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Speaker 2: Carly is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 2: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Robbie.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and
Speaker 2: see if he'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe
Speaker 2: get her another date. But first, Carly, how long has
Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Robbie.
Speaker 3: Honestly, it's been on like a two weeks, you know
Speaker 3: what I mean, Like, it's been about well, I guess,
Speaker 3: not two weeks.
Speaker 4: It's been like almost a week.
Speaker 5: I guess.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, so long enough that you feel like you're
Speaker 1: being ghosted.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like two weeks, but I just thought about it
Speaker 4: and it's yeah, it's more like a week.
Speaker 3: Did you reach out to him though, Yeah, Like I totally.
Speaker 3: I mean I texted him. I mean so, I like,
Speaker 3: I'll tell you guys the whole story. So basically I
Speaker 3: met he was super cute. I meant, this guy Robbie
Speaker 3: on Tinder, and like, I just kind of feel like
Speaker 3: we went into it with sort of like a like
Speaker 3: a friends with benefits sort of situation, you know, like
Speaker 3: we've been like we've been really flirty and stuff and
Speaker 3: just messaging a bunch and we want on a date
Speaker 3: and minted it like a just like a random local
Speaker 3: bar and stayed like pool and darts and stuff turn
Speaker 3: into it drinking game naturally, And yeah, I was like
Speaker 3: he was just.
Speaker 4: Really flirty, you know what I mean. I was wearing darts.
Speaker 3: He was leaning over me like it was hot, you know, yeah, exactly,
Speaker 3: Like I just I haven't heard from him since that day,
Speaker 3: and I honestly think he goes to me because we
Speaker 3: both got drunk, but like he got really kind of drunk,
Speaker 3: like almost floppy drunk, you know what I mean. And
Speaker 3: I helped him get into the uber after the night
Speaker 3: because there's nowhere I was going dry.
Speaker 4: But I don't care. You know, he was super cute
Speaker 4: like it was a date.
Speaker 6: We didn't hook up or anything, but I just I
Speaker 6: didn't want to think, like be embarrassed from the night
Speaker 6: because it looks really cool.
Speaker 1: Guy.
Speaker 7: Did you say that to him? Like the next day
Speaker 7: we're like, hey, man, you're wasted, but I don't care.
Speaker 3: Well, I've been trying to but he won't get back
Speaker 3: to me. Like he literally goes to me. We communicated
Speaker 3: like a couple times a day before we went on
Speaker 3: our day, and like, you know, I texted him to
Speaker 3: see I was feeling.
Speaker 4: After that night, nothing like no response whatsoever.
Speaker 3: And like again two days later, I even tried calling
Speaker 3: him and like you know, put on makeup and like
Speaker 3: was going to sink some and see what I.
Speaker 4: Was doing, and then I left the message. But no,
Speaker 4: so nothing.
Speaker 6: I just I just really really wanted to get back
Speaker 6: in touch with them, and a lot of them know,
Speaker 6: he doesn't.
Speaker 4: Need to go to me because like it's totally cool.
Speaker 4: We're gonna should we should go to a second.
Speaker 1: Eight Would you disappear to like if you like think
Speaker 1: back to one of your nights where you were acting.
Speaker 7: A fool and got really hand.
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's been a lot of those nights actually, And no,
Speaker 2: I wouldn't disappear. I would feel like I would want
Speaker 2: to disappear, but then I wouldn't because I would just
Speaker 2: be like, well, I'll just joke about it and see
Speaker 2: if they're cool with it. But there are times where
Speaker 2: I have like not wanted to call somebody because I'm like,
Speaker 2: what did I did? Did I make a fool out
Speaker 2: of myself? Yeah, maybe better not.
Speaker 1: To face it. Yeah, Carly, is he funny? Do you
Speaker 1: think he would have been able to handle something like
Speaker 1: that with humor?
Speaker 4: I mean I think so.
Speaker 3: I only met him like the one night, and we
Speaker 3: only spoke like a couple of times before that, but
Speaker 3: I's you know, yeah, I think he would, honestly.
Speaker 2: Okay, anything else you can think of that might be
Speaker 2: a reason you're getting ghosted.
Speaker 4: No, I honestly know.
Speaker 6: I mean, that's the only thing that it can be
Speaker 6: as far as I can tell.
Speaker 1: I'm just curious about how you know that you guys
Speaker 1: were on a friends with benefits trajectory in the beginning,
Speaker 1: because then that would kind of hint towards like that
Speaker 1: he would want that to happen, or that you would
Speaker 1: have wanted that to happen.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I mean I sort of mentioned I had like recently
Speaker 3: gotten out of our relationship, and you know, he's got
Speaker 3: some like you know, he's like sort of got like
Speaker 3: big bro energy, like just you know, it just seemed
Speaker 3: like going into it was just more casual and you know,
Speaker 3: nothing too intense.
Speaker 7: Yeah, Okay, well we'll see if we can figure it out.
Speaker 2: We'll play a song and then come back and call
Speaker 2: him and see if ho tells why he's ghosting you
Speaker 2: and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 4: Okay, awesome, thank you guys.
Speaker 7: All right, well, pleas on come back and get your
Speaker 7: first day follow up next.
Speaker 2: Right in the middle of today's first date follow up
Speaker 2: and if you're just joining us, Carly is on the
Speaker 2: phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Robbie.
Speaker 2: So we're about to call him and see if you
Speaker 2: tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date.
Speaker 2: But first, Carly, why don't you catch us up on
Speaker 2: your situation.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I met this guy and Tinder.
Speaker 5: His name is Robbie.
Speaker 4: We really headed off.
Speaker 3: We went to a bar, We played games, starts school,
Speaker 3: had some drinks.
Speaker 4: It was super flirty.
Speaker 3: He got a little drunk and I put him a
Speaker 3: new bir at the end of the night and I
Speaker 3: and I want to go onto some date with him,
Speaker 3: but I think he's probably embarrassed because of our first date.
Speaker 4: But there's you know, it was just a great first day.
Speaker 4: I thought it wasn't a big deal. So yeah, even
Speaker 4: though it.
Speaker 1: Ended with him as a sloppy mess.
Speaker 4: You know, I was sort of the vibe.
Speaker 7: Well, are you ready are you ready for us to
Speaker 7: call him?
Speaker 4: Yes? Okay, thank you.
Speaker 7: Here we go.
Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, MA, speak to Robbie. Please, Hey, Robbie, how
Speaker 2: are you? My name is Jeuble. I'm calling from a
Speaker 2: radio show. It's called the Jubil Show.
Speaker 7: Yeah, Robbie, Hi, the whole show's here. I'm Nina. Hi,
Speaker 7: I'm Victoria.
Speaker 8: Hi.
Speaker 5: What's going on?
Speaker 8: You know?
Speaker 7: Not much? It sounds like you listen to the show?
Speaker 5: Yeah, double time a couple times?
Speaker 7: Sweet? Okay? Cool? Well have you ever heard of first
Speaker 7: date follow up before?
Speaker 2: Uh?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 7: Cool? How do you feel about being on one?
Speaker 5: I don't know. I guess I'm gonna wing it.
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's the second word.
Speaker 2: If you go out with somebody and end up ghosting them,
Speaker 2: they can email us to get you on the phone
Speaker 2: and ask why you're ghosting.
Speaker 7: And we got an email about you for somebody.
Speaker 5: Okay, I don't think anywhere's going?
Speaker 7: Are you Koston? Robbie?
Speaker 4: Uh?
Speaker 5: Well, went on a date with uh this chick Carly
Speaker 5: a couple of nights ago.
Speaker 7: Well, guess what he's wondering?
Speaker 5: Why I have at returned? He called?
Speaker 7: I can see how she wants to go out with
Speaker 7: you again? Exactly who it was.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 8: I don't usually do that, but it was just kind
Speaker 8: of a stick away, and you know that I didn't
Speaker 8: feel like it was weird because I mean, her on
Speaker 8: her profile, she was like, I mean, she didn't look.
Speaker 5: Anything like her picture on her profile. That was my
Speaker 5: biggest thing.
Speaker 8: It's like, you know, our profiles is all blonde and
Speaker 8: light makeup and stuff like that, and then you know, I.
Speaker 5: Show up and she's like dark haired, dark makeup. I
Speaker 5: mean she was.
Speaker 8: Telling me, you know, uh, Robbie, Margot, Margot Robbie.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, she was. Yeah, she was telling me Margot Robbie.
Speaker 8: And I show up and it's it's kardasking, you know,
Speaker 8: and it was just I don't know, it was just's
Speaker 8: weird take eyelashes, takes on makeup and stuff and look, I.
Speaker 5: Mean, look, I'm not gonna I feel.
Speaker 8: Embarrassed Aboudy even saying anything about her way because I
Speaker 8: like Kurby Girl.
Speaker 5: But she had at least ten pounds on the pictures
Speaker 5: she had on her profile.
Speaker 1: Okay, so she just didn't look anything like her profile.
Speaker 8: No, It's like like she was like all those pictures
Speaker 8: on her profile from were like years ago and now
Speaker 8: she just kind of resembles those pictures. I don't know
Speaker 8: she basically, I feel like she lied to me, you know,
Speaker 8: and uh, you know, I got so hammered. You know,
Speaker 8: I didn't even want to hook up at the end.
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, I'm sorry, but are you serious?
Speaker 4: Are you actually serious? Right now?
Speaker 7: Robbie?
Speaker 2: That's Carly. She's actually on the phone and surprised.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Hi Carly, Yeah, hi, Robbie.
Speaker 3: Noticed like in your lifetime, let me change her hair
Speaker 3: color all the time.
Speaker 8: Like I also changed her profile pictures too, don't they.
Speaker 3: Yeah, nobody changed their prople pictures on tenders.
Speaker 4: Like seriously, that that is what are you talking about?
Speaker 5: Dude? That isn't mean?
Speaker 4: And I was now I have dark hair, Yeah it was.
Speaker 5: You know, it's a vagon clisch sort of deal.
Speaker 4: No, I mean, we're just gonna hang out and howk up?
Speaker 4: Like what is your problem?
Speaker 5: You feel like?
Speaker 8: You know, it's just I feel like, you know, I
Speaker 8: don't even know it is your name even really Carly?
Speaker 5: You know, I mean I feel like I was dupe.
Speaker 4: That's so absurd.
Speaker 5: Wait, we're gonna look up wow wow. He's like, yeah,
Speaker 5: well I'm not in it anymore. Obviously you're not bad,
Speaker 5: I mean accute and everything. I mean, we can still
Speaker 5: look up that.
Speaker 4: Seriously, screw you, No, how dare you? I'm not what
Speaker 4: is wrong with you? Seriously, you're sad.
Speaker 5: Too, because you know, I mean, okay, your profile.
Speaker 7: Robbie's gotten really creepy.
Speaker 1: But for the role of I think that your profile
Speaker 1: pictures should be at least within the last like year.
Speaker 5: No, thank you.
Speaker 4: I just I don't see why. I'm not honestly, I
Speaker 4: don't if it's within a year and.
Speaker 6: It's literally just like wand of dark I mean, it
Speaker 6: really is not a big deal.
Speaker 3: And that shouldn't have You shouldn't have ghosted me over
Speaker 3: dark hair, dude.
Speaker 7: I mean that's true too. That is also true if
Speaker 7: it was all within the same year.
Speaker 3: You know, Robbie, you're like a bona fide You're actually
Speaker 3: big broke. So I'm glad that I got my answer,
Speaker 3: and I'm glad that I figured out why you were
Speaker 3: ghosting me.
Speaker 4: It's because you stuck, you actually really stuck.
Speaker 2: I still have to ask, Robbie, would you like to
Speaker 2: go on another day with Carly?
Speaker 7: We'll pay for it.
Speaker 8: Well, you know, oh no, not not really and I
Speaker 8: mean I would, Carly.
Speaker 5: But I mean I'm gonna be honest. I think it
Speaker 5: is kind of cute.
Speaker 7: Is cute?
Speaker 5: I have dark hair, Robbie, Okay, I can see the pictures.
Speaker 7: Nina, will you go with Robbie? Will pay for her?
Speaker 7: I'm good, but thanks? So who what?
Speaker 2: Well, Carly, I'm sorry or happy that no second day
Speaker 2: for you?
Speaker 4: Well, thanks guys for Dad. I mean, I'm sair. I
Speaker 4: appreciate it. Robbie, Seriously, I hope you do some soul searching. Dude,
Speaker 4: I hope you do some serious soul searching. Have a
Speaker 4: good life.
Speaker 5: I hope you change your proof of pictures.
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