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Speaker 1: All right, So Steve, here's a question for you. Since

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Speaker 1: you're the CLO, the chief Love Officer. All right, how

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Speaker 1: long do you think it takes before couples, you know,

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Speaker 1: have the talk about how to label their relationship? And

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Speaker 1: I'm asking you that because a new study. This is

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Speaker 1: according to a new study, it says that it takes

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Speaker 1: on average six weeks to have what you know, what

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Speaker 1: we are talk and to label the relationship. Well, you

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Speaker 1: know when you have to talk about your relationship and

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Speaker 1: putting labels on where are we going? Where? You know,

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Speaker 1: what are we doing? You know what?

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Speaker 2: We should have it at a restaurant?

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Speaker 1: No no, no, no no, I said, you know, like

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Speaker 1: when when in the what time in the relationship should

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Speaker 1: we have it?

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Speaker 2: I think ninety days?

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Speaker 3: Okay, I think for a roman's sake, I think a

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Speaker 3: woman has to get a determination, get some type of

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Speaker 3: idea of where this is going, okay, and when.

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Speaker 1: She finds ou out just give it up because that's

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Speaker 1: ninety days.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know you don't have to do you said,

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Speaker 2: that's a guy. Don't mean give it up, but go ahead, Steve, what.

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Speaker 3: But you know, ninety days you should have an idea

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Speaker 3: what it's going you have every right to know and

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Speaker 3: ask man.

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Speaker 2: What is his head?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Another question, Steve, how should they bring it up?

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Speaker 1: How should you broach that subject?

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Speaker 2: The text messages, that's for sure. You know.

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Speaker 3: If a woman is curious about what the relationship is,

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Speaker 3: she got to bring it up.

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Speaker 2: If a man wants to define it, he needs to

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Speaker 2: bring it up.

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Speaker 1: And how should they do that? That was my original.

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Speaker 2: Hey, where we're going?

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Speaker 1: Just right out with it?

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Speaker 2: I said, if where we're going? What is all this?

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Speaker 2: What were doing in that tone?

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Speaker 1: No, but that's the man, because that can't be the woman. Well, hello,

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Speaker 1: you surely don't rush past that. Wait, baby, man, Yola,

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Speaker 1: it could be I'm just asking to Steve.

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Speaker 3: Don't you think that.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: For women sometimes they might feel it's kind of awkward

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Speaker 4: or they don't know how to do that to just

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Speaker 4: come right out with it and say, hey, where we

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Speaker 4: going with this question?

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Speaker 1: What are we?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? That you just saying come right on out with it?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean you know you could try like round about.

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Speaker 3: So can I ask you a question? Yeah, my girlfriends

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Speaker 3: are starting to ask me what type of relationship is this?

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Speaker 2: What should I say? Okay, you know that's what should

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Speaker 2: I be saying to people? And let him give you.

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Speaker 1: Another Yeah, that's what that's now, that's what I wanted

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Speaker 1: to know. Yeah, how that's what I figured you're meant.

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Speaker 1: But that's good, clo, that's good. So wait like ninety

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Speaker 1: days to even bring up the talk and kind of

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Speaker 1: ease into it. You're saying, kind of ease into it, right.

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Speaker 3: Ninety days, ladies, you have every right to be able

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Speaker 3: to say, okay, so what do we have? Especially if

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Speaker 3: ninety days you start passing out that cookie. There's no

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Speaker 3: reason for you to pass out to cookie and not

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Speaker 3: understand what it is. Okay, you know, if we if

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Speaker 3: we're a committee, really you should know that.

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Speaker 2: I'd want to know that before I passed out the cookie. Yeah, right?

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Speaker 3: Is this a monogamous relationship? Are we committed exclusive? Are

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Speaker 3: we exclusive?

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Speaker 2: What is it? I need to know? Okay? You know

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Speaker 2: that makes sense?

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Speaker 1: Don't Oh? Yes, yes, yes? And then you say when

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Speaker 1: you want to bring the subject up, you kind of

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Speaker 1: ease into it.

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Speaker 3: You know, just slide it to him, you know what

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Speaker 3: I mean? Hey, look, you know we've been dating for

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Speaker 3: a while and my girlfriends and co workers are starting

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Speaker 3: to ask me, what is this we have, so I mean,

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Speaker 3: how would you like for me to address you or

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Speaker 3: describe you what I'm talking to other people, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, kind of put it on them a.

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Speaker 1: Little Yeah, what and what should the woman say if

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Speaker 1: the man asked her? Or will a man ask her

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Speaker 1: that question?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, of course the dudes that want

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Speaker 2: to know?

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Speaker 1: And what should the woman say?

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Speaker 2: You know? The truth?

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know, God could say, hey, maybe look,

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Speaker 3: we've been at this for a little while. Are we

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Speaker 3: exclusive or no? And then if it's exclusive, you got

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Speaker 3: to tell him yes. And if it's not, then you

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Speaker 3: just got to said, hey, no, it's not really do

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Speaker 3: something seeing some other people. Okay, all right, we thank

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Speaker 3: you your name exactly.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, c l O. We'll be back with more

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Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

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Speaker 2: It is Steve Harvey more on the show. Man ain't

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Speaker 2: nobody playing with y'all.

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Speaker 3: I was coming out of Mason with a bag in

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Speaker 3: my hand.

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Speaker 2: I had a new bride, just trying to meet all.

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Speaker 1: Man and then I sitting in the food caught.

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Speaker 2: Bad goals my Jesus. Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up

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Speaker 2: right after