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Speaker 1: Two Teas in a pod which Teddy Mellencamp and Camrad Judge.

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Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of to Teas Myself,

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Speaker 2: Teddy Mellencamp.

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Speaker 3: And tambrid Judge.

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Speaker 4: Should we have a I mean, this is clearly an

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Speaker 4: o G to the OC that we haven't seen in

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Speaker 4: a very long time. So I'm so excited to introduce

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Speaker 4: Joe Dela Rosa.

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Speaker 2: She's a television personality best known as being the original

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Speaker 2: housewife in the Real Housewives Orange County. She released an

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Speaker 2: album in two thousand and seven called Unscripted. Joe was

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Speaker 2: also part of the first spinoff of the Real Housewives franchise,

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Speaker 2: Date My Ex Joe and Slade.

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Speaker 3: That aired in two thousand and eight. I don't even

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Speaker 3: know about this had it lasted long.

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Speaker 2: She recently started her own creative agency called House of

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Speaker 2: Gray and was married a year ago to Tarin Gray.

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Speaker 2: So there's you can go and see her People magazine

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Speaker 2: article about her wedding or her engagement and get caught.

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Speaker 5: Up from the past.

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Speaker 4: Do you look amazing?

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Speaker 5: How's it going?

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Speaker 4: It is going so well. Thank you so much for

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Speaker 4: coming on our podcast. We're so excited to have you.

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Speaker 4: You and I have been chatting on on DM. Oh

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Speaker 4: my god, the outfit, the hair, that everything. My question

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Speaker 4: to you is do you still own a skytop?

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Speaker 5: I'm absolutely not. I got rid of those ages ago.

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Speaker 4: So tell So do you live in La now?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I've been living in LA since I left the show.

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Speaker 5: Actually really literally, did.

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Speaker 3: You leave or did you get the boot? Or did

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Speaker 3: you break up with Slade?

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Speaker 5: Broke up with Slade and then moved her late?

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Speaker 1: My heart was always city, like I've just I've always

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Speaker 1: gravitated the city, you know, the lights of Hollywood and whatnot.

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Speaker 4: And yeah, was it hard for you to leave from

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Speaker 4: the show or you were sitting along?

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Speaker 1: No, No, I don't think so in the sense that,

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Speaker 1: like because it was a breakup and I was just

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Speaker 1: ready to like start my life over. I was also

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Speaker 1: already going to LA every weekend with my girlfriends, and like,

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Speaker 1: I was just in such a different place in my

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Speaker 1: life where.

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Speaker 4: You were going to LA when you were dating Slade.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, but that's what I like a Slade?

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Speaker 1: Were you, honestly, like honest back then, love of my life?

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Speaker 5: Then? What?

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Speaker 1: In my twenties he really was? I had just graduated,

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Speaker 1: you know, college, he threw my college graduation party.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, how did you meet?

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Speaker 2: I'm so taken aback by this because I'm watching things

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Speaker 2: where you're going out and having fun and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: clearly you're twenty four years old.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, how was he home wear? Dressing up in costume

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Speaker 3: for him? I'm like, information, I'm.

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Speaker 1: So sorry you had to see that, Teddy, I'm so

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Speaker 1: sorry I had to see that. So uh I I yeah,

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Speaker 1: no excuses, just young dumb but him.

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Speaker 5: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I worked at a mortgage company. That was my first

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Speaker 1: job out of high school. I was a little assistant.

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Speaker 1: He was one of the title reps that would come

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Speaker 1: in every week, and I like, my boss was like, hey,

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Speaker 1: you need to like take her out and like teach

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Speaker 1: her the business. And he taught you the business, all right,

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Speaker 1: he taught me the business. But like when I met him,

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Speaker 1: he was like all the dad vibes, like dockers, like

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Speaker 1: khaki shorts, like you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: So when you had a Hummer back then, like you

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Speaker 3: were hot.

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Speaker 1: So the fact also about Hommer, huh why with the

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Speaker 1: chron Like why was that the thing?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 4: Why was the calm cline underwear with the ice mask

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Speaker 4: on his face or whatever he had.

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Speaker 5: He was so special back then.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean you dodged that bullet.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you were twenty four years old.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, how did this all come about?

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Speaker 3: Because it originally was called Behind the Gates, right.

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Speaker 5: Uh, yeah, I believe.

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Speaker 1: So I know there was a lot of stuff circulating

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Speaker 1: before like I ever joined and I had I have

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Speaker 1: this little like I think it was like a studio

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Speaker 1: that I was living in Encoda Dacasa. So a lot

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Speaker 4: And yeah, you didn't live with Slide.

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Speaker 1: Not right away, Okay, so I'd gotten like my own

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Speaker 5: Like yeah, fairly trying to find my way.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, it just kind of it was wild. And

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Speaker 1: then there was just I think being so young and

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Speaker 1: being thrown into the life. First of all, I did

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Speaker 1: not come from money, so like everything that like I've

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Speaker 1: done in my life, I just like was on me.

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Speaker 1: So to get thrown into number one, a world of

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Speaker 1: like wealth, number two, being so much younger and everybody

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Speaker 1: being so much older, I was super intimidated going in

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Speaker 1: because like why wouldn't I be with like you know, sure,

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Speaker 4: You didn't know anybody right when I didn't know anyone.

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Speaker 1: Literally, I remember first seeing like first day shooting. They

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Speaker 1: brought me to this bar in the middle of Koto

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Speaker 1: and they were like, okay, Joe, we're gonna you're gonna

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Speaker 1: meet all the girls for the first time on the patio,

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Speaker 1: and I think it was like Kimberly and a bunch

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Speaker 3: I remember that scene. Yes, and you're saying you want

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Speaker 3: to make friends. Yes.

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Speaker 4: Are you talk to any of the girls to this day?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, actually still talked to Gina Alexis. They actually came

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Speaker 1: to my wedding when I just got married a year.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I was going to talk to you about that.

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Speaker 4: So your one year anniversary is coming up on the

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Speaker 4: twenty eighth. Congratulations. Now you are a cougar because you

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Speaker 4: are five years older than your husband. I am five

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Speaker 4: years older than my husband.

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Speaker 5: Really, yeah, up here to go, you go, girl pounded out.

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Speaker 5: I think I'm actually seven. He's thirty five, thirty six? Yeah,

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Speaker 5: oh you're seven years old? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Hold on, speaking of age, how old is Slade?

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Speaker 1: He was fifteen years older than me when I met him,

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Speaker 1: and I so when I met him, I was he

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Speaker 1: was thirty do the math, so doing the math backwards?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so wait, so you're forty.

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Speaker 1: I'm about I'm about to be forty three in September

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Speaker 1: and forty two.

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Speaker 4: Right, and he's fifteen years older than you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, so forty, I'm fifty eight years old, so

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Speaker 3: you're he is low to change.

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Speaker 4: He pulls up, he says he's forty eight, says he's

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry what he's just kidding?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, just kidding.

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Speaker 1: What I joke with everybody, I'm forever twenty seven because

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Speaker 1: La just keeps you like, yes, it's La La Land

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Speaker 1: and like nobody ever grows up here, at least on

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Speaker 5: But he's absolutely not forty eight.

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Speaker 4: No, he's ten years older than that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, how long were you guys dating before you were cast?

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Speaker 3: And when I met I met.

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Speaker 2: Him and Gretchen at like a race car event years ago,

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Speaker 2: back when I was still on the show, and I

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Speaker 2: remember him telling me something along.

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Speaker 3: The lines like the show was his idea?

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Speaker 1: Is that his idea? Like he started it? It was

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Speaker 1: his idea to go on and like to do the

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Speaker 1: not know he was. He had an agent in LA

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Speaker 1: when I met him, he was already because of his

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Speaker 1: like cycling stuff he would get he would book like

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 4: Can you clarify something for us, Yeah, because he has

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Speaker 4: said that he raced in the Tour deference, I'm calling

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Speaker 4: a water boy, something like that. Eddie actually is a

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Speaker 4: but he took Slaid out one time riding in Napa

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Speaker 4: In fact, he was on the side of the road

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Speaker 4: because he was so bad. Is that just an exaggeration,

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Speaker 4: because I feel like he likes to exaggerate to make

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Speaker 1: So all I remember is it was him and the

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Speaker 1: big cycling guy.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry, so I note.

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Speaker 1: Yes, the two of them were like Lance was a

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Speaker 1: national champion at the time of his like state, and

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Speaker 1: then I believe I remember telling me.

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Speaker 5: He was his in his state.

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Speaker 3: Telling you or did you see it with your own eyes?

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Speaker 5: He told me, he told.

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Speaker 1: Me when we met, like because I would ask him,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, why do you put on these like super

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Speaker 4: I mean the cycling outfits are horrendous that he has

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Speaker 4: a ton of them. I mean they're all neon, which

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Speaker 4: is great because people's eddie cycle he does, he does.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, But then how long did you guys date

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Speaker 5: Oh, such a long time ago. I want to.

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Speaker 1: Say maybe like at least almost a year, if not

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Speaker 1: while actually, because we were already engaged when we were

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Speaker 1: so at least a year we were dating before, so

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Speaker 1: we had like a fully normal life of just you know,

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Speaker 5: I had moved in at the time.

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Speaker 2: And then that was the shasting process then, because like

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Speaker 2: for us, it's for me, it was very different than

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Speaker 2: even for Tamra, Like how did it work for you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So they were looking for the fifth couple to cast. Uh,

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Speaker 1: And again I wasn't there when we got cast. This

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Speaker 4: Wasn't friends with Scott.

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Speaker 1: Done up. Yeah, So we lived literally down the street

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Speaker 1: from Scott, and I guess there was a charity event

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Speaker 1: that Slade went to and that's kind of where the

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Speaker 1: whole thing went down. So what I remember and then

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Speaker 1: how it actually happened was two different things.

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Speaker 5: I later found out.

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Speaker 1: I thought that Slade had gone to this event with Scott,

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Speaker 1: this you know, codo party that he had thrown, and

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Speaker 1: they had asked us to be on the show, is

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Speaker 1: what I originally thought. It was kind to find out

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Speaker 1: later Slade had bought a ticket. It was like a

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Speaker 4: And I remember hearing that, so he got his way

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Speaker 1: But I don't remember that again ages ago. So I guess, yeah,

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Speaker 1: And I you know back then, so I never.

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Speaker 2: Even met you and did auditions with you or any

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Speaker 5: God bless that spinoff.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I need to watch it. I didn't

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Speaker 4: But don't you feel like it would really make it today?

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Speaker 4: But let me go after my new boyfriend's girlfriend's music.

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Speaker 1: It ended up on radio, which was amazing, music video

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Speaker 5: Kind of cool. Oh I remember yep, it was called

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Speaker 4: Do any other reality shows after your spin off?

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Speaker 5: No? No, no, would you ever? Yeah? Definitely?

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Speaker 4: Okay, So you will be coming to you will be

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Speaker 4: coming to my parties next season?

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Speaker 2: Perfect because Andy said you're the one that got away

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Speaker 1: Really yes, Oh my god, Andy, that's so sweet.

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Speaker 3: I'll see. So I have a question.

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Speaker 2: One of your main storylines was making friends and Codo.

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Speaker 5: I did.

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Speaker 1: I will say number one Gina. Gina has been like

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Speaker 5: Where did she go? You know what? None of us

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Speaker 4: Of state and just that's what I heard.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but she was more of like she was like

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Speaker 5: She was my like Yoda if you will.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's like a caricature of what a housewife is

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Speaker 5: Completely Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Like I ran into her at the montage. Wait what

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Speaker 3: Oh no, I was talking about Kimberly.

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Speaker 5: Oh Kimberly.

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Speaker 4: No, no, I'm talking about Tina.

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Speaker 5: Yes it is.

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Speaker 4: And so I ran into her and she was just

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Speaker 5: I love Gina.

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Speaker 5: I love her so much.

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Speaker 2: Has anything changed? The canary diamond ring that you got?

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Speaker 2: And where is it?

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Speaker 5: It was fake? Right? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Yes it was what The canary diamond ring still sits

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Speaker 1: somewhere in a little chanel box inside three more boxes

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Speaker 5: But like, yes, so.

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Speaker 3: Don't you find out it was fake? Or am I

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Speaker 5: So so Slade told me. Slade told me in.

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Speaker 4: The clubhouse it needs to be on Andy's clubhouse on

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Speaker 5: Wait should I bring it? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yes you should.

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Speaker 1: We can actually take it to a jeweler and actually

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Speaker 5: Twenty five dollar to any If that.

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Speaker 3: Right, I am blown away.

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Speaker 5: Okay, so he was honest with me.

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Speaker 1: He did tell me that, you know, the setting was real,

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Speaker 4: And how do you when someone goes, I'm proposing to

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Speaker 5: Here's the thing. I know.

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Speaker 1: I'm a sap. I'm the biggest romantic that there is.

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Speaker 2: But that's my question for both of you guys, now,

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 1: I rather have a band a million percent, like I

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Speaker 5: But why was it fake?

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Speaker 4: He's briging that he's making seven figures and he's got

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Speaker 5: A million?

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Speaker 4: A million plus? And then he said that the ring

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Speaker 3: I don't think of one hundred thousand pesos?

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Speaker 5: Who exactly? No? Wait what he didn't say that? Really? Yes?

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Speaker 5: I did? Yes on the podcast?

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Speaker 3: No, I come on here?

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Speaker 5: Do you think i'd have here? Okay?

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Speaker 4: On the show?

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Speaker 5: Do you and him not? No? Wait, I don't stand

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm so far removed from the world

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Speaker 5: I don't know any of the riff any of the drama,

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Speaker 1: So you sharing all this with me and like for

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Speaker 2: But moving slightly away from Slade, what are your thoughts

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Speaker 5: I love Vicky. Vicky.

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Speaker 1: Vicky is always going to be Vicky and again, like

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Speaker 1: like see her, will bring me to like I know,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I'm actually going to see her tonight.

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Speaker 5: Oh you are tell her? I said, Hi, I actually

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Speaker 4: And yes, yeah, so the three of us are going

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Speaker 2: I love.

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Speaker 5: She said, Hi, tell her.

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Speaker 1: I said, Hi, I'm rid Or died for Vicky.

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Speaker 5: So if anyone has a problem, like, I'll kill him.

450
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Speaker 3: Well you might have to kill me then, yeah, because.

451
00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:21,639
Speaker 4: He does not like Teddy Vicky what.

452
00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:26,560
Speaker 2: Okay, So she has a real problem with me because

453
00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:31,320
Speaker 2: she always wanted to do a podcast with Tamra And

454
00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:34,480
Speaker 2: I reached out to Tamra when iHeart reached out to

455
00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:37,480
Speaker 2: me and said, we want to do a Housewives podcast.

456
00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:39,919
Speaker 2: And I said fine, but I'm only going to recap

457
00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:41,359
Speaker 2: and do these things if i can do it with

458
00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:43,359
Speaker 2: somebody that I want. And they said who, and I

459
00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:45,879
Speaker 2: said Tamara. And I contacted Tamara and it was like

460
00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:48,320
Speaker 2: three days and we were done and then like yeah,

461
00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:51,399
Speaker 2: we we kind of exploded, thank you know, thanks to

462
00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:54,480
Speaker 2: like amazing production team and iHeart and everybody. It was

463
00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:58,000
Speaker 2: great and our connection. But then Vicky like couldn't take it,

464
00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:00,800
Speaker 2: Like so instead of being happy for camera.

465
00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:03,080
Speaker 5: You know, Vicky, I do know Vicky.

466
00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:05,920
Speaker 4: She actually called our boss and said that they should

467
00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:07,399
Speaker 4: get rid of Teddy and bring her on.

468
00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:13,200
Speaker 5: Yes, Vicky, that's not nice. And then but it's so Vicky.

469
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Speaker 2: And then she went on What Happens Live and said

470
00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:19,600
Speaker 2: she didn't know who I was, like, she just okay,

471
00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:20,880
Speaker 2: she's bitter Boots.

472
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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I think it's amazing that y'all are doing

473
00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:26,840
Speaker 1: this podcast. And I think that just opportunities come to

474
00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:30,680
Speaker 1: people and like, you know, you ride them. And also

475
00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:32,840
Speaker 1: she has her own podcast? What is she talking about?

476
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:33,240
Speaker 5: Doesn't she?

477
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Speaker 3: She did and it was very hot.

478
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:38,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, oh okay I was. I was like so confused

479
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:40,600
Speaker 5: because I thought she was doing hers. Okay, yeah, I

480
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:41,399
Speaker 5: have a question for you.

481
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Speaker 4: Would you ever do the Ultimate Girl's Trip?

482
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Speaker 5: I I have seen a trailer of that. Would I

483
00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:51,840
Speaker 5: do it? Why the hell not?

484
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Speaker 1: I think that, you know, I haven't been in that

485
00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:59,600
Speaker 1: dynamic four years. I don't know if I would get

486
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:03,920
Speaker 1: eaten a or if like, like I don't, I don't.

487
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 4: It's like riding a bicycle, Joe, you get right back on.

488
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:10,800
Speaker 5: Have you done it? I have done on it? How

489
00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:11,520
Speaker 5: was it? So?

490
00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 4: I was let go after my twelfth season, and I

491
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 4: was I did nothing for a year and then I

492
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:23,680
Speaker 4: think twenty nineteen twenty, maybe twenty twenty, they asked me

493
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:26,640
Speaker 4: to do Ultimate Girls Trip. So I did Ultimate Girl's

494
00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:29,800
Speaker 4: Trip and from there they brought me back on Orange County.

495
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Speaker 3: So I did it.

496
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Speaker 4: It was weird because I was kind of out of

497
00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 4: the mix. I'm with new girls and I don't necessarily

498
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:40,600
Speaker 4: know that well, some of them I've met through Bravo stuff,

499
00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:44,240
Speaker 4: but didn't really know them. It was it was hard,

500
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:44,880
Speaker 4: but it was fun.

501
00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:45,880
Speaker 5: Yeah.

502
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Speaker 4: It was during the pandemic. So we went to Derenda's house.

503
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Speaker 4: Now the girls nowadays are going to do Turks and

504
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:54,879
Speaker 4: Caicos And where did the uh where the new ones go?

505
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:55,919
Speaker 5: They?

506
00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:57,480
Speaker 3: Where did they go? Bali?

507
00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:00,959
Speaker 4: Well not Bali, they went to Landiland.

508
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 5: That production budget though, okay.

509
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 3: I know, and it is ten days.

510
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:07,200
Speaker 4: It's a lot of money for ten days.

511
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, okay, So I don't think you would get.

512
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 4: So you hear that Andy, she'll do Ultimate Girls Trip.

513
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Speaker 2: Andy, there's just a psa, she will do Girls Triph.

514
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:21,600
Speaker 3: So do you watch any Housewives right now?

515
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:24,960
Speaker 1: I do not watch any Housewives, to be honest with you.

516
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:27,800
Speaker 1: I only have the apps, no cable, so I stream

517
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:30,879
Speaker 1: everything like, also shout out to Peacock because that's actually

518
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 1: one of the apps that I pay for because they

519
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,200
Speaker 1: and all of my favorite shows are on there. But yeah,

520
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 1: unfortunately you get everything one day later. So I'm just like,

521
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 1: so that's okay.

522
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:41,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, but if you get on Ultimate Girls Trip, they

523
00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 4: give you one free year of Peacock.

524
00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:48,680
Speaker 5: So oh nice, okay, get I'm all for a free streamings,

525
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:50,239
Speaker 5: me too, Me too.

526
00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:56,600
Speaker 4: On a saturder note, watching season one into, Grayson was

527
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Speaker 4: on the show, and obviously you've heard that he recently

528
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:04,920
Speaker 4: passed away. Yeah, do you reach out to Michelle or

529
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:05,920
Speaker 4: Slide at that point?

530
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:06,800
Speaker 5: Yeah?

531
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Speaker 1: I actually I actually okay, sorry, sorry, I didn't even

532
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:14,280
Speaker 1: know where that came from.

533
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 5: I actually did.

534
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 1: I reached out to Slade just to say like, I

535
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,520
Speaker 1: was so sorry, and yeah, I never heard back from him.

536
00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:26,399
Speaker 1: But yeah, wow, I don't even know where that came from.

537
00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, there when he was all in Yeah, do you

538
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:34,159
Speaker 4: remember what were you with him when he got diagnosed?

539
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:39,160
Speaker 5: No? No, I when I met Slide, I I already knew.

540
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:42,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh they already knew at that point.

541
00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:47,119
Speaker 1: Uh, yes, yes, when I believe when I when we

542
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 1: when we had been dating, like he already had the tumor.

543
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Speaker 4: Oh I didn't know that.

544
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:53,160
Speaker 5: I didn't.

545
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 4: I didn't realize that he was diagnosed that young because

546
00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 4: it wasn't really talked about.

547
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:57,639
Speaker 5: Right, Yeah, it was.

548
00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:01,480
Speaker 1: He was two years old when I met him, and

549
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 1: he was already struggling, and so Slade had kind of

550
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 1: opened up and shared the story about how they found

551
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 1: out and stuff like that.

552
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:14,400
Speaker 4: Heartbreaking, so heartbreaking can till we live three years later.

553
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Speaker 1: I it honestly just warms my heart that like he

554
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,639
Speaker 1: was able to have as many years yeah, as like

555
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:22,879
Speaker 1: he did, and his.

556
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:26,080
Speaker 4: Poor mom, like she really lived her life to take

557
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:28,440
Speaker 4: care of him. Really heartbreaking.

558
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 1: Okay, Now I wish I had whiskey in this.

559
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,639
Speaker 4: Well we have we have champagne today.

560
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:39,400
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, that's what I should have done.

561
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 2: This is I think something that's going to help a

562
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:52,399
Speaker 2: lot of our listeners because there's a lot of people,

563
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:57,800
Speaker 2: of course, that are in relationships where you are, you know,

564
00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:01,000
Speaker 2: a bonus parent, you know, and you are and then

565
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 2: all of a sudden when you break up, how how

566
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:06,200
Speaker 2: do you kind of reconcile that and how do you

567
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:09,919
Speaker 2: how has that affected your future relationships?

568
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 3: And you know, now you're married, now and you're in

569
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:12,800
Speaker 3: a different place.

570
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:15,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean I always know, like when when

571
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 2: my mom and step my step mom was my stepmom

572
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 2: for twenty years and then you know, when they broke up,

573
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:25,119
Speaker 2: there was obviously like a huge shift and there's like

574
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:28,680
Speaker 2: that void, but there's also like you're trying to have boundaries,

575
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:31,160
Speaker 2: so kind of how did you deal with that after

576
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:31,719
Speaker 2: the breakup?

577
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:33,359
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think it was hard.

578
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:37,560
Speaker 1: I think it was actually harder like after I moved

579
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:41,040
Speaker 1: to LA, because I think it's easier to move on

580
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 1: from a relationship when you leave a city, right because

581
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:49,080
Speaker 1: it's just like, yeah, yeah, you leave everything behind, you

582
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 1: get caught up in LA and you know all the

583
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 1: things of La going out, like all the things you

584
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 1: do when you're young in LA and first moved to

585
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:57,360
Speaker 1: a new city. I think for me it really hit

586
00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:02,639
Speaker 1: me years later when you know, I would hear about

587
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:06,480
Speaker 1: Gavin or like you know, see somebody would send me

588
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:09,639
Speaker 1: something about Grayson, you know, a picture of him, an

589
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 1: update of him, anything, And I think it's in those

590
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 1: moments it was hard. But I did reach out to

591
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:17,080
Speaker 1: Gavin as well, like a few years ago, just to

592
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 1: tell him, Hi, I heard he got married. Congratulations. Just

593
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 1: as like somebody, you know, I know I don't have

594
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,920
Speaker 1: a right to, but like he was a big part

595
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Speaker 1: of my life.

596
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:29,119
Speaker 4: Everybody has a right to say something nice to somebody.

597
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:30,359
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's not like.

598
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 4: Right right, And then she broke up.

599
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:36,919
Speaker 3: You can still you still should And then what's your

600
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:39,880
Speaker 3: So you're you're married? Now, how how did you meet

601
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:40,680
Speaker 3: your new husband?

602
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:46,240
Speaker 5: Hinge? What we met in the middle of covid on Hinge?

603
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:50,760
Speaker 5: I read that, yes, and okay, literally it was one.

604
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:53,720
Speaker 1: Of these things where like I had been after the

605
00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 1: show in digital advertising and that's all I had done,

606
00:28:57,080 --> 00:29:01,440
Speaker 1: and I was kind of like shooting doing videos like photography,

607
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 1: and I was like, you know what, I'm going to

608
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 1: leave this incredible career behind to go pursue being a creator,

609
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 1: and that's what I did. And then three months later

610
00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 1: the pandemic hit. I was super focused on like the

611
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 1: YouTube channel, like building just like all of that. But

612
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 1: then it's the pandemic, so we're bored.

613
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 5: So I'm like.

614
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 1: Scrolling through and I was like, you know what, I

615
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 1: kind of just want to like flirt with cute boys,

616
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 1: and so I signed up for Hinge and he had

617
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 1: a disclaimer on his like profile that said I don't

618
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 1: want to meet anybody because you know, it's the pandemic.

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Speaker 5: And I was like, perfect, this is going to go nowhere,

620
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 5: let's go.

621
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Speaker 4: Yeah, why are you on hinge in your bio says

622
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:43,040
Speaker 4: I don't want to meet me.

623
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 3: But no, he's saying I don't want to meet anyone

624
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 3: in person.

625
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:49,720
Speaker 5: Yep, there was no VOBE. Okay, I got it.

626
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 1: And at the time his roommate was had health issues,

627
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 1: and then my roommate at the time also had health issues,

628
00:29:58,480 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 1: so it actually worked perfect.

629
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Speaker 2: And for those of you guys listening, COVID in LA

630
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 2: was different than COVID anywhere else, I mean other than

631
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:06,960
Speaker 2: New York.

632
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 3: I mean yeah, we were on lockdown.

633
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:12,240
Speaker 2: Like I remember, like five months into it, I hadn't

634
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 2: even seen people, and my friends came over and we

635
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:17,440
Speaker 2: sat outside with gloves on and we made each other

636
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 2: pee in the grass because.

637
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 3: You couldn't even like it was. Everyone bought their own drinks.

638
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 5: It was.

639
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,960
Speaker 1: It was wild, like yeah, like washed down. I never

640
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 1: washed down my like groceries, but like people like it was.

641
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, they would wash down the boxes that came from Amazon.

642
00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then the fruit, the special fruit spray that

643
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 3: I'd never heard of, because COVID could have been like

644
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 3: it was. La was another freaking beast.

645
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 1: It was a wild, wild time and so it was

646
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 1: like easy to see him and know like, oh perfect,

647
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 1: Like he doesn't want to meet. I want to focus

648
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 1: on what I'm doing and that's it. But just over

649
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 1: time talking to him, you know, over FaceTime, over zoom, you.

650
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 3: Know, just doing all the things intimacy.

651
00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 1: I ended up falling in love over a screen, and y'all,

652
00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 1: I swear I always say, I feel like I was

653
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 1: in a Love is Blind episode because I was falling

654
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:11,080
Speaker 1: in love with a human that, like literally over our screen,

655
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 1: that I had never met. Because also, we talked for

656
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 1: three months before our first date. I said I love

657
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 1: you before we ever met in person. We were boyfriend

658
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:23,080
Speaker 1: and girlfriend before we ever had our first date in

659
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 1: person three months later because again COVID, we were falling,

660
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 1: like falling into over.

661
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 5: Why, yes we did.

662
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:35,560
Speaker 4: I was like, all right, let's let's really get to

663
00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 4: yeeah yeah, fun sex.

664
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 5: Yes we had fun sex. Yeah, oh my god, greed.

665
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 4: And so how long were you dating before you got married?

666
00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:48,880
Speaker 1: We were dating like a year and a half and

667
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 1: then we got engaged and then we ended up getting

668
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 1: married like two years two.

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Speaker 4: And a half years later, and he's a music composer.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a music composer. But actual recently, we just

671
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:03,800
Speaker 1: started a creative agency. So I worked at TikTok this

672
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 1: last year and then we just decided to kind of

673
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:09,400
Speaker 1: like the dream has be a content creator full time,

674
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 1: but what needs to pay the bills is we wanted

675
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 1: to start a creative agency where we help brands like

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00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 1: show up on TikTok because obviously we had both kind

677
00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 1: of come from that world.

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00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 5: He was also working at a creative agency.

679
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:24,480
Speaker 1: So although we do have two separate rooms, so they're like,

680
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 1: how do you start a business with like your partner,

681
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 1: But honestly, like it's been good because there's like that separation.

682
00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 1: So yeah, we started Social play recently, so we've been

683
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 1: like just kind of like you know, doing.

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Speaker 3: On Social play. If they wanted to hire you guys

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00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 3: for help and whatnot.

686
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you can go to our website social playdigital

687
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 1: dot com and everything is on there. But yeah, we

688
00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 1: literally just started like a month ago, tunny like literally

689
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 1: baby baby baby brand, new business. Yeah, so I'm seeing that, like,

690
00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 1: you know, things can take off and you know, he

691
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 1: has one client, and I just feel like it's exciting

692
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 1: when you can like kind of hit the reset button

693
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 1: and start over and build something.

694
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 2: Together and something that you guys love and you're good at.

695
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 2: And yeah, you know what, after this, I have a

696
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 2: feeling we're going to see you on reality television again.

697
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:19,480
Speaker 2: Like I think I have to be honest, because I

698
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 2: didn't watch at the beginning, so I was like, you know,

699
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 2: like I was not I was like having one of

700
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:30,520
Speaker 2: those things about this interview anyone. You are so engaging,

701
00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 2: You're warm, you're easy to talk to, You've shown all

702
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:35,840
Speaker 2: of the emotions like we talked.

703
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 3: You have to understand we talked to housewives multiple times

704
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 3: a week and half the time.

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00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 2: Everybody's so media trained and so sheltered, very like you're

706
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 2: getting a certain type and you're just who you are,

707
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:49,720
Speaker 2: just giving it all.

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00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 3: I have to give you cups to that because that

709
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 3: is since.

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00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 4: You're giving it all, I have a question.

711
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you, and yet.

712
00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 2: We're going to take it back.

713
00:33:57,680 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 4: We're going to take it back quite a few years.

714
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 4: Did you ever hook up with Shane Kyo.

715
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:08,320
Speaker 3: The bunny Killer, Buddy Killer?

716
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:14,840
Speaker 5: She did? You did? Here's the thing, was it just

717
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:16,320
Speaker 5: a quick little hand job. Was it?

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00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:18,719
Speaker 3: No, a hand job?

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00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 5: Hold on?

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00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:21,760
Speaker 3: Is this gonna play out on the Is it a blowy?

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00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 5: No? No, it was none that It was way after,

722
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:28,799
Speaker 5: And honestly, I don't mean way after.

723
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 3: You watched his episodes and you're like that's a guy.

724
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:33,360
Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no no, no, I mean a

725
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:33,799
Speaker 3: good one.

726
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 5: Like after it was a kiss. It was a kiss,

727
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 5: It was just a kiss.

728
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:40,440
Speaker 1: Years after, Yeah, it was nothing, a little innocent heart

729
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 1: back then, like, yeah, it.

730
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 5: Was literally just a kiss.

731
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 4: And then he slipped And.

732
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 3: This is after the show. You've moved to l A.

733
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 1: I'm in LA Like this is years later, as in

734
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:02,000
Speaker 1: like I've been off the sho show for years. You know,

735
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 1: we've all like kind of moved on, and I don't

736
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:06,240
Speaker 1: even know how it happened.

737
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:08,440
Speaker 4: You're friends with Alexis, right, I am.

738
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:11,880
Speaker 1: I love Alexis so much. And one thing that I

739
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:15,759
Speaker 1: don't understand is why people call. Like just yesterday, I

740
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 1: was telling someone like, oh, you know, just sharing like

741
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 1: I'm going to go on a podcast having done you

742
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 1: know something housewives in a second, and they were like

743
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 1: with who, I'm like Tamar and they're like, oh, that's awesome.

744
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:28,600
Speaker 1: Do you talk to anyone anymore. I'm like, yeah, Gina Alexis,

745
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 1: and they're like, oh, Jesus drugs.

746
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 4: I'm like, why do people say, like, well, because I

747
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:44,920
Speaker 4: called her Jesus jugs once that. Yeah, but you have

748
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 4: to understand when she was with her ex husband, Yeah,

749
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 4: she was a different person. Okay, she was a very

750
00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:53,239
Speaker 4: different person.

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00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, first of all, I've never even noticed her

752
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 1: boops are big, and second of all, the sweetest, nicest human,

753
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 1: very sweet, very very Again, I wasn't on the show

754
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 1: with her, and we also connected post yeah yeah, yeah,

755
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 1: And I would.

756
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:09,919
Speaker 4: Love for her to be back on the show where

757
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:12,799
Speaker 4: she is now because she's like in a relationship now

758
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 4: getting married.

759
00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:16,719
Speaker 5: Tam Oh, I don't.

760
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 4: I don't have a problem with her. I had a problem,

761
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:20,880
Speaker 4: Like I just didn't like her ex husband.

762
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:22,680
Speaker 5: Okay, I don't.

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00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 4: It was allegedly allegedly, No, he just was very you know,

764
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 4: she was a different person. I think with him, got

765
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 4: it and she probably is today.

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00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 5: Okay, that makes sense, got I got it? Yeah, yeah,

767
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:37,680
Speaker 5: I got it. And I'm all for for you know,

768
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:39,320
Speaker 5: people changing.

769
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 4: But I think she's a kind person. I don't think

770
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 4: she's got like a mean bone in her body.

771
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:44,160
Speaker 3: I don't think she's malicious.

772
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 2: No, I haven't gotten to any life, not at all.

773
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:49,879
Speaker 2: So so I have nothing to weigh in here other

774
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 2: than what I heard from the past.

775
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:52,879
Speaker 5: Yeah.

776
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:56,439
Speaker 1: But also I feel like all of us on the show,

777
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:59,400
Speaker 1: like I know, let's be honest, eighty percent of my

778
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 1: interview I had probably a cocktail or two in me. Ye,

779
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 1: Like I remember seeing some episodes where I'm like, Joe,

780
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:10,239
Speaker 1: are you really slurring as you're talking to camera, like.

781
00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:13,840
Speaker 3: You're smoking a cigarette outside? Honestly heaven.

782
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:17,839
Speaker 2: I was like the fact she gives so she I mean,

783
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:19,600
Speaker 2: you could tell the two thousand and six grand and

784
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:21,480
Speaker 2: my parents would dropped me off at school with like

785
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:24,439
Speaker 2: cigarettes and we would all no one had car seats.

786
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 3: Or anything like a different time.

787
00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:28,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, but the fact that you're like he's like come

788
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 2: home and you're like, no, I know, it's not even late.

789
00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 3: And he's like it's three am, and you're like, I know.

790
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 5: It literally like who was I? Who was she? Like

791
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 5: I I?

792
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 1: And so I just feel like a lot of us,

793
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:45,319
Speaker 1: Like also, I don't do pink boas and deebra hats

794
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 1: and made costumes anymore, right, I feel like we all right,

795
00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 1: we're probably not who we were back when we were.

796
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:54,959
Speaker 3: Except for Vica, She's said exactly the same.

797
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:58,120
Speaker 4: Ye, Pinky's never changed except her face, which.

798
00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:01,480
Speaker 5: By the way, I have to love. I think she

799
00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:02,320
Speaker 5: looks amazing.

800
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:06,400
Speaker 2: She does, but I have to say, no, I have

801
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 2: to say now that I watch season one, her original

802
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:10,280
Speaker 2: face is a nice face.

803
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 5: Yeah.

804
00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:13,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't have a problem with that face.

805
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 5: Nope, I get it.

806
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:17,800
Speaker 3: We all have our own thing. I've had a necklace.

807
00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:20,759
Speaker 4: Speaking of speaking of your face, well, does anybody ever

808
00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 4: mistake you for Megan Markle?

809
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 5: That's super sweet. I have been told that before.

810
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 3: I can see it.

811
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 1: I see every time someone I'm like, y'all are way

812
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 1: too kind because like, I don't see it.

813
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:36,360
Speaker 5: I think it's funny and thank you.

814
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 1: By the way, I'm watching Suits right now because all

815
00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:41,879
Speaker 1: of my shows are done for the year. I had

816
00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:45,840
Speaker 1: no idea she was actually an incredible actress.

817
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 4: I've never seen it.

818
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 1: It's like, if you're bored, Yeah, if you're ever bored,

819
00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna watch Peacock.

820
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 4: Netflix has nothing right now, nothing.

821
00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:00,120
Speaker 3: Hold on, No, I was recently obsessed with some thing,

822
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:01,040
Speaker 3: but now I can't remember.

823
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 4: I probably already seen it.

824
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:06,279
Speaker 1: Summerhouse also an amazing recommendation if you need a new

825
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:06,799
Speaker 1: show to watch.

826
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 5: I'm obsessed. People are It's all provo.

827
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So I have a question if you had

828
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:14,839
Speaker 2: to pick somebody just this is our closing question has

829
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 2: nothing to do with Orange County. If you had to

830
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 2: pick somebody from Vanner Pomp Rules to have sex with,

831
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:22,200
Speaker 2: who would it be?

832
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:23,479
Speaker 5: Guy?

833
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:27,799
Speaker 3: Yeah? Either or either?

834
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:34,800
Speaker 5: Oh man, I guess James Kennedy.

835
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:41,399
Speaker 1: I can't think James because, honestly, like the other two

836
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:44,680
Speaker 1: are just no, it's too much of a wreck. The

837
00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 1: other time is way too passive. And I just feel

838
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 1: like James would give it. I feel like, you know, I.

839
00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:54,399
Speaker 4: Feel like time James would be a good time in bed.

840
00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:57,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, you'd probably be drinking right before it happened.

841
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:00,920
Speaker 1: I mean he would last a long time, you know,

842
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:04,399
Speaker 1: young fun girls to sir like, that's my vibe.

843
00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:05,480
Speaker 4: I don't hate that answer.

844
00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't need to do that.

845
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 3: But mine is Tom Schwartz.

846
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 5: Really he is. Yeah, I feel he looks like my dad.

847
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 3: Absolutely not, he looks like a dad.

848
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 5: I feel like he would.

849
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:21,400
Speaker 4: I'm gonna fantasize it's gonna be about somebody today that he.

850
00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 3: Had an a hommer in an ill fitting suit, he'd

851
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:25,520
Speaker 3: be Joe's tight.

852
00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:32,600
Speaker 5: Teddy plans. Do not know. I feel like Tom would

853
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:35,239
Speaker 5: like make love to you and James would like, No, I.

854
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 3: Don't want making love, absolutely not.

855
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 5: That's not happening.

856
00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:43,239
Speaker 3: But we appreciate you so much.

857
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:45,200
Speaker 5: Thank you so much for having me. This was super

858
00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 5: fun and Teddy, it was really nice meeting you.

859
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:48,319
Speaker 3: It was nice meeting you too.

860
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 4: Where can people find you?

861
00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 5: Instagram?

862
00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can go on Instagram Jody Larissa with two

863
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 1: a's at the end, or you can go to TikTok

864
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:56,520
Speaker 1: Jody Larissa Gray.

865
00:40:57,520 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 5: Awesome.

866
00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:00,319
Speaker 3: Thank you so much. Thank you Joe so much.

867
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 5: She thanks for having me Chay to have on.

868
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:06,280
Speaker 3: I know, like she's so likable.

869
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:07,799
Speaker 5: I know I'm like us