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Speaker 2: My late brother in law's girlfriend is trying to steal

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Speaker 2: my husband, so I shut her down. Don't let her

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Speaker 2: steal it. Be like a goalie blocket. That's right. My

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Speaker 2: female twenty five husband male twenty nine has a very

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Speaker 2: delusional sister in law, female twenty seven, who we will

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Speaker 2: call Kelly. Now. Kelly is the girlfriend and also my

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Speaker 2: dad's name. Fun fact, Kelly is the girlfriend of my

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Speaker 2: husband's late brother. They were not married, but we're allowed

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Speaker 2: to be called sister in law for the sake of

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Speaker 2: their four year old son. Hence the title half cooked

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Speaker 2: sister in law, not fully baked just yet. Oh man,

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Speaker 2: that is not a great title to have. By the way,

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Speaker 2: this comes from the user titled Emotional Spirit four nine three,

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Speaker 2: to the r slash Okay Storytime subred So Kelly was

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Speaker 2: actually a nice person at first, but her delusional tendencies

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Speaker 2: he was madly in love with her. Receipts maybe not.

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Speaker 2: That was never true. That was never true, as he

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Speaker 2: treated everyone the same way he treated her. My issues

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Speaker 2: with her started when she began targeting my husband and

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Speaker 2: making all kinds of unreasonable requests. She once asked him

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Speaker 2: was so scared. Hmmm, interesting, mind you, they only had

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Speaker 2: one bed and it was on the floor in the

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Speaker 2: entire unit. We asked her to just come over to

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Speaker 2: her and her child to stay for a while. Since

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Speaker 2: we also had a spare room she and the child

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Speaker 2: come over to her instead. This is very suspicious. This

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Speaker 2: is very much giving ICU. I'm seeing it. I'm seeing

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Speaker 2: what's your ICU That maybe I'm misunderstanding the story here.

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Speaker 2: This is the half baked sister in law right, so

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Speaker 2: there's no actual like blood relation she's interested in. Kelly

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Speaker 2: wants husband, but.

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Speaker 3: Aren't they related somehow? Just just through marriage?

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Speaker 2: Right, you're okay? Not tell me if I'm wrong. Okay,

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Speaker 2: wait here, let's catch up. Yes, chat really quick. Yes.

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Speaker 2: So basically there is the husband and a sister in

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Speaker 2: to the husband, I believe. Making sure she's the girlfriend

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Speaker 2: of my husband's late brother. They are not related, there's

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Speaker 2: think she's looking for a man, and she's just like, hey,

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Speaker 2: Opie's husband, just come sleep with me in my house

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Speaker 2: every day. Just my kid is scared.

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Speaker 1: Can sleep with me enough? Then you'll actually sleep with

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Speaker 1: me enough. Yes, you know that you sleep next to me,

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Speaker 1: You'll want me. That's what I'm thinking. It's love byas Moses, Moses. Hey,

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Speaker 1: if I can't have bro, what's the next best thing you?

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Speaker 1: Katelee Pulla, Dan says very sus I see you.

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Speaker 2: That's all I'm saying. That's all I'm saying. So my

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Speaker 2: together because, according to her, she needed help because she's

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Speaker 2: a helpless single mother with a fatherless child and her

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Speaker 2: child needs a father figure. Bear, he's also this kid's uncle.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so yeah, but I guess it's but I think

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like Ezekiel is like, sorry, we only have one

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Speaker 2: That is exactly what I think Kelly is trying to

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Speaker 2: My husband then outright refused and suggested that she bring

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Speaker 1: Wait, so the mother in law hasn't made taking care

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Speaker 1: These be a service that real ideas we're putting on

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Speaker 1: the time. In Japan, they have like rented Grandpa. Why

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Speaker 2: Right in front of me.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, smugs. She is literally trying to swoop.

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Speaker 2: She's writing her own SOPs.

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Speaker 1: She is she is she is making your man and operations,

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Speaker 2: Full video recordings at all. Now, it didn't stop there.

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Speaker 2: She also tries to copy me as much as possible.

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Speaker 3: And then you slightly have pictures together and they're slightly

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Speaker 2: people would mistake them for father and son. Is she

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Speaker 2: trying to insinuate, like you look like his dad in fidelity?

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Speaker 2: his kid, reverse paternity tests in the story, that's I

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Speaker 2: would love to see crazy well. She then proceeded to

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Speaker 2: my mother in law asks, what do you mean? I

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Speaker 2: casually said, well, why don't you ask Kelly? She's been

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Speaker 2: trying to get my husband alone with her for some time. Now,

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Speaker 1: In front exposing family, exposing it, showing it in the light,

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Speaker 2: Is this a good idea? I think this is too much,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean she's the one, the sister in law

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Speaker 1: to stop? Kelly needs to stop. I wonder if this.

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Speaker 2: Is just going to bring more drama to Opie because you're.

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Speaker 3: Doing crazy things around crazy people, it's just gonna escalate.

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Speaker 1: The crazy person will always be crazier than you.

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Speaker 3: I think Sam said it better. The crazier person will

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Speaker 2: Yeah, absolute facts. So then Kelly shouts, what the heck

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Speaker 2: a home wrecker in the making, a stalker and a creep.

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Speaker 2: No wonder, no one would date you. God, your child

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Speaker 2: will be better off without this witch of a mom

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Speaker 2: in his life. I yelled back at her. All right,

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Speaker 2: all right, Opie, you're it's a little bit too much.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know if this is going

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Speaker 2: and you are saying the truth, Opie? Is is the

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Speaker 2: I'd say a little too authentically. Yeah, maybe a little

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Speaker 2: my husband told me what I said wasn't nice. I

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Speaker 2: asked if he was defending her. He said no, He

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Speaker 2: agreed that Kelly deserved to be told off, but not

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Speaker 2: in a humiliating manner and definitely not in front of

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Speaker 1: Oh, that was in front of the kids. The whole

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Speaker 2: Literally everyone was there and she's just going crazy, which

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Speaker 2: but I think husband had a great response. It's like, yes, uh,

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Speaker 1: Your poison Tonic says she got a backbone, and like, yes,

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Speaker 1: I think I think it is important to set a

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Speaker 2: Mother in law explained that while Kelly's actions might not

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and again another cash money move right here, low

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Speaker 2: Must be a fan of the show. Yeah, they're doing everything,

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Speaker 2: all the core tenants. I'll update you guys if anything

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Speaker 2: The thing is this next part isn't an update? Ohlway?

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Speaker 2: Is it from the other other signment from Kelly? No way,

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Speaker 1: It feels like the Timmy Turner Jimmy Neutron crossover.

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Speaker 2: You know, dude, it's always they're rare, but when they happen,

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Speaker 2: Ops just you know, getting in the way. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, right now, both parties are the a hole,

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Speaker 2: Oh I don't know, at least right now, I'm not

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Speaker 2: I would be impressed. I would be impressed.

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Speaker 1: I would be impressed, As says Sam, just had a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, mine's coming up next. Yeah oh yeah yeah, John

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Speaker 2: you're talking about, Opie. My sister has been a nuisance

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Speaker 1: Rather be cheated on like when you were before you died,

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Speaker 2: What the are you? Yeah? You need a little water period?

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Speaker 2: tell me what time you're going to meet with mother

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Speaker 2: in law in that witch, I'm gonna be going in

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Speaker 2: Kelly's sister is like, you know, I'm coming in and

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Speaker 2: We do have some realivant comments. Any conspiracy theory predictions

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Speaker 2: on what's gonna happen in this meeting? Oh? I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, what what do you say to someone whose

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Speaker 2: And I wonder if mother in law or other people know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this almost feels like, hey, we're we're we are

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Speaker 2: Please.

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Speaker 1: And I think we've gotten to that level here break

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Speaker 2: Yes, I agree, I think at this point, And honestly,

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00:19:57,680 --> 00:19:59,919
Speaker 2: I do wonder if mother in law knows, because now

431
00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:03,000
Speaker 2: now before it's like oh dude, w move my mother

432
00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:05,199
Speaker 2: in law. Now I'm like, I feel like this is

433
00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:07,920
Speaker 2: almost like we had this in a story yesterday where

434
00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:10,399
Speaker 2: it's like if you sometimes when you stay neutral, it

435
00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:13,240
Speaker 2: actually sides with the aggressor.

436
00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:16,200
Speaker 1: You know, if you see this kind of behavior again

437
00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:18,560
Speaker 1: and again, yes, and you're not protecting the people that

438
00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:22,159
Speaker 1: are getting hurt by it, then you're really just supporting

439
00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:23,639
Speaker 1: the perpetrator.

440
00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:24,439
Speaker 2: Of Yeah, that evil.

441
00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:27,680
Speaker 1: So, as Eagle says Sam, maybe that's how she agrees

442
00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:32,399
Speaker 1: when I'm sad, spicy sleep definitely makes me feel better that,

443
00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:36,359
Speaker 1: you know, get a jigglo or something like just.

444
00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:41,000
Speaker 2: Someone's not Wait wait wait, wait wait what jigglo gigglow, gigglow.

445
00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:45,359
Speaker 2: It's a male spicy spicy worker. Oh I thought that

446
00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:47,840
Speaker 2: was what's the thing in fiction?

447
00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:59,600
Speaker 1: A gamp a gamp? Different, different but different, potentially same energy. Yeah, yeah, yeah, anyway, anyway, we've.

448
00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:02,000
Speaker 2: Got some real comments. Your voice why.

449
00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:05,639
Speaker 1: Says she grieves with her legs wide open, colored heart

450
00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:06,440
Speaker 1: open legs.

451
00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:08,360
Speaker 2: Hey, to get over someone, you gotta get under one,

452
00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:15,600
Speaker 2: get six feet under. The guys stoping so hard. It's

453
00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:19,600
Speaker 2: getting hot in here. Okay, anyway, let's get into these comments.

454
00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:22,240
Speaker 2: So comment number one, My brother in law passed away

455
00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:25,080
Speaker 2: and my sister in law attempted to take my husband too.

456
00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:28,960
Speaker 2: What is the thing? Apparently all the kids are doing it.

457
00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:31,760
Speaker 2: He almost fell for it in his grief over losing

458
00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:33,960
Speaker 2: his brother. The fact that your husband is standing his

459
00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:36,960
Speaker 2: ground is good. That is the craziest way to say.

460
00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:41,160
Speaker 2: My husband nearly cheated. H he almost fell for it.

461
00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:45,920
Speaker 2: It's crazy. That's crazy. Meet with Kelly and the mother

462
00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:48,520
Speaker 2: in law. Then limit your contact with her, but set

463
00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:51,880
Speaker 2: up a visitation schedule with the child and your husband,

464
00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:54,719
Speaker 2: because that is a relationship that will matter going forward,

465
00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:57,760
Speaker 2: and you should be the one who does the pickup

466
00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:00,439
Speaker 2: and drop offs, not your husband. What do we think

467
00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:01,720
Speaker 2: on that planet? Quick? Gotcha?

468
00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:04,000
Speaker 1: So it's like, hey, let's have a relationship with this kid,

469
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:06,560
Speaker 1: but you are not touching growing anywhere near my house.

470
00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:08,879
Speaker 2: Schedule to see the nephew, and I am basically the

471
00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:10,800
Speaker 2: wall between you and my husband. I like it. I

472
00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:12,280
Speaker 2: like it. I like it. I like it like a lot.

473
00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:18,000
Speaker 2: Comment turn number two. Everyone sucks here, especially Kelly. Oh god,

474
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 2: Obviously Cistern Lawn is a huge ahole, and she's embarrassing

475
00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:24,159
Speaker 2: and desperate. She may need mental health assistance since her

476
00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:27,000
Speaker 2: strange obsession is increasing, that is true. Let's see if

477
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:28,520
Speaker 2: we can get her some mental health.

478
00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:32,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh god, sheeds wow.

479
00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:35,520
Speaker 2: Like all over twenty four to seven for a while,

480
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 2: the premium package, the plan yeatin therapy. You did mishandle

481
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,760
Speaker 2: the situation, and you were unnecessarily cruel about it, and

482
00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:47,399
Speaker 2: it absolutely was inappropriate in front of kids, especially hers. Agreed.

483
00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:50,520
Speaker 2: We said that. We said that, indeed, this sounds including

484
00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:53,920
Speaker 2: your attack on her like some trashy Jerry Springer, low class,

485
00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 2: race to the gutter, have some dignity. Your husband is right?

486
00:22:57,320 --> 00:22:59,719
Speaker 2: All right? Well that was that was a little harsh.

487
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,119
Speaker 2: But I do agree with the points. Yes, I do

488
00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:04,879
Speaker 2: agree with the points too. There's a reply. But husband

489
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:07,440
Speaker 2: should have shut that crap down a long time ago.

490
00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 2: He didn't. She did not the a hole. I think, like,

491
00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:16,119
Speaker 2: especially where has the husband been, especially after OPI points

492
00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:18,439
Speaker 2: it out, like, Yo, your sister in law is like

493
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:20,320
Speaker 2: trying to get in with you. You got you gotta

494
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 2: shut that down, like you know, or like let's do

495
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:23,320
Speaker 2: something here.

496
00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:26,760
Speaker 1: I don't know, like, yeah, why hasn't the husband been

497
00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:30,359
Speaker 1: vocal and putting boundaries up?

498
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:33,600
Speaker 2: And maybe he did, but it did something, but we

499
00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 2: we haven't really gotten a good description.

500
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:37,400
Speaker 1: I mean, it could be the classic oh my husband

501
00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:39,840
Speaker 1: is completely oblivious, which we've seen before.

502
00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, or maybe he like feels bad because it's like, hey, yeah,

503
00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:47,199
Speaker 2: her her husband ISSU passed away. It definitely is a

504
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:51,440
Speaker 2: complicated dynamic for the husband for sure, because again it's

505
00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 2: his brother's kid. He wants to make sure he maintained

506
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,320
Speaker 2: some kind of relationship, but definitely like this should have

507
00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 2: been something. Yeah, another reply, how is Opie desperate if

508
00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 2: it's sister in law who's fishing for a new baby

509
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:05,720
Speaker 2: daddy inside of the family, not the ahole. And now

510
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:07,600
Speaker 2: we're getting into the updates.

511
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:12,480
Speaker 1: And this is the update from original op uh, not

512
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:13,880
Speaker 1: from the.

513
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:16,879
Speaker 2: Sister in law sister. We're back to OPE and I

514
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:19,000
Speaker 2: think this is the point where we're going to have

515
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:22,760
Speaker 2: the you know, the internet the G six convention. Yeah,

516
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:26,520
Speaker 2: everyone meeting together and coming to the final conclusion. What

517
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:28,680
Speaker 2: do we do with sister in law kem Yeah?

518
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 1: And again is the sister in law sister going to

519
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 1: come in with OPE and you know, fight some power.

520
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 2: Literally her her own soldiers are just shooting for the

521
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,959
Speaker 2: other side. What's going on? Let's get into this update.

522
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:43,199
Speaker 2: So I finally have an update for you guys. I

523
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 2: went out to speak with mother in law and Kelly.

524
00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,879
Speaker 2: She brought her kid along with my husband and Kelly's

525
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:51,600
Speaker 2: sister Kayla, and Kelly's friend and neighbor Pat. This all

526
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:56,200
Speaker 2: happened at mother in law's house. Ohbaby dot dot might

527
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:58,320
Speaker 2: shorten some of the parts. To those who were wondering

528
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 2: about father in law, he passed away do due to

529
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:03,479
Speaker 2: the vid Pat is Kayla's connection to Kelly and her

530
00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 2: husband's nephew. And again that is the neighbor in Kelly's sister.

531
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,920
Speaker 2: Also trigger warning about the things that I'm about to mention.

532
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 2: Also to those who said it's not real, I really

533
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:15,480
Speaker 2: wish it wasn't so these things wouldn't be true, but

534
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:17,560
Speaker 2: they are. I even thought this kind of thing only

535
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:20,080
Speaker 2: happens on TV shows are on Family Court, Judge Judy

536
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:22,679
Speaker 2: or Jerry Springer, maybe doctor Phil. And again, sorry if

537
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:25,360
Speaker 2: this is confusing, I am besiyah and not really great

538
00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:27,439
Speaker 2: in English grammar. I hope I said that right. So

539
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:29,960
Speaker 2: for starters, mother in law asked us about the incident

540
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:32,199
Speaker 2: and why it led to me name calling Kelly. But

541
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 2: let us know that everything is being recorded by her,

542
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:37,119
Speaker 2: which is honestly good because you can get into this

543
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 2: arena where it's like I didn't see that you said that,

544
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 2: and you know, you get like to gaslighty phrases and

545
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 2: having something that it's like, let the record show what

546
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:48,879
Speaker 2: was said by be good, this is what was said.

547
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 2: I told her that it may not be obvious to her.

548
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,879
Speaker 2: But Kelly has been openly trying to get my husband's attention,

549
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 2: like how she wants him over at her house, and

550
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 2: how she wants him to go somewhere with their only

551
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:00,440
Speaker 2: the three of them, to make it see as though

552
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:04,200
Speaker 2: they're a perfect family. Kayla snorted, laughing at the perfect

553
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 2: family comment and said, really, I thought you already have

554
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:09,399
Speaker 2: a guy for that. Wasn't his name David or was

555
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:11,879
Speaker 2: it Michael? Oh wait, it's got to be Rashid, you know,

556
00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 2: the Indian guy you introduced your son to. That comment

557
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:18,399
Speaker 2: got my mother in law's attention. There's a lot of

558
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:22,239
Speaker 2: a lot of the roadtanning door. She asked Kayla what

559
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:24,679
Speaker 2: she meant by that, to which Kayla said, do you

560
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 2: know why Sam late brother in law didn't want to

561
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:31,399
Speaker 2: marry her missus mother in law? Is the cheating that

562
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:34,959
Speaker 2: they knew about? It's because he knew of all her

563
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:41,080
Speaker 2: cheating escapades. Oh that's smart boy. Yeah, honestly, basically, it

564
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:44,199
Speaker 2: say like Lokia sounded like together for the co parenting. Yeah.

565
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 2: And furthermore, Sam was my ex whom she stole by

566
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:51,640
Speaker 2: opening her legs. Oh oh, so this was the fiance

567
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 2: the ex fiance that she slept with after the funeral. Oh,

568
00:26:55,200 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 2: Kayla is unleashing, which I feel like honestly, being family

569
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:02,240
Speaker 2: makes I feel like she can do it a little

570
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 2: bit with more impunity than op he could.

571
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:10,840
Speaker 3: Oh yes, yeah, sister unleashing or unloading. Oh god, she's

572
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 3: had already. We got to decrease the loads.

573
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:17,240
Speaker 2: Mother and law then looked at Kelly, to which she

574
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 2: said it wasn't true and the reason why he won't

575
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,920
Speaker 2: marry her is because of Kayla, because Kayla was seducing

576
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:27,480
Speaker 2: her husband. Again, that is Kelly's sister, I believe. Sister

577
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 2: in law chimed in to say, in which part are

578
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:32,920
Speaker 2: you his wife? You claim my brother is your husband,

579
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 2: and yet you're the reason why he passed away? What

580
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 2: brother in law passed away of a heart attack after

581
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:43,919
Speaker 2: a very heated argument between them where she threatened to

582
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 2: take the child and forbid him from ever seeing the kid.

583
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:54,920
Speaker 1: Oh wow, I don't know if we can say you're

584
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 1: the reason, yes, because that's a little you know, the

585
00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 1: real reason is that that little ticker, you know, you know,

586
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:04,600
Speaker 1: maybe not doing enough cardio or something.

587
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 2: Is there is there a correlation? Yes, it looks like it,

588
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 2: but is there causation. I don't.

589
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:11,199
Speaker 1: I don't know if I want to go that far,

590
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:13,439
Speaker 1: you know, the like I guess the thing is, you

591
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 1: have so much to go off of and so many

592
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:18,680
Speaker 1: valid points, you know, I don't know if you need

593
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:21,880
Speaker 1: to bring in things that are a little bit more conjecture.

594
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:26,439
Speaker 2: But oh my god, maybe if you weren't cheating on

595
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 2: him with five different guys, Yeah, his heart would feel

596
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 2: a little bit better, he would have a little stress.

597
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 2: But oh, wow, you've destroyed his HRV. Well, you've destroyed

598
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 2: Sam's HRV. We finally figured out what it was. So

599
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 2: in our country, if the child is below seven, he

600
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 2: has to stay with the mother unless the mother is

601
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 2: no longer capable of taking care of him. Wow, so

602
00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 2: Kayla shouted back. He was only waiting for the child

603
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 2: to be at least seven years old to get him

604
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 2: off your filthy, abusive claws. In all the chaos, mother

605
00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 2: in law is just sitting there and shocks by all

606
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 2: of them revelations happening in front of her. She thought

607
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:04,960
Speaker 2: that she could redeem Kelly's character in the talk, but

608
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:08,560
Speaker 2: turns out there's no redeeming qualities in her. So that's

609
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 2: when her sister Kayla said something about Kelly abusing the

610
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 2: young son. She said that she just couldn't hold it

611
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 2: and then hit Kelly, which made Kelly fall over. WHOA,

612
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 2: this is getting way overheated right now. I'm not mentioning

613
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:24,800
Speaker 2: abuse of the kid went through. It's quite horrific and

614
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:28,120
Speaker 2: will only be available to the lawyer. Kelly shood up

615
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:31,080
Speaker 2: with tears of anger and said, fine, you want that

616
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 2: beaster of a child, you can have him, swallow him

617
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 2: up if you can. I don't need any extra baggage

618
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:40,360
Speaker 2: with me and took off, leaving the child in mother

619
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 2: in law's care. She's like the worst, she is, She's

620
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 2: the worst, worst, She's the worst. But again, maybe this

621
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 2: is the best thing that could happen. I think so,

622
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 2: And I think the family needs to huddle together and like,

623
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 2: you know, we need to. We need to help and

624
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 2: heal nephew. We have to. You know, it takes a village.

625
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 2: Let's let's band together as a family to to help

626
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:06,719
Speaker 2: help raise nephew and focus on that. And just I

627
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 2: think for now we need we need to cut off

628
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 2: contact from Kelly as much as possible to focus on

629
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 2: healing the child and working together as a team as

630
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 2: a family. Yeah, to figure this all out.

631
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 1: Sophia ben A Zoo says, thank god this is recorded

632
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,120
Speaker 1: that is to be used to get custody.

633
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 2: That is so true. I get custody for sure. That

634
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 2: is so true, Sophia. That's definitely uh not capable of

635
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:37,480
Speaker 2: handling child. That is absolutely falling under that category. Mother

636
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:40,440
Speaker 2: in law almost also had a heart attack after everything

637
00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 2: had happened. She was so mad that she had been

638
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 2: the reason why this has been going on. In her words,

639
00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 2: I encourage her to stay for the sake of the child.

640
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 2: I should have filed for custody even before we told

641
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 2: her it wasn't her fault. So basically mother in law

642
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 2: was kind of blaming herself. Like here, I was like

643
00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 2: trying to like work with her and keep her included

644
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 2: when we should of like got her out of there,

645
00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 2: protected the child and you know, kept moving. But like

646
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 2: like Opie said, it wasn't it wasn't her fault. She

647
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 2: didn't even know. She was just concerned about the child

648
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,680
Speaker 2: since he has lost his father. But after that, mother

649
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 2: in law hauled up her lawyer friend and asked for

650
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 2: help getting custody of the child. She is now on

651
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:18,440
Speaker 2: the process of filing for custody with the basis that

652
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 2: the mother is a danger to the child and had

653
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 2: and had Kayla and pat as wisnesses. This is great,

654
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 2: This is great, Thank god. This is the absolute best

655
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 2: case scenario. As i'veless says, yes, yep, this is what

656
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:34,120
Speaker 2: needs to be happening. We also had a therapist schedule

657
00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 2: for the boy another fantastic review to help him process

658
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 2: everything that's currently happening and for him to recover. My husband,

659
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:42,960
Speaker 2: on the other hand, wanted to get the child and

660
00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 2: adopt him as his own after everything settles down. I

661
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 2: have to say, I love how the family's uniting to

662
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 2: make sure this kid is okay. Yeah, like shout out

663
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 2: to everyone, but this is a insanely traumatic scenario for

664
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 2: the child and and everyone involved, but mostly mostly the child,

665
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 2: and everyone is like doing their part here, which I loved.

666
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 2: This is amazing. This might be my last update, but

667
00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 2: we'll be posting if anything comes up. Thank you Internet

668
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 2: strangers for letting me share this very unusual and crazy

669
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 2: situation I had. And we do have update number two coming. Wait,

670
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 2: we have another update. It's not over. We still got

671
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 2: a good like thirty percent of the story left here.

672
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 2: Oh my god, yeah, oh my god. I mean that

673
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:25,720
Speaker 2: last update was a bombshell. I can only imagine what

674
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 2: the next one is.

675
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Speaker 1: Yes, I also have been seeing people having issues with

676
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Speaker 1: the TLDR. Should we give a quick TLDR for for

677
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 1: everyone right now?

678
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 2: So quick TILDR. Basically, there's this crazy sistern law. At first,

679
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 2: she was trying to steal Opie's husband. That's why I

680
00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 2: kind of kicked all of us off. Opie got mad

681
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,560
Speaker 2: at her, said some things she should know what was

682
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 2: kind of mean. But turns out that the cistern Law

683
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 2: has been cheating left and right, stealing everyone's man, and

684
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 2: also had a very bad situation with her taking care

685
00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 2: of the child if you catch what I'm saying. So basically,

686
00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 2: they had a big family meeting all of this got exposed.

687
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 2: Now the family is coming together, rallying to protect the

688
00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 2: child and basically pushing Kelly, the crazy sister in law,

689
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 2: out of their lives. Great, so it looks like we're

690
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 2: on the path to the absolute best possible situation. Yeah,

691
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 2: have the kid.

692
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think you know, exposing this all to

693
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 1: the family in the correct setting, yes, was perfect, Like

694
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 1: that's what should have been done.

695
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 2: Yes, you know what.

696
00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:27,360
Speaker 1: I think what op did before was just blurted out

697
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 1: emotionally and then it kind of didn't do anything. But

698
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 1: then when there was a actual moment of hey, let's

699
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 1: get these people together and talk about and arbitrate like

700
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 1: what is happening, the crazy came out. Yeah, and then

701
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 1: it could be dealt with in a in the proper way.

702
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:44,720
Speaker 2: And you know, mother in law was beating herself up

703
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:46,880
Speaker 2: about it, but it's like, hey, this all wouldn't have

704
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:49,480
Speaker 2: happened if you hadn't have scheduled this. So shout out

705
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 2: to mother in law. Let's get into update number two.

706
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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Sam. We're going to get back to these stories.

707
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:55,640
Speaker 1: But here's three minutes of ads from our sponsors.

708
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Speaker 2: So I'm making this post to address people's concerns and

709
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 2: also talk about what happened after the filing for custody

710
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 2: for the people asked if Kayla and Patt knew about

711
00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 2: Kelly's abuse of the child, why didn't they report it? Well,

712
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 2: they actually did. Kayla was the one who reported it

713
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:13,439
Speaker 2: after Pat told her she even had pictures. However, after

714
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:16,080
Speaker 2: she reported it, the officer did a welfare check and

715
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 2: didn't find anything. Kelly explained that the kid was just

716
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:21,680
Speaker 2: clumsy and that was a result of it. They believed

717
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:25,800
Speaker 2: the statement without asking the kid and left without further investing.

718
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 1: What kind of check in is that that you're not

719
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 1: doing your job?

720
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 2: Literally literally completely useless. Furthermore, Kelly had filed for harassment

721
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 2: against Kayla. What again? This is the crazy sister in

722
00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:42,319
Speaker 2: law filing for harassment against her sister who's like, yeah,

723
00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:45,120
Speaker 2: trying to help fix this insane situation. So pat was

724
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 2: the only way that Kayla could keep tabs on the

725
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:50,399
Speaker 2: kid in Kelly the neighbor. She documented everything along the way.

726
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 2: We also found out that Kelly was toxic to Sam,

727
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 2: accusing him of cheating and even laying hands on him.

728
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 2: The guy was too nice to ever do anything back

729
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 2: to her. Guess they got that from their mom. The

730
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:04,720
Speaker 2: cheating part, though, might be from their dad. He cheated

731
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:08,400
Speaker 2: on mother in law multiple times, twice when she was pregnant,

732
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 2: oh gee, with Fredlund, the husband's sister, and again when

733
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 2: she miscarried a due to finding out about father in

734
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:20,719
Speaker 2: law's infidelity. Oh dude, God, like the nicest people with

735
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:24,200
Speaker 2: just the most nuclearly toxic people just.

736
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:26,840
Speaker 1: Being insane yea, And I think that's when you know,

737
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:30,440
Speaker 1: like you're super nice and don't have boundaries, that's what happens.

738
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 2: It's like you just get wrecked. They'll keep infiltrating because

739
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 2: they can, because they can stop all over your boundaries.

740
00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 2: Keep them up later, Keep them up. For those who

741
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 2: asked how brother in law passed away, I didn't mean

742
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:43,439
Speaker 2: he passed away then and there. He was hospitalized after

743
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:45,839
Speaker 2: suffering from the heart attack and later passed away. Brother

744
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:47,840
Speaker 2: in law wasn't really the type to follow his diet,

745
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,440
Speaker 2: which might explain why his health declined so rapidly. While hospitalized,

746
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:53,799
Speaker 2: we found out that he was diabetic as well as

747
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:56,720
Speaker 2: a result of a very unhealthy lifestyle. He drank soda

748
00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:59,880
Speaker 2: like it was water, rarely ate anything healthy, and mostly

749
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:03,279
Speaker 2: lived on fast food. I mean that paints some context.

750
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 2: He also didn't take his meds on time because he

751
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 2: believed that they would make him pass away. One now

752
00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 2: for the events after the custody final husband's sister, Fredlund

753
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:15,399
Speaker 2: and her husband came to our house for a visit.

754
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:18,440
Speaker 2: We all had a little talk while the brother in

755
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 2: law had a word with my husband. According to my husband,

756
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:25,000
Speaker 2: he was asked why he never stopped Kelly's crazy antics

757
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 2: from the beginning. Remember that question we asked the beginning

758
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:29,759
Speaker 2: of this episode, like why didn't the husband Yeah, I

759
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:31,920
Speaker 2: feel like he Like we were like, couldn't he be

760
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:35,200
Speaker 2: more vocal exactly like a brother in law did when

761
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:37,600
Speaker 2: she started flirting with him. Well, my husband replied that

762
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 2: he thought Kelly was just a grieving widow with a

763
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:42,600
Speaker 2: fotherless child. He didn't want to offend her, assuming that

764
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 2: it was just her way of coping with the loss.

765
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 2: So I guess the argument is, like, if she's actually

766
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 2: not flirting and just like trying to that, would he

767
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 2: find a connection that would be like pretty pretty painful? Yeah,

768
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 2: to which I think is fair. Yeah. Yeah, Again, it's

769
00:36:57,239 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 2: a very tough situation. Maybe at that point you can

770
00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 2: sault with wife and you're like, hey, I'm between a

771
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:03,839
Speaker 2: rock and a hard place here. I feel like she's

772
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 2: learning with me, But I also don't want to accuse

773
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 2: a grieving widow of trying to sleep with me, so

774
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 2: I agreed any advice, to which I replied, so you

775
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:14,359
Speaker 2: really aren't in it? Just a little bit classic case

776
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 2: of the slightly or not so slightly oblivious husband. We've

777
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 2: seen it before. He was a little offended, but he

778
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,799
Speaker 2: accepted it, saying that he should have stopped things as

779
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 2: soon as they started getting too ak. Sister in law

780
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,160
Speaker 2: also talked to me about the kid. She asked us

781
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 2: not to adopt him as it might cause complications in

782
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 2: the future. I asked her why since the child didn't

783
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 2: inherit the sins of his mother. She said that might

784
00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 2: be true, but choosing not to adopt him and leaving

785
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 2: him with mother in law would be the better option

786
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:43,319
Speaker 2: as it wouldn't feel any more of Kelly's crazy and

787
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 2: toxic behavior. Is that?

788
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 1: I mean, I think the mother in law is just

789
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:51,280
Speaker 1: as good an option as ope.

790
00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:55,320
Speaker 2: And yeah, but like but is that true? Maybe Kelly

791
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 2: is so cuckoo for cocoa puffs that it's like something

792
00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 2: like she's like, Oh, first you tried to my man

793
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:02,919
Speaker 2: away from me, now you're taking my child. Maybe yeah,

794
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:05,520
Speaker 2: maybe maybe I wish we had more insight onto like

795
00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:11,800
Speaker 2: again like maybe yeah for the child TENRILLI in percent

796
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 2: and then for the family too, yes, yeah, which hopefully

797
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 2: she would be able to get that. Yeah.

798
00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:18,440
Speaker 1: Well, I think we have enough, we have enough evidence

799
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:22,440
Speaker 1: for it. Absolutely, Yeah, I think you get to adopt

800
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 1: the kid and it would be fine.

801
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Obi says I told her I would discuss

802
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 2: it with my husband and consider all of the factors

803
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 2: at play. And if you want to consider that, we

804
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:34,480
Speaker 2: have two thousand full episodes that you can binge to

805
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 2: your heart's content. So many go to Spotify, Apple Podcasts

806
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:40,440
Speaker 2: or your favorite podcast app search. Okay, sorry, time to

807
00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 2: binge those right now, or I'm gonna be angry. I'll

808
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 2: have two thousand pounds of anger thrust upon her. But Sam,

809
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 2: before we get into the finale of this story, do

810
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:55,320
Speaker 2: we obviously a horrific thing that's happened. Are we feeling

811
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 2: good about the family's new plan to, you know, protect

812
00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:00,520
Speaker 2: the kid and kind of work together. There's a team

813
00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:02,359
Speaker 2: moving forward. Yeah.

814
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:05,279
Speaker 1: I mean, regardless of whether the kid falls in the

815
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 1: mother in law's hands or Ope's hands, I think the

816
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:11,280
Speaker 1: kid is going to be in a much better spot.

817
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:15,400
Speaker 1: I think the family is now communicating finally, so I'm

818
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 1: pretty happy with where we're ending. I mean, this is

819
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:21,880
Speaker 1: ending much better where we started. Most Definitely, the kid's

820
00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:25,440
Speaker 1: going to be better. The crazy person is going to

821
00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:27,919
Speaker 1: be removed from this situation. I think we're we're going

822
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 1: to better better past years now.

823
00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:31,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it seems like there's like mother in law,

824
00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:33,759
Speaker 2: there seems to be a lot of people that are

825
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:36,080
Speaker 2: like really trying to do the right thing and executing

826
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 2: on it, living up to their word. Yeah, so let's

827
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:39,920
Speaker 2: get into the final part of the story, all right,

828
00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:42,799
Speaker 2: Opie says, So, first thing tomorrow, I'm going to talk

829
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 2: things over with my husband. I just hope he understands

830
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 2: and will consider system law suggestion. Wish me luck. I'll

831
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:50,600
Speaker 2: update as soon as I can with what's happening. Also,

832
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:54,279
Speaker 2: I think I might be pregnant. Oh, there's a lot

833
00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:58,279
Speaker 2: going on. The plots ending like and we just close

834
00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:00,279
Speaker 2: it up. No huge plot.

835
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Speaker 1: Twist, and I think it's my husband's what.

836
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 2: Loving Riley's comments on today's episode, I haven't had my

837
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 2: period for three days now, and I'm really craving mango

838
00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 2: dipped vanilla ice cream with chili toppings. Oh yeah, you're pregnant. Yeah,

839
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 2: guaranteed my mom was a foot long meatball subs. But

840
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Speaker 2: that's it. Still I'm gonna physically what where did that

841
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:39,440
Speaker 2: come from? It's been a minute. Your Bob said, uh,

842
00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:43,640
Speaker 2: chat pulled me out, just going that is that? Is that?

843
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 2: The end? Of this episode. The end of the story,

844
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 2: Well where we got we got another story?

845
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Speaker 1: Cuffing, cuffing right up? Some might say a foot long,

846
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Speaker 1: we got we got one more, we got one more?

847
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Speaker 1: Are you ready for this next story? My sister last

848
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:06,920
Speaker 1: pregnancy is suspicious and I can't help but gossip about it.

849
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Speaker 1: I twenty two female. I have an older brother, John

850
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 1: thirty two male, who has been with his fiance Jane

851
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 1: thirty female for four years. They have a four month old.

852
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 1: Jane found out she was pregnant at five and a

853
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:22,239
Speaker 1: half weeks and immediately called my mom to tell her.

854
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Speaker 1: My mom was confused, but still very excited. Okay, by

855
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Speaker 1: the way, this comes from Throwaway Gosha. Darn it and

856
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Speaker 1: if you want us to make your own stories, go

857
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Speaker 1: to our slash Okay storytime.

858
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 2: Stow about it.

859
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:35,040
Speaker 1: So, Jane said she was going to tell John when

860
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:37,879
Speaker 1: he got back from his work trip, tell John about

861
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:41,400
Speaker 1: the baby. A few hours later, she called again, sobbing,

862
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:46,359
Speaker 1: saying she has insatiable cravings. Mom made a joke like,

863
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 1: isn't it a bit early for cravings? So maybe suspicious

864
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 1: suspicious timing of the baby, and Jane went off at

865
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:57,040
Speaker 1: her She started yelling about how this was her pregnancy

866
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 1: and no one else's. It was an odd reaction. She

867
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:02,399
Speaker 1: also apologized for outburst by blaming it on hormones. When

868
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:05,560
Speaker 1: my brother returned from his trip, him and Jane left

869
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:08,040
Speaker 1: to stay at her mother's and we didn't see her

870
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 1: until after the baby was born.

871
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 3: Also PREDI to see cravings usually arrive around five to

872
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 3: eight weeks during the first trimester.

873
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 2: Okay, the time I matches, the time I'm matches, the

874
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:19,000
Speaker 2: time I'm matches.

875
00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:22,760
Speaker 1: John said this was because Jane was afraid of losing

876
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 1: the pregnancy and wanted to be with her mom, and

877
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 1: we needed to respect the boundaries. But I feel like,

878
00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 1: you know, there's there's some suspiciousness, suspiciousness going on. Whenever

879
00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:34,200
Speaker 1: someone would ask about Jane or the baby, they would

880
00:42:34,239 --> 00:42:38,200
Speaker 1: shut it down with vague answers, like every pregnancy is different,

881
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:42,800
Speaker 1: or she's caring small, which isn't unusual. They barely shared

882
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:46,840
Speaker 1: anything about the pregnancy, no ultrasound pictures, no baby shower,

883
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:50,280
Speaker 1: and Jane didn't want anyone around during the delivery.

884
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:56,120
Speaker 2: Oh why, like for what.

885
00:42:56,640 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 1: I also discovered that every craving she listed came from

886
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:04,680
Speaker 1: one article about pregnancy cravings even listed multiple items in

887
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 1: the same order as the article.

888
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:09,120
Speaker 2: Bro at least like you get to talk with chat

889
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 2: and get just change the variation a little bit.

890
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:13,920
Speaker 1: When the baby was born, we were finally allowed to

891
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:16,360
Speaker 1: seeing Jane and John and the baby. Of course, it

892
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:18,759
Speaker 1: was very bittersweet, as we all wish we could have

893
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:20,840
Speaker 1: been there for Jane to help out, but Jane and

894
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:23,440
Speaker 1: John both assured us we did help out by staying

895
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 1: away during the pregnancy. The weirdest part, though, is how

896
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:29,319
Speaker 1: Jane describes the birth. She claims she had an epidural

897
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:33,640
Speaker 1: via IV drip into her hand edited because I didn't elaborate,

898
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:36,640
Speaker 1: which is not how those are administrated. Isn't it like

899
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 1: in the spine.

900
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:39,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, they go straight to the spine, straight to the spine,

901
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 2: which we know because we're women experts.

902
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:44,400
Speaker 1: We're women experts now inside joke, I guess not that

903
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:46,960
Speaker 1: inside it was. It was on the public stream when

904
00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:50,919
Speaker 1: I asked clarifying questions, thinking she had gotten confused, which

905
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 1: is understandable, she shut down and refused answer, like how

906
00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 1: she would during the pregnancy. So what are our conspiracy

907
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 1: theories here, gentlemen?

908
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 2: I mean, there's the big fake elephant in the room,

909
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 2: which is there is no pregnancy and no baby. Okay, okay,

910
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:10,320
Speaker 2: but there's a baby.

911
00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:12,880
Speaker 3: Well we only saw a pregnant at five weeks and

912
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:15,440
Speaker 3: usually have five weeks. No one's really that showing and

913
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 3: then they didn't see him.

914
00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 1: So is this baby a surrogate baby? Is this baby adopted?

915
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:23,919
Speaker 2: What do I want to know? Your conspiracy theories? Two

916
00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:26,480
Speaker 2: for two? A fair baby, a fair baby. But wouldn't

917
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 2: she be carrying that baby? Yeah?

918
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:32,000
Speaker 1: She she's lying. They're saying a baby is adopted. There

919
00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 1: is a baby. Yeah, there's definitely a baby. Also, what's

920
00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:38,720
Speaker 1: the motive? Like, why is she trying to lock him down?

921
00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 1: Like what would incentivize her to do this? Maybe she

922
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 1: wants people to think that the adopted baby is her

923
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:48,279
Speaker 1: real baby mm or or.

924
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:50,360
Speaker 2: We flip it on its head and op, he's just jealous.

925
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 1: Yeah maybe that. Maybe that Maybe that too, dude. But

926
00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:57,080
Speaker 1: to continue, she said the baby had latching issues because

927
00:44:57,160 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 1: he was born with no umbilical cord stump. Can tech

928
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:03,080
Speaker 1: for me happen, but it's a rare and fatal medical

929
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:06,200
Speaker 1: condition that their baby does not have. So like a

930
00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 1: no belly button baby, you don't have an umbilical stump,

931
00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 1: So you don't know. The final straw was when she

932
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: told us that the baby basically fell out of her

933
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 1: within an hour of being in labor, despite my brother

934
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:20,720
Speaker 1: telling us how hard the birth was and even stating

935
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 1: that was why they weren't going to try for any

936
00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:26,400
Speaker 1: more kids. So the brothers in on it too. The

937
00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 1: brothers in on it too? What is keel Bo says?

938
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:33,359
Speaker 1: Some women are very sensitive to infertility issues. Okay, hazy leaf,

939
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 1: she's infernal and ashamed. Nick's adopted a fair baby. I

940
00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 1: don't know about that one. I don't know if the

941
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:46,520
Speaker 1: math math is maths. Oh oh oh, John had an affair,

942
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:49,719
Speaker 1: knocked someone else up, took that a fair baby, and

943
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:51,719
Speaker 1: then placed it over here.

944
00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:53,319
Speaker 2: Because John is kind of acting weird too.

945
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:55,799
Speaker 1: John's acting. They're all acting weird. Kat, you have no

946
00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:56,520
Speaker 1: belly button?

947
00:45:56,600 --> 00:45:58,680
Speaker 2: Where'd he go? Where do he goes? You get it?

948
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 2: Tommy talk? Is that possible? I think you get to

949
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:03,319
Speaker 2: Tony talk. Mom almost didn't have a belly button after

950
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:05,600
Speaker 2: getting a tummy tuck. Yeah huh.

951
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 1: So people would rather remove the belly button than have

952
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:09,320
Speaker 1: a belly button.

953
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:11,480
Speaker 2: I mean, like after your I mean belly buttons are cool,

954
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 2: but like eat it. Well, how are you gonna do

955
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:16,359
Speaker 2: belly button shots? I think that's a really important question.

956
00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:17,880
Speaker 2: The last time you did a belly button shot? I

957
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:22,800
Speaker 2: mean last Tuesday, not like that long ago, like definitely

958
00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 2: this year. But you don't need a belly wait off yourself? No, no,

959
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 2: but then you know it's always off person. Yeah, okay, And.

960
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:33,520
Speaker 1: And also like I don't I don't want to. I

961
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 1: don't want to have a belly button shot and balance.

962
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:38,040
Speaker 1: So like if you do a shot off someone else,

963
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 1: then they have to do a shot off you, you know.

964
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:43,720
Speaker 2: Anyway, enough about belly button shots, back to the story.

965
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:45,879
Speaker 2: Hey y'all, it's John og Host here. We're gonna get

966
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:47,359
Speaker 2: back to the stories, but here's a quick three minute

967
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 2: break from ask form response.

968
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:51,279
Speaker 1: Mom is on the same side as me and has

969
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:55,839
Speaker 1: been noting this inconsistency and inaccuracies, but doesn't know how

970
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:58,680
Speaker 1: to bring it up, and their reactions don't help. A

971
00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:01,759
Speaker 1: few days ago, my brother their texted Mom saying her

972
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:04,319
Speaker 1: doubt of Jane is disrespectful and they both want full

973
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:07,200
Speaker 1: apologies from both of us for bullying Jane about her

974
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 1: pregnancy slash labor. I haven't made any outright accusations about it,

975
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:12,359
Speaker 1: nor have I said any of this to Jane. I've

976
00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:14,880
Speaker 1: only asked questions when she brings the birth slash slash

977
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:17,920
Speaker 1: pregnancy up. Am I the a hole for having some doubts?

978
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:20,000
Speaker 1: Definitely is ob Yeah, definitely not.

979
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:23,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean like it's so it's so weird, and

980
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 2: she like flips out anytime anyone asks like wait, so

981
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 2: you have like an epidural in your hand, It's like, nah,

982
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:31,440
Speaker 2: I mean I feel like these are normal, like baby questions,

983
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:32,319
Speaker 2: like how long was the thing?

984
00:47:32,360 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 1: And it was like, oh, like epidural. It's I mean,

985
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:36,919
Speaker 1: it's just it's just it's just weird. And obviously there's

986
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:40,120
Speaker 1: line going on. Yeah, our conspiracy theory is the same

987
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:44,279
Speaker 1: that it's a adopted slash affair baby that was a.

988
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:46,880
Speaker 2: Husband John's affair baby. That's crazy.

989
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 1: Also, this is ug, says I love all the guesses

990
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:51,440
Speaker 1: knowing the answer. John and I have no idea the answer.

991
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 1: We don't pick these stories.

992
00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, so we we we are in we

993
00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:57,759
Speaker 2: are in the dark.

994
00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 1: Just the same as you. And also our story picker

995
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:05,280
Speaker 1: is Lana. Shout out Lana. So it keeps it fresh

996
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:09,920
Speaker 1: and interesting. Sophia gang golf. Callen says, I do think

997
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 1: OPI is the a hole? Really wow, Alice says, I've

998
00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:15,479
Speaker 1: never asked about my friend's epidural. OPI didn't ask about

999
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 1: the epidural. They brought up the epidural and said it

1000
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 1: was through the hand, and they're like, oh, wait, isn't

1001
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:20,800
Speaker 1: that usually on the spine?

1002
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:24,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess it would kind of depend on how exactly, like,

1003
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:27,080
Speaker 2: what was the language and what exactly was said when

1004
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:31,240
Speaker 2: they were talking about this stuff, because if like OPI

1005
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:34,480
Speaker 2: could have been prying and more, you know, into it.

1006
00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 2: But I don't know.

1007
00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:39,080
Speaker 1: Well, let's see, let's see Opie's comments comment are part

1008
00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 1: of alam or comments by all means. Keep in mind

1009
00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:44,799
Speaker 1: that she may not be a reliable narrator, particularly if

1010
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:47,960
Speaker 1: it comes bent medical matters. This is talking about the

1011
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 1: fake baby lady. But other than that, just enjoy your nibbling.

1012
00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:53,759
Speaker 1: This is not a situation where you need to prove

1013
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 1: her wrong or set her right, and you're the a

1014
00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 1: hole if you continue to gossip. Also, why jump to

1015
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:02,160
Speaker 1: line which implies ill intent? Ope, he responds, because their

1016
00:49:02,200 --> 00:49:04,920
Speaker 1: stories change. One day, the labor was grueling, touch and

1017
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:06,920
Speaker 1: go twenty four hours and the next day he just

1018
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 1: slipped out and didn't even feel it. Labor was an

1019
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 1: hour or two max. One day I had an epidural

1020
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:14,239
Speaker 1: given via I a V drip in my hand, and

1021
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:16,200
Speaker 1: the next it's so quick and easy.

1022
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:17,400
Speaker 2: I didn't need pain meds.

1023
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:20,280
Speaker 1: One day he was born without an umbilical cord stump,

1024
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 1: so he doesn't watch easily, And the next it was

1025
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:24,280
Speaker 1: one hundred percent healthy.

1026
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:27,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think again, like, yeah, maybe, like it doesn't

1027
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:29,560
Speaker 2: seem like hope, he's like op, he's like harassing the Yeah.

1028
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:31,560
Speaker 1: Op, he's just like, but don't what's going on? But

1029
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:33,320
Speaker 1: also like, you don't need to get to the bottom

1030
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:35,080
Speaker 1: of this case. You ain't Scooby Doo. You ain't the

1031
00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:38,360
Speaker 1: Mystery Mystery Gang and the Mystery Machine, the school Scooby

1032
00:49:38,400 --> 00:49:42,120
Speaker 1: Doo Gang, Well what do they call themselves? The Mystery

1033
00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:43,080
Speaker 1: is the Mystery Gang.

1034
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:45,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, I'll give you grace. Though you didn't watch

1035
00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:47,640
Speaker 2: it growing up. Yeah, all you had was lines mating.

1036
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 2: That's literally all you have. I got a fort blame

1037
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:53,440
Speaker 2: me that geo tapes.

1038
00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:55,759
Speaker 1: I think getting to the bottom of this, like the

1039
00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:58,879
Speaker 1: Mystery Gang is a whole move. But being like wait,

1040
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:03,200
Speaker 1: I'm confused, is I think? Okay, yeah, good distinction. Everything

1041
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:05,359
Speaker 1: about it changes on a day to day basis. While

1042
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:07,279
Speaker 1: my brother and sister in law tried to insist there's

1043
00:50:07,280 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 1: nothing weird going on, and anyone who merely questions these

1044
00:50:10,680 --> 00:50:13,319
Speaker 1: changes is a gossip bully. I'm trying to be nice

1045
00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:15,839
Speaker 1: here and not imply ill intent, But when they jump

1046
00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 1: down your throat for asking how much the baby weighed,

1047
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:22,600
Speaker 1: it's hard not to and Compenter says, you're the a hole.

1048
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:24,960
Speaker 1: Sounds like they adopted a baby but are too scared

1049
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:27,040
Speaker 1: to tell you, but not afraid to tell her side

1050
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:29,759
Speaker 1: of the family because you might judge them. Welcome the

1051
00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 1: baby and stop being nosy. It's really none of your business, dang.

1052
00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 1: I mean, yes, I think it's a weird move to

1053
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:39,359
Speaker 1: lie about this, for sure, but it's also not your

1054
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:41,799
Speaker 1: place to dive into it.

1055
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:44,000
Speaker 2: Well, what if your sister was being kind of weird

1056
00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:46,239
Speaker 2: about her pregnancy? Yeah, I would be like, what the heck?

1057
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:47,799
Speaker 2: Why are you lying to me? Yeah, so I think

1058
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:49,879
Speaker 2: that might be what she's doing. She's like, these things

1059
00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 2: are adding up. Yeah.

1060
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:53,719
Speaker 1: I think it's fine to be like, what the heck,

1061
00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:55,600
Speaker 1: But at a certain point, I think you just allowed

1062
00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:56,120
Speaker 1: to let it go.

1063
00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 2: I guess yeah. I feel like, yeah, it's okay to

1064
00:50:58,000 --> 00:51:00,560
Speaker 2: be curious. But as soon as you start like either

1065
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 2: like gossiping or trying to like investigate or like grill them,

1066
00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:07,120
Speaker 2: that's when we're getting into not good. It's like, what's

1067
00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:10,120
Speaker 2: the point that you know? Opie says, I mean, I

1068
00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:12,240
Speaker 2: was adopted and John is a surrogate baby.

1069
00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:16,280
Speaker 1: What's that's a crazy como? So I'm unsure about that part. Commenter.

1070
00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:18,640
Speaker 1: Maybe at this point they are effing with you, and

1071
00:51:18,719 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 1: Opie says, I hope, So, I hope they're really good actors,

1072
00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:23,239
Speaker 1: and comment you're the a hole. I doubt you and

1073
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:27,840
Speaker 1: your mom are reliable narrators, especially considering googling her cravings.

1074
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:30,480
Speaker 1: I've had three children, no baby showers, and carried low

1075
00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:32,480
Speaker 1: with my first. You couldn't tell I was pregnant, and

1076
00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:36,040
Speaker 1: OPI said, especially considered with the comment, especially considering you

1077
00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 1: googled her cravings. Yeah, haha, sister and a lot told

1078
00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:40,840
Speaker 1: me to you kept saying her cravings were common and

1079
00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:42,759
Speaker 1: to look it up as proof. Then I found said

1080
00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:45,280
Speaker 1: article and realized she was listing every craving off the list,

1081
00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 1: and comment says why does it matter? Why not just

1082
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:49,719
Speaker 1: ask that they are adopted or use to surrogate if

1083
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:51,920
Speaker 1: you want to know so badly? Opie responds, I love

1084
00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 1: how they're fighting in the comments. I said I would

1085
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:56,120
Speaker 1: love to adopt one day. I'm adopted too, but that

1086
00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:59,080
Speaker 1: surrogacy is also on the table. They both started crying

1087
00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:01,759
Speaker 1: when family asked they're okay. My brother told my uncle

1088
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 1: to shut up, and they left. So I don't know,

1089
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:06,200
Speaker 1: and comment to response, I feel like in any situation

1090
00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:08,839
Speaker 1: it's totally reasonable to fact check, just a question of

1091
00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 1: what you do with the information. Opi responds, But also

1092
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:13,960
Speaker 1: they told me their newborn had this birth defect and

1093
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:16,120
Speaker 1: didn't elaborate, so I google it because I'd never.

1094
00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:16,360
Speaker 2: Heard of it.

1095
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:18,240
Speaker 1: That I find out it has a one hundred percent

1096
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:20,560
Speaker 1: death rate. So now I'm assuming this newborn baby is

1097
00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:22,799
Speaker 1: going to pass away soon, because all babies born with

1098
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:25,960
Speaker 1: body stock anomaly live for a few days max. When

1099
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:27,800
Speaker 1: I bring it up to him, they tell me, actually, no,

1100
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 1: he's not going to pass away, and he doesn't really

1101
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:32,879
Speaker 1: have a body stock anomaly. So I went from prematurely

1102
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:35,879
Speaker 1: grieving this newborn's death and banicking that he was going

1103
00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 1: to pass to being told it was actually fine, So like,

1104
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 1: how am I supposed to react to news about the baby?

1105
00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:40,640
Speaker 2: Now?

1106
00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:43,759
Speaker 1: More on the body stock anomaly. Body stock anomaly is

1107
00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:46,040
Speaker 1: a very different thing, and it means it's a defect

1108
00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:49,040
Speaker 1: in which the abdominal organs develop outside of a baby's

1109
00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:53,520
Speaker 1: adominal cavity and remain attached directly to placenta. Yes, that

1110
00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:55,719
Speaker 1: is what they said the baby had. The baby very

1111
00:52:55,719 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 1: clearly does not have BSA, but that's what they said,

1112
00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:01,600
Speaker 1: and continue to say that baby has flash hats. So

1113
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:02,880
Speaker 1: they're continuing doing.

1114
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:05,799
Speaker 2: It, and I'm gonna be honest at this point, like

1115
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 2: I wouldn't not do any Like I feel like if

1116
00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:11,520
Speaker 2: I was in Opie shoes, I'd be like because again

1117
00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:13,640
Speaker 2: it's like, oh, the baby's gonna pass away and they're

1118
00:53:13,680 --> 00:53:15,600
Speaker 2: like no, no, no, it's all good. I would be at

1119
00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:18,160
Speaker 2: least like, what is going on? What is going on?

1120
00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 2: And kind of like at least just like searching on

1121
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:23,200
Speaker 2: my side because I'm like, are you good? Like is

1122
00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:25,600
Speaker 2: the baby saved? Do you need help? I don't like

1123
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:26,799
Speaker 2: all this lying. I don't.

1124
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:28,600
Speaker 1: I mean, like I feel like the commenters are going

1125
00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 1: into OPI for being like what what's going on with

1126
00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:32,680
Speaker 1: this baby?

1127
00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:35,160
Speaker 2: But I think it could be either way where it's

1128
00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:40,399
Speaker 2: like there, it's this really weird, crazy situation where like again,

1129
00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:41,960
Speaker 2: maybe it's in a fair baby I'm trying to cover

1130
00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:43,359
Speaker 2: it up or whatever the case might be, and they're

1131
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:45,719
Speaker 2: kind of like just throwing everyone for a loop. Or

1132
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:48,160
Speaker 2: maybe it is something like she was infertile. She feels

1133
00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 2: really like ashamed about it and just doesn't want to

1134
00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:53,359
Speaker 2: go public with it and just like trying to you know,

1135
00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:55,759
Speaker 2: keep people off her back or something. So all right

1136
00:53:55,960 --> 00:53:59,600
Speaker 2: and til dr for everyone who is asking her a

1137
00:53:59,600 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 2: little fuse basically, ope's is it brother or a sister

1138
00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:08,879
Speaker 2: in law? I'm forgetting now I think it's just law.

1139
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:11,000
Speaker 2: I think I'm just going to double check.

1140
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, so Op's sister in law, Opie's sister in law

1141
00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:18,080
Speaker 1: said that they were pregnant and then disappeared for the

1142
00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:22,680
Speaker 1: entire pregnancy essentially, And now Op's a little suspicious of

1143
00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:27,000
Speaker 1: whether the baby is actually like actually, you know, came

1144
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:29,840
Speaker 1: from the sister law or if it was adopted or

1145
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:33,000
Speaker 1: a surrogate baby. And the sister in law was obviously

1146
00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:36,520
Speaker 1: lying about where this baby came from, saying like one

1147
00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:38,960
Speaker 1: day it came out super quick, and another day it

1148
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:42,000
Speaker 1: came out super hard. So OP is like asking, am

1149
00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 1: I the A hole for investigating? And I think what

1150
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:46,400
Speaker 1: we're coming to is you're not the a hole for

1151
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 1: asking questions, but obviously they're trying to cover this up

1152
00:54:51,239 --> 00:54:53,919
Speaker 1: and covering up badly. For some reason, I think you're

1153
00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:59,920
Speaker 1: the a hole for continuing to investigate to a crazy degree.

1154
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:01,799
Speaker 1: And I think you know enough that they're a lot

1155
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:03,840
Speaker 1: obviously lying, so you don't need to like rub it

1156
00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:05,920
Speaker 1: in their faces, just be like, Okay, they're lying about this.

1157
00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:08,920
Speaker 1: I have no idea why. I'm just going to accept that.

1158
00:55:09,080 --> 00:55:11,000
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, right.

1159
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:14,040
Speaker 2: As long as no one's seems to be in danger

1160
00:55:14,480 --> 00:55:18,400
Speaker 2: or anything like that, does it need to be I

1161
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:21,640
Speaker 2: will admit. It will be so hard not to. I

1162
00:55:21,640 --> 00:55:23,719
Speaker 2: think I could, you know, stop myself from like, you know,

1163
00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:26,920
Speaker 2: kind of like grilling them. But it's just so strange,

1164
00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:30,839
Speaker 2: Like I understand, I understand the the impulse, but it's

1165
00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:32,520
Speaker 2: like you can't you can't like grill them.

1166
00:55:32,560 --> 00:55:34,799
Speaker 1: If this was my sister, I would be like what,

1167
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:37,120
Speaker 1: But it's my sister in law, so I'd probably be

1168
00:55:37,440 --> 00:55:39,000
Speaker 1: like I would probably.

1169
00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:41,680
Speaker 2: Wouldn't grill, but then that's your that's your siblings partner though, Yeah,

1170
00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:43,239
Speaker 2: I would grill up brother, I'll be like, what the

1171
00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:46,320
Speaker 2: what the heck? Yeah, what's going on? Yeah, grill the partner?

1172
00:55:46,520 --> 00:55:49,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, I I just it's just And then a way

1173
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:51,960
Speaker 1: can you highlight that comment again, Riley, OPI is just

1174
00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:54,359
Speaker 1: a concern for a family member and all the lying

1175
00:55:54,480 --> 00:55:56,480
Speaker 1: just is needed. If you can't talk to your family

1176
00:55:56,480 --> 00:55:59,760
Speaker 1: about this, who can you talk to? I mean normal family? Yeah,

1177
00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:03,719
Speaker 1: and Jellybus says some families aren't normal. I don't know

1178
00:56:03,920 --> 00:56:08,200
Speaker 1: if I mean, is this Samay seems somewhat normal, but

1179
00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:12,360
Speaker 1: let's see what continues to happen. So top comment on

1180
00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:15,160
Speaker 1: the post ambitious border in nineo six is the reality

1181
00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:17,880
Speaker 1: is that nothing much adds up. But there's one reality

1182
00:56:17,880 --> 00:56:20,440
Speaker 1: you can buy into. Your brother and his fiance have

1183
00:56:20,520 --> 00:56:22,600
Speaker 1: a baby, that is theirs. You can remain out of

1184
00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:25,560
Speaker 1: their lives forever, or let your obsession go and enjoy

1185
00:56:25,640 --> 00:56:28,960
Speaker 1: your niece slash nephew. Your choice, but you would be

1186
00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:31,359
Speaker 1: an a hole if you choose option one, which I

1187
00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:34,400
Speaker 1: think we're kinda going to And Opie has voted the

1188
00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:36,799
Speaker 1: a hole and we do have an update. What a

1189
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:39,920
Speaker 1: story this is this is different. Yeah, this is super different.

1190
00:56:40,080 --> 00:56:42,480
Speaker 1: I mean it's just I mean it is, it's just weird.

1191
00:56:42,520 --> 00:56:45,520
Speaker 1: It's just weird. It's just weird. I mean, why lie

1192
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:49,160
Speaker 1: about your pregnancy? Yeah to this degree? Why lie badly

1193
00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:53,040
Speaker 1: about your pregnancy? Terry Sapphire Frog says illegal adoption. Maybe

1194
00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:55,000
Speaker 1: that explains all the lying. I mean, it's not normal

1195
00:56:55,040 --> 00:56:58,439
Speaker 1: to lie to close family members. Sophia gangolf Kun says,

1196
00:56:58,480 --> 00:57:00,640
Speaker 1: it's still family if they're adopted, if they're stolen, that

1197
00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:03,680
Speaker 1: it's not. But that's police matters. I'd let the sister alone.

1198
00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:05,160
Speaker 1: And this is says I can't wait.

1199
00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:07,040
Speaker 2: Oh boy, all right, we're.

1200
00:57:06,880 --> 00:57:08,839
Speaker 1: Gonna get into the update. You ready, Let's run it

1201
00:57:08,920 --> 00:57:12,080
Speaker 1: so well. Twenty four days later, update, I was right

1202
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:15,360
Speaker 1: to have questions. After I made my posts, I stopped

1203
00:57:15,360 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 1: talking to my mom about the pregnancy, but things still

1204
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:21,000
Speaker 1: didn't add up. Fast forward to my brother's birthday. The

1205
00:57:21,040 --> 00:57:23,960
Speaker 1: whole family's over at mom our aunts, uncles, cousins, and

1206
00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:26,520
Speaker 1: older brothers were all guests, and during the party, Jane

1207
00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:29,680
Speaker 1: mentioned how the baby had BSA and our aunt called

1208
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:32,320
Speaker 1: her out on it she's a maternity nurse. It causes

1209
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 1: huge argument where Jane and John left in a rage.

1210
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:38,440
Speaker 1: But it turns out that Jane didn't give birth. The

1211
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:41,760
Speaker 1: baby's actually a product of my brother's affair.

1212
00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:50,120
Speaker 2: Wake all that got husband's affair? Baby? Yes, let's go,

1213
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:55,600
Speaker 2: let's go. I mean sorry, but yes, it's always so

1214
00:57:55,680 --> 00:58:00,320
Speaker 2: graz there. It's like the worst thing possibly, Yeah, guess

1215
00:58:00,320 --> 00:58:02,919
Speaker 2: HER's on our Wait wait, wait, why is the sister

1216
00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:05,120
Speaker 2: in law going along with this? I think I have

1217
00:58:05,120 --> 00:58:08,840
Speaker 2: a questions, I guess. Yeah. My guess would be, like

1218
00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:12,520
Speaker 2: maybe it's like she doesn't have the self worth and

1219
00:58:12,560 --> 00:58:15,320
Speaker 2: self respect of like of like, you know what, this

1220
00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:18,400
Speaker 2: guy is freaking garbagio. I need to get out of

1221
00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:20,439
Speaker 2: here and just build a good life for myself. I'm

1222
00:58:20,480 --> 00:58:22,720
Speaker 2: just gonna stay with him and I'll help him hide

1223
00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:25,479
Speaker 2: it and you know it. That's what I would guess

1224
00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:26,520
Speaker 2: is happening here.

1225
00:58:26,640 --> 00:58:29,000
Speaker 1: But let's see, let's see, let's keep going. He had

1226
00:58:29,000 --> 00:58:31,800
Speaker 1: been cheating on Jane with some woman for about six

1227
00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:35,800
Speaker 1: months before she got pregnant. Apparently, Jane and John offered

1228
00:58:35,800 --> 00:58:39,080
Speaker 1: her a lump sum of twenty five thousand pounds for

1229
00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:41,680
Speaker 1: her to allow them to adopt the baby when it

1230
00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:43,920
Speaker 1: was born and to never interact with the baby. Or

1231
00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:46,400
Speaker 1: the family. Ever, again, they didn't want this cheating to

1232
00:58:46,440 --> 00:58:49,520
Speaker 1: be found out, so they pretended Jane was pregnant and

1233
00:58:49,600 --> 00:58:52,919
Speaker 1: moved away. Jane's mom was in on the whole thing,

1234
00:58:53,160 --> 00:58:56,000
Speaker 1: the kicker, the punter. This all came out because the

1235
00:58:56,080 --> 00:59:00,280
Speaker 1: woman John had an affair with decided she wants the

1236
00:59:00,320 --> 00:59:03,480
Speaker 1: baby back. Apparently she hadn't been fully informed about the

1237
00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:07,160
Speaker 1: agreements legal implications, and she felt pressured to sign it

1238
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:09,640
Speaker 1: in the first place. She also barely speaks English and

1239
00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:13,120
Speaker 1: the contract was all in English. She's now pursuing legal

1240
00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:16,720
Speaker 1: action against Jane and John to get full custody of

1241
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 1: the baby. She said she waited this long because she

1242
00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:21,800
Speaker 1: was afraid of her immigrant status getting in the way.

1243
00:59:22,000 --> 00:59:24,840
Speaker 1: All their closed off answers and refusal to engage was

1244
00:59:24,840 --> 00:59:27,760
Speaker 1: because they were afraid of this coming out. Apparently Jane

1245
00:59:27,800 --> 00:59:32,360
Speaker 1: was terrified of someone noticing the baby's eyes green. John

1246
00:59:32,400 --> 00:59:35,560
Speaker 1: and Jane both have blue eyes, but Lucy has green eyes.

1247
00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:37,480
Speaker 1: By the way, do you want to listen to more

1248
00:59:37,480 --> 00:59:40,440
Speaker 1: stories just like this, Go to Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or

1249
00:59:40,440 --> 00:59:43,800
Speaker 1: your favorite podcast app and search. Okay, storytime, there's another

1250
00:59:43,840 --> 00:59:46,480
Speaker 1: elevant update. But let's discuss John.

1251
00:59:46,800 --> 00:59:51,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm Wow. F lord, Wow, I've never seen a situation.

1252
00:59:52,120 --> 00:59:54,440
Speaker 2: I mean, it's kind of like a surrogate situation. Ish

1253
00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:57,800
Speaker 2: it's an affair. It's an affair surrogate. Yeah, but wow.

1254
00:59:57,920 --> 01:00:00,160
Speaker 2: And again, like to Riley's point, why did she you

1255
01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:02,600
Speaker 2: go along with it? Like get out of there? Like

1256
01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:03,840
Speaker 2: that's not the sits.

1257
01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:08,080
Speaker 3: Well, if they're bribing someone twenty five thousand euros.

1258
01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:12,680
Speaker 2: Mulah young, mulah baby. Oh, but you're talking about the wife.

1259
01:00:12,720 --> 01:00:15,320
Speaker 2: I'm talking about the wife. Yeah. But to Riley's point,

1260
01:00:15,440 --> 01:00:17,520
Speaker 2: is the wife like, listen, I got it made in

1261
01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:22,000
Speaker 2: the shade, my husby. Have you got them bags of cash? Yeah?

1262
01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:23,880
Speaker 2: So I don't Maybe I want I don't want to

1263
01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:26,080
Speaker 2: leave that and I'm willing to and I want a

1264
01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 2: baby baby, and maybe she also does have fertility issues.

1265
01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:30,760
Speaker 2: Maybe that's that's.

1266
01:00:30,800 --> 01:00:33,200
Speaker 1: It's kind of like a win win that. I mean

1267
01:00:33,240 --> 01:00:35,960
Speaker 1: that true, not much win. But Susan and Sharaka says

1268
01:00:35,960 --> 01:00:37,960
Speaker 1: they use that poor woman.

1269
01:00:38,320 --> 01:00:43,400
Speaker 2: Mmmm. Yeah, yeah, soup so skeevie of John, This John guy,

1270
01:00:43,840 --> 01:00:48,280
Speaker 2: very very very skeeve. Yeah, slimy the haye limy John,

1271
01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:50,840
Speaker 2: tell me about it. Oh wow, But we got a

1272
01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:53,120
Speaker 2: little bit more to this story, so things have gone

1273
01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 2: to absolute crap. The whole situation is bigger than anything

1274
01:00:56,200 --> 01:00:58,520
Speaker 2: I could have imagined. I want to be updating unless

1275
01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:00,680
Speaker 2: something else crazy happens. I don't know if this was

1276
01:01:00,720 --> 01:01:03,200
Speaker 2: a sign to keep trusting my gut, but dang, I'll

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Speaker 2: be logging off a few hours. Thanks to everyone. And

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Speaker 2: this is a commentater.

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Speaker 1: You need to get your sister in law out of

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Speaker 1: that toxic relationship asapp help that girl wake up, and

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Speaker 1: Opie said, I mean they both orchestrated taking advantage of

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Speaker 1: the woman. They're made for each other. And another commentar

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Speaker 1: why didn't they just say they will adopt a baby,

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Speaker 1: and Obi says, well, that's what they did, under the

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Speaker 1: guise of tricking the woman. I don't know what the

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Speaker 1: contract said exactly, but from what I know, my brother

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Speaker 1: told her she'd be able to see the baby, but

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Speaker 1: a contract said that by taking twenty five thousand dollars,

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Speaker 1: she'd never see the baby or my brother slash his

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Speaker 1: extended family ever again. I feel awful for her, and

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Speaker 1: I hope she can recover and get her baby back.

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Speaker 1: And another commenter says, yikes, I hope this poor woman

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Speaker 1: gets her baby back.

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Speaker 2: In the US.

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Speaker 1: At least there's a visa for people who report a

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Speaker 1: crime and cooperate with prosecuting the perpetrator. It's frequently used

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Speaker 1: for domestic violence, but don't know the details of whether

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Speaker 1: they can be charged with the crime given the contract.

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Speaker 1: Maybe something like criminal coercion. In any case, I hope

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Speaker 1: mama and baby are united and together. Sorry, you have

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Speaker 1: to deal with the family mess op and OPI responds.

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Speaker 1: We're in the UK, where paid surrogacy is illegal unless

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Speaker 1: it's for reasonable expenses. For example, buying your surrogacy maternity

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Speaker 1: clothes is legal. Paying a lump sum of twenty five

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Speaker 1: thousand is not. That's not even getting into the fact

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Speaker 1: that they tricked her and didn't even attempt to provide

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Speaker 1: a gender diverse latteur contract in her language anything.

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Speaker 2: Mm wow, who crazy?

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Speaker 1: So is OP the a hole? Is OP the a

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Speaker 1: hole for investigating ah?

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Speaker 2: I don't know that, op, And maybe there was a

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Speaker 2: little unreliable narrating going on. I don't know that she

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Speaker 2: that OPI really pulled those past the line here. Maybe

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Speaker 2: was kind of on the line with being too before

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Speaker 2: we knew what the actual situation.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's okay to ask questions about something

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Speaker 1: that's like obviously a lie.

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Speaker 2: It seemed not interrogating or grilled. Yeah, and it was

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Speaker 2: just like, waits you this person got this.

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Speaker 1: But oh, this says guy translator, guys a gender diverse

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Speaker 1: trans Oh that's not even getting to the fact that

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Speaker 1: they tricked her and didn't even attempt to provide a

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Speaker 1: translator a contract in her language anything. But yeah, I

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Speaker 1: think OP is not the A hole in bold even

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Speaker 1: before we knew this, if this information never came out,

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Speaker 1: I think still not the A hole. I think I agree.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that she she she went past but

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Speaker 1: the comments totally flamed her on Reddit.

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Speaker 2: It's true. I mean again, there are scenarios where it's

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Speaker 2: like you're just over again a woman who's infertile and

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Speaker 2: is like very ashamed in all this. Yes, totally understood,

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Speaker 2: but Ope didn't go past the line. That is where

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Speaker 2: I think, from from all that we know, from all

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Speaker 2: that we know, well we know, but oh wow, and

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Speaker 2: uh pol a chat has pretty much spoken.

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Speaker 1: Not the ale, not the A hole, with more votes

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Speaker 1: coming in in agreement. But yeah, let us know what

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Speaker 1: you think, let us know where you disagree with us.

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Speaker 1: that that's the end of this episode. So if you

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