 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 1: So I'm so jealous because if I could do that, 93 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:33,719 Speaker 1: I wouldn't have to spend so much money. Because when 94 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 1: it's like long flights like that, and I know I 95 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:40,280 Speaker 1: have something to do once I land, I just I, 96 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 1: like I said, I bite the bullet. It was an 97 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 1: opportune for me that Becca chose not to sleep before 98 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 1: the flight, because I like to chit chat on planes, 99 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 1: and literally before the flight attendant says like, I'll be 100 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:54,720 Speaker 1: your flight attendant. Becca's like zonked out, like completely, like 101 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:57,839 Speaker 1: in a comatose and she was like before she falls asleep, 102 00:05:57,920 --> 00:05:59,479 Speaker 1: do you want to ask her if she wants to eat? 103 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:03,039 Speaker 1: And I kept like pack and you completely, I don't 104 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 1: know if you're a sleeper. Just ignored me. But I 105 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 1: also would have ignored, like, don't even bother with her. 106 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:10,840 Speaker 1: She's going to sleep the whole flight, and I did. 107 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 1: And the thing is, I have been on flights where 108 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:16,599 Speaker 1: Tawny a chit chat at the whole time, Like even 109 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:18,479 Speaker 1: when I put my headphones on, she was still trying 110 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:20,160 Speaker 1: to talk to me. So I was like, if she 111 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:23,359 Speaker 1: tries to do this on this flight, I'm not worried 112 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:25,719 Speaker 1: about hurting her feelings. And being like stopped. Well, we 113 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 1: had a lot to discuss because I feel like we 114 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:29,799 Speaker 1: had the whole weekend and we hadn't really properly given 115 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:33,160 Speaker 1: thought to like our itinerary. But I knew we had 116 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 1: a good hour and a half drive, so I was like, 117 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 1: we'll get that in. I'm not worried about it. I 118 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 1: was never worried about it. Um, So I sleep the 119 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 1: entire way until they were like, hey, we're about to land. 120 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 1: You have to you have to put your seat up. 121 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 1: So we get off the plane. We land early, We 122 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 1: get a car and we look at the time we 123 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 1: put the destination into our maps and it says three hours. 124 00:06:56,520 --> 00:06:59,160 Speaker 1: Basically says we're getting to the hotel like at six 125 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 1: fifteen and the sales at six o'clock, and we were like, 126 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:06,839 Speaker 1: are you kidding me? And like we we did all 127 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:08,840 Speaker 1: of this so that we could make the boat. Right. 128 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 1: So we pull up to the hotel and were actually 129 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 1: we're like texting her and we're like, we don't think 130 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 1: we're gonna make it. She's like, what three hours? Like 131 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 1: everybody was shocked that, like it was taking us this 132 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 1: long in traffic, but we were like, clearly nobody knows 133 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 1: this city because even the people that at the check 134 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 1: in were like, it took you three hours? What the heck? 135 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 1: And Ashley I was like, and on top of that, 136 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 1: even if we make it in like five thirty, we 137 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 1: have to like rinse off and get dressed like I've 138 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 1: slept the whole way, Like we're gross, And she was like, 139 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 1: it's super casual, Like so if you make it, like 140 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:47,160 Speaker 1: just like change real quick and come. I saw the photos. 141 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 1: Everyone was like, not casual casual. I would have been 142 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 1: very upset if I showed up with my nomakeup same casual. 143 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: So anyways, we've completely missed the bow ride that we 144 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 1: were planning on getting there for. However, we got dressed 145 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 1: up really cute and had a cute dinner the two 146 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:08,679 Speaker 1: of us, which I enjoyed. Yeah, we had we stayed 147 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 1: at a really cute hotel, and then we ended up 148 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 1: meeting everybody. So everybody got off the boat and then 149 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 1: they went out, and so we met everybody out after 150 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:19,360 Speaker 1: so every the I don't know. Newport was just like 151 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 1: the cutest place ever. I wanted to summer home there, 152 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 1: but um add that to my dreams. And so yeah, 153 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 1: we had a nice little dinner and then we went 154 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 1: and met everyone out and got to catch up with everyone. 155 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 1: That's when we got to meet did you meet Jess 156 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 1: that night? His girlfriend jess Um and Nick was there 157 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 1: and everybody was there for the most of everyone like 158 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:45,079 Speaker 1: her bridal party. And we stayed up late that night, 159 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:49,080 Speaker 1: right we sat up yeah, yeah, like three ish. Yeah. 160 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 1: So then oh so then go to bed, we sleep 161 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:57,320 Speaker 1: until noon, okay, mind you. Then we get invited to 162 00:08:57,320 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 1: the rehearsal dinner, which was like, so we weren't initially 163 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 1: invited to the rehearsal dinner, and I think because we 164 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 1: missed the boat right act, she was like, yall should 165 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 1: come to the rehearsal dinner. I was writing, how you 166 00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 1: guys made it in because usually it isn't just the 167 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:15,440 Speaker 1: wedding party. So then the best part is is like 168 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:17,560 Speaker 1: we were not prepared for that. We were prepared to 169 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 1: just have like a chill Saturday night, and so Becky 170 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 1: didn't have a dress, so I was like, why don't 171 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 1: you wear the one I wore last I was really 172 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 1: cute and Mike, it's dressy enough. So here we are 173 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 1: and thank god we are the same size and it fit. 174 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:36,320 Speaker 1: But it's like a very obvious dress, Like it's not 175 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:38,840 Speaker 1: like a black dress where you're like I could get 176 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 1: away with it. Like everyone who was there with us 177 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:43,800 Speaker 1: the night before it was like, oh, I haven't seen 178 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:45,960 Speaker 1: that dress before. I'm like, can you'all just have some 179 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:50,959 Speaker 1: manners and not call me out? So yeah, that really 180 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 1: worked out. But yeah, lesson learned. Always be prepared. You 181 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 1: might get invited to and I don't mean to like 182 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:02,640 Speaker 1: plan the fact that I am a planner, but I was. 183 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 1: I didn't anticipate this, but I did have two options 184 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 1: for both nights, and so I had an extra dress, 185 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:08,679 Speaker 1: so I was good to go. Oh, by the way, 186 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 1: I found out on aniogram number one on the flight. 187 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 1: I did a lot of research on my flight and 188 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: that was really exciting. I've been doing a lot of research. 189 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 1: It's the Perfectionist and it really explains a lot. Yeah, 190 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 1: And what's so funny is everyone always is like tiny 191 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:23,840 Speaker 1: is what are the ones? Everyone thought I was at 192 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 1: three or a seven? Yeah, and I've never seen anyone 193 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 1: say that you're a one. It's kind of weird because 194 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 1: the perfectionist is how I would like just in general. 195 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:34,199 Speaker 1: It's so funny because I was d ming with Kelty 196 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:36,679 Speaker 1: Knight from the Lady Gang. She's like obsessed with angiograms 197 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 1: and um, She's like, you needed She told me that 198 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 1: as she thought I was a seven and then we're 199 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 1: d m NG and I took the test and I 200 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:46,200 Speaker 1: was like I'm a one, and she like her mind 201 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 1: is blown. She's like, this makes so much sense, and 202 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:50,439 Speaker 1: was like screenshotting sending me all these things about the 203 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:52,960 Speaker 1: number one, and it was really making a lot of sense. 204 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:57,920 Speaker 1: Emphasis on personal integrity and self control, everything about it. 205 00:10:57,960 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 1: I was like, whoa, whoa, wha. It's like all about 206 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 1: how you don't like value yourself or self worth is 207 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:05,320 Speaker 1: I can't remember something about like imposter syndrome really like 208 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 1: resonated with me. And so the sidebar, yes, do you 209 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:15,440 Speaker 1: feel like you understand yourself better? I felt very seen 210 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 1: by it. Yeah, it's weird. That's exciting. Yeah, so that 211 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 1: was a monumental moment for me. It's it's nice when 212 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 1: you like, I don't know a lot about them. But 213 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 1: there is a book that I have that i've been well. 214 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 1: I let my friend borrow it, but I'm waiting to 215 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:31,679 Speaker 1: get it back so i can start it. But it's 216 00:11:31,720 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 1: all about the like going deeper into the angiograms, and 217 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:38,680 Speaker 1: I think it really helps you. Like, I think it 218 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 1: makes you better at loving people because you could understand 219 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 1: them more and why they are the way that they are, um, 220 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 1: which I think is actually a very important Have you 221 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 1: done it? I'm a nine compatibility? Very what is my compatibility? 222 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 1: Nines are actually really good, just like partners in general, 223 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:07,080 Speaker 1: because we want to please everybody. So and reformer with 224 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 1: type nine the peacemaker. So there you go. Yeah, so 225 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:14,679 Speaker 1: there you go. Um, what did we want to talk 226 00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 1: about a rehearsal dinner? How was the rehearsal dinner? Was fun? 227 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:25,040 Speaker 1: But what did we did we write that down? You know? 228 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 1: Throughout the whole weekend. I feel like there was a 229 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:29,720 Speaker 1: lot Like I think every bridesmaid spoke. I think pretty 230 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:33,720 Speaker 1: much every groomsman spoke. I don't think every I don't 231 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:40,680 Speaker 1: think every one of them did. Yeah, and then both dads, 232 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 1: But that was on the that was on the spread 233 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 1: out throughout the weekend. I think, like a lot, I 234 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:49,200 Speaker 1: think it was pretty standard. I mean, I've been to 235 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 1: weddings where like every single person like they would be like, 236 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 1: if you want to give a speech, stand up. It 237 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:55,600 Speaker 1: wasn't planned, so it would be like people feeling like 238 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:58,959 Speaker 1: I need to say something, Yeah in my rehearsal dinner, 239 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 1: Like I gave a speech in an was it And 240 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:03,079 Speaker 1: I was watching videos from Ashley and Territs and I 241 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 1: was like, oh God, did I need to book more 242 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 1: speeches for the rehearsal. I think it was I think 243 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:13,040 Speaker 1: the thing that I really realized I personally, I feel 244 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:15,960 Speaker 1: like I resonate with Ashley so much because she's so 245 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 1: like unabashedly herself and like she believes in love and 246 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:24,280 Speaker 1: fairy tales and it's just this this thing and I 247 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 1: feel so drawn to her because of that, And so 248 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 1: I think all weekend hearing all these speeches and hearing 249 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:33,160 Speaker 1: everybody talk about it like it made me so emotional 250 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 1: because I think at the end of the day, you 251 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 1: want everybody to have their happy ending and find that person, 252 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 1: and like I think for me, I just felt so 253 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:43,320 Speaker 1: like I cried so many times, I got tarried so 254 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:46,600 Speaker 1: many times. And like I remember, when they first started dating, 255 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 1: I didn't like Jared because I thought it was I 256 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 1: was like, this guy didn't like you for so many years, 257 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 1: and I was just I had such a chip on 258 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 1: my shoulder for it. And it's funny because now I've 259 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:57,840 Speaker 1: told him all of these things. But every time I 260 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:01,920 Speaker 1: spent any like time with Jared, I just fall more 261 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:03,400 Speaker 1: and more in love with him because I just think 262 00:14:03,440 --> 00:14:06,959 Speaker 1: he's just so sweet and he's so attentive to Ashley 263 00:14:07,040 --> 00:14:09,840 Speaker 1: and like he's he's just like a normal dude that's 264 00:14:09,880 --> 00:14:11,679 Speaker 1: just in love with his best friend, and like you 265 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:14,559 Speaker 1: can really see it, and I really like how he's 266 00:14:14,600 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 1: just really like, um, he wants everybody around to know that, 267 00:14:18,840 --> 00:14:20,440 Speaker 1: Like you know, he's always asking if I need a 268 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:22,760 Speaker 1: coffee or He's just one of those type of guys. 269 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:24,520 Speaker 1: And I really really like him. And every time I 270 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 1: spend more time with him, I just like him more 271 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 1: and more and I just love them as a couple. 272 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 1: So it was just really really special to see everybody 273 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:34,320 Speaker 1: speaking and like it was just really special. Everything about 274 00:14:34,360 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 1: it was just so well thought out and and it 275 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:39,520 Speaker 1: just made me so happy for them. I think they're 276 00:14:39,560 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 1: just so sweet because like everyone has been a part 277 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 1: of washing it and everyone's like I loved that Ellen 278 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:49,800 Speaker 1: officiated it because he's literally been there. As soon as 279 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:54,760 Speaker 1: actually came on, she was like he was like her person. 280 00:14:56,120 --> 00:15:00,200 Speaker 1: And then on Bachelor in Paradise and then I remember, um, 281 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 1: I got to see Caitlin Bristow, who haven't seen him forever, 282 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:07,360 Speaker 1: and we were talking about we were in Chicago and 283 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:10,000 Speaker 1: he Jared was on Caitlin season and then he went 284 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 1: on Paradise and he like wasn't really fully over Caitlin 285 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:16,800 Speaker 1: at the time. When he went on Paradise and Ashley Caitlyn, 286 00:15:16,920 --> 00:15:23,040 Speaker 1: we're like drunk the who is the Chicago hockey team? Yeah? 287 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 1: They had just won the Stanley Cup it was that 288 00:15:24,920 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 1: year and um, so we were out like on the town. 289 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 1: It was like crazy and Caitlyn gets a call from 290 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:33,960 Speaker 1: a random number. She answers and it's Ashley and she's like, 291 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:37,280 Speaker 1: what did you do to Jared? Like he won't pay 292 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 1: attention to me because he's still like and Caitlyn's like, Okay, 293 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 1: well what can I do. But it was like remembering 294 00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 1: that and like remembering how she literally truly believed that 295 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:54,720 Speaker 1: he was the one for even when he like rejected her. 296 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:57,840 Speaker 1: It was so I don't know. Their story is just 297 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 1: really literally straight from a wrong gone and they're perfect 298 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 1: characters and they're like beautiful and then they're just like 299 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 1: they love boy bands together and they love they're passionate 300 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 1: about romcom movie clothes, and it was just really cute 301 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:17,560 Speaker 1: to watch everyone kind of be there and like support 302 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:21,520 Speaker 1: of them. Yeah, it was really sweet. We got a 303 00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 1: lot of we had a lot of Dean time this weekend, 304 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 1: which I loved Deanie baby, you just love him so much. 305 00:16:26,520 --> 00:16:28,520 Speaker 1: A lot of Dean time. We had a lot of nicktime. 306 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 1: We had a lot of bandon Jess time, Yes, who 307 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 1: is like our new favorite person. Ben's girlfriend. Jess is 308 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 1: the most precious little angel. And I cannot imagine walking 309 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:45,880 Speaker 1: into that group setting to all these people who have 310 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 1: like been together and been to events and like know 311 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:51,880 Speaker 1: each other weirdly all dated, like I forget how many 312 00:16:52,160 --> 00:16:53,600 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's just like it's this 313 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 1: weird cesspool of people. And she's just like hi, and 314 00:16:57,520 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 1: she's just so cute and sweet and like I'm confident, ye, 315 00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:04,960 Speaker 1: Like I wanted to get to know us to like, 316 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:07,400 Speaker 1: you know, I thought that was really cool. Like when 317 00:17:07,440 --> 00:17:09,880 Speaker 1: they showed up to the bar after the boat ride 318 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:13,119 Speaker 1: that we that we missed. Um. I was talking to 319 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 1: Nick and I feel someone come over and hug Nick 320 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 1: and I turned around. It's been and I felt, I like, 321 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 1: just love Ben as a human being. I think he's 322 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:24,159 Speaker 1: just the best. And he introduced me to Jess and 323 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:28,639 Speaker 1: then he and I and Nick talked for like a while, 324 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 1: and she was just doing her own thing, like was 325 00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:34,640 Speaker 1: very confident, didn't feel like threatened by the atmosphere at all. 326 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:36,520 Speaker 1: You know. She was saying that because I asked her that. 327 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:39,119 Speaker 1: I was like, is it like you know hard? And 328 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:41,919 Speaker 1: she's like, Ben is so affirming that I never have 329 00:17:42,040 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 1: to question anything about him. And I was like, God, 330 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:48,000 Speaker 1: that is so nice, Like that must feel so nice, 331 00:17:48,160 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 1: you know. And Ben's also one of those guys too 332 00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:52,359 Speaker 1: where I feel like where he's like Jared, because I 333 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:54,639 Speaker 1: feel like he was really attentive to us, Like he 334 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:56,200 Speaker 1: was always like can I get you guys a drink? 335 00:17:56,320 --> 00:17:58,119 Speaker 1: Like what can I do? Let me get you your uber? 336 00:17:58,320 --> 00:17:59,879 Speaker 1: Like make sure, you guys, Like, make sure text me 337 00:18:00,000 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 1: you guys, get back to the hotel. He's just like 338 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:03,679 Speaker 1: one of those people that just like looks out for 339 00:18:03,760 --> 00:18:06,439 Speaker 1: his people, and that's so special when you find that 340 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:09,359 Speaker 1: in somebody, you know, because not everybody's like that. Yeah, 341 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 1: and they're both going to be in Vegas for our hearts, 342 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:18,280 Speaker 1: So I'm really excited. Yeah, um yeah, that's so excited. Yeah. Um. 343 00:18:18,359 --> 00:18:21,720 Speaker 1: So yeah they were. They were awesome. Yeah, So we 344 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:23,879 Speaker 1: we got to take a second to talk about buyer clarity. 345 00:18:23,880 --> 00:18:26,240 Speaker 1: But before we do that, we have a surprise for 346 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:28,439 Speaker 1: you guys, because I don't know if you're aware of this, 347 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 1: but it's the twenty anniversary of a little show called 348 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 1: Friends this year, and I heard it's coming to the 349 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:37,639 Speaker 1: movies on the big screen. What are you talking about? 350 00:18:37,760 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 1: Friends aniversary? They're going to play the whole show on 351 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:46,119 Speaker 1: I'm not sure it's what. It's episodes coming to movie theaters, 352 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 1: which is very exciting. Well, we got the perfect beverage 353 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 1: to match that coffee, being in Tea Leaf, a coffee 354 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:55,199 Speaker 1: place we love here in southern California. They actually have 355 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:59,919 Speaker 1: a whole series of Friends theme beverages to celebrate the anniversary. 356 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:03,800 Speaker 1: I've been drinking one of these a lot recently. Here's 357 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:06,560 Speaker 1: here's some of the drinks they've got, the Rachel Macha Latte, 358 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:12,520 Speaker 1: the Joey Mango Cold Brew tee, my personal favorite, the 359 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:18,239 Speaker 1: Chandler Caramel Coconut Latte, the Ross Classic Flat White, Ros 360 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:23,000 Speaker 1: Monica Night Voco cold Brew, and the Phoebe Cookies and 361 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:28,320 Speaker 1: Cream Ice bollend to drink the Ross the Ross Classic 362 00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 1: Flat White. So they're turning into Central Perk for the celebration. 363 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:38,760 Speaker 1: Uh And they're actually launching a Central Perk pop up 364 00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 1: at two of the Los Angeles locations for Coffee Bean 365 00:19:41,119 --> 00:19:43,679 Speaker 1: and Tea Leaf. You can go to the activation between 366 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:46,080 Speaker 1: eight am and eight pm daily at the Third Street 367 00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 1: Promenade in Santa Monica and on Beverly Bouilivard in West Hollywood, California. 368 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:53,960 Speaker 1: So you can visit Central Perk in person. Becca seems 369 00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:59,520 Speaker 1: very happy with one of these. Is where it's at. Obviously, 370 00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 1: the Ross of Tron is my favorite. These drinks are 371 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 1: slam dunks, like for real, like I've I've been drinking that. 372 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:06,480 Speaker 1: You can check my coffee being app I've been drinking 373 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:10,679 Speaker 1: that caramel Chandler charmel coconut latte almost every day. You 374 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 1: know why the Ross is the best? Why is that 375 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:15,960 Speaker 1: there's no fluff, there's no froof. This is just straight caffeine. 376 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:19,639 Speaker 1: It's what you need. Like, this is such a Ross drink. 377 00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 1: This is so Ross. I love Ross. Do you know? 378 00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:28,800 Speaker 1: Ross is the month they added They added up all 379 00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:31,719 Speaker 1: the screen time of every Friend's episode, and Ross has 380 00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:34,119 Speaker 1: the most screen time. He was the main character of Friends. 381 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:37,520 Speaker 1: Because everybody always wonders who's the main one, it's Ross. 382 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:40,480 Speaker 1: Well he's the most screen time. Is he your favorite? 383 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:45,640 Speaker 1: Yeahs like facts listed for her. I'm a little sad 384 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 1: there's not a gun through drink, but a girl can dream. 385 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 1: That's very exciting. Thank you, Coffee and leave. They're they're 386 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 1: the best. Okay, let's talk about bout clarity and then 387 00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 1: we just I feel like we should wrap up the 388 00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:02,320 Speaker 1: wedding weekend with um, well, the only way to the 389 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 1: only way to wrap it up with our journey home 390 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:10,280 Speaker 1: and uh, something that I've never done before that I'm 391 00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:13,439 Speaker 1: ashamed of slightly, but I think it brought us closer together. 392 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 1: I don't know, I feel like you're quite proud. I 393 00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:21,200 Speaker 1: don't feel any for me. 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So they had 472 00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:38,959 Speaker 1: like the cake, but then there was like chocolate covered strawberries. 473 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 1: There was donuts and some sort of pudding. There was 474 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:46,200 Speaker 1: like little like chocolate pie things, tarts, like everything. I mean, 475 00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:48,560 Speaker 1: I went to town and I like literally can barely 476 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:51,960 Speaker 1: breathe this morning. I liked your dance moves. There's like 477 00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:55,760 Speaker 1: a gallop, Thank you so much. The galloping Cowboy is 478 00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:59,119 Speaker 1: really it's become a signature for for me, and a 479 00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 1: lot of people think that she's waving her far or something. 480 00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:05,440 Speaker 1: Need to really get to get the gallop better, because 481 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:08,439 Speaker 1: it's just I'm literally just waving my hand because you're 482 00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:12,719 Speaker 1: speaking an invisible horse, right she We were like sitting 483 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:15,919 Speaker 1: there like just relaxed, hanging out, and all of a sudden, 484 00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:19,560 Speaker 1: out of nowhere, she shoots up and starts doing her 485 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:24,200 Speaker 1: gallop around people dancing, and it was like concerning but 486 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 1: then really really funny, Like it was like the music 487 00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:29,000 Speaker 1: just hit me and I just had to like get up. 488 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:32,560 Speaker 1: I was like mid conversation and I was like the 489 00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:37,440 Speaker 1: horse took off. The horse just just couldn't stop me. Yeah, 490 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:42,240 Speaker 1: good time. Yeah looked insane to like it was like 491 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:50,280 Speaker 1: five tall, it's like seven tears. Everything was just truly extraordinary. 492 00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:53,080 Speaker 1: I know, it kind of made I was like wow, 493 00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:55,840 Speaker 1: like the thoughts indeed, I mean, they had an incredible 494 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:58,200 Speaker 1: wedding planner. So he did like, Oh, but the food, 495 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:03,359 Speaker 1: all the saying's just divine, Like, oh, that's what I 496 00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:08,080 Speaker 1: love about Ashley. She all about some good food. It 497 00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:15,360 Speaker 1: was beyond Yeah. Um okay. So we get home from 498 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,680 Speaker 1: the wedding. The wedding ended around twelve. It took a 499 00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:21,200 Speaker 1: while to get Uber's back to the house because uh, 500 00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:23,400 Speaker 1: it's a small town and it was a Sunday night. 501 00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:26,800 Speaker 1: We finally get back to the hotel. Everyone's like, let's 502 00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:28,639 Speaker 1: go out. It's our last night, and we're kind of 503 00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:30,640 Speaker 1: like we have to pack and get up and so 504 00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 1: we're going to go back to the hotel. My my 505 00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,480 Speaker 1: feet hurt so bad, and like the thought of going 506 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:38,159 Speaker 1: out at that point was like just not happening. We 507 00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:40,639 Speaker 1: just gone out, like we raged the night before, Like 508 00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:43,720 Speaker 1: we were literally at Ben's house that airbnb until like 509 00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:46,840 Speaker 1: four o'clock in the morning the night before. Yeah, like 510 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:50,800 Speaker 1: we really we have yeah, we really just we went there. 511 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:53,520 Speaker 1: So I think by Sunday I was like to this wedding. 512 00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:56,480 Speaker 1: I think we call it a night and and it 513 00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:58,679 Speaker 1: was so we were like, well, we have to go 514 00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:00,760 Speaker 1: back and change or said that. I was like, I 515 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:04,280 Speaker 1: can't go any further in these shoes. So we get 516 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,680 Speaker 1: back and then we put our robes on and we're like, 517 00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:10,680 Speaker 1: I don't think we're going anywhere now. So we had 518 00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:14,000 Speaker 1: to leave our hotel at four thirty in the morning 519 00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:19,399 Speaker 1: so that we could make ourn uh flight back to 520 00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:21,840 Speaker 1: l A from Boston. Yeah, so we took like a 521 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:23,480 Speaker 1: little nap, but like an hour and a half nap, 522 00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:25,800 Speaker 1: and then we get up and again I'm in a 523 00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:28,600 Speaker 1: full panic because I put the airport address into the phone, 524 00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:32,080 Speaker 1: and again it takes more time than anybody had ever 525 00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:34,199 Speaker 1: told us it would take to get to the airport. 526 00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:37,320 Speaker 1: So then I start to panic, and I'm like, this 527 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:39,640 Speaker 1: always happened to us. Let's go, let's get in the car, 528 00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:42,080 Speaker 1: and let's get to the airport. We are not missing 529 00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:46,920 Speaker 1: this light. But before we do that, Tanya is chugging water, 530 00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:51,000 Speaker 1: like literally chugging and then crunching the bottle to let 531 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:53,200 Speaker 1: me know that she finished. I'm like, why do you 532 00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,840 Speaker 1: have to crunch the bottle like that? But whatever, she 533 00:28:55,920 --> 00:29:00,280 Speaker 1: did like three times. So we're like racing, you know, 534 00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,880 Speaker 1: we're we have to return our rental car. So it's 535 00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:05,080 Speaker 1: like there's not really a lot of time. We have 536 00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:07,480 Speaker 1: no room. We literally needed to return the car and 537 00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:10,640 Speaker 1: get to the like we were. It was tight. So 538 00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:12,920 Speaker 1: Tany is like, I know you don't want to hear this. 539 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:16,120 Speaker 1: We're about forty minutes from the airport, but I really 540 00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,760 Speaker 1: have to be And I'm like, all right, well let's 541 00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:21,880 Speaker 1: see how strong that bladder is. So it's like it's fine, 542 00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:23,280 Speaker 1: I got it. I'll wait. I'll wait till I get 543 00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 1: to the airport. And then like another fifteen minutes go by, 544 00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:28,320 Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm like this is not good, 545 00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:31,440 Speaker 1: Like I'm in paining, like something needs to happen. Yeah, 546 00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:33,200 Speaker 1: so I was like, we can stop if if we 547 00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:34,880 Speaker 1: need to, and she's like no, like I don't feel 548 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:36,360 Speaker 1: like we have the time, and like there were no 549 00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:39,240 Speaker 1: stop offs, so it wasn't we would have we would 550 00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:42,000 Speaker 1: have actually missed our flight. Yeah, it would have been 551 00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:48,160 Speaker 1: very close. Look at we have water bottles in the car, 552 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:52,880 Speaker 1: and she's like, I don't think that I can make 553 00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:56,360 Speaker 1: it in that like without it going everywhere and I'm like, yeah, 554 00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:59,520 Speaker 1: and this is a rental, you're not doing that. So 555 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:03,680 Speaker 1: so that's what she looks back, looks around. She sees 556 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:09,200 Speaker 1: her hydro flask, and I was like, you know, I 557 00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:13,720 Speaker 1: have the hydro flasks and the opening in these bad boys. Really, 558 00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:15,680 Speaker 1: I was like, I think I can get it in there. 559 00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:18,760 Speaker 1: It's a wide mouth, and I was like, I think 560 00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:24,040 Speaker 1: I could do it in my hydrome. So guess what. 561 00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:28,720 Speaker 1: She wiggles her way to the back. Yep, wiggle my 562 00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:31,280 Speaker 1: way to the back, and I can just hear it. 563 00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:34,480 Speaker 1: It's like a tin can. So I did hear. I 564 00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:37,800 Speaker 1: pulled my pants down and I squat over my hydro 565 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:42,000 Speaker 1: flask and I just start going in a moving car. 566 00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:45,880 Speaker 1: And um, first of all, I'd like to preface the 567 00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:52,000 Speaker 1: fact that we had asparagus for dinner, so it wasn't 568 00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:54,960 Speaker 1: just like normal Tanya pee like clear because I drink 569 00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:58,760 Speaker 1: so much water. It was like stenchy gagging. I had 570 00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:01,080 Speaker 1: to roll the windows down. Um. I was like, this 571 00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:04,120 Speaker 1: is horrible. I'm so tired. I'm so like, pee, I 572 00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:07,880 Speaker 1: can hear it can here. And first of all, this 573 00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:14,520 Speaker 1: thing is forty ounces. Okay, I filled up half So 574 00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:17,440 Speaker 1: then in my mind I'm like, well, I guess she's 575 00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:21,280 Speaker 1: throwing away her hydro flask. And she's like, well, no way, 576 00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:29,280 Speaker 1: these bad boys are fifty. So she's like, I'll just 577 00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:32,640 Speaker 1: rent it out at the airport and I'll like when 578 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:37,000 Speaker 1: I get home, I'll boil water and sterile. It's totally fine. 579 00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:40,479 Speaker 1: And I said, I'm gonna be so triggered if I 580 00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:43,920 Speaker 1: see you drinking out of the bubblegum pink hydro flask 581 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:48,719 Speaker 1: ever again, like it's so gross. I smelled it like 582 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:53,920 Speaker 1: I just can't. There's no one, And so when you 583 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,680 Speaker 1: get to the airport and she's like, I guess I 584 00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:58,760 Speaker 1: just need to throw it away because at that point 585 00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:00,080 Speaker 1: I was like, I don't even have not done. I 586 00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,000 Speaker 1: haven't rinse it out, I don't know where to pour it. 587 00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:07,800 Speaker 1: Like I was just you're going and your liquids, Like 588 00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:11,240 Speaker 1: I just so I threw it away and I'm still 589 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:15,640 Speaker 1: pissed about it. I literally I'm so mad. I'm so mad. 590 00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 1: There's no way I could have gotten it into a 591 00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:20,959 Speaker 1: water bottle though it was really the opening that I needed. 592 00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:23,680 Speaker 1: Did you have any spillage though? Like it did it 593 00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:25,960 Speaker 1: all make it in? It made it all in? Yeah, 594 00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:31,600 Speaker 1: it really cuts things nicely. I'm sorry I have this 595 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:33,800 Speaker 1: is to me details. But did you go like like 596 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:37,520 Speaker 1: point blank with the with the bottle right on me? Yeah? 597 00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:45,840 Speaker 1: More so that and Tany doesn't have the lid that 598 00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:48,400 Speaker 1: I have where it's a straw. She like drinks from 599 00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:57,960 Speaker 1: the high Yeah, I drink from touching. So yeah, that happened. Wow, 600 00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:02,760 Speaker 1: I mean it was a lot, and I feel like 601 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:06,640 Speaker 1: it brought us closer together. Yeah. I don't know what 602 00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:11,120 Speaker 1: it did for our friendship, but it was gross, but 603 00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,600 Speaker 1: it was like I was. I was like impressed that 604 00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:15,680 Speaker 1: we didn't have to stop and you got it done, 605 00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:17,800 Speaker 1: but I would We walked up to the gate as 606 00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:20,000 Speaker 1: we were loading our planes, so like, I mean, we 607 00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:22,520 Speaker 1: were not rushing by any means or no, but I 608 00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:24,120 Speaker 1: still think if we would have stopped to pee. We 609 00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:27,040 Speaker 1: talk about how slow you are about making like picking 610 00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:29,360 Speaker 1: things out, like we were at the souvenir shop, because 611 00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:32,640 Speaker 1: that was something I learned about you this weekend. I 612 00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:39,080 Speaker 1: were frustration. We were looking for food, and then we 613 00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:42,360 Speaker 1: also wanted to get souvenirs, like just like sweas. We 614 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:44,200 Speaker 1: wanted to get sweats to wear them home on our 615 00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:47,280 Speaker 1: flight because we both forgot that. So we go into 616 00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:50,480 Speaker 1: all of these souvenir places pretty much have the same things, 617 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:55,960 Speaker 1: like they were like just copied from each other. Tanya, 618 00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:59,280 Speaker 1: we go into almost every souvenir shop on this store, 619 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:01,760 Speaker 1: and she's for as well. She walks the pace of 620 00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:05,000 Speaker 1: like year old and I'm like, can we be a 621 00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:07,160 Speaker 1: little Like I'm hungry, we have to get back and 622 00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:10,319 Speaker 1: get ready for the wedding. And she's like, do you 623 00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:14,480 Speaker 1: like the gray or the navy? And I'm like either, 624 00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:17,040 Speaker 1: they're both cute. And so then she gets the sweatpants 625 00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:20,480 Speaker 1: and there she got like mismatched sweatpants and she's like, 626 00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:25,160 Speaker 1: I just don't think I can wear like mismatched sweats. Like, hey, 627 00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:30,680 Speaker 1: we'll get the matching ones, like let's go. I wanted 628 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:35,120 Speaker 1: to Like it enraged me. She just had to walk away. 629 00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:38,719 Speaker 1: She like literally walked out of the store. I had 630 00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:42,880 Speaker 1: to call my mom event. I was like, Mom, Tomy 631 00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:44,960 Speaker 1: is doing what you do when I shop with you? 632 00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:47,000 Speaker 1: What do I do? How do I handle it? I 633 00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:51,200 Speaker 1: think I'm very indecisive, which I learned about myself. Like 634 00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:53,640 Speaker 1: it's like who cares their sweats? And I literally was 635 00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:55,799 Speaker 1: treating it like it was like and then we tried 636 00:34:55,840 --> 00:35:00,960 Speaker 1: to see and they were, yeah, do you have that 637 00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:03,520 Speaker 1: problem with like food, because a lot of people struggle 638 00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:06,279 Speaker 1: with that. Oh well, let me tell you. We would 639 00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:09,680 Speaker 1: go we would go into a restaurant and she'd sit 640 00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:16,239 Speaker 1: down and look at the menu and she'd be like, oh, 641 00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:20,400 Speaker 1: do you want to eat here? And I'm like, you don't, okay, 642 00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:22,480 Speaker 1: Like let's go somewhere else. So we go into the 643 00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:24,480 Speaker 1: next one and she's like, I'm like, what are you thinking? 644 00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:27,920 Speaker 1: And she's like, oh, sorry, I don't want pizza and 645 00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:31,920 Speaker 1: pasta for my breakfast. It was three in the afternoon. 646 00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:36,279 Speaker 1: It was the first thing I was eating. It was 647 00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:40,000 Speaker 1: so then we went to Starbucks. That's when we ended 648 00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:43,239 Speaker 1: up where we ended up dat or her breakfast sandwich. 649 00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:47,200 Speaker 1: And you don't struggle with like making decisions back it 650 00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:51,480 Speaker 1: like are you yeah? And at that point, like when 651 00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:53,480 Speaker 1: I'm hungry or whatever, I'm like, I can find something 652 00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:56,439 Speaker 1: that works, Like we're on a time crunch. I knew 653 00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:58,520 Speaker 1: I got the sweats. I just was like, I'll get 654 00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 1: the Navy in the gray. They're the worst fitting sweatpants 655 00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:03,400 Speaker 1: I've ever seen my entire live. Once I got back 656 00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:08,319 Speaker 1: to the hotel, the ankle situation entertained me quite I'd 657 00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:11,719 Speaker 1: got a different style mine have like this today. I 658 00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:13,960 Speaker 1: wish I would have had a video of yours, because 659 00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:16,879 Speaker 1: I've never seen sweatpants go up under the boob as 660 00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:20,840 Speaker 1: high as those did and fit like tights around her thigh. 661 00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,640 Speaker 1: Like they were like tights around the thigh and like 662 00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:26,759 Speaker 1: camel toe up but like yeah, so it was like 663 00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:29,759 Speaker 1: baggy where they were like went up the waistband, but 664 00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:32,160 Speaker 1: then like my thighs, they were like skin tight with 665 00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:35,560 Speaker 1: a camel toe. They're awful if you want have taken 666 00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:43,200 Speaker 1: a little more time and you had to wear yours. Yeah, yeah, 667 00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:46,319 Speaker 1: yesterday our travel day was it was a long day 668 00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:49,000 Speaker 1: and it was a long day. Wow, I can't believe 669 00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:52,120 Speaker 1: that was just yesterday. Did you fly out of Boston 670 00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:58,040 Speaker 1: or Providence? Coming back Boston six hours and I slept 671 00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:08,200 Speaker 1: but it was out the whole time. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 672 00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:15,000 Speaker 1: I actually okay, I will okay, so I don't Sometimes 673 00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:17,759 Speaker 1: I get sick of you, as in like if you 674 00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:20,239 Speaker 1: had been like let's get up, let's go run, blah 675 00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:22,160 Speaker 1: blah blah, knowing that I'm like I don't want to run, 676 00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:25,719 Speaker 1: but you slept late and you're like ate, nor like 677 00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:29,640 Speaker 1: a normal human being. So I felt like comfortable. I 678 00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:32,160 Speaker 1: didn't feel like out of like you were trying to 679 00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:33,880 Speaker 1: get me to do things that I didn't want to do. 680 00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:37,759 Speaker 1: I had a great weekend with you. Yeah, I was like, 681 00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:46,640 Speaker 1: actually it's on there, you're gonna put like repeat on that. Um, 682 00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:48,239 Speaker 1: But yeah, I had I had a lot of I 683 00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:50,920 Speaker 1: had a great weekend. I had so much fun. Great, 684 00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:54,440 Speaker 1: me too, great. Great. We got a lot of questions 685 00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:57,399 Speaker 1: actually about um, there's some rapid fire that I can 686 00:37:58,040 --> 00:37:59,879 Speaker 1: shout out at you because I asked people last night 687 00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:03,920 Speaker 1: on on the Instagram. I can shout them out to 688 00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:09,440 Speaker 1: you if you'd like, Becca, Okay, well they're just like embarrassing. 689 00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:13,600 Speaker 1: They're just not embarrassing. They're just like quick, um embarrassing 690 00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:20,000 Speaker 1: her boy not the same before before those questions. Let's 691 00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:22,120 Speaker 1: let's just take a quick break. We have some great 692 00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:40,080 Speaker 1: sponsors coming up. We're gonna talk about him. We're back, 693 00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:44,040 Speaker 1: and i'd like to tell everybody about my damn story. 694 00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:51,480 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, so um, I can't even remember one day. 695 00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:57,160 Speaker 1: I'm like so thrown off by Wednesday. This is Wednesday. 696 00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:02,680 Speaker 1: This is Wednesday. Okay, so um, I went to this 697 00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:08,399 Speaker 1: event on Tuesday, and um, Hayley my friend that doesn't 698 00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:10,480 Speaker 1: make up. She spent the night at my house and 699 00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:11,960 Speaker 1: she was leaving the next day. She had like a 700 00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:14,120 Speaker 1: facial her facial got canceled, so she was going to 701 00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:15,680 Speaker 1: stay with me until I went to this event. I 702 00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:20,279 Speaker 1: had this music event. I'm scrolling through my phone and 703 00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:24,000 Speaker 1: I'm like going through my d M s and I 704 00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:27,040 Speaker 1: see this d M. There's this blue check mark, and 705 00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:32,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm sorry, who did I God bless you, 706 00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:37,200 Speaker 1: who did I just get a d M from? I 707 00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:39,560 Speaker 1: look at my phone and mind you, this is somebody 708 00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:42,040 Speaker 1: that I like, I had a major crush on for 709 00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:45,120 Speaker 1: a very long time, like obsessed with, because I just 710 00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:53,279 Speaker 1: find them to be so badass. Sure enough, I guess what. 711 00:39:53,320 --> 00:40:09,480 Speaker 1: I got a DM from Jessica Alba. Wow, that's right. 712 00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:14,560 Speaker 1: I was like, Um, what's happening? So I opened it 713 00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:18,160 Speaker 1: and she basically said in the d M like, um, 714 00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:19,920 Speaker 1: she was drying. I'm guessing she heard us on the 715 00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:21,560 Speaker 1: radio because she was saying she was driving somewhere in 716 00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:23,880 Speaker 1: the morning and she's like, I'm having this event tonight 717 00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:27,839 Speaker 1: for women empowerment, like women entrepreneurs, and I know it's 718 00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:29,439 Speaker 1: last minute, but I really want you to be there. 719 00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:32,080 Speaker 1: And this is at like four o'clock and the event 720 00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:34,879 Speaker 1: starts at six, and I was like, my kne jerk 721 00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:37,040 Speaker 1: reaction was because I had already had an event that 722 00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:40,480 Speaker 1: was supposed to be going to. And Hayley flies up 723 00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:42,920 Speaker 1: and she's like, thank god, I'm still here. This is 724 00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:45,000 Speaker 1: all meant to be. Sit in the chair. She starts 725 00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:47,000 Speaker 1: throwing makeup on me. She's like, you are going to 726 00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:50,520 Speaker 1: Jessica Alba's house and like literally just starts like putting 727 00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:52,719 Speaker 1: makeup on me. And she's like, you're responding right now. 728 00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:54,840 Speaker 1: You are going to this this is major. You just 729 00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:58,040 Speaker 1: got a personal invite to this event, like you are going. 730 00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:00,279 Speaker 1: I was like, thank god she was there, because you 731 00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:02,320 Speaker 1: know me, I would have been like already made a commitment. 732 00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:06,480 Speaker 1: Like So I called my friend who invited me to 733 00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:07,719 Speaker 1: the event that I was supposed to go to, and 734 00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:09,319 Speaker 1: I told her what happened, and she was like, you're 735 00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:12,160 Speaker 1: absolutely not coming and you're going to this Jessica Alba thing. 736 00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:17,240 Speaker 1: Um And uh So I get ready really really fast 737 00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:20,799 Speaker 1: and I go to the event. It's the most gorgeous 738 00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:25,480 Speaker 1: thing I have ever seen on the planet like it was. 739 00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:28,560 Speaker 1: She had, um, so honest, beauty is getting like these 740 00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:31,320 Speaker 1: new liquid lipsticks, and so they had this liquid lipstick 741 00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:33,080 Speaker 1: and everybody's like see with their name on it. And 742 00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:35,880 Speaker 1: she had like died every napkin to match the exact 743 00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:38,960 Speaker 1: color of the liquid lipstick that was on your plate. 744 00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:42,400 Speaker 1: So the napkins were dyed to match the exact color 745 00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:46,239 Speaker 1: of the lipstick. Jessica Alba herself did the dying of 746 00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:48,839 Speaker 1: the napkins, for sure. She did. She's a modern woman 747 00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:51,160 Speaker 1: and she just really does all the steps, you know. 748 00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:54,680 Speaker 1: But it was like so cool because it was just 749 00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:57,480 Speaker 1: this like all these women and I didn't know I 750 00:41:57,520 --> 00:41:59,640 Speaker 1: didn't know anybody going. I didn't know anybody that was 751 00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:01,480 Speaker 1: like to be there. I was just kind of like, 752 00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:04,560 Speaker 1: you know, I'm just gonna show up and be like hey, 753 00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:09,400 Speaker 1: jess So but it was just so beautiful. And she 754 00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:12,239 Speaker 1: had this like panel of women that she um she 755 00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:13,759 Speaker 1: would like do was doing a Q and A with 756 00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:17,080 Speaker 1: just about starting their own businesses and like the trials 757 00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:20,160 Speaker 1: and tribulations and the stigmas against women and like how 758 00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:22,479 Speaker 1: she's like one of the questions that I get asked 759 00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:24,480 Speaker 1: all the time. It is like how do you balance 760 00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:27,280 Speaker 1: it all? And she's like, men don't get that question. 761 00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:29,920 Speaker 1: Men don't get that question. How do you balance it all? 762 00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:33,120 Speaker 1: We just do, you know. And so it was just 763 00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:36,320 Speaker 1: kind of cool to hear these like really inspiring women 764 00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:39,279 Speaker 1: who have created such amazing like brands and names for 765 00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:43,080 Speaker 1: themselves and are doing it like so badass. It was 766 00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:45,960 Speaker 1: just such a it was such a cool event. I 767 00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:50,319 Speaker 1: was just and then so what's really funny is um 768 00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:54,320 Speaker 1: So Jessica's like standing right there and and she um. 769 00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:55,920 Speaker 1: I was like talking to her, and she's like, I 770 00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:57,440 Speaker 1: can't be you know, I slid into your d M. 771 00:42:57,600 --> 00:42:59,160 Speaker 1: And I was just, you know, we should chat or whatever. 772 00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:02,279 Speaker 1: She walks away. And then this girl walks in that 773 00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:04,399 Speaker 1: I've been following on Instagram for like a really long 774 00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:09,600 Speaker 1: time and I'm obsessed with And I was like, I 775 00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:11,600 Speaker 1: made this new friend. Her name is Cammy by the way, 776 00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:14,319 Speaker 1: she who knows Becca, who was the impetus of our 777 00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:18,440 Speaker 1: diet swap the inspiration. Um So, she was like my 778 00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:20,239 Speaker 1: new friend for the night. And I turned to her 779 00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:22,520 Speaker 1: and I was like, what do I do? I was like, 780 00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:24,719 Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with this girl, Like what do I say? 781 00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:26,440 Speaker 1: And She's like the girl's like a food blogger, a 782 00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:28,880 Speaker 1: food blogger. Yeah, And she's like, you just chit chatted 783 00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:31,160 Speaker 1: with about d m A jess Alba and you can't 784 00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:32,879 Speaker 1: have a copy. You can't go up to this girl 785 00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:34,680 Speaker 1: from Instagram. And I was like, I don't know what 786 00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:38,120 Speaker 1: to do. I'm so nervous. But I went up to 787 00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:39,879 Speaker 1: her and I told her I was a big fan, 788 00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:41,759 Speaker 1: and she kept calling me by my name. She was like, 789 00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:43,879 Speaker 1: thank you, Tanya. And I was like, she tells my 790 00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:47,920 Speaker 1: name and not only that, shut to follow me on 791 00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:50,439 Speaker 1: Instagram right there, so be well by Kelly, I love 792 00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:54,719 Speaker 1: you shout out. Yeah. She was very excited, very excited, 793 00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:58,480 Speaker 1: very excited. I just think there's something so cool. I 794 00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:00,360 Speaker 1: can't wait. I like really want to do things like 795 00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:04,880 Speaker 1: that that just bring women together and start a conversation, 796 00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:06,520 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It was just super cool, 797 00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:11,080 Speaker 1: like the things that they were sharing and and I 798 00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:13,720 Speaker 1: don't know, I just felt very like I felt very churchy, 799 00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:16,600 Speaker 1: like I was shouting her down, Like I was like, yeah, yeah, 800 00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:18,480 Speaker 1: like you know all you do in church when they 801 00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:24,080 Speaker 1: say something like yeah yeah and and other things. That's 802 00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:25,600 Speaker 1: what I felt like. I was like I was shouting 803 00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:28,560 Speaker 1: them down and it was just really cool. That kind 804 00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:31,759 Speaker 1: of thing is so up your alley. And seriously, I 805 00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:33,920 Speaker 1: always thought like like I could see you doing like 806 00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:35,680 Speaker 1: in a very short amount of time, like hosting your 807 00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:37,919 Speaker 1: own thing like that. Yeah, I want to. I told 808 00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:40,120 Speaker 1: her that. I was like, this really like inspired me 809 00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:42,879 Speaker 1: in so many ways. And it's like I don't have 810 00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:44,799 Speaker 1: you know, I mean, the honest company that she built, 811 00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:46,480 Speaker 1: I mean it's like how many it is, like a 812 00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:51,040 Speaker 1: billion dollar company. I mean obviously she's insanely talented and 813 00:44:51,120 --> 00:44:55,919 Speaker 1: such a that's such a big business. I am not 814 00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:59,160 Speaker 1: there yet, but I was like, I want to do 815 00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:01,640 Speaker 1: things like this because I think it really creates like 816 00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:05,640 Speaker 1: it just creates this like ambiance of you know, nobody 817 00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:07,879 Speaker 1: had I don't think anybody had a plus one, so 818 00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:11,600 Speaker 1: everybody was kind of forced to meet people and you're 819 00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:13,759 Speaker 1: sat sitting next to people that you don't know, and 820 00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:16,719 Speaker 1: it just kind of created a really cool dialogue and atmosphere. 821 00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:18,920 Speaker 1: And I was just really like proud and honored and 822 00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:21,000 Speaker 1: felt cool to be a part of it. And I 823 00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:25,600 Speaker 1: want to create that for other people in different industries. 824 00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:28,239 Speaker 1: And it was just really cool. Yeah, I see that 825 00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:32,400 Speaker 1: happening for you. I love very soon like some capacity. 826 00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:37,759 Speaker 1: It was just special and I love Jessica Alba so 827 00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:41,560 Speaker 1: like now like I have direct like DM access on 828 00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:44,960 Speaker 1: the podcast, but I had to play cool, like I 829 00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:46,560 Speaker 1: can't d M her for like a while, you know, 830 00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:48,759 Speaker 1: but I think I'm gonna start like commenting on her 831 00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:54,040 Speaker 1: stories like oh cool, mindful when you're doing yeah, like 832 00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:56,360 Speaker 1: be cool, like play like play it cool, but like 833 00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:59,680 Speaker 1: still be like hey I'm here, yeah, yeah, here, here's 834 00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:01,319 Speaker 1: I've it in your first DM do her, here's what 835 00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:03,839 Speaker 1: you can do here. You wait till like Saturday night, 836 00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:07,560 Speaker 1: like midnight, and you say, hey, Jessica, just wondering, would 837 00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:09,799 Speaker 1: you ever be interested in reprising your role as the 838 00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:13,000 Speaker 1: Invisible woman in the New Fantastic for a movie. There 839 00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:18,440 Speaker 1: you go. You ask her that it's gonna go over great. 840 00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:21,160 Speaker 1: She's gonna say, wow, I telling you've never thought that before. 841 00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:23,080 Speaker 1: I'd love to talk about this on your podcast. Thank 842 00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:27,600 Speaker 1: you for the interesting question. Exactly what she'd say, that 843 00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:31,839 Speaker 1: is what she'd say. Wow. I just love her a lot. 844 00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:35,000 Speaker 1: Telling me something I've been wanting to tell you that 845 00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:37,640 Speaker 1: I love that you do on your Instagram is when 846 00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:40,480 Speaker 1: you repost all the people that tag you like with 847 00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:44,000 Speaker 1: the modern women, like like when they're like building some 848 00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:46,440 Speaker 1: furniture or like taking themselves on a date, like like 849 00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:49,040 Speaker 1: I just think it's the coolest thing ever. And you know, 850 00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:53,680 Speaker 1: I'm I'm not a woman, but I can imagine it's 851 00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:56,240 Speaker 1: just got to feel great. And uh, just is something 852 00:46:56,280 --> 00:47:00,560 Speaker 1: that I find very inspiring about you again as a woman? 853 00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:03,799 Speaker 1: Doan actually this week? And I was like, can you 854 00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:05,600 Speaker 1: teach me how to be a modern woman? I was 855 00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:09,720 Speaker 1: like I can, Dean, Yes I can. It's a mindset. 856 00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:13,279 Speaker 1: It totally, it is a mindset. But thank you. Yeah, 857 00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:16,440 Speaker 1: I really enjoyed that. That was big. That was big. 858 00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:19,800 Speaker 1: That's huge. Yeah, that was a that was a moment. 859 00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:25,360 Speaker 1: Let me call the moment, right. You got some questions 860 00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:29,719 Speaker 1: right from did you guys want to do those? This 861 00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:32,800 Speaker 1: is I just asked people like we're going to record 862 00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:37,319 Speaker 1: the podcast tomorrow. I got any questions? Okay, here's a 863 00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:42,360 Speaker 1: good interesting one. Oh tell me this is too far? Okay, 864 00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:45,360 Speaker 1: Well Becca ever tell us who she is dating. I 865 00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:51,359 Speaker 1: respect her privacy and care about her happiness. Oh um, 866 00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:55,560 Speaker 1: maybe would they? I mean I don't really have like time, 867 00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:58,600 Speaker 1: like I don't have a date set. It's not marked 868 00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:05,600 Speaker 1: would you time that's stay tuned late morning to afternoon, 869 00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:12,480 Speaker 1: but maybe one day. Thank you for respecting my privacy 870 00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:17,960 Speaker 1: at the time, at the moment um. Did anyone from 871 00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:21,640 Speaker 1: batchel Nation hook up at the wedding? A lot of 872 00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:26,160 Speaker 1: speculation about that online. Who about about Nick cooking up 873 00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:30,560 Speaker 1: with somewhere at the wedding? Uh No, I don't think 874 00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:33,880 Speaker 1: anyone hooked up that I was aware of. Definitely that 875 00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:36,560 Speaker 1: I was aware of, because well, to be honest, Nick 876 00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:43,720 Speaker 1: and Tanya and um Amanda were the only single people 877 00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:47,560 Speaker 1: from Bachelor. They're right, really, we're the only single ones. 878 00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:53,319 Speaker 1: I think, so I love it. Tany was like an 879 00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:56,400 Speaker 1: honorary Bachelor. A love this, and like I think everyone 880 00:48:56,440 --> 00:49:00,239 Speaker 1: at the wedding gol tunes on the Bachelor to Steve 881 00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:02,680 Speaker 1: and I just said, y'all were the only Bachelor people 882 00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:06,759 Speaker 1: who were saying only staid we were. Somebody came up 883 00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:08,560 Speaker 1: to me and like I was like fully talking, like 884 00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:09,840 Speaker 1: I was in the batchelor, and I didn't have the 885 00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:13,120 Speaker 1: heart to break it to him, Like yeah, I was like, 886 00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:19,759 Speaker 1: thank you so much. Oh my gosh. Speaking of I 887 00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:23,400 Speaker 1: filmed a YouTube video where I prank called people, and 888 00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:27,839 Speaker 1: I prank called Tanya, the only person who would ever 889 00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:32,479 Speaker 1: answer a blocked number or like unknown number. And she's 890 00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:35,719 Speaker 1: like hello, I thought you're my post. Yeah, Hi are 891 00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:39,000 Speaker 1: you outside? And I'm like hi, is this Tanya? And 892 00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:40,920 Speaker 1: she's like hi, are you? Do you have my food? 893 00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:44,399 Speaker 1: Are you outside? And so I'm like laughing, keep having 894 00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:47,560 Speaker 1: to mute it, and she was like hello, Hello, I 895 00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:51,520 Speaker 1: keep trying to buzz me in and I'm like, Hi, 896 00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:53,719 Speaker 1: this is I can't remember the name. I said, like 897 00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:56,319 Speaker 1: Teresa from The Bachelor. I was calling because you've been 898 00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:59,560 Speaker 1: nominated to be on the upcoming season. And she's like, uh, 899 00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:03,000 Speaker 1: who is the Bachelor? And I was like, oh, well, 900 00:50:03,040 --> 00:50:06,440 Speaker 1: we we haven't chosen him yet, but we have two options. 901 00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:09,239 Speaker 1: And she's like, oh, no things, I'm not interested in 902 00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:14,360 Speaker 1: either of them. I'm like, kept it so short and sweet. 903 00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:24,239 Speaker 1: I was like okay bye, Like no good, okay. As 904 00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:26,560 Speaker 1: modern women, how do you feel about changing your last 905 00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:28,560 Speaker 1: name when you get married? I found that to be 906 00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:31,279 Speaker 1: interesting take a topic. I feel like we've talked about 907 00:50:31,320 --> 00:50:33,680 Speaker 1: it before. We have a long time ago, probably because 908 00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:37,319 Speaker 1: someone like I feel like someone like remember there was 909 00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:45,359 Speaker 1: an email and someone's fiancee had a bad last day. Um, honestly, 910 00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:50,640 Speaker 1: I'm indifferent about it, Like I'm I'm not like, I'm 911 00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:54,920 Speaker 1: not so traditional that I feel like you have to 912 00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:57,080 Speaker 1: do it if you don't want to. But I do 913 00:50:57,400 --> 00:51:00,239 Speaker 1: respect and love the tradition of like taking onto one's 914 00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:03,239 Speaker 1: last name. But I also respect the decision to be like, 915 00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:06,719 Speaker 1: I like my last name, and I find it to 916 00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:11,120 Speaker 1: be so like my whole life, this has been my name, 917 00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:13,279 Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, I'm going to be 918 00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:16,000 Speaker 1: somebody else. I don't. I don't want to be somebody else. 919 00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:18,520 Speaker 1: I like who I've become. I have been becoming me 920 00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:25,200 Speaker 1: my whole life. Mm hmm. I'm taking it very seriously. 921 00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:28,120 Speaker 1: Besides like stripping her identity away. I was talking to Daniel, 922 00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:29,720 Speaker 1: one of our produces, to share the other day about 923 00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:33,359 Speaker 1: how it's like such a shackle of patriarchy because it's 924 00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:36,920 Speaker 1: so hard to do so many forms. There's so much time, 925 00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:40,000 Speaker 1: so much money that goes into it. It's the worst, 926 00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:44,160 Speaker 1: the worst process ever, takes so long. But what I did, 927 00:51:44,200 --> 00:51:48,000 Speaker 1: I feel like I had a happy compromise. Um. Professionally, 928 00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:50,399 Speaker 1: I'm still going by my maiden name because I feel 929 00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:53,920 Speaker 1: like I've built my career with my name and I 930 00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:56,520 Speaker 1: don't want to just become a random now. So I'm 931 00:51:56,520 --> 00:52:00,560 Speaker 1: still going by my maiden name um professionally, but legally 932 00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:04,880 Speaker 1: I'm switching. I still haven't yet, like eight months after 933 00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:06,880 Speaker 1: the fact, if I'm in the process of doing it. 934 00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:10,000 Speaker 1: So we're getting there. Yeah, I think I don't know. 935 00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:13,120 Speaker 1: I might, I might keep my name. I just feel 936 00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:15,319 Speaker 1: like I know myself. I can barely go to the 937 00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:19,160 Speaker 1: d MB to handle like a license registration situation, so 938 00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:22,440 Speaker 1: I can't imagine going through all the work to change 939 00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:25,040 Speaker 1: my name because I'm just like lazy with that stuff. 940 00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:29,399 Speaker 1: It's just easier. It would be easier to stay Tilly. Yeah, 941 00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:35,160 Speaker 1: I just keep that sounds like. Yeah, I just I'm like, 942 00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:38,920 Speaker 1: I'm very adamant about like I have been this person 943 00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:40,640 Speaker 1: in my whole life, and I like the person that 944 00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:48,279 Speaker 1: I'm becoming, So I'm keeping it. Future husband speaking of 945 00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:51,879 Speaker 1: speaking of uh so, did get a lot of questions 946 00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:54,239 Speaker 1: about what the stat of doctor screen time? Yeah, I'm 947 00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:58,799 Speaker 1: having not heard from him in over a week. It 948 00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:03,640 Speaker 1: just makes me feel a certain type of rage that 949 00:53:03,800 --> 00:53:08,600 Speaker 1: I haven't felt in a minute. It's bad. It's bad. 950 00:53:08,719 --> 00:53:12,960 Speaker 1: It's not great. Yeah, So I think we're gonna put 951 00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:18,440 Speaker 1: a pin in. That sucks. I'm sorry. Yeah, I think 952 00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:20,279 Speaker 1: we're just going to put a put a period to 953 00:53:20,400 --> 00:53:27,400 Speaker 1: that story and keeping its songs. It's so sad. I'm like, 954 00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:29,680 Speaker 1: what in the world? And so this is the this 955 00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:32,160 Speaker 1: is the messed up thing that I do. I don't 956 00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:34,279 Speaker 1: know if it's if it's a girl thing, but it's 957 00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:38,080 Speaker 1: a definitely a tonya thing. I go back into the 958 00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:42,520 Speaker 1: whole week of festivities and I'm like, did I say something? 959 00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:46,800 Speaker 1: Did I do something? Did I like I take it personal? 960 00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:50,520 Speaker 1: And I'm like, what did I do that made him 961 00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:54,480 Speaker 1: stop talking to me? I think any person in your 962 00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:57,560 Speaker 1: situation would go back and do that too. And because 963 00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:00,400 Speaker 1: it wasn't like how we're just texting here and I 964 00:54:00,600 --> 00:54:03,680 Speaker 1: know it's so bizarre, it's so hot, too cold. I 965 00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:06,279 Speaker 1: don't understand what happened. At the very least, he should 966 00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:08,520 Speaker 1: have texted you and been like, hey, I just want 967 00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:10,080 Speaker 1: to let you know, like I had a great time 968 00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:12,600 Speaker 1: getting to know you, but I just like didn't feel 969 00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:18,000 Speaker 1: it and like have a respectful adult conversation. But then 970 00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:19,879 Speaker 1: is that on me too? Should I have reached out 971 00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:22,920 Speaker 1: and done that. He's the one who came and stayed 972 00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:28,120 Speaker 1: at your Please do not act like you needed to 973 00:54:28,160 --> 00:54:35,520 Speaker 1: do more. Bega's ready to go. She's because it just sucks, 974 00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:37,160 Speaker 1: Like I just was going through all that and then 975 00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:39,719 Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what, I don't even if I 976 00:54:39,760 --> 00:54:43,920 Speaker 1: did say something, it was just being me. So whatever, 977 00:54:44,960 --> 00:54:47,439 Speaker 1: have you said something? There's no way that conversation would 978 00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:49,680 Speaker 1: be satisfying, like he would be dancing around it or 979 00:54:49,760 --> 00:54:51,879 Speaker 1: like you know what I mean, like really can't take 980 00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:56,000 Speaker 1: responsibility for himself. Yeah, so that's where we're at with 981 00:54:58,719 --> 00:55:01,720 Speaker 1: and stays in the past an off screen time logging, 982 00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:07,319 Speaker 1: off screen time. Oh this is good. Um, how do 983 00:55:07,360 --> 00:55:12,560 Speaker 1: you deal with toxic friendships? Because I think a lot 984 00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:15,480 Speaker 1: of people are going through that, you know what, I realized. 985 00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:18,719 Speaker 1: I get a lot of questions about friendships, and I 986 00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:20,600 Speaker 1: feel like that's something that a lot of people struggle with. 987 00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:25,880 Speaker 1: It's a hard thing, especially as you get older. I 988 00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:28,680 Speaker 1: just started seeing my therapist again because of friendship problems. 989 00:55:28,880 --> 00:55:31,640 Speaker 1: Really after like i'n seen I haven't talked to her 990 00:55:31,719 --> 00:55:35,279 Speaker 1: for like six years or something. She remembered everything about me. 991 00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:42,239 Speaker 1: She has a file, she remembered, she remembered. We do 992 00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:44,240 Speaker 1: it over the phone because she's she's back at my hometown, 993 00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:45,640 Speaker 1: and I like to think that she's just sitting there 994 00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:47,879 Speaker 1: going like, oh, I remember all these things, but she's 995 00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:50,880 Speaker 1: got like a file. I think she remember off the 996 00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:52,600 Speaker 1: top of her head. But that's the thing a lot 997 00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:55,160 Speaker 1: of a lot of people struggle with. I think, how 998 00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:59,040 Speaker 1: do you guys, like, when how do you cut off 999 00:55:59,080 --> 00:56:01,880 Speaker 1: relate a friendship like that? When you when you realize 1000 00:56:01,920 --> 00:56:04,759 Speaker 1: it's become toxic, it's become more negative than positive, because 1001 00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:06,640 Speaker 1: it's it's a hard thing to like go of. I know, 1002 00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:09,120 Speaker 1: I've only had one friendship that I've had to like, 1003 00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:15,719 Speaker 1: really like and truly in my life, and it was 1004 00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:19,920 Speaker 1: because I felt, um, it was at a time in 1005 00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:22,239 Speaker 1: my life where I was in a relationship and I 1006 00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:25,360 Speaker 1: was working a ton and I just started out I like, 1007 00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:28,520 Speaker 1: we just graduated from college, and I was like, I didn't. 1008 00:56:28,560 --> 00:56:30,640 Speaker 1: All my friends were kind of partying at that point, 1009 00:56:30,680 --> 00:56:32,080 Speaker 1: and I was at a job where I was getting 1010 00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:33,840 Speaker 1: up really early and going to work, so I couldn't 1011 00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:37,360 Speaker 1: really do it with them. And the majority of my 1012 00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:40,960 Speaker 1: friends really embraced me, and we're like, we totally get it. 1013 00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:43,960 Speaker 1: We get what you're doing, and you know, we get 1014 00:56:43,960 --> 00:56:45,719 Speaker 1: your in a relationship. And that you know, and so 1015 00:56:45,760 --> 00:56:47,360 Speaker 1: they would like get coffee with me and kind of 1016 00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:49,640 Speaker 1: do other things that like I wanted to do. But 1017 00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:52,719 Speaker 1: I just had one friend that just was so negative 1018 00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:55,799 Speaker 1: and like just was like your all you do is 1019 00:56:55,840 --> 00:56:58,280 Speaker 1: work and your boyfriend. Like it was just really getting 1020 00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:01,359 Speaker 1: to like a bad, bad place, and I finally just said, 1021 00:57:01,440 --> 00:57:04,480 Speaker 1: like I don't need this in my life, Like this 1022 00:57:04,560 --> 00:57:07,359 Speaker 1: is not the type of friendship that I want in 1023 00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:08,880 Speaker 1: my life. This is not type of friend I am 1024 00:57:08,920 --> 00:57:11,640 Speaker 1: to you unless you can like be the person that 1025 00:57:11,719 --> 00:57:15,839 Speaker 1: I want you to be, Like we're done here, m hm. 1026 00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:18,400 Speaker 1: And that was it. It was really hard. It sucked 1027 00:57:18,440 --> 00:57:21,120 Speaker 1: because we've been friends for a really long time. But 1028 00:57:21,160 --> 00:57:23,480 Speaker 1: I think also like you grow in life and you 1029 00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:25,840 Speaker 1: change and you become you become different people, and I 1030 00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:27,800 Speaker 1: think you just have to realize, like some people are 1031 00:57:27,800 --> 00:57:29,480 Speaker 1: going to come along the way and some are going 1032 00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:34,920 Speaker 1: to fall off. I had one friendship where I didn't 1033 00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:38,800 Speaker 1: really know that things were bad until she called me 1034 00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:41,120 Speaker 1: and we had a conversation. She told me all the 1035 00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:44,360 Speaker 1: things that I had done wrong as a friend, and 1036 00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:47,640 Speaker 1: we talked and like apologized, but it was kind of 1037 00:57:47,680 --> 00:57:50,120 Speaker 1: like the end of it was like I wish you well, 1038 00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:53,760 Speaker 1: and you know, I hope I don't have any bad 1039 00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:56,960 Speaker 1: feelings towards you, but I just don't, you know, I 1040 00:57:57,000 --> 00:58:00,200 Speaker 1: don't think we're like gonna be best friends forever. And 1041 00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:03,960 Speaker 1: it sucks because my personality, like the fact that I 1042 00:58:04,040 --> 00:58:06,480 Speaker 1: hurt her and then like didn't know for so long 1043 00:58:06,560 --> 00:58:10,120 Speaker 1: until I had that conversation like bothered me, and it 1044 00:58:10,200 --> 00:58:13,720 Speaker 1: bothered me that she felt like I was a horrible friend. 1045 00:58:14,240 --> 00:58:16,280 Speaker 1: And then I realized I was making it about me 1046 00:58:16,400 --> 00:58:18,400 Speaker 1: and not just being like, you know, I should have 1047 00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:20,080 Speaker 1: handled that better, and I'm going to do better in 1048 00:58:20,160 --> 00:58:23,360 Speaker 1: other friendships and try to communicate more. Um So it's 1049 00:58:23,360 --> 00:58:26,640 Speaker 1: definitely like a learning lesson. I actually get a lot 1050 00:58:26,680 --> 00:58:29,400 Speaker 1: of questions about how we deal with conflict. You and 1051 00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:33,840 Speaker 1: I telling me it gets silent, doesn't talk, and that's 1052 00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:35,840 Speaker 1: how I know that she's upset. And when we talk 1053 00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:38,919 Speaker 1: about it and then hash it out, that's true, that's 1054 00:58:38,920 --> 00:58:41,880 Speaker 1: exactly what happens. But we hash it out and then 1055 00:58:41,920 --> 00:58:44,880 Speaker 1: we move on. That's really healthy. I think it is 1056 00:58:44,920 --> 00:58:47,400 Speaker 1: really healthy because I also think like people get in 1057 00:58:47,600 --> 00:58:49,560 Speaker 1: arguments and not everyone's gonna get along a d percent 1058 00:58:49,600 --> 00:58:50,640 Speaker 1: of the time, and I think you have to like 1059 00:58:50,760 --> 00:58:53,680 Speaker 1: obviously deal with things, talk it out, see each other's 1060 00:58:53,720 --> 00:58:56,320 Speaker 1: point of view, and then move on. I have some 1061 00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:59,240 Speaker 1: friends that are like, um, really really close to me 1062 00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:04,360 Speaker 1: and aren't uh when something exciting happens in my life, 1063 00:59:05,120 --> 00:59:07,960 Speaker 1: I don't get I don't feel support from them, like 1064 00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:10,720 Speaker 1: I feel they always like kind of like take a 1065 00:59:10,720 --> 00:59:13,640 Speaker 1: crap on things that I'm excited about. And uh. It 1066 00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:15,160 Speaker 1: was one of the things where it was like I 1067 00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:17,000 Speaker 1: was occupying a lot of energy in my head, like 1068 00:59:17,040 --> 00:59:19,200 Speaker 1: being like, well, why am I doing something wrong? Like 1069 00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:20,840 Speaker 1: why aren't they why aren't they exciting for me? You 1070 00:59:20,880 --> 00:59:23,160 Speaker 1: know that kind of thing. And uh, I realized, like, 1071 00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:26,720 Speaker 1: you know, you need to sometimes when there's people that 1072 00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:29,080 Speaker 1: you're really close to that don't make you feel good, 1073 00:59:29,120 --> 00:59:30,680 Speaker 1: you just have to give them space. That's all. It was, 1074 00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:32,840 Speaker 1: just like, well, you know, I'm because I'm not gonna 1075 00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:34,520 Speaker 1: like I want to think about the point where I 1076 00:59:34,520 --> 00:59:35,880 Speaker 1: need to cut these people out of my life, but 1077 00:59:35,920 --> 00:59:39,080 Speaker 1: also like maybe I just I'll just let them kind 1078 00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:40,880 Speaker 1: of exist for a while and if they want to 1079 00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:43,680 Speaker 1: hang out with me, they can, you know. Um, so 1080 00:59:43,960 --> 00:59:46,120 Speaker 1: I don't know that. I guess if this person is 1081 00:59:46,120 --> 00:59:48,000 Speaker 1: asking how you deal with toxic friends. You know, sometimes 1082 00:59:48,040 --> 00:59:51,960 Speaker 1: it's like it depends on local toxicity. Yeah, you know, 1083 00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:55,400 Speaker 1: but it's sometimes you just need to get people space 1084 00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:57,680 Speaker 1: and and you know, hang out with people to make 1085 00:59:57,720 --> 01:00:00,520 Speaker 1: you feel good. Priendships about you know, it's about feeling supported, 1086 01:00:00,880 --> 01:00:04,040 Speaker 1: it's about having fun. I know. I was thinking. Someone 1087 01:00:04,080 --> 01:00:07,160 Speaker 1: asked me a question last week on my Instagram questions 1088 01:00:07,200 --> 01:00:10,080 Speaker 1: and it was like, um, what do you do if 1089 01:00:10,160 --> 01:00:13,280 Speaker 1: your friends if you're friends with someone who's negative all 1090 01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:15,760 Speaker 1: the time? And I was thinking, I was like, I 1091 01:00:15,800 --> 01:00:18,600 Speaker 1: feel like, for the most part, I surround myself with people. 1092 01:00:18,680 --> 01:00:21,320 Speaker 1: Or maybe it's just because Tanya is so positive that 1093 01:00:21,360 --> 01:00:24,720 Speaker 1: she balances everyone out, But I feel like, for the 1094 01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:27,560 Speaker 1: most part, my friends are all like make me feel 1095 01:00:27,720 --> 01:00:31,720 Speaker 1: better and like encouraged and supported. So that would be 1096 01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:36,080 Speaker 1: hard to have that like negativity as a constant. Yeah 1097 01:00:36,200 --> 01:00:41,040 Speaker 1: in a friendship. I don't. I could definitely handle that. No, no, no, 1098 01:00:42,360 --> 01:00:44,320 Speaker 1: And that's something I think people need to in terms 1099 01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:46,960 Speaker 1: of like, if you have a friend is being negative sunny, 1100 01:00:47,000 --> 01:00:48,240 Speaker 1: people go like, oh, how do I get them to 1101 01:00:48,280 --> 01:00:50,520 Speaker 1: be more positive? That's something someone has to like seeing 1102 01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:52,720 Speaker 1: themselves and want to change, you know, that's not something 1103 01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:55,320 Speaker 1: I think that goes really poorly. If you're like, you know, 1104 01:00:55,320 --> 01:00:56,840 Speaker 1: you've got a really bad attitude and we need to 1105 01:00:56,880 --> 01:01:00,919 Speaker 1: fix that, they're going to have a worse attitude. Uh 1106 01:01:01,040 --> 01:01:03,760 Speaker 1: did you kiss anyone or exchange numbers at the wedding? 1107 01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:11,960 Speaker 1: I mean I didn't. I did not at this wedding, 1108 01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:16,040 Speaker 1: but I did at a wedding that I went to 1109 01:01:16,320 --> 01:01:20,000 Speaker 1: the week before. You kiss someone? No exchange numbers? Did 1110 01:01:20,080 --> 01:01:22,920 Speaker 1: you kiss anyone or exchange numbers at the wedding? The 1111 01:01:22,960 --> 01:01:28,080 Speaker 1: guy romantically or yes? Okay? Yeah, okay does not live here? 1112 01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:35,240 Speaker 1: He lives here, alright, alright, remember because we were like, oh, yeah, 1113 01:01:35,680 --> 01:01:37,800 Speaker 1: he's in l A. Yes, yes, but we didn't give 1114 01:01:37,840 --> 01:01:41,640 Speaker 1: him a name because we hadn't been out yet. Yeah. 1115 01:01:41,880 --> 01:01:45,840 Speaker 1: Have you been talking to every day? Okay? So, like 1116 01:01:46,000 --> 01:01:48,480 Speaker 1: I mean, obviously I'm not gonna I don't want to, 1117 01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:52,000 Speaker 1: like get overly excited, because from now on we just 1118 01:01:52,080 --> 01:01:55,720 Speaker 1: keep everything out of everything. Everything's neutral. But he is 1119 01:01:55,840 --> 01:01:58,280 Speaker 1: so funny and he has my sense of humor. So 1120 01:01:58,360 --> 01:02:01,080 Speaker 1: he says things that I would say, and I laugh 1121 01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:03,400 Speaker 1: out loud at the text she tells me about. That's 1122 01:02:03,480 --> 01:02:06,040 Speaker 1: very interesting. I don't have an opinion one way or another. 1123 01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:12,280 Speaker 1: We're just keeping a real, real mellow. Yeah. But it's 1124 01:02:12,280 --> 01:02:15,400 Speaker 1: actually really funny because, um, I went to this wedding 1125 01:02:16,320 --> 01:02:18,360 Speaker 1: right after Doctors screen Time had left town and we 1126 01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:19,800 Speaker 1: had to make plans at each other again. I was 1127 01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:22,040 Speaker 1: like really bummed. I cried a little bit the day before, 1128 01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:23,000 Speaker 1: and so I was just like, you know, I just 1129 01:02:23,080 --> 01:02:25,240 Speaker 1: want to go and have fun, drink and have fun 1130 01:02:25,240 --> 01:02:28,200 Speaker 1: with my friends, not expecting anything. And then I met 1131 01:02:28,200 --> 01:02:30,360 Speaker 1: this guy and yeah, he got my number. I didn't 1132 01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:35,320 Speaker 1: think anything of it, but I mean it's been I've 1133 01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:37,440 Speaker 1: been going. He's really nice. Yeah, he's really nice and 1134 01:02:37,560 --> 01:02:41,280 Speaker 1: really and really cute. Um, and love Jesus. Yeah, and 1135 01:02:41,360 --> 01:02:46,920 Speaker 1: love Jesus. So these are all qualities people have. Yeah, 1136 01:02:46,960 --> 01:02:53,360 Speaker 1: these are all very well. This is uh, this is 1137 01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:56,520 Speaker 1: a thing that you're doing. And I support you. Thank you. 1138 01:02:56,520 --> 01:02:59,320 Speaker 1: You know, when one door closes, another door open immediately, 1139 01:03:04,760 --> 01:03:08,920 Speaker 1: so I'm just walking through the door. But none at 1140 01:03:08,960 --> 01:03:11,400 Speaker 1: Jared n Ashley's. But I guess I feel like there 1141 01:03:11,400 --> 01:03:16,400 Speaker 1: wasn't a lot of Jess Clark's. Jess Clarks never Yeah, 1142 01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:21,919 Speaker 1: that was a wind that was sixtent of the number exchange. Yeah, weird. 1143 01:03:22,000 --> 01:03:24,360 Speaker 1: Oh this is good where do you see yourselves in 1144 01:03:24,400 --> 01:03:27,840 Speaker 1: ten years? Oh? Man, I struggle with these questions. I'm 1145 01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:30,600 Speaker 1: not a planner, so the ten years, the five year 1146 01:03:30,680 --> 01:03:35,720 Speaker 1: really gets me. The tenure, like don't even answer. So 1147 01:03:35,760 --> 01:03:41,280 Speaker 1: it's just just a blank stare, blank space with my life. 1148 01:03:41,320 --> 01:03:43,560 Speaker 1: Mary Taylor swift of you. How far ahead do you 1149 01:03:43,600 --> 01:03:49,600 Speaker 1: think though? Like two hours? Well? Like, I just have 1150 01:03:49,760 --> 01:03:51,640 Speaker 1: whatever is on my calendar and I go with that 1151 01:03:51,720 --> 01:03:55,280 Speaker 1: and if things pop up in between, I they're inserted 1152 01:03:55,280 --> 01:03:58,560 Speaker 1: in there. It's like a great white shark, you know. 1153 01:03:58,600 --> 01:04:01,240 Speaker 1: I have a weird obsession with sharks, so that that 1154 01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:04,360 Speaker 1: really resonates. I'm scared of them, but like I am fascinating, 1155 01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:07,200 Speaker 1: like a respectful fear. Yeah, like I'm not getting in 1156 01:04:07,240 --> 01:04:12,600 Speaker 1: their water. Yeah. Um what was she telling? Ten years? 1157 01:04:12,840 --> 01:04:17,520 Speaker 1: She wants to host and empower women. I definitely want to, 1158 01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:23,120 Speaker 1: like Allah Jessical, but the Modern Women Summit, Modern Women's 1159 01:04:23,120 --> 01:04:26,000 Speaker 1: Summit at the Stable Center for sure. Um. I have 1160 01:04:26,080 --> 01:04:30,760 Speaker 1: a lot of like goals career wise. Um. I also 1161 01:04:30,840 --> 01:04:33,800 Speaker 1: feel like I want to be married and have a family. 1162 01:04:34,640 --> 01:04:38,840 Speaker 1: I feel like that seems possible in ten years. I 1163 01:04:38,960 --> 01:04:42,480 Speaker 1: will say, you're You're making me feel more um inspired. 1164 01:04:42,840 --> 01:04:45,160 Speaker 1: I want to tour. I want to like go and 1165 01:04:45,200 --> 01:04:48,320 Speaker 1: do like tour cities of like with me and you 1166 01:04:48,560 --> 01:04:50,960 Speaker 1: and meet people like from listeners of the podcast, we 1167 01:04:50,960 --> 01:04:53,000 Speaker 1: did get a lot of questions about that too. I 1168 01:04:53,040 --> 01:04:59,760 Speaker 1: want to um, launch of a product or like beauty line. 1169 01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:02,560 Speaker 1: Oh you know, I do at some point in the 1170 01:05:02,600 --> 01:05:04,280 Speaker 1: next ten years, want to be like in the best 1171 01:05:04,280 --> 01:05:06,840 Speaker 1: shape of my life. But that's a It could be 1172 01:05:06,920 --> 01:05:11,840 Speaker 1: five years, could be yeah, um yeah, And I'm definitely 1173 01:05:11,840 --> 01:05:13,919 Speaker 1: gonna have a book by then. Oh yeah, I feel 1174 01:05:13,920 --> 01:05:15,760 Speaker 1: like you. I mean, these are all these things I 1175 01:05:15,760 --> 01:05:20,240 Speaker 1: feel like could happen in the next year or two years. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 1176 01:05:20,360 --> 01:05:23,840 Speaker 1: it's happening. But it all makes sense now that I'm 1177 01:05:23,880 --> 01:05:26,040 Speaker 1: an indiogram one, Like it's all clicking. I'm like, oh 1178 01:05:26,080 --> 01:05:31,840 Speaker 1: my gosh, I don't remember I saw the Type two 1179 01:05:31,880 --> 01:05:33,680 Speaker 1: stuff coming out. I thought that was a diabetes thing, 1180 01:05:33,840 --> 01:05:37,880 Speaker 1: but I can't remember which I could see that. Ye. 1181 01:05:38,560 --> 01:05:41,080 Speaker 1: Should we answer some of these emails. Before we do 1182 01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:44,760 Speaker 1: the emails, though, we need to talk about Third Love? Yes. Well. 1183 01:05:44,800 --> 01:05:47,480 Speaker 1: Third Love uses data points generated by millions of women 1184 01:05:47,680 --> 01:05:50,280 Speaker 1: who have taken their fit Finder quiz to design bras 1185 01:05:50,320 --> 01:05:52,200 Speaker 1: with breast sizes and shape and mind for a perfect 1186 01:05:52,240 --> 01:05:55,320 Speaker 1: fit and a premium feel. 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The 1273 01:10:23,280 --> 01:10:25,799 Speaker 1: dias wap was amazing and it got me thinking, Tanya, 1274 01:10:26,040 --> 01:10:28,599 Speaker 1: how big are the actual portions you eat with every meal? 1275 01:10:29,960 --> 01:10:32,599 Speaker 1: I so here's the thing. I eat a lot. I 1276 01:10:32,600 --> 01:10:35,000 Speaker 1: don't eat like a bird. I eat a lot of food. 1277 01:10:35,040 --> 01:10:37,840 Speaker 1: I just eat clean food. So like if I order 1278 01:10:37,800 --> 01:10:40,879 Speaker 1: a salad, I eat the whole salad. Yeah, she eats 1279 01:10:41,640 --> 01:10:45,639 Speaker 1: bigger portions than like I eat small portions of really 1280 01:10:45,720 --> 01:10:53,720 Speaker 1: bad food. To eat big portions of clean food. Yeah, okay. Uh. 1281 01:10:53,840 --> 01:10:56,600 Speaker 1: Sarah asks I'm taking a trip at the end of 1282 01:10:56,600 --> 01:10:58,840 Speaker 1: October and I have to fly by myself. I've only 1283 01:10:58,840 --> 01:11:00,559 Speaker 1: flown once in my life and I was nine at 1284 01:11:00,560 --> 01:11:01,960 Speaker 1: the time. I was wondering if you had any tips 1285 01:11:02,000 --> 01:11:06,280 Speaker 1: or advice you can give. I love flying alone. I 1286 01:11:06,320 --> 01:11:08,439 Speaker 1: really get a thrill off of like going and get 1287 01:11:08,479 --> 01:11:13,160 Speaker 1: my snacks and like my mom loves to get a 1288 01:11:13,160 --> 01:11:15,479 Speaker 1: good book for her to read while she's on the flight. 1289 01:11:16,120 --> 01:11:20,120 Speaker 1: I normally listen to music or um just watch TV 1290 01:11:20,280 --> 01:11:23,000 Speaker 1: on the flight. Most of the airlines now have TVs 1291 01:11:23,040 --> 01:11:25,920 Speaker 1: and entertainment, so I like talking to the people next 1292 01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:28,960 Speaker 1: to me. That's like my favorite thing. Yeah, getting to 1293 01:11:29,000 --> 01:11:30,640 Speaker 1: know the people in the flight. Sex we Sometimes I 1294 01:11:30,640 --> 01:11:33,920 Speaker 1: will occasionally sit next to somebody who like does not 1295 01:11:34,040 --> 01:11:36,160 Speaker 1: want to speak, and like, I feel like you just 1296 01:11:36,200 --> 01:11:38,200 Speaker 1: read their energy. But most people really want to like 1297 01:11:38,320 --> 01:11:41,479 Speaker 1: chit chat. I don't know that. I'd say most people. 1298 01:11:41,600 --> 01:11:44,320 Speaker 1: I find most people have headphones on for a reason, 1299 01:11:44,439 --> 01:11:46,599 Speaker 1: and I think you need to respect that. If someone 1300 01:11:46,640 --> 01:11:49,240 Speaker 1: has headphones on, that means that they're not looking to chit. 1301 01:11:49,600 --> 01:11:51,759 Speaker 1: I have sat next to somebody who had their headphones 1302 01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:54,479 Speaker 1: in and I started talking to them and then proceeded 1303 01:11:54,520 --> 01:11:56,160 Speaker 1: to take their headphones out and speak to me the 1304 01:11:56,280 --> 01:11:58,800 Speaker 1: entire flight. Yeah, because you feel bad. I've done that too, 1305 01:11:58,840 --> 01:12:01,160 Speaker 1: and I'm like miserable of the whole time, because I'm 1306 01:12:01,160 --> 01:12:03,519 Speaker 1: like polite and I have manners, but like I'd much 1307 01:12:03,640 --> 01:12:06,360 Speaker 1: rather be like listening to my music or watching TV. 1308 01:12:07,240 --> 01:12:10,400 Speaker 1: You do that to people with their headphones in? Well, Yeah, 1309 01:12:10,479 --> 01:12:13,080 Speaker 1: they're sitting next to me, that doesn't mean they're yours 1310 01:12:13,160 --> 01:12:16,759 Speaker 1: to get use Do you have like an opening line 1311 01:12:16,840 --> 01:12:19,920 Speaker 1: or just what brings you to Dallas? So I don't know, 1312 01:12:20,040 --> 01:12:22,439 Speaker 1: just ask them where they're going or like, I don't know, 1313 01:12:22,479 --> 01:12:24,160 Speaker 1: it just depends on the fight and where we're going. 1314 01:12:24,880 --> 01:12:26,680 Speaker 1: I mean, usually when I flight to New York, I 1315 01:12:26,800 --> 01:12:29,639 Speaker 1: just sleep the majority of my flight, but everything else 1316 01:12:29,880 --> 01:12:33,120 Speaker 1: it's fair game. I had to fight a Nashville recently, 1317 01:12:33,120 --> 01:12:34,519 Speaker 1: and I had a woman next to me, and she 1318 01:12:34,600 --> 01:12:38,519 Speaker 1: kept asking me questions but not like conversation, like hey, 1319 01:12:38,560 --> 01:12:41,639 Speaker 1: how long is the flight? Or like, um, hey how 1320 01:12:41,680 --> 01:12:44,080 Speaker 1: far is the airport from so so? Like things like that, 1321 01:12:44,479 --> 01:12:46,040 Speaker 1: And I couldn't tell if she was trying to talk 1322 01:12:46,080 --> 01:12:48,080 Speaker 1: to me or not. So I was like I would 1323 01:12:48,080 --> 01:12:49,720 Speaker 1: give her answer, and then I try to crack a joke. 1324 01:12:49,840 --> 01:12:51,880 Speaker 1: Then I was like, maybe I'm reading this wrong. Maybe 1325 01:12:51,880 --> 01:12:54,240 Speaker 1: sure that we're talking to me? She just wants encyclopedia. 1326 01:12:54,360 --> 01:12:56,720 Speaker 1: She's just like like Google lady, yeah, exactly, Like I 1327 01:12:56,760 --> 01:13:00,000 Speaker 1: just looked like someone that would have those answers. But Sarah, 1328 01:13:00,200 --> 01:13:04,960 Speaker 1: I would say, maybe download some podcasts that you like, 1329 01:13:05,200 --> 01:13:07,840 Speaker 1: have some shows that you like, and like I said, 1330 01:13:07,880 --> 01:13:11,160 Speaker 1: there should be entertainment on the on your plane and 1331 01:13:11,200 --> 01:13:15,680 Speaker 1: then um like know what where Like you should be 1332 01:13:15,800 --> 01:13:17,920 Speaker 1: maybe get there early enough that you're not stressed. I'm 1333 01:13:18,240 --> 01:13:20,320 Speaker 1: I get there late for almost every flight, but I 1334 01:13:20,720 --> 01:13:23,720 Speaker 1: travel a lot, so I like know my limits, So 1335 01:13:23,800 --> 01:13:25,200 Speaker 1: I would get there at a time where you're not 1336 01:13:25,200 --> 01:13:27,559 Speaker 1: gonna feel stressed to get through security and everything. In 1337 01:13:27,600 --> 01:13:30,479 Speaker 1: that way, you're like at least relaxed in that aspect. 1338 01:13:30,720 --> 01:13:32,880 Speaker 1: I love hanging out in a terminal. That's I don't 1339 01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:34,120 Speaker 1: know if that's just a weird thing with me, Like 1340 01:13:34,120 --> 01:13:36,759 Speaker 1: I like getting there early and like walking around seeing 1341 01:13:36,760 --> 01:13:40,559 Speaker 1: what the food situations, like, kicking back. I really like 1342 01:13:40,560 --> 01:13:42,439 Speaker 1: like not stressing about me too. I don't like it. 1343 01:13:42,520 --> 01:13:46,160 Speaker 1: I like getting places early. Hopefully you got some good 1344 01:13:46,200 --> 01:13:50,080 Speaker 1: tips there, Sarah. This last one is from Sarah. She says, 1345 01:13:50,200 --> 01:13:52,080 Speaker 1: about a year ago, my best friend hit it off 1346 01:13:52,080 --> 01:13:54,120 Speaker 1: with my coworker and the two of them began talking. 1347 01:13:54,240 --> 01:13:57,000 Speaker 1: I fully supported it. Fast forward, and now he ended 1348 01:13:57,040 --> 01:13:59,760 Speaker 1: things with her. Shortly after breaking things off, he told 1349 01:13:59,800 --> 01:14:02,320 Speaker 1: me he didn't want things to quote go further with 1350 01:14:02,320 --> 01:14:05,240 Speaker 1: her because he didn't want to quote ruin his chances 1351 01:14:05,280 --> 01:14:09,280 Speaker 1: with me. Oh no, My question is this. Do I 1352 01:14:09,320 --> 01:14:11,599 Speaker 1: tell her about this conversation? I feel like it would 1353 01:14:11,640 --> 01:14:13,200 Speaker 1: give her more closure, but I also feel like it 1354 01:14:13,200 --> 01:14:15,640 Speaker 1: would create a huge void in our friendship. Help? What 1355 01:14:15,680 --> 01:14:21,719 Speaker 1: do I do? So the coworkers the guy right? Okay, 1356 01:14:22,720 --> 01:14:28,479 Speaker 1: but does she like him? I'm confused? Okay, So here's what. 1357 01:14:28,680 --> 01:14:31,559 Speaker 1: So this is her best friend and her coworker started dating. 1358 01:14:33,360 --> 01:14:36,200 Speaker 1: Wait what No, I know I'm saying, but does she 1359 01:14:36,360 --> 01:14:38,240 Speaker 1: He said he didn't want to ruin his change with her, 1360 01:14:38,280 --> 01:14:41,600 Speaker 1: but she didn't say like, oh, I'm into him, and 1361 01:14:41,720 --> 01:14:43,559 Speaker 1: think I don't think she is into him. I think 1362 01:14:43,640 --> 01:14:45,920 Speaker 1: I think she's not into him. So her question is 1363 01:14:45,960 --> 01:14:48,760 Speaker 1: does she tell the best friend that they that he 1364 01:14:48,840 --> 01:14:51,320 Speaker 1: had this conversation with her? I say, yes, Yeah, it 1365 01:14:51,360 --> 01:14:53,479 Speaker 1: won't create avoid in your friendship because it's not about you, 1366 01:14:53,520 --> 01:14:56,120 Speaker 1: it's about him. Yeah. Yeah, and it just saves her 1367 01:14:56,240 --> 01:15:00,800 Speaker 1: from like heartache or being confused about the situation and 1368 01:15:02,560 --> 01:15:04,880 Speaker 1: why dude sucks He thinks that, like the whole office 1369 01:15:04,920 --> 01:15:07,960 Speaker 1: is just his like dating. I don't know. I don't 1370 01:15:08,000 --> 01:15:11,920 Speaker 1: like this dude like either, but I'm gonna wait for 1371 01:15:11,960 --> 01:15:14,479 Speaker 1: you to be ready whenever that comes. Yeah, it's a 1372 01:15:14,520 --> 01:15:16,760 Speaker 1: hard no to ruin your chances of me? Like, what 1373 01:15:16,880 --> 01:15:19,439 Speaker 1: chances did you have? I don't know, That's what I'm wondering. 1374 01:15:19,479 --> 01:15:22,160 Speaker 1: That was there, hope somewhere where did he get that? 1375 01:15:22,479 --> 01:15:24,920 Speaker 1: I think this dude just feels entitled to every woman 1376 01:15:24,960 --> 01:15:29,840 Speaker 1: in the office. I think, all right, I mean, does 1377 01:15:29,920 --> 01:15:34,000 Speaker 1: anything else you guys wanted to uh to discuss public comments? 1378 01:15:35,120 --> 01:15:36,559 Speaker 1: But do you know who we should have on this 1379 01:15:36,600 --> 01:15:40,320 Speaker 1: podcast is Hannah By I would love that. She's like 1380 01:15:40,479 --> 01:15:43,479 Speaker 1: so cute and so fun. She posted a really sweet 1381 01:15:43,520 --> 01:15:45,880 Speaker 1: did you see her caption? Last night? She posted a 1382 01:15:45,920 --> 01:15:50,360 Speaker 1: photo of a had some things last night. I had 1383 01:15:50,400 --> 01:15:55,640 Speaker 1: some things last night. I was uneventful on the Instagram. 1384 01:15:55,680 --> 01:15:58,880 Speaker 1: What did she do? Um? She just posted a long 1385 01:15:58,960 --> 01:16:01,439 Speaker 1: caption about how this has been hard, like her life 1386 01:16:01,439 --> 01:16:05,360 Speaker 1: has changed so drastically in a year, and like everything 1387 01:16:05,400 --> 01:16:07,679 Speaker 1: that she's gone through, and like she has all these 1388 01:16:08,000 --> 01:16:11,679 Speaker 1: people's opinions of her now and trying to stay true 1389 01:16:11,720 --> 01:16:15,200 Speaker 1: to who she is and everything's different because everyone needs 1390 01:16:15,200 --> 01:16:16,720 Speaker 1: to know everything about her. And it was just a 1391 01:16:16,760 --> 01:16:19,519 Speaker 1: really like relatable. It was like you could tell she 1392 01:16:19,560 --> 01:16:21,320 Speaker 1: had written it down like an adjourney. I think she 1393 01:16:21,360 --> 01:16:24,439 Speaker 1: even said she like journals and was like just put 1394 01:16:24,439 --> 01:16:27,160 Speaker 1: it as Yeah, because I think a lot of times 1395 01:16:27,160 --> 01:16:29,320 Speaker 1: she's like in this position where everyone's like you should 1396 01:16:29,320 --> 01:16:30,800 Speaker 1: have done this, you should have done this, and have 1397 01:16:30,840 --> 01:16:33,680 Speaker 1: an opinion about everything, and it's like she's like a 1398 01:16:33,760 --> 01:16:37,200 Speaker 1: human being who's literally a year ago was just doing 1399 01:16:37,240 --> 01:16:40,839 Speaker 1: her own thing in Alabama and went on the Bachelor, 1400 01:16:40,880 --> 01:16:44,000 Speaker 1: and like all this happened so quickly. So I love 1401 01:16:44,040 --> 01:16:47,440 Speaker 1: her and I would love to have her on the podcast. 1402 01:16:47,880 --> 01:16:51,200 Speaker 1: Ye same, not a lot of a lot of the 1403 01:16:51,200 --> 01:16:55,519 Speaker 1: Bachelor producers this weekend at the wedding, not the one 1404 01:16:55,560 --> 01:16:57,439 Speaker 1: that called you the other day, and not the one 1405 01:16:57,479 --> 01:17:00,200 Speaker 1: that called me the other day she was missing. I 1406 01:17:00,280 --> 01:17:04,080 Speaker 1: did some great prank calls on that video. Got a 1407 01:17:04,160 --> 01:17:08,400 Speaker 1: nostalgia high. Like prank calling people. That's the difference between us. 1408 01:17:08,439 --> 01:17:11,640 Speaker 1: I would hate prank calling somebody you love when we 1409 01:17:11,720 --> 01:17:14,000 Speaker 1: do it on here, and like you get a difference 1410 01:17:14,280 --> 01:17:17,960 Speaker 1: prank calling. That's like it is. I mean, calling someone 1411 01:17:18,000 --> 01:17:19,679 Speaker 1: and saying you're someone you're not is a prank call. 1412 01:17:19,880 --> 01:17:23,040 Speaker 1: But we're like delivering some exciting news. I delivered some 1413 01:17:23,120 --> 01:17:27,320 Speaker 1: exciting news. I was like, hey, it's the end, it's 1414 01:17:27,360 --> 01:17:29,880 Speaker 1: the end. Result is what makes it a prank call? Yes, 1415 01:17:30,240 --> 01:17:31,760 Speaker 1: So if like you're doing it just to like pray 1416 01:17:31,800 --> 01:17:36,679 Speaker 1: it play a joke on someone. I guess that I'm losing. 1417 01:17:36,720 --> 01:17:41,800 Speaker 1: I'm losing. I'm losing. Um no, the brain function, Like 1418 01:17:41,840 --> 01:17:44,520 Speaker 1: I really don't feel like I'm like, am I communicating 1419 01:17:44,520 --> 01:17:47,840 Speaker 1: okay today? Yes, Okay, you've done a great job. Thanks, 1420 01:17:49,000 --> 01:17:54,280 Speaker 1: because it's really been a struggles. Thank you your communications 1421 01:17:54,240 --> 01:17:59,320 Speaker 1: to be clear, not the struggles. Um if if if 1422 01:17:59,320 --> 01:18:02,000 Speaker 1: this is okay, I have something I want to bring 1423 01:18:02,040 --> 01:18:04,080 Speaker 1: up really quick. This is a is a very short thing. 1424 01:18:04,120 --> 01:18:05,400 Speaker 1: I want to take up too much of your time. 1425 01:18:05,479 --> 01:18:06,760 Speaker 1: As I know, we're at the end of the show here. 1426 01:18:07,960 --> 01:18:11,320 Speaker 1: So there's a movie theater chain in southern California and 1427 01:18:11,520 --> 01:18:14,960 Speaker 1: in the Chicago and Washington d C Areas called ArcLight Cinemas, 1428 01:18:15,479 --> 01:18:18,920 Speaker 1: and uh they've been doing this thing this summer called 1429 01:18:18,920 --> 01:18:23,280 Speaker 1: the Summer of Kramel Corn, and uh, I it's it's 1430 01:18:23,360 --> 01:18:25,719 Speaker 1: it's this campaign to like kind of celebrate that they're 1431 01:18:25,880 --> 01:18:28,519 Speaker 1: like special Karmel Corn that they saw there. And me 1432 01:18:28,600 --> 01:18:31,360 Speaker 1: and my friend Chris Roman have been really inspired by this. 1433 01:18:31,479 --> 01:18:35,360 Speaker 1: Chris is an incredibly talented illustrator and animator from Chicago, 1434 01:18:35,439 --> 01:18:37,760 Speaker 1: and we've made a bunch of like fake movie posters. 1435 01:18:37,800 --> 01:18:40,519 Speaker 1: We mean, it's like Karmel Corn playlist. I've been going 1436 01:18:40,600 --> 01:18:42,920 Speaker 1: hard on this and I've been d m ng arc 1437 01:18:43,000 --> 01:18:45,200 Speaker 1: Light Theaters and I asked them to name me the 1438 01:18:45,280 --> 01:18:49,200 Speaker 1: Carmel Corn Princess, and they said they'd consider it. And 1439 01:18:50,560 --> 01:18:53,439 Speaker 1: I just think it would be helpful if I asked 1440 01:18:53,479 --> 01:18:57,759 Speaker 1: the scrubbing in listeners to hit up oar at ArcLight 1441 01:18:57,840 --> 01:19:01,439 Speaker 1: Cinemas and ask them to make me the Karmal Corn Princess. 1442 01:19:02,000 --> 01:19:03,720 Speaker 1: Is that I believe that it's like, not even like 1443 01:19:03,800 --> 01:19:07,519 Speaker 1: that they're making you have to audition, they're making work. Yeah, 1444 01:19:08,200 --> 01:19:11,000 Speaker 1: they said it sounds like a no brainer to me. 1445 01:19:11,000 --> 01:19:14,719 Speaker 1: Me too. It's they said they hadn't considered it before, 1446 01:19:15,240 --> 01:19:16,840 Speaker 1: but now they you know, now the idea is in 1447 01:19:16,880 --> 01:19:18,360 Speaker 1: their head. And I just think that it would be 1448 01:19:18,439 --> 01:19:21,000 Speaker 1: mutually beneficial to everybody if if I was the Carmal 1449 01:19:21,000 --> 01:19:24,160 Speaker 1: Corn Princess rubbing it. What's the Instagram It's at arc 1450 01:19:24,200 --> 01:19:27,920 Speaker 1: Light Cinemas. I've been posting about on Instagram quite a bit. Okay, 1451 01:19:28,000 --> 01:19:31,599 Speaker 1: do your things grubbing in? Yeah, hit him up, hit 1452 01:19:31,680 --> 01:19:33,360 Speaker 1: up ArcLight Cinemas, tell him to make me the Chromeal 1453 01:19:33,360 --> 01:19:36,280 Speaker 1: crun princess and everything will be okay. Hopefully we have 1454 01:19:36,320 --> 01:19:38,160 Speaker 1: an update next week that you are going to be 1455 01:19:38,200 --> 01:19:41,680 Speaker 1: crowned the Carmel Corn Princess. You wnday they crowned the princess, 1456 01:19:41,840 --> 01:19:44,840 Speaker 1: I mean any any day. The summer's coming to a close, okay, 1457 01:19:44,840 --> 01:19:47,400 Speaker 1: since before summer's over. Yeah, yeah, I mean I don't 1458 01:19:47,400 --> 01:19:49,320 Speaker 1: know if I get a sash or a crown or something. 1459 01:19:49,400 --> 01:19:52,479 Speaker 1: But it's just a dream of mine, that's all. It's 1460 01:19:52,520 --> 01:19:55,240 Speaker 1: just a small dream, yeah, that we're going to make 1461 01:19:55,280 --> 01:19:59,160 Speaker 1: happen or easton. It will become a reality. I believe 1462 01:19:59,200 --> 01:20:03,280 Speaker 1: in you same. Oh yeah. And actually, but one more 1463 01:20:03,320 --> 01:20:04,640 Speaker 1: thing before we go. We got a called time of 1464 01:20:04,680 --> 01:20:06,400 Speaker 1: Death here. But we just want to say thank you 1465 01:20:06,439 --> 01:20:11,000 Speaker 1: to Coffee Bean for for sending over the Friends themed drinks. 1466 01:20:11,120 --> 01:20:14,120 Speaker 1: It's there's all your favorite characters are there, the Joey, Maingo, 1467 01:20:14,200 --> 01:20:17,479 Speaker 1: Cold Brutie, Rachel Machalatte, the Ross Classic flat Way and 1468 01:20:17,479 --> 01:20:20,719 Speaker 1: then goes time his favorite. It's great stuff. And there's 1469 01:20:20,760 --> 01:20:25,679 Speaker 1: a limited time pop up on August sixte uh In 1470 01:20:25,680 --> 01:20:27,519 Speaker 1: in the Los Angeles area where they're going to recreate 1471 01:20:27,520 --> 01:20:29,800 Speaker 1: Central Perk. It's an awesome photo op that's going to 1472 01:20:29,880 --> 01:20:31,680 Speaker 1: be in Los Angeles on the third Street Prominent in 1473 01:20:31,720 --> 01:20:35,960 Speaker 1: Santa Monica and on Beverly Boulevard in West Hollywood. Uh. 1474 01:20:36,000 --> 01:20:38,240 Speaker 1: And that that's so you can go visit Central Perk 1475 01:20:38,479 --> 01:20:43,200 Speaker 1: uh in person. So cute that's running through Auguste and Uh. 1476 01:20:43,240 --> 01:20:44,759 Speaker 1: I think the drinks you can get it all coffee 1477 01:20:44,800 --> 01:20:47,800 Speaker 1: being locations and they're delicious. You should check them out. 1478 01:20:47,920 --> 01:20:49,960 Speaker 1: And Thanks Coffee Being the Phoebe is where it's at. 1479 01:20:50,160 --> 01:20:52,320 Speaker 1: Thank You Coffee Being. I needed that to get through 1480 01:20:52,360 --> 01:21:01,559 Speaker 1: this Tuesday morning. I try to watch Friends on Friday 1481 01:21:01,640 --> 01:21:04,120 Speaker 1: night at in Rhode Island because I like to like 1482 01:21:04,160 --> 01:21:06,080 Speaker 1: prefer it to put me to sleep. And Becco was 1483 01:21:06,120 --> 01:21:09,519 Speaker 1: so annoyed because I kept laughing like her head I 1484 01:21:09,560 --> 01:21:12,000 Speaker 1: was like, just put your headphones in so that I'm 1485 01:21:12,080 --> 01:21:15,360 Speaker 1: like exhausted. I'm like, I just want to go to sleep. Well, 1486 01:21:15,400 --> 01:21:21,240 Speaker 1: then she puts her headphones in. It's like, I'm like, 1487 01:21:21,320 --> 01:21:24,439 Speaker 1: do you have to laugh that hard at something you've 1488 01:21:24,439 --> 01:21:27,640 Speaker 1: seen forty five times? Wait? What did somebody d m 1489 01:21:27,720 --> 01:21:30,200 Speaker 1: you the other day when they saw my dance? They 1490 01:21:30,200 --> 01:21:32,479 Speaker 1: were like, her husband is going to have to be 1491 01:21:32,520 --> 01:21:34,839 Speaker 1: a patient man. I'm gonna have to be a kind 1492 01:21:35,000 --> 01:21:39,840 Speaker 1: and patient man he will be. And on that note, 1493 01:21:40,280 --> 01:21:55,320 Speaker 1: and on that note time of death, a M really 1494 01:21:55,800 --> 01:21:56,360 Speaker 1: struggling