Speaker 1: I put with Alexi Napola and Mari saw Patton an
Speaker 1: iHeartRadio podcast. Hey Alexia, I haven't seen your face in
Speaker 1: a week.
Speaker 2: I know that's like recording.
Speaker 1: Actually more than a week.
Speaker 2: Well, I think the last time we saw each other
Speaker 2: was on my birthday May third. No, see if we
Speaker 2: don't say it all. You left on a cruise. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: how was your cruise though?
Speaker 1: You know? It was going really well until the one
Speaker 1: day I went abroad off the ship and I meandered
Speaker 1: around on this island and I got really hot, and
Speaker 1: I don't like to get hot, and I got itchy,
Speaker 1: so I had to come back and take a really cold,
Speaker 1: cold shower, and my seat patches fell off, and I
Speaker 1: didn't realize it had fallen off, so I didn't put
Speaker 1: new seat patches on. So when I woke up in
Speaker 1: the morning, I was very seasick. So that kind of
Speaker 1: messed up the rest of my trip.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't get to see.
Speaker 1: There's nothing worse than that. I've heard. I got that
Speaker 1: from my mother. My mother would always get seasick, and
Speaker 1: my dad was a sailor, so he was never sick.
Speaker 1: You'd think I would have gotten the sailorship from him,
Speaker 1: the olive skin from her, the blue eyes from him.
Speaker 1: I got all the things I didn't want. That's how
Speaker 1: usually is right, sparkling personality.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah.
Speaker 1: Also with that, Ado went to my house Mother's Day.
Speaker 2: Mother's Day was nice. I was with Peter and Frankie
Speaker 2: and my good friends Lorena and Avellio that are like
Speaker 2: my family. We went to Mother's Day brunch at Sea Spice,
Speaker 2: one of my favorite restaurants in Miami. It's still one
Speaker 2: of my favorite restaurants in Miami, considering that they've opened
Speaker 2: up like another hundred since then. They have not them
Speaker 2: Sea Spies, I mean Miami. I mean Sea Spice has
Speaker 2: been around for ten years. But I felt like it
Speaker 2: was my favorite restaurant ten years ago when they opened,
Speaker 2: and it continues to be one of my top favorite
Speaker 2: restaurants in Miami. The food was, But what I'm saying
Speaker 2: is they have a lot of competition, you know, Miami
Speaker 2: and Miami. They're opening up and closing restaurants all the time.
Speaker 2: So the fact that they made it for ten years
Speaker 2: and their food is still delicious about it sushi to
Speaker 2: the many, which we love. Yeah, So yeah, we had
Speaker 2: a great time Besides that, it was hot as hell,
Speaker 2: because welcome to Miami in the summers. In Miami, even
Speaker 2: though it's not officially summer, the weather is well, it's
Speaker 2: almost June. I mean, summer is about to start. But
Speaker 2: what I'm trying to say is when it says like,
Speaker 2: you know, one hot day, this is what we got
Speaker 2: for the rest of the summer. So the weather was very,
Speaker 2: very hot, but you know it's I'm not complaining because
Speaker 2: it was a beautiful day.
Speaker 1: Yeah, listen, you can't complain. A healthy day above ground
Speaker 1: is a good day, right.
Speaker 2: The food was great, the drinks were good, the day
Speaker 2: was beautiful, So that's all. And I was with my
Speaker 2: beautiful kids. Yeah, yeah, yeah, kids. You know I still
Speaker 2: call them kids. You know, Peter's almost thirty two, and
Speaker 2: I'm like, my beautiful kids, they're I know, I forget right.
Speaker 1: My step kids gave me flowers and a card.
Speaker 2: And.
Speaker 1: Hunter came into the kitchen the morning, get me a
Speaker 1: really big hug and said I love you, You're the
Speaker 1: best mom. I choked up. I couldn't even respond. I
Speaker 1: didn't even speak because I knew the tears were the
Speaker 1: tears were coming out, and I didn't say a word.
Speaker 1: I told them later after a few drinks, go hunt.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry I didn't say anything, but I really choked
Speaker 1: up when you did that to me, emotionally constipated, and no,
Speaker 1: I just didn't want to be crying water works with
Speaker 1: this young man that you know, said something so beautiful
Speaker 1: to men. I don't want me to feel like it
Speaker 1: turned into a weird thing, like I made it weird.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: I don't know I was going to handle that anyway.
Speaker 1: I'm already very sweet. I'm getting misty already thinking about it.
Speaker 1: It was so nice.
Speaker 2: That's very sweet. Yes, well, I got flowers and phone
Speaker 2: calls and text thank you for all your love. You know,
Speaker 2: our fans and our viewers and our listeners that this
Speaker 2: sent me such an messages. And I really appreciate all
Speaker 2: the love.
Speaker 1: It's very special. In the fans chime in and have
Speaker 1: something nice to say, because there's so much negativity. But
Speaker 1: it's been good. It's been good.
Speaker 2: Well, speaking of fans, there's a lot going on in
Speaker 2: the Bravo universe, almost all kinds stuff. Yeah, I think
Speaker 2: we keep everybody very busy. We're very entertaining, and there's
Speaker 2: always something going on in our lives, and I feel
Speaker 2: that that's why we're on TV, and everybody loves to
Speaker 2: watch and know that they're not alone.
Speaker 1: Everyone's suffering good together.
Speaker 2: Yes, but in this particular case, I guess we should
Speaker 2: talk about the cast shake up with the Real Housewives
Speaker 2: of Atlanta for season sixteen. How do you feel about
Speaker 2: Chara not coming back?
Speaker 1: I just don't get it. She's like a yo yo.
Speaker 1: They get rid of her, they bring her back, they
Speaker 1: get rid of her, they bring her back. This is
Speaker 1: like her third time. I don't know what to think.
Speaker 1: Is she really gone?
Speaker 2: I think they shall come back again. I feel like
Speaker 2: she's one of these characters that is always going to
Speaker 2: have a place. You know, she's very memorable, and you know,
Speaker 2: not everybody's that kind of a character, But I feel
Speaker 2: like certain cities have certain women that are always welcome back. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and she's one of them. Sure, so we'll miss you.
Speaker 2: I think she's amazing. She's always been one of my
Speaker 2: favorites since I started watching Atlanta. I've always loved her,
Speaker 2: and so we'll miss her. But I really do believe
Speaker 2: that whenever she wants to go back, she'll always have
Speaker 2: a place with a group, and she'll always have a
Speaker 2: place and everyone's heart because everybody really loves her too
Speaker 2: and enjoys watching her. Yeah, and Candy's out also, But
Speaker 2: I think in Candy's case, it was something personal. I
Speaker 2: think she decided not to come back this season even before,
Speaker 2: you know, I think when the show wrapped up, or
Speaker 2: she after.
Speaker 1: She's been there, any time she'd been there what she
Speaker 1: started season two. So yeah, fourteen years.
Speaker 2: That's a long time. That is a very long time.
Speaker 2: And I think that she has so many other things
Speaker 2: going on in her career that you know, sometimes you
Speaker 2: have to know, like to step down and kind of
Speaker 2: like prioritize, you know, what's going on. And I think
Speaker 2: she know she had a really long run and Leah.
Speaker 1: And a long one, long one, and she's very talented,
Speaker 1: and yeah, she gets a lot of other work with
Speaker 1: the music and producing and all of that.
Speaker 2: And then we have our friend Porsche Willie. We're so
Speaker 2: happy for you.
Speaker 1: I missed her. She needs to be there. She's so great.
Speaker 2: I would be so such great TV. And she's so
Speaker 2: much fun and her energy and you know what I
Speaker 2: love about Porsche is that she's so genuine. She's so raw,
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 1: She says it as it is.
Speaker 2: She never holds back and you know, she's really been
Speaker 2: very authentic and I think that that's why the fans
Speaker 2: love her, because you know, she's there to you know,
Speaker 2: to say the truth and you know, and she keeps
Speaker 2: it fun a lot of the times most of the time.
Speaker 2: And it's going to be interesting to see like her
Speaker 2: friendship with Kenya because you know, once upon a time,
Speaker 2: we all know what happened.
Speaker 1: Absolutely that was one of the greatest Moms and Central
Speaker 1: TV moments.
Speaker 2: Absolutely, yeah, that was crazy. That was really crazy. But
Speaker 2: so you know, it's going to be you know, a
Speaker 2: lot of it's going to be interesting, just like to
Speaker 2: see what their dynamics is like, you know, I feel
Speaker 2: like Kenya is going to be there for Porsche. I
Speaker 2: think Porsha has like a lot to say, you know,
Speaker 2: her personal story and things that have been going on,
Speaker 2: and I think Kenya will be a friend to her
Speaker 2: because I think Kenya, I also love Kenya. I just
Speaker 2: can't wait to see them together because I think that
Speaker 2: they're going to end up being, you know, good friends.
Speaker 2: And for sure, I know Kenya, like from women to women,
Speaker 2: she'll be there. I mean, I don't know if they're
Speaker 2: going to rehash anything that's happened in the past, or
Speaker 2: they've moved forward, like those things. You never know. I mean,
Speaker 2: you know that weren't a group of women in these
Speaker 2: kind of shows, and you never know, like what's the
Speaker 2: trigger that can get you to that bad place again?
Speaker 2: But hopefully it won't because you know, I think they've
Speaker 2: both evolved so much, you know, Kenya and Porscha spiritually,
Speaker 2: I think they've grown so much, and you know, they're
Speaker 2: successful women. You know, they've had children and their lives
Speaker 2: have changed a lot. You know, I think that they're
Speaker 2: like different women. We're going to see different women this season.
Speaker 1: You never know, maybe we will, maybe we won't. You
Speaker 1: know who I miss and I wish would be there
Speaker 1: as Niny. She was just such good TV.
Speaker 2: No, I think she would be fantastic, But you know
Speaker 2: that's a different story. You know, she is great TV.
Speaker 2: And I think that she also was one of those
Speaker 2: iconic characters that she's always had a place there and
Speaker 2: would have come back. But you know, unfortunately or fortunately
Speaker 2: that happens, and I don't think there's any way of
Speaker 2: her coming back.
Speaker 1: Right right. I Actually I had also read that Kim Zolciak.
Speaker 1: Weeks ago, months ago, they were saying that Kim was
Speaker 1: going to come back now amid her divorce, you know,
Speaker 1: because they wanted to catch all of that.
Speaker 2: But I don't know what kind of playing out a lot.
Speaker 2: You know, it's like if you hang out long enough,
Speaker 2: if there's going to be marriages and they're going to
Speaker 2: be divorces. You know. So it's like, you know, you
Speaker 2: don't want every story to be about, you know, somebody's divorce,
Speaker 2: even though Kim's divorce has been pretty public. But I
Speaker 2: think that they chose to do that because honestly, she's
Speaker 2: not on the show right now when the cameras aren't there,
Speaker 2: So you know, I don't know why it became so public,
Speaker 2: And you know that's a scary part too, because it's like,
Speaker 2: do you really like because.
Speaker 1: They were calling the police and making a public.
Speaker 2: Well yeah, once the police is involved, Yeah, but she's
Speaker 2: to be in this lineup that they've they've right, but
Speaker 2: you know he's in the lineup. Cynthia Bailey our friend
Speaker 2: Cynthia Bany and we love Cynthia. She's another one that
Speaker 2: I think will always be part of the Atlanta family.
Speaker 2: And she's so easy to get along with. Yeah, and yeah,
Speaker 2: she's she's a good friend. She's she's a good person,
Speaker 2: and I'm very happy for her. I feel like Cynthia
Speaker 2: fits in in any group. She would fit in here
Speaker 2: with us, in Miami, she fits in Beverly Hills, she
Speaker 2: fits in with Atlanta. She's just like that woman. That woman,
Speaker 2: So I'm very happy for her. And then there's three newbies, Angela, Brittany,
Speaker 2: and Kelly. Welcome to Bravo and to come to the
Speaker 2: housewife world. Yeah, and I really don't know anything about them,
Speaker 2: now do.
Speaker 1: I don't know who they are?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Did you see pictures? Did you google them? No?
Speaker 2: I actually haven't even well, I actually saw the not
Speaker 2: a cast picture, but you know when they put when
Speaker 2: there's bloggers that put like all the ladies from the show.
Speaker 2: So I mean, I know what they look like, but
Speaker 2: I really don't know like their history.
Speaker 1: So I didn't even say that I need to look
Speaker 1: into that. Check out what these new chicks are about.
Speaker 2: Right, Well, I feel like they're doing like a reboot
Speaker 2: for Atlanta, you know, kind of like what they did
Speaker 2: to Miami. And I don't know that they're calling it
Speaker 2: a reboot, but if they called ours a reboot. Dish
Speaker 2: called there's a reboot TOOM just saying.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a definitely reboot when you wipe out of course,
Speaker 1: so fresh and yeah, we keep a few. So how
Speaker 1: many are they in total?
Speaker 2: Well, they're seven or six Kenya, No, they brought back Drew,
Speaker 2: so Kenya, Drew and Porsche and then three and then
Speaker 2: the front is a seven. But you know, I think
Speaker 2: Cynthia is going to be that kind of friend, kind
Speaker 2: of like you and Adrianna that because you were always housewives,
Speaker 2: you know that, And she's gonna have such a presence
Speaker 2: that people aren't going to know whether it's a friend
Speaker 2: of or she's a housewife. You know. I think that
Speaker 2: they're really doing away with that. I mean, I don't
Speaker 2: know how much she's going to participate or not, but
Speaker 2: I feel like Cynthia has so much connection with so
Speaker 2: many of the cast members, specifically Poorscha and Kenya, that
Speaker 2: she's an og she really is, so we won't be able,
Speaker 2: you know, to really tell. But yeah, it should be fun. Well,
Speaker 2: I'm happy that they got it all, figure it out
Speaker 2: and they'll be on TV again because I think they're
Speaker 2: a big part of the franchise.
Speaker 1: They're already filming. I saw post just today, just day one.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, of course, yeah today, I think it was
Speaker 2: day one. We remember back in the day when we
Speaker 2: couldn't post any of those things. I feel like today
Speaker 2: nobody respects that. Everybody's like everybody no, no.
Speaker 1: They don't respect it on our show either, and they
Speaker 1: do it anyway. But you and I are very we
Speaker 1: never do We never even take pictures. I never even
Speaker 1: have like a picture of the scene. Yeah yeah, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: we don't like to break them.
Speaker 2: For me, it's not even so much about that. For me,
Speaker 2: it's like I'm so much of the moment and I'm
Speaker 2: always in like such a hurry because you know, my
Speaker 2: life doesn't revolve around the show. The show reves around
Speaker 2: my life and my life every time I go out,
Speaker 2: I don't take a selfie or I don't take pictures
Speaker 2: of myself. Like I'm always, like you know, in a hurry,
Speaker 2: trying to get everything done. So I never take a
Speaker 2: picture of myself. But I feel like a lot of
Speaker 2: these ladies like make it a point to do that.
Speaker 2: Maybe we should do that next season.
Speaker 1: I've missed so many beautiful looks and outfits.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just not our thing now, but I get
Speaker 2: red to the ladies from Atlanta. We can't wait to
Speaker 2: watch you on TV.
Speaker 1: I have to be honest, I get very, very uncomfortable
Speaker 1: when someone wants to take my picture. I feel awkward,
Speaker 1: I feel weird. I love a camera in my face.
Speaker 1: I'm I'm talking a camera for hours. I can say whatever.
Speaker 1: I have a good time if the camera's rolling, but
Speaker 1: if you want to take my picture and I have
Speaker 1: to pose like a model, I get so awkward and
Speaker 1: I feel weird and dumb and uncomfortable. It's just my thing.
Speaker 1: That's why I barely post.
Speaker 2: I don't even the thing is not that I don't
Speaker 2: like it. I just don't think about it, you know
Speaker 2: what I mean. So it's like I said, my life
Speaker 2: doesn't mean rob around the show. So when the camera's here,
Speaker 2: it's kind of what do I usually do when I
Speaker 2: go out and nine stuff. I really don't post or
Speaker 2: take pictures of myself, so therefore I don't do it
Speaker 2: like I just like, get ready, we get going, and
Speaker 2: that's it. And then after I was like, gosh, I
Speaker 2: should have really taken a picture. I do it in
Speaker 2: my real life also, not in my real life, but
Speaker 2: when I'm not in my show life, Like I say,
Speaker 2: you know what, I looked really good less night. I
Speaker 2: should have taken a picture where I love this outfit.
Speaker 1: Me too, And then I'm like I should and then
Speaker 1: I get a drink and I'm like, I forget it.
Speaker 2: You don't take pictures. The only time we take pictures
Speaker 2: is when Lisa or Gerty are there.
Speaker 1: Yes, exactly, and then we have to wait three days
Speaker 1: for Lisa get my photo.
Speaker 2: Lisa and Gerty, Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Gerty can turn around a photo quickly on her edit.
Speaker 1: Lisa takes a day or two.
Speaker 2: You gotta wait, okay, but she still takes the picture,
Speaker 2: still takes and she does.
Speaker 1: She does a good edit though, beautiful, beautiful, well.
Speaker 2: Speaking housewives, Let's speak of our Hifcito, Andy Cohen.
Speaker 1: Yeah just for half it, yes, okay.
Speaker 2: We're so happy with the news that Antie Cohen was
Speaker 2: cleared as BRABO completes investigation, and at the same time,
Speaker 2: they announced the renewal of Watch What Happens Live. Whoo
Speaker 2: oh my god. Andy has no idea how much I
Speaker 2: love What It Happens like me too, because I think
Speaker 2: it's so much fun. Just like, like you guys that
Speaker 2: have never been there, if you were ever in New
Speaker 2: York and you're really a housewife fan, you need to
Speaker 2: try to get tickets to the clubhouse because it's such
Speaker 2: a good time.
Speaker 1: It's a really fun time. And I don't know what's
Speaker 1: up with the drinks over there, but they are stronger
Speaker 1: than any drink anywhere, aren't they.
Speaker 2: They're like, stop, that's because you may get extra stiff
Speaker 2: because you're going to be on live and you get
Speaker 2: as for a floater you do like three hours before,
Speaker 2: it's nothing. It's nothing in the clubhouse, guys. They give
Speaker 2: us the same alcohol you drink anywhere else.
Speaker 1: True, true, true.
Speaker 2: Even the shots, Like you know, when we do the
Speaker 2: shots ski, which is so much fun. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 2: sometimes it's water. Sometimes I'll be like, okay, well I
Speaker 2: need the shots to like whatever. But if not, you know,
Speaker 2: a lot of times it's water.
Speaker 1: I always get the water because by the time we
Speaker 1: get that, I'm three sheets to the wind and I
Speaker 1: can't like keep down in that alcohol. I do have
Speaker 1: a cutof.
Speaker 2: I like to be clear because I'm on Live TV.
Speaker 2: So I usually really don't drink, you know, but they'll
Speaker 2: you know, we'll have like a drink there together we
Speaker 2: do like a toast, but then I'm so busy talking
Speaker 2: that I don't really have time, you know, to have
Speaker 2: my drink. But anyways, it's a lot of fun. We're
Speaker 2: super happy that they're renewed. Watch What Happens Live and
Speaker 2: also many other shows that were given given the green lid,
Speaker 2: including Miami and Oh Miami. So yeah, so.
Speaker 1: Let's we're just gonna read what Andy Cohen said to
Speaker 1: The Hollywood Reporter.
Speaker 2: One. By the way, did you see his cover? Did
Speaker 2: you see Andy's cover Hollywood Reporter?
Speaker 1: His guns are looking sharp.
Speaker 2: He's really a picture too. I mean in the cover
Speaker 2: of The Hollywood Reporter. You can't see that because he's
Speaker 2: wearing like, you know, his soon like he always does,
Speaker 2: his signature. But what he hosted in his Instagram you
Speaker 2: can see.
Speaker 1: Yeah, hm, he's looking very chiseled.
Speaker 2: Yes, he's ready for the summer.
Speaker 1: There was an investigation done by Bravo with about the
Speaker 1: recent allegations made by Brandy Glanville and Leah mcswee against
Speaker 1: Andy Cohen and has now been completed and the claims
Speaker 1: are found unsubstantiated. This is from a spokesperson that spoke
Speaker 1: to The Hollywood Reporter, and then in a recent interview
Speaker 1: that Andy did with the Hollywood Reporter, he said, Unfortunately,
Speaker 1: I can't talk about some of these things. What I'll
Speaker 1: say about the alcohol is that we have so many
Speaker 1: sober people and people who have gotten sober on the show,
Speaker 1: like Countess Luanne. We have people who have never had
Speaker 1: a drink during an entire run of a show, like Jose.
Speaker 2: Sarah Jill, she Loves and Candy Birrs I coke.
Speaker 1: Candy Burrus. Heather Brudeau will just have an occasional glass
Speaker 1: of champagne. So sure, there are people who drink, there
Speaker 1: are many people who never drink. We don't force anyone
Speaker 1: to do anything, but no one is secretly hiding liquor
Speaker 1: bottles on set. That's ridiculous. We've been very supportive of
Speaker 1: people's sobriety.
Speaker 2: And I agree that everything that was said there is
Speaker 2: absolutely true. And yes, there is alcohol because those are
Speaker 2: the places that we film at, which are either restaurants
Speaker 2: or bars or homes home. Right. Of course, I love
Speaker 2: of cocky and we're open to order or have whatever
Speaker 2: we want.
Speaker 1: And of course I always ask for something because I
Speaker 1: love it and you do too, But no one ever
Speaker 1: says to me you have to have a drink. You know,
Speaker 1: there are some people that could use one.
Speaker 2: Of course, no, but I think that also a lot
Speaker 2: of the women that do drink is just maybe to
Speaker 2: like loosen up. You know, there's some women that have
Speaker 2: a harder time than others, you know, like I don't
Speaker 2: need a drink for example. You know, so I think
Speaker 2: I less. I drink even less because of that, because
Speaker 2: you know, I don't know what's you know, what's going
Speaker 2: to happen or whatnot. I like to be in control, so,
Speaker 2: you know, I don't think it's such a smart idea
Speaker 2: to overdrink in situations like this, you know, when you're filming.
Speaker 2: But everything he says is true, Like nobody forces us
Speaker 2: to drink, and pretty much that's it, Like nobody's you know,
Speaker 2: everybody's responsible. We're all adults. We know what we sign
Speaker 2: up for, and you need to hold accountability and be
Speaker 2: responsible for your actions and behaviors and not blame other
Speaker 2: people or blame the alcohol. M H. But on the
Speaker 2: other hand, Leah McSweeney's attorney Gary Adelman said in a statement,
Speaker 2: how do you have an investigation without speaking with anyone.
Speaker 2: As far as we know, no one ever contacted our firm.
Speaker 2: Our opinion is that no one is going to believe
Speaker 2: this was a real investigation. This is perfect timing one
Speaker 2: line so they can repeat it to all the advertisers
Speaker 2: at the upfronts. We look forward to reviewing all of
Speaker 2: the interviews, evidence, and final reports of the investigation that
Speaker 2: NBCU conducted when we received them during the discovery phase
Speaker 2: of the lawsuit. So apparently no lawsuits still going on.
Speaker 1: But I want to know who her attorneys are interviewing,
Speaker 1: because you and I haven't had a call, and you
Speaker 1: and I worked with her we went to Thailand.
Speaker 2: But besides that, that's what we talked about the Variety
Speaker 2: magazine articles exactly. It was super one sided because we
Speaker 2: gave a statement you and I did, and we did
Speaker 2: our experience yes with the network with production, and they didn't.
Speaker 2: They didn't cut it out. They just didn't use it.
Speaker 2: It was completely use it right, Well, we use it,
Speaker 2: So it was completely one sided.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they didn't use it because we were defending the
Speaker 1: network in our jobs and saying the exact opposite of
Speaker 1: what Leo was saying.
Speaker 2: But I mean, it's scary you know, I mean to
Speaker 2: have to be in that, you know position, you know,
Speaker 2: especially him being you know, the in the position that
Speaker 2: he's in, and to have all these allegations against you,
Speaker 2: it's so unfair. It's so unfair. I'm just happy that,
Speaker 2: you know, there was justice and that he was able
Speaker 2: to clear his name because I can imagine, you know,
Speaker 2: how terrible he felt about, you know, himself and being
Speaker 2: in a situation like that and you know, being judged
Speaker 2: and whatnot. So we're super happy. We'll see you at
Speaker 2: the clubhouse.
Speaker 1: See at the clubhouse. I see ever see.
Speaker 2: Though, Well enough talk about Bravo. Yeah, now we're going
Speaker 2: to talk about real actresses. Hey, I take personal I
Speaker 2: have no reality, no more reality TV stars. Now we're
Speaker 2: going to talk about a real actress, one of my favorites.
Speaker 2: I know you feel different about her, but it's Jaylo,
Speaker 2: my friend Jlo. I know. Well, it's Jlo and Ben Affleck. Okay,
Speaker 2: so we're going to be talking about them because obviously
Speaker 2: they have the entire world rooting against them, and they
Speaker 2: always have. How do you feel about Matt Damon saying
Speaker 2: that he hates the way that Jennifer Lopez treats his
Speaker 2: best friend, Ben Affleck.
Speaker 1: I agree with with with Matt. I agree with Matt
Speaker 1: because she has a history of talking down to her
Speaker 1: man and emasculating them. She does that and everybody knows it,
Speaker 1: and they're falling one by one by one. But it's
Speaker 1: going to keep happening. She heard pattern and he's see
Speaker 1: is it happening to his friend? And he doesn't like it? Right?
Speaker 2: But do you so you think it's okay like for
Speaker 2: him to tell his friend, Hey, I don't like the
Speaker 2: way that Jlo treats you, and.
Speaker 1: He can say whatever he wants. I mean, they're really close.
Speaker 1: They grow up together. You know. Whether Ben does something
Speaker 1: about it or not is another story. That's like me
Speaker 1: telling you I like the way someone treats her. You
Speaker 1: say it to me. You and I are like that.
Speaker 1: We're compositives. I speak to each other like that. Whether
Speaker 1: I do something about it or I tell you to
Speaker 1: a foul off, you know, is another story. But yeah,
Speaker 1: they're close like that, and I'm not surprised. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm not surprised either. You know, I thought that from
Speaker 1: the beginning. They've always had it so hard because they're
Speaker 1: so public. You know, these are two like megastars, and
Speaker 1: everybody knows what happened with them years ago, and everyone's
Speaker 1: continued to follow, you know, Jlo's love stories with different men,
Speaker 1: and of course you know she's going to get the
Speaker 1: blame for everything because obviously looks like she's the one
Speaker 1: that can't you know, keep a man or stay in
Speaker 1: a relationship. And you know, we don't know why because
Speaker 1: between two couples, you never really know what happens behind
Speaker 1: closed doors and you know the truth. But yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean people look at them and say, yeah, of course
Speaker 1: I wasn't going to work out, because everybody knows that.
Speaker 1: You know, Ben is very quiet and he likes to
Speaker 1: keep his life very private.
Speaker 2: And to me he looks a little angry. Nona.
Speaker 1: He was probably in a really bad mood because she
Speaker 1: masculates it.
Speaker 2: Well, but not all the time. That's up to the
Speaker 2: man not to allow that. I mean, in a marriage,
Speaker 2: there has to be compromise. He already knew what he
Speaker 2: was getting himself into, so there's no excuses because he
Speaker 2: already did this years ago. So twenty years later, like
Speaker 2: what did you learn from it? And so you're here again,
Speaker 2: and you know, people don't change, People don't change.
Speaker 1: I always felt like them getting together and her with
Speaker 1: him so quickly after a rod was a was a
Speaker 1: PR stunt. Everybody the PR No you said that again, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't think was a pair stunt. I think that,
Speaker 2: you know, like it was one of those like that
Speaker 2: she always you know, when they broke up twenty years ago,
Speaker 2: under those circumstances, it was kind of like there was
Speaker 2: never any closure, you know what I mean. It was
Speaker 2: like it happened so fast. They were supposed to get
Speaker 2: married and the day before, you know, they decided not to.
Speaker 2: Or he more than anybody, so it's kind of like,
Speaker 2: then he'll be married, Jennifer. She wanted to have, you know,
Speaker 2: many other marriages and men and kids. So twenty years
Speaker 2: later they reconnect, and I think they were both in
Speaker 2: a vulnerable space, you know, in their life, and they
Speaker 2: always had that love for each other, so it's kind
Speaker 2: of easy to rekindle that, right.
Speaker 1: I mean, I know what you're saying. I totally get
Speaker 1: what you're saying, but I you know, my my marketing
Speaker 1: and PR brain is thinking that it was just something
Speaker 1: too for her. It was probably to just make it.
Speaker 2: I thought it will not be I thought she was
Speaker 2: just doing it because you know, but a Rod, a
Speaker 2: Rod had cheated on her.
Speaker 1: I guess she wanted to.
Speaker 2: He didn't cheat on one. He was just talking to somebody.
Speaker 1: Oh he was doing more than that, she said, so
Speaker 1: the girl she said so yes. I think she wanted
Speaker 1: to one help him because she's always the dude. And
Speaker 1: then she wanted to clean this all up. Then hadn't
Speaker 1: done much in a few years, he'd been like on
Speaker 1: the road to sobriety. They thought it was it was
Speaker 1: so quick, it was I felt like it was very
Speaker 1: marketing job.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I didn't see it as a marketing thing
Speaker 2: because I think that she's more like from the heart
Speaker 2: and she kind of like needs to have somebody all
Speaker 2: the time. And obviously we know that about her. She
Speaker 2: gets from one to the other. She doesn't even finish
Speaker 2: this one up, and she's already into a new relationship.
Speaker 2: She can't be alone, and she's afraid to be alone
Speaker 2: for whatever reason. She's in love with love. I mean,
Speaker 2: I can relate to her in many in many ways,
Speaker 2: but I feel like.
Speaker 1: It doesn't always have to be so public. Everything is.
Speaker 1: She makes it, She makes it very public.
Speaker 2: She makes it published.
Speaker 1: She didn't have to drag him to every red carpet
Speaker 1: and everything.
Speaker 2: You're always if you if he goes with you and
Speaker 2: he has my face, oh you guys are having problems.
Speaker 2: He can't stand you. You guys got into a fight.
Speaker 2: And then if he doesn't go with you, people still
Speaker 2: talk shit. They say, oh my god, he's not he's home.
Speaker 2: He didn't want to be there with you, and you got.
Speaker 1: That's true. You can't.
Speaker 2: I just think it, you know again, you know, people
Speaker 2: have it so hard, you know, public people, and she's
Speaker 2: at a different level. But you know, I just got
Speaker 2: a little taste of it, and and it's hard, you know.
Speaker 2: And it's hard when you're going through something like this
Speaker 2: in your personal life and everyone the entire world has
Speaker 2: an opinion and a comment and it's usually not in favor,
Speaker 2: and like so many women, like I hate that. What
Speaker 2: gets me the most upset is like women putting down
Speaker 2: other women, like they always defend the guys, like what's
Speaker 2: wrong with you women? And then I'm not saying that
Speaker 2: the woman has to be right always either, but it's
Speaker 2: like all the comments like favor the guy. Usually like
Speaker 2: there's more comments the women.
Speaker 1: Well at all not always. It's just that she now
Speaker 1: has a pattern, and she dragged him everywhere. She made
Speaker 1: it really public and so didn't.
Speaker 2: Drag the man where. I think what really happened was,
Speaker 2: I mean, that's her partner, so it's like your husband
Speaker 2: has to support you, so she's not driving. And he
Speaker 2: knew what I was getting himself into.
Speaker 1: They're not even two years in, and she didn't I know,
Speaker 1: film about them, Yes, I think extra for him. He
Speaker 1: knew about it.
Speaker 2: He participated in that, and marriages are about compromise. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so so again, you know, I think that in the
Speaker 2: beginning of their marriage, of course, when you're all like,
Speaker 2: you know, in the beginning, like the you know, the
Speaker 2: man could do no wrong, you know whatever. So at
Speaker 2: the beginning, it was all that, the butterflies in the stomach,
Speaker 2: I'm here for you, you're here for me. But then
Speaker 2: when reality kicks in, which is the two years, and
Speaker 2: it's like what, like what is this? And then then
Speaker 2: everybody and then on top of it, to have everybody,
Speaker 2: to have Matt, Damon and Benzir. I'm sure Jalo has
Speaker 2: her friends also, and you can tell she's a strong woman.
Speaker 2: You know, she's a strong woman. She's a workaholic and
Speaker 2: she needs a lot of attention, not only from Ben,
Speaker 2: she needs it from the world. I mean, this is
Speaker 2: like it's been her life, this is how she grew up.
Speaker 2: And even then when she doesn't have it, then she
Speaker 2: goes looking for it because I mean, do you think
Speaker 2: this woman needs to keep on working and doing more stuff? No,
Speaker 2: and she keeps on. Now she's on tour, Like now
Speaker 2: she's going on tour.
Speaker 1: Well, I thought her tour was a bust.
Speaker 2: She went back out, Yeah she's yeah. I think she
Speaker 2: canceled some cities or like she she stopped it for
Speaker 2: like two months or so. But now she's back on tour,
Speaker 2: and that's what she's going to do. You know, she's
Speaker 2: going to throw herself and work. And this is what
Speaker 2: she you know, what she always does, and this is
Speaker 2: like what has worked for her. But it's hard for
Speaker 2: somebody like her to be with like another actor. I
Speaker 2: think that they have it even harder, especially when they're
Speaker 2: so different, because you know, Ben, even though he's an actor,
Speaker 2: he's always like to keep his private life very very private,
Speaker 2: very private, and she's always been about social media and
Speaker 2: sharing things. I mean, remember when she was with a
Speaker 2: rod I mean loved it too, by the way. So
Speaker 2: that's I think they were compatible because were they would everything,
Speaker 2: They would make videos about themselves at home, and you know,
Speaker 2: they were so public, they were so engaging, you know,
Speaker 2: even like you know with their fans that would go everywhere,
Speaker 2: and they made their relationship very public.
Speaker 1: A lot longer than Ben. I just don't understand why
Speaker 1: she didn't rush to the alter with him. She did,
Speaker 1: they got engaged after what. You can't do that either.
Speaker 1: I mean I think they they get married a well,
Speaker 1: because then the problem started. They were engaged, they had
Speaker 1: like a long engagement, not actually a year, kind of
Speaker 1: like like I got a year. Yeah, that's I don't
Speaker 1: understand what she didn't do all those rush jobs with him.
Speaker 1: I don't know. She's got she's she's very smart, she's
Speaker 1: very intelligent. She's planned your career, she's positioned herself to
Speaker 1: be exactly where she has. She's done an excellent job,
Speaker 1: and all all these marriages are a part of the
Speaker 1: plan and the and the media and the strategy of
Speaker 1: her business and her empire. This is what I think.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I think you have to be careful also
Speaker 2: because you see Matt Damon is still married to his wife,
Speaker 2: and you.
Speaker 1: Know, I don't know he didn't have that agenda.
Speaker 2: No, I mean, I'm just saying that. What I'm trying
Speaker 2: to get to is like that you have to be
Speaker 2: careful because yeah, you know they're your friends and that's
Speaker 2: his best friend. But it's hard when you get into
Speaker 2: other people's marriage because you're not like in their shoes.
Speaker 2: You know, you don't really understand the day to day.
Speaker 2: You know, you can see them maybe once every three months,
Speaker 2: and that day you saw him, they got into a
Speaker 2: fight before, or like Jayalo already knows how Matt feels
Speaker 2: about her, so she's very reserved and she could be
Speaker 2: a bit you know what I mean. There's like so
Speaker 2: many factors there only they have only them to know.
Speaker 2: But it's never been a secret. You know, Matt's had
Speaker 2: always he's always had serious reservations about Bennefer two point
Speaker 2: zero since the beginning. It says, Yeah, he's tried to
Speaker 2: be publicly supportive for Ben's but the fact that is
Speaker 2: that he hates Jalo and the way that Jealo treats
Speaker 2: his buddy, and he can no longer hold his tongue.
Speaker 1: She has then again.
Speaker 2: Better they time out. You don't know if she treated
Speaker 2: him like that, because Ben treated him treated her bad,
Speaker 2: So it's like a psychone.
Speaker 1: I get what you're saying. But she has a reputation
Speaker 1: of doing that with all her men and even people
Speaker 1: that work with her and around her, that she's very
Speaker 1: demeaning with people. You know, that could be a problem,
Speaker 1: but she's a hard worker and she probably doesn't have
Speaker 1: time for bullshit, and you know, it transfers over in
Speaker 1: her romantic life unfortunately.
Speaker 2: You know, I think she was in love with the
Speaker 2: idea of just getting back with Ben because she always
Speaker 2: had love for him, and it was something like she
Speaker 2: had no closure with him, so it's kind of like
Speaker 2: always open. She stayed civil and friends. So then when
Speaker 2: they had the opportunity, and everything in life is about timing,
Speaker 2: they found each other again at a very vulnerable state
Speaker 2: in both of their lives, and the attraction was always there,
Speaker 2: so of course it was like, you know, super rushing,
Speaker 2: you know, like to buy homes, to get married, to
Speaker 2: do all that. Because they got married a year after
Speaker 2: they reconnected, which is very very soon considering she had
Speaker 2: been in a long term relationship with a rod and
Speaker 2: also engaged to him to get married.
Speaker 1: I thought it was faster. It was a year.
Speaker 2: By the time they reconnected and got married, it was
Speaker 2: a year. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know why it felt like it was
Speaker 1: so much faster.
Speaker 2: But you know, again, I think that because they had
Speaker 2: been together before and almost married, it was kind of
Speaker 2: like it was easy to like to pick up and
Speaker 2: feel the same thing. And I guess they got so
Speaker 2: excited when they did see each other again and they
Speaker 2: reconnected that they were able, you know, the relationship was
Speaker 2: able to move a lot quicker than like a new guy.
Speaker 1: Has that ever happened to you? Have you ever picked
Speaker 1: up an own flame and still felt like hotness?
Speaker 2: Like, oh, I don't like to go back. I don't
Speaker 2: know either with anybody. No, I'm like I already had that.
Speaker 2: I already tried that, And I'm like, I'm good, I
Speaker 2: really know what it's about. Yeah, but I see it
Speaker 2: happens a lot. Like I mean, I've seen friends and
Speaker 2: people that I know that have gone like divorced or
Speaker 2: broken up and then they'll reconnect with Facebook. Wich I
Speaker 2: don't even have so it's never going to happen. So,
Speaker 2: but you know what I mean, Like there's people that
Speaker 2: go back to you know, people that haven't seen from
Speaker 2: college or whatnot, flims. Yeah, and they reconnect. Mm hmm.
Speaker 1: I mean I've never understood that. Or what about couples
Speaker 1: that are married forever they divorce, marry other people and
Speaker 1: get divorced and marry each other again. Have you heard
Speaker 1: about that? I mean a few, that's really I.
Speaker 2: Don't know anybody. You've heard of it, but I don't
Speaker 2: know people personally. Yeah, that's something I don't think I
Speaker 2: would ever do. But you know, then again, you never know.
Speaker 2: You never know.
Speaker 1: Actually, one of my dad's friends, him and his wife
Speaker 1: have now passed. He was married, then got divorced, then
Speaker 1: married the woman that my mom and dad were friends with,
Speaker 1: were together for a very long time, they got divorced,
Speaker 1: he married a Cuban girl, and then another woman, and
Speaker 1: then in his old age, went back to his second wife,
Speaker 1: which was the friends of my mom and dad, and
Speaker 1: then they died together. Yeah, happens all the time. I
Speaker 1: don't think I could ever go back to an X
Speaker 1: you know what and boyfriend.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and there's a reason weather then it just depends,
Speaker 2: you know, my relationship is different, and also depends on
Speaker 2: what kind of relationship you had and sure, and how
Speaker 2: the relationship ended. I think has a lot to do
Speaker 2: with it. You know. I think that with her and Bend,
Speaker 2: they were like younger, and he always blamed the fact
Speaker 2: that their relationship was so public and there was so
Speaker 2: much scrutiny around it that it's hard.
Speaker 1: Hey walk right into that same honey track.
Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying. I got when he said
Speaker 2: that twenty years ago. It made sense to me because
Speaker 2: they were so young and they really you know, it
Speaker 2: was a lot of pressure, is what I'm trying to say.
Speaker 2: But twenty years later, you you've been around for twenty years,
Speaker 2: and like you're using the same excuse. He knew what
Speaker 2: he was getting himself into, because people don't change. Jalo
Speaker 2: even now wants probably more like attention than before.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was better than her back then.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I mean, and now she's just as big,
Speaker 2: you know as him, and and she I feel also
Speaker 2: like her being in her fifties, you know, being a woman,
Speaker 2: and you know, and beautiful and so successful and all that,
Speaker 2: it's kind of like the fifties are hard for a woman,
Speaker 2: so she needs to keep up and you know, a
Speaker 2: lot of these people. You know, there's one Madonna, there's
Speaker 2: one chair. You know, I'm not saying that she's going
Speaker 2: to be that person, but like she has a lot
Speaker 2: of pressure, like she has to keep on performing, she
Speaker 2: has to keep on singing, and her career has always
Speaker 2: been very important to her. So it's not even you
Speaker 2: know about it. She has to find the right guy.
Speaker 2: And then who is the right guy to be with
Speaker 2: a woman like that?
Speaker 1: I have no idea.
Speaker 2: I think that the younger guys are better for her,
Speaker 2: you know, that will just be like you know, yes, ma'am.
Speaker 1: Like whatever she had from the beginning, the dancers, dancers
Speaker 1: and honey the guy, the Cuban guy was just off
Speaker 1: the boat.
Speaker 2: Well, but that's different. That was in the very beginning
Speaker 2: of her career. She wasn't ja loo I know that
Speaker 2: they were younger. Yeah, no, that was a little different.
Speaker 2: But I mean even like in the past, right before
Speaker 2: a Rod she was with Casper and the dancer also
Speaker 2: super weight on hinting, and but you know that gets
Speaker 2: boring also because you know, it's like, you know, it's like, okay,
Speaker 2: it's fun for a while.
Speaker 1: You have to find someone that is at your same emotional,
Speaker 1: it's it's also like your upbringing needs to be similar.
Speaker 1: I had a long talk with my childhood friend the
Speaker 1: other day because she her first husband was Arab, My
Speaker 1: first husband was Muslim, my second was French, her second
Speaker 1: was French. And I and I said, I'm finally with
Speaker 1: an American and she's with an American now, And I said,
Speaker 1: you know what, you're just when you're young, you think
Speaker 1: you can make it work. Everyone has the same God,
Speaker 1: we all are the same. But at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, day in and day out, we're not the same.
Speaker 1: We're raised different, we have different traditions, different beliefs, and
Speaker 1: then that starts chipping away at the relationship, and little
Speaker 1: arguments start, that becomes big arguments, and then everything just
Speaker 1: goes to the shitter. You when you're with someone that
Speaker 1: was raised the way you were raised.
Speaker 2: But I mean she's an American. I mean she's perto Reagan,
Speaker 2: but she's more American than me, so that I don't
Speaker 2: think that has anything.
Speaker 1: I'm not even talking about her right now. I just
Speaker 1: think that, well, yeah, maybe, like just like you kind
Speaker 1: of have to have the same a little bit of education,
Speaker 1: upbringing in socio economical.
Speaker 2: She's had them all. I mean she's had Marc Anthony.
Speaker 2: That was perto Reagan. She said, Ara does Dominican. She
Speaker 2: doesn't discriminate, she looks, she goes for her love, what
Speaker 2: her heart tells her to do. Than is American. She's
Speaker 2: you know, HONEI was Cuban. I mean, she's had them all.
Speaker 2: I just think I just think that she just like
Speaker 2: she she falls in love too quickly and she doesn't
Speaker 2: think about the consequences or about anything. She just wants
Speaker 2: to live the moment. She's in love. With love, she
Speaker 2: can't be alone, and a lot of women suffer from that.
Speaker 2: She must have that prenup attorney on speed dial. Right, well,
Speaker 2: at least you know with them, you know, with Mark
Speaker 2: Anthony too, they both were like career, you know, they
Speaker 2: both had their own you know, their money and their
Speaker 2: career marketing. And he wasn't as big as her. But
Speaker 2: you know, you know, it's a handicap. It's a handicap
Speaker 2: to be Jennifer Lopez. I mean it really is. You know,
Speaker 2: it comes like so much in a relationship, not not
Speaker 2: only the money. I mean she has so much. I mean,
Speaker 2: what man, you know, and at her age, you know,
Speaker 2: the older we get, the more difficult it is because
Speaker 2: we're set on our own ways and you know, nobody's
Speaker 2: going to change at our age, and we're not even
Speaker 2: going to mold or adapt. We do that the first
Speaker 2: year or two, and then after that honeymoon stage goes
Speaker 2: what's left and what do you do?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: But you know, yeah, well, so fans have noticed. Yeah, right,
Speaker 2: we read that article that says that the fans have
Speaker 2: noticed that Ben and Jennifer have been spending increasing amounts
Speaker 2: of time apart in recent weeks. Ben didn't even attend
Speaker 2: the Megala with his wife on May six, despite her
Speaker 2: important position as co chair of the event. Ben's official
Speaker 2: excuse for missing the Megala was that he was busy
Speaker 2: filming The Accountant Too, But in touch sources say he
Speaker 2: decided to call it quits on his marriage to the
Speaker 2: A List singer.
Speaker 1: Yeah, apparently here moved out of the house and she's
Speaker 1: been looking for a new place to live, like she's
Speaker 1: always looking for a new house.
Speaker 2: But isn't it weird that suspicious that they were in
Speaker 2: New York about a month ago and they were together,
Speaker 2: and they were they were seen together with pictures and
Speaker 2: everything looking for apartments in New York City. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so you see it's kind of like, you know, you
Speaker 2: could be doing that one day and then the next
Speaker 2: day it's over. Just like that's true and just like that.
Speaker 2: So would you ever take space from your friendship if
Speaker 2: you know that they don't support your romantic relationship?
Speaker 1: Well only if they're nagging me about it? Twenty four
Speaker 1: set Like if I if you're calling me all the
Speaker 1: time telling me I don't like your partner and he
Speaker 1: did this and he did that, well yeah, I'm going
Speaker 1: to take space from you because I don't want to
Speaker 1: hear it anymore.
Speaker 2: I need a break, right, Okay. I mean I think
Speaker 2: that there's like a fine line you can only you know,
Speaker 2: say certain things. You know, but at the end, your friend,
Speaker 2: you know, you need to support your friend with whatever decision.
Speaker 2: Yeah he or she is making, whether it's to stay
Speaker 2: with the person or not to stay with the person.
Speaker 2: And yes, you could give your opinion because you know
Speaker 2: it's coming from a good place because your best friend
Speaker 2: obviously loves you and wants what's best for you. But
Speaker 2: you know, I think you do need to know, like
Speaker 2: you know, like.
Speaker 1: When we want to exactly and you know, not everybody's
Speaker 1: as evolved as you and I are. You know, whatever
Speaker 1: decisions I make or you make in your life, we
Speaker 1: support each other. But some people don't know how to
Speaker 1: be supportive. Some people just want to jump on that
Speaker 1: negative train and you know, drive you crazy because they
Speaker 1: want you to be negative and down like they are.
Speaker 1: You know how many she loves company. Yeah, so it
Speaker 1: depends on the friend and the situation.
Speaker 2: Right, I mean, like, but for example, with Ben that
Speaker 2: Matts's best friend. But here is Matt Damon that's still happily,
Speaker 2: I don't know, happily, but married, you know, with the
Speaker 2: same wife that, by the way, nobody thought would make
Speaker 2: it either because you know, she was a bartender and
Speaker 2: they met here in Miami and blah blah blah. So
Speaker 2: they had all that going against them. Too good for them.
Speaker 2: They figured it out, they worked it through, and they're
Speaker 2: still together after all these years, and they look like
Speaker 2: a happy couple. And she does, you know, she gave
Speaker 2: them the limelight. But again, you know, she's not a
Speaker 2: star like Jalo. So he married some He married a
Speaker 2: bartender lady, which is very different from Jalo. Maybe if
Speaker 2: he would have married another actress in Hollywood. You know,
Speaker 2: he would have had been divorced as well, but because
Speaker 2: his situation is different, he gives different kind of advice.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 2: It's kind of like he wants ment to be with
Speaker 2: like a plain Jane girl or I mean, I don't
Speaker 2: mean to say like that, but just like not somebody
Speaker 2: that's like in the limelight, because you know, Matt Damon's
Speaker 2: always been. He's been the one in the limelight. Ben
Speaker 2: had to share it He shared it with Jennifer Garner
Speaker 2: as well. Differently, it's a different personality than Jennifer Garner has,
Speaker 2: but you know he's been around that.
Speaker 1: M Well. Yeah, I mean, if you're in the business,
Speaker 1: you don't want your partner eclipsing you, you know, you
Speaker 1: one of them has to be able to allow the
Speaker 1: other one to shine more than the other, and it's
Speaker 1: probably harder for the man.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I just think it's really weird. Like remember all
Speaker 2: this talk about when she did her recent project telling
Speaker 2: everyone that Ben was a lover of her life, and
Speaker 2: I really do believe her, and she put twenty million
Speaker 2: dollars of her own money.
Speaker 1: I think that she was like, shit, man, I should
Speaker 1: have married that one. That was the one I didn't marry.
Speaker 1: I got to marry him to make it happen exactly.
Speaker 2: And she's like, I'm good even if we get divorce,
Speaker 2: but I'm going to marry that guy Oway. And she
Speaker 2: got him to get to marry and she wanted to
Speaker 2: share her love story. That's how it is for her.
Speaker 2: You know, maybe people don't see it that way, but
Speaker 2: you know, she was in roll her narrative and yeah,
Speaker 2: and no matter, she didn't care. She doesn't care that
Speaker 2: people you know, all have been friends are saying that
Speaker 2: they don't like her, So, like, what do you believe?
Speaker 2: It's like, it's so hard to know, like the real truth,
Speaker 2: you know. Yeah, yeah, I mean, would you choose like
Speaker 2: your friend or your partner? Would you ever do that again?
Speaker 2: It depends on the situation. Is my partner being an asshole?
Speaker 2: Is my friend being an idiot? Like, I don't know,
Speaker 2: you have to weigh all the consequences. Is very difficult
Speaker 2: to even know. You know, some people are just not
Speaker 2: good friends and some people just aren't good partners. It
Speaker 2: would depend. Yeah, I mean a lot of times you
Speaker 2: can love each other but not know how to love
Speaker 2: each other. You know, you're like in love with the person,
Speaker 2: but you don't know how to love that person. And
Speaker 2: I feel like Jennifer and Ben could be like that
Speaker 2: that you can tell like she's you know, you can't
Speaker 2: hide that time about all. She's like all over him.
Speaker 2: But then again, she's done that with her other men too.
Speaker 2: I guess she's been in love with the muscle. I
Speaker 2: think she's just like that person. But then you don't
Speaker 2: know how to love each other, and you know, and
Speaker 2: marriages are all about compromise.
Speaker 1: And an actress, she knows. She does a lot of
Speaker 1: romantic comedy. She knows how to look and love, so
Speaker 1: she's looking for her next one. No, she just knows
Speaker 1: how to look in love. She's an actress, so she's
Speaker 1: very good at Then couldn't hide that he was not happy,
Speaker 1: And I've said it before here on the point you
Speaker 1: said it a lot. He's an actor. He could have
Speaker 1: pretended and acted that he was happy.
Speaker 2: But you know, professional notes, so I know, but some
Speaker 2: men can't do it in their personal life. They can
Speaker 2: go on screen and they can act like it when
Speaker 2: it's a script, but when it's real, you know, they
Speaker 2: can't do it. But you know, he has other issus
Speaker 2: to me and he's not like perfect though, He's not
Speaker 2: like the perfect one.
Speaker 1: And I didn't say it was perfect, but I do
Speaker 1: know he's an actor and he could pretend to be happy.
Speaker 1: That's not that.
Speaker 2: Hard, right. Well, he didn't do it, my friend.
Speaker 1: No, he did not do it. He did not do it.
Speaker 2: Talking about exes. How funny was the Instagram post or
Speaker 2: story whatever it was with some Tark and Christina his
Speaker 2: ex and his new wife Heather.
Speaker 1: You know what, I had no idea that they were
Speaker 1: all buddy buddy like that.
Speaker 2: It's amount of time they weren't, by the way, Yeah, no,
Speaker 2: it's a ton of times they weren't. To think now,
Speaker 2: I just think it's funny how people have to make
Speaker 2: everything so public. It's like, Okay, first of all, you
Speaker 2: guys weren't such good friends, and luckily for them, they
Speaker 2: are now. And I love that because there's children involved
Speaker 2: that have chill together and now he had you know,
Speaker 2: baby with Heather as well, So I love that they're
Speaker 2: all getting along. But how creepy is it that they
Speaker 2: both have such a resemblance.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he clearly has a type. I mean I never
Speaker 1: thought they looked alike, but in this video they do
Speaker 1: well they dressed the same and they did their hair
Speaker 1: this way.
Speaker 2: They did it on purpose, right, I mean if.
Speaker 1: I saw them in person, I would know the difference.
Speaker 1: But like if they do look alike, But he definitely
Speaker 1: has a type. Petite blonde. Yeah, and everyone has their
Speaker 1: own television show, so he stayed in there like yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: he knows how to pick them. Have you ever dated
Speaker 1: someone that looked like someone from.
Speaker 2: Your No, I really don't have a type type.
Speaker 1: I was going to say, no, one that I know
Speaker 1: from your past has looked like anybody in your future.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I know that there's women that maybe not
Speaker 2: you know, I mean, I know that there's women that,
Speaker 2: for example, they like the salt and pepper hair and
Speaker 2: the light eyes. And that's my first saltn Pepper guy
Speaker 2: that has salt pepper hair and light eyes. So it's
Speaker 2: not like a lot of people love the light eyes.
Speaker 2: I love it too. I've just never been attracted and
Speaker 2: I'm more like by the heart. I'm attracted to whatever
Speaker 2: I'm attracted to, but it really has nothing to do
Speaker 2: with the looks. So I definitely don't have a type.
Speaker 2: And what about you, I feel like all yours have
Speaker 2: been different too.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Like the last few, everyone's like, oh,
Speaker 1: you have a type. I think they they're the same.
Speaker 1: When I was younger, I liked very dark, dark skin,
Speaker 1: dark hair, dark tall hands. Ez we all do everything? Yes, yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: Well I've always liked rich, handsome, charming, funny educated. That's
Speaker 1: like my jam. And then in my thirties find I've.
Speaker 2: Checked who checked off all those boxes?
Speaker 1: You' said like my mother?
Speaker 2: Yeah, and where is he? Because why would you divorce
Speaker 2: this guy that has all these things?
Speaker 1: I try something funny. My mother said to my father.
Speaker 1: My father built himself a beautiful boat in Turkey, and
Speaker 1: he brought it down here. It was all teak would
Speaker 1: it looked like a Hinkley. It was gorgeous. And my
Speaker 1: mother goes, I want's that down And he goes, that's
Speaker 1: a gentleman's boat. And she goes, why would you bring
Speaker 1: it to Miami? There's no gentleman here?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with her. There's only a few left. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and they're probably all married.
Speaker 1: So would you think it was weird if your ex
Speaker 1: married a woman that looked just like you, I.
Speaker 2: Would think it's weird. I mean, I would definitely think
Speaker 2: he's still in love with me and he wants me,
Speaker 2: but he can't have me.
Speaker 1: I just want to know where the hell they find
Speaker 1: anybody that looks like you. I don't think there's many
Speaker 1: people look like you or me. We have a very
Speaker 1: different Yeah.
Speaker 2: We do. I mean, but sometimes just because you have
Speaker 2: blond hair like you know. Also if they marry somebody
Speaker 2: that's like tall and blonde, you know, with light eyes,
Speaker 2: will say like, oh, well, they have a resemblance. But
Speaker 2: I mean in this case, it's like a lot like
Speaker 2: their weight. Like, look at them. They have the same
Speaker 2: blonde hair. I mean, I know it's styled on purposely
Speaker 2: the same, but they kind of do have that look.
Speaker 2: Look at them, they look for sure like they could
Speaker 2: be sisters.
Speaker 1: Yes, his first wife, Christina, he has been married like
Speaker 1: four times already. She keeps remarrying, has a baby every time.
Speaker 1: She really snaps back with those babies. She's like that
Speaker 1: little sports illustrated supermodel body.
Speaker 2: Some comments are praising the healthy dynamic between the exes.
Speaker 2: What are your thoughts.
Speaker 1: I think it's great. I think it's great that, you know,
Speaker 1: if they all have kids and they're all a big
Speaker 1: family and they get along, that's great.
Speaker 2: I mean, would you double date, like, for example, would
Speaker 2: you double date with like Steve's ex wife and her
Speaker 2: boyfriend and you and Steve.
Speaker 1: I mean not now because Steve doesn't want to And yeah,
Speaker 1: I have to respect my husband. No, what happenly?
Speaker 2: What about for you?
Speaker 1: If you, I mean for me, I've never really done
Speaker 1: that because I have never had children. I've never had
Speaker 1: to do that, and I've never just wanted to go
Speaker 1: hang out with an ex and my new husband or
Speaker 1: new boyfriend.
Speaker 2: Right, it's just there. To people that do, they're like,
Speaker 2: I've seen it. I find it weird as well, but
Speaker 2: I've seen it many times, even like our parties that
Speaker 2: like both of their exes are there and now there
Speaker 2: are new relationships and the four of them are talking
Speaker 2: and hanging out.
Speaker 1: There's a little bit of a creep factor there for sure.
Speaker 1: If you don't have to and there's no kids involved,
Speaker 1: then why would you.
Speaker 2: No, And even if there's kids involved, it doesn't mean
Speaker 2: that it involves you going out with your ex to dinner,
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 1: Just no, no, definitely not as long as everybody gets along,
Speaker 1: you know, for the health of everybody and the future. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's odd to me. Yeah, my friend, Why don't you
Speaker 1: know this world is full of weird situations and we.
Speaker 2: Right and no, And nowadays we find out about everything
Speaker 2: from Instagram, so obviously they want everybody to know because
Speaker 2: it's not like somebody snapped a picture of them.
Speaker 1: It was they curated it themselves.
Speaker 2: I know, they like showed up to film.
Speaker 1: With the same have the same outfits and hairdoo. There
Speaker 1: must have been a lot of people saying they looked alike. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I feel bad for him. He's a he's a cancer survivor,
Speaker 1: and when he had cancers. Yeah, he had the split
Speaker 1: with his with his first.
Speaker 2: Yeah, affected them a lot. It was very hard on
Speaker 2: her as well, and I think that that's well, that
Speaker 2: was one of the main reasons why they split up. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you know, she couldn't handle it. It's a lot to handle.
Speaker 2: But I'm happy that they're healthy and happy and everybody's
Speaker 2: looking good and everybody's moved on because everybody's entitled to
Speaker 2: be happy and and their's children involved, and they look
Speaker 2: like they're doing something right, and you know, it's it's
Speaker 2: a new way of parenting, not a new way. I mean,
Speaker 2: it's always existed, but what I'm trying to say, is
Speaker 2: that it's nice. It's refreshing. You know, it's refreshing to
Speaker 2: see this because, you know, unfortunately, a lot of times
Speaker 2: we hear and read about, you know, the situations where
Speaker 2: the parents don't get along. So it's nice to see
Speaker 2: that they are getting along and they're having fun.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Absolutely, Okay, Well listen, my friend, speaking of happy
Speaker 1: it's time for my happy hour.
Speaker 2: So I would do my happy hour if I was
Speaker 2: with you. I like to tape better with you at
Speaker 2: your house.
Speaker 1: Okay, well we will soon. We'll be taping together more soon.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Well you need to drive up here as well,
Speaker 2: because it's not fair I drive over.
Speaker 1: There, right. I'll be driving to you real soon.
Speaker 2: Okay.
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