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Speaker 1: First Date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocates law dot com.

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Speaker 2: Britt is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up.

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Speaker 3: She's getting ghosted by a dude named Sean, So in

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Speaker 3: a few minutes we're going to get him on the

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Speaker 3: phone and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting

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Speaker 3: her and maybe get her another date if she still

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Speaker 3: wants one. But Britt, before we talk about your date,

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Speaker 3: how long has it been since you heard from Sean?

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Speaker 4: Uh? Freagain?

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Speaker 2: Twelve days?

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Speaker 1: You're not counting her. I'm sorry that sucks. Where How

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Speaker 1: did you meet Sean online?

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Speaker 2: On an app or something else?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 4: And it's the only dating up I've ever really tried,

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Speaker 4: and I've heard good things.

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Speaker 2: No, I have to that makes sense. Yeah, let's go.

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Speaker 2: Let's go back to the date. Can you tell us

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Speaker 2: about that.

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Speaker 4: Well, it was good at first because we like met

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Speaker 4: at one of those like fun bars where there's like

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Speaker 4: you know, bar games, and he was paying for stuff,

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Speaker 4: you know, like he was getting her drinks and.

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Speaker 6: I was winning.

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Speaker 4: So it was fun and it was like a flirty

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Speaker 4: good time and you know we we even like kissed. Okay, well,

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Speaker 4: we made out at the bar.

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Speaker 3: Oh, was there any moment where something weird happened?

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Speaker 2: Why you might be getting ghosted?

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Speaker 4: Okay, So I didn't plan this or anything at all,

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Speaker 4: but a group of my friends showed up and uh,

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Speaker 4: they you know, came and played a round of darts

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Speaker 4: with us, And that's the only thing I could think of,

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Speaker 4: because I mean, he left shortly after, but he had to.

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Speaker 4: He said he'd like get up for work or whatever.

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Speaker 2: How are the vibes?

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Speaker 4: When he left, he like kind of just was like, oh,

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Speaker 4: I realized the time it is, I have to go.

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Speaker 4: So he like left kind of abruptly, but like you know,

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Speaker 4: I was definitely like including him and then like it

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Speaker 4: was I thought it was like going fine. So I

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Speaker 4: didn't think that would have been it.

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Speaker 2: Were your friends kind of monopolizing your time at that point?

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Speaker 4: No, No, that's so I was like, I think, like

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Speaker 4: we were just all hanging out. Like the only reason

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Speaker 4: it could have been awkward is just because they had

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Speaker 4: never met before, because it was like a first date.

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Speaker 4: But I think it went fine.

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Speaker 6: Like I even like text.

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Speaker 4: Them that night to apologize that they shut up. But

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Speaker 4: I thanked him for like being cool and said I

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Speaker 4: couldn't like.

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Speaker 2: To see him again. Did he say anything back to

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Speaker 2: that or was that the last time you heard from him?

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Speaker 4: No, he text me back the next morning. So that's

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Speaker 4: why I was like, oh, yeah, you must have gone

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Speaker 4: home gone to sleep early, because he woke up text

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Speaker 4: me He's like, yeah, I had fun and then ghost.

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Speaker 2: Is it possible he's dated any area of friends? Uh?

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Speaker 2: None of them said anything about that, So I.

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Speaker 1: Mean it also could be just awkward. I mean, Victoria,

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Speaker 1: remember when you had that date and you ran into

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Speaker 1: your friends. Oh, it almost feels like pressure in that moment, right, like, yeah.

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Speaker 2: You're already meeting their friends and you're just not ready

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Speaker 3: Well, so it's a very first state, so like you're

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Speaker 3: meeting their friends and you're like, Okay, this is weird,

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Speaker 3: but hi, like you're introducing yourself and yeah, that's kind

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Speaker 2: Well that's besides the point though.

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Speaker 1: So if that's what happened and then he goes ghosts

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Speaker 1: like something had to have happened in that interaction.

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Speaker 2: Were their guy friends there too? So it was like

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Speaker 5: No, I it's a group of girls.

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Speaker 2: And what was the last thing he said to you.

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Speaker 1: Uh.

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Speaker 4: He said that he had fun and I did, like

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Speaker 4: try texting him within those twelve days, like one or

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Speaker 4: two more times.

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Speaker 2: All right, well, we'll see if we can figure it

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Speaker 2: out for you.

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Speaker 3: Then we'll play a song come Back, and then call

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Speaker 3: him and see if you tell us why he's ghosting

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Speaker 3: you and maybe get you another date. Okay, Okay, thanks,

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Speaker 3: all right, we'll play a song come Back, get your

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Speaker 3: first dae follow up next. Right in the middle of

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Speaker 3: your first day follow up if you're just joining us,

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Speaker 3: Britt is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 3: a dude named Sean. So we're about to call him

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Speaker 3: and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting and

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Speaker 3: maybe get her another date. But before we do that, Britt,

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Speaker 3: why don't you remind everybody of the situation with Sean.

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Speaker 4: Okay, guys, I went out on a date with Sean,

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Speaker 4: who I met online, and we were having a super

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Speaker 4: fun first day at a bar and then randomly ran

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Speaker 4: into a group of my girlfriends played some darts with them,

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Speaker 4: and then Sean left briefly texted me back once and

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Speaker 4: then and I don't know why, because it's a great

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Speaker 4: first date.

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Speaker 2: Well, we're about to get him on the phone and

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Speaker 2: find out why you're ready.

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Speaker 6: I'm ready?

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Speaker 2: All right, here we go. Hello, Hi, I speak to Sean. Please, Nicky,

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Speaker 2: Who is Sean? How are you? My name is Jewbel

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Speaker 2: and I'm on a radio show called The Jebel Show. Hi, Sean,

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Speaker 2: I'm Nina. Also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 2: So this is a radio show called The Jubel Show.

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 5: I'm okay, I haven't talked to the radio.

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Speaker 7: What's this about?

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Speaker 2: Do you ever listen to the show at all?

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Speaker 5: I am not familiar with your guys, with your guys

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Speaker 5: this show?

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Speaker 3: Now all right, well now you will be I guess.

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Speaker 3: But we do a segment on the show and it's

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Speaker 3: called the first Date follow Up. That's where if you

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Speaker 3: go out on a date with somebody and then end

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Speaker 3: up ghosting them, they can email us to get you

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Speaker 3: on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. Okay,

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Speaker 3: we got an email about you from a girl named Britt.

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Speaker 5: Oh Britt, Okay, wow, that's a uh yeah, I can

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Speaker 5: understand why she might wanna might want to get some answers.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she said, it's been twelve days since you guys

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Speaker 3: went out and the last thing you texted her was

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Speaker 3: had fun.

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Speaker 2: So what's that?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I uh definitely did have to take a step

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Speaker 2: Why is that?

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Speaker 5: It's not her, it's uh and I'm not sure if

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Speaker 5: she told you this, but when we were out, we

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Speaker 5: went into some of her friends, and uh, she wasn't

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Speaker 5: giving them more attentions she was giving me. She was

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Speaker 5: making sure that she's being scared of both parties and

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Speaker 5: being you know, being on a date with me. She

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Speaker 5: just happened running to her friends. But uh, it is

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Speaker 5: because of her friend, Sabrina.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we used, Yeah, we used.

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Speaker 5: To hook up, and Sabrina at one point in time. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: I know, it's just like two years ago. But Sabrina at.

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Speaker 7: One point in time cornered me and basically was like,

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Speaker 7: oh my god, I'm so good to see you, I'm

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Speaker 7: so happy to be out a date and all this

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Speaker 7: other good stuff. And then yeah, asked me if I

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Speaker 7: wanted to have a threesome.

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Speaker 2: Well what with her friend or.

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Speaker 5: Well, well, well Sabrina and Brittany both at the both

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Speaker 2: I wonder if she knows that, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: You want to need a little bit of space. It's

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Speaker 2: Wait, so you think Britta knows about that?

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Speaker 5: I would I would guess that she does, because you know,

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Speaker 2: I don't really know what to say about that.

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Speaker 5: It's like, I mean, you know, it wasn't just you know,

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Speaker 7: Group dynamic, so you do like that or I.

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Speaker 5: Get competitive during uh during those types of things, and uh, yeah,

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Speaker 5: I'm not good at projects, all right, I.

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Speaker 2: Can see that. Yeah, you know, Hey, thank you for

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Speaker 3: And I want to let you know that Britt is

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Speaker 2: Uh what, okay, Britt, Hey.

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Speaker 6: I wish someone would have told me that I had

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Speaker 6: no idea.

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Speaker 1: You had no idea that he used to suck up

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Speaker 4: Me here, I'm not that good at friends with Sabrina.

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Speaker 4: I only really see her in group setting.

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Speaker 6: I don't know why she said that. Also, I don't

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Speaker 6: I've never even hung out with.

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Speaker 3: Hers, just like of course everybody's going on with She's like,

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Speaker 3: I'm not going.

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Speaker 1: To technically steal her date if I include her.

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Speaker 3: Process, I'll ask him first because guys will be down

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Speaker 4: The only thing we've ever done together is like go

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Speaker 4: to a Taylor Swift concert. They were like kind of us.

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Speaker 5: But that's a little different than a reason. But yeah,

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Speaker 5: so you didn't know anything about that at all.

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Speaker 4: No, I didn't hear that from our mutual friend. I

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Speaker 4: didn't hear anything from her like if anything, would like

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Speaker 4: I would have her Instagram.

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Speaker 6: But no, nothing, And really, like I said, she's not

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Speaker 6: that c with her friends. So that's like whenever you

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Speaker 3: You, Sean, Are you like gonna hook up with Sabrina?

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Speaker 5: I've done that already. I didn't didn't want to keep

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Speaker 5: doing that. Would like to would like to go on

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Speaker 5: a second date just just the two of us though, No,

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Speaker 5: don't know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Sean, you would like to go out with again?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, uh, that would be awesome, especially after the holidays.

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Speaker 5: But if that, if that could be a thing, you guys,

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Speaker 5: the whole thing about is just you know, me and

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Speaker 5: her type intimate setting versus the group aspect of it.

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Speaker 2: I think that would be Bret. You don't care that

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Speaker 2: he's hooked up with Sabrina.

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Speaker 4: No, you've got it in the past, And okay.

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Speaker 2: You want another date, Britt, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Maybe we could do dinner or something where there's only

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Speaker 4: room for two of us. In the book you.

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Speaker 8: From Thos of this wholesome dinner, they're gonna be the

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Speaker 8: who's demanding that.

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Speaker 2: They just make sure it's a table for two. That's it.

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Speaker 8: Nobody else at the stable. The waitress comes up, They're like, no, yeah, no,

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Speaker 8: we know what you're after. No, we're trying to go

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Speaker 8: out with each other. Well, congratulations, you guys got another date.

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Speaker 2: Than Jubile's first date.

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Speaker 5: Follow up