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Speaker 1: Are you ready? Oh gosh, I don't know. Yes, okay, yes,

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Speaker 1: on the very first date. No, I wasn't telling him that. Brook.

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Speaker 1: She's saying that to us right now. She's saying that

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Speaker 1: but I also want to see Dave. Yeah, but you

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Speaker 1: But you can stop the sugar daddy and can't you

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Speaker 1: I'm a millionaire. Oh no. The second point is that

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Speaker 1: I come to your job, you with a whole another

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Speaker 1: I'm okay, it's a lot. All I heard was that

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Speaker 1: And I don't know how Ashley feels about it. Ashley,

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Speaker 1: end of the day, Benjamin, we had a really good

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Speaker 1: come on, it'll be fine now we're gonna have with

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