WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: You Look Familiar

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up dated. Normally, when we hear about amazing

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<v Speaker 1>first dates on this show, it's this big, elaborate tale

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<v Speaker 1>that went to multiple locations and lasted across several days.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it costs tons of money because.

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<v Speaker 1>The two of them just, you know, couldn't bring themselves

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<v Speaker 1>to walk away from each other. But is it possible

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<v Speaker 1>to have a life changing first date that only lasts

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<v Speaker 1>thirty minutes?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean at first something for me, I can squeeze

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<v Speaker 1>one life changing date in in thirty seconds. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>not about me. It's about Connor, because he's on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone right now, and I just hope that we can

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<v Speaker 1>help him. Connor, what's good man?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, thanks for having me. I know the way you

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<v Speaker 3>set that up sound really extra.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, is that you sound pretty extra in dramatic for sure? Connor?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you not stand by Jeff's statement?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, look, I mean, if I'm on this show,

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<v Speaker 3>I have to be at least a little bit. Normally

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<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't do this, but I just met this girl,

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<v Speaker 3>and I've never caught feeling for somebody this twitch, and

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like if I don't do everything I can

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<v Speaker 3>to at least try to figure out why I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>hearing that from her, then I'm doing myself a disservice.

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<v Speaker 2>And grow.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah exactly. So tell us about this woman who just

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<v Speaker 1>changed your life. What's her name?

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<v Speaker 3>Her name is Renee?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, and how'd you meet.

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<v Speaker 3>Her the most romantic way possible? Online? Of course?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean did you know when you saw her online

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<v Speaker 4>that she was like I mean, you're describing her or

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<v Speaker 4>something incredible, right, yeah, Like I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't believe I love that first sight or anything like

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<v Speaker 3>less at first sight? For sure, this was something like

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<v Speaker 3>almost in between, if that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good place to live.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you love so much about her?

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<v Speaker 3>I saw her picture and you know, obviously I caught

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<v Speaker 3>my attention. She's gorgeous. But the thing I touk like

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<v Speaker 3>place my finger on, it's like she just reminded me

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<v Speaker 3>of someone like, I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, he's going to go with the celebrities.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, not a mom Okay, who was it?

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<v Speaker 3>Not even a celebrity. But I think the closest I

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<v Speaker 3>can think of it is like she kind of reminds

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<v Speaker 3>me of like this friend I had from college. So

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<v Speaker 3>it's like almost like just seeing her made me feel

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<v Speaker 3>sort of like connected to her.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, there was a comfort there already.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So I reached out and I was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>are you this person by chance? And she said no,

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, we got to talking and eventually we

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<v Speaker 3>started talking over the phone. And you know, like the

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<v Speaker 3>first phone call when you meet some longline, it's like

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<v Speaker 3>always awkward. You never know if you're don't have the

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<v Speaker 3>same kind of like chemistry you might have just texting

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<v Speaker 3>or whatever. But immediately felt comfortable talking to her and

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<v Speaker 3>the conversation was really good. So as a sign, I

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<v Speaker 3>asked her out and.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and where do we ask her out to?

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<v Speaker 3>I decided to take her to one of my favorite bakeries.

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<v Speaker 3>I figured it's like, you know, low pressure first date type.

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<v Speaker 1>Thing, brilliant ad, it smells good, everyone's happy in a bakery,

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<v Speaker 1>relatively low costs, like.

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<v Speaker 2>A first day without alcohol. I don't mean to be

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<v Speaker 2>for me.

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<v Speaker 4>I just get a and I need Like there's just

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<v Speaker 4>something about sitting down with a glass of wine or

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<v Speaker 4>something with someone that just kind of takes the edge off,

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<v Speaker 4>Like daytime bakery.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a little more focus or friend like, so tell

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<v Speaker 1>us about your friend, like boring sober.

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<v Speaker 2>Sober's bad.

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<v Speaker 1>It just for me, How was it for you?

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<v Speaker 3>I'll have you know that wine can't take the edge

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<v Speaker 3>off nearly as good as my favorite bakery's amazing maple bars.

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<v Speaker 3>So we have that going forehead.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I can get behind that. You're starting to sell me.

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<v Speaker 1>What was it like when you first saw her? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Was she everything that you were hoping?

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<v Speaker 3>She'd be, oh, yeah, well, I mean when you meet

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<v Speaker 3>a longline, like they show up looking half as you

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<v Speaker 3>as the picture, you can thider yourself lucky. She looked

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<v Speaker 3>even better, so it's like, oh, so I at least

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<v Speaker 3>I know she's also honest, which was really nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so first impression is good. How did the actual

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<v Speaker 1>conversation and the date go.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought it went really well. So before we even

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<v Speaker 3>like started to like sit down and talk, I was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>you have to try these maple bar kind of my move,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, show them I've got good taste, And also like, ooh,

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<v Speaker 3>isn't in a better move when you're having like something

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<v Speaker 3>that's like warm and sweet and doe?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she's like, well, I'm kind of diabetic, and you're like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to try.

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<v Speaker 2>Was she into it?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>She said it was delicious. We sat down, had a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit of coffee, you know, just like very first

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<v Speaker 3>conversation stuff. But it flowed very well.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like what did you guys talk about?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, you know, like favorite movies and books that type

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<v Speaker 3>of stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I gotta say, you know, Jeff set this up

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<v Speaker 4>as a woman that like changed your life in thirty minutes.

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<v Speaker 4>But so far, I mean it sounds like a good date.

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<v Speaker 4>But was there something like exceptional about it?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? So it's not exceptional enough to Brook. So far

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<v Speaker 1>what she said.

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<v Speaker 4>Sounds like it's like something like Brooke and I would

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<v Speaker 4>go do it just like a normal good first date.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know how rare a normal good.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's what it is.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I'm just asking like the exceptional part, like

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<v Speaker 4>what blew you out of the water.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, here's the thing. But the whole thing was maybe

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<v Speaker 3>forty minutes top. But like in that forty minutes I

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<v Speaker 3>thought we had like a good connection. And you know

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<v Speaker 3>what we started talking about like future ambitions, which is

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<v Speaker 3>something I don't talk about with someone until like the

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<v Speaker 3>fourth or fifth date. You know, Like I told her

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<v Speaker 3>how I eventually want to be like a master French chef.

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<v Speaker 3>That's kind of my dream that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing specializes in French maple bars.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm assuming I would date him for a while

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<v Speaker 2>just based on that alone.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, maybe give me a court on blue And.

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<v Speaker 3>She seemed really supportive, awesome and forty minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's not a very long date, but it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like I went, well, how did you end it?

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<v Speaker 3>Gave her a hugs, said I had a really great time.

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<v Speaker 3>I like to see her again. And maybe it ended

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<v Speaker 3>on an awkward note like I'm not sure that I

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<v Speaker 3>made a joke that I hope she didn't take the

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<v Speaker 3>wrong way like she was leaving and said, wait, you're

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<v Speaker 3>not gonna pay me for the bafel bar. You gotta

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<v Speaker 3>look at me for a second. I said, oh, it's joking.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, laugh but yeah, all right, So in your email,

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<v Speaker 1>you told us that you've been texting and calling her

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<v Speaker 1>but she's not answering anything.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know, I'm an adult. I know what that means.

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<v Speaker 3>But I don't know if it's like something I can

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<v Speaker 3>salvage or to at the very least learn to not

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<v Speaker 3>do on a future date.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, Well the good news is you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to salvage it. That's our job. Yeah, we'll play a song.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna call Renee for you and get you your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update right after date.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, yeah, figures wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>We do right after this hold on second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>We're in the middle of a second date update with Connor,

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<v Speaker 1>who says he doesn't really believe in love at first sight,

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<v Speaker 1>but something clearly does believe in is love at first bite.

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<v Speaker 1>Because he took Rene to bakery where they make the

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<v Speaker 1>most decadent, creamy, moist, mouth watering homemade maple bars. His

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<v Speaker 1>oral cavity has ever seen.

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<v Speaker 5>The world.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm about to make that sound. You just played the

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<v Speaker 2>whole thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I can't afford to listeners so good. The whole

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<v Speaker 1>thing only lasted about forty minutes, he says, but that

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<v Speaker 1>was all he needed to know that there's something special

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<v Speaker 1>happening with him and Renee. But Connor, is it possible

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<v Speaker 1>that the maple bar was so good it put Renee

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<v Speaker 1>into a week long food coma and she just needs

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<v Speaker 1>a little more time to come out of it and

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<v Speaker 1>finally respond to you.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, if that's the explanation, then I'll be happy

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<v Speaker 3>to know about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm the same. There's optimism over here.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, my thought is, I don't know if you

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<v Speaker 2>feel this, Connor.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that maybe just she found a couple other dudes

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<v Speaker 4>to date, you know, like she said, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean, thanks for putting such a positive spin on this

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<v Speaker 1>before we make the.

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<v Speaker 5>Sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>I think we could come back from that. I thought

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<v Speaker 2>that was a positive. Yeah, she probably has a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>Of options because she sounds like Unicorn and she just

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't realize how great you are.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's where we come in to really sell Connor.

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<v Speaker 1>What Brook means is you're one of ten and they

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<v Speaker 1>probably gave her booze.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, let's be honest you.

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<v Speaker 1>Before we do any more positive talk with Connor, let's

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<v Speaker 1>just move on and call Renee and actually get the

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<v Speaker 1>answer to are you ready to do this?

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<v Speaker 5>Man?

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm dialing your number right now. Hello, Hey, is this Renee?

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<v Speaker 1>This is she May is calling you May and I

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<v Speaker 1>will answer within five minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>Why don't you just answer her?

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to set it up. You're on the radio

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<v Speaker 1>right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>jeff It's if that wasn't super clear, and and I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Jeff I don't know anymore.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't sorry, I don't like. I don't know your show.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, comedy, we're quirky and weird. I'll just get to

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<v Speaker 1>it because we're doing something right now called the Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update, and we're looking to help one of our listeners, Connor,

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<v Speaker 1>get back in touch with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you heard our podcast or you last laughing?

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<v Speaker 5>Wait? Wait wait wait wait wait wait you talked to him?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Wait, he doesn't know.

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<v Speaker 6>He doesn't know what, don't know what.

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<v Speaker 5>I honestly like, I don't know what to say other

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<v Speaker 5>than he is the most crueless guy in the entire world,

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<v Speaker 5>like I love. I told all my friends about our date,

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<v Speaker 5>and they all told me that I should like post

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<v Speaker 5>it on TikTok because it's just so.

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<v Speaker 1>Your friends, Like, we're talking about a thirty minute coffee

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<v Speaker 1>date out of bakery. He didn't mention anything crazy when

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<v Speaker 1>we spoke to him. Is that the same, Connor?

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<v Speaker 5>It's the same, It's Connor. But maybe I'm gonna paint

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<v Speaker 5>you the picture because it's ridiculous. Three and a half

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<v Speaker 5>years ago, maybe even like four. Honestly, I was on

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<v Speaker 5>a different dating app where this guy hit me up

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<v Speaker 5>and he invited me to go to a bakery. At

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<v Speaker 5>the bakery, this person like insisted, I tried these moving

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<v Speaker 5>maple bars whatever, and we talked about like our favorite

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<v Speaker 5>movies and books. And guess who that person was. Guess

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<v Speaker 5>the name of that person?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh, don't tell me.

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<v Speaker 5>Connor.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait it's the same due.

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<v Speaker 5>So yes, I have been out with Connor, the same

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<v Speaker 5>Connor you're talking about, on the exact same bakery date

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<v Speaker 5>three and a half years ago.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait wait, wait, when did you realize it was the

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<v Speaker 4>same guy from three years prior?

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<v Speaker 5>Like when we matched? How do you not remember going

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<v Speaker 5>on a date with someone?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you go through with it? Then?

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<v Speaker 4>If you knew you had already been on a date

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<v Speaker 4>with this guy three years ago, why did you continue?

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<v Speaker 5>Because I genuinely thought it was a joke and that

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<v Speaker 5>when we got there he'd be like, we're not actually

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<v Speaker 5>going here again?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you thought he was setting you up to.

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<v Speaker 2>Be like okay, because you thought he remembered too.

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<v Speaker 5>I just went along with it.

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<v Speaker 1>It was the second time, at least better both dates.

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<v Speaker 5>It was the exact same conversation, Like, I already know

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<v Speaker 5>his favorite book, it's Laughter House five, It's a favorite movie,

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<v Speaker 5>Sean of the Dead.

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<v Speaker 2>You have a good memory.

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<v Speaker 5>I even know also about his five year plan to

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<v Speaker 5>become a master of French cook or whatever. But clearly

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<v Speaker 5>he hasn't made much progress because that was three and

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<v Speaker 5>a half years.

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<v Speaker 1>Ago, master, though he's got a year to half left.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh one more thing. The first time that we did

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<v Speaker 5>go on our date, he ghosted me the way I

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<v Speaker 5>was gonna say.

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<v Speaker 4>Three years ago he ghosted you, and this time he has.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, he's describing you as like this amazing woman

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<v Speaker 4>that he can't let get away.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and don't just take it from us. Connor is

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the other line listening and wants to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you himself. Isn't that right, Connor?

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<v Speaker 3>You're joking. This can't be real.

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<v Speaker 5>There's Connor, Connor, how many women have you taken to

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<v Speaker 5>that bakery over the years, like three hundred four hundred?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, oh my gosh, look it's not that many, but

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<v Speaker 3>it's my favorite first date spot.

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<v Speaker 5>I wait, but you even made the same joke, Like

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<v Speaker 5>you made the same like are you going to bring

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<v Speaker 5>me back for that maple board joke? You?

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<v Speaker 1>Connor? You don't remember her at all.

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<v Speaker 3>Look, I told you I knew she seven familiar. I

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<v Speaker 3>thought it was.

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<v Speaker 5>Means familiarity and like, actually, like our first date, we

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<v Speaker 5>spent time together.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>I hate to ask this, but are you sure it

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<v Speaker 3>was me?

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<v Speaker 2>Connor is.

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<v Speaker 5>One hundred percent positive?

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<v Speaker 1>Connor? Is that your favorite movie?

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<v Speaker 4>Bro?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, yeah, joke, it's not even a good joke.

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<v Speaker 4>This is when you start apologizing, buddy, Like she's mad

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<v Speaker 4>you ghosted her the first.

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<v Speaker 2>Time, and then you didn't even remember her the second time.

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<v Speaker 2>Like it's kind of insult to injury.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, look, I'm not trying to make it excuses

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<v Speaker 3>for myself, but three and a half years ago was

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<v Speaker 3>a long time. I've matured a lot since then, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure a lot of people have. I'm older, I'm wiser.

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<v Speaker 3>I apologize since very much. So, look I noticed you.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so sorry. I was clearly an idiot then, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>clearly an idiot now.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But the fact that he had the wherewithal to reach

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<v Speaker 1>out to a radio station to reach out to you

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<v Speaker 1>shows the personal growth that he's made in that time.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it was an honest mistake.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I know, I get that. I'm just I'm kind

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<v Speaker 5>of like over it, like at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, I'm I think you're being a little bit too

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<v Speaker 1>judgmental because you're hungry and what you need is another man,

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<v Speaker 1>I think, So I think you could get another mouth.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna see what a great guy Connor is. And

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<v Speaker 1>we'd like to put that maple bar in there and

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<v Speaker 1>send you on another date.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll just say, Renee, I am terrible remembering faces.

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<v Speaker 5>And yeah, but it was It's not even about that.

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<v Speaker 5>It was the exact same date. It was the exact

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<v Speaker 5>same conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. But it's like a movie that you love so

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<v Speaker 1>much you just want to watch it over.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. It's actually nothing like that, though.

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<v Speaker 1>And I still think you should give another shot, and

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<v Speaker 1>this time you can do a totally different place, a

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<v Speaker 1>whole new conversation. He'll ask about your favorite exercise activity, Connor.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, all right, there you go.

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<v Speaker 2>Not a really strong argument.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a yes from Connor. Renee, what do you say?

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<v Speaker 5>I wish you nothing but the best, Connor. But like

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<v Speaker 5>I'm I don't want to ghost you the way you

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<v Speaker 5>ghosted me. So I'm just going to tell you straight

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<v Speaker 5>up that I'm not interested.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, dude, I mean, hopefully three and a half years

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<v Speaker 3>from now, she'll forget about this. We can try again.

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<v Speaker 1>Set alarm, buddy, You'll be in here for you. It's

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<v Speaker 1>brooking Jeffrey in the morning.