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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode

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Speaker 1: of Reasonably Shady. I am Giselle Bryant, which I was

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Speaker 1: up this Robin Dixon, thank you for being here, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Was that was up? You know? I like this time

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Speaker 1: of year? Really yeah. It's like cold. You get in

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Speaker 1: your house, you drink some hot chocolate, you put some

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Speaker 1: licking in it. You would like this time of year? No, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: let me back up. I am a sunny time girl,

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Speaker 1: like I like the sun in the summer and all that.

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Speaker 1: But like this time of year, like around the holidays,

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Speaker 1: the Christmas music is playing, Like don't you feel like nostalgia?

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Speaker 1: I mean I do like certain parts of it. Yes,

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Speaker 1: the Christmas music. Yeah, I haven't put my decorations up yet,

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Speaker 1: but actually probably by the time y'all hear this, they

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Speaker 1: probably will be up Christmas music. And but I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: the cold, the dark like that just takes over. That

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Speaker 1: just ruins it all. Okay, very true, very true. The warm.

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Speaker 1: But I do like making like warm meals, you know,

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Speaker 1: like I made of a white chicken chili and then

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Speaker 1: just act chili and like yeah, like soups and stuff

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Speaker 1: like I love that, but this time of year, I

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Speaker 1: don't know. But then, okay, I feel like we take

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Speaker 1: it for granted because if you know, we live here

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Speaker 1: and it gets dark and cold, maybe I should appreciate

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Speaker 1: it more because like if you you know, look at

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Speaker 1: people who live in Florida, like they don't get like

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Speaker 1: they're like, it is Christmas, feel like Christmas? Probably not,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Well, depends on how big

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Speaker 1: the presents are, right, yes, indeed, But any way, what

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Speaker 1: is your reasonably shading moment? Can I get mine? Now

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Speaker 1: that it's the holidays? Okay, so you know what the

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Speaker 1: holidays um a lot of charities reach out for like

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Speaker 1: to donate money. It's not the holidays because it's the

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Speaker 1: end of the year. End of the year people are

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Speaker 1: making to make their end of the year donation. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: and people need to give into the year money so

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Speaker 1: that it could go against the taxes text right off. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so it's kind of like the police department, fire department, churches,

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Speaker 1: food banks, all of that. So for whatever reason, and

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Speaker 1: I thought we were having a good relationship that's called

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Speaker 1: me and Jamal, he has given everybody my phone number.

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Speaker 1: So I get text messages and it's like, Hi, Jamal Bryant,

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Speaker 1: please don't forget to give blah blah blah blah blah bhoa.

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Speaker 1: So I screenshot it. I sent it to him and

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Speaker 1: I screamed stop. But like, you're so shady for that,

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Speaker 1: Like why are you giving these people my not right?

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Speaker 1: How is that happening? Because he's something, he's out somewhere

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Speaker 1: and he doesn't want to deal or be bothered ever again.

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Speaker 1: And he knows my number by heart, but the only

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Speaker 1: number he knows my heart outside of his, and he

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Speaker 1: gives them my number. Oh my god, why don't he

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Speaker 1: just give a mess up one of the numbers? Why

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Speaker 1: don't he give a number? I don't know, but he

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Speaker 1: like gives them my number and it drives me crazy.

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Speaker 1: So like I the other day, one came through and

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Speaker 1: I called him. He was actually out of the country.

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Speaker 1: I called him FaceTime and I'm like, Jamal, stop giving

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Speaker 1: people my number. He's like, I didn't do that, and

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Speaker 1: he busted out laughing. What you're gonna laugh and tell

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Speaker 1: on yourself? You're so shady. Stop it. That's funny, that's hilarious. Now,

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Speaker 1: that you mentioned the whole like everyone asking for money.

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Speaker 1: That made me think of, um, a phone call I

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Speaker 1: got the other day, so I was like, you know,

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Speaker 1: waiting on the delivery or something, so like the phone

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Speaker 1: rang I didn't recognize the number and I answered it

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Speaker 1: usually I won't answer it, and it was like, Hi,

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Speaker 1: this is the I don't think it was like the

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Speaker 1: Fraternal Order of Police or something. I don't know. It

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Speaker 1: was like a police department. Hi, this is the police department.

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Speaker 1: We're raising money for blah blah blah blah blah blah

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Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. Will you donate

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Speaker 1: this year? And then it was like you should said

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Speaker 1: the blood. Don't nate last year. Well wait, so I'm

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Speaker 1: like so then I say, is this a human or

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Speaker 1: is this a robot? And he goes, this is you

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Speaker 1: were speaking to a live human and and I was like,

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Speaker 1: I think this is a robot. This is not a human.

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Speaker 1: What difference does it make, Robert, Because it was one

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Speaker 1: of those robot calls. It's literally like they they you know,

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Speaker 1: they call you and it's it's literally a recorded call,

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Speaker 1: and based on your responses, then that's what their responses.

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Speaker 1: So if I was like, oh, yes, I'd love to donate,

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Speaker 1: and they'll be like, okay, well blah blah blah, you

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Speaker 1: but it was like, I don't want to talk to

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Speaker 1: It's just that just annoyed me. And then he literally

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Speaker 1: the robot literally fake coughed and said, no, you were

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Speaker 1: talking to a live human like, no, I'm not, I'm

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Speaker 1: talking to a recording. So is that a shady moment? No,

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Speaker 1: I just thought of that when you were just talking,

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Speaker 1: because that is shady. That is very shady. But they're

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Speaker 1: pretending to be people. Yes, But it's if you just

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Speaker 1: like Paul, if someone calls, if you get one of

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Speaker 1: those you know, I don't know, solicitors asking for money

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Speaker 1: and you pause and then you don't say anything, then

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Speaker 1: just know, like in a couple of seconds, they'll be like,

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Speaker 1: so can we account on your your donation? And it's

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Speaker 1: like do they sound like that rob? They do away. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So my my shade moment is gross. Okay, So Corey

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Speaker 1: had this big old pimple on his nose. Oh god, Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's so big and he couldn't take anymore. He's like,

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Speaker 1: can you pop my pimple? I'm like, okay, oh god,

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Speaker 1: this is gross. Gross. So I have this little like

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Speaker 1: metal tool like to pop pimples. You know, it has

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Speaker 1: like the little hole. It's like a little small then

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Speaker 1: metal tool and it's like, you know, a hole in it.

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Speaker 1: So you like put it on the pimple and you

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Speaker 1: push it down and and you get the pimple out. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, okay, I got this tool. So I

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Speaker 1: put it on his nose and I pushed it down.

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Speaker 1: That damn pimple squirted on my mouth. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: oh god, I'll discussed it. I'm on the floor. I'm

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Speaker 1: not on the floor. That thing just like so on

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Speaker 1: my face and my shirt and I was like, oh, Corey,

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Speaker 1: just it was cracking up. I'm like it was okay,

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Speaker 1: this that was not a shady moment. That's a disgusting moment. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we've passed shady. We're at disgusting. It was and now

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Speaker 1: it was on your face. It's so gross. Oh so okay,

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Speaker 1: that's discussed that. I didn't tell you that's the time.

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Speaker 1: I yeah, I told you about like my brother, I

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Speaker 1: wanted to see what the part looked like. So you

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Speaker 1: lit it onf I no, I told you this, then

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you all this before. It just reminds me

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Speaker 1: do anything. Well, I didn't talk about this on the podcast,

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Speaker 1: You're gonna talk about it now because now we want

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Speaker 1: to know what a heart looks like. So when that happened,

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Speaker 1: it reminded me of that because when we were younger,

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Speaker 1: were wondering what a fart looked like. Really, well, who's

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Speaker 1: wondering this? Because a fart is gas, so it looks

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Speaker 1: like nothing. Well, we needed to prove it, so I came, okay,

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Speaker 1: I didn't share this. So literally, the next time he

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Speaker 1: had to fart, he's like, okay, I gotta fart. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna put my pants down and I'm gonna fart, okay,

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Speaker 1: and you look. So he pulled his pants down, he

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Speaker 1: farted in some fart to squired it out. What's my face?

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Speaker 1: short and I'm going to leave because I'm discussed? Did

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Speaker 1: I am utterly just I was discussing when she said

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Speaker 1: he pulled his pants down, like that's where you lost me,

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Speaker 1: and then you tell me fart juice came out. I'm done.

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Speaker 1: So that's what I fart looks like. No, it wasn't

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Speaker 1: a shart, it was clear fart. I don't even know

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Speaker 1: what fart juice is. For the record, Okay, Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: I guess this is my first time sharing though. Yes,

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Speaker 1: and don't ever share that and tell no one when

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Speaker 1: I tell you, tell no one. Oops. M Okay, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna move on, I because we have to move on

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Speaker 1: because that was just absurd. I'm sorry, y'all. All right?

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Speaker 1: So I read this the other day, Nina Parker. We

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Speaker 1: love Nina Parker. Is she still on? Um E didn't

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Speaker 1: she's still, but we love Nina Parker. She I've done

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Speaker 1: a couple of things with her, and she has done

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Speaker 1: some reunions. What were uns did she used to do?

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Speaker 1: Maybe loving hip hop like basketballives or something Basketball wives?

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Speaker 1: That was it? Okay? Okay? So she posted this mean

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Speaker 1: and it says, my mama has had my birth certificate

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Speaker 1: my entire life for safekeeping. Last year I finally told

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Speaker 1: her I wanted to hold onto it. I'm responsible and grown.

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Speaker 1: Y'all know I lost it already, huh okay, And it

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Speaker 1: made me think, like, I think my mother might have

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Speaker 1: my person I've grown, why would she still have it?

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Speaker 1: And I and then I started thinking about my kids.

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Speaker 1: I'm never giving them their birth what would they They're

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Speaker 1: gonna lose it, right, they're going to lose it, of course. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that is hilarious, I know. And then in it it

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Speaker 1: get and all that type of stuff. Yeah, to get married,

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Speaker 1: It's very weird. It's it's it's something anyway, So yes,

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Speaker 1: I get it, Nina Parker. And if you lost it,

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Speaker 1: you're wrong. That's funny, absolute hilarious. And the Social Security card, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's important too. And now you have to So you

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Speaker 1: used to not have to change both when you got married,

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Speaker 1: you only had to change your driver's license, but now

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Speaker 1: you have to change your Social Security I did. I

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Speaker 1: got away with it for a long time. I got

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Speaker 1: married a long time ago. Yes, no, I had to

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, okay. So because it's the holidays, Robin, I'm

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Speaker 1: excited about Christmas presents you are, yes, okay, So I

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Speaker 1: think I saw this thing on Um. I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 1: my kids. Hopefully they'll get it from me because they

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Speaker 1: have jobs now. An ice cream maker, that's what you want,

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Speaker 1: I think so, because then I wouldn't be making necessarily

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Speaker 1: ice cream all the time. But I've been making concoctions.

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Speaker 1: What kind of concoctions, and the ice cream maker like

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Speaker 1: banana something apple, something like apple ice cream, banana ice cream,

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Speaker 1: So that's ice cream, okay, or just a concoction. You know.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna put some liqut in it, like it's I

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Speaker 1: just I want to be okay. And we already talked

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Speaker 1: about the ice cream with the liquor in it. That's

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Speaker 1: in New York okay, So I want to be able

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Speaker 1: to make did you talk We didn't talk about it

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Speaker 1: on the podcast tell people about it? I thought we

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Speaker 1: did so, Okay. So when I was in when we

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Speaker 1: Somehow we started talking about there's a there's a place

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Speaker 1: parts of vodka. Like, I'm just it's gonna be good. Okay,

420
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:32,359
Speaker 1: let me know how it is. Yes, indeed, indeed. So

421
00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:34,440
Speaker 1: I'm very excited about that, and thank you very much.

422
00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 1: But Linda, all right, very nice. Okay. So a while

423
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:48,679
Speaker 1: back I asked you all, you know, talking about one

424
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:53,680
Speaker 1: of the many pieces of hate I received on social media,

425
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:55,439
Speaker 1: and I was just like, I just don't understand, like

426
00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:57,560
Speaker 1: why people take the time out to like even like

427
00:23:57,560 --> 00:23:59,399
Speaker 1: if you don't like someone, like, why do you spend

428
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:02,840
Speaker 1: time to message someone like? Makes no sense whatever. So

429
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:06,919
Speaker 1: somebody wrote with a confession Renee. I won't say your

430
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:09,119
Speaker 1: last name, but Renee has a confession. She said, I

431
00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:13,280
Speaker 1: have an example of hate of hate contacting somebody during

432
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 1: below deck med when the whole Hannah Sandy volume fire firing.

433
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:22,400
Speaker 1: Remember that, I got fired up and I don't watch. Okay,

434
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 1: so can I give you the premise of that? Okay,

435
00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:28,119
Speaker 1: So Hannah, it was Hannah and another girl. I was

436
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 1: the other girl's name, Sandy. It's just as hand as

437
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 1: Hannah and Sandy. Sandy is the captain, right, yeah, but

438
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:36,359
Speaker 1: it was I think it was another girl and she

439
00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:42,119
Speaker 1: had supposedly weed in her um jewel. I think it

440
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:45,120
Speaker 1: was something Apparently on those shows, you have to report

441
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:48,879
Speaker 1: all of the prescriptions and drugs and everything that you

442
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:53,040
Speaker 1: bring onto the boat because there's maritime law, and if

443
00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 1: you don't report it, you go to the maritime jail,

444
00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:58,879
Speaker 1: or you go to jail in the sea. I don't know.

445
00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:01,879
Speaker 1: So if you get in trouble. Okay, So the whole

446
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:06,320
Speaker 1: yacht could have been shut down because this person lied. Okay, Okay,

447
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:09,160
Speaker 1: So go ahead, Okay, I think that's a story. It's

448
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:13,120
Speaker 1: just valium. Oh yeah, value, I'm sorry, Yeah, I think

449
00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:15,439
Speaker 1: I made that up. It was value. All right, got it?

450
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:18,960
Speaker 1: How do you stop making stuff up right? Get yourself

451
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 1: in trouble like that? Alright, so she says, never like Sandy,

452
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 1: but that scene inflamed me more. I sent her a

453
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,600
Speaker 1: d M expressing my anger, didn't get a reply, and

454
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:31,240
Speaker 1: forgot about it. About a year later, I was cleaning

455
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:33,359
Speaker 1: out my messages and saw what I sent her. I

456
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 1: couldn't believe what I was reading. I didn't enter a

457
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:42,240
Speaker 1: fugue state. If you g u e, that's a word. Fugue.

458
00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:46,119
Speaker 1: That's a word. I'm learning a new word. Hold on,

459
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 1: I'm googling this one. Fugue state. Okay, let's see it.

460
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:53,399
Speaker 1: Tast associative fugue. It's a temporary state where a person

461
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 1: has memory loss and ends up in an unexpected place.

462
00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:59,919
Speaker 1: Oh wow, memory laws. Okay, Okay, I didn't enter a

463
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 1: few state when I wrote it, so she said. I

464
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:03,439
Speaker 1: wasn't so mad that I forgot, she said, but the

465
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 1: venom in what I wrote took me back. I don't

466
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 1: attack people like that in my daily life, and I

467
00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:11,200
Speaker 1: still don't like Sandy. But I could have just said

468
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:14,040
Speaker 1: that or more sensibly stopped watching the show, rather than

469
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 1: the vicious things I said to her, I had to

470
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 1: delete it because I was so ashamed, and I can't

471
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 1: apologize because she understandably blocked me. I haven't done it since,

472
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 1: but I don't forget that I did it, and there's

473
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 1: obviously a nasty part of me that I need to

474
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 1: work on. Okay, this the funny part is in the beginning,

475
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 1: when she was like, she noticed Sandy didn't respond, Why

476
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:38,919
Speaker 1: do you think people are gonna respond to your nastiness?

477
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:41,359
Speaker 1: You don't say something horrible you think you're gonna get

478
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:46,359
Speaker 1: a response? Thanks for that? Thanks howel right, thanks for

479
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:51,199
Speaker 1: the info. That is that. But I'm happy that she

480
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 1: realized that that was wrong, Like it was like ridiculous,

481
00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:57,240
Speaker 1: Like this is this this amount of hate and venom

482
00:26:57,320 --> 00:26:59,199
Speaker 1: or whatever she said to Sandy, Like this is just

483
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 1: this is too my ch and it's not it's just

484
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 1: not good to like harbor that in your own just

485
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 1: in your being, Like you know, the fact that someone

486
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 1: can write and type something it hits sin Like that's

487
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 1: not healthy for you. It's not. And you have to

488
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 1: also realize that, um, you shouldn't get that worked up

489
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 1: about a person that you don't know and you're watching

490
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:21,000
Speaker 1: a television show and you have to keep in mind

491
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 1: Sandy because she's a nice lady, is a person, like

492
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:29,120
Speaker 1: you say, but you're sputing hatred and non speeding sputing

493
00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:34,159
Speaker 1: is not unaworth that spewing, spewing. You're spewing hatred to

494
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 1: a person you don't even know, right because because you're

495
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 1: watching a show, a highly edited one, yes, and highly snippets,

496
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 1: and Sandy is very nice. Yeah, yeah, we like Sandy. Okay, um, okay,

497
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 1: this is a question for Robin from Jennifer and I

498
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 1: think I've said this on the podcast, but you know,

499
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 1: just saying it again, she said. First, let me just

500
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:55,199
Speaker 1: say I love the podcast. She said, how do you

501
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 1: feel about fans approaching you in public? I actually saw

502
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 1: you at the grocery store the night before Thanksgiving. Yes,

503
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 1: that was like the one day I actually went in

504
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 1: the store because I always get my stuff delivered, but

505
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:07,640
Speaker 1: like Thanksgiving, I'm like, no, I need to make sure

506
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:10,360
Speaker 1: I get my stuff right. Okay, she said, Well, part

507
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 1: of me wanted to be like robbing my girl. The

508
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,120
Speaker 1: other part of me was like, leave her alone. By

509
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:22,440
Speaker 1: the way, you're absolutely gorgeous in person. You probably yes, yes,

510
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:24,199
Speaker 1: Robin is very pretty. Guys, I just want you to

511
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 1: know so beautifully yourself. Yes. But but Jennifer, like in anyone,

512
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:32,159
Speaker 1: if you see me out, um, please say hi. You

513
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,959
Speaker 1: know I would rather say hi then to look at

514
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 1: me all weird. You know we're act weird. Say just

515
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 1: say or do do you not? Do you hate when

516
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 1: people you know that they want there, like they're like teetering,

517
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:50,320
Speaker 1: They're like they see you there. You know that they're excited.

518
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 1: They you know that they want to come over, but

519
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:53,720
Speaker 1: they don't know what to do, so they're just like

520
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 1: it's like they're doing a double Dutch dance there, right,

521
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 1: and they're trying to figure it out. Right. So if

522
00:28:58,080 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 1: I see that, I'll just like I'll just say hi,

523
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 1: Like I'll just kind of be like hi, and I'll

524
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 1: and I'll keep walking. And then I think if they

525
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 1: feel like that, I think that makes them feel more

526
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 1: comfortable to come you know, ask for a picture or whatever. Yeah,

527
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 1: So if I if I can sense that somebody is

528
00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 1: acting like really weird, then I'll just be like hi. Um.

529
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 1: But otherwise yeah, I mean it's just if you see me,

530
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:23,760
Speaker 1: oun't please say hello? Yes, because we're really nice people. Yeah,

531
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 1: I can pretty much safely say, I have never cussed

532
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 1: anyone out in public that I did not know that

533
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 1: came up to me and said, Hi, So it's never

534
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 1: gonna happen, right, But you have you have rejected someone.

535
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 1: I have rejected a picture. Yes, I have, only because

536
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 1: I was in the middle of the booth and it

537
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 1: was freaking Mother's Day and you were eating and I

538
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,880
Speaker 1: was eating, Like, don't do that. Yeah, yeah, that's that's

539
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 1: the only time any any other time, by the way,

540
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 1: I went. When I was in New York, I went

541
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:55,240
Speaker 1: to the met the Metropolitan Museum of Art. I don't

542
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 1: think I've been there for parties. I've never been there

543
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 1: just to like, look at this stuff. It is nice.

544
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 1: It is very very nice. Yeah, they have like a

545
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:09,959
Speaker 1: special exhibit going on the kids. The twins really want

546
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 1: to go graces, but the twins, you know, they want

547
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 1: to go. They want to read what's on the descriptions

548
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 1: of things. It was very nice. Um. I never enjoyed

549
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 1: going to the Art Museum, neither neither to die. But

550
00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:24,400
Speaker 1: if I enjoyed it, they had what impressed me as

551
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 1: they had a geisha room and it was all of

552
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 1: these not geisha, a kimono room, and it was all

553
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 1: of these different very ornate that were freaking gorgeous. Oh

554
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 1: that's nice. Um. So I enjoyed all that, but I

555
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 1: was when I was there, I was remembering. I went

556
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:45,719
Speaker 1: to the rooftop of the hotel I was staying in

557
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 1: and the guy like sat me down and he was like,

558
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 1: I just want you to know I put you over

559
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 1: here because I know who you are. And I was like,

560
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 1: thank you. Right, So anytime you want to act like that,

561
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 1: I'm all down. Yes. He was like, I just want

562
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 1: to make to you comfortable. I was like, I'm very comfortable.

563
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 1: That is funny, Indie. All right, what else you got?

564
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 1: This was just real quick. This from Kelly over in Australia. Hi,

565
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 1: Kelly Evans. She said, love your show listening over here

566
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 1: in Australia. You both always keep me entertained and informed.

567
00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 1: I just thought you should tell you up how many

568
00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 1: shady moments have been Wan Dixon? Ha ha ha ha

569
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, so that that's does she tell you up? No? No, no,

570
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 1: should tell you it up? Okay, all of your shady

571
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 1: moments are one she said. Wait, she said, he's a

572
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 1: good sport not being dramatic about his all his shady moments. Um,

573
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 1: he doesn't know, guys, I know, moment, but does he listen? No?

574
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 1: What does he just never listen to your podcast? No

575
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 1: one Antonia, he should not listen? Yeah, does he know

576
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 1: we refer to him as Wane Antonio? Um? Sometimes, yeah,

577
00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,640
Speaker 1: I think it does. Okay, Okay, he's fine with that. Yes,

578
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 1: um yeah, so yeah, he's he's he's definitely a good

579
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 1: sport about it because he doesn't know. I love it,

580
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:10,360
Speaker 1: she said. But I'm here for all the moments. Um

581
00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 1: she said. Not packing for a trip, not unpacking after

582
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 1: a trip. He he he hashtag recently shady hashtag. So

583
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 1: she is definitely a robin. Why because she hates packing

584
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:24,120
Speaker 1: and she never I don't know, that's my shady She's

585
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 1: talking about some of the shady moments I have explained about.

586
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 1: One explained about what. But I thought that was Carter

587
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 1: that didn't unpack. Oh yes, well that was well. Remember

588
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 1: I think early on when we moved, we had I

589
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 1: think one of my shady moments, just like we've lived

590
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:43,760
Speaker 1: in this house for like so long, and one still

591
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 1: hadn't he had not stuff. So that's probably what she's

592
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 1: talking about. But yeah, oh yeah, carter with the molded

593
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:54,160
Speaker 1: So how are you handling the boys Christmas presents this year?

594
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:58,240
Speaker 1: Because I've I have told my girls, like, you have

595
00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 1: to send me your links now, yeah, you know what

596
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 1: I need to We did that last year. So we

597
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:06,040
Speaker 1: did like the whole Elfster thing last year and they

598
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 1: would send links and that worked pretty well. So I

599
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 1: need to, um, I need to get that. Thank you

600
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 1: for reminding me. I need to get that back up.

601
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 1: Especially so like before my boys would have like they

602
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 1: really it was like there wouldn't be a whole lot

603
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 1: for them to ask for for Christmas because I would

604
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 1: just they would just like have everything, right, And they

605
00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 1: went to public school and so they always needed like

606
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 1: you know, new shoes and sweat paints and blah blah.

607
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:32,880
Speaker 1: So now they're in private school, Oh they don't need anything.

608
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 1: Well they don't so so right, So on a daily basis,

609
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:40,720
Speaker 1: they don't need anything. But now when they go to

610
00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 1: like actually get dressed to like go somewhere, they have nothing.

611
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:46,760
Speaker 1: Oh so you gotta hook him, Okay, So you got

612
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:48,880
Speaker 1: to take care of all that because like Corey's growing,

613
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 1: Like Corey literally is wearing wands, clothes and shoes. Yeah, yeah,

614
00:33:56,560 --> 00:34:00,080
Speaker 1: like he goes in that's he's he is enjoying in

615
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 1: life right now because he goes in one's closet and

616
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 1: just takes his shoes. He can take his shoes, takes

617
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 1: his everything, his shoes, his pants. So he's probably his

618
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 1: feet are probably gonna be bigger than one probably when

619
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:14,840
Speaker 1: he's done. Probably so so. And then you know, Carter's

620
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:17,840
Speaker 1: growing like so they just they're like growing out of

621
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:21,680
Speaker 1: their clothes and so they definitely need stuff where before

622
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 1: they just you know, I always had to buy them stuff. Yeah,

623
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 1: Grace gave me her whole list of links she could

624
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:31,760
Speaker 1: She could have sent me like maybe like ten links.

625
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:36,200
Speaker 1: The total on that could have been three d four dollars,

626
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:39,480
Speaker 1: like it was three hundred three oh four like we

627
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:44,439
Speaker 1: could have been because she sent me. Yes, yes, one

628
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:47,400
Speaker 1: thing was from Sepphor it was it was mascara. Another

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Speaker 1: thing was like not lip class. She didn't see me.

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Speaker 1: She sent me um crocs right, the crocks won't sound

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Speaker 1: for thirty five dollars. I was like, let's get four pairs.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, like like I I appreciate the

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Speaker 1: fact that they're not asking for um. You're lucky because

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Speaker 1: my boys will send me a link from um stock

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Speaker 1: X for a pair of you know, I don't know

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Speaker 1: Jordan's that are three and fifty dollars or something. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she did have a couple of pairs, like she had

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Speaker 1: a couple of New Balance and some Nikes on there,

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Speaker 1: and but they weren't they were like one was a hundred,

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Speaker 1: one was like two hundred. So maybe I did spend

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Speaker 1: more than that, But I mean I felt like I

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Speaker 1: was like, Wow, this is great. Kids are saving me

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Speaker 1: my coins. Yeah, that's girls, that's girls. Yes, but you

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Speaker 1: have three of them, so I'm sure. Yes, it adds

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Speaker 1: it adds up. And you know they still like those

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Speaker 1: little stupid um sites like fashion Ova issues. I can't

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Speaker 1: there's a bunch of different names whim. I can't remember

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Speaker 1: the names, but like those the clothes will be like

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Speaker 1: where it wants to throw it away. Now I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: move on, Lord have mercy. Anyway, that is our episode.

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