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Speaker 1: I put with Alexi Napola and Mari saw Patton an

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Speaker 1: iHeartRadio podcast. Hey Alexia, I haven't seen your face in

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Speaker 1: a week.

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Speaker 2: I know that's like recording.

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Speaker 1: Actually more than a week.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think the last time we saw each other

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Speaker 2: was on my birthday May third. No, see if we

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Speaker 2: don't say it all. You left on a cruise. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: how was your cruise though?

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Speaker 1: You know? It was going really well until the one

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Speaker 1: day I went abroad off the ship and I meandered

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Speaker 1: I don't like to get hot, and I got itchy,

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Speaker 1: so I had to come back and take a really cold,

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Speaker 1: the morning, I was very seasick. So that kind of

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Speaker 1: messed up the rest of my trip.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't get to see.

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Speaker 1: There's nothing worse than that. I've heard. I got that

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Speaker 1: from my mother. My mother would always get seasick, and

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Speaker 1: You'd think I would have gotten the sailorship from him,

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Speaker 1: the olive skin from her, the blue eyes from him.

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Speaker 1: I got all the things I didn't want. That's how

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: Also with that, Ado went to my house Mother's Day.

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Speaker 2: Mother's Day was nice. I was with Peter and Frankie

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Speaker 2: and my good friends Lorena and Avellio that are like

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Speaker 2: my family. We went to Mother's Day brunch at Sea Spice,

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Speaker 2: one of my favorite restaurants in Miami. It's still one

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Speaker 2: up like another hundred since then. They have not them

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Speaker 2: Sea Spies, I mean Miami. I mean Sea Spice has

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Speaker 2: So the fact that they made it for ten years

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Speaker 2: and their food is still delicious about it sushi to

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Speaker 2: the many, which we love. Yeah, So yeah, we had

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Speaker 2: a great time Besides that, it was hot as hell,

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Speaker 2: because welcome to Miami in the summers. In Miami, even

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Speaker 2: what I'm trying to say is when it says like,

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Speaker 2: it was a beautiful day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, listen, you can't complain. A healthy day above ground

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Speaker 2: The food was great, the drinks were good, the day

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Speaker 2: was beautiful, So that's all. And I was with my

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Speaker 2: beautiful kids. Yeah, yeah, yeah, kids. You know I still

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Speaker 1: My step kids gave me flowers and a card.

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Speaker 1: Hunter came into the kitchen the morning, get me a

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Speaker 1: I just didn't want to be crying water works with

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Speaker 1: I don't know I was going to handle that anyway.

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Speaker 2: That's very sweet. Yes, well, I got flowers and phone

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Speaker 1: It's very special. In the fans chime in and have

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Speaker 2: Well, speaking of fans, there's a lot going on in

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Speaker 1: Everyone's suffering good together.

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Speaker 2: Yes, but in this particular case, I guess we should

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Speaker 1: I just don't get it. She's like a yo yo.

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Speaker 1: They get rid of her, they bring her back, they

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Speaker 2: I think they shall come back again. I feel like

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Speaker 2: and enjoys watching her. Yeah, and Candy's out also, But

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Speaker 2: I think in Candy's case, it was something personal. I

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Speaker 1: She's been there, any time she'd been there what she

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Speaker 2: That's a long time. That is a very long time.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely that was one of the greatest Moms and Central

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Speaker 2: even though Kim's divorce has been pretty public. But I

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Speaker 2: So you know, I don't know why it became so public,

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Speaker 1: They were calling the police and making a public.

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Speaker 2: Well yeah, once the police is involved, Yeah, but she's

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Speaker 2: to be in this lineup that they've they've right, but

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Speaker 2: you know he's in the lineup. Cynthia Bailey our friend

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Speaker 2: And she's so easy to get along with. Yeah, and yeah,

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Speaker 2: and I'm very happy for her. I feel like Cynthia

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Speaker 2: fits in with Atlanta. She's just like that woman. That woman,

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Speaker 2: So I'm very happy for her. And then there's three newbies, Angela, Brittany,

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Speaker 1: I don't know who they are?

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Speaker 2: I'm happy that they got it all, figure it out

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Speaker 1: They're already filming. I saw post just today, just day one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just not our thing now, but I get

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Speaker 1: I have to be honest, I get very, very uncomfortable

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Speaker 2: I don't even the thing is not that I don't

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Speaker 2: you know what, I looked really good less night. I

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Speaker 1: Me too, And then I'm like I should and then

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Speaker 2: You don't take pictures. The only time we take pictures

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Speaker 2: is when Lisa or Gerty are there.

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Speaker 1: Yes, exactly, and then we have to wait three days

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Speaker 1: for Lisa get my photo.

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Speaker 2: Lisa and Gerty, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: You gotta wait, okay, but she still takes the picture,

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Speaker 1: She does a good edit though, beautiful, beautiful, well.

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Speaker 2: Speaking housewives, Let's speak of our Hifcito, Andy Cohen.

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Speaker 1: Yeah just for half it, yes, okay.

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Speaker 2: We're so happy with the news that Antie Cohen was

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Speaker 2: they announced the renewal of Watch What Happens Live. Whoo

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Speaker 2: oh my god. Andy has no idea how much I

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Speaker 2: love What It Happens like me too, because I think

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Speaker 2: it's so much fun. Just like, like you guys that

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Speaker 1: It's a really fun time. And I don't know what's

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Speaker 2: They're like, stop, that's because you may get extra stiff

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Speaker 2: it's nothing. It's nothing in the clubhouse, guys. They give

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Speaker 1: True, true, true.

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Speaker 2: Even the shots, Like you know, when we do the

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Speaker 2: sometimes it's water. Sometimes I'll be like, okay, well I

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Speaker 2: a lot of times it's water.

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Speaker 1: I always get the water because by the time we

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Speaker 2: I like to be clear because I'm on Live TV.

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Speaker 2: So I usually really don't drink, you know, but they'll

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Speaker 2: you know, we'll have like a drink there together we

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Speaker 2: my drink. But anyways, it's a lot of fun. We're

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Speaker 2: super happy that they're renewed. Watch What Happens Live and

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Speaker 2: also many other shows that were given given the green lid,

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Speaker 1: Let's we're just gonna read what Andy Cohen said to

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Speaker 1: The Hollywood Reporter.

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Speaker 2: One. By the way, did you see his cover? Did

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Speaker 1: His guns are looking sharp.

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Speaker 2: He's really a picture too. I mean in the cover

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Speaker 2: wearing like, you know, his soon like he always does,

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Speaker 2: his signature. But what he hosted in his Instagram you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hm, he's looking very chiseled.

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Speaker 2: Yes, he's ready for the summer.

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Speaker 1: There was an investigation done by Bravo with about the

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Speaker 1: recent allegations made by Brandy Glanville and Leah mcswee against

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Speaker 1: I can't talk about some of these things. What I'll

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Speaker 1: Candy Burrus. Heather Brudeau will just have an occasional glass

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Speaker 1: are many people who never drink. We don't force anyone

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Speaker 2: And I agree that everything that was said there is

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Speaker 1: And of course I always ask for something because I

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Speaker 2: Of course, no, but I think that also a lot

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Speaker 2: other hand, Leah McSweeney's attorney Gary Adelman said in a statement,

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Speaker 2: how do you have an investigation without speaking with anyone.

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Speaker 2: Our opinion is that no one is going to believe

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Speaker 2: this was a real investigation. This is perfect timing one

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Speaker 1: But I want to know who her attorneys are interviewing,

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Speaker 1: because you and I haven't had a call, and you

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Speaker 2: But besides that, that's what we talked about the Variety

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Speaker 2: It was completely use it right, Well, we use it,

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Speaker 2: So it was completely one sided.

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Speaker 2: But I mean, it's scary you know, I mean to

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Speaker 2: you know, there was justice and that he was able

434
00:20:26,840 --> 00:20:29,040
Speaker 2: to clear his name because I can imagine, you know,

435
00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:32,880
Speaker 2: how terrible he felt about, you know, himself and being

436
00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:35,000
Speaker 2: in a situation like that and you know, being judged

437
00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:38,399
Speaker 2: and whatnot. So we're super happy. We'll see you at

438
00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:39,080
Speaker 2: the clubhouse.

439
00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:45,680
Speaker 1: See at the clubhouse. I see ever see.

440
00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:59,840
Speaker 2: Though, Well enough talk about Bravo. Yeah, now we're going

441
00:20:59,880 --> 00:21:06,879
Speaker 2: to talk about real actresses. Hey, I take personal I

442
00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:10,520
Speaker 2: have no reality, no more reality TV stars. Now we're

443
00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:13,680
Speaker 2: going to talk about a real actress, one of my favorites.

444
00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:17,439
Speaker 2: I know you feel different about her, but it's Jaylo,

445
00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:25,840
Speaker 2: my friend Jlo. I know. Well, it's Jlo and Ben Affleck. Okay,

446
00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:29,240
Speaker 2: so we're going to be talking about them because obviously

447
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,800
Speaker 2: they have the entire world rooting against them, and they

448
00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:34,840
Speaker 2: always have. How do you feel about Matt Damon saying

449
00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:38,120
Speaker 2: that he hates the way that Jennifer Lopez treats his

450
00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:39,280
Speaker 2: best friend, Ben Affleck.

451
00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:43,399
Speaker 1: I agree with with with Matt. I agree with Matt

452
00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:47,000
Speaker 1: because she has a history of talking down to her

453
00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:53,400
Speaker 1: man and emasculating them. She does that and everybody knows it,

454
00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:56,240
Speaker 1: and they're falling one by one by one. But it's

455
00:21:56,240 --> 00:22:00,240
Speaker 1: going to keep happening. She heard pattern and he's see

456
00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:03,000
Speaker 1: is it happening to his friend? And he doesn't like it? Right?

457
00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:04,680
Speaker 2: But do you so you think it's okay like for

458
00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:06,119
Speaker 2: him to tell his friend, Hey, I don't like the

459
00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:11,199
Speaker 2: way that Jlo treats you, and.

460
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:11,879
Speaker 1: He can say whatever he wants. I mean, they're really close.

461
00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 1: They grow up together. You know. Whether Ben does something

462
00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:18,199
Speaker 1: about it or not is another story. That's like me

463
00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:20,080
Speaker 1: telling you I like the way someone treats her. You

464
00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:21,959
Speaker 1: say it to me. You and I are like that.

465
00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,920
Speaker 1: We're compositives. I speak to each other like that. Whether

466
00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:26,800
Speaker 1: I do something about it or I tell you to

467
00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:30,160
Speaker 1: a foul off, you know, is another story. But yeah,

468
00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:34,680
Speaker 1: they're close like that, and I'm not surprised. I mean,

469
00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:36,840
Speaker 1: I'm not surprised either. You know, I thought that from

470
00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:42,000
Speaker 1: the beginning. They've always had it so hard because they're

471
00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:45,680
Speaker 1: so public. You know, these are two like megastars, and

472
00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:49,600
Speaker 1: everybody knows what happened with them years ago, and everyone's

473
00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:54,920
Speaker 1: continued to follow, you know, Jlo's love stories with different men,

474
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:57,680
Speaker 1: and of course you know she's going to get the

475
00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:01,000
Speaker 1: blame for everything because obviously looks like she's the one

476
00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:03,159
Speaker 1: that can't you know, keep a man or stay in

477
00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:06,639
Speaker 1: a relationship. And you know, we don't know why because

478
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:10,119
Speaker 1: between two couples, you never really know what happens behind

479
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 1: closed doors and you know the truth. But yeah, I

480
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:15,360
Speaker 1: mean people look at them and say, yeah, of course

481
00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:17,479
Speaker 1: I wasn't going to work out, because everybody knows that.

482
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:19,960
Speaker 1: You know, Ben is very quiet and he likes to

483
00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 1: keep his life very private.

484
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:24,760
Speaker 2: And to me he looks a little angry. Nona.

485
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:29,679
Speaker 1: He was probably in a really bad mood because she

486
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:32,160
Speaker 1: masculates it.

487
00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:33,240
Speaker 2: Well, but not all the time. That's up to the

488
00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:35,400
Speaker 2: man not to allow that. I mean, in a marriage,

489
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:37,280
Speaker 2: there has to be compromise. He already knew what he

490
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:40,199
Speaker 2: was getting himself into, so there's no excuses because he

491
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:43,359
Speaker 2: already did this years ago. So twenty years later, like

492
00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,600
Speaker 2: what did you learn from it? And so you're here again,

493
00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:48,880
Speaker 2: and you know, people don't change, People don't change.

494
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,359
Speaker 1: I always felt like them getting together and her with

495
00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:53,879
Speaker 1: him so quickly after a rod was a was a

496
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:59,160
Speaker 1: PR stunt. Everybody the PR No you said that again, Yeah, yeah,

497
00:23:59,200 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 1: I don't.

498
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:01,919
Speaker 2: I don't think was a pair stunt. I think that,

499
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:05,720
Speaker 2: you know, like it was one of those like that

500
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 2: she always you know, when they broke up twenty years ago,

501
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:10,879
Speaker 2: under those circumstances, it was kind of like there was

502
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:12,639
Speaker 2: never any closure, you know what I mean. It was

503
00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:14,439
Speaker 2: like it happened so fast. They were supposed to get

504
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 2: married and the day before, you know, they decided not to.

505
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:20,359
Speaker 2: Or he more than anybody, so it's kind of like,

506
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 2: then he'll be married, Jennifer. She wanted to have, you know,

507
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 2: many other marriages and men and kids. So twenty years

508
00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:29,320
Speaker 2: later they reconnect, and I think they were both in

509
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 2: a vulnerable space, you know, in their life, and they

510
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 2: always had that love for each other, so it's kind

511
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:35,200
Speaker 2: of easy to rekindle that, right.

512
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,080
Speaker 1: I mean, I know what you're saying. I totally get

513
00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:41,679
Speaker 1: what you're saying, but I you know, my my marketing

514
00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:45,120
Speaker 1: and PR brain is thinking that it was just something

515
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 1: too for her. It was probably to just make it.

516
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:52,639
Speaker 2: I thought it will not be I thought she was

517
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:55,639
Speaker 2: just doing it because you know, but a Rod, a

518
00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:57,160
Speaker 2: Rod had cheated on her.

519
00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:58,360
Speaker 1: I guess she wanted to.

520
00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:00,920
Speaker 2: He didn't cheat on one. He was just talking to somebody.

521
00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:04,719
Speaker 1: Oh he was doing more than that, she said, so

522
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:08,200
Speaker 1: the girl she said so yes. I think she wanted

523
00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 1: to one help him because she's always the dude. And

524
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 1: then she wanted to clean this all up. Then hadn't

525
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:16,639
Speaker 1: done much in a few years, he'd been like on

526
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 1: the road to sobriety. They thought it was it was

527
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:22,120
Speaker 1: so quick, it was I felt like it was very

528
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:23,680
Speaker 1: marketing job.

529
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:26,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I didn't see it as a marketing thing

530
00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 2: because I think that she's more like from the heart

531
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 2: and she kind of like needs to have somebody all

532
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 2: the time. And obviously we know that about her. She

533
00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:37,680
Speaker 2: gets from one to the other. She doesn't even finish

534
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 2: this one up, and she's already into a new relationship.

535
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 2: She can't be alone, and she's afraid to be alone

536
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,479
Speaker 2: for whatever reason. She's in love with love. I mean,

537
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 2: I can relate to her in many in many ways,

538
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:50,680
Speaker 2: but I feel like.

539
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 1: It doesn't always have to be so public. Everything is.

540
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:56,560
Speaker 1: She makes it, She makes it very public.

541
00:25:57,280 --> 00:25:58,880
Speaker 2: She makes it published.

542
00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 1: She didn't have to drag him to every red carpet

543
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 1: and everything.

544
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 2: You're always if you if he goes with you and

545
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:08,639
Speaker 2: he has my face, oh you guys are having problems.

546
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:10,720
Speaker 2: He can't stand you. You guys got into a fight.

547
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 2: And then if he doesn't go with you, people still

548
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 2: talk shit. They say, oh my god, he's not he's home.

549
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 2: He didn't want to be there with you, and you got.

550
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:20,040
Speaker 1: That's true. You can't.

551
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 2: I just think it, you know again, you know, people

552
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:26,400
Speaker 2: have it so hard, you know, public people, and she's

553
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:28,640
Speaker 2: at a different level. But you know, I just got

554
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:32,119
Speaker 2: a little taste of it, and and it's hard, you know.

555
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 2: And it's hard when you're going through something like this

556
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 2: in your personal life and everyone the entire world has

557
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:40,439
Speaker 2: an opinion and a comment and it's usually not in favor,

558
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:43,120
Speaker 2: and like so many women, like I hate that. What

559
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:46,400
Speaker 2: gets me the most upset is like women putting down

560
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:49,400
Speaker 2: other women, like they always defend the guys, like what's

561
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:51,200
Speaker 2: wrong with you women? And then I'm not saying that

562
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:54,040
Speaker 2: the woman has to be right always either, but it's

563
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 2: like all the comments like favor the guy. Usually like

564
00:26:58,040 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 2: there's more comments the women.

565
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:02,440
Speaker 1: Well at all not always. It's just that she now

566
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 1: has a pattern, and she dragged him everywhere. She made

567
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 1: it really public and so didn't.

568
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,600
Speaker 2: Drag the man where. I think what really happened was,

569
00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:12,680
Speaker 2: I mean, that's her partner, so it's like your husband

570
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 2: has to support you, so she's not driving. And he

571
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 2: knew what I was getting himself into.

572
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 1: They're not even two years in, and she didn't I know,

573
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:26,399
Speaker 1: film about them, Yes, I think extra for him. He

574
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 1: knew about it.

575
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:31,680
Speaker 2: He participated in that, and marriages are about compromise. Yeah,

576
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:36,960
Speaker 2: so so again, you know, I think that in the

577
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:40,159
Speaker 2: beginning of their marriage, of course, when you're all like,

578
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:42,080
Speaker 2: you know, in the beginning, like the you know, the

579
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:46,199
Speaker 2: man could do no wrong, you know whatever. So at

580
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 2: the beginning, it was all that, the butterflies in the stomach,

581
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 2: I'm here for you, you're here for me. But then

582
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 2: when reality kicks in, which is the two years, and

583
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:55,880
Speaker 2: it's like what, like what is this? And then then

584
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 2: everybody and then on top of it, to have everybody,

585
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 2: to have Matt, Damon and Benzir. I'm sure Jalo has

586
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:03,760
Speaker 2: her friends also, and you can tell she's a strong woman.

587
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:06,800
Speaker 2: You know, she's a strong woman. She's a workaholic and

588
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:09,560
Speaker 2: she needs a lot of attention, not only from Ben,

589
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:11,520
Speaker 2: she needs it from the world. I mean, this is

590
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:13,640
Speaker 2: like it's been her life, this is how she grew up.

591
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:17,240
Speaker 2: And even then when she doesn't have it, then she

592
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:18,880
Speaker 2: goes looking for it because I mean, do you think

593
00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:21,639
Speaker 2: this woman needs to keep on working and doing more stuff? No,

594
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:24,920
Speaker 2: and she keeps on. Now she's on tour, Like now

595
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 2: she's going on tour.

596
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:27,919
Speaker 1: Well, I thought her tour was a bust.

597
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 2: She went back out, Yeah she's yeah. I think she

598
00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 2: canceled some cities or like she she stopped it for

599
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,160
Speaker 2: like two months or so. But now she's back on tour,

600
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:38,360
Speaker 2: and that's what she's going to do. You know, she's

601
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 2: going to throw herself and work. And this is what

602
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 2: she you know, what she always does, and this is

603
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 2: like what has worked for her. But it's hard for

604
00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 2: somebody like her to be with like another actor. I

605
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 2: think that they have it even harder, especially when they're

606
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 2: so different, because you know, Ben, even though he's an actor,

607
00:28:57,160 --> 00:29:00,920
Speaker 2: he's always like to keep his private life very very private,

608
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 2: very private, and she's always been about social media and

609
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 2: sharing things. I mean, remember when she was with a

610
00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 2: rod I mean loved it too, by the way. So

611
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,880
Speaker 2: that's I think they were compatible because were they would everything,

612
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 2: They would make videos about themselves at home, and you know,

613
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 2: they were so public, they were so engaging, you know,

614
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:21,280
Speaker 2: even like you know with their fans that would go everywhere,

615
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 2: and they made their relationship very public.

616
00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 1: A lot longer than Ben. I just don't understand why

617
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 1: she didn't rush to the alter with him. She did,

618
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: they got engaged after what. You can't do that either.

619
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:37,280
Speaker 1: I mean I think they they get married a well,

620
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:39,920
Speaker 1: because then the problem started. They were engaged, they had

621
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:42,280
Speaker 1: like a long engagement, not actually a year, kind of

622
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 1: like like I got a year. Yeah, that's I don't

623
00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 1: understand what she didn't do all those rush jobs with him.

624
00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 1: I don't know. She's got she's she's very smart, she's

625
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,920
Speaker 1: very intelligent. She's planned your career, she's positioned herself to

626
00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 1: be exactly where she has. She's done an excellent job,

627
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 1: and all all these marriages are a part of the

628
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 1: plan and the and the media and the strategy of

629
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 1: her business and her empire. This is what I think.

630
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:11,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I think you have to be careful also

631
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 2: because you see Matt Damon is still married to his wife,

632
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 2: and you.

633
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:18,720
Speaker 1: Know, I don't know he didn't have that agenda.

634
00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 2: No, I mean, I'm just saying that. What I'm trying

635
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,240
Speaker 2: to get to is like that you have to be

636
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 2: careful because yeah, you know they're your friends and that's

637
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 2: his best friend. But it's hard when you get into

638
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 2: other people's marriage because you're not like in their shoes.

639
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 2: You know, you don't really understand the day to day.

640
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:36,960
Speaker 2: You know, you can see them maybe once every three months,

641
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 2: and that day you saw him, they got into a

642
00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 2: fight before, or like Jayalo already knows how Matt feels

643
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 2: about her, so she's very reserved and she could be

644
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 2: a bit you know what I mean. There's like so

645
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 2: many factors there only they have only them to know.

646
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 2: But it's never been a secret. You know, Matt's had

647
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 2: always he's always had serious reservations about Bennefer two point

648
00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:58,120
Speaker 2: zero since the beginning. It says, Yeah, he's tried to

649
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:01,440
Speaker 2: be publicly supportive for Ben's but the fact that is

650
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 2: that he hates Jalo and the way that Jealo treats

651
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 2: his buddy, and he can no longer hold his tongue.

652
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:08,120
Speaker 1: She has then again.

653
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 2: Better they time out. You don't know if she treated

654
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 2: him like that, because Ben treated him treated her bad,

655
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 2: So it's like a psychone.

656
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 1: I get what you're saying. But she has a reputation

657
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 1: of doing that with all her men and even people

658
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 1: that work with her and around her, that she's very

659
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 1: demeaning with people. You know, that could be a problem,

660
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 1: but she's a hard worker and she probably doesn't have

661
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 1: time for bullshit, and you know, it transfers over in

662
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:33,200
Speaker 1: her romantic life unfortunately.

663
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 2: You know, I think she was in love with the

664
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 2: idea of just getting back with Ben because she always

665
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 2: had love for him, and it was something like she

666
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 2: had no closure with him, so it's kind of like

667
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 2: always open. She stayed civil and friends. So then when

668
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 2: they had the opportunity, and everything in life is about timing,

669
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 2: they found each other again at a very vulnerable state

670
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:55,000
Speaker 2: in both of their lives, and the attraction was always there,

671
00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:57,479
Speaker 2: so of course it was like, you know, super rushing,

672
00:31:57,600 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 2: you know, like to buy homes, to get married, to

673
00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 2: do all that. Because they got married a year after

674
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 2: they reconnected, which is very very soon considering she had

675
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 2: been in a long term relationship with a rod and

676
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:10,360
Speaker 2: also engaged to him to get married.

677
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 1: I thought it was faster. It was a year.

678
00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 2: By the time they reconnected and got married, it was

679
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 2: a year. Yeah.

680
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:19,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know why it felt like it was

681
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 1: so much faster.

682
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 2: But you know, again, I think that because they had

683
00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 2: been together before and almost married, it was kind of

684
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 2: like it was easy to like to pick up and

685
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:27,480
Speaker 2: feel the same thing. And I guess they got so

686
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:30,239
Speaker 2: excited when they did see each other again and they

687
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 2: reconnected that they were able, you know, the relationship was

688
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 2: able to move a lot quicker than like a new guy.

689
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 1: Has that ever happened to you? Have you ever picked

690
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:41,240
Speaker 1: up an own flame and still felt like hotness?

691
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 2: Like, oh, I don't like to go back. I don't

692
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 2: know either with anybody. No, I'm like I already had that.

693
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:48,960
Speaker 2: I already tried that, And I'm like, I'm good, I

694
00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 2: really know what it's about. Yeah, but I see it

695
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 2: happens a lot. Like I mean, I've seen friends and

696
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:56,960
Speaker 2: people that I know that have gone like divorced or

697
00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 2: broken up and then they'll reconnect with Facebook. Wich I

698
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 2: don't even have so it's never going to happen. So,

699
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 2: but you know what I mean, Like there's people that

700
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 2: go back to you know, people that haven't seen from

701
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:11,480
Speaker 2: college or whatnot, flims. Yeah, and they reconnect. Mm hmm.

702
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:15,360
Speaker 1: I mean I've never understood that. Or what about couples

703
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:19,320
Speaker 1: that are married forever they divorce, marry other people and

704
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 1: get divorced and marry each other again. Have you heard

705
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 1: about that? I mean a few, that's really I.

706
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 2: Don't know anybody. You've heard of it, but I don't

707
00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:30,520
Speaker 2: know people personally. Yeah, that's something I don't think I

708
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 2: would ever do. But you know, then again, you never know.

709
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 2: You never know.

710
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 1: Actually, one of my dad's friends, him and his wife

711
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 1: have now passed. He was married, then got divorced, then

712
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 1: married the woman that my mom and dad were friends with,

713
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:48,960
Speaker 1: were together for a very long time, they got divorced,

714
00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 1: he married a Cuban girl, and then another woman, and

715
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 1: then in his old age, went back to his second wife,

716
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 1: which was the friends of my mom and dad, and

717
00:33:56,760 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 1: then they died together. Yeah, happens all the time. I

718
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:03,400
Speaker 1: don't think I could ever go back to an X

719
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 1: you know what and boyfriend.

720
00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, and there's a reason weather then it just depends,

721
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:12,360
Speaker 2: you know, my relationship is different, and also depends on

722
00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:15,759
Speaker 2: what kind of relationship you had and sure, and how

723
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 2: the relationship ended. I think has a lot to do

724
00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:20,520
Speaker 2: with it. You know. I think that with her and Bend,

725
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:23,720
Speaker 2: they were like younger, and he always blamed the fact

726
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 2: that their relationship was so public and there was so

727
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 2: much scrutiny around it that it's hard.

728
00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 1: Hey walk right into that same honey track.

729
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,080
Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying. I got when he said

730
00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:34,960
Speaker 2: that twenty years ago. It made sense to me because

731
00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 2: they were so young and they really you know, it

732
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:38,839
Speaker 2: was a lot of pressure, is what I'm trying to say.

733
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 2: But twenty years later, you you've been around for twenty years,

734
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:44,800
Speaker 2: and like you're using the same excuse. He knew what

735
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 2: he was getting himself into, because people don't change. Jalo

736
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 2: even now wants probably more like attention than before.

737
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:53,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was better than her back then.

738
00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:56,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I mean, and now she's just as big,

739
00:34:56,840 --> 00:35:01,200
Speaker 2: you know as him, and and she I feel also

740
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 2: like her being in her fifties, you know, being a woman,

741
00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 2: and you know, and beautiful and so successful and all that,

742
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:08,839
Speaker 2: it's kind of like the fifties are hard for a woman,

743
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,239
Speaker 2: so she needs to keep up and you know, a

744
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:13,399
Speaker 2: lot of these people. You know, there's one Madonna, there's

745
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 2: one chair. You know, I'm not saying that she's going

746
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:17,319
Speaker 2: to be that person, but like she has a lot

747
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:19,400
Speaker 2: of pressure, like she has to keep on performing, she

748
00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 2: has to keep on singing, and her career has always

749
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 2: been very important to her. So it's not even you

750
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:26,960
Speaker 2: know about it. She has to find the right guy.

751
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 2: And then who is the right guy to be with

752
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 2: a woman like that?

753
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:31,040
Speaker 1: I have no idea.

754
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:33,359
Speaker 2: I think that the younger guys are better for her,

755
00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:35,839
Speaker 2: you know, that will just be like you know, yes, ma'am.

756
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 1: Like whatever she had from the beginning, the dancers, dancers

757
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:43,879
Speaker 1: and honey the guy, the Cuban guy was just off

758
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:44,280
Speaker 1: the boat.

759
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 2: Well, but that's different. That was in the very beginning

760
00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:49,400
Speaker 2: of her career. She wasn't ja loo I know that

761
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:52,280
Speaker 2: they were younger. Yeah, no, that was a little different.

762
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:54,240
Speaker 2: But I mean even like in the past, right before

763
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:59,360
Speaker 2: a Rod she was with Casper and the dancer also

764
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:03,359
Speaker 2: super weight on hinting, and but you know that gets

765
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:06,319
Speaker 2: boring also because you know, it's like, you know, it's like, okay,

766
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 2: it's fun for a while.

767
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 1: You have to find someone that is at your same emotional,

768
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:16,800
Speaker 1: it's it's also like your upbringing needs to be similar.

769
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:20,360
Speaker 1: I had a long talk with my childhood friend the

770
00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:24,759
Speaker 1: other day because she her first husband was Arab, My

771
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 1: first husband was Muslim, my second was French, her second

772
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:29,840
Speaker 1: was French. And I and I said, I'm finally with

773
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 1: an American and she's with an American now, And I said,

774
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 1: you know what, you're just when you're young, you think

775
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:38,400
Speaker 1: you can make it work. Everyone has the same God,

776
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 1: we all are the same. But at the end of

777
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:42,239
Speaker 1: the day, day in and day out, we're not the same.

778
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:46,279
Speaker 1: We're raised different, we have different traditions, different beliefs, and

779
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:50,799
Speaker 1: then that starts chipping away at the relationship, and little

780
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 1: arguments start, that becomes big arguments, and then everything just

781
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 1: goes to the shitter. You when you're with someone that

782
00:36:58,239 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 1: was raised the way you were raised.

783
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:02,919
Speaker 2: But I mean she's an American. I mean she's perto Reagan,

784
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 2: but she's more American than me, so that I don't

785
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 2: think that has anything.

786
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:09,680
Speaker 1: I'm not even talking about her right now. I just

787
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 1: think that, well, yeah, maybe, like just like you kind

788
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:15,240
Speaker 1: of have to have the same a little bit of education,

789
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:18,480
Speaker 1: upbringing in socio economical.

790
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:20,280
Speaker 2: She's had them all. I mean she's had Marc Anthony.

791
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 2: That was perto Reagan. She said, Ara does Dominican. She

792
00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:25,880
Speaker 2: doesn't discriminate, she looks, she goes for her love, what

793
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:29,359
Speaker 2: her heart tells her to do. Than is American. She's

794
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:31,839
Speaker 2: you know, HONEI was Cuban. I mean, she's had them all.

795
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:36,719
Speaker 2: I just think I just think that she just like

796
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 2: she she falls in love too quickly and she doesn't

797
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 2: think about the consequences or about anything. She just wants

798
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:44,839
Speaker 2: to live the moment. She's in love. With love, she

799
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 2: can't be alone, and a lot of women suffer from that.

800
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 2: She must have that prenup attorney on speed dial. Right, well,

801
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 2: at least you know with them, you know, with Mark

802
00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:57,440
Speaker 2: Anthony too, they both were like career, you know, they

803
00:37:57,440 --> 00:37:59,279
Speaker 2: both had their own you know, their money and their

804
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 2: career marketing. And he wasn't as big as her. But

805
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:04,680
Speaker 2: you know, you know, it's a handicap. It's a handicap

806
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:08,239
Speaker 2: to be Jennifer Lopez. I mean it really is. You know,

807
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:11,880
Speaker 2: it comes like so much in a relationship, not not

808
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:14,640
Speaker 2: only the money. I mean she has so much. I mean,

809
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:16,719
Speaker 2: what man, you know, and at her age, you know,

810
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 2: the older we get, the more difficult it is because

811
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 2: we're set on our own ways and you know, nobody's

812
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:23,399
Speaker 2: going to change at our age, and we're not even

813
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:25,880
Speaker 2: going to mold or adapt. We do that the first

814
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:29,240
Speaker 2: year or two, and then after that honeymoon stage goes

815
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 2: what's left and what do you do?

816
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:32,279
Speaker 1: Yeah?

817
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 2: But you know, yeah, well, so fans have noticed. Yeah, right,

818
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:43,239
Speaker 2: we read that article that says that the fans have

819
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:45,920
Speaker 2: noticed that Ben and Jennifer have been spending increasing amounts

820
00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 2: of time apart in recent weeks. Ben didn't even attend

821
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 2: the Megala with his wife on May six, despite her

822
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:57,080
Speaker 2: important position as co chair of the event. Ben's official

823
00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:59,480
Speaker 2: excuse for missing the Megala was that he was busy

824
00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 2: filming The Accountant Too, But in touch sources say he

825
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 2: decided to call it quits on his marriage to the

826
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:06,000
Speaker 2: A List singer.

827
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:10,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, apparently here moved out of the house and she's

828
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 1: been looking for a new place to live, like she's

829
00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:14,240
Speaker 1: always looking for a new house.

830
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 2: But isn't it weird that suspicious that they were in

831
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:24,320
Speaker 2: New York about a month ago and they were together,

832
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:27,279
Speaker 2: and they were they were seen together with pictures and

833
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 2: everything looking for apartments in New York City. Yeah. Yeah,

834
00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:35,440
Speaker 2: so you see it's kind of like, you know, you

835
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:37,719
Speaker 2: could be doing that one day and then the next

836
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 2: day it's over. Just like that's true and just like that.

837
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:53,160
Speaker 2: So would you ever take space from your friendship if

838
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 2: you know that they don't support your romantic relationship?

839
00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:59,120
Speaker 1: Well only if they're nagging me about it? Twenty four

840
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:00,880
Speaker 1: set Like if I if you're calling me all the

841
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:03,239
Speaker 1: time telling me I don't like your partner and he

842
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 1: did this and he did that, well yeah, I'm going

843
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 1: to take space from you because I don't want to

844
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 1: hear it anymore.

845
00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:11,359
Speaker 2: I need a break, right, Okay. I mean I think

846
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 2: that there's like a fine line you can only you know,

847
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:15,880
Speaker 2: say certain things. You know, but at the end, your friend,

848
00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 2: you know, you need to support your friend with whatever decision.

849
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:22,359
Speaker 2: Yeah he or she is making, whether it's to stay

850
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:24,840
Speaker 2: with the person or not to stay with the person.

851
00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:27,960
Speaker 2: And yes, you could give your opinion because you know

852
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 2: it's coming from a good place because your best friend

853
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:33,960
Speaker 2: obviously loves you and wants what's best for you. But

854
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 2: you know, I think you do need to know, like

855
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:38,279
Speaker 2: you know, like.

856
00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:41,960
Speaker 1: When we want to exactly and you know, not everybody's

857
00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 1: as evolved as you and I are. You know, whatever

858
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 1: decisions I make or you make in your life, we

859
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:48,800
Speaker 1: support each other. But some people don't know how to

860
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:51,279
Speaker 1: be supportive. Some people just want to jump on that

861
00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:54,319
Speaker 1: negative train and you know, drive you crazy because they

862
00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 1: want you to be negative and down like they are.

863
00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 1: You know how many she loves company. Yeah, so it

864
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 1: depends on the friend and the situation.

865
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:05,000
Speaker 2: Right, I mean, like, but for example, with Ben that

866
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:10,240
Speaker 2: Matts's best friend. But here is Matt Damon that's still happily,

867
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:12,400
Speaker 2: I don't know, happily, but married, you know, with the

868
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:15,040
Speaker 2: same wife that, by the way, nobody thought would make

869
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:16,920
Speaker 2: it either because you know, she was a bartender and

870
00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 2: they met here in Miami and blah blah blah. So

871
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:22,399
Speaker 2: they had all that going against them. Too good for them.

872
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 2: They figured it out, they worked it through, and they're

873
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 2: still together after all these years, and they look like

874
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 2: a happy couple. And she does, you know, she gave

875
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:32,719
Speaker 2: them the limelight. But again, you know, she's not a

876
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:35,759
Speaker 2: star like Jalo. So he married some He married a

877
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:39,920
Speaker 2: bartender lady, which is very different from Jalo. Maybe if

878
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 2: he would have married another actress in Hollywood. You know,

879
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:45,320
Speaker 2: he would have had been divorced as well, but because

880
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:48,520
Speaker 2: his situation is different, he gives different kind of advice.

881
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:49,520
Speaker 1: You know.

882
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 2: It's kind of like he wants ment to be with

883
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:53,680
Speaker 2: like a plain Jane girl or I mean, I don't

884
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 2: mean to say like that, but just like not somebody

885
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,840
Speaker 2: that's like in the limelight, because you know, Matt Damon's

886
00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 2: always been. He's been the one in the limelight. Ben

887
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:02,720
Speaker 2: had to share it He shared it with Jennifer Garner

888
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:05,880
Speaker 2: as well. Differently, it's a different personality than Jennifer Garner has,

889
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 2: but you know he's been around that.

890
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:13,720
Speaker 1: M Well. Yeah, I mean, if you're in the business,

891
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:16,280
Speaker 1: you don't want your partner eclipsing you, you know, you

892
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 1: one of them has to be able to allow the

893
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 1: other one to shine more than the other, and it's

894
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:23,480
Speaker 1: probably harder for the man.

895
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 2: Yeah. I just think it's really weird. Like remember all

896
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:30,760
Speaker 2: this talk about when she did her recent project telling

897
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 2: everyone that Ben was a lover of her life, and

898
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 2: I really do believe her, and she put twenty million

899
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 2: dollars of her own money.

900
00:42:40,640 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 1: I think that she was like, shit, man, I should

901
00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:46,160
Speaker 1: have married that one. That was the one I didn't marry.

902
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:48,880
Speaker 1: I got to marry him to make it happen exactly.

903
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:50,800
Speaker 2: And she's like, I'm good even if we get divorce,

904
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:52,360
Speaker 2: but I'm going to marry that guy Oway. And she

905
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:54,880
Speaker 2: got him to get to marry and she wanted to

906
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:56,759
Speaker 2: share her love story. That's how it is for her.

907
00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:58,759
Speaker 2: You know, maybe people don't see it that way, but

908
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 2: you know, she was in roll her narrative and yeah,

909
00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 2: and no matter, she didn't care. She doesn't care that

910
00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 2: people you know, all have been friends are saying that

911
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:09,920
Speaker 2: they don't like her, So, like, what do you believe?

912
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 2: It's like, it's so hard to know, like the real truth,

913
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,920
Speaker 2: you know. Yeah, yeah, I mean, would you choose like

914
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:18,840
Speaker 2: your friend or your partner? Would you ever do that again?

915
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:22,400
Speaker 2: It depends on the situation. Is my partner being an asshole?

916
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 2: Is my friend being an idiot? Like, I don't know,

917
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:28,799
Speaker 2: you have to weigh all the consequences. Is very difficult

918
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 2: to even know. You know, some people are just not

919
00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:35,600
Speaker 2: good friends and some people just aren't good partners. It

920
00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 2: would depend. Yeah, I mean a lot of times you

921
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:40,319
Speaker 2: can love each other but not know how to love

922
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:42,400
Speaker 2: each other. You know, you're like in love with the person,

923
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:45,360
Speaker 2: but you don't know how to love that person. And

924
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 2: I feel like Jennifer and Ben could be like that

925
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 2: that you can tell like she's you know, you can't

926
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 2: hide that time about all. She's like all over him.

927
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:54,279
Speaker 2: But then again, she's done that with her other men too.

928
00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:56,080
Speaker 2: I guess she's been in love with the muscle. I

929
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:58,759
Speaker 2: think she's just like that person. But then you don't

930
00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 2: know how to love each other, and you know, and

931
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:01,719
Speaker 2: marriages are all about compromise.

932
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:05,360
Speaker 1: And an actress, she knows. She does a lot of

933
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:08,000
Speaker 1: romantic comedy. She knows how to look and love, so

934
00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 1: she's looking for her next one. No, she just knows

935
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:13,200
Speaker 1: how to look in love. She's an actress, so she's

936
00:44:13,280 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 1: very good at Then couldn't hide that he was not happy,

937
00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 1: And I've said it before here on the point you

938
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:21,600
Speaker 1: said it a lot. He's an actor. He could have

939
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 1: pretended and acted that he was happy.

940
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 2: But you know, professional notes, so I know, but some

941
00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:29,440
Speaker 2: men can't do it in their personal life. They can

942
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:32,359
Speaker 2: go on screen and they can act like it when

943
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 2: it's a script, but when it's real, you know, they

944
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 2: can't do it. But you know, he has other issus

945
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 2: to me and he's not like perfect though, He's not

946
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 2: like the perfect one.

947
00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:41,840
Speaker 1: And I didn't say it was perfect, but I do

948
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:44,240
Speaker 1: know he's an actor and he could pretend to be happy.

949
00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 1: That's not that.

950
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:47,680
Speaker 2: Hard, right. Well, he didn't do it, my friend.

951
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 1: No, he did not do it. He did not do it.

952
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 2: Talking about exes. How funny was the Instagram post or

953
00:44:54,760 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 2: story whatever it was with some Tark and Christina his

954
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 2: ex and his new wife Heather.

955
00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 1: You know what, I had no idea that they were

956
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 1: all buddy buddy like that.

957
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 2: It's amount of time they weren't, by the way, Yeah, no,

958
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:13,799
Speaker 2: it's a ton of times they weren't. To think now,

959
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:16,319
Speaker 2: I just think it's funny how people have to make

960
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 2: everything so public. It's like, Okay, first of all, you

961
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:22,680
Speaker 2: guys weren't such good friends, and luckily for them, they

962
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:25,360
Speaker 2: are now. And I love that because there's children involved

963
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:28,360
Speaker 2: that have chill together and now he had you know,

964
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 2: baby with Heather as well, So I love that they're

965
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:33,879
Speaker 2: all getting along. But how creepy is it that they

966
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:35,640
Speaker 2: both have such a resemblance.

967
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:40,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, he clearly has a type. I mean I never

968
00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:42,799
Speaker 1: thought they looked alike, but in this video they do

969
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:44,919
Speaker 1: well they dressed the same and they did their hair

970
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:45,319
Speaker 1: this way.

971
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:49,320
Speaker 2: They did it on purpose, right, I mean if.

972
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 1: I saw them in person, I would know the difference.

973
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:55,840
Speaker 1: But like if they do look alike, But he definitely

974
00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:59,359
Speaker 1: has a type. Petite blonde. Yeah, and everyone has their

975
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:04,440
Speaker 1: own television show, so he stayed in there like yeah, yeah, yeah,

976
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:06,720
Speaker 1: he knows how to pick them. Have you ever dated

977
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:08,759
Speaker 1: someone that looked like someone from.

978
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:12,239
Speaker 2: Your No, I really don't have a type type.

979
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:15,200
Speaker 1: I was going to say, no, one that I know

980
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:19,360
Speaker 1: from your past has looked like anybody in your future.

981
00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I know that there's women that maybe not

982
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:24,520
Speaker 2: you know, I mean, I know that there's women that,

983
00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:26,719
Speaker 2: for example, they like the salt and pepper hair and

984
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:30,919
Speaker 2: the light eyes. And that's my first saltn Pepper guy

985
00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 2: that has salt pepper hair and light eyes. So it's

986
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:35,879
Speaker 2: not like a lot of people love the light eyes.

987
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:37,680
Speaker 2: I love it too. I've just never been attracted and

988
00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 2: I'm more like by the heart. I'm attracted to whatever

989
00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:43,160
Speaker 2: I'm attracted to, but it really has nothing to do

990
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:45,359
Speaker 2: with the looks. So I definitely don't have a type.

991
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 2: And what about you, I feel like all yours have

992
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:49,920
Speaker 2: been different too.

993
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:55,400
Speaker 1: I don't know. Like the last few, everyone's like, oh,

994
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:57,799
Speaker 1: you have a type. I think they they're the same.

995
00:46:57,880 --> 00:47:02,080
Speaker 1: When I was younger, I liked very dark, dark skin,

996
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:07,239
Speaker 1: dark hair, dark tall hands. Ez we all do everything? Yes, yes, yeah,

997
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:13,839
Speaker 1: Well I've always liked rich, handsome, charming, funny educated. That's

998
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 1: like my jam. And then in my thirties find I've.

999
00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:20,840
Speaker 2: Checked who checked off all those boxes?

1000
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 1: You' said like my mother?

1001
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:24,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, and where is he? Because why would you divorce

1002
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:26,280
Speaker 2: this guy that has all these things?

1003
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:30,120
Speaker 1: I try something funny. My mother said to my father.

1004
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 1: My father built himself a beautiful boat in Turkey, and

1005
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:37,560
Speaker 1: he brought it down here. It was all teak would

1006
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 1: it looked like a Hinkley. It was gorgeous. And my

1007
00:47:40,040 --> 00:47:43,040
Speaker 1: mother goes, I want's that down And he goes, that's

1008
00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:45,319
Speaker 1: a gentleman's boat. And she goes, why would you bring

1009
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:47,800
Speaker 1: it to Miami? There's no gentleman here?

1010
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:53,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with her. There's only a few left. Yeah,

1011
00:47:53,160 --> 00:47:54,400
Speaker 2: and they're probably all married.

1012
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:59,360
Speaker 1: So would you think it was weird if your ex

1013
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 1: married a woman that looked just like you, I.

1014
00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:05,640
Speaker 2: Would think it's weird. I mean, I would definitely think

1015
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:08,400
Speaker 2: he's still in love with me and he wants me,

1016
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:09,319
Speaker 2: but he can't have me.

1017
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:11,359
Speaker 1: I just want to know where the hell they find

1018
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 1: anybody that looks like you. I don't think there's many

1019
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:14,960
Speaker 1: people look like you or me. We have a very

1020
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:15,960
Speaker 1: different Yeah.

1021
00:48:15,880 --> 00:48:18,560
Speaker 2: We do. I mean, but sometimes just because you have

1022
00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:20,680
Speaker 2: blond hair like you know. Also if they marry somebody

1023
00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:23,919
Speaker 2: that's like tall and blonde, you know, with light eyes,

1024
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 2: will say like, oh, well, they have a resemblance. But

1025
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:28,480
Speaker 2: I mean in this case, it's like a lot like

1026
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:31,359
Speaker 2: their weight. Like, look at them. They have the same

1027
00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:34,160
Speaker 2: blonde hair. I mean, I know it's styled on purposely

1028
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:35,879
Speaker 2: the same, but they kind of do have that look.

1029
00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:38,040
Speaker 2: Look at them, they look for sure like they could

1030
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:38,520
Speaker 2: be sisters.

1031
00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 1: Yes, his first wife, Christina, he has been married like

1032
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 1: four times already. She keeps remarrying, has a baby every time.

1033
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:50,880
Speaker 1: She really snaps back with those babies. She's like that

1034
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:53,440
Speaker 1: little sports illustrated supermodel body.

1035
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:57,800
Speaker 2: Some comments are praising the healthy dynamic between the exes.

1036
00:48:58,440 --> 00:48:59,320
Speaker 2: What are your thoughts.

1037
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:02,400
Speaker 1: I think it's great. I think it's great that, you know,

1038
00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 1: if they all have kids and they're all a big

1039
00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 1: family and they get along, that's great.

1040
00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:07,920
Speaker 2: I mean, would you double date, like, for example, would

1041
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:11,680
Speaker 2: you double date with like Steve's ex wife and her

1042
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 2: boyfriend and you and Steve.

1043
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:18,560
Speaker 1: I mean not now because Steve doesn't want to And yeah,

1044
00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:21,840
Speaker 1: I have to respect my husband. No, what happenly?

1045
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:23,200
Speaker 2: What about for you?

1046
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:25,759
Speaker 1: If you, I mean for me, I've never really done

1047
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 1: that because I have never had children. I've never had

1048
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 1: to do that, and I've never just wanted to go

1049
00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:32,719
Speaker 1: hang out with an ex and my new husband or

1050
00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:33,440
Speaker 1: new boyfriend.

1051
00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:35,719
Speaker 2: Right, it's just there. To people that do, they're like,

1052
00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:39,360
Speaker 2: I've seen it. I find it weird as well, but

1053
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:41,960
Speaker 2: I've seen it many times, even like our parties that

1054
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 2: like both of their exes are there and now there

1055
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 2: are new relationships and the four of them are talking

1056
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:48,520
Speaker 2: and hanging out.

1057
00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:50,799
Speaker 1: There's a little bit of a creep factor there for sure.

1058
00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:53,160
Speaker 1: If you don't have to and there's no kids involved,

1059
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 1: then why would you.

1060
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:56,319
Speaker 2: No, And even if there's kids involved, it doesn't mean

1061
00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 2: that it involves you going out with your ex to dinner,

1062
00:49:58,880 --> 00:49:59,080
Speaker 2: you know.

1063
00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 1: Just no, no, definitely not as long as everybody gets along,

1064
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:06,680
Speaker 1: you know, for the health of everybody and the future. Yeah,

1065
00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 1: that's odd to me. Yeah, my friend, Why don't you

1066
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:13,319
Speaker 1: know this world is full of weird situations and we.

1067
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:15,640
Speaker 2: Right and no, And nowadays we find out about everything

1068
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:19,040
Speaker 2: from Instagram, so obviously they want everybody to know because

1069
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:20,960
Speaker 2: it's not like somebody snapped a picture of them.

1070
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 1: It was they curated it themselves.

1071
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:26,880
Speaker 2: I know, they like showed up to film.

1072
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:31,279
Speaker 1: With the same have the same outfits and hairdoo. There

1073
00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:33,760
Speaker 1: must have been a lot of people saying they looked alike. Yeah.

1074
00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 1: I feel bad for him. He's a he's a cancer survivor,

1075
00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:41,200
Speaker 1: and when he had cancers. Yeah, he had the split

1076
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Speaker 1: with his with his first.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, affected them a lot. It was very hard on

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Speaker 2: her as well, and I think that that's well, that

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Speaker 2: was one of the main reasons why they split up. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you know, she couldn't handle it. It's a lot to handle.

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Speaker 2: But I'm happy that they're healthy and happy and everybody's

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Speaker 2: looking good and everybody's moved on because everybody's entitled to

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Speaker 2: be happy and and their's children involved, and they look

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Speaker 2: like they're doing something right, and you know, it's it's

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Speaker 2: a new way of parenting, not a new way. I mean,

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Speaker 2: it's always existed, but what I'm trying to say, is

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Speaker 2: that it's nice. It's refreshing. You know, it's refreshing to

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Speaker 2: see this because, you know, unfortunately, a lot of times

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Speaker 2: we hear and read about, you know, the situations where

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Speaker 2: the parents don't get along. So it's nice to see

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Speaker 2: that they are getting along and they're having fun.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Absolutely, Okay, Well listen, my friend, speaking of happy

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Speaker 1: it's time for my happy hour.

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Speaker 2: So I would do my happy hour if I was

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Speaker 2: with you. I like to tape better with you at

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Speaker 2: your house.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well we will soon. We'll be taping together more soon.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Well you need to drive up here as well,

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Speaker 2: because it's not fair I drive over.

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Speaker 1: There, right. I'll be driving to you real soon.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: I love you, Okay, love you. See you next week.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, guys.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to ipel Forward Aproxima.

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