1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,640 Speaker 1: This is the Bread Show. Let's get you hotel a 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:05,600 Speaker 1: trip for tun to see Jennifer Lopez her brand new 3 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 1: Las Vegas residency. Jennifer Lopez Up All Night Live in 4 00:00:09,520 --> 00:00:12,960 Speaker 1: Las Vegas March thirteenth, twenty twenty six, at the Coliseum 5 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:17,079 Speaker 1: at Caesar's Palace. Text Lopez to three seven three three 6 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:19,760 Speaker 1: seven right now for a chance to win two tickets 7 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 1: to the March thirteenth show at ten at hotels Day 8 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:25,759 Speaker 1: March twelve through the fourteenth at the Flamingo Hotel Casino, 9 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: Las Vegas and Ron Trevert Fair. A confirmation text will 10 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 1: be sent. Dennered message and data rates may apply. All 11 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: thanks to Live Nations. Tickets are on sale now at 12 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 1: ticketmaster dot com for all shows running December thirtieth through 13 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 1: January third, and March sixth through the twenty eighth Threeswatherspoon, 14 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:44,199 Speaker 1: she was probably in the top five of celebrities in 15 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 1: like film or TV that made me feel a certain 16 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 1: kind of way as a teenager. 17 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 2: Her parents met on you Know what movie The Men Ran. 18 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:52,560 Speaker 1: Cruel Intentions, one of the one of the horniest movies 19 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 1: ever made sow which I'm sure now it looks ridiculous 20 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 1: In retrospect. But at the time, I was just like, 21 00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: oh my god, I can't believe that. I can't believe 22 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 1: we're doing this on the movie. I can't believe we're 23 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 1: allowed to watch. I think I was, like, I think 24 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 1: I was I don't know, twelve. I was pretty young 25 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 1: when this movie came out, I think. But I would 26 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: have to say it was Kelly Kapowski first on Saved 27 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 1: by the Bell, Tiffany season, Yeah, no longer Amber, And 28 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 1: then I would say maybe maybe somebody on nine on 29 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 1: two one, oh, because I'm disasdating me now It's this 30 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 1: early nineties. Remember I'm young. I'm like just discovering, you know, 31 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 1: things are just starting to tingled. And then she that 32 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: movie definitely was like wow, Wow, Wow. Was more into 33 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 1: Reese than I liked Reese, and I liked Sarah Michelle 34 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 1: Michelle Gell. I liked him both. Sarah Michelle Geller was 35 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 1: a bad girl in that movie. She was not naughty one. 36 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:43,760 Speaker 2: I'm innocent, right, I don't know. 37 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: I don't know, but they both made me feel a 38 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 1: certain kind of way. Who was it for you? Immediately? 39 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 1: Enrique Glessies, who comes to mind for you? 40 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 3: Honestly? 41 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: Bad buddy, no, who comes to mind for you immediately 42 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: like growing up right? 43 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 4: So you know full House DJ Tanner's boyfriend Steve that 44 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 4: was like my guy win a minute boyfriend because he 45 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 4: would come to the house and his whole thing was 46 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 4: like he'd eat all the food in the fridge and 47 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 4: he was like the jacket school. 48 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 2: But he was dating DJ Tanner. 49 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:11,360 Speaker 1: Oh that guy. Yeah, I don't know it was being hail. 50 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 1: I know their relationship began in high school and continued 51 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 1: throughout this series, culminating in their engagement to be married 52 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 1: in Fuller House. Yeah, okay, who was it for you? Kiki? 53 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 1: The first thing you remember the first when it comes 54 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 1: to mind. 55 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 5: Stephan from the Steve Arkle Show, so like not arcle, 56 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 5: but when he would turn into Stefan, he like that, Yes, yes, yes. 57 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 1: I saw him at the airport once on Southwest Airlines 58 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 1: checking his own bags and I was like wow, And 59 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 1: this was like kind of back in the day when 60 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:45,079 Speaker 1: he was famous. He's famous for flying Southvist Airlines, so 61 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 1: he's like one of these guys. I guess that doesn't 62 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 1: blow all his money. Good for him. I was just like, WHOA, 63 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:51,919 Speaker 1: that's crazy. I got a lot of weird celebrity sort 64 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: of things like like that night that we were at 65 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:58,359 Speaker 1: a concert and uh, what's his face? Uncle Joey from 66 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 1: Full House was in dressing room of the Emo band. 67 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, we took him to a boss bar. 68 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:05,079 Speaker 1: He went to Boss Born and then he went to 69 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 1: Boss Bar with us, and I was like trying to 70 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:08,119 Speaker 1: We were a little drunk, and I was like telling 71 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:09,919 Speaker 1: all the bartenders, I'm like, do you know who this is? 72 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:12,080 Speaker 1: And nobody knew who he was? And he was At 73 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 1: one point he was like you can stop doing that 74 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 1: because this generation has no idea who I am. I'm like, dude, 75 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 1: you are the most famous person on this block by 76 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:21,919 Speaker 1: a mile. You know what I'm saying, Like, dude, you 77 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 1: were all one of the most iconic TV shows at 78 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 1: full House. 79 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, he wasn't trying to talk about it then. No, 80 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 2: he was not really quick. 81 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:30,519 Speaker 1: Selfie with him, but that was that was another random 82 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:33,079 Speaker 1: I'm just like, what is happening? Who is it? What 83 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: are we doing? Where are we? Who was it for you? 84 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 2: Leo and Titanic? He made me realize I was mostly straight, 85 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 2: Like when he put that like cigarette in his mouth. 86 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 3: Oh. 87 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, honest question. I'm not even being funny. Was it 88 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 1: a guy or a girl friend? 89 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 6: It was kind of split because I didn't really know 90 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 6: what was going on, But I think it was for 91 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:54,839 Speaker 6: the guys it was Brian Latreue from the Backship Boyce. 92 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 6: It was like my guy. But for girls, I always 93 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 6: had a cushi on Jennifer. It like she was like 94 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 6: the first girl that I was like, Oh my god, she's. 95 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 1: Everybody thought she was. Everyone tried to get with her hot. 96 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 1: Her body's a wonderland. Am I The only fun fact 97 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 1: about Jennifer left Hewett that I know. I said that 98 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:16,640 Speaker 1: that song we've written about her, Wow supposedly makes sense. Yeah, anyway, 99 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 1: Amanda says, boy meets world. Ben Savage, I think that 100 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 1: was true for a lot of people. Malcolm from Malcolm 101 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 1: in the Middle actually a good one eight five five 102 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 1: five nine one three five call in text the same number. 103 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 1: I'm just curious, first, the first thing that comes to mind. 104 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 1: Don't overthink it, but you know when you were sort 105 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:36,280 Speaker 1: of transitioning, you know, from I'm not a girl, not 106 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:37,840 Speaker 1: yet a woman, you know what I mean, Like when 107 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 1: you were sort of in that transition period, Like, what's 108 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:41,840 Speaker 1: the first thing that came to comes to mind? 109 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 6: For you the person you just thought, oh, what what 110 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 6: is the other one? I had like a weird obsession 111 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 6: with Fred Durst, Like I was like, oh bad, Yeah 112 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:56,039 Speaker 6: he was hot. 113 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 1: Well, you know I had to think for Lady Elaine, 114 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 1: not the same. 115 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:03,479 Speaker 2: Harus for my money. 116 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:05,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. I always had a little thing for the Redheads, 117 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 1: you know. It's a little bit of a weakness. Sadly 118 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 1: always ends the same way with the Redheads anyway, Yes, 119 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:12,279 Speaker 1: and you. 120 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 2: Were absolutely convinced, like I was convinced that me and Leo, 121 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 2: like if I could just get in front of him, 122 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:18,479 Speaker 2: we'd be together. Never Mind, I was like nine years old, 123 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like I was like this, 124 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 2: this will work. 125 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:24,040 Speaker 1: Well, it may have been possible at the time. And 126 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 1: still now you know you're a little old for him. 127 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 1: Actually sorry, too old for him. 128 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 2: I'm sorry to tell you he doesn't he didn't hold up. 129 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 1: Richard Mark. Somebody said, Richard Mark, what does he look like? 130 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:38,520 Speaker 1: He looks kind of the same as he did back. 131 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 1: The guy hasn't really aged, and he's married to if 132 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 1: you were if you grew up with MTV. He's married 133 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 1: to what's her name? The v j Oh god, it 134 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:52,160 Speaker 1: was escaping me. Really hot. Daisy Flentes. Yeah, he's married 135 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 1: to Daisy, he is, that's where Yeah, and she still 136 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 1: looks good too. But he's a nice shot. Yeah, he 137 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 1: floats round every now and again. He's nice guy. 138 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 2: He was just on one of the Real Housewives. 139 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 1: He's got bangers, man, he really does. 140 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:07,920 Speaker 2: We've talked about him twice this month, and that's shouted 141 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 2: to him. 142 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: Kirk Cameron River, Phoenix, somebody sitting old Phoenix. My entire 143 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 1: sexuality was realized with the cast of The Mummy. Mario Lopez, Hold, 144 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 1: and I want to talk to Brenda Brandon. Brenda a. 145 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 3: Howl. 146 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, And that was just curious because you said 147 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:31,440 Speaker 1: Richard Marx was was you know, you realize your sexuality 148 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 1: when you saw Richard Marks And I was just wondering, 149 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 1: you know, because I know he's trying to make a comeback, 150 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 1: so I didn't know if maybe, and I know that 151 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 1: sort of older guys and younger girls that's kind of 152 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 1: a thing, So I wasn't sure. 153 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 7: Yeah, no, I think I was. 154 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:45,279 Speaker 3: I think I found nine or ten. 155 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:50,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, so it was early for me, and I would 156 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 7: like light his fan club and oh my god, I 157 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 7: mean he just he oh Juscus. I saw it. I 158 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 7: saw him on Twitter and a few years ago, and 159 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 7: I was like, hey, I'm like, I joined your fan club, 160 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 7: I said, and I've never heard from you, like you know, wow. 161 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 7: I was like, how dare you? But then he was like, oh, 162 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 7: he's like Hi, I knew I was forgetting something. And 163 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 7: I was like that made my freaking day. 164 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:22,720 Speaker 3: Like I was like, that's insane. 165 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, he used to be pretty responsive on Twitter because 166 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 1: I somehow got attached to a tweet that went viral 167 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 1: with him on it, and then he like hit me 168 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 1: up personally and was like what is this And I'm like, 169 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 1: I don't know, but anyone walk I guess. I guess 170 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 1: he's got time on his hands. But thank you, Brenda, 171 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 1: Thank you guys. I have a good day. He also 172 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 1: I think he wrote a bunch of songs that we 173 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: know too, like the guys. You guy's got some dough. 174 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 1: And then he's trying to I think he's trying to 175 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 1: release another album. So anyway, he's talking to come by 176 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 1: and sing right here waiting for you, right here waiting, 177 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 1: and he was the name of the song You're welcome 178 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 1: to Hey, Brittany, h good morning, Hi Jonathan Taylor Thomas 179 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 1: so tool time whatever that home improvement. Yes, yes, that's 180 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 1: what I did it for you. 181 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 2: Posters Cheambu Senboy, Oh yeah, JTT Man for me to 182 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 2: j T. 183 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 1: T Yeah, yeah, thank you, Brittany, have a good day 184 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: you too, Thank you. Brendan Frasier. People are saying Christian Slater, Yeah, 185 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:33,199 Speaker 1: I can see that. Another vote for River Phoenix. Oh 186 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 1: people from the Lord of the Rings. No one's gonna 187 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 1: say Britney Spears, Heath Ledger, Rob Low, Michael J. Fox, 188 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 1: because you know what, you can almost immediately tell someone's 189 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:48,480 Speaker 1: age when they answer this question. Yeah, well all right, 190 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 1: well everyone everyone knows everyone that is that is that 191 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:54,200 Speaker 1: person that comes to mind immediately and you're like, oh yeah, 192 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 1: I remember. 193 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 2: Somebody said the pink power Ranger. 194 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, sing you can just say it outline. Nothing 195 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 1: to be ashamed. This is the fread Show. Let's get 196 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:09,120 Speaker 1: you hotel a trip for two to see Jennifer Lopez 197 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: her brand new Las Vegas residency. Jennifer Lopez Up All 198 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 1: Night Live in Las Vegas, March thirteenth, twenty twenty six, 199 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 1: at the Coliseum at Caesar's Palace. Text Lopez to three 200 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 1: seven three three seven right now for a chance to 201 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 1: win two tickets to the March thirteenth show at two 202 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:28,839 Speaker 1: that Hotels Day March twelve through the fourteenth at the 203 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 1: Flamingo Hotel Casino, Las Vegas and Ron Trevert Peer. A 204 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 1: confirmation text will be sent. Dennered message and data rates 205 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 1: may apply. All thanks to Live Nations. Tickets are on 206 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 1: sale now at ticketmaster dot com for all shows running 207 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:43,959 Speaker 1: December thirtieth through January third, and March sixth through the 208 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:48,600 Speaker 1: twenty eighth. Stay or Go? Okay, Whitney, Good morning, Whitney, 209 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. How are you hi? Doing great? Whitney? 210 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 1: Thanks for the note. Stay or Go? You can hit 211 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 1: us up a lot of different ways. Freends Show Radio 212 00:09:57,640 --> 00:09:59,199 Speaker 1: dot Com, on all of the social search for The 213 00:09:59,240 --> 00:09:59,680 Speaker 1: Fred Show. 214 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:00,320 Speaker 3: So you. 215 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:07,679 Speaker 1: Are married and you've been lied to? Straight up? 216 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:10,240 Speaker 8: I mean, that's it. That's exactly what it is. 217 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 1: Okay, how did your husband lie to you? What happened? 218 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 6: Well? 219 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:16,520 Speaker 8: I mean to me, this is pretty major. Maybe it's 220 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:17,160 Speaker 8: just me, but. 221 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:26,199 Speaker 1: Hello, are you there your phone? Bit? Okay, so you 222 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 1: think this is pretty major? What happened? 223 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 8: He's been on ozema for six months and he's been 224 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 8: not only not telling me, but he just straight up 225 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 8: lied to me about it. 226 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:36,959 Speaker 1: How did he lie to you about it? 227 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:40,839 Speaker 8: Well, because i mean, obviously if he's taking azembic, he's 228 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 8: losing weight. So I'm asking him. I'm like, how, hey, 229 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 8: you know you're doing oh, you know, just diet exercise, 230 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:48,160 Speaker 8: diet exercise, which yeah, he does work out, but he's 231 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 8: not working out more than he normally does. One of 232 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 8: those people we eat we eat pretty well. I mean, 233 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 8: we eat pretty healthy. We don't eat out a lot, 234 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:58,319 Speaker 8: we don't do fast food and stuff like that very much. 235 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,040 Speaker 8: But he just told me that that's all he was doing. 236 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 1: Okay, So so he's losing all this weight. You're like, man, 237 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:07,480 Speaker 1: you look great. It's wow. It's hard work. You know, 238 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:09,839 Speaker 1: hard work in the gym. You know, hard work is 239 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 1: transformed in my life. You know, a boy God tails 240 00:11:12,520 --> 00:11:14,839 Speaker 1: old as time. Paulina. I mean, this is twice that 241 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 1: day I've said tale so old, This tale might be 242 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 1: and so, but you're not. You're not lying to people 243 00:11:20,679 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 1: and telling them that you're, you know, out here running 244 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 1: five case and marathons and iron Man's and stuff. 245 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:26,480 Speaker 2: Correct. 246 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:28,679 Speaker 4: But when it comes to my husband, I do have 247 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 4: to fabricate some things or move some things around. When 248 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:34,200 Speaker 4: it comes to him, I can't be straight up because 249 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 4: he doesn't understand. Okay, it's my own thing. 250 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:38,199 Speaker 1: Okay. So you you find out that he's on a 251 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 1: How did you find out he was an ozampic? 252 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:43,319 Speaker 8: Well, it sounded in the bathroom, So that was a 253 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 8: little scary because you know, you walk in and there's 254 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:46,720 Speaker 8: like a needle in the bathroom. 255 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 1: Okay, so explect our heroin or a zempic, yeah, right, 256 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 1: evils right, all right, So you say something to him, 257 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 1: You're like, wait a minute, I found ozampic. I'm not 258 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 1: taking it, so it must be you. Why are you 259 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:02,439 Speaker 1: lying to me about it? Like, why wouldn't you just 260 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 1: tell me? I mean we're married. 261 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:07,240 Speaker 8: Well, because and that's that's my biggest sticking point, is 262 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:08,960 Speaker 8: like he can do what he wants to do. That's fine. 263 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:11,679 Speaker 8: But his whole thing was he actually said to me, well, 264 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 8: I didn't tell you because it's not your business. You're 265 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 8: my husband. It's absolutely my business. You know, what if 266 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 8: he has some kind of allergic reaction to it or something. 267 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:24,800 Speaker 8: What if he had some kind of weird side effect 268 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:27,040 Speaker 8: thing and we go to the hospital and they're like, 269 00:12:27,120 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 8: you know what medications is he on and I don't know, 270 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 8: and they treat him for something that interacts with you 271 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 8: know what I'm saying, Like, I know I'm probably worst 272 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 8: case scenario in it, but that can happen. 273 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:40,959 Speaker 1: Why do you think that he was a shame to 274 00:12:41,040 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 1: tell you the truth? Is it because he doesn't really 275 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 1: want to do the work and he wants you to 276 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 1: believe that he's doing it? Is it because and there's 277 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 1: nothing wrong with that, Like the thing that people being 278 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 1: ashamed about at zembik, I don't really understand. Because it's like, 279 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:57,079 Speaker 1: if it helps you and you think it's appropriate for 280 00:12:57,240 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 1: your body, then you should take it. I'm not a doctor. 281 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:02,320 Speaker 1: I don't know much about it. I mean, I would 282 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:04,840 Speaker 1: argue there are people taking ozempic who could probably work 283 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 1: out and be a little more healthy in their lives, 284 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 1: in accomplish something similar and maybe help themselves in the 285 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:15,319 Speaker 1: long term, versus taking the shot for vanity but not 286 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:17,280 Speaker 1: changing your life. And then I don't really know what 287 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:18,880 Speaker 1: that means long to you know what I mean, It's 288 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 1: like I could take ozempic and eat Big Max all day, 289 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 1: my cholesterol is still through the roof, and I could 290 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:24,720 Speaker 1: still have a heart attack, but I'd be skinny when 291 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:26,559 Speaker 1: I had it. I mean, again, I don't I'm not 292 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:28,560 Speaker 1: a physician. I don't know any of this for a fact, 293 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:31,079 Speaker 1: but you know, that's what you hear, and especially in 294 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:34,319 Speaker 1: the beginning, was that people who really needed it, diabetic 295 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:36,959 Speaker 1: or people had diabetes or whatever, they couldn't get it 296 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:39,440 Speaker 1: because it had become this kind of vanity miracle drug. 297 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:41,040 Speaker 1: But why do you think, why do you think you 298 00:13:41,040 --> 00:13:41,640 Speaker 1: wouldn't tell you? 299 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:45,839 Speaker 8: Well, to be fair, he was doing the work like 300 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:48,439 Speaker 8: he was working out, and we do eat pretty healthy, 301 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:49,839 Speaker 8: but he did it on top of that too. He 302 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 8: actually told me it was none of my business, which 303 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 8: again I'm just and I know I've already brought that up, 304 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:57,559 Speaker 8: but it just it really made me angry. And he 305 00:13:57,720 --> 00:13:59,559 Speaker 8: also said he had the nerve. This is what I 306 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:01,079 Speaker 8: was like, Okay, I got to walk away from this 307 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:03,640 Speaker 8: conversation because about to lose my mind. He actually says 308 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 8: to me, well, it's my body, my choice. It's none 309 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:06,400 Speaker 8: of your business. I'm wanting to tell you. 310 00:14:06,840 --> 00:14:12,160 Speaker 1: Oh oh say, And I was like, sir, okay, sure, 311 00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:16,040 Speaker 1: so you for you. It's less about the ozembic use, 312 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 1: but it's the lies because you've asked him multiple times, 313 00:14:18,840 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 1: how are you doing this? And I mean, and he's, wow, 314 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 1: it's just you know, I'm doing everything right, but maybe 315 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 1: he is. Maybe he's not, but he's also doing this 316 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 1: and he didn't want you to know. So for you, 317 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 1: it's said lies. It's one hundred percent about the lies. 318 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:33,160 Speaker 8: Like he can it is. His decision to do. What 319 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:34,360 Speaker 8: he wants to do is with body, as long as 320 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 8: it's not something dangerous, and it's not dangerous. He's doing 321 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 8: it under doctors supervision, not one of those like mail 322 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:42,200 Speaker 8: order weird things where you can just get it from wherever. 323 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:46,560 Speaker 8: Like he's doing everything right, but he first one he 324 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 8: lied to me by omission because he just didn't tell 325 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 8: me that he was doing it or was even thinking 326 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 8: about doing it. And then you know, I asked him 327 00:14:54,600 --> 00:14:57,400 Speaker 8: and he lied to my face like multiple times. 328 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 1: Now people are texting. What one text here is is 329 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:04,960 Speaker 1: asking about the money aspect of it, because it is expensive, 330 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 1: so is it such that maybe you both couldn't afford 331 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 1: to take it? So like he's using the money for 332 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:15,520 Speaker 1: himself as opposed to you know, because maybe you maybe 333 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 1: you both can't afford it, So he doesn't want you 334 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:19,800 Speaker 1: to know that he's spending all the money on it. 335 00:15:19,960 --> 00:15:21,840 Speaker 1: Is that a possibility or is that not an issue 336 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:23,000 Speaker 1: he had? 337 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:27,400 Speaker 8: No, he actually got it covered by insurance because medical history. Yeah. No, 338 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 8: it had nothing to do with money. It's something he 339 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:31,200 Speaker 8: wanted to do, which again I would have if he 340 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:33,120 Speaker 8: sat down and told me or when I asked him 341 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:34,600 Speaker 8: how he was doing it, he had told me the truth, 342 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 8: we would not be having this conversation right now. 343 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. People are also texting that he's uh, he's probably well, 344 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 1: and I don't know that this is true, but he's 345 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:46,600 Speaker 1: probably planning. He's trying to look good for somebody else 346 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:49,360 Speaker 1: or something like he's trying to hyper speed this this 347 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 1: body transformation for someone I don't know. I mean, I 348 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 1: guess it lends itself to a lot of things when 349 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:57,880 Speaker 1: he's lying about it, right, like if he just told 350 00:15:57,920 --> 00:16:01,320 Speaker 1: the truth, or maybe if he just came out and 351 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 1: told you I'm kind of ashamed of it, or I'm 352 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 1: I'm embarrassed and I need this, or you know, I 353 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 1: didn't think he would support me in it, or you know, 354 00:16:10,840 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 1: I don't know what kind of conversations you've had. Maybe 355 00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 1: you're like, really, are you really anti medicine and are 356 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:18,880 Speaker 1: you somebody who know? Okay, so that's not it. 357 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 8: No, No, I'm not like an anti vaxxer or anything 358 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 8: like that, like I know, not at all. It was 359 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:29,400 Speaker 8: something that his doctor, his actual doctor. Like again, he 360 00:16:29,560 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 8: wasn't just going online and quicking a few buttons. He's 361 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:35,680 Speaker 8: been doing this through his doctor, so the doctor felt 362 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 8: like it was medically necessary. He's doing the other work. 363 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 8: There's literally no reason he wasn't telling me. And kind 364 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:43,840 Speaker 8: of with what you were just saying about, like he's 365 00:16:43,880 --> 00:16:46,120 Speaker 8: looking for somebody else or whatever, it's making me question 366 00:16:46,200 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 8: everything that he says. It's like, well, what else are 367 00:16:48,120 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 8: you lying to me about? 368 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:51,360 Speaker 1: I have noticed this though, like people who are very 369 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 1: clearly using ozebic right because I know them well enough 370 00:16:54,160 --> 00:16:56,400 Speaker 1: to know their lifestyles and their habits and things, and 371 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 1: but they want you to believe that it's not an exercise. 372 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 1: And I I just simply I don't know why people 373 00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:06,640 Speaker 1: are ashamed to just say no, I'm It's like, why 374 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 1: don't you say that, like it is what it is? 375 00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:08,560 Speaker 5: It? 376 00:17:08,640 --> 00:17:10,760 Speaker 1: Because you know that people are going to say that's 377 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 1: kind of the easy way out for you, is it? 378 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:15,240 Speaker 1: Because people might judge you and is it because people 379 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:17,240 Speaker 1: you know who are working out and trying to lose 380 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:19,359 Speaker 1: weight and don't use those epic might resent you for 381 00:17:19,480 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 1: it because it's fun to get the compliments when you're 382 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 1: working out a losing weight, and it almost feels like 383 00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:28,120 Speaker 1: when people just take a shot and lose the weight 384 00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:31,440 Speaker 1: and aren't necessarily working towards it. I can see the resentment. 385 00:17:31,480 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 1: It's like, wait a minute, I'm out here dragging my 386 00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:35,360 Speaker 1: ass across his lakefront trying to lose weight and it's 387 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:38,480 Speaker 1: very slow process, and you're taking a shot. Everyone says 388 00:17:38,520 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 1: how good you look. Instantly it's like, well, that sucks. 389 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:43,560 Speaker 1: But that's that's not a reason to lie to your 390 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:45,159 Speaker 1: partner about it. I don't think. But let me take 391 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:46,960 Speaker 1: some phone calls on this. Let me see if people 392 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 1: have to say, Whitney, thank you for calling. 393 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:51,200 Speaker 8: Good luck, thank you so much. I appreciate you. 394 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 1: You know what to do, thanks for listening. I mean, 395 00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:55,240 Speaker 1: of course, the right thing to do is call the 396 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 1: radio show, call the friend show. When you don't know 397 00:17:57,280 --> 00:17:59,240 Speaker 1: what to do, you call the frend Show. And I'm 398 00:17:59,359 --> 00:18:01,520 Speaker 1: one of the seventeen of us on this show. We'll 399 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:04,959 Speaker 1: give you the advice that you need eight five one 400 00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:07,960 Speaker 1: three five, Gabby, Gabby, you're of the camp that he's 401 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:08,960 Speaker 1: up to something. 402 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:13,480 Speaker 8: I would say that. I mean, first of all, we 403 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:16,400 Speaker 8: were Mary, what the reason there's no reason to lie? 404 00:18:18,359 --> 00:18:22,440 Speaker 1: You'll be asking too, is what happens? I also you lie? 405 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 1: It's just yeah, go ahead, it's just by experience. 406 00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:30,480 Speaker 3: I mean my fiancee, he was he started kind of 407 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:32,879 Speaker 3: working out, blah blah blah, getting in shape. 408 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:35,399 Speaker 2: Your Yeah, we thought that it was for the wedding. 409 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:40,440 Speaker 8: But then I went through his instagram all these women, 410 00:18:41,160 --> 00:18:42,399 Speaker 8: and I said, what's going on? 411 00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:47,120 Speaker 1: Oh I know, yeah, not for our wedding. So okay, 412 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:48,680 Speaker 1: so you think the reason. 413 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 8: Why exactly, there's no reason why he has to lie. 414 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:55,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with you, Gab. I think I agree. 415 00:18:55,520 --> 00:18:57,280 Speaker 1: Thank you, Gabby. I'm glad you called. You know. I 416 00:18:57,359 --> 00:18:59,760 Speaker 1: feel the same way. And once you tell a lie 417 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:02,520 Speaker 1: and then it compounds it and you've told me more 418 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:05,360 Speaker 1: than one lie, well then I then I why why 419 00:19:05,400 --> 00:19:07,280 Speaker 1: wouldn't I assume you lying about all kinds of stuff? 420 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:09,239 Speaker 1: Like I don't know, that's a good point, like why 421 00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 1: lie about something like that? And she's right and to 422 00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 1: a certain extent, if there were some sort of health 423 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 1: complication with it and she was unaware of what he 424 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:20,200 Speaker 1: was doing. Then, I mean that could be detrimental and 425 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:23,199 Speaker 1: she could, you know, potentially help him, you know, if 426 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:25,560 Speaker 1: if you had some issue and it's like, what is 427 00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:27,040 Speaker 1: he on it? What's he on? I don't know what 428 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:28,840 Speaker 1: you mean. You don't know you're married to the guy. Well, 429 00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:30,880 Speaker 1: he lied to me about him. Lie to the world. 430 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:31,480 Speaker 2: Don't lie to me. 431 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:33,920 Speaker 5: Like if you want, if you want to post on 432 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 5: Instagram holding a protein shake, acting like you're working out, 433 00:19:37,119 --> 00:19:38,680 Speaker 5: you know I'll be I'm your wife, I'll be in 434 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:39,119 Speaker 5: the comments. 435 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 2: You're looking good baby, good job. But let me in 436 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:44,480 Speaker 2: on the lie. Once you out me on the light, 437 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 2: then I can't trust you and I don't know what 438 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:46,720 Speaker 2: you're up to. 439 00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:50,480 Speaker 1: Well, here's Luca, Luca turned your radio down. Luca and Luke, 440 00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:52,800 Speaker 1: you know, or you could hang up. You don't have 441 00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:55,360 Speaker 1: to hang up. Well, he Luca says, he lies about 442 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:58,320 Speaker 1: being onebic, which is why I wanted to hear. Why. Yeah, 443 00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:00,240 Speaker 1: if you lie about being ozebic, then called up here. 444 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:01,679 Speaker 1: I want to know why you do that and turn 445 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 1: your radio down when you do well, yeah, shame people. Well, 446 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 1: that's one part. What do you mean who's being shamed? 447 00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:10,359 Speaker 2: Well, people get decided for taking it because people are upset. 448 00:20:10,440 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 1: You just went through this. 449 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:13,640 Speaker 5: People are upset because you may choose to lose weight 450 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 5: one way, somebody else is choosing another route. You feel 451 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:18,080 Speaker 5: like they're taking the easy way out. So then you 452 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:21,160 Speaker 5: get all this criticism about choosing the easier way out. 453 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:24,120 Speaker 1: But I'm not shaving people to their I'm being I'm 454 00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:27,160 Speaker 1: being honest about as someone who's trying to lose weight 455 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:30,080 Speaker 1: and be more healthy, not only for the aesthetic, but 456 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 1: because I don't want to necessarily have a heart attack 457 00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 1: at forty five and die. Right. This is what I'm 458 00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:38,840 Speaker 1: vocalizing to you, what's happening inside of me. I would 459 00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 1: never actually shame someone for taking it. 460 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:42,320 Speaker 2: No, you wouldn't, but people. 461 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 5: Do, and it's a negative connotation out there about it, 462 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:46,879 Speaker 5: So people lie about it, and people get on Instagram 463 00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:48,680 Speaker 5: and pretend like they're working out, and they don't feel 464 00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:49,960 Speaker 5: comfortable to just say that they're not. 465 00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 1: And what's you're a husband's issue with it? My husband's well, 466 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 1: you're the one who has a husband. 467 00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm going to. 468 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:55,920 Speaker 3: Check the room. 469 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:58,560 Speaker 2: Yes, I am thinking so My husband is just like 470 00:20:58,640 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 2: your friend. We've talked about this money of time. 471 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:02,439 Speaker 4: So his whole thing is because he's very healthy, writing, 472 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:04,480 Speaker 4: he works out, he's a fireman, and he says there's 473 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:07,800 Speaker 4: no shortcuts in life. So that's his whole spiel on 474 00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 4: the ozembic situation. I am on Munjaro and I was 475 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:14,280 Speaker 4: prescribed that as a tool. So I work out, I eat, 476 00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:15,440 Speaker 4: I am six pounds down. 477 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:15,919 Speaker 8: I am. 478 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:18,560 Speaker 4: I am living my life right now, and I use 479 00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:20,159 Speaker 4: it as a tool because you're right, Fred, if I 480 00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 4: get off of this, I am going to gain the 481 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:23,719 Speaker 4: weight right back. If I don't change my lifestyle, if 482 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:24,800 Speaker 4: I don't continue to work out. 483 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 5: You have to do that. 484 00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:28,600 Speaker 4: It's very important. So my doctor subscribed it to me. 485 00:21:28,680 --> 00:21:32,520 Speaker 4: Subscribed it. Yeah, subscribed it, scribe, subscribe, subscribed. He got 486 00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:33,119 Speaker 4: a subscription. 487 00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:34,480 Speaker 2: I have a subscribed. 488 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:35,720 Speaker 1: Get a subscription. 489 00:21:36,280 --> 00:21:39,480 Speaker 2: You know, my husband doesn't believe in it, and listen, 490 00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:40,360 Speaker 2: that's his progative. 491 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:43,000 Speaker 1: He can do that. But I I don't lie to him. 492 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:45,200 Speaker 4: But I have told him before that I you know, 493 00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:46,680 Speaker 4: I'm taking a break from it. And now was that 494 00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:47,800 Speaker 4: one hundred percent true? 495 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:48,119 Speaker 5: No? 496 00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:48,879 Speaker 7: It was not. 497 00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:50,600 Speaker 2: So was it a lie? 498 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 4: Perhaps it's sitting in my fridge. If he opens the 499 00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:55,600 Speaker 4: thing right now, you look right at it, so he 500 00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:57,639 Speaker 4: knows it's happening. However, he wants me to be very 501 00:21:57,640 --> 00:21:59,680 Speaker 4: careful because I have taken higher doses. I've gotten a 502 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:01,320 Speaker 4: little take off of it. You know, we had to 503 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:03,960 Speaker 4: kind of go back down at two point five. So yeah, 504 00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 4: you gotta be honest with your partner. 505 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:08,000 Speaker 1: Okay, Holly, So you're onozebic and lying about it? 506 00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:09,959 Speaker 4: Yes, I am. 507 00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:10,919 Speaker 1: Who are you lying to. 508 00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 3: Everybody except accept one of my children? 509 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 1: And why why are you like doctor right right? 510 00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 3: Because of the way people think of it. I mean, 511 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:29,879 Speaker 3: I'm still trying to watch it, but I needed a 512 00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:34,480 Speaker 3: push start, and people just don't think you're also working 513 00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:36,680 Speaker 3: at it. They think you're just taking the easy way out. 514 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:38,800 Speaker 3: And in my case, I'm not taking the easy way out. 515 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:42,320 Speaker 3: And it's frustrating though, because I do need to be 516 00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:42,639 Speaker 3: on it. 517 00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:46,080 Speaker 8: But the people that are, you know. 518 00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:48,640 Speaker 3: Weigh one hundred and thirty pounds and they just feel 519 00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:50,280 Speaker 3: like they need to lose five pounds and they're going 520 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:52,440 Speaker 3: on this. I think that's absolutely ridiculous. 521 00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:54,879 Speaker 1: See, I think it's really honest. I know I know 522 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:57,479 Speaker 1: some older people who have taken it who are less 523 00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:59,680 Speaker 1: inclined to work out or they're not physically able to 524 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:01,320 Speaker 1: work out as much, and it's been a tool for 525 00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:03,800 Speaker 1: them too. And then it sort of starts the process 526 00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:06,359 Speaker 1: of wise, I'm beginning to look good, I'm beginning to 527 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:08,280 Speaker 1: feel good. Now there's less weight on my body. Now 528 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:10,880 Speaker 1: I can be more active. Now it's all good. It's 529 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:13,159 Speaker 1: all good. It's just I guess, within the confines of 530 00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 1: a relationship, if I'm lying about it, then what else 531 00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:18,400 Speaker 1: am I lying about? I think that's a fair. 532 00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:22,920 Speaker 3: I wouldn't go, but I certainly would kind of keep 533 00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 3: pushing the conversation. I just don't understand what you lie. 534 00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:29,680 Speaker 3: Why you're lying to me about it? I thought I 535 00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,159 Speaker 3: could do is just keep pushing it and then just 536 00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:34,920 Speaker 3: say I don't understand, Like, are you lying about anything else? 537 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:36,080 Speaker 3: Like the other callers set too? 538 00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:38,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, and maybe why? I mean, I don't know that 539 00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 1: I would jump to something nefarious, but like, why are 540 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:44,840 Speaker 1: you I don't see so consumed with there with looking 541 00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:47,119 Speaker 1: good and lying to me about how you're doing it. 542 00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:49,640 Speaker 1: I don't. I think it's more it's more the fact 543 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:52,080 Speaker 1: that you don't think you can tell me this because 544 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:54,119 Speaker 1: you think that I'll judge you, or you think that 545 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 1: I'll have a negative reaction or whatever. And if it's 546 00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 1: not about the money, then it would be one thing. 547 00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:01,119 Speaker 1: If it's a we can neither one of us can 548 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:02,960 Speaker 1: afford this, so we're gonna have to do it the 549 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:04,639 Speaker 1: old fashioned way, and then one of you goes and 550 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 1: does it like that would suck, right, But that's not 551 00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:10,280 Speaker 1: the case here because no one's paying for it, right. 552 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 3: I do think maybe part of it is because he 553 00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,320 Speaker 3: wants to maybe kind of let her know that he's 554 00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:19,320 Speaker 3: doing it on his own and he wasn't. He might 555 00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:22,560 Speaker 3: just want to show that he is trying to lose 556 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:26,159 Speaker 3: weight and he's needing the help with it, and he 557 00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:28,840 Speaker 3: might just be embarrassed about it too. He needs help. 558 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:33,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, Holly, thank you and good luck to you. Okay, okay, thanks, 559 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:36,600 Speaker 1: thank you. Maybe there's an this is kind of saying 560 00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:38,880 Speaker 1: the same thing. But I think sometimes when people get 561 00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:42,520 Speaker 1: healthy and work out and work hard at something and 562 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:44,159 Speaker 1: they start to look good and see results, there is 563 00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:47,040 Speaker 1: a bit of a righteousness that comes with that because 564 00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:48,920 Speaker 1: you earned it right, and you feel good about it 565 00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:51,040 Speaker 1: and it was hard work. And then when someone else 566 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:53,840 Speaker 1: maybe gets to share when they approach it with that 567 00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:57,040 Speaker 1: same righteousness, but they didn't necessarily do the work quote unquote, 568 00:24:57,280 --> 00:25:00,880 Speaker 1: I guess that's it. It can be irritating. I guess 569 00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:02,840 Speaker 1: I can see that, Like, you know, I'm out here 570 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:05,800 Speaker 1: really working hard to do this and you aren't working 571 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 1: as hard, but you want the same level of praise. 572 00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:11,200 Speaker 2: And it's like, but that's yeah, they don't take away 573 00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 2: from your work. No you no, no, no, you're out there. 574 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:15,120 Speaker 2: I see you out there on the lake. 575 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:16,879 Speaker 1: Well I don't mean, I don't mean me personally. I'm 576 00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:19,080 Speaker 1: just sicking. I'm speaking from the perspective of people who 577 00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:21,760 Speaker 1: are going about it a different way, and it's like 578 00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:24,680 Speaker 1: we're not necessarily well maybe we're not the same in 579 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:26,800 Speaker 1: how hard we're working at this, but the end result 580 00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:28,720 Speaker 1: is the same. So that's where the resentment comes from. 581 00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:29,520 Speaker 2: Absolutely. 582 00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:32,520 Speaker 1: But that's that's something I keep to myself except for 583 00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:34,399 Speaker 1: when I'm at work. But that's something I mean, I 584 00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:36,800 Speaker 1: would never say that to somebody, but I would. I 585 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 1: would really question my relationship if somebody were taking steps 586 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 1: in their lives, you know, drastic steps to do something 587 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:44,480 Speaker 1: and it wouldn't share it with me. I would. I 588 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:45,159 Speaker 1: would worry about that. 589 00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:47,400 Speaker 2: It's shady, no no way to look at it other 590 00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:48,359 Speaker 2: it's like it's shady. 591 00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:50,680 Speaker 5: You cannot lie to your partner because you're worried about 592 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:51,960 Speaker 5: their reaction to what you're doing. 593 00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:53,560 Speaker 2: Like people loved, I. 594 00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:56,000 Speaker 5: Didn't tell you because you know, I didn't want you 595 00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:57,760 Speaker 5: to get upset. I didn't know how you would react. 596 00:25:57,800 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 5: I didn't think you would support me. You can't think 597 00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:01,680 Speaker 5: for me. I'm your partner in life and I should 598 00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:02,880 Speaker 5: know what's going on with your body.