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<v Speaker 1>This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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<v Speaker 1>with our radio.

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<v Speaker 2>It's time for Bachelornation headlines.

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<v Speaker 3>We're here this week.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm almostening to this podcast breaking down everything good, bad,

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<v Speaker 2>ugly anddifferent happening within Bachelor Nation.

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<v Speaker 3>Ashley, we have.

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<v Speaker 2>The first big headline of the week. The Bachelor alum

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<v Speaker 2>Daisy can't reveal she and boyfriend Thor. What an incredible

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<v Speaker 2>can you believe? No, just I have a picture in

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<v Speaker 2>my mind of him right now. I think I've seen

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<v Speaker 2>him a few times, but like in my mind, I'm thinking,

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<v Speaker 2>like hot guy.

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<v Speaker 4>He doesn't look like Thor whatsoever. Like he's not attractive,

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<v Speaker 4>but he's not like this big burly Thor. He does

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<v Speaker 4>not go along with his name.

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<v Speaker 2>They're now roommates, Ashley. What's happening here? Like I'm assuming

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<v Speaker 2>they're living together is the headline?

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<v Speaker 5>Their roommates.

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<v Speaker 4>In the way that they are now the roommates, it's

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<v Speaker 4>a funny way of saying she's living with her boyfriend out.

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<v Speaker 4>She met him in San Diego at school San Diego

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<v Speaker 4>State University, and when he told her initially, hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>from Las Vegas, she was like, Wow, people live in Vegas,

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<v Speaker 4>Like as a real thing, and he was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>and now here she is. They just moved to Vegas,

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<v Speaker 4>they built the house, and right now they're moving all

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<v Speaker 4>her stuff. They're going back and forth on road trips

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<v Speaker 4>because it's four hours from la which is where she

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<v Speaker 4>was living, moving all the stuff over.

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<v Speaker 2>It feels like this would be different if they just

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<v Speaker 2>from Vegas. No, building the house together feels like we're

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<v Speaker 2>looking I'm just gonna assume we're looking at this step

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<v Speaker 2>now to engagement, Like you don't build a house with

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<v Speaker 2>somebody without seriously thinking that your future.

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<v Speaker 3>Is with them.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, totally agree.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well, speaking of building houses with people, Caitlin Bristow,

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<v Speaker 2>she suddenly defends herself a mid rumors she's dating Adams

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<v Speaker 2>ex Zach Clark. Wait, I thought these rumors started two

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<v Speaker 2>years ago.

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<v Speaker 5>Well they have. It's not been two years. Let's not

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<v Speaker 5>push it.

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<v Speaker 4>But it has been over a year since Caitlin and

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<v Speaker 4>Zach were first spotted at that New Year's Eve party

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<v Speaker 4>on Instagram and people saw them, but they haven't really

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<v Speaker 4>been seen very much since then. Maybe a dinner or

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<v Speaker 4>two in New York City based on a good rosy camera.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, right, Well, anyway, Tasha had.

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<v Speaker 4>Something to do with Bumble's TikTok account, like a takeover

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<v Speaker 4>or something like that, and somebody asked whether dating a

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<v Speaker 4>best friend's ex was a pro or a con, and

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<v Speaker 4>of course she said no, who dates a best friend's ex?

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<v Speaker 4>And then a fan taed Caitlin and said something along

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<v Speaker 4>the line of take notes like, hey, Caitlin, you shouldn't

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<v Speaker 4>date your best friend's X, to which Caitlin responded with

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<v Speaker 4>they said best friend And to Schae, Caitlyn and Tasha

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<v Speaker 4>weren't never best friends, nothing even close to it. Apparently

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<v Speaker 4>they had tension throughout them co hosting the show. So, guys,

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<v Speaker 4>even though on TV they appear to be very close friends,

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<v Speaker 4>this is not what it was.

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<v Speaker 3>So they're good at their jobs, is what we're saying.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yes, it's very good at their jobs. Well, you

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<v Speaker 4>have the further thoughts on this, Benjamin, you're laughing.

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<v Speaker 3>I just I think this.

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<v Speaker 2>I think at some point people have to realize to

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<v Speaker 2>not poke the bear of Caitlyn Bristow, Like she has

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<v Speaker 2>no boundaries and she's so witty and she's so unapologetic

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<v Speaker 2>that like Caitlyn is a very honest, truthful person. We

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<v Speaker 2>know that about her. We're friends with her, she will

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<v Speaker 2>say what's on her mind, which gets her into trouble

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<v Speaker 2>and also is what we love about Kaitlin Bristow. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but as a result, at some point, let's say a

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<v Speaker 2>scenario exists where her and Zach Clark have been dating

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<v Speaker 2>for the last year, since they've been seen at a

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<v Speaker 2>New Year's party together and then seeing consistently over the

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<v Speaker 2>last year together off and on at dinners and whatever, like,

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<v Speaker 2>at some point Tasha, who I also think is great,

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<v Speaker 2>would just say, this isn't a topic I want to

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<v Speaker 2>broach any longer, because when I say something, Caitlin comes

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<v Speaker 2>in a thousand times harder.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it was a generic question to day the best

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<v Speaker 4>friend zact. But I guess she took the question because

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<v Speaker 4>you know, and also, who the hell is ever going

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<v Speaker 4>to say yes to that? Like, I think that person,

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<v Speaker 4>whoever was the person asking the question, was obviously just

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<v Speaker 4>trying to get a fun reaction.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, sure, it's still a story until it's not. But

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<v Speaker 2>the longer this day, his story I think is is

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<v Speaker 2>Tasia still with her boyfriend?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>We haven't seen them a bit for a bit, but

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<v Speaker 4>they were always very private.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So really, who knows?

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<v Speaker 3>It?

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<v Speaker 2>Just want to be fun to talk about your ex

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<v Speaker 2>of so many years ago consistently. I cannot imagine it's

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<v Speaker 2>good for your personal dating life. So and I just wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I just wouldn't get into a public battle with Caitlin, like,

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<v Speaker 2>I just wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 4>It's scary, but you know, this isn't really a huge

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<v Speaker 4>public battle of It's just little. It's just a little

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<v Speaker 4>social media chatter. Nobody said it's a big interview.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a good point. That's a good point a few.

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<v Speaker 5>Months ago to just take a little something and.

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<v Speaker 6>Run with it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, a few months ago, maybe it would have been

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<v Speaker 2>a bigger story. When Caitlyn, I think said something like

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<v Speaker 2>I should have sent her a picture of something.

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<v Speaker 3>You remember that?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, that was a moment.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know that was a moment.

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<v Speaker 2>Rachel Lindsay has a new dating partner, Willie Jones, country star.

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<v Speaker 2>You've probably heard of Willy Jones because he has a

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<v Speaker 2>ton of followers for a country artist, especially on social media.

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<v Speaker 2>He's best known for really two songs, but he has

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of great hits out there. The two songs

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<v Speaker 2>he's best known for are American Dream and down for

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<v Speaker 2>He worked with Beyonce on her massive Cowboy Carter album. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>Rachel Lindsay and Willie Jones were rumored to be together. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>it's been quite a while now. Honestly, I think they

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<v Speaker 2>were initially kind of rumored to be together about a

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<v Speaker 2>year ago, kind of following the divorce from Brian, but

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<v Speaker 2>nothing really came out except for this weekend. The two

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<v Speaker 2>stepped out together at the Celebrities and Artists Unite at

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<v Speaker 2>Project Angel Foods event Angel Art so they were seen together,

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<v Speaker 2>confirming that there is something going on. A source says

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<v Speaker 2>that he's a really cool guy. They're super happy for

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<v Speaker 2>Rachel and they're really happy about the situation.

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<v Speaker 3>Now.

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<v Speaker 2>To clarify, they're initially linked late last year, so it

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<v Speaker 2>hasn't been a full year. So late last year, somewhere

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<v Speaker 2>in the November to December timeframe, people started to rumor

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<v Speaker 2>that maybe the two were dating. Her legal paperwork to

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<v Speaker 2>end their marriage with Brian was started in January twenty

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<v Speaker 2>twenty four. Rachel didn't give any comment on the status

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<v Speaker 2>of that this time. So, Rachel Lindsay and Willie Jones

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<v Speaker 2>are officially we could say, like a pair something's going

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<v Speaker 2>on there. He's a cool guy, cording sources. She's really happy.

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<v Speaker 2>We're really happy for her. All Right, We're going to

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<v Speaker 2>completely switch gears to talking about something that we've been

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<v Speaker 2>covering and also an interview that we had. We had

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<v Speaker 2>an interview with Kevin, who is Ali Fittatowski's husband, Kevin Mano.

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<v Speaker 2>Right before he had surgery, he was having his thyroid

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<v Speaker 2>remove due to having.

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<v Speaker 3>A cancer diagnosis.

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<v Speaker 2>So we are switching gears to talk about cancer here

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<v Speaker 2>with two Bachelor contestants that we love very dearly.

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<v Speaker 3>And here's the headline.

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<v Speaker 2>Ali Fittatowski shares update about her husband Kevin's thyroid cancer.

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<v Speaker 2>Here is the update. He is officially cancer free.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, we are so happy for him.

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<v Speaker 4>She said. The surgery one great. They only took half

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<v Speaker 4>the thyroide out. When they wait into the surgery, they

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<v Speaker 4>weren't sure if they were gonna to take the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 4>I happening and they're still determining, like if he's gonna

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<v Speaker 4>have to be on meds for life. But he is

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<v Speaker 4>just recovering well and the pathology report came back negative

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<v Speaker 4>and we are we're really happy that they can rest

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<v Speaker 4>easy now.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's we did. If you haven't listened to that interview.

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<v Speaker 2>We did have an interview with Kevin right before he

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<v Speaker 2>went into surgery, and the dynamic within the family was

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<v Speaker 2>supportive and encouraging and also had a little nerves. Yeah, positive,

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<v Speaker 2>but nerves to it because if I remember, Kevin hadn't

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<v Speaker 2>really had many surgeries in his life and this is

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<v Speaker 2>obviously a big one. So for him to be officially

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<v Speaker 2>cancer free is such a big deal. We hope he

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<v Speaker 2>gets back to his job, which is as a radio host,

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<v Speaker 2>very quickly, because I know that was a concern.

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<v Speaker 3>Also, well, we talked about this quite a bit.

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<v Speaker 2>And here is the next update within this dynas Katie

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<v Speaker 2>Thurston reveals she's moving to New York, which is a

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<v Speaker 2>big deal. I don't think that was necessarily talked about

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<v Speaker 2>at the beginning, and she gives an update on her

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<v Speaker 2>breast cancer diagnosis. Her statement is Ashley, at this point,

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<v Speaker 2>it's likely stage three.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, which would mean that it's spread to lymph notes.

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<v Speaker 6>I believe, even though I thought that last week she

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<v Speaker 6>said that she that they it wasn't found in the

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<v Speaker 6>lymph notes when they did.

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<v Speaker 4>When they did it also to ructionally in there so

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<v Speaker 4>I'm interested to know. I not pretend to be a

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<v Speaker 4>doctor right now. I would think that if it wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>in the lymph notes, that it wouldn't be stage three.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm just gonna say exactly what Katie has said

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<v Speaker 4>right now. She said that it's triple positive invasive ductyl

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<v Speaker 4>karsonoma to be determined on the stage, likely stage three.

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<v Speaker 4>And she found the lump herself. She said it was.

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<v Speaker 5>Just how it.

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<v Speaker 4>She was like, it just felt like a lump. Answer

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<v Speaker 4>does discriminate. I probably first felt the lump in August.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't do what I did and delay. So yes, that

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<v Speaker 4>is a teaching lesson here. And then she also said

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<v Speaker 4>that people were asking her on Instagram different questions and

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<v Speaker 4>she's answering a few of them, and somebody asked what

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<v Speaker 4>did it feel like? And she said, it kind of

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<v Speaker 4>feel like a not, sort of like when your body's

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<v Speaker 4>sore and you have someone massage on a not on

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<v Speaker 4>your back. She goes, like, sometimes you get like a

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<v Speaker 4>weird bump after a bruise. It was kind of like that,

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<v Speaker 4>And she said, funny enough, my old doctor always checked

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<v Speaker 4>me for lumps when I would go do my annual PAP.

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<v Speaker 4>But my current provider didn't, So it's really up to

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<v Speaker 4>you to do these self checks.

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<v Speaker 2>Ashley, how I mean this might be a personal question.

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<v Speaker 2>Just tell me to shut up. How often do you

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<v Speaker 2>check yourself?

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<v Speaker 4>Well? See, I talked about this on the The Doctor

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<v Speaker 4>conversation I had about breast cancer that like, I have

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<v Speaker 4>had two bread biopsies, and right, this is like so

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<v Speaker 4>tam I I mentioned just about like the feel of

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<v Speaker 4>my boobs are different now after having kids than it

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<v Speaker 4>was prior.

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<v Speaker 5>They used to be like a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, well, yes that is common, but I I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't breastfeed, so I wasn't I wouldn't expect there to

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<v Speaker 4>be as much of a difference in the field, and

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<v Speaker 4>there was, and now there's so much easier to feel

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<v Speaker 4>through than they were before. I guess, you know, to

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<v Speaker 4>answer your question quite bluntly, I really don't do any

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<v Speaker 4>self checks, but I do sometimes.

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<v Speaker 5>This is the weirdest thing I ever kinna say.

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<v Speaker 4>But I do like play with my boobs enough that

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<v Speaker 4>I would I kind of would feel them, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>like sometimes you just.

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<v Speaker 5>Grab on chest.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's like you're doing it now, which is not necessary.

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<v Speaker 3>No, but.

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<v Speaker 5>I know this doesn't seem like a laughing matter.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know, sometimes you guys as men would just like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, rub your chest, rub your shoulders somehow, it

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<v Speaker 4>just like kind of like put my fingers through.

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<v Speaker 5>Boobs, and I think I would note it.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I would notice because of that sort of habit,

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<v Speaker 4>and especially now with the texture that they're at, and

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<v Speaker 4>texture might be a weird worst. The consistency, I would

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<v Speaker 4>absolutely doesn't listen to this, dude, it's like your texture,

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<v Speaker 4>your consistency, like cow wife. I would certainly feel it

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<v Speaker 4>just by like feeling around myself that. But I should

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<v Speaker 4>have more intentional moments of check.

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<v Speaker 2>What is the recommended Like if you once a month in.

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<v Speaker 5>The soapy fingers smoothing.

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<v Speaker 2>Over, okay, you should like intentionally check once a month. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>what is recommended at this point is because I know

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of people way young of age and we've

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, this Katie Thurston story is one that I've

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<v Speaker 2>been following very closely. Her her fiance has been incredibly

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<v Speaker 2>supportive and also bringing humor to a really difficult situation,

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<v Speaker 2>like in the.

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<v Speaker 3>Most beautiful of ways.

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<v Speaker 2>But the recommended is once a month, Ashley, you should

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<v Speaker 2>be checking yourself intentionally for any lumps, bumps, not anything, yes, okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Sure, arm up in the air, elbow over all over.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, checking around. Okay, So anybody listening if they're wondering,

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<v Speaker 2>that is the recommended amount. That is what we ask

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<v Speaker 2>everybody to do, because this is becoming like this isn't

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<v Speaker 2>this has always been a thing, but it's not. It's

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<v Speaker 2>becoming more of a prevalent thing with people of younger

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<v Speaker 2>age here as of the last few years.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, Yes, and same with colon cancer, which is so scary.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's uh, it's something to talk about. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Thinking about Katie Goodness, gracious, her life has taken such

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<v Speaker 2>a turn. I think I saw today that she was

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<v Speaker 2>even in help, like getting her eggs frozen or thinking

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<v Speaker 2>about that.

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<v Speaker 5>Guys, we should definitely talk about that for a second. Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So she has been super open on her Instagram stories,

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<v Speaker 4>and she's got a great she's always kind of has

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<v Speaker 4>a great attitude, and she is still presenting herself a

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<v Speaker 4>pretty upbeat on her stories. And somebody asked her, why

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<v Speaker 4>are you doing the egg freezing before doing chemo? And

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<v Speaker 4>that's because chemo can oftentimes just you know.

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<v Speaker 5>Make your egg situation a little less fruitful. And then even.

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<v Speaker 4>If the chemo didn't have an effect on her eggs,

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<v Speaker 4>they still recommend to not have to not have children

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<v Speaker 4>within two years of wrapping up chemo and radiation.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a lot. It feels like a lot for

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<v Speaker 2>her to process right now. So again our thoughts with

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<v Speaker 2>her and her fiance.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm really glad that she has him, Like, it's really

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<v Speaker 4>nice to see their relationship and like and because he's

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<v Speaker 4>a comedian, it just seems like he's always keeping her

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<v Speaker 4>in a fun mood.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think that's so I said, he's like bringing

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<v Speaker 2>a humor, not that he's making light of a situation

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<v Speaker 2>that is really hard on her, but he continues to

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<v Speaker 2>make her laugh in the midst of something very difficult,

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<v Speaker 2>which is is such a beautiful thing to witness from

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<v Speaker 2>social media, and I think such an like an incredible

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<v Speaker 2>role for him to play. It's it's absolutely spectacular. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's also a situation where we're here thinking about

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<v Speaker 2>her lifting her up in prayer, lifting her up in

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<v Speaker 2>like support because it is it's extremely difficult. And I

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<v Speaker 2>saw her Instagram story today of you know, going through

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<v Speaker 2>the process of freezing.

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<v Speaker 4>Her eggs, which is demanding emotionally and physically as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yeah, goodness like that. I mean we've talked to

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<v Speaker 2>people have done that before. It's very difficult. So Katie,

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<v Speaker 2>you're with us if you listen to this, or if

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<v Speaker 2>you see a headline that pops up, and then please,

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<v Speaker 2>if you're out there and you're somebody really I think

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<v Speaker 2>they say a man or woman, but especially women, but

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<v Speaker 2>a man or a woman, like check yourself for these

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<v Speaker 2>lumps that pop up in your body. And if you

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<v Speaker 2>have one, don't ignore it.

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<v Speaker 3>Check it.

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<v Speaker 2>Know your body, and don't just be like Ashley where

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<v Speaker 2>you're sitting here on a podcast all of a sudden

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<v Speaker 2>feeling yourself up and not thinking about why you're doing it.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually do it intentionally.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh that was a good moment. It was a good,

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<v Speaker 5>funny moment for us.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, guys, Well until next time, we love you.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm weird and I've been actually.

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<v Speaker 3>And I've been Ben, We'll talk to you soony.

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