Speaker 1: Okay, I'm just gonna say right now, it's Gemini season
Speaker 1: and that is no coincidence. Everybody prepared coincidence that we
Speaker 1: have double second dates today, that is why.
Speaker 2: Yes, that's right.
Speaker 3: I'm a Gemini, so be scared. All right, let's get
Speaker 3: to it.
Speaker 2: We got here.
Speaker 1: Second date update classics today. Thank you so much for
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Speaker 3: Well, I'm gonna.
Speaker 4: Assume this happened because of gem and I season also,
Speaker 4: but Anna commented, guys, I was in Gatlinburg last week
Speaker 4: Tennessee and was blaring the podcast in traffic, and the
Speaker 4: girl in the cart next to me shouted Brooke and
Speaker 4: Jeffrey fam you nights.
Speaker 3: I love that, And I bet she said it with
Speaker 3: a cute accent too. Oh in Tennessee. I'm sorry, I
Speaker 3: couldn't do that on here. I'm not gonna offend everyone.
Speaker 3: My god, this is for you. Okay, you're back to
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Speaker 5: It's important to remember that just because your buddies think
Speaker 5: your old stories are funny, yeah, doesn't mean your dates
Speaker 5: will agree.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Startless.
Speaker 5: And one of our listeners says he definitely regrets what
Speaker 5: he told the woman he was out with recently. He
Speaker 5: thought it was just gonna be a fun, lighthearted tale
Speaker 5: from his past, but he may have come off looking
Speaker 5: like a free loading criminal.
Speaker 2: Although let's remember, bad boys are sexy.
Speaker 3: Okay, freeloading bad boys.
Speaker 5: So you're gonna hear it in your second date update
Speaker 5: that's coming up.
Speaker 6: Next, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second date updates.
Speaker 5: You ask anybody and you'll get a lot of different
Speaker 5: responses for what's the best time of day for a date?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 5: Yeah, because I mean you have the traditional seven o'clock
Speaker 5: dinner plans people, but then you also have the hikers
Speaker 5: and bikers who are like, ooh, five in the morning,
Speaker 5: let's wake up early and go for a ride together
Speaker 5: while the sun rises on my tandem two persons bike.
Speaker 3: Wait, but I gotta get up at two am first
Speaker 3: to work.
Speaker 2: Out before or by five?
Speaker 5: Yeah, our listener res he might fall somewhere in the
Speaker 5: middle of those based on what he chose to do
Speaker 5: for his first date the other day, So let's talk
Speaker 5: to him about it.
Speaker 2: Rez. Welcome to the show.
Speaker 7: Hey guys, thanks for having me.
Speaker 3: Hey you doing Oh we're pretty good? Good time of
Speaker 3: day to do the show.
Speaker 5: Yeah, what time of day do you like to go
Speaker 5: on your dates?
Speaker 7: Res I'm a gentleman, so I like to go at
Speaker 7: whatever time is convenient.
Speaker 6: For my date.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, what time is.
Speaker 8: Jared?
Speaker 3: Okay, so you asked them when would be best?
Speaker 7: Yeah exactly.
Speaker 5: Like, so tell us about this woman that you met recently.
Speaker 5: What's her name and what time did she want to
Speaker 5: go out?
Speaker 7: So this woman's name is Katrina, and she said she
Speaker 7: was free on a Sunday kind.
Speaker 2: Of let mean with that.
Speaker 7: And I was like, well, like Sundays brunch day.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think brunch is a great date.
Speaker 7: Yeah exactly. So we did like a Sunday brunch buffet
Speaker 7: that I really love that been to before, And so
Speaker 7: we met at the place and we hit it off
Speaker 7: like immediately, and I was like on my best behavior,
Speaker 7: you know, I wanted to be a total gentleman, like
Speaker 7: open the door, pulled her chair out, like I really
Speaker 7: really was like eight to this girl.
Speaker 5: You know a lot of people like to get rowdy
Speaker 5: and go wild at brunch, so it's good that you
Speaker 5: reeled it in and held yourself in check.
Speaker 2: Don't push her into the door, open it for her,
Speaker 2: push her into it let.
Speaker 5: Her go first for the omelet section. She gets to
Speaker 5: do her choice.
Speaker 2: That's really nice of her.
Speaker 3: That's cute. I mean, were you able to connect?
Speaker 7: Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 5: I know Brooke wants to know about your connection and
Speaker 5: if there was like a vibe going on. But what
Speaker 5: we're doing, I'm more curious about what the selection was
Speaker 5: like at that buffet.
Speaker 3: You want to know if there's crab legs or not.
Speaker 2: I do.
Speaker 3: You're asking if it was like a oyster like a
Speaker 3: seafood buffet.
Speaker 1: I do love when they have when they have a
Speaker 1: crape guys.
Speaker 5: Because you said it's a breakfast buffet, So does that
Speaker 5: mean it's all serve yourself or is there a menu
Speaker 5: that you can order off of? Like I need a
Speaker 5: new spot to hit up.
Speaker 7: I mean, this is my secret spot. I'm not telling anyone. Yeah,
Speaker 7: I'm gatekeeping.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 7: There was a carving station which was sick. I was
Speaker 7: putting down the vacant. But shoeses into like a ton
Speaker 7: of different fruity.
Speaker 6: Usually it's usually.
Speaker 3: Just like one fruit salad. Yeah, it's like the.
Speaker 2: Worst part of the buffet. Well, there's a kiwi there.
Speaker 2: Usually kiwis unless it's the.
Speaker 3: Real fancy ones have the smoothie stations.
Speaker 7: Like I said before, like I won't tell you where
Speaker 7: this place is, but this place is legit. It has
Speaker 7: absolutely everything, all the fruits.
Speaker 2: Everything, Yes, secret fruit palace. You won't ask questions.
Speaker 7: So being the gentleman that I am, like every time
Speaker 7: I was either going or coming back, I would ask
Speaker 7: her like is there anything that I can get you?
Speaker 7: Like running up, getting to her bagel, getting into some pineapples.
Speaker 3: Did they describe your trips to the buffet? It sounds
Speaker 3: like you two did some damage at this point, which is.
Speaker 2: Good, right?
Speaker 3: I imagine him just being the server to her.
Speaker 5: Honestly, wow, get your money's worth. But did anything like
Speaker 5: awkward or weird happen?
Speaker 7: Well, like I decided to reveal to her this h
Speaker 7: like age old runchhack that me and my friends have
Speaker 7: or had.
Speaker 3: What is it?
Speaker 7: You know how hotels do continental breakfast for the guests?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 7: Yeah, So like if you just walk into this hotel
Speaker 7: and you just walk up to the buffet, sit down,
Speaker 7: get your food, sit down, like you know what you're doing,
Speaker 7: Like you belong there?
Speaker 5: Do you guns eat it in lane?
Speaker 2: That's very risky though, because.
Speaker 3: You make your show the little cupons usually like the
Speaker 3: little people things. You take her to a hotel, did you?
Speaker 8: No?
Speaker 7: No, I just told her that hack.
Speaker 5: That hack that's actually just an illegal activity up And okay,
Speaker 5: I mean the eggs aren't real anyway.
Speaker 3: And how old has that waffled batter been sitting there?
Speaker 2: Something it?
Speaker 3: Jess?
Speaker 2: How did Katrina react to hearing your hack?
Speaker 7: I mean, like immediately she just had this look on
Speaker 7: her face like I don't know, like my face was
Speaker 7: melting off. It was not good.
Speaker 3: She's a better person than you would think.
Speaker 1: She'd laugh and talk about like how she got free
Speaker 1: stuff in Collins, you know.
Speaker 5: Unless you did it last week, and she probably assumed that.
Speaker 2: You weren't going to pay for brunch this She's like.
Speaker 3: Wait, have you paid for this meal tonight?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah.
Speaker 7: I had the back pedal and be like I only
Speaker 7: did this when I was I'm seventeen, Like I'm gonna
Speaker 7: tip like thirty percent.
Speaker 2: Now, yeah, compensate.
Speaker 3: So did the whole energy shift after that combo? Yeah?
Speaker 7: We wrapped up hugs, so really weird. And then we
Speaker 7: haven't spoken in.
Speaker 2: Like a whole week.
Speaker 3: Yike, have you tried?
Speaker 7: Yeah? I reached out. I text her the next day,
Speaker 7: because I was kind of like hoping she would text
Speaker 7: me later that day being like I had such a
Speaker 7: good time or something, and she didn't.
Speaker 2: Bro I think you did this to yourself.
Speaker 5: You taught her how to get free food and she
Speaker 5: doesn't need you anymore.
Speaker 3: Oh that could be it shit busy. Yeah, you have
Speaker 3: a person to fish or teach him to fish.
Speaker 2: I see it go.
Speaker 5: Well, we'll find out when we call her and see
Speaker 5: if she actually stole your brunchhack and is using it
Speaker 5: for evil when we do your second date update right
Speaker 5: after this.
Speaker 7: Thank you guys, and then.
Speaker 6: Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates.
Speaker 5: If you're just joining us for the second date update.
Speaker 5: We've been talking to Res about his brunch state at
Speaker 5: a super secret brunch location that he refuses to disclose
Speaker 5: on the radio.
Speaker 3: It's very strange how protective he is at this place.
Speaker 2: He's he is, but.
Speaker 5: That's where he took a woman named Katrina recently and
Speaker 5: it was going extremely well until he made the mistake
Speaker 5: of speaking specifically speaking about his brunch hack. Where you
Speaker 5: can get free continental breakfast from hotels if you just
Speaker 5: walk in and act like you're staying there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean that's that's stealing it.
Speaker 2: But yeah, yeah, but.
Speaker 3: Stealing things doesn't cost anything, so that can.
Speaker 5: Be considered a hack. Yeah, if you look at it
Speaker 5: in a different way.
Speaker 3: It was an idea.
Speaker 5: It did change the vibe for the rest of their date, though,
Speaker 5: because Katrina did not have the best reaction. He's hoping
Speaker 5: we can get things back on track. And in an
Speaker 5: unrelated note, the CEO of Best Western called in and
Speaker 5: wants to speak to you after the segment is over. Okay, rez,
Speaker 5: I gave them your phone number so you can chat later.
Speaker 7: I mean nothing, though.
Speaker 3: You already admitted to itself.
Speaker 2: We have recorded evidence.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you you should ask for a lawyer
Speaker 1: if you ever get called in. Don't do your own talking, you.
Speaker 7: Know, I honestly I regret talking about it to you guys,
Speaker 7: and I regret talking about it on my date. This
Speaker 7: is ruining my life.
Speaker 3: Yes, well, that seems dramatic.
Speaker 5: The good news is we don't know if that was
Speaker 5: the cause. She could have some other reason to not
Speaker 5: be calling you back. But let's dial her number right now.
Speaker 5: We'll figure out what she.
Speaker 2: Has to say.
Speaker 5: All right, great, Hopefully she picks up and this is
Speaker 5: a good time for you to not say anything.
Speaker 2: Noted. All right, here we go. I'm dialar right now.
Speaker 7: Hello.
Speaker 5: Hey is this Katrina? Yes, hey, Katrina. You're on a
Speaker 5: radio show right now. It's called Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 5: the Morning.
Speaker 3: Hey Katrina, Hi, welcome to the show.
Speaker 2: I like jeff branched out there for Yeah, I know,
Speaker 2: I really opened up. Sorry, I'm on a radio show.
Speaker 2: Not a good one either.
Speaker 5: Yeah. It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. And
Speaker 5: this is a segment that we do. You might be
Speaker 5: familiar with it. It's called a second date Update.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 9: Is this like a prank?
Speaker 5: No, No, we do those too, Yeah, but this one
Speaker 5: is one where we're trying to help one of our
Speaker 5: listeners get back in touch with you after you went
Speaker 5: on a date with him, a guy named Rez.
Speaker 7: Oh.
Speaker 10: Okay, yeah, look, I'm sorry. There's just no way that
Speaker 10: I can go out with him again. But thank you
Speaker 10: guys for calling.
Speaker 5: No no, wait, wait, well that's okay for you to
Speaker 5: say that, but could you maybe give us a little
Speaker 5: bit more information on why, because res is really confused.
Speaker 5: He told us about your brunch date, but he's clueless
Speaker 5: for the reason you might be blowing.
Speaker 1: Him off, And you sound real strong in that conviction
Speaker 1: there that you don't want to see him again.
Speaker 7: I don't know.
Speaker 10: I mean I should say he was a really nice guy.
Speaker 10: He was very polite. He was like offering to get
Speaker 10: me food. We went to this brunch buffet.
Speaker 3: Why wouldn't Why wouldn't you want to do that?
Speaker 2: You don't like nice guys?
Speaker 9: No, I like nice guys. He's just missing something missing.
Speaker 2: Did something happen at the buffet that turns you off?
Speaker 8: I mean, yeah, he.
Speaker 9: It was.
Speaker 10: Honestly, it was so weird, like I've never I've never
Speaker 10: experienced anything like this before. It was it was so strange.
Speaker 10: Like I said, he was really nice. He's like offering
Speaker 10: to go get me food right from the buffet, which
Speaker 10: was like very gentlemanly of him. I was like, sure, okay,
Speaker 10: I'll have like some cantlope. And then I'd see him
Speaker 10: walking around and he finally comes back a few minutes
Speaker 10: later and he's like, oh, they don't have it. But
Speaker 10: I could see it from where we were sitting, Like
Speaker 10: I could see there was candelope sitting on like one
Speaker 10: of the buffet things.
Speaker 1: Maybe he's one of those guys that gets kilo and
Speaker 1: honeydew mixed up.
Speaker 2: Why would he lie?
Speaker 3: He's like some men don't know their melons.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 10: I mean I was like, maybe he missed it right,
Speaker 10: Maybe he just didn't see it, Like there's a lot
Speaker 10: of food there. So I pinted to where it was
Speaker 10: and I was like, oh, I think I see it
Speaker 10: right over there. So he gets up, he walks over there,
Speaker 10: and I see him like circling the table and he's
Speaker 10: not grabbing the candlelope. And then he brings me back
Speaker 10: a bowl of like fairies, and he was like, they
Speaker 10: didn't have it. So I just got you this. I
Speaker 10: hope that's okay.
Speaker 3: So did you just get up and go get it? Finally?
Speaker 10: Well, no, because I realized I don't think this guy
Speaker 10: knows what cantlope is, Like, how do you not know
Speaker 10: what a candelope is?
Speaker 7: I agree?
Speaker 10: I was so shocked in that moment.
Speaker 5: Wow. So just to be clear, the big red flag
Speaker 5: in your mind was that this is a man who
Speaker 5: does not understand what type of fruit cantelope is.
Speaker 2: Like that's a big turn off to you.
Speaker 10: Shaming him if you're a thirty year old man, and
Speaker 10: you've never heard of candle up? What else has he
Speaker 10: not heard of? You're going to go on a date
Speaker 10: and he's gonna be like, oh, I can't read, I.
Speaker 1: Can't read candle up to suddenly the poor man can't
Speaker 1: read like that is a wild jump to make.
Speaker 10: Those are basic things, though, Like, if it's one basic
Speaker 10: thing he doesn't comprehend, then what any other basic thing
Speaker 10: is going.
Speaker 7: To show up?
Speaker 5: Well, let's ask him what other basic things he doesn't
Speaker 5: know and comprehend them. Because Res is on the other
Speaker 5: line of this phone call right now, listening, waiting to
Speaker 5: talk to you.
Speaker 10: What are you talking about? He is not?
Speaker 2: He actually is that That's how this segment works.
Speaker 3: He could wait and write enough to email us. So
Speaker 3: that's a good sign.
Speaker 2: Well, you can get Chatgypt to do a lot of
Speaker 2: that stuff for you. Give much credit. Res. Are you there?
Speaker 7: Oh I'm here?
Speaker 3: Oh wow?
Speaker 2: Are you Are you hearing what Katrina is saying about.
Speaker 7: You being fruit shamed? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, with good reason, some would argue.
Speaker 10: But yeah, I'm sorry. I I didn't know you were
Speaker 10: on the phone. They didn't tell me. They just they
Speaker 10: asked me the questions. I just said the truth, like
Speaker 10: you can't deny it. I obviously would have not said
Speaker 10: it like that had I known you were listening.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Well I know.
Speaker 7: I know now I googled it.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we love a man who learns. Yeah, there
Speaker 3: you he took your criticism. He's not offended. That's pretty good.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Katrina, this must feel like growth, right, you've encouraged this.
Speaker 10: I mean, I'm glad he learned. I'm glad that I
Speaker 10: was able to help him expand his knowledge, like help
Speaker 10: the less fortunate in terms of what they know about fruit.
Speaker 8: Yeah, it doesn't change how I feel.
Speaker 1: The less fortunate is so rude, the fruit illiterate out there.
Speaker 2: It's a real problem.
Speaker 7: I feel like I'm Oliver Twist over here, like I'm
Speaker 7: low class or something. I don't know what to panel.
Speaker 1: You hear that literary reference again, prove the man reads.
Speaker 1: He did say twist weird though, this is so weird,
Speaker 1: like this is not a class thing.
Speaker 3: He just didn't know what a cantalope is. He knows. Now,
Speaker 3: you guys can go out.
Speaker 7: Again, Katrina, I mean, hear me out in the moment,
Speaker 7: I did not know what a canilope was, and you know,
Speaker 7: like apparently I should know this, and now I do.
Speaker 7: Everyone on the show knows. I know, you know, we're
Speaker 7: all on the same page. I'm adaptable, I can learn.
Speaker 7: Look at that Wow had nowadays I was just never
Speaker 7: around Canilope. But like that doesn't seem like enough of
Speaker 7: a reason not.
Speaker 9: To like me.
Speaker 10: I mean, I appreciate you saying that, and I don't
Speaker 10: mean to fruit shame you. It's just a thing that
Speaker 10: I immediately felt like a yuck about you not knowing that
Speaker 10: basic thing, and I I appreciate you taking the time
Speaker 10: to like do the research. I wish you would have
Speaker 10: gone to the bathroom and googled it instead of like
Speaker 10: running around.
Speaker 9: And like got.
Speaker 3: Candlope.
Speaker 5: Well, desperate times call for desperate measures sometimes, But Katrina,
Speaker 5: I mean, in a lot of relationships, a big part
Speaker 5: of it is doing new things and exploring new things together.
Speaker 5: That could be your journey with res and educating him
Speaker 5: through all of the different types of fruits that exist
Speaker 5: in the world.
Speaker 3: Know a lot of stuff that you don't know yet too.
Speaker 3: You know, on the flip side.
Speaker 1: Oh vegetables, nobody means that saying you learn new interests
Speaker 1: and new stuff through people that you date.
Speaker 5: Are you willing to keep an open mind and give
Speaker 5: res one more chance, and we would pay for it
Speaker 5: if you'd go out with him another time.
Speaker 10: I just think it's weird, Like it's his brunch place.
Speaker 10: He brought me there. They have a lot of cantalope there, Like,
Speaker 10: I feel like he should have known it.
Speaker 3: We can't. We can't get over this.
Speaker 1: I know, it's like such a small hill to climb,
Speaker 1: you know, to jump over this moment.
Speaker 5: Everybody is different, Brooke. It's not your life that we're
Speaker 5: living here. Katrina has standards in One of the standards
Speaker 5: is canalope, or at least knowing what a canialope is.
Speaker 3: Boundaries.
Speaker 5: So, Katrina, I'm assuming that it's a no from you.
Speaker 5: That's kind of what I'm hearing.
Speaker 10: Yeah, I just I don't think I can get past it.
Speaker 7: What if he can name ten fruits right now, hey, apple, pier, pineapple.
Speaker 7: I was kidding.
Speaker 3: There's no way he's picking guava out of a table.
Speaker 2: He just googled fruits right now and he's just looking
Speaker 2: it up.
Speaker 3: It's alphabetical, apple, banana, cherry, nice.
Speaker 6: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: Brook.
Speaker 5: This might surprise you, but I kind of agree with
Speaker 5: you on this whole Canalope situation.
Speaker 3: Oh you've come to my side.
Speaker 5: Well, I agree, it's a small problem that she should
Speaker 5: probably get over. Sure, but it's more than just he
Speaker 5: doesn't know the name of one fruit. What is it
Speaker 5: that Like, this is just a small slice of a
Speaker 5: larger picture that Katrina is recognizing. Where she's thinking, God,
Speaker 5: if he doesn't know something as basic as this, how
Speaker 5: is he going to fit into the rest of my life?
Speaker 5: Like with my upscale friends and my melon loving parents
Speaker 5: will accept him? Like what else am I getting myself into?
Speaker 5: That's where her mind was at.
Speaker 3: What's gonna happen when someone hands are at kumquat?
Speaker 2: She has no idea what what to do? I don't
Speaker 2: even know what a kum quat looks like.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so it's like she's looking down the road of
Speaker 5: like other problems that are going to be arising if
Speaker 5: he doesn't know.
Speaker 3: This making problems. The real problem is how much fruit.
Speaker 4: She's eating at breakfast and said pancakes and bacon.
Speaker 3: You must spend a lot of time in the bathroom.
Speaker 5: Ye, yeah, I'm with you on there. Should have eaten
Speaker 5: more meats. But still you gotta respect people for where
Speaker 5: their line is drawn. That's where she draws the line, Canelope.
Speaker 3: I guess it's a very very short line.
Speaker 5: Well, plus you have to wait in the embarrassment too
Speaker 5: of telling her friends she decided to go out with
Speaker 5: melon boy again. That's hard to come back from. But
Speaker 5: hopefully we can help you come back. If you're struggling
Speaker 5: to get a second date, email the show. We'll call
Speaker 5: that person who's not calling you back and go check
Speaker 5: out all of our second podcast wherever you get yours
Speaker 5: at Brooke and.
Speaker 6: Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: Maybe you've been there before, where you go out with
Speaker 5: someone and after the date you realize, Man, I don't
Speaker 5: know if I'm good enough for them.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Jeffrey the truth.
Speaker 5: Like, maybe she's used to dining on frog legs all
Speaker 5: garotten and you're used to senior frogs, graw and jaw tequila.
Speaker 3: Tuesdays now, as.
Speaker 5: One of our listeners is definitely looking for all the
Speaker 5: help he can get to lock down another hang out
Speaker 5: with a very classy woman that he met online.
Speaker 2: I'm not sure if we're the right group of people
Speaker 2: to help with this.
Speaker 3: I'm very classy.
Speaker 5: Okay, this isn't the Senor's It's like one of us
Speaker 5: is a corn cup pipe and Brook just has a
Speaker 5: corn cump. Yeah, well, we're gonna try our best and
Speaker 5: your Second Date updates.
Speaker 3: Put on an ascot for this one.
Speaker 2: Regal to a normal style right after this.
Speaker 6: Broke and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Updates.
Speaker 5: One of the keys to successfully dating is just to
Speaker 5: actually give a crap and try.
Speaker 2: That's a big key.
Speaker 3: I feel like that's too much work.
Speaker 5: The thing is, don't try too hard, because that comes
Speaker 5: off desperate. You can't try too little either, though, because
Speaker 5: then you seem like a jerk just doesn't care. Try
Speaker 5: just goldielocks it and try medium till it's just right.
Speaker 5: And one of our listeners, William, emailed the show saying
Speaker 5: he's worried he may have tried too hard on his date. William,
Speaker 5: you didn't channel your inner Goldilocks for this.
Speaker 9: I tried too hard.
Speaker 3: I didn't wake up in a strange house with three
Speaker 3: bears failure.
Speaker 5: Well, we can't undo anything that happened, but why don't
Speaker 5: you tell us about it a little bit. What's the
Speaker 5: name of the woman that you went out with?
Speaker 9: Her name is Stacey.
Speaker 2: Okay, so where'd you meet her.
Speaker 9: I met her online. You know, at first, I was
Speaker 9: actually pretty intimidated just by her profile pictures.
Speaker 3: Oh, because she's like really attractive to you.
Speaker 9: Well, that for sure, but also she seems to have
Speaker 9: kind of an extravagant, sophisticated, cultured life, more so than myself.
Speaker 1: I'll say, Okay, why did she put in her pictures
Speaker 1: to like.
Speaker 3: To pick that?
Speaker 9: Yeah, there was like pictures of her on a sailboat
Speaker 9: with what looks to be her very well addressed family,
Speaker 9: maybe in Greece somewhere. Oh, oh my gosh, she was,
Speaker 9: you know, at soccer games in Europe.
Speaker 3: Who that's a match, sir?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I wouldn't expect you to be fancy enough to
Speaker 5: know that. That's amazing.
Speaker 9: So yeah, I was really intimidating, which I actually told
Speaker 9: her that in the initial messaging. Oh you did, Yeah,
Speaker 9: I mean, I'm pretty honest, maybe to the fault.
Speaker 3: But okay, Well she obviously liked it because she responded.
Speaker 5: Alexis if a guy writes to you, I'm intimidated by you?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2: Is that not a strong move?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: Not?
Speaker 3: I mean, a football in Europe doesn't cost that much.
Speaker 3: It's like I don't be that intimidated. Okay, I'm just saying,
Speaker 3: take it to get that. Okay, I'm just saying I
Speaker 3: take it back.
Speaker 9: Wow.
Speaker 2: But the bottom line is she responded.
Speaker 9: And yeah, she responded, all right, she said, ah, you
Speaker 9: should be.
Speaker 2: So what did you do for a date?
Speaker 9: I made dinners, nice little spot, I got dressed up,
Speaker 9: even borrowed nice shirt from my roommate.
Speaker 8: Oh.
Speaker 3: Everyone did normally do that, like share fancy clothes.
Speaker 2: You have a roommate life.
Speaker 5: I used to have a blazer and we have like
Speaker 5: a community blazer.
Speaker 1: Like yeah, it's like they doody.
Speaker 2: Did that pay off for you?
Speaker 9: I mean I was feeling good, So that's helpful, I think.
Speaker 9: And she told me I looked nice, and she she
Speaker 9: looked incredible.
Speaker 3: Did you tell her that was scary too? How good
Speaker 3: she looked?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 9: I mean I I reiterated how intimidated I was.
Speaker 3: I imagine, like cowering at everything, like just to eat.
Speaker 5: We're playing it up for you, man, I'm sure you
Speaker 5: were fine.
Speaker 9: I think so. I mean she was really nice for
Speaker 9: the most part. I mean I saw that she loves
Speaker 9: chocolate off on her profile, so I thought I'd bring
Speaker 9: her a gift and I brought her almond rocca that cute.
Speaker 10: Okay, sorry, was the best.
Speaker 1: Options, kind of a grandparent's chocolate.
Speaker 9: But you know, at this store and it looks nice.
Speaker 9: It has like gold foil. I thought it looked kind
Speaker 9: of fancy, but she said it's not really chocolate, which
Speaker 9: I didn't really I'd never had really eaten myself.
Speaker 3: It's kind of toffee a lot of time.
Speaker 5: Yeah, harsh to say when someone's giving you a gift
Speaker 5: that's not actually take us to the.
Speaker 2: Highlights of the date. What were the good moments?
Speaker 9: Well, during dinner I wanted to get to I had.
Speaker 9: I was so curious, you know, from her profile, and
Speaker 9: I kept asking her a lot of questions, and I
Speaker 9: might have kind of asked too many questions.
Speaker 3: Is that possible?
Speaker 9: Maybe if it starts to feel like somebody's given you
Speaker 9: the third degree, you're interrogating you. It wasn't really my attention,
Speaker 9: But I mean, if there's not.
Speaker 3: Like a real natural flow to it, I guess.
Speaker 2: You don't want the date to come off sounding like
Speaker 2: a job in Yeah.
Speaker 3: Tell me here do we see yourself? Can you think
Speaker 3: of one question that went too far?
Speaker 9: I asked her if she's ever been engaged before.
Speaker 2: What date question?
Speaker 5: Okay?
Speaker 3: And what was her response?
Speaker 9: Well, because we talked a little bit about the house
Speaker 9: relationships and she had, uh was dating a guy in
Speaker 9: Spain for a long time, and and that's how it
Speaker 9: came up because she said it was really serious.
Speaker 3: It's kind intense.
Speaker 9: I was not trying to pry though.
Speaker 2: Let's go to the end of the day. What happened
Speaker 2: at the end.
Speaker 9: Well, we had the almon roca for dessert, which was
Speaker 9: nice at the restaurant.
Speaker 3: And you just opened up the package right there.
Speaker 9: Yeah, Well, because they asked if we wanted any of
Speaker 9: the dessert, she said she wasn't that hunger. But I said, oh,
Speaker 9: I brought this for you, and that's when I.
Speaker 3: That's when she turned up her nose. And so it's
Speaker 3: not really chocolate.
Speaker 9: She did say that, But then we did actually enjoy
Speaker 9: it together, and I hope she thought it was funny
Speaker 9: that I tried, even though I failed that even bringing
Speaker 9: chocolate pretty broa.
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, all.
Speaker 5: Right, Well I'm going to give it a B plus
Speaker 5: so far.
Speaker 2: That's my that's my grade on a curve.
Speaker 9: Have you heard from her, Well, I haven't really heard
Speaker 9: from her, but it is okay, Like we hugged, we
Speaker 9: said goodbye.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what Brooke does with her children though, so
Speaker 5: you can't really judge by that.
Speaker 3: And they complain about every food item I give them.
Speaker 5: So the good news is there's a lot of room
Speaker 5: to improve from here, and we're going to try and
Speaker 5: do that when we come back and do your second
Speaker 5: date update right after this.
Speaker 6: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second date updates.
Speaker 5: If you're just joining us, We're on the phone with William,
Speaker 5: who went out recently with a world traveler named Stacy.
Speaker 5: Stacey has studied in the universities of Europe. She's dated
Speaker 5: the men of Spain and cheered for the football clubs
Speaker 5: of Liechtenburg, where instead of cheering hooray there they cheer
Speaker 5: and reverse. Oh really, can you say horay backwards? Yeah,
Speaker 5: that's right, yeow, it's classy.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: At the end of this second date when we get
Speaker 5: Stacy and William to meet up again. But obviously she
Speaker 5: is clearly a world traveler. He was intimidated by that,
Speaker 5: which led me to the question, William, why would she
Speaker 5: want to go out with you in the first place.
Speaker 5: Hard He said to himself that she's so worldly, she's
Speaker 5: so traveled.
Speaker 2: What what would be the appeal for her.
Speaker 9: Well, I'm a nice guy, and I'm open to going
Speaker 9: on more traveling ventures. I mean I've traveled a little
Speaker 9: bit myself.
Speaker 2: Oh you traveled the world.
Speaker 3: Come on, Jeffrey. Not everybody cant afford that. But I
Speaker 3: think what it would be appealing is he seems like.
Speaker 1: A really curious guy, right, Like, that's who someone who
Speaker 1: likes to travel.
Speaker 2: Website for curious men.
Speaker 5: I think that's a totally different issue. He's I think
Speaker 5: you sound totally fine.
Speaker 3: By the way, William interested in her adventures. He asked
Speaker 3: a ton of questions.
Speaker 2: Have you traveled at all before? You not travel? What's
Speaker 2: your travel experience?
Speaker 9: No? Yeah, I mean I've been out of the country.
Speaker 9: I've gone to Cabo twice. Oh wow, I've driven to Scottsdale.
Speaker 3: Before Scottsdale, Wow, Arizona.
Speaker 5: Okay, there's something to work right here. It's not quite
Speaker 5: you know, the Vienna Opera house, but it's close.
Speaker 9: So yeah.
Speaker 3: The positive is she could show him all these places. Jeffrey. Sure,
Speaker 3: you just have to convince her.
Speaker 2: He can show her the golf course at Scottsdale.
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's just get her on the phone.
Speaker 2: I'm excited to talk to this worldly lady. Let's get
Speaker 2: her on the phone right now. Here we go. You're
Speaker 2: ready to speak English? She does speak English, right?
Speaker 9: I think she speaks a couple of languages actually, but English.
Speaker 5: One on your date otherwise is going to go really,
Speaker 5: really bad. All right, I'm gonna try and see how
Speaker 5: it goes here.
Speaker 2: I'm down the number right now.
Speaker 9: Hello, bon Joel?
Speaker 2: Is these Stace? I'm so sorry for.
Speaker 3: French. I won't try.
Speaker 5: Sorry, Stacey, I'm hoping. This is a radio show called
Speaker 5: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 8: Can I help you?
Speaker 5: Yeah, we need a lot of help, but mostly we're
Speaker 5: looking for help for one of our listeners named William,
Speaker 5: because he's a guy who, rumor has it you went
Speaker 5: on a date with recently.
Speaker 8: What is this about a date?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 5: This is It's a segment we do called Second Date Update,
Speaker 5: where our listeners go out with someone and if they're
Speaker 5: not hearing back, or if they feel like they're getting ghosted,
Speaker 5: they can email us and we'll try and reach out
Speaker 5: to that person for them.
Speaker 3: It's a real North American continent type thing. M M.
Speaker 5: Sorry for being weird about all the North America stuff.
Speaker 5: It's just we we heard that you're very well traveled.
Speaker 8: Yes, I am well traveled. Who is the guy or
Speaker 8: which date was this? I've been on a couple recently.
Speaker 2: It was William. Oh, yeah, William.
Speaker 8: Oh, William.
Speaker 2: Yes, Yes, you guys went and got dinner together the
Speaker 2: other night.
Speaker 8: Yes, we went out to dinner.
Speaker 3: Okay, did you enjoy it?
Speaker 8: I don't know what you want from me here? It
Speaker 8: was it was a nice time.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I guess is what we want is honesty.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we're just we're trying to help out William a
Speaker 5: little bit because he doesn't understand why there hasn't been
Speaker 5: a second meetup.
Speaker 1: He really liked you a lot and thought that maybe
Speaker 1: they saw some potential between you two.
Speaker 8: I just honestly, he just wasn't cultured enough for me.
Speaker 8: And I don't know, he just he lacked manners.
Speaker 2: Oh lacked manners? Well, hold on, are we nitpicking?
Speaker 3: Did not like have his fork in the right area.
Speaker 2: Of the place.
Speaker 8: He he didn't.
Speaker 2: He doesn't have good.
Speaker 3: Etiquette, okay, any example.
Speaker 8: Yeah, an example is he kind of yelled out when
Speaker 8: he had to go.
Speaker 10: To the bathroom.
Speaker 8: You know, we're in a really nice restaurant.
Speaker 2: He announced it to like the whole room or what
Speaker 2: do you mean?
Speaker 8: Yes, he just he got up and he says, I'm
Speaker 8: going to the bathroom. And it was like it was
Speaker 8: a big announcement.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's bad etiquette.
Speaker 2: Excuse me.
Speaker 1: I think he was just trying to tell her where
Speaker 1: he was going so that you didn't think he was
Speaker 1: ditching you or something.
Speaker 8: Well, he could have just said, excuse me for.
Speaker 5: A minute, exactly, I'll be right back.
Speaker 3: Have a lot higher standards than I do.
Speaker 2: I know, I think that's a little bit picky, at
Speaker 2: least for us. Is that all that he did?
Speaker 8: No, we're at a very nice steakhouse and he waved
Speaker 8: down the waiter to get more bread.
Speaker 2: And okay, is that is that rude? What is that?
Speaker 3: I love that bread.
Speaker 2: I know, if the bread's good, you want more.
Speaker 8: Well, it just seemed a little low class to me.
Speaker 8: He would have waited till they came to refill you know,
Speaker 8: my wine.
Speaker 5: Order at a nice restaurant, to check on you all
Speaker 5: the time, So you expect him to be around every
Speaker 5: five minutes. I guess if I remember back to my
Speaker 5: private school, you are supposed to wait for the waiter to.
Speaker 2: Come to the table.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're not supposed to shout across the restaurant.
Speaker 3: Nobody lives by these rules anymore.
Speaker 5: They're like, well, that's brook, but it's not okay when
Speaker 5: you go to an actual respected place, a.
Speaker 3: Beautiful steak dinner. Right. He's the one that picked it,
Speaker 3: He's the one that took you there.
Speaker 8: Yes, the restaurant was great. It's just I mean, there's
Speaker 8: more stuff. He's just so loud and I was whispering
Speaker 8: because there's other people around, and it was just really
Speaker 8: inappropriate for such a nice place.
Speaker 9: I'm sorry, excuse me, excuse me, I'm sorry. This is William.
Speaker 9: We were at an outback steakhouse. It's like, it wasn't
Speaker 9: a Michelin star type of restaurant.
Speaker 2: I mean, oh sorry, hold on, hold on, hold on, William.
Speaker 5: I need to let Stacy know that William has been
Speaker 5: waiting on the other line listening to this whole conversation.
Speaker 2: He's uh, he's wanting to talk to you.
Speaker 8: Yes, it was an outback steakhouse. It was the first
Speaker 8: time I've ever been. It was a very lovely Australian steakhouse.
Speaker 9: Was lovely.
Speaker 5: You're so world you've never been to an outback which is.
Speaker 2: Not worldly you what do you can mean? Stay? You
Speaker 2: think that an outback steakhouse is a very like fine
Speaker 2: dining establishment, but it's a big problement for any outback
Speaker 2: people listening.
Speaker 8: And it's not that it was like the best steakhouse
Speaker 8: I've ever been, but it was just it felt authentic.
Speaker 3: Wait, wait, did you did you look around at the
Speaker 3: other guests. You can wave down all the free bread
Speaker 3: you want there.
Speaker 8: I have traveled a lot and not all restaurants are
Speaker 8: five star, you know, Michelin restaurants, but they're beautiful and
Speaker 8: there's culture. So I thought that that was just an authentic,
Speaker 8: you know thing.
Speaker 2: You're giving it the fact it doesn't really do.
Speaker 3: There's definitely cold.
Speaker 1: Try it out back, but it's not like high society culture.
Speaker 8: Yeah, you know, honestly, I'm just happy he didn't take
Speaker 8: me to a chain restaurant.
Speaker 2: You know, I wouldn't recommend googling out back state.
Speaker 3: It would be you should try Applebee's. It's this little
Speaker 3: quaint place.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, great Long Island girl.
Speaker 2: I don't want to give you too many ideas.
Speaker 8: Honestly, I don't even know what you guys are talking about.
Speaker 5: Okay, don't worry about any of that. We should be
Speaker 5: worried about is William, who had a great time with
Speaker 5: you the other night, restaurant and etiquette aside, and what
Speaker 5: he really wants is just to see you one more
Speaker 5: time and give it another chance.
Speaker 9: Yeah, and you know what if you do agree to
Speaker 9: go on a date with me on the second day
Speaker 9: and night, I really do hope you do. I will
Speaker 9: take you to a really nice place and I will
Speaker 9: show you that I have proper etiquette. I am a
Speaker 9: classy guy. I know how to behave ending on where
Speaker 9: I'm at and wow, I want you give me a
Speaker 9: chance to show that to you.
Speaker 3: Wow. It was a gentleman response if I have ever
Speaker 3: heard one.
Speaker 5: Well crafted, very thoughtful. And all that's left now is
Speaker 5: Stacy a yes or no? If you want to go
Speaker 5: out with him one more time, we'll pay for it
Speaker 5: and tell us if you're curtsying while you're doing it.
Speaker 2: Please.
Speaker 9: You know what.
Speaker 8: I I don't do charity. I'm okay, Oh, don't do charity.
Speaker 3: You want to be charity like that good manners and dar.
Speaker 5: You really are worldly, aren't you?
Speaker 8: I do charity. I don't take charity as I.
Speaker 2: Will.
Speaker 9: Man, I am sorry, dude, Yeah yeah, he can't win
Speaker 9: them all. I guess I'll give it another crack out there, wave.
Speaker 3: Your hands around and ask for help again, Brook and
Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, it just occurred to me. I totally
Speaker 5: forgot to bring up the almond roccas.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that sounds European and fancy.
Speaker 3: It's a classy dessert.
Speaker 2: It's not from Europe, but.
Speaker 5: He should get points for bringing a classy sounding dessert
Speaker 5: to out Okay, classy.
Speaker 2: Sounding I like.
Speaker 1: My husband used to send those to is his grandma
Speaker 1: and Jamaica, and she called them the candy with the
Speaker 1: bread crumbs.
Speaker 5: I think if you pull some gold foil wrapped candy
Speaker 5: out of your pocket after dinner, I don't care if
Speaker 5: it's half melted, that is class.
Speaker 1: It doesn't really melt because it's so hard.
Speaker 5: I totally forgot to mention it though. I am losing
Speaker 5: my touch.
Speaker 3: That's what went wrong.
Speaker 2: It could have been at least.
Speaker 5: Some bonus points in his corner for having a little
Speaker 5: bit of extra you know.
Speaker 2: Juge.
Speaker 3: Dude, she's a little confused. I mean she thought the
Speaker 3: outback was fancy.
Speaker 5: Well, we didn't get it done this time, but we
Speaker 5: promised to do better next time.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Okay, you can be part of that next time. If
Speaker 5: you email the show, we'll call that person who wasn't
Speaker 5: calling you back