WEBVTT - Ep. 24 "What The Hell Do Men Want?!" 0:00:00.960 --> 0:00:06.640 Talk we're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion. 0:00:07.200 --> 0:00:12.879 Who talks back? Hey, it's your girl, Hey j Welcome 0:00:12.880 --> 0:00:16.160 to a new episode of We Talk Back. We appreciate 0:00:16.200 --> 0:00:20.960 you tuning in. And it's tam maam I missed y'all. Oh, 0:00:21.079 --> 0:00:26.840 thank you. So apparently we have some guests on this week, right, 0:00:26.960 --> 0:00:30.040 we have some guests, some some of the other species. 0:00:32.280 --> 0:00:35.560 So we mentioned us not knowing what the funk these 0:00:35.600 --> 0:00:39.239 guys want, So we decided we would bring some gentlemen 0:00:39.320 --> 0:00:42.160 on and talk to them about what they really want 0:00:42.200 --> 0:00:44.080 and see if they can be honest and vulnerable with 0:00:44.200 --> 0:00:49.040 us enough to explain what they expect out of women. So, gentlemen, 0:00:49.880 --> 0:00:55.440 tell us who you are, tell us a little about themselves. Um, 0:00:56.120 --> 0:01:00.280 let's see where do I start. I need to be cooking. Yeah, 0:01:00.320 --> 0:01:03.000 I'm kidding. I'm originally from South Carolina, been in Charlotte 0:01:03.040 --> 0:01:08.080 since what two thousand seven? Promoter chef, Um, it's pretty 0:01:08.160 --> 0:01:09.800 much what I do. I just laid back in, chill 0:01:10.640 --> 0:01:12.640 in my life. That's what I like. And then tell 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:15.200 us about yourself, sir, your name and where are you from? 0:01:15.319 --> 0:01:18.759 What you did? This red wine is exquisite. You got 0:01:18.800 --> 0:01:22.959 your painting up like, oh my bo I forgot sported 0:01:22.959 --> 0:01:25.959 at Mr Movie Time from gonna do a lot, serial 0:01:26.200 --> 0:01:32.440 entrepreneur promote clothing line, real estate, um a lot. I 0:01:32.520 --> 0:01:35.560 just I can't even remember. I always forget something j 0:01:37.280 --> 0:01:38.880 all of that. Now I just do a lot. I'm 0:01:39.040 --> 0:01:44.120 I'm a serial entrepreneur, brand and and and well known 0:01:44.200 --> 0:01:50.360 throughout the Southeast um region of the United States of America. 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:55.360 Went I went to Jamaica and they recognized me to 0:01:57.760 --> 0:02:02.120 got booked in dubaiole Okay, so worldwide sport went to Africa, 0:02:02.160 --> 0:02:05.800 had to do a party exactly. So that's pretty dope. 0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:09.560 So okay, both of y'all are pretty good. How much 0:02:09.560 --> 0:02:12.200 I got to do to be good? She said? Dope? 0:02:12.400 --> 0:02:19.239 First of all? Okay, sorry they are so we want 0:02:19.240 --> 0:02:23.040 to ask you all some questions about relationships in your 0:02:23.120 --> 0:02:26.520 dynamics with women. Are both of you single or any 0:02:26.560 --> 0:02:31.040 of you in relationships aship? Okay? Really? How long we've 0:02:31.040 --> 0:02:35.160 been for like twelve years but officially recently it's been 0:02:35.320 --> 0:02:41.000 consistent for last ten months. Okay, congratulations to that. I'm 0:02:41.080 --> 0:02:47.920 single as of January newly single. How long were you 0:02:47.960 --> 0:02:52.760 in a relationship? About about two of them? Things about 0:02:52.760 --> 0:02:58.480 two years at two different people. Noify, Yes, you have 0:02:58.600 --> 0:03:01.919 to be real specific with these dudes. Man, about two 0:03:01.919 --> 0:03:06.760 and a half except for two and a half years, Kenneth, 0:03:07.720 --> 0:03:10.440 What makes these ten months different from the last twelve years? 0:03:11.440 --> 0:03:14.639 Good questions. Um, Honestly, I feel like I was. I'm 0:03:14.639 --> 0:03:16.640 in a more mature space and I was over that time, 0:03:17.000 --> 0:03:20.480 just a little bit more set up, kind of knowing 0:03:20.480 --> 0:03:22.000 who I am or what I want, you know what 0:03:22.040 --> 0:03:26.080 I mean. So I think I could actually have given 0:03:26.080 --> 0:03:28.600 the relationship at this point in time what it needed 0:03:28.840 --> 0:03:31.639 versus you know, little ship didn't playing around over of 0:03:31.720 --> 0:03:36.120 course at that time. So you guys have any kids? 0:03:37.080 --> 0:03:43.800 I don't, no kids? They want no kids? All right? 0:03:44.960 --> 0:03:49.800 For what? You got to have two beautiful young young lads, 0:03:50.320 --> 0:03:54.520 a boy and a girl. She's six, mirror he's eleven. 0:03:54.840 --> 0:04:00.160 They're both beautiful. They're so beautiful. I love him, Thank 0:04:00.200 --> 0:04:05.200 you so much. As long as they're newborns, you're good. No. 0:04:05.400 --> 0:04:16.000 They The big question is what do men want? Sloppy yo, man, Okay, 0:04:17.000 --> 0:04:19.360 I just had to answer store. I know some people 0:04:19.360 --> 0:04:20.880 who don't like a lot of spin on their dick, 0:04:20.960 --> 0:04:29.120 so you can only speak for itself. Wow, right. I 0:04:29.120 --> 0:04:34.880 mean they don't know, right, right. He told me that 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:39.160 some like that, and I'm like, I didn't even know 0:04:39.320 --> 0:04:42.800 Nick has existed like that. They don't like they don't 0:04:42.839 --> 0:04:46.280 like it sloppy. So that's all that's all you can get. 0:04:46.320 --> 0:04:48.680 Like this is such a layer. It's just such a 0:04:48.760 --> 0:04:50.920 layer question. I feel like there's so many angles to it, 0:04:51.000 --> 0:04:53.600 like so just talk to speak to one. You can't 0:04:53.760 --> 0:04:55.960 what do we want in what aspect from what you 0:04:56.000 --> 0:05:00.200 know from from from my wife, she knowed, she that 0:04:59.640 --> 0:05:05.200 was that's why men want somebody that's solid. Got to 0:05:05.200 --> 0:05:11.600 be solid. You gotta be trustworthy, you have to be um. 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:14.200 We don't got we We can't have to worry about y'all. 0:05:14.760 --> 0:05:16.479 You know what I'm saying, Like she gonna hold it 0:05:16.480 --> 0:05:19.360 down for me. Like if I lived in this building 0:05:19.920 --> 0:05:22.640 and you was coming to see me, I got to 0:05:22.640 --> 0:05:27.120 feel comfortable that it might be fucking Cam Newton, baby 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:30.560 Jesus and whoever else in this built on elevated with 0:05:30.600 --> 0:05:33.039 you and you not. It's just whatever that's big for 0:05:33.080 --> 0:05:35.320 me because of the circles that I play in and 0:05:35.520 --> 0:05:40.240 the stuff that I do. And I say, solid, trustworthy 0:05:40.520 --> 0:05:43.000 gott to be disgusting if you're not disgusting, it's not 0:05:43.040 --> 0:05:46.720 gonna last. Like when you can't be like learning disgusting 0:05:46.720 --> 0:05:49.599 this because we're grown. We don't feel like going through that. 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:51.760 So you can't teach a woman what you like at 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:54.560 this point. I don't know. I beg they're different on that. 0:05:55.040 --> 0:05:58.160 I feel like you can't in that aspect. In that aspect, 0:05:58.160 --> 0:06:01.320 like in a sexual aspect, you can teach uh without it. 0:06:01.880 --> 0:06:04.560 You definitely can cheat them. Yeah, but you don't want 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:07.040 to teach. You want them to come with the general knowledge, right, 0:06:07.080 --> 0:06:09.000 you don't. I have a problem. I want them to 0:06:09.200 --> 0:06:12.599 come nasty. But in my mind, in my mind, you 0:06:12.680 --> 0:06:14.920 never did it before right to say so you want 0:06:14.960 --> 0:06:20.040 her to have her nat You might have had sex 0:06:20.440 --> 0:06:23.720 after your prom, but after that between that time like that, 0:06:23.839 --> 0:06:26.080 I don't think you su nobody. I'm a realist. I 0:06:26.160 --> 0:06:28.159 know what time it is is what it is. Everybody 0:06:28.160 --> 0:06:31.680 to somebody, that's that's just the reality. And everybody got close. 0:06:31.760 --> 0:06:34.520 But you didn't give him. Everybody somebody I've been set 0:06:34.920 --> 0:06:38.960 and you didn't get nobody. I ever realist. I ain't 0:06:38.720 --> 0:06:42.680 ain't eve about to trick myself like that. That don't 0:06:42.720 --> 0:06:46.400 like your fifth grade boyfriend, like I think a fifth 0:06:46.400 --> 0:06:48.520 grade man that nigga, Bro, I'm the nigger that don't 0:06:48.520 --> 0:06:53.200 give us about him. So you are. So you're territorial 0:06:53.360 --> 0:06:56.440 over your woman like almost like she's a possession versus 0:06:56.880 --> 0:07:01.000 a person. I own her and that's say, no, she 0:07:01.120 --> 0:07:06.760 owns me too. We know you don't own anyone. Why anyone? 0:07:07.560 --> 0:07:10.040 What do you mean she is my possession? No she 0:07:10.200 --> 0:07:13.480 is not. She is a human persons, not to be possessed. No, 0:07:13.600 --> 0:07:21.360 she possessed. And because look watch this, everybody wants to 0:07:21.360 --> 0:07:24.560 think I'm crazy. How you treat a rental car terrible? 0:07:24.880 --> 0:07:27.960 How you treat your car rental cars, dogging them out 0:07:28.000 --> 0:07:33.960 with no dope gas, nothing you can talk about like 0:07:34.040 --> 0:07:39.880 from the words I've treating up the great from example, 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:43.000 see how you treat a rental car terrible, But the 0:07:43.000 --> 0:07:45.280 one that you own, you don't treat them like this. 0:07:45.480 --> 0:07:50.360 But are we comparing significant others two cars? Tangible things? 0:07:50.440 --> 0:07:53.080 Were comparing it to whatever you're gonna take care of 0:07:53.400 --> 0:07:57.080 and it's not ownership like like like like I own 0:07:57.160 --> 0:08:00.720 you like I'm your master. But now like this is 0:08:00.760 --> 0:08:03.480 your dick, bro, this is you own it like you 0:08:05.680 --> 0:08:08.240 and I own and that's my pussy and I own 0:08:08.280 --> 0:08:10.840 it and I own you. But but but it's not 0:08:10.880 --> 0:08:13.560 controlling like it's hard. If you don't know me, then 0:08:13.640 --> 0:08:15.800 you may not understand what I'm saying. And at that 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:18.040 point I really don't. So you don't cheat in relationships, 0:08:18.040 --> 0:08:21.280 That's what I'm hearing. No, No, I'm cheating. M hm. 0:08:22.440 --> 0:08:27.880 I have we listen. We only can be as good 0:08:27.880 --> 0:08:30.280 as our last last ship, my last laship. I didn't cheat, 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:34.400 did that? So what caused that relationship to dissolve? It 0:08:34.720 --> 0:08:38.839 wasn't know she was a dumb fuck. She was a 0:08:38.920 --> 0:08:43.800 dumb clock it out. I mean, just be honest, so 0:08:43.840 --> 0:08:47.040 we can we can say that intelligence and we can 0:08:47.080 --> 0:08:51.560 say that men do want to tell you very tough. 0:08:51.760 --> 0:08:54.920 It's not dumb and it is unintelligence. There'll be more clear. 0:08:55.040 --> 0:08:57.040 Just didn't work out, two different levels. It just didn't 0:08:57.080 --> 0:08:59.520 work out. Let me. I'm just for listening. Much younger 0:08:59.559 --> 0:09:03.439 than yes, she was. She was okay, listeners, I'm I'm joking. 0:09:04.200 --> 0:09:07.640 Please understand. I love you all, I respect everyone. Just 0:09:07.679 --> 0:09:10.760 do not think. Do not take this too serious. But 0:09:10.760 --> 0:09:13.040 but no, it was just it was just bad time. 0:09:13.080 --> 0:09:14.920 I don't I don't I don't have a you know, 0:09:14.960 --> 0:09:16.559 when you just kind of broke up. You don't got 0:09:16.600 --> 0:09:18.760 that good dressed up answer yet you only got the 0:09:18.800 --> 0:09:21.960 real one you ain't really got. I feel like I 0:09:21.960 --> 0:09:23.760 feel like, oh, then we're gonna with the dump. Then 0:09:24.280 --> 0:09:26.400 I don't feel like y'all would just y'all would just 0:09:26.640 --> 0:09:30.319 y'all were in two different places. How old? Okay? How 0:09:30.360 --> 0:09:32.720 old was she in comparison to you? How many years apart? 0:09:32.800 --> 0:09:36.959 How young was she? Mmm? I don't know. Oh you 0:09:37.080 --> 0:09:44.199 remember a long time ago, man? Okay, okay, so you're 0:09:44.200 --> 0:09:47.240 about ten years ten plus years older, I mean give 0:09:47.280 --> 0:09:52.000 it take maybe seven to ten, you know, but so 0:09:52.160 --> 0:09:57.840 many maturity To be honest, I think it was that. 0:09:58.400 --> 0:10:00.240 I think. I think I think a lot of it 0:10:00.280 --> 0:10:04.840 stems from father. Like father figures man man like if 0:10:05.160 --> 0:10:08.200 you don't, it's about trusting in the man. If you 0:10:08.280 --> 0:10:10.720 didn't grow up trusting in the man, then you're starting 0:10:10.800 --> 0:10:14.480 way behind the curve of trusting the man. And to 0:10:14.559 --> 0:10:16.839 get to get the best out of out of a man, 0:10:17.240 --> 0:10:20.959 he got to feel like you're relying on him, not monetarily, 0:10:21.679 --> 0:10:24.080 but like if I sunk up, I'm sucking her life 0:10:24.160 --> 0:10:26.360 up to like she put her trust in me, you 0:10:26.400 --> 0:10:28.679 know what I'm saying. And if you if a dude 0:10:28.720 --> 0:10:32.319 don't get that, then he can't operate. You know what 0:10:32.360 --> 0:10:37.199 I'm saying in my opinion, sense of responsibility. Yeah, it's 0:10:37.240 --> 0:10:39.400 it's it's it's it's just it's all about just trust. 0:10:39.400 --> 0:10:41.480 So I just think that that's you know, that was 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:44.200 a major thing that was missing and just her not 0:10:44.320 --> 0:10:47.560 trusting you or you're not trusting her. No, just trusting 0:10:47.640 --> 0:10:49.679 in men period. I don't think she's trusting the men. 0:10:49.760 --> 0:10:52.600 And then also just social media or it's just a 0:10:52.720 --> 0:10:57.040 it's a travesty. Yeah. Yeah, if you don't stop talking 0:10:57.080 --> 0:11:03.080 like that would beat your ass. It's such a travesty 0:11:04.559 --> 0:11:07.480 that thing, that thing, like I really like that. Shu 0:11:07.600 --> 0:11:09.640 made me want to start a whole initiative like going 0:11:09.679 --> 0:11:12.640 to the elementary schools and and and like and you 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:15.120 know how we had there because crack took over. Like 0:11:15.200 --> 0:11:18.440 social media is really the new Crackly, we need a 0:11:18.440 --> 0:11:20.800 program to go around and speak to young boys and 0:11:20.840 --> 0:11:23.960 young girls and so that they understand like this is 0:11:24.040 --> 0:11:28.040 all bullshit. It's like it's like fake reality TV. It's 0:11:28.080 --> 0:11:30.120 like also the music, now, we got to add the 0:11:30.200 --> 0:11:33.720 music in there too. I really feel like I feel 0:11:33.720 --> 0:11:35.760 like young men don't fall in love because it rap 0:11:35.840 --> 0:11:37.440 music tells you don't have to, and then it just 0:11:37.480 --> 0:11:39.920 tell you girls the bust of wide open for a 0:11:39.920 --> 0:11:44.040 real nigga, and and it tells young girls to to 0:11:44.160 --> 0:11:47.520 make them, make them, make guys spend money on them 0:11:48.040 --> 0:11:50.440 eating then it makes it makes men not even feel 0:11:50.440 --> 0:11:52.720 worthy if they if they don't hand them like who 0:11:52.920 --> 0:11:55.680 nobody's gonna start off broke together no more. That's like 0:11:55.720 --> 0:11:57.840 a thing of the past that was in the nineties. 0:11:58.000 --> 0:12:01.920 Like people are sharning off broke together. They still are. 0:12:02.000 --> 0:12:03.719 They ain't got no choice, But what do you get 0:12:03.760 --> 0:12:08.760 on in relationships? And they ain't got ship But but 0:12:08.800 --> 0:12:11.160 it's not up front. It's not like it's not like 0:12:11.160 --> 0:12:13.800 like Timmy, I don't got it, like I got these dreams, 0:12:13.800 --> 0:12:16.320 I got this this ambition, but right now I'm just 0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:18.319 trying to go get it. And you like, I mean, 0:12:18.360 --> 0:12:20.240 I support that, like you know, as long as you 0:12:20.240 --> 0:12:21.880 know we're gonna do it. It It ain't none of that. 0:12:22.280 --> 0:12:24.080 This nigga acting like he got it, but he don't 0:12:24.120 --> 0:12:26.199 got it. He doesn't spend his laugh on him the oars. 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:29.120 You know what I'm saying. His last, and she and 0:12:29.400 --> 0:12:32.600 taking out he don't got pregnant, and now she's like 0:12:32.720 --> 0:12:36.800 damn here And then dudes, you got dudes like money 0:12:36.840 --> 0:12:39.320 bag yo, who they just openly be like, I know 0:12:39.360 --> 0:12:41.000 she wouldn't sunk with me if I don't have bread. 0:12:41.640 --> 0:12:45.520 He's talking about his girlfriend, bro, Like like you like 0:12:45.600 --> 0:12:47.400 you you said, you're saying, like, I know I'm ugly. 0:12:47.520 --> 0:12:49.400 I know that she wouldn't poke with me unless I 0:12:49.440 --> 0:12:51.959 was rich, And you're comfortable with that? Like, but they 0:12:52.080 --> 0:12:54.520 really fucked up, bro, Well you have to be comfortable 0:12:54.559 --> 0:12:58.040 with women being attracted to resources. No woman wants any 0:12:58.080 --> 0:13:00.680 man who doesn't have anything to bring to the table. 0:13:01.200 --> 0:13:04.160 And right now women are bringing a lot. We're coming 0:13:04.240 --> 0:13:06.680 with a lot right now. I disagree. Would you be 0:13:06.760 --> 0:13:09.160 comfortable with somebody was only attracted to your ass, Like 0:13:09.200 --> 0:13:10.959 if you didn't have your ass, then they didn't wuldn't 0:13:11.600 --> 0:13:14.520 I feel like that is very real? Like men are 0:13:14.520 --> 0:13:18.559 attracted to ask men are men? Men love aesthetically, they 0:13:18.600 --> 0:13:22.160 love visually, right, So men are way more shallow than women. 0:13:22.640 --> 0:13:25.360 So true, y'all all right, but but you've been had 0:13:25.400 --> 0:13:28.480 to deal with that. I don't think some of the 0:13:28.520 --> 0:13:33.720 men that I attracted, and then I attract men who 0:13:33.760 --> 0:13:35.960 like nice smiles as well. Then you put the smile 0:13:36.000 --> 0:13:43.280 and ask together. It's a smiley ass. But now I 0:13:43.320 --> 0:13:46.600 feel what you're saying. I just feel like it's just bad. 0:13:46.600 --> 0:13:48.840 I think. I don't know. I disagree with you, Sammy. 0:13:48.960 --> 0:13:53.680 I'm sorry about men being comfortable with women being attracted resources. Don't. 0:13:53.720 --> 0:13:56.480 Don't be attracted to my resources because these ships can 0:13:56.559 --> 0:14:00.360 go and they're gonna go like every like it could 0:14:00.360 --> 0:14:01.880 be up and then it could be down. So if 0:14:01.880 --> 0:14:06.960 you just attracted to my resources, you ain't. So what 0:14:07.000 --> 0:14:09.520 I'm hearing is you want a woman as loyal right, 0:14:10.000 --> 0:14:13.880 what I'm hearing Okay, didn't want to provide her? No, 0:14:14.120 --> 0:14:16.160 she just needs a man that she loved and then 0:14:16.280 --> 0:14:19.600 he would provide. Yeah, but not every man is a provider. 0:14:20.120 --> 0:14:23.560 Well I don't know them. Okay. So you have a daughter, right, 0:14:24.080 --> 0:14:28.280 your daughter? What kind of standards would you like for 0:14:28.320 --> 0:14:30.840 your daughter to have? I will, I would want my 0:14:30.960 --> 0:14:33.880 daughter to marry a man. They could be broke and 0:14:33.960 --> 0:14:37.640 living in the worst can due to the house. Yes, 0:14:37.760 --> 0:14:40.560 if this nigga really love her, like like if if 0:14:40.600 --> 0:14:42.880 they don't got no food, he's going to find it 0:14:42.920 --> 0:14:44.920 like he gonna go like no matter what, I'd rather 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:49.040 that over rich nigga who who don't really love her 0:14:49.080 --> 0:14:51.800 like that, like he just sucking with her conda and 0:14:51.800 --> 0:14:54.080 and I don't see the love like I don't really 0:14:54.160 --> 0:14:56.640 man all I watched my mama die. I don't like, 0:14:56.680 --> 0:14:58.840 I don't give a funk about nothing material because you 0:14:58.880 --> 0:15:00.920 don't take none of it, which is when you die, 0:15:01.040 --> 0:15:03.320 you don't even know where you left it. The resources 0:15:03.320 --> 0:15:06.360 is like they're just like because because we like, your 0:15:06.400 --> 0:15:08.680 ass gonna drop one day, you know what I'm saying, 0:15:08.720 --> 0:15:12.920 you you're gonna you're gonna keep it uplifted, but you 0:15:12.920 --> 0:15:16.360 know one day it's gonna drop and U and teeth 0:15:16.600 --> 0:15:18.280 you know, and whatever I go, I don't know, you 0:15:18.400 --> 0:15:21.800 just never know. So I need that real love. What 0:15:21.880 --> 0:15:25.160 are deal breakers for y'all? Like, like completely deal breaker 0:15:27.240 --> 0:15:30.800 if they fuck somebody that isn't the second day I 0:15:30.880 --> 0:15:39.680 watched on TV off somebody from the Lakers man the time. 0:15:40.440 --> 0:15:42.960 You know what my my deal breaker is. My deal 0:15:43.000 --> 0:15:45.680 breaker is not being straight up. That is my biggest 0:15:45.720 --> 0:15:48.040 deal breaker. Be straight with me, Like, let me know 0:15:48.080 --> 0:15:49.400 what the funk you got going on? So I know 0:15:49.440 --> 0:15:51.440 what I'm dealing with, like if you don't somebody from 0:15:51.440 --> 0:15:54.960 the leggers tell me that, so I know if I 0:15:54.960 --> 0:15:56.760 want to deal with that, when you tell me after that, 0:15:56.760 --> 0:15:58.640 I'm just gonna hear. You know what I'm saying, But 0:15:58.800 --> 0:16:00.880 I'm a very straight sex with the girl and then 0:16:00.960 --> 0:16:04.560 leave her alone. Let her know that that's that's the 0:16:04.560 --> 0:16:06.520 only thing you're after. You're gonna make her feel like 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:14.080 it's more no way. So what I'm hearing is, let's 0:16:14.120 --> 0:16:16.880 because I like, I had a real good therapy session 0:16:17.000 --> 0:16:19.800 last week and we did mirroring, right, So what I'm 0:16:19.840 --> 0:16:23.720 hearing is is that y'all niggas don't want to funk 0:16:23.800 --> 0:16:29.440 behind rich niggas were just as rich. But it's not 0:16:29.480 --> 0:16:31.800 about that. It's about that we got to sit on 0:16:31.840 --> 0:16:33.440 the couch and I got to watch the nigga that 0:16:33.280 --> 0:16:35.680 you that you might have sucked, Okay, but you don't 0:16:35.720 --> 0:16:38.120 have nothing to do with the bread. Okay, I shouldn't 0:16:38.120 --> 0:16:41.080 have said TV. Let me say, if it's anybody that 0:16:41.160 --> 0:16:46.240 we got to see too much, like somebody basically not 0:16:46.280 --> 0:16:48.000 even somebody I know. I'm trying to think of what's 0:16:48.040 --> 0:16:50.800 another way of doing it. You would I feel like 0:16:50.800 --> 0:16:52.880 you would have been a radio personality if I got 0:16:52.880 --> 0:16:55.600 to hear his voice every day. Yeah, but I feel 0:16:55.600 --> 0:17:00.239 like you every time. Everybody don't gotta be sucking dead 0:17:00.320 --> 0:17:04.680 had sexual experience. Yeah, but especially as promoters. I'm sure 0:17:04.760 --> 0:17:09.720 you guys we keep it separate. We do business, we 0:17:09.840 --> 0:17:12.359 get and we do the party, we go home exactly. No, 0:17:12.359 --> 0:17:16.400 no lucky young ladies. None, no talking about yes, Okay, 0:17:16.560 --> 0:17:18.560 I don't believe that. But see, like I said, mine 0:17:18.640 --> 0:17:20.280 is being straight as long as you keep it straight 0:17:20.320 --> 0:17:22.359 with me and just be like my shallow you know 0:17:22.400 --> 0:17:24.120 what I'm saying, Like, when would you keep it straight 0:17:24.119 --> 0:17:25.440 with me and be like, yo, I gotta tell you, 0:17:25.520 --> 0:17:28.320 I such I used to sledge. All right, let me 0:17:28.400 --> 0:17:30.359 rationalize that. Let me let me rest on that, you 0:17:30.359 --> 0:17:32.000 know what I'm saying that that I know the change 0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:33.920 that you might not be able to rest on it. Yeah, 0:17:33.960 --> 0:17:35.480 that could be a change. Okay, so you kind of 0:17:35.520 --> 0:17:38.240 just like but no, but but it's it's it's it's 0:17:38.320 --> 0:17:40.399 if you don't tell me this and I got to 0:17:40.440 --> 0:17:42.919 find out, like on some sideway ship, you know, if 0:17:42.960 --> 0:17:46.320 somebody had a conversation and makes what like you know, 0:17:46.359 --> 0:17:48.240 I mean, I'll be in Coloch quarters with this nigger. 0:17:48.240 --> 0:17:49.920 You ain't tell me that's a deal breaking for me. 0:17:51.280 --> 0:17:53.760 So would you be okay if the girl was just 0:17:53.760 --> 0:17:57.680 sucking with some bumbass niggers because I've I've experienced that relationships. 0:17:59.000 --> 0:18:01.560 You see what I'm saying, Like, now you now you 0:18:01.600 --> 0:18:04.119 could go in on Now you can go in on 0:18:04.160 --> 0:18:08.680 me because I'm not used to your caliber of man, right, nigger, 0:18:09.119 --> 0:18:11.280 but you're holding the heat on me because upgraded the 0:18:11.320 --> 0:18:14.159 woman at that point. Now I'm joking, Um no, let 0:18:14.160 --> 0:18:15.679 me tell you. Let me be honest. I'm playing too 0:18:15.720 --> 0:18:17.439 much and I feel like everybody is going to get 0:18:17.480 --> 0:18:20.399 a false from this. So for clarity, I was serious 0:18:20.440 --> 0:18:22.439 about to shoot on TV. I'm not comfortable with that. 0:18:22.480 --> 0:18:24.359 I had to learn that, Like I don't because it's 0:18:24.400 --> 0:18:27.680 the caliber of type of girl out track. She probably 0:18:27.680 --> 0:18:30.680 don't work with the NFL, NBA. Somebody ended up. Happened 0:18:30.680 --> 0:18:32.479 a couple of times, and I'm uncomfortable. I don't even 0:18:32.520 --> 0:18:34.359 like watching the game. The more I wouldn't watch the 0:18:34.400 --> 0:18:39.200 whole season, then I don't. I don't. I don't give 0:18:39.200 --> 0:18:41.320 it because then it's like if we're both watching the game, 0:18:41.800 --> 0:18:44.600 think about it, though he don't not even if he don't, 0:18:44.680 --> 0:18:46.479 he could just be running down the court. You can 0:18:46.560 --> 0:18:49.360 have a quick day dream you right beside me. That's 0:18:49.359 --> 0:18:57.800 just that's what I don't think. Extra. Nobody wants somebody, 0:18:57.840 --> 0:19:01.280 So y'all don't care if y'all have a man, and 0:19:01.359 --> 0:19:03.879 y'all have to be around a person, and this is 0:19:03.960 --> 0:19:09.720 your exactly like we used to these pass around that's 0:19:09.800 --> 0:19:12.280 not possessive. First of all, I'm the type of person 0:19:12.359 --> 0:19:14.800 I want to experience people. I don't try to possess anybody. 0:19:14.840 --> 0:19:16.199 I will let you do what you want to do 0:19:16.240 --> 0:19:18.000 so I can see what you rather do. Make me 0:19:18.040 --> 0:19:21.840 feel like answers was wrong, and your answers are absolutely wrong. 0:19:22.000 --> 0:19:24.440 But what I was trying to say was you may 0:19:24.520 --> 0:19:28.800 feel more comfortable with a woman who has not dude 0:19:28.800 --> 0:19:31.600 does not know successful men, because then that that will 0:19:31.640 --> 0:19:33.280 be the problem, right, It won't be that I know 0:19:33.400 --> 0:19:37.199 successful men and now you're you're insecure because I know 0:19:37.320 --> 0:19:41.080 other successful men outside of you. No, I don't. I 0:19:41.119 --> 0:19:45.280 don't like that word. I don't. I don't because it's 0:19:45.359 --> 0:19:47.879 it's not an insecurity, it's just what I like. What 0:19:48.000 --> 0:19:50.640 I don't like, Like I think we are to control 0:19:50.680 --> 0:19:54.520 that you want ain't never dealt with nobody like I 0:19:54.560 --> 0:19:59.120 can't control successful. I can't. I can't control it. It's 0:19:59.119 --> 0:20:01.560 just if I find it or not. So then you 0:20:01.600 --> 0:20:03.760 would want her to not tell you know, you gotta 0:20:03.800 --> 0:20:06.840 tell me. So what I'm hearing is you would like 0:20:07.040 --> 0:20:09.560 a woman to write a list out of all the 0:20:09.600 --> 0:20:14.760 men she's been with so that you can Is that 0:20:14.840 --> 0:20:16.400 what you would like when you do that? In turn, 0:20:16.480 --> 0:20:18.359 for her write a list of every woman that you 0:20:18.440 --> 0:20:22.720 nigga can't remember that they've Let's not be my list. 0:20:22.800 --> 0:20:28.400 On one hand, it's you find this liar at girl, 0:20:28.760 --> 0:20:35.280 no one hand, go ahead, but cut it up? No, 0:20:36.440 --> 0:20:40.520 but no, okay, son want okay being honest, No, I 0:20:40.520 --> 0:20:44.720 don't want to list. I would just prefer that. But honestly, 0:20:44.800 --> 0:20:47.680 like it's all about when you tell the nigga too 0:20:48.040 --> 0:20:50.280 you know what I'm saying, because like, if you tell 0:20:50.320 --> 0:20:52.359 me too early, I'm already gonna be like, well this 0:20:52.359 --> 0:20:54.159 is how I'm a handle her. You know what I'm saying. Oh, 0:20:54.240 --> 0:20:56.600 I just don't even want no parts. But if you 0:20:56.680 --> 0:20:58.919 kind of wait, like maybe third or fourth date, we 0:20:59.000 --> 0:21:01.280 already got some great chemistry. And then you say, well, hey, 0:21:01.280 --> 0:21:02.760 I see where this is going. I just want to 0:21:02.800 --> 0:21:04.479 let then it might be a little more difficult from 0:21:04.480 --> 0:21:06.320 because I gonna start liking you, you know what I'm saying. 0:21:06.840 --> 0:21:09.560 So I probably could deal with it, you know what 0:21:09.560 --> 0:21:12.080 I'm saying. But it really depends on who it is like. 0:21:12.640 --> 0:21:16.520 It can't be like Puff, like somebody that I just 0:21:16.560 --> 0:21:20.240 really really like. So so it's not about the success 0:21:20.280 --> 0:21:23.600 of the man the better man. Yeah, if a woman 0:21:23.640 --> 0:21:25.280 were to funk with a bunch of bum maass niggers, 0:21:25.280 --> 0:21:28.080 you'd be looking at her sideways, right, But if she 0:21:28.119 --> 0:21:30.400 were to funk with a bunch of successful men, you're 0:21:30.440 --> 0:21:36.200 now looking internally. You see what I'm saying. Yeah, I 0:21:36.200 --> 0:21:38.200 think that makes sense for some people, but I think 0:21:38.200 --> 0:21:40.280 for me it's not. It's not about that. It's more 0:21:40.359 --> 0:21:43.880 so I just don't want to have to look at 0:21:43.960 --> 0:21:52.600 somebody that you sucked his dick. It's not like I 0:21:52.600 --> 0:21:54.920 don't want to have to look at him. See, Honestly, 0:21:55.200 --> 0:21:57.000 did I just say it could be a fifth grade boyfriend. 0:21:57.000 --> 0:21:58.800 I don't give a I shouldn't have said TV. That's 0:21:58.800 --> 0:22:02.120 why I funked up wind. The truth is it could 0:22:02.119 --> 0:22:05.280 be a nigger at work right at CVS. I'm not 0:22:05.320 --> 0:22:07.480 going in that CVS. No more, I don't want to 0:22:07.520 --> 0:22:11.600 have to look his eyes so that he could have 0:22:11.720 --> 0:22:13.960 done it on your face and something like because I 0:22:14.000 --> 0:22:16.840 know how you because we have sex, so I know 0:22:17.040 --> 0:22:19.399 I'll be saying I know what you'd be doing. I 0:22:19.440 --> 0:22:23.040 know exactly what happens. So I'm not going to that CVS. Well, 0:22:23.119 --> 0:22:28.320 he different, Let's talk, Kenneth, Go ahead, Kenneth. Like I said, 0:22:28.320 --> 0:22:30.959 I'm a realist, right, he knows this because I'm like 0:22:30.960 --> 0:22:34.720 a very I'm a very straight shooter, very very real 0:22:35.320 --> 0:22:36.800 I know that if you if you didn't talk to 0:22:36.800 --> 0:22:38.920