WEBVTT - Ep. 42 " Wheres the Condom?" 0:00:02.240 --> 0:00:06.400 So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion 0:00:06.960 --> 0:00:12.160 to talk back. What's talk y'all? Thank guys are tuning 0:00:12.240 --> 0:00:15.280 in for a new episode that we talked back? Is 0:00:15.320 --> 0:00:18.560 your girl a j It's tam bami. Fuck y'all. I 0:00:18.600 --> 0:00:24.320 had I feel sick. I feel sick. Why what you've 0:00:24.320 --> 0:00:26.920 been doing? What you got gonna? You're pregnant and like 0:00:26.960 --> 0:00:28.720 as soon as I tell my mo mom, I don't 0:00:28.760 --> 0:00:31.640 feel well. When your last bob movement, when your last cycle, 0:00:31.680 --> 0:00:38.240 your minstral cycle. Usually I'm just hungover. Man, fuck girl, 0:00:38.600 --> 0:00:40.760 you know our bodies on process look at the same way. 0:00:40.800 --> 0:00:44.120 No more? Yeah, I feel old. I remember I used 0:00:44.120 --> 0:00:46.239 to be able to do this. I was true to this. 0:00:47.240 --> 0:00:49.640 Now I feel like I got hit by a truck 0:00:49.880 --> 0:00:53.159 and I didn't even drink that much. I don't think 0:00:53.280 --> 0:00:55.360 much for me no more, I ain't doing this, no 0:00:55.440 --> 0:01:02.880 more to myself. Lies. Two more weekends, bitch, next Sunday 0:01:02.920 --> 0:01:05.600 and then you always getting drunk on a damn Sunday heathen. 0:01:06.560 --> 0:01:09.399 I know I barely leave the house on Sunday. I 0:01:09.480 --> 0:01:12.000 watched church on my computer and then I go get drunk. 0:01:13.720 --> 0:01:16.959 Praise the Lord, because you know I work on Friday 0:01:17.000 --> 0:01:23.080 and Saturday. So Sunday is my Friday, right, Well, what 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:26.080 what did you do over the weekend? Um? I do 0:01:26.200 --> 0:01:28.880 much Ill, hung out with my mama, did some shopping, 0:01:29.600 --> 0:01:35.080 some light Christmas shopping. And you're starting your Christmas shopping already. 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:38.920 I started too. Yeah, but a couple of things. This 0:01:39.000 --> 0:01:41.880 is just for my fucking nieces the nephew because I 0:01:41.920 --> 0:01:43.880 don't buy a grown people ship and now I got 0:01:43.880 --> 0:01:47.280 no negative buy nothing for this year or so you 0:01:47.280 --> 0:01:51.680 can buy me something. I could, but uh but I 0:01:51.760 --> 0:01:57.520 probably won't. I'm giving a lump of cold everybody this year. 0:01:57.680 --> 0:02:03.000 That's it. A lump of cold? Mmmm? What girl, you 0:02:03.000 --> 0:02:05.440 don't know A lump of coal? They would say that 0:02:05.600 --> 0:02:07.760 give you a lump of cold when you were bad 0:02:07.880 --> 0:02:12.720 all year? We say a bag of switches, that's what's saying. 0:02:12.720 --> 0:02:14.560 That's gonna bring you a bag of switches. That's some 0:02:14.600 --> 0:02:19.000 old country charship. So a bag of switches his country, 0:02:19.040 --> 0:02:22.240 but not a bag of coal? Like who the lump 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:26.639 of cold? Who will be talking about cold? Though? Somebody? 0:02:26.720 --> 0:02:32.520 Great grandma, girl, you know where that funk that ship started? 0:02:32.560 --> 0:02:35.959 But where were you for Halloween? I was a bad 0:02:36.000 --> 0:02:42.480 bitch for Halloween girl. I threw that same fucking mask 0:02:42.560 --> 0:02:47.320 on from the basqarade and gave my candy to the kids. 0:02:47.880 --> 0:02:51.080 They were scared. Everybody was so cute. No, it was 0:02:51.120 --> 0:02:54.760 like what you as your Let me Let me tell 0:02:54.760 --> 0:02:56.520 you what happened to me yesterday. I was going to 0:02:56.560 --> 0:02:59.919 the gas station and um, I was walking out of 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:02.240 gas station and there was this girl walking into the 0:03:02.280 --> 0:03:07.120 gas station. And this girl had on some red leather 0:03:07.200 --> 0:03:10.359 plants with a red leather jacket with black stripe on it. 0:03:10.800 --> 0:03:13.520 I was like, oh, that's a fire. Ask Michael Jackson costume. 0:03:13.960 --> 0:03:17.639 She said, bitch, I ain't Michael Jackson. She was mad. 0:03:17.960 --> 0:03:23.640 I was like, man, she was just herself. That was 0:03:23.720 --> 0:03:26.720 just herself. That was her outfit. Bit, you look like 0:03:26.760 --> 0:03:32.200 Michael Jackson and that ship cuss at me, Bitch, I 0:03:32.240 --> 0:03:37.560 ain't Michael Jackson. She chose violence. It's given thriller. It's 0:03:37.600 --> 0:03:42.600 given thrillers. Sis, that's what you should have said back. 0:03:44.160 --> 0:03:46.560 I was just Paul that I had called. She caught 0:03:46.600 --> 0:03:54.080 me a bit. I was just like, so, she wasn't 0:03:54.160 --> 0:03:57.360 even in costume. No, she was in her regular outfit. 0:03:57.600 --> 0:04:00.960 But a little I used about to break out and 0:04:01.040 --> 0:04:06.720 dance so I don't know. So, yeah, that was funny. Yeah, 0:04:06.800 --> 0:04:10.400 my weekend was all right though. But so did you 0:04:10.440 --> 0:04:15.680 see Young Miami's new video, her single. She did not 0:04:15.800 --> 0:04:18.120 see the video, but I listened to the song. I 0:04:18.200 --> 0:04:20.880 liked the song. She can't rap like that, but I 0:04:20.920 --> 0:04:24.640 like the song is funny. She's just funny. Anything she's 0:04:24.640 --> 0:04:28.360 doing is fucking funny. You saw her, Meg the Stallion 0:04:28.440 --> 0:04:32.200 was laughing at her as a rhyming roaches with Yes, 0:04:32.240 --> 0:04:36.000 that was hilarious. She made it extra funny with all 0:04:36.040 --> 0:04:38.560 that laughing. I swear because when I heard this song, 0:04:38.640 --> 0:04:42.040 I did not laugh that hardest until I watched her live, 0:04:42.480 --> 0:04:46.200 until I went to start your live. Yes, but if 0:04:46.200 --> 0:04:48.360 I was your Miami, I'd be like, bitch, it ain't 0:04:48.400 --> 0:04:57.080 that funny right when it's not now like that's the 0:04:57.160 --> 0:05:02.200 trendy s on Instagram now everybody like Look. I wonder 0:05:02.240 --> 0:05:05.800 if Hispanic people think we like appropriating the culture at 0:05:05.800 --> 0:05:13.240 this point right with that ship, I'm sure? Yeah. I 0:05:13.320 --> 0:05:15.800 like the video. Um girl had a whole debate with 0:05:15.839 --> 0:05:20.360 my home girl about rather than not Uh, Young Miami 0:05:20.760 --> 0:05:24.360 sat on Mega Stallion face like girl, it's a fucking 0:05:24.360 --> 0:05:27.040 song and she talking about all the hardest rappers right now, Like, 0:05:27.040 --> 0:05:29.120 why why are we having this debate? Because I really 0:05:29.120 --> 0:05:34.919 don't think that happened. She was just saying it was 0:05:34.960 --> 0:05:36.480 so what she was trying to say that you know, 0:05:36.560 --> 0:05:40.600 Miami sat on meric face for real, Yes, and like 0:05:42.080 --> 0:05:47.680 I would love to see that happen. Universe, make it happen, 0:05:48.640 --> 0:05:50.880 and we are you gonna see that at Like what 0:05:50.960 --> 0:05:53.560 would the situation be for you to be but witness that? 0:05:54.600 --> 0:05:57.640 I don't know, girl, I'm out somewhere in Miami. I 0:05:57.720 --> 0:06:01.320 see Mega and they like hear me. Damn, man, we 0:06:01.480 --> 0:06:04.599 listen to the show. Come over here. I'm actually about 0:06:04.600 --> 0:06:08.560 to go sit on Mega. Say do you want to watch? Yes? 0:06:08.640 --> 0:06:19.359 I do? S's you those stupid something like that? Ah? 0:06:19.680 --> 0:06:25.400 So I know, uh, everybody probably saw what's the guy 0:06:25.960 --> 0:06:35.479 Alpo Martinez Alpha's murder? M N. It's kind of wild, 0:06:36.360 --> 0:06:40.080 right was really it's like karma almost, you know, yeah, 0:06:40.080 --> 0:06:42.400 because if you lived that life like that's what's gonna happen. 0:06:42.760 --> 0:06:46.000 Um should come full circle and then you know he 0:06:46.080 --> 0:06:48.240 got murdered in Harlem, which is where he's from. He 0:06:48.279 --> 0:06:52.000 went to prison at years old or something like that, 0:06:52.080 --> 0:06:55.240 did twenty five years in prison. Snitched on a lot 0:06:55.279 --> 0:06:58.520 of people. You know, a lot of people. I think 0:06:58.520 --> 0:07:06.039 he came home thing. Yeah, so, um, fifty five fifty something, 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:09.600 your old man, you're getting gunned down that old in life. Like, 0:07:09.640 --> 0:07:11.400 why the fund are you even stole in New York? 0:07:12.040 --> 0:07:14.720 Why are you outside three o'clock in the morning in 0:07:14.720 --> 0:07:17.520 New York to even have somebody touch you in that way? 0:07:18.080 --> 0:07:21.240 Because he's still the same nigga. Then when he probably 0:07:21.240 --> 0:07:24.920 come back out, you know, basically, That's what I was saying, Like, 0:07:24.960 --> 0:07:26.680 I just hope he repent for some of the ship 0:07:26.760 --> 0:07:28.360 he did because he's out he was out here making 0:07:28.400 --> 0:07:32.160 YouTube videos talking about how he murdered niggas and all that. 0:07:32.680 --> 0:07:37.320 You know, if you uh, you keep um, it's just 0:07:37.600 --> 0:07:41.720 I don't know. I know. Let me tell you something 0:07:41.760 --> 0:07:45.000 I do know. Prison sure does preserve a niked body, 0:07:45.080 --> 0:07:49.600 Ain't it good? Yeah? He looked nice. Yeah, man, he 0:07:49.800 --> 0:07:52.160 looks good. When they what they'd be eating in there. 0:07:54.040 --> 0:07:58.840 They don't have all these mackero macro can They don't 0:07:58.840 --> 0:08:01.560 have the stressors that we have on the outside. Honey, 0:08:01.560 --> 0:08:04.320 buy got three meals every day. They know it's guaranteed. 0:08:04.360 --> 0:08:08.800 Ain't worried about the rick. They doing exercise every day, 0:08:09.080 --> 0:08:13.000 reading books. So the last video I saw it like 0:08:13.360 --> 0:08:14.920 just a couple of months ago, and he was like, 0:08:15.120 --> 0:08:17.080 you know, motherfucker's need to stop calling me a rat. 0:08:17.120 --> 0:08:20.360 I'm not a rat, you know. I I just uh, 0:08:20.440 --> 0:08:21.880 I did what I had to do as a man, 0:08:21.960 --> 0:08:24.080 and I stand on that as a man. Like, what 0:08:24.080 --> 0:08:27.760 what do you consider a snitch? I consider a snitch 0:08:27.880 --> 0:08:31.080 someone who gets caught in some ship and then start 0:08:31.160 --> 0:08:34.600 telling on everybody else to help themselves. That's a snitch. 0:08:34.960 --> 0:08:37.000 I don't feel like if you have a crime going 0:08:37.040 --> 0:08:40.160 on in your community and you tell that is happening, 0:08:40.240 --> 0:08:43.120 you're not a snitch because you're not involved in it. 0:08:43.200 --> 0:08:45.959 You're just trying to put civilions. Can't be snitches basically 0:08:45.960 --> 0:08:50.760 as a right. I consider snitching is like if you're 0:08:50.800 --> 0:08:53.640 telling on some ship to get a lesser sentence. You're 0:08:53.640 --> 0:08:55.440 telling on some ship that don't have nothing to do 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:58.080 with why you fucked up, They don't have nothing to 0:08:58.120 --> 0:09:00.440 do with your current crime, and you just telling on 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:03.360 a bunch of niggers from where you're from or just whatever, 0:09:03.559 --> 0:09:05.920 just to and then also another snitches because the fans 0:09:05.960 --> 0:09:09.400 will use snitches. The fans. I have some random person 0:09:09.440 --> 0:09:13.000 you've never seen in your life, especially for conspiracy charges, 0:09:13.000 --> 0:09:15.120 because I think you need like to two to three 0:09:15.120 --> 0:09:17.160 witnesses or something like that. So the fans will pay 0:09:17.280 --> 0:09:20.160 a random person to point you out in court saying 0:09:20.200 --> 0:09:24.319 they saw you did something you don't even notice. Person Like, 0:09:24.400 --> 0:09:26.400 that's a snitch, Like you're really working for the fans 0:09:26.440 --> 0:09:28.960 at that point. But I don't consider a snitch like 0:09:29.000 --> 0:09:33.920 I don't consider civilians snitches, and I don't consider like, Um, 0:09:34.000 --> 0:09:37.040 let me give you a perfect example. If I'm driving 0:09:37.080 --> 0:09:40.160 your car and I go commit a crime in your car, 0:09:40.480 --> 0:09:42.840 and then I drop your car back to you. You 0:09:42.960 --> 0:09:44.760 go to the mall the next day in your car, 0:09:45.240 --> 0:09:47.880 and you get pulled over because your car was at 0:09:47.880 --> 0:09:52.000 the scene of a murder, and you get locked up mhm, 0:09:52.679 --> 0:09:54.760 and you tell them, Hey, I wasn't driving my car. 0:09:54.800 --> 0:09:57.080 I let my friend a J hold my car. I 0:09:57.120 --> 0:10:04.000 don't care. Don't bitch a J have my car. Yesterday 0:10:04.440 --> 0:10:07.959 I hear killing motherfucker's in my car. I knew it 0:10:08.120 --> 0:10:10.920 smelled funny in that bitch. When I got back in it, 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:16.360 I say nothing, Yo, You're so stupid. I don't consider 0:10:16.400 --> 0:10:18.520 that snitching. Like, at what point am I gonna be 0:10:18.559 --> 0:10:20.520 the real name and come confess to get my friend 0:10:20.520 --> 0:10:23.280 out of jail. So you're gonna let your friend do 0:10:23.559 --> 0:10:26.240 a honey years on the murder they didn't commit. That's 0:10:26.240 --> 0:10:29.120 not once you brought that car back and didn't say ship. 0:10:29.160 --> 0:10:30.920 That was a firm decision that you was about to 0:10:31.000 --> 0:10:34.440 let your friends go down for you. Hell yeah, yeah, 0:10:34.480 --> 0:10:36.760 but how you But first of all, how you doing murder? 0:10:36.760 --> 0:10:38.480 And just come back and hear me out? You was like, 0:10:38.520 --> 0:10:41.439 ain't that happened, bitch? That was the purpose of getting 0:10:41.480 --> 0:10:44.320 your whip? Like, girl, wait, why are you sweating? You 0:10:44.360 --> 0:10:51.240 just got back from the jail. Yep, shame But man, 0:10:51.400 --> 0:10:55.400 damn alright, Peter Apple, I guess if you you keep 0:10:55.480 --> 0:11:00.200 running for office, you're bound to get elected. Fuck what 0:11:00.240 --> 0:11:04.520 are you doing outside fifty something years old for somebody 0:11:04.559 --> 0:11:06.319 to still be able to touch you? Thirty years? What's 0:11:06.320 --> 0:11:10.760 the acronym for snitch? Sorry, nigga, I'm trying to come 0:11:10.800 --> 0:11:21.599 home Shane, But I don't know, man, it's called I 0:11:21.880 --> 0:11:24.040 just hope he repent for the things he did and 0:11:24.800 --> 0:11:27.320 just ended up in a nice place. I don't know, 0:11:27.360 --> 0:11:30.080 but he was definitely built for this time, Like the 0:11:30.120 --> 0:11:33.720 social media error because we saw painting for we saw 0:11:33.800 --> 0:11:37.600 like how they depicted his character. Um, and he came 0:11:37.640 --> 0:11:39.360 home on the same type of time, Like why are 0:11:39.400 --> 0:11:42.480 you on YouTube, nigga? Like why are you making videos 0:11:42.520 --> 0:11:46.080 about how he murdered somebody like somebody's child? You know, 0:11:46.120 --> 0:11:48.200 but I'm pretty sure all the niggas is probably killers. 0:11:48.240 --> 0:11:55.040 All of them was probably killers. Moving on, Okay, hold 0:11:55.040 --> 0:12:02.040 that thought one second, Let's pay some bills. So what 0:12:02.080 --> 0:12:05.480 I really wanted to talk about today is how the 0:12:05.559 --> 0:12:09.800 fucking internet is trying to drag Jay to Pickett, trying 0:12:09.920 --> 0:12:12.240 they're dragging her for the filth all over up and 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:16.400 down the street by her ball head. There's no way 0:12:16.880 --> 0:12:20.199 that they watched the Red Table talk with the episode 0:12:20.200 --> 0:12:22.360 with her with Gwyneth Faltro on it. It's just no 0:12:22.400 --> 0:12:24.480 way y'all watched it, because if y'all did, I don't 0:12:24.559 --> 0:12:27.520 understand what the hooplaus about. Girl. You know, people will 0:12:27.559 --> 0:12:30.480 read a headline and then determine what they want from 0:12:30.480 --> 0:12:34.280 that headline instead of listening for themselves. I mean, we 0:12:34.360 --> 0:12:38.240 experienced that ship for how like during the election, like 0:12:38.360 --> 0:12:40.160 people here with the funk they want to hear instead 0:12:40.200 --> 0:12:42.800 of going to see exactly what was said and how 0:12:42.880 --> 0:12:44.720 some ship was said, like y'all want to have a 0:12:44.760 --> 0:12:47.120 problem with her. They don't definitely want to have a 0:12:47.120 --> 0:12:49.760 problem with her. Yeah, and if you watched the episode, 0:12:49.760 --> 0:12:51.920 she didn't say nothing wrong because it's really how a 0:12:52.000 --> 0:12:55.480 lot of women. Um. It wasn't profound. Nothing about it 0:12:55.600 --> 0:12:58.280 was profound. She basically was saying, like, you know, you 0:12:58.320 --> 0:13:02.840 can't expect your eight to read your mind. The show. 0:13:02.880 --> 0:13:07.160 The episode was about sex, right, so you can't expect 0:13:07.320 --> 0:13:10.600 you're made to know what you want in the bedroom. 0:13:10.920 --> 0:13:13.280 You have to communicate. I just like to do whatever 0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:15.559 I did to the last nigga, and then if they 0:13:15.600 --> 0:13:19.880 like that, if they're good, if they don't, don't tweak it, baby, right, 0:13:19.960 --> 0:13:25.920 let me know what's up. And that's all she was saying, Like, 0:13:26.000 --> 0:13:28.560 you know, they've been together for twenty they've been married 0:13:28.559 --> 0:13:34.760 for twenty six years, and sometimes you feel like just 0:13:34.840 --> 0:13:36.960 because you know that you're with this person, nation know 0:13:37.080 --> 0:13:40.480 exactly what you want. Men, just like you just said, 0:13:40.679 --> 0:13:43.200 that's usually men. If the last bitch said that dick 0:13:43.240 --> 0:13:46.000 was good, they're running with that. You ain't good until 0:13:46.040 --> 0:13:49.120 I say it's good. That doesn't feel good until I 0:13:49.120 --> 0:13:52.120 say it feels good. Don't assume ship with me, and 0:13:52.120 --> 0:13:53.600 I want you to do the same. Like if it's 0:13:53.600 --> 0:13:58.079 something that you like, communicate that, communicate so I can 0:13:58.120 --> 0:14:00.480 do it, or you know, if you put it on 0:14:00.600 --> 0:14:03.080 with it. Yeah, I'm not it's some I ain't gonna 0:14:03.080 --> 0:14:06.480 do because you know, I don't like swallowing and ship 0:14:06.520 --> 0:14:10.080 like that. I don't know, but you like swallowing. No, 0:14:10.800 --> 0:14:12.680 I only do it on your birthday if I don't 0:14:12.679 --> 0:14:18.560 buy you nothing. I swear to God like you swear 0:14:18.600 --> 0:14:22.120 to guy to talk about swallowing. Girl, here on mine. Look, 0:14:23.920 --> 0:14:30.360 I got you for birthdays, Valentine's Christmas. Like, I'm not 0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:32.040 just about to just let a nigga come in my 0:14:32.080 --> 0:14:34.560 mouth every time, like you gotta hold some ship back 0:14:34.720 --> 0:14:38.720 or these men, you know, they get entitled really fast. 0:14:38.880 --> 0:14:43.000 I don't like that. It's like a smell like pool water. 0:14:43.280 --> 0:14:46.520 It's not mixed together and it tastes like a penny 0:14:46.600 --> 0:14:50.520 Like no, you know, I don't want that in my mouth. 0:14:52.840 --> 0:14:57.640 I don't and don't let it be thick. It's like, look, girl, 0:14:57.760 --> 0:15:01.920 you're about to make me my little family like this. This 0:15:01.600 --> 0:15:04.760 This is why men be hating out black ass because 0:15:04.800 --> 0:15:08.080 you know others they'd be down for that ship. Man. No, 0:15:08.720 --> 0:15:12.280 you can knock come money. That ship is full of calories. 0:15:14.120 --> 0:15:16.120 And my thing is if you if you tongue me 0:15:16.160 --> 0:15:18.440 out with it on my tongue, I'll do it every time. 0:15:19.600 --> 0:15:21.720 They don't want to eat that ship either, exactly. So 0:15:21.760 --> 0:15:23.160 why then are you trying to make me eat some 0:15:23.200 --> 0:15:26.760 ship you don't like? Right, Like, if you don't like 0:15:26.800 --> 0:15:30.960 Brussels sprouts, I'm not going to cook them. So now 0:15:31.000 --> 0:15:34.360 you're trying to force me to like some ship because 0:15:34.360 --> 0:15:37.320 the last bitch let you damn glaze her fucking face 0:15:37.400 --> 0:15:40.560 up and her looking like Crispy Crean with the hotlight on. 0:15:41.160 --> 0:15:46.080 Do it to me? Have boundaries man? So yeah, I 0:15:46.080 --> 0:15:49.120 don't understand with the big Hooplaus and your homeboy, I 0:15:49.200 --> 0:15:51.440 know one of your friends girl. He was going back 0:15:51.480 --> 0:15:55.520 and forth with me uh on Instagram about that. I'm like, 0:15:55.520 --> 0:15:58.800 did you all? My whole response kept being was did 0:15:58.840 --> 0:16:01.960 you watch the whole thing? You didn't watch it? You 0:16:01.960 --> 0:16:07.160 didn't watch it until he said, kay, like you didn't 0:16:07.160 --> 0:16:09.480 watch the video because if you did, like, the internet 0:16:09.520 --> 0:16:13.440 is running out right now. That lady didn't say nothing crazy. 0:16:14.120 --> 0:16:16.480 It's all kind of means like God sent me a wife, 0:16:16.520 --> 0:16:18.880 but I want a wife board, not like Jada, take 0:16:18.920 --> 0:16:22.480 your turn. Jada used to be the epitome of what 0:16:22.600 --> 0:16:30.480 niggas wanted until that entanglement. Boy men show women's they 0:16:30.840 --> 0:16:34.080 they're holding onto that. That's what it is. She can't 0:16:34.120 --> 0:16:38.640 do nothing right because of that entanglement. It entanglement. It 0:16:38.680 --> 0:16:40.680 don't matter what she do after this or what she say, 0:16:40.720 --> 0:16:42.920 they're gonna find a way to make her a bad person. Yeah, 0:16:42.960 --> 0:16:45.040 we're get no grace. And you know, I think we 0:16:45.120 --> 0:16:48.720 talked about that before. During that time, it's like she 0:16:48.800 --> 0:16:51.400 took accountability for what it was that she did right. 0:16:51.400 --> 0:16:52.880 And first of all, this is the show when you 0:16:52.920 --> 0:16:56.760 talked about hard topics and tough discussions, right, They try 0:16:56.800 --> 0:16:59.840 to address all types of things in life. Right, So 0:17:00.440 --> 0:17:03.800 she's always open and honest with the dialogue m h. 0:17:04.600 --> 0:17:08.960 And she took accountability for the entanglement. She could have said. 0:17:09.000 --> 0:17:11.720 She could have deflected and said, oh, well, well you 0:17:11.840 --> 0:17:13.879 did this, you did that, you did this. She didn't 0:17:13.880 --> 0:17:15.960 do that. We don't know what the funk he's done 0:17:16.440 --> 0:17:18.840 because he's not on the talk show to talk about it. 0:17:18.880 --> 0:17:20.720 We don't know what type of ship he's done in 0:17:20.760 --> 0:17:22.600 their marriage, because I'm pretty sure if she on that 0:17:22.720 --> 0:17:26.120 type of time, he's definitely done some ship as well. 0:17:26.600 --> 0:17:28.760 M m. We ain't just about to act like Jada 0:17:28.880 --> 0:17:33.760 just this fucking demon time po out here, right, even 0:17:33.760 --> 0:17:36.359 though I would like to see her. Don't make the 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:48.159 stallion's face as well. What is happening bo ship? You 0:17:48.200 --> 0:17:50.479 know these girls be all here, fake gay girl just 0:17:50.520 --> 0:17:55.320 like your sucking ass. Yeah, let's just be talking. Hey, 0:17:55.440 --> 0:17:58.119 nobody really want to do nothing right because I'd be 0:17:58.200 --> 0:18:00.760 real scared for real Megan's staff, you know, Jada was like, 0:18:00.800 --> 0:18:02.920 come over here and watch us, like, oh my god, 0:18:03.000 --> 0:18:11.840 this is really happening. So I don't know. I feel 0:18:11.880 --> 0:18:14.560 like people need to leave Jada to funk alone. Yeah, 0:18:14.680 --> 0:18:18.760 leave Jada pinking alone. She is to be protected. So 0:18:18.800 --> 0:18:21.800 how do we talk to our mates about? Yeah, what 0:18:21.880 --> 0:18:24.440 we like? Don't do it like that? Do it like this. 0:18:25.760 --> 0:18:28.160 Put your tongue right there, wiggle it, not that hard, 0:18:28.359 --> 0:18:31.440 soft and soften your tongue. Don't make it stiff, baby, 0:18:31.720 --> 0:18:34.200 I am it easy to do it while you're having sex, 0:18:34.240 --> 0:18:36.120 as opposed to happen because a lot of people get 0:18:36.160 --> 0:18:38.720 shy after sex and you're trying to have the conversation 0:18:38.760 --> 0:18:41.480 about what happened during sex. Yeah, you gotta do it 0:18:41.480 --> 0:18:44.720 while in the middle like a puppy. Tell the puppy. 0:18:44.840 --> 0:18:47.440 You can't beat the puppy for peeing on the carpet 0:18:48.000 --> 0:18:50.439 long after he peed. He gonna know what you're mad 0:18:50.480 --> 0:18:53.520 about exactly. You gotta tell him why he got his 0:18:53.560 --> 0:18:58.400 tongue in your coochie? How you like your couchie lit exactly? Like, yeah, 0:18:58.520 --> 0:19:00.600 do do like this, Like let me see your tongue 0:19:00.600 --> 0:19:02.840 while you're doing That's my favorite thing. I want to 0:19:02.920 --> 0:19:06.399 see you do it. No, I need your face to 0:19:06.520 --> 0:19:13.080 disappear in it home face gone, that's my hat. I 0:19:13.119 --> 0:19:15.600 just want you to come up for oxygen're life and 0:19:15.600 --> 0:19:17.439 then go back in like you in the pool. I 0:19:17.440 --> 0:19:20.960 don't like sixty nine because I like to see like 0:19:21.560 --> 0:19:24.320 I don't like the sixty nine because how am I 0:19:24.440 --> 0:19:29.280 enjoying myself if I'm working too? But then I feel 0:19:29.280 --> 0:19:34.720 like I'm too heavy on the nigger, like are you okay? 0:19:34.920 --> 0:19:39.840 While bunks over that nigger forehead? Like are you okay? 0:19:39.840 --> 0:19:43.080 You breathe? He'll let you know, spoop your answer all 0:19:43.119 --> 0:19:51.320 the way. Hold on, tam, let's pay some bills. You 0:19:51.359 --> 0:19:53.399 know what else. I don't like that I have to 0:19:53.400 --> 0:19:57.560 communicate to a man sometimes, you know, like a boyfriend 0:19:57.720 --> 0:20:02.439 or somebody that you're you've been involved with for a while. 0:20:02.840 --> 0:20:05.960 You know, condoms probably been out the window. I don't 0:20:06.040 --> 0:20:11.359 like sperm in my pussy. I don't like sperm in 0:20:11.400 --> 0:20:15.080 my vagina. I don't know nothing about that life child. 0:20:15.800 --> 0:20:18.800 Oh yeah, because you like a habitual condom user, and 0:20:18.800 --> 0:20:25.200 I'm gonna habitual nasty bitch. I can't outstand. I don't 0:20:25.200 --> 0:20:29.159 like him either. But I don't have like a I 0:20:29.160 --> 0:20:33.439 don't trust these niggas. Man, So I don't have like 0:20:33.480 --> 0:20:37.560 I haven't had like a committed relationship in a long time, 0:20:37.720 --> 0:20:40.679 but I have been having sex. So I always have 0:20:40.800 --> 0:20:44.600 to use the condom because this nigga could have just 0:20:44.680 --> 0:20:46.840 left somebody's house right before he came here, for all 0:20:46.880 --> 0:20:49.320 I know. But so can a boyfriend. A boyfriend could 0:20:49.320 --> 0:20:51.800 do the same thing. Yeah, but at least there's trust there, 0:20:51.960 --> 0:20:57.600 you know a little bit. I don't trust these niggas. 0:20:56.280 --> 0:20:59.560 So soon as they walk out of outside, soon as 0:20:59.600 --> 0:21:04.200 they out of ear shot of eyesight, the trust is gone. 0:21:05.280 --> 0:21:08.320 I don't know. I just really don't be I think 0:21:08.320 --> 0:21:12.240 in my next. I don't know, homa be, but I don't. 0:21:12.720 --> 0:21:14.320 I don't want to stress about half of the ship 0:21:14.400 --> 0:21:19.879 I used to stress about, just like if this person cheating, 0:21:20.280 --> 0:21:22.879 I don't want to stress about that. You know earlier 0:21:22.960 --> 0:21:24.560 on like should be really shaky, Like I don't want 0:21:24.600 --> 0:21:25.880 to have to go through that. I don't even feel 0:21:25.880 --> 0:21:28.840 like having those those thoughts about what the nigga doing. 0:21:29.800 --> 0:21:34.800 I don't even care. I do care now and then 0:21:34.920 --> 0:21:38.240 don't have no bitches reaching out to me like the fuck. 0:21:39.680 --> 0:21:42.920 Oh so last our last episode, we had our dad's 0:21:43.000 --> 0:21:49.520 all right, so of course the mama's So my mom 0:21:49.720 --> 0:21:53.320 heard the part where my daddy was like, um, you know, 0:21:53.400 --> 0:21:58.239 no woman ever came between him and his marriage. And 0:21:58.280 --> 0:22:00.359 I tried to explain to her, like it's because in 0:22:00.440 --> 0:22:02.879 his mind, like no woman ever reached I said that 0:22:02.840 --> 0:22:05.000 it has. Did a woman ever reach out to you 0:22:05.640 --> 0:22:07.800 and say, hey, I'm sucking your husband or your husband 0:22:07.800 --> 0:22:10.040 be doing? She was like, nah, so this is what 0:22:10.160 --> 0:22:12.440 he's talking about. Like he never carried on a whole 0:22:12.480 --> 0:22:17.560 relationship with somebody else, So that means it's not like 0:22:17.640 --> 0:22:21.160 somebody to him, somebody there was no one to call, 0:22:21.320 --> 0:22:23.600 No one caused him and his wife not to be together. 0:22:23.920 --> 0:22:30.560 He doesn't calculate like cheating. That's like the fun, no 0:22:30.640 --> 0:22:33.200 matter the age, because mind you, my daddy is seventy 0:22:33.240 --> 0:22:36.680 and he would be seventy one on they this month 0:22:37.640 --> 0:22:40.639 and still to this day, that nigga is not admitting 0:22:40.840 --> 0:22:45.840 to fucking cheating dog grave Like it's not going to 0:22:45.920 --> 0:22:52.280 come out of his mouth. That's so weird. I do 0:22:52.520 --> 0:22:54.880 y'all ain't together. Y'all haven't been together in a long time, 0:22:54.960 --> 0:23:06.119 like did it the book? Oh God? But back to 0:23:06.160 --> 0:23:07.960 this day, I was sperm in a cucci Like, I 0:23:08.000 --> 0:23:13.199 just don't like that. So I got a random sex fact, Uh, 0:23:14.000 --> 0:23:18.040 a random sex fact. It's actually called um so. The 0:23:18.160 --> 0:23:20.680 article is on the New York Post and it says 0:23:21.880 --> 0:23:27.280 what is fluid bonding? Intimate sex act is growing in popularity. 0:23:27.560 --> 0:23:32.720 Fluid bonding, the act of intentionally sharing bodily fluids with 0:23:32.840 --> 0:23:39.119 the sexual partner, is uh purportedly becoming a popular practice 0:23:39.200 --> 0:23:42.560 and bedrooms across the nation. While the origins of the 0:23:42.600 --> 0:23:48.200 frisky phrase are unclear, a variety of publications are now 0:23:48.240 --> 0:23:52.480 reporting on the randy activity. These fucking who wrote this? 0:23:53.000 --> 0:23:57.000 The randy activity, which refers to far more than simply 0:23:57.320 --> 0:24:04.080 foregoing a condom during sex usual unprotected What the fuck? Usually, girl, 0:24:04.600 --> 0:24:07.880 you can't never read? You just say what the funk? 0:24:07.920 --> 0:24:11.320 Like you'd be reading good and like and I had 0:24:11.359 --> 0:24:18.040 a shot at to quell a bit, like I would 0:24:18.080 --> 0:24:20.800 just be open and honest with everybody. Bitch can barely 0:24:20.880 --> 0:24:24.320 spell sometimes right, and I suck at fucking reading. And 0:24:24.400 --> 0:24:29.760 once you say your shortcomings out loud is up from there, y'all. 0:24:29.680 --> 0:24:37.680 I know, God damn me weather, bitch use that vision 0:24:37.720 --> 0:24:39.960 the class when the teaching me, Like Ashley, you read, 0:24:40.000 --> 0:24:43.159 I used to be able to I used to be 0:24:43.240 --> 0:24:45.760 able to read it, not Ashley. Were never going to 0:24:45.840 --> 0:24:57.400 recess yo, like it's now because I'm so far moved 0:24:57.400 --> 0:25:00.720 for fucking school, bitch, bitch give me the sex fact? 0:25:00.800 --> 0:25:06.840 What kind of flue without mixing? Bitch? Gud day Okay, 0:25:06.920 --> 0:25:10.400