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Speaker 1: Let's go letter alright, subject, I want a little extra too.

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Speaker 1: I want a little something extra too. Here's Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: This is uh. This one is short and sweet. I

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Speaker 1: actually want Tommy's opinion too. If that's so, you know

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Speaker 1: it's a crazy letter. No, no, no, but that's you

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Speaker 1: see how they need how they included. This one is

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Speaker 1: shot as sweet. I actually won't time his opinion too.

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Speaker 1: That's right, Oh, short sentence I get. I've been married

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Speaker 1: to a wonderful man for the past twelve years, and

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Speaker 1: we have a great marriage. I have done any and

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Speaker 1: everything to make him happy. Most importantly, we have a

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Speaker 1: very exciting sex life. I often let him have threesomes,

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Speaker 1: and I've started to really enjoy them myself. But there's

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Speaker 1: a big problem. Our threesomes are always with females. I

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Speaker 1: want to switch it up and have another man to

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Speaker 1: join us sometimes instead of a woman. When I bring

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Speaker 1: this up to my husband, he always gets mad and

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Speaker 1: ends the conversation. Why can't I have a little something

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Speaker 1: extra too? So it's okay for him to have all

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Speaker 1: the fun? I don't think. So what do you guys think?

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Speaker 1: I think you're barking up the wrong tree. Uh, this

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Speaker 1: is never gonna happen. This is what happens, really when

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Speaker 1: bedroom games go just a little too far. You say

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Speaker 1: you do any and everything to make him happy. You

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Speaker 1: have not said one time in the letter what he

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Speaker 1: does to make you happy? You asked him, and you

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Speaker 1: see it didn't happen. It's called a double double standard.

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Speaker 1: Wifey Um. As crazy as it seems, just no man

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Speaker 1: really wants to lie back and watch his wife get

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Speaker 1: done by another man. I mean, you know, in very

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Speaker 1: rare occasions, it's just you know, very rare occasions, maybe, yeah,

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Speaker 1: but generally no, Um, it's just not gonna happen. He

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Speaker 1: wants to have all the fun, like you said, and

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Speaker 1: satisfy his fantasies by watching you and another woman and

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Speaker 1: be able to do another him and while you don't

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Speaker 1: get mad but actually cheer him on and don't mind

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Speaker 1: it a bit. A lot of men will sign up

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Speaker 1: for that if that's what they're into. But you're tired

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Speaker 1: of his selfishness and the one sidedness and all of this, right, well,

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Speaker 1: please realize it's not going to change, and he will

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Speaker 1: probably never allow another man in the bedroom, uh in

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Speaker 1: a threesome. So I say, shut all of this manager

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Speaker 1: stuff down, shut it down all together. Try to get

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Speaker 1: back to the intimacy of the two of you. Uh,

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Speaker 1: and if if you can, Because this kind of relationship,

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Speaker 1: this kind of intrusion in your marriage and in your bed. Uh,

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Speaker 1: it's bound to cause some major problems. And it already

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Speaker 1: is doing that, Steve Well, she wants Tommy's opinion. This

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Speaker 1: is right up Tommy's that. I'm gonna let Tommy join in,

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Speaker 1: But let me explain something to you first. Yeah, there

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Speaker 1: can only be one dangling participle. There can only be

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Speaker 1: one dangling part of siple. Glad in this situation. Men

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Speaker 1: ain't gonna be in no room. And there's more than

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Speaker 1: one of these dangling part of ciplicals in this room

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Speaker 1: because he Now it's not a threesome anymore, it's an orgy.

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Speaker 1: Now we like threesoms. We don't care for orgies. Hello,

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Speaker 1: see a pile of but is in the flow, and

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Speaker 1: it's a men somewhere and my my leg touched his legs. See,

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Speaker 1: we gotta be a problem in hire. Now I can't

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Speaker 1: look over there, and all of a sudden he rubbing

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Speaker 1: on my wash your hand over you have a an

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Speaker 1: orgy and it's not this is not a threesome. An

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Speaker 1: it more threesomes. It's clearly defined as to what they are.

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Speaker 1: I ain't with none of this, but Tommy, go ahead,

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Speaker 1: I am with all of this. Keep giving the threesomes.

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Speaker 1: Don't stop this. Don't be selfish. It's not about you.

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Speaker 1: I want to stop. That's not the issue. She doesn't

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Speaker 1: want to stop. This is not about her. We're not

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Speaker 1: bringing in extra men. You can't that that other man

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Speaker 1: can't graze up against me. That can't happen. But the

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Speaker 1: threesomes have to continue. Whoever y'all bringing in there, Octavia, whoever?

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Speaker 1: It is sure not to say, but but whoever you

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Speaker 1: bringing in there, I have I'm not saying I have participated,

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Speaker 1: but I have heard about these engagements and they're wonderful.

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Speaker 1: You want this, and if you start now, I'm just saying, certainly,

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Speaker 1: if you started out doing this for your man, this

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Speaker 1: has to continue now. She says, she enjoys it too,

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Speaker 1: I can't don't get calm. The boat rampage everywhere. Well,

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Speaker 1: That boy over that damage in the prophet he over

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Speaker 1: don't look like it can be no more good. Please,

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Speaker 1: you ain't here Holland, but Holland harder and lot than

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Speaker 1: when he and that she likes things in threes. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she wanted a three part answer from all of us. Well,

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Speaker 1: there you have it. Surely said it right. No man

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Speaker 1: You know that's y'all. But you know I'm I see

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Speaker 1: once Sheirley is right. Once you bring this in, let

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Speaker 1: the games begin. So what you ought to do is

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Speaker 1: just surprise him part two of your response to today's

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Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. So she are going to do a reactment

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Speaker 1: of what can happen with this woman who's been doing

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Speaker 1: this threesome with a man because she's enjoyed it. Now

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Speaker 1: she thinks he's having all the fun. She wants you

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Speaker 1: induce another man into it. And here's what can happen

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Speaker 1: if that happens. I come in from work. Honey. Oh

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Speaker 1: hey baby, how you doing, honey, I'm good girl. Hey

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Speaker 1: you ready for that? You know we talked about doing this, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: and boyd I have a surprise for you. I like

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Speaker 1: your surprise, and you're gonna like that last one you

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Speaker 1: had it here, that last one I got the fat. Oh,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you honey. Well, well, it is my

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Speaker 1: hope that you'll be high fighting baby. But baby, but

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Speaker 1: notice what, honey, I'm fine as you do. Thank you, honey.

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Speaker 1: That makes me feel good. That makes me feel good.

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Speaker 1: You feel thank you? Oh do you? Honey? Thank you?

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Speaker 1: I hope you still feel that way. Let's always well,

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Speaker 1: take my hand, let me lead you on into the bedroom.

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Speaker 1: Open the door. I know you're don't keep your eye

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Speaker 1: You're so excited. Right, Oh, this is gonna be fun.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna love this, honey. Just a couple more stairs

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Speaker 1: to go. Careful, careful, careful, I know. Okay, careful, here

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Speaker 1: can open your eyes now, open honey. What's going on? Next?

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Speaker 1: Is my name? Next? Loan? Well? Honey, yeah, Well, I

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Speaker 1: I surprised you, honey. You know what I told you,

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Speaker 1: I've been telling you I wanted to switch it up

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Speaker 1: a bit and maybe bring here, Hey, pardon, who are you? Hey?

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Speaker 1: Like I said before, man next next to Long, Honey,

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Speaker 1: this is Dexter. Yeah, well I just call him dex

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Speaker 1: You called him Decks. Yeah, you called me dex to

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Speaker 1: hold on, hold on? Why why is he in here?

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Speaker 1: But well because, honey, you know, I've been telling you

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Speaker 1: have some fun too, So I brought in dex. You know,

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Speaker 1: we always have a woman, and now I thought, you know,

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Speaker 1: little bit. To sit back, hold on, hold on, hold on, dog,

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Speaker 1: hold on dog? What you work? What? Yes? Yes? What? What? What? What? What?

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Speaker 1: What do you mean to do that? Baby? Well? Um,

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Speaker 1: at the grocery store, he was in the produce section.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on back a partner?

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Speaker 1: What are you when you're laughing for? And why are

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Speaker 1: you standing here in your draw? Like I said, this

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Speaker 1: is Dexter, Dexter Long. And you know we're gonna add

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Speaker 1: a little spice to what you and your wife got going.

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Speaker 1: Hey Hey, hey, hey, already know what to name is

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out why you can hear? Why

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Speaker 1: I got a drug? And what is all this equipment

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Speaker 1: in here? Well, we just brought a little few toys

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Speaker 1: to have some fun. Brother, Sit back and swing site.

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Speaker 1: What is the swings sitting here for? So I can

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Speaker 1: swing on in there? What do the market? Do you

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Speaker 1: gotta swing? Set on market? You got a cam quarter

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Speaker 1: were filming this? We film hold the other ones? Honey?

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Speaker 1: What do you mean? I thought it'd be fun with

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Speaker 1: hold on? Hold on the three of us. The grocery

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Speaker 1: store you meet? Just do that? How you get in

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Speaker 1: my house? How this man get in my house? Down

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Speaker 1: at the Girlson's. We don't go to Gilson baby, we're

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Speaker 1: shopping whole foods and round. What the hell are you

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Speaker 1: doing down to jail? Well? I just wanted to do

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Speaker 1: something different. Yeah, she met me right by the cucumber.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, don't his name is Deck? Honey? Did you

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Speaker 1: see the past? See the pecks on dead? Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: looking at the pecks on dead. I'm looking at the

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Speaker 1: rip ash bowl and I'm scared them and you and

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Speaker 1: I don't know where you got in the que comber.

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Speaker 1: Hold up, don't hold put your crothes on and get

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Speaker 1: I came in mind the Bama man. Hey, well, hold,

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Speaker 1: I'm don't How did you get over here? No? I

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Speaker 1: drove okay, did you drive you and your draws out

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Speaker 1: of my bedroom? Because you know, hey, you ain't hunting,

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Speaker 1: helly dog, don't don't he don't if you get your

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Speaker 1: because they How about this, brother, how about this? How

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Speaker 1: about you run to the store real quick and let

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Speaker 1: me go and don't take care this. Oh okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: hold on, I'm going to the store. I'll be right

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Speaker 1: back on come on, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. And guess

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Speaker 1: when I'm pointing that dick. Yeah yeah, I know. Not

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Speaker 1: come home, brother, Yeah, de deck needed that's gonna need

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Speaker 1: something else too. That're gonna need medical. Get your get

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Speaker 1: up out of here, all right, honey, we gotta go. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and she got to be all right. Listen, go to

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Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. Go at my girls, Shirley, you're listening to

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning show