1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 2 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com. 3 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 2: Jenna is on the phone today and she's getting ghosted 4 00:00:09,760 --> 00:00:11,479 Speaker 2: by a dude named Pete. We're gonna help her find 5 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 2: out why in just a second. But first, Jenna, how 6 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:14,920 Speaker 2: long has it been since you heard from Pete. 7 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:18,480 Speaker 3: It's been a week or so, I'd say. 8 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:21,080 Speaker 4: And how many times have you reached out to him? 9 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 3: I reached out a few times. I haven't heard anything. 10 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 3: You know, we had a great first date. We met 11 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:32,199 Speaker 3: at a sports bar. I met him on Hinge and 12 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:35,280 Speaker 3: then we found that that we have some mutual friends, 13 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 3: and you know, they were like, yeah, you guys definitely 14 00:00:38,880 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 3: need to hang out. 15 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 2: So you met him on Hinge and then you found 16 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 2: out you had mutual friends, and then you told your 17 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 2: friends and they were like, yeah, you guys would be 18 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 2: a good fit. 19 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, so tell us about the date. 20 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 3: So we went to the sports bar. You know, our 21 00:00:56,400 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 3: mutual friends both said that we're laid back, so we 22 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 3: both decided to just go to a sports bar, get 23 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 3: some wings and some beers, and you know, he was 24 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 3: such a gentleman the whole time. He opened the door 25 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:17,759 Speaker 3: for me, and he even let out my chair. That's 26 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 3: never happened before. And I just don't know. He's super hot. 27 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 3: He's like a ten out of ten a gentleman is 28 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 3: super good looking. So I'm really into him. I was 29 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 3: a personality, great personality. I mean, his mannerisms were a one. 30 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:37,560 Speaker 1: You know. 31 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 3: The thing is I noticed he was using a napkin 32 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 3: when eating the wings. And the only thing I can 33 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 3: think about why he goes to me was maybe I 34 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 3: was like licking my fingers when I was eating my 35 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 3: wings that minor grossed them. 36 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 5: Rather than using a napkin or like washing them. 37 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, he was like, he's me a Napkhan. He was 38 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 3: really like prim improper. I wanted to think, like, I'm 39 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 3: this gross girl. 40 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 4: He's the weird one. In my opinion, You're supposed to 41 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 4: like your fingers after you eat wings, right right, yeah right. 42 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 3: I mean give me some tea that they were good. 43 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 2: That's the only thing you can think of is maybe 44 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:21,080 Speaker 2: he thought that you were a barbarian because you were 45 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 2: licking your fingers instead of using a napkin like a 46 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 2: classy lad. 47 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 3: That's the only thing I can think about. So what 48 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 3: was your last interaction like I texted him to let 49 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:33,800 Speaker 3: him know, like, what a great date, and he just 50 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 3: never responded. I mean the end of the day, it 51 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 3: was great. 52 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 4: You know, did you like kiss or anything? 53 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:43,800 Speaker 3: We did. We had a little small It wasn't like, 54 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 3: you know, tongueing down, but the conversation was really well. 55 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:52,640 Speaker 3: I mean, he talked about his grandparents and how he 56 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:58,080 Speaker 3: admired their relationship, and we talked about music. We have 57 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 3: a lot of artists that we like, some of the 58 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:04,079 Speaker 3: same artists and. 59 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 4: Music compatibility is really important on a date. 60 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 3: Right. It was pretty light, laid back. I mean what 61 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 3: really got me is that he was just such a gentleman. 62 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, I've never had that before, Okay. 63 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 3: Never, and he completely ghosted me. 64 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:22,679 Speaker 5: Okay, we'll see if we can figure it out. 65 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:24,919 Speaker 2: We'll play a song come back, and then call him 66 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 2: and then ask him why he's ghosting you and see 67 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:29,119 Speaker 2: if he tells us, and then maybe get you another 68 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 2: date if you still want one. Okay, okay, all right, 69 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 2: we'll play a song, come back and get your first 70 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 2: day follow up, next. 71 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 1: First date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 72 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 1: online at advocateslaw dot com. 73 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first day follow up. 74 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 2: Jenna is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by Pete. 75 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 2: So we're about to call him and see if we 76 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 2: can figure out why he's getting ghosted and maybe get 77 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 2: her another date if she's still into it after she 78 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 2: hears the reason. Before we do that, though, Jenna, why 79 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 2: don't you catch everybody up on your time with Pete? 80 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 3: My time with Pete was incredible. Fall He's an awesome guy. 81 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 3: He's everything that I'm looking for in a man. He's 82 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 3: really good looking, and I just don't know what happened. 83 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 3: I text him and never heard anything back from him. 84 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 3: We just have so much in common, common friends, common music. 85 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 5: I mean, he's a user. 86 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:27,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that that was the issue. If I 87 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:31,919 Speaker 3: had to assume I was licking my fingers when I 88 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:35,279 Speaker 3: was eating my chicken wings, he was using the napkin, So. 89 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:37,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, the only weird thing about that would 90 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:38,919 Speaker 2: have been if you would have grabbed his napkin and 91 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 2: then licked the napkin clean as well. I don't see 92 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 2: that it's a weird thing. All right, We're about to 93 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 2: call him, you ready, Yeah, I'm ready? 94 00:04:46,960 --> 00:05:00,599 Speaker 5: Okay, here we go. I mean to Pete please. 95 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, hey. 96 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:05,720 Speaker 2: Pete, how are you? My name is Jewbel hosts a 97 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:07,480 Speaker 2: radio show and it's called The Jewbel Show. 98 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, hi Pete. The show is here as well. My 99 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 4: name is Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria. Hi. 100 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 5: How's it going? 101 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:15,840 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean it's going. 102 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:16,280 Speaker 3: Okay. 103 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 6: What's what's going on? 104 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 5: Have you ever listened to the show before? 105 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:22,479 Speaker 6: Yeah? No, I've listened to the show. And I mean, 106 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 6: did I win something? I mean that would be great. 107 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:29,719 Speaker 2: Maybe you could have won something. I'm not really sure yet. Okay, 108 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 2: I'm not sure if you were heard a first date 109 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:34,040 Speaker 2: follow up before. But that's where if you go out 110 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 2: on a date with somebody and then you get ghosted, 111 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 2: you can email us to get that person on the 112 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 2: phone and ask why you're getting ghosted. So you are 113 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:44,039 Speaker 2: currently ghosting somebody and they want to know why. 114 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 6: Oh, okay, who am I ghosting? 115 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 4: You don't know who you're ghosting. I'm on any dates 116 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 4: and just stop talking to somebody recently. 117 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:58,159 Speaker 6: Oh, you guys are talking about Jenna Orange you yes, 118 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 6: so yeah, no Jenner. I mean, don't get me wrong. 119 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 6: I had a lot of fun on the date. You know. 120 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 6: I I thought we you know, shared a bunch of 121 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:13,919 Speaker 6: mutual interests, and she seemed very engaged in everything. But 122 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:17,840 Speaker 6: I don't know what happened, but a couple drinks in 123 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 6: and she starts calling me Steve, and I understand that, 124 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 6: you know, Pete and Steve kind of sound the same. 125 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 6: Definitely have you know, certain consonants at play here, So 126 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 6: I don't know why, and I kind of I was 127 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 6: trying to like write it off, you know, but yeah, no, 128 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 6: she she kept calling me Steve, and it was it 129 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 6: was a turnoff. It kind of it seemed disrespectful. I 130 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 6: don't know, she has a thing for a guy named Steve, 131 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 6: was still hung up on somebody. 132 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:51,599 Speaker 5: I don't know. 133 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 4: Did you say anything to her when she called you Steve? 134 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 4: Did you correct her? Did you ask? 135 00:06:57,640 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 3: At first, she was like slurring her words. 136 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 6: Well didn't. Don't get me wrong, Like I you know, 137 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 6: I can hold my own when it comes to alcohol, 138 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 6: and I've dealt with a couple of lightweights in my day, 139 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 6: so I didn't think much of it. But then I realized, 140 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 6: you know, yeah, it wasn't any kind of mistake she was. 141 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 6: She was definitely saying Steve over and over again. So 142 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 6: I just it really started to wear on me. I 143 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 6: didn't want to say anything, and I didn't want to 144 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 6: also like cause any kind of scene. I didn't want 145 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 6: to be disrespectful to her because she was, you know, 146 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 6: getting more and more intoxic kid and whatnot. So I 147 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:31,320 Speaker 6: just decided to call it there. One time, I was 148 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 6: trying to get things back on track, and I was 149 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 6: like telling her a story about, you know, trying to 150 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 6: throw my name in there. I was like, you know, 151 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 6: a friend was like, hey, Pete, and I was like yeah, 152 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:42,680 Speaker 6: and they were like, Pete, can you do this for me? 153 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 4: You know. 154 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 6: I was trying to like reiterate and she wasn't getting 155 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 6: a hitt and I don't know. So that's why I 156 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 6: haven't followed up. That's why I haven't like returned to 157 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 6: any text or anything, just because I felt a bit disrespected, 158 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 6: a bit dejected, because you know, I don't want her 159 00:07:57,680 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 6: mistake made for some other dude. 160 00:07:59,000 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 4: You know. 161 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 5: All right, Well, thanks for telling us, Steve. 162 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 2: Appreciate that, Thank you, thanks for that. 163 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 6: That's great. Now, your entire listenership, I appreciate that. My 164 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 6: name is Pete. 165 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 2: Pete on the record, got you Pete, Well, I guess 166 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 2: what on the record, Jenna is actually on the phone too, 167 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 2: and she's listening and wants to talk to you. 168 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 5: She's goodness, brilliant. 169 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, Hi, and I Jenna. 170 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 5: It's Pete. 171 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 3: Hi, Pete. I'm so sorry. I was super nervous on 172 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 3: our date, and I apologize completely. Steve is my boss 173 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 3: and I'm with oh all day and it's just kind 174 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:46,520 Speaker 3: of by default. I don't want to say anything because 175 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 3: we're on the radio and he might be listening in 176 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:54,240 Speaker 3: so great boss, But yeah, I work a lot, and 177 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 3: I'm I try to do my job as best as 178 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:00,960 Speaker 3: I can, so I'm I'm a little of a workaholic. 179 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:03,320 Speaker 3: So please forgive me. I know your name is Pete, 180 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 3: and I just asked for a second chance to get 181 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:07,800 Speaker 3: it right. 182 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 5: I'm sorry. 183 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:10,960 Speaker 4: I can't get over this boss thing, Victoria. Can you 184 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 4: imagine going on a date and calling Somedjuble if you 185 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 4: text me to ask me questions? I purposely later, I know, Jenna, 186 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:23,360 Speaker 4: when your nervous things happen. But that's so funny. 187 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 3: I know I would have never imagined that was the reason. 188 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 3: I'm so sorry. How many times did I call you, Steve? 189 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 6: I mean I lost count after the first eleven. 190 00:09:37,520 --> 00:09:39,440 Speaker 5: You went in on the Steve. 191 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 4: Oh my god, you probably called them Steve more times 192 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 4: than you call them Pete, I admitted late. 193 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 6: No, I can appreciate, you know, the work ethic and everything, 194 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:52,320 Speaker 6: and I can appreciate. 195 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 3: Having a hard boss. 196 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:58,319 Speaker 6: So that is I'm glad it's not next that that's understandable. 197 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not in to anybody. I have no one 198 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:07,839 Speaker 3: in my life. I'm totally interested in seeing where things 199 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 3: go with you and I. So just to make that clear. 200 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 5: Pete, would you like to go out with Jenna again 201 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 5: on another date? We'll pay for it. 202 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:17,680 Speaker 6: You know that sounds that sounds like a lot of fun. 203 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:19,600 Speaker 6: I did have fun on the day of Jenna. And 204 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 6: you know, just as long as there are no other 205 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 6: names tossed around besides Pete and Jenna that then then 206 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 6: I'm okay, that's fine. 207 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 2: We'll find a place to send you that involves name tags. 208 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 2: Just to be safe, bring your own. Hell my name is. 209 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, Please let's go. 210 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 1: Jubile's first day follow up powered by the Advocates Injury 211 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:47,200 Speaker 1: Attorney Online at Advocates Law dot com.