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Speaker 1: That shit is stupid.

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Speaker 2: So my wife, I'm a boy. I love watching people,

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Speaker 1: I love that shit. Right, it was different with her boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: Okay, welcome to decisions decisions. I don't think you should

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Speaker 3: You used definitely say to welcome, welcome to the new podcast.

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Speaker 3: You want to say together the decisions decisions. Hey, guys,

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Speaker 3: welcome to another episode of This is the Owns.

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Speaker 4: This is the Owns.

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Speaker 1: I'm your girl man.

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Speaker 3: D b aka peg the Sign aka Peggy Bundy aka

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Speaker 4: What's good y'all, I'm weazy. Welcome back to another episode.

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Speaker 5: We have a guest in the building today, and I'm

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Speaker 5: nigg First of all, I just call you the light

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Speaker 5: skinned nigga with the nose ring my mom be.

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Speaker 4: Like the freckle nigga. We always be confused. And then

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Speaker 1: Me on my igs here.

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Speaker 4: I was like, shout out to comedian.

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Speaker 5: And podcaster and all of the things that I'm not

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Speaker 1: I appreciate it.

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Speaker 3: I'm very excited to be here and where we haven't like,

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Speaker 1: You are highly spoken up.

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Speaker 3: We have a mutual friend and so I'm just glad

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Speaker 1: Shout out to Io. By the way, if.

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Speaker 3: Y'all are on Patreon, there is a whole lesson that

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Speaker 3: Chef Io did with us where she taught us how

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Speaker 3: to cook God damn Ruth Chris stuff chicken.

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Speaker 4: Didn't they do well?

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, it was so fucking good. And I

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Speaker 3: was like, hey, bro, this is my ship.

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Speaker 1: Now. Mind you when you go.

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Speaker 3: To a steakhouse, yes, normally it's really black and uncultured

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Speaker 3: to order chicken. Yes, but Ruth christ is the only

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Speaker 1: Hey, brother, goddamn chicken. I haven't had the chicken there.

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Speaker 1: You haven't I had chicken.

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Speaker 3: Just know you won't be looked at like it's chicken

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Speaker 1: It is the chicken, but he's the.

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Speaker 2: Thing if you order it, like you're like, hey, we

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Speaker 1: That's how you can get around it.

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Speaker 5: You need to be eating with a lot of people,

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Speaker 5: I literally have a dinner tonight. It was me and

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Speaker 3: I like the things that are priced to impe and so.

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Speaker 5: Think where we can have a birthday dinner where people

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Speaker 1: I want to you neat a whole bunch of brokies. Yeah, everybody. Everyone.

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Speaker 2: For my birthday, we had Piece of Hood absolutely go crazy.

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Speaker 2: It's like, Okay, give us if we're again, if we're

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Speaker 1: Just take care of y'all. Yeah, but I'll take care

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Speaker 2: If y'all whatever, drink y'all want, y'all get yourself, Okay,

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Speaker 2: But if we're going to like my favorite steakhouse is

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Speaker 1: No, that's steak Boulevard.

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Speaker 2: I like, though me and my wife are gone there

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying for two people, bro, I ain't

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Speaker 5: Picking the birthday places. Like my thirty fifth birthday is coming, huh.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna do it in La because my dad is here.

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Speaker 4: Want to take everybody out.

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Speaker 1: Where are we gonna go? Bitch?

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Speaker 4: I shut down with a cheesecake factory. I already have

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Speaker 5: Hey, I said, y'all niggas got an ox court. I

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Speaker 5: In my brain, I'm like, what would I be willing

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Speaker 5: my nigga bettery be taking me to get some fucking

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Speaker 1: And listen, I listen. I don't know your level of friends.

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Speaker 2: Like even when keV like takes us all out, I

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Speaker 1: Me put something on it.

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Speaker 2: Put someone like no, nigga, I got it, like I

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Speaker 2: I know it can get expense. Let me take care

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Speaker 2: I can put some on it. But I understand both sides.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, any taken.

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Speaker 1: He's let me take care of the tip a couple

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I know he don't need it, and I

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Speaker 1: Holding the niggas ain't no every time there whoa ship.

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Speaker 2: But but I just don't want him to ever feel

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Speaker 2: I will always.

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Speaker 1: Pay my own way. But if you treat nigga, you know,

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Speaker 1: I want to block.

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Speaker 4: Have you heard a Chipriani? You have or you heard

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Speaker 1: What was that Chipriani?

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Speaker 4: Chiprioni? So it's just like Italian Italian high end restaurant.

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Speaker 5: And recently I went with a friend in quest Love

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Speaker 5: few years now and always.

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Speaker 1: Takes us out.

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Speaker 5: So I said, let me take you to dinner. I

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, And I was like, and now you got to.

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Speaker 4: Now, No, we were already there.

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Speaker 1: Oh shit, so now take the wrong place.

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Speaker 1: We would have me to grace to God.

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Speaker 4: All told this nigga to his face. I said, this

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Speaker 5: We get the check and the guy comes over and said,

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Speaker 4: Someone over there is a huge fan of you. Wow,

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Speaker 4: you changed my life. You changed my like I.

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Speaker 1: Said, thank you, thank you, And that's amazing.

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Speaker 4: Dog. You know what I have?

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Speaker 1: Yes, fa Fair, Hello, fain Fair. Now I'm gonna intentionally.

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Speaker 3: Do it and like I found this really cool indeed

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Speaker 3: Jamaican spot.

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Speaker 1: You want to know, I'm gonna do some shit like that.

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Speaker 3: It's so funny because I listen, I'll be I'll be patty,

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Speaker 3: I'll be like, I got it a happy hour.

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Speaker 1: You just get the next spot.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, okay, I'll be like, let's let's do this.

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Speaker 3: Let's do this, So we got some questions for you, Okay,

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Speaker 3: age sex location, would love to know that before we

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I'm forty one, I am straight mail, and

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Speaker 2: I live in all La La right now.

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Speaker 4: And so your dad, do you have one kid?

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Speaker 1: To just one? Actually birthday is yesterday. She just turned

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Speaker 1: twenty Ollie.

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Speaker 3: You excited about the twenty one age is there?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I don't know. I'm excited for her to get out.

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Speaker 1: Oh she's still living out there? Yeah? Yeah, she living

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Speaker 1: at home. She ain't going to school. What's the count? Gamer?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm trying to be like I moved out

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Speaker 2: at fourteen, So I'm it's like the way I was

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Speaker 2: brought up on her. But at the same time, I'm like, Nigga,

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Speaker 2: you gotta do something grown adults.

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Speaker 3: Is she able to bring boys to the house.

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Speaker 1: Is that she has friends over? No, nigga been over

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Speaker 1: the carib.

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Speaker 4: Yeahdoll no, you gonna do like what they do and

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Speaker 4: the bad boys?

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, I ain't gonna. I ain't gonna do

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Speaker 2: Thankfully, My daughter is still very much like a kid.

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Speaker 3: One of the reasons why are you sure wanted you

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Speaker 2: Blah blah blah, this overdoor policy. You can come talk

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Speaker 5: Hold on, wait, wait, wait, this is really interesting to

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Speaker 5: me because a lot of people act like this should

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Speaker 5: and like how did you say it?

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Speaker 2: Well, we didn't go into like the details of like yeah,

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Speaker 1: Ask Sumer questions like that.

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Speaker 4: I love that.

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Speaker 3: And then at what point did you go from open

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Speaker 1: Hey, me and mommy are deciding to do this.

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Speaker 2: We're looking for Initially we were looking for a third

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Speaker 1: So it was the.

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Speaker 3: Daughter met your wife's boyfriend and your girlfriend. Yeah, and

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Speaker 3: they met each other. Yeah, we vacation together. We spend

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Speaker 3: them there that the New year's all over here. That

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Speaker 5: Are y'all swapping or are swapping, you're just vacationing.

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Speaker 1: So what's the polly? What is that considered?

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean it depends on like your arrangement to

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Speaker 2: So anytime you make a life decision or you're planning

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Speaker 1: My mom was beat by my sister's dad.

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Speaker 2: Anytime she questioned or the conversation got too heated, he

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Speaker 2: So I just seen that and then my uncles all

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Speaker 2: I don't like this.

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Speaker 3: I go, did you guys take this? Did you do

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Speaker 2: I had to get the therapy, and I tried, like

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Speaker 2: I had. I had tried two different therapists. None of

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Speaker 2: them was working. Like I have a crazy backstory, you know,

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Speaker 2: been shot, set on fire, kidnapped, all this type of shit,

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Speaker 2: and it's all at fourteen and so I'm telling the

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Speaker 2: I see her go right at right, and I was

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Speaker 2: just like, it's not gonna work. So I already know,

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Speaker 2: like this ship is shocking you like.

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Speaker 1: This, this is just the intro.

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Speaker 2: This this is right after the ford after somebody do

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Speaker 2: you're doing damn right now, Nah, to culturally different therapists.

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Speaker 3: You have to get before you felt like you could

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Speaker 1: My third one is really good.

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Speaker 2: And uh this is after the first two, like I

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Speaker 4: Did you have an idea of like man woman black?

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Speaker 2: I wanted a woman just because I think I feel

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Speaker 2: like you know, I'm a Pisces, I was raising the hood.

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Speaker 2: or I don't know how to talk about this or whatever.

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Speaker 1: And sometimes I feel like women are.

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Speaker 2: More encouraging and comforting and nourishing to build you up

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Speaker 5: I feel like it's so hard to even like go

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Speaker 4: Been shot onself, Like, okay, so about the sucking day.

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Speaker 5: I also have a question that's on my line Pisces

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Speaker 5: and Pisces now because jealousy arises, but sometimes jealousy is

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Speaker 5: sexy yeah, you as a straight man. What were your

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Speaker 5: And I think I want to ask this really in

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Speaker 1: Have a boyfriend.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, absolutely, I could get some plassy sometimes but you

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Speaker 4: I would love to hear, like, who was judging you?

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Speaker 1: And what was that like?

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Speaker 2: I'm sure a lot of niggas failed the way. Uh

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Speaker 2: I mean, hey, nigga, if you like it, I look

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Speaker 2: and honestly, a lot of times you have to just

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Speaker 2: the people that did have something to say, I felt

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Speaker 2: a weaight, Like none of the niggas paid bills in

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Speaker 2: my house, period, not not a single one of them.

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Speaker 2: So you can feel how what the fuck you want

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Speaker 2: to feel? But we're good over here. Every bill is paid.

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Speaker 2: We got cars, we got groceries, flipping switch slices, Come on, nigga.

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Speaker 1: We chilling.

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Speaker 2: How you feel about it, it's cool. But also I'm

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Speaker 2: not trying to push it off on you. I'm not recruiting.

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Speaker 2: We're sharing, right right. I'm sure some shit that you

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Speaker 2: eat that I don't fuck with and I don't I

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Speaker 2: ain't finna like you don't make me ship. Yeah, so

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Speaker 2: I'm not tripping off of that. When it comes to

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Speaker 2: like how I got to this point is we I

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Speaker 2: don't know. I've always been like a it's an equal

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Speaker 2: person like you. I mean, yeah, I always been, always

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Speaker 2: been free. But why is it okay for me to

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Speaker 2: do it and you not to do it?

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Speaker 1: That's how I feel.

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Speaker 2: That's how we perpetuate the stereotype of a woman fucks

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Speaker 2: with a lot of people, she's a hoe, and if

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Speaker 2: a god does, he's just like being the guys man.

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Speaker 1: That shit is stupid to me.

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Speaker 5: How did table jealousy or not even table jealousy, but

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Speaker 5: more so know that you could handle it?

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Speaker 1: What's festers did you guys have?

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Speaker 3: Was?

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Speaker 5: Were you starting with certain lifestyle parties or did it.

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Speaker 2: I think just trial, not trialing error, but like just

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Speaker 2: trying that texting me is.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's different types of sex.

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Speaker 2: It's quick little fuck right now. I just want to

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Speaker 2: get the ship off. It's an exchanging energy. They are

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Speaker 2: really feeling this person. I like your vibe.

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Speaker 1: The energy is good.

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Speaker 2: Were connected right here. I want to see what this

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Speaker 2: like on a different level. And then there's like the

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Speaker 2: more intimate sex. Right if it's just sex right here,

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Speaker 2: don't give a fuck about that, don't care. I don't

442
00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:29,840
Speaker 2: give I don't give a fuck about that. Matter of fact,

443
00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:32,360
Speaker 2: Like I never understood when they had the I think

444
00:17:32,359 --> 00:17:32,920
Speaker 2: the muzzles.

445
00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:34,359
Speaker 1: Like when they do the suicide, they go to Heaven,

446
00:17:34,359 --> 00:17:34,800
Speaker 1: they get.

447
00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:38,240
Speaker 2: Forty virgis nigga, Who the fucking that was?

448
00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:40,280
Speaker 1: Like the promise land, you get.

449
00:17:40,440 --> 00:17:42,800
Speaker 3: The promised Land is forty virgins. That doesn't even sound

450
00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:47,600
Speaker 3: like fun. It's the trained forty people. That actually sounds

451
00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:50,840
Speaker 3: like a what I want.

452
00:17:50,880 --> 00:17:54,320
Speaker 1: Somebody want some training. I wouldn't want forty new dicks

453
00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:54,880
Speaker 1: that ain't.

454
00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:58,520
Speaker 2: Never know no, no, no, go trying to rod and.

455
00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:02,640
Speaker 4: Cause niggas really don't want a virgin. They just want

456
00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:04,280
Speaker 4: you to have like three faux by.

457
00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:06,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't want they don't want to run into

458
00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:08,320
Speaker 1: somebody that she for.

459
00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:11,880
Speaker 4: Right, we'll be getting into that.

460
00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:14,159
Speaker 2: I got her now, Like, why you're shaping you fun, nigga,

461
00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:16,720
Speaker 2: So why does it matter? Like, well, I had it well, nigga,

462
00:18:16,760 --> 00:18:19,000
Speaker 2: thank you for you know, you know, teaching or whatever

463
00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:19,480
Speaker 2: you told her.

464
00:18:19,520 --> 00:18:22,399
Speaker 1: But here we are now, nigga, She's she's flourishing with me.

465
00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:23,680
Speaker 1: I don't know what the fun happen with y'all.

466
00:18:30,240 --> 00:18:34,120
Speaker 3: I'm curious to know because it's different with everybody. I'm

467
00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:38,359
Speaker 3: finding out my boundaries now with my boyfriends, and I like,

468
00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:41,400
Speaker 3: it's actually also my boyfriends and when we have sex

469
00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:43,440
Speaker 3: with other people, how we need to move because I

470
00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:45,720
Speaker 3: also bring my friends in. It's also boundaries with my

471
00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:50,159
Speaker 3: friends who joined me in the bedroom. Like, but I

472
00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:54,000
Speaker 3: want to know what boundary. You didn't know you had

473
00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:57,520
Speaker 3: it happened and you were like, oh shit, I need

474
00:18:57,560 --> 00:18:59,720
Speaker 3: to communicate that this is a boundary. And I found

475
00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:01,200
Speaker 3: out real time that it's a boundary.

476
00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:05,840
Speaker 2: Right, So, my wife, I'm a voyeur. I love watching people.

477
00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:07,440
Speaker 2: I love being watched. I love that ship.

478
00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:07,679
Speaker 6: Right.

479
00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:12,159
Speaker 1: Uh, it was different with her boyfriend. I couldn't be a.

480
00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:14,480
Speaker 2: Voyd with her in him, Okay, And I think it

481
00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:17,680
Speaker 2: was because there was an emotional connection. It was more

482
00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:20,920
Speaker 2: than just the physicality of it, right. Uh with other people,

483
00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:24,919
Speaker 2: I could, you know, keep being but like you're like, no,

484
00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:27,840
Speaker 2: when the nigga says oh shit, hey, I'm like, I

485
00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:29,040
Speaker 2: just think I mean it.

486
00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:33,080
Speaker 1: But when you learned it in real time.

487
00:19:32,880 --> 00:19:35,400
Speaker 2: It had to be like yeah, having in real time, Yeah, okay,

488
00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:38,639
Speaker 2: so and that school. But she still likes to watch me,

489
00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:42,040
Speaker 2: you know, like okay still, and that's something that I

490
00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:45,439
Speaker 2: admire about her, Like she really gets off seeing me

491
00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:48,680
Speaker 2: being pleased, and that is that's a special trait.

492
00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:50,879
Speaker 1: Like I again, if it was a funk off, I.

493
00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:54,280
Speaker 2: Could see that, right, But like, because it's it's so

494
00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:56,399
Speaker 2: much love. Like when she started dating him, I was

495
00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:59,240
Speaker 2: like this nigga love and I know he was because

496
00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:02,639
Speaker 2: she's that she had. Motherfucker, you're not gonna fuck with

497
00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:05,240
Speaker 2: my wife on the first date.

498
00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:07,240
Speaker 1: I guarantee. If y'all on that type of date and

499
00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:09,879
Speaker 1: that type of time, you're gonna want a second day immediately. Nigga,

500
00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:10,320
Speaker 1: I love this.

501
00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:12,080
Speaker 2: It's impossible to not fall in love for it. She's

502
00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:13,720
Speaker 2: one of the dopest people in the world, like.

503
00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:17,280
Speaker 4: Hansak Just so, how was it when you and him

504
00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:19,199
Speaker 4: have a conversation. What is that like? Had you did

505
00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:21,879
Speaker 4: you guys have a conversation as it moved further?

506
00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:24,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean there were tons of conversations. The crazy

507
00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:26,720
Speaker 2: part is I knew him before she even moved out here.

508
00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:28,480
Speaker 2: I had met him through a friend. He was a

509
00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:30,119
Speaker 2: brother of a friend. We had worked together on some

510
00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:32,919
Speaker 2: projects and stuff like that, and he came to one

511
00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:33,480
Speaker 2: of my parties.

512
00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:35,440
Speaker 1: I used to throw parties at this this bar.

513
00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:43,480
Speaker 2: Regular parties, and he asked about a shirt she had on,

514
00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:46,000
Speaker 2: and that's how the conversation started. So that actually the

515
00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:48,640
Speaker 2: first time they hung out we were all together, uh anyway,

516
00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:50,480
Speaker 2: so you know it was it was it was cool.

517
00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:53,679
Speaker 2: We we we talked, but I think she wanted it

518
00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:55,280
Speaker 2: to move faster than it was, and I was just like,

519
00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:58,160
Speaker 2: I can't make that happen like I like it with him, Yeah,

520
00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:02,440
Speaker 2: because it wasn't something like we hung out prior to regularly,

521
00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:04,960
Speaker 2: Like we worked together and we knew of each other,

522
00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 2: We spoke when we saw each other with gorgeously like that.

523
00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:08,760
Speaker 2: But he wasn't the vice and I call yo niggas

524
00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:10,960
Speaker 2: a drink something like that, So like it still had

525
00:21:10,960 --> 00:21:13,399
Speaker 2: to take his natural progression. I wasn't gonna rush it

526
00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:15,800
Speaker 2: because it just I felt like it would have felt phony.

527
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:20,640
Speaker 3: Is she friends with your girlfriend? Okay, talk about you? No,

528
00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:22,680
Speaker 3: he said, I mean, ain't mind me.

529
00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:26,000
Speaker 1: I ain't perfect, nigga. Fuck up. I'm sure she'll call

530
00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:27,080
Speaker 1: them like this, nigga.

531
00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:29,680
Speaker 4: That's what I mean. I'm really like just being facetious.

532
00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:31,680
Speaker 5: But I'm saying, like you get in an argument or

533
00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:33,840
Speaker 5: not even like a real deep and some shit, it's like,

534
00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:35,200
Speaker 5: are they gonna vent to each other?

535
00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:36,879
Speaker 4: Because technically but we're.

536
00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:40,280
Speaker 5: Ran honest here, Yeah, when we talk about disagreements and

537
00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:44,000
Speaker 5: sharing it outside to me in that polycule that is

538
00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:47,760
Speaker 5: our relationship, Like I would rather you vent to my

539
00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:50,160
Speaker 5: boyfriend about something, so you guys can kind of like.

540
00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:52,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, work it out, target out, you know, I mean

541
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:53,720
Speaker 1: they have to. Like we've we've been in a.

542
00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,720
Speaker 2: Situation where the three of us were talking and my

543
00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 2: wife brought up the situation and my girlfriend was like, no,

544
00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:01,840
Speaker 2: I I totally see why he did that, Like I

545
00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:03,440
Speaker 2: would have did that time. I love that, And it's

546
00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:05,439
Speaker 2: like that was comforting for me because it was like

547
00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:07,639
Speaker 2: that I knew she wasn't doing it to like just

548
00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:09,800
Speaker 2: support me that was her true feend of it, but

549
00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:12,440
Speaker 2: it also showed that like she's moving, was still with

550
00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:15,000
Speaker 2: like the soulo on mind of like, no, in my case,

551
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:16,520
Speaker 2: in my situation, this is what I would have did.

552
00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:19,560
Speaker 2: She wasn't saying something just to appease my wife and

553
00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:21,400
Speaker 2: get on her good side and get points. She was like, no,

554
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:23,040
Speaker 2: we like you said, we all on the same level,

555
00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:24,880
Speaker 2: so I can give my honest opinion like I would

556
00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:25,560
Speaker 2: have did the same thing.

557
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:26,600
Speaker 1: And this wasn't something big.

558
00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:28,960
Speaker 2: This was just like a situation where I think I

559
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:31,439
Speaker 2: said something or did something and she was like, no,

560
00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:32,880
Speaker 2: did that?

561
00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:36,800
Speaker 5: Does does your daughter like have presence with all four

562
00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:38,800
Speaker 5: of you together? And what does that dynamic feel like?

563
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:40,000
Speaker 1: Only like if we.

564
00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:42,840
Speaker 2: Do something at the house, like we have like dinners

565
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:44,160
Speaker 2: at the house or something like that.

566
00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:45,240
Speaker 1: Because my girlfriend.

567
00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 2: Doesn't live here, she's out of she's out of state,

568
00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:52,960
Speaker 2: so when she's in town, she'll come, she'll come with

569
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:54,920
Speaker 2: see the kid or something like that. But typically I

570
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,000
Speaker 2: go out of town to see her. It's just easier

571
00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:57,320
Speaker 2: that way.

572
00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:59,399
Speaker 4: And one of the questions did she have for you,

573
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:00,200
Speaker 4: like as a quick as.

574
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:02,119
Speaker 2: A kid, she really didn't have much because she had

575
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:06,000
Speaker 2: already seen it. She knows relationship. She is perceptive as hell,

576
00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 2: and like she would see me on the phone with her,

577
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 2: uh my girlfriend or my wife on the phone with

578
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:12,640
Speaker 2: her boyfriend, and like she so she knew.

579
00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:16,560
Speaker 3: Like all so crazy too, like everything is so much

580
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 3: more open now, like in terms of what we see

581
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:23,160
Speaker 3: on television, what's available on these phone devices, like where

582
00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 3: we think kids are.

583
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:27,600
Speaker 1: Way more green and unaware. Yeah, they really aren't. They

584
00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:29,800
Speaker 1: know they are gone. Also, they know what's going on

585
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:35,400
Speaker 1: my daughter game. She she already part of. Yeah, yeah,

586
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:37,160
Speaker 1: well you know what. At first, I wasn't.

587
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:39,240
Speaker 2: Going to say anything because I couldn't remember if she

588
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:42,160
Speaker 2: had like said it on anything. But we've talked about

589
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:46,359
Speaker 2: her on other podcasts, so I even wanted to Yeah, yeah,

590
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:47,120
Speaker 2: I love that.

591
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:49,359
Speaker 4: In the house.

592
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:55,159
Speaker 1: Relat got to know what she's start wearing jeans.

593
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:57,760
Speaker 5: I was like a little bit right, Okay, I had

594
00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:00,040
Speaker 5: at a moment when I was a kid, and I

595
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:01,879
Speaker 5: remember he was looking at you and he was thinking

596
00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:04,159
Speaker 5: getting this from her friends.

597
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 3: An we got truth or there okay, but it's truth

598
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 3: and there you know you gotta do.

599
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:12,159
Speaker 1: Okay, this is a wild show. Can I drink on

600
00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 1: the show?

601
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:13,280
Speaker 4: You got.

602
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 1: I don't want to put it. I didn't want to play.

603
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:16,680
Speaker 1: I didn't want to It's well, it was behind the

604
00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,120
Speaker 1: water bottle. I was trying to be respectful.

605
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:23,920
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, I'm just trying to be respectful.

606
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 1: I want to be invited back. I'm having a great

607
00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:29,480
Speaker 1: time to so truth. Well, now I feel like it's

608
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,639
Speaker 1: too basic. What's the weirdest thing that turns you on?

609
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 2: Weirdest thing that turns me on? Uh oh fuck? I

610
00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 2: like peticue.

611
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, it's relaxing. It's soothing and.

612
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:53,520
Speaker 2: It don't make me hard. It makes me relax. And

613
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:56,639
Speaker 2: if I'm relaxed, I can fuck out of you. Like

614
00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 2: so that just puts me in a good state to

615
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,679
Speaker 2: like get ready to knock some walls down. Like a

616
00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 2: good pedicure, yeah, man like, but not like like because

617
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:06,440
Speaker 2: I go get pedicures and manicures regularly at hammer and now.

618
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:11,120
Speaker 2: But like somebody just rib like just like I had

619
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:13,680
Speaker 2: it ship one time, like just pampered me. She put

620
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:15,879
Speaker 2: my foot in the soaking thing. I ain't have one

621
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 2: of that. I would normally, but no, I got he

622
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 2: had to calm down my ship. My ship tomorrow be

623
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:23,920
Speaker 2: on the road on the road, so I'm not ship

624
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:25,360
Speaker 2: tomorrow before I go to San Diego.

625
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 1: But yeah, I think that, and and a good hair

626
00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:28,280
Speaker 1: rub too.

627
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:30,120
Speaker 3: I don't think i've heard the head of rum makes sense,

628
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 3: but getting horny for like a pedicure being Alfred Zak,

629
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 3: I don't think I've ever heard that.

630
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:37,960
Speaker 1: That one time that like pampered me.

631
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 2: Put my footing in the thing and she massaged it,

632
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 2: and she like she ordered up and then she clipped

633
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:43,840
Speaker 2: it and everything like that.

634
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:48,240
Speaker 1: She was nasty. So after she wants this, I could

635
00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 1: think of his hammer, like.

636
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 2: Didn't have it there all right, just just for the record,

637
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 2: I ain't trying to get them sucked up and did

638
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:55,160
Speaker 2: not have her.

639
00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 1: Okay, there was no happy ending with the dog and the.

640
00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:02,159
Speaker 2: Private in home padic Yeah this is somebody invited me

641
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:03,880
Speaker 2: over and it was like y'all want to slip.

642
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:07,000
Speaker 1: The nails and then sucked both toes. Okay, when you

643
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,480
Speaker 1: say it like that, you sound like you I'm not

644
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 1: you know what yo? You know it's crazy?

645
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 3: No, no, no, I say it in a way because

646
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:18,359
Speaker 3: recently one of my old boodes we're still friends, and

647
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 3: he got he got a new like he got a bitch.

648
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,679
Speaker 3: He got a new bitch, recently divorced, so, but he

649
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 3: has a girlfriend and we were supposed to go get

650
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:31,439
Speaker 3: drinks one night and he said, so I had to

651
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 3: stay in and I said why, Nigga. He showed me

652
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:38,280
Speaker 3: that this bitch like had rose petals on the bed,

653
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:42,480
Speaker 3: lit candles everywhere. And I was like, oh, bitches that

654
00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:44,639
Speaker 3: I heard. Wait, that's not the thing that men have.

655
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 4: To do for women.

656
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:51,200
Speaker 3: I said, wait, there's women doing the cameras destroyed these

657
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:54,879
Speaker 3: gender counts. No, bitch, it was just it was like

658
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 3: a Wednesday. There was there was no birthday, there was

659
00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,439
Speaker 3: nothing that happened. And I was just like and I

660
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661
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Speaker 3: ain't going out.

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Speaker 1: She was trying to keep you in from me. Maybe

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Speaker 1: maybe she maybe maybe you.

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Speaker 1: He did reverse that.

666
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668
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669
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670
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Speaker 3: wanted to respond to you and saying, oh, you judge

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Speaker 1: You know what, I love an assertive woman.

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676
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Speaker 4: When I say so, just hearing like when women like

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686
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687
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690
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695
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696
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705
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708
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710
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711
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712
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713
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714
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715
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716
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718
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Speaker 5: I ain't never gonna I ain't at forty one to

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721
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Speaker 1: That, they do that. I'm saying that for that, and

723
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724
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Speaker 3: No, no, this is it's a reverse psychology that men will

725
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728
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731
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Speaker 2: A psychological shit, I think, well, no, no, no. So

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Speaker 2: originally it was because, like I said, I was raised

733
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734
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735
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736
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737
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738
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739
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Speaker 2: And I got some bad head where bitch used too

740
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741
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742
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743
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Speaker 1: I'm just like, I'm over it. Okay, I will go

746
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747
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749
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750
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751
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752
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Speaker 5: You know, pussy though, it's like you almost gotta earn

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756
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766
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767
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768
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769
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770
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778
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779
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786
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Speaker 1: whoever your the Rocky is?

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Speaker 5: So the hole Tree is our segment where we basically

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, now I.

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Speaker 5: on my heart to hear.

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Speaker 1: At the altar. I've just asked jag Edge, that's okay?

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Speaker 5: Yesterday we filming with Harry Hall, and my first words were, uh,

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Speaker 1: And I was like, god, damn, I get you. I

878
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:23,719
Speaker 1: get you.

879
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 6: You have to.

880
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:26,560
Speaker 2: I'm not mad at it, but I was. I was questioning,

881
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 2: but but but if you had a card game, that's

882
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:32,799
Speaker 2: not what it would do. Give you the damn words.

883
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:35,479
Speaker 2: But you know what, Let's keep it a pup which

884
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 2: one of us plays by the complete box rules of

885
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:38,759
Speaker 2: a card game.

886
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:41,759
Speaker 1: We don't do that. We don't do that. Well, no,

887
00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 1: we don't do that with Spade. We don't do that

888
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:44,399
Speaker 1: with talk.

889
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:46,879
Speaker 3: So know, so that's what we have to do. Hey, guys,

890
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 3: we created this game and we changed it. Now we cheat,

891
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:53,640
Speaker 3: we make it harder for you. We created the house rules. Yeah,

892
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 3: but but see there was no house rules given. You know,

893
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:58,439
Speaker 3: when I was just ready, you know, when we see

894
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:01,400
Speaker 3: it play spades and we're doing juice side jokers involved,

895
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 3: I'm like.

896
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:04,839
Speaker 1: Can you over books? But here's the thing. Here's the thing.

897
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:07,880
Speaker 2: There's no possibility of us fighting from this game. Space

898
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 2: is something different space, my grandma, because you were.

899
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 1: Like if hey, I guess not.

900
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:20,400
Speaker 5: We know there's fights a game night, I realized I

901
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 5: have black people living next door to me, because so

902
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:25,839
Speaker 5: I don't really live at this Cribbon La too often, right,

903
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 5: but I feel like I'm hearing like violence.

904
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:31,279
Speaker 1: Now, I'm like, yo, is this domestic? What the fuck

905
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 1: is going on? Called out on one?

906
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:36,200
Speaker 3: So I called downstairs. My mom and I got apartments

907
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 3: downstairs with each other. I said, wow, isn't a woman

908
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:40,839
Speaker 3: next door? I feel like somebody beeping there, Like it's

909
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:41,760
Speaker 3: two people in their screaming.

910
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 4: No, they're so sweet they have a game night every Friday.

911
00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 4: I said, oh them niggas.

912
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 3: I brought a game night to my house recently in

913
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 3: Atlanta and boy boy boy. Now, just like every neighbor

914
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 3: I walked by, I had something to say, and I said,

915
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:03,279
Speaker 3: next time, I'm just gonna let y'all know when I

916
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:04,440
Speaker 3: do this again, because it.

917
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 1: Got like really loud, and it was it was charades.

918
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 3: It was you know, charade you ain't get put out

919
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 3: show raids and it was like this one like when

920
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 3: you're like, hands up here we go when I tell

921
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 3: you video, I said, I said, because it records you

922
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 3: on the app. And I was good, I'll show you guys,

923
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:27,400
Speaker 3: but literally took out the trash.

924
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:28,400
Speaker 1: I think what to go.

925
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 3: Like when it got the mail, I ran into like

926
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 3: two or three neighbors that this is the first time.

927
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:36,400
Speaker 3: They all spoke to me and said that last night

928
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 3: was fine, you had a good and I was like,

929
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 3: every one of the dame.

930
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 1: It's like, we didn't call the cops, but we heard

931
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:50,960
Speaker 1: if you're gonna do it like that, at least inviting it.

932
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:54,800
Speaker 4: One of your favorites.

933
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:57,080
Speaker 3: No one of my neighbors did you know, what's crazy?

934
00:38:57,280 --> 00:39:01,439
Speaker 3: So I moved into like this lost building and it's

935
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 3: so like ch like, it's unlike. Basically I thought it

936
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 3: was arts enough to where no black people would live

937
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:09,720
Speaker 3: in it, even though it's in Atlanta.

938
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 1: I was like, this's got to be full of white people,

939
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 1: and I bought it from white people. Well, i'm leasing

940
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 1: it for white people. I'm running it from white people.

941
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:18,239
Speaker 3: Me and my friend went in there and I was like, bitch,

942
00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 3: all my neighbors are black, and we had to really

943
00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:22,800
Speaker 3: remind them why we live in Atlanta.

944
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:25,520
Speaker 1: Them all the niggas that thought the same thing, all

945
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:26,239
Speaker 1: them niggas.

946
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:31,399
Speaker 3: Well, No, even the doper thing about it is I'm

947
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 3: the only one renting. Everyone in the building owns it.

948
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:37,279
Speaker 3: So the h o A, everyone in the building, you

949
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 3: really are am.

950
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:42,239
Speaker 1: No, you said you're rented from white people.

951
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 3: No, and they moved out. So I'm now the only

952
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 3: one renting in this building and all the owners now

953
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 3: they might have someone else. They need to give what

954
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:55,239
Speaker 3: we have to make it fair. Long, it's like, and

955
00:39:55,360 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 3: she's not niggas giving them way, they said, she's well no,

956
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:03,520
Speaker 3: I had to like when I first moved there, apparently

957
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:04,880
Speaker 3: like there was a rapper that used to live in

958
00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:07,319
Speaker 3: the building. So when I moved there, she was like, girl,

959
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:09,320
Speaker 3: think you living in such and such old place. I

960
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:11,319
Speaker 3: ain't no running to live in the club. He did

961
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:14,160
Speaker 3: used to live in my building, and I was like, oh, wow, yeah,

962
00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 3: so he must have sold it.

963
00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 5: But regardless, I was like that man, he's trying to

964
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 5: tell y'all she got a nice apartment because.

965
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:27,440
Speaker 1: I hadn't wait, I shot in the elevator.

966
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 5: I want to bitches to now just saying listen, when

967
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:34,359
Speaker 5: you could say something like oh I was having dinner

968
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:35,359
Speaker 5: and so and so was there.

969
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 4: Oh I was on my flight and so and so

970
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 4: it was right behind me, I'll be like, yeah, don't

971
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:39,000
Speaker 4: get money.

972
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:40,759
Speaker 1: That's just a little this, a little flex.

973
00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:44,360
Speaker 2: But when you can say, yeah, I'm staying in uhl

974
00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 2: a spot right now by the way. But that was

975
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 2: te I little run through it. Listen, a lot of niggas,

976
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:54,759
Speaker 2: I know they got a little run throughs right over

977
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:55,120
Speaker 2: here right.

978
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:57,680
Speaker 3: I'm not rich enough yet, but I want one. I

979
00:40:57,760 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 3: want a bashful path. I want I want to hold

980
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:03,120
Speaker 3: I can see this space, I can I do, but

981
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 3: I want to get one. But right now, it's like

982
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 3: I can be open and free in the.

983
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:07,759
Speaker 1: Game now this clip.

984
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:09,320
Speaker 4: I feel like we're all gonna have the same opinion,

985
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:10,960
Speaker 4: but it's so crazy and wow to me.

986
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 1: No, I don't know we have the same opinion. Oh okay,

987
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:20,880
Speaker 1: I wanted to know her list of who I need.

988
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:25,480
Speaker 1: I want to know. I needed to know, Oh my god.

989
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:27,200
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you why though.

990
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 6: I want to know because before I sit up here

991
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 6: and really keep moving and elevating our relationship, I want

992
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:39,839
Speaker 6: to know who got one up on me and if

993
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:44,840
Speaker 6: I'm willing to take on that burden. Because why, I

994
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:47,879
Speaker 6: want to know if you had any type of relationship

995
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:51,680
Speaker 6: intimacy experiences with people that I really know.

996
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 1: I need to know that I'm old that because if

997
00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:57,759
Speaker 1: you don't give me that, you got me. Hey, y'all,

998
00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 1: this my girl, and you got somebody over there in

999
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 1: that collar like nigga, that's our girl though, Been there,

1000
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:07,239
Speaker 1: done that?

1001
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 4: I don't what if a.

1002
00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 5: Woman asked you, let's say that you're dating someone who's

1003
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 5: a select bigger celebrity than you.

1004
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she's like, I need a list, I'll give

1005
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:18,880
Speaker 1: it that list. I ain't gonna make no difference. I'll

1006
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 1: give it that list. Here's the thing for me. One

1007
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:24,400
Speaker 1: thing my wife.

1008
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:27,520
Speaker 2: We did run into an issue with like as a comic,

1009
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 2: like I, you know, I had knocked a couple of

1010
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 2: people down for and sometimes they would still pull up

1011
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:33,480
Speaker 2: to a show. She'd be like, I need to know

1012
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:35,920
Speaker 2: if somebody's in the room to that be with me,

1013
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:40,319
Speaker 2: that that makes right. And initially I didn't. I didn't

1014
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:42,360
Speaker 2: get that, but then I understood, like you know, having

1015
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:45,000
Speaker 2: like if she's engaging with this chicken, like she's being

1016
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 2: forthcoming and chilling shit like that, and this bitch has

1017
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:49,440
Speaker 2: out to your motives, you know what I mean, Like

1018
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna let her fuck with it like that,

1019
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:55,719
Speaker 2: but like where he's coming from the point until he said,

1020
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:57,480
Speaker 2: if you've been with somebody I know, I was just

1021
00:42:57,560 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 2: like nigga for what, Like I don't.

1022
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:00,640
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck who you been with.

1023
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:04,279
Speaker 2: Right, Like, I don't unless it's somebody I know, somebody

1024
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:06,160
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be interacting or if we're in the same

1025
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 2: space with that person, let me know, give me to his.

1026
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:10,680
Speaker 3: The clip was also cut off early. He goes further

1027
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 3: to say, now, if I know, then that's fine. However,

1028
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:16,560
Speaker 3: if we are close and I have to see this

1029
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 3: person often doesn't matter how beautiful, how much I like you,

1030
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 3: I would have had to let you go because this

1031
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 3: person is gonna continue being around. So it's not even

1032
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:28,600
Speaker 3: that like it's someone like casual, like okay, of course

1033
00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:30,880
Speaker 3: I'm gonna But he literally says too, like if it

1034
00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:33,600
Speaker 3: was one of my teammates, and this that I get,

1035
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:35,800
Speaker 3: but for context to y'all, this was Cam Newton on

1036
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:38,440
Speaker 3: his podcast with Parker McKenna. But he goes further, like

1037
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 3: he does go further to say it, now, we had

1038
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:45,560
Speaker 3: a recent you got decisions where to me if I

1039
00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 3: get with a partner who asks for my list, but

1040
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:52,759
Speaker 3: I've vowed with someone else that this is something we

1041
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:56,280
Speaker 3: keeping secret that you not gonna tell nobody.

1042
00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:58,920
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna tell nobody. I don't what are you

1043
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 1: doing that? Hold on? You know what I mean?

1044
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I say that.

1045
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:10,080
Speaker 3: I say that only because I say that because there

1046
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 3: have been two men, there have been two two in

1047
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 3: my life where I've literally became upset because it was

1048
00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:21,200
Speaker 3: something to where bro. One of them we engaged with

1049
00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:24,360
Speaker 3: an interactive multiple times, had threesomes, all those things. He

1050
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:28,359
Speaker 3: ended up getting married who he got married to. I've

1051
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 3: shared rooms and spaces with and I don't be weird.

1052
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:36,360
Speaker 3: Me and him did not engage after he got married,

1053
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:40,400
Speaker 3: and he was like, oh, well she already knows about

1054
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 3: you and I, and I was I was upset because

1055
00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:47,120
Speaker 3: I'm like, bro, who why why wouldn't that be a

1056
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:50,520
Speaker 3: conversation with me? Because now I've seen her out, we've

1057
00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:54,160
Speaker 3: been in spaces, and essentially in that sense, she has

1058
00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 3: one up on me. You completely disrespected me, and we

1059
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 3: said we wasn't gonna talk to share about it now.

1060
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:05,759
Speaker 3: The other person who did this we fucked once. I

1061
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 3: ended up years later and I talked about this person

1062
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:12,360
Speaker 3: on the pod. I ended up dealing with his brother's homeboy.

1063
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 3: We ended up really like each other.

1064
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 1: That's right. That means wrong what you.

1065
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 6: No?

1066
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:21,719
Speaker 1: No, you really like that?

1067
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:22,080
Speaker 6: No?

1068
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:30,800
Speaker 1: Wrong? I really liked him and then we leave No,

1069
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:33,359
Speaker 1: like like really liked him.

1070
00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:36,160
Speaker 4: Like then we both ended up going into like the

1071
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:37,400
Speaker 4: same career path.

1072
00:45:37,719 --> 00:45:42,720
Speaker 3: Oh shut up, okay, No, No, what's crazy is actually

1073
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:44,600
Speaker 3: you actually want to know the crazy party about this?

1074
00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:47,280
Speaker 1: Fuck the whore hide. He came to a d C show.

1075
00:45:47,920 --> 00:45:49,800
Speaker 3: He literally a bitch came up to him at the

1076
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:52,960
Speaker 3: bar because I don't tell it was like you here

1077
00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:56,120
Speaker 3: from man d ain't you And he was like, you're

1078
00:45:56,560 --> 00:45:59,359
Speaker 3: your fans are wild and I was like, the fuck

1079
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 3: bitches anyway, you know, I had the way to put.

1080
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:04,920
Speaker 4: Up that's happen with my nigga and I wasn't around him.

1081
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:08,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, feel weazy. I feel like now like you would

1082
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 1: know her and I. But I didn't like that.

1083
00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:14,879
Speaker 3: I didn't like that anyways, this friend, I didn't say

1084
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:15,839
Speaker 3: nothing because it happened once.

1085
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 1: That's it.

1086
00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:21,800
Speaker 3: He ended up not only telling this person because we

1087
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:24,200
Speaker 3: ended up. We were fucking with each other for years,

1088
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:25,520
Speaker 3: Like y'all, i've heard him.

1089
00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:26,920
Speaker 1: His name is DC. I think I used to call

1090
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 1: him DC on the pod.

1091
00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:31,920
Speaker 3: Not only did he tell this nigga, and this nigga

1092
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 3: completely went to a I really like you, but I

1093
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:36,279
Speaker 3: could never marry you because he would be at the

1094
00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:38,320
Speaker 3: wedding and I can't have a nigga that fucked my

1095
00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 3: wife at the wedding. Not only did he do that,

1096
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 3: he started fucking with my best friend's best friend.

1097
00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:48,920
Speaker 1: So the best the best removed. The best friend was removed. No,

1098
00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:53,040
Speaker 1: so the best friend cuts out my homegirl, like why you.

1099
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:55,920
Speaker 3: Ain't tell me Mandy Funck so and so, and it

1100
00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:58,719
Speaker 3: just became like a and then not only fuck, he said,

1101
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:01,160
Speaker 3: we dated, so now we just made it a thing.

1102
00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:03,719
Speaker 1: And I was like, bro, I ain't tell when it

1103
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:08,440
Speaker 1: was bad. That made it even worse. I don't even

1104
00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:09,240
Speaker 1: count this, nigga.

1105
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 3: It was I literally didn't count even that whole like

1106
00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 3: dat like put the trying to have pumps in one position,

1107
00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:20,239
Speaker 3: I do not count it. So like for me in

1108
00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:23,280
Speaker 3: terms of hearing this, a person coming in just expecting

1109
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:26,080
Speaker 3: a whole list of everyone I fucked. If there's prior

1110
00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 3: conversations that I've had for this isn't something we both

1111
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 3: even are explaining to people.

1112
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:32,320
Speaker 1: That's what makes it tricky.

1113
00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 2: The tree time you're in a lifestyle, anytime you meant

1114
00:47:35,080 --> 00:47:39,680
Speaker 2: something that's non traditional, there are less less beaten paths

1115
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:41,400
Speaker 2: to go down of things that you should do.

1116
00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:44,120
Speaker 1: So in this type of situation like it is, it

1117
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 1: is very sticky because do.

1118
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:48,360
Speaker 2: You honor your new partner or do you honor the

1119
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:51,600
Speaker 2: arrangement and agreement that you have with this previous person? Right,

1120
00:47:51,880 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 2: And so I think if you choose to honor your partner,

1121
00:47:56,080 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 2: then at that very time, like after you have the

1122
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:00,720
Speaker 2: conversation with your partner, you need to have that conversation

1123
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 2: with the person and like, hey, listen, things got serious

1124
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 2: with this person. I wasn't expecting to get this this person,

1125
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:06,759
Speaker 2: but we wanted to put it all on the table,

1126
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:08,920
Speaker 2: so I mentioned you, right, so at least they have

1127
00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:11,319
Speaker 2: the hiss up. So me not having a heads up

1128
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:14,359
Speaker 2: with Yeah, that's that's the part that's to me. Even

1129
00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 2: a lifestyle though too. If we're in play or we're

1130
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:21,320
Speaker 2: out of place, like you know, don't bring up like

1131
00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:24,919
Speaker 2: my ex did it, which was felt completely violating. Don't

1132
00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:27,960
Speaker 2: bring someone to play that y'all have something that I'm

1133
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 2: unaware of.

1134
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean.

1135
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:31,759
Speaker 2: So I guess now being in lifestyle, there's just bring

1136
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:33,520
Speaker 2: her in and be like, hey, there's been something on

1137
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:35,120
Speaker 2: tuesdays from the bat we would like to not.

1138
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 1: I agree, I agree to let it be in the

1139
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 1: club because it's startsday. Wait did this just happen like

1140
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:43,319
Speaker 1: two days ago? Okay? Yeah?

1141
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:46,239
Speaker 3: But I think for me though, being more in lifestyle,

1142
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 3: being able to just communicate more allows me to understand

1143
00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:54,680
Speaker 3: everyone's feelings the most mine being violated and how I

1144
00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 3: would have liked to be thought of or considered in

1145
00:48:58,800 --> 00:49:02,080
Speaker 3: different levels of commun udication with what I'm having with partners,

1146
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:06,160
Speaker 3: previous partners, promises, honorings. If I'm in a place, how

1147
00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:08,360
Speaker 3: people are gonna perceive that, I just would like that.

1148
00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:13,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean lifestyle permits itself to all different stages

1149
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:15,239
Speaker 2: of learning on the curve. Yes, because a lot of

1150
00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:18,879
Speaker 2: the shit, like again, we're not doing traditional lifestyle things,

1151
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:23,120
Speaker 2: so the conversations are a lot of times you don't

1152
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:24,440
Speaker 2: know you need to happen until you need to have

1153
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:26,600
Speaker 2: it right, so you'll find out shit on the fly,

1154
00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:29,320
Speaker 2: like oh shit, I feel like I might be violating

1155
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:32,319
Speaker 2: a boundary or parameter to somebody said, let me talk

1156
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:34,479
Speaker 2: to this person to see if they're okay with this whatever,

1157
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:35,120
Speaker 2: And a.

1158
00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:36,920
Speaker 1: Lot of it is using.

1159
00:49:38,400 --> 00:49:40,319
Speaker 2: I want to say, common sense is like treat people

1160
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 2: how you want to be treated right, right, but which

1161
00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 2: is fucked up because sometimes some people don't give fuck

1162
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:46,719
Speaker 2: like I fuck with you, that don't give fuck fuck

1163
00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 2: me the homeboy and all types of shit, and you

1164
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:49,840
Speaker 2: don't tell nobody should just move like that that's just

1165
00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 2: her thing. So I would say that give people the

1166
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 2: opportunity to say an a don't rob somebody of the

1167
00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:58,440
Speaker 2: opportunity to make a decision or.

1168
00:49:58,440 --> 00:49:59,359
Speaker 1: A lifestyle list.

1169
00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:02,759
Speaker 3: When you you and your wife decided that you could

1170
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:05,879
Speaker 3: each have partners outside of the marriage, were there any

1171
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:09,800
Speaker 3: stipulations of what those partners could or couldn't be, or

1172
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:11,759
Speaker 3: who they could or couldn't be, or what they could

1173
00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 3: or couldn't do, Like, were there no friends? Oh, it

1174
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:19,319
Speaker 3: couldn't be any of your friends, anybody. You couldn't date

1175
00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 3: any of her Yeah, that was the only that was.

1176
00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:24,719
Speaker 2: That was the main one right there, besides specific people,

1177
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 2: but not the smile.

1178
00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 1: It was it was some people. She was like, not

1179
00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:33,000
Speaker 1: this bitch. Well, I think that the veto this bitch

1180
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:34,120
Speaker 1: is not I'm not bad at that.

1181
00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:36,560
Speaker 5: So a lot of people don't discuss what the veto

1182
00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 5: looks like and basically that not this bitch and listen.

1183
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:42,399
Speaker 5: So I have that in my dynamic where if it's

1184
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:44,520
Speaker 5: if I'm uncomfortable and there's no questions that like I'm

1185
00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:48,439
Speaker 5: just done with it. But that to me is something

1186
00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:50,919
Speaker 5: that's so important because that's when open relationships are weird.

1187
00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:52,480
Speaker 5: I got to go back and forth with you about

1188
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:54,759
Speaker 5: somebody with the fun if we got a boundary, we

1189
00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:55,560
Speaker 5: got a line.

1190
00:50:55,560 --> 00:50:58,479
Speaker 1: Like not yeah, and that's the thing, like my friends

1191
00:50:58,520 --> 00:51:00,840
Speaker 1: and not this bitch. Yeah yeah, yeah, but even with that,

1192
00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 1: like it's okay.

1193
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:04,480
Speaker 2: If somebody does ain't not this bit, it's like ask

1194
00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 2: why because like sometimes like I'm the person, don't just

1195
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:09,799
Speaker 2: don't tell me what the fuck to do. I need

1196
00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:12,399
Speaker 2: to know the reason why. Otherwise it's like I don't like, yeah,

1197
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:14,800
Speaker 2: I'll bread out, I'll bread out. It's a bit about you,

1198
00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:15,719
Speaker 2: the Louis Purse.

1199
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:20,680
Speaker 1: One not about you, like I bread out right, but

1200
00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:22,879
Speaker 1: I needed to know now.

1201
00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 2: I need to know why because sometimes it helps me

1202
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:29,160
Speaker 2: understand like she's too close, or I feel like she's messy,

1203
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:32,000
Speaker 2: or she's gonna move too loud, or I watched her,

1204
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:34,000
Speaker 2: I don't like the way she interacts, or she's loose

1205
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:36,520
Speaker 2: at the mouth, she's gonna whatever it is, coming back

1206
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:36,839
Speaker 2: and forth.

1207
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:38,520
Speaker 1: I love that you're just like it's not because I

1208
00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:39,359
Speaker 1: said so. Yeah.

1209
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:43,360
Speaker 3: If if it's a no, not this person, I'm not,

1210
00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:45,320
Speaker 3: you say, oh why should be followed?

1211
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:47,080
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I know. I peop don't even know why,

1212
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:49,360
Speaker 1: Like like they're telling me just because I said so,

1213
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:51,520
Speaker 1: like which I'm not seven, I'm not I'm not a kid.

1214
00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 2: Don't tell me to go to big because you said so,

1215
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 2: Like why the fuck. I gotta go to bed right now,

1216
00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:57,320
Speaker 2: right right. So that's that's all it is to me.

1217
00:51:57,360 --> 00:51:59,640
Speaker 2: I need to understanding and their clarity, and that also

1218
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:02,200
Speaker 2: makes me be more empathetic to your needs and your

1219
00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:04,400
Speaker 2: wants and your and your wills because like, all right,

1220
00:52:04,400 --> 00:52:06,279
Speaker 2: I'm gonna take on which you.

1221
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:07,960
Speaker 1: Have going on because you're my partner.

1222
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 2: So if you say this and you give me the

1223
00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 2: reason for like all right, well it just fuck this

1224
00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:14,799
Speaker 2: Mitch Favor then So now now now we're riding together,

1225
00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:15,640
Speaker 2: but that don's getting me.

1226
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 4: No, it's like forever now as we're nearing the end

1227
00:52:19,080 --> 00:52:20,160
Speaker 4: of this episode is actually is.

1228
00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:24,080
Speaker 1: Not that council? Whoever? Next three hour episodes, I got

1229
00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 1: to change the clothes, im Finn, pull my shaw.

1230
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:30,919
Speaker 5: I tell you that point a thing that you would

1231
00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 5: love people to know that are thinking about getting an

1232
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:35,759
Speaker 5: open relationships because you've been doing it. Okay, yeah, so

1233
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 5: tell us like the biggest lesson learned and something that

1234
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:39,320
Speaker 5: you wish you knew in the beginning.

1235
00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:40,920
Speaker 1: If you don't know how to communicate, don't do it.

1236
00:52:41,880 --> 00:52:44,320
Speaker 1: I agree with that. We it's full over here, it's Atlanta.

1237
00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:46,399
Speaker 1: We don't even know new niggas over here. Like, don't don't,

1238
00:52:46,480 --> 00:52:46,880
Speaker 1: don't do it.

1239
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:49,279
Speaker 2: It's not gonna save your your relationship, it's not gonna

1240
00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:51,760
Speaker 2: save your marriage if you haven't done the the adequate

1241
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:53,000
Speaker 2: and appropriate work.

1242
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:53,520
Speaker 6: Uh.

1243
00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:55,800
Speaker 1: It is not a band age for anything. It is

1244
00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:59,560
Speaker 1: about but it's about whatever you make it about.

1245
00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:05,560
Speaker 2: But it should be about the experience, the lifestyle of

1246
00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:08,960
Speaker 2: having that transparency and that freedom with your partner.

1247
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:11,319
Speaker 1: But you cannot have any of that if you don't

1248
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:13,480
Speaker 1: have adequate communication.

1249
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:15,400
Speaker 2: If you're not if you're somebody that's docile and you

1250
00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:17,359
Speaker 2: don't speak up for yourself, you don't question, you don't

1251
00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:20,800
Speaker 2: ask why not this bitch, then you're not ready for it.

1252
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 2: I like that because it's you're gonna get, like I said,

1253
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:26,640
Speaker 2: so many on the fly situations where you have to

1254
00:53:26,640 --> 00:53:29,359
Speaker 2: adapt really quickly, and the only thing that can save

1255
00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:31,960
Speaker 2: it is going to be communication. And if you're not

1256
00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:34,919
Speaker 2: good at communicating, if you can't converse with someone without

1257
00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 2: getting up in arms and storming out and cursing and

1258
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:40,239
Speaker 2: all that shit, you're not ready for this. Because there

1259
00:53:40,239 --> 00:53:43,240
Speaker 2: are be a lot of times where your your your patience,

1260
00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 2: your jealousy, your your morals, all of that shit may

1261
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:50,480
Speaker 2: be conflicted at some point and if you can't conduct

1262
00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:52,920
Speaker 2: yourself in a manner and I'm not saying like you

1263
00:53:53,000 --> 00:53:57,440
Speaker 2: got to be prompting and proper every time, but you

1264
00:53:57,640 --> 00:53:59,880
Speaker 2: have to be able to at least have the capacity.

1265
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:02,560
Speaker 1: To be like, hey, this has been bothering me. Can

1266
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:03,719
Speaker 1: we have a conversation about it?

1267
00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:08,319
Speaker 2: And allow that person the space to say, yeah, does

1268
00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:10,960
Speaker 2: this day work or can we do it later? Because

1269
00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:12,800
Speaker 2: just because it's important to you and it's been on

1270
00:54:12,840 --> 00:54:14,680
Speaker 2: your mind for the past four days, this person might

1271
00:54:14,719 --> 00:54:16,400
Speaker 2: not have been thinking the shit about it, so you

1272
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:18,680
Speaker 2: bombarding them like, yo, I need to talk to you

1273
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:21,160
Speaker 2: right now. Hey, you know what they in the middle

1274
00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 2: of what they got going on. They might be dealing

1275
00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 2: with something they just haven't shared with you yet. Like

1276
00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:29,120
Speaker 2: allow them the space to create a safe place to

1277
00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:32,440
Speaker 2: listen to you, not defensively, but like listen to you

1278
00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 2: and be open to why they said they did what

1279
00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:38,120
Speaker 2: they did or said what they said, and try to

1280
00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:40,200
Speaker 2: do it from a place of understanding. Because if you're

1281
00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 2: doing it, if you're going in it completely defensively, right

1282
00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:45,680
Speaker 2: and you're just this, you did this, you did this,

1283
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:48,680
Speaker 2: you did this, and whatever they say, it's not gonna matter.

1284
00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:51,439
Speaker 2: Because you just you're hurt at that point, so you're

1285
00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:54,440
Speaker 2: not in a place of truly understanding them and trying

1286
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:55,920
Speaker 2: to get some resolve to the situation.

1287
00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:58,719
Speaker 1: You're just gonna be mad. So if you're gonna do it,

1288
00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:01,520
Speaker 1: do it for the right reasons. Relationship with for y'all,

1289
00:55:01,680 --> 00:55:03,839
Speaker 1: thank you to here. That was so fucking good.

1290
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:06,160
Speaker 4: We need a part two because now I feel like

1291
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:07,040
Speaker 4: I gotta follow up.

1292
00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:09,279
Speaker 1: Hey man, I did a part too after dark. I'm

1293
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:12,359
Speaker 1: gonna way launder I got this shut out.

1294
00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:17,719
Speaker 3: Can I also say real quick too before we leave

1295
00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:22,200
Speaker 3: the knowing that you have a robe, fency rope whatever.

1296
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:24,919
Speaker 3: That has been the one thing I've hated about sex

1297
00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:29,799
Speaker 3: clubs down South. They don't dress as like I don't

1298
00:55:29,880 --> 00:55:31,960
Speaker 3: want to see. I do not want to see a

1299
00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:35,360
Speaker 3: man in basketball shorts, a white beater and Jordan's slides

1300
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:35,840
Speaker 3: with socks.

1301
00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:37,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna show when we get out of param I'm

1302
00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:39,319
Speaker 1: gonna show you my outfit. I'm gonna show you my outfit.

1303
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:41,760
Speaker 2: For the last party I went to, I was dressed

1304
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:45,880
Speaker 2: like a centaur, so I had like furry like I

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Speaker 2: had furry chaps on with with the ass out at

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Speaker 2: the Horns.

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Speaker 1: I had the horness on. Uh yeah it was. It

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Speaker 1: was a whole like I dressed no no, no no.

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Speaker 1: I actually I need a picture of you. I got you.

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Speaker 1: I just need a picture. I got you. I got here.

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Speaker 3: Please let our listeners know where they can follow you,

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Speaker 3: support you, they can come and see you.

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Speaker 1: Last listen, my only fans is uh with you. It's

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Speaker 1: ad to hear more on everything.

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Speaker 2: Man, this show is probably gonna fuck up my chances

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Speaker 2: of getting on this other comedy competition.

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Speaker 1: But we know, you know this was a very mature

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Speaker 1: for it is. But I tell you that the nda

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Speaker 1: hi uh wed to hear more on everything.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 1: I don't have a website right now. I'm working on it.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 1: It went down because I didn't pay go daddy. I

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Speaker 1: want selling it at the point, so like I'm but

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Speaker 1: I'm coming back.

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Speaker 2: The new t Church is up there. Also, my special

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Speaker 2: was out Aging Out. You can catch that on Apple

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Speaker 2: TV Prime and but on YouTube. Also Churchy season two's

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Speaker 2: on BTS on BT.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, Abbot Elementary keep looking out for that too. Well.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate everybody to watch the previous seasons Abbot. I

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Speaker 1: appreciate y'all. Thank y'all. So much. But yeah, just keep

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Speaker 1: you know, keep out. Thank you so muny money.

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Speaker 4: I didn't even know.

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Speaker 1: Relax, relax. Oh, make sure y'all get our book. No

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Speaker 1: holds Barden.

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Speaker 3: If you want bonus content, head on over to Patreon,

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Speaker 3: where you'll get a bube more like this episode. Horrible

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Speaker 3: Decisions is all over there. Patreon dot com back says,

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Speaker 3: Horrible Decisions, this has been another episode of Decisions Decisions

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Speaker 3: i e.