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Speaker 1: Right now, it is time for today's Strawberry Letter. If

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Speaker 2: Write Steve, tell them take this absolute correctly.

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Speaker 3: You really don't have many options because miss Abbey has paid.

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Speaker 1: Oh you mean, like dear Abby. Dear, they used to

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Speaker 2: Wo so it's just a to get the paper.

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Speaker 1: Yeah all right, Well we could be reading your letter

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Speaker 1: live on the air, like.

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Speaker 4: We're going to read this one today. Come on, you.

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Speaker 2: Buckle up, hold on tight, We got it for you.

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Speaker 2: Here it is the Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: Subject he wants me but not the children. Dear Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: I am a forty nine year old female married to

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Speaker 1: a forty nine year old man. We have five children

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Speaker 1: and five grandchildren. Here is the problem my current husband,

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Speaker 1: he says, I have I have five children and five grandchildren. Okay,

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Speaker 1: not we Oh okay, here is the problem. My current

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Speaker 1: husband is not the father of my children. I married

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Speaker 1: this man when my children were young, so he's been

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Speaker 1: in their lives for a very long time. My youngest

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Speaker 1: son just graduated from high school and will be going

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Speaker 1: away for college. So now my husband thinks that we

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Speaker 1: are done raising children and from now on it will

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Speaker 1: be just the two of us. He has said that

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Speaker 1: they are all grown and have their own lives. So

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Speaker 1: am I not supposed to So am I not supposed

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Speaker 1: to be involved with my children since they are no

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Speaker 1: longer living at home.

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Speaker 4: My children range.

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Speaker 1: From ages thirty two to eighteen years old, and all

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Speaker 1: five of them live in different states. I want to

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Speaker 1: see them and my grandkids as often as I can.

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Speaker 1: In fact, I'd like to move closer to them. My

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Speaker 1: He doesn't want to visit them, and he doesn't want

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Speaker 1: want them to visit us. He said that they don't

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Speaker 1: need to come for the holidays.

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Speaker 4: What the hell?

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Speaker 1: He really thinks that because they are adults, I am

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Speaker 1: supposed to forget that they exist. I understand that these

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Speaker 1: are our golden years and we should be enjoying quality

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Speaker 1: time together and traveling the world, but our travels should

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Speaker 1: also include trips to see my children. If he's really serious,

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Speaker 1: I may have to spend my golden years alone. Stephen Shirley,

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Speaker 1: can you please help me? Well, your letters started off nicely,

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Speaker 1: so I'll put it like this. Your husband, I'm sure,

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Speaker 1: feels like he's done his job and it's over. These

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Speaker 1: were not his kids. He raised them anyway. He's been

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Speaker 1: done and not being their biological debt. Like I said,

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Speaker 1: the ties are cut. He has no connection really to them.

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Speaker 1: It seems he cut them off and his concentration is

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Speaker 1: now on you and.

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Speaker 4: You guys' future together.

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Speaker 1: He wants to live, he wants to live his life,

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Speaker 1: you know, and do all of those things. But now

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Speaker 1: I think that he's being very unrealistic when he says

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Speaker 1: see you, or he doesn't want you to go see

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Speaker 4: How is that?

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Speaker 1: I mean, really, that's a bit unrealistic, especially if it

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Speaker 1: makes you happy to see your kids.

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Speaker 4: You're his wife.

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Speaker 1: He should want to see you happy and do those

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Speaker 1: things that make you happy. I mean, it's very unrealistic

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Speaker 1: to say that. He really thinks that because they're adults,

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Speaker 1: the issue. And he knows that's not the issue. They

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Speaker 1: are grown and they are living their own lives. That

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Speaker 1: to some kind of compromise in terms of when you

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Speaker 1: Even if you just go by yourself, you have to

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Speaker 2: You're a parent now. He wants me, but not the children. Okay,

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Speaker 3: I don't want mine either, though, And on any day

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Speaker 3: just like that. But we are parents. You're forty nine

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Speaker 3: He's not the father of the kids. The youngest son

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Speaker 3: He has says that we don't have to worry about

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Speaker 3: think that's how it goes? Do you know that you

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Speaker 3: are a parent for life. You may not be a

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Speaker 2: A parent for life. There are some good ones out

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Speaker 3: I got it, you, sir, are about to turn into

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Speaker 3: a bad one because you don't get it. You are

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Speaker 3: in your golden years. You said that lady in the letter.

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Speaker 3: Your kids are from thirty two to eighteen. All of

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Speaker 3: you kids and your grandkids. Matter of fact, you want

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Speaker 3: and he doesn't want them to visit us.

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Speaker 2: He says, they don't need to come for the holiday.

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Speaker 4: What the hell is crazy?

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Speaker 2: That's what the lady type. Don't need to come for

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Speaker 2: the holidays. What the hell? What the hell is right?

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Speaker 2: Come on, man, are you for real? Bruh?

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Speaker 3: You gonna just act like you never met these people.

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Speaker 3: He gotta come home. He's not ready to live on

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Speaker 3: his own, and I got that. The kids range from

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Speaker 3: thirty two to eighteen. Man, do you know how much

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Speaker 2: Come on, man, that ain't hot his work?

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Speaker 3: Man, you crazy, and he don't want them to visit here,

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Speaker 3: don't want him to come for the holidays. What the

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Speaker 3: hell he thinks that because they are adult, I'm supposed

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Speaker 3: to forget the day exists. That's the craziest part of it.

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Speaker 3: You gotta be nuts. It doesn't work the way. Come on, man,

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Speaker 3: I understand that these are our golden years. You ain't

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Speaker 3: a forty nine hell golden. But if that's how you

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Speaker 3: players should also include trips see my chip. If he's

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Speaker 3: really serious, I may help to spend my golden years

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Speaker 3: alone and we will be.

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Speaker 2: Back when I was a kids.

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Speaker 4: What you say, Steve, I said, William back? All right?

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Speaker 1: We will be back at twenty three after with part

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Speaker 1: two of Steve's response, too, he wants me but not

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Speaker 4: Right after this. You're listening hard Morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, Here we are part two of today's

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Speaker 1: Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 4: This he wants me but not the children.

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Speaker 2: Wow, Well there's youngest one that graduated.

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Speaker 3: The boy is five kids, none of them he is

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Speaker 3: now he going while they graduated, they gone.

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Speaker 2: We throw it. They out.

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Speaker 3: He's saying, no, they have their own lives, their adults.

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Speaker 3: They should be able to make it on their own.

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Speaker 3: I want to see my grandkids as off as I can.

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Speaker 3: It's what the woman says. In fact, I want to

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Speaker 3: move closer to him. My husband don't want anything to

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Speaker 3: He don't want them to visit us. He said, they

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Speaker 4: What the hell holiday?

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Speaker 3: The lady said, what the hell? No, we don't come

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Speaker 3: for the holidays. What is Christmas about?

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Speaker 4: Exactly?

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Speaker 2: He really thinks.

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Speaker 3: That because the adults, I'm supposed to forget they exist.

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Speaker 3: be enjoying quollowy time together and traveling the world. But

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Speaker 3: He's really serious. I may have to spent my golden

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Speaker 3: years alone. Stevens, can you please help me? He wants

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Speaker 3: to check out. In essence, he wants to check out.

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Speaker 3: He wants to say that I've done my duty. I

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Speaker 3: raised these kids to the best of my ability. I've contributed,

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Speaker 3: and now they gone.

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Speaker 2: That's it. I'm chilling. I wish that was the case.

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Speaker 4: But honey, why don't you want to see the kids?

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Speaker 4: I mean, did something happened.

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Speaker 2: Already seen the kids?

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, you've seen it since they were young, I mean,

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Speaker 1: and they live their own lives now.

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Speaker 2: I saw all I needed to see when it was here.

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Speaker 2: I'm tired. I've been working, paying bill, putting kid to college.

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Speaker 4: And we're coming up.

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Speaker 2: Dream about that boy and coffee machine all.

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Speaker 1: That, and honey, we appreciate it so much, but these

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Speaker 1: That's what the holidays are for. Family holidays, Yes, family

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Speaker 1: like Thanksgiving, like Christmas, get Fred like Thanksgiving like Christmas.

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Speaker 2: We ain't going down now.

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Speaker 4: I've already made arrangements for them to come here.

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Speaker 2: They finish cordwell here to the house.

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Speaker 4: I'm you know, getting the big Christmas tree and everything.

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Speaker 2: They're gon We just got ready to We just got

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Speaker 2: rid of the damn boy. And what the hell are

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Speaker 2: you inviting them back for? They don't think we want him.

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Speaker 1: Well, he has to have somewhere to go when he's

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Speaker 2: Don't way, he ain't done at one of them International.

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Speaker 1: School, But I want him to come home. I missed them.

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Speaker 1: I carried them for nine months. This is my blood.

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Speaker 2: So you raising the kid to be none but trumps.

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Speaker 2: That was wrong right here.

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Speaker 4: He's a great kid. He's in college now, he great.

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Speaker 3: Key And let him fear for himself. Go and make it.

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Speaker 3: You know, he ain't got nowhere to get a job.

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Speaker 1: Wow, I don't understand. I mean, you were so good

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Speaker 1: Now all of a sudden, it's like, who are you?

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Speaker 4: Who they are? I don't know you. I was just

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Speaker 4: what do you mean? You were counting the day until

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Speaker 4: they got out this house? But you were so good.

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Speaker 4: They call you daddy.

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Speaker 3: You're not even there, She me, daddy cause they can't

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Speaker 1: Well, you know, I just wanted to let you know

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Speaker 1: that I really appreciate that you were there for me,

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Speaker 1: there for my kids.

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Speaker 2: I know you do, baby, I appreciate. Now I won't

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Speaker 4: Well, I am here for you, but I'm also you

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Speaker 2: All that the mom days over with no.

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Speaker 4: not they no.

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Speaker 2: They not call you keep inviting them back leave more

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Speaker 1: Girl, these are my kids and this is my house too.

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Speaker 1: They're coming home for the holidays. Okay, I put my

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Speaker 3: That's wait to getting hell out. Never invite them back

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Speaker 3: over for the holidays. It's just being here.

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Speaker 2: We ain't got no, we ain't wanna be able to

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Speaker 2: put a tree up.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna put a tree up right over there.

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Speaker 2: But when.

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Speaker 3: If you put a tree up over there, and then

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Speaker 3: all these people come in the house, we ain't gonna

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Speaker 4: It's just five kids and five grandkids, and there's.

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Speaker 2: Stout ten people look at the living room.

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Speaker 1: Well, then maybe we need a bigger house, because I'm

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Speaker 2: A bigger house.

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Speaker 4: Yes, it's a bigger house, girl.

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Speaker 2: That girl, we can find out all them people out

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Speaker 2: of here. In here. We need a bigger house.

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Speaker 4: It's just for a few days during the holidays. Honey.

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Speaker 4: You don't want to say Christmas carols? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: No, matter of fact, I want to this house stage

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Speaker 3: saying side so they can. They're already out.

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Speaker 1: Groovy And who's gonna we need a bigger house. Who's

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Speaker 1: gonna help me cook? That's what we love doing. That,

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Speaker 1: Me and the girls cooking together, were paring Christmas dinner

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Speaker 1: and Thanksgiving dinner.

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Speaker 2: Huh, you ain't ever been. We're gonna stop it, damn

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Speaker 2: joke the woman matter.

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Speaker 3: If you're gonna try to slide in and you can cook,

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Speaker 3: we're gonna end.

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Speaker 2: The damn trouble in the letter.

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Speaker 4: Can cook?

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Speaker 3: Even letter try to slide into. We're gonna help you cook.

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Speaker 2: I won't.

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Speaker 3: We've been trying to find out two thousand. All right,

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Speaker 3: I don't know what the new Mexican man.

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Speaker 4: You're married to name. Sorry you, Steve, are you still

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Speaker 4: the man in the letter? Make up your mind?

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Speaker 3: I'm man in the letter, but what you try to

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Speaker 3: slide in was a cooking compliment by yourself, and I

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Speaker 3: ain't feeling that you do it now. Surely you can't

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Speaker 3: Cook's gonna help me cook? Anybody?

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Speaker 4: I'm speaking as the woman in the letter.

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Speaker 2: All Right, we.

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Speaker 1: Gotta go, We gotta get out of here.

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Speaker 4: Email us or Instagram.

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Speaker 1: f M. Or you can go to my girl Shirley.

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. Right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey

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