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Speaker 1: First Day to follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 1: Attorneys online at adjocuslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Anton is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Jade.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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Speaker 2: get him a second date. But first, Anton, how long

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Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Jade?

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Speaker 3: About one week?

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Speaker 2: About a week? Okay, well tell us about it. What

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Speaker 2: was what was the day with Jade?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was, uh, it was cool.

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Speaker 5: It was cool. You know, we met up this uh

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Speaker 5: this really you know, low key spot. I got like

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Speaker 5: you know, like light foods and some cocktails and they

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Speaker 5: had cool cables.

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Speaker 3: You know, we were gonna play some cool we we're

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Speaker 3: just by them. You know. The lighting was damn, music's good.

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Speaker 3: She's gorgeous.

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Speaker 5: She's absolutely gorgeous, and like you know, she's she's got

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Speaker 5: her pool queue there and.

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Speaker 3: And she's like leaning against it. I swear like it

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Speaker 3: looked like like a night magazine cover. She's she's that gorgeous.

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Speaker 5: You know, we're playing cool, right, And it was one

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Speaker 5: of these tricky these shots you can't like get it

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Speaker 5: the right way. So I was like, I was gonna

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Speaker 5: do it like a behind the back kind of shot.

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Speaker 5: You know, I must have hit the wrong angle, you know,

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Speaker 5: because the ball just went it went flying, and so

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Speaker 5: it went into this this booth that there's this other

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Speaker 5: couple in this booth, and it knocked over this girl's drink. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: so you know, I felt horrible, So, you know, I

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Speaker 5: so I go over there, and you know, I apologize

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Speaker 5: and and and she was, you know, she was a

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Speaker 5: little upset and and you know, understandably, so so you know,

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Speaker 5: I bought her another drink and I bought you know,

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Speaker 5: the whole table around a shot.

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Speaker 3: And I apologize and and you know, Jade is still

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Speaker 3: over there by by the pool table, and she's, you know,

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Speaker 3: she's looking horrified.

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Speaker 5: But you know, I once I settle everything down, I

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Speaker 5: go back over to her and she's she's joking around

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Speaker 5: about it. You know, she called she called me, h,

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Speaker 5: mister trick shot after that, which is you know, I mean,

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Speaker 5: what can you do about those kinds of you have

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Speaker 5: to laugh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the whole.

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Speaker 5: Thing was that we we had we had chemistry, you know,

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Speaker 5: we we were we we had food and you know,

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Speaker 5: neither of us are really great.

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Speaker 3: That pooled me especially, you know.

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Speaker 5: Uh, and then yeah, you after the last game, we

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Speaker 5: just we hugged, she said. I remember, she said that

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Speaker 5: I was unexpectedly charming. Unexpectedly charming, you know, but that

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Speaker 6: In there, the things that we hold onto, you know,

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Speaker 6: in those moments that just make you.

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Speaker 5: Feel, you know, I'm I'm looking for for something and

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Speaker 5: she is, you know obviously too. So uh today, in

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Speaker 5: the past couple of days, and I'm getting nothing texting back,

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Speaker 5: you know, And I've been and here's the thing I've been,

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Speaker 5: I've been like replating it in my mind. I'm like,

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Speaker 5: did I did I mess Did I mess up?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 5: Did I did I say something rude or or or

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Speaker 5: you know, did I that I look like a like

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Speaker 3: Or something, you know?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 3: And I look.

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Speaker 5: I realized, I've got like a like a goofy energy

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Speaker 3: And and I I understand that that's who I who

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Speaker 3: I am. And but I mean she seemed like into that.

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Speaker 5: You know. We're kind of like I said, we were.

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Speaker 5: We were we were vibing, and we were laughing, and

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Speaker 5: you know comes from like deep insight, and it's I

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Speaker 5: don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't, I don't, I don't know what happened.

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Speaker 5: So uh, I'm trying to figure out what what did

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Speaker 5: I do?

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Speaker 6: You know?

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Speaker 3: Uh, that's where we're at right now.

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Speaker 6: Well, you definitely sound like you're really into her, So

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Speaker 6: was there did she act weird at any point, like

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Speaker 5: No, I mean I wasn't like you know, like pulling

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Speaker 5: or like are picking my mellor, And you know, it

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Speaker 5: was it was like a really really solid first date.

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Speaker 5: It was probably the first really great, solid date I've

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Speaker 5: had in a long time. And that's why I'm you know,

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Speaker 5: I'm trying to figure out, Wait, what what the heck happened?

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Speaker 1: All Right, Well we'll see if we can help you out.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song, come back, and then call her

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Speaker 2: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you

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Speaker 2: and maybe gets you another date.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, you know that they'd be uh yeah, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, we'll get your first day follow up next right

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Speaker 2: in the middle of your first date follow up and

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us. Anton is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and Anton is getting ghosted by a woman named Jadeen.

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Speaker 2: We're about to call her and see if she'll tell

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Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a

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Speaker 2: second date. But before we do that, Anton, why don't

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Speaker 2: you break down your date again for.

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Speaker 1: Us real quick?

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Speaker 3: Yeah. We we went out.

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Speaker 5: We played cool, we were really vibing, and I thought

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Speaker 5: everything was going great. I made one bad shot. No, no, really,

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Speaker 5: but it was It's all great. We you know, we

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Speaker 5: hogged afterwards. We said that, you know, we'll talk and

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Speaker 5: then I've you know, tried to reach out a couple

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Speaker 5: of times now and I'm I'm getting nothing, so uh

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Speaker 5: ting to figure out what's what's going on?

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Speaker 1: All right? Well, are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Hello, Hi, I'm asking to Jade please.

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Speaker 5: Hey.

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Speaker 4: This is Jane.

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Speaker 1: Hey Jade, how are you. This is a radio show

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Speaker 1: and it's called the Jebel Show.

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Speaker 6: Hi, Jade, I'm Nina, Hi or.

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Speaker 1: My name is Jubell. How are you?

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Speaker 5: Hey?

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Speaker 4: I'm good.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 4: I may have, I may have if you haven't.

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Speaker 1: I'll just let you know.

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Speaker 2: I we're calling. We do a segment on the show

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Speaker 2: and it's called the first Date follow Up. So that's

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Speaker 2: where if you go out on a date with somebody

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Speaker 2: and they end up ghosting you, that person can email

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Speaker 2: us to call you and ask why you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 2: And we got an email about you.

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Speaker 4: From somebody, Oh my god, Okay, do.

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Speaker 1: You know who might email us about you?

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Speaker 4: I kind of have an idea. This is kind of awkward.

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Speaker 4: I did go on a date recently, so yeah, I

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Speaker 4: didn't want to hurt his feelings.

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Speaker 2: His name is Anton, Yeah, and Anton is the person

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Speaker 2: who emailed us.

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Speaker 1: He said he really liked you.

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Speaker 2: We talked to him a little bit about your date,

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Speaker 2: and he was wondering if you wouldn't mind telling us

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Speaker 4: Hmm. I really didn't want to hurt his feelings. I

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Speaker 1: So that's why you ghosted him.

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Speaker 4: There was one big thing that happened at night. I'll

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Speaker 4: be honest with you, But the biggest thing of it

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Speaker 4: all was that he apologized too much.

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Speaker 1: He apologized too much.

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Speaker 4: Well to me, you always hear about females saying oh, sorry,

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry about everything. Yeah, don't be sorry, like say

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Speaker 4: He did that from the beginning and up until this

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Speaker 4: big event that happened, Like even when we were ordering

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Speaker 4: me to interest you, Like he's completly.

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Speaker 1: Saying sorry, okay, and that bothered you.

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Speaker 6: You want to date somebody that's going to take a

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Speaker 4: I kind of get that, yes, exactly, Like didn't have

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Speaker 6: Okay, So he was just apologizing a ton. What did

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Speaker 6: you say when he kept saying sorry? Were you just

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Speaker 4: Very it's okay. And about the internet, I'm like, you

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Speaker 4: Well, so the place that we went, we played cool,

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Speaker 1: Well, he kind of mentioned that.

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Speaker 6: I thought that was kind of a nice way to

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Speaker 4: I don't know if I'm being a little cheap here,

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Speaker 4: but I'm like, you don't need to buy them all

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Speaker 3: It was an accident.

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Speaker 4: That's why it's called an accident.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I just felt like he was going to be

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair.

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Speaker 6: You know, when you're going to bulldoze somebody, that's just

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Speaker 6: not a good time.

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you for telling us, Jade. I appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: And now I'll let you know that Anton is on

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Speaker 2: the phone and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, okay Anton.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Wait, so I'm polite. That's a bad thing. But

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry that I don't understand that. It's you know,

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Speaker 5: I'm being polite and being nice to people, and you know,

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Speaker 5: sometimes you know, things happen and what are you going

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Speaker 3: You know, I'm sorry, but that's the way things are.

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Speaker 4: Anton you literally just said sorry again. By the way, Nathan, listen,

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Speaker 4: it's not bad. It's just that it's it's a little

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Speaker 4: bit too much. And I honestly thought you had a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what I.

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Speaker 4: Like, it's like a compulsive thing that he had to

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Speaker 4: like stay and do and so it's not bad, it's

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Speaker 4: just I can't do that, can't be what.

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Speaker 3: What do you even what do you even mean?

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Speaker 7: I was being polite, okay, but what about when the

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Speaker 7: of going to get upset about it, like you were

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Speaker 7: not only embarrassed, but you're like you're gonna cry.

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Speaker 3: It's no that that's what I was not about to cry.

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Speaker 3: That's that's look.

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Speaker 5: She she had an issue and I was letting her

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Speaker 5: feel you know, heard about that because you know the

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Speaker 5: drink is I caused that you know, I spilled her

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Speaker 5: drink and that's not bad.

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Speaker 3: What am I supposed to do?

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 3: Just just being and just oh yeah, so what, you know, whatever,

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Speaker 3: I'm playing pool. You stay over there.

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Speaker 5: You know, that's not what I'm about. I'm gonna be polite,

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Speaker 5: That's what That's the way I was taught Anton.

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Speaker 4: There's a difference between being polite and then being a

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Speaker 4: little a little bit of a bit like you're over

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Speaker 4: there feeling like I felt like you worked for the

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Speaker 4: table at one point, like you're trying to wipe up everything.

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Speaker 4: You didn't ruin anyone's outfit, like you got to think

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Speaker 4: about the big picture. You're very very dramatic. It's not

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Speaker 4: even that you're too nice. It's just you're not confident.

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Speaker 3: I don't even I don't even know. I don't even

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Speaker 3: know what. How could you even say that? I would argue,

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Speaker 3: I'm I'm very confident.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 5: This is what we're talking about, is you know at

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Speaker 5: the first date and sometimes and that you know what

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Speaker 5: that can be, that can be taught. So I don't

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Speaker 5: know anybody who's you know, running on all full still

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Speaker 5: and on a you know, I'm sorry, I'm not confident

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Speaker 5: enough for you. You know, I was just being polite in

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Speaker 4: I mean even I'm not sure if you heard me

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Speaker 4: when I was speaking with the host, but even when

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Speaker 4: we ordered drinks. You're apologizing, Oh sorry, like you're you're

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Speaker 4: a paying customer. You don't to apologize for everything.

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Speaker 3: You could be a.

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Speaker 5: Paying customer and still have kindness in your heart.

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Speaker 2: You know, Shane, would you like to work with Anton

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Speaker 2: again on the second day?

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 4: I mean, no, what do you think? No?

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Speaker 3: You know good?

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Speaker 5: That's that's absolutely you know you know what this is.

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Speaker 5: This is this is uh, you know, like like a

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Speaker 5: like danger avoided. Okay, And you know what, Jake, I

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Speaker 5: think you're gonna you're gonna be fine. I know you're

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Speaker 5: gonna be absolutely fine. I'm sure you know you'll find

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Speaker 5: a new date with you know, a little pug nose

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Speaker 5: and a curly tail and he probably goes point oint.

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Speaker 5: You know that's gonna be We're going there.

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Speaker 3: How's this for being nice?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 5: For for you, Jade Gears, I got one word for you,

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Speaker 5: boom and you can take you can take that to

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Speaker 5: the bank. And you know, and oh, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 5: That that I wasn't.

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Speaker 3: Even mean enough for it, weren't ridiculous. You don't even know,

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Speaker 3: well I don't, Yeah, you will.

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Speaker 1: First date fall up