1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:00,920 Speaker 1: Welcome. 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 2: Hi, it's a dalaus but galas, it's. 3 00:00:09,080 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, what are we talking about? We are 4 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: talking about. 5 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 3: Look at her, that's so cute, but she needs as 6 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 3: we are talking about. You don't listen to nobody that 7 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 3: just came to me. You're so excited about this, you 8 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:38,839 Speaker 3: don't listen to nobody. 9 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:41,559 Speaker 2: That's the that's the title of this message. 10 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 1: But it's so true. You don't listen to nobody. People 11 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: don't want They don't actually hear I want help. People 12 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 1: don't want help because it's not people don't want help. 13 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:58,760 Speaker 3: People want help because they don't if it agrees with 14 00:00:59,040 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 3: their plan. 15 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:02,440 Speaker 4: I want to meet with you, and then the entire 16 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:05,480 Speaker 4: time it's just to vomit all over you. Not because 17 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 4: they actually want to help, because they're not going to 18 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:07,959 Speaker 4: actually listen to me. 19 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 1: No, they just want. 20 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 4: To just offend it. And they love that feeling of offense. 21 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 4: They're just mad and they love that feeling of mad. 22 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:17,559 Speaker 4: They're just you know, ride that out, ride that out. 23 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:19,960 Speaker 4: But like ride that out or obsessed with it. 24 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 3: I want I want everybody here that doesn't listen. 25 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 1: To ride it out. 26 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 3: I want you to ride that plan out until the 27 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:32,119 Speaker 3: final destination and see where it takes you. Because some 28 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:35,559 Speaker 3: of you know what you're talking about. There's a lot, 29 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 3: there's a lot, there's things that maybe you don't even 30 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 3: know about. Okay, because I can tell you right now 31 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 3: that like most people, uh, they're self seeking and they 32 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 3: don't I know that sounds like terrible, but that's what 33 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 3: it is. 34 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 1: Right. Do you have a train a train, Tasha? 35 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 2: Do you have a train like a play a toy train? 36 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: Why would she have a train? I don't know. 37 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 4: I feel like she has everything. But that's what we need. 38 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 4: We need a picture. We need a picture. 39 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 1: Choo choo, hop up on the on the train, the 40 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 1: thought train. What you know what? That works? 41 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 4: That works because people just need to hop on the 42 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 4: thought train. 43 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 3: Hop on the thought train, and take it all the 44 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:27,639 Speaker 3: way to its final destination. Because I'll tell you right now, 45 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 3: it's not. 46 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:30,800 Speaker 4: Stop at stop one, don't do it, don't stop at 47 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:35,920 Speaker 4: stop two, don't don't stop at stop three, Nope, all the. 48 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:38,640 Speaker 1: Way to the final destination. And where is that? And 49 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:40,640 Speaker 1: see where you like it? Where is that? Let me 50 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 1: let me just give you like a little cute example. 51 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 4: Okay, I wish I had a listen once we have 52 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 4: a train, we'll be able to give an examples because 53 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 4: then we're just gonna here's all the different stuff choo choo. 54 00:02:53,160 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 3: When you get angry at your spouse, uh huh, you're fighting, yes, yeah, 55 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 3: things are getting heated. 56 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 1: Yep. What is the point of that? What is the point? 57 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 3: Because I'm telling you like, follow the chu chu all 58 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 3: the way to the final destination and what's it gonna? Okay, 59 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 3: so you're right, So you're right about the situation, and 60 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 3: your spouse has now agreed. 61 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 1: Okay, you are right. I am wrong. 62 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 2: Now now what is. 63 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 1: Your feelings of contempt? 64 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:30,359 Speaker 5: Total? 65 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 4: Is you? 66 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: The house is in contempt? 67 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 4: Is actually the number one gauge to divorce is contempt 68 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 4: towards your spouse. So what you're doing is you're facilitating 69 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 4: that increase in contempt towards you. 70 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 3: Well, this is what James three sixteen says for where 71 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 3: you have envy and selfish ambition because you wanting to 72 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 3: be right, because you want to be right. There's no 73 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 3: I'm trying to make this relationship better. This is a 74 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 3: self seeking situation, right. It says if you play that card, 75 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:18,599 Speaker 3: you will find disorder and every evil practice. 76 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 1: And and this is that was a terrible because it's 77 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:21,919 Speaker 1: a freaking and. 78 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:25,719 Speaker 3: IV it's an and the new King James version says, 79 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 3: for where envy and self seeking exist, there is confusion and. 80 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 2: Every evil work, every evil work. 81 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 3: So let me tell you that's the dumbest choo choo 82 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 3: I've ever It looks like that looks like a truck. 83 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:46,919 Speaker 1: Mags, Mags, that looks like a truck. I'm not so 84 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 1: mad at it. I actually think. I mean it's very clear, 85 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:57,480 Speaker 1: very like, it's a very clear picture. Wow. Yeah, those cameras. No, 86 00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:01,360 Speaker 1: don't do that something, Just let me do something, let 87 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 1: me do me go on. 88 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 3: So, where there is jealousy, self ambition, self interest, however 89 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:13,480 Speaker 3: you want to like make it out to be, there 90 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:17,480 Speaker 3: is going to be disorder. And in the Amplified Bible 91 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 3: it says unrest, rebellion, unrest and rebellion will be there 92 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:29,840 Speaker 3: as well. Why because you want to be right, that's all. 93 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:33,919 Speaker 2: Follow Follow the train to train town. 94 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:43,560 Speaker 4: Don't stop at stop one, don't don't stop at stop too, don't. 95 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 1: Do it because the stop one is. I just want 96 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 1: to be right. 97 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 3: I'm right, and I won the I won the I 98 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:53,159 Speaker 3: won the argument. Okay, but now your wife is crying, 99 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:58,919 Speaker 3: or now he great has the job feeling and now 100 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:02,919 Speaker 3: he's now salty he he yeah, or he's feeling salty 101 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:06,280 Speaker 3: and towards her, and she's already apologized, but now he's 102 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 3: She's like, wow, you're really bringing things back in up 103 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 3: from the past ten years ago. 104 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 2: Okay, so now we're we're coupling that. 105 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 3: So now there's there's uh this this lack of respect 106 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:21,600 Speaker 3: that the wife is now feeling towards the husband because 107 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 3: you you cross the line saying something because you wanted 108 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:30,039 Speaker 3: to be right, stop it, stop it right now, if 109 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:33,679 Speaker 3: you stop the momentum, if you stop that train from 110 00:06:33,720 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 3: continuing on, and just said, you know what, for the 111 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 3: greater good, I'm gonna keep my mouth shut, and I'll say, 112 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 3: you know what, I I don't think we're agreeing. That's okay, 113 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:48,719 Speaker 3: let's walk this out. Yeah, let's let's let's continue in peace. 114 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 3: Let's continue in joy for a minute here, sweety pie, and. 115 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:54,839 Speaker 1: Let's let's let's let's. 116 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 3: Uh walk this out in in in love, in peace. 117 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:03,280 Speaker 3: Let's let's if I'm too frustrated right now, I'm gonna 118 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 3: let that simmer. I'm gonna let that go for a 119 00:07:05,040 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 3: minute and I'll get back to that. 120 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 1: I don't wanna. I don't wanna. 121 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 3: I don't want to cross the line that I can 122 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 3: never uncross again by saying those things that you just said. Yep, 123 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 3: and there's there's damage. There's like that terrible, terrible damage 124 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 3: that people. 125 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, we're headed to the damage part step two. 126 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 1: You can't really see it. 127 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 4: Oh stop, okay, stop, okay, the damage because people aren't 128 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 4: aren't doing they're not going all the way through with 129 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:38,239 Speaker 4: their thought process. 130 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:38,720 Speaker 1: Now they're not. 131 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 4: They're stopping here because I'm right and I want to 132 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 4: be heard. 133 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 1: Look at that. Look at that. You gotta do that. 134 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 4: You need to mark a little bit darker here, that's marker. 135 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 4: So you want to you people just stop at stop one. 136 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 4: But they don't understand there's many stops to this train, 137 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 4: and if you don't put a stop to the train 138 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 4: right then you're gonna end up in its final destination 139 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 4: and you're gonna be totally royally screwed. Yeah, stop one, 140 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 4: stop one. 141 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: Just listen to me to stop too. Damage has been done. Yep. 142 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 4: Now you're feeling contempt, you're feeling anger, you're feeling like unheard, right, 143 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 4: and these things are are in your mind, irreparable, right, 144 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:26,239 Speaker 4: irreparable damages. 145 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 1: You can't take it back. You said it. You can't 146 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 1: take it back. 147 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 3: You can apologize, but that's still like ouch, you sliced me. 148 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 1: Yep, I'm bleeding now. 149 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 4: But then from this point, then one of you guys 150 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 4: is like, you know what, I'm done. 151 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:44,959 Speaker 1: I'm done with it. So then it leads to what divorce? Divorce? 152 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, divorce or I mean I've said, years of toxic behavior, toxicity, 153 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 4: trauma after trauma, because you don't know how to stop 154 00:08:56,080 --> 00:08:56,480 Speaker 4: this train. 155 00:08:57,559 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's going now and then now now an hour, 156 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 1: Now you have kids. 157 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:05,840 Speaker 4: Oh oh, now you have kids, and guess what they're 158 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 4: picking up on all of your toxic behavior and then 159 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 4: they're emulating it. Stop three you never even stopped the 160 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 4: Dagon train. 161 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. 162 00:09:13,840 --> 00:09:16,679 Speaker 4: So now both of y'all are miserable. Your kids are 163 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:19,559 Speaker 4: on suicide watch. Yep, you're starting to drink a little heavy. 164 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:21,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, people think I'm playing. 165 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:24,960 Speaker 3: That's how it goes, and that's what I was. I 166 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 3: was just talking to Olivia. I was like, it just 167 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 3: things don't surprise me anymore. But like before, me, at 168 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:35,640 Speaker 3: twenty six years old, would always. 169 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:37,679 Speaker 2: Think like, Wow, that's so sad that. 170 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 3: That's happening to individuals. Now, when I look at people 171 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 3: and the mess ups and the failures that are happening 172 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 3: around them, I understand there was a seed that was 173 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 3: sown to get to that point. That didn't happen overnight, 174 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 3: darn right. There was something that was festering in the 175 00:09:56,480 --> 00:10:00,200 Speaker 3: thought process. There was something that was being planted every 176 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 3: single day, and now they have a harvest. 177 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:06,800 Speaker 1: Isn't that right? Because that's how it works. And then 178 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:09,679 Speaker 1: things don't just happen just because like all of a 179 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:12,439 Speaker 1: sudden overnight. They don't. 180 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:16,199 Speaker 2: It takes like a long time for things. 181 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 3: And that's by the grace and mercy of Almighty God 182 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 3: that he can help us and walk us through. Because 183 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,280 Speaker 3: you know, I've laid bad seed as well. 184 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 1: Yes you know, but thanks. 185 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 3: One of the prayers that I pray is God, have 186 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:32,600 Speaker 3: mercy on me. Yes, have mercy on my soul, because 187 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:35,400 Speaker 3: I might not see things clearly. I might have allowed 188 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:37,960 Speaker 3: anger to come in. But Father, you know me, You 189 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 3: know my heart, clean me, make me clean, Point out 190 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:44,320 Speaker 3: all of the flaws on the inside of me, Things 191 00:10:44,360 --> 00:10:46,360 Speaker 3: that you aren't pleased with, things that won't work in 192 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 3: the future. 193 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:48,160 Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. 194 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:50,840 Speaker 3: If if, if it feels good in the now. It 195 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 3: feels good to be vindicated, it feels good to be heard, 196 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:56,199 Speaker 3: it feels good to X y Z. But if at 197 00:10:56,200 --> 00:10:59,240 Speaker 3: the end of it it's gonna bring calamity and there's 198 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:02,520 Speaker 3: more damage, then there is peace and joy. 199 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 1: I don't want it. I would rather be wrong. I 200 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:07,080 Speaker 1: would rather know that I'm wrong. That would be the 201 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:10,840 Speaker 1: finalce or know that I'm right. What is that you 202 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 1: turn around? Final destination, the. 203 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 3: Final destination, and that's a train wreck, final destination. This 204 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 3: is where people don't take it, but people need. 205 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:23,839 Speaker 1: To take it there. 206 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:27,880 Speaker 4: It's like you said, it's calamity, it's death right, it's 207 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:29,600 Speaker 4: irre to. 208 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 3: Your children, to their children's children, because it's not just 209 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:36,360 Speaker 3: about you, it's about everybody. 210 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:38,319 Speaker 1: This is where y'all started because you want to want 211 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 1: to argue. 212 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:43,320 Speaker 3: Now you have generations of destruction because you chose to 213 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 3: walk it out in the flesh instead of the spirit. Okay, 214 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 3: I can't help you. That's that's your choice. That's your choice. 215 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:53,960 Speaker 3: And you know what's sad to me too, that we've 216 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 3: got young people here that refuse to take counsel from anybody, 217 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 3: And it's just interesting to me because I pulled it up. 218 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:06,079 Speaker 3: It says the way of the arrogant fool who rejects 219 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 3: God's wisdom is right in his own eyes. But a 220 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:13,559 Speaker 3: wise and prudent man is he who listens to counsel. 221 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:16,520 Speaker 2: You know what people try to advise you don't. 222 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:20,200 Speaker 1: Listen to nobody. You don't listen, don't nobody? 223 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 3: And then what do you want when all hell breaks 224 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 3: loose and the proverbial pooh hits the fan? 225 00:12:29,559 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 1: What what we are? 226 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:31,880 Speaker 2: We gonna just come back to you and say I 227 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 2: told you so. I don't want that for you. 228 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:35,679 Speaker 1: Why are you gonna do? 229 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:40,640 Speaker 4: You're dating a man that's barely saved, who looks like 230 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:42,560 Speaker 4: he has psychosis of some sort. 231 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 1: You're gonna marry that person. 232 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:50,959 Speaker 4: Find them be a year into your marriage, find them 233 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:55,320 Speaker 4: over your bed at night Pacific with a knife. 234 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 1: Wanting to kill themselves. You think I'm lying. You think 235 00:12:59,160 --> 00:12:59,680 Speaker 1: I'm lying. 236 00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 3: You've had you've had a psychosist relationship before, so. 237 00:13:03,840 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 5: She knows I'm lying. People don't listen. Listen, listen to me. 238 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:17,480 Speaker 5: People don't listen. 239 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 1: They're playing. I'm feeling this in my spirit today. 240 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 2: You're not listening, wakes up hovering over your bed. 241 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:27,680 Speaker 1: The knife is your throat. 242 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:31,559 Speaker 4: You're gonna think about this and how you didn't pay 243 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:33,840 Speaker 4: attention and how you didn't like to listen. 244 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:44,080 Speaker 1: Kill that, Traine, Just kill the trade of momentum. Just 245 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:47,559 Speaker 1: stop And then what for what? Because you don't listen? 246 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:50,720 Speaker 4: Because if you didn't listen because you would rather liked 247 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:57,200 Speaker 4: his attention, He's not even rich. 248 00:13:59,320 --> 00:14:05,960 Speaker 2: What I got to say it, adele, adele. 249 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:10,720 Speaker 4: Because because you know, we talk about Jacob and Esau, 250 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:12,560 Speaker 4: we do this, we we just talk. 251 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 1: About it all the time. How can you give up 252 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 1: your birthright for a bowl of soup? People do it 253 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 1: every day. That's so sad. People do it every day. 254 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:24,720 Speaker 4: I can't far far less is at least the Lucius Lord, 255 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 4: so me A'll be giving up your birthright for some Oh. 256 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 1: I can't even begin. 257 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:35,320 Speaker 3: It's not even like baked potato far less. You know 258 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 3: what I'm saying, far less broccoli cheddar? Do you know 259 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:41,600 Speaker 3: what I'm saying. 260 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 1: I'm telling you it's and for what? 261 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:45,400 Speaker 4: For what? 262 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:49,320 Speaker 1: I just I And it's for this reason. It's for 263 00:14:49,360 --> 00:14:50,040 Speaker 1: this principle that. 264 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 3: I've seen the lie have seen it. We've seen it 265 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 3: so many times get advised. We have advised so many 266 00:14:56,120 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 3: We've counseled so many people dating. I feel as though 267 00:15:01,320 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 3: this is like, like you are, it's a waste of 268 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 3: time to counsel people because most of the times people 269 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 3: don't listen what they want to do when they they 270 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 3: counsel when they want they want to like involve you 271 00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 3: is they want you to affirm what they are feeling. 272 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 1: So they don't you wrong. It's true. 273 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:28,880 Speaker 4: It's like you're dating somebody who's addicted to opiates and 274 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:33,160 Speaker 4: you just got engaged, and you think that that's a 275 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:33,640 Speaker 4: good idea. 276 00:15:33,680 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 1: How why tell me? Why follow the train? Follow the train? 277 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 4: Now you're married. Now he's stealing from you. Now you 278 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:42,880 Speaker 4: have kids, you're taking them to church by yourself. You're 279 00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 4: taking the churches by yourself. 280 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:47,480 Speaker 2: And that affect on afendor with God. 281 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:49,400 Speaker 1: You don't know where he's at. 282 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 3: Now you're like, why God, as though somebody didn't warn 283 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 3: you in advance. 284 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 1: U miss me with that. Because the thing is. 285 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 3: God is merciful, you know, just like I was saying, 286 00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 3: and like he gives you chances like he will send 287 00:16:06,480 --> 00:16:10,240 Speaker 3: one person, two people, three people, four people to confirm 288 00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 3: and after all that. 289 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 4: It doesn't even doesn't matter. It doesn't even have to 290 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 4: be that dramatic. How about this one. You're you're you're 291 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 4: currently engaged with somebody who is a stick in the mud, 292 00:16:23,560 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 4: and everybody's like, dude, she's a life killer, he's a 293 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 4: life killer. There's a way, And then all of a sudden, 294 00:16:28,920 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 4: you think that marriage is going to solve everything. 295 00:16:31,840 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 1: It only it only will get worse if you marry 296 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:37,640 Speaker 1: that person. But people, people play too much, and people 297 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:38,800 Speaker 1: don't listen. People don't listen. 298 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:39,240 Speaker 3: Listen. 299 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:39,920 Speaker 1: You don't listen. 300 00:16:40,280 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 3: You don't listen, and that's the problem. You don't listen, 301 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:48,520 Speaker 3: and that's the problem. Just let us help you. That's it. 302 00:16:49,240 --> 00:16:54,400 Speaker 4: Just listen, because you do if you have to, if 303 00:16:54,400 --> 00:16:56,880 Speaker 4: you have to write out the plan of what it 304 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 4: looks like. It doesn't all of a sudden be like, oh, 305 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 4: he stopped using opioids. 306 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:04,639 Speaker 1: He might have three good years. 307 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:08,399 Speaker 4: The moment something traumatic hits him, boom back nose dives 308 00:17:08,400 --> 00:17:12,159 Speaker 4: back into that lifestyle. Just avoid it all together, okay, 309 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 4: just avoid it all together. 310 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 3: And this is the thing that your spirit has already 311 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:21,639 Speaker 3: been telling you. It's your spirit man or woman has 312 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:24,919 Speaker 3: already brought you the conviction of whatever it is that 313 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:29,080 Speaker 3: you're doing, whether it's do it in an argument with 314 00:17:29,119 --> 00:17:32,359 Speaker 3: your spouse, whether it's something you say to your child, 315 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:35,879 Speaker 3: whether it's a business mood, whether it's a business higher, 316 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:40,920 Speaker 3: whether it's someone in your ministry that's that you feel like, oh, 317 00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:43,159 Speaker 3: that there's something wrong there. I don't know why I 318 00:17:43,280 --> 00:17:47,840 Speaker 3: feel this way towards them. In the natural, there's nothing there. 319 00:17:47,880 --> 00:17:50,280 Speaker 3: You shouldn't feel that way about that individual. All of 320 00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:54,160 Speaker 3: a sudden, you do. That's your spirit man talking, and 321 00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 3: we disregard, we ignore the voice of the spirit. 322 00:17:58,600 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: And then in three. 323 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:03,919 Speaker 3: Four years were like in total chaos, in disarray, and 324 00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:06,320 Speaker 3: then you're asking God, why would you do that to me? 325 00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:06,880 Speaker 1: How? 326 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:10,760 Speaker 3: How dare you? How dare you do that? Because he 327 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:12,920 Speaker 3: was trying to get your attention from day one. What's 328 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 3: required of you because you missed it is for you 329 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:19,480 Speaker 3: to repent and say, God, I'm sorry that I ignored your. 330 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:20,600 Speaker 2: Still small voice. 331 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:24,240 Speaker 3: I'm sorry that I ignored the advice and the counsel 332 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:28,960 Speaker 3: of people that love me. I'm sorry, Lord, and I 333 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:31,680 Speaker 3: pray that you have the opportunity to do that, because 334 00:18:31,680 --> 00:18:35,000 Speaker 3: some people they won't even like they'll turn away completely 335 00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:40,080 Speaker 3: from God and they'll miss heaven because they ignored the 336 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 3: still small voice of the Holy Spirit. The Bible says 337 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:47,720 Speaker 3: in Proverbs nineteen twenty in the amplified it says, listen 338 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 3: to counsel, receive instruction, and accept correction. You know, in 339 00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:56,080 Speaker 3: this day and age, we have a whole generation that 340 00:18:56,200 --> 00:18:57,879 Speaker 3: refuses to accept correction. 341 00:18:58,000 --> 00:18:59,720 Speaker 2: They don't know what the heck to do with it. 342 00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 3: When if you understand where true correction chastisement is because 343 00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:09,439 Speaker 3: of love, love compels somebody to bring the correction. I 344 00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:15,040 Speaker 3: don't correct kids that aren't mine. Sometimes I do because 345 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:18,160 Speaker 3: I'm in children's ministry, But outside of the children's ministry, 346 00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:21,679 Speaker 3: I'm not correcting somebody that's that's that's out. You know 347 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:24,840 Speaker 3: at the airport, I'm like, mm hmm, I would have 348 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:26,640 Speaker 3: whooped your behind ten years ago, sir. 349 00:19:26,840 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 2: You know what I like. 350 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:29,560 Speaker 3: I I keep those thoughts on myself. I'm not gonna 351 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:30,360 Speaker 3: go and tell them, like. 352 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:33,239 Speaker 1: Hey, you need to get a lashing. I'm not. 353 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:38,120 Speaker 3: I only bring that correction to the people that I love, 354 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:41,160 Speaker 3: that I'm invested in. And once you understand that, then 355 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 3: when there is correction, when somebody points something out that 356 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:48,480 Speaker 3: that that that they feel is an impediment to your 357 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 3: destiny and your future. 358 00:19:50,359 --> 00:19:51,679 Speaker 1: Maybe you should listen. 359 00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:55,879 Speaker 3: If they've got a good track record, they have a 360 00:19:55,920 --> 00:20:00,479 Speaker 3: good marriage, they're there, they've got uh you know, uh 361 00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:05,600 Speaker 3: success in the business, realm or ministry, like they're really 362 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:09,960 Speaker 3: excelling in they're happy people. I would really take notice 363 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 3: of the council people give you. If someone's giving you 364 00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:17,200 Speaker 3: advice about not marrying a certain individual and they've been 365 00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:20,480 Speaker 3: married six times and all you're too young, you don't 366 00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:25,280 Speaker 3: want to get I mean, you know, bloh. And that's 367 00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:30,240 Speaker 3: where your spirit helps you in that direction to decipher 368 00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:33,560 Speaker 3: what's right and what's wrong. The spirit always leads and 369 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:36,639 Speaker 3: guides you into all truth. So once you stay in 370 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:40,119 Speaker 3: tune with that and you don't ignore that still small voice, 371 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:46,600 Speaker 3: why are you covering things up? That's weird, see, And 372 00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:50,200 Speaker 3: that's what people do when they're they're shame, when they're 373 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:53,360 Speaker 3: the spirit is said no, and they say yes, they 374 00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:54,280 Speaker 3: want to cover it up. 375 00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:55,000 Speaker 1: Where is he? 376 00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:57,639 Speaker 2: Why can't I see a picture of him? Has he 377 00:20:57,720 --> 00:20:58,359 Speaker 2: been to church? 378 00:20:58,560 --> 00:20:58,960 Speaker 1: Why not? 379 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:02,240 Speaker 3: Why are you hiding him? Why are you protecting him? 380 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:05,080 Speaker 3: Why are you getting defensive? Why are you on the offence? 381 00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:08,680 Speaker 3: All of these things are signs that you're not doing 382 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:13,440 Speaker 3: it right. Because if it's God, I'm not gonna get offended. 383 00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:14,800 Speaker 1: There's peace. 384 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:19,440 Speaker 3: Faith in God is there's a rest. 385 00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:21,600 Speaker 1: That comes with faith. I don't have to conjure up. 386 00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:23,160 Speaker 3: I don't have to give you excuses as to why 387 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:25,959 Speaker 3: I think this man's like my husband, and I know 388 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:30,320 Speaker 3: the Lord knit us together. We're doing things holy. I've 389 00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:32,600 Speaker 3: got nothing to hide. I'm gonna present this person to 390 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:35,680 Speaker 3: my parents, to my pastors, to the church, and I'm 391 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:39,080 Speaker 3: gonna do it confidently knowing that God has put us together. 392 00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:42,080 Speaker 3: That's the way it's supposed to happen. You're orchestrating and 393 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:43,080 Speaker 3: like doing things behind. 394 00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:45,639 Speaker 1: People's so easy. Get out of here with all that 395 00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:47,560 Speaker 1: you do. It God's way so easy. It is. 396 00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:51,679 Speaker 3: It flows so beautiful, and I wish that for so 397 00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:52,240 Speaker 3: many people. 398 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:55,760 Speaker 4: But some people are just convinced that it's happening easily, 399 00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 4: but then they don't see the full picture. That's another 400 00:21:57,920 --> 00:22:03,640 Speaker 4: kind of story for another time, just being self aware. 401 00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:06,840 Speaker 4: But anyway, but it is, it does work. It flows 402 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 4: easily in every area, not just one area, everyone, every 403 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 4: single one. 404 00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:15,359 Speaker 3: Proverbs eight thirty three says, listen to instructions and be wise, 405 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:17,840 Speaker 3: don't ignore it. 406 00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:19,919 Speaker 1: That's easy. 407 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:23,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, look at what first King's twelve says, and I'm 408 00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 3: gonna read it in a different No, I'll read it 409 00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:28,840 Speaker 3: in this on. Then King Rahoboam took counsel with the 410 00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 3: old men who stood before Solomon, his father, while he 411 00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:35,159 Speaker 3: was yet alive, seeing how do you advise me to 412 00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:37,840 Speaker 3: answer these people? And they said to him, if you 413 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:40,720 Speaker 3: will be a servant to the people today and serve 414 00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:43,640 Speaker 3: them and speak good words to them when you answer them, 415 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:47,919 Speaker 3: then they will be your servants forever. But he abandoned 416 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:50,240 Speaker 3: the council that the old man gave him and took 417 00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:52,760 Speaker 3: counsel with the young men who had grown up with 418 00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:54,760 Speaker 3: him and stood before him. 419 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:55,800 Speaker 1: And he said to. 420 00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:59,960 Speaker 3: Them, what do you advise that we answer this people 421 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,560 Speaker 3: who have said to me, lighten the yoke that your 422 00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:05,200 Speaker 3: father put on us. And the young man who had 423 00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:09,000 Speaker 3: grown up with him said to him, thus shall you speak. 424 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:10,840 Speaker 1: To the people who said to you. 425 00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:14,320 Speaker 3: Your father's made our yoke heavy, but you lightened it 426 00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 3: for us. Thus shall you say to them? Oh, my gosh, 427 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:21,000 Speaker 3: this is a long scripture. Oh the let me get 428 00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:30,520 Speaker 3: back through the thing here. Okay, then, okay, wait, I'm 429 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:33,440 Speaker 3: gonna take you through something here that wasn't the scripture. 430 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:36,520 Speaker 1: Then I wanted you to see. 431 00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:39,880 Speaker 3: I wanted you to see First Samuel fifteen twenty two 432 00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:48,160 Speaker 3: and twenty three. First Samuel fifteen twenty two through twenty three. 433 00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,560 Speaker 3: You need to hear that one other the other scripture, 434 00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:53,520 Speaker 3: even though I wasn't really processing any of it. But 435 00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 3: here we are, First Samuel fifteen twenty two. But Samuel replied, 436 00:23:57,720 --> 00:24:00,640 Speaker 3: does the Lord delight and burnt offerings in soud sacrifices 437 00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:01,440 Speaker 3: as much as in. 438 00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:02,240 Speaker 1: Obeying the Lord? 439 00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:07,520 Speaker 3: To obey is better than sacrifice, and to heed is 440 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:11,600 Speaker 3: better than the fat of ram for rebellion is like 441 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:18,359 Speaker 3: the sin of divination, dang go, and arrogance like the 442 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:20,360 Speaker 3: evil of idolatry. 443 00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:22,680 Speaker 1: Okay, arrogance? 444 00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 3: How how arrogant do you have to be to disregard 445 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:31,239 Speaker 3: the counsel of your parents, of the people that love you, 446 00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:33,879 Speaker 3: that genuinely love you and are good, godly people. 447 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:37,520 Speaker 1: I know because you got it. How arrogant distinction? I guess? 448 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:40,320 Speaker 3: And it says, because you've rejected the word of the Lord, 449 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:41,920 Speaker 3: he has rejected you as king. 450 00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:44,920 Speaker 1: He lost kingshit because he wanted. 451 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:47,119 Speaker 3: To do it his way, and people don't see the 452 00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:50,880 Speaker 3: seriousness of not listening to counsel or doing what's right, 453 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:54,440 Speaker 3: when when Samuel here is telling you obedience is better 454 00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:58,240 Speaker 3: than the sacrifice, you might package it as I really 455 00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:00,840 Speaker 3: I want to do this because it it's gonna help 456 00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:05,640 Speaker 3: this And it's like that that one testimony that Jonathan 457 00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:09,600 Speaker 3: often shares about the one guy who was a car 458 00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:12,720 Speaker 3: salesman that felt to go into full time ministry and 459 00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:17,000 Speaker 3: move to Philadelphia, and his father stood up and. 460 00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:18,560 Speaker 1: Said, this is not your time. 461 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:22,199 Speaker 3: And it was a corrective word, but it was like 462 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:25,520 Speaker 3: nine to one one exclamation mark, don't do this, don't 463 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:26,479 Speaker 3: head in that place. 464 00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:28,080 Speaker 1: And the guy lost his mind. 465 00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:30,480 Speaker 3: When he was in Philadelphia, they caught him in a 466 00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:32,919 Speaker 3: bathtub with a toaster. He was getting ready to kill 467 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:34,919 Speaker 3: himself and like the worst way ever. 468 00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:38,200 Speaker 2: And so why was that he wasn't ready? 469 00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:41,720 Speaker 3: That wasn't his time, But he thought, well, it's for 470 00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:44,640 Speaker 3: the work of the Lord. You could package it however 471 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 3: you want, but if God's not in it, he's not 472 00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:51,040 Speaker 3: in it. You can say, oh, but I really sensed 473 00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,879 Speaker 3: that you know, this person and I were gonna just 474 00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:54,760 Speaker 3: take the world over. 475 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:56,040 Speaker 1: If the Holy. 476 00:25:55,800 --> 00:26:00,920 Speaker 3: Spirit isn't in it. It's not gonna work. And the 477 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:06,399 Speaker 3: kingship was he rejected the king. He's like, because you 478 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:09,560 Speaker 3: wanted to take matters into your own hands. Do you 479 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:12,000 Speaker 3: know how many times I've wanted to take matters into 480 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:12,719 Speaker 3: my own hands? 481 00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:17,320 Speaker 1: But Holy Spirit, SA not today. And he hit me 482 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:22,600 Speaker 1: and it was bad, but I'm so happy he did. 483 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:24,600 Speaker 3: And you know what, I'm even proud of myself for 484 00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,760 Speaker 3: like saying, you know what, step off, step up, step off, 485 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:32,560 Speaker 3: step off, because had I not stepped off, things would 486 00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,399 Speaker 3: not have panned out the way they have. It's true 487 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:38,840 Speaker 3: because like I said, you know what, you're my vindicator God, 488 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:42,119 Speaker 3: I don't have the I don't think the uh, you know, 489 00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:49,399 Speaker 3: prove myself to anybody. You know my heart, and in 490 00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:51,720 Speaker 3: knowing my heart, you're gonna make that public because what 491 00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:53,080 Speaker 3: I do in the secret, you're going to make it 492 00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:55,920 Speaker 3: out like public will do it. And that's what the 493 00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 3: scripture says. Your sin's gonna find you out. 494 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:03,479 Speaker 4: Listen enough to know that that's the way it works 495 00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:04,680 Speaker 4: one hundred percent of the time. 496 00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,320 Speaker 1: And that's why you just sit pretty and you just wait. 497 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:10,879 Speaker 1: That's it. I don't have everything in the darkness and 498 00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:13,119 Speaker 1: he eventually exposed. Yuh. 499 00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:17,680 Speaker 2: And that's that's the beauty of life. And that's the beauty. 500 00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:20,720 Speaker 3: Of living for Jesus, because you know somebody because of 501 00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:21,159 Speaker 3: the fruit. 502 00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:23,560 Speaker 1: So if they don't have fruit or it's not good fruit, 503 00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:25,680 Speaker 1: guess who was wrong? It wasn't God. 504 00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:28,360 Speaker 3: God didn't tell you that you had to go through 505 00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:31,160 Speaker 3: hardship and see your husband and rehab for fifteen years 506 00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:31,920 Speaker 3: of your marriage. 507 00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:34,679 Speaker 2: He didn't tell you that that. He didn't tell you. 508 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:36,960 Speaker 2: He actually told you, don't get married to. 509 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:43,200 Speaker 3: Him seven eighteen years ago. Hum, and you said no, 510 00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:48,919 Speaker 3: but I love him? Okay, So how's life now making 511 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:54,080 Speaker 3: zero impact? You're miserable now you're drinking because that's the 512 00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:56,040 Speaker 3: only way to get out of your like. I wonder 513 00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:57,680 Speaker 3: what God could have done with him in my eun 514 00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:00,359 Speaker 3: because you had a call on your life when you 515 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:05,040 Speaker 3: were young, not you today, not you huh. And you 516 00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:07,600 Speaker 3: sold it out because someone said you were cute. Get 517 00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:10,720 Speaker 3: out of here with all that nonsense, stupid. I gotta 518 00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:12,399 Speaker 3: talk to you like that because some of y'all need 519 00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:13,280 Speaker 3: jerked around. 520 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:15,160 Speaker 1: Get wake up. 521 00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:20,240 Speaker 2: That's what I want to do. Your face right now. 522 00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:20,920 Speaker 2: Wake up. 523 00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:27,600 Speaker 3: You're selling it out for for what a date at Panera? 524 00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:33,000 Speaker 3: Get out of my face, Get out of my face 525 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,159 Speaker 3: with all that, and and let me tell you there's this. 526 00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:37,320 Speaker 1: I'm being kind of funny, but there's a. 527 00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:40,560 Speaker 3: Seriousness to this, because you walking away from the ministry 528 00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:48,640 Speaker 3: means to hell on a date, break up right now? 529 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:56,640 Speaker 3: But I often think about my ass to God, Yeah, 530 00:28:57,520 --> 00:29:00,360 Speaker 3: and how nobody would be here without my ass without 531 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,160 Speaker 3: a doubt, you wouldn't be. 532 00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,000 Speaker 1: Here, no doubt. 533 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:07,120 Speaker 3: My nephews wouldn't be here. My nephews would They probably 534 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:10,600 Speaker 3: would have been dead. Whose would have been dead. There's 535 00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:13,640 Speaker 3: everybody now that's in my family is now working for 536 00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 3: the ministry. Had I not said that simple, yes, even 537 00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:19,360 Speaker 3: though it cost me a lot, I made a lot 538 00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:24,200 Speaker 3: of sacrifices at a young age to pursue the call 539 00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:27,240 Speaker 3: of God. But had I just been like, this is 540 00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:27,880 Speaker 3: just too hard. 541 00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:30,600 Speaker 1: I know a guy, he's a really nice guy. 542 00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:32,360 Speaker 3: I can just get married to him and have a 543 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 3: good life. I could have had a good life. I 544 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:38,560 Speaker 3: could have had an okay life or maybe not, but 545 00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:41,560 Speaker 3: it would not have compared to what I'm living right 546 00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:45,080 Speaker 3: now and the impact that I'm having right now and 547 00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:47,880 Speaker 3: the multitude who have been impacted by the word of God, 548 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:50,480 Speaker 3: us sharing the word of God in this ministry. How 549 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,400 Speaker 3: many thousands of people have gotten saved? If I had 550 00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:55,680 Speaker 3: said no, all of those people would have been in hell. 551 00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:58,040 Speaker 3: But people don't see it that way. You just think 552 00:29:58,080 --> 00:29:58,920 Speaker 3: it's cute because you. 553 00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 1: Want to have hold hands at a movie theater. 554 00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:05,760 Speaker 3: Get out of my face, Get out you. 555 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:06,760 Speaker 1: Want to old ants? 556 00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:10,000 Speaker 2: Get are you? Are you like crazy? 557 00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:10,720 Speaker 4: Like? 558 00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:11,960 Speaker 2: Please don't be crazy? 559 00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:15,600 Speaker 3: Please, There's so many there's so many lives on the 560 00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:19,600 Speaker 3: line because of your yes or you're no, so much 561 00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:24,960 Speaker 3: as a stake, generations after you, all because of what. 562 00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:30,560 Speaker 1: Some dumb some dumb hoe get out of here? Are 563 00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:31,000 Speaker 1: you kidding? 564 00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:34,040 Speaker 3: It frustrates the heck out of me how people could 565 00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:41,760 Speaker 3: just throw it all away because he thinks I'm pretty. 566 00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:44,760 Speaker 3: She just loves me, and you know, it's just you know, 567 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:47,560 Speaker 3: and and I know, like I'm called to be an evangelist, 568 00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 3: but you know, I you know, when she was tending 569 00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:53,920 Speaker 3: bar I just saw her and uh it just she 570 00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:55,240 Speaker 3: made me feel really special. 571 00:30:55,680 --> 00:31:01,840 Speaker 1: Okay, she's a bartender. Brouh Father, help me. 572 00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:05,000 Speaker 3: I'm not even praying for anybody else here today except 573 00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:06,880 Speaker 3: just me because I need help. 574 00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:08,080 Speaker 1: I need help, and I. 575 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 3: Need help that you would help me understand what is 576 00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:12,560 Speaker 3: going on with people nowadays. 577 00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,920 Speaker 1: And Father, let that let that never be me. 578 00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:23,040 Speaker 3: Let me never ever, you know, balk at counsel and 579 00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:25,959 Speaker 3: wisdom and love and insight from the people that are 580 00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,160 Speaker 3: around me, that love me and want the best for me. 581 00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,320 Speaker 1: Father, let that not be said of me. 582 00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:32,880 Speaker 3: Let me take heed to your word. Let me take 583 00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:36,840 Speaker 3: heed to your counsel. Please make me not stupid. In Jesus' name, 584 00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:39,160 Speaker 3: from now until the rest of eternity, I pray Father 585 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:43,400 Speaker 3: for supernatural wisdom in the name of Jesus, to avoid 586 00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:45,160 Speaker 3: any mishaps and heartaches. 587 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:47,920 Speaker 1: In Jesus' name and Father. 588 00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:50,960 Speaker 3: I also pray that for every person that's watching, that 589 00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:54,040 Speaker 3: they did not miss hit, that they wouldn't sell their 590 00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:55,760 Speaker 3: birthright for a dumb. 591 00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:58,000 Speaker 1: Bowl of leaks, soup or whatever it was. 592 00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:00,560 Speaker 3: That note, whatever it was, even if it mistake, it 593 00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:01,719 Speaker 3: wouldn't have been worth it. 594 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:05,280 Speaker 2: So in the mighty name of Jesus, Father, we thank 595 00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:05,880 Speaker 2: you for it. 596 00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:07,720 Speaker 1: Please please please. 597 00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:14,120 Speaker 3: Help them, God, help them have mercy. Have mercy on 598 00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:18,760 Speaker 3: us your people in Jesus' name and all God's people 599 00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:20,080 Speaker 3: said Amen.