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Speaker 1: Thank you for listening to us or streaming us on

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Speaker 1: your Iart radio app wherever you are. We're up to

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Speaker 1: the portion of the show we call a second date update.

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Speaker 1: I didn't you meet Robbie on Bumble a hinge? Thank

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Speaker 1: you for listening, Right, they kind of all merged like

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Speaker 1: my streamers on my TV. I don't know what's on

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Speaker 1: Paramount Plus versus Peacong.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're kind of right.

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Speaker 1: So anyway, they met him Bumble. They had an amazing

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Speaker 1: first date. So he asked her out and she was

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Speaker 1: going to be out of town, but she said yes

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Speaker 1: for when she gets back. But when she returned, he

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Speaker 1: didn't respond anymore. And so she wants to know what

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Speaker 1: did he learn or discover what happened while I was

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Speaker 1: away that he now all of a sudden is doing

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Speaker 1: this about face and doesn't want to go out anymore.

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Speaker 1: Too much time to research, maybe due diligence, and he

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Speaker 1: found out something he didn't want to find out. All right,

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Speaker 1: So let's put Leah on here. Hey Leah, thanks for

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Speaker 1: coming on for a second date update. We're very invested

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Speaker 1: in your story. I want you to know how long

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Speaker 1: were you gone? Thank you for how long were you gone.

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Speaker 2: For How long was I gone? Well, I mean it

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Speaker 2: just to night, really like I.

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Speaker 1: Night, so twenty four hours and all of a sudden

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Speaker 1: he is uninterested.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, exactly like weird?

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Speaker 1: Right, Well, I don't know. We were just sitting here

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Speaker 1: spitball and trying to figure out what could he have?

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Speaker 1: Is there anything he could have found out about you

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Speaker 1: in that day that might turn him off?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't think I'm too weird.

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Speaker 3: What was your amazing first date?

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Speaker 2: Well, we went to the west Lake Promenade and got

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Speaker 2: gelato and we just played some games that were there.

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Speaker 2: It was really fun and yeah, I mean like that

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Speaker 2: was about it. It was just a really lovely, like

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Speaker 2: getting to know you and he really connected.

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Speaker 1: Sissy's give me a look. And the reason I have

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Speaker 1: to face on my face is because I want to

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Speaker 1: know what flavored gelato did you have? That sounds really great?

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Speaker 1: I like pistachio and they have those little pistachios on

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Speaker 1: top of it.

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Speaker 3: Before they believe Ryan would have called you back the

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Speaker 3: next day just based on I would.

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Speaker 1: Have taken a cold Stone Creamery. Actually I like cold

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Speaker 1: Stone Creamery. That's my spot.

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Speaker 2: Are just so basic.

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Speaker 3: Hold on one second, Lea would not have answered your

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Speaker 3: phone called.

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Speaker 1: So good? Hold you do you say if we were

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Speaker 1: to go on a date to cold Stone Creamery? That's

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Speaker 1: a no go?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, gelato is this thing? Okay?

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Speaker 1: So I'm doing my best to help you here, Leah.

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Speaker 3: I'm certain to get the idea is to maybe why

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Speaker 3: Alex did.

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Speaker 1: Not call you. Guys, it's too soon, too early. Hold

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Speaker 1: on one second, we're going to try and get him.

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Speaker 1: I think he's agreed to come on. So hold on

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Speaker 1: one second, Yeah, Alex here, and then real quick, So Ruby,

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Speaker 1: how's the salt in your coffee? She's trying. I'm about

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Speaker 1: to put it into the coffee. Okay, go for it.

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Speaker 1: So we do have salt, and we do have awful

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Speaker 1: coffee here in the by the way. Uh huh, Leeah,

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Speaker 1: I should I hung up on her an accident, but

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Speaker 1: I think it was a Freudian slip. Get Leah back,

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Speaker 1: even though she's making fun of all this morning. Okay,

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Speaker 1: how is it? Does it tastes make the coffee taste better?

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Speaker 1: This is what TikTok's telling me, that you put salt

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Speaker 1: in your coffee tastes better? No, well, Tiktoks, did you

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Speaker 1: stir it. Did you give it some she said no,

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Speaker 1: that means that the coffee is so bad salt can't

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Speaker 1: save it, or TikTok is wrong. I think that's it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: on Air with Ryan Seacret.

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Speaker 2: On Air on Air with Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so we're in a second date update. We met Leah.

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Speaker 1: Leah went out with Alex. They met him, mumble, and

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Speaker 1: then they were gonna go out again. Then Leah disappears

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Speaker 1: for a day and Alex totally drops the ball doesn't

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Speaker 1: reach out to ask her out again. So Lee, is

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Speaker 1: it safe to say you guys had a good first date.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we had a great time, Okay.

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Speaker 1: And then a day goes by. You had to leave

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Speaker 1: town so you couldn't go out with him right away,

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Speaker 1: and now he will not ask you out again for

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Speaker 1: some reason. Yeah, do you have any idea what it

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Speaker 2: No? No, I just like told him I'd be out

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Speaker 2: like I was gone like less than that.

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Speaker 4: And this is I don't know.

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Speaker 1: This is something that we all experienced where you cannot

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Speaker 1: figure out what happened when you think things are going well,

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Speaker 1: especially when you first meet somebody. I for one, would

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Speaker 1: not have the thick skin to find out why. But

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Speaker 1: I'm glad that you want the peace of mind, and

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Speaker 1: that's why we're here. So I'm going to tell you

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Speaker 1: that Alex is on the line and he's agreed to

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Speaker 1: come on with his next Be very quiet. We're going

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Speaker 1: to find out why he does not want to go

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Speaker 1: out with you again. I think. Okay, Alex, are you there?

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks for hanging on. I just want to get

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Speaker 1: into it. You met a woman named Leah on Bumble

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Speaker 1: and you went out with her. How was that?

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Speaker 4: I did? Yeah? Honestly, it was one of the best

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Speaker 4: dates I've ever been on.

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Speaker 1: Probably Okay, So why what was so great?

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Speaker 4: Oh? Probably her laugh more than anything else. He laughed

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Speaker 4: a lot, and her laugh was cute. Yeah, her laugh

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Speaker 4: was cute. And so did you make her laugh? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Making her laugh was awesome and felt really good.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, okay, and then what about seeing or more?

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Speaker 1: Are you gonna go out there again?

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Speaker 4: I don't think so?

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Speaker 1: Why not?

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Speaker 4: She lied to me? And lying is a big thing.

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Speaker 1: What happened, Alex? What was she like to about?

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Speaker 4: Honestly, I don't know if I should get into it,

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Speaker 4: but I asked her out again, and she said she

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Speaker 4: couldn't and the reason that she gave me wasn't true.

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Speaker 4: So I figure she's probably seen other people or something.

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Speaker 1: Makes sense. I could see why you think that.

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Speaker 3: What does she lie about that?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 4: You move on?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? What did she say?

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Speaker 4: Well, basically we went out. I asked her out again.

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Speaker 4: She said she was going to be out of town,

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Speaker 4: and then I saw her and her friends when during

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Speaker 4: the window that she said she would be out of town.

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Speaker 1: Okay, just to move things along here, Alex, I want

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Speaker 1: to tell you that Leah is on the line. Leah,

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Speaker 1: is that true that you lied to him?

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Speaker 2: I mean, like not not really. It's kind of personal, but.

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Speaker 1: Well, what happened that's personal that you lied to him,

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Speaker 1: or at least what can you tell us?

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, it's all right. So I had my period.

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Speaker 2: I get them really bad. I've seen doctors about it,

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Speaker 2: and I didn't want to have awful cramps during our

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Speaker 2: second date, so I lied and thought I was going

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Speaker 4: I mean I kind of okay, wait, you could you

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Speaker 4: could go out with your friends during that time? Well?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, taking it in so it's all right, makes okay sense.

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Speaker 2: The metal phase is for sleep and rest and heating pads.

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Speaker 3: And you can vent to your girlfriends about cramps and

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Speaker 3: pain and all that stuff. Yeah, I can't really invent

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Speaker 3: to a new guy that you're dating about that stuff,

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Speaker 3: and to be very uncomfortable if you're on a first date.

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Speaker 1: Now that we know all of that, Leah, you heard

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Speaker 1: the rave reviews Alex was giving you about the date.

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Speaker 1: Do you guys want to go out again?

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Speaker 2: I would really like to go out again. I think

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Speaker 2: we'd be really great together.

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Speaker 1: Alex, do you want to speak a word and maybe

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Speaker 1: no more lying?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? No more lying. You can honestly, you can tell me.

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Speaker 1: With this move on. We've covered that, Alex. Do you

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I do?

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Speaker 1: Great? All right, don't take it to Coldstone Creamery. She

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Speaker 1: like threw me under the bus. Shame me for that idea.

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Speaker 1: I love it. You guys, fine, do what you want.

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Speaker 1: Lee and Alex, good luck to you. I'm glad we

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Speaker 1: could talk through this.

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Speaker 4: Thanks day.

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Speaker 1: All right, bye, guys. I don't think that's to work.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, not a match. I don't know everything

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Speaker 1: that he was saying. I didn't get on that phone

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Speaker 1: call like he was saying that had such a great time.

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Speaker 1: He made her laugh, Like all these things seems like

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Speaker 1: it was going so well. I didn't get any of

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Speaker 1: that chemistry. I'm called on the radio like it's like

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Speaker 1: I still didn't get anything. I just don't think you

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Speaker 1: Was it just me? Really? I think that's what it was.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean maybe, but I don't know

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Speaker 1: that they're the perfect match. I'm glad we worked through

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Speaker 1: that because it was a little misunderstanding more than anything else.

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Speaker 1: So let's hope for the best. But I'll give that

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Speaker 1: a five on our second date update scale. I think

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Speaker 1: it could work out. We'll see. Uh old Gramery loved

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Speaker 1: you guys.