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Speaker 3: Oh we are we are moms.
Speaker 2: Baby, we did it, We did it. I am Joe Gatto,
Speaker 2: I'm Steve Burn, and we are so excited to be
Speaker 2: here for multiple reasons.
Speaker 3: Yes, happy, happy, blated holidays, Happy late holidays everybody.
Speaker 4: I hope everybody is good.
Speaker 1: And yeah, no in law problems. Did you have any
Speaker 1: in law props? No, I'm just bloated. No, but I
Speaker 1: mean that's all the time the holidays. Uh, in law No,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't ever have issues with the in laws.
Speaker 1: The inlaws are pretty cool. It's great. So it was
Speaker 1: all good. Everything was great. Everybody's happy, healthy, kids like
Speaker 1: good kids, liked everything they got. Everybody was happy about it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, my son, it's weird, my son got my I
Speaker 3: gave my son fifty dollars, and I said, just get
Speaker 3: your get your sister anything in the mall.
Speaker 1: I love that.
Speaker 3: You know what he got her, Uh, fifty dollars gift
Speaker 3: card to Victoria's secret. No, he did it.
Speaker 1: That's so crazy, Steve, you're telling jokes now. I was
Speaker 1: on I started. That started such a sweet, wholesome story
Speaker 1: because I just got if you winner, if you picked
Speaker 1: out the brawl your son.
Speaker 2: I had my sisters, my mom. I don't know if
Speaker 2: you had this growing up. When I was growing up.
Speaker 2: My mom worked at our school that we went to
Speaker 2: Santa Dwwertz shout Out, and she was the secretary, so
Speaker 2: she would help set up the holiday fair, which is
Speaker 2: basically just other people's garbage.
Speaker 1: It was like all homemade.
Speaker 2: Crazy went and bought like an ashtray that said number
Speaker 2: one dad on itything right your butt here, like stuff
Speaker 2: like all this stupid junk right, and they would go
Speaker 2: and it would give you.
Speaker 1: I remember my mom was like, Okay, here's ten dollars.
Speaker 1: You could go spend whatever you want and get whatever
Speaker 1: you want.
Speaker 2: Inevitably, you know, you'd spend the ten and you go
Speaker 2: back to hit it back up and I'm like, mom,
Speaker 2: I really want.
Speaker 1: This paper mache Santa Cla.
Speaker 2: My grandma like, yeah, So my kids had this fair
Speaker 2: at their school and they my daughter said, no, I'd.
Speaker 1: Rather go to I'd rather go to a real store because.
Speaker 2: She wanted to go shopping right, right, instead of the
Speaker 2: things supporting the yeah local.
Speaker 1: Businesses, right, yeah, they shouldn't want to go to the hendmates.
Speaker 1: But did you have like some one of those weird
Speaker 1: fairs growing up?
Speaker 3: I don't remember us going to fairs. I The only
Speaker 3: thing I remember is like my my an uncle from Korea.
Speaker 4: They they set up a thing every Sunday.
Speaker 3: At a flea market in New Jersey, so we'd always
Speaker 3: go to the flea marke and we go support them.
Speaker 3: But then us kids would just walk around the flea
Speaker 3: market and hang on by candy and stuff like that.
Speaker 1: But nice.
Speaker 3: But in terms of like a Christmas village or anything,
Speaker 3: I don't I don't really recall doing that.
Speaker 4: And pitch two things.
Speaker 2: I love love a good Christmas village, yeah, but it
Speaker 2: gets a little cold, yes, And a walking hot cocoa.
Speaker 1: I love walking hot coco. I don't do a marshmallow
Speaker 1: and it don don't get the store. Do you remember
Speaker 1: where your favorite hot Coco's.
Speaker 2: From no I remember when my favorite hot goes because
Speaker 2: of my mouth.
Speaker 1: From no I do remember some legendary cocoas. Here's one
Speaker 1: for you. Okay, down on Union.
Speaker 2: Square they have a great outdoor holiday village. Bessie had
Speaker 2: first moved here. We're living on Wall Street.
Speaker 1: I see. We gotta check out this holiday village. Okay,
Speaker 1: this is one hundred century story. Yeah, holiday village. You
Speaker 1: gotta come right. This is very, very similar to something
Speaker 1: that happened to you. We go down to the Holliday
Speaker 1: Village Junion Square. Awesome, bubbah blah, we're going there or whatever.
Speaker 1: We're hanging out. We get the hot cocoa walking around. Oh,
Speaker 1: look at this. How much is this stupid painting of
Speaker 1: the Empire State Building? The one hundred and fifty dollars?
Speaker 4: No, thank you?
Speaker 2: You know all this stuff. We're looking all this trash.
Speaker 2: And then we we'll go and there's this woman that
Speaker 2: she's sitting in the back of Union Square Park and
Speaker 2: she's guys just like a couple of scarves and she's
Speaker 2: patting a cat right and so bes She's like, oh cat,
Speaker 2: and she walks up and it ended up being it
Speaker 2: was just a homeless woman their clothes.
Speaker 1: And wait for the kicker.
Speaker 5: She was petting the possum, pet possum.
Speaker 1: Bessie screamed and made me take her home.
Speaker 3: Unbelievable right rocket up, Oh my god, that she was
Speaker 3: scarving a possum.
Speaker 1: Don't stop on possible, don't stop.
Speaker 2: Right in the middle of the right in the middle,
Speaker 2: like it was like chochk ornaments possome.
Speaker 3: Not a good looking at him. It was no, not
Speaker 3: keep people domestic, domesticate. It's weird, that's weird. But they're
Speaker 3: good for I guess ticks. They eat ticks summertime, which
Speaker 3: is good.
Speaker 1: Well, that's why we need them. They're moresupials. But you
Speaker 1: don't get a lot of over on this continent. Australia's
Speaker 1: got the big Joe.
Speaker 4: Australia's got a lot of learning.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Australia's got the Australia's got the copyright on marsupials.
Speaker 3: Well look, you know Australia, it's like it's deadly.
Speaker 4: Yeah, everything could kill you in Australia. Everything.
Speaker 2: That's why, that's why they try to keep people away
Speaker 2: and watching the there like this is you come visit.
Speaker 2: It's fine, but you're gonna die here.
Speaker 4: Did you? You?
Speaker 1: You just toured in Australia.
Speaker 2: Just tour in Australia a little while. Yeah, it was
Speaker 2: so fun. I would always It was on my bucket
Speaker 2: list forever since I.
Speaker 1: Was like fourteen years old.
Speaker 3: It was your first time there.
Speaker 1: My first time. There was so much fun. I loved it.
Speaker 1: I loved it.
Speaker 4: I went me and uh.
Speaker 2: Our producer Marchi guardian Jiggy. There's just the two of
Speaker 2: us on like our honeymoon, which was so fun.
Speaker 1: Wait, wait, did.
Speaker 3: He because before he was telling me about how he's
Speaker 3: gonna fly there.
Speaker 1: Did he go coach?
Speaker 4: He did?
Speaker 1: He did go coach? He did. But he ended up
Speaker 1: getting a whole row that he was able to lay down,
Speaker 1: but not on the way back. On the way back, you.
Speaker 3: Got wow, you get a row international.
Speaker 1: That's rare.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because we was like a Tuesday or something with something,
Speaker 2: but on the way back it was like Saturday.
Speaker 1: He didn't spring for it. Huh, he didn't spring for it. Now, no,
Speaker 1: Jiggy t Rexalms. Yeah, he's not here to defend himself either.
Speaker 4: Thank god. Let's talk about it.
Speaker 1: You guys, know, when's the.
Speaker 2: Last time he bought you a coffee. It's not fair
Speaker 2: to talk about about him when he's not here. Let's
Speaker 2: only talk I all about him.
Speaker 4: When okay, sure, talk about his wife.
Speaker 1: Did you well, lovely woman, great woman? Did you ever
Speaker 1: did you.
Speaker 2: Ever interact with like a while down a wild beastaid
Speaker 2: you had to capture on your own, in your yard
Speaker 2: or at your house.
Speaker 4: Like I'll tell you this.
Speaker 3: My daughter's guinea pig passed away and it was in
Speaker 3: the garage for a good week because I was on
Speaker 3: the road. And then they're like, well, somebody bury it.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 3: It basically means dad, will you bury it? So I
Speaker 3: buried the guinea pig.
Speaker 1: A new one group now have a guinea picture.
Speaker 3: And then literally, like I guess, two weeks later or
Speaker 3: a week and a half later, I was on the
Speaker 3: road and our cat got out overnight and everybody forgot
Speaker 3: the cat was out. And then my daughter wakes up
Speaker 3: and is going to the bus and the guinea pigs
Speaker 3: in the driveway like bombad because the cat smelled it
Speaker 3: and dug it out and pulled it out and left
Speaker 3: it in the.
Speaker 1: Drive gave it CPR was like clear.
Speaker 3: But that was I don't know in terms of wild animal.
Speaker 1: No have you you're younger. You must deal with island
Speaker 1: Staten Island. I lived next to the woods. We were
Speaker 1: running over with possum.
Speaker 2: Yeah, there was a there was an angry possum. When
Speaker 2: after my sister and Nino, my brother in law, Nino
Speaker 2: and my sister Gina, came back from the date my
Speaker 2: they yell from their driveway and my father comes down.
Speaker 2: And I was collecting weapons at the time, and my father, Yeah,
Speaker 2: you know, I collected weapons. I talked about this when
Speaker 2: I pretended I was a ninja around the neighborhood. I
Speaker 2: had a wall of weapons. I used to go see
Speaker 2: the guy the Big Apple Bazar. You should listen to
Speaker 2: our podcast. It's really great.
Speaker 3: So I went, you used to like an eighth grade
Speaker 3: John Wick.
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly right.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, it was just he was talking about
Speaker 2: this day the Big Apple Bazaar had this old Asian
Speaker 2: gentleman who looked like, exactly.
Speaker 3: Why didn't you take a breath after you said that?
Speaker 3: And looked at me like you caught What does that
Speaker 3: mean that.
Speaker 4: You're Asian old gentleman?
Speaker 2: He looked like, but those are just listening to his
Speaker 2: pointed right, and Stee's face he he looked like he
Speaker 2: looked like the.
Speaker 1: Guy that sold the magua and gremblins, like he was
Speaker 1: one of those.
Speaker 2: And he was used to just some of all these weapons.
Speaker 2: And I had all these things hanging on my wall.
Speaker 2: I had a crossbowl, a blow gun. I had a
Speaker 2: bb gun out.
Speaker 1: You know, uh, what were you most adept with? Bone?
Speaker 4: Arrow? What?
Speaker 1: Bone? Arrow? Bow?
Speaker 4: An arrow?
Speaker 1: Archer?
Speaker 3: Really?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Hold hold egg I used to my neighbors used to
Speaker 2: hold the eggplants in their hands from the garden.
Speaker 1: I iced to shoot them out.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, no.
Speaker 1: Way an eggplant, eggplant?
Speaker 3: You know, an apple is like it's like girth. An
Speaker 3: egg plant is no.
Speaker 1: No, an egg full leg plant?
Speaker 3: Oh you're working with yeah, full plant.
Speaker 1: So anyway, I would so so Nino and Gina picture it.
Speaker 1: They come home. It's it's late at night. A light
Speaker 1: is rolling through Statn Island.
Speaker 2: Okay, they locked the door and the car I mean
Speaker 2: he flashing its scarce the possum that was in the
Speaker 2: corner of the driveway and it ran up the top
Speaker 2: of the pole.
Speaker 1: And my sister didn't notice, and she walks by and
Speaker 1: it goes right in her ear, like oh sh They
Speaker 1: scream and run they come in. My father wants out.
Speaker 1: He goes, what's the matter, and she's like, this's a
Speaker 1: possum and we see it's sitting there staring at it,
Speaker 1: giving this the beloka. It's given us the bad looks.
Speaker 1: And my father goes, go get the cross and I
Speaker 1: went upstairs.
Speaker 4: This is the time.
Speaker 1: This is such a moment of my life, a young
Speaker 1: boy protecting my sister. Yeah. I come downstairs with a crossbow.
Speaker 1: I take aim and the crossbow fires early and far
Speaker 1: is over that.
Speaker 2: I was so upset, so I said to my dad,
Speaker 2: I said, let me go get another one.
Speaker 4: And he was like no.
Speaker 2: He's like, well, I have to take care of this,
Speaker 2: like men hand to hand cot that.
Speaker 1: And he got his shovel and we had no way
Speaker 1: take it out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because it was like getting very aggressive near the house,
Speaker 2: so we just want to hear of it. So then
Speaker 2: he gives it the old dog, you know, and he
Speaker 2: puts his arm around me and he has it.
Speaker 1: He's holding it.
Speaker 2: He's like, now he's holding the shovel and he goes
Speaker 2: now a few words.
Speaker 1: And he gave me eulogy for the bottom. That's one
Speaker 1: of the funniest things ever. And I was like fourteen
Speaker 1: and then we went and buried it. That is that's
Speaker 1: great memory. Yeah, that is hilarious. Yeah it was, uh
Speaker 1: it was on again.
Speaker 2: But in Staten Island, I lived by the woods, so
Speaker 2: we always had like things around.
Speaker 3: Ye had our neighborhood. Now it's just deer and deer
Speaker 3: out there, and and Medillo. I see you Medillo all
Speaker 3: the time, and you.
Speaker 1: Got all Medillo's rolling around.
Speaker 4: Yeah, how cool?
Speaker 1: Is that pretty cool? I've never seen a dealer in
Speaker 1: real life.
Speaker 4: Really, it's like a cool turtle.
Speaker 1: Is like a badass turtle, right.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like, uh, well it's like a possum with
Speaker 3: like rhino skin.
Speaker 4: Oh there's no shell.
Speaker 1: Dilo is shellless. It's it's a shell, but it's.
Speaker 2: Like, oh it's like skinny though it's not like it's
Speaker 2: not like a turtle shell.
Speaker 1: It's like they curl up in a ball. Get out
Speaker 1: of here.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like the hedgehog.
Speaker 1: Yeah, percent swear to god.
Speaker 4: Yeah there actually kind of cute.
Speaker 1: Because possums are disgusting looking. Yeah, Armadillo's look pettible. Possums don't.
Speaker 3: No possum is like possum's got that faces a finger.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I wouldn't do that. Even the Chinese don't eat them. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's how awful they are. Sorry you could say that, though,
Speaker 1: I gat.
Speaker 4: Again I'm pointing.
Speaker 3: Have you ever heard of Kilwin's By the way, Killin's chocolate.
Speaker 4: That's the best hot chocolate ever heard of? You guys heard.
Speaker 3: That's the literally, the hands down, the best hot chalk
Speaker 3: I've ever had, really, hands out, because you.
Speaker 4: Know why they use cocoa.
Speaker 1: Milk oh wa water? No? I never used water, dude.
Speaker 3: Come on, that's every Christmas village in the water.
Speaker 1: It quick for discount and.
Speaker 4: They charge you.
Speaker 1: That's right. Would you do? Many marshmallows and yours? No
Speaker 1: cinnamon stick, no straight cocoa. I'm a straight man. Yeah,
Speaker 1: me too. I don't. I don't. I don't mess with
Speaker 1: the marshmallows.
Speaker 2: Always congregate together and form one jumbo marshmallow that wants
Speaker 2: to joke you the job. You know that they get
Speaker 2: hot and the coagulate and then you just have this
Speaker 2: fat marshmallow cup.
Speaker 1: Terrible, terrible.
Speaker 3: Hold up you, that's the one thing you would love
Speaker 3: a marshall.
Speaker 1: I've eat with you, I go out. You're all about desserts,
Speaker 1: You're all about marshmallow. You'll get a dessert before the meal.
Speaker 1: Marshmallows on my list of top six things I hate
Speaker 1: food wise, can.
Speaker 4: I list the next one?
Speaker 3: So, marsh marshmallow you outgrow I think?
Speaker 1: Is that for he to say you will grollo you
Speaker 1: grollo marshmallow? Yeah? I agree.
Speaker 3: I outgrew marshmallows, I think in maybe high school.
Speaker 1: Okay, now I'm going to ask you pop quiz. Spell
Speaker 1: marshmallow and can I please have us fact check it?
Speaker 3: Spell marshmallow m A R s h M E l
Speaker 3: l O W. Wow.
Speaker 1: That couldn't be more are incorrect? The W on the end,
Speaker 1: m A R s h m A l l O.
Speaker 1: That's all right, Oh.
Speaker 3: You're right, we got it right.
Speaker 4: Point to me.
Speaker 6: M A R he said, m E l l O
Speaker 6: W whatever. It's m A R s h m A
Speaker 6: l l m A W.
Speaker 2: M A not not mellow mallow, marsh malls.
Speaker 4: All right, Well you were close.
Speaker 1: I was not very good at it. That's weird. How
Speaker 1: did the mini The mini is only used in two ingredients.
Speaker 2: It's used as a sprinkle on top of a uh
Speaker 2: sweet potato uh you know, sweet potato mash during the holidays.
Speaker 1: That that rolls in and then in the hat Coco.
Speaker 1: Then the mini marshmallow serves no other purpose.
Speaker 3: Really, honestly, you're right. What else what a small market
Speaker 3: hold on ice cream Sunday?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right those people reading a cold marshmallow is
Speaker 2: worse than a hot mellow.
Speaker 1: Hot metals congragulate together. The hard ones that just you
Speaker 1: chomping on it's like a chicklate. Those are the worst.
Speaker 1: I hate marshmallows.
Speaker 3: When's the last time we had Oneores?
Speaker 1: I'll dude, smalles not for me?
Speaker 3: Really?
Speaker 1: Yeah, messy that it's like a crab, like a kid.
Speaker 1: You don't like?
Speaker 4: No, no, did.
Speaker 1: You ever have? So?
Speaker 2: I had the marshmallow my son made me try when
Speaker 2: when we met last mate smores this last fall, we're
Speaker 2: doing a fire pet and he's like, Dad, you have
Speaker 2: to try, remember me try because I make him try
Speaker 2: everything and he hates everything. I sorry, I'll try it again.
Speaker 2: I haven't tried it in a while, and I tried
Speaker 2: and instantly hated it. I don't like the consistency.
Speaker 1: There's no.
Speaker 3: It's either or you still get the thing in the
Speaker 3: middle that didn't melt yet.
Speaker 1: Oh do you burn you?
Speaker 4: You burn them?
Speaker 1: Right? Because that's the problem. Yeah, that's tough.
Speaker 3: I like, I like a nice little when you're doing it,
Speaker 3: when you're doing around, could.
Speaker 1: You make a fire? Could I make a fire right
Speaker 1: now here?
Speaker 4: And I get lost in the woods, I'm dead.
Speaker 1: I'm dead in seventy two hours.
Speaker 2: Wow, we're being trum seriously, two cold moms, dead moms.
Speaker 3: You you wouldn't be able to walk more than two miles.
Speaker 1: What are you pointed to me for? Because you couldn't.
Speaker 3: I could walk, I complain, you would complain, you would
Speaker 3: gass out so quick?
Speaker 1: Is it uphill?
Speaker 3: Even if it's a flat plane, if it's just slow,
Speaker 3: I'll tell you what, if it was downhill, you'd still
Speaker 3: be like fucking done.
Speaker 2: I can't know, because the problem is if I'm going
Speaker 2: to downhill, I have to lean back on.
Speaker 1: It like fat Joe. Because I can't.
Speaker 2: I have to this equilibrium you don't deal with as
Speaker 2: a portly gentleman.
Speaker 1: I need to lean I have to be perpendicular to
Speaker 1: the ground. So if it's this, I gotta lean back
Speaker 1: on it.
Speaker 2: But when you go for okay, if I'm going forward downhill,
Speaker 2: I gotta lean back.
Speaker 1: If I'm going uphill, I have to lean forward. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Oh that's tough. Flat's the only way I could do it. Honestly,
Speaker 1: When is the last time you like it? Just took
Speaker 1: a walk when I was with you when we came
Speaker 1: from lunch.
Speaker 3: But you know, you never are like stressed out. You're like,
Speaker 3: I should take a while.
Speaker 1: I don't walk when I'm stressed out.
Speaker 4: What do you do?
Speaker 1: Bake passa month?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 1: I uh, let me see you do I have.
Speaker 2: I'll tell you where I like to go for a walk.
Speaker 2: I like to go for a walk when it's like
Speaker 2: a nature trailing kind of thing. Okay, I'll do that,
Speaker 2: like when we go for like the New Year's House.
Speaker 2: I rent the house at New Year's and we'll go
Speaker 2: like the kids are.
Speaker 1: Like, let's go for a nature walk and we'll walk
Speaker 1: through the woods. I'll do that.
Speaker 3: Like there are things you know, like when when when
Speaker 3: Jim Carrey and Jeff Dane's go to go to Colorado
Speaker 3: and dumb and Dumber and they get the cowboy gear
Speaker 3: on like that, You dressing up in hiking gear would
Speaker 3: make me laugh.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, forget it. Could you never imagine me?
Speaker 1: Could you imagine me free climbing like trying to rock
Speaker 1: climb like free bo called that free Bason. What is that?
Speaker 1: The free banks with drugs? What is that freel there's
Speaker 1: a free climbs, free climb. Yeah, and I'm just out.
Speaker 1: Could you imagine me like with the chalk, I'm.
Speaker 3: Like, let's go up never and I boy shorts.
Speaker 1: It would be powdered sugar on my hands. I'd be like,
Speaker 1: let's go.
Speaker 7: You just lick and stick to it.
Speaker 1: I'd be like Spider Man every buddy. I did try
Speaker 1: one of those rock climbing walls.
Speaker 2: Once and in my mind I thought it was gonna
Speaker 2: I'm just.
Speaker 1: Picturing eight year olds dusting you. Yeah, they're like move
Speaker 1: old man.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I tried to. My daughter loves them. Is really good
Speaker 1: that my my kids do ninja like American Ninja Warrior.
Speaker 4: They do that.
Speaker 2: That's one of their activities on Mondays ago to do
Speaker 2: a ninja camp.
Speaker 3: I wish we had that when we were kids, because
Speaker 3: we too us it was double dare right. That's as
Speaker 3: close as you got what American Ninja Warrior is. It
Speaker 3: is a lot of fun to wash so much better.
Speaker 3: But it started out as Japanese game shows where people
Speaker 3: get fuck really oh Japanese like wipe out yo. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: like wipe out on TBS is like a totally neutered version.
Speaker 1: I mean, these Japanese people are getting.
Speaker 3: Really whooped, really fresh ones.
Speaker 1: I gotta check that out.
Speaker 2: Whype not I never I never trust because they always
Speaker 2: just have things that you don't even see coming.
Speaker 1: Like the wall all of a sudden separates and just
Speaker 1: a big fucking fish comes down and it's so dumb.
Speaker 1: I h yeah.
Speaker 2: I think if we've raced up a wall, how many
Speaker 2: minutes do you think you beat me by pretty quickly?
Speaker 4: Climbing?
Speaker 1: I'm talking vertical vertical rock climbing wall, mean you go
Speaker 1: to rock? What wall? Climbing gym? Sure? Side by side? Okay, ready,
Speaker 1: steady go boom, We're going up. Yeap. It takes me.
Speaker 1: You finished two minutes before me, four minutes before me.
Speaker 1: What do you think at least three to four to four? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I say, being generous, I think you finish. Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well I have tennis elbow right now, so I can't
Speaker 1: do it right now.
Speaker 2: But if I was in if I were pristine condition,
Speaker 2: maybe well, but you're in pretty good shape now, yes
Speaker 2: wait wise yeah, but not muscle wise. Yeah, my muscle
Speaker 2: I don't have muscle memory.
Speaker 1: I have the opposite of that memory memory muscles. When
Speaker 1: is it? When's last when you played a sport?
Speaker 2: Uh?
Speaker 1: With my body?
Speaker 4: I talk about like a video game.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but uh sport? Let me see, Oh I play
Speaker 1: during the summer.
Speaker 2: Last summer, I play ultimate frisbee at my family reunion
Speaker 2: and I scored the winning touchdown by diving and catching it.
Speaker 3: Did you really Yes?
Speaker 2: Everybody was like, what the because my nephews went crazy.
Speaker 1: This is this is very It's meant to be a compliment.
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, it is a combent. You're you
Speaker 3: can be very competitive, and so I'm shocked you you
Speaker 3: never got more into sports.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I have the mind for it, not the body.
Speaker 1: I have the attitude for it. I didn't have the
Speaker 1: body for it, you know, never never really all right, yeah,
Speaker 1: well that makes sense. I have the mind for the body.
Speaker 3: Well, but if you could compete in one.
Speaker 1: Sport basketball, oh well, we take a bowling off the table.
Speaker 1: By the way, we've talked about this. I'd love to
Speaker 1: see you now right now.
Speaker 2: I have tennis prime condition. I would probably say volleyball.
Speaker 2: I was always competitive in volleyball. Okay, ultimate frisbee. So
Speaker 2: no three or four?
Speaker 1: No football? I was okay. I always tried out of football.
Speaker 1: I'll get hit by a car.
Speaker 2: Jesus was like, it's not for you.
Speaker 1: They're like, Jesus, could you please get riggs? Hold on,
Speaker 1: I gotta take care of something. Step there we go.
Speaker 4: What do you need?
Speaker 1: Yeah? So all right, well you know that's it. But
Speaker 1: you played hockey. That's hockey?
Speaker 7: Was your jam?
Speaker 1: Still right? You still pretend that you're in shape. Excuse me,
Speaker 1: you still.
Speaker 4: Pretend that you're athletics.
Speaker 2: The first question, first question, you're coming in hot, Andrew,
Speaker 2: bring us in and just say hello to everybody.
Speaker 1: First, everybody, yes, andrews Andrew Ye. Mark couldn't make it,
Speaker 1: so we uh we brought on the big guns. Oh shoot,
Speaker 1: nice to be here.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: So this one comes from Steven.
Speaker 6: It says, hey, too cool, moms, could you give me
Speaker 6: some pointers on how and why women are blocking me?
Speaker 6: I've had the worst luck this year with over ten
Speaker 6: women block me, just randomly, all giving me reasons like
Speaker 6: my boyfriend asked me to or I don't feel comfortable
Speaker 6: around you, and without an explanation as to why. I've
Speaker 6: also had other women tell me that I'm too much
Speaker 6: and that I can come off strong. Any tips on
Speaker 6: how to know why women are blocking me and how
Speaker 6: I can fix this.
Speaker 3: This is the first time where it's like, it's not you,
Speaker 3: it is me. I think really applies. Yeah, it does
Speaker 3: sound like it's him.
Speaker 1: Yeah, holy cow. Yeah that people have blatantly told you
Speaker 1: what the problem was.
Speaker 4: A though you're too much.
Speaker 1: I guess. I guess he doesn't.
Speaker 2: I guess the question comes from why is he being
Speaker 2: too much? Okay, so let's let's break it down a
Speaker 2: little bit. If you're making people uncomfortable enough that they
Speaker 2: have to block you, Look, the boyfriend one goes out
Speaker 2: the window because the boyfriend just wants you blocks you blocks.
Speaker 1: That's it. Don't even worry about that one. You can't
Speaker 1: think of out that. The other ones we need.
Speaker 2: To focus on are you're too much or I don't
Speaker 2: feel comfortable around you.
Speaker 1: Right, let's workshop those being too much.
Speaker 2: Could be herbreted it as you're posting too much or
Speaker 2: going because we're talking about online only, right, So if
Speaker 2: you're getting blocked online, you're probably maybe dming too much,
Speaker 2: posting too much, liking too much things like that, or
Speaker 2: making comments they don't aren't comfortable with underneath.
Speaker 1: Like, Wow, that's a sassy bikini.
Speaker 2: I can't believe you pulled it off haha lol shark emoji, Like,
Speaker 2: I don't know, I would block you there, Like it
Speaker 2: could be something like that that you're making them uncomfortable
Speaker 2: with the comments. So I would say the first thing
Speaker 2: you could probably do is take your online don't comment,
Speaker 2: don't DM for a month and see what happens, just
Speaker 2: like if you'd like, I would say that might be
Speaker 2: a good see what the problem is. Are your comments
Speaker 2: coming across too much or you're dming too much? That
Speaker 2: would probably be a good way to do it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think it's a bad idea to kind
Speaker 3: of take some time off and take stock. But I
Speaker 3: think anytime it's too much, it usually it stems from
Speaker 3: some sense of insecurity. Right, So it's like maybe in
Speaker 3: the time off, you take stock of the things you
Speaker 3: appreciate about yourself and feel confidence in it. I think
Speaker 3: when you're confident in things, like you don't go you're.
Speaker 1: Not pushy, right, yes, too much?
Speaker 3: Like like if you go to like a like a
Speaker 3: like like if some drives a Lamborghini, it's like, oh,
Speaker 3: it's a Lamborghini. But if it's like somebody's like, oh
Speaker 3: I got this, you know, uh CRV, but it's got
Speaker 3: a six dis change ac it's got the mood. It's
Speaker 3: like it's a fucking CRV. It's a piece of shit.
Speaker 3: But if you're you know, it's like, yeah, it's a
Speaker 3: cyber truck.
Speaker 1: It's cool.
Speaker 3: It's it's neat, you know. I mean, people aren't bragging
Speaker 3: about this. So I think I just like, I think
Speaker 3: it's almost like you got to just maybe take a
Speaker 3: little bit of time to yourself, right and appreciate the
Speaker 3: things that you do like about yourself and maybe build
Speaker 3: off of those. But you don't need to take a
Speaker 3: victory lap or anything like that. But I think it
Speaker 3: just it always comes down to I hear stuff like that.
Speaker 3: It just sounds like this sounds like somebody who's insecure
Speaker 3: that just needs to just relax a second.
Speaker 1: Cool your jets. You're good enough, right, right.
Speaker 3: You're appreciated, but well we don't know them true, Like
Speaker 3: you could be like this, yeah, like stare at people.
Speaker 4: It's just like, you know, it's too much.
Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, you can't help how you you know,
Speaker 3: stare or something like that. But I don't know. I
Speaker 3: think actions speak loud of the words yeah, and it's
Speaker 3: just your actions are coming off for me.
Speaker 2: I would pick up some sort of reading about social cues,
Speaker 2: because you're clearly not picking up some social cues and
Speaker 2: people feel uncomfortable about you because a lot of people
Speaker 2: I've been in many a room and it's really hard
Speaker 2: to make me uncomfortable, very hard, you know. So if
Speaker 2: you do it, you're really really socially awkward or something
Speaker 2: is up with you, you know. So if that happens,
Speaker 2: I'll always notice these people don't have the right distance
Speaker 2: social distancing, knowing when not to ask something or to
Speaker 2: ask something, staring at people, are looking at people a
Speaker 2: certain way, smelling their hair, like I've been in these
Speaker 2: all sort.
Speaker 1: Of weird situations.
Speaker 2: I was an elevator at once and this guy smelled
Speaker 2: this girl's hair and she was like.
Speaker 3: His name was President, and he was like, what do
Speaker 3: you and she was.
Speaker 1: She's like oh, She's like oh, and he goes, no,
Speaker 1: it just smells nice.
Speaker 2: And he's like, I'm giving you a compliment and and
Speaker 2: she was like yeah, but that was but he wasn't
Speaker 2: being like he was just he thought that was right,
Speaker 2: like you know what I mean, It wasn't in a
Speaker 2: sexual or creepy way. He was just like, oh, oh
Speaker 2: you're shampoo's nice, right, And I was like, well you
Speaker 2: just sniffed ahead, dude, Like, don't.
Speaker 1: Do that, you know, so you can't stiff people's heads.
Speaker 2: I think that might help definitely, because I think you're
Speaker 2: not picking up on social cues. If you make people uncomfortable,
Speaker 2: it doesn't know, it's automatically default to. It could be this,
Speaker 2: but it doesn't default for me that you're being creepy. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it could just be that you're just making them uncomfortable
Speaker 2: because the way you present yourself and whatever.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 3: Well, here's the great thing though, self awareness to to
Speaker 3: your point is that but he does have some self
Speaker 3: awareness because he's acknowledging the fact that he's receiving this information.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but he's not putting he's not looking in the mirror.
Speaker 1: It doesn't sound like make that change. Yeah, you've gotta
Speaker 1: he's got to look at that man in the mirror.
Speaker 1: Make that change. I mean, who's got it, who's gotta
Speaker 1: who's gotta do it? He's got it, He's got I
Speaker 1: think that's a big part of it. I think you
Speaker 1: got to say. He's like, I don't know why people
Speaker 1: are blocking me, and then he lists reasons why. So
Speaker 1: our friend Steven, he's gotta do that.
Speaker 3: This is I know you've dealt with this probably every
Speaker 3: day in your life. But there's like after shows. Every time,
Speaker 3: after show, there's always somebody's like, hey, do you want
Speaker 3: to hear a joke?
Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, oh he doesn't want to hear
Speaker 1: a joke.
Speaker 3: Now he doesn't want to hear It's like there's always
Speaker 3: that person that like is so unaware of the optics
Speaker 3: of the room or under it, just like yeah, I
Speaker 3: don't know you I just talk for an hour.
Speaker 1: I want to go home and cry like in a
Speaker 1: hot shower.
Speaker 3: And yeah, I mean, just I don't know. There's always
Speaker 3: I was the only reason I brought up because I
Speaker 3: had that experience this weekend where was another one of
Speaker 3: those people where it's like there's five people you meet
Speaker 3: after every show, right, somebody's gracious, somebody's too nervous, somebody
Speaker 3: is way too boisterous, and then somebody who's so insecure
Speaker 3: that they flip it on you.
Speaker 4: Would you say a beat? Okay, do that to me.
Speaker 3: But here's your reaction. Ready, So there's the person that
Speaker 3: does the thing.
Speaker 1: You write it down, Mark, you gotta write it down.
Speaker 1: I gotta take it down.
Speaker 2: I gotta take it out.
Speaker 1: There's some self massaging that you'll do. Can that be
Speaker 1: the name of episode self massaging? No?
Speaker 7: No, but yes, Steve, good luck to you.
Speaker 2: So no that what you were saying was like those
Speaker 2: people that come up they don't be able to read
Speaker 2: the room is huge, that is being.
Speaker 1: Able to but some people just don't have it. Yeah, right,
Speaker 1: could you learn it? Because I'll say I didn't.
Speaker 2: Well, I think, well, you're also I'm dealing with like
Speaker 2: I'm talking about, like coming out adolescence.
Speaker 1: I think if you're an adult, you might be setting
Speaker 1: your ways a little bit.
Speaker 2: But I remember being too witty and mean with my
Speaker 2: comedy and saying things that were would make other people
Speaker 2: feel bad to get everybody else to laugh.
Speaker 1: And remember I remember the moment I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I got to stop doing that.
Speaker 2: And everybody should be laughing, not laughing at somebody that
Speaker 2: whole thing and having like a little bit of an
Speaker 2: awakening that way. You know, my mom's saying that stuff
Speaker 2: to me, you know, just to drill it in because
Speaker 2: she recognized it too. But I I think I learned that.
Speaker 2: But do you think that people could learn to read
Speaker 2: a room. I guess maybe by experience, by being around
Speaker 2: people more because there are all people out intervers and
Speaker 2: that you put them in a mix and they're like,
Speaker 2: ooh yeah.
Speaker 3: It just comes down to reading the social cues, right,
Speaker 3: Like literally just read the clues, dude, Like no one
Speaker 3: wants to hear the story, no one. People are not
Speaker 3: even making eye contact or you know, just it's it's interesting,
Speaker 3: like the social dynamic, just all the cues people give off.
Speaker 3: I just pick up after shows sometimes where like you'll
Speaker 3: be having a conversation and somebody's just like standing there
Speaker 3: and they're not even like it's like you can see
Speaker 3: I'm talking to and I won't even acknowledge you now
Speaker 3: because I'm here, I'm like doubling down right on talking
Speaker 3: to this person, giving them all my attention because you
Speaker 3: keep being intrusive to the space and you're also being
Speaker 3: rude to this individual, so I don't know it, just
Speaker 3: like that person isn't reading any of it, and it's like,
Speaker 3: how do you get that person understand that? And it
Speaker 3: comes down to like a person like you, because I've
Speaker 3: seen you you'd be like, I'm talking to.
Speaker 1: This because you go back this up right now, give
Speaker 1: me a minute.
Speaker 3: Given that, I mean you, you literally have a great
Speaker 3: peripheral and I've seen you pick up on things and
Speaker 3: you're very You're very kind, you're very patient, but you're
Speaker 3: also very honest. And there's times you've been honest with people.
Speaker 1: Where I'm like, well, I wish I could do that.
Speaker 3: I really like I truly.
Speaker 1: Well, that's why we hang out together because you'd make
Speaker 1: me do it for you. You just give me, You'll
Speaker 1: give me an old like next or something. I think
Speaker 1: it comes down to that.
Speaker 2: I think it comes down to maybe pick up a
Speaker 2: book or something about reading into like social cues and
Speaker 2: being able to manage.
Speaker 1: What people the energy people are given off to you.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Good luck to you, though, buddy.
Speaker 3: But the first step is the fact that he's reaching out.
Speaker 3: He understands Yeah, which is great.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I would say definitely that thing about social media.
Speaker 2: Take a beat from that, all right.
Speaker 1: This next one comes from Karen.
Speaker 6: She asks what is the advice that you were given,
Speaker 6: asked for or not that you are happy you ignored Oh.
Speaker 1: Karen got a good one there. So somebody forced advice
Speaker 1: on you and you're happy you didn't follow it. Wow,
Speaker 1: that's a good one. That's a good question. Let's see.
Speaker 1: Let's see.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to think about because I've got I've gotten
Speaker 2: advice from my parents, and I haven't listened to all
Speaker 2: of it, but I remember a lot of it being good.
Speaker 1: But I'm sure there's got to be I was told.
Speaker 3: I should do a podcast, m.
Speaker 1: You shouldn't have.
Speaker 4: Are you talking about the other ones that you tried
Speaker 4: and failed?
Speaker 1: This one? Oh? You mean this one?
Speaker 2: You talk about the three other ones you tried that
Speaker 2: didn't work, and then this one we got on IHR
Speaker 2: podcast Network. I'm sorry he's talk about the three other
Speaker 2: ones that had seven listens across the board you're talking
Speaker 2: about I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just wanted you.
Speaker 2: To be clear for the listeners that are all tuned
Speaker 2: in listening to this I podcast network, a major conglomerate
Speaker 2: that we're on right now.
Speaker 1: I wasn't just be clear to the people. Are we
Speaker 1: talking about the.
Speaker 5: One that you filmed with with a selfie cam in
Speaker 5: your home office talking about stand up comedy and dissecting
Speaker 5: it Oh.
Speaker 1: The nine people that listened to that loved it.
Speaker 2: I love you Wow, that cut deep. Hey listen my
Speaker 2: first podcast suck too. Now we found each other.
Speaker 1: What was the first one? Two cool moths?
Speaker 2: My first one I did was my first one I
Speaker 2: did was is called You Seem Cool? And it was
Speaker 2: during COVID when I was finding people online and they
Speaker 2: were really cool and I just wanted to interview them.
Speaker 1: So it's like a fifteen minute short podcast. It was fun.
Speaker 4: It wasn't.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it wasn't. I don't think it was on
Speaker 1: that I could would have sustained this format. I love
Speaker 1: and I love you Stevie. This is I love you too.
Speaker 1: This is great.
Speaker 3: But what what was there something? Obviously it goes back
Speaker 3: to profession I'm sure that there were.
Speaker 2: Oh well, I mean I got one that pops off
Speaker 2: right away. Our agent told us that we were too
Speaker 2: old for TV. Really, that we should give up on it.
Speaker 2: We should have sold to the format instead of trying
Speaker 2: to do jokers because we were too old for TV.
Speaker 1: That funny? Really? Yeah, yeah, so that's bad, Ben advice.
Speaker 1: I didn't you were mid thirties at that point. I
Speaker 1: mean that's I was young to mid I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: thirty yeah, thirty fourth.
Speaker 3: It's crazy to say that to somebody that, yeah.
Speaker 2: That had a good show on their hands too, which
Speaker 2: is crazy. Yeah, so that's definitely that's number one bad
Speaker 2: advice that I didn't take.
Speaker 1: Wow, what din't anyways? Hey horrible? Sorry it's had an opinion?
Speaker 4: No, who is the first had an opinion?
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's always people that will tell you though, I had.
Speaker 3: I had one guy when I first moved here. I
Speaker 3: came out of Kent and I was I was starting
Speaker 3: to dabble and stand up, but I had a theater degree.
Speaker 3: And so there was this off off Broadway show that
Speaker 3: was going on and they needed somebody last minute, right,
Speaker 3: So I filled in for somebody and I actually I
Speaker 3: remember this. I worked my ass off for forty eight
Speaker 3: hours because it was premiering on Monday, and this person
Speaker 3: dropped off and he needed.
Speaker 1: Like an Asian person, right. So it was about the
Speaker 1: Chinese Cultural Revolution.
Speaker 3: So I watched the videotape, but I watched it in
Speaker 3: a mirror because I was like, I put my TV
Speaker 3: and I put a mirror because I.
Speaker 1: Did get the blocking right woh.
Speaker 3: So I even put in the mirror and I was
Speaker 3: like memorizing the blocking, and I was memorizing the lines
Speaker 3: and memorized everything. And then we went out for a
Speaker 3: cast party afterwards, and this guy said congratulations to everybody.
Speaker 1: He's like, it's so good to work with, you know, performers.
Speaker 3: And then he looked at me and he said, you know,
Speaker 3: even though some people maybe he shouldn't be doing this,
Speaker 3: oh wow, And I was like, whoa, what the Like?
Speaker 3: I put all this work in, all the beats and everything.
Speaker 3: And then like two weeks after the run was over,
Speaker 3: he said something along the lines of like this is
Speaker 3: not for you, yeah, and.
Speaker 1: Trying to partake it, partake some wisdom to you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: look kid, you're all right, but this isn't for you
Speaker 1: kind of thing. Yeah.
Speaker 2: It was just like, wow, that's kind of like a
Speaker 2: yeah that was that was one of your first roles too,
Speaker 2: Because then you say, you made it in a theater
Speaker 2: and you never performed at your college, right, you were
Speaker 2: always behind?
Speaker 4: Right? So was that right? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Was no? But no, I mean that then you made
Speaker 1: your job, is what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: Then I come to pass this thing and it ran
Speaker 3: for two weeks and I got like nice write ups
Speaker 3: and and I It's funny because I never worked in Kent,
Speaker 3: but I always did stuff for the Cleveland Playhouse and
Speaker 3: I did stuff like like legit professional stuff. So it
Speaker 3: was like weird that like I couldn't work at Kent,
Speaker 3: but I could go and make actual money with real
Speaker 3: working actors in the area and get that. And then
Speaker 3: to get that it was always like, I don't know
Speaker 3: with acting, and I'm sure you you deal with it
Speaker 3: too in terms of like jokers, but as a comic
Speaker 3: it's like you're give an opportunity to do things sometimes
Speaker 3: and acting wise, but uh.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I think the I think in our industry especially, you'll
Speaker 2: get advice from people unwarranted a lot.
Speaker 1: Because people, especially like if people you're respected and have
Speaker 1: gone up high or whatever, it's unsolicited. Most of the time.
Speaker 1: They just it comes from place they're trying to help you.
Speaker 2: But everybody forgets that the way that people get to
Speaker 2: where they are is never, ever, ever the same. Not
Speaker 2: every actor that's on screen studied acting right, took an audition,
Speaker 2: got it, had a hit movie like.
Speaker 1: That doesn't happen right. Everybody gets to a different place
Speaker 1: in a different way.
Speaker 2: So I think in our industry people are like always
Speaker 2: just try to share their story of how they did
Speaker 2: it and like oh maybe blah blah blah, and it
Speaker 2: doesn't apply to you, and you still get to the
Speaker 2: same place, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's interesting, Like even when we did Sullivan and Sun,
Speaker 3: you just brought up a memory for some reason. But
Speaker 3: because I was the lead, right, and so I'm always
Speaker 3: there behind the bar.
Speaker 1: If there was a great.
Speaker 3: Line about like it's a good line, should give that
Speaker 3: to Brian. It's like, but it's true. Aligned, it's like
Speaker 3: I'm behind the desk, like I'm always here. I'll always
Speaker 3: have facilitate stuff. But but I remember this one day
Speaker 3: we were doing a scene and it was like longer
Speaker 3: in the day and Christine ever Saw had a question
Speaker 3: about something in the script. Now, granted this is like
Speaker 3: a summer sitcom, it's silly, but she still is like
Speaker 3: in tune in, giving it her best and being before
Speaker 3: and she's just like it's just not making sense to me,
Speaker 3: and so like motivationally based, like being like figure out
Speaker 3: she could write and and there was a moment where
Speaker 3: people were getting frustrated because it's like it's five it's
Speaker 3: five thirty.
Speaker 1: Can we fucking go home? It's a sitcom.
Speaker 3: And and I remember Guardell telling me all roads lead
Speaker 3: through you. However you behave will have a ripple effect
Speaker 3: on the whole thing. So one of the actors taps
Speaker 3: me on the shoulder, goes, Jesus Christ, Right, I go.
Speaker 1: You got to respect her process.
Speaker 3: You have a process and she has a process, so
Speaker 3: respect the process. And I think that kind of like
Speaker 3: settled it.
Speaker 1: But it's to your point.
Speaker 4: It's like.
Speaker 3: Everybody is going to get there differently. Everybody's going to
Speaker 3: work in a different way as well. When you when
Speaker 3: you do get there right, And I think you just
Speaker 3: have to appreciate people's journey because and what people are
Speaker 3: dealing with on a daily basis too.
Speaker 1: You just don't know, you know. Everybody thinks, yeah, all right.
Speaker 4: About that one.
Speaker 1: One more all right? This one comes from Amy.
Speaker 3: Amy is from Australia.
Speaker 2: Oh it all comes.
Speaker 1: Oh she's a marsupial, get me my crossbow.
Speaker 3: She loves your show.
Speaker 6: I listen to you guys every week and hope you
Speaker 6: can help me. I have a lot of anxiety and
Speaker 6: get overwhelmed by the smallest of things all the time.
Speaker 6: Do you have any advice on how to help over.
Speaker 2: Thank you, did you try not being anxious?
Speaker 1: That's the easiest thing. Just stop being anxious. Yeah, just
Speaker 1: go to sleep.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's.
Speaker 1: Not gonna it didn't happen. To be fine.
Speaker 3: Watch The Aviator with Leonardo Dicaprill. It's about Howard hughes
Speaker 3: and go at.
Speaker 1: Least I'm not that bad. Yes, for sure, you feel
Speaker 1: a lot better about anxiety.
Speaker 2: Is very tricky for me because I don't consider myself
Speaker 2: an anxious person. I don't necessarily understand anxiety, and I
Speaker 2: do I'm a firm believer in most of the stuff
Speaker 2: you worry about is it going to happen anyway, So
Speaker 2: you're wasting energy worrying about it and then not even
Speaker 2: have to deal with it. So for me, I think
Speaker 2: you should probably and with most most anxious people, and
Speaker 2: my wife is pretty anxious. So identifying triggers is a
Speaker 2: big thing. Like if you find yourself going down the
Speaker 2: rabbit hole and start thinking about stuff too much, like
Speaker 2: you have to try to derail your and distract your
Speaker 2: thought process.
Speaker 1: I think that's a big part. So like if you
Speaker 1: could just.
Speaker 2: Either start on a podcast and listen to us, or
Speaker 2: you know, you know, watch out, put on music, watch
Speaker 2: a TV, do something that stops you from sitting there
Speaker 2: and getting going.
Speaker 1: I know the hardest part is at night, when you're
Speaker 1: laying in bed. That's an anxiety.
Speaker 2: Yeah, comes firing up the most for people you know,
Speaker 2: or social anxiety if they're coming out into a crowd.
Speaker 2: But I would just say, know your triggers, try to
Speaker 2: identify them and try to find your your ways to
Speaker 2: deal with them and relinquish them.
Speaker 3: But to your point, it's like, what what does not
Speaker 3: make you anxious?
Speaker 4: Right right?
Speaker 1: Where do you find solace? Like?
Speaker 3: And then examine that? It's like, why don't I feel
Speaker 3: anxiety with X y Z, but ABC does give me anxiety?
Speaker 3: And it's like I think if you can almost like
Speaker 3: reverse engineer it and go to it and go why
Speaker 3: am I not with this?
Speaker 1: But with this social tick, perhaps I am right?
Speaker 3: And I think if you can examine that and kick
Speaker 3: kind of granular with it, I think you could.
Speaker 1: Find the answers within yourself.
Speaker 3: Or to your point as well, it's like I don't
Speaker 3: get anxious when I'm cooking, but I do get anxious
Speaker 3: when I'm focusing on my bills. Yes, well, then maybe
Speaker 3: you could focus on your bills while you're cooking, you know,
Speaker 3: I don't know, just like finding some middle ground. That's
Speaker 3: a great tweet of behavior trait where you don't have it,
Speaker 3: and and and maybe kind of offset or off put
Speaker 3: it in a healthy way.
Speaker 1: That's great. That's a really good advice. There.
Speaker 3: God, I did it. I did it. It should be
Speaker 3: called Steve and another cool mom. I have all the answers.
Speaker 3: I'm the best. I really am.
Speaker 1: The best at this.
Speaker 3: Give me more.
Speaker 1: Can we put up a quick tally? Yeah, just good advice.
Speaker 1: Good advice Joe, which is chacking, and good advice Steve.
Speaker 1: And let's see where we end up.
Speaker 3: All the people that took my advice that are major
Speaker 3: successes that you know, scrub Daddy could talk to me,
Speaker 3: got him situated.
Speaker 1: We want to hear from you guys. Okay, listen, this
Speaker 1: is what we're going to ask you to do.
Speaker 3: The last person Joe talked to was the kid?
Speaker 1: Was it? Luis g Mangio? Op it. We gotta have
Speaker 1: to cut that too.
Speaker 2: What I'm not gonna say that I talked to a
Speaker 2: guy who killed someone.
Speaker 1: You don't you gave him advice?
Speaker 3: He said on my neck cart it's like, this is
Speaker 3: what you gotta do. That's I saw you guys.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm the as Yeah you are okay, but I
Speaker 1: still love you. The thing to remember is I don't
Speaker 1: have muscle memory. I have muscle amnesia. Listens, cool moms, Uh,
Speaker 1: this is it. Remember to write in with your problems.
Speaker 1: You gotta Where can they find.
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