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Speaker 1: on the phone for a second date update today said
Speaker 1: he went out with a girl that he met while
Speaker 1: playing a little game of pickleball. Oh okay, the retired
Speaker 1: old dude. I don't know exactly what that is, but
Speaker 1: I definitely have an image in my head. So, Darren,
Speaker 1: out of the two of you, which one was holding
Speaker 1: the pickles? Ah, let's just say it was me? Oh
Speaker 1: my god, it really doesn't really this is this is
Speaker 1: a fun game. Laugh afterwards? Can I sign up for
Speaker 1: this group with the pickles? You guys? Really? You guys
Speaker 1: are welcomes to joy? All right? Are you like an
Speaker 1: old man or something? Darren who plays pickleball? Oh? Come out?
Speaker 1: How old do I sound? Do I sound that old? No?
Speaker 1: You don't. Sixty eight sounds just right to me. Yeah. So, anyway, Darren,
Speaker 1: you met this girl while playing pickleball. What's her name? Andrea? Andrea?
Speaker 1: What do you like about Andrea? She's a very attractive girl. Um,
Speaker 1: I gotta say. The first thing I noticed about her
Speaker 1: where her eyebrows. I just find eyebrows very attractive in
Speaker 1: a woman. I think that is the first time I've
Speaker 1: ever heard that You're an eyebrow man. I am, I am?
Speaker 1: You know, I like I like him real natural, you know,
Speaker 1: semi bushy and uh so did you use that as
Speaker 1: your opening line with her? No? No, no, We got
Speaker 1: to know each other as friends by playing pickleball. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's a great way to start something. I didn't know
Speaker 1: if she was gonna be into me or interested, so
Speaker 1: I took that chance. But how'd you do it? I
Speaker 1: after a game that we love off, I was like, wow,
Speaker 1: that was that was a tough loss. You know, we
Speaker 1: gave it all. But did I have your number at
Speaker 1: a low point? That's smart. I thought it was a
Speaker 1: great opportunity. Did you guys get to go out? Then
Speaker 1: that was a plan, you know. Um. I went up
Speaker 1: to her place, I picked her up. She seemed kind
Speaker 1: of like a fluster. I asked her why, and she
Speaker 1: told me when she got home early that day, she
Speaker 1: was annoyed that there was just pooped everywhere in her neighborhood.
Speaker 1: Like you said, you say, there is poop everywhere in
Speaker 1: her neighborhood. Yeah, yeah, like dog poop, not not like
Speaker 1: human poop. You know. Okay, what neighborhood are you living in?
Speaker 1: A real crappy Okay, I mean I can understand, like
Speaker 1: that is so annoying to me when people don't pick
Speaker 1: up after their dogs. So she takes the bus on
Speaker 1: her weight home and she walks after she gets off,
Speaker 1: and you know, she sees all of that stuff, and
Speaker 1: you know, she gets very annoyed, and I get it.
Speaker 1: I'm me too. Yeah, how did that affect your guys' date? Well,
Speaker 1: she seemed kind of fluster. So I was like, I'll
Speaker 1: help you out. Let's clean this up. You know, it'd
Speaker 1: be like a nice activity. We can interact and get
Speaker 1: to know each other a little bit more as we
Speaker 1: as we picked up the poop. Okay, that's a noble
Speaker 1: move for a guy to do for a girl. You're
Speaker 1: like her, Prince Charman, you are a solutions guy though,
Speaker 1: Like was she thankful for that? Well? At first she
Speaker 1: thought I was kidding, but I was like, no, come on,
Speaker 1: let's do it for real. Didn't believe it, so of course,
Speaker 1: come on, like sarsday, would you believe someone if they
Speaker 1: told you that? No, no, I can't believe you even offered. Really, so,
Speaker 1: is that what you guys did on your date? That
Speaker 1: was part of it. We did that and then we
Speaker 1: started talking and we ended up staining at her place.
Speaker 1: We were to pizza, we had a little bit of wine.
Speaker 1: I hope you washed her hands, and you know, she
Speaker 1: started telling me about her excess and stuff like that,
Speaker 1: how she's you know, she hasn't had the best experience
Speaker 1: as week guys. And at some point she just came
Speaker 1: up and ask me, can I trust you? Oh? Well,
Speaker 1: that's an important question. I mean, I wouldn't trust a
Speaker 1: guy that offers to go around cleaning up dog poop
Speaker 1: on a first date. Either. It's a valid question, it is,
Speaker 1: I mean, and I totally yeah, you can totally trust me.
Speaker 1: Here's my phone, here's my password, look through it. You know.
Speaker 1: Oh that seems intense ye. I mean, guys, I told
Speaker 1: you I'm really interested in this girl. I think she's
Speaker 1: very special, and you don't think that that's a red
Speaker 1: flag that she would want to look through your phone
Speaker 1: on a first date. She didn't ask, I offer, I
Speaker 1: get my phone in my pass for it an I'm
Speaker 1: a good guy. There's there's nothing too high in that phone.
Speaker 1: It totally came from a good place. She actually took
Speaker 1: you up on it. She actually went through your phone.
Speaker 1: She did, she did. She went through my phone. She
Speaker 1: didn't find any red flags. Doesn't feel healthy to me.
Speaker 1: I understand offering, but the fact she actually did it.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not like she looked through everything. She
Speaker 1: just took a quick glamp, you know. She was like, Oh,
Speaker 1: who's that? Who's that? Yeah? Who's mom? Who is this
Speaker 1: mom person? Yeah? She wasn't aggressive searching my phone, nothing
Speaker 1: like that. Okay, okay, good. So did I mean you're
Speaker 1: over at her house, you're drinking, you're eating pizza, you're
Speaker 1: looking through each other's phones. Did anything else happen? I
Speaker 1: didn't get attempt to look through her phone. She just
Speaker 1: looked at mine. Oh okay, all right, she's been an offer.
Speaker 1: So I'm thinking I leave a faith over here. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and it doesn't seem like it panned out for you
Speaker 1: because she's not calling me back. Yeah, I'm cool ass
Speaker 1: at this point, I just don't understand why she won't
Speaker 1: call me back. We had a great time. I mean,
Speaker 1: for Heaven's sakes, I cleaned pot for her. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: actually with you on this one. You were friends before
Speaker 1: you did a good deed, and you were super vulnerable.
Speaker 1: I can tell you I would definitely call you back
Speaker 1: if you cleaned up. Mike, We're gonna play a song.
Speaker 1: Come back and call Andrea for you right after this. Okay,
Speaker 1: thank you guys. All right, hold on looking jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning, Darren, I don't know if this chick deserves
Speaker 1: you actually, honestly, if you're just tuning in for today's
Speaker 1: second date update, we're on the phone with Darren, who
Speaker 1: might be the most open, selfless, accommodating man in the
Speaker 1: history of dating. Well, he recently went out with a
Speaker 1: woman named Andrea, and for their first date, he cleaned
Speaker 1: up all the dog poop in Andrea's neighborhood. Then he
Speaker 1: let her go through his entire cell phone, just to
Speaker 1: show her that he's a trustworthy guy with nothing to
Speaker 1: hide on the first day. Yeah, not to show that
Speaker 1: she has any back issues or anything. Yeah. The Brook
Speaker 1: doesn't even let her husband have a cell phone. It's incredible. Now, Darren,
Speaker 1: have you actually seen her at your pickleball groups since
Speaker 1: your date happened? Seen her about three times that's the group. Then,
Speaker 1: you know, it's kind of like she doesn't pay attention
Speaker 1: to me. Oh, she doesn't want to talk to me.
Speaker 1: So I don't know. I'm cooeless at the moment. And
Speaker 1: you know, it's been a while since I've been out
Speaker 1: with someone like that. She's just so cool and oh
Speaker 1: those amazing eyebrows, and that's what it is. But I mean,
Speaker 1: I will say it is kind of weird because they
Speaker 1: were friends before, right, for her to be totally avoiding you.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's one thing to just be like, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm not that attracted to you. It's just not going
Speaker 1: to work out. She could easily friend zone you without
Speaker 1: any problems. Yeah, no, she ghost to me. Yeah, she
Speaker 1: doesn't even seem like she wants you in the friend zone.
Speaker 1: But in his defense, it's not bad enough where she
Speaker 1: just stopped playing pickleball, right, it was super talking to him.
Speaker 1: Yeah that's worse. Yeah, worse that they're in the same
Speaker 1: place and she won't even acknowledge him anymore. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: it's war is the fact that I gotta see her
Speaker 1: and I'm just like invisible. Yeah, all right, Darren, Well,
Speaker 1: we're gonna get you some answers here. We're gonna call
Speaker 1: Andrea and get your second date update. Are you ready?
Speaker 1: Let's do it? Okay, here we go. Hello, how can
Speaker 1: I speak to Andrea? Please? Hire Hi Andrea. My name
Speaker 1: is Young Jeffrey. I work on the radio show Brook
Speaker 1: and Jewil in the morning. Who who Young Jeffrey or
Speaker 1: who Brooke and Jewel both? Who are all of you?
Speaker 1: And we're doing a segment on our show right now
Speaker 1: called the Second Date Update, and you're going to be
Speaker 1: the star of it. It's where if you go out
Speaker 1: on a date with someone and they're not calling you back,
Speaker 1: we can give that person a call and try and
Speaker 1: figure out the reason why and why are you calling me? Well,
Speaker 1: because you recently went out with a guy named Darren
Speaker 1: and so he's asked us to reach out to you. Well,
Speaker 1: if you talk to Darren, you can tell him to
Speaker 1: forget it. I'm never gonna go out with him because
Speaker 1: he's a liar. A liar, Oh my guys, I mean
Speaker 1: I would love to know the details on that because
Speaker 1: if he's a liar. He's definitely got us fooled too.
Speaker 1: He sounded like, stand up dude, who respected you? Respect
Speaker 1: that This is a man that went around your neighborhood
Speaker 1: cleaning up other people's dog poop for you. I can't
Speaker 1: think of a better guy than that. Well, it's obvious
Speaker 1: that he told you all the good things about himself,
Speaker 1: but clearly he didn't tell you anything else. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: guess that's why we're calling you. What did we miss?
Speaker 1: So we made out, we fooled around, you know, Like
Speaker 1: we went back to my place and I asked him
Speaker 1: if he wanted to see other people, and he told
Speaker 1: me he wasn't interested in going out with anyone else
Speaker 1: right now, And he even showed me his phone and
Speaker 1: that he wasn't sexting other people. Yeah, he told us
Speaker 1: that he gave you his cell phone because he's a
Speaker 1: trustworthy guy and he wanted to show you that that's
Speaker 1: what he made himself out to be. But I found
Speaker 1: out later that was not the case. Really, what'd you
Speaker 1: find out? So? Like three days later, I see him
Speaker 1: out at a bar with another girl and they're laughing
Speaker 1: and he's like rubbing her leg. Can wait, though, slow down.
Speaker 1: You guys have been on one date. So what he
Speaker 1: said he wasn't interested in anyone else, and clearly he was,
Speaker 1: but you weren't even calling him back. I mean, I listen, honey,
Speaker 1: I don't have time for dogs, No dogs allowed. We
Speaker 1: fooled around and that was it right there. Okay, I guess.
Speaker 1: I mean that's a pretty hard stance, Yeah, just for
Speaker 1: seeing a guy out at a bar somewhere with someone else.
Speaker 1: I mean, he was obviously interested in her. They were laughing,
Speaker 1: and he said he wasn't interested in anyone else. Okay,
Speaker 1: he was lying. You know, I could see where you
Speaker 1: would think he was, you know, a liar. Well maybe
Speaker 1: we should ask Darren about this, But go for it,
Speaker 1: go ask him. I don't care, it's true, all right,
Speaker 1: Well let's ask him right now, Darren? Why were you
Speaker 1: rubbing some other girl's leg? Laugh? What? He's not on
Speaker 1: the phone, you're talking to me? Well, actually he is
Speaker 1: on the phone, because he's been on the other line
Speaker 1: listening this entire time like a little dog. Yeah. Sorry, Andrea,
Speaker 1: Oh Andrew, that is a guilty high right there. I
Speaker 1: heard that. You did say Hi, you just happened to
Speaker 1: be at that bart randomly. Yeah, and I saw you there? Well,
Speaker 1: did you follow me there after? Pick a ball? No?
Speaker 1: I didn't have to. What is you gonna have to?
Speaker 1: What does that mean? I can see your location on
Speaker 1: my phone? What is happening? But wait? Oh my god, Andrew,
Speaker 1: you can see Darren's location? Yes, I turned on share
Speaker 1: location to make sure that I could trust him. Oh
Speaker 1: are you serious? Come on? No? No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: you didn't do that. I trusted you my phone and
Speaker 1: you turn on my GPS so you can see where
Speaker 1: I'm at. You were sitting right there? Are you listening
Speaker 1: to yourself? You know how crazy that sounds? No, what's
Speaker 1: crazy is that you lied about being interested in anyone else? Wait? Crazy?
Speaker 1: You were blowing me off. You never answered my call,
Speaker 1: so I be sudden. You know what, maybe she's not
Speaker 1: interested let me go over. And you were following me
Speaker 1: like seriously, you knew I had trust issues and obviously
Speaker 1: I couldn't trust you either. No aloud, I cleaned up
Speaker 1: food for you, jesus. Oh my god, I honestly don't
Speaker 1: know whose side I'm on, because, like Andrea, it is really, really,
Speaker 1: really crazy what you did. But also you felt like
Speaker 1: a you got them. I mean, I'm on I think
Speaker 1: I have to be on Darren's side here. It's a
Speaker 1: violation to go in and share their location without permission.
Speaker 1: You're stalking it. It's also a violation to tell someone
Speaker 1: that you're not seeing anybody else when you are. Everybody
Speaker 1: tells somebody that they're not seeing somebody else. That's just
Speaker 1: what you say when you're dating. I know, but you
Speaker 1: say that to you like a tinderhook up, not to
Speaker 1: a friend who you went on a date with. It
Speaker 1: was the first thing. It's not that we were exclusive.
Speaker 1: I wanted to know this girl. I wanted to meet her.
Speaker 1: I wanted to see where she was like. But didn't
Speaker 1: you make her feel like you were exclusive? Did you
Speaker 1: not tell her I don't want to see anyone else.
Speaker 1: I'm committed to this. I didn't from her own. You
Speaker 1: said you won't seeing anyone else. That's why you gave
Speaker 1: me for me to trust you. Wasn't Yeah, Darren, it
Speaker 1: was just drinks and leg rubbing. You're not playing pickleball
Speaker 1: with this girl, right If no one's business what I
Speaker 1: do or what I didn't do with her food, we're
Speaker 1: not I think since we're doing a second date, update.
Speaker 1: It is kind of our business. Come on, tell us
Speaker 1: did yeah, how far did you get with this girl? Guys?
Speaker 1: You guys are gonna laugh if I tell you this.
Speaker 1: What come on, tell us what you did? You a dog?
Speaker 1: I bet he cleaned up poop for her too, that dog, Darren?
Speaker 1: Is that true? It wasn't even like that. She knew
Speaker 1: about the pickleball tournament. We had a match. She fell.
Speaker 1: I rubbed her leg, big deal. Oh, she had an
Speaker 1: injury on her leg and you guys were laughing over
Speaker 1: it while you rubbed it. Let's go have cocktails so
Speaker 1: you can rub my injury. Yeah, did she have a
Speaker 1: boo boo on her mouth? And you had to kiss it? Better? Sports?
Speaker 1: And you guys never play sports. And you heard each
Speaker 1: other like, hey, look look look at my bruise, look
Speaker 1: at my scar. That kind of thing, Darren, Darren, you
Speaker 1: do you go in the wrong direction on this this one.
Speaker 1: I feel like, are you still hanging out with her?
Speaker 1: Because if you're not, then you're obviously interested in Andrea.
Speaker 1: All right, guys, fine, that's it. I'll tell you I
Speaker 1: had sex with her, but that was it. Okay, it's
Speaker 1: trying to help you. Man. The biggest thing there. It is. Okay, Andrea,
Speaker 1: see it's just a little bit of sex. Will you
Speaker 1: go out with you? Out with Darren? Now I've already
Speaker 1: told you no dogs aloud. Absolutely no. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: is this Andrea. We've stopped doing the creepy like follow
Speaker 1: people on the cell phone thing like you obviously have
Speaker 1: really good instinct into who's a dog and who's not
Speaker 1: go with that one instead. Listen, honey, you need to
Speaker 1: shut up because it actually works. Oh all right, I've
Speaker 1: done all right, well, so sorry, Darren. No second date
Speaker 1: with Andrea for you. Yeah, listen, I don't need her. Man,
Speaker 1: I got plenty lighting up for me. Oh you do.
Speaker 1: And you never found those in my cell phone? Huh
Speaker 1: you take that now, broken jupil in the morning.