Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
Speaker 1: online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2: Michayla is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jason.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and
Speaker 2: see if you'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe
Speaker 2: get her another date. But first, Mikayla, how long has
Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Jason.
Speaker 3: It's been two weeks.
Speaker 4: We had been like talking very regularly before that, so
Speaker 4: this is not common like for us to go days
Speaker 4: without like.
Speaker 3: Talking like this.
Speaker 5: Did you try to talk to you?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I mean, oh, so I texted him after a date
Speaker 4: and he sent me a one word response and then nothing.
Speaker 3: I was like, how is your day? And he was
Speaker 3: like good, and I was like sick.
Speaker 2: That always feels like a middle finger, like after you
Speaker 2: asked me a question and all you get back is good.
Speaker 5: Well, how is the date? Though? Was the date good?
Speaker 3: Amazing?
Speaker 5: Okay?
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, it lasted for like.
Speaker 5: Ever it lasted for.
Speaker 4: It was a long date, it was it was We
Speaker 4: did like a lot of different things, so we like
Speaker 4: we met at the mall, which I At first, I
Speaker 4: was like, this is a little weird, but it was
Speaker 4: because he'd coordinated with the pet store to let us
Speaker 4: play with the puppies.
Speaker 5: That's so sweet.
Speaker 4: Yes, they like never do that, but I guess he
Speaker 4: like knows the owner or the manager or something and
Speaker 4: so and I was like, oh, okay, So I felt
Speaker 4: very special and I gotta play with the puppies and
Speaker 4: I love puppies, and so that was wonderful. And we
Speaker 4: just like cuddled with puppies and like talked for like
Speaker 4: the longest time, and yeah, and.
Speaker 3: He is like so cute with the puppies.
Speaker 4: And then like we went to the cheesecake Factory, which
Speaker 4: is like one of my favorite because I just I'm
Speaker 4: like obsessed with the avocado.
Speaker 3: Egg rolls, like genuinely.
Speaker 4: Then like we were, you know, like we'd finished eating,
Speaker 4: and he was like, I really don't want like to
Speaker 4: say goodbye yet, like I'm not really ready for it
Speaker 4: to end. And he's like, I have a couple of
Speaker 4: like Aaron's run over're at Target, like there's a few
Speaker 4: things I need to get, Like would you want to
Speaker 4: go with me?
Speaker 3: Is that weird? And I was like, oh no, I
Speaker 3: would love to go with you. Thank you.
Speaker 4: Wait so you hit puppies the cheesecake factory and all
Speaker 4: day one day.
Speaker 3: Right, I was like this is beautiful.
Speaker 4: I'm like you can tell a lot by Peruson like
Speaker 4: what they get when they go to Target and.
Speaker 3: Like how they do the Target experience.
Speaker 4: And I was very impressed by like what he got,
Speaker 4: Like he was getting like Method surface cleaner, so like
Speaker 4: obviously he likes to keep things really clean, and like
Speaker 4: that's important, you know, because like a lot of guys
Speaker 4: don't clean. And he bought toilet paper, you know, Like
Speaker 4: I was like, okay, so he feels comfortable around me,
Speaker 4: and he like he gets good toilet paper, which like
Speaker 4: a lot of guys I feel like, get really cheap,
Speaker 4: scratchy toilet paper, and you're like, I never want to
Speaker 4: go to the bathroom when I'm over at your house.
Speaker 4: And he got really nice, like very soft toilet paper.
Speaker 3: And so okay, okay, he takes care of himself. Okay.
Speaker 3: But then like after Target, it kind of felt like
Speaker 3: he was rushed. He was like, oh, I really got
Speaker 3: back home.
Speaker 4: I really check out my dog, which I totally understand,
Speaker 4: but then it kind of felt like he was like
Speaker 4: trying to get away from me, and he like he
Speaker 4: took me to my car that was back at the mall,
Speaker 4: but I just kind of felt like he was like
Speaker 4: like something changed and maybe he was like ready to,
Speaker 4: like I don't know, get out of there, which made
Speaker 4: me feel like maybe I did something wrong, Like maybe
Speaker 4: I mess something up. Like I was kind of like
Speaker 4: ribbing him and like teasing him a bit, and like,
Speaker 4: you know, when we got back to the car, like
Speaker 4: I was kind of teasing him about the soft toilet paper,
Speaker 4: and it was kind of I was trying to be
Speaker 4: like flirty and cute and like joky, and I'm like
Speaker 4: worried that it like came across like demeaning or like
Speaker 4: weird or mean.
Speaker 5: Or oh well, what did you say, Like how did
Speaker 5: it become demeaning?
Speaker 4: Well, I was just like, Sweety needs extra sauce for
Speaker 4: his extra cute bumb bumbs, and I was trying to
Speaker 4: be cutesy, and I.
Speaker 3: Don't you know, sometimes they hand some sometimes he miss
Speaker 3: the mark.
Speaker 4: And now I'm like and then that was kind of
Speaker 4: when he was like, yeah, I really need to get
Speaker 4: back and check on my dog.
Speaker 3: And I was like, yeah, I feel the maybe, but
Speaker 3: I don't feel like that war is like completely goost.
Speaker 6: Yeah, like you know obviously, I know I we had
Speaker 6: so much fun so for such a long time them
Speaker 6: just like, Okay, so I said one stupid thing, I'm
Speaker 6: gonna say.
Speaker 3: A lot of stupid things. The one stupid thing ruined it.
Speaker 5: We'll see if we can figure it out for you.
Speaker 2: We'll play a song come back, and then call him
Speaker 2: and see if he'll tell us why is ghosting you?
Speaker 5: And maybe get you another date?
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, thank you, Okay, plas song, come back and
Speaker 2: get your first day follow up next. Right in the
Speaker 2: middle of your first date follow up, if you're just
Speaker 2: joining us, Mikayla is on the phone and she's getting
Speaker 2: ghosted by Jason. So we're about to call him and
Speaker 2: see if he'll tell us why is ghostinger and maybe
Speaker 2: get her another date. But first, Mikayla, why don't you
Speaker 2: refresh our memory on your date with Jason.
Speaker 3: I mean, we had an amazing date.
Speaker 4: We played with puppies, we had amazing avocado egg rolls,
Speaker 4: and then we went and wandered the streets or the
Speaker 4: streets the aisles of Target, and I mean, like it
Speaker 4: doesn't get better than that.
Speaker 5: Right, Yeah.
Speaker 2: And the only thing you can think of that he's
Speaker 2: not calling you back is because of what I.
Speaker 3: Teached him about his toilet paper selection.
Speaker 4: And I said that he needed extra soft toilet paper
Speaker 4: for his extra cute bumbum.
Speaker 3: I can't believe I'm saying this.
Speaker 5: I'm going to lose my mind.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you told him you had to extra
Speaker 2: cute bum bum. You should like that.
Speaker 3: I can't believe it.
Speaker 4: And then now I can't believe that I've had to
Speaker 4: repeat it the world. I'm like, oh God, everybody knows.
Speaker 5: Ok. Are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 5: Okay, here we go. Hi, ma sweak to Jason? Please?
Speaker 2: Yeah, human, Hey Jason, how are you? My name is Jewbel.
Speaker 2: I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 5: Hi, Jason, the show's here. I'm Nina also on it. Fine,
Speaker 5: I'm Victoria. Hi.
Speaker 7: What can I do for you?
Speaker 8: Guys?
Speaker 5: Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 4: I have not.
Speaker 7: But you know what, Actually, I have seen your clips
Speaker 7: on tik tok so I am love actually, but I've
Speaker 7: seen a couple of clips.
Speaker 2: That's dope. Okay, Well, congratulations you're on the show. We
Speaker 2: do a segment on the show called the First Day
Speaker 2: follow Up. That's where if you go out on a
Speaker 2: day with somebody and you end up ghosting them, that
Speaker 2: person can ask us to call you and ask why
Speaker 2: you're ghosting?
Speaker 5: So are you ghosting anybody?
Speaker 7: Okay, yeah, I sure, Listen is going look, yeah I am,
Speaker 7: I am. I'm ghosting a girl who is a she's
Speaker 7: a bit of a kleptough. So that's kind of the
Speaker 7: big crux of it, to be honest with you.
Speaker 5: Okay, are you talking about MICHAELA?
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I was gonna see if we can clarify.
Speaker 7: Okay, I am, let me, let me just kind of.
Speaker 7: So we went to Target and she only had a purse,
Speaker 7: so you know, I saw what she was carrying, and
Speaker 7: she was right next to me the whole time. We
Speaker 7: got into the car, and she had this huge thing
Speaker 7: of orbit gum that she offered me and I said
Speaker 7: where did she get that from? And said, oh, I
Speaker 7: bought it. And I am absolutely positive she did not
Speaker 7: buy anything in the Parian. I'm almost positive she she shoplifted.
Speaker 7: And I'm not cool with that because I mean, how
Speaker 7: do I know that You're not gonna, you know, give
Speaker 7: me like stolen goods for my birthday or something.
Speaker 1: You know, she absolutely did. She absolutely took it with her,
Speaker 1: but it seemed because she didn't she didn't pay for it.
Speaker 1: She stood next to me when I.
Speaker 7: Checked out and walked out and me she said, oh, yeah,
Speaker 7: I bought it. I'm like, no, you didn't.
Speaker 3: She just took it.
Speaker 7: So listen, that was her explanation. And I don't like
Speaker 7: people that lie. I don't want people that shoplift. I
Speaker 7: think that's you know, weird at the sticking gum.
Speaker 8: So, I don't know, it.
Speaker 7: Made me feel weird, you know. I I don't want
Speaker 7: to go on a date that.
Speaker 3: I can guarantee you that I did pay for that. Yes,
Speaker 3: yes I did.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's MICHAELA. She's actually on the phone listening and.
Speaker 7: Great, great, great, great.
Speaker 8: You know what.
Speaker 7: I'm actually, I'm actually glad she's on the phone because
Speaker 7: I think that, uh, this will probably steer her away from,
Speaker 7: you know, a life of crime. This will probably make
Speaker 7: her maybe a little bit more embarrassed about, you know,
Speaker 7: her conduct. The first time you meet somebody, I'm kind
Speaker 7: of surprised you didn't make off with the puppy when
Speaker 7: we were you know, trying out.
Speaker 3: You should be embarrassed by your con your conduct.
Speaker 4: You're just assuming that I stole it, But maybe you
Speaker 4: were just a little too busy paying attention to your fancies.
Speaker 4: Mans he tolet paper this way, I bought some gums.
Speaker 7: No, no, I'm not. You were at cashed with the
Speaker 7: hips to me basically the entire time, following me around
Speaker 7: like a poppy. Actually, so I did not see you
Speaker 7: check out or anything.
Speaker 3: You know what, Let me see it.
Speaker 4: Let me look, thurman. I'm sure I have a receipt.
Speaker 4: I have the freaking app. So even if I don't
Speaker 4: have this physical copy, I.
Speaker 7: Know I will have it.
Speaker 3: It's the darker app.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 7: It actually will be better if you just admitted that
Speaker 7: you took it, because I think that if at this
Speaker 7: point your kind of just denying, denying, and it's not
Speaker 7: really taking you any more appealing to me.
Speaker 3: Yeah, hello, yeah, I did.
Speaker 4: I found it, and I found the physical copy, so
Speaker 4: you don't think that I bought it on a different
Speaker 4: day if I send you an app, so I'm gonna
Speaker 4: send you this right now.
Speaker 3: Your twit.
Speaker 7: Okay, yes'm guys, I'm I'm so devastated to call me
Speaker 7: a Twitter I don't know how I'm ever going to
Speaker 7: recover from this. Really, I don't know how I'm going.
Speaker 3: To recover from you.
Speaker 8: Just call me a twit twit guys, you call me
Speaker 8: a twitter that is, yes, I've never called the Twitter crazy.
Speaker 3: Right now, I'm lady, Uh.
Speaker 5: Huh, You're gonna feel bad if the.
Speaker 3: Yeah, look at look at your tack.
Speaker 7: Okay, well, I guess I'm wrong. I do see it here.
Speaker 5: So he does say that she bought it?
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, it does. But yeah, all right, Well, look
Speaker 7: I'm wrong, and when you're wrong, that you're wrong. So
Speaker 7: I am sorry about that. I really was convinced, obviously,
Speaker 7: because you know when you're when you're convinced, you stick
Speaker 7: to your convictions.
Speaker 5: Well why did you jump to that, you know, because.
Speaker 7: I really did not remember a single instance where she
Speaker 7: was not next to me. I didn't remember seeing her
Speaker 7: pay for it, so the reasoning was there. So I
Speaker 7: am sorry. I was wrong, totally am that.
Speaker 5: You don't think she's a thief?
Speaker 7: Now, I no, no.
Speaker 3: That was a little exciting.
Speaker 5: Jason. Would you like to go on another date with Mika?
Speaker 5: We'll pay for it?
Speaker 7: I don't Yeah, well, I mean yeah, no, I actually would.
Speaker 7: I actually would because he's very cute and like, yeah, no,
Speaker 7: Like I am like very sorry about that. Like, well,
Speaker 7: when I really believe something, I go in hard on it.
Speaker 7: And I was definitely on this step by me. But
Speaker 7: I would like another chance because I am sorry about that.
Speaker 7: And up until that thing kind of sent me down
Speaker 7: a rabbit hole, I was having a really nice time.
Speaker 7: I really enjoyed, you know, getting to know her and
Speaker 7: you know, go to Target and kind of just walk
Speaker 7: around and have a nice time and bop around with
Speaker 7: you know, puppies and whatnot. She probably told you about it,
Speaker 7: but we had a great time. I brought her to
Speaker 7: a pet store and it was it was fun, and
Speaker 7: I would like I would like to see her again.
Speaker 7: And I would be bummed if you know, this was
Speaker 7: what ruined in some stupid you.
Speaker 5: Know, jumping to like the worst case scenario. Okay, well, Mikayla,
Speaker 5: would you like to go on a date with him? Still?
Speaker 4: I would like to see him again because I did
Speaker 4: think he was really cool. But like, you have to
Speaker 4: give people the benefit of the doubt before you jump
Speaker 4: to conclusions and called them something like a thief, like
Speaker 4: that is a very far leak to make, especially before.
Speaker 3: Somebody that you just met.
Speaker 4: So I am willing to give you a second chance
Speaker 4: if you are willing to be.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 4: I guess a little bit more open minded and give yeah,
Speaker 4: and give people.
Speaker 7: Great. Absolutely again, I really am sorry, and I really
Speaker 7: appreciate the second chap. I really did, actually, so thank you.
Speaker 2: Okay, great, well you've got a second date. Congratulations Mikayla
Speaker 2: and Jason. You know she's not a thief now, yay.
Speaker 7: I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: Oh good, you
Speaker 5: Will the first date to follow up