1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,360 Speaker 1: Welcome to Had of Money. I'm Joel and I am Matt. 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:06,200 Speaker 1: Today we're talking how to make money without having any 3 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:07,360 Speaker 1: with Sierra Rodgers. 4 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:26,599 Speaker 2: Yeah. 5 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 3: So this is the episode for everyone out there who 6 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 3: doesn't want to work like a soul crushing nine to 7 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 3: five job, specifically where you're being told what you can 8 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:39,479 Speaker 3: and can't do by someone else. This is an episode 9 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 3: about entrepreneurship, about starting your own business, which I will 10 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 3: readily admit, like, even that phrase is potentially problematic because like, 11 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 3: what do some folks think of when they hear launching 12 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 3: a business. Well, maybe they're thinking of like a shark tank, right, 13 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 3: They're thinking of like the different rounds of funding, proposing 14 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:58,200 Speaker 3: a business plan, all that kind of stuff. And while 15 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 3: that is how some businesses, again, I think the vast 16 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 3: majority of small business owners they're not going to be 17 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 3: running a fortunate fufuner company, right, They didn't go to 18 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 3: business school. But they do have a great idea for 19 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 3: a new product, or they do have a way that 20 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:13,040 Speaker 3: they think they can serve folks who are willing to pay. 21 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:16,119 Speaker 3: And our guest today, Sierra Rodgers, is here to share 22 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 3: how she started her business Babes, which is a woman's 23 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 3: wear line, which she also recounts in her new book, 24 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 3: The Outsider Advantage. It comes out next week June eighteenth, 25 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 3: And Sierra, we're excited for you to share your story 26 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 3: with our listeners, and thank you for joining us today 27 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 3: on the podcast. 28 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 2: Thank you for having me me too. 29 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. No, we're glad to have you along Sierra for 30 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 1: today's episode. And the first question we got to ask 31 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 1: everybody who comes on is what's your craft beer equivalent? 32 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 1: Because Matt and I we spend potentially outrageous sums of 33 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 1: money on craft beer at times, but we're still saving 34 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 1: and investing for our future, so it's not like, you know, 35 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 1: it's not too much, right, what's that thing for you? 36 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 1: What do you like to splurge on. 37 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 2: I splurge on travel. I'm going to travel in the 38 00:01:56,560 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 2: best and biggest uber that I can, and I'm going 39 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 2: to fly first whenever I can. I just, I mean, 40 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 2: that's just where it makes it most sense to me. 41 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:08,800 Speaker 3: Okay, do you remember the first time that you flew 42 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 3: first class? Because I do, and it was only once, 43 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:14,519 Speaker 3: so I literally odally ever flow business class one time, 44 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 3: and man, I really did enjoy that cocktail, I will say, 45 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:20,800 Speaker 3: But other than that it's normally like Southwest cattle call. 46 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:22,920 Speaker 3: But what about you, what was your first your first 47 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:24,079 Speaker 3: first class experience. 48 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 2: Honestly, when I when I came out here, I started 49 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 2: dating this guy who who made money and he flew 50 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:32,920 Speaker 2: first class, so I was like, you know what, I 51 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 2: can do this too, Like I could afford this. So 52 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 2: I was really proving something to him and myself and 53 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:41,359 Speaker 2: I had the best time, and yeah, I've been addicted 54 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:41,840 Speaker 2: ever since. 55 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's funny. It makes me think that we used 56 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 1: to have this airline here based out of Atlanta called 57 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 1: air Tran, which I believe Southwest bought AirTran. But AirTran 58 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 1: was so great because they had a really inexpensive business 59 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 1: class and so you could feel like a baller, you 60 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:57,920 Speaker 1: could feel like a high roller, but you didn't have 61 00:02:57,919 --> 00:02:59,679 Speaker 1: to fork over much money to do. So when you 62 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 1: talking about some of those like trains, Atlantic flights first 63 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 1: class and stuff like that, sirih, I hope you're budgeting 64 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 1: for that, because those be expensive tickets. 65 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 2: I mean they are expensive. They sometimes they make zero 66 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 2: sense because it's like, Okay, this is probably not the 67 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 2: smartest I shouldn't do this all the time. But I 68 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 2: mean plan ahead. I mean it's what's important to you. Yeah. 69 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, if that's exactly, If that's what you're gonna splurge on, 70 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:19,920 Speaker 3: more power to you. 71 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, just make it make sense everywhere else. Don't splurge 72 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 2: on everything. 73 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 3: Yes, exactly. 74 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't splurge everywhere, and when your book you're 75 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 1: gonna end up broke. We know you're not splurged on everything. 76 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:29,639 Speaker 1: Like we know you've got prougal jeens in there. 77 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:30,519 Speaker 2: Oh yeah for sure. 78 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:32,920 Speaker 3: Okay, speaking of your books, Sarah, it starts off with 79 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 3: you sleeping on a friend's couch. You're you're out in La. 80 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 3: How did you end up end up there? What were 81 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 3: you feeling at that point in your life. 82 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 2: I had recently graduated from college. Things weren't going as expected. 83 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm just a terrible interview Lee, 84 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 2: but I just could not find a job in Houston, 85 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 2: not from Houston. I just kept getting nose left and right. 86 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 2: My sister had moved out to LA and I kind 87 00:03:57,240 --> 00:04:00,200 Speaker 2: of follow her out here and I found a house 88 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 2: to sleep on and that's how it started. 89 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 3: I mean, okay, so I want you to actually share 90 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 3: even more of your childhood because I know it involves. 91 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 3: It wasn't an ideal upbringing that you and your sister 92 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 3: and your your mom experienced. 93 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:16,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, we hopped around a lot. We lived in cars. 94 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 2: I was always trying to my mom was always trying 95 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 2: to find somewhere for us to stay, whether it be 96 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 2: with family or friends. Yeah, I didn't have a typical chata. 97 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:27,599 Speaker 2: I technically didn't have a room or a door to 98 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:30,720 Speaker 2: close until I got into high school. So it was 99 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 2: definitely a rocky upbringing for sure. 100 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 1: Yeah. 101 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:36,480 Speaker 2: Used to moving around and adapting and making things work. 102 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 1: So Sarah, my wife, is becoming a marriage and family therapist. 103 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 1: And one thing I know, and I don't know much 104 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:44,960 Speaker 1: based on what she's learned, but I I've absorbed a 105 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 1: little through osmosis, and I realized that like some of 106 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 1: those things that happened in childhood, of course influence who 107 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 1: become who we become, sometimes subconsciously, sometimes consciously, And that's 108 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 1: what therapy is often about. It's like bringing those things 109 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:59,280 Speaker 1: to the conscious surface. So tell me about that. For you, then, 110 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 1: at your childhood, some of those awful, difficult things you 111 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 1: went through, how did your childhood how did those events 112 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:07,239 Speaker 1: impact who you've become? 113 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:11,600 Speaker 2: I'm kind of able to survive anything like, I don't 114 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:14,760 Speaker 2: really I'm not really phased by a lot. I'm used 115 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:18,480 Speaker 2: to adapting and moving and making something work out of nothing. 116 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 2: There's obviously those bad triggers, like being an entrepreneur is 117 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 2: really rocky, So on those lower sales days or lower 118 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:29,719 Speaker 2: sales months, I am triggered to thinking, hey, like I'm 119 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 2: gonna be homeless again, or hey, maybe the jig is up. 120 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 2: But on the other hand, it's pushed me to be 121 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 2: a really hard worker. I'm one of the hardest working 122 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:41,279 Speaker 2: for people that I know, and I feel like I 123 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 2: could build this all over again if it didn't work. 124 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. There's something about I guess I 125 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 3: want to hear your thoughts. Do you think that someone 126 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 3: from you know, with your kind of background is more 127 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 3: willing to take risks given the fact that they don't 128 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:59,600 Speaker 3: have this perfect sort of storybook life or childhood to protect, 129 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:01,479 Speaker 3: Because it seems like a lot of times if you 130 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 3: have a whole lot to protect, you are less willing 131 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 3: to take risks because it's all about preservation as opposed 132 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 3: to kind of getting out there and trying something new 133 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 3: and seeing something that's going to be interesting. And something 134 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:12,800 Speaker 3: that's going to be successful. What are your thoughts on that. 135 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 2: I think so I think yes and no, because sometimes 136 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:20,279 Speaker 2: when I've seen it work different on both ends. I 137 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:23,599 Speaker 2: feel like sometimes when people are used to having a 138 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:26,359 Speaker 2: lot and used to things working out, they're more inclined 139 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 2: to take risks. And then on the other end, if 140 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 2: you've never had anything, and once you get hold of something, 141 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:36,839 Speaker 2: it's hard to like let that go. You're kind of 142 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:39,160 Speaker 2: grabbing a hold to it, and you can be a 143 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 2: little less risky. It really depends on the person and 144 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 2: the situation. 145 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, one of the things that's very very telling about 146 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:49,920 Speaker 1: your story in reading your new book, the Outsider Advantage. 147 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 1: You could have at so many different points along the way. 148 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 1: You could have focused on what you didn't have. You 149 00:06:57,360 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 1: could have adopted a victim mindset, and you could have 150 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 1: kind of said, hey, life's not fair. But you seem 151 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 1: to push through that and have a positive mentality and 152 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 1: approach to your life, to your business ventures along the way. 153 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 1: Why do you think it is that you were able 154 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 1: to avoid something that is so common for people who 155 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 1: do have a tumultuous childhood or come from, you know, 156 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: a socioeconomic background that lacks really any sort of stability 157 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 1: or security. How are you able to overcome that and 158 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 1: have a different approach. 159 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 2: That's a tough question to answer. It's just my instinct 160 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 2: is we don't have time for that. Like I don't 161 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 2: have time to wallow in my sorrow and say woe 162 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 2: is me? I have like bills and I have to 163 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 2: get off my friend's couch and I have to make 164 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 2: something of myself. I don't. You just don't have time. 165 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 2: That's just that's the easiest answer I can give you. 166 00:07:57,480 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 2: It's like when you're like a hustler and you're you, 167 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 2: you have a goal that you're trying to reach, like 168 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 2: being a victim, Like you don't really have time for that. Yes, 169 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 2: like things suck and it doesn't feel good when you're 170 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 2: in it, but if you want to get out of it, 171 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 2: like adding on top of your already sucky situation with 172 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 2: your sorrow isn't going to be helpful. And I'm all 173 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 2: about being helpful to myself. 174 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:21,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not like you're saying that's unproductive. It's time 175 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 1: not well spent. 176 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 2: It's not going to do anything. Literally, is like going 177 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 2: to waste your own time make you feel sucky it's 178 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 2: really not correct. 179 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 3: So tell us about you kind of starting out with 180 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 3: your business and how it is basically that you got 181 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 3: the ball rolling what made you go in that direction, 182 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 3: I guess, versus maybe you know, maybe trying to go 183 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 3: to take more of a traditional corporate sort of path 184 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 3: route as opposed to you saying, hey, I want to 185 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 3: be my own boss, I want to start my own thing, 186 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:50,080 Speaker 3: I want to call the shots. 187 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 2: I did try. I did try to go the typical route. 188 00:08:54,559 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 2: It wasn't for me. And I also, as I said, 189 00:08:57,679 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 2: I didn't have time to keep nelling that in and 190 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 2: it wasn't working. I had a problem, I find. I 191 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 2: mean everyone says this, but the best way to start 192 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:09,559 Speaker 2: a business is to find a problem that you can 193 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 2: solve and also match it with like an open market, 194 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 2: open space in the market. So I had a problem 195 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:19,800 Speaker 2: I wanted to fix, Like there weren't many curvy brands 196 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 2: that offered affordable basics for people like me, and I 197 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 2: had access and I knew how to do it, and 198 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 2: that was the first step. 199 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 1: So, okay, tell me more about the market, because it 200 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 1: seems like there are more players in that space now, 201 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 1: not that I'm an expert, but like. 202 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, but like, oh, Joe's like the opposite of 203 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 3: a curvy woman. 204 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 1: Right, I'm a stick like man. I look like a 205 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:47,559 Speaker 1: stick bug in version six or five zero proves to me, 206 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 1: so like, yeah, it was. 207 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 2: It was. 208 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 1: It just like a failing, a failing, a lack of 209 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:56,600 Speaker 1: foresight by a lot of the bigger retailers, the bigger 210 00:09:56,600 --> 00:09:59,520 Speaker 1: brands out there, the bigger clothing brands, that they just 211 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:02,120 Speaker 1: didn't really this was a market they could sell to, 212 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 1: because it certainly seems like it's a market that's exploded 213 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 1: in recent years. 214 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 2: I don't know if they didn't realize or they just 215 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:10,440 Speaker 2: didn't care like they're I mean, of course, I mean 216 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 2: if you look at the world, if you pay attention 217 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:15,080 Speaker 2: at the time, if you look at women, they don't 218 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 2: look like what they have like back in twenty twelve, 219 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:19,680 Speaker 2: what they were trying to make us feel like they 220 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:22,959 Speaker 2: look like. I don't know if it was just yeah, 221 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 2: I feel like they didn't care. I think they cared 222 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:28,080 Speaker 2: about the plus community, but there was a missing like 223 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 2: gap in the middle of like the average woman, and 224 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 2: no one was catering to that or cared to It's. 225 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:36,480 Speaker 1: Like, not everybody looked like Kate Moss or whatever that 226 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:39,160 Speaker 1: was like the it was in vogue aesthetic, I guess 227 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 1: back in the day, especially with the Victoria's Secret Angels 228 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 1: and stuff like that, and so yeah, but all of 229 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 1: those brands were kind of catering to a certain look 230 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:50,559 Speaker 1: and styling their closer, certain look and they were missing 231 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 1: out on a large percentage of people who look more regular. Yeah, right, 232 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:57,000 Speaker 1: I could say that way. 233 00:10:57,280 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's tough because it was our fault too, Like 234 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:04,000 Speaker 2: we liked looking at those Kate Moss and I mean 235 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:06,959 Speaker 2: I still like looking at k Moss, but we like, 236 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:08,960 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, we liked looking at that 237 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 2: image on in the media and we were accepting it. 238 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:16,560 Speaker 2: So it really, it really came to us it was 239 00:11:16,600 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 2: partially our fault. Like now it's a lot more you know, 240 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 2: embrace your body and embrace your natural and what you have. 241 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:25,720 Speaker 2: But back then that's not how it was. So it 242 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:27,880 Speaker 2: was it was their problem and it was our problem, 243 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 2: and we needed to fix it. 244 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 3: Okay, So you said that, you know, and it's often 245 00:11:32,880 --> 00:11:35,680 Speaker 3: quoted as the typical response of like how you start 246 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 3: a business by solving a problem, but it also, like 247 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 3: the way you write about it, it seems a bit 248 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:42,080 Speaker 3: more organic than that, because like you started selling first 249 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:45,720 Speaker 3: store clothes on Instagram. But it's like, at the same 250 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 3: time you were doing that, it seemed like that's how 251 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:49,600 Speaker 3: you were kind of identifying the need. Can you kind 252 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 3: of explain that entire process when you first got started. 253 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 2: It kind of just fell out of me. I mean, 254 00:11:56,080 --> 00:11:59,959 Speaker 2: that's kind of what the gist of the book is about. 255 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:04,080 Speaker 2: I kind of already have these skills, like all along, 256 00:12:04,880 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 2: skills that I wasn't like not embarrassed of, but we 257 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 2: thrift it my entire life, Like most of my clothes 258 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 2: were old like growing up, or you know, I had 259 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 2: a knock for it because I was forced to do it, 260 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 2: but I didn't. I had no idea that that was 261 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 2: going to be like something I would end up making 262 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:23,720 Speaker 2: money from. I kind of, you know, I had it 263 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 2: all along. And that's what I'm trying to say, is like, 264 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 2: if you're you kind of already have what you need 265 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 2: to succeed, you really just have to dig in to yourself. 266 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:34,840 Speaker 1: So is that just like an assessment of your skills? 267 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:37,720 Speaker 1: Is it sitting down and saying what skills do I 268 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 1: have that maybe I don't think of as marketable right now? 269 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 1: And wait, this, this, this, and this package together. Wait 270 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:46,680 Speaker 1: a second, I'm actually because you were like you weren't 271 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:49,320 Speaker 1: just selling Thirstorc clock. You were like you were tailoring them. 272 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 1: You were making adjustments to those clothes. You were spicing 273 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:54,080 Speaker 1: them up right, So you were doing something. You were 274 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 1: taking something that might have seemed ordinary. And let's be honest, 275 00:12:57,520 --> 00:13:00,680 Speaker 1: like it's funny. I have a good friend who had 276 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:02,640 Speaker 1: a similar well not a similar business, but he would 277 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 1: go buy Yes, it was similar. So what you would 278 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:07,560 Speaker 1: do was he would go buy thirst Star clothes and 279 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:09,360 Speaker 1: then he would just sell them straight up on eBay. 280 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:11,200 Speaker 1: But you were making changes, you were turning them into 281 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:14,079 Speaker 1: something boutique. But he made a living doing that with 282 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:16,680 Speaker 1: for his family for years. But you were doing something 283 00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:18,960 Speaker 1: like you were adding on and creating another layer to 284 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 1: make it even more inventive and unique. 285 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and I didn't. And I wasn't great at it. 286 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:25,000 Speaker 2: I'm not a great seller. I was doing what I like, 287 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 2: you want your backs up against the wall. You'll become 288 00:13:27,920 --> 00:13:32,440 Speaker 2: a basketball player if you have to, like like you're gonna. 289 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:35,800 Speaker 2: I had to teach myself to get better at that. 290 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:39,359 Speaker 2: But yeah, I just kind of used what I already. 291 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 3: Knew really, Like, I want to hear your thoughts on 292 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:45,360 Speaker 3: folks who might want to start a business but they 293 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 3: don't have a ton of money. That's kind of how 294 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 3: we were gonna latch in this episode, kind of like 295 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 3: with that in mind. Like there's a lot of folks 296 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 3: who think they can't actually do it because they don't 297 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 3: have a ton of money saved up. They don't have 298 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:56,840 Speaker 3: a massive nest egg to kind of launch the business. 299 00:13:57,559 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 3: What would you say to those folks. 300 00:13:59,040 --> 00:14:01,199 Speaker 2: There's a lot of free resources. I mean we all 301 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:05,000 Speaker 2: google everything all of the time, even like to start 302 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 2: a website. You don't need a lot of money. I 303 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:10,839 Speaker 2: don't know where everyone got this idea that you need 304 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 2: a lot of money to start a business, because you don't. 305 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:15,720 Speaker 2: I started on big Cartel. There was like five products 306 00:14:15,720 --> 00:14:17,760 Speaker 2: that I got for free, and then I thrifted clothes, 307 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 2: and then with each sell I would profit, and then 308 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 2: they'ft more clothes and then profit. That's how you build 309 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:27,400 Speaker 2: a business. You start, you make ten dollars, you turn 310 00:14:27,440 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 2: that into twenty dollars, then you turn that into fifty dollars, 311 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:32,720 Speaker 2: and so on and so on. You don't need much 312 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:36,000 Speaker 2: to start a business. The hardest part is starting. Like 313 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:37,920 Speaker 2: a lot of people have ideas and they use that 314 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 2: as an excuse to never start, But you really just 315 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 2: have to start and make that first sell and then 316 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 2: keep moving from there. 317 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:47,480 Speaker 1: You write in your book, and this is a quote, 318 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:51,560 Speaker 1: you say your business needed me, not money. How does 319 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 1: a lack of money maybe fuel your creativity and your 320 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 1: drive to start your business. It seems like sometimes money 321 00:14:57,640 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 1: can be like a compensation factor once starting a business. 322 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: It's like, oh, you don't have to be as creative. 323 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 1: You can try to follow the path that somebody else 324 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:06,480 Speaker 1: has where you don't have much, Like you've got to 325 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 1: be more resourceful. 326 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:09,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, you definitely to be more source. And I find 327 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 2: that people with money when they start businesses, they waste 328 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 2: a lot of it. Like I've seen a lot of 329 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:18,360 Speaker 2: people start brands spend so much money on the samples 330 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 2: and the photo shoots and the models and getting everything 331 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 2: started that you're not really paying attention to one. Is 332 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 2: this a good idea? Of Two? Is it making any money? 333 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:31,160 Speaker 2: Am I spending too much on this to make profit? 334 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:34,960 Speaker 2: It definitely can be a distraction. Now money is great, 335 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 2: Like it needed me and money. I just didn't have 336 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 2: the money so instead of focusing on what I didn't have, 337 00:15:39,880 --> 00:15:41,080 Speaker 2: I was forced to get creative. 338 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:43,880 Speaker 1: All right, So you said they were those brands were 339 00:15:43,880 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 1: often wasting it, and I think, when you don't have 340 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:49,720 Speaker 1: money and tell me if I'm wrong on this, the 341 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:53,200 Speaker 1: immediate customer feedback, like, you take that the heart a 342 00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 1: whole lot more because at first, maybe you're like with 343 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:58,280 Speaker 1: You've got some money in the bank and you're like, okay, cool, 344 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 1: let's test this out. I don't know if that worked well. 345 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:02,160 Speaker 1: We're going to keep trying to plot along our path. 346 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 1: You're more sensitive to the customer and what they want, 347 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 1: because like, hey, you got to start making. 348 00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:07,640 Speaker 3: Sales, right. 349 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 2: You're paying a lot more attention because you don't have 350 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 2: the time. You don't have the money to waste, and 351 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:15,040 Speaker 2: people who have money they have it to waste. Like 352 00:16:15,160 --> 00:16:17,160 Speaker 2: a lot of people dump a lot of money in ads. 353 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 2: They don't ever look at them because they're like, Okay, 354 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:21,800 Speaker 2: let me try like a thousand more. Maybe that didn't 355 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 2: work out. Yeah, you're definitely paying more intention you have 356 00:16:24,520 --> 00:16:27,680 Speaker 2: a more personal relationship with your customers. It's just a 357 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:30,480 Speaker 2: it would have been easier if I would have had money, 358 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:33,359 Speaker 2: but me not having money forced to move me creative. 359 00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:35,440 Speaker 3: And one of the other things you say in the 360 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 3: book that instead of money, if you have a whole 361 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:42,720 Speaker 3: lot of grit on hand, is that that can overcome 362 00:16:43,080 --> 00:16:45,240 Speaker 3: that lack of funding. But it seems like you've got 363 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:48,680 Speaker 3: you've got tenacity, you've got work ethic in spades, and 364 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:51,760 Speaker 3: it certainly showed even in tough times. What do you 365 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:55,080 Speaker 3: attribute that to? Or maybe I should ask who you 366 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 3: attribute that to? Given your history. 367 00:16:57,120 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 2: I saw my mom hustle my entire life, the different 368 00:17:00,000 --> 00:17:01,520 Speaker 2: between her and me, and she had two kids at 369 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:02,800 Speaker 2: the time, So I don't know how she did it. 370 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:06,360 Speaker 2: I just there's a lot of things that I think 371 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:09,280 Speaker 2: are my personality that I look back and I'm like, dang, 372 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:13,720 Speaker 2: that's from her. This isn't me at all, Like I'm 373 00:17:13,760 --> 00:17:16,920 Speaker 2: not just a natural hustler, because that's just how I am, 374 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 2: It's how I grew up. She always had to make 375 00:17:19,600 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 2: a way out of nothing, So yeah, it definitely came 376 00:17:21,640 --> 00:17:21,920 Speaker 2: from her. 377 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:22,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. 378 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:23,679 Speaker 1: At one point in the book, you write about like 379 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 1: finding helpful resources online to help you get that business 380 00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:31,720 Speaker 1: off the ground, things that existed for entrepreneurs that didn't have, 381 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:35,880 Speaker 1: you know, bookoos of funding. You know they didn't have 382 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:38,840 Speaker 1: investors trying to help them grow their business. What sort 383 00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:41,000 Speaker 1: of resources did you stumble upon? What helped the most? 384 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:46,160 Speaker 2: YouTube? Really, Okay, I taught myself. I mean I didn't 385 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:49,679 Speaker 2: teach myself. You tube taught me photoshop, you know, like 386 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:52,199 Speaker 2: how to set up an ad, how to set up 387 00:17:52,240 --> 00:17:56,280 Speaker 2: a store, how to sew. Literally like that was my 388 00:17:56,359 --> 00:17:57,400 Speaker 2: resource for everything. 389 00:17:57,800 --> 00:17:59,639 Speaker 3: That's awesome. It's been a minute since we've done an 390 00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:02,600 Speaker 3: episode like this, but we like to invest in real 391 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:03,919 Speaker 3: estate as well, and I feel like one of our 392 00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:06,639 Speaker 3: early early episodes we just talked about how there's so 393 00:18:06,760 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 3: much stuff that you can diy yourself. And we think that, 394 00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 3: especially if you're gonna be kind of a small time 395 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:15,640 Speaker 3: like MoMA Pop kind of landlord, that it really pays 396 00:18:15,760 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 3: to know how to do some of those things. And truly, 397 00:18:19,280 --> 00:18:21,120 Speaker 3: you watch two or three YouTube videos on how to 398 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:26,840 Speaker 3: do a decently difficult task to repair something's just like. 399 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:28,560 Speaker 2: All right, I feel like I've got it. 400 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 4: Time to change that toilet now that someone's just shared 401 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 4: with me, Like, I mean, I do it perfectly just 402 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:35,399 Speaker 4: like they did, but over time you get better at it, 403 00:18:35,960 --> 00:18:39,800 Speaker 4: and you're right like YouTube before YouTube, those resources like 404 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 4: it was harder to come by. 405 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:41,800 Speaker 1: You had to ask a friend, you had to hire 406 00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:43,919 Speaker 1: a professional. And now it's like someone showing you. 407 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:46,919 Speaker 3: There's somebody showing you exactly. Yeah, how it is it 408 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:49,240 Speaker 3: You can go about doing that. But we've actually we 409 00:18:49,280 --> 00:18:51,160 Speaker 3: got more to get to because one of the other 410 00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:52,840 Speaker 3: things you talk about that you need when it comes 411 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:55,560 Speaker 3: to starting a business is passion, and you've got a 412 00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 3: lot to say about that. We'll get to that more 413 00:18:57,880 --> 00:18:58,439 Speaker 3: right after this. 414 00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:08,639 Speaker 1: All right, we're back. We're still talking with Sierra Rogers. 415 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:11,320 Speaker 1: We're talking about making money starting a business essentially without 416 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:15,000 Speaker 1: having a lot of money to get the ball rolling, Siarah. 417 00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:17,320 Speaker 1: I want to specifically go back to the beginning of 418 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 1: your business. You mentioned in the book you talk about 419 00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:23,000 Speaker 1: how you know Instagram was your main platform for trying 420 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:26,600 Speaker 1: to find followers who are interested in what you had 421 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:31,440 Speaker 1: to sell, and you got a reply from the user 422 00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 1: name Jazzy Girl eighty two and you say that that 423 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:35,000 Speaker 1: changed your life. 424 00:19:35,080 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 2: How so, yeah, she's shown me that I actually had 425 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 2: a business, like I could. I think when you first 426 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:42,800 Speaker 2: get that first sell, you're like, oh wait, I'm onto 427 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:46,480 Speaker 2: something like and how can I replicate this? Over and over? 428 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:48,720 Speaker 1: Again, So what was it that she said in when 429 00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:49,360 Speaker 1: she reached out. 430 00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 2: I think she just wanted to buy it. 431 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:53,480 Speaker 1: How much can I get that? 432 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:56,359 Speaker 2: You know, because back then Instagram wasn't really like like 433 00:19:56,440 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 2: now you go on there and everyone's selling something, yes, 434 00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:00,919 Speaker 2: but back then it was it was just like, you know, 435 00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:03,760 Speaker 2: I'm posting my friends, I mean posting my pictures and 436 00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:05,880 Speaker 2: I'm gonna love off, you know, like a Facebook. 437 00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 1: It was more organic, didn't grassroots back then. 438 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh I missed. It was in the good old days. Yeah, 439 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:15,359 Speaker 2: so I didn't know, like I you know, there was Etsy. 440 00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:17,719 Speaker 2: I think I remember like I had it Etsy at 441 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:19,920 Speaker 2: the time. I had the big cartel, but I didn't 442 00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:22,679 Speaker 2: think like this was going to be the way that 443 00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:25,520 Speaker 2: I would build my client base for sure. 444 00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:29,200 Speaker 3: I alluded to passion before the break. I love how 445 00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:31,560 Speaker 3: you encourage folks to focus on like what it is 446 00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:33,440 Speaker 3: that they have, not what they don't have. We kind 447 00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:36,040 Speaker 3: of talked about that with your upbringing, and you know, 448 00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:38,359 Speaker 3: you seem to mean that from a material perspective, but 449 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:40,960 Speaker 3: also from a personal one, like how should folks think 450 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:44,879 Speaker 3: about exploring the relationship between what they're good at and 451 00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:47,119 Speaker 3: what it is that they're passionate about, especially when it 452 00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:49,120 Speaker 3: comes to business, because I think, yeah, there's a whole 453 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:50,680 Speaker 3: lot of folks out there talking about, oh, you need it, 454 00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:53,719 Speaker 3: you need to chase your passion. But maybe that's disconnected 455 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:56,160 Speaker 3: with reality. Maybe that's disconnected from the market. Maybe that's 456 00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:58,439 Speaker 3: disconnected from what it is they're actually good at. But 457 00:20:58,440 --> 00:21:00,639 Speaker 3: I would love for you to talk about even the 458 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:03,280 Speaker 3: process that you went through as you're trying to figure 459 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:04,919 Speaker 3: out what it is that you're going to pursue. 460 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:09,159 Speaker 2: With me, I'm a realist, I am if I'm like, 461 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:11,160 Speaker 2: there's a lot of people that are passionate about things 462 00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:13,320 Speaker 2: that they're not great at, you kind of want them 463 00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:15,919 Speaker 2: to meet. If you're trying to make money, unless you 464 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:17,600 Speaker 2: just make a whole ton of money and you want 465 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:19,120 Speaker 2: to do a bunch of things that you're passionate about, 466 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:23,159 Speaker 2: that's not where I was at at the time. I 467 00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:25,919 Speaker 2: got lucky. The thing that I was passionate about I 468 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:29,680 Speaker 2: was actually good at. I have a knack for sizing women. 469 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 2: I look at women's bodies all the time. I love 470 00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:35,480 Speaker 2: fashion and I'm really good at it. So that's where 471 00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:38,040 Speaker 2: that met. So for other people, I say, make a list, 472 00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:41,320 Speaker 2: what are you really good at Are you passionate about it? 473 00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 2: Sometimes you're not. Sometimes you're in a field where you're 474 00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:45,960 Speaker 2: actually good at something and you're not passionate about And 475 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:49,480 Speaker 2: that's okay, it's not like ideal, but I'd prefer that 476 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:52,760 Speaker 2: then you dive into something you're really passionate about and 477 00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:54,600 Speaker 2: you're not good at and you don't make any money. 478 00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's nice to be able to I don't know, 479 00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 1: pay the bills, sustain your lifestyle, make building wealth and 480 00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:04,399 Speaker 1: that helps, and that can cover a multitude of sins, 481 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:05,640 Speaker 1: including it you not being. 482 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:07,440 Speaker 3: Passionate about it. I mean, I think what I'm hearing 483 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:09,560 Speaker 3: you say, Siera, though, is that like if you start 484 00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:11,640 Speaker 3: doing the thing that you're good at, that maybe there's 485 00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:14,920 Speaker 3: a way for you to cultivate that passion for something right. 486 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:17,800 Speaker 3: And I think for so many folks that's kind of 487 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:19,119 Speaker 3: what it comes down to. It comes down to them 488 00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:20,960 Speaker 3: kind of connecting the dots and being like, wait a minute, 489 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:23,960 Speaker 3: this is something I'm really good at, and actually like 490 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:25,400 Speaker 3: they need to look at it through a different lens 491 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:28,320 Speaker 3: because maybe like I'm I'll speak to like my childhood 492 00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:30,800 Speaker 3: and like I was told to like you got to 493 00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:32,960 Speaker 3: be a doctor, like that's how you help people, Like 494 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:35,560 Speaker 3: like that's how you're able to change individuals' lives, and 495 00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 3: like literally you're saving people. 496 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:38,879 Speaker 1: But like and then five year old Matt was like, no, 497 00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:41,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna become a podcaster. That's not a real job. 498 00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:42,840 Speaker 1: It doesn't even exist yet. 499 00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:44,720 Speaker 3: But but yeah, talk to us about that, because I 500 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:46,640 Speaker 3: think a lot of folks might sort of fall back 501 00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:48,000 Speaker 3: on the crush and they're like, well, yeah, I'm good 502 00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:51,320 Speaker 3: at these things over here, but like nobody really cares 503 00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:53,360 Speaker 3: about that, or how is that actually going to lead 504 00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:56,200 Speaker 3: to a successful business. When I think that you could 505 00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:59,040 Speaker 3: encourage folks to be like no, no, no, no, lean into that. 506 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:01,639 Speaker 2: Honestly, if you're anything like me, if you're good at it, 507 00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:03,680 Speaker 2: I'm going to become passionate about it because I'm good 508 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:06,200 Speaker 2: at this and that feels good. Yeah, it feels good 509 00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:07,879 Speaker 2: to be good at something. It feels good to be 510 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:10,800 Speaker 2: like an expert at something. So I don't understand when 511 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 2: someone's really good at something and they're like, no, I 512 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:16,119 Speaker 2: don't want to do it. I want to do something else. 513 00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:20,520 Speaker 2: That's just not smart. I say, lean into it. It 514 00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:22,800 Speaker 2: should be good, Like you're you're really good at something 515 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,160 Speaker 2: that's awesome and that's amazing and you can make money 516 00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:27,919 Speaker 2: at it. Yeah, definitely lean into it. That would just 517 00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:28,680 Speaker 2: be the smartest thing. 518 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:30,400 Speaker 1: I think that's a good a good point. When you're 519 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 1: really confident in something, you can turn into greatness, and 520 00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 1: that greatness is in and of itself, can be fulfilling. 521 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,440 Speaker 1: You talk about in your book the power of saying 522 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:41,080 Speaker 1: what you want out loud, especially in front of others. 523 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 1: So not just even like saying it to yourself in 524 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:46,119 Speaker 1: a mirror, but saying this is what I'm gonna do, 525 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 1: this is what I want, this is where I'm heading. 526 00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:50,680 Speaker 1: What does What's why? 527 00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:51,320 Speaker 3: Is that powerful? 528 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:55,919 Speaker 2: It holds you accountable, It holds it. It's something about 529 00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:59,240 Speaker 2: saying it out loud and it makes you. It's a 530 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:02,959 Speaker 2: very vulnerable experience, especially for someone like me, because now 531 00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:05,840 Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, I have to do it. I mentioned 532 00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:09,440 Speaker 2: it to this person and now there's like someone else 533 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:12,520 Speaker 2: holding me accountable for it, and sometimes that's the push 534 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:12,920 Speaker 2: you need. 535 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:16,199 Speaker 1: It's Yeah, it's like publicizing, Hey, I'm if you're in 536 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:17,720 Speaker 1: your mind, you're like, I'm gonna try to run a 537 00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:19,840 Speaker 1: marathon next year. But if you tell five friends and 538 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,240 Speaker 1: you know, maybe post that on Facebook or something like that. 539 00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:23,840 Speaker 2: They're and be like, so what about that marathon that 540 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:24,960 Speaker 2: you said someone. 541 00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:29,000 Speaker 1: And you're gonna be like still on the couch. You 542 00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:30,720 Speaker 1: raped that thing up quick. 543 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:33,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, like don't keep everything inside, Like yeah, we all 544 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:36,040 Speaker 2: have our little like you know, like I want to 545 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:38,359 Speaker 2: write a movie, Like one day I'll write a movie, 546 00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 2: but saying it out loud and holding yeah, and I 547 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:44,119 Speaker 2: like the idea of like holding it up multiple people accountable, 548 00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 2: Like this is what I want to do. Because your 549 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:47,840 Speaker 2: friends will help you, your circle will help you, will 550 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:50,560 Speaker 2: help you hopefully. So yeah, things a good idea. 551 00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:53,040 Speaker 3: Uh, talk to us about your story specifically. I mean 552 00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:55,439 Speaker 3: you started out there on Instagram, but then I mean 553 00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:57,440 Speaker 3: you you still are all on Instagram and you've got 554 00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 3: like millions of followers. I'm on there, but you you 555 00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:03,240 Speaker 3: scaled beyond that. Can you kind of explain how that 556 00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:03,920 Speaker 3: all worked out? 557 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:07,600 Speaker 2: I got. I mean, with Instagram, you're of course getting exposure. 558 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:10,640 Speaker 2: That's where everyone's finding you. I mean, that's the great 559 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:13,480 Speaker 2: thing about the Internet. So I was lucky to have 560 00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:17,640 Speaker 2: Kim Kardashian and Lizzo and Beyonce make me feel seen. 561 00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 2: So I've been able to get exposure outside of it, 562 00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:23,320 Speaker 2: which is smart because the algorithm sucks these days, so 563 00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:27,440 Speaker 2: it'd be it's great to get exposure outside of social 564 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 2: media and Instagram, which I've been able to do. 565 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:32,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, so what does that look like then? Because 566 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:35,479 Speaker 1: you were doing some deep directed consumer on Instagram? Well, 567 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:38,800 Speaker 1: how do you sell products mostly these days and are 568 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:40,640 Speaker 1: using that mostly as just marketing now? 569 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:44,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's important to always stay active on there. I'm 570 00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:47,560 Speaker 2: I'm hosted through Shopify, though I'm not just selling on Instagram. 571 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:52,560 Speaker 2: That would be terrible, but yeah, it's important for exposure 572 00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:55,439 Speaker 2: and just all different types of not just Instagram, like 573 00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 2: I am not. I don't lean on any things specifically, 574 00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:00,600 Speaker 2: Like I was on LinkedIn the other day, like were 575 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:03,760 Speaker 2: how can I advertise on here so everybody can get it? 576 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 2: Everybody can get this these ads in this exposure. 577 00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:09,359 Speaker 3: Yeah. So okay, so you mentioned Kim Kardashian Ki you 578 00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 3: want to share that story. I'm sure you're happy that 579 00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:14,919 Speaker 3: it happened, but oh yeah, yeah, kind of walk us 580 00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:15,840 Speaker 3: through that entire story. 581 00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:18,720 Speaker 2: You know, I saw her in a dress that looked 582 00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:21,000 Speaker 2: like mine. See, I sell basics. If you go to 583 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:24,680 Speaker 2: my site, it's it's tough because my stuff is basics, 584 00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:28,200 Speaker 2: it's like just a plain white dress, so it's hard 585 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:31,040 Speaker 2: for me to tell if someone's wearing my stuff. So 586 00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 2: when I saw it, I was like, wait a minute, 587 00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,520 Speaker 2: either this lady took my dress or she's wearing my dress. 588 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:37,800 Speaker 3: It's like it kind of looks like mine, but I'm 589 00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:38,520 Speaker 3: not totally sure. 590 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:39,600 Speaker 2: Let me make sure. 591 00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:41,919 Speaker 1: So and I've heard this she influences a lot of 592 00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:43,479 Speaker 1: people that I don't know, Maybe she gets a lot 593 00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:44,959 Speaker 1: of follows, she might be kind of famous. 594 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:47,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, like maybe like this could probably be a big deal, 595 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:49,320 Speaker 2: So let me do my research first, and I did, 596 00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:54,080 Speaker 2: and she actually at that time, she just was purchasing herself, 597 00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:57,080 Speaker 2: like she she bought that dress and she wore it, 598 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,240 Speaker 2: and that just kind of took babes to a whole 599 00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:02,719 Speaker 2: different other level. At first, I was caught in denial, 600 00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:04,840 Speaker 2: because that's what happens if you've been through a lot 601 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:07,320 Speaker 2: of trauma and you feel like, you know, the jig 602 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:09,720 Speaker 2: is up, like no way, no way, that's my dress. 603 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:15,119 Speaker 2: But after it was yeah, definitely was an exciting moment. 604 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:18,199 Speaker 3: You said you're in denial, Like essentially, was that like 605 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,560 Speaker 3: self preservation? Like was that you basically not trying to 606 00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:21,240 Speaker 3: get your hopes up. 607 00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because I didn't want that was gonna be 608 00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:27,320 Speaker 2: too much like like is at some point, I'm like, 609 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:29,119 Speaker 2: let me just not get my hopes up, let me 610 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:31,679 Speaker 2: do all of my research, because there was like a 611 00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:34,439 Speaker 2: little nervous feeling because what if I announce that this 612 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:36,239 Speaker 2: is my dress and she comes out and she's like, 613 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:41,160 Speaker 2: it's not your dress, You're stupid, Like how embarrassing would 614 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 2: that be? So yeah, I did. I didn't want to 615 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,120 Speaker 2: get my hopes up. I definitely did all of my research. 616 00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:49,640 Speaker 2: And she confirmed that she bought it, and she bought 617 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:52,280 Speaker 2: a bunch of other things after that. So that's a 618 00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:52,960 Speaker 2: great moment. 619 00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:54,880 Speaker 1: I feel like that'd be the equivalent of like Warren 620 00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:58,280 Speaker 1: Buffett listening to our podcast. You know, if we found 621 00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:01,360 Speaker 1: that out, we would tout that listen to these two guys. Yeah, 622 00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:04,520 Speaker 1: I mean, he never will, that will never happen, but 623 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:07,200 Speaker 1: if it did, that would be great. One of the 624 00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:09,680 Speaker 1: And you've got all these gems in this book when 625 00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:12,360 Speaker 1: it comes to kind of how people should think about 626 00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:14,720 Speaker 1: getting a business off the ground. You're right about focusing 627 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:19,919 Speaker 1: on effectiveness not efficiency, and I think sometimes business owners 628 00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:22,639 Speaker 1: it's like, let me be as efficient as possible, and 629 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:26,400 Speaker 1: maybe we miss out on thinking about that all important 630 00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:30,680 Speaker 1: necessity of being effective in our mission. So yeah, help 631 00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,640 Speaker 1: me think through that dichotomy and how people should pursue 632 00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:35,920 Speaker 1: being effective when they launch a business. 633 00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:42,200 Speaker 2: People overthink the more I think that people over overthink 634 00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:44,280 Speaker 2: a lot of things when it comes to business. It's 635 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:47,640 Speaker 2: just really it's as simple as do you have a 636 00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:52,440 Speaker 2: product that other people want? And can you make a sell? 637 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,320 Speaker 2: There's like a lot of I don't know if this 638 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,000 Speaker 2: is answering your question, but this is just like my 639 00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:04,040 Speaker 2: just my initial response to what you're saying, is it working? 640 00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:06,800 Speaker 2: Can you? Like I always go back to Charck tank 641 00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:08,360 Speaker 2: w or Kevin is like, do you need to take 642 00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:09,640 Speaker 2: it to the back and shoot it? Like? Is it 643 00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:12,760 Speaker 2: a product that's going to sell? Or is it not? 644 00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:15,120 Speaker 2: Are we going to continue to like put a bunch 645 00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:17,720 Speaker 2: of time in it or can we alter or adapt 646 00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:20,200 Speaker 2: or sell this thing? Differently? I think there's a lot 647 00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:23,200 Speaker 2: of overthinking involved when it comes to business, and I 648 00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:24,360 Speaker 2: wish there was less of it. 649 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:27,120 Speaker 3: That kind of makes sense so too, because you know 650 00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:29,520 Speaker 3: a lot of folks who think that they can start 651 00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:31,920 Speaker 3: a successful business they're pretty smart folks, which means they're 652 00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:35,320 Speaker 3: probably pretty good at analyzing things, but maybe they're over analyzing. 653 00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:36,600 Speaker 1: How do you know if you have a seat of 654 00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:38,960 Speaker 1: a good idea by the way, Sierra, and you're like 655 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:42,000 Speaker 1: it just needs iteration to be effective, or or if 656 00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:43,760 Speaker 1: you do need to take it back to the back 657 00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:46,200 Speaker 1: and shoot it. If you're like this is just trash. 658 00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:48,320 Speaker 2: It's tough because a lot of people are selling products 659 00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:51,600 Speaker 2: on the internet right and sometimes you can be seen 660 00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:54,320 Speaker 2: or not seen, and sometimes that can affect your confidence. 661 00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:56,400 Speaker 2: It can make you feel like you're doing something wrong 662 00:29:56,640 --> 00:30:00,600 Speaker 2: and that is completely incorrect. And sometimes you're right. No 663 00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:03,000 Speaker 2: one wants it, and I think that you just have 664 00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:05,560 Speaker 2: to if you are a smart individual and you're asking 665 00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:08,520 Speaker 2: people besides the people that love you then that support 666 00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:10,960 Speaker 2: everything that you do, is this a good idea? Would 667 00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:13,120 Speaker 2: you buy it? Are you actually getting a sell I say, 668 00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:17,160 Speaker 2: within the first year, or is this just something that 669 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:20,720 Speaker 2: you're going to continue to you know, put a lot 670 00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 2: of money in, a lot of time in and it's 671 00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:25,720 Speaker 2: never gonna work. It's a tricky thing. I would never 672 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:28,640 Speaker 2: tell anybody to just like quit, but you definitely need 673 00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:31,800 Speaker 2: to be more aware and see if there's an actual 674 00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:33,080 Speaker 2: customer for what you're trying to do. 675 00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:35,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think there's a balance to strike there, because 676 00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:38,520 Speaker 3: if you know you've got good taste and something's maybe 677 00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:41,040 Speaker 3: not catching right away, you want to continue to fund it, 678 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:43,120 Speaker 3: right like, you're going to keep pumping money into it 679 00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:45,800 Speaker 3: even though it might be a struggling small business. But 680 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,040 Speaker 3: at a certain point you might have to throw in 681 00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:51,160 Speaker 3: the towel. How does someone try to figure out where 682 00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,280 Speaker 3: they are within that like on that time continuum. 683 00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:55,960 Speaker 2: If it were me and I was starting a whole 684 00:30:56,000 --> 00:31:00,360 Speaker 2: other business now that I wasn't completely sure about I, 685 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,600 Speaker 2: I try to sell it every way possible before I quit, 686 00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:06,000 Speaker 2: because I'm not a quitter. I'm like, you know what, 687 00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,280 Speaker 2: this is a good idea. Let me. I'm not going 688 00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:10,760 Speaker 2: to put loads of money into it if it's not working, 689 00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:13,400 Speaker 2: but I'm going to try my best to either. Also, 690 00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:15,320 Speaker 2: how I'm selling, how I'm presenting it to the world. 691 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:17,040 Speaker 2: Maybe they don't like it this price point, maybe they 692 00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:20,560 Speaker 2: don't like it with this color. I would try any 693 00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:22,920 Speaker 2: and everything before I'd given a chout. It's hard for 694 00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:24,280 Speaker 2: me to quit, and it's hard for me to tell 695 00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:27,080 Speaker 2: someone to quit. But you know, you know, deep down 696 00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:29,000 Speaker 2: if this is just good to you or good to 697 00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:32,160 Speaker 2: other people. So that's like we all know. 698 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:35,840 Speaker 1: Okay, so you are your CEO, you found out a business. 699 00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:41,120 Speaker 1: The one thing though, that's just inevitably true about humans 700 00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,640 Speaker 1: and success is that we need other people to help 701 00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 1: launch us to success, right, whether it is somebody wearing 702 00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:49,520 Speaker 1: your line, customer supporting you, you know, other people getting 703 00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:53,840 Speaker 1: the word out. We typically think of the phrase using 704 00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:56,040 Speaker 1: people as a bad thing, but you've got a whole 705 00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:58,800 Speaker 1: chapter on the benefits of using people, like kind of 706 00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:00,720 Speaker 1: like the way you talk about it, can you kind 707 00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:01,520 Speaker 1: of what you mean by that? 708 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:05,280 Speaker 2: Uh? At face value? I mean, yeah, using people sounds bad, 709 00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:08,320 Speaker 2: but it's it's necessary. I didn't really know how necessary 710 00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:11,440 Speaker 2: it was until the first time I got used. You know, 711 00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:13,440 Speaker 2: I'm in La It's like what can you do for me? 712 00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:15,680 Speaker 2: Type city? Like what do you do? And what do 713 00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:18,560 Speaker 2: you do? And it can come off in a bad 714 00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:20,680 Speaker 2: way to some people that don't live here, but I've 715 00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:23,160 Speaker 2: learned that that's just the way that you succeed. You 716 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:25,560 Speaker 2: have to use people to get ahead. They're a part 717 00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,880 Speaker 2: of your resources. So using people but not being an 718 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,360 Speaker 2: a whole about it like letting them know first of all, 719 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,560 Speaker 2: these are my intentions, Like let's trade, Like what can 720 00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:35,040 Speaker 2: you do for me? Well, I can do this for you. 721 00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:39,520 Speaker 2: So I think we just need to take the badness 722 00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:41,920 Speaker 2: out of that and make it work for us. 723 00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:44,400 Speaker 3: That sounds like bartering or yeah, or I mean it 724 00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,920 Speaker 3: sounds like it's like business. I mean like more of 725 00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:48,719 Speaker 3: like a is that more of taken like a business 726 00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:50,680 Speaker 3: mindset towards Yeah, if you don't. 727 00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:52,560 Speaker 2: Have yeah, if you don't have resources, but you have 728 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 2: friends or people around you, those are your resources, You're 729 00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:58,200 Speaker 2: I mean, it's not it's just about not being a 730 00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:02,400 Speaker 2: whole about it and making it mutually beneficial. 731 00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:06,200 Speaker 1: Sounds just resourceful too, right, because if I like this 732 00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:08,400 Speaker 1: and you've got that, like, hey, let's make a trade. 733 00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:11,200 Speaker 1: And that's how before the invention of money, that's how 734 00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:13,200 Speaker 1: the world used to work. Like you've got a cow, 735 00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:16,920 Speaker 1: I've got four pigs. Yeah literally, yeah, I'd love some bacon. 736 00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:18,960 Speaker 2: Like that's like I love that. 737 00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:21,120 Speaker 1: That's just how things function, and so let's do that 738 00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:23,880 Speaker 1: in business. You've got this skill and that's another great 739 00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:27,080 Speaker 1: way with very little money to help get your thing 740 00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:30,600 Speaker 1: off the you know, the drawing room floor to say, oh, listen, hey, 741 00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:32,320 Speaker 1: you've you're great at social media. I'm great at this. 742 00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:34,480 Speaker 1: What if we like swap talents for a second. I 743 00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 1: help you build your business and you help me build mine, 744 00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:39,080 Speaker 1: and then and you just never know that network can 745 00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:41,000 Speaker 1: be so invaluable and could kick in at a later 746 00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:41,600 Speaker 1: date as well. 747 00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:44,040 Speaker 2: People are really willing to like other people that are 748 00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:46,520 Speaker 2: struggling if you just talk to them, like, hey, if 749 00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:48,600 Speaker 2: you're just open about it, because I've been I've been 750 00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:50,880 Speaker 2: used in a way that the person wasn't open and 751 00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:52,479 Speaker 2: I'm like, wait a minute, I didn't get anything out 752 00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:55,000 Speaker 2: of this. That doesn't feel good. But if you talk 753 00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 2: to someone and say hey, like I'm struggling, like I 754 00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:58,920 Speaker 2: see that you have a following. I don't have a following, 755 00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:00,880 Speaker 2: but this is what I can do to help you. 756 00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:03,080 Speaker 2: Or you know, I could teach you graphic design, or 757 00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:05,920 Speaker 2: I feel like you could have better photoshopping skills and 758 00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:08,160 Speaker 2: I have those skills. So it's just about being upfront. 759 00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:11,239 Speaker 1: It's like just another way to provide value, but to 760 00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:13,719 Speaker 1: gain some value at the same time. Or we've got 761 00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:16,000 Speaker 1: a few more questions we want to get to with you, Sira, 762 00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:18,760 Speaker 1: and in particularly You've got like an interesting thought process 763 00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,920 Speaker 1: on documenting your failures. We'll talk about that and more 764 00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:22,640 Speaker 1: right after this. 765 00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:33,120 Speaker 3: We are back from the break and again we're talking 766 00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:37,880 Speaker 3: with founder and CEO of Babes, Sierra Rogers, and Sirah. 767 00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:40,320 Speaker 3: Like I'm thinking back to earlier on you're talking about 768 00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:42,440 Speaker 3: how like you know what I'm gonna fly for his class, 769 00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:44,919 Speaker 3: But you can't spend in all the different areas of life. 770 00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:46,760 Speaker 3: You got to you kind of have to be smart 771 00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:49,120 Speaker 3: with your money. You say that you're addicted to getting 772 00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:51,520 Speaker 3: things for free. This is the point from your book. 773 00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:53,960 Speaker 3: You say that spending money is like rubbing sandpaper on 774 00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:58,320 Speaker 3: your skin. And so I guess I'm curious if running 775 00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:02,040 Speaker 3: a successful business is made spending money a little bit easier, 776 00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:03,480 Speaker 3: Like do you are you able to kind of see 777 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:06,799 Speaker 3: it through more of that you know, business sort of 778 00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:08,560 Speaker 3: lens where you're like, okay, this is going to allow 779 00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:11,040 Speaker 3: me to experience this. Do you look at it more methodically? 780 00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:13,440 Speaker 3: Do you look at it more just as numbers? Or 781 00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:15,560 Speaker 3: do you still feel kind of the Is it still 782 00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:16,680 Speaker 3: painful for you to spend some money? 783 00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:19,360 Speaker 2: Sometimes it's painful. I don't I don't love it, so 784 00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:24,080 Speaker 2: it has to make sense. Even my my assistant, she's like, yeah, 785 00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:26,400 Speaker 2: you have to, like we have to like get better 786 00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:29,920 Speaker 2: this or like better ink, And I'm like, yeah, but 787 00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:34,680 Speaker 2: like but this ink is working. Uh, it just has 788 00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:36,640 Speaker 2: to make sense. I pay a lot of attention to it. 789 00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:38,080 Speaker 2: I pay a lot of attention to my money and 790 00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:40,160 Speaker 2: what goes in and out. That's just like how I'm 791 00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:43,440 Speaker 2: built because I didn't have money for so long, so 792 00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:46,400 Speaker 2: it's still a very uncomfortable thing in order for me 793 00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:48,880 Speaker 2: to spend money. It just has to make sense. 794 00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:51,320 Speaker 1: That's as an individual and as a business. Are you 795 00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:54,960 Speaker 1: paying attention to like the incoming and outgoing all the time. 796 00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:57,400 Speaker 1: Do you feel like maybe you're too focused on that 797 00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:59,280 Speaker 1: or do you feel like it's a it's a healthy balance. 798 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:01,840 Speaker 2: I think it's a healthy balance. My sister would disagree 799 00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:06,640 Speaker 2: with you. She's like, Cere, you made it stop being cheap, 800 00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:09,839 Speaker 2: And I'm like, yeah, but we don't have to, you know, 801 00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:12,440 Speaker 2: Like I'm always like what can I get? What can 802 00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:15,320 Speaker 2: I get a discut on? Like where's where are the coupons? 803 00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:19,000 Speaker 2: I love the coupons. Where are the deals? So it's 804 00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:20,400 Speaker 2: hard for me to pay, like when it comes to 805 00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:23,200 Speaker 2: full price, it has to be freaking worth it. For me, 806 00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:26,080 Speaker 2: I'm always going to try to look for either a 807 00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:28,760 Speaker 2: way to save money or it needs to make complete sense. 808 00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:32,080 Speaker 1: Well, I like that even after you've made it, you're 809 00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:33,879 Speaker 1: still a woman after our own heart. You're still trying 810 00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:36,640 Speaker 1: to send money wherever you can. One of the things 811 00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:39,080 Speaker 1: you mentioned or you recommend folks in the book is 812 00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:41,720 Speaker 1: to write down a list of their failures, which sounds 813 00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:45,200 Speaker 1: really masochistic, like it sounds like something I don't want 814 00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:47,560 Speaker 1: to do, not really interested in, but you told me 815 00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:49,960 Speaker 1: to do it, so maybe I have to Why Why 816 00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:52,839 Speaker 1: is that a helpful exercise for people, especially people who 817 00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:54,000 Speaker 1: want to build a business. 818 00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:56,399 Speaker 2: I think because you're gonna I don't want to say 819 00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:59,719 Speaker 2: you're gonna fall at some point. Entrepreneurship is tricky, you know, 820 00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,000 Speaker 2: life tricky. There's going to be a lot of ups 821 00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:04,439 Speaker 2: and downs. But we need to we need to find 822 00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:06,799 Speaker 2: things to learn from and that's what that is. Those 823 00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:08,719 Speaker 2: are cheekos like that's like what I'm not going to 824 00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:11,719 Speaker 2: do again, and it's a reminder all the time, and 825 00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:14,279 Speaker 2: I'm never going to go that route because that didn't work. 826 00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,960 Speaker 2: And I think that's important not to ignore them. But 827 00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:19,600 Speaker 2: to see like why did I do that? And if 828 00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:21,839 Speaker 2: I did, how can I avoid doing it again. 829 00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:24,400 Speaker 3: I think there are a lot of folks might be listening, 830 00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:27,480 Speaker 3: and they're hopefully they're they've been inspired by our conversation 831 00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,200 Speaker 3: with you, Sierra, and maybe they're thinking like, Okay, I 832 00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:32,399 Speaker 3: know I want to start something, not really sure what, 833 00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:34,040 Speaker 3: but they know they just know that they don't want 834 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,839 Speaker 3: to keep doing what they're doing now. And you one 835 00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:38,080 Speaker 3: of the things you've seen in your book is that 836 00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:40,080 Speaker 3: you don't need much to build success if you have 837 00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:44,640 Speaker 3: imagination and determination. We've talked a lot about determination. You're 838 00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:47,319 Speaker 3: a realist. You're talking about the different goals, financial goals 839 00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:49,399 Speaker 3: that you had. You know, it's different points in time. 840 00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:50,879 Speaker 3: You're kind of backed up against the wall. But let's 841 00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:53,759 Speaker 3: talk about imagination because I feel like for a lot 842 00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:56,000 Speaker 3: of folks that feels like something that they may be 843 00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:59,920 Speaker 3: exhausted in childhood. They don't have that maybe that creative 844 00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,840 Speaker 3: spark or maybe it's all but snuffed out. Do you 845 00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:05,680 Speaker 3: have any tips for folks to kind of tap into 846 00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:08,880 Speaker 3: that creative side as fully grown adults. 847 00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:12,719 Speaker 2: I think you have your unique point of view in 848 00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:14,760 Speaker 2: the world, like I wish I could talk to everyone 849 00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:16,719 Speaker 2: and get all the business ideas because I know they're 850 00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:19,239 Speaker 2: in you. I think about like, dang, I should have 851 00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:21,160 Speaker 2: came up with Uber, I should have come up with 852 00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:24,640 Speaker 2: like postmates. You know, these ideas were simple in the beginning, 853 00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:27,719 Speaker 2: like oh, like we just need transportation, like easier transportation, 854 00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:29,359 Speaker 2: or we need a way to get our food, Like 855 00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:31,440 Speaker 2: you really have it in you, if you have a 856 00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:33,719 Speaker 2: unique point of view in the world, you really just 857 00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:37,200 Speaker 2: have to dig in there and grab it out. Make 858 00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:39,040 Speaker 2: sure there's an open space in the market, make sure 859 00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:41,799 Speaker 2: it's something that you can sell, and boom, you have 860 00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:43,839 Speaker 2: a business. Please tell me about it because I want 861 00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:44,560 Speaker 2: to help you do it. 862 00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:45,440 Speaker 3: Yeah. 863 00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:48,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, Are you actively kind of coming up with ideas 864 00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:49,880 Speaker 1: for new businesses? Are you writing things down or are you 865 00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:51,879 Speaker 1: bouncing ideas off other people? Like what does that look 866 00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:54,239 Speaker 1: like for you? And if someone's out there like trying 867 00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:56,320 Speaker 1: to figure out, oh what is that? What is that spark? 868 00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:58,800 Speaker 1: What is that seed of an idea that might make sense? 869 00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:01,680 Speaker 1: Is there any like trick to unearthing it from your brain? 870 00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:04,160 Speaker 2: Problems like Hey, I don't like this, I don't like 871 00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:05,680 Speaker 2: how this is going, and there needs to be a 872 00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:07,640 Speaker 2: better way of doing it. Yeah, and which we run 873 00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:10,959 Speaker 2: into all the time, and people just we don't have 874 00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:13,200 Speaker 2: that extra step of like me being the one that 875 00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:15,800 Speaker 2: fixes it instead of saying I wish this were fixed. 876 00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:17,480 Speaker 2: That's really what it is. 877 00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:19,080 Speaker 1: So you want somebody else out there to do it. 878 00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:20,719 Speaker 1: But if you see the problem, you can be the 879 00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:22,399 Speaker 1: person to help fix that problem and make some money 880 00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:22,919 Speaker 1: at the same time. 881 00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:24,839 Speaker 2: Right, And it can look crappy at first, as long 882 00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:27,080 Speaker 2: as you come up with the idea like be first, 883 00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:30,480 Speaker 2: don't tell too many people about it because somebody may 884 00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:35,000 Speaker 2: still try to patent it the best that you can. 885 00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:37,880 Speaker 2: But yeah, you can be the fixer. That's really what 886 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,000 Speaker 2: it's all about, is you taking a step and fixing 887 00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:40,919 Speaker 2: the problems that you see. 888 00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:44,759 Speaker 1: Last thing, you tell people to ask themselves, what are 889 00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:47,719 Speaker 1: you passively convincing yourself you're not capable of? And I 890 00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:49,560 Speaker 1: think that is like one of the most interesting lines 891 00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:51,000 Speaker 1: because I think you're right. I think it is. It's 892 00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:53,880 Speaker 1: not even this active thing like where we're telling ourselves 893 00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:56,160 Speaker 1: that we can't do it, or we don't have any 894 00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:58,239 Speaker 1: good ideas, or we can't build a business, and so 895 00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:00,600 Speaker 1: we never even get up off the mat to start 896 00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:03,040 Speaker 1: to think about what we could do, what we could build. 897 00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:06,640 Speaker 1: How do we overcome that? Like what how can we 898 00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:08,960 Speaker 1: stop being our own worst enemy in kind of this 899 00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:12,319 Speaker 1: uh everyday way that we do it where we just 900 00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:15,040 Speaker 1: fail to even go there practice. 901 00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:16,920 Speaker 2: I still struggle with it. I don't know if it 902 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:20,480 Speaker 2: ever really goes away. It hasn't gone away like completely 903 00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:25,480 Speaker 2: for me, but constantly reminding myself that you you can 904 00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:28,799 Speaker 2: be your worst your own worst enemy and adding that 905 00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:32,400 Speaker 2: on top of life already being hard doesn't make sense. 906 00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:35,839 Speaker 2: You know yourself, You know that you know what you're 907 00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:39,440 Speaker 2: doing to, like if it's fear based, if you're just insecure, 908 00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:43,680 Speaker 2: or you feel like, uh, you're watching a lot of 909 00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:46,280 Speaker 2: other people, you're comparing yourself to, like whatever the situation 910 00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:50,440 Speaker 2: may be. Yeah, it definitely can become a passive thing 911 00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:52,399 Speaker 2: and you're doing it to yourself. Once you realize you're 912 00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:54,560 Speaker 2: doing it to yourself, then just change it because you're 913 00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:55,480 Speaker 2: you're the one doing it. 914 00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think And what you said there too about 915 00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:01,399 Speaker 3: practicing it makes me think back to when you first 916 00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,239 Speaker 3: started and you made your first twenty dollars and so 917 00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:05,000 Speaker 3: then you were able to kind of reinvest that, like 918 00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:07,080 Speaker 3: it builds on itself. It makes me think about how 919 00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:09,320 Speaker 3: we talk about investing and how it's like a snowball. 920 00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:12,279 Speaker 3: It just it compounds, it builds, and so does your 921 00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:14,360 Speaker 3: experience as well as you. As you have some of 922 00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:17,000 Speaker 3: these wins, you can add to those wins and continue 923 00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:18,920 Speaker 3: to grow it. But Sierra, this is it's been a 924 00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:22,080 Speaker 3: fun cond of working folks. Learn more about the outsider 925 00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:24,240 Speaker 3: advantage and learn more about you and your brains. 926 00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:27,279 Speaker 2: Oh, you can go to Sierra Rodgers dot com and 927 00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:28,040 Speaker 2: everything's there. 928 00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:28,600 Speaker 3: Awesome. 929 00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:30,520 Speaker 1: Great, we'll link to that in the show notes as well. Sierra, 930 00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:32,600 Speaker 1: thank you so much for joining us today on the show. 931 00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:33,880 Speaker 2: Thank you so much for having me. 932 00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:36,040 Speaker 3: All Right, well, Joe, I think this is the first 933 00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,880 Speaker 3: time we've ever had a fashion designer on the show, 934 00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:42,400 Speaker 3: someone who you considers themselves themselves a stylist. Do you 935 00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:43,960 Speaker 3: consider your style yourself a stylist? 936 00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:46,360 Speaker 1: Joe, I'm well styled that I'll. 937 00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:48,800 Speaker 3: Go that far. Yeah, this is a great conversation with we, 938 00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:52,520 Speaker 3: Sierra Rogers, as we talked about entrepreneurship basically, but uh, yeah, 939 00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:54,880 Speaker 3: what was Do you have a big takeaway from our conversation. 940 00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:57,120 Speaker 1: I feel like there's a lot of kind of avenues 941 00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:59,960 Speaker 1: we could explore here. There's just a lot of little 942 00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:02,960 Speaker 1: things that just are really big things ultimately, but the 943 00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:04,680 Speaker 1: way she talks about them sometimes it feels like so 944 00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:07,360 Speaker 1: down to earth and approachable. I think one of the 945 00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:09,600 Speaker 1: things she said, and I think it's true, like lots 946 00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:12,279 Speaker 1: of times we over complicate starting a business. I like 947 00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:13,640 Speaker 1: how she talked about being able to do it with 948 00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:16,000 Speaker 1: a little money and how that breaths creativity. But one 949 00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:18,600 Speaker 1: of the things she said was she said, people overthink this, 950 00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:22,160 Speaker 1: like do you have a product that people want? And 951 00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:24,520 Speaker 1: I think that is ultimately the heart of starting a business. 952 00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:27,279 Speaker 1: Is the thing you plan on creating. Is it something 953 00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:28,919 Speaker 1: other people like? Is it going to fix the problem 954 00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:31,839 Speaker 1: they have? Is it going to be something that people 955 00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:34,560 Speaker 1: want to pay money for, will line up for, want 956 00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:38,000 Speaker 1: to gladly joyfully hand over their time or their money 957 00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:41,439 Speaker 1: or whatever to partake in. Makes you think about when 958 00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:44,000 Speaker 1: we started talking about launching this podcast, or like, oh, 959 00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:46,200 Speaker 1: there's a lot of money podcasts, and there's a lot 960 00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:48,359 Speaker 1: of podcasts, and guess what, there's more podcasts than ever 961 00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:52,680 Speaker 1: out there. Hopefully what we're creating is different and it's 962 00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:54,759 Speaker 1: providing enough value. I mean, I think it is for 963 00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:57,840 Speaker 1: our listeners, so they want to stick around and partake. 964 00:42:58,160 --> 00:43:00,640 Speaker 1: And I think that is at the crux of what 965 00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:04,839 Speaker 1: makes any business successful is making sure you know your 966 00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:07,160 Speaker 1: customer and you're giving them what is good for them, 967 00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:07,960 Speaker 1: what they're what they're. 968 00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:10,600 Speaker 3: Interested in, Yeah, and going with what works, like is 969 00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:13,399 Speaker 3: this a good product and at the end of the day, 970 00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:16,120 Speaker 3: like that ultimately decides whether or not folks are willing 971 00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:16,600 Speaker 3: to pay for it. 972 00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:19,040 Speaker 1: Also doesn't have to be complex. She was selling thristore 973 00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:21,160 Speaker 1: clothes there were jazzed uff a little and turned it 974 00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:23,000 Speaker 1: into a fairly big business. 975 00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:25,319 Speaker 3: So yeah, the other part of her story that was 976 00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:27,200 Speaker 3: compelling to me was the fact that she was just 977 00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:28,920 Speaker 3: a realist. She even said that at one point, she's like, 978 00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:32,279 Speaker 3: I'm a realist. It was necessary for me to make 979 00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:34,719 Speaker 3: this thing work because I had different financial goals that 980 00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:37,279 Speaker 3: I wanted to achieve. And even it comes to like 981 00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:39,400 Speaker 3: her spending money, whether it's in her personal life or 982 00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:42,000 Speaker 3: on the business, she said that it's got to make sense. 983 00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:44,600 Speaker 3: And so I just like that practical approach to how 984 00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:46,919 Speaker 3: it is that she sees life, because like for someone 985 00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:49,040 Speaker 3: that doesn't know her or they're you know, as you're 986 00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:51,160 Speaker 3: looking at someone from Afar, you were thinking, Oh, my gosh, 987 00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:53,239 Speaker 3: they have it all figured out, or oh, there's such 988 00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:55,759 Speaker 3: a dreamer. Whoever thought that you could be someone that 989 00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:58,600 Speaker 3: creates a line of women's clothing like that? But at 990 00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:00,200 Speaker 3: the end of the day, she's just like you said. 991 00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:02,160 Speaker 3: It kind of dovetails with what you said, but she's 992 00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:04,920 Speaker 3: just making something that's good and she's trying to pay 993 00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:07,480 Speaker 3: the bills. And I don't know, there's a simplicity to 994 00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:10,480 Speaker 3: starting your own business, and oftentimes it kind of comes 995 00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:12,440 Speaker 3: down to the practical, like am I able to pay 996 00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:14,120 Speaker 3: the bills? Am I able to pay rent? Can I 997 00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:17,880 Speaker 3: support my family by creating by embarking on this endeavor? 998 00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:18,799 Speaker 3: That sort of thing. 999 00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:21,880 Speaker 1: I think the other thing, too, is when you aren't 1000 00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:25,640 Speaker 1: having to allocate a ton of financial resources to the 1001 00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:28,520 Speaker 1: business that you're trying to launch, the stakes are low, right, 1002 00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:30,839 Speaker 1: And so she talks about documenting your failures, but hey, 1003 00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:34,080 Speaker 1: guess what, You might fail, but you fail small, and 1004 00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:35,560 Speaker 1: so you fail in a way that it's not going 1005 00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:36,879 Speaker 1: to break the bank and it's not going to ruin 1006 00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:39,360 Speaker 1: your family. It could be something that you launch on 1007 00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:41,560 Speaker 1: the side while you're doing something else, And I think 1008 00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:43,320 Speaker 1: that's part of the brilliant too, of kind of starting 1009 00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:46,319 Speaker 1: a small business and doing it while you've got your 1010 00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:47,400 Speaker 1: main gig still intact. 1011 00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:48,279 Speaker 3: That's the way to do it, man. 1012 00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:49,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a great way to try to. 1013 00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:51,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's introduce the beer that you and I enjoyed 1014 00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:53,799 Speaker 3: during this episode. This was a I don't know how 1015 00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:56,000 Speaker 3: to say this because this is a Ukrainian beer, but 1016 00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:59,800 Speaker 3: it's fit lay or spiddle. Yeah, I think it's fiddle. 1017 00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:03,040 Speaker 3: The I t l e. It's fiddle. This is a 1018 00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:07,200 Speaker 3: beer by Obolon Brewery. Well your what are your thoughts? 1019 00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:10,160 Speaker 1: No, I don't have great thoughts, Matt. This so this 1020 00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:13,480 Speaker 1: beer we're drinking the last of our not so great beers, 1021 00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:17,200 Speaker 1: our crap beers, not craft beers, because of how things 1022 00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:19,920 Speaker 1: ended with our daffy challenge to raise money for some 1023 00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:23,200 Speaker 1: of our favorite nonprofits. And it's it's to me this 1024 00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:25,959 Speaker 1: had a really metallic vibe. I feel for the people 1025 00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:27,759 Speaker 1: of Ukraine, not because they have to drink this beer, 1026 00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:29,760 Speaker 1: because everything else is going on over there, of course, 1027 00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:32,799 Speaker 1: but this beer. Saying this beer doesn't help, No, it 1028 00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:33,640 Speaker 1: doesn't help it. 1029 00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:36,359 Speaker 3: I didn't think it was all that bad. This it's 1030 00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:39,319 Speaker 3: funny because some of the quote unquote crap beers. 1031 00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:40,360 Speaker 1: Carlsberg was better than this. 1032 00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:42,640 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, because Karlsburg was nice and clean. This 1033 00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:44,480 Speaker 3: did drink a little bit more like what was the 1034 00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:47,799 Speaker 3: one from from Aldi? The other? Oh yeah, Pilsner. It 1035 00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:53,319 Speaker 3: was bad that the I don't know, but both of them, 1036 00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:56,120 Speaker 3: I mean, they're not terrible, but they're the kind of 1037 00:45:56,160 --> 00:45:58,759 Speaker 3: beer that you could enjoy after kind of mowing the 1038 00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:01,080 Speaker 3: law and working out in the working out in the 1039 00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:03,399 Speaker 3: sun a Saturday afternoon, that kind of thing. 1040 00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:06,080 Speaker 1: All right, yeah, it might be all it's qualified for. 1041 00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:11,080 Speaker 3: Okay, that being said, this is the last of these beers, 1042 00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:12,799 Speaker 3: so I'm looking forward to getting back to the really 1043 00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:15,400 Speaker 3: good stuff come next Monday. Buddy me too. 1044 00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:17,160 Speaker 1: All right, that's gonna do it for this episode. We'll 1045 00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:19,120 Speaker 1: we'll put all the necessary links up in our show 1046 00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:21,279 Speaker 1: notes up at howdmoney dot com, including a link to 1047 00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:24,640 Speaker 1: Sierra's new book. But Matt, until next time, best Friends 1048 00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:26,840 Speaker 1: Out and best Friends Out. 1049 00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:37,960 Speaker 2: Man. 1050 00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:40,000 Speaker 3: I don't know, maybe we'll kind of slide this into 1051 00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:42,200 Speaker 3: at the end of the episodes here, but you talking 1052 00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:44,640 Speaker 3: about your story and kind of how the book shifted 1053 00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:47,080 Speaker 3: to kind of more of like a memoir. How important 1054 00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:48,799 Speaker 3: do you think that is to kind of have like 1055 00:46:49,200 --> 00:46:52,760 Speaker 3: an interesting narrative, like a like a compelling personal story 1056 00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:56,800 Speaker 3: like that, because it makes me think about like artists, 1057 00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:59,000 Speaker 3: because you might have, on one hand, an artist that's 1058 00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:04,640 Speaker 3: just like the most proficient excellent at their craft, Like 1059 00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:07,040 Speaker 3: nobody has ever created art as good as this person, 1060 00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:10,359 Speaker 3: whether it's painting or ceramics or whatever. But if there's 1061 00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:13,840 Speaker 3: no story behind it, it can be difficult sometimes to 1062 00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:16,880 Speaker 3: gain traction, as opposed to like some street folk artists 1063 00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:18,680 Speaker 3: that I'm drawn to that has a really cool story. 1064 00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:21,200 Speaker 3: Is he the most accomplished? I don't know if you 1065 00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:24,560 Speaker 3: could you could say that, but he's a really interesting person. Yeah, 1066 00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:26,040 Speaker 3: what are your thoughts there on kind of like that 1067 00:47:26,080 --> 00:47:30,200 Speaker 3: personal narrative and art or even just a business and 1068 00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:31,800 Speaker 3: where we were selling products or a service. 1069 00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:35,240 Speaker 2: I think you want to there's so many people selling 1070 00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:38,759 Speaker 2: things all the time, so it's nice to clear the room. 1071 00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:42,880 Speaker 2: You really want to root for someone, was what I've learned. 1072 00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:45,520 Speaker 2: I would have loved to do a business book because 1073 00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:50,120 Speaker 2: I love businessook like just give me the tips, But 1074 00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:53,440 Speaker 2: people it's like why trust me, like just looking at me, 1075 00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:55,719 Speaker 2: like why would you buy a business book for me. 1076 00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:58,520 Speaker 2: So the story was was needed for you to root 1077 00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:01,319 Speaker 2: for me and see where I came from and then 1078 00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:04,080 Speaker 2: trust what I'm saying. That's more important these days because 1079 00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:06,160 Speaker 2: we're just getting sold to so many there's so many 1080 00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:08,719 Speaker 2: of everything, so we have to like clear the. 1081 00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:10,280 Speaker 1: Air a little bit and people want to buy a story. 1082 00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:14,160 Speaker 1: People want to whether it's a book, whether it's clothing items, 1083 00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:16,560 Speaker 1: whatever it is. It's it's that's what made like Tom 1084 00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:18,319 Speaker 1: so successful early on, Right, it was like to buy 1085 00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:19,840 Speaker 1: one get one shoe thing and people were. 1086 00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:21,040 Speaker 3: Like, oh, this has never heard of that before. 1087 00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:23,799 Speaker 1: It's just a shoe. It's a mission, right, And I 1088 00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:27,000 Speaker 1: think people really gravitate towards that. They're attracted to that, 1089 00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:30,280 Speaker 1: and so yeah, I think that kind of story combined 1090 00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:33,920 Speaker 1: with you know, the practical business tactics is that's a 1091 00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:34,680 Speaker 1: good combo