WEBVTT - Second Date Update: What's Your Name Again?

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<v Speaker 1>Second data day. If this is a cute girl and

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<v Speaker 1>she's on a dating app, okay, you can imagine she's

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<v Speaker 1>probably being hit on by what a hundred guys a day? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>two hundred guys a day. Yeah, even just not a

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<v Speaker 1>dating app. If you're like on social media and you're cute, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you probably have a d or just two hundred ms

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<v Speaker 1>from Jose alone. You see it. You know what's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be a lot And Jose, I mean, in your experience,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you cut through to make yourself stand out

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<v Speaker 1>from all the other guys? Like what do you say?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you say like, oh, I think I found your wallet? No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's actually a good idea. Yet like that something the work?

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<v Speaker 1>You're really basic. I have a blue check mark. So

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<v Speaker 1>people just tend to be like, oh, who are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know who I am. You can just say hi,

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<v Speaker 1>look at my blue check work. No, I just like hi,

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<v Speaker 1>this Onn't you know? You're beautiful? And then most girls

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<v Speaker 1>will go, thanks, leave me alone. Okay, so it's working. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>they respond. Apparently something worked on one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>that made a guy stand out to her, and now

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<v Speaker 1>she's on the phone with us looking to get back

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<v Speaker 1>in touch with him. Her name's Ashley. Ashley, how you doing? Heyam,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good. How are you? I think I found your wallet?

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, would you like it back? You can

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<v Speaker 1>keep it. I'm so curious with this guy saying to

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<v Speaker 1>get your attention, what's his name? His name is Benjamin

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<v Speaker 1>to ask, Well, I didn't meet him like on to me,

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<v Speaker 1>I meant him. I met him on a dating app,

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<v Speaker 1>that's rights. So what did what did he do to

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<v Speaker 1>stand out from everybody else? So basically he was talking

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<v Speaker 1>about how like, oh I'm so beautiful, there's no ambryo,

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<v Speaker 1>like you got to be a catfish, and so we

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<v Speaker 1>face times like immediately it's like it's like reverse psychology. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like and then you want to prove to him, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I am real. See look at my boot. Yeah that's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty stereotypical guy. Yeah, feeling kind of negging you and

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<v Speaker 1>and bating you into I don't know, basically talking day. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's almost like being like I don't even want you

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<v Speaker 1>to reply to this. Yeah, yeah, I guess I'm too competitive.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was immediately like I would challenge accepted. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>guy's crazy that you FaceTime? Yeah, what did he look like,

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<v Speaker 1>he's really cute, he's cold, he's got dark hair, blue eyes,

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<v Speaker 1>like all the things I'm into. Okay, okay, so that's good,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know he's real too. What do you guys

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<v Speaker 1>do for a date? We decided to go to a bar.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. Yeah, it was great. We had a good time,

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<v Speaker 1>but so one thing happened. It was like kind of embarrassing,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't think he was really upset by it.

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<v Speaker 1>But we're sitting there talking like we've been on the

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<v Speaker 1>date for thirty minutes at this point, and one of

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<v Speaker 1>my girlfriends came into the bar and she came over

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<v Speaker 1>to say hi, and I completely forgot his name. Oh no, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like happens when you're mid sentence, this is

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, and you oh man, he must have

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<v Speaker 1>just been mortified, Like what what was his reaction? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I felt terrible and I was super embarrassed that he

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<v Speaker 1>kind of laughed it off and was cool about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we just like kept going and had a

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<v Speaker 1>really good night. That's a he was able to brush

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<v Speaker 1>it off. You guys, he's only thirty minutes into a date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but still it's just a shot to the ego. I know,

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<v Speaker 1>like I totally gioved, but honestly, like he's the one

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<v Speaker 1>that brought it up later in the date, like joking around. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>everyone was like he wait, what's your name? Again? Not

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<v Speaker 1>passive aggressive, like two really old people at breakfast, like

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<v Speaker 1>what's your name? Who are you? He's serious, He's like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>what time is it? I don't know. I guess that's

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<v Speaker 1>romantic in away? Is that how you felt about it?

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<v Speaker 1>I was really embarrassed at birth, but then like he

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<v Speaker 1>made me feel more comfortable and he, like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>he poked on at it later in the date, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I felt like it was fine. Thinken like I know,

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<v Speaker 1>like I know, the rest of the date went well

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<v Speaker 1>because after the day we left and we walked around

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<v Speaker 1>for a little bit and then he called an uber

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<v Speaker 1>for me, and like literally right as I was like

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to the super and like this is gonna sound

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<v Speaker 1>so corny and so cheesy, and I know it, but

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<v Speaker 1>I swear it happened. I was looking up and it's

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<v Speaker 1>like the clouds was just kind of cleared away and

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<v Speaker 1>like you could see like the stars. So it was

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<v Speaker 1>like super sweet and romantic, and like right then is

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<v Speaker 1>when he went in and kissed me good night, oh buddy,

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<v Speaker 1>and you like thanks Dylan. Oh my god. Well thank

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<v Speaker 1>god I didn't call him that name, like that would

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<v Speaker 1>have been even more embarrat thing. All right, that's sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like you have this sweet moment, you already

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<v Speaker 1>have an inside joke together. Like you sound connected. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>guessing you were totally expecting to call back from him. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And so like we've been texting and like I've been

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<v Speaker 1>very slurty with my text and like obviously like dropping

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<v Speaker 1>his tense. Hey, I'm definitely interested, but like he hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>been as kind of talkative back with his text and

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<v Speaker 1>he hasn't called me or asked me for another date.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's been a week now. Are you missing any

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<v Speaker 1>teeth he could have felt with his tongue while he

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<v Speaker 1>was in there and he wouldn't notice that earlier. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it could be in the back brook, Okay, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I thought you were a catfish. You didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>any teeth. I have all of my teeth, thank you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we got to the bottom of that mystery. I think

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<v Speaker 1>he may have met somebody else or something. Maybe it

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<v Speaker 1>was Ashley's friend that she was introduced to. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm spoken to her. Dude, I definitely want to get

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<v Speaker 1>that tea if that's the case. Yeah, let's find down.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to play a song, will come back. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna call Benjamin for you, and we'll try and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update. All right, Okay, thank you. Hold

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<v Speaker 1>on second if you're just joining us. We're talking with

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners, Ashley, who's worried that maybe her

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<v Speaker 1>date Benjamin is ghosting her because she accidentally blanked on

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<v Speaker 1>his name thirty minutes into their first and Ashley, I

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<v Speaker 1>know that makes you feel bad and probably kind of embarrassed,

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<v Speaker 1>but if it's any consolation, Brooke has gone to bed

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<v Speaker 1>with hundreds of men without ever knowing their names, So

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<v Speaker 1>you're in really good company right now. Ash I just

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<v Speaker 1>didn't think it was that important, but yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not why I was there. Save that for more

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<v Speaker 1>useful information. Anyway, Benjamin was a really good sport about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and they even had a kiss at the very end

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<v Speaker 1>of the night as the clouds parted and the stars

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<v Speaker 1>came out, which is why it's such a mystery why

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<v Speaker 1>Benjamin has been kind of avoiding her, still texting but

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<v Speaker 1>not asking her out on another date. So we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to help figure out the reason why that would be awesome. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm just worried that. I mean, he just

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<v Speaker 1>almost sounds like too smooth. Like that's why I think

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<v Speaker 1>that maybe there's somebody I always talking to a few

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<v Speaker 1>girls exactly like it's just like it's too good. We'll see.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna dial Benjamin's number right now, though, and we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to try and get you your second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you ready? Oh gosh, I don't know. Yes, okay, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm right, you're ready. You're ready? This will be good? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>are you sure? Because we don't have to do this? No?

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<v Speaker 1>No, no no it okay, just like all right before all

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. I'm down on the number right now. Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>is this Benjamin? This Benjaman? Who's this? My name is

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<v Speaker 1>jeff from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you talking about? Radio? It's a form of

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<v Speaker 1>entertainment that a lot of people listen to and we

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<v Speaker 1>do a morning show on it. And one thing that

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<v Speaker 1>we do on our show is this segment called a

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<v Speaker 1>second date Update. Oh oh yeah, y'all like a podcast? Right? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>If that makes it easier for you to understand than sure. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a radio by But something that we do on

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<v Speaker 1>this radio podcasts, yeah, is we help our listeners reach

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<v Speaker 1>out to people that they've been on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>when they can't get back in touch with them. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and you went out with a woman recently, Ashley. Yeah, Ashley, Ashley.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds like a good memory that just popped into

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<v Speaker 1>your head of Ashley. We spoke to Ashley about you,

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<v Speaker 1>and there were some pretty positive reviews. She says you're

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<v Speaker 1>a really nice guy, attractive and kind of a smooth talker. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I could be a ladies killer. Oh yeah, did you

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<v Speaker 1>like Ashley a lot um? In the words of Shakespeare,

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<v Speaker 1>I would say it was the best of times and

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<v Speaker 1>the worst of times. Oh I don't think that was. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was a far reach killer. But you ended up

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<v Speaker 1>going out. You must have had a good time on

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<v Speaker 1>the date then, right if I a doubt, man, I

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<v Speaker 1>had a blast. You know, even I even loved to

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<v Speaker 1>put where she almost forgot my name like thirty minutes

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<v Speaker 1>into the date. That really didn't bother you, No, I mean, hey, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just were meeting people. It's not like how

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<v Speaker 1>it used to be. It's like speed dating on steroids.

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<v Speaker 1>Very chill. Yeah, the vibe is very chill. You seem

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<v Speaker 1>very positive about everything. So I guess I'm a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit confused why you're not talking to Ashley anymore. All Right,

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<v Speaker 1>So here's the worst of times. Okay. So she let

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<v Speaker 1>me know where she worked at. Okay, So two days

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<v Speaker 1>after I was like, you know what, I'm gonna pop

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<v Speaker 1>up on her with some roses at work. So when

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<v Speaker 1>I went to her office talk to the receptionist. She said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>are you Dave? And I'm like, no, I am not Dave.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait is this a joke that she's playing because she

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<v Speaker 1>got through the wrong name on your date too, But

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<v Speaker 1>it was a receptionist, I said this. So then then

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<v Speaker 1>she went to go check and then she said, oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she already went to lunch with Dave already. Oh wow,

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<v Speaker 1>So she had a lunch date with Dave. Yeah, And

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<v Speaker 1>then the reception this had this weird look on her face,

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<v Speaker 1>like kind of like she didn't want to tell me that. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously you're like standing there holding flowers, but you're not

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship, Like you're both open and free to

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<v Speaker 1>date right now. After a completely amazing date like that,

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<v Speaker 1>she's the only woman on my mind. I can't, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, for twenty four hours later she's on another

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<v Speaker 1>date with another Do you that, Like, Yeah, that's crazy

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<v Speaker 1>to me. Yeah, I mean I don't know, Like it's

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<v Speaker 1>like she could have had it planned way before. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't usually it sounds like a boyfriend thing to take

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<v Speaker 1>up to lunch them. Dude, you think it's a boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it sounds like she just had another lunch date.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like dating right now. Well let's just ask her then,

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<v Speaker 1>because Benjamin, I gotta let you know that Ashley has

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<v Speaker 1>been on the other line listening this entire time. She

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<v Speaker 1>wants to talk to you. What, Yeah, Ashley, you there.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I'm so embarrassed. Oh why are you embarrassed? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, I'm so sorry. And to them, like, I

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<v Speaker 1>just want you to know that I did feel the

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<v Speaker 1>same way, like Acardy, you were the only man on

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<v Speaker 1>my mind too. So so who's Dave? Yeah, Like he's

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<v Speaker 1>not my boyfriend, there's nothing serious. He's just a guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I just I wish you would have told me

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<v Speaker 1>that you were coming, Ashley, to be honest, that's not

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<v Speaker 1>good enough, man, and you gotta be a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more honest and upfront if you know you want to

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<v Speaker 1>move forward or hang out with me. I mean, actually

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying two different things. You're saying after the date,

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<v Speaker 1>I had no other guy in mind, and then literally

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<v Speaker 1>the next day you're with another guy twenty four hours later.

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<v Speaker 1>I am sorry, all you need to get off of

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<v Speaker 1>her back. Okay, when I met my husband, I was

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<v Speaker 1>like seeing other dudes. I was hanging out with an excuse,

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<v Speaker 1>I had another date on the side, and like your husband,

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<v Speaker 1>you're the only guy that I'm thinking about right now

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<v Speaker 1>on the very first date. No, I wasn't telling him that. Brook.

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<v Speaker 1>She's saying that to us right now. She's saying that

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<v Speaker 1>Benjamin is the only person that I want to see,

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<v Speaker 1>but I also want to see Dave. Yeah, but you

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<v Speaker 1>can actually be out on the date with Dave and

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<v Speaker 1>still be thinking about Benjamin, like maybe it was already planned. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you could be right. The only way to

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<v Speaker 1>know is by asking Ashley, Hey, who is Dave? What

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<v Speaker 1>is his relationship? See just another guy that you're also

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<v Speaker 1>seeing or is there something more? Have you guys hooked up?

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have to get that far. But is it romantic?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what? I don't want to go into all

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<v Speaker 1>kind of details about I will just tell you this

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<v Speaker 1>and like seas, do not overreact. But he's just my

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<v Speaker 1>sugar daddy. Like what that's all good? Okay, now it

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense. I was worried this was a big deal. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so we're fine. Okay, but listen, okay, Benjamin, Like please

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<v Speaker 1>just listening for a second. Like I feel like y'all

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<v Speaker 1>are not getting right image of what this is. Like

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<v Speaker 1>he takes nady to like stuff like that, like nothing else.

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<v Speaker 1>That's literally the extent of our relationship. Like you know

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<v Speaker 1>more about me in the one date that we have

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<v Speaker 1>than he does, and we have like you and I

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<v Speaker 1>have a real connection, all right, so the like so

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<v Speaker 1>he does all that nice stuff for you, and but

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<v Speaker 1>do y'all do anything more than it or any more stuff?

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<v Speaker 1>I just I feel like we're getting really far away

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<v Speaker 1>from it. And the point is that like I care

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<v Speaker 1>about you. Oh I want an answer to that, Well

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<v Speaker 1>you don't. We don't need an answer, sugar daddy for free.

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<v Speaker 1>But you can stop the sugar daddy and can't you

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<v Speaker 1>can't you just like cut her off. I'm saying, letstic

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<v Speaker 1>like she could just end that and then she could

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<v Speaker 1>be into relationship with you, Benjamin. She made a mistake

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<v Speaker 1>going to a no sugar dating diet. You guys are

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<v Speaker 1>making such a huge deal of this, and it's like

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<v Speaker 1>it's not a big deal. All of my friends have these,

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<v Speaker 1>and like it's expensive being a single woman paying bread

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<v Speaker 1>is women can't have it all. It's not like you can,

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<v Speaker 1>like we can have somebody that we care about, and

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<v Speaker 1>we can have somebody that pays our bills. God, I

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<v Speaker 1>wish I could have that. Okay, So what you would

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<v Speaker 1>keep the sugar daddy and you would get you'd have

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<v Speaker 1>it all. I mean, yah, we can do that. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think about the idea of Benjamin giving

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<v Speaker 1>you both just splitting them into two people. Benjamin can

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<v Speaker 1>be the guy that gives you things and is also

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<v Speaker 1>romantically connected to you at the same time like a boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's not get too crazy. Can you do that? Like

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<v Speaker 1>that's a lot for one person? What do you think?

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<v Speaker 1>I just think for me, I feel like it's her loss.

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<v Speaker 1>You know why, because for one, I make good money,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a millionaire. Oh no. The second point is that

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<v Speaker 1>the first gesture, I did anything nice to you to

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<v Speaker 1>show my my romance or my positive affirmations towards you.

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<v Speaker 1>I come to your job, you with a whole another

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<v Speaker 1>dude I learned on this phone call. That's your sugar daddy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm okay, it's a lot. All I heard was that

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<v Speaker 1>he's a millionaire, and then my eyes went completely blank.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know how Ashley feels about it. Ashley,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think now, knowing that he is an

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<v Speaker 1>extremely successful, extremely rich guy that's also of smooth talker,

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<v Speaker 1>would you want to see him again? And we would

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<v Speaker 1>pay for that date. I mean, I just feel like

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<v Speaker 1>that like solves all of our problems. Like I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like we don't really have a problem here, Like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>now she has a friend. Actually, I think, I think

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<v Speaker 1>a good paying job for yourself and being an independent

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<v Speaker 1>you can disgust, you can be your help at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the day, Benjamin, we had a really good

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<v Speaker 1>time together. Like, I don't see why they has to stop.

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<v Speaker 1>I could stop. It's called trust. I mean, look, Benjamin,

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<v Speaker 1>I think she's seeing the air of her ways here.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously I could see this relationship working out, especially if

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<v Speaker 1>you're willing to pay a little bit more money on

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<v Speaker 1>your dates, and you won't even have to on this

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<v Speaker 1>first one because we're gonna pay for it. Come on, Benjamin,

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<v Speaker 1>one more chance. Might as well take the frame. Yell,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, it'll be fine now we're gonna have with

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<v Speaker 1>all your money. Remember, you're the only one that she's

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<v Speaker 1>been thinking about since your dates. Those are her words.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say, I'm okay, I'm not, I'm not, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>good on the second date. Yeah, I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel like all are really judging me really hard

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Oh I'm not ask your daddy if you

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<v Speaker 1>wants two babies. Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.