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Speaker 2: hyphen Burn.

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Speaker 1: That's beat. Why r I need? He makes it so

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Speaker 1: easy to find him. And now onto the episode.

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Speaker 3: There was a problem wear a ticket.

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Speaker 1: Two one.

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Speaker 3: Oh we are we are moms.

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Speaker 2: Baby, we did it, We did it. I am Joe Gatto,

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Speaker 2: I'm Steve Burn, and we are so excited to be

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Speaker 2: here for multiple reasons.

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Speaker 3: Yes, happy, happy, blated holidays, Happy late holidays everybody.

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Speaker 4: I hope everybody is good.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, no in law problems. Did you have any

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Speaker 1: in law props? No, I'm just bloated. No, but I

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Speaker 1: mean that's all the time the holidays. Uh, in law No,

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't ever have issues with the in laws.

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Speaker 1: The inlaws are pretty cool. It's great. So it was

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Speaker 1: all good. Everything was great. Everybody's happy, healthy, kids like

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Speaker 1: good kids, liked everything they got. Everybody was happy about it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, my son, it's weird, my son got my I

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Speaker 3: gave my son fifty dollars, and I said, just get

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Speaker 3: your get your sister anything in the mall.

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Speaker 1: I love that.

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Speaker 3: You know what he got her, Uh, fifty dollars gift

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Speaker 3: card to Victoria's secret. No, he did it.

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Speaker 1: That's so crazy, Steve, you're telling jokes now. I was

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Speaker 1: on I started. That started such a sweet, wholesome story

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Speaker 1: because I just got if you winner, if you picked

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Speaker 1: out the brawl your son.

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Speaker 2: I had my sisters, my mom. I don't know if

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Speaker 2: you had this growing up. When I was growing up.

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Speaker 2: My mom worked at our school that we went to

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Speaker 2: Santa Dwwertz shout Out, and she was the secretary, so

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Speaker 2: she would help set up the holiday fair, which is

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Speaker 2: basically just other people's garbage.

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Speaker 1: It was like all homemade.

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Speaker 2: Crazy went and bought like an ashtray that said number

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Speaker 2: one dad on itything right your butt here, like stuff

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Speaker 2: like all this stupid junk right, and they would go

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Speaker 2: and it would give you.

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Speaker 1: I remember my mom was like, Okay, here's ten dollars.

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Speaker 1: You could go spend whatever you want and get whatever

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Speaker 2: Inevitably, you know, you'd spend the ten and you go

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Speaker 2: back to hit it back up and I'm like, mom,

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Speaker 1: This paper mache Santa Cla.

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Speaker 2: My grandma like, yeah, So my kids had this fair

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Speaker 2: at their school and they my daughter said, no, I'd.

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Speaker 1: Rather go to I'd rather go to a real store because.

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Speaker 2: She wanted to go shopping right, right, instead of the

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Speaker 2: things supporting the yeah local.

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Speaker 1: Businesses, right, yeah, they shouldn't want to go to the hendmates.

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Speaker 1: But did you have like some one of those weird

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Speaker 3: I don't remember us going to fairs. I The only

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Speaker 4: They they set up a thing every Sunday.

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Speaker 3: At a flea market in New Jersey, so we'd always

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Speaker 3: go to the flea marke and we go support them.

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Speaker 3: But then us kids would just walk around the flea

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Speaker 1: But nice.

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Speaker 3: But in terms of like a Christmas village or anything,

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Speaker 3: I don't I don't really recall doing that.

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Speaker 4: And pitch two things.

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Speaker 2: I love love a good Christmas village, yeah, but it

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Speaker 2: gets a little cold, yes, And a walking hot cocoa.

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Speaker 1: I love walking hot coco. I don't do a marshmallow

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Speaker 1: and it don don't get the store. Do you remember

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Speaker 1: where your favorite hot Coco's.

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Speaker 2: From no I remember when my favorite hot goes because

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Speaker 1: From no I do remember some legendary cocoas. Here's one

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Speaker 2: Square they have a great outdoor holiday village. Bessie had

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Speaker 2: first moved here. We're living on Wall Street.

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Speaker 1: I see. We gotta check out this holiday village. Okay,

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Speaker 1: this is one hundred century story. Yeah, holiday village. You

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Speaker 1: gotta come right. This is very, very similar to something

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Speaker 1: that happened to you. We go down to the Holliday

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Speaker 1: Village Junion Square. Awesome, bubbah blah, we're going there or whatever.

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Speaker 1: We're hanging out. We get the hot cocoa walking around. Oh,

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Speaker 1: look at this. How much is this stupid painting of

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Speaker 1: the Empire State Building? The one hundred and fifty dollars?

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Speaker 4: No, thank you?

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Speaker 2: You know all this stuff. We're looking all this trash.

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Speaker 2: And then we we'll go and there's this woman that

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Speaker 2: she's sitting in the back of Union Square Park and

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Speaker 2: she's guys just like a couple of scarves and she's

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Speaker 2: and she walks up and it ended up being it

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Speaker 2: was just a homeless woman their clothes.

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Speaker 1: And wait for the kicker.

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Speaker 5: She was petting the possum, pet possum.

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Speaker 1: Bessie screamed and made me take her home.

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Speaker 3: Unbelievable right rocket up, Oh my god, that she was

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Speaker 3: scarving a possum.

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Speaker 1: Don't stop on possible, don't stop.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of the right in the middle,

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Speaker 2: like it was like chochk ornaments possome.

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Speaker 3: Not a good looking at him. It was no, not

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Speaker 3: keep people domestic, domesticate. It's weird, that's weird. But they're

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Speaker 3: good for I guess ticks. They eat ticks summertime, which

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Speaker 1: Well, that's why we need them. They're moresupials. But you

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Speaker 1: don't get a lot of over on this continent. Australia's

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Speaker 1: got the big Joe.

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Speaker 4: Australia's got a lot of learning.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Australia's got the Australia's got the copyright on marsupials.

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Speaker 3: Well look, you know Australia, it's like it's deadly.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, everything could kill you in Australia. Everything.

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Speaker 2: That's why, that's why they try to keep people away

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Speaker 2: and watching the there like this is you come visit.

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Speaker 2: It's fine, but you're gonna die here.

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Speaker 4: Did you? You?

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Speaker 1: You just toured in Australia.

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Speaker 2: Just tour in Australia a little while. Yeah, it was

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Speaker 2: so fun. I would always It was on my bucket

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Speaker 1: Was like fourteen years old.

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Speaker 3: It was your first time there.

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Speaker 1: My first time. There was so much fun. I loved it.

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Speaker 4: I went me and uh.

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Speaker 2: Our producer Marchi guardian Jiggy. There's just the two of

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Speaker 2: us on like our honeymoon, which was so fun.

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Speaker 1: Wait, wait, did.

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Speaker 3: He because before he was telling me about how he's

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Speaker 1: Did he go coach?

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Speaker 4: He did?

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Speaker 1: He did go coach? He did. But he ended up

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Speaker 1: getting a whole row that he was able to lay down,

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Speaker 1: but not on the way back. On the way back, you.

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Speaker 3: Got wow, you get a row international.

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Speaker 1: That's rare.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because we was like a Tuesday or something with something,

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Speaker 1: He didn't spring for it. Huh, he didn't spring for it. Now, no,

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Speaker 1: Jiggy t Rexalms. Yeah, he's not here to defend himself either.

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Speaker 4: Thank god. Let's talk about it.

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Speaker 1: You guys, know, when's the.

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Speaker 2: Last time he bought you a coffee. It's not fair

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Speaker 2: to talk about about him when he's not here. Let's

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Speaker 2: only talk I all about him.

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Speaker 4: When okay, sure, talk about his wife.

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Speaker 1: Did you well, lovely woman, great woman? Did you ever

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Speaker 2: Ever interact with like a while down a wild beastaid

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Speaker 2: you had to capture on your own, in your yard

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Speaker 4: Like I'll tell you this.

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Speaker 3: My daughter's guinea pig passed away and it was in

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Speaker 3: It basically means dad, will you bury it? So I

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Speaker 1: A new one group now have a guinea picture.

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Speaker 3: And then literally, like I guess, two weeks later or

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Speaker 1: Drive gave it CPR was like clear.

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Speaker 3: But that was I don't know in terms of wild animal.

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Speaker 1: No have you you're younger. You must deal with island

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Speaker 1: Staten Island. I lived next to the woods. We were

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there was a there was an angry possum. When

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Speaker 2: after my sister and Nino, my brother in law, Nino

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Speaker 2: And I was collecting weapons at the time, and my father, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you know, I collected weapons. I talked about this when

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Speaker 2: had a wall of weapons. I used to go see

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Speaker 2: the guy the Big Apple Bazar. You should listen to

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Speaker 2: our podcast. It's really great.

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Speaker 3: So I went, you used to like an eighth grade

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Speaker 3: John Wick.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, it was just he was talking about

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Speaker 2: this day the Big Apple Bazaar had this old Asian

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Speaker 2: gentleman who looked like, exactly.

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Speaker 3: Why didn't you take a breath after you said that?

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Speaker 3: And looked at me like you caught What does that

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Speaker 4: You're Asian old gentleman?

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Speaker 2: He looked like, but those are just listening to his

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Speaker 1: Guy that sold the magua and gremblins, like he was

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Speaker 2: And he was used to just some of all these weapons.

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Speaker 2: And I had all these things hanging on my wall.

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Speaker 2: I had a crossbowl, a blow gun. I had a

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Speaker 1: You know, uh, what were you most adept with? Bone?

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Speaker 4: Arrow? What?

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Speaker 1: Bone? Arrow? Bow?

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Speaker 4: An arrow?

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Speaker 1: Archer?

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Speaker 3: Really?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Hold hold egg I used to my neighbors used to

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Speaker 2: hold the eggplants in their hands from the garden.

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Speaker 1: I iced to shoot them out.

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Speaker 1: Way an eggplant, eggplant?

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Speaker 3: You know, an apple is like it's like girth. An

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Speaker 1: No, an egg full leg plant?

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Speaker 3: Oh you're working with yeah, full plant.

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Speaker 1: So anyway, I would so so Nino and Gina picture it.

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Speaker 1: They come home. It's it's late at night. A light

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Speaker 1: is rolling through Statn Island.

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Speaker 2: I was so upset, so I said to my dad,

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Speaker 2: He's like, well, I have to take care of this,

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Speaker 1: And he got his shovel and we had no way

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Speaker 1: And he gave me eulogy for the bottom. That's one

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Speaker 2: But in Staten Island, I lived by the woods, so

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Speaker 3: Ye had our neighborhood. Now it's just deer and deer

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Speaker 1: Got all Medillo's rolling around.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, how cool?

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Speaker 1: Is that pretty cool? I've never seen a dealer in

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Speaker 4: Really, it's like a cool turtle.

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Speaker 1: Is like a badass turtle, right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like, uh, well it's like a possum with

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Speaker 4: Oh there's no shell.

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Speaker 1: Dilo is shellless. It's it's a shell, but it's.

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Speaker 2: Like, oh it's like skinny though it's not like it's

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Speaker 1: It's like they curl up in a ball. Get out

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like the hedgehog.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, percent swear to god.

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Speaker 4: Yeah there actually kind of cute.

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Speaker 1: Because possums are disgusting looking. Yeah, Armadillo's look pettible. Possums don't.

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Speaker 3: No possum is like possum's got that faces a finger.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I wouldn't do that. Even the Chinese don't eat them. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's how awful they are. Sorry you could say that, though,

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Speaker 1: I gat.

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Speaker 4: Again I'm pointing.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever heard of Kilwin's By the way, Killin's chocolate.

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Speaker 4: That's the best hot chocolate ever heard of? You guys heard.

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Speaker 3: That's the literally, the hands down, the best hot chalk

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Speaker 3: I've ever had, really, hands out, because you.

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Speaker 4: Know why they use cocoa.

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Speaker 1: Milk oh wa water? No? I never used water, dude.

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Speaker 3: Come on, that's every Christmas village in the water.

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Speaker 1: It quick for discount and.

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Speaker 4: They charge you.

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Speaker 1: That's right. Would you do? Many marshmallows and yours? No

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Speaker 1: me too. I don't. I don't. I don't mess with

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Speaker 1: the marshmallows.

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Speaker 2: Always congregate together and form one jumbo marshmallow that wants

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Speaker 2: to joke you the job. You know that they get

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Speaker 2: hot and the coagulate and then you just have this

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Speaker 1: Terrible, terrible.

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Speaker 3: Hold up you, that's the one thing you would love

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Speaker 3: a marshall.

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Speaker 1: I've eat with you, I go out. You're all about desserts,

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Speaker 1: You're all about marshmallow. You'll get a dessert before the meal.

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Speaker 1: Marshmallows on my list of top six things I hate

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Speaker 1: food wise, can.

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Speaker 4: I list the next one?

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Speaker 3: So, marsh marshmallow you outgrow I think?

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Speaker 1: Is that for he to say you will grollo you

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Speaker 1: grollo marshmallow? Yeah? I agree.

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Speaker 3: I outgrew marshmallows, I think in maybe high school.

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Speaker 1: Okay, now I'm going to ask you pop quiz. Spell

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Speaker 1: marshmallow and can I please have us fact check it?

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Speaker 3: Spell marshmallow m A R s h M E l

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Speaker 3: l O W. Wow.

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Speaker 1: That couldn't be more are incorrect? The W on the end,

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Speaker 1: m A R s h m A l l O.

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Speaker 1: That's all right, Oh.

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Speaker 3: You're right, we got it right.

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Speaker 4: Point to me.

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Speaker 6: M A R he said, m E l l O

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Speaker 6: W whatever. It's m A R s h m A

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Speaker 2: M A not not mellow mallow, marsh malls.

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Speaker 4: All right, Well you were close.

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Speaker 1: I was not very good at it. That's weird. How

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Speaker 1: did the mini The mini is only used in two ingredients.

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Speaker 2: It's used as a sprinkle on top of a uh

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Speaker 2: sweet potato uh you know, sweet potato mash during the holidays.

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Speaker 1: That that rolls in and then in the hat Coco.

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Speaker 1: Then the mini marshmallow serves no other purpose.

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Speaker 3: Really, honestly, you're right. What else what a small market

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Speaker 3: hold on ice cream Sunday?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right those people reading a cold marshmallow is

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Speaker 2: worse than a hot mellow.

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Speaker 1: Hot metals congragulate together. The hard ones that just you

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Speaker 1: chomping on it's like a chicklate. Those are the worst.

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Speaker 1: I hate marshmallows.

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Speaker 3: When's the last time we had Oneores?

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Speaker 1: I'll dude, smalles not for me?

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Speaker 3: Really?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, messy that it's like a crab, like a kid.

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Speaker 1: You don't like?

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Speaker 4: No, no, did.

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Speaker 1: You ever have? So?

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Speaker 2: I had the marshmallow my son made me try when

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Speaker 2: when we met last mate smores this last fall, we're

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Speaker 2: doing a fire pet and he's like, Dad, you have

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Speaker 2: to try, remember me try because I make him try

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Speaker 2: everything and he hates everything. I sorry, I'll try it again.

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Speaker 2: I haven't tried it in a while, and I tried

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Speaker 2: and instantly hated it. I don't like the consistency.

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Speaker 1: There's no.

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Speaker 3: It's either or you still get the thing in the

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Speaker 3: middle that didn't melt yet.

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Speaker 1: Oh do you burn you?

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Speaker 4: You burn them?

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Speaker 1: Right? Because that's the problem. Yeah, that's tough.

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Speaker 3: I like, I like a nice little when you're doing it,

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Speaker 3: when you're doing around, could.

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Speaker 1: You make a fire? Could I make a fire right

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Speaker 1: now here?

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Speaker 4: And I get lost in the woods, I'm dead.

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Speaker 1: I'm dead in seventy two hours.

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Speaker 2: Wow, we're being trum seriously, two cold moms, dead moms.

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Speaker 3: You you wouldn't be able to walk more than two miles.

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Speaker 1: What are you pointed to me for? Because you couldn't.

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Speaker 3: I could walk, I complain, you would complain, you would

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Speaker 3: gass out so quick?

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Speaker 1: Is it uphill?

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Speaker 3: Even if it's a flat plane, if it's just slow,

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Speaker 3: I'll tell you what, if it was downhill, you'd still

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Speaker 2: I can't know, because the problem is if I'm going

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Speaker 1: It like fat Joe. Because I can't.

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Speaker 2: I have to this equilibrium you don't deal with as

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Speaker 2: a portly gentleman.

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Speaker 1: I need to lean I have to be perpendicular to

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Speaker 2: But when you go for okay, if I'm going forward downhill,

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Speaker 2: I gotta lean back.

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Speaker 1: If I'm going uphill, I have to lean forward. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Oh that's tough. Flat's the only way I could do it. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: When is the last time you like it? Just took

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Speaker 3: But you know, you never are like stressed out. You're like,

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Speaker 3: I should take a while.

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Speaker 1: I don't walk when I'm stressed out.

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Speaker 4: What do you do?

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Speaker 1: Bake passa month?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 1: I uh, let me see you do I have.

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Speaker 2: I'll tell you where I like to go for a walk.

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Speaker 2: I like to go for a walk when it's like

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Speaker 2: a nature trailing kind of thing. Okay, I'll do that,

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Speaker 2: like when we go for like the New Year's House.

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Speaker 2: I rent the house at New Year's and we'll go

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Speaker 2: like the kids are.

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Speaker 1: Like, let's go for a nature walk and we'll walk

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Speaker 1: through the woods. I'll do that.

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Speaker 3: Like there are things you know, like when when when

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Speaker 3: Jim Carrey and Jeff Dane's go to go to Colorado

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Speaker 3: and dumb and Dumber and they get the cowboy gear

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Speaker 3: on like that, You dressing up in hiking gear would

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, forget it. Could you never imagine me?

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Speaker 1: Could you imagine me free climbing like trying to rock

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Speaker 1: climb like free bo called that free Bason. What is that?

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Speaker 1: The free banks with drugs? What is that freel there's

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Speaker 1: a free climbs, free climb. Yeah, and I'm just out.

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Speaker 1: Could you imagine me like with the chalk, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Like, let's go up never and I boy shorts.

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Speaker 1: It would be powdered sugar on my hands. I'd be like,

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Speaker 1: let's go.

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Speaker 7: You just lick and stick to it.

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Speaker 1: I'd be like Spider Man every buddy. I did try

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Speaker 1: one of those rock climbing walls.

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Speaker 2: Once and in my mind I thought it was gonna

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Speaker 2: I'm just.

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Speaker 1: Picturing eight year olds dusting you. Yeah, they're like move

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Speaker 1: old man.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I tried to. My daughter loves them. Is really good

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Speaker 1: that my my kids do ninja like American Ninja Warrior.

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Speaker 4: They do that.

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Speaker 2: That's one of their activities on Mondays ago to do

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Speaker 2: a ninja camp.

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Speaker 3: I wish we had that when we were kids, because

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Speaker 3: we too us it was double dare right. That's as

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Speaker 3: close as you got what American Ninja Warrior is. It

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Speaker 3: is a lot of fun to wash so much better.

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Speaker 3: But it started out as Japanese game shows where people

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Speaker 3: get fuck really oh Japanese like wipe out yo. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: like wipe out on TBS is like a totally neutered version.

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Speaker 1: I mean, these Japanese people are getting.

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Speaker 3: Really whooped, really fresh ones.

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Speaker 1: I gotta check that out.

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Speaker 2: Whype not I never I never trust because they always

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Speaker 2: just have things that you don't even see coming.

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Speaker 1: Like the wall all of a sudden separates and just

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Speaker 1: a big fucking fish comes down and it's so dumb.

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Speaker 1: I h yeah.

452
00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:04,760
Speaker 2: I think if we've raced up a wall, how many

453
00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:07,119
Speaker 2: minutes do you think you beat me by pretty quickly?

454
00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:08,000
Speaker 4: Climbing?

455
00:18:08,240 --> 00:18:11,399
Speaker 1: I'm talking vertical vertical rock climbing wall, mean you go

456
00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:15,120
Speaker 1: to rock? What wall? Climbing gym? Sure? Side by side? Okay, ready,

457
00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:19,000
Speaker 1: steady go boom, We're going up. Yeap. It takes me.

458
00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:21,879
Speaker 1: You finished two minutes before me, four minutes before me.

459
00:18:21,920 --> 00:18:25,680
Speaker 1: What do you think at least three to four to four? Yeah,

460
00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:30,840
Speaker 1: I say, being generous, I think you finish. Yeah.

461
00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:31,280
Speaker 4: Yeah.

462
00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:32,880
Speaker 1: Well I have tennis elbow right now, so I can't

463
00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:33,400
Speaker 1: do it right now.

464
00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:35,959
Speaker 2: But if I was in if I were pristine condition,

465
00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:42,040
Speaker 2: maybe well, but you're in pretty good shape now, yes

466
00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:46,440
Speaker 2: wait wise yeah, but not muscle wise. Yeah, my muscle

467
00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:48,560
Speaker 2: I don't have muscle memory.

468
00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:56,400
Speaker 1: I have the opposite of that memory memory muscles. When

469
00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:58,200
Speaker 1: is it? When's last when you played a sport?

470
00:18:58,640 --> 00:18:59,280
Speaker 2: Uh?

471
00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:00,000
Speaker 1: With my body?

472
00:19:01,840 --> 00:19:03,120
Speaker 4: I talk about like a video game.

473
00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:06,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, but uh sport? Let me see, Oh I play

474
00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:07,240
Speaker 1: during the summer.

475
00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:09,720
Speaker 2: Last summer, I play ultimate frisbee at my family reunion

476
00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:13,080
Speaker 2: and I scored the winning touchdown by diving and catching it.

477
00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:14,000
Speaker 3: Did you really Yes?

478
00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:17,600
Speaker 2: Everybody was like, what the because my nephews went crazy.

479
00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:21,080
Speaker 1: This is this is very It's meant to be a compliment.

480
00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:24,520
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, it is a combent. You're you

481
00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:28,040
Speaker 3: can be very competitive, and so I'm shocked you you

482
00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:29,680
Speaker 3: never got more into sports.

483
00:19:29,840 --> 00:19:33,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I have the mind for it, not the body.

484
00:19:34,119 --> 00:19:35,480
Speaker 1: I have the attitude for it. I didn't have the

485
00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:41,960
Speaker 1: body for it, you know, never never really all right, yeah,

486
00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:44,520
Speaker 1: well that makes sense. I have the mind for the body.

487
00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:47,120
Speaker 3: Well, but if you could compete in one.

488
00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:50,879
Speaker 1: Sport basketball, oh well, we take a bowling off the table.

489
00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:55,600
Speaker 1: By the way, we've talked about this. I'd love to

490
00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:56,280
Speaker 1: see you now right now.

491
00:19:56,320 --> 00:20:01,520
Speaker 2: I have tennis prime condition. I would probably say volleyball.

492
00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:07,199
Speaker 2: I was always competitive in volleyball. Okay, ultimate frisbee. So

493
00:20:07,320 --> 00:20:08,440
Speaker 2: no three or four?

494
00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:12,240
Speaker 1: No football? I was okay. I always tried out of football.

495
00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:13,360
Speaker 1: I'll get hit by a car.

496
00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:17,520
Speaker 2: Jesus was like, it's not for you.

497
00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:20,879
Speaker 1: They're like, Jesus, could you please get riggs? Hold on,

498
00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:23,480
Speaker 1: I gotta take care of something. Step there we go.

499
00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:24,040
Speaker 4: What do you need?

500
00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:29,159
Speaker 1: Yeah? So all right, well you know that's it. But

501
00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:30,440
Speaker 1: you played hockey. That's hockey?

502
00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:30,960
Speaker 7: Was your jam?

503
00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:34,199
Speaker 1: Still right? You still pretend that you're in shape. Excuse me,

504
00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:34,919
Speaker 1: you still.

505
00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:35,840
Speaker 4: Pretend that you're athletics.

506
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Speaker 2: The first question, first question, you're coming in hot, Andrew,

507
00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:40,600
Speaker 2: bring us in and just say hello to everybody.

508
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Speaker 1: First, everybody, yes, andrews Andrew Ye. Mark couldn't make it,

509
00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:46,240
Speaker 1: so we uh we brought on the big guns. Oh shoot,

510
00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:48,440
Speaker 1: nice to be here.

511
00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:49,480
Speaker 3: Okay.

512
00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:50,760
Speaker 1: So this one comes from Steven.

513
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Speaker 6: It says, hey, too cool, moms, could you give me

514
00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:56,320
Speaker 6: some pointers on how and why women are blocking me?

515
00:20:56,760 --> 00:20:59,200
Speaker 6: I've had the worst luck this year with over ten

516
00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:02,760
Speaker 6: women block me, just randomly, all giving me reasons like

517
00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:06,160
Speaker 6: my boyfriend asked me to or I don't feel comfortable

518
00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:09,120
Speaker 6: around you, and without an explanation as to why. I've

519
00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:12,639
Speaker 6: also had other women tell me that I'm too much

520
00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:17,800
Speaker 6: and that I can come off strong. Any tips on

521
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Speaker 6: how to know why women are blocking me and how

522
00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:21,560
Speaker 6: I can fix this.

523
00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:24,360
Speaker 3: This is the first time where it's like, it's not you,

524
00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:27,960
Speaker 3: it is me. I think really applies. Yeah, it does

525
00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:28,760
Speaker 3: sound like it's him.

526
00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:31,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, holy cow. Yeah that people have blatantly told you

527
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Speaker 1: what the problem was.

528
00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:33,040
Speaker 4: A though you're too much.

529
00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:34,200
Speaker 1: I guess. I guess he doesn't.

530
00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:36,359
Speaker 2: I guess the question comes from why is he being

531
00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:38,399
Speaker 2: too much? Okay, so let's let's break it down a

532
00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:41,320
Speaker 2: little bit. If you're making people uncomfortable enough that they

533
00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:43,119
Speaker 2: have to block you, Look, the boyfriend one goes out

534
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:45,600
Speaker 2: the window because the boyfriend just wants you blocks you blocks.

535
00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:47,480
Speaker 1: That's it. Don't even worry about that one. You can't

536
00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:49,120
Speaker 1: think of out that. The other ones we need.

537
00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:51,720
Speaker 2: To focus on are you're too much or I don't

538
00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:53,040
Speaker 2: feel comfortable around you.

539
00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:58,399
Speaker 1: Right, let's workshop those being too much.

540
00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:03,960
Speaker 2: Could be herbreted it as you're posting too much or

541
00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:06,879
Speaker 2: going because we're talking about online only, right, So if

542
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 2: you're getting blocked online, you're probably maybe dming too much,

543
00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:12,560
Speaker 2: posting too much, liking too much things like that, or

544
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:15,440
Speaker 2: making comments they don't aren't comfortable with underneath.

545
00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:16,920
Speaker 1: Like, Wow, that's a sassy bikini.

546
00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:21,560
Speaker 2: I can't believe you pulled it off haha lol shark emoji, Like,

547
00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:23,960
Speaker 2: I don't know, I would block you there, Like it

548
00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:26,639
Speaker 2: could be something like that that you're making them uncomfortable

549
00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:28,320
Speaker 2: with the comments. So I would say the first thing

550
00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:31,520
Speaker 2: you could probably do is take your online don't comment,

551
00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:33,760
Speaker 2: don't DM for a month and see what happens, just

552
00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:36,760
Speaker 2: like if you'd like, I would say that might be

553
00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:39,359
Speaker 2: a good see what the problem is. Are your comments

554
00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:42,359
Speaker 2: coming across too much or you're dming too much? That

555
00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:43,800
Speaker 2: would probably be a good way to do it.

556
00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:46,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think it's a bad idea to kind

557
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:49,679
Speaker 3: of take some time off and take stock. But I

558
00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:53,000
Speaker 3: think anytime it's too much, it usually it stems from

559
00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:56,199
Speaker 3: some sense of insecurity. Right, So it's like maybe in

560
00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:58,919
Speaker 3: the time off, you take stock of the things you

561
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:03,040
Speaker 3: appreciate about yourself and feel confidence in it. I think

562
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 3: when you're confident in things, like you don't go you're.

563
00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:08,120
Speaker 1: Not pushy, right, yes, too much?

564
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:11,080
Speaker 3: Like like if you go to like a like a

565
00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:13,240
Speaker 3: like like if some drives a Lamborghini, it's like, oh,

566
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,120
Speaker 3: it's a Lamborghini. But if it's like somebody's like, oh

567
00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 3: I got this, you know, uh CRV, but it's got

568
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:21,800
Speaker 3: a six dis change ac it's got the mood. It's

569
00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:23,560
Speaker 3: like it's a fucking CRV. It's a piece of shit.

570
00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:26,119
Speaker 3: But if you're you know, it's like, yeah, it's a

571
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:26,720
Speaker 3: cyber truck.

572
00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:27,200
Speaker 1: It's cool.

573
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 3: It's it's neat, you know. I mean, people aren't bragging

574
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:32,400
Speaker 3: about this. So I think I just like, I think

575
00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:35,280
Speaker 3: it's almost like you got to just maybe take a

576
00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:37,720
Speaker 3: little bit of time to yourself, right and appreciate the

577
00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 3: things that you do like about yourself and maybe build

578
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:42,359
Speaker 3: off of those. But you don't need to take a

579
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:44,199
Speaker 3: victory lap or anything like that. But I think it

580
00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:46,679
Speaker 3: just it always comes down to I hear stuff like that.

581
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:49,160
Speaker 3: It just sounds like this sounds like somebody who's insecure

582
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:52,000
Speaker 3: that just needs to just relax a second.

583
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 1: Cool your jets. You're good enough, right, right.

584
00:23:54,600 --> 00:24:00,199
Speaker 3: You're appreciated, but well we don't know them true, Like

585
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:02,400
Speaker 3: you could be like this, yeah, like stare at people.

586
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:04,000
Speaker 4: It's just like, you know, it's too much.

587
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, you can't help how you you know,

588
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 3: stare or something like that. But I don't know. I

589
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:10,879
Speaker 3: think actions speak loud of the words yeah, and it's

590
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:13,199
Speaker 3: just your actions are coming off for me.

591
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 2: I would pick up some sort of reading about social cues,

592
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:21,200
Speaker 2: because you're clearly not picking up some social cues and

593
00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:23,159
Speaker 2: people feel uncomfortable about you because a lot of people

594
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:25,800
Speaker 2: I've been in many a room and it's really hard

595
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:29,560
Speaker 2: to make me uncomfortable, very hard, you know. So if

596
00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:33,280
Speaker 2: you do it, you're really really socially awkward or something

597
00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:35,919
Speaker 2: is up with you, you know. So if that happens,

598
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:39,480
Speaker 2: I'll always notice these people don't have the right distance

599
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:42,399
Speaker 2: social distancing, knowing when not to ask something or to

600
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:45,359
Speaker 2: ask something, staring at people, are looking at people a

601
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 2: certain way, smelling their hair, like I've been in these

602
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:48,640
Speaker 2: all sort.

603
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:49,399
Speaker 1: Of weird situations.

604
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:51,119
Speaker 2: I was an elevator at once and this guy smelled

605
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:52,800
Speaker 2: this girl's hair and she was like.

606
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 3: His name was President, and he was like, what do

607
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:55,720
Speaker 3: you and she was.

608
00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 1: She's like oh, She's like oh, and he goes, no,

609
00:24:57,119 --> 00:24:57,920
Speaker 1: it just smells nice.

610
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:00,199
Speaker 2: And he's like, I'm giving you a compliment and and

611
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 2: she was like yeah, but that was but he wasn't

612
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 2: being like he was just he thought that was right,

613
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 2: like you know what I mean, It wasn't in a

614
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 2: sexual or creepy way. He was just like, oh, oh

615
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:10,960
Speaker 2: you're shampoo's nice, right, And I was like, well you

616
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:12,400
Speaker 2: just sniffed ahead, dude, Like, don't.

617
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 1: Do that, you know, so you can't stiff people's heads.

618
00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:17,440
Speaker 2: I think that might help definitely, because I think you're

619
00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 2: not picking up on social cues. If you make people uncomfortable,

620
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 2: it doesn't know, it's automatically default to. It could be this,

621
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:26,480
Speaker 2: but it doesn't default for me that you're being creepy. Yeah,

622
00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:28,480
Speaker 2: it could just be that you're just making them uncomfortable

623
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:31,520
Speaker 2: because the way you present yourself and whatever.

624
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:31,760
Speaker 1: You know.

625
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:35,840
Speaker 3: Well, here's the great thing though, self awareness to to

626
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:39,400
Speaker 3: your point is that but he does have some self

627
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 3: awareness because he's acknowledging the fact that he's receiving this information.

628
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:44,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, but he's not putting he's not looking in the mirror.

629
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Speaker 1: It doesn't sound like make that change. Yeah, you've gotta

630
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:48,679
Speaker 1: he's got to look at that man in the mirror.

631
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 1: Make that change. I mean, who's got it, who's gotta

632
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:57,639
Speaker 1: who's gotta do it? He's got it, He's got I

633
00:25:57,640 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 1: think that's a big part of it. I think you

634
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,400
Speaker 1: got to say. He's like, I don't know why people

635
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 1: are blocking me, and then he lists reasons why. So

636
00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 1: our friend Steven, he's gotta do that.

637
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 3: This is I know you've dealt with this probably every

638
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:14,040
Speaker 3: day in your life. But there's like after shows. Every time,

639
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 3: after show, there's always somebody's like, hey, do you want

640
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 3: to hear a joke?

641
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, oh he doesn't want to hear

642
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:19,400
Speaker 1: a joke.

643
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:21,359
Speaker 3: Now he doesn't want to hear It's like there's always

644
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:26,000
Speaker 3: that person that like is so unaware of the optics

645
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:28,359
Speaker 3: of the room or under it, just like yeah, I

646
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 3: don't know you I just talk for an hour.

647
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 1: I want to go home and cry like in a

648
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:34,000
Speaker 1: hot shower.

649
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 3: And yeah, I mean, just I don't know. There's always

650
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:39,920
Speaker 3: I was the only reason I brought up because I

651
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 3: had that experience this weekend where was another one of

652
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:45,080
Speaker 3: those people where it's like there's five people you meet

653
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 3: after every show, right, somebody's gracious, somebody's too nervous, somebody

654
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 3: is way too boisterous, and then somebody who's so insecure

655
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:55,399
Speaker 3: that they flip it on you.

656
00:26:55,440 --> 00:27:01,919
Speaker 4: Would you say a beat? Okay, do that to me.

657
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:05,439
Speaker 3: But here's your reaction. Ready, So there's the person that

658
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 3: does the thing.

659
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:13,360
Speaker 1: You write it down, Mark, you gotta write it down.

660
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:14,160
Speaker 1: I gotta take it down.

661
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 2: I gotta take it out.

662
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 1: There's some self massaging that you'll do. Can that be

663
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:28,160
Speaker 1: the name of episode self massaging? No?

664
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 7: No, but yes, Steve, good luck to you.

665
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 2: So no that what you were saying was like those

666
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 2: people that come up they don't be able to read

667
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 2: the room is huge, that is being.

668
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:44,160
Speaker 1: Able to but some people just don't have it. Yeah, right,

669
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Speaker 1: could you learn it? Because I'll say I didn't.

670
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 2: Well, I think, well, you're also I'm dealing with like

671
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:52,240
Speaker 2: I'm talking about, like coming out adolescence.

672
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:54,320
Speaker 1: I think if you're an adult, you might be setting

673
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 1: your ways a little bit.

674
00:27:55,040 --> 00:28:01,280
Speaker 2: But I remember being too witty and mean with my

675
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:03,920
Speaker 2: comedy and saying things that were would make other people

676
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:05,360
Speaker 2: feel bad to get everybody else to laugh.

677
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:06,879
Speaker 1: And remember I remember the moment I was like, oh,

678
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 1: I got to stop doing that.

679
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:11,359
Speaker 2: And everybody should be laughing, not laughing at somebody that

680
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 2: whole thing and having like a little bit of an

681
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:15,160
Speaker 2: awakening that way. You know, my mom's saying that stuff

682
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:16,879
Speaker 2: to me, you know, just to drill it in because

683
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 2: she recognized it too. But I I think I learned that.

684
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,360
Speaker 2: But do you think that people could learn to read

685
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,959
Speaker 2: a room. I guess maybe by experience, by being around

686
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 2: people more because there are all people out intervers and

687
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:31,240
Speaker 2: that you put them in a mix and they're like,

688
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:32,440
Speaker 2: ooh yeah.

689
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:34,439
Speaker 3: It just comes down to reading the social cues, right,

690
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 3: Like literally just read the clues, dude, Like no one

691
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:40,680
Speaker 3: wants to hear the story, no one. People are not

692
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 3: even making eye contact or you know, just it's it's interesting,

693
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:48,440
Speaker 3: like the social dynamic, just all the cues people give off.

694
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:51,800
Speaker 3: I just pick up after shows sometimes where like you'll

695
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 3: be having a conversation and somebody's just like standing there

696
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 3: and they're not even like it's like you can see

697
00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:00,920
Speaker 3: I'm talking to and I won't even acknowledge you now

698
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 3: because I'm here, I'm like doubling down right on talking

699
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 3: to this person, giving them all my attention because you

700
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 3: keep being intrusive to the space and you're also being

701
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:12,440
Speaker 3: rude to this individual, so I don't know it, just

702
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 3: like that person isn't reading any of it, and it's like,

703
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 3: how do you get that person understand that? And it

704
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 3: comes down to like a person like you, because I've

705
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 3: seen you you'd be like, I'm talking to.

706
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 1: This because you go back this up right now, give

707
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:26,720
Speaker 1: me a minute.

708
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 3: Given that, I mean you, you literally have a great

709
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 3: peripheral and I've seen you pick up on things and

710
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 3: you're very You're very kind, you're very patient, but you're

711
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 3: also very honest. And there's times you've been honest with people.

712
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 1: Where I'm like, well, I wish I could do that.

713
00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 3: I really like I truly.

714
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 1: Well, that's why we hang out together because you'd make

715
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 1: me do it for you. You just give me, You'll

716
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 1: give me an old like next or something. I think

717
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: it comes down to that.

718
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 2: I think it comes down to maybe pick up a

719
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:58,840
Speaker 2: book or something about reading into like social cues and

720
00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:00,160
Speaker 2: being able to manage.

721
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 1: What people the energy people are given off to you.

722
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 4: Yeah.

723
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 1: Good luck to you, though, buddy.

724
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 3: But the first step is the fact that he's reaching out.

725
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:09,320
Speaker 3: He understands Yeah, which is great.

726
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I would say definitely that thing about social media.

727
00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 2: Take a beat from that, all right.

728
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 1: This next one comes from Karen.

729
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 6: She asks what is the advice that you were given,

730
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 6: asked for or not that you are happy you ignored Oh.

731
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 1: Karen got a good one there. So somebody forced advice

732
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 1: on you and you're happy you didn't follow it. Wow,

733
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 1: that's a good one. That's a good question. Let's see.

734
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 1: Let's see.

735
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 2: I'm trying to think about because I've got I've gotten

736
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:43,000
Speaker 2: advice from my parents, and I haven't listened to all

737
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 2: of it, but I remember a lot of it being good.

738
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:47,560
Speaker 1: But I'm sure there's got to be I was told.

739
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 3: I should do a podcast, m.

740
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:52,280
Speaker 1: You shouldn't have.

741
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 4: Are you talking about the other ones that you tried

742
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:54,440
Speaker 4: and failed?

743
00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 1: This one? Oh? You mean this one?

744
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:58,320
Speaker 2: You talk about the three other ones you tried that

745
00:30:58,320 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 2: didn't work, and then this one we got on IHR

746
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 2: podcast Network. I'm sorry he's talk about the three other

747
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 2: ones that had seven listens across the board you're talking

748
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 2: about I don't know.

749
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 1: I just wanted you.

750
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:09,840
Speaker 2: To be clear for the listeners that are all tuned

751
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 2: in listening to this I podcast network, a major conglomerate

752
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 2: that we're on right now.

753
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 1: I wasn't just be clear to the people. Are we

754
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:18,560
Speaker 1: talking about the.

755
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 5: One that you filmed with with a selfie cam in

756
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 5: your home office talking about stand up comedy and dissecting

757
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 5: it Oh.

758
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 1: The nine people that listened to that loved it.

759
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 2: I love you Wow, that cut deep. Hey listen my

760
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 2: first podcast suck too. Now we found each other.

761
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 1: What was the first one? Two cool moths?

762
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 2: My first one I did was my first one I

763
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:51,360
Speaker 2: did was is called You Seem Cool? And it was

764
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:53,760
Speaker 2: during COVID when I was finding people online and they

765
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 2: were really cool and I just wanted to interview them.

766
00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 1: So it's like a fifteen minute short podcast. It was fun.

767
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 4: It wasn't.

768
00:31:57,840 --> 00:31:59,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it wasn't. I don't think it was on

769
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:01,959
Speaker 1: that I could would have sustained this format. I love

770
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 1: and I love you Stevie. This is I love you too.

771
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:04,480
Speaker 1: This is great.

772
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 3: But what what was there something? Obviously it goes back

773
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 3: to profession I'm sure that there were.

774
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 2: Oh well, I mean I got one that pops off

775
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:12,040
Speaker 2: right away. Our agent told us that we were too

776
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:14,680
Speaker 2: old for TV. Really, that we should give up on it.

777
00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,760
Speaker 2: We should have sold to the format instead of trying

778
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 2: to do jokers because we were too old for TV.

779
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 1: That funny? Really? Yeah, yeah, so that's bad, Ben advice.

780
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:25,720
Speaker 1: I didn't you were mid thirties at that point. I

781
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 1: mean that's I was young to mid I was like, yeah,

782
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 1: thirty yeah, thirty fourth.

783
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:31,800
Speaker 3: It's crazy to say that to somebody that, yeah.

784
00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 2: That had a good show on their hands too, which

785
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 2: is crazy. Yeah, so that's definitely that's number one bad

786
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 2: advice that I didn't take.

787
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:43,840
Speaker 1: Wow, what din't anyways? Hey horrible? Sorry it's had an opinion?

788
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 4: No, who is the first had an opinion?

789
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's always people that will tell you though, I had.

790
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 3: I had one guy when I first moved here. I

791
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 3: came out of Kent and I was I was starting

792
00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:58,640
Speaker 3: to dabble and stand up, but I had a theater degree.

793
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:01,239
Speaker 3: And so there was this off off Broadway show that

794
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 3: was going on and they needed somebody last minute, right,

795
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 3: So I filled in for somebody and I actually I

796
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:10,320
Speaker 3: remember this. I worked my ass off for forty eight

797
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:13,080
Speaker 3: hours because it was premiering on Monday, and this person

798
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:14,440
Speaker 3: dropped off and he needed.

799
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 1: Like an Asian person, right. So it was about the

800
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 1: Chinese Cultural Revolution.

801
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 3: So I watched the videotape, but I watched it in

802
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 3: a mirror because I was like, I put my TV

803
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 3: and I put a mirror because I.

804
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 1: Did get the blocking right woh.

805
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:29,880
Speaker 3: So I even put in the mirror and I was

806
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 3: like memorizing the blocking, and I was memorizing the lines

807
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 3: and memorized everything. And then we went out for a

808
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:41,400
Speaker 3: cast party afterwards, and this guy said congratulations to everybody.

809
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 1: He's like, it's so good to work with, you know, performers.

810
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 3: And then he looked at me and he said, you know,

811
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:51,800
Speaker 3: even though some people maybe he shouldn't be doing this,

812
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:54,760
Speaker 3: oh wow, And I was like, whoa, what the Like?

813
00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:58,479
Speaker 3: I put all this work in, all the beats and everything.

814
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 3: And then like two weeks after the run was over,

815
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:06,280
Speaker 3: he said something along the lines of like this is

816
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 3: not for you, yeah, and.

817
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:11,239
Speaker 1: Trying to partake it, partake some wisdom to you. Yeah,

818
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:12,840
Speaker 1: look kid, you're all right, but this isn't for you

819
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:13,799
Speaker 1: kind of thing. Yeah.

820
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 2: It was just like, wow, that's kind of like a

821
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 2: yeah that was that was one of your first roles too,

822
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 2: Because then you say, you made it in a theater

823
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:21,360
Speaker 2: and you never performed at your college, right, you were

824
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 2: always behind?

825
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 4: Right? So was that right? Yeah?

826
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 1: Was no? But no, I mean that then you made

827
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:26,399
Speaker 1: your job, is what I'm saying.

828
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:29,799
Speaker 3: Then I come to pass this thing and it ran

829
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 3: for two weeks and I got like nice write ups

830
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:35,359
Speaker 3: and and I It's funny because I never worked in Kent,

831
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 3: but I always did stuff for the Cleveland Playhouse and

832
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 3: I did stuff like like legit professional stuff. So it

833
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:43,799
Speaker 3: was like weird that like I couldn't work at Kent,

834
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:46,560
Speaker 3: but I could go and make actual money with real

835
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:49,399
Speaker 3: working actors in the area and get that. And then

836
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:51,360
Speaker 3: to get that it was always like, I don't know

837
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 3: with acting, and I'm sure you you deal with it

838
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 3: too in terms of like jokers, but as a comic

839
00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 3: it's like you're give an opportunity to do things sometimes

840
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:00,399
Speaker 3: and acting wise, but uh.

841
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

842
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 2: I think the I think in our industry especially, you'll

843
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 2: get advice from people unwarranted a lot.

844
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:12,360
Speaker 1: Because people, especially like if people you're respected and have

845
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 1: gone up high or whatever, it's unsolicited. Most of the time.

846
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 1: They just it comes from place they're trying to help you.

847
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:20,040
Speaker 2: But everybody forgets that the way that people get to

848
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:22,600
Speaker 2: where they are is never, ever, ever the same. Not

849
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 2: every actor that's on screen studied acting right, took an audition,

850
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:28,919
Speaker 2: got it, had a hit movie like.

851
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:31,359
Speaker 1: That doesn't happen right. Everybody gets to a different place

852
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:31,919
Speaker 1: in a different way.

853
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 2: So I think in our industry people are like always

854
00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 2: just try to share their story of how they did

855
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 2: it and like oh maybe blah blah blah, and it

856
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:40,840
Speaker 2: doesn't apply to you, and you still get to the

857
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:42,279
Speaker 2: same place, you know what I mean.

858
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's interesting, Like even when we did Sullivan and Sun,

859
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 3: you just brought up a memory for some reason. But

860
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:50,800
Speaker 3: because I was the lead, right, and so I'm always

861
00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 3: there behind the bar.

862
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: If there was a great.

863
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 3: Line about like it's a good line, should give that

864
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 3: to Brian. It's like, but it's true. Aligned, it's like

865
00:35:57,320 --> 00:35:59,800
Speaker 3: I'm behind the desk, like I'm always here. I'll always

866
00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 3: have facilitate stuff. But but I remember this one day

867
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:06,800
Speaker 3: we were doing a scene and it was like longer

868
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 3: in the day and Christine ever Saw had a question

869
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 3: about something in the script. Now, granted this is like

870
00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 3: a summer sitcom, it's silly, but she still is like

871
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:21,400
Speaker 3: in tune in, giving it her best and being before

872
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 3: and she's just like it's just not making sense to me,

873
00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 3: and so like motivationally based, like being like figure out

874
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:31,720
Speaker 3: she could write and and there was a moment where

875
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:36,359
Speaker 3: people were getting frustrated because it's like it's five it's

876
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:37,359
Speaker 3: five thirty.

877
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 1: Can we fucking go home? It's a sitcom.

878
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 3: And and I remember Guardell telling me all roads lead

879
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:48,280
Speaker 3: through you. However you behave will have a ripple effect

880
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:52,360
Speaker 3: on the whole thing. So one of the actors taps

881
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 3: me on the shoulder, goes, Jesus Christ, Right, I go.

882
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 1: You got to respect her process.

883
00:36:57,239 --> 00:36:59,880
Speaker 3: You have a process and she has a process, so

884
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 3: respect the process. And I think that kind of like

885
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 3: settled it.

886
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 1: But it's to your point.

887
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 4: It's like.

888
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 3: Everybody is going to get there differently. Everybody's going to

889
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Speaker 3: work in a different way as well. When you when

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Speaker 3: you do get there right, And I think you just

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Speaker 3: have to appreciate people's journey because and what people are

892
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Speaker 3: dealing with on a daily basis too.

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Speaker 1: You just don't know, you know. Everybody thinks, yeah, all right.

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Speaker 4: About that one.

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Speaker 1: One more all right? This one comes from Amy.

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Speaker 3: Amy is from Australia.

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Speaker 2: Oh it all comes.

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Speaker 1: Oh she's a marsupial, get me my crossbow.

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Speaker 3: She loves your show.

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Speaker 6: I listen to you guys every week and hope you

901
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Speaker 6: can help me. I have a lot of anxiety and

902
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Speaker 6: get overwhelmed by the smallest of things all the time.

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Speaker 6: Do you have any advice on how to help over.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, did you try not being anxious?

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Speaker 1: That's the easiest thing. Just stop being anxious. Yeah, just

906
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Speaker 1: go to sleep.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's.

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Speaker 1: Not gonna it didn't happen. To be fine.

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Speaker 3: Watch The Aviator with Leonardo Dicaprill. It's about Howard hughes

910
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Speaker 3: and go at.

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Speaker 1: Least I'm not that bad. Yes, for sure, you feel

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Speaker 1: a lot better about anxiety.

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Speaker 2: Is very tricky for me because I don't consider myself

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Speaker 2: an anxious person. I don't necessarily understand anxiety, and I

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Speaker 2: do I'm a firm believer in most of the stuff

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Speaker 2: you worry about is it going to happen anyway, So

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Speaker 2: you're wasting energy worrying about it and then not even

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Speaker 2: have to deal with it. So for me, I think

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Speaker 2: you should probably and with most most anxious people, and

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Speaker 2: my wife is pretty anxious. So identifying triggers is a

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Speaker 2: big thing. Like if you find yourself going down the

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Speaker 2: rabbit hole and start thinking about stuff too much, like

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Speaker 2: you have to try to derail your and distract your

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Speaker 2: thought process.

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Speaker 1: I think that's a big part. So like if you

926
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Speaker 1: could just.

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Speaker 2: Either start on a podcast and listen to us, or

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Speaker 2: you know, you know, watch out, put on music, watch

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Speaker 2: a TV, do something that stops you from sitting there

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Speaker 2: and getting going.

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Speaker 1: I know the hardest part is at night, when you're

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Speaker 1: laying in bed. That's an anxiety.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, comes firing up the most for people you know,

934
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Speaker 2: or social anxiety if they're coming out into a crowd.

935
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Speaker 2: But I would just say, know your triggers, try to

936
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Speaker 2: identify them and try to find your your ways to

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Speaker 2: deal with them and relinquish them.

938
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Speaker 3: But to your point, it's like, what what does not

939
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Speaker 3: make you anxious?

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Speaker 4: Right right?

941
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Speaker 1: Where do you find solace? Like?

942
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Speaker 3: And then examine that? It's like, why don't I feel

943
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Speaker 3: anxiety with X y Z, but ABC does give me anxiety?

944
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Speaker 3: And it's like I think if you can almost like

945
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Speaker 3: reverse engineer it and go to it and go why

946
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Speaker 3: am I not with this?

947
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Speaker 1: But with this social tick, perhaps I am right?

948
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Speaker 3: And I think if you can examine that and kick

949
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Speaker 3: kind of granular with it, I think you could.

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Speaker 1: Find the answers within yourself.

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Speaker 3: Or to your point as well, it's like I don't

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Speaker 3: get anxious when I'm cooking, but I do get anxious

953
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Speaker 3: when I'm focusing on my bills. Yes, well, then maybe

954
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Speaker 3: you could focus on your bills while you're cooking, you know,

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Speaker 3: I don't know, just like finding some middle ground. That's

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Speaker 3: a great tweet of behavior trait where you don't have it,

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Speaker 3: and and and maybe kind of offset or off put

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Speaker 3: it in a healthy way.

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Speaker 1: That's great. That's a really good advice. There.

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Speaker 3: God, I did it. I did it. It should be

961
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Speaker 3: called Steve and another cool mom. I have all the answers.

962
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Speaker 3: I'm the best. I really am.

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Speaker 1: The best at this.

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Speaker 3: Give me more.

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Speaker 1: Can we put up a quick tally? Yeah, just good advice.

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Speaker 1: Good advice Joe, which is chacking, and good advice Steve.

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Speaker 1: And let's see where we end up.

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Speaker 3: All the people that took my advice that are major

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Speaker 3: successes that you know, scrub Daddy could talk to me,

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Speaker 3: got him situated.

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Speaker 1: We want to hear from you guys. Okay, listen, this

972
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Speaker 1: is what we're going to ask you to do.

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Speaker 3: The last person Joe talked to was the kid?

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Speaker 1: Was it? Luis g Mangio? Op it. We gotta have

975
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Speaker 1: to cut that too.

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Speaker 2: What I'm not gonna say that I talked to a

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Speaker 2: guy who killed someone.

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Speaker 1: You don't you gave him advice?

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Speaker 3: He said on my neck cart it's like, this is

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Speaker 3: what you gotta do. That's I saw you guys.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm the as Yeah you are okay, but I

982
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Speaker 1: still love you. The thing to remember is I don't

983
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Speaker 1: have muscle memory. I have muscle amnesia. Listens, cool moms, Uh,

984
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Speaker 1: this is it. Remember to write in with your problems.

985
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Speaker 1: You gotta Where can they find.

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Speaker 3: A Stevie to cool Mom's podcast?

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Speaker 1: Nope?

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Speaker 3: No, cool Mom's pod at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 1: Take it again?

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Speaker 4: Ready?

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Speaker 1: Where could they find a Stevie too cool Mom's pod

992
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Speaker 1: at gmail dot com.

993
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Speaker 4: That's right or false?

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Speaker 1: On Instagram at tochool Mom's pod. Great work, today's amazing work.

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Speaker 1: By the way, your touring constantly all the time.

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Speaker 2: You could find tickets at Joe gattoofficial dot com.

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Speaker 1: Just go down to the link in the bio. Get

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Speaker 1: it so wards, guys, love it.