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Speaker 1: What's up, Y'all's your girl, lex Pe And it's your

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Speaker 1: girl Dre and the Cold, and you are tuned in

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Speaker 1: to another episode of poor Mind, where a drunk mind

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Speaker 1: speaks sober. What's up, girl? You look very nice? All white,

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Speaker 1: old body looking like.

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Speaker 2: Milk period Lula. Chris used to have them bars low

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Speaker 2: key he did. I mean I don't think he still does.

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Speaker 1: I think if he still had I know, that's what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. I feel like, if he still had to

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Speaker 1: get out there, he can hang and do what he

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Speaker 1: gotta do. But you know what I will say, I

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Speaker 1: like I like when people realize, you know what, it's

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Speaker 1: time for me to move on, cause I'd be damn

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Speaker 1: if I'm fifty still sitting here on this motherfucking podcast.

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Speaker 2: A stand up part two?

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Speaker 1: Oh, I thought you were talking about like comedy, because

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Speaker 1: you don't I doing stand up.

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Speaker 2: I was like, we don't need no more rappers.

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Speaker 1: No, I think he could do like a stand up

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Speaker 1: part twoop because back in the day, Niggas was infamous

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Speaker 1: for doing a song and then doing a part two.

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Speaker 1: They call it a remix, they called it apart two

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Speaker 1: was the king of that.

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Speaker 2: Him and R. Kelly all right, all right, calm down, sister,

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Speaker 2: Calm down. All I said was the facts.

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Speaker 1: But you know what they used to do the song

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Speaker 1: that he just dropped five that song with him and

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Speaker 1: Bryson Tailor, he did his big one.

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Speaker 2: I like it.

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Speaker 3: I like it.

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Speaker 2: I like it.

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Speaker 1: It's cute, and you know, I like Brisontil. I always

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Speaker 1: been a Brison Tailor fan.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like his voice fan too, Not gonna lie.

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Speaker 2: I like Diddy.

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Speaker 1: Didn't you feel like he's very He seems like he

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Speaker 1: called the party with, He.

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Speaker 2: Called a party within. And I just love people that

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Speaker 2: just don't give a FuG like he did.

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Speaker 1: He lives his life the way that he wants to

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Speaker 1: live his life, and he's the whole mogul. I just

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Speaker 1: feel like, you know words, people don't hate it, but people,

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Speaker 1: I mean, you can't be a.

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Speaker 2: Mogul and people don't hate you. Isn't his name loves now?

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Speaker 1: I think that he still go by Diddy? I think

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Speaker 1: that what's the what's the term? His moniker is Love?

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Speaker 1: I know that's a small dass. Nigga called me love

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Speaker 1: if told me had like three phone names, Yeah, he

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Speaker 2: I've been alive puff daddy.

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Speaker 1: Then it was p Diddy and then he just cut

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Speaker 1: off the pause, just Diddy, and I was love. Remember

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Speaker 1: when he also hosts by Sean Kahan. You remember when

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Speaker 1: Snoop changed his name to Snoop Lion.

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: He did.

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Speaker 2: He changed his name to Snoop Lion. No one calls

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, in the order for it to be

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Speaker 1: by that. I ain't heard nobody call Snoop dog Snoop Lion.

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Speaker 2: He said, he's not a dog, He's a lion.

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Speaker 1: He did. He said that that's funny because I was

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Speaker 1: thinking more of like Lucia's lyon.

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Speaker 2: Why because why yeah, girl be why?

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Speaker 1: You know what, though, I will say, changing your name

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Speaker 1: is hard because lion.

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Speaker 2: I know Lion, Lucius Lion. And in Houston we got

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Speaker 2: you want to be. What you know about Lion Street.

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Speaker 1: Bitch my family from the hood. But I will say,

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Speaker 1: this's about changing the lion. You can only change your name.

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Speaker 1: I feel like, like you said, if other people call you that,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, like, you can't just be like, oh,

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean. That's kind of like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like that's like when you said people call you

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Speaker 1: pi Ro and nobody calls you this. But I'm just saying, situation.

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Speaker 1: Why try to change your name but nobody calls you that.

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Speaker 1: People call me p Ro, people call me Lex Houston,

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Speaker 1: Lex Carrey, Lex Knowles, p LEXI.

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Speaker 2: What is p LEXI? Like P Diddy?

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Speaker 1: But I dropped the P somehow. It was just Lexi.

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Speaker 1: ky you know, Zero got that from me.

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Speaker 2: I was in the studio with him that day. I

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Speaker 1: I didn't know you was in the studio though, I girl,

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Speaker 1: don't bring on that video on you because some comments.

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Speaker 1: Y'all embarrassed me every time listen listeners.

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Speaker 2: I love y'all, but I can't take y'all nowhere because

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Speaker 2: why y'all went and flooded Zero.

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Speaker 1: Comedy when they flooded the comments on their little baby

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Speaker 1: video that I was into row Oh my god, which

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Speaker 1: just was like, you know who we have to have

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Speaker 2: We gotta have swim Yeah, we gotta get swim Thug

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Speaker 2: on the show. I didn't want to swim thug videos

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Speaker 2: back in the day too.

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Speaker 1: What video.

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Speaker 2: I can't remember. It was a song with like him,

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Speaker 2: Paul Walls zero, I can't remember.

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Speaker 1: We were rewarded we recording and and is a Houston

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Speaker 1: legend because guess what the fuck we was saying? Where

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Speaker 1: Carens is a Houston staple, Like if you ain't never

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Speaker 1: been a Carrington's Carroll whatever, Carrol, you you ain't never

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Speaker 1: Why no, Now you're giving that given what Winny Williams

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Speaker 1: Jail, You're not that one. You are not a good person,

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Speaker 1: that's what you was just giving. No, I said I

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Speaker 1: It was like if you were born like ten years earlier,

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Speaker 1: you would have been in Jet Beauty of the Week.

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Speaker 1: You would have you're giving like Jet the Week. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Jet the Beauty of the Week. I don't like how

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Speaker 1: they had a limit on me, Bro, there was no

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Speaker 1: Jet Beauty of the Month.

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Speaker 2: Well I would have been the first one.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Bro, why are you like this? You

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: Anyway, I would have been in Playboy, though I wouldn't

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Speaker 2: You would have been popping at pussy for you. I

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, to be a playboy like play money.

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Speaker 2: Like he's not true. Not you spreading rumors. I'm not spreading.

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Speaker 1: Did you watch the documentary about that? You didn't watch

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Speaker 2: Did he approve it?

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Speaker 1: He was already passed then, that's why they waited slandering

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Speaker 1: that man good name. He used to warn nothing but

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Speaker 1: a robe nothing either, That's what they said. He had

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Speaker 1: sounds right up my alley, Peter, this man, Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: she had that Masachi Romo.

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Speaker 2: Every time you used to be on the floor, for

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Speaker 2: sure take it off from me. You would have gave

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Speaker 1: Yes, you're wild because say you fuck the white man.

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Speaker 2: So you could give Connor, but you wouldn't give you nine.

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Speaker 2: There's wild, bro. I wasn't gonna leave it at there.

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Speaker 2: His name was not Connor. Was knew was about to

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Speaker 1: I know, so you would get Stephen. I loved you,

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Speaker 1: but you can't give you her.

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Speaker 2: I was in love. I loved him, I was I

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Speaker 1: I would have been one of the playmates. I would

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Speaker 2: He had he fucked. We ain't gonna play like this

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Speaker 2: he did. But I always remember that one girl.

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Speaker 1: We always forget her name, the really fine one, the

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Speaker 1: one black playmate that everybody like knew she was dating.

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Speaker 2: Colin farre always talked about her, Nicole. I love her twins.

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Speaker 2: You know what, if somebody.

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Speaker 1: to reach out to Nicole, because I know she got

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Speaker 1: some fucking stories. We have got to get her on

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Speaker 1: poor minds. Nicole got stories for your ass. We do

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Speaker 1: like she got some motherfucking stories. Were talking about how

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Speaker 2: If you're saying this, come on, come on, death Row,

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Speaker 2: I got some ship to talk about. But yeah, I

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Speaker 2: definitely would have fucked you. Hefner. I hate that I

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Speaker 1: I want to be a play with I don't. That's

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Speaker 1: and mind you. I talked to Lindsay on the phone

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Speaker 1: I think your hust hates me. I was like, Wolly,

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Speaker 1: She's like I sent her a message and she didn't respond.

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Speaker 1: I was like, she don't respond to nobody, girl, And.

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Speaker 2: That's a fact.

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Speaker 1: But I mean you probably just thought, like, who is

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Speaker 1: That's crazy to me that people be thinking that deep

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Speaker 2: And that's what I told her.

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Speaker 1: But her thinking that, oh, she probably knows who I

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Speaker 1: am because I'm Lexus, you know, other best friend. She

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Speaker 1: but I told her, like, she doesn't even she barely

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Speaker 2: So you good girl, I read yours. I skim through.

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Speaker 2: I'll be having that hot tea. I didn't lukewarm. I

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Speaker 2: know he looked warm. It don't never burn my tongue.

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Speaker 2: It don't be not knowing at all.

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Speaker 1: I'll be sitting in some good ship now, don't do

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Speaker 1: my see me that message the other day about that

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Speaker 2: A boy was in jail.

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Speaker 1: Girl, who that man?

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Speaker 2: That man?

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Speaker 3: You know what?

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Speaker 1: Man? I really don't, Yes, you do because you sent

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Speaker 2: Because I know you lying? I knew you was lying

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Speaker 2: I'm feeling good, I'm getting better. You know what's crazy.

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Speaker 1: I had a conversation with one of my really close

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Speaker 2: And we were I don't have somebody anyways.

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Speaker 1: We were having a conversation and it's crazy because you know,

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Speaker 1: But you know what, honestly, do they be lying? No,

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Speaker 2: I'm just trying to make it to nine pm.

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Speaker 1: Bro. Like I feel like sometimes it's okay, Like we

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Speaker 1: When you sound cranky, You sound cranky and you gonna die,

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Speaker 2: You need some sleep. Yeah, you need to sleep, you

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Speaker 1: But I do feel like, I mean, I don't know

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Speaker 2: And that's okay.

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Speaker 1: Like you can have days like that, like I said,

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Speaker 1: you can have a week like that if you want to. Now,

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying being stuck in there that moment, But

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Speaker 1: every day doesn't have to be Let's go out and

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Speaker 1: get it. Let's go out and grind like we're humans.

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Speaker 1: Get this motherfucking money period, not every day every day.

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Speaker 2: No, I need a break.

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Speaker 1: I need a break, Like it's okay just to be

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Speaker 1: You're fast regular humans. Yeah, he's a fucking loser. He's

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Speaker 2: Bitch, She takes a chair right now.

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Speaker 1: They're fucking losers talking about they're over here talking about

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Speaker 2: Bitch, we don't exist. We run this ship.

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Speaker 1: I would you're fucking losers that nobody works harder than me.

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Speaker 2: Nobody get it Ryan. I'd be like, so, y'all, you

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Speaker 2: just wake up because you're scared waking. If I get

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Speaker 2: it text from Ryan, it don't eat. My phone didn't

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I be feeling Ryan, though I do know.

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Speaker 1: I feel like and I feel like because I've really

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Speaker 1: little bit. No, I feel like it's okay to be extreme,

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Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. Like you don't want to wear

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Speaker 2: Know, That's all I was saying.

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Speaker 1: I was just existing, just coasting, and it felt fucking amazing.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I have decorated my apartments to the tea,

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Speaker 1: even mean to say my apartment, But yeah, I decorated.

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Speaker 1: So it's like a vibe. I love being at home now.

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Speaker 1: I have everything in that beach. You want a high

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Speaker 2: You have a caviard you want? You want caveard. I

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Speaker 2: some plan. That's where the caviard came from. I don't

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Speaker 2: It should have been that consigns me if you find

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Speaker 1: I mean, I have a balcony, a little terrists, terrorists.

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Speaker 1: It's giving terrrists, giving terrists. Yeah, but my apartment is

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Speaker 1: Instead of vibe in your house, I have I gut

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Speaker 2: I created a whole new bedroom. My sister is actually.

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Speaker 1: I'm really excited to get. Like, my sister is so creative,

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Speaker 2: I love it. So we done rambled on, So let's

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Speaker 2: your girl lisp and it's your girl traying the call.

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Speaker 1: And Dallas we come in to see y'all on July thirtieth, and.

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Speaker 2: We turn it oh, period. I ain't from Dallas, but

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Speaker 2: I need time. Hey you'm from Dallas. Ruties period.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but that was all If y'all knew,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna try the sheet while we out there, period

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Speaker 1: and we are turning.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait. I'm so excited. Yeah, I love that.

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Speaker 2: I love Dallas. I feel like y'all gonna show us

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Speaker 2: a good time. We all turn so we're gonna have

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Speaker 2: a good leave.

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Speaker 1: So July thirtieth, we are an Echo Lounge at Music Hall.

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Speaker 1: The show starts at seven p m. Doors open at six.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling y'all get there on time because we have

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Speaker 1: some special guests coming. It's gonna be so lit.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you we got the new marriage. We're

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Speaker 2: gonna have these shirts on sale.

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Speaker 3: Period.

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Speaker 1: And if you ain't never been to a Poor Mind show,

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Speaker 1: you ain't never had a good time.

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Speaker 2: So make sure y'all get y'all tickets.

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Speaker 1: Go to www dot poor minds dot com and we'll

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Speaker 1: see y'all July thirtieth, periods.

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Speaker 2: What's up, y'all? Is your girl XP and.

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Speaker 1: It's sure girls right in the call and we are

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Speaker 1: bringing up for Rich or for Poor Tour to Columbia,

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Speaker 1: South Carolina on August fifth at the Senate.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and you know, doors not off it early, and.

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Speaker 2: Make sure that y'all yes, cause y'all know we can.

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Speaker 2: I ain't dressed to impress.

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Speaker 1: I know y'all seen the clips from the other shows

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Speaker 1: we outside.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, thought plan.

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Speaker 2: Make sure you show tickets right now at poor minds

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Speaker 2: dot com because they're filling out. Yes, and we.

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Speaker 3: Don't want to hear y'all complaining because you know.

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Speaker 1: The tickets is going to make sure you coming, period

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Speaker 1: and we'll see y'all August fifth, we outside, period. So

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Speaker 1: the first topic that we're gonna talk about today is

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Speaker 1: you know, we have talked about pretty pretty privilege before, but.

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Speaker 2: I want to talk about popular privilege today. I don't

446
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Speaker 2: know why I can't talk.

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Speaker 1: So the topic is do popular people get away with

448
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Speaker 1: things that regular people don't as far as things that

449
00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:42,040
Speaker 1: they say, things that they wear, things that they do, whatever.

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Speaker 1: So how do you feel does popular privilege exists?

451
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Speaker 2: Yeah, privilege exists, Like privilege is privileged. I just feel

452
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Speaker 2: like people love to put another word.

453
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Speaker 1: In front of it, right to kind of like you know, special, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: to specify it. But I mean I feel like privilege exists,

455
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Speaker 1: is something that it's been existing since the beginning of time,

456
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Speaker 1: whether it's because you come from an affluent family or whatever,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like people have some people

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Speaker 1: have privileges that other people don't.

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Speaker 2: But it's not fair.

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Speaker 1: But it's like, but I feel like it also depends

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Speaker 1: on your popularity though, cause I feel like if you're

462
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Speaker 1: like a Rihanna popular and famous, or Beyonce or a

463
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Speaker 1: jay Z, Like, honestly, let's be honest, Like they can get.

464
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Speaker 2: Away with murder. Luckily, Beyonce is a queen of shit.

465
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Speaker 2: We're not murder. You know, it's the same bitch, you

466
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Speaker 2: know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Like they can get away with a lot of things

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Speaker 1: that the normal average person can. But like, honestly, if

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Speaker 1: somebody who's like just kind of getting on the scene,

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Speaker 1: they're like, you know, they dropped a new single, or

471
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Speaker 1: they just dropped the podcast or drop their first movie,

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Speaker 1: they can't. I feel like regular people get away with shit,

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Speaker 1: Like regular people can. I mean, regular people could get

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Speaker 1: away with anything because no one cares.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Like you can tweet something, it might go viral. I'm

477
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Speaker 1: not gonna lie it might grow viral. People gonna be

478
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Speaker 1: on your ass for like two or three days, maybe

479
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Speaker 1: a week, but something else is gonna.

480
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Speaker 2: People are gonna forget about it.

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Speaker 1: So honestly, I think popular privilege exists, but to a

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Speaker 1: certain level, because I feel like, you know, we can

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Speaker 1: say we're kind of popular, but we can't get away

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Speaker 1: with anything. We can't get away with murder.

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Speaker 2: We're literally one sentence away from we don't get away

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Speaker 2: with a few things. No, we but we have never

487
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Speaker 2: done nothing wild. We don't say it so wild shit.

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Speaker 2: We're not cancelation worthy.

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Speaker 1: I mean no, because we're not dumb. Only dumb people

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Speaker 1: do this, That's what I'm saying. But I feel like

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Speaker 1: you gotta be really like to be given a certain

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Speaker 1: type of platform and just say reckless ass ship all

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Speaker 1: the time.

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Speaker 2: You gotta be a dummus.

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Speaker 1: But that's some That's how some people actually build their

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Speaker 1: platform too, Like some people actually build their platform on saying.

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Speaker 2: How long I mean you never know? I mean, I've

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Speaker 2: seen there's a lot of podcasts.

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Speaker 1: To say a specific name, But can you think of

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Speaker 1: someone who has said outrageous crazy shit their whole career

501
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Speaker 1: and stayed really me and they're making a lot of

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Speaker 1: mone people with him. Unfortunately, who I'll tell you, I know,

503
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Speaker 1: no one gives a fuck about him.

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Speaker 2: You crazy that man is a billionaire.

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Speaker 1: A whole bunch of other trolls. Yeah, but he makes

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Speaker 1: a lot of money and people. I mean, but that's

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Speaker 1: like literally one instance.

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Speaker 2: That's it. I got another one.

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Speaker 1: No, yes, absolutely not. He's not negative all the time,

510
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Speaker 1: not all the time, well, not even about being negative.

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Speaker 2: He just says outright, helanda ship. Yes, I think that

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Speaker 2: he says, will other people be thinking?

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Speaker 1: I do now the first person that I think he

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Speaker 1: says the second person you just said, I think he

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Speaker 1: says what other people think, and he gets a lot

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Speaker 1: of flat because people pussy.

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Speaker 2: M Okay, Okay, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I just tell the stuff that he say is unwarranted

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Speaker 1: and it is crazy. But a lot of ship that

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Speaker 1: he's say, I think he just be saying when people

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Speaker 1: be thinking and they just be shocked that he's in.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: This first person that you said is a troll, a

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Speaker 1: glorified truck.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie though.

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Speaker 1: I don't like shaking the table, I don't like ruffling feathers.

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying I like to go along with what

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Speaker 1: people say. I'm not saying that, but I think my

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Speaker 1: way of thinking is just what the average person thinks.

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Speaker 2: The average person. You need the average person think like you.

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Speaker 2: Yes you heard that. All I do is wake up,

532
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Speaker 2: have a little bean, go first. That's where you wrong already.

533
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Speaker 2: The average person don't wake up and eat a bean.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm not. The first thing people eat in

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Speaker 2: the morning. Maybe a little bacon, maybe a little to.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, Queen Elizabeth would like a word, bitch. Queen Elizabeth

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Speaker 1: would like a motherfucking word. But all I'm saying is

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Speaker 1: I we I'm a regular person. I really don't think outlandish.

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Speaker 1: I really don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't. I think that's why.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, you have said some outlandish things on this show.

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Speaker 2: I'm not. I have not. I really don't, though, if

543
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Speaker 2: you really think about it.

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Speaker 1: But like I said, I feel like we if I

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Speaker 1: said something really outlandish, we would not get away with him.

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Speaker 2: We would not.

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Speaker 1: Now, there are some people that are trying to say

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Speaker 1: out But that's the thing, though I think about what

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying.

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Speaker 2: We try to.

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Speaker 1: I think that sometimes we just really say how we

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Speaker 1: feel about things, and it offends people right, like especially me.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I say, how to forgot you? And

554
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 1: I feel like people, but it's that's how I feel.

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Speaker 1: So do I think that popular people get away with things? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but it's certain levels. Like I said, I feel like

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Speaker 1: some popular people. We've seen people get canceled before, like

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Speaker 1: literally canceled. What's that girl's name? Nobody all got canceled

559
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Speaker 1: when she said.

560
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Speaker 2: Because she's still making money and she still has a career.

561
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Speaker 1: Carry Hilson got canceled. Carry Hilton did not get canceled.

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Speaker 1: Carry Hilston still make money. I feel like people don't

563
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Speaker 1: have the power to cancel her.

564
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:05,359
Speaker 2: They don't have the power to cancel somebody.

565
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,480
Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna lie when she's Carry Hilson is

566
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 1: fucking talented.

567
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 2: She can write her ass off.

568
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:13,960
Speaker 1: And just like you know, I'm not saying that anything

569
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 1: is wrong with her performing at hard Rock Cafe.

570
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 2: There's nothing wrong with that.

571
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:19,160
Speaker 1: No, But she went viral because people were like, oh,

572
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Speaker 1: she's performing at the Chitlin Circus because she talked about beyond.

573
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Speaker 2: Kitling Circuit Beach. That's how we know and grow up

574
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Speaker 2: with black people.

575
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Speaker 1: What's the circuit circuits circus circuits, circuits, I said with.

576
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Speaker 2: You said it like brothers. I'm good at that, you're not.

577
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:46,360
Speaker 2: It was funny the first Team song No No. But

578
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Speaker 2: what I'm saying is I don't think that necessary.

579
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Speaker 1: Of course, you can't cancel somebody, but you can definitely

580
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Speaker 1: affect their career.

581
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Speaker 2: Let's be real.

582
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Speaker 1: I have and this is no, this is no shame,

583
00:28:57,160 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 1: but I haven't heard like a song from Chris Chrisette,

584
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Speaker 1: Michelle since Ashton Martin music like to be honest, Astan

585
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Speaker 1: Ashton ass.

586
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Speaker 2: Butchering The Butcher episode The Butcher. So I'm not gonna lie.

587
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Speaker 2: I'm really happy today. I've had a great day today,

588
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Speaker 2: Like seriously, So you know what, But I mean maybe

589
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Speaker 2: she hasn't.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. I was about to lie.

591
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Speaker 1: I was about to lie just because I don't know

592
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Speaker 1: if she But that's what music exactly. But that's what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. It's not that she got canceled. But people

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00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:40,320
Speaker 1: can affect your career. Literally, people can't affect your career,

595
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Speaker 1: but once you reached a certain amount of popularity, you

596
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Speaker 1: cannot be touched.

597
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Speaker 2: There are people out there that are untouchable. Let's be real.

598
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Speaker 2: But it's a lot of people who opt to not

599
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Speaker 2: be in the spotlight no more.

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Speaker 1: And we don't know if that's a personal decision or

601
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Speaker 1: if it's because they got canceled. But some people like

602
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Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be funny, like like we're talking

603
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Speaker 1: about her right now, Corisette Michelle. She said, like I

604
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Speaker 1: got canceled, I can't do this, or I don't get

605
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Speaker 1: booked for this. Like a lot of people have came

606
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Speaker 1: out and spoken about things affecting them because people literally.

607
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Speaker 2: Will be like, oh, sign this petition, so because this

608
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Speaker 2: company is supporting them.

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Speaker 1: People lost endorsement deals, like careers have been.

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Speaker 2: Affected by people like majorly. So like I said, I

611
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Speaker 2: feel like you got to do something really dumb though

612
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Speaker 2: for that to happen. Yeah, or you could just be

613
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Speaker 2: trying like mischill do.

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Speaker 1: She performed at Donald Trump's inauguration. So would you give

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Speaker 1: Donald a little cootie cat? You were talking, we were

616
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Speaker 1: talking about Hugh hef Man. Would you give it to Donald?

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Speaker 2: The Donald bis shuit is not the same, how you know?

618
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Speaker 1: You don't know.

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Speaker 2: Because Hugh grew up and he was born in nineteen

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Speaker 2: oh one.

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Speaker 1: I feel like he was slanging it beg though but

622
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Speaker 1: he was probably also I feel like he was slinging it.

623
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Speaker 2: It doesn't matter. I'm talking about him possibly just because Okay,

624
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 2: so just because you was born in nineteen oh one,

625
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Speaker 2: that makes you a racist.

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Speaker 1: That's a wild because who the fuck do you think

627
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:15,840
Speaker 1: was helping people in the underground railroad?

628
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Speaker 2: It was white people helping him. You got to give

629
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Speaker 2: them crying. That's the problem with your new Negro.

630
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Speaker 1: Don't nobody I know, bitch, I'm not, but I'm speaking facts.

631
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Speaker 2: I know one in this room like to object. No,

632
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 2: I'm literally speaking facts.

633
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Speaker 1: I'm not taking up for the situation, but I'm just

634
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Speaker 1: saying that's literally how black people were able to navigate

635
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Speaker 1: through the underground railroad with the help of white people.

636
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Speaker 2: But not I But it was probably in exhamee. It

637
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 2: wasn't like they were just doing that. I gotta give

638
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Speaker 2: you some pussy for my freedom bits cool.

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Speaker 1: This is where we're gonna care. So this is why

640
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Speaker 1: this is an episode. This is the last episode of

641
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 1: poor Mons. Oh my god, Oh my god, it's over.

642
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 1: I worked so hard. This is when you were supposed

643
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Speaker 1: to fall help, so.

644
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:13,600
Speaker 2: You wouldn't have.

645
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 1: You already did pussy for freedom?

646
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 6: You already came it away for nothing. You wouldn't give

647
00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 6: it away to freedom. Honestly, if I had to. It's

648
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 6: not funny. I'm not laughing.

649
00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:39,959
Speaker 1: But if I have to go along take a shortcut

650
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Speaker 1: through the woods, I.

651
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:44,479
Speaker 2: Would have to do. But that's what I'm saying. They

652
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 2: wasn't doing it just for nothing. You don't know that

653
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Speaker 2: I was not.

654
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 1: There, Yes I was. You was not, Yes I was.

655
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Speaker 1: I have ancestors and they spoke to me.

656
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Speaker 2: That's why you not woke. And I'll be known them

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Speaker 2: crackers to your mother fucking question o for the listeners.

658
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Speaker 2: Absolutely the fuck night.

659
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 1: You wouldn't give Donald Trump no no, what if he's

660
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 1: told you that he give you a penthouse and the

661
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:15,040
Speaker 1: Trump Tower.

662
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 2: Would not tell me that?

663
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 1: How you know, I don't think he likes me like

664
00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 1: I think Donald would actually like you, because you know what,

665
00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 1: you're so smart.

666
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:29,680
Speaker 2: That other one next to you, she doesn't know what

667
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:36,560
Speaker 2: she's talking about. He would, he would, I would, fucking navy.

668
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 2: I think he liked you.

669
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 1: And it's so funny because I remember back in like

670
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 1: twenty fifteen, I went to Vegas and I stayed at

671
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:47,640
Speaker 1: the Trump Towers. This was before, but this was before

672
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 1: Trump became my president, and I stayed at the Trump

673
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 1: Towers in Vegas, and I couldnot wait till use that

674
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 1: nicky capture.

675
00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:57,080
Speaker 2: Remember she was like, I'm at the Trump and you

676
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 2: but just at the radicine.

677
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 1: I stayed at the to that's crazy. Well, first of all,

678
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:11,839
Speaker 1: they got waffle, bitch. I bet you waffles, bitch.

679
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 2: I was at the Trump, you bitch, just at the bread.

680
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:15,680
Speaker 2: It was.

681
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, I couldn't wait

682
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 1: to use that caption. And now I would never stay

683
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,359
Speaker 1: at the Trump. I would never stay at the Trump.

684
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 1: I would never use that caption.

685
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 2: Amen, sister.

686
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:32,319
Speaker 1: I love the growth and the woke, but I mean

687
00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:36,839
Speaker 1: you were almost there, almost wear to the side where

688
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:38,200
Speaker 1: you need to be wok. You see I got on

689
00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:43,400
Speaker 1: black and you got on white. You always were releg though.

690
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 2: Because you know where I stand after eighteen years, eighteen years,

691
00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:56,000
Speaker 2: eighteen years show ass right.

692
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 1: So let us know, do y'all feel like popular people

693
00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:01,319
Speaker 1: get away with things regular people don't. I feel like

694
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 1: the level of popularity definitely matters, because, like I said,

695
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:10,279
Speaker 1: we're about to get used. Why because of you miss

696
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 1: Mamma's Your boobs are good in that.

697
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:19,240
Speaker 2: In the dress. I'm sweet girl with the next topic

698
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:23,439
Speaker 2: because I'm tied. I kind of missed you.

699
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:45,279
Speaker 7: Go ahead, don't add nah drappy and.

700
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:50,800
Speaker 2: Be in progress. Don't even eat Celery.

701
00:35:50,840 --> 00:36:08,000
Speaker 8: They be like, oh yeah, I know a lot about Celery.

702
00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 2: What's up y'all? Is your girl lix peek and it's

703
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:15,160
Speaker 2: your girls Draining the cold and.

704
00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 1: The fur Rich or Poor tour is coming to Birmingham

705
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:20,320
Speaker 1: at the Lyric Theater on August sixth.

706
00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:22,759
Speaker 2: Yes, it's about to be solid and the door it's

707
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 2: gonna open at seven pm.

708
00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:25,879
Speaker 3: I can't wait to see all of y'all.

709
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:27,399
Speaker 2: Y'll need to make sure y'all get y'all tickets because

710
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:29,360
Speaker 2: they're selling out superfast, superfast.

711
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:31,279
Speaker 1: And y'all know we love us a small town because

712
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 1: we really gonna get down. So make sure y'all get

713
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:37,360
Speaker 1: y'all tickets at www dot poor minds dot com. And

714
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:39,880
Speaker 1: like Dren said, the tickets is going fast, y'all. And

715
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 1: I know they've seen the clips because we've kicked off

716
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:43,040
Speaker 1: this tour with a bang.

717
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 3: Girl, y'all see.

718
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:46,719
Speaker 1: What's going on, yes, So make sure y'all get y'all

719
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 1: tickets and we'll see y'all August sixth we all saw period,

720
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:51,239
Speaker 1: all right.

721
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 2: So for the next topic, I wanted to talk about

722
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:55,320
Speaker 2: this sweet that I had seen.

723
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 9: And like.

724
00:36:57,760 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 2: I felt like it was some bullsheet.

725
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:01,919
Speaker 1: Buddy, I'm gonna read it to y'all so you know,

726
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,520
Speaker 1: y'all can know what theo I'm talking about. So basically

727
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 1: the topic I'm ghetto, so y'all can know what the

728
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 1: fuck I'm talking about beach why are men and so

729
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 1: basically what we put down is why are men consider

730
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:19,759
Speaker 1: bitter when expressing their feelings but women hype each other up.

731
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:25,520
Speaker 1: But the tweets said, this man tweeted, he said, curved

732
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:28,760
Speaker 1: me for a nigga. They got you taking baby shower

733
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:32,640
Speaker 1: pictures by yourself. God, don't make no mistakes, and he

734
00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:36,840
Speaker 1: put a whole bunch of praying emojis and shit. Probably

735
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 1: shouldn't have sit in shit. But the second tweet said niggas.

736
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:43,799
Speaker 1: It was from a woman and she said, niggas want

737
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:46,800
Speaker 1: somebody to settle for them so bad. Just find somebody

738
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 1: who actually likes you back instead of being bitter.

739
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 2: Okay, So another nigga.

740
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 1: Tweeted and he said, when a nigga tweet his gene

741
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 1: when feelings y'all clown him. When a woman doesn't, y'all

742
00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 1: hype her.

743
00:37:57,640 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 2: Ug I don't ben keep it behinding with you. I

744
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:02,880
Speaker 2: got this work for everybody, because.

745
00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:05,240
Speaker 1: To me, if you tweet about somebody from your past

746
00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:09,359
Speaker 1: and you're cheering on them having a bad time, bitch,

747
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:11,319
Speaker 1: you're hurt. I don't care if you're a woman or man.

748
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:15,839
Speaker 1: All y'all aim all, y'all aimed. So I think it's

749
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:19,400
Speaker 1: really just the bitter women cheering on bitter women, and

750
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:21,399
Speaker 1: the bitter men cheering on bitter bitter men.

751
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:22,839
Speaker 2: Leave us happy folks over here.

752
00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 1: That's why I feel like all you people that are

753
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:27,479
Speaker 1: down here with your vibrations and y'all are really low,

754
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:30,880
Speaker 1: date each other and leave us alone, Like, leave the people.

755
00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:32,320
Speaker 2: Y'all gonna be miserable together.

756
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:34,799
Speaker 1: Y'all can get married to have a miserable wedding, have

757
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:39,359
Speaker 1: miserable babies, have miserable breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Like live

758
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:43,319
Speaker 1: y'all miserable lives and leave us have them brunch with them.

759
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 2: Because it's always the niggas, not the brush boot niggas.

760
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:50,480
Speaker 1: God, if you bitches that date the brunch boot niggas,

761
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 1: hem damn.

762
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:56,880
Speaker 2: And I can't relate. It's the Chelsea boots every time.

763
00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:58,320
Speaker 2: If you wear Chelsea boots.

764
00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:00,120
Speaker 1: You will hold adning because if you a nigga, why

765
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:03,600
Speaker 1: are you wearing some boots and aimed after Chelsea's period.

766
00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:07,440
Speaker 2: It's giving you fucking with the white folks. The only

767
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 2: Chelsea I know is Clint. It's giving you don't know

768
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:11,879
Speaker 2: which team you playing for them.

769
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:14,759
Speaker 1: Chelsea boots is not what's up because while you go

770
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:16,239
Speaker 1: out on Chelsea boots and we just go and.

771
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:19,560
Speaker 2: Have a little have a little snack, a little drinking drink.

772
00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:21,600
Speaker 2: I don't like it. I bet you the guy that

773
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 2: made that original tweet, I beg I got some chill.

774
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:26,440
Speaker 1: He got only about five pairs of chills. And then

775
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 1: they think because they got red bottom Chelsea boosts, they

776
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:28,840
Speaker 1: ate that.

777
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:30,920
Speaker 2: And he got them hats with them feathers.

778
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:35,399
Speaker 1: Oh you know which what I'm talking about, the build

779
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:40,919
Speaker 1: around it with oh lord, I'm giving Honestly, I love

780
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:42,439
Speaker 1: when men.

781
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 2: I just want to apologize y'all today. Behavior of her.

782
00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 8: What did I do?

783
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:57,239
Speaker 2: Rob a thief in the night. Robin Hood was a

784
00:39:57,239 --> 00:40:02,319
Speaker 2: good man, he helped the poor. He was still a

785
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:05,399
Speaker 2: thief anyway.

786
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:12,080
Speaker 1: Actually, I like these needles hearts.

787
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 2: Bro, Lord, please give me through this episode. I I

788
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 2: swell won't lie for three hours. They see. That's a

789
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:23,719
Speaker 2: good problem.

790
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:26,880
Speaker 1: Anyways, I feel like I like it whenmen express their feelings.

791
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:28,440
Speaker 2: I love when a man tells me how he.

792
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 1: Feels and you don't get it all out on the table.

793
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:34,279
Speaker 1: But to me, like I said, it doesn't matter if

794
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:36,359
Speaker 1: it's a man or a woman. When you're expressing your

795
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:38,759
Speaker 1: feelings to throw shade at somebody that you used to

796
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:41,200
Speaker 1: deal with because they broke your heart or that wasn't

797
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:42,720
Speaker 1: your person, you're bitter.

798
00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 2: There's no way around that.

799
00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:47,839
Speaker 1: So I don't feel like men are considered bitter when

800
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:50,360
Speaker 1: expressing their feelings. I feel like men are considered bitter

801
00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:53,840
Speaker 1: when they're expressing their feelings about a past love, as

802
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 1: women are as well, Because honestly, I've seen women be like, oh,

803
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 1: my ex with a girl who got tattoos on her

804
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:05,319
Speaker 1: chest and wear lace fronts. Bit you sound bitter and

805
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:07,759
Speaker 1: mad because you mad that he chose her, and it

806
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 1: don't matter that she got tattoos, It don't matter that

807
00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:12,319
Speaker 1: she wear lace fronts or lashes or whatever it may be.

808
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:15,160
Speaker 1: He wanted her, not you, because you sound fucking bitter.

809
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 1: It's okay to express your feelings if you're hurt, if

810
00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:20,279
Speaker 1: you're mad, Like, Okay, he left me for somebody who

811
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:22,919
Speaker 1: was completely opposite of me, and I don't understand why

812
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:26,000
Speaker 1: he was with me if that's what you like, because

813
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:28,360
Speaker 1: not because nothing is wrong with how she looks, but

814
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:31,799
Speaker 1: just because we're completely opposite. That's different from saying, oh

815
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 1: fuck her, she's ratchet, she looks dirty.

816
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:34,920
Speaker 2: And this and that.

817
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 1: So it's I do about what because niggas don't never

818
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 1: leave me today people that look opposite of me, because

819
00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:44,840
Speaker 1: I think the type of men that you don't have

820
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 1: a type obviously.

821
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:51,319
Speaker 2: I mean they like that brown shout out to a kid.

822
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:54,919
Speaker 1: They're like, I'm not trying to be funny, but men

823
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:56,320
Speaker 1: that day you they have a tight.

824
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:00,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, they have a tight I think some of them.

825
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:02,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I mean, I'm not trying to be funny,

826
00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:06,440
Speaker 1: but like, I'm not type a physical type, my nigga.

827
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 1: Anytime I see a big booted bitch that's brown skin.

828
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, you fucking my nigga, ain't you you are?

829
00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 2: Because that's what he likes.

830
00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 1: Like literally, when I look at his exes or anybody

831
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:20,759
Speaker 1: that he's dealt with besides me, We fucking all have

832
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:22,279
Speaker 1: the same body type.

833
00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:24,799
Speaker 2: Like it's the same every time. So I feel like,

834
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:25,960
Speaker 2: you know, I mean.

835
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 1: I just think it's weird to tweet about like your

836
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 1: especially the people that they're dating current right that it's

837
00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 1: just like move on because I will tweet about that nigga. Yeah,

838
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 1: now that's free game. That's free game. You can tweet

839
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:45,000
Speaker 1: about somebody.

840
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:47,360
Speaker 2: Breaking your heart all day. It's being tweet about the

841
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:49,439
Speaker 2: person that they're dating. That's just that's a little bitter.

842
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 1: So I don't think men are considered bitter when expressing

843
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:55,319
Speaker 1: their feelings. It's just like, why are you cheering for

844
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 1: somebody being down bad? That's why you don't get your

845
00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:00,600
Speaker 1: blessings and that's why you never gonna the right girl.

846
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:02,400
Speaker 1: And I do feel like niggas be wanting you to

847
00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 1: settle for them, Like niggas be wanting you to be

848
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 1: so upset that you decided not to fuck with them

849
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:06,359
Speaker 1: no more.

850
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:07,240
Speaker 2: I had a baby.

851
00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:17,400
Speaker 1: Wait, I'm afraid you're gonna say, see you talking about me.

852
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:24,240
Speaker 1: I wasn't talking about nobody specifically. I'm just saying niggas

853
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:25,960
Speaker 1: be wanting you to feel.

854
00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:29,600
Speaker 2: Like you made the wrong decision so bad and need

855
00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:32,360
Speaker 2: to just be like nigga, I don't regret my decisions,

856
00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 2: big big big fangs. It's lead. Life is lead life is.

857
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 2: I will say that.

858
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:40,319
Speaker 1: It's and if I wanted to have a baby, I

859
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:42,240
Speaker 1: still have bea if that's what I wanted.

860
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:49,720
Speaker 2: You're a wild girl.

861
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 1: You you have just been cutting up today. We're going

862
00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:01,440
Speaker 1: they're gonna be like hoplict this episode.

863
00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:08,920
Speaker 2: I am wak okay. So you think somebody can cancel us? Yes,

864
00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 2: we're still we get three thousand views a week. What

865
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 2: you mean, y'all left a little too hard? Now? Hold

866
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:22,080
Speaker 2: on now, No, I said that was laughing a little hard.

867
00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:27,640
Speaker 2: I just like, hell, yeah, No.

868
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 1: I do feel like we can get cancer because we can.

869
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 2: Say the wrong thing to offend the wrong group.

870
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:33,560
Speaker 1: We're not at the point, but we don't never, but

871
00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:35,480
Speaker 1: I feel like we never take it that far though,

872
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 1: But not only that, because we don't worry about other

873
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:40,840
Speaker 1: groups and other people, and we don't live to offend people.

874
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 1: Some people really live to offend people, and they get

875
00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:46,239
Speaker 1: a kick out of that. They get a kick out

876
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Speaker 1: of going vie.

877
00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 2: That lord we used to follow on YouTube.

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Speaker 1: You Oh my god, they used to be making off

879
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Speaker 1: the video he used to talk about K pop music

880
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Speaker 1: because literally targeting K K pop artists specifically, right, it

881
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Speaker 1: was so weird telling people with K poppies in case

882
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Speaker 1: they don't know.

883
00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:08,320
Speaker 2: It's Korean poppy is.

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Speaker 1: So basically it's like when uh, they kind of start

885
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Speaker 1: them young, like they kind of go to like I

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Speaker 1: like train them and they put them in groups and

890
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Speaker 1: they become these huge superstars. So K pop is like

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Speaker 1: a phenomenon, like if you have if you don't know

892
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Speaker 1: what K pop is, you're really laying a lot.

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Speaker 2: Of people don't know though, how y'all not know who

894
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Speaker 2: K pop is? Even? I know who won artist? What's

895
00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:42,920
Speaker 2: the exactly exactly exactly.

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Speaker 1: It's called it little It's little It's little Pink or something, BTS.

897
00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:52,840
Speaker 1: I do BTS And that was so far from little

898
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:54,799
Speaker 1: p But little Pink is a different.

899
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 2: One, right, it's something, But BTS is the little one.

900
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Speaker 2: It's the big one. I'm sorry they gonna come from

901
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:02,439
Speaker 2: I'm sorry the big one. Not the little one. It's

902
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:12,040
Speaker 2: something pink. Alright, let me look Korean. That's not how

903
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:29,360
Speaker 2: you spell Korean. Black, This fucking bitch, Why are you

904
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:33,720
Speaker 2: on my side of the table home? No black pink?

905
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:37,400
Speaker 2: Black pink? I've heard of black? Oh my good? Okay.

906
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 2: So BTS is the first one that's up here.

907
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 1: BTS Big Bank, big Bank, big Bange.

908
00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:49,560
Speaker 2: I hope big band cuts your ass out too. I

909
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Speaker 2: hope he card show ass out. Why was he?

910
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Speaker 1: Why would big Bank be a Korean pop star? I

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914
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915
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918
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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: He was like, I feel like sometimes people try to

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972
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973
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974
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Speaker 1: and hateful? Nobody likes that. It's very fucking weird. It's

975
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Speaker 1: very weird.

976
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:56,840
Speaker 2: He was so lame. He was extremely lame. We just

977
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Speaker 2: sun followed him too, just I had been donn follow

978
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Speaker 2: him from Yes, I.

979
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Speaker 1: Didn't know you didn't because I just didn't follow him

980
00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:04,600
Speaker 1: like two months ago.

981
00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:07,440
Speaker 2: Again, she didn't leave me.

982
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Speaker 6: It's to go to the fucking because I don't even.

983
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:21,759
Speaker 2: Know how I'm gonna be on a K pop album.

984
00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:22,359
Speaker 2: That's my goal.

985
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:29,319
Speaker 1: A hey, hey bow bow bow.

986
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Speaker 3: My name is.

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Speaker 1: Load.

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Speaker 2: She's about to whoop your ass. And I know that's

989
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:38,799
Speaker 2: what you sounded like when you said that, I like

990
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:41,400
Speaker 2: that song. That's not a song. Cap Schelle said that

991
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:44,000
Speaker 2: to make fun of her big. I like the song.

992
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:49,040
Speaker 2: Sing up the song I'm the tight of a girl.

993
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Speaker 2: Don't want to let your mother take to my house.

994
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Speaker 2: First things first, sheeta fuck around with no man that

995
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Speaker 2: won't eat it. Put a ring on it, make them

996
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Speaker 2: want to marry me, make them want to marry me.

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Speaker 2: You know, we no you know, put them on and

998
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Speaker 2: make them curls like this, not see what no see?

999
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Speaker 2: I like Rashiday. I need to we need to go

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Speaker 2: to her store.

1001
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Speaker 1: I've been, you have, I see I haven't been, shout

1002
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Speaker 1: out to Rashida sucking around with no man who.

1003
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:33,200
Speaker 2: Won't eat them. Okay, so go ahead, it's just about

1004
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Speaker 2: the bed. The bed.

1005
00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:47,160
Speaker 1: We go ahead, man, Okay, So for the bed segment,

1006
00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:48,359
Speaker 1: I want to talk about.

1007
00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:49,239
Speaker 2: Okay, you have a.

1008
00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:53,120
Speaker 1: Great long list lasting six life with the same partner.

1009
00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:54,560
Speaker 2: I think you can.

1010
00:51:55,160 --> 00:52:05,840
Speaker 10: I think you you can't.

1011
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:10,239
Speaker 2: What's funny? I'm just left now. I thought it was

1012
00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:21,719
Speaker 2: a song I rap, hey Hello. That ain't a bad

1013
00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 2: compliment though, right sar, big K bring your top HAD

1014
00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:35,080
Speaker 2: don't know about.

1015
00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:44,520
Speaker 1: I have on a mister peanut head, first of all,

1016
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:46,839
Speaker 1: because why you got on the top HAD.

1017
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:53,520
Speaker 2: I feel like you lying. I'm not gonna lie.

1018
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 1: But it was one day I didn't see him again,

1019
00:52:56,520 --> 00:52:57,719
Speaker 1: but he had on the top head.

1020
00:52:58,560 --> 00:53:06,200
Speaker 2: Well, I didn't even know when you just saw. I'm

1021
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:06,719
Speaker 2: good at.

1022
00:53:08,120 --> 00:53:08,319
Speaker 3: Good.

1023
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 2: I definitely went on to day with a nigga of

1024
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:17,279
Speaker 2: the top HAD. But we're not gonna like he was like,

1025
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:25,560
Speaker 2: and I was like, I curtsy. I didn't know what

1026
00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:32,560
Speaker 2: to do. I curtseyed, Let's let's just leave it at that.

1027
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:35,319
Speaker 2: Let's just leave it at that. We don't have to

1028
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 2: get into it.

1029
00:53:36,280 --> 00:53:40,279
Speaker 1: Okay, all right anyways, Yeah, so can you have a

1030
00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:43,760
Speaker 1: long lasting sex life with the same partner?

1031
00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 2: Yes, you can.

1032
00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:55,160
Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, damn, jail jail, I said,

1033
00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:56,680
Speaker 1: I feel like you can.

1034
00:53:58,120 --> 00:53:58,400
Speaker 3: Fuck.

1035
00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:02,719
Speaker 2: I was saying, I don't know neither, no, but I

1036
00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:03,520
Speaker 2: do feel like you can.

1037
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:06,960
Speaker 1: But I feel like that comes with tapping into your

1038
00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:11,880
Speaker 1: ultimate like sexual fantasies and things that you crave. Like

1039
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:15,719
Speaker 1: if you and your person really tap into each other sexually,

1040
00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:16,800
Speaker 1: I feel.

1041
00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:19,080
Speaker 2: Like you won't need anything else, Like you.

1042
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:21,840
Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying. Yeah, Like I feel like it

1043
00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:29,000
Speaker 1: can't No, No, you can fuck the same person forever, forever, forever, ever, forever. Yes,

1044
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:32,720
Speaker 1: but you know what's crazy, I actually want to did.

1045
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:36,640
Speaker 2: You my dream girl? It probably did? These things been.

1046
00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:38,840
Speaker 1: Slipping the fun out, bitch, I'll be waking up with

1047
00:54:38,880 --> 00:54:40,399
Speaker 1: three snakes on my pillow hole.

1048
00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 2: I'll be mad as fops.

1049
00:54:58,800 --> 00:55:01,120
Speaker 1: Okay, so honestly, I do, but I do want to

1050
00:55:01,120 --> 00:55:02,600
Speaker 1: have sex with the same person forever.

1051
00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:05,360
Speaker 2: I really do, like, I'm not gonna lie, Like, do

1052
00:55:05,440 --> 00:55:06,760
Speaker 2: you think I like cheating?

1053
00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 3: Yes?

1054
00:55:07,800 --> 00:55:08,480
Speaker 2: No I don't.

1055
00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:12,040
Speaker 1: I don't enjoy that, but I'm not gonna lie.

1056
00:55:12,200 --> 00:55:16,759
Speaker 2: I have been doing really good. Not gonna lie. It's

1057
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:21,239
Speaker 2: been one and it's a long time for me. I'm

1058
00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:22,560
Speaker 2: a good I'm a good woman.

1059
00:55:23,480 --> 00:55:33,040
Speaker 1: I'm a good woman, and it's been longer than a month, bitch, Okay.

1060
00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 3: So.

1061
00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:39,040
Speaker 2: I just feel like, yeah, I don't know, you don't

1062
00:55:39,080 --> 00:55:42,359
Speaker 2: think ever, yes, forever. I can't look with no beaches neither.

1063
00:55:43,239 --> 00:55:44,480
Speaker 2: You're extremely horny.

1064
00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:46,839
Speaker 1: But I mean, if y'all want to bring that into

1065
00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 1: the bedroom, how does.

1066
00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:53,239
Speaker 2: That make me extremely horny? Because I like beaches because

1067
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:55,240
Speaker 2: I just don't like to think about you having sex.

1068
00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:59,799
Speaker 2: Why my little dream? Cause I be fucking I know,

1069
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:04,480
Speaker 2: I said crazy. Well, then you shouldn't have a problem

1070
00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:08,520
Speaker 2: envisioned inn it. Oh my god, why would you do that? No,

1071
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:12,200
Speaker 2: but I feel like that's different because.

1072
00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 1: You're incorporating somebody in the bedroom with y'all, or you

1073
00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:17,040
Speaker 1: can let them know, like, oh, this is what I'm doing.

1074
00:56:17,880 --> 00:56:19,279
Speaker 1: But I do feel like you can have a great

1075
00:56:19,560 --> 00:56:21,759
Speaker 1: just because you Okay, but you didn't specify because you

1076
00:56:21,800 --> 00:56:25,000
Speaker 1: said a great, long lasting sex life with the same partner.

1077
00:56:25,360 --> 00:56:27,440
Speaker 1: I did say this, So that doesn't mean that I

1078
00:56:27,440 --> 00:56:29,960
Speaker 1: can't let my partner know, like, hey, I'm doing this,

1079
00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:33,839
Speaker 1: do you mind. They could be like, no, I don't

1080
00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:37,000
Speaker 1: want that's what you're gonna do. He's gonna mind. But

1081
00:56:37,000 --> 00:56:40,120
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do that because we have great sex. One

1082
00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 1: thing I can say, we have great sex. That ain't

1083
00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:45,520
Speaker 1: the sex don't be the problem. Yeah, I mean I

1084
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:49,000
Speaker 1: don't really be cheating on it because I cheated one time. Yeah,

1085
00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:51,200
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, and that was when I was younger.

1086
00:56:52,080 --> 00:56:55,040
Speaker 1: But I haven't cheated for real because I feel like,

1087
00:56:55,160 --> 00:56:57,359
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not gonna lie my boyfriend I had

1088
00:56:57,400 --> 00:56:59,319
Speaker 1: when I moved out here, for when I first moved

1089
00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:00,760
Speaker 1: to Atlanta Ice ooh.

1090
00:57:00,680 --> 00:57:01,240
Speaker 2: I was cheating.

1091
00:57:01,880 --> 00:57:04,680
Speaker 1: But if I was in a relationship for like five years,

1092
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:07,360
Speaker 1: ten years, I don't know, that's.

1093
00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:09,520
Speaker 2: A long time. Yeah, but I ain't never been in.

1094
00:57:09,440 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 1: A relationship that long. Yeah, but I think it's possible.

1095
00:57:13,239 --> 00:57:15,640
Speaker 1: I think having a long lasting sex life has.

1096
00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:17,320
Speaker 2: To do with what do you think you need to do.

1097
00:57:17,640 --> 00:57:19,720
Speaker 1: I feel like you have to tap in, Like I

1098
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:21,480
Speaker 1: feel like tap.

1099
00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:24,920
Speaker 2: In like what do you like sexually? And be honest

1100
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Speaker 2: with me. I'm not asking you, I'm just saying, I

1101
00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:30,720
Speaker 2: tell you, no, it's okay. That's conversation that you have

1102
00:57:30,760 --> 00:57:32,479
Speaker 2: to have with your partner, like what do you want

1103
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:32,960
Speaker 2: me to do?

1104
00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:35,840
Speaker 1: Tell me exactly what you want in the bedroom, like

1105
00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:37,720
Speaker 1: let's take it there, like.

1106
00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:41,920
Speaker 2: I want you to. I don't like this because.

1107
00:57:43,640 --> 00:57:45,240
Speaker 1: No, I don't talk to him like that, but I

1108
00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:48,120
Speaker 1: feel that way, like I want you to nut so

1109
00:57:48,200 --> 00:57:50,720
Speaker 1: hard that you feel like your brain is about to explode,

1110
00:57:51,160 --> 00:57:51,560
Speaker 1: so that.

1111
00:57:53,280 --> 00:58:02,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, he likes it here. Oh fuck, But I'm saying

1112
00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:03,080
Speaker 2: like you should have.

1113
00:58:07,720 --> 00:58:09,720
Speaker 1: But now, these are conversations that you should have with

1114
00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:13,280
Speaker 1: your partner. So honestly, yeah, you can have a great,

1115
00:58:13,280 --> 00:58:16,280
Speaker 1: long lasting sex life if I give you mind blowing sex. Now,

1116
00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:18,440
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that the relationship is gonna be perfect.

1117
00:58:18,640 --> 00:58:23,160
Speaker 1: We're specifically talking about physical the physical. Yes, I can

1118
00:58:23,240 --> 00:58:26,040
Speaker 1: have a great, long lasting sex life with the same partner.

1119
00:58:26,160 --> 00:58:34,000
Speaker 2: Absolutely, it's possible. It's very fucking possible. I don't know,

1120
00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:37,439
Speaker 2: I'm getting bored. Yeah, I'm not gonna lie like I don't.

1121
00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:38,880
Speaker 2: I don't get bored.

1122
00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:41,160
Speaker 3: Yes you do.

1123
00:58:42,640 --> 00:58:46,440
Speaker 2: I am changing.

1124
00:58:49,120 --> 00:58:53,400
Speaker 1: You feel like he was about to lie, I'm changing.

1125
00:58:54,200 --> 00:58:56,760
Speaker 1: I feel like it's a bit much for me. One

1126
00:58:56,800 --> 00:58:57,640
Speaker 1: person forever.

1127
00:58:58,240 --> 00:59:00,200
Speaker 2: I can do it. I can do it. You ain't

1128
00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:01,720
Speaker 2: get married. So how can you say that?

1129
00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:05,240
Speaker 1: I said, I think I can. I think I really can.

1130
00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:08,200
Speaker 1: I think I really can. But like I said, I've

1131
00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:10,520
Speaker 1: only met a handful of guys that have pushed all of.

1132
00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:11,600
Speaker 2: My buttons sexually.

1133
00:59:11,840 --> 00:59:15,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, So I feel like, if we're strictly talking about sexually, yeah,

1134
00:59:15,680 --> 00:59:19,040
Speaker 1: I could be with one person, like, because you sometimes

1135
00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:22,080
Speaker 1: meet a person that matches for life.

1136
00:59:22,960 --> 00:59:25,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta get real freaking, but it also has

1137
00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:34,800
Speaker 2: to be you're a sick You're like, how freaky are

1138
00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:35,440
Speaker 2: we talking?

1139
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:37,720
Speaker 1: It just depends, but you have to have somebody that

1140
00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:39,160
Speaker 1: matches your freakiness.

1141
00:59:40,160 --> 00:59:42,400
Speaker 2: How freaky are we talking? I don't like? Are we

1142
00:59:42,520 --> 00:59:50,040
Speaker 2: talking about whips and jans? Mm hmm, That's what I'm thinking.

1143
00:59:50,120 --> 00:59:53,360
Speaker 2: You like that stuff? BDSM. I feel like eventually, after

1144
00:59:53,440 --> 00:59:54,680
Speaker 2: ten years, I would.

1145
00:59:56,400 --> 01:00:02,080
Speaker 1: Because our ancestors worst night, because why do you want

1146
01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:03,360
Speaker 1: to be chained up and whipped?

1147
01:00:04,240 --> 01:00:09,600
Speaker 2: That's what we work to get away from. But I

1148
01:00:09,640 --> 01:00:10,360
Speaker 2: have a safe work.

1149
01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:13,520
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, we're gonna move on.

1150
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:19,680
Speaker 2: You ready, to move on. Okay. So now you wouldn't

1151
01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:21,760
Speaker 2: do it with a safe word. I have done it

1152
01:00:21,800 --> 01:00:23,640
Speaker 2: with a safe word. Okay, So how you gonna talk

1153
01:00:23,640 --> 01:00:24,040
Speaker 2: about me?

1154
01:00:24,160 --> 01:00:26,640
Speaker 1: That's crazy because I didn't enjoy it. I just felt

1155
01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:31,920
Speaker 1: not free. That's you're not lost to feel free.

1156
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:36,080
Speaker 2: Let's get into the bag.

1157
01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:41,840
Speaker 1: The bow bow bow bow bow.

1158
01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:45,320
Speaker 2: You are not big boss. Let's give it up. Give

1159
01:00:45,320 --> 01:00:49,680
Speaker 2: it up delicious. Okay. So my Papa and I used

1160
01:00:49,680 --> 01:00:53,080
Speaker 2: to be beat boxing it before. Do it beatbox. Beat

1161
01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:55,520
Speaker 2: Boxing is not with your hands, with your mouth, beatbox,

1162
01:00:56,280 --> 01:00:58,760
Speaker 2: go ahead, and I met the pencil on the tape.

1163
01:00:59,160 --> 01:01:02,160
Speaker 1: Do it with your mom. You know a lot of

1164
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 1: things with your mouth. Okay, do it with your hands.

1165
01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:07,600
Speaker 2: What you used to do, what you used to do.

1166
01:01:08,840 --> 01:01:11,040
Speaker 2: You used to go like this because that's what you was.

1167
01:01:11,240 --> 01:01:14,640
Speaker 2: You lost your privileges. I don't have a pencil. Oh

1168
01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:19,840
Speaker 2: you need the pencils. You ain't got no righting use

1169
01:01:19,880 --> 01:01:27,520
Speaker 2: pencils in your parts because you don't, right sheep, Go ahead.

1170
01:01:29,520 --> 01:01:38,920
Speaker 5: Shows your talents grinding.

1171
01:01:42,440 --> 01:01:45,600
Speaker 1: You gotta stay in line with you see a nigga

1172
01:01:45,760 --> 01:01:50,320
Speaker 1: like me shining.

1173
01:01:49,480 --> 01:01:59,200
Speaker 11: Okay, because you know that was the only beat I know.

1174
01:02:00,640 --> 01:02:02,960
Speaker 2: From gettle to get to back yard to yard.

1175
01:02:03,000 --> 01:02:05,440
Speaker 1: Okay, My father of the Week this week is by

1176
01:02:05,600 --> 01:02:08,280
Speaker 1: Yah y'all Bee. It's called Big Daddy, y'all.

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01:02:08,560 --> 01:02:09,080
Speaker 2: So when I.

1178
01:02:09,120 --> 01:02:12,040
Speaker 1: First somebody had actually sent her to me. So when

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01:02:12,080 --> 01:02:16,800
Speaker 1: I first, what you mean big Daddy y'all? Yeah, that's

1180
01:02:16,840 --> 01:02:18,760
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So when I first saw the title

1181
01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:20,640
Speaker 1: of Big Daddy y'all, I'm like, oh, she must got

1182
01:02:20,680 --> 01:02:23,000
Speaker 1: her a good nigga, Like she calling him big Daddy,

1183
01:02:23,160 --> 01:02:24,920
Speaker 1: like dedicated a song to him.

1184
01:02:24,920 --> 01:02:27,640
Speaker 2: But when I listened to it, she's talking about herself.

1185
01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:30,800
Speaker 1: She's talking about how like you have to kind of

1186
01:02:30,840 --> 01:02:32,360
Speaker 1: match her energy and reach up.

1187
01:02:32,320 --> 01:02:34,960
Speaker 2: To her like she does all this like she's Big Daddy,

1188
01:02:35,560 --> 01:02:36,240
Speaker 2: And I like that.

1189
01:02:36,360 --> 01:02:38,280
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of women like we are.

1190
01:02:38,960 --> 01:02:41,880
Speaker 1: We are the energy, like we control a lot of things.

1191
01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:45,160
Speaker 1: And make a nigga match your energy. Don't try to

1192
01:02:45,200 --> 01:02:47,960
Speaker 1: stoop down to what he's doing or you know, whatever

1193
01:02:47,960 --> 01:02:50,760
Speaker 1: it is. If you're a man that has big boss energy,

1194
01:02:50,800 --> 01:02:53,240
Speaker 1: don't try to stoop down to a woman's level and

1195
01:02:53,280 --> 01:02:54,040
Speaker 1: meet her energy.

1196
01:02:54,080 --> 01:02:55,840
Speaker 2: Make somebody rise up to the occasion.

1197
01:02:56,240 --> 01:02:58,520
Speaker 1: So that's what the vibs give me, Yah y'all Bee,

1198
01:02:58,560 --> 01:02:59,360
Speaker 1: Big Daddy y'all.

1199
01:02:59,440 --> 01:02:59,959
Speaker 2: That's my bob.

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01:03:01,120 --> 01:03:05,080
Speaker 1: I cannot remember because I'm so lead. Did we talk

1201
01:03:05,120 --> 01:03:08,000
Speaker 1: about the DV song on this episode? Okay, so that's

1202
01:03:08,040 --> 01:03:12,360
Speaker 1: not put the week. I gotta move on because the

1203
01:03:12,440 --> 01:03:14,720
Speaker 1: niggas gotta move on.

1204
01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:17,680
Speaker 2: She's got to move on. Everybody, everybody else has to

1205
01:03:17,720 --> 01:03:20,360
Speaker 2: move on. It's very easy to move on. Sign.

1206
01:03:20,440 --> 01:03:26,680
Speaker 1: No, let's talk about Beyonce. You gotta move on easy.

1207
01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:28,760
Speaker 1: It's not easy to move on. It's definitely not.

1208
01:03:28,840 --> 01:03:30,640
Speaker 2: But you gotta move on.

1209
01:03:30,880 --> 01:03:34,320
Speaker 1: But it's it's definitely about. One thing I love about Denny.

1210
01:03:35,200 --> 01:03:38,520
Speaker 1: He makes good love records. That's why he calls himself love.

1211
01:03:39,040 --> 01:03:40,920
Speaker 1: He knows how to make a good love record. He

1212
01:03:41,040 --> 01:03:41,600
Speaker 1: really does.

1213
01:03:42,480 --> 01:03:44,240
Speaker 2: He's been making hiss for a long time.

1214
01:03:44,440 --> 01:03:48,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, and Sign not Beyonce's song Break my Souls Out

1215
01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:54,680
Speaker 1: what it's called. I thought we talked the last episode. No,

1216
01:03:54,760 --> 01:03:57,680
Speaker 1: we didn't talk about it in full. Beyonce is back.

1217
01:03:58,240 --> 01:04:00,800
Speaker 1: House music is back. We about to We about to

1218
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:02,440
Speaker 1: get on, y'all ass and beyond.

1219
01:04:03,640 --> 01:04:06,600
Speaker 2: Yes, Yes, I feel like black.

1220
01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:08,680
Speaker 1: People like I think house music was never really in

1221
01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:10,040
Speaker 1: for black people.

1222
01:04:09,880 --> 01:04:10,800
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

1223
01:04:10,880 --> 01:04:14,160
Speaker 1: But in the nineties it was in the nineties, it

1224
01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:17,480
Speaker 1: was know what I'm saying, Like black people like they

1225
01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:19,520
Speaker 1: used to listen to house music. We did more so

1226
01:04:19,600 --> 01:04:22,400
Speaker 1: in the nineties versus now. But I feel like they're

1227
01:04:22,400 --> 01:04:24,920
Speaker 1: introducing it back to the culture. That's why I'm not

1228
01:04:24,920 --> 01:04:27,400
Speaker 1: trying to be funny. Let's be real. Beyonce is a

1229
01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:29,880
Speaker 1: trend setter. Drake is a trend setter. You know, the

1230
01:04:29,880 --> 01:04:33,840
Speaker 1: Holy Trinity of that. Rihanna dropped some house music. Everybody

1231
01:04:33,840 --> 01:04:36,080
Speaker 1: about to be on that shit one more. Let's add

1232
01:04:36,120 --> 01:04:38,160
Speaker 1: to Nicki Minaj because she did it before. Pound the

1233
01:04:38,200 --> 01:04:38,840
Speaker 1: Alarm through.

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01:04:38,960 --> 01:04:43,760
Speaker 2: You remember Pound the Alarm that Nicki Mina. Oh, let's

1235
01:04:43,840 --> 01:04:48,200
Speaker 2: learn be Lithum. I do remember. That's what I'm saying.

1236
01:04:48,360 --> 01:04:52,520
Speaker 1: Let's go, Let's it's time to dance again. I'm ready

1237
01:04:52,520 --> 01:04:56,920
Speaker 1: to dance and party. I'm about to be like this

1238
01:04:57,000 --> 01:04:58,400
Speaker 1: in the club all day long.

1239
01:04:58,840 --> 01:05:01,200
Speaker 2: I love it. I'm ready for the house music. I'm

1240
01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:03,720
Speaker 2: tired of. I'm not gonna lie. I'm tired of being

1241
01:05:03,760 --> 01:05:08,240
Speaker 2: like this in the club. M I'm tired. Let's switch

1242
01:05:08,280 --> 01:05:10,760
Speaker 2: this ship up. I love you a little dark, but

1243
01:05:10,800 --> 01:05:13,600
Speaker 2: I'm tired of rapping about the block bro.

1244
01:05:15,000 --> 01:05:17,520
Speaker 1: I'm tired of the Locke is serious, I know. But

1245
01:05:17,600 --> 01:05:19,640
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is I just want a little mixture.

1246
01:05:19,720 --> 01:05:22,160
Speaker 1: Let's dance again, Let's have fun again, let's do y'all

1247
01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:23,960
Speaker 1: not about to be dancing in the club because I

1248
01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:27,120
Speaker 1: know him. You all me to believe that y'all about

1249
01:05:27,160 --> 01:05:31,080
Speaker 1: to be dancing in the club. Have you you've seen

1250
01:05:31,080 --> 01:05:33,760
Speaker 1: my nigga drunk one time? You know he about to

1251
01:05:33,800 --> 01:05:35,840
Speaker 1: be dancing when he is not about to be dancing.

1252
01:05:36,560 --> 01:05:38,720
Speaker 2: Yes, he's about to be like.

1253
01:05:41,360 --> 01:05:42,920
Speaker 1: He's gonna try to hide it, and he gonna wait

1254
01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:45,560
Speaker 1: till we get home, but he gonna he gonna break

1255
01:05:45,560 --> 01:05:48,720
Speaker 1: it down. Now he's gonna break it down. Yeah, I'm

1256
01:05:48,720 --> 01:05:50,360
Speaker 1: ready for house music come back. I'm here for it.

1257
01:05:50,400 --> 01:05:52,960
Speaker 2: I like it. I like it. I'm fucking with it.

1258
01:05:53,000 --> 01:05:54,760
Speaker 2: I like it a little bit too. I'm not gonna lie.

1259
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Speaker 2: What's up? Y'all?

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Speaker 2: Get y'all some therapy because we all need it.

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Speaker 1: So now it's time to get into our favorite segment

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Speaker 1: of the show, which is pour your heart out. You know,

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Speaker 1: if you have any questions that you would like us

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Speaker 1: to answer, send them to ask poor Minds at gmail

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Speaker 1: dot com.

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Speaker 1: In my nds at gmail dot com. Send us your questions,

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Speaker 1: send us your testimonials.

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Speaker 2: You know we looked your life. We would like to

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Speaker 2: know that too, would question number one.

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Speaker 1: Hi, ladies, one of my dearest friends is a clinically

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Speaker 1: diagnosed alcoholic.

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Speaker 2: That's not funny. It was right when you took this too.

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Speaker 1: She has received medical help, but stop following her treatment

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Speaker 1: plan because she couldn't find a void for the time

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Speaker 1: she previous previously spent drinking. She's in a financial situation

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Speaker 1: that allows her to live comfortably and not work, but

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Speaker 1: it's to her demise. She used to have so many dreams,

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Speaker 1: but it's now unmotivated to do anything with her life.

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Speaker 1: She is a fun time, great friend and traubl buddy. However,

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Speaker 1: I no longer want to do any activities with her

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Speaker 1: that involve drinking because I know it is literally killing her.

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Speaker 1: I want to see her survive this disease, get sober,

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Speaker 1: and create a life of love she deeply desires. She

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Speaker 1: tells me every now and then that she's going to

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Speaker 1: go back to treatment, but still hasn't. I've known her

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Speaker 1: since before alcoholism, so it's hard to just ditch her.

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Speaker 1: But constantly seeing this is emotionally taxing advice.

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Speaker 2: You know what's crazy.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to get too into my personal business because, honestly,

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Speaker 1: I learned that a lot of my family watches this show,

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01:09:51,520 --> 01:09:53,439
Speaker 1: and I said some things on this show that like

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01:09:53,520 --> 01:09:55,760
Speaker 1: offended them. But I will say I have somebody that

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01:09:56,160 --> 01:09:59,799
Speaker 1: I'm close with that deals with a serious drug problem,

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01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:03,840
Speaker 1: and it's crazy because I feel like my mom had

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01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:05,840
Speaker 1: kind of stepped in and was dealing with it and

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01:10:05,880 --> 01:10:09,000
Speaker 1: trying to help her. And now that my mom's not here,

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01:10:09,120 --> 01:10:12,280
Speaker 1: I feel like she will want me to step in

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Speaker 1: and kind of help her. And it's hard for me

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Speaker 1: because it's very fucking aggravating.

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Speaker 2: It's very fucking aggravating.

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Speaker 1: But I will say sometimes when people are dealing with

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01:10:21,000 --> 01:10:23,519
Speaker 1: this and I don't have an addictive personality, I don't.

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Speaker 1: If I need to stop drinking, I will stop right now.

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Speaker 1: If I need to stop smoking, whatever I'm doing, I

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Speaker 1: can stop very easily.

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Speaker 2: So to be open and under you have to be open.

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Speaker 1: You have to have an open heart, and you have

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01:10:34,360 --> 01:10:37,599
Speaker 1: to understand, but you have to really put yourself out

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Speaker 1: of it, you know what I'm saying, Like, you can't

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01:10:39,400 --> 01:10:42,160
Speaker 1: be selfish in these moments, so you don't want to

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Speaker 1: overextend yourself to where it's emotionally too taxing for you.

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Speaker 2: But sometimes I.

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Speaker 1: Have moments where I'm like, I do not feel like

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01:10:49,200 --> 01:10:51,559
Speaker 1: dealing with this today because I can't, cause, like I said,

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Speaker 1: I'm still grieving, I'm still dealing with the things I'm

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Speaker 1: dealing with. But I can be selfless in these moments,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So I feel like, you know,

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Speaker 1: how much do you care? How much do you love

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Speaker 1: this person? You know what I'm saying. So, and I

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Speaker 1: feel like you also have to push people to do

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Speaker 1: things that they don't want to do sometimes, But you

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01:11:08,600 --> 01:11:10,439
Speaker 1: can't help anybody that don't want to be helped.

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Speaker 2: I want to say that first of all.

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Speaker 1: But she may be mad at you right now if

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Speaker 1: you try to, you know, push it on her, oh

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Speaker 1: when you're going back to rehab, when you going back

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01:11:18,880 --> 01:11:20,719
Speaker 1: to rehab, but let her on. She'll thank you because

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Speaker 1: if it's literally killing her, you could be the one

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Speaker 1: thing that saves her life. So I'll say just don't

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01:11:25,800 --> 01:11:27,720
Speaker 1: give up on people. You can't give up and quit

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Speaker 1: on people. Hell no, it's I literally was looking at

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Speaker 1: the text message that one of my friends just in me.

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Speaker 1: But now I one hundred percent agree with what you

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Speaker 1: just said. It's hard dealing with people who I feel

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Speaker 1: like have these type of issues. It's different just because too,

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Speaker 1: I think that sometimes when you try to say something

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Speaker 1: to them about it, they get really offended, but in

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Speaker 1: defensive and so then it's kind of like, Okay, do

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01:11:58,800 --> 01:12:02,640
Speaker 1: I say something and get on their nerves or do

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Speaker 1: I not say something and just watch my friend go

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Speaker 1: down like these rabbits kill herself.

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Speaker 3: That's what she said.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, So I mean I get it. It's kind

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Speaker 1: of hard. I feel like I've kind of been in

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01:12:12,479 --> 01:12:15,360
Speaker 1: a situation like that before and I said something to

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Speaker 1: the person that I was that I was cool with, but.

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Speaker 2: They got offended.

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Speaker 1: Mmm. And then at that point, I just feel like

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Speaker 1: you just kind of gotta stay in your lane. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And like it also depends how close y'all are too,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like it really doesn't matter how close

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01:12:31,439 --> 01:12:34,200
Speaker 1: y'all are. No, then you keep if you keep attacking

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01:12:34,200 --> 01:12:38,240
Speaker 1: somebody and being down they throat about something that they're

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01:12:38,280 --> 01:12:40,559
Speaker 1: obviously not ready to give up. It's gonna be the

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Speaker 1: demise of the friendship anyway.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

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01:12:42,800 --> 01:12:44,599
Speaker 1: So it depends how close you are and how much

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Speaker 1: you care, because honestly, sometimes there be some people that

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01:12:47,160 --> 01:12:49,200
Speaker 1: they got shit going on, and honestly I'll be trying

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Speaker 1: to tell them and tell them, and it's like, if.

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Speaker 2: You want to keep it, I don't care that much.

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Speaker 2: I can't. I can't be there for you for everybody.

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Speaker 1: I got there for you for everybody, But I do

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Speaker 1: be caring now, Like I hate to see people going

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01:13:01,040 --> 01:13:03,759
Speaker 1: through shit like that because to me, that's really sad

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01:13:03,840 --> 01:13:06,360
Speaker 1: when people have addiction issues and they.

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Speaker 2: Can't stop because, like you said, I think not that

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Speaker 2: I think.

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Speaker 1: I know we're both this way, and we've been friends

1419
01:13:12,840 --> 01:13:14,840
Speaker 1: long enough to be able to say that about each other,

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Speaker 1: Like we both can stop doing something at the drop

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Speaker 1: of a dome, literally it doesn't matter, or we could

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Speaker 1: pick up any habit at the drop of a dome.

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Speaker 1: That's why I feel like even right now, I'm like

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01:13:24,200 --> 01:13:26,639
Speaker 1: going super hard with working out because we don't have

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01:13:27,400 --> 01:13:29,960
Speaker 1: personality to where it's hard for us to let go

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01:13:31,200 --> 01:13:33,400
Speaker 1: or pick up anything. I'm not gonna lie like I

1427
01:13:33,439 --> 01:13:36,599
Speaker 1: have literally lost ten pounds in like about two weeks. Yeah,

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01:13:36,800 --> 01:13:38,640
Speaker 1: I have gotten the biggest I've ever gotten. I got

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01:13:38,720 --> 01:13:40,360
Speaker 1: up to two ten. I'm two hundred right now, so

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01:13:40,400 --> 01:13:42,920
Speaker 1: I'm almost back to like my goal away. But it's

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01:13:42,960 --> 01:13:44,720
Speaker 1: just because it's like, it's not hard for me to

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01:13:44,760 --> 01:13:47,080
Speaker 1: give up things, but not everybody is like that. It's

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01:13:47,120 --> 01:13:49,120
Speaker 1: not hard for me to give up bad habits, it's

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01:13:49,120 --> 01:13:50,360
Speaker 1: not hard for me to pick up.

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Speaker 2: Good head, right, That's what I mean.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean it's just unfortunate to me sometimes

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01:13:55,479 --> 01:13:58,640
Speaker 1: to see people in these type of situations and you

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01:13:58,680 --> 01:14:01,720
Speaker 1: want to help them. But again, like Leck said, you

1439
01:14:01,720 --> 01:14:03,519
Speaker 1: can only help people as much as they want to

1440
01:14:03,560 --> 01:14:06,639
Speaker 1: be helped, and sometimes things are out of your control

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01:14:06,760 --> 01:14:10,720
Speaker 1: and out of your expertise, so you have to let

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Speaker 1: them get professional help.

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01:14:12,600 --> 01:14:14,760
Speaker 2: Right exactly exactly.

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01:14:14,320 --> 01:14:16,519
Speaker 1: Because I feel like sometimes when us as friends and

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01:14:16,640 --> 01:14:21,040
Speaker 1: partners try to put that burden on ourselves of helping people,

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01:14:21,360 --> 01:14:23,280
Speaker 1: then we start to stress our own self out.

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01:14:23,360 --> 01:14:23,880
Speaker 2: But we're not.

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01:14:23,960 --> 01:14:26,280
Speaker 1: Equipped enough to be able to help people with these

1449
01:14:26,320 --> 01:14:27,280
Speaker 1: type of matters either.

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Speaker 2: That's why you have professionals.

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Speaker 1: Don't give up, don't give up for me. Yeah, like

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01:14:31,840 --> 01:14:33,960
Speaker 1: I said, you know, emphasize.

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01:14:33,320 --> 01:14:41,360
Speaker 2: Her to you know, do better. So question number two, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I'm I'm gonna read this one from the other one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Hey, ladies, I want to get y'all's perspective on

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01:14:48,080 --> 01:14:52,719
Speaker 1: this situation. For my birthday, my girlfriend We're Lesbians, plan

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01:14:52,840 --> 01:14:55,040
Speaker 1: me a surprise party and reached out to my best

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01:14:55,080 --> 01:14:57,479
Speaker 1: friend to help with preparing the space for my party.

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01:14:58,000 --> 01:15:01,479
Speaker 1: My girlfriend asked my best friend, let's call her Robin

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01:15:02,120 --> 01:15:04,080
Speaker 1: to bring balloons and set up the cake.

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Speaker 2: On the day of the party.

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Speaker 1: Not only did Robin not bring the balloons, she arrived

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01:15:09,200 --> 01:15:11,640
Speaker 1: at the surprise party more than thirty minutes late and

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01:15:11,760 --> 01:15:14,559
Speaker 1: nothing was set up. We were at a restaurant, so

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01:15:14,680 --> 01:15:16,720
Speaker 1: she only needed to bring balloons and the cake my

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01:15:16,760 --> 01:15:19,960
Speaker 1: girlfriend had made. I was frustrated and disappointed, but I

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Speaker 1: let it go because I just wanted to have a

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01:15:21,640 --> 01:15:24,320
Speaker 1: good time and enjoy my party. The next day, I

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Speaker 1: asked Robin because she helped me with my hair, as

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Speaker 1: she's not only my best friend but also my hairstylace.

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01:15:30,600 --> 01:15:32,880
Speaker 1: Keep in mind, I pay for my service every time

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01:15:32,920 --> 01:15:35,639
Speaker 1: she does my hair. She said she would think about it.

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01:15:35,840 --> 01:15:38,240
Speaker 1: Then later agreed to come to my house to fix

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01:15:38,400 --> 01:15:41,759
Speaker 1: my style. Long story short, she has me sitting around

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01:15:41,800 --> 01:15:45,040
Speaker 1: till eleven pm, just the flight on me. I told

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01:15:45,040 --> 01:15:46,880
Speaker 1: her I was pissed off and it was unfair to

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01:15:46,920 --> 01:15:48,880
Speaker 1: have me waiting around all day if she didn't want

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01:15:48,920 --> 01:15:50,960
Speaker 1: to do it. The cherry on top is she knew

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01:15:51,000 --> 01:15:53,320
Speaker 1: my girlfriend had also planned a surprise trip for me

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01:15:53,640 --> 01:15:56,240
Speaker 1: the next day and we had a five am flight.

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01:15:56,720 --> 01:15:59,120
Speaker 1: My fucking wig came off mid trip, and it was

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01:15:59,160 --> 01:16:02,480
Speaker 1: not because I was having balcony sex like Lex.

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01:16:02,520 --> 01:16:04,880
Speaker 2: Was with Cabo Bay. Now, why am I in it?

1484
01:16:06,880 --> 01:16:08,000
Speaker 2: Because you ain't have to do that.

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01:16:08,160 --> 01:16:10,559
Speaker 1: Speaking of mister Cabo, I got an update for y'all

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01:16:11,120 --> 01:16:13,280
Speaker 1: cause that nigga called me and the tea got hot.

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01:16:13,320 --> 01:16:16,280
Speaker 2: But anyways, the next.

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01:16:16,040 --> 01:16:19,920
Speaker 1: Day is my actual birthday, and she doesn't call, text,

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01:16:20,000 --> 01:16:22,840
Speaker 1: or even post about it all days and sends me

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01:16:22,880 --> 01:16:25,639
Speaker 1: a happy be Day text at eleven fifty nine on

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01:16:25,680 --> 01:16:28,599
Speaker 1: the Dot. It's clearly intentional, and I took that as

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01:16:28,600 --> 01:16:31,760
Speaker 1: a big fuck you. At this point, I'm furious. When

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01:16:31,800 --> 01:16:34,840
Speaker 1: it was her birthday, I spent a week shopping, ripping,

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01:16:34,880 --> 01:16:37,240
Speaker 1: and running for her party and doing all of her

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01:16:37,280 --> 01:16:40,160
Speaker 1: decorations for her I feel like the energy was not

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01:16:40,200 --> 01:16:41,439
Speaker 1: reciprocated at all.

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01:16:41,800 --> 01:16:43,640
Speaker 2: It's been over a month and neither of us have

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01:16:43,800 --> 01:16:44,800
Speaker 2: reached out now.

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01:16:44,840 --> 01:16:47,200
Speaker 1: I was initially hesitant to call it quits because I

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01:16:47,200 --> 01:16:53,800
Speaker 1: only have about three damn friends anyway, But I'm but

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01:16:53,960 --> 01:16:56,160
Speaker 1: I'm ready to wash my hands. Am I being petty

1502
01:16:56,160 --> 01:16:58,400
Speaker 1: for feeling like this friendship has run its course? How

1503
01:16:58,439 --> 01:17:00,800
Speaker 1: would y'all handle a close friend playing in your face

1504
01:17:00,920 --> 01:17:03,400
Speaker 1: like this? Sorry this is so long, but please help

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01:17:03,400 --> 01:17:06,400
Speaker 1: a poor girl out. Girl, it ain't nothing to cut

1506
01:17:06,439 --> 01:17:08,720
Speaker 1: that bitch off, because you know what, it's one thing

1507
01:17:08,720 --> 01:17:10,559
Speaker 1: that I showed it to my party without my things.

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01:17:10,760 --> 01:17:12,760
Speaker 1: I gotta go on vacation and my wig fell off.

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01:17:12,800 --> 01:17:15,599
Speaker 1: I feel you being on vacation and your wig come

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01:17:15,600 --> 01:17:17,759
Speaker 1: off as the most traumatized shit in the world.

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01:17:17,840 --> 01:17:22,720
Speaker 2: Bitch, Fuck that hole. Fuck Come, y'all haven't talked in

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01:17:22,720 --> 01:17:23,120
Speaker 2: a month.

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01:17:23,960 --> 01:17:26,280
Speaker 1: Leave it where, Leave her where she at because she

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01:17:26,520 --> 01:17:28,000
Speaker 1: hate her.

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01:17:28,880 --> 01:17:30,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

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01:17:30,880 --> 01:17:32,839
Speaker 1: I feel like I've gotten a little better with answering

1517
01:17:32,880 --> 01:17:36,479
Speaker 1: the questions within the past year, but y'all know how

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01:17:36,520 --> 01:17:40,439
Speaker 1: I be feeling. Cut everybody off, all.

1519
01:17:40,320 --> 01:17:43,120
Speaker 2: Of them, cut her off.

1520
01:17:43,240 --> 01:17:45,599
Speaker 1: I don't think there's anything there's no reason to reach

1521
01:17:45,640 --> 01:17:46,200
Speaker 1: out to her.

1522
01:17:46,520 --> 01:17:49,800
Speaker 2: Let's diet it, okay, question three?

1523
01:17:50,840 --> 01:17:54,400
Speaker 1: He always irreplaceable in fact, Oh no, she's replaceable.

1524
01:17:55,720 --> 01:18:01,040
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's all right. I was thinking again replace.

1525
01:18:02,280 --> 01:18:05,320
Speaker 1: Hey girls, hope you're doing well, healthy, happy, and staying

1526
01:18:06,400 --> 01:18:08,679
Speaker 1: pushes in a world period. Oh go ahead, No, go ahead,

1527
01:18:08,720 --> 01:18:11,920
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, go ahead, you're already starting. Okay, hope you're

1528
01:18:11,920 --> 01:18:15,439
Speaker 1: doing well, healthy, happy, and staying thick. I live with

1529
01:18:15,479 --> 01:18:18,840
Speaker 1: my parents and younger siblings, and my household is very

1530
01:18:18,840 --> 01:18:21,800
Speaker 1: stressful and chaotic. There's a lot of expectation for me

1531
01:18:22,040 --> 01:18:25,839
Speaker 1: to take on domestic responsibilities, plus a lot of shouting

1532
01:18:25,880 --> 01:18:28,680
Speaker 1: and screaming at the kids and at myself. So it's

1533
01:18:28,760 --> 01:18:31,000
Speaker 1: just not a great environment for my mental health and

1534
01:18:31,080 --> 01:18:34,200
Speaker 1: to invest in my personal growth. I'm planning to move

1535
01:18:34,240 --> 01:18:36,839
Speaker 1: to Dallas, even though you guys make it sound ghetto,

1536
01:18:37,200 --> 01:18:39,080
Speaker 1: and stay with my family up there for a while,

1537
01:18:39,200 --> 01:18:41,000
Speaker 1: so I will get a break from that environment. But

1538
01:18:41,040 --> 01:18:43,479
Speaker 1: in the meantime, I wondered if you guys had any

1539
01:18:43,479 --> 01:18:45,920
Speaker 1: advice on saving your money and moving out on your own,

1540
01:18:46,280 --> 01:18:49,679
Speaker 1: especially without parental financial support or roommate.

1541
01:18:50,160 --> 01:18:52,519
Speaker 2: Drea's stories and others scare me.

1542
01:18:52,600 --> 01:18:55,240
Speaker 1: Plus I don't have any friends out there, and also

1543
01:18:55,479 --> 01:18:58,200
Speaker 1: managing living in an unhealthy environment that you can't leave

1544
01:18:58,280 --> 01:19:00,599
Speaker 1: until you get your money up, all though I've only

1545
01:19:00,640 --> 01:19:01,599
Speaker 1: got two months left.

1546
01:19:01,880 --> 01:19:03,200
Speaker 2: First of all, Dallas is in ghetto.

1547
01:19:04,360 --> 01:19:05,920
Speaker 1: I don't know if I make this in ghetto, but

1548
01:19:06,280 --> 01:19:08,240
Speaker 1: I last time I went to Dallas, I had an

1549
01:19:08,240 --> 01:19:08,800
Speaker 1: amazing time.

1550
01:19:08,920 --> 01:19:13,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean Dallas is actually Dallas, let's be honest.

1551
01:19:13,439 --> 01:19:17,040
Speaker 2: But with the hood parts of Dallas, it's super hood.

1552
01:19:17,760 --> 01:19:20,320
Speaker 1: But I love Dallas. You can find some nice areas

1553
01:19:20,320 --> 01:19:24,080
Speaker 1: to living now. Dallas is a nice area. Okay area,

1554
01:19:24,160 --> 01:19:26,559
Speaker 1: y'all know me. I got three dollars. I know all

1555
01:19:26,560 --> 01:19:29,160
Speaker 1: about saving the coin. You have to stop eating out,

1556
01:19:29,280 --> 01:19:31,599
Speaker 1: stop going out. You really gotta stop kind of everything.

1557
01:19:31,840 --> 01:19:34,120
Speaker 1: When you notice yourself buying something that you want, you

1558
01:19:34,160 --> 01:19:37,160
Speaker 1: have to realize you're wance versus your needs. You know,

1559
01:19:37,600 --> 01:19:40,320
Speaker 1: like you need food, you need toilet paper when but

1560
01:19:40,360 --> 01:19:43,080
Speaker 1: when you say you need food, you don't necessarily need

1561
01:19:43,120 --> 01:19:44,760
Speaker 1: to go to Chick fil a two times a day.

1562
01:19:45,439 --> 01:19:47,760
Speaker 1: Go to the grocery store and buy you some groceries.

1563
01:19:47,800 --> 01:19:50,320
Speaker 1: Like there's little things that you can make adjustments on

1564
01:19:51,000 --> 01:19:53,120
Speaker 1: and spending your money that I know that I did

1565
01:19:53,240 --> 01:19:55,640
Speaker 1: in order to get like back ahead, because it was

1566
01:19:55,680 --> 01:19:58,280
Speaker 1: a point that I was literally living paycheck to paycheck and.

1567
01:19:58,240 --> 01:20:00,360
Speaker 2: It was really hard. But I know that it's like

1568
01:20:00,439 --> 01:20:02,160
Speaker 2: I have to cut out different things.

1569
01:20:02,240 --> 01:20:05,120
Speaker 1: So you need to really write down your spending and

1570
01:20:05,360 --> 01:20:07,479
Speaker 1: realize what you're spending your money on and what you

1571
01:20:07,520 --> 01:20:09,519
Speaker 1: can do with and what you can do without.

1572
01:20:09,840 --> 01:20:11,760
Speaker 2: That's what helped me personally.

1573
01:20:14,560 --> 01:20:18,280
Speaker 1: Not gonna lie moving to a new city, new state

1574
01:20:18,800 --> 01:20:20,000
Speaker 1: without nobody there.

1575
01:20:20,160 --> 01:20:23,080
Speaker 2: That shit is hard. As for it's still hard. I'm

1576
01:20:23,080 --> 01:20:24,760
Speaker 2: not trying to be funny the only first. That's what

1577
01:20:24,800 --> 01:20:27,360
Speaker 2: I'm saying. Like, the shit is hard. It's an adjustment.

1578
01:20:27,439 --> 01:20:29,679
Speaker 1: Anybody that tries to make it seem like it's super

1579
01:20:29,720 --> 01:20:31,840
Speaker 1: easy to move to a new state, like to branch

1580
01:20:31,840 --> 01:20:33,559
Speaker 1: out and be like, oh, I'm just gonna move somewhere,

1581
01:20:33,600 --> 01:20:35,920
Speaker 1: and I don't know nobody there live there, Like even

1582
01:20:36,000 --> 01:20:38,800
Speaker 1: if you do have one friend, it's still hard. Like

1583
01:20:38,840 --> 01:20:40,720
Speaker 1: I moved here with somebody I was cool with at

1584
01:20:40,760 --> 01:20:43,560
Speaker 1: the time. The ship was still an adjustment though, you

1585
01:20:43,600 --> 01:20:43,720
Speaker 1: know what.

1586
01:20:43,720 --> 01:20:45,920
Speaker 2: I say, And like I said, it still is for me.

1587
01:20:45,960 --> 01:20:48,080
Speaker 1: I literally have four friends out here and one's about

1588
01:20:48,120 --> 01:20:50,320
Speaker 1: to move back to Houston. Yeah, Like I have four

1589
01:20:50,360 --> 01:20:53,880
Speaker 1: friends here, so it's just it's difficult.

1590
01:20:54,240 --> 01:20:56,080
Speaker 2: You definitely just have to have your mind in the

1591
01:20:56,160 --> 01:20:58,120
Speaker 2: right space. You have to be focused on your goal.

1592
01:20:58,160 --> 01:20:59,960
Speaker 1: Like you have to ask you, so, Okay, you moving

1593
01:21:00,080 --> 01:21:02,960
Speaker 1: to Della's, but like why are you moving to Della's

1594
01:21:03,320 --> 01:21:06,160
Speaker 1: and whatever the reason is, specifically why you move in there.

1595
01:21:06,280 --> 01:21:08,240
Speaker 1: Try to make sure you stay focused on their goal

1596
01:21:08,280 --> 01:21:10,720
Speaker 1: and you always keep that in mind because it's so

1597
01:21:10,760 --> 01:21:13,880
Speaker 1: easy when you move somewhere else to get distracted as well.

1598
01:21:13,960 --> 01:21:15,280
Speaker 2: We just talked about these.

1599
01:21:16,800 --> 01:21:19,240
Speaker 1: Because loven to a new place, you meet new people,

1600
01:21:20,120 --> 01:21:22,519
Speaker 1: you know, it's new places to go to that you

1601
01:21:22,520 --> 01:21:25,559
Speaker 1: ain't never been to. It's easy to get wrapped up

1602
01:21:25,800 --> 01:21:28,040
Speaker 1: in living in that city, living in the life and

1603
01:21:28,560 --> 01:21:31,240
Speaker 1: not focusing on your goal. Going to new city shows

1604
01:21:31,280 --> 01:21:35,080
Speaker 1: you how strong you are, Like I feel like Drea

1605
01:21:35,200 --> 01:21:37,240
Speaker 1: was out here a year before I was, and for

1606
01:21:37,320 --> 01:21:39,960
Speaker 1: her to even last that year and for us to

1607
01:21:40,000 --> 01:21:42,559
Speaker 1: even still be here now, like it shows like how

1608
01:21:42,600 --> 01:21:43,760
Speaker 1: resilient we are and how.

1609
01:21:43,680 --> 01:21:44,240
Speaker 2: Strong we are.

1610
01:21:44,320 --> 01:21:46,840
Speaker 1: But even if you have to quit and go back,

1611
01:21:47,320 --> 01:21:49,599
Speaker 1: don't be hard on yourself about it. But I feel

1612
01:21:49,600 --> 01:21:53,160
Speaker 1: like that a lot of people that was here when

1613
01:21:53,160 --> 01:21:55,000
Speaker 1: I moved here, they don't live right, and there's.

1614
01:21:54,880 --> 01:21:55,600
Speaker 2: Not nothing wrong with that.

1615
01:21:55,640 --> 01:21:58,720
Speaker 1: It's not necessarily that you feel, you know what I mean,

1616
01:21:58,720 --> 01:22:01,240
Speaker 1: because you can always move back, you can always regroup.

1617
01:22:01,520 --> 01:22:03,880
Speaker 2: Moved back you need to. That's why you're saying, don't

1618
01:22:03,880 --> 01:22:05,599
Speaker 2: put a lot of pressure on Yeah, just step out

1619
01:22:05,600 --> 01:22:06,240
Speaker 2: on faith girl.

1620
01:22:06,520 --> 01:22:09,559
Speaker 1: I'm even with asking about the saving money sheet and

1621
01:22:09,560 --> 01:22:09,920
Speaker 1: all of that.

1622
01:22:10,680 --> 01:22:12,000
Speaker 2: Save some money if you can.

1623
01:22:12,200 --> 01:22:14,479
Speaker 1: But I'm like a step out on fake type of person.

1624
01:22:14,600 --> 01:22:16,960
Speaker 1: Like I definitely moved to Atlanta and I had probably

1625
01:22:16,960 --> 01:22:19,240
Speaker 1: about like I think I can't remember the exact amount,

1626
01:22:19,240 --> 01:22:21,840
Speaker 1: but it was like six thousands to ten thousand dollars.

1627
01:22:21,400 --> 01:22:23,840
Speaker 2: A lot I had. I'm not trying to be funny,

1628
01:22:23,920 --> 01:22:26,240
Speaker 2: like I literally probably had two hundred dollars time I

1629
01:22:26,320 --> 01:22:32,360
Speaker 2: moved out here. Mm hmm, thank you, I remember, and

1630
01:22:32,479 --> 01:22:35,600
Speaker 2: you fed me every night. Do you remember we ate

1631
01:22:35,640 --> 01:22:38,679
Speaker 2: that squash? But but I said that, but even still.

1632
01:22:38,840 --> 01:22:41,360
Speaker 1: Ate squash again for a week. Yeah, and we never

1633
01:22:41,520 --> 01:22:44,479
Speaker 1: ate it again. Still to this day, I can't eat.

1634
01:22:44,560 --> 01:22:46,440
Speaker 1: I'm scoring literally.

1635
01:22:46,120 --> 01:22:47,080
Speaker 2: I'm scoring crazy.

1636
01:22:47,120 --> 01:22:48,920
Speaker 1: But no, I said that because even though I moved

1637
01:22:48,920 --> 01:22:50,479
Speaker 1: here with that amount of money in my baking card,

1638
01:22:50,479 --> 01:22:51,519
Speaker 1: I literally ranish.

1639
01:22:51,680 --> 01:22:53,320
Speaker 2: I literally spent that ship.

1640
01:22:53,400 --> 01:22:55,280
Speaker 1: In the first two weeks, I had to buy furniture

1641
01:22:55,280 --> 01:22:59,080
Speaker 1: and ship, and I didn't know where I was gonna work.

1642
01:22:59,560 --> 01:23:01,240
Speaker 1: I didn't have a job when I moved here, like

1643
01:23:01,280 --> 01:23:03,200
Speaker 1: I ended up finding my job a week or two

1644
01:23:03,280 --> 01:23:05,559
Speaker 1: after I was living here, Like I got a bartending job.

1645
01:23:06,160 --> 01:23:09,000
Speaker 1: But yeah, girl, just step I don't fake people, be scary,

1646
01:23:09,040 --> 01:23:09,759
Speaker 1: people be pussy.

1647
01:23:09,760 --> 01:23:12,639
Speaker 2: Don't be pussy period. That's what you gotta do because

1648
01:23:12,680 --> 01:23:17,960
Speaker 2: your mental health comes first. All right, go ahead, now, okay?

1649
01:23:18,040 --> 01:23:24,000
Speaker 2: Question number three four cause you read okay, Heydri and Lex.

1650
01:23:24,040 --> 01:23:26,400
Speaker 1: I'm twenty eight, no kids, and I have recently decided

1651
01:23:26,439 --> 01:23:28,479
Speaker 1: to date around instead of putting all my eggs in

1652
01:23:28,479 --> 01:23:31,519
Speaker 1: one basket. My question is, when y'all dat multiple people,

1653
01:23:31,840 --> 01:23:34,280
Speaker 1: do you decide who to have sex with? And does

1654
01:23:34,320 --> 01:23:37,880
Speaker 1: the one you choose not automatically become your favorite nigga?

1655
01:23:38,720 --> 01:23:39,120
Speaker 2: Lol.

1656
01:23:39,200 --> 01:23:41,160
Speaker 1: I feel like if I'm dating multiple people and start

1657
01:23:41,200 --> 01:23:43,080
Speaker 1: fucking one, then I'm gona end up dropping the other

1658
01:23:43,160 --> 01:23:46,200
Speaker 1: niggas prematurely. I'm a cancer, by the way, so sex

1659
01:23:46,320 --> 01:23:50,040
Speaker 1: is just never casual for me. Well, girls, it's hard

1660
01:23:50,040 --> 01:23:51,960
Speaker 1: for me to fuck more than one nigga at one time.

1661
01:23:52,040 --> 01:23:56,040
Speaker 1: I can't do it. Oh, it's difficult for me. I'm

1662
01:23:56,080 --> 01:23:57,840
Speaker 1: not gonna lie and then this, I'm not a pro

1663
01:23:57,960 --> 01:23:59,240
Speaker 1: with this, so I'm not a good person.

1664
01:23:59,479 --> 01:24:00,000
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.

1665
01:24:00,640 --> 01:24:02,960
Speaker 1: So, yes, I choose one nigga, Like I might date

1666
01:24:03,000 --> 01:24:07,120
Speaker 1: a few niggas for a few weeks or a few months,

1667
01:24:07,360 --> 01:24:09,400
Speaker 1: but then I end up picking my favorite nigga and

1668
01:24:09,439 --> 01:24:10,320
Speaker 1: it's who I be fooling.

1669
01:24:10,320 --> 01:24:13,679
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna wine. That's surprisingly That's how I am too.

1670
01:24:13,760 --> 01:24:17,679
Speaker 2: It's like I feel like for me, I'm a leo.

1671
01:24:19,680 --> 01:24:21,000
Speaker 2: It's hard for me to have sex.

1672
01:24:20,800 --> 01:24:23,920
Speaker 1: With somebody not be emotionally invested with them, Like I

1673
01:24:23,960 --> 01:24:26,680
Speaker 1: feel like that's how I just be getting caught up sometimes.

1674
01:24:26,680 --> 01:24:30,640
Speaker 1: So honestly, when you're dating people and you're trying to

1675
01:24:30,720 --> 01:24:32,639
Speaker 1: choose the best one, you don't need to have sex

1676
01:24:32,640 --> 01:24:35,360
Speaker 1: with any of them to choose the fact your favorite one.

1677
01:24:36,000 --> 01:24:37,000
Speaker 2: That's the battle one.

1678
01:24:37,200 --> 01:24:39,360
Speaker 1: But I'm saying though, because if you choose it off

1679
01:24:39,360 --> 01:24:42,479
Speaker 1: the sex, it might your y'all's relationship might be strictly

1680
01:24:42,520 --> 01:24:45,320
Speaker 1: based off sex. So I feel like you need to

1681
01:24:45,360 --> 01:24:47,599
Speaker 1: wait and figure out which one you like based off

1682
01:24:47,600 --> 01:24:50,000
Speaker 1: of the vibes and how he makes you feel first,

1683
01:24:50,240 --> 01:24:52,000
Speaker 1: and then that can be your favorite nigga and then

1684
01:24:52,040 --> 01:24:53,920
Speaker 1: you choose to fuck him and you just well, yeah,

1685
01:24:53,960 --> 01:24:56,320
Speaker 1: I mean if you dated multiple niggas, that's what you're

1686
01:24:56,320 --> 01:24:56,920
Speaker 1: supposed to do.

1687
01:24:57,160 --> 01:25:00,720
Speaker 2: You're supposed to date and then pick your favorite one

1688
01:25:00,720 --> 01:25:01,519
Speaker 2: and that's who you was.

1689
01:25:01,960 --> 01:25:05,240
Speaker 1: Right, But she was asking how do we choose? So

1690
01:25:05,320 --> 01:25:07,040
Speaker 1: I was just saying, that's how I choose.

1691
01:25:07,520 --> 01:25:10,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, I either like you or I don't, because y'all

1692
01:25:10,800 --> 01:25:17,160
Speaker 2: gonna be spending, all right, so the money, the shout

1693
01:25:17,200 --> 01:25:17,920
Speaker 2: out to the poor crew.

1694
01:25:17,920 --> 01:25:23,400
Speaker 1: I know we've had a really episode because we lit, but.

1695
01:25:23,640 --> 01:25:26,240
Speaker 2: This one might go in the vault. No it's not,

1696
01:25:26,680 --> 01:25:29,960
Speaker 2: yes it is, No, it's not. No it's not it

1697
01:25:30,080 --> 01:25:33,880
Speaker 2: might We say that and then we do nothing the vault.

1698
01:25:34,000 --> 01:25:35,519
Speaker 2: Yeah we do. We don't. Gotta know.

1699
01:25:35,680 --> 01:25:38,040
Speaker 1: You got that one episode that we never dropped, Ryan

1700
01:25:38,120 --> 01:25:40,519
Speaker 1: know which one? Anyways, Oh, this is not going to

1701
01:25:41,000 --> 01:25:42,360
Speaker 1: from six months ago.

1702
01:25:43,000 --> 01:25:46,320
Speaker 2: This is going on the channel easy, Yes, thank y'all

1703
01:25:46,320 --> 01:25:47,640
Speaker 2: so much. We'll live to see it.

1704
01:25:47,680 --> 01:25:50,160
Speaker 1: The other day, what else I said, Oh, we're on

1705
01:25:50,240 --> 01:25:53,719
Speaker 1: tour right now, so if you and like, you know, Chicago,

1706
01:25:53,960 --> 01:25:57,160
Speaker 1: New York, whatever, get y'all tickets and lives lit we

1707
01:25:57,360 --> 01:26:01,559
Speaker 1: outside period the tour has been so brilliant. Anything you

1708
01:26:01,640 --> 01:26:05,200
Speaker 1: got to add my good sister, March, get y'all March

1709
01:26:05,680 --> 01:26:06,439
Speaker 1: all that good stuff.

1710
01:26:06,479 --> 01:26:11,599
Speaker 2: Yea, all that ship. We got wine sippers, Oh you ready?

1711
01:26:11,720 --> 01:26:13,760
Speaker 2: We got new rap tees, we got all that ship.

1712
01:26:13,840 --> 01:26:16,479
Speaker 2: Are you ready? This wine is getting me this drunk

1713
01:26:16,520 --> 01:26:25,920
Speaker 2: because he's so it's so you wade the scenes. I

1714
01:26:26,000 --> 01:26:29,120
Speaker 2: love Jermaine new Prius on this song. He produced it.

1715
01:26:29,479 --> 01:26:33,280
Speaker 1: I came to have a buddy open off that but

1716
01:26:33,600 --> 01:26:36,960
Speaker 1: cudding feeling so hot to Molly.

1717
01:26:37,479 --> 01:26:38,960
Speaker 2: Boy, I know you're watching me, So what's it?

1718
01:26:39,040 --> 01:26:44,880
Speaker 4: Gonnavey Purple taking me how I'm lifted and I like it.

1719
01:26:45,240 --> 01:26:48,360
Speaker 2: Boy, you got me inspired, baby, come and get it.

1720
01:26:48,360 --> 01:26:55,760
Speaker 2: If you're reallyving, let me busy my nighte no stress,

1721
01:26:55,800 --> 01:26:57,080
Speaker 2: no fights.

1722
01:26:57,080 --> 01:27:07,000
Speaker 9: Time leaving it off, no tea, no time to cry,

1723
01:27:07,479 --> 01:27:09,400
Speaker 9: just making the most.

1724
01:27:10,880 --> 01:27:12,559
Speaker 2: Everybody is living it up.

1725
01:27:13,320 --> 01:27:16,080
Speaker 1: All the fellas keep looking at us, me and my

1726
01:27:16,120 --> 01:27:18,880
Speaker 1: girls on the floor like what And the DJ keeps

1727
01:27:18,880 --> 01:27:19,880
Speaker 1: soft spinning the cut.

1728
01:27:20,080 --> 01:27:22,439
Speaker 2: That's how you know the song? Oh it's a little fuck.

1729
01:27:22,880 --> 01:27:26,200
Speaker 2: Is he calling a fucking song a cut? It's like

1730
01:27:26,280 --> 01:27:31,160
Speaker 2: that chill like that, chiall, I like that, y'all it's

1731
01:27:31,240 --> 01:27:34,880
Speaker 2: like that, y'all. It's like that, y'all. It's like it's

1732
01:27:34,960 --> 01:27:35,280
Speaker 2: like that.

1733
01:27:35,720 --> 01:27:36,200
Speaker 1: Oh.

1734
01:27:38,640 --> 01:27:42,360
Speaker 2: You like this and you know it cushion and it's

1735
01:27:42,400 --> 01:27:46,320
Speaker 2: so explosive. Them chickens is ash and I'm lotion baby

1736
01:27:46,400 --> 01:27:55,519
Speaker 2: coming get it. Let me know. Period is ash and

1737
01:27:55,600 --> 01:27:59,680
Speaker 2: I'm lost ashy holds Babby, come and get it. Let

1738
01:27:59,680 --> 01:28:00,760
Speaker 2: me it and what y'all need.

1739
01:28:01,880 --> 01:28:08,160
Speaker 4: It's a special occasion. Me means a miscipation. Oh gods

1740
01:28:08,240 --> 01:28:11,120
Speaker 4: for celebration. I ain't gonna let know about the drama

1741
01:28:11,200 --> 01:28:12,880
Speaker 4: bout the mee.

1742
01:28:14,000 --> 01:28:14,360
Speaker 1: Mane.

1743
01:28:14,880 --> 01:28:16,640
Speaker 2: Wi's my not.

1744
01:28:19,520 --> 01:28:23,160
Speaker 10: No stress, live in it all.

1745
01:28:26,760 --> 01:28:27,559
Speaker 1: Nothing is.

1746
01:28:29,400 --> 01:28:29,880
Speaker 2: I hate her.

1747
01:28:31,240 --> 01:28:36,680
Speaker 1: I hate just making them all some live everybody us

1748
01:28:36,720 --> 01:28:37,559
Speaker 1: a living at all?

1749
01:28:38,520 --> 01:28:41,840
Speaker 2: Oh, I know I got one bro Okay, it's very hot.

1750
01:28:42,640 --> 01:28:47,240
Speaker 2: It's like that job. Ain't you just spit on me?

1751
01:28:47,479 --> 01:28:50,920
Speaker 2: Cause it's away. It's like that job, like that job.

1752
01:28:51,200 --> 01:28:53,639
Speaker 1: First of all, we don't talk about this enough. Mariah

1753
01:28:53,680 --> 01:28:55,800
Speaker 1: got bars Why did you spit on me?

1754
01:28:56,479 --> 01:28:58,760
Speaker 2: I do more than that, but we're not gonna talk

1755
01:28:58,800 --> 01:29:08,680
Speaker 2: about it. What have you done? Okay?

1756
01:29:09,439 --> 01:29:13,160
Speaker 1: Right before this episode about it, Mariah got Barres. That's

1757
01:29:13,160 --> 01:29:20,719
Speaker 1: why people think you a Macucci before. That's why because

1758
01:29:20,720 --> 01:29:22,519
Speaker 1: why would you say that? Bro?

1759
01:29:23,760 --> 01:29:25,960
Speaker 2: Can I finish my No?

1760
01:29:26,320 --> 01:29:29,040
Speaker 1: Let me say this, Mariah, carry got bars because everybody

1761
01:29:29,200 --> 01:29:31,040
Speaker 1: talks about how Eminem is the best rapper.

1762
01:29:31,439 --> 01:29:34,960
Speaker 2: But who ate him up in a battle? Mariah you, why.

1763
01:29:34,840 --> 01:29:36,599
Speaker 1: Are you so obsessf with me? She ate him up

1764
01:29:36,640 --> 01:29:39,719
Speaker 1: and left no crumbs? These chickens is asking on lotion

1765
01:29:39,880 --> 01:29:43,679
Speaker 1: as a bar. I never I don't remember her saying, because.

1766
01:29:47,680 --> 01:29:52,840
Speaker 2: It's given swaves. It's giving swave. Make you ask what's

1767
01:29:52,840 --> 01:29:53,479
Speaker 2: the good lotion?

1768
01:29:54,439 --> 01:29:56,320
Speaker 1: That's how I know you don't know, because why would

1769
01:29:56,320 --> 01:29:57,360
Speaker 1: you say because I used?

1770
01:29:57,360 --> 01:29:59,160
Speaker 2: Honestly, I use the oil that I get from my

1771
01:29:59,200 --> 01:30:05,240
Speaker 2: wax or so mm hm mm hmmm, have good lotion.

1772
01:30:05,560 --> 01:30:09,599
Speaker 1: And we're not talking about the singer.

1773
01:30:11,160 --> 01:30:16,280
Speaker 2: Thank y'all, Thank you Jesus, Thank y'all so much for

1774
01:30:16,320 --> 01:30:18,840
Speaker 2: tuning me in. We'll see y'all next week. Make sure

1775
01:30:18,920 --> 01:30:25,360
Speaker 2: y'all like and subscribe. It's the lady name with the

1776
01:30:25,400 --> 01:30:37,439
Speaker 2: snakes on her y'all. Mm hm, baby, come in that

1777
01:30:37,640 --> 01:30:39,280
Speaker 2: man's school school.

1778
01:30:39,280 --> 01:30:43,880
Speaker 1: Okay, let's go now, let's go now, Timberland, timplan whatever

1779
01:30:43,960 --> 01:30:46,280
Speaker 1: I say, y'all gotta do whatever I say.

1780
01:30:46,520 --> 01:30:49,519
Speaker 2: Y'all gotta do whatever I say. Y'all gotta do. Let's

1781
01:30:49,520 --> 01:31:00,439
Speaker 2: go now, Let's go now. Oh Lord, every time you

1782
01:31:00,720 --> 01:31:04,360
Speaker 2: too far us sir, girl, girl, you Mulda been that big.

1783
01:31:04,439 --> 01:31:08,120
Speaker 2: Breathe in here, breathe out, Breathe in here, breathe up

1784
01:31:09,040 --> 01:31:09,479
Speaker 2: now drop