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Speaker 1: Talk we're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion.

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Speaker 1: Who talks back? Hey, it's your girl, Hey j Welcome

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Speaker 1: to a new episode of We Talk Back. We appreciate

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Speaker 1: you tuning in. And it's tam maam I missed y'all. Oh,

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Speaker 1: thank you. So apparently we have some guests on this week, right,

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Speaker 1: we have some guests, some some of the other species.

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Speaker 1: So we mentioned us not knowing what the funk these

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Speaker 1: guys want, So we decided we would bring some gentlemen

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Speaker 1: and see if they can be honest and vulnerable with

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Speaker 1: us enough to explain what they expect out of women. So, gentlemen,

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Speaker 1: tell us who you are, tell us a little about themselves. Um,

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Speaker 1: let's see where do I start. I need to be cooking. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm kidding. I'm originally from South Carolina, been in Charlotte

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Speaker 1: since what two thousand seven? Promoter chef, Um, it's pretty

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Speaker 1: much what I do. I just laid back in, chill

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Speaker 1: in my life. That's what I like. And then tell

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Speaker 1: us about yourself, sir, your name and where are you from?

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Speaker 1: What you did? This red wine is exquisite. You got

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Speaker 1: your painting up like, oh my bo I forgot sported

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Speaker 1: at Mr Movie Time from gonna do a lot, serial

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Speaker 1: entrepreneur promote clothing line, real estate, um a lot. I

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Speaker 1: just I can't even remember. I always forget something j

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Speaker 1: all of that. Now I just do a lot. I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm a serial entrepreneur, brand and and and well known

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Speaker 1: throughout the Southeast um region of the United States of America.

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Speaker 1: Went I went to Jamaica and they recognized me to

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Speaker 1: got booked in dubaiole Okay, so worldwide sport went to Africa,

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Speaker 1: had to do a party exactly. So that's pretty dope.

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Speaker 1: So okay, both of y'all are pretty good. How much

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Speaker 1: I got to do to be good? She said? Dope?

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Speaker 1: First of all? Okay, sorry they are so we want

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Speaker 1: to ask you all some questions about relationships in your

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Speaker 1: dynamics with women. Are both of you single or any

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Speaker 1: of you in relationships aship? Okay? Really? How long we've

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Speaker 1: been for like twelve years but officially recently it's been

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Speaker 1: consistent for last ten months. Okay, congratulations to that. I'm

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Speaker 1: single as of January newly single. How long were you

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Speaker 1: in a relationship? About about two of them? Things about

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Speaker 1: two years at two different people. Noify, Yes, you have

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Speaker 1: to be real specific with these dudes. Man, about two

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Speaker 1: and a half except for two and a half years, Kenneth,

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Speaker 1: What makes these ten months different from the last twelve years?

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Speaker 1: Good questions. Um, Honestly, I feel like I was. I'm

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Speaker 1: in a more mature space and I was over that time,

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Speaker 1: just a little bit more set up, kind of knowing

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Speaker 1: who I am or what I want, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean. So I think I could actually have given

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Speaker 1: the relationship at this point in time what it needed

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Speaker 1: versus you know, little ship didn't playing around over of

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Speaker 1: course at that time. So you guys have any kids?

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Speaker 1: I don't, no kids? They want no kids? All right?

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Speaker 1: For what? You got to have two beautiful young young lads,

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Speaker 1: a boy and a girl. She's six, mirror he's eleven.

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Speaker 1: They're both beautiful. They're so beautiful. I love him, Thank

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Speaker 1: you so much. As long as they're newborns, you're good. No.

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Speaker 1: They The big question is what do men want? Sloppy yo, man, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I just had to answer store. I know some people

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Speaker 1: who don't like a lot of spin on their dick,

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Speaker 1: so you can only speak for itself. Wow, right. I

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Speaker 1: mean they don't know, right, right. He told me that

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Speaker 1: some like that, and I'm like, I didn't even know

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Speaker 1: Nick has existed like that. They don't like they don't

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Speaker 1: like it sloppy. So that's all that's all you can get.

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Speaker 1: Like this is such a layer. It's just such a

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Speaker 1: like so just talk to speak to one. You can't

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Speaker 1: what do we want in what aspect from what you

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Speaker 1: know from from from my wife, she knowed, she that

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Speaker 1: was that's why men want somebody that's solid. Got to

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Speaker 1: be solid. You gotta be trustworthy, you have to be um.

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Speaker 1: We don't got we We can't have to worry about y'all.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like she gonna hold it

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Speaker 1: down for me. Like if I lived in this building

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Speaker 1: feel comfortable that it might be fucking Cam Newton, baby

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Speaker 1: Jesus and whoever else in this built on elevated with

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Speaker 1: this because we're grown. We don't feel like going through that.

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Speaker 1: So you can't teach a woman what you like at

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Speaker 1: You definitely can cheat them. Yeah, but you don't want

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Speaker 1: you don't. I have a problem. I want them to

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Speaker 1: come nasty. But in my mind, in my mind, you

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Speaker 1: after your prom, but after that between that time like that,

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Speaker 1: I don't think you su nobody. I'm a realist. I

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Speaker 1: know what time it is is what it is. Everybody

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Speaker 1: to somebody, that's that's just the reality. And everybody got close.

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Speaker 1: But you didn't give him. Everybody somebody I've been set

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Speaker 1: and you didn't get nobody. I ever realist. I ain't

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Speaker 1: ain't eve about to trick myself like that. That don't

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Speaker 1: like your fifth grade boyfriend, like I think a fifth

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Speaker 1: grade man that nigga, Bro, I'm the nigger that don't

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Speaker 1: give us about him. So you are. So you're territorial

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Speaker 1: a person. I own her and that's say, no, she

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Speaker 1: owns me too. We know you don't own anyone. Why anyone?

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Speaker 1: What do you mean she is my possession? No she

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Speaker 1: is not. She is a human persons, not to be possessed. No,

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Speaker 1: she possessed. And because look watch this, everybody wants to

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Speaker 1: think I'm crazy. How you treat a rental car terrible?

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Speaker 1: How you treat your car rental cars, dogging them out

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Speaker 1: with no dope gas, nothing you can talk about like

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Speaker 1: from the words I've treating up the great from example,

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Speaker 1: see how you treat a rental car terrible, But the

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Speaker 1: one that you own, you don't treat them like this.

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Speaker 1: But are we comparing significant others two cars? Tangible things?

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Speaker 1: Were comparing it to whatever you're gonna take care of

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Speaker 1: and it's not ownership like like like like I own

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Speaker 1: you like I'm your master. But now like this is

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Speaker 1: and I own and that's my pussy and I own

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Speaker 1: it and I own you. But but but it's not

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Speaker 1: controlling like it's hard. If you don't know me, then

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Speaker 1: you may not understand what I'm saying. And at that

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm hearing. No, No, I'm cheating. M hm.

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Speaker 1: did that? So what caused that relationship to dissolve? It

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Speaker 1: wasn't know she was a dumb fuck. She was a

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Speaker 1: we can we can say that intelligence and we can

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Speaker 1: say that men do want to tell you very tough.

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Speaker 1: It's not dumb and it is unintelligence. There'll be more clear.

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Speaker 1: Just didn't work out, two different levels. It just didn't

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Speaker 1: work out. Let me. I'm just for listening. Much younger

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Speaker 1: than yes, she was. She was okay, listeners, I'm I'm joking.

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Speaker 1: Please understand. I love you all, I respect everyone. Just

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Speaker 1: do not think. Do not take this too serious. But

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Speaker 1: but no, it was just it was just bad time.

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't I don't have a you know,

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Speaker 1: when you just kind of broke up. You don't got

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Speaker 1: feel like, oh, then we're gonna with the dump. Then

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Speaker 1: I don't feel like y'all would just y'all would just

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Speaker 1: y'all were in two different places. How old? Okay? How

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Speaker 1: old was she in comparison to you? How many years apart?

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Speaker 1: How young was she? Mmm? I don't know. Oh you

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Speaker 1: remember a long time ago, man? Okay, okay, so you're

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Speaker 1: about ten years ten plus years older, I mean give

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Speaker 1: he got to feel like you're relying on him, not monetarily,

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Speaker 1: but like if I sunk up, I'm sucking her life

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Speaker 1: nobody's gonna start off broke together no more. That's like

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Speaker 1: a thing of the past that was in the nineties.

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Speaker 1: Like people are sharning off broke together. They still are.

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Speaker 1: They ain't got no choice, But what do you get

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Speaker 1: on in relationships? And they ain't got ship But but

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Speaker 1: it's not up front. It's not like it's not like

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Speaker 1: like Timmy, I don't got it, like I got these dreams,

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Speaker 1: I got this this ambition, but right now I'm just

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Speaker 1: I support that, like you know, as long as you

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Speaker 1: This nigga acting like he got it, but he don't

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. His last, and she and

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Speaker 1: damn here And then dudes, you got dudes like money

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Speaker 1: He's talking about his girlfriend, bro, Like like you like

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Speaker 1: just that's what I don't think. Extra. Nobody wants somebody,

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Speaker 1: not possessive. First of all, I'm the type of person

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Speaker 1: feel like answers was wrong, and your answers are absolutely wrong.

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Speaker 1: does not know successful men, because then that that will

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Speaker 1: it's not an insecurity, it's just what I like. What

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Speaker 1: I just don't even want no parts. But if you

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Speaker 1: it is. And we didn't like that, won't bring that

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00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:36,600
Speaker 1: right back, and we can bring it back up just

422
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:39,160
Speaker 1: what it is, just what is, and then I'll be fine.

423
00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:43,200
Speaker 1: It's about how much I like head and how with

424
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:48,320
Speaker 1: my girlfriend, how I feel when she gives me head,

425
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 1: like if I had a girlfriend. But it's about how

426
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 1: it makes me feel, right, that feeling that I have.

427
00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:57,280
Speaker 1: You don't want the other man if I don't know know,

428
00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:00,520
Speaker 1: I know, I know, like we know it happened, but

429
00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:04,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to look nobody in their eyes if

430
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,480
Speaker 1: they had that same feeling that this is an exception,

431
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 1: just gonna sun your luck. It's so weird. But unless

432
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 1: y'all hair kids, I have no problem being cool with

433
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:17,720
Speaker 1: the baby daddy because something came out of it. To

434
00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:19,560
Speaker 1: judge me, I don't give a funk. But and she

435
00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:22,680
Speaker 1: probably sucked this more than anybody else, but something came

436
00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 1: out of it. It was for real, if he was

437
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:27,520
Speaker 1: if it was a person, he was just sliding you off.

438
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:29,640
Speaker 1: And y'alln't even had a relationship. What if she got

439
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 1: a house out of it? What if she got a

440
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:36,960
Speaker 1: house out the head? Oh god, children, no, it could

441
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 1: be a not so look, before we move on to

442
00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:53,440
Speaker 1: the next segment, let's have a word from our sponsors.

443
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 1: So does a woman's body count matter to you? Guys?

444
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:57,800
Speaker 1: I don't ask that question. I don't want to know

445
00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:00,920
Speaker 1: what your body count. If you're a real nick tell me.

446
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:03,359
Speaker 1: I do not want to fucking no, because you do

447
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:06,400
Speaker 1: not want to know my that's weird. I'm like, don't

448
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:09,880
Speaker 1: ask me, don't ask. He want to want he want

449
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 1: to beat you suck dick on the handstand when he

450
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:15,920
Speaker 1: snatched nobody else after prom that one time after that,

451
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:19,119
Speaker 1: it's weird. It's weird. I don't know. I don't think

452
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:24,159
Speaker 1: I'm gonna find it, But no, um, the body count.

453
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,200
Speaker 1: I don't ask the body count. I had one girl

454
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 1: that told me, like when I was younger, she told me,

455
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 1: and she was just trying to be honest, being open.

456
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:36,360
Speaker 1: We was talking and they just totally turned me off. Yeah,

457
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:38,000
Speaker 1: so I just I don't even want to know it,

458
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:42,200
Speaker 1: because you remember, the number got to stick insisted out

459
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:49,439
Speaker 1: of head situation with numbers kept fluctuating, humber going up

460
00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 1: or was it going But you know you got a

461
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:55,359
Speaker 1: motherly motherply by three. Yeah, women don't tell you the

462
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:57,440
Speaker 1: real number. I don't think any woman they do. Y'all

463
00:25:57,440 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 1: want to know that real number? Why that's a question

464
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 1: for you. I think that is the dumbest ship in

465
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 1: the world. First off, So how much does looks matter?

466
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 1: We already kind of talked about that, right, So I

467
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:11,440
Speaker 1: don't think it looks that much. That's whatever. Not that seriously,

468
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:15,920
Speaker 1: don't we got to be pretty? I like regular women.

469
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:18,920
Speaker 1: I don't want no team, give me no team. So

470
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:23,159
Speaker 1: you don't want you want regular women? What is regular men?

471
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:25,679
Speaker 1: Don't I don't want to Instagram model. I don't know

472
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 1: that she give me a regular degular chick. She might

473
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,359
Speaker 1: not have might not have a big old but she

474
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 1: might not have big old t You need a big,

475
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:37,240
Speaker 1: regular degular chick. I don't want so she wouldn't be you.

476
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:38,720
Speaker 1: You would call her a teen or you would be

477
00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:45,119
Speaker 1: like my ladies and my ladies soulidfied for the beginning.

478
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:48,520
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like like like a solid, a solid saying

479
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 1: she put on makeup that, but but you will still

480
00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:55,160
Speaker 1: tell her she's a ten though, right, you're my team,

481
00:26:55,760 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 1: so what you so Basically what I'm hearing is absolutely

482
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:07,399
Speaker 1: sound worse. No no, no, because what I'm hearing is

483
00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 1: let me Yeah, other things can make her a tend

484
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 1: like her? Is she resourceful? You know? It's just to

485
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 1: show empathy things like that, like aside from I feel

486
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:22,199
Speaker 1: like I feel like the looked thing like hopefully you

487
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:24,520
Speaker 1: kind of get away from that the more mature you get,

488
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:28,720
Speaker 1: because everybody, everybody's gonna give you the best initiative. You

489
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. First date, she gonna get you,

490
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:32,920
Speaker 1: She's gonna get her team, get your twil What the

491
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:34,639
Speaker 1: fun you look like when you take this makeup? You

492
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because I'm getting the team. As

493
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:39,040
Speaker 1: soon as I meet you, I meet you, I'm getting

494
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:40,399
Speaker 1: a tin. You know what I'm saying, We're going the

495
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:43,159
Speaker 1: first thing. I'm getting a version of a team. All right,

496
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:45,639
Speaker 1: so this is your best What the rest look like?

497
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 1: Let me know if I need to know if I

498
00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 1: can deal with that. Okay, you might come home, you

499
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 1: might come home from work and you look like a six. Cool,

500
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 1: but I know we get ready to go out, you're

501
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 1: gonna pop out looking like a tin. So I'm cool.

502
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 1: Okay with that? Cool? Got backed me a little bit.

503
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:05,159
Speaker 1: Just be good. Let's go figure that out. Okay, I

504
00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:08,560
Speaker 1: like that. I don't be tri How about some finances.

505
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:13,159
Speaker 1: What the finances got to be? Like a woman? I

506
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 1: ain't did it with no broke, no brokey brokey. My

507
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 1: thing with my thing with finances? This show some effort

508
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:21,879
Speaker 1: that if you if your money sucked up and you're

509
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:24,640
Speaker 1: working on get your money fixed. Cool. I get that.

510
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 1: What do you deal with a brokey brokey? Because you

511
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 1: said women should deal with a brokey brokey? Right? I

512
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 1: really don't good? You got money now nothing? So woman

513
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 1: doesn't have to bring any money to what? So after

514
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 1: my last relationship, I've been like learning what I liked

515
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:42,440
Speaker 1: and being honest with myself. And I said this to

516
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 1: myself yesterday, like literally yesterday. Um, I really don't because

517
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 1: like I like to be of use. I like to

518
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 1: feel like you need Yeah, if you needed like so

519
00:28:56,480 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 1: I would love like if you meet them all the

520
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 1: other troubled criteria that I have. If you do, you

521
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 1: ain't got no you ain't got no money. That's cool.

522
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 1: We could got a way to make some money, you

523
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like I could figure that out,

524
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:15,560
Speaker 1: So I don't really trip on the money looks, I don't.

525
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 1: I don't agree with that. You Like, there's certain things

526
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 1: like you got you got to you got to have

527
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 1: some type of order your finance, you got, you got.

528
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 1: You just got to have the want. If you got

529
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 1: the ambition, I'm gonna get you to know. What I'm

530
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 1: saying is like like you can't have a job and

531
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 1: then be sucking your money off fucking dumb ship. You

532
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:35,160
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, It can't maintain your money because

533
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 1: you miss handling your money. You know what I'm saying.

534
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,480
Speaker 1: If you're not regular nine to five, you make it,

535
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 1: you come on your checko weeks and you ain't paying

536
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 1: your bills and you're blowing the money on dumb ship.

537
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 1: Then okay, no, I I don't. I don't care about that.

538
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: But if you if you come on for work, you

539
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 1: pay your bills up and you broke, ain't chilling about

540
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 1: that because you're handling your money. We'll see. I don't.

541
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 1: I don't, I ain't never had experienced that. But but

542
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 1: my thing is like when I like when I first,

543
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 1: when I started liking you for real, I'm gonna actually,

544
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 1: what's your dreams? Like? What is your what is your

545
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 1: dream anything? Because then because then when you tell me that,

546
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 1: I can see where you're at, and I can see

547
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 1: where you want to be, and I could see if

548
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 1: I could be. And if you say I don't know,

549
00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 1: and you broke and you're like I don't know, then

550
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 1: it's a dog like because you don't, you're gonna be

551
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 1: stuck where you at for a long time. So what

552
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:32,960
Speaker 1: I'm hearing is you want a woman with ambition. Yeah,

553
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 1: she got having, but looks I didn't like. I'm opposite

554
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 1: of Kenny on that. I know what I like. There's

555
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 1: certain things I like, um like you have to have

556
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 1: full lips, like I can't get full lips. Like I

557
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 1: think God was like cold when he made women. So

558
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,720
Speaker 1: like my pretty is different. Like you, I point out

559
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 1: one and you'll be like, you think she's pretty, Like

560
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 1: she's pretty as hell to me, Like because it's so,

561
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 1: it's gonna be something that God just made about her.

562
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 1: That's very pretty. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, that

563
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 1: made me feel good. What the fun? So what I'm

564
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 1: hearing is, y'all want intelligence, you want pretty because pretty

565
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 1: is in the eyes of the beholder ambition. Y'all want

566
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 1: a woman with confidence. Didn't funk Ellen Iverson, So we

567
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: got to an example hopefully doesn't or money bag, money bag,

568
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 1: And like I got a whole thing about niggas who

569
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 1: only can get women when they got money. It's like,

570
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 1: you know, like when you're making like some instant I

571
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 1: don't know, gravy, you add water for gravy, you get

572
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:53,720
Speaker 1: the little powder bag of gravy. Yeah, so some of

573
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 1: these niggas be the packets of gravy. So you add water,

574
00:31:56,960 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 1: you add money for instant swag. You see what I'm saying.

575
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 1: Because I feel like men should get the women, they

576
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 1: should have the women that they were able to get

577
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 1: before they got the money. Yeah, you see what I'm saying.

578
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 1: I agree, it is good. That's that's that's a great theory.

579
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 1: I agree with that. I agree with that. Before we

580
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:15,960
Speaker 1: get into anything else, let's pay some bills real quick.

581
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:24,800
Speaker 1: So a woman who's too independent to you is dealing?

582
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 1: Oh really, so both of you. I don't like women

583
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 1: who are independent, too independent. Excuse me? What does that mean?

584
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 1: What's too independent? Too independents? Acting like you don't need

585
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:40,920
Speaker 1: a man? Like you can't do like what ship? I

586
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:43,280
Speaker 1: don't know. You can't got damn handle TV. Can't hug yourself.

587
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 1: You can't hug yourself, you can you need a minute

588
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 1: for some ship. So you you've been kind of women

589
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 1: who say I don't need you to hug me. I

590
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:57,720
Speaker 1: have experienced that. I think a lot of women want

591
00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:00,240
Speaker 1: you to know that they want you, but they don't

592
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 1: need you, you know, And that's and that's is that

593
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 1: a problem now? It's like it's like, like he was

594
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:09,479
Speaker 1: saying about kind of responsibility as a man, It's like,

595
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 1: there are certain ships that you can rely on me for.

596
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 1: I mean, that's that's part of the part of the

597
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 1: point of being in a relationship, and so some of

598
00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 1: the weight gets taken off. You want certain ships vice versa.

599
00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 1: So for example, if if your clod break that you

600
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, it is my job as a man.

601
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:30,800
Speaker 1: I might not know what the funk wrong, but I'm

602
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:34,240
Speaker 1: gonna look upon it hood just to see that's my responsibility.

603
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:36,760
Speaker 1: And if you know that I'm doing it, don't don't

604
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 1: go behind Like women, I feel like the more and

605
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 1: more often, I don't think I've talked about the type

606
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 1: of women I like openly, and I'm starting to judge myself.

607
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 1: But I don't give because I know what I like.

608
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 1: If I am trying to fix your car and and

609
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 1: I'm doing it wrong, as long as they're gonna fucking

610
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:57,040
Speaker 1: all the way up, just like, let me go, just

611
00:33:57,120 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 1: let me not if its gonna just if it's gonna

612
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,680
Speaker 1: like do some some damage, damn to be like babe,

613
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 1: hold on. But if I'm trying, don't shoot me it,

614
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:09,359
Speaker 1: don't have no nothing, nigga, come behind me and fix it.

615
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 1: Like don't call your daddy, basically no, don't call your daddy.

616
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:15,840
Speaker 1: Of course, call your daddy. I'm talking about like a

617
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 1: whole nother nigga. He be my homeboy, and I got

618
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:20,440
Speaker 1: to look him. No, you don't. Might have stuffed this

619
00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 1: dick now you don't it too, because how she knew him,

620
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:26,200
Speaker 1: how she knew him. I know a guy who didn't

621
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:28,919
Speaker 1: like his girl calling her dad to do nothing. That's sick,

622
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:32,400
Speaker 1: that's weird. Like I come home and he outside cutting

623
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 1: the grass. Why is he cutting the grass? Why didn't

624
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 1: you cut the grass? Niggas? Yeah, I see it now,

625
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:42,200
Speaker 1: I'm I'm interjected on that one. That's I feel like

626
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:45,759
Speaker 1: as a man, that's how we're so different. If he's

627
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 1: cutting the grass, I feel like that to handle it's

628
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:51,840
Speaker 1: certain ship that maybe it's because I was raised, I

629
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 1: make money. He's gonna cuts it's certain ship. That's that's

630
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:58,840
Speaker 1: my responsibility to handle at the crib. You know what

631
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:01,320
Speaker 1: I'm saying, cutting the gir getting the grass cut and

632
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:05,480
Speaker 1: taking the trash out ship like that. Where you are

633
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:12,279
Speaker 1: you are a great man, very traditional man. South Carolinia

634
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 1: Kenneth is in touch with his feminine and masculine side.

635
00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 1: You see. The thing is that scourtiority. If I'm treated properly,

636
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:26,880
Speaker 1: you may be more in touched with just like I mean,

637
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:29,400
Speaker 1: we have a yeah masculine and I feel like we

638
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 1: have like a distorted vision or idea of what a

639
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 1: masculine and feminine should be knda, you know what I'm saying.

640
00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:40,760
Speaker 1: So it's the whole thing. In a black community, nobody

641
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 1: wants this masculine woman, right, But why are we associating

642
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 1: masculine with like aggression. Do you want a woman that

643
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 1: you could tell the sky is purple knowing down well

644
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 1: it's blue, where she's like, yeah, baby, it is purple.

645
00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 1: Is that the type of woman you want, Dannie, that's

646
00:35:55,080 --> 00:36:04,320
Speaker 1: what you want? You know? I don't like no. I

647
00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:06,719
Speaker 1: think that I'm very in touch with my femin so

648
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 1: I think I'm very honest. I think being macho would

649
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:15,520
Speaker 1: have been don't like she didn't know. That's not the truth.

650
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 1: Is I care about you are being vulnerable and telling

651
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 1: what you like like like, I am not comfortable with that.

652
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: I don't have to like this is our only life

653
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 1: we live like. I love y'all beautiful black women, y'all

654
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 1: laughing me talk at this was listening to talk. I

655
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:34,600
Speaker 1: don't give a fuck. It's my life. I'm not gonna

656
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 1: feel comfortable. Come not watching the god them NBA finals

657
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 1: and yourself. I've been in two situations like this in

658
00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 1: my life. I was never comfortable. I stopped watching them niggas. Bro.

659
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 1: The reason that I am the way way I am

660
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 1: is because there's a very good chance you could be

661
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 1: in the same situation. She could be in the same situation.

662
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:55,160
Speaker 1: She could be, we could be. But it may be

663
00:36:55,239 --> 00:37:01,920
Speaker 1: a waitress that goddamn but you but you just hit her. See, Okay,

664
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 1: this is another thing like so just like A J said,

665
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:08,200
Speaker 1: they're not sucking very dick. So if they that's that

666
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 1: said too. If they don't suck this dick. But how

667
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 1: do you know my mind? You don't know you That's

668
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 1: how women paint the picture. That's why I don't rest

669
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:21,000
Speaker 1: on it. If we are, if we are here and

670
00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 1: and this bit sucking my dick or I fucked her

671
00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 1: say this? Yeah, and this girls woman, I don't I

672
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:34,840
Speaker 1: don't give a funk about her, Like I never cared

673
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,440
Speaker 1: about her, but I just hit her for I'm more

674
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:40,880
Speaker 1: concerned if you've gave this bitch money? Did you? Did

675
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:50,719
Speaker 1: you give this bit some money? You cancer? So I

676
00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:53,840
Speaker 1: think that I think that that's the thing is like women,

677
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:56,680
Speaker 1: and this is the old this is old too. So

678
00:37:56,840 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 1: like young girls, they sucked it way faster than than

679
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 1: something before they do anything before anything, So now my

680
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 1: theory is probably stated, but if you don't suck this

681
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 1: man dick, then it was deeper. So that's why I

682
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:14,400
Speaker 1: ain't really comes definitely outdated. Yeah, but if if if,

683
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 1: if it's a girl in the vicinity that I funked

684
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:19,320
Speaker 1: with men, we don't really funk with feelings like that

685
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:22,879
Speaker 1: in all situations, true, So it's like you ain't even

686
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 1: got nothing to worry about, like like I'll tell I, like,

687
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 1: fuck her. You know what I'm saying, Like what y'all

688
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 1: probably feel the same way, but in my head, it

689
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 1: just ain't clicked like that. Let's be honest, all right,

690
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 1: So what if if it was it was feeling you

691
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 1: ask is up there? What it was asid like, yeah,

692
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 1: they have the chance, you ain't this? There was excuse

693
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 1: this woman, then there was I think it's the same thing.

694
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:01,759
Speaker 1: I think if you don't ate some masks, then you

695
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:04,560
Speaker 1: really funk with that person. Everybody, every dog and hair

696
00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: of that day had the moment I'm gonna think about

697
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:10,360
Speaker 1: this and I'm gonna actually contact y'all again, because because

698
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 1: after after this, y'all had this on my mind for

699
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:13,799
Speaker 1: the rest of my day. No, lie, let me thinking

700
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 1: like damn do I really care? Could I get past it?

701
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you. You should be able to get

702
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:21,600
Speaker 1: pants at especially at your age. The age don't don't

703
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 1: do nothing. It does. It's just because you're gonna continuously,

704
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:30,799
Speaker 1: especially then your age range. Yeah, they have life experiences,

705
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 1: so I know they Suth did. The fact that you're

706
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 1: su Dick is cool, but it's about I don't like,

707
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 1: I do not want to be in close proximity habitually

708
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:49,959
Speaker 1: with somebody who did yourself. That's fair, but see I wanted,

709
00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:52,960
Speaker 1: like I want, I want to know that you did it,

710
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:55,800
Speaker 1: so that I know when I'm walking into the situation

711
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:58,800
Speaker 1: I ain't walking in, I ain't walking in blind, and

712
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 1: I could that may make it easier. I ain't walking

713
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:03,759
Speaker 1: in blind, I ain't walking in. And then and then

714
00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:06,440
Speaker 1: you walk up and be like, then now I got

715
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:08,839
Speaker 1: the process all this in this nick face. I think, now,

716
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:11,200
Speaker 1: how would we know? Like, how would I know? You

717
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:12,960
Speaker 1: don't want to tell you that? I mean there's a

718
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 1: possibility like if the person you know that you know

719
00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 1: what type of circles the nigga used to mess with

720
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:19,359
Speaker 1: movie then so if a woman likes you, then she'd

721
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 1: have to lie to you. If a woman really likes

722
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:24,399
Speaker 1: you and wants your relationships advance, she you're not because

723
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 1: when when when somebody's not If you're not putting somebody

724
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 1: in the position to be comfortable to tell you the truth,

725
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:30,840
Speaker 1: what you're doing is putting them in the position to

726
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:34,480
Speaker 1: lie to you. We like each other. You you, you're

727
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:38,440
Speaker 1: we're investing in each other emotionally, physically, maybe financially, gifts

728
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:40,880
Speaker 1: and ship like that. And now like damn, I did

729
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:43,279
Speaker 1: used to work with this person all right, Like like yo,

730
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:46,160
Speaker 1: I saw him that up in the club. Like at

731
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:48,719
Speaker 1: one point, I ain't gonna say nothing. I ain't see it.

732
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:54,439
Speaker 1: I think that, um, you should be comfortable. I feel

733
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:56,160
Speaker 1: like if you don't, if you if you don't tell

734
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 1: the nigga, you don't, I feel like, if you can't

735
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:00,320
Speaker 1: be honest with that nigga, you don't really fuck like that.

736
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:04,200
Speaker 1: But when you have a judge, guy, it makes it

737
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:08,239
Speaker 1: hard because I mean, but I'm not just saying you.

738
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:10,439
Speaker 1: I don't think it's bad that you that's the chance

739
00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:12,680
Speaker 1: you take this. I don't think you're a bad person.

740
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:15,320
Speaker 1: It's just a woman for you. No, No, you're a

741
00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:18,800
Speaker 1: great woman. You're still a queen. You're a beautiful I

742
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:23,239
Speaker 1: wish your best. It's not I wish you the best.

743
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 1: It's not comfortable for me. It really has nothing to

744
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:28,319
Speaker 1: do with the woman. I'm glad you brought it up

745
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:31,439
Speaker 1: so I could be clear for the listeners. It really

746
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 1: has nothing to do with the woman. The woman is

747
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:36,759
Speaker 1: still golden and she is somebody's queen to be. For me,

748
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:40,040
Speaker 1: I am not comfort it's what I don't fight what

749
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:42,560
Speaker 1: I'm not comfortable with. I'm not the person that's gonna

750
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:44,439
Speaker 1: come to your house for your function, and I feel

751
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 1: like I got to stay at least an hour. If

752
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 1: I'm ready to leave in ten minutes, I'm out. I

753
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 1: don't do nothing all yeah, like yeah, And if you

754
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:54,319
Speaker 1: ain't like it, don't fighting back. I don't. I don't

755
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:57,799
Speaker 1: live uncomfortable in no situation because life is just too

756
00:41:57,920 --> 00:42:01,440
Speaker 1: too beautiful. So if I'm gonna be uncomfortable, then no,

757
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 1: I want to feel like I know everything about the woman.

758
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 1: That look, if I really funk with you, because I

759
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 1: gonna be honest, like I don't overlook some ship before that.

760
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:11,239
Speaker 1: I'm saying right now that I wouldn't. So if I

761
00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:13,360
Speaker 1: really fun with you, I'm gonna overlook it. I just

762
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:16,719
Speaker 1: got to note, like Kenny saying, so that whenever that

763
00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:20,440
Speaker 1: ship come up, he's like, it should don't matter to me,

764
00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:25,440
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But it's like if you're

765
00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:28,839
Speaker 1: like solid as hell, it's like it's like a balanced being.

766
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:31,840
Speaker 1: Like if you solid as ship, you're loyal and ambitious

767
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 1: as hell. But I'm be honest. You know, you know

768
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 1: DJ Song, so that you might funck with or whatever.

769
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 1: I used to fun with him, then I ain't gonna

770
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:43,680
Speaker 1: give a funk because the other ship is outweighed. That

771
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:46,640
Speaker 1: makes sense. So you're wiping up somebody you on the

772
00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 1: first date? Yeah, because I think I'm so sexy that

773
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:54,680
Speaker 1: it wasn't their fault that they sucked me. It was mine.

774
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:59,600
Speaker 1: It was my cologne, it was how I walked. I'm

775
00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 1: just I'm being honest, Bro, I don't blame you. I

776
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 1: would me too. The first thing you're talking about, Yeah,

777
00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 1: it wasn't her fault. She tried, she didn't want to,

778
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 1: but it was just something that was too much. So

779
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:16,759
Speaker 1: a lot of your rules are surrounded by sex. It

780
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:29,400
Speaker 1: seems like, Yeah, like these folks. The very first thing

781
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:32,840
Speaker 1: he said where she got to have sloppy head. So

782
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:35,719
Speaker 1: we got to get back to that. So that's important,

783
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 1: very important. Head is important. Yes, I don't want to dry.

784
00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:46,280
Speaker 1: I don't want to te tefe tee explain to our listeners.

785
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 1: I just made up. But no, yeah, um, not a

786
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 1: lot of teeth like you got to you got to

787
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 1: be you know good. I don't even like I watched porn.

788
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:03,279
Speaker 1: I don't even watch fucking parts. I only watch slop

789
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 1: your head. So if you met a woman that check

790
00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:10,319
Speaker 1: your boxes, you met a woman who checked all your

791
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 1: boxes in every single capacity. Oh no, don't say it,

792
00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 1: except except what head is as her mouth just naturally dry?

793
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:27,560
Speaker 1: Or does she know the technique, because then if she

794
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 1: her mouth is not dry, Oh, it's not if he

795
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 1: just doesn't know how. Because let's say a woman, a

796
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:39,439
Speaker 1: woman is probably going to give your head the way

797
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:42,240
Speaker 1: she gave the last niggerhead how he liked it, until

798
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:44,839
Speaker 1: you teach her what you like. Oh my god, you're

799
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:48,920
Speaker 1: just scarding me. I never thought about that. I know,

800
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:53,759
Speaker 1: I've never thought of that in my life. Oh I

801
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:57,600
Speaker 1: can't do this no more. Man, I mean I am hurt,

802
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:03,800
Speaker 1: oh a lot, I'm stressed. I never thought about that.

803
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 1: I don't agree that before, I don't always agree with you.

804
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like I've heard from girls

805
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:15,880
Speaker 1: that like if they'll ask the big sisters or other cases,

806
00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:19,839
Speaker 1: they'll give each other advice and exactly, but the man

807
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:22,839
Speaker 1: is going to determine exactly what is good to him.

808
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:24,840
Speaker 1: So I feel like, and she's gonna take what she

809
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 1: learned between her man into her next But every man

810
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:35,800
Speaker 1: don't like the same thing. So like if she do

811
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:37,839
Speaker 1: it in the circles, then a lot of spit, then

812
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:55,279
Speaker 1: all that was like, but no, but no, but nah.

813
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:59,359
Speaker 1: But most women ask how you like it? They're gonna

814
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 1: ask that, like I like to, I just need to

815
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:07,760
Speaker 1: be quiet. No, just say it. You already said everything.

816
00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:11,600
Speaker 1: I'd like to talk to sex, so I want to

817
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:14,080
Speaker 1: know what I'm getting into. Fight and waste my time,

818
00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:17,239
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So you got to talk

819
00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:19,480
Speaker 1: about it. You don't feel like a woman can talk.

820
00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:20,960
Speaker 1: You can talk to the game and be like some

821
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:25,440
Speaker 1: being on some bullshut. Some women have that. That's why

822
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. You might catch me on the off day.

823
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 1: Their mouth don't produce salava. You gotta choke him, you

824
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:37,480
Speaker 1: gotta stick all that. We know that trick, but all

825
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 1: of them, some of them just don't have it. It

826
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:41,879
Speaker 1: ain't in there, and then the ones I stay away from.

827
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to figure out. Y'all have like such

828
00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:46,800
Speaker 1: huge requirements from here, but what is your head? Like?

829
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:50,280
Speaker 1: You know, are you providing the same things that you require?

830
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:56,800
Speaker 1: We call it router to the tutor, And like that

831
00:46:56,880 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 1: made me want to poon a little bit. I don't

832
00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:04,279
Speaker 1: really like them to that. You want the agent, Yes,

833
00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:12,800
Speaker 1: it's like, please don't no, but no, I mean you

834
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:16,480
Speaker 1: got to match it nasty. Would you guys date strippers? Seriously?

835
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 1: No one Nigga said no, No, I'm not doing that.

836
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:26,799
Speaker 1: She did. I just feel like, I don't know if

837
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 1: I got a problem with that. So you won't date

838
00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:33,200
Speaker 1: a girl who knows but she can show her asking

839
00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 1: the pole every day. She can't know. She can't strip

840
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:39,160
Speaker 1: up until she meet me, and then I got to

841
00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:44,839
Speaker 1: change her life. What. I don't care if you'll click.

842
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 1: I don't care if nobody understands me. There is the

843
00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:54,960
Speaker 1: bottom line. You don't understand you. I'm telling you. I

844
00:47:55,120 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 1: get exactly what I'm saying. He knows me. I get exactly. Yeah,

845
00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:09,120
Speaker 1: you can meet together, take her number and like date

846
00:48:09,160 --> 00:48:11,239
Speaker 1: her serious, like like if I took her number. We

847
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 1: go out and she's like, you know, I've been dancing,

848
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:15,640
Speaker 1: you know, you know. But really what I want to

849
00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:17,320
Speaker 1: do is I have this whole line of kinds of

850
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:19,759
Speaker 1: process and I want to travel. You're gonna tell the quick,

851
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:21,680
Speaker 1: You're gonna tell the quarter quick. We're about about to

852
00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:26,000
Speaker 1: do this talk about have ambition. He was like, what. Now,

853
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:28,280
Speaker 1: here's the thing how I feel about women who was stripped.

854
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:31,200
Speaker 1: I feel like the most promiscuous women are not the

855
00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:36,799
Speaker 1: ones that be stripping anything standards and the bottle girls.

856
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:39,319
Speaker 1: It's the bottle girls exactly. The bitches on the pole

857
00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:42,319
Speaker 1: be having hell of standards. All right, you gott at

858
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:45,320
Speaker 1: least how that check something A right? So we have

859
00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 1: this um segment called dumb Bitch. Stories are SIMP series

860
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:53,759
Speaker 1: and it's where a woman or a man shares to

861
00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 1: tell with us of them being played by the opposite

862
00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:00,279
Speaker 1: sex in some type of way. Can y'all share story

863
00:49:00,360 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 1: with us that has happened, because everybody has been played

864
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:09,920
Speaker 1: in some way before SI series? How was you a

865
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 1: sent one time? Sporty? What's your story? Um? So I

866
00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:18,560
Speaker 1: think this is what like made me a little colder.

867
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:21,200
Speaker 1: It made me just like really tap into what I wanted.

868
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:24,400
Speaker 1: It wasn't It was in the eighth grade. In the

869
00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:27,400
Speaker 1: eight grade. It was a girl. I asked you to

870
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:29,800
Speaker 1: go to the eighth grade social with me, and she

871
00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:32,680
Speaker 1: said yes, and I was on cloud nine and so

872
00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 1: she says, We're going to the social. We go to

873
00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:38,200
Speaker 1: the social. Everything was fine. I wasn't really like fast

874
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:40,719
Speaker 1: back there. You know, some niggas was like fucking get

875
00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:42,759
Speaker 1: hit and ship. So it was like, I think it

876
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:45,239
Speaker 1: was a perfect time where I could have fucked I

877
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:47,560
Speaker 1: got some head, but I just didn't you know what

878
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:49,040
Speaker 1: I'm saying. We was like locked out the house and

879
00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 1: we sat outside of my house for like an hour,

880
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:53,279
Speaker 1: so we could have like snuck off this some ship,

881
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:57,879
Speaker 1: but I just wasn't advanced like that, right. So um,

882
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 1: we get back to school, boom. I just feel I'm

883
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:02,960
Speaker 1: such that nigga for taking to the to the social

884
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:05,279
Speaker 1: and then we get to my nigga. I go to

885
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:07,239
Speaker 1: my nigga house afterwards and he's like, man, we've been

886
00:50:07,280 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 1: talking ship, but she's been trying to play you. I'm like,

887
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:12,520
Speaker 1: what you mean? He So he calls her on on

888
00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:16,200
Speaker 1: three way and I'm listening and he was like, yeah,

889
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:17,880
Speaker 1: so I know you went to the social with my

890
00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:20,239
Speaker 1: nigga's sports. She was like, oh, I just went to

891
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:22,000
Speaker 1: the social with him because I felt bad for him

892
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:24,120
Speaker 1: for asking me and I didn't want to tell him though,

893
00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:26,480
Speaker 1: and it broke my heart. It's funked up after that.

894
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 1: Fuck you girl, you know when it's nigga for all

895
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:37,200
Speaker 1: these other women. Right, I'm better now though you've healed. Yeah,

896
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:42,400
Speaker 1: I'm really a great guy, y'all. Story, No, I was

897
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:45,880
Speaker 1: cold that now now, y'all not paying for this, But

898
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:49,040
Speaker 1: them girls in high school, they paid every bit of

899
00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:53,560
Speaker 1: that ship. I have such a better story. Let's hear it,

900
00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:56,719
Speaker 1: all right, So go back in my high school days.

901
00:50:56,760 --> 00:50:58,279
Speaker 1: I was an all TC. So that just shows you

902
00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:02,480
Speaker 1: my live what I would I had back one of

903
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:05,759
Speaker 1: the baddest in school in high school, Cloud nine. She

904
00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:08,840
Speaker 1: was a home and anybody till this is bad. This

905
00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:11,200
Speaker 1: is what timed to cold I school after that, and

906
00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:15,400
Speaker 1: it might tell me. So he was kicking. We're on

907
00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:17,799
Speaker 1: the phone and like I'm getting ready to go over there.

908
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:20,920
Speaker 1: Her sister comes in the room and she's like I

909
00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:22,560
Speaker 1: want the phone. She's like, no, I'm not getting off

910
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 1: the phone. She was like, if you don't give me

911
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:28,520
Speaker 1: the phone, I'm gonna tell mama you had that boy

912
00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:34,640
Speaker 1: over here that I was at home. No, my girlfriend,

913
00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:43,080
Speaker 1: I was at home. After that, After that, I school, Yo,

914
00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 1: let you go out last night? No, I ain't go

915
00:51:45,840 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 1: no one. I'm gonna tell mom you had that blow

916
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:53,560
Speaker 1: over here last night. I'm like, what I dropped? Huh?

917
00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 1: Then I started to five out. Then I start No,

918
00:51:57,400 --> 00:51:59,920
Speaker 1: Niga tried to fight me over that girl, like Nick

919
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:01,360
Speaker 1: that lived down the street. Try to fight me with

920
00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:03,800
Speaker 1: the girl. It was both of your girlfriend, man, he

921
00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:08,000
Speaker 1: could have she she was nasty that early. Another thing,

922
00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:12,320
Speaker 1: remember when I told you this too in high school

923
00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 1: whenever I accidentally had two girlfriends because I didn't want

924
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:18,480
Speaker 1: to break up with the one girl. But she went. Now,

925
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:21,400
Speaker 1: I promise it was. It's a long time ago. I

926
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 1: would tell y'a if I was trying to be a player.

927
00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:26,120
Speaker 1: So then my girl, my girlfriend that I really really

928
00:52:26,239 --> 00:52:28,960
Speaker 1: liked that within school with me, she found out. So

929
00:52:29,080 --> 00:52:30,880
Speaker 1: then I spent the whole year trying to get him back,

930
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:32,440
Speaker 1: trying to get it back and get it back. We

931
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:36,160
Speaker 1: go to the prom right after prim I'm thinking, I'm

932
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:38,759
Speaker 1: gonna fuck. Do you know what she said to me? Or?

933
00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 1: Can you drop me off with my boyfriend? Do you

934
00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:46,040
Speaker 1: know what I did? You know what I did? I

935
00:52:46,160 --> 00:52:50,680
Speaker 1: dropped off? I mean what else could you do? Y'all

936
00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:56,759
Speaker 1: wonder why I got all of these guys there at Nigger.

937
00:52:56,840 --> 00:53:04,480
Speaker 1: That's a real step story, so dumb. Really, I dropped off.

938
00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:06,759
Speaker 1: I don't remember we said by not because that would

939
00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:09,719
Speaker 1: be weird, but I think she might have just got

940
00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:12,839
Speaker 1: out the car. You remember they all listen to say,

941
00:53:12,840 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 1: you know, they all come back, and any girl to

942
00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:21,800
Speaker 1: ever disrespect that they all come back in college. All right, guys,

943
00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:27,040
Speaker 1: I feel like we got a whole lot of you

944
00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:32,200
Speaker 1: don't feel like we're coming anything anything. This is this

945
00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:33,560
Speaker 1: is one we could have said in five minutes, but

946
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:37,160
Speaker 1: he was having fun. Guys just want somebody solid. They

947
00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:40,080
Speaker 1: want somebody that they feel it just for them, and

948
00:53:40,239 --> 00:53:42,719
Speaker 1: somebody's gonna hold it down for them, no matter what

949
00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:45,880
Speaker 1: they got, no matter if we up, were down, if

950
00:53:45,920 --> 00:53:48,319
Speaker 1: we're down, you're gonna help help me, help us get

951
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:50,759
Speaker 1: back up. And if we up, you can help me

952
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:54,080
Speaker 1: spend it. And that's just it. That's it. Don't really

953
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:56,960
Speaker 1: end she got to have full lips, and and you

954
00:53:57,040 --> 00:54:00,920
Speaker 1: got to get your head and look look at me

955
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:04,439
Speaker 1: in my eyes while you do it. And they're gonna

956
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:07,480
Speaker 1: handstand never full. And I were sending money back, yo,

957
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:13,600
Speaker 1: just those two though. It's just those two. You know.

958
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:19,080
Speaker 1: That's also all right? Ladies, there you have it. That's

959
00:54:19,160 --> 00:54:23,320
Speaker 1: your list, So do what you will with that information.

960
00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:28,160
Speaker 1: I don't know. And just as lost as that was,

961
00:54:30,120 --> 00:54:33,759
Speaker 1: I feel like it was so clear. Listen. So the

962
00:54:33,840 --> 00:54:38,960
Speaker 1: bottom line is men are just as complicated as the word,

963
00:54:39,640 --> 00:54:45,120
Speaker 1: the really common word, but you cannot tell anybody what

964
00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:49,320
Speaker 1: the definition is unless you use Google. These niggas are complex.

965
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 1: I think that's why I've been talking in circles. I

966
00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:56,120
Speaker 1: don't know what I want to the calm everything I said,

967
00:54:56,520 --> 00:54:59,160
Speaker 1: and listen. And also this is what men also do.

968
00:54:59,800 --> 00:55:02,719
Speaker 1: And I talked to him about this earlier. The women

969
00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:05,880
Speaker 1: that got away, right, y'all want to take small fragments

970
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:09,759
Speaker 1: of them, and y'all want that and one person it's impossible,

971
00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:13,840
Speaker 1: but like women, you can't do it. You're gonna have

972
00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:17,000
Speaker 1: to have some things that you don't like, including in

973
00:55:17,040 --> 00:55:20,680
Speaker 1: the person that you do. So twenties, what you're saying yes, Yes,

974
00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:28,959
Speaker 1: where's Kevin Samans when you need him? Women, thank y'all

975
00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:33,760
Speaker 1: for coming on. Really appreciate it, very very fun. Definitely

976
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:36,800
Speaker 1: enjoyed myself. Two women are wonderful your queens and you

977
00:55:36,840 --> 00:55:38,279
Speaker 1: are a brilli paving a way for the future of

978
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:40,719
Speaker 1: the woman. Thank you so much. No problem at all.

979
00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:49,960
Speaker 1: I love all rappers and NBA players. Yeah, book y'all

980
00:55:50,080 --> 00:55:54,239
Speaker 1: come to a party. Y'all acting extra sticey towards him, right.

981
00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:56,040
Speaker 1: I love you guys. You guys, your job is hard,

982
00:55:56,400 --> 00:55:59,360
Speaker 1: and I understand that. We appreciate you so much. I

983
00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:02,680
Speaker 1: have no problem with anyway. A real quick uh Sporty

984
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:07,640
Speaker 1: and Kenny, we have yourself plug yourself. Chef Ken Dog

985
00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:11,400
Speaker 1: Ken Deef is Deef keith rhyme relief. He has a

986
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:14,880
Speaker 1: lot of nicknames. He's more than just a chef. He's

987
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:18,640
Speaker 1: a he's a he's a therapist. Like when he comes

988
00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:21,360
Speaker 1: into your home and he does these private cooking sessions.

989
00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:23,600
Speaker 1: He's gonna talk to you. You're gonna feel very good.

990
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:25,480
Speaker 1: Is you get more than just the food experience, you

991
00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:28,600
Speaker 1: get an overall experience. He's a great friend. He's also

992
00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:31,680
Speaker 1: a hell of a businessman. He's one of the brains

993
00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:34,360
Speaker 1: behind presidential movement, entertainment, who's throwing some of the biggest

994
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:38,480
Speaker 1: events in the world. He's an overall great guy, overall

995
00:56:38,560 --> 00:56:42,840
Speaker 1: great guy. I agree. What's your Instagram? His Instagram is

996
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:49,080
Speaker 1: paying me, Underscore prints paying me Underscore prints. Hit him up,

997
00:56:49,120 --> 00:56:53,319
Speaker 1: hit him up? Um, Yeah, sport on all platforms as

998
00:56:53,400 --> 00:56:55,480
Speaker 1: P R T, E O D. I follow me so

999
00:56:55,560 --> 00:56:57,080
Speaker 1: that you can understand a lot of stuff you heard

1000
00:56:57,120 --> 00:56:59,040
Speaker 1: was just snimmons. I can't fit my life into this

1001
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:01,480
Speaker 1: out and have podcast a whole lot more to me,

1002
00:57:01,800 --> 00:57:05,160
Speaker 1: so please don't judge. Um and yeah, just follow. You

1003
00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:08,520
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Uh, I'm bad at seeing everything

1004
00:57:08,600 --> 00:57:12,040
Speaker 1: that I do, but just a serial entrepreneur. Okay, y'all

1005
00:57:12,239 --> 00:57:15,439
Speaker 1: follow these gentlemen. They have a lot of great things

1006
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Speaker 1: to offer. Follow me at official team band. Everybody follow

1007
00:57:21,160 --> 00:57:24,080
Speaker 1: we talk back podcast. He J what else you got?

1008
00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:27,240
Speaker 1: That's all I got. I really enjoyed you guys. I

1009
00:57:27,360 --> 00:57:30,360
Speaker 1: love to get the black man perspective because you know,

1010
00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:32,560
Speaker 1: we got a lot of funk up ship going on

1011
00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:35,480
Speaker 1: in the black community. Man. The bottom line is, how

1012
00:57:35,560 --> 00:57:41,240
Speaker 1: we make our relationships better is just a mutual respect comprehension.

1013
00:57:43,280 --> 00:57:46,520
Speaker 1: So if you enjoyed this episode, please tune in every

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Speaker 1: Thursday on the I Heart Radio app, Apple podcast, or

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