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Speaker 1: You're listening to Jog Just Sea now with me Jojo

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Speaker 1: Siua an iHeartRadio podcast. Oh my god, I'm laughing at

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Speaker 1: this before I even start this. Oh frick me dating

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Speaker 1: as a celebrity. I wish there was a textbook answer.

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Speaker 1: I wish there was a pamphlet, a user manual, an

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Speaker 1: instruction sheet. Shit. If there wasn't, it was in a

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Speaker 1: different language, I would learn that language just to figure

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Speaker 1: out how to do this. It is one of the

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Speaker 1: hardest things about my job. Whenever I say, you know,

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Speaker 1: being a celebrity, or I call myself a celebrity, I

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Speaker 1: always get very strange. I mean, I don't I know

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Speaker 1: But it's very weird to call yourself a celebrity. I

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Speaker 1: don't know why, but it's just one of those things

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Speaker 1: for me. So if I'm talking and I'm saying that

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Speaker 1: and it's weird for you to hear that, just know

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Speaker 1: that it's weird for me to say it too. But

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Speaker 1: it is what it is. So we're just gonna We're

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Speaker 1: gonna get past that. Anyways. One of the things about

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Speaker 1: doing and being who I am, being a super public

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Speaker 1: figure stating in the limelight can be very very tricky. Now, look,

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Speaker 1: I've only learned about trial and air, and there's been

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Speaker 1: a lot of air, and that is something that I

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Speaker 1: think for the last few years actually I was a

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Speaker 1: I'm fine. But then I think in this last year

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Speaker 1: me to be like, oh, you know what, there was

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Speaker 1: some air and that is okay. And some of the

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Speaker 1: air was on my behalf, some of the air was

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Speaker 1: on my partner's behalf. But I think being able to

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Speaker 1: actually realize that is a very very very massive thing.

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Speaker 1: Long story short, today we are going to be deep

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Speaker 1: dive in talking about all of this. This is my

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Speaker 1: free therapy session for myself. So thank you for listening.

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Speaker 1: Every single person that is hearing this right now, you

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Speaker 1: are my therapist for the next thirty minutes because I

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Speaker 1: do not have one, even though I should, I don't.

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Speaker 1: It's okay, we're fine. That's what you're here for. Being

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Speaker 1: being a human, it's hard to enter the dating scene.

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Speaker 1: You go out, you might find somebody, you might not.

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Speaker 1: How do you meet somebody? Who do you work with?

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Speaker 1: I guess they make data more accessible. But the thing is,

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Speaker 1: There is ray uh and that is some fancy one

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Speaker 1: You got to get requested, is you referred. It's a

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Speaker 1: Like there's no shame in being like, hey, we don't

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Speaker 1: that's something that I'm very grateful for a lot of

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Speaker 1: like it's so public. You are never just the two

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Speaker 1: some things that are a very very very good date. Movie.

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Speaker 1: And the thing is is Joelle is also just me.

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Speaker 1: it doesn't turn off like I don't just like I'm

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Speaker 1: It's fun, it's fresh, it's fears, we're living our lives.

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Speaker 1: You know, you have people a comparing to your last relationship,

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Speaker 1: telling you that you can do much better, telling your

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Speaker 1: And I think I've just learned that, like people are

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Speaker 1: shit and it is so foul and it is so wrong,

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Speaker 1: but people, people will I do you think one of

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Speaker 1: Like it's just it's just say I started dating someone

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Speaker 1: right now, right and they look up JOJ you see

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Speaker 1: my past. And I'm very open about my past, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean. But I think that's something that

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Speaker 1: comes with time and maturity and aging. Is I now

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Speaker 1: am like, oh, like I don't. I used to care

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Speaker 1: so much about like my partner's exes, you know, I

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Speaker 1: say what I know about them and are you still

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Speaker 1: in love with them? Now I feel like I'm at

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Speaker 1: a point in time and I'm an age in life

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Speaker 1: where I like, literally that your ex is the least

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Speaker 1: of my worries. I remember when it used to be

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Speaker 1: like my biggest problem, But now, oh my god, I

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Speaker 1: literally like, if you want your ex, go be with them. Like,

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Speaker 1: if you're still in love with your ex, don't be

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Speaker 1: with me. Like That's kind of where I'm at in

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Speaker 1: life now. But I remember being like, just say you're

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Speaker 1: in love with your rex? You know you are? Like

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Speaker 1: literally Jojo, relax, go like calm down, You're just stop it.

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Speaker 1: That's one of the things one of the traits about

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Speaker 1: me that I am very happy to have fixed now.

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Speaker 1: Sliding into DMS is something that I have no shame doing.

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Speaker 1: I will slide faster than I slid into home blade

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Speaker 1: during the celebrity softball game. Happily all the time as

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Speaker 1: much as possible. People have slid into me at my DMS,

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Speaker 1: and I do check, like I thoroughly will check my

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Speaker 1: Instagram dms, TikTok dms, I'll check my TikTok comments, I'll

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Speaker 1: check tiktoks that I'm tagged in. I'll check my tagged

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Speaker 1: photos on Instagram. It is how I find people, and

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Speaker 1: so I have no shame in sliding people that I've

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Speaker 1: slid in my DMS. Actually quite a few that I've

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Speaker 1: ended up like becoming very good friends with thought for

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Speaker 1: a time it might have been more than that never

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Speaker 1: went anywhere, And that's cool too, but not not like

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Speaker 1: I love a slide in the damn Some people are

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Speaker 1: ashamed of it. I'm not at all. I think it's

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Speaker 1: so what how else do you expect to like not

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Speaker 1: not just freaking slide in and enjoy it. Something that's

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Speaker 1: interesting is dating a celebrity versus dating not a celebrity.

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Speaker 1: I've dated somebody who's in the industry, and I've dated

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Speaker 1: somebody who's not in the industry, and honestly, both came

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Speaker 1: with their perks. They really did both had their pros,

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Speaker 1: bowls had their cons. I think personally, I don't care

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Speaker 1: if somebody's in the industry. I do think if they're

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Speaker 1: in the same exact career path as mine, you know,

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Speaker 1: Like I think dating a musician, as much as I

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Speaker 1: love Billie Eilish, I think it would be very very

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Speaker 1: tricky because that's that's my passion. That's what I love

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Speaker 1: to do. I love to perform, and so I want

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Speaker 1: somebody who that's not their passion. I want to be

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Speaker 1: able to go to their games or to their shows

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Speaker 1: that are not if they were comedian, I'd want to

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Speaker 1: go to their shows. But I think if Sy was

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Speaker 1: dating another artist, that for me would be very tricky

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Speaker 1: to navigate. And so I think industry doesn't bug me.

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Speaker 1: But look, I'm a firm believer in like, your person

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Speaker 1: is going to be your person. Whatever they do, whatever

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Speaker 1: walk of life they come from, that is meant to

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Speaker 1: be your person. As I'm just sitting here patiently, waiting,

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Speaker 1: patiently waiting anytime Billie Eilish wants to walk through my door.

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Speaker 1: It is wide open, but I am patiently waiting for anybody,

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Speaker 1: whoever that person may be one day, whoever the mother

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Speaker 1: of Freddie, Eddie and Teddy is we will find out

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Speaker 1: one day. Last thing that I want to talk about

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Speaker 1: is my fun dates that I have been on. So

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Speaker 1: the world has this joke with me about Disney dates,

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Speaker 1: and it's actually kind of funny. I just started talking

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Speaker 1: to somebody and I'm enjoying it very very much. We'll

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Speaker 1: see the future of life. But one of the first

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Speaker 1: things they said to me was, oh my god, I'm

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Speaker 1: to Disney. I love Disney so much. And I was like, oh, shay,

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Speaker 1: here we go. They were just going like on their own.

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Speaker 1: In a couple of days. I was like, here we go.

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Speaker 1: Here the freak we go. Yes, I do go to

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Speaker 1: Disney a lot on dates. The thing is, Disney is

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Speaker 1: very fun and very simple as a celebrity to go

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Speaker 1: to it's a very good day. You can walk through

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Speaker 1: the back routes, you have a guide, they get you

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Speaker 1: private private rides, they you have private seating at dinner.

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Speaker 1: There's They make it very accommodating for celebrities to go

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Speaker 1: to Disney. And so that's one of the reasons why

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Speaker 1: I love going on dates to Disney is because it

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Speaker 1: is very very accommodating. Now with that I've learned it's

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Speaker 1: also very very public, and I've got to be very

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Speaker 1: very careful about that. Will I be absolutely not if

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Speaker 1: somebody says to me they want to go on to

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Speaker 1: Disney Day, I will happily take them on a Disney Day,

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Speaker 1: for sure. I will say though. I've had a few

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Speaker 1: friends wore like, oh good, I want to go to

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Speaker 1: Disney that with you, and I tell them straight up,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, look, we can go, but just know, just

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Speaker 1: know what will come out of this. I was like,

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00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 1: obviously there's nothing between us, but just know how it

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00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:16,959
Speaker 1: will be. And that's just not something I think. One

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Speaker 1: of the most outrageous dates I ever went on was

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Speaker 1: a Disney date and a Qurt side Laker date back

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Speaker 1: to back, same girl. The thing is, Disney's not cheap.

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Speaker 1: It's not cheap to go to especially you know, you

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Speaker 1: get you get all this this nice luxury treatment as

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Speaker 1: a celebrity, but it does come with a very very

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Speaker 1: pretty price. And the Disney teams amazing and I love

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Speaker 1: them very much and I love working with them very much.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, it's a it's a pretty penny and of

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00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 1: course court side Laker tickets are a pretty penny. And yeah,

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Speaker 1: boombam one day after another. That was definitely the most

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Speaker 1: outrageous dates I've ever gone on, back to back. But

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Speaker 1: it was fun. It was worth it. Do I regret it? Nah?

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Speaker 1: Maybe a little bit, maybe just a little bit, just

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Speaker 1: like a little bit, but like it was fun. So

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Speaker 1: I don't think I do, but maybe a little bit.

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Speaker 1: It's fine, It's fine. I mean to wrap this up. Look,

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Speaker 1: the thing is is dating as a celebrity is hard,

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Speaker 1: very much so dating is normal as just a human

536
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:23,359
Speaker 1: is hard. Of course, being a celebrity, you know, it

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Speaker 1: has its other weird little quirks and things that you

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00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 1: don't even really realize some of them. I don't even

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00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 1: really realize, you know. I don't realize half of this

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Speaker 1: stuff until it actually happens and it's in front of me,

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Speaker 1: and then I'm like, oh, how do I do what

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00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 1: with this? Yeah? You know, I look to other celebrities

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00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 1: for advice. I have a lot of good big sisters.

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00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 1: Making trainer has been really good for me. Demi's been

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00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 1: a really good friend. Paris Hilton has been a very

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Speaker 1: very good friend. It's interesting, just like all these really

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Speaker 1: cool celebrities have given good advice, you know, what I mean,

548
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:58,400
Speaker 1: and you just you talk to them occasionally, you have

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00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 1: therapy sessions. They get it, they help you out, but

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00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 1: it's it's not easy. But I don't I don't think.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's easy for anybody, so I can't

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00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:12,520
Speaker 1: give myself too much slack. Uh. Anyways, Look, applications are open.

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Speaker 1: If anybody would like to slide into the DMS, let

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Speaker 1: me know. After I upload this podcast, I will be

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Speaker 1: checking the DMS. So please, if you are a mask

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Speaker 1: lesbian out there, submit your information now, preferably taller than

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00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 1: five me. If you're not taller than five me. Look,

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Speaker 1: it's not that it's not topic of a deal, but

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Speaker 1: I preferably it's fine. Thank you. Anyways, I love you

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Speaker 1: all very very much. Thank you so much for listening

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Speaker 1: to this jojas you wan now and I We'll see

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Speaker 1: you next time. Peace out. Thank you so much for listening. Everybody.

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