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Speaker 1: One or two point seven. It is kiss hold the

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Speaker 1: replay Rihanna saw that she stepped down as CEO of

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Speaker 2: Yeah, isn't she started in twenty eighteen. That just means

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Speaker 2: that she will still be it's still her company, but

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Speaker 2: she's not running that she's not doing like the day

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Speaker 1: It means like, honestly, she's got a lot of her

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Speaker 1: play probably where she's got enough going on. It's some

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Speaker 1: I don't know the facts, but when you see that

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Speaker 1: happen many times. The company gets to be that big

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Speaker 1: and you've got it up and going, and then someone

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Speaker 1: else does the day to day responsibility, the meetings and

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Speaker 1: the phone calls and all of that. It's remarkable. Everything

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Speaker 1: she's done, everything she's done for.

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Speaker 2: Her Well, she's done music right now, she hasn't done music.

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Speaker 2: That's we want you.

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Speaker 1: What do you know? Come on, you know something? No,

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Speaker 1: remember the super Bowl that was like all the.

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Speaker 2: Rumors that were like you.

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Speaker 1: In the meetings? What do you know?

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Speaker 2: Because crickets her label crickets.

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Speaker 3: But you know, it's interesting when I went to a

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Speaker 3: wedding last weekend and they used Rihanna Lift Me Up

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Speaker 1: That's beautiful. Yeah, all right, speaking of couples. No real

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Speaker 1: segue there, but that's pretty good. There's a new term

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Speaker 1: that potential couples or non couples are using, detached dating.

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Speaker 1: But is it new Sisney where we've seen this.

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Speaker 2: That's where I was like, Ah, I don't know, because

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Speaker 2: detached dating if you're single, you may be a detached

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Speaker 2: I think it's a slippery slope with all the dating

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Speaker 2: apps because it's just so easy to see ipe left, right,

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Speaker 2: and day casually not fully commit to a relationship. So

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Speaker 2: we can break down what exactly is a detached dater

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Speaker 2: or signs that you might be guilty of it. And

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Speaker 2: have that guard up. You always have that wall. You

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Speaker 2: don't you don't let those people in, You won't let

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Speaker 2: them close to you. Another one is that you keep

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Speaker 2: things casual or date multiple people at a time, using

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Speaker 2: that as a way to avoid attachment. But then I

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Speaker 2: just think, at the end of the day, it's just

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Speaker 2: your player.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to say. It's like, isn't it

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Speaker 1: just wanting to play or or play the field.

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Speaker 2: It's like a fancier way of saying it in twenty twenty.

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Speaker 1: Three, but it's like you, okay, So let's say you're

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Speaker 1: a detached dater because you have this wall up between

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Speaker 1: you and your partners. You won't let people get close

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Speaker 1: to you. So what's going on with you? If you

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Speaker 1: want to like get deeper into it, like what is

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Speaker 1: your issue.

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Speaker 2: That's then that's what the more you can get with

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Speaker 2: the quote unquote experts. It's all about you finding peace

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Speaker 2: within yourself. You know, it's all that blah blah blah

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Speaker 2: love stuff where it's like you got to love you, you.

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Speaker 1: Love somebody else. There's an author David Brooks, and he

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Speaker 1: writes about I wrote this down. He writes about that

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Speaker 1: some say you have to actually be loved before you

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Speaker 1: can love, like you have to be loved so you

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Speaker 1: can understand what love is to give it to somebody else.

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Speaker 1: So I'm not so sure. So you first, did you.

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Speaker 2: Feel that from your parents or is it that not

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Speaker 2: the same type of love?

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Speaker 1: It could be the same, could be different, But I think,

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Speaker 1: like you know, you always see her. I mean I'm

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Speaker 1: it anymore. It's I can keep here from everybody. Well,

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Speaker 1: you've got to love yourself before you can love everybody. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if that works for everybody. Maybe you

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Speaker 1: need to like understand what love feels like to receive

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Speaker 1: it to be able to give it back to someone else.

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Speaker 2: I know, I see what you're saying, right, But then

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Speaker 2: you can also fall into the trap of loving that

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Speaker 2: this is awesome, Like, why do I have to give

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Speaker 3: Tanya, Well, I think it's important to know the love

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Speaker 3: languages because you could be receiving love the way that

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Speaker 3: to receive it, but that person might not receive love

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Speaker 3: in the same way as you, So then you're basically

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Speaker 3: just like speaking different languages.

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Speaker 1: But the concept of feeling loved to give that back

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Speaker 1: to somebody is an interesting one that's different than oh,

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Speaker 1: I've just got to love me before I love you.

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Speaker 1: I think it starts with your children.

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Speaker 2: I think it's the way that you're loved by your parents.

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Speaker 1: Because what if you didn't have the kind of love

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Speaker 1: you need from your parents, then you need to find

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Speaker 1: that from a partner and someone else before you understand

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Speaker 1: how to get You might need to have that breakthrough

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Speaker 3: It all goes back to childhood. Let me tell you

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Speaker 3: every therapy session I have, it's like this reminds you

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Speaker 1: Every session tells you the same time, stop paying.

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Speaker 3: Well no, no, no, But like I'm not saying every

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Speaker 3: single session, but most.

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Speaker 1: Every session they're telling you to childhood, you're good.

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Speaker 3: Most cases things come from things that stem from your childhood.

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Speaker 1: It really all does it is true? Yeah, it is true,

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Speaker 1: just from my therapy sessions here. Yeah, happy dating, go boy?

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