Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect
Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode
Speaker 1: of Reasonably Shady. I am Giselle Bryant, which I was
Speaker 1: up this Robin Dixon, thank you for being here, y'all.
Speaker 1: Was that was up? You know? I like this time
Speaker 1: of year? Really yeah. It's like cold. You get in
Speaker 1: your house, you drink some hot chocolate, you put some
Speaker 1: licking in it. You would like this time of year? No, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: let me back up. I am a sunny time girl,
Speaker 1: like I like the sun in the summer and all that.
Speaker 1: But like this time of year, like around the holidays,
Speaker 1: the Christmas music is playing, Like don't you feel like nostalgia?
Speaker 1: I mean I do like certain parts of it. Yes,
Speaker 1: the Christmas music. Yeah, I haven't put my decorations up yet,
Speaker 1: but actually probably by the time y'all hear this, they
Speaker 1: probably will be up Christmas music. And but I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: the cold, the dark like that just takes over. That
Speaker 1: just ruins it all. Okay, very true, very true. The warm.
Speaker 1: But I do like making like warm meals, you know,
Speaker 1: like I made of a white chicken chili and then
Speaker 1: just act chili and like yeah, like soups and stuff
Speaker 1: like I love that, but this time of year, I
Speaker 1: don't know. But then, okay, I feel like we take
Speaker 1: it for granted because if you know, we live here
Speaker 1: and it gets dark and cold, maybe I should appreciate
Speaker 1: it more because like if you you know, look at
Speaker 1: people who live in Florida, like they don't get like
Speaker 1: they're like, it is Christmas, feel like Christmas? Probably not,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Well, depends on how big
Speaker 1: the presents are, right, yes, indeed, But any way, what
Speaker 1: is your reasonably shading moment? Can I get mine? Now
Speaker 1: that it's the holidays? Okay, so you know what the
Speaker 1: holidays um a lot of charities reach out for like
Speaker 1: to donate money. It's not the holidays because it's the
Speaker 1: end of the year. End of the year people are
Speaker 1: making to make their end of the year donation. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: and people need to give into the year money so
Speaker 1: that it could go against the taxes text right off. Okay,
Speaker 1: so it's kind of like the police department, fire department, churches,
Speaker 1: food banks, all of that. So for whatever reason, and
Speaker 1: I thought we were having a good relationship that's called
Speaker 1: me and Jamal, he has given everybody my phone number.
Speaker 1: So I get text messages and it's like, Hi, Jamal Bryant,
Speaker 1: please don't forget to give blah blah blah blah blah bhoa.
Speaker 1: So I screenshot it. I sent it to him and
Speaker 1: I screamed stop. But like, you're so shady for that,
Speaker 1: Like why are you giving these people my not right?
Speaker 1: How is that happening? Because he's something, he's out somewhere
Speaker 1: and he doesn't want to deal or be bothered ever again.
Speaker 1: And he knows my number by heart, but the only
Speaker 1: number he knows my heart outside of his, and he
Speaker 1: gives them my number. Oh my god, why don't he
Speaker 1: just give a mess up one of the numbers? Why
Speaker 1: don't he give a number? I don't know, but he
Speaker 1: like gives them my number and it drives me crazy.
Speaker 1: So like I the other day, one came through and
Speaker 1: I called him. He was actually out of the country.
Speaker 1: I called him FaceTime and I'm like, Jamal, stop giving
Speaker 1: people my number. He's like, I didn't do that, and
Speaker 1: he busted out laughing. What you're gonna laugh and tell
Speaker 1: on yourself? You're so shady. Stop it. That's funny, that's hilarious. Now,
Speaker 1: that you mentioned the whole like everyone asking for money.
Speaker 1: That made me think of, um, a phone call I
Speaker 1: got the other day, so I was like, you know,
Speaker 1: waiting on the delivery or something, so like the phone
Speaker 1: rang I didn't recognize the number and I answered it
Speaker 1: usually I won't answer it, and it was like, Hi,
Speaker 1: this is the I don't think it was like the
Speaker 1: Fraternal Order of Police or something. I don't know. It
Speaker 1: was like a police department. Hi, this is the police department.
Speaker 1: We're raising money for blah blah blah blah blah blah
Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. Will you donate
Speaker 1: this year? And then it was like you should said
Speaker 1: the blood. Don't nate last year. Well wait, so I'm
Speaker 1: like so then I say, is this a human or
Speaker 1: is this a robot? And he goes, this is you
Speaker 1: were speaking to a live human and and I was like,
Speaker 1: I think this is a robot. This is not a human.
Speaker 1: What difference does it make, Robert, Because it was one
Speaker 1: of those robot calls. It's literally like they they you know,
Speaker 1: they call you and it's it's literally a recorded call,
Speaker 1: and based on your responses, then that's what their responses.
Speaker 1: So if I was like, oh, yes, I'd love to donate,
Speaker 1: and they'll be like, okay, well blah blah blah, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. So I was just like, literally
Speaker 1: but it was like, I don't want to talk to
Speaker 1: a robot, Okay, you want to talk to a real person. Yeah,
Speaker 1: It's just that just annoyed me. And then he literally
Speaker 1: the robot literally fake coughed and said, no, you were
Speaker 1: talking to a live human like, no, I'm not, I'm
Speaker 1: talking to a recording. So is that a shady moment? No,
Speaker 1: I just thought of that when you were just talking,
Speaker 1: because that is shady. That is very shady. But they're
Speaker 1: pretending to be people. Yes, But it's if you just
Speaker 1: like Paul, if someone calls, if you get one of
Speaker 1: those you know, I don't know, solicitors asking for money
Speaker 1: and you pause and then you don't say anything, then
Speaker 1: just know, like in a couple of seconds, they'll be like,
Speaker 1: so can we account on your your donation? And it's
Speaker 1: like do they sound like that rob? They do away. Okay,
Speaker 1: So my my shade moment is gross. Okay, So Corey
Speaker 1: had this big old pimple on his nose. Oh god, Okay,
Speaker 1: it's so big and he couldn't take anymore. He's like,
Speaker 1: can you pop my pimple? I'm like, okay, oh god,
Speaker 1: this is gross. Gross. So I have this little like
Speaker 1: metal tool like to pop pimples. You know, it has
Speaker 1: like the little hole. It's like a little small then
Speaker 1: metal tool and it's like, you know, a hole in it.
Speaker 1: So you like put it on the pimple and you
Speaker 1: push it down and and you get the pimple out. Okay.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, okay, I got this tool. So I
Speaker 1: put it on his nose and I pushed it down.
Speaker 1: That damn pimple squirted on my mouth. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: oh god, I'll discussed it. I'm on the floor. I'm
Speaker 1: not on the floor. That thing just like so on
Speaker 1: my face and my shirt and I was like, oh, Corey,
Speaker 1: just it was cracking up. I'm like it was okay,
Speaker 1: this that was not a shady moment. That's a disgusting moment. Okay,
Speaker 1: we've passed shady. We're at disgusting. It was and now
Speaker 1: it was on your face. It's so gross. Oh so okay,
Speaker 1: that's discussed that. I didn't tell you that's the time.
Speaker 1: I yeah, I told you about like my brother, I
Speaker 1: wanted to see what the part looked like. So you
Speaker 1: lit it onf I no, I told you this, then
Speaker 1: I'll tell you all this before. It just reminds me
Speaker 1: do anything. Well, I didn't talk about this on the podcast,
Speaker 1: You're gonna talk about it now because now we want
Speaker 1: to know what a heart looks like. So when that happened,
Speaker 1: it reminded me of that because when we were younger,
Speaker 1: you know, I was like we my brother and I
Speaker 1: were wondering what a fart looked like. Really, well, who's
Speaker 1: wondering this? Because a fart is gas, so it looks
Speaker 1: like nothing. Well, we needed to prove it, so I came, okay,
Speaker 1: I didn't share this. So literally, the next time he
Speaker 1: had to fart, he's like, okay, I gotta fart. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna put my pants down and I'm gonna fart, okay,
Speaker 1: and you look. So he pulled his pants down, he
Speaker 1: farted in some fart to squired it out. What's my face?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, this episode is going to be really
Speaker 1: short and I'm going to leave because I'm discussed? Did
Speaker 1: I am utterly just I was discussing when she said
Speaker 1: he pulled his pants down, like that's where you lost me,
Speaker 1: and then you tell me fart juice came out. I'm done.
Speaker 1: So that's what I fart looks like. No, it wasn't
Speaker 1: a shart, it was clear fart. I don't even know
Speaker 1: what fart juice is. For the record, Okay, Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: I guess this is my first time sharing though. Yes,
Speaker 1: and don't ever share that and tell no one when
Speaker 1: I tell you, tell no one. Oops. M Okay, we're
Speaker 1: gonna move on, I because we have to move on
Speaker 1: because that was just absurd. I'm sorry, y'all. All right?
Speaker 1: So I read this the other day, Nina Parker. We
Speaker 1: love Nina Parker. Is she still on? Um E didn't
Speaker 1: make some changes to the show. I don't know if
Speaker 1: she's still, but we love Nina Parker. She I've done
Speaker 1: a couple of things with her, and she has done
Speaker 1: some reunions. What were uns did she used to do?
Speaker 1: Maybe loving hip hop like basketballives or something Basketball wives?
Speaker 1: That was it? Okay? Okay? So she posted this mean
Speaker 1: and it says, my mama has had my birth certificate
Speaker 1: my entire life for safekeeping. Last year I finally told
Speaker 1: her I wanted to hold onto it. I'm responsible and grown.
Speaker 1: Y'all know I lost it already, huh okay, And it
Speaker 1: made me think, like, I think my mother might have
Speaker 1: my person I've grown, why would she still have it?
Speaker 1: And I and then I started thinking about my kids.
Speaker 1: I'm never giving them their birth what would they They're
Speaker 1: gonna lose it, right, they're going to lose it, of course. Yes,
Speaker 1: that is hilarious, I know. And then in it it
Speaker 1: for whatever reason, mothers want to hold on to it
Speaker 1: for safekeeping because we know our children are not responsible. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I have mine in a safe all of our and
Speaker 1: a's safe. Clearly, I know I have my kids, but
Speaker 1: I can't in my have no idea where I know
Speaker 1: that I've had it. At some point, you need to
Speaker 1: get and all that type of stuff. Yeah, to get married,
Speaker 1: passport all that by the way, like if you get divorced,
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter, like you still have to show that
Speaker 1: you got married in order to renew your passport. Uh.
Speaker 1: It's very weird. It's it's it's something anyway, So yes,
Speaker 1: I get it, Nina Parker. And if you lost it,
Speaker 1: you're wrong. That's funny, absolute hilarious. And the Social Security card, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's important too. And now you have to So you
Speaker 1: used to not have to change both when you got married,
Speaker 1: you only had to change your driver's license, but now
Speaker 1: you have to change your Social Security I did. I
Speaker 1: got away with it for a long time. I got
Speaker 1: married a long time ago. Yes, no, I had to
Speaker 1: change mine. I remember going to Social Security and doing it.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, okay. So because it's the holidays, Robin, I'm
Speaker 1: excited about Christmas presents you are, yes, okay, So I
Speaker 1: think I saw this thing on Um. I'm gonna tell
Speaker 1: my kids. Hopefully they'll get it from me because they
Speaker 1: have jobs now. An ice cream maker, that's what you want,
Speaker 1: I think so, because then I wouldn't be making necessarily
Speaker 1: ice cream all the time. But I've been making concoctions.
Speaker 1: What kind of concoctions, and the ice cream maker like
Speaker 1: banana something apple, something like apple ice cream, banana ice cream,
Speaker 1: So that's ice cream, okay, or just a concoction. You know.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna put some liqut in it, like it's I
Speaker 1: just I want to be okay. And we already talked
Speaker 1: about the ice cream with the liquor in it. That's
Speaker 1: in New York okay, So I want to be able
Speaker 1: to make did you talk We didn't talk about it
Speaker 1: on the podcast tell people about it? I thought we
Speaker 1: did so, Okay. So when I was in when we
Speaker 1: were in New York for Bravo con so, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Somehow we started talking about there's a there's a place
Speaker 1: right near where we stayed in packing district, me packing
Speaker 1: and they it's like an ice cream liquor store, like
Speaker 1: ice liquor and the ice We did talk about it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I go there and every time I go there,
Speaker 1: every time I go to the dance board. Oh, I
Speaker 1: shouldn't say that every time I go to that hotel.
Speaker 1: So anyway, Um, yes, I think I want an ice
Speaker 1: cream maker from because I want to make concoctions. Really, okay,
Speaker 1: I mean where did you Is there specific one that
Speaker 1: you've seen? I saw it on a commercial now, I
Speaker 1: don't know if it's like a Ninja. I don't know
Speaker 1: the brand. Yeah, I'm gonna tell my kids to figure
Speaker 1: it out, all right. Yes, I like that. Um, I
Speaker 1: haven't figured out quite what I want for my gift.
Speaker 1: But you have everything, Robin, do you? I know? But
Speaker 1: I don't have an ice cream maker now do you
Speaker 1: have a bread maker? No? Okay, so my sister has
Speaker 1: one and she makes bread. Really, she hasn't made any
Speaker 1: for me. She wanted to bring some over for Thanksgiving
Speaker 1: and I was like absolutely not really, see, I just
Speaker 1: I don't see myself taking the time to do that
Speaker 1: to make bread. Well, apparently you just put the ingredients
Speaker 1: in and you walk away. But why why don't just
Speaker 1: buy it? Right? Just buy the damn See. With the
Speaker 1: ice cream maker, it's you get to customize your right.
Speaker 1: You can put your flavors in it. Yes, yeah, I
Speaker 1: think that that's specially. They're not gonna have ice cream parties.
Speaker 1: You're not doing that. Have I gone too far? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I take it too far. Season eight Real Housewives, we're
Speaker 1: going to start off with that ice cream party. Everybody
Speaker 1: lick it up. Ash is gonna be like, let's just
Speaker 1: use shots, right, Yes, because the combination of the sugar
Speaker 1: and the liquor we will be bad news. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: very dry. Speaking of the holidays, though, I do want
Speaker 1: to put out this ps A for you all. I'm
Speaker 1: meant to tell you all this a long time ago.
Speaker 1: The post office State's post Office is telling people to
Speaker 1: avoid using the blue post office boxes to send your
Speaker 1: cards with money in it. Yeah, okay, so explain that
Speaker 1: because that doesn't make any sense because people will not
Speaker 1: even just cars, but like checks, even your even when
Speaker 1: you pay your bills, just when you're when you're mailing
Speaker 1: anything money related, do not put it in the blue
Speaker 1: post office boxes because the ease scammers the blue mailbox. Yeah,
Speaker 1: not the post office box. Mailbox, right, blue mailbox. Okay,
Speaker 1: but when you say post office, I'm thinking you're at
Speaker 1: the sexual facility, know, like the blue boxes that are
Speaker 1: around town, that are around town on the corners, on
Speaker 1: the corners, you drive past them, you open the little
Speaker 1: door and you put the things your your envelopes, and
Speaker 1: don't put anything money related in there because scammers are
Speaker 1: fishing stuff out and literally like rewriting your checks. You
Speaker 1: know that's insane, stealing your money, stealing your stuff. Yes, okay,
Speaker 1: but how are they even getting it? Because any mailbox
Speaker 1: I've used, when you pull the little door down, you
Speaker 1: can already pull it down like, yeah, I don't know
Speaker 1: somehow they're digging in there, like when the post office
Speaker 1: is telling you don't use our stuff like that? Serious?
Speaker 1: Was this on the news? Oh wow? Okay it's definitely
Speaker 1: like an alert, like the post office is telling people
Speaker 1: not to use don't blue boxes. The mail only gets
Speaker 1: picked up here one time a day at ten am.
Speaker 1: That means for twenty four hours the mail that goes
Speaker 1: in here will sit. That's exactly what the Postal services
Speaker 1: warning us about. Because all your juicy information, money, gift cards,
Speaker 1: checks for bills, all of that goes through the Postal service,
Speaker 1: goes in your mail, and you do not want that
Speaker 1: sitting in one of these boxes around town overnight or
Speaker 1: over a long weekends. So they're saying to directly go
Speaker 1: in into the post office and hand your mail to
Speaker 1: the people. To the people, well, there's there's slots in
Speaker 1: post office or yeah, yeah, or use those slots or whatever.
Speaker 1: But but if you have important mail with money or
Speaker 1: checks or anything handed to your mailman or hand or
Speaker 1: go into the post office and hand to that. But
Speaker 1: don't use this as an excuse to say that you
Speaker 1: sent people money. Okay, don't do that. I did do that,
Speaker 1: so I think I did that like last year with
Speaker 1: the like a couple of years of the pandemic, I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I sent the gift, did you get it?
Speaker 1: And then you you were lying, Robin. I was joking. What, Robin,
Speaker 1: You were lying to your friends telling them that you
Speaker 1: sent them something, knowing damn well you didn't. Oh I
Speaker 1: have to I have to reevaluate our friendship because if
Speaker 1: you get that to me, I'm gonna be mad. I'm
Speaker 1: telling you that right now. It was one of those
Speaker 1: things where I was like, oh shit, I forgot this,
Speaker 1: and so was so a kid and they said they did,
Speaker 1: and they're probably like looking for the Robin dixone gift
Speaker 1: that Robin never sent because she's a liar. Oh my god. Joke. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but yeah, don't use the post office situation as an
Speaker 1: excuse because that oh I sent you a hundred dollars
Speaker 1: when you know you didn't. Oh my god. That's like this,
Speaker 1: that's like the convenient life of like when you have
Speaker 1: kids and people are like, oh, can you come do this?
Speaker 1: Oh no, I gotta take the kids somewhere right right. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So now it's the new Like so I was talking
Speaker 1: to um got lost in. I was talking to Eric Fuller,
Speaker 1: who was our producer for Potomac. He said he uses
Speaker 1: his dog as an excuse all the time. Oh, I
Speaker 1: gotta get back home because I gotta take my dog out.
Speaker 1: He said that he came to the live show, yes,
Speaker 1: and he said he had to get home to get
Speaker 1: to the dog. Right, So I said, is that real
Speaker 1: or is that just an excuse? He said, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: it's real this time, but normally he uses it as
Speaker 1: a lie. Right, some people just be making using using
Speaker 1: things to make up excuses. It's just, you know, because
Speaker 1: you just don't want to hurt people's feelings, hurt my feelings.
Speaker 1: Just tell me the truth, okay, okay, anyway, speaking of
Speaker 1: not hurting feelings. Okay, So Blair Underwood was married. You
Speaker 1: know Blair Underwood is he was an actor that fun me.
Speaker 1: I never thought he was. Okay, but he's been around
Speaker 1: acting forever. Um was married to his wife like twenty
Speaker 1: something years, and then they get divorced, and now he's
Speaker 1: marrying a man that's been in his life for forty years.
Speaker 1: So this woman has been around the dire dime you
Speaker 1: were with your wife. What I need more? I need more?
Speaker 1: He says that this woman has just been his like hiss,
Speaker 1: his best friend, right, like since like childhood, Well for
Speaker 1: forty years. I don't know, I guess. So and now
Speaker 1: they're either they're getting married or they're married. Now, were
Speaker 1: they okay, were they friends throughout that whole forty years
Speaker 1: or were they like they knew they were friends forty
Speaker 1: years ago and then you know, life took him in
Speaker 1: different directions and then they like, you know, if I
Speaker 1: were him, that's the story I would tell, because you
Speaker 1: just said that you were friends, like in your in
Speaker 1: each other's lives for forty years, and you had this
Speaker 1: wife you were banging her for forty years. And yes,
Speaker 1: they were friends for forty one years. Carl has given
Speaker 1: us she's looked it up. She she was there, she
Speaker 1: didn't go nowhere. His best friend of forty something years
Speaker 1: now he's marrying her. How old is he now though
Speaker 1: he's forty two, I don't know, but clearly this is
Speaker 1: the woman you should have married, right, not your wife.
Speaker 1: But but he's fifty eight. He's fifty eight, Okay, So
Speaker 1: he met her when he was a school that's the
Speaker 1: first woman he screwed. Allegedly, I'm making this up, but
Speaker 1: there's a chance that had they married early, had that
Speaker 1: been his first wife, they would have divorced. Do you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? It's like true, you know, sometimes
Speaker 1: you just can't question like why things happen or in
Speaker 1: what order or when it's just like that's how it
Speaker 1: was supposed to happen. Do you think his ex wife
Speaker 1: and now this woman get along or do you think
Speaker 1: they want to scratch each other's eyes? Album they don't
Speaker 1: get along. The new woman is fine, she ain't thinking
Speaker 1: about the ex wife. But the let's we don't know
Speaker 1: what why they divorced. Like let's say the ex wife
Speaker 1: was just like horrible, like she was so horrible to him,
Speaker 1: And so if I'm the new wife and was the
Speaker 1: friend the whole time, like you know, on the sidelines
Speaker 1: watching this horrible relationship, but you were talking shit about
Speaker 1: the ex wife, you're on the sidelines, like, yeah, you
Speaker 1: should divorce. Do any more information? I'm making this up
Speaker 1: as I think my story sounds better because she was
Speaker 1: on the sideline the entire time, telling Blair to divorce,
Speaker 1: divorce her and so she can shoot her shot. Oh
Speaker 1: she won't make your coffee, I'll make your coffee. Did
Speaker 1: she did she draw your bath last night? Oh? How
Speaker 1: dare her? I would have drawn your bath last night. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what I do for my man. Did she rub
Speaker 1: your feet. Oh, I know how to rub a foot
Speaker 1: or two. I'll rub it in. I'll look it real good. Okay, man,
Speaker 1: we are moving the freak on all right. So I
Speaker 1: do want to read a couple of things because this
Speaker 1: is funny to me, or this is the good idea
Speaker 1: I should say. Um so this Jennifer A team at
Speaker 1: name A team E T I E A ten. I
Speaker 1: think it's French. It's French, it's French. Okay, she said, Giselle,
Speaker 1: you should write a children's book about Giselle the cat. Okay.
Speaker 1: So for y'all don't know who don't know the backstory.
Speaker 1: When I was at bravocom, a fan walked up and
Speaker 1: said she named her cat Giselle Bryant. So other people
Speaker 1: emailed and said they've been naming their cats Giselle Bryant. So'
Speaker 1: just just out. So Jennifer says, I should write a
Speaker 1: children's book about Giselle the cat. That's very cute. I
Speaker 1: like that. You like that, okay, so she say. She
Speaker 1: says she loves the podcast. It keeps her entertained on
Speaker 1: her long drives, bringing her daughter to soccer games up
Speaker 1: and down the mid Atlantic. Okay, So Jennifer when I
Speaker 1: write the children's book Giselle the Cat, you get no parts,
Speaker 1: you get no percentage. Can she get a free book?
Speaker 1: She will get a free book that I will sign,
Speaker 1: okay and take a picture with her. All right, sore
Speaker 1: we go. I just want to read this and then
Speaker 1: you can do what you want to do over there,
Speaker 1: Robin Dixon. Okay, so she said, this is Belenda. She said, hey, ladies,
Speaker 1: love you both, love you both. Love h R R
Speaker 1: H O P. Love your positive energy every Monday, because
Speaker 1: right because Monday suck. You know what. I'm happy that
Speaker 1: we drop our podcast on people. People can look forward
Speaker 1: to something on Monday. Yes, okay, so she said. I
Speaker 1: was just listening to episode seventy when Giselle brought up eggnog. Yes, Giselle,
Speaker 1: I am all the way with you. Eggnog is the
Speaker 1: best with the holiday season arriving, I have eggnog latte
Speaker 1: in the morning, and my eggnog mud slides in the
Speaker 1: p M, which brings me to my email. Yes, Belenda,
Speaker 1: we are friends, okay, she said. Giselle ask listeners to
Speaker 1: share their favorite egnog drinks, So here's some of mine.
Speaker 1: This is her eggnog mud slide guys, and she says, Robin,
Speaker 1: don't knock it to try, and I'm like, I'm I'm
Speaker 1: keeping my proments to myself. Yes, okay, So here's the recipe.
Speaker 1: It's very easy. It's very easy. So the eggnog mud
Speaker 1: slide is two parts eggnog, one part kalooa, one part vodka,
Speaker 1: adweb cream, put sprinkles of net nutmeg on top. Boom,
Speaker 1: oh this is going I am. Let me tell you, Balanda,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you how drunk I'm gonna get because
Speaker 1: mine's gonna be like two parts eggnog, two parts two
Speaker 1: parts of vodka. Like, I'm just it's gonna be good. Okay,
Speaker 1: let me know how it is. Yes, indeed, indeed. So
Speaker 1: I'm very excited about that, and thank you very much.
Speaker 1: But Linda, all right, very nice. Okay. So a while
Speaker 1: back I asked you all, you know, talking about one
Speaker 1: of the many pieces of hate I received on social media,
Speaker 1: and I was just like, I just don't understand, like
Speaker 1: why people take the time out to like even like
Speaker 1: if you don't like someone, like, why do you spend
Speaker 1: time to message someone like? Makes no sense whatever. So
Speaker 1: somebody wrote with a confession Renee. I won't say your
Speaker 1: last name, but Renee has a confession. She said, I
Speaker 1: have an example of hate of hate contacting somebody during
Speaker 1: below deck med when the whole Hannah Sandy volume fire firing.
Speaker 1: Remember that, I got fired up and I don't watch. Okay,
Speaker 1: so can I give you the premise of that? Okay,
Speaker 1: So Hannah, it was Hannah and another girl. I was
Speaker 1: the other girl's name, Sandy. It's just as hand as
Speaker 1: Hannah and Sandy. Sandy is the captain, right, yeah, but
Speaker 1: it was I think it was another girl and she
Speaker 1: had supposedly weed in her um jewel. I think it
Speaker 1: was something Apparently on those shows, you have to report
Speaker 1: all of the prescriptions and drugs and everything that you
Speaker 1: bring onto the boat because there's maritime law, and if
Speaker 1: you don't report it, you go to the maritime jail,
Speaker 1: or you go to jail in the sea. I don't know.
Speaker 1: So if you get in trouble. Okay, So the whole
Speaker 1: yacht could have been shut down because this person lied. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: So go ahead, Okay, I think that's a story. It's
Speaker 1: just valium. Oh yeah, value, I'm sorry, Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: I made that up. It was value. All right, got it?
Speaker 1: How do you stop making stuff up right? Get yourself
Speaker 1: in trouble like that? Alright, so she says, never like Sandy,
Speaker 1: but that scene inflamed me more. I sent her a
Speaker 1: d M expressing my anger, didn't get a reply, and
Speaker 1: forgot about it. About a year later, I was cleaning
Speaker 1: out my messages and saw what I sent her. I
Speaker 1: couldn't believe what I was reading. I didn't enter a
Speaker 1: fugue state. If you g u e, that's a word. Fugue.
Speaker 1: That's a word. I'm learning a new word. Hold on,
Speaker 1: I'm googling this one. Fugue state. Okay, let's see it.
Speaker 1: Tast associative fugue. It's a temporary state where a person
Speaker 1: has memory loss and ends up in an unexpected place.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, memory laws. Okay, Okay, I didn't enter a
Speaker 1: few state when I wrote it, so she said. I
Speaker 1: wasn't so mad that I forgot, she said, but the
Speaker 1: venom in what I wrote took me back. I don't
Speaker 1: attack people like that in my daily life, and I
Speaker 1: still don't like Sandy. But I could have just said
Speaker 1: that or more sensibly stopped watching the show, rather than
Speaker 1: the vicious things I said to her, I had to
Speaker 1: delete it because I was so ashamed, and I can't
Speaker 1: apologize because she understandably blocked me. I haven't done it since,
Speaker 1: but I don't forget that I did it, and there's
Speaker 1: obviously a nasty part of me that I need to
Speaker 1: work on. Okay, this the funny part is in the beginning,
Speaker 1: when she was like, she noticed Sandy didn't respond, Why
Speaker 1: do you think people are gonna respond to your nastiness?
Speaker 1: You don't say something horrible you think you're gonna get
Speaker 1: a response? Thanks for that? Thanks howel right, thanks for
Speaker 1: the info. That is that. But I'm happy that she
Speaker 1: realized that that was wrong, Like it was like ridiculous,
Speaker 1: Like this is this this amount of hate and venom
Speaker 1: or whatever she said to Sandy, Like this is just
Speaker 1: this is too my ch and it's not it's just
Speaker 1: not good to like harbor that in your own just
Speaker 1: in your being, Like you know, the fact that someone
Speaker 1: can write and type something it hits sin Like that's
Speaker 1: not healthy for you. It's not. And you have to
Speaker 1: also realize that, um, you shouldn't get that worked up
Speaker 1: about a person that you don't know and you're watching
Speaker 1: a television show and you have to keep in mind
Speaker 1: Sandy because she's a nice lady, is a person, like
Speaker 1: you say, but you're sputing hatred and non speeding sputing
Speaker 1: is not unaworth that spewing, spewing. You're spewing hatred to
Speaker 1: a person you don't even know, right because because you're
Speaker 1: watching a show, a highly edited one, yes, and highly snippets,
Speaker 1: and Sandy is very nice. Yeah, yeah, we like Sandy. Okay, um, okay,
Speaker 1: this is a question for Robin from Jennifer and I
Speaker 1: think I've said this on the podcast, but you know,
Speaker 1: just saying it again, she said. First, let me just
Speaker 1: say I love the podcast. She said, how do you
Speaker 1: feel about fans approaching you in public? I actually saw
Speaker 1: you at the grocery store the night before Thanksgiving. Yes,
Speaker 1: that was like the one day I actually went in
Speaker 1: the store because I always get my stuff delivered, but
Speaker 1: like Thanksgiving, I'm like, no, I need to make sure
Speaker 1: I get my stuff right. Okay, she said, Well, part
Speaker 1: of me wanted to be like robbing my girl. The
Speaker 1: other part of me was like, leave her alone. By
Speaker 1: the way, you're absolutely gorgeous in person. You probably yes, yes,
Speaker 1: Robin is very pretty. Guys, I just want you to
Speaker 1: know so beautifully yourself. Yes. But but Jennifer, like in anyone,
Speaker 1: if you see me out, um, please say hi. You
Speaker 1: know I would rather say hi then to look at
Speaker 1: me all weird. You know we're act weird. Say just
Speaker 1: say or do do you not? Do you hate when
Speaker 1: people you know that they want there, like they're like teetering,
Speaker 1: They're like they see you there. You know that they're excited.
Speaker 1: They you know that they want to come over, but
Speaker 1: they don't know what to do, so they're just like
Speaker 1: it's like they're doing a double Dutch dance there, right,
Speaker 1: and they're trying to figure it out. Right. So if
Speaker 1: I see that, I'll just like I'll just say hi,
Speaker 1: Like I'll just kind of be like hi, and I'll
Speaker 1: and I'll keep walking. And then I think if they
Speaker 1: feel like that, I think that makes them feel more
Speaker 1: comfortable to come you know, ask for a picture or whatever. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So if I if I can sense that somebody is
Speaker 1: acting like really weird, then I'll just be like hi. Um.
Speaker 1: But otherwise yeah, I mean it's just if you see me,
Speaker 1: oun't please say hello? Yes, because we're really nice people. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I can pretty much safely say, I have never cussed
Speaker 1: anyone out in public that I did not know that
Speaker 1: came up to me and said, Hi, So it's never
Speaker 1: gonna happen, right, But you have you have rejected someone.
Speaker 1: I have rejected a picture. Yes, I have, only because
Speaker 1: I was in the middle of the booth and it
Speaker 1: was freaking Mother's Day and you were eating and I
Speaker 1: was eating, Like, don't do that. Yeah, yeah, that's that's
Speaker 1: the only time any any other time, by the way,
Speaker 1: I went. When I was in New York, I went
Speaker 1: to the met the Metropolitan Museum of Art. I don't
Speaker 1: think I've been there for parties. I've never been there
Speaker 1: just to like, look at this stuff. It is nice.
Speaker 1: It is very very nice. Yeah, they have like a
Speaker 1: special exhibit going on the kids. The twins really want
Speaker 1: to go graces, but the twins, you know, they want
Speaker 1: to go. They want to read what's on the descriptions
Speaker 1: of things. It was very nice. Um. I never enjoyed
Speaker 1: going to the Art Museum, neither neither to die. But
Speaker 1: if I enjoyed it, they had what impressed me as
Speaker 1: they had a geisha room and it was all of
Speaker 1: these not geisha, a kimono room, and it was all
Speaker 1: of these different very ornate that were freaking gorgeous. Oh
Speaker 1: that's nice. Um. So I enjoyed all that, but I
Speaker 1: was when I was there, I was remembering. I went
Speaker 1: to the rooftop of the hotel I was staying in
Speaker 1: and the guy like sat me down and he was like,
Speaker 1: I just want you to know I put you over
Speaker 1: here because I know who you are. And I was like,
Speaker 1: thank you. Right, So anytime you want to act like that,
Speaker 1: I'm all down. Yes. He was like, I just want
Speaker 1: to make to you comfortable. I was like, I'm very comfortable.
Speaker 1: That is funny, Indie. All right, what else you got?
Speaker 1: This was just real quick. This from Kelly over in Australia. Hi,
Speaker 1: Kelly Evans. She said, love your show listening over here
Speaker 1: in Australia. You both always keep me entertained and informed.
Speaker 1: I just thought you should tell you up how many
Speaker 1: shady moments have been Wan Dixon? Ha ha ha ha
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, so that that's does she tell you up? No? No, no,
Speaker 1: should tell you it up? Okay, all of your shady
Speaker 1: moments are one she said. Wait, she said, he's a
Speaker 1: good sport not being dramatic about his all his shady moments. Um,
Speaker 1: he doesn't know, guys, I know, moment, but does he listen? No?
Speaker 1: What does he just never listen to your podcast? No
Speaker 1: one Antonia, he should not listen? Yeah, does he know
Speaker 1: we refer to him as Wane Antonio? Um? Sometimes, yeah,
Speaker 1: I think it does. Okay, Okay, he's fine with that. Yes,
Speaker 1: um yeah, so yeah, he's he's he's definitely a good
Speaker 1: sport about it because he doesn't know. I love it,
Speaker 1: she said. But I'm here for all the moments. Um
Speaker 1: she said. Not packing for a trip, not unpacking after
Speaker 1: a trip. He he he hashtag recently shady hashtag. So
Speaker 1: she is definitely a robin. Why because she hates packing
Speaker 1: and she never I don't know, that's my shady She's
Speaker 1: talking about some of the shady moments I have explained about.
Speaker 1: One explained about what. But I thought that was Carter
Speaker 1: that didn't unpack. Oh yes, well that was well. Remember
Speaker 1: I think early on when we moved, we had I
Speaker 1: think one of my shady moments, just like we've lived
Speaker 1: in this house for like so long, and one still
Speaker 1: hadn't he had not stuff. So that's probably what she's
Speaker 1: talking about. But yeah, oh yeah, carter with the molded
Speaker 1: So how are you handling the boys Christmas presents this year?
Speaker 1: Because I've I have told my girls, like, you have
Speaker 1: to send me your links now, yeah, you know what
Speaker 1: I need to We did that last year. So we
Speaker 1: did like the whole Elfster thing last year and they
Speaker 1: would send links and that worked pretty well. So I
Speaker 1: need to, um, I need to get that. Thank you
Speaker 1: for reminding me. I need to get that back up.
Speaker 1: Especially so like before my boys would have like they
Speaker 1: really it was like there wouldn't be a whole lot
Speaker 1: for them to ask for for Christmas because I would
Speaker 1: just they would just like have everything, right, And they
Speaker 1: went to public school and so they always needed like
Speaker 1: you know, new shoes and sweat paints and blah blah.
Speaker 1: So now they're in private school, Oh they don't need anything.
Speaker 1: Well they don't so so right, So on a daily basis,
Speaker 1: they don't need anything. But now when they go to
Speaker 1: like actually get dressed to like go somewhere, they have nothing.
Speaker 1: Oh so you gotta hook him, Okay, So you got
Speaker 1: to take care of all that because like Corey's growing,
Speaker 1: Like Corey literally is wearing wands, clothes and shoes. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: like he goes in that's he's he is enjoying in
Speaker 1: life right now because he goes in one's closet and
Speaker 1: just takes his shoes. He can take his shoes, takes
Speaker 1: his everything, his shoes, his pants. So he's probably his
Speaker 1: feet are probably gonna be bigger than one probably when
Speaker 1: he's done. Probably so so. And then you know, Carter's
Speaker 1: growing like so they just they're like growing out of
Speaker 1: their clothes and so they definitely need stuff where before
Speaker 1: they just you know, I always had to buy them stuff. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Grace gave me her whole list of links she could
Speaker 1: She could have sent me like maybe like ten links.
Speaker 1: The total on that could have been three d four dollars,
Speaker 1: like it was three hundred three oh four like we
Speaker 1: could have been because she sent me. Yes, yes, one
Speaker 1: thing was from Sepphor it was it was mascara. Another
Speaker 1: thing was like not lip class. She didn't see me.
Speaker 1: She sent me um crocs right, the crocks won't sound
Speaker 1: for thirty five dollars. I was like, let's get four pairs.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, like like I I appreciate the
Speaker 1: fact that they're not asking for um. You're lucky because
Speaker 1: my boys will send me a link from um stock
Speaker 1: X for a pair of you know, I don't know
Speaker 1: Jordan's that are three and fifty dollars or something. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she did have a couple of pairs, like she had
Speaker 1: a couple of New Balance and some Nikes on there,
Speaker 1: and but they weren't they were like one was a hundred,
Speaker 1: one was like two hundred. So maybe I did spend
Speaker 1: more than that, But I mean I felt like I
Speaker 1: was like, Wow, this is great. Kids are saving me
Speaker 1: my coins. Yeah, that's girls, that's girls. Yes, but you
Speaker 1: have three of them, so I'm sure. Yes, it adds
Speaker 1: it adds up. And you know they still like those
Speaker 1: little stupid um sites like fashion Ova issues. I can't
Speaker 1: there's a bunch of different names whim. I can't remember
Speaker 1: the names, but like those the clothes will be like
Speaker 1: where it wants to throw it away. Now I'm gonna
Speaker 1: move on, Lord have mercy. Anyway, that is our episode.
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