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Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the morning show

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Speaker 1: Love It.

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Speaker 2: Talking on the show about people who give up the

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Speaker 2: thought of a massive wedding with all the family and

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Speaker 2: all the friends and all the money spent, and just

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Speaker 2: like go to the courthouse and get married, or maybe

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Speaker 2: run away to another state just to get away from

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Speaker 2: everyone and just get married with the one you love.

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Speaker 3: I got Amanda from Akron. So, Amanda, is this you?

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Speaker 3: Is this really you? Amanda?

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Speaker 2: Yes, Amanda's getting married in secret? Oh and then running

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Speaker 2: away to Tennessee. Are you getting married in Tennessee? Or

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Speaker 2: are you're running away to Tennessee after you get married

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Speaker 2: in secret? Tell us everything both.

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Speaker 4: I'm running the way to Tennessee to get married.

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Speaker 2: Wow, Now, why have you decided to oh do it? So,

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Speaker 2: why have you decided to do this rather than you know,

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Speaker 2: inviting everyone to the wedding and the big hoopla.

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Speaker 4: Honestly, so the whole process of this same has been honestly,

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Speaker 4: so much easier listening to you guys at Oh thank you,

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Speaker 4: you guys are wonderful.

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Speaker 3: Oh thank you, You're welcome.

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Speaker 4: But I was so serious listen, Okay, So I got

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Speaker 4: divorced recently. I know this sounds crazy. Okay, I got

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Speaker 4: divorce a year ago. The guy that I married was

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Speaker 4: my high school crush. Twenty two years later, here we

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Speaker 4: are getting married.

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Speaker 2: You know, you hear the story every once in a

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Speaker 2: while people got married to someone, they divorced them, and

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Speaker 2: they end up going back to someone they knew a

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Speaker 2: thousand years ago. And I think that's awesome. That's a

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Speaker 2: great story, a full circle story, it really is.

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Speaker 4: But so the kicker is who I was married. I

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Speaker 4: was married to a female prior to all of this.

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Speaker 4: We were together for seven years, and it was a

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Speaker 4: very controlling relationship, like very narcissistic. I actually I've been

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Speaker 4: on air with you guys quite a few times. I

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Speaker 4: actually won a cruise with you guys, and I wasn't

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Speaker 4: allowed to take that cruise.

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Speaker 2: What wow, Yeah, because she was toxic and controlling.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, well goodbye. But now you're getting married. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but why did you have this on the down low?

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Speaker 4: It's just people probably haven't left to think about the

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Speaker 4: sac that I'm getting married directly a year after I

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Speaker 4: got divorced.

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Speaker 3: There's nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 2: But you don't think there's anyone in your circle that's

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Speaker 2: happy for you, that would love to celebrate with you.

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Speaker 4: I mean there is like my mom knows, his mom knows,

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Speaker 4: Like it's just the rest of everyone that we know

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Speaker 4: don't doesn't really know.

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Speaker 2: Okay that you know, it's your business, It's your decision.

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Speaker 2: I always hate when people decide to get married and

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Speaker 2: have a big wedding and they are so so careful

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Speaker 2: in considering everyone else's feelings before their own.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I understand the importance maybe having parents there,

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Speaker 2: especially if they're paying for.

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Speaker 3: It, But you know what I'm saying, it's just like,

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Speaker 3: it's your decision. Gandhi, what do you think?

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Speaker 1: I have so many questions? Okay, So what is the

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Speaker 1: reason that you are doing it exactly a year after

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Speaker 1: you got Is there like significance to you in that?

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Speaker 4: So we have kids, and my daughter has never had

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Speaker 4: her died in her life, and this is the first

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Speaker 4: healthy relationship that I've been in. And she looks up

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Speaker 4: to him. She's fifteen, and she looks up to him

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Speaker 4: like a dad. And she actually proposed to him and

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Speaker 4: asked him to adopt her. And he said absolutely.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, what a lovely story.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. So I don't know if it's across the board,

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Speaker 4: but in Ohio you have to be married for six

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Speaker 4: months before or you can do an adoption process.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: My other question was going to be, do you think, like,

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Speaker 1: what is a time frame for you that you think

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Speaker 1: you'll be comfortable telling people or will there ever be

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Speaker 1: a time you're comfortable telling people?

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Speaker 4: Girl? Literally, as soon as it happens, then we're going

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Speaker 4: to be like, Okay, So.

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Speaker 1: You just don't want people to try to talk you

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Not only that, but I don't want to hear any

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Speaker 4: kind of negative feedback. I guess you know, we're super comfortable.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm in my mid thirties, he as well.

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Speaker 4: We're just we've stayed friends since high school. We've always

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Speaker 4: kept in touch. It was either I was in a

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Speaker 4: relationship and he was single or vice versa. It was

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Speaker 4: never the right time, and it's finally the right time

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Speaker 4: for us. And I don't really want to hear any

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Speaker 4: kind of negative feedback from anyone to discourage that.

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Speaker 3: I get that good. I mean, it's so easy to go.

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Speaker 4: I want to say, gandhi, this is my first time

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Speaker 4: being on air and actually being able to speak with you.

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Speaker 4: I'm so excited. I love you.

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Speaker 1: Oh, thank you for calling.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I love you too.

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Speaker 3: You should marry Gandhi oh yea, yeah, he doesn't.

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Speaker 4: Want to get it. I am from Ohio.

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Speaker 3: She's not the marrying time now.

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Speaker 2: It's so easy to give advice to people like like

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Speaker 2: like you, Amanda, Like, well.

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Speaker 3: You know, who cares what people say?

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Speaker 2: You know, there's nothing wrong with like not giving them

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Speaker 2: an opportunity to say anything. I love the way you're

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Speaker 2: doing this. It's like, screw them. It's not about them.

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Speaker 2: It's about you and your happiness.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely. I mean, honestly, I feel like being in my thirties,

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Speaker 4: it's a little different. Like I don't want to spend

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Speaker 4: all of my money on this big, lavish wedding. I

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Speaker 4: want to go and make memories. I want to have

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Speaker 4: a small wedding and then go and have a good

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Speaker 4: time while we're in Gatlinburg and get pictures and make memories.

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Speaker 4: Because that's really, honestly, what it's all about. It's not

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Speaker 4: about the thousands of dollars I spend on everyone to

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Speaker 3: Me, I agree, What about you, Daniel, what are you thinking?

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Speaker 5: I think that it's what she wants to do when

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Speaker 5: she's in love and she didn't care what anybody else thinks.

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Speaker 5: I think that, you know, and especially if she thinks

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Speaker 5: it's a really good thing for her child, because you know,

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Speaker 5: she said, you know, coming out of a crappy situation,

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Speaker 5: this is an amazing situation. And the fact that your

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Speaker 5: your daughter is the one that proposed and said adopt me.

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Speaker 5: I feel like kids also know things, like they have

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Speaker 5: little inklings into things. And I think she knows who's

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Speaker 5: a good person and who's not.

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Speaker 3: You know, is a great story. I'm glad you shared

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Speaker 3: that with us, by the.

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Speaker 4: Way, and yeah, yes, and you guys, honestly, you guys

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Speaker 4: have helped me so much, Like when I was in

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Speaker 4: the marriage that I was in prior and listening to

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Speaker 4: you guys in the morning, it helped me so much

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Speaker 4: because there would be so days some days I was

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Speaker 4: like I can't do this, like I'm just don't even

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Speaker 4: feel like going to work. I just feel like sleeping

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Speaker 4: all day doing nothing, like I'm just miserable. And I've

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Speaker 4: listened to you guys, and you guys were your phone tapped,

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Speaker 4: like I just love everything. And and when you guys hurt,

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Speaker 4: I hurt, like it's I'm very empathetic. So I just

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Speaker 4: you guys a like family. And like I said, I've

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Speaker 4: been on air a few different times, like I've won

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Speaker 4: the phone taps and played match game, I won the Cruise,

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Speaker 4: I did the Brooklyn betting. I want to bed. I've

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Speaker 4: been on air with you guys a ton of times.

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Speaker 3: Wow, you've been here more than we've been here.

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Speaker 4: I literally love you guys so much.

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Speaker 3: Well, thank you. You got to have questions, Carrie, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I just want to know what's it like from going

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Speaker 3: from being with a woman to being with a guy.

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Speaker 4: I can answer that. I mean, it's just it's not

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Speaker 4: I was with a man before. Obviously I have kids,

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Speaker 4: and then I was always interested in females. I thought,

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Speaker 4: you know, we'll just see. I had a you know,

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Speaker 4: some health complications, ended up having to have a hysterectomy,

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Speaker 4: and I was like, well, I can't have any more kids.

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Speaker 4: I'm just going to explore my options. And I found

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Speaker 4: her and we got married and it did not work out,

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Speaker 4: and I was stuck for about seven years. And I

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Speaker 4: did literally January second, right after New Year's It was

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Speaker 4: literally a New year last year for.

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Speaker 3: Me and my daughter.

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Speaker 2: Good for you, you know what, you've made that decision,

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Speaker 2: you know, and don't don't ever look at it like, oh, seven.

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Speaker 3: Years of my life wasted.

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Speaker 2: No, it was all necessary to get you on this

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Speaker 2: journey that you're doing. For whatever reason, the universe wanted

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Speaker 2: you there in that relationship. But now look where you

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Speaker 2: are now.

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Speaker 3: Good for you. We're happy for you, Amanda. Good, good

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Speaker 3: for you and your family.

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Speaker 4: Yes, thank you so much. I mean we're counting down,

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Speaker 4: getting close.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 1: Congratulations.

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Speaker 3: You know sometimes sometimes you can live happily ever after.

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Speaker 3: Go do it, and thanks for listening to us, Amanda.

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Speaker 3: We're very happy.

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Speaker 4: Thank you guys so much