1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a suit on, don giving them 3 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: like a million bucks bus things and the stuffing me 4 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:50,760 Speaker 1: through good oft listening to mother, Please I don't join 5 00:00:50,520 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 1: joining me. You gotta turning. You gotta turn to turnout 6 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:46,759 Speaker 1: turn You got to turn them out to turn turn 7 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 1: the water the water got me? Come come on your bad, 8 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 1: I shall will Good morning everybody you are listening to 9 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 1: the voice, Come on digman now, one and only Steve 10 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:14,919 Speaker 1: Harvey got a radio show. Why because God, God is 11 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 1: in the blessing business. If you go get in line, 12 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 1: he has something for you. God is amazing. The plan 13 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 1: he actually has for you is so far greater than 14 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 1: you can possibly imagine. It's really mind blowing. And as 15 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 1: I look back on where He's brought me from and 16 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 1: what he's currently doing for me, all I can do 17 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 1: is tell you is God. That's all I can tell you. 18 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 1: Because I tell you right now, I didn't foresee it. 19 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 1: You know. It oftentimes amazes me when I listen to 20 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 1: celebrities when they interview how they say, you know, I 21 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:56,239 Speaker 1: always always thought that this would happen for me, and 22 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:59,239 Speaker 1: I just you know it could be true, but for me, 23 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:05,359 Speaker 1: it's not that way at all. I didn't imagine it 24 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 1: this way. I had a dream of becoming famous one day, 25 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:15,919 Speaker 1: but I had no idea it would it would ever 26 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 1: get to this. It was a very very simple desire 27 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: for fame. That is no way I could have seen 28 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 1: all this. There is no way I am telling you 29 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 1: this is. This has been nothing for me but the 30 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 1: grace of God, and all the times I failed, every 31 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: time I had fallen, he picked me up, He dusted 32 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 1: me off, and he kept me moving. It has been 33 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 1: an amazing thing to watch God do what he do. 34 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 1: As I look back on my history and you sometimes 35 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 1: look back on your history, you've got to see, man, wow, 36 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 1: what God has done for you and what He's brought 37 00:03:57,800 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 1: you through to enable you to be where you are. 38 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 1: It is amazing because really, I mean really real talk now, 39 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 1: had He allowed all of the decisions I had made 40 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: to play all the way out, I can assure you 41 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be here today. But God, through this grace 42 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 1: and mercy, who had a plan for me, who was 43 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:21,720 Speaker 1: just waiting on me to come get in line, and 44 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 1: then he was gonna start empty in now he was 45 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 1: gonna start shipping out all the boxes in heaven with 46 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:30,840 Speaker 1: my name on it. And man, what a great god 47 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 1: he is, What a great god he is. And you 48 00:04:34,240 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 1: have boxes of blessings with your name on it that 49 00:04:38,720 --> 00:04:41,920 Speaker 1: he is waiting to ship. But he needs you to 50 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 1: go down there and get in line. That's what it is. 51 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 1: It is not that he has more boxes for other 52 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:51,280 Speaker 1: people than he do you. He got boxes with your 53 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:54,520 Speaker 1: name on it who have never been shipped. Because you 54 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:57,160 Speaker 1: will not get in line to go get him. You 55 00:04:57,520 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 1: will not ask God for him, you will not do 56 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 1: the things necessary to attain them. We stop our own blessings. Man, 57 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 1: I have been the biggest stopper of my blessings than 58 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 1: anybody else. I can't really get mad at nobody. I 59 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 1: got nobody to blame for my existence but me. But 60 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 1: then at the same time, I can't take credit for this. 61 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 1: I really really can't. I kid you not. I cannot 62 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 1: take credit for it. And if you ever see me 63 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 1: taking credit for it, tap me on the shoulder, say Steve, 64 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 1: pull up. Remember you said this ain't about you. If 65 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 1: you catch me taking too much credit, you have my 66 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:39,719 Speaker 1: permission to stop me. Now here. It is the deal though, 67 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:43,799 Speaker 1: And this is what I want to get through to today, 68 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 1: moving forward while under attack, new level, new devil. You know, 69 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 1: every time you go somewhere, every time you try to progress, 70 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 1: every time you make a decision to be better, to 71 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:01,280 Speaker 1: do better, that's gonna be affrontation you're going to have 72 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:04,840 Speaker 1: because it is the enemy's job to not see you 73 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:10,120 Speaker 1: go forward, do better. Won't more behave yourself. There is 74 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:13,919 Speaker 1: a force that is operative out there that has people 75 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:18,160 Speaker 1: working on his behalf twenty four seven. You got a computer, 76 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 1: go go read a blog. Just go read a blog. 77 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:26,839 Speaker 1: They're busy man, not knowing, but just saying evil stuff constantly. 78 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 1: That's a job. Well, here's what happens. I you. We 79 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 1: have to always keep moving forward while we're under attack, 80 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:46,840 Speaker 1: because the attack is going to always come. If you 81 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:50,920 Speaker 1: allow the attackers to stop you, you will lose that 82 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 1: particular battle. And you cannot afford this. You know. My 83 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:59,160 Speaker 1: father used to say, be careful when you're trying to 84 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 1: kick somebody off the ladder, because you got to take 85 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 1: your foot off too, and you might slip. And so 86 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:08,839 Speaker 1: when people are taking their feet off the ladder, most 87 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 1: mot the majority the may't even up own a ladder. 88 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 1: They just at the bottom throwing stuff up at you. 89 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 1: They are just shaking your ladder. They ain't even they 90 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 1: ain't even on your level. Really tell you the truth, 91 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 1: they really not. You have moved on far beyond them, spiritually, physically, everything, 92 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 1: but they are still shaking your ladder and attacking. You. 93 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:33,360 Speaker 1: Keep moving forward while under attack, because the attacks are 94 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:36,119 Speaker 1: going to come. If you take the time to stop 95 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 1: and address it, you are impeding your own progress. This 96 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 1: is very important to understand. Go on about your business 97 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 1: and remember Steve Harvey, and remember those of you out there. 98 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 1: There is a Bible verse that helps me out every time. 99 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 1: And I don't know why. I got it on six 100 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 1: different plaques sitting all around my offices. Everywhere I go, 101 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 1: I can read it Isaiah fifty four seventeen, No weapon 102 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 1: formed against me. Sheall prosper that because this is that 103 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 1: he will put me under his wings or protection. And 104 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 1: this is my inheritance as a servant of the Lord period. 105 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 1: I'm his boy, he my man, so so dig so, 106 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 1: so when you coming for me, I have to just 107 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 1: rest on that Lord right there, that he got it 108 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 1: that no weapon formed against mechall prosper. I'm just like you. 109 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 1: Sometimes you know we know better, but sometimes we don't 110 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 1: do better. Man, let them say what they're gonna say. 111 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 1: When they get through saying it, when they get through 112 00:08:38,520 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 1: writing it, when they get through talking about you, when 113 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 1: they get through lyne about you. Guess what they're gonna 114 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:45,439 Speaker 1: have to do. They're gonna have to step back and 115 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 1: watch your rise. They're gonna have to kick back and 116 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 1: watch what God got for you, because nothing God got 117 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 1: for you. Can't nobody stop it. I don't care what 118 00:08:54,040 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 1: they do. Keep moving forward while under attack. You know, 119 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:05,080 Speaker 1: somebody tell you something. Minister Lewis Fairkhan taught me something 120 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 1: very important one day. He says, Steve, remember this. He said. 121 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 1: It is a common thing for a dog to bark 122 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:18,080 Speaker 1: up at the moon. But if the moon balks back 123 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 1: at the dog, the dog becomes famous. You feel me, 124 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: the moon was talking to you. What did you? How 125 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:28,959 Speaker 1: did the moon stop and talk to you? Don't give 126 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:32,040 Speaker 1: them that. Let the dog bark up at the moon. 127 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:34,200 Speaker 1: Don't you be up there? You go where God got 128 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:36,559 Speaker 1: you going. Don't bark back at this dog because the 129 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:38,319 Speaker 1: dog come famous because they ain't gonna be able to 130 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 1: get to you. But the dog is famous. Now they 131 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:42,319 Speaker 1: want to interview the dog. Now the dog guess what 132 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 1: he gonna do? More barking? Guess what about you? Man? 133 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 1: Gone about your business, y'all. God is in the blessing 134 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 1: business all day long. Man, Go get in line, get 135 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 1: you some get them packages and boxes ship to you. 136 00:09:55,400 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: They got your name on it show one, two three. 137 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 1: I've got sunshine on a cloudy day when it's cold outside. 138 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 1: I got the month of May. Well, I guess you say, 139 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 1: what can make me feel this way? I'm talking about 140 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:28,559 Speaker 1: my girl, My girl, That's what I'm talking about, my girl. 141 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 1: Good Morning America, Steve Harvey Morning Show starts different every 142 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 1: day because every day is a new day. Why would 143 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 1: I start at the exact same way when today was 144 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 1: not like yesterday? Huh. I'm just asking you. This is 145 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:50,719 Speaker 1: the logic behind why I do what I do in 146 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 1: the morning. But my expectations for great things to happen 147 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:57,960 Speaker 1: remain the same. But I know today will be totally different, 148 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 1: and I expect that, and however it goes, I'm eternally 149 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:06,079 Speaker 1: grateful that I'm here for it. I hope you are too. 150 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:13,840 Speaker 1: This is the dog Gone Dad Gummick, Steve Hardy Mouth functioning, 151 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 1: moaning show, sharing a strong ben with a little dysfunction, 152 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:25,199 Speaker 1: thrown in, thrown in, Good morning, Steve Colin Farrell, I'm 153 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:29,199 Speaker 1: still stuck on my girl. Started with attempts every day, baby, 154 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:33,239 Speaker 1: good morning. You better know it, Junior. That was a temptation. 155 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 1: Slap you through this, Hey, Junior, just having to know 156 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:42,679 Speaker 1: you to know that I was watching. Um. I was 157 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 1: scrolling through Instagram and b two k is back together. 158 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:54,599 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I saw that, Yeah, and apologize to a 159 00:11:54,760 --> 00:12:02,679 Speaker 1: Marion on stage. I had no idea the old him 160 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:08,280 Speaker 1: an apology and two yesterday and I saw it and 161 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:12,960 Speaker 1: I said, okay, that's what happened, the beef and squashed. Yeah. 162 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:19,720 Speaker 1: I had no idea to y'all all years. I had 163 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:22,839 Speaker 1: no idea. And I've been with them young dudes a 164 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:26,199 Speaker 1: bunch of times, man, because they was coming on my 165 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 1: shoe and everything. Y'all met them all in the movie 166 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:32,719 Speaker 1: and then I became a little sideline mentor. But I 167 00:12:32,920 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 1: just did not do a good job of mentoring. They 168 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:40,959 Speaker 1: asked at all because they weren't listening anyway. J Anthony Brown, 169 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:43,840 Speaker 1: what's up, man, I'm with you. I didn't know they 170 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 1: was beef either, had no, nephew, time in the top top. 171 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:50,240 Speaker 1: Let's see we can get told to see back together 172 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 1: now we're working on some and y'all are no No 173 00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 1: Casey and Joejoe beef and go to work. But the 174 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 1: us love each other only falling out. They do his 175 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:13,439 Speaker 1: own stage. Your ass out there tonight, you hear me? 176 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 1: Wait till we get out there with this Step Over 177 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 1: tour is back to Step Over. I think Fizz dated 178 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:32,560 Speaker 1: Amarian's baby mama. Yeah, April, Yeah, oh girl, yeah maybe Steven. 179 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:36,560 Speaker 1: You gotta watch Love and Hip Hop Hollywood. All right, 180 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:40,559 Speaker 1: all right, we'll be back with the cello, asked the 181 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 1: cello at thirty two minutes after right after this, you're 182 00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:48,439 Speaker 1: listening to show. All right, it is time now for 183 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:53,319 Speaker 1: ask the clo. Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building. 184 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 1: This one clo is from Terry and Saginaw, Michigan. She says, 185 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 1: I'm five ten cur every model, and I met a 186 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 1: handsome man recently at a youth basketball camp. I played 187 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:08,679 Speaker 1: ball in college, so I volunteer as a camp annually. 188 00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 1: When we met, we played a game of horse and 189 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:14,599 Speaker 1: I won, so he had to take me out. That 190 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 1: was the bet. He took me to a sports bar 191 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 1: and he had on basketball shorts, footies and slides, and 192 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 1: I was dressed like it was a real date. We've 193 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 1: been hanging out for three weeks and I feel like 194 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 1: one of the boys. How do I get him to 195 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:38,960 Speaker 1: notice my breasts and other assets? Hey, oh, sister, have 196 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:44,400 Speaker 1: you ever thought that the reason he's treating you as 197 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 1: one of the boys is because that's how he sees you? 198 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 1: And he met you on a basketball court doing a 199 00:14:55,440 --> 00:14:58,280 Speaker 1: bet in a game of horse and you won the 200 00:14:58,440 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 1: horse game? Did it ever curry you to lose that game? Yes, 201 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 1: just to feed into the stupid male ego. But now 202 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 1: you to whoop the man? Now the bet was and 203 00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 1: who made the bet that who lost would have to 204 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 1: take the other person out? Now he lost, he didn't 205 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 1: want to lose his soul loser, And maybe he don't 206 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:27,680 Speaker 1: He just see you as one of the guys when 207 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 1: he comes to flip flopping the basketball shorts. Y'all been 208 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 1: going out, but y'all, what else y'all doing? Y'all y'all 209 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 1: y'all doing anything like man and woman, boy girl, or 210 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 1: y'all just going to sports bars? How do I get 211 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:49,840 Speaker 1: them to notice your breast. That's easy, That ain't hard. 212 00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:57,080 Speaker 1: Go ahead, okay, if you want him to notice your breast, 213 00:15:57,480 --> 00:16:03,520 Speaker 1: there's something called cleavage, and once you expose cleavage, we 214 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 1: gonna notice it. Now. We got couple experts on the show. Okay, 215 00:16:09,720 --> 00:16:12,640 Speaker 1: that could show you ways to do it if that's 216 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 1: what you want to do it. But we could take 217 00:16:14,520 --> 00:16:17,360 Speaker 1: the faux fools that's on the show and show you 218 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 1: how to do it. Now, Sirlen, we may not have 219 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 1: a show if we could do it, but Sarlyn Caller, 220 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 1: like on the radio show, they don't do that. No, no, 221 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 1: we don't And move on. Okay, are you done with 222 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:35,040 Speaker 1: this advice healing? Yeah? I think you are. Angela in Waco. 223 00:16:35,360 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 1: As we move on, says, my five year old son 224 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:41,360 Speaker 1: came home from school and told me that his teacher 225 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:45,480 Speaker 1: as a big behind. Now, I hadn't seen this teacher 226 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:49,080 Speaker 1: before the pandemic because my ex husband registered our son 227 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 1: to return to school recently. I want to see his 228 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:55,520 Speaker 1: teacher and he was correct. She's gone somewhere and had 229 00:16:55,560 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 1: a butt lift or shots or something. I don't think 230 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 1: she's effective with the tops anymore. If she has a 231 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 1: five if she has five year olds, talking at her 232 00:17:03,440 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 1: big booty. Oh, Carla, you want to say it? Am 233 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:14,080 Speaker 1: I reading too much into this? Or should I speak 234 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:21,680 Speaker 1: to the principle this? This is none of your business. God. See, 235 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:23,720 Speaker 1: the problem ain't the lady the wind and got a 236 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:29,119 Speaker 1: butt in the problem is your damn boy. See we 237 00:17:29,200 --> 00:17:31,680 Speaker 1: called that's what your boy focused on. That ain't that 238 00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:34,359 Speaker 1: lady's fault. And that ain't none of your business. It 239 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 1: has nothing to do with her ability to teach. She's 240 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:43,240 Speaker 1: still effective. It's just your child notices butts. So what 241 00:17:43,359 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 1: do you want him to do? You have a five 242 00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:52,639 Speaker 1: year old boy. There's some educated big butts out there, man, 243 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:55,399 Speaker 1: they really are. But if she's knocking stuff out of 244 00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:58,000 Speaker 1: her dask, that might be a problem with you. I mean, 245 00:17:58,080 --> 00:18:01,840 Speaker 1: we don't what Jay even she's knocking stuff off the 246 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:05,200 Speaker 1: desk when she changed around, or if she walking down 247 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 1: the aisle and knocking kids glasses off their face, that's 248 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 1: another problem. Here comes miss heywood duck. Everybody. Yeah, she's 249 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:23,280 Speaker 1: looking for a piece of chalk and it's stuck on 250 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:27,480 Speaker 1: her butt and she's looking around for it. Actually be 251 00:18:27,520 --> 00:18:30,959 Speaker 1: a problem if every time she right on the blackboard 252 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 1: and turn around and talk to the class, and she 253 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:37,159 Speaker 1: erased it. Now we just now now we messing with 254 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:39,639 Speaker 1: the education at the kids. But until that happened, this 255 00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:43,840 Speaker 1: ain't none of your damn beds. And that's probably why you' yes. 256 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:46,440 Speaker 1: And that's probably why your husband went up being registered 257 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:50,760 Speaker 1: to him by herself because one of the other husbands 258 00:18:50,800 --> 00:18:54,760 Speaker 1: had called up denser. Man, you got this. You didn't 259 00:18:55,600 --> 00:19:07,239 Speaker 1: ate me killing garden. Take him up there myself. Let 260 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:09,320 Speaker 1: me let me take jo on some lunch today and 261 00:19:09,480 --> 00:19:15,160 Speaker 1: go sit with it. Just go sit within in Virginia 262 00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:18,200 Speaker 1: Beach says. My husband and I have been married for 263 00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 1: three years, and he was best friends with my sister 264 00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:23,359 Speaker 1: and have been trying to date me for years. I 265 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:25,639 Speaker 1: finally felt for him and we sealed the deal, and 266 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:28,879 Speaker 1: now I'm pregnant with our first child. My hormones have 267 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:31,879 Speaker 1: me crazy, and I get irritated when I hear my 268 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:35,840 Speaker 1: husband and my sister telling stories about their path. It 269 00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:38,320 Speaker 1: bothers me that she's closer to him than I am. 270 00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:41,360 Speaker 1: What it seemed like, what I seem like an insecure 271 00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:43,880 Speaker 1: woman if I asked my sister to back away from 272 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:48,600 Speaker 1: my husband a little bit. Of course, of course you're 273 00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:52,880 Speaker 1: going to seem insensitive, and you're going to appear very pregnant, 274 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:55,480 Speaker 1: because if you say your hormones is all over the 275 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 1: place because the pregnancy, which I know nothing about, I 276 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:03,760 Speaker 1: have to take your word for that. So now you 277 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:06,040 Speaker 1: know you didn't have no problem with him being that 278 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:09,480 Speaker 1: close when you was deciding to go with him, and 279 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:11,560 Speaker 1: now all of a sudden you have a problem with 280 00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:15,480 Speaker 1: it and it gets on your nerves. I don't know 281 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 1: what I can't help you with, just because will it 282 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:22,080 Speaker 1: stop after you you have the baby? I don't know, 283 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:24,960 Speaker 1: See I don't. I can't. I can't feel the hormones 284 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:28,560 Speaker 1: into this. I don't know how to do that. Thing 285 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 1: will get back in balance, okay, See I don't know 286 00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:33,960 Speaker 1: nothing about that. Thank you Carling, Thank you Sherley. But 287 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:40,280 Speaker 1: in the meantime, I'll see something stay unbalanced. So I 288 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:46,440 Speaker 1: have been witness to that too. Her nerves are on 289 00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:52,480 Speaker 1: edge a lot. You irritated, all right, all right, thank you, Cielo. 290 00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:56,440 Speaker 1: Coming up next, church complaints with Reverend Motown and Deacon 291 00:20:56,520 --> 00:21:01,240 Speaker 1: death Jam. Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning 292 00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:03,960 Speaker 1: Show coming up at the top of the hour, and 293 00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:07,760 Speaker 1: trending news. The super Bowl is four months away, but 294 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:11,720 Speaker 1: everyone is talking about the big halftime show announcement plus 295 00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:16,520 Speaker 1: an entertainment news Great Great's Anatomy star Ellen Pompeo got 296 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:21,240 Speaker 1: into a shouting match with Denzel Washington. Will tell you 297 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:24,560 Speaker 1: about what happened? What that? Oh yeah, we'll tell you 298 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:32,119 Speaker 1: about Oh you didn't disloyal. It's coming up at the 299 00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:34,040 Speaker 1: top of the start, at the top of the hour. 300 00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:36,879 Speaker 1: That story is right Now, it's Monday. It's time for 301 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:41,480 Speaker 1: church complaints with Reverend Motown and Deacon death jam full 302 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:57,320 Speaker 1: we today we'll make radio for his full stupidly while 303 00:21:57,480 --> 00:22:05,000 Speaker 1: we see it here in inaugural of the anticipation of 304 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:13,880 Speaker 1: today's evaluation. Oh, I know, I know, I am ladiship 305 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:18,800 Speaker 1: in the Gentleman's we is about to get into or 306 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:23,880 Speaker 1: what is this? Or complaints from Bill jack Hart doing 307 00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 1: drew his deconduct? Jim with two this or this week's 308 00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:34,040 Speaker 1: are ungrateful? This all right? Let's get down the business 309 00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:38,680 Speaker 1: past the eyes sister, But Lenda Jones got a weave 310 00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 1: put on her eyelids. She fell asleep while she was 311 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:46,359 Speaker 1: getting it done. When she woke up, she couldn't open 312 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:49,400 Speaker 1: her eyes. Now she's asking the church for a personal 313 00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:53,240 Speaker 1: assistant until she can get the strength to open her eyes. 314 00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 1: That's so that's a new pass. Well, we don't have 315 00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:05,159 Speaker 1: any personal assistance avail. But brother Reynard who passed last 316 00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:11,240 Speaker 1: summer had a sea and our dog or that it's 317 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:15,960 Speaker 1: been out of work since Brother Reynard's demise and soul. 318 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:21,240 Speaker 1: We go down to the kennel because we've been paying 319 00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:24,040 Speaker 1: this kennel bill and get that sea and our dog 320 00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:27,240 Speaker 1: out and just put him back to work. All right, 321 00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 1: but I cannot training now he's been put away on 322 00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:35,440 Speaker 1: a minute, ain't he Well, we ain't got to war. 323 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:38,159 Speaker 1: But she got a eyelashes. She can see, she just 324 00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:41,639 Speaker 1: can't see good. She can't get him up. So you 325 00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:45,879 Speaker 1: don't need a fully trained seeing our dog. You just 326 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:52,480 Speaker 1: need a dog with harsher capabilities and you could yeah, 327 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:56,720 Speaker 1: like for example, when they get to the curb and 328 00:23:56,800 --> 00:24:00,720 Speaker 1: they step off, he don't stand now and and keep 329 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:03,159 Speaker 1: you from stepping off. He barbed. But let you know 330 00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:06,640 Speaker 1: it's a trump coming and you want to go out 331 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:09,399 Speaker 1: on out there you on your own right right right 332 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:13,560 Speaker 1: right right right, raised lids out. That's what you needed there, 333 00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:19,920 Speaker 1: all right? Pastor the the usher boyd. They are asking 334 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:23,800 Speaker 1: if it's okay to use scooters to move around doing 335 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:26,879 Speaker 1: service since the pandemic they are, they not used to 336 00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:29,040 Speaker 1: being on their feet that they lined, so they want 337 00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,639 Speaker 1: to be able to ride scooters around and change them 338 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:34,119 Speaker 1: take people to their feet. We're not going to be 339 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:40,680 Speaker 1: able to do that because when we were sued by 340 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:45,280 Speaker 1: sister Perneil, you know, she had off weight condition and 341 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:50,560 Speaker 1: she had a hover around at the church as an usher, 342 00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 1: and then other overweight people would want to ride with her, 343 00:24:56,240 --> 00:25:02,600 Speaker 1: and we ended up replacing eat hover rounds that year. 344 00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:06,960 Speaker 1: And you just cost the church too much money. Yeah, yeah, 345 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:09,400 Speaker 1: because she wants they see one ride and they wants 346 00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:13,120 Speaker 1: to ride to their seat and then hover rounds ain't 347 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,720 Speaker 1: built for that. So I'm gonna have to say no 348 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:23,640 Speaker 1: to that. All right. Let's see he has sister Merlen Reynos, 349 00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:27,359 Speaker 1: who is seventy six, says she wants to have one 350 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:32,400 Speaker 1: more child. She said, asked pastor would he consider being 351 00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 1: a donor? So pastors, I don't need anybody kid to her. 352 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:40,840 Speaker 1: She won't to hell? What what do she mean by 353 00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:46,280 Speaker 1: don't don't or don't? Now? She wants u you the 354 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:52,720 Speaker 1: artificially in exmination path, yo yo yo will at seventy 355 00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:57,119 Speaker 1: six and who is just a kid? Decon this? Sister 356 00:25:57,240 --> 00:26:01,239 Speaker 1: Merlen Renos tell sister Merle, I have never ever been 357 00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:07,159 Speaker 1: attracted to her in any way the word either to 358 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:13,879 Speaker 1: participate in that type of at all. We can't be 359 00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:16,840 Speaker 1: ugly like that passing now you no, no, no, no, no, no, 360 00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:24,320 Speaker 1: no no no. She can't be ugly after that, the 361 00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:28,880 Speaker 1: whole problem. Yeah, so you can't come up with these 362 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:31,040 Speaker 1: ideas at seventy six and come to me with it. 363 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:35,040 Speaker 1: I can't help you. I'm not attracted to her at all. 364 00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:42,320 Speaker 1: That's enough. Her and her brother was sitting at service 365 00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:46,200 Speaker 1: three weeks ago and I couldn't tell which one was 366 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:53,720 Speaker 1: her brother? What what do you think? Why you're not 367 00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:57,640 Speaker 1: doing it? I ain't no way I can. I can't 368 00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:02,680 Speaker 1: fal see myself for the fal seeable future. All right now, 369 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 1: all right, let let's him passing. Our sister Rod Leader 370 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:10,560 Speaker 1: burns she lost her two dogs, Mac and Jack and 371 00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:14,800 Speaker 1: Uh to high blood pressure, proudly because she was feeding 372 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:18,960 Speaker 1: them table food. But listen, she wants a full homegoing 373 00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:23,240 Speaker 1: ceremony for him, and then asking for you to preach 374 00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:27,439 Speaker 1: the you legit past. Yeah, we don't do dog going homes. 375 00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:31,160 Speaker 1: We don't do that for dogs. Dogs go to heaven. 376 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:36,560 Speaker 1: We don't know where dogs go, nor do our care. 377 00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:42,200 Speaker 1: And you know what kind of dog was the deacon? 378 00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:46,760 Speaker 1: I don't know. I think Mac was a Saint Bernard, 379 00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:51,600 Speaker 1: but I think Jack, uh huh, Mac was a Saint Bernard, 380 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,960 Speaker 1: but I think Jack was a uh what was what? 381 00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:57,560 Speaker 1: One of them? Lie? But door retrieve us. I think 382 00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:03,280 Speaker 1: that big dogs that sat Bernard's gonna need a big casket. Well, 383 00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:09,200 Speaker 1: not necessarily, not necessarily. If we do a close casket, 384 00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:15,600 Speaker 1: he won't need a big casket. Poor dawn brother ellery Pines, 385 00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:18,920 Speaker 1: who's been blind all his life, as we all know, 386 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:22,480 Speaker 1: has come into a miracle. He has been rathlessly gotten 387 00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:25,120 Speaker 1: one hundred percent of his big in back. He has 388 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:29,359 Speaker 1: seen his wife's sister Cellsteine for the first time ever 389 00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:33,840 Speaker 1: and is now asking for a divorce. Sister Cellstein wants 390 00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:35,719 Speaker 1: you to talk to him and see if you can. 391 00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 1: I knew that was gonna happen. I knew that was 392 00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:47,640 Speaker 1: gonna happen. See sister Cellersteine is friends with the seventy 393 00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:52,400 Speaker 1: six year old that wants to have our official systemated baby, 394 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:56,480 Speaker 1: and both of them together well The good thing about 395 00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:59,120 Speaker 1: this is the lady with the eyelash problem that you 396 00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:04,160 Speaker 1: talked about. There's no two dogs available to cheese. We 397 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:09,560 Speaker 1: gotta go. That's the outside to that right. Two dogs 398 00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:13,280 Speaker 1: is available for coming up at the top of the hour. 399 00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:19,800 Speaker 1: Thank you, pastor, dog is fresh? Would you? Trending Entertainment 400 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:23,520 Speaker 1: and National News. Right after this, you're listening to the 401 00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:29,880 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show and Trending Entertainment News. Everyone is 402 00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:32,800 Speaker 1: still talking about the big super Bowl halftime show. The 403 00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:35,960 Speaker 1: super Bowl, we know is a little over four months away, 404 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:38,960 Speaker 1: but now we know who'll be performing in front of 405 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:43,000 Speaker 1: America during halftime. The All Star Pepsi super Bowl fifty 406 00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:46,840 Speaker 1: six Halftime Show, put together by the NFL, Pepsi and 407 00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:50,840 Speaker 1: Rock Nation, will feature get this line up, guys, Doctor 408 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 1: Dre Snoop Dog, Eminem, Mary J. Blige, and Kendrick Lamar. Alright, 409 00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:04,600 Speaker 1: this is a lineup all yes, yes, yes, some shady 410 00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:08,400 Speaker 1: and don't. One of my favorite rap songs of all time, 411 00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:13,320 Speaker 1: Yellow Brick Roll. I still listen to that when I'm 412 00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:19,000 Speaker 1: working out because I love that story. I didn't know this, 413 00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:21,280 Speaker 1: but this is gonna mark the first time they'll all 414 00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:26,200 Speaker 1: perform together. Um and Doctor Dre said, this is this 415 00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:29,640 Speaker 1: opportunity to perform at the Super Bowl, have time, show 416 00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:32,120 Speaker 1: um and to do it in my own backyard will 417 00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:34,760 Speaker 1: be one of the biggest thrills of my career. He says. 418 00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:38,160 Speaker 1: I'm grateful to jay Z Rock Nation, the NFL, and Pepsi, 419 00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:41,080 Speaker 1: as well as Snoop Dogg, Eminem, Mary Jay and Kendrick 420 00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:44,520 Speaker 1: Lamar for joining me in what will be an unforgettable 421 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:49,080 Speaker 1: cultural moment. The Super Bowl goes down February thirteenth, twenty 422 00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:53,800 Speaker 1: twenty two. It's so Fi Stadium in Inglewood, California, England. 423 00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:58,360 Speaker 1: They went to the West Side to get the best. 424 00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:02,600 Speaker 1: This nice man, that's the show right there. But jay 425 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:06,959 Speaker 1: Z Rock Nation partnership with the NFL, you better recognize 426 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:09,320 Speaker 1: the power of hip hop. That was big, that was 427 00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:13,040 Speaker 1: and I just wish they had done R and D 428 00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:16,640 Speaker 1: like this, like maybe Charlie Willson and some of them 429 00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:19,200 Speaker 1: boys would have gotten Okay, well that ain't gonna happen. 430 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:23,640 Speaker 1: But that's never gonna happen. Never never happened. But this 431 00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:26,680 Speaker 1: is just a testament to the dumbest statement I made 432 00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:31,720 Speaker 1: in nineteen seventy seven when I heard hip hoop Hotel 433 00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:35,400 Speaker 1: holiday Inn. I turned to the him that I was 434 00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:39,680 Speaker 1: standing next to me and said, this would not last long. 435 00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:45,600 Speaker 1: They're not even sang it. I said that out my 436 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:48,080 Speaker 1: own I remember the day I said, we just at 437 00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:51,040 Speaker 1: a party kids state and they played it, and I 438 00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:54,040 Speaker 1: turned to the dude that said, this ain't gonna last long. Dog, 439 00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:56,480 Speaker 1: they ain't even sing it. I know everybody in here 440 00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:59,680 Speaker 1: like this, but y'all can stop all this dancing. This 441 00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:08,760 Speaker 1: will be over shot. Forty years later, I swear to god, 442 00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:12,040 Speaker 1: I remember making that statement. I know exactly why I 443 00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 1: was at a house party. Man as Silver Oaks, I mean, 444 00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:17,280 Speaker 1: I mean a Silver Medals, and I remember when it 445 00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:19,920 Speaker 1: was playing. I said, okay, yeah, I'll see what y'all doing. 446 00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:30,360 Speaker 1: Yeah him him, hop boy, and look at the naya. 447 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:35,240 Speaker 1: Who's gonna stay with that? All right? Moving on my 448 00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:40,880 Speaker 1: style culture, good money, I'm missed stolen. Let me get 449 00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:43,640 Speaker 1: to this story, guys, because this is all right? And 450 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:47,600 Speaker 1: other trending entertainment news, Twitter is dragging Grey's Anatomy star 451 00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:51,479 Speaker 1: Ellen Pompeo, she plays Meredith on the show, telling her 452 00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,760 Speaker 1: to get somewhere and sit down. She recalled on her 453 00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:57,440 Speaker 1: podcast a time when she had a shouting match with 454 00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:02,080 Speaker 1: none other than Denzel washed Shington on an episode he directed. 455 00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:05,680 Speaker 1: He directed on an episode of Grey's Anatomy, Ellen Pompeo 456 00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 1: and Denzel disagreed on how an actor playing a patient 457 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:13,680 Speaker 1: should apologize to her character Meredith. Ellen yelled to the actor, 458 00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:16,880 Speaker 1: look at me when you apologize, look at me, and 459 00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:20,920 Speaker 1: that wasn't in the dialogue. Denzel wanted her to stick 460 00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:24,960 Speaker 1: to the script, and she said he went ham on 461 00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:28,000 Speaker 1: her butt. He was like, I'm the director, don't you 462 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:32,560 Speaker 1: tell me what to do? And Ellen said I was like, listen, mother, mmmm, 463 00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:36,479 Speaker 1: this is my show, this is my set. Who are 464 00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:39,800 Speaker 1: you telling you barely even know where the bathroom is. 465 00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:42,320 Speaker 1: She said the fight was the result of two artists 466 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:47,520 Speaker 1: being passionate and fiery, but called out Denzel's lack of experience, saying, 467 00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:50,360 Speaker 1: Denzel's a movie star, right, he doesn't know crap about 468 00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:57,160 Speaker 1: directing TV. Who come on, I'll just say this and 469 00:33:57,240 --> 00:34:00,880 Speaker 1: get out the way. The direction was not about TV 470 00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:06,280 Speaker 1: or movie. The directing was about acting. And when we're 471 00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:09,279 Speaker 1: talking about who knows a lot about that? I would 472 00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:12,239 Speaker 1: venture to say him because as you said, her name, 473 00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:15,239 Speaker 1: that her photo don't even pop up in my mind. 474 00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:17,680 Speaker 1: I have no idea what this. I don't know, you know, 475 00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:25,239 Speaker 1: television at a school. Yeah, but she don't tell them. 476 00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:28,040 Speaker 1: The visual don't pop up in my mind, nor do 477 00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,879 Speaker 1: it pop up in a lot of people's mind there. 478 00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:36,800 Speaker 1: Everybody is thank you the fact I got Academy of 479 00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:45,520 Speaker 1: Wall raised anatomy. Ain't got nothing all make man to pass. 480 00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:49,080 Speaker 1: And I mean, I mean like I mean, And Denzel 481 00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:52,120 Speaker 1: is a cool dude. He don't You don't hear about him? 482 00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:54,560 Speaker 1: Fine off, So let me ask you, cause so did 483 00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:58,719 Speaker 1: she just tell that story on her podcast past? And 484 00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:02,840 Speaker 1: it wasn't say with that one for Saint elsewhere, that 485 00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:05,560 Speaker 1: show wouldn't even be on. It wouldn't even be on. Yeah, 486 00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:09,800 Speaker 1: that's Denzel's first show on. Yeah that dot the show started. 487 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:16,960 Speaker 1: Shut up, some damn one telling her you don't get it. 488 00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:22,520 Speaker 1: But I didn't say, Oh that's man, Yeah, I barely 489 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:25,080 Speaker 1: know what a bad room is. Then try just too passionate. 490 00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:26,800 Speaker 1: People that ain't got hing to do with that, what 491 00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:29,040 Speaker 1: a bad write it. Once you say that to me, 492 00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:30,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna turn and just pee right there. Once you 493 00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:34,320 Speaker 1: say that, you think you can say this to me? 494 00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:45,720 Speaker 1: Come on, come on, this. Yeah, people were pretty upset 495 00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:50,360 Speaker 1: on social media about that one. Steve just sounding disrespectful 496 00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:52,040 Speaker 1: on her part. I don't think I don't think it's 497 00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:56,000 Speaker 1: that nobody, nobody, nobody heard this at all. If Denzel 498 00:35:56,120 --> 00:36:00,839 Speaker 1: Washington blows up on the set, that's news worthy. It is, yes, 499 00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:04,240 Speaker 1: it is all right. Moving on, Coming up in twenty 500 00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:06,400 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we'll look into the mind of 501 00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:13,319 Speaker 1: je Anthony Brown. Right after this you're listening show, Come on, Steve, 502 00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:19,320 Speaker 1: introduce your buzz that dog goal Jay Anthony Brown. It 503 00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:25,520 Speaker 1: is the Atlanta Comedy Theater, twenty second, twenty third in Atlanta, Georgia. 504 00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:29,680 Speaker 1: I will be there. As stated earlier in the show, 505 00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:34,000 Speaker 1: the halftime show this year at the Super Bowl will 506 00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:38,839 Speaker 1: be probably the blackest ever since Beyonce cut the lights out. 507 00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:42,240 Speaker 1: It ain't be in this black. But with that being said, 508 00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:48,760 Speaker 1: that being said, yeah, across America, there'll be some sounds 509 00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:52,200 Speaker 1: and some things that will go on once that halftime 510 00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:55,280 Speaker 1: show stops. I will do this in my Southern voice, 511 00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:58,080 Speaker 1: so you'll know where in America that happened. You'll hear 512 00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:03,080 Speaker 1: stuff like this, Hey, Hey, let's see what's on Fox. Okay, 513 00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:05,400 Speaker 1: could you turn it on? Fox. Just turn it on 514 00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:09,160 Speaker 1: Fox real quick. When the halftime show shows up with 515 00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:15,359 Speaker 1: all these blackens, somebody hit the mute. Somebody pleased, hit 516 00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:20,640 Speaker 1: the damn mute. When the halftime shows come on this year, 517 00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:26,080 Speaker 1: somebody will say in America, damn eminem hell, I thought 518 00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:31,360 Speaker 1: he was with us? Oh my god. When the halftime 519 00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:36,280 Speaker 1: show comes on in America, somebody will say the Snoop 520 00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:39,560 Speaker 1: Dog is the only one I know. But I know 521 00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:42,759 Speaker 1: he was a rapper. I thought he was a cook 522 00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:48,520 Speaker 1: because with that white lady. Anyway, somewhere in America, somebody 523 00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:52,839 Speaker 1: will say this, guess what, we don't lost the halftime show. 524 00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:56,680 Speaker 1: And last, but not least, when the show comes on 525 00:37:56,920 --> 00:38:02,160 Speaker 1: across America, somebody will say about Mary Jane Blige, What 526 00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:05,279 Speaker 1: in the hell rung with her legs? Is she all right? 527 00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:12,520 Speaker 1: Can she walk? Why she walking like that? Hell going on? 528 00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:18,280 Speaker 1: Somebody will say these things when the halftime show comes 529 00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:21,560 Speaker 1: on across America. That's all I gotta say. I'm done, 530 00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:30,240 Speaker 1: We've done. Why don't we have any country Western music? 531 00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:38,319 Speaker 1: What happened to get country in weston? Half time? Yeah? 532 00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:44,480 Speaker 1: How many he watched? Yeah? Yeah? But it had probably 533 00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:49,799 Speaker 1: the most multi start. Now they've had bigger, They've had 534 00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:53,320 Speaker 1: prints on that thing. You know, They've had Beyonce on 535 00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:57,480 Speaker 1: the thing. I mean, look, they've had But I think 536 00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:05,040 Speaker 1: when it comes to multi multi stardom on one stage level, right, 537 00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:08,960 Speaker 1: they won't know who doctor dre is because Doctor Drede 538 00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:14,400 Speaker 1: most famous for what he does behind the scene. But 539 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:19,120 Speaker 1: but that dude right there is he is hip hop 540 00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:32,279 Speaker 1: for real. Yeah, and Snoop and eminem he's a beast. Yeah. 541 00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:34,560 Speaker 1: All right, we gotta go, guys. We'll be back with 542 00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:36,920 Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. 543 00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:43,239 Speaker 1: You're listening to Steven Show. Trending medical news. We've all 544 00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:47,600 Speaker 1: heard that the vaccine could possibly end the pandemic, but 545 00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:51,600 Speaker 1: a lot of people will not get vaccinated for whatever reason. Well, 546 00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:55,680 Speaker 1: pharmaceutical company Merk just announced on Friday that their anti 547 00:39:55,840 --> 00:40:00,640 Speaker 1: viral COVID nineteen pill could cut hospitalizations or deaths by 548 00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:06,279 Speaker 1: fifty percent. Now. The drug is called malnupiaver malnupiaver, which 549 00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:09,319 Speaker 1: will kind of be like tama flew and it can 550 00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:12,280 Speaker 1: be given to the patient when they first developed symptoms, 551 00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:16,200 Speaker 1: slowing the spread of the virus and perhaps stop people 552 00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:20,200 Speaker 1: from getting really, really sick. Medical experts said this anti 553 00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:24,840 Speaker 1: viral pill, along with the vaccines, could transform COVID into 554 00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:29,799 Speaker 1: a treatable illness. Mark is seeking FDA approval, hopefully by 555 00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:32,719 Speaker 1: the end of the year. So there you go, a pill, 556 00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:39,799 Speaker 1: all the shots peels. Yeah, whatever you got. I'm so sick. 557 00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:47,640 Speaker 1: All that's on my night stand already. But you know what, man, 558 00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:51,040 Speaker 1: I just look, well, skip it. I've said all I 559 00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:54,399 Speaker 1: need to say about it. I got a family number 560 00:40:54,440 --> 00:41:01,359 Speaker 1: that ain't took it. I've never Yeah, family, we all 561 00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:07,080 Speaker 1: do the Hey, don already. Ain't want you at my house. 562 00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:16,919 Speaker 1: You you have a real problem pandemic. Take your lands 563 00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:20,920 Speaker 1: in the non vaccinated room. That's what you not the 564 00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:32,359 Speaker 1: kids table. Yeah, that's outside, right, yeah right, I got 565 00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:37,240 Speaker 1: nice little covered area outside out there. It might be raining. 566 00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:49,040 Speaker 1: You don't care. Yeah, you can't dressing people. That's a 567 00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:52,160 Speaker 1: lot though. I mean, I think though, if you take 568 00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:54,600 Speaker 1: it like tama flu, because if you ever had tama flu, 569 00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:57,040 Speaker 1: as soon as you get sick with the flu, if 570 00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:59,320 Speaker 1: you take tama flu right away, it can help you. 571 00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:04,080 Speaker 1: If you wait, eat, if way shot right tama flu, 572 00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:07,280 Speaker 1: it won't help you. So maybe people that are scared 573 00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:13,120 Speaker 1: of needles, Yes, I like to make this statement. I mean, 574 00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:19,080 Speaker 1: if I was afraid of a needle, I bet you 575 00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:24,160 Speaker 1: I'm more afraid of a ventilator. Yeah, that's the gold. 576 00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:32,080 Speaker 1: Now you're thinking, you're thinking smart, but they don't think 577 00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:34,600 Speaker 1: like that. They think they're never gonna get sick because 578 00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:38,239 Speaker 1: it's not real. Yeah, I believe that virris is real 579 00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:41,480 Speaker 1: because or some pole to believe that that it's not real. 580 00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:45,040 Speaker 1: It's fake, all of that. You know, it's political, all 581 00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:47,279 Speaker 1: of that, all of that, or some people just feel 582 00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:50,919 Speaker 1: like they weren't sick, they didn't get sick, so they're 583 00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:53,040 Speaker 1: not gonna get it, do you know what I mean. 584 00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:55,160 Speaker 1: So it's like, well, I'm not gonna get it. I'm 585 00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:58,880 Speaker 1: just gonna mask up or whatever. Yeah, exactly, Tommy keywords 586 00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:02,200 Speaker 1: yet and then the people, this is a free country. 587 00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:04,040 Speaker 1: It's my body. If I don't want to take it, 588 00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:06,800 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna take it. It's it's a free country. 589 00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:12,720 Speaker 1: Let's let's start the argument I heard on the internet, 590 00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:18,759 Speaker 1: and they add an s to it that internet. Internet. Well, 591 00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:23,120 Speaker 1: the company Murk Tommy is seeking FDA approval, hopefully by 592 00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:25,760 Speaker 1: the end of the year, so we're looking probably twenty 593 00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:29,520 Speaker 1: twenty two next year. I'm taking that peel on both 594 00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:32,400 Speaker 1: ends in the mouth and this apository, I'm putting it 595 00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:35,000 Speaker 1: in both sides. I tell you, I'm gonna be on 596 00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:41,879 Speaker 1: time for you to step in here. After he said 597 00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:49,239 Speaker 1: that that, we just can't let that go. Just t 598 00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:53,080 Speaker 1: that's the only way. Yeah, I'm asking everybody. Would you 599 00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:56,600 Speaker 1: take it that way? The only way you could take it? Yes, 600 00:43:57,320 --> 00:44:02,400 Speaker 1: whatever it takes, man, I'm talking about. Just try to relax. 601 00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:09,160 Speaker 1: Here we go. Shut up. See mister Harvey. Stop greeting 602 00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:17,280 Speaker 1: me your teeth. You're making it worse, mister Harvey. Mister Harvey, listen, 603 00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:22,719 Speaker 1: we have other patients waiting. I'm trying, man, I'm trying. 604 00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:26,080 Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on, hold on, I'm trying. All right, 605 00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:28,640 Speaker 1: we gotta go. Coming up next, it is the nephew 606 00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:31,680 Speaker 1: with today's praying phone call. Right after this. You guys 607 00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:37,680 Speaker 1: are crazy. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming 608 00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:39,680 Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, right about four 609 00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:43,120 Speaker 1: minutes after, it's today's Strawberry Letter, the subject he's got 610 00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:46,040 Speaker 1: a weak mind and other things. We'll get into that 611 00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:48,400 Speaker 1: in just a little bit, but right now, the nephew 612 00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:51,480 Speaker 1: is here with today's Praying Phone call what you got 613 00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:53,960 Speaker 1: for his NAF Oh stupid you want me to be? 614 00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:56,239 Speaker 1: You know if you lay that out from me, you 615 00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:58,440 Speaker 1: know because I got grey, I got levels of stupidity. 616 00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:01,120 Speaker 1: You understand what I'm saying. If you try to, if 617 00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:06,800 Speaker 1: you try to flow with me, you were always a 618 00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:12,239 Speaker 1: level ten of stupid ten okay, every day, right, I 619 00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:13,960 Speaker 1: mean it measures up like like when we when we 620 00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:17,160 Speaker 1: go in jay mine, we go deep. You see, now 621 00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:19,719 Speaker 1: we're friend to go to the stupidity level. You're going 622 00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:22,520 Speaker 1: to level ten this right here. You need one of you. 623 00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:26,279 Speaker 1: I'm going to stop you right now. Neither one of 624 00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:32,480 Speaker 1: you should be using the rod deep when you're describing yourself. Mind. 625 00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:35,359 Speaker 1: Go ahead, you can keep going, but let's let's cut 626 00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:39,400 Speaker 1: this deep out. Hey, that's my brother and we deep together. Okay, 627 00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:46,120 Speaker 1: we deep. I just asked you double deep with double due. 628 00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:48,960 Speaker 1: All right, here we go. This right here is K 629 00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:52,600 Speaker 1: dog K dog. Let's go cat dog, Come you go 630 00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:57,040 Speaker 1: dog and dog K dog right here? Hello? Oh yeah, 631 00:45:57,080 --> 00:46:00,680 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach I'm trying to tea this apparent. 632 00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:06,640 Speaker 1: Who's this this ky? His uh? His brand his branding? 633 00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:09,279 Speaker 1: Your brother? Then? Yeah, that's my brother. He locked up 634 00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:12,080 Speaker 1: while what's up? Who cause you know who Hey, look, 635 00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:15,440 Speaker 1: I just got that. I was actually, uh, I was 636 00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:18,479 Speaker 1: locked up with your brother. We was on the same 637 00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:21,239 Speaker 1: two together. I was, uh, you know that was kind 638 00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:24,359 Speaker 1: of like my ford right there, I took kill of Uh. 639 00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:26,880 Speaker 1: He told me that he was he had been writing 640 00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:30,319 Speaker 1: you to tell you and you was, you know, letting 641 00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:31,960 Speaker 1: you know how I had been taken care of him, 642 00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:35,000 Speaker 1: you know, uh, while we was locked down or whatever. 643 00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:36,919 Speaker 1: I know he don't get off for another couple of years, 644 00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:40,040 Speaker 1: but like he told me that when he was writing 645 00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:42,960 Speaker 1: you that you know y'all that already got is situated 646 00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:45,840 Speaker 1: that you know, you was gonna take care of me 647 00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:49,120 Speaker 1: when I got that, So you know, I, like I said, 648 00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:52,040 Speaker 1: I just got out last night and I wanted to 649 00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:55,800 Speaker 1: come by and pick up the first ten grand you 650 00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:58,279 Speaker 1: know sometimes this wait wait wait wait wait wait wait 651 00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:02,239 Speaker 1: wait wait how much did you you just say tenny grand? Yeah? 652 00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:04,200 Speaker 1: You know, I mean he told me he had already 653 00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:06,600 Speaker 1: wrote you and told you what was up. No, bro, 654 00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:09,200 Speaker 1: I ain't talked to my brother over a year, dude, 655 00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:13,400 Speaker 1: so uh ain't hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, right, 656 00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:18,040 Speaker 1: you know? Okay? He told nah, you know he had 657 00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:20,600 Speaker 1: told me that you you got me straight with the 658 00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:22,680 Speaker 1: first ten grand when I first get out, and then 659 00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:24,759 Speaker 1: a couple of months later you hit me with the 660 00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:28,399 Speaker 1: list ten grands and just twenty grand. Wait, wait, that's 661 00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:30,640 Speaker 1: twenty grand. Bro. I got a wife and kids. I 662 00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:32,880 Speaker 1: got a family to take care of. Ain't no, I 663 00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:34,680 Speaker 1: ain't got ten grand to deal with. I gotta feed 664 00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:38,080 Speaker 1: four kids and the wife. Okay, okay, So what you 665 00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:42,759 Speaker 1: hold on? How how old hold him? Man? So what 666 00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:45,600 Speaker 1: you're saying, Brandon was lying to me the whole time. 667 00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:48,399 Speaker 1: What I'm telling you is just locked up eighty man 668 00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:51,000 Speaker 1: to say anything to say to the Ain't no ten 669 00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:53,360 Speaker 1: grand over here, Ain't no twenty grand over here. You 670 00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:55,080 Speaker 1: want to get in, Brandon gonna need to wait two 671 00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:58,360 Speaker 1: years till he get out and deal with that. Get no, no, no, 672 00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:00,200 Speaker 1: it ain't it ain't it ain't been the end. Ain't 673 00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:03,000 Speaker 1: been a fall like that player. Hear what's sensed to 674 00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:07,440 Speaker 1: go down? Okay, Nah, I'm coming over the frad. So 675 00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:12,000 Speaker 1: coming over ten grand? The first ten green is old 676 00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:15,520 Speaker 1: old frad. Now what I got the first? First of all, 677 00:48:15,600 --> 00:48:16,960 Speaker 1: what you need to know is just right here, I 678 00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:20,000 Speaker 1: don't kill nothing about going back. My thing is just 679 00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:22,560 Speaker 1: right here. Just pay for supposed to be rich and 680 00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:24,640 Speaker 1: took care of your brother all these years while I 681 00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:27,120 Speaker 1: was up in there keeping people up off of them 682 00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:29,160 Speaker 1: on the third till. And now you're been to come 683 00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:32,279 Speaker 1: to me. You're friens to come to me. Nine. I 684 00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:34,439 Speaker 1: hadn't put it in his work, is now y'all ain't 685 00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:36,640 Speaker 1: been to play up. It ain't been. I'm like this, Yeah, 686 00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:38,279 Speaker 1: that's what I'm telling y'all. Doesn't put it in work 687 00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:40,759 Speaker 1: to provide my family, me and my wife work. And 688 00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:42,600 Speaker 1: you telling me that you're trying to come over here 689 00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:45,120 Speaker 1: Friday to get ten grand that I ain't even got 690 00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:48,440 Speaker 1: for that's locked up. Hey man, look I'm not I'm not. 691 00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:51,120 Speaker 1: I'm not Benau first of all. All this backing pool, 692 00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:54,240 Speaker 1: but like this hill, this ain't nothing. I do you understand. 693 00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:56,400 Speaker 1: I don't do this. I don't go backing food. I 694 00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:59,200 Speaker 1: don't let you know what it is. It's ten green 695 00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:02,160 Speaker 1: being on Friday now if you need to try to 696 00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:05,080 Speaker 1: reach out to your brother, is uh locked in? You 697 00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:07,880 Speaker 1: didn't talk to him. But like this deal, I'm coming 698 00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:10,640 Speaker 1: looking for Terris, you know, looking for my ten grand 699 00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:14,320 Speaker 1: that this this that's lady, ten grand, I put some 700 00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:16,600 Speaker 1: tims up beyond you come over here to my house, 701 00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:18,600 Speaker 1: to my family, to about you're going to get ten 702 00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:21,920 Speaker 1: grand with my no grand brother is locked down. Hold on, 703 00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:24,799 Speaker 1: hold on, because see you're gonna you're gonna reve around 704 00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:27,399 Speaker 1: and take this you know way what First of all, 705 00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:29,839 Speaker 1: what did you just say on him? When I get 706 00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,719 Speaker 1: over with us? What you say? You you bring your 707 00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:34,920 Speaker 1: to my house with my family here, I'm gonna put 708 00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:37,600 Speaker 1: some tims up yere? How about ten thousand dollars and 709 00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:39,799 Speaker 1: then another ten and a couple of months you lost 710 00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:42,759 Speaker 1: so damn blind, I ain't got the grand. I've worked 711 00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:46,000 Speaker 1: my often. You're gonna tell me that you want ten grand? 712 00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:47,839 Speaker 1: Another ten grand in a few months of taking care 713 00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:50,520 Speaker 1: of my brother while he locked up. Nobody tell you 714 00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:52,759 Speaker 1: take care of him. That's a girl. Man. Let him 715 00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:54,400 Speaker 1: take care of themselves, Me and my family and the 716 00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:57,600 Speaker 1: bell just out of so much I'm dumb. Hey, hey, hey, 717 00:49:57,680 --> 00:50:01,200 Speaker 1: do look at I'll understand I only you've seen but you, 718 00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:03,520 Speaker 1: but you got to look at a mine for the land. 719 00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:06,240 Speaker 1: Three and a half yells. I've been over here taking 720 00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:08,880 Speaker 1: killed and he telling me y'all gonna take kill me 721 00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:11,800 Speaker 1: so so here, I don't know what's going on. What 722 00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:17,160 Speaker 1: I do know? Ill though, Fried? This Fried, I'm coming 723 00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:20,200 Speaker 1: to get team Graham from Teners. So you got the 724 00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:23,400 Speaker 1: six this right here. Anyway, you're gonna feast so I 725 00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:26,920 Speaker 1: and that just is right there. Come Fried, I'm in 726 00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:29,239 Speaker 1: I'm in front of your house. Down what wait, huld on? 727 00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:32,680 Speaker 1: What hund on? Kate Dog? You say your name, Kate dog? Baby? 728 00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:35,560 Speaker 1: From the third decade down from the third till three 729 00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:38,000 Speaker 1: tills on the side of my left. I don't done 730 00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:40,480 Speaker 1: three decades. You probably don't want to everybody in the 731 00:50:40,520 --> 00:50:43,680 Speaker 1: street and then jail. You got my but I'm gonna 732 00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:45,439 Speaker 1: tall you something you bring over here to my house, 733 00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:48,239 Speaker 1: try to me, my wife and my kids. Thing gonna 734 00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:49,680 Speaker 1: go down like you think it ain't gonna go I'm 735 00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:51,800 Speaker 1: gonna give you a thing I got. Then some you 736 00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:54,600 Speaker 1: come over here. You're gonna be laying down, Bro, I'm 737 00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:56,680 Speaker 1: gonna be what gonna be laying down? You come over 738 00:50:56,760 --> 00:50:59,480 Speaker 1: here and try to me and my family and my kids. 739 00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:01,680 Speaker 1: It ain't happened that way you Okay? Then that's then 740 00:51:01,719 --> 00:51:03,440 Speaker 1: that that's where we're at. To him, baby, then we 741 00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:05,640 Speaker 1: just we just gonna set this up a Friday, and 742 00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:07,160 Speaker 1: then because they don't maybe know, I don't know. I 743 00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:09,920 Speaker 1: ready to tell aunt. We gotta wait to no Friday, kay, dog, 744 00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:12,760 Speaker 1: we gotta wait to fid I meet you somewhere. You're 745 00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:14,920 Speaker 1: gonna like you think it's gonna go down once I 746 00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:17,279 Speaker 1: get you anything I got and lay you down. I'm 747 00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:19,400 Speaker 1: gonna be in there with my brother Brandon whooping his 748 00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:23,440 Speaker 1: putting me into he doesn't got yourn o't call you. Hey. 749 00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:26,480 Speaker 1: You know, first of all, you ain't got the ten grand. 750 00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:29,160 Speaker 1: You might well going on brain you not anyway get 751 00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:33,920 Speaker 1: this need to get you out here and get a 752 00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:36,680 Speaker 1: job like everybody else. I don't care how long you've 753 00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:39,320 Speaker 1: been in and everybody got a job. I'm busting you 754 00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:41,120 Speaker 1: won't tend to be work for that ten grand and 755 00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:43,799 Speaker 1: get your shot here and wash cars such grand. Hey, man, 756 00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:46,719 Speaker 1: you know what I'm gonna tell you? Know what your 757 00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:49,080 Speaker 1: your brother? One thing ain't about him? He was right 758 00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:51,840 Speaker 1: about you, though, he was right about you. You know 759 00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:53,520 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I'm gonna tell you what thing else 760 00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:56,319 Speaker 1: he told me about Joe? What what the hell did 761 00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:58,759 Speaker 1: he tell you about me? He told me to tell 762 00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:02,080 Speaker 1: you who I really will. This is nephew Tommy from 763 00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:05,840 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your sister Devita got me 764 00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:13,239 Speaker 1: to prank phone call you. Who is this man? This 765 00:52:13,520 --> 00:52:15,880 Speaker 1: is this is this is nephew Jommy man for the 766 00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:19,000 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Born to show your sister the Vita got 767 00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:24,959 Speaker 1: me the prank phone call. You get them? I didn't. 768 00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:26,840 Speaker 1: I hadn't lit up a cigarette in the house. I 769 00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:30,200 Speaker 1: couldn't smoke in the house, the Vita. I'm gonna get 770 00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:37,160 Speaker 1: hut you all right? Man? I am you had me 771 00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:39,920 Speaker 1: on ten. I'm like ten. Brand I'm gonna come to 772 00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:45,120 Speaker 1: my wife. Man, it's all good. Man. I gotta ask you. 773 00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:49,200 Speaker 1: Mother is bad and I mean the saddest radio show 774 00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:51,160 Speaker 1: in the lane. Man. You know what it is, the 775 00:52:51,280 --> 00:52:53,520 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're gonna make me go to 776 00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:56,120 Speaker 1: see my brother. Now it is holidays, I'm gonna have 777 00:52:56,200 --> 00:53:02,800 Speaker 1: to go see that man in jail. Man. Huh, the building, 778 00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:11,359 Speaker 1: baby came too much. You did an eleven. I asked 779 00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:13,560 Speaker 1: for a ten, but that was an eleven. I think 780 00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:18,839 Speaker 1: I love my man because he was committed to one thing. 781 00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:23,120 Speaker 1: I don't care what my brother told you, but if 782 00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:26,560 Speaker 1: you come over him message with my wife and my family. 783 00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:30,719 Speaker 1: I don't care who asked you the whoop in the 784 00:53:30,880 --> 00:53:35,600 Speaker 1: tier three in the street. You probably gonna when you 785 00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:39,759 Speaker 1: get here, I'm gonna give you all I got, then some. 786 00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:42,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna lay you down. I'm gonna end up where 787 00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:47,960 Speaker 1: my brother whoop his aunt. Come on, he had worked 788 00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:53,840 Speaker 1: the whole thing. Oh my god. All right, thinking of 789 00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:56,439 Speaker 1: you coming up next Strawberry Letter. He's got a weak 790 00:53:56,560 --> 00:53:59,640 Speaker 1: mind and other things. We'll get into that right after this. 791 00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:04,839 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now 792 00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:10,840 Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 793 00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:14,200 Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to your Strawberry 794 00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:18,120 Speaker 1: Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. 795 00:54:18,680 --> 00:54:23,040 Speaker 1: We could be reading your letter live on the air. 796 00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:26,520 Speaker 1: It's like we're going to read this one right here, 797 00:54:26,640 --> 00:54:28,480 Speaker 1: right now. That's for you, Jake could be yours. You 798 00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:31,759 Speaker 1: never know, you never know. Buckle up and hold on tight. 799 00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:34,520 Speaker 1: We got it for you here. It is Strawberry Letter. 800 00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:37,360 Speaker 1: Thank you if you subject, He's got a weak mind 801 00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:40,480 Speaker 1: and other things. Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been with my 802 00:54:40,600 --> 00:54:43,200 Speaker 1: man for about five years, and he is a nice, 803 00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:47,719 Speaker 1: kind hearted Christian man. We met at a work convention 804 00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:50,719 Speaker 1: and he told me that he was divorced. This is 805 00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:53,000 Speaker 1: all we have in common. It took me a few 806 00:54:53,080 --> 00:54:56,359 Speaker 1: years to notice how he's clingy and soft. I hate 807 00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:58,960 Speaker 1: to call a man weak, but he has no backbone 808 00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:02,120 Speaker 1: when it comes to putting someone in their place, including me. 809 00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:05,440 Speaker 1: He is at his mother's beck and call, and she 810 00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:08,400 Speaker 1: gives him her grocery list every two weeks for him 811 00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:10,839 Speaker 1: to shop for her. It's okay for him to take 812 00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:13,480 Speaker 1: care of his mother, but she is able body and 813 00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:16,080 Speaker 1: she goes to card games and church so she can 814 00:55:16,160 --> 00:55:19,760 Speaker 1: go to the grocery store. Then there's our sex life. 815 00:55:20,080 --> 00:55:24,160 Speaker 1: He's always whimpering and moaning softly, and it's a turn off. 816 00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:26,719 Speaker 1: I know you're wondering how I stayed with him for 817 00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:29,879 Speaker 1: so long, and it's because I just started noticing he's 818 00:55:29,880 --> 00:55:32,839 Speaker 1: a week in bed. I had an affair on him, 819 00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:36,759 Speaker 1: and I got my back readjusted and my spine aligned 820 00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:40,000 Speaker 1: in the first two minutes of sex. This was a 821 00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:43,800 Speaker 1: manly man that talked nasty and did all the things 822 00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:46,799 Speaker 1: he said he was going to do. Now I'm at 823 00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:54,279 Speaker 1: home dazed and confused. Right, I'm sorry you had a 824 00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:58,319 Speaker 1: moment sor right now I'm at home dazed and confused, 825 00:55:58,520 --> 00:56:00,920 Speaker 1: and I don't want my man and to touch me. 826 00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:03,880 Speaker 1: I want badly to leave my boyfriend and be with 827 00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:07,000 Speaker 1: the new guy. But he stated up front that he 828 00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:09,879 Speaker 1: was only in it for the sex. He knows I'm 829 00:56:09,920 --> 00:56:12,960 Speaker 1: starting to fall for him, so he's been doing extra 830 00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:15,880 Speaker 1: in the bedroom to get me hooked, and he jokes 831 00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:18,759 Speaker 1: about it afterwards. I wish there was a way to 832 00:56:18,880 --> 00:56:22,080 Speaker 1: teach my man all the things this guy knows. I 833 00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:24,520 Speaker 1: asked him if he wants to watch porn, and he 834 00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:28,120 Speaker 1: asked what has gotten into me? I almost told him 835 00:56:28,160 --> 00:56:31,239 Speaker 1: what it was, but I held back. Now I can't 836 00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:33,400 Speaker 1: sleep and I can't get the new guy out of 837 00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:36,719 Speaker 1: my mind. Should I keep settling from mister week or 838 00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:40,080 Speaker 1: just break up with him? How important is sex in 839 00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:43,440 Speaker 1: a relationship? All right, we're gonna go back just a moment. 840 00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:46,040 Speaker 1: First of all, what is wrong with getting grocery for 841 00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:48,080 Speaker 1: his mom? Every two weeks she gives him the list, 842 00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:49,960 Speaker 1: He goes to the grocery store, gets the stuff, and 843 00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:52,360 Speaker 1: drops it off. I mean, he just sounds like a 844 00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:54,320 Speaker 1: good son to me. But you're trying to make it 845 00:56:54,360 --> 00:56:57,080 Speaker 1: out like he's a mama's boy or something. That's not 846 00:56:57,200 --> 00:57:02,239 Speaker 1: the case here. It really isn't as how important sex is. 847 00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:05,600 Speaker 1: I mean, it's not the most important thing, but it 848 00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:08,480 Speaker 1: is definitely up there in the top three to five. Okay. 849 00:57:08,640 --> 00:57:12,399 Speaker 1: Whether it's important to us or not is not the issue, though, 850 00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:17,600 Speaker 1: because it's obviously very very very important to you, and 851 00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:21,320 Speaker 1: so much so that you've cheated on your man and 852 00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:27,120 Speaker 1: are considering leaving him for sex, leaving him for a 853 00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:30,200 Speaker 1: man who told you out of his mouth that all 854 00:57:30,280 --> 00:57:33,880 Speaker 1: he wants from you with sex. He told you that upfront, okay, 855 00:57:34,320 --> 00:57:37,480 Speaker 1: and now he jokes about it with you. So what 856 00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:41,200 Speaker 1: are you willing to do for sex? Is risk everything? 857 00:57:41,440 --> 00:57:44,000 Speaker 1: That's what you're willing to do. That's stupid, That is 858 00:57:44,040 --> 00:57:47,920 Speaker 1: definitely not smart. And I do think you can gently 859 00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:50,920 Speaker 1: teach a man what pleases you if you're both into it. 860 00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:54,960 Speaker 1: That would not be settling, as you call it. It 861 00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:59,400 Speaker 1: would simply be working on your relationship, as many committed 862 00:57:59,440 --> 00:58:03,479 Speaker 1: adults do every single day. But you're too busy thinking 863 00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:06,440 Speaker 1: the grass is greener with this other guy, and that 864 00:58:06,600 --> 00:58:09,560 Speaker 1: to me has disaster written all over it. For you 865 00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:12,760 Speaker 1: because he so much has told you he doesn't want you, 866 00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:18,640 Speaker 1: and you're not gonna change him. You're not, Steve. Well, 867 00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:24,640 Speaker 1: you've been with your man for about five years now. 868 00:58:24,760 --> 00:58:27,760 Speaker 1: Your subject is he's got a weak mind and other things. 869 00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:30,920 Speaker 1: How this than lasted five years? You asked me that 870 00:58:31,080 --> 00:58:33,480 Speaker 1: in the letter, But I really want to know how 871 00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:37,600 Speaker 1: to hell this than lasted five years? He's nice, kind 872 00:58:37,800 --> 00:58:42,080 Speaker 1: hearted Christian gentleman. We met at a word convention. For convention. 873 00:58:42,160 --> 00:58:44,920 Speaker 1: He told me he was divorced. And that's all we 874 00:58:45,080 --> 00:58:49,120 Speaker 1: have in common, right there. This your fault. This your 875 00:58:49,200 --> 00:58:52,120 Speaker 1: fault because he was a kind, nice Christian man. You 876 00:58:52,200 --> 00:58:55,360 Speaker 1: know how many of them out there. But you wanted him. 877 00:58:55,760 --> 00:58:59,520 Speaker 1: But that's all y'all head in common from day one. 878 00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:03,600 Speaker 1: That's no reason to start a relationship. It took me 879 00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:06,640 Speaker 1: a few years to notice how he's clingy and soft. 880 00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:11,000 Speaker 1: I take a few years. But okay, I hate to 881 00:59:11,120 --> 00:59:13,640 Speaker 1: call him man weak, but he ain't got no backbone 882 00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:16,120 Speaker 1: when he comes to putting somebody in their place, including me. 883 00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:21,880 Speaker 1: Women don't like that. Women do not like weak men. Okay, 884 00:59:23,040 --> 00:59:25,480 Speaker 1: he's at his mother's beck and call and she gives 885 00:59:25,560 --> 00:59:27,760 Speaker 1: him a grocery list every three weeks for him to 886 00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:29,800 Speaker 1: shop for her. It's okay for him to take care 887 00:59:29,840 --> 00:59:32,160 Speaker 1: of his mother. But he's able body to she able 888 00:59:32,200 --> 00:59:34,120 Speaker 1: body to go to card games and churchill, she can 889 00:59:34,160 --> 00:59:38,480 Speaker 1: go to grocery store. This is a mama's boy. I 890 00:59:38,600 --> 00:59:41,680 Speaker 1: don't care what Sharley told you. This a mama's boy. 891 00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:46,600 Speaker 1: He's weak, he's soft, and he clingy, and he had 892 00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:52,640 Speaker 1: his mama's becking call. This is a mama's boy. And 893 00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:56,560 Speaker 1: how do you become weak and clingy and soft by 894 00:59:56,760 --> 01:00:01,240 Speaker 1: hanging up under your mama. He never grew out of it. 895 01:00:02,240 --> 01:00:05,920 Speaker 1: But you picked him because he was a nice, soft 896 01:00:06,320 --> 01:00:09,840 Speaker 1: Christian man. Now that's what you got, little soft dude, 897 01:00:09,920 --> 01:00:14,480 Speaker 1: not the Bible. That's great, But then your next line is, 898 01:00:14,800 --> 01:00:18,880 Speaker 1: then there's our sex life. See he's swear the little 899 01:00:18,960 --> 01:00:22,880 Speaker 1: scriptures and everything because you want something else to happen. 900 01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:27,400 Speaker 1: And here and here he knows all of the scriptures. 901 01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:30,880 Speaker 1: He knows psalms. He all up in the Book of Ruth. 902 01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:35,080 Speaker 1: And nobody read the Book of Ruth in the words 903 01:00:36,840 --> 01:00:46,360 Speaker 1: saying Ruth. But he all up in Ruth. All right, 904 01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:48,840 Speaker 1: we'll have part two of Steve's refunds coming up. A 905 01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:52,280 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour, subject he's got a 906 01:00:52,320 --> 01:00:54,960 Speaker 1: weak mind and other things. We'll get back into it 907 01:00:55,160 --> 01:01:00,560 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening, all right, Come on, Steve, 908 01:01:00,640 --> 01:01:03,440 Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject he's got a 909 01:01:03,480 --> 01:01:07,760 Speaker 1: weak mind and other things. Yeah, this woman got this man, 910 01:01:07,960 --> 01:01:10,160 Speaker 1: she say got a weak mind and other things. They've 911 01:01:10,160 --> 01:01:13,600 Speaker 1: been together five years. The only thing they got in common, 912 01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:16,800 Speaker 1: according to the letters, that they've both been divorced, and 913 01:01:17,000 --> 01:01:19,880 Speaker 1: that's all they got in common. Took us some years 914 01:01:20,280 --> 01:01:24,400 Speaker 1: to notice. He's clinging soft but he's at his mama's 915 01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:27,040 Speaker 1: back in call. He go get her groceries every two weeks. 916 01:01:27,120 --> 01:01:30,320 Speaker 1: She's able body and everything, but he can't stand up 917 01:01:30,360 --> 01:01:34,520 Speaker 1: to nobody, including her. He has no backbone. Based on 918 01:01:34,680 --> 01:01:37,840 Speaker 1: this lady that wrote the letter, and now we dealing 919 01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:40,600 Speaker 1: with a mama's boy. Then here we go. Then there's 920 01:01:40,640 --> 01:01:47,360 Speaker 1: our six. He's always whippering and moaning softly, and it's 921 01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:52,640 Speaker 1: a turn off. I know it is. See I don't 922 01:01:52,680 --> 01:02:09,600 Speaker 1: nobody wanted And if somebody is that that's whippering and 923 01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:14,880 Speaker 1: moaning like when he used to fall off his bike, 924 01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:19,680 Speaker 1: He's gonna lay on his mama's lap, See this's what 925 01:02:19,920 --> 01:02:22,840 Speaker 1: she got. This is what mama's boys do. They whippering, 926 01:02:22,920 --> 01:02:27,760 Speaker 1: They moan, and he's weak in bad now here we go. 927 01:02:28,160 --> 01:02:32,080 Speaker 1: I hadn't to fawn on him. And in one affair. 928 01:02:32,400 --> 01:02:35,880 Speaker 1: Listen to what happened doing this affair. You ready for this, 929 01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:38,720 Speaker 1: because this boy wouldn't have been here weekend in moaning 930 01:02:38,760 --> 01:02:43,200 Speaker 1: and whippering. In one affair, she got her spine a 931 01:02:43,320 --> 01:02:50,919 Speaker 1: line and her back readjusted. All listened two minutes of six. 932 01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:57,560 Speaker 1: This boy, right, he'll was laning it. You don't want her. 933 01:02:57,880 --> 01:03:02,280 Speaker 1: This was a manly man, that nasty and did all 934 01:03:02,320 --> 01:03:05,000 Speaker 1: the things he said he was gonna do. See that's 935 01:03:05,520 --> 01:03:07,960 Speaker 1: y'all asked me a long time ago, what is the 936 01:03:08,120 --> 01:03:10,760 Speaker 1: number one rule of manhood? And what did I tell y'all? 937 01:03:10,800 --> 01:03:14,880 Speaker 1: It was, do what you say you're gonna do. Everybody 938 01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:21,320 Speaker 1: will respect you. He told, huh, I'm gonna just your 939 01:03:21,600 --> 01:03:27,080 Speaker 1: damn back and re aligned your spine. And guess what 940 01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:30,280 Speaker 1: he did. He went right up in that and did 941 01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:33,040 Speaker 1: just that. Because you weren't dealing with this little weekends 942 01:03:33,160 --> 01:03:37,400 Speaker 1: boy you got, you was dealing with Tha, the god 943 01:03:37,520 --> 01:03:43,600 Speaker 1: of thunder came up in there with a hammel and 944 01:03:43,920 --> 01:03:48,080 Speaker 1: was just up in that doing everything he said he 945 01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:54,480 Speaker 1: was gonna do, aligning your back and adjusting your spine 946 01:03:55,320 --> 01:04:00,640 Speaker 1: and some other things too. I bet now I'm at home. 947 01:04:00,800 --> 01:04:04,800 Speaker 1: Days didn't confuse because your eyes is looking at each 948 01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:07,760 Speaker 1: other now because you don't know what every time you 949 01:04:07,920 --> 01:04:11,680 Speaker 1: shut your eyes you think of him. Your eyes is 950 01:04:11,760 --> 01:04:16,320 Speaker 1: looking at each other. And I'm confused. And now I 951 01:04:16,360 --> 01:04:18,400 Speaker 1: don't want my man to touch me. Now you don't 952 01:04:18,400 --> 01:04:28,760 Speaker 1: want a little weekend that was good? So good? Just 953 01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:34,720 Speaker 1: feels Oh baby, that ain't what Thor, the god or 954 01:04:34,800 --> 01:04:38,720 Speaker 1: wonder look the Thor, the god of love was in. 955 01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:50,640 Speaker 1: Now we're ham all crazy, ah, just opening up your 956 01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:55,760 Speaker 1: nasal passages. So now I want badly to leave my 957 01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:58,560 Speaker 1: boyfriend and be with this new guy. But he stated 958 01:04:58,680 --> 01:05:00,760 Speaker 1: up front he was only in it the sex. Well, 959 01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:02,320 Speaker 1: he told you that ain't don't need to leave in 960 01:05:02,320 --> 01:05:04,160 Speaker 1: your man for him because he don't want you like that. 961 01:05:05,160 --> 01:05:07,120 Speaker 1: He knows I'm starting to fall from him, so he's 962 01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:09,040 Speaker 1: just been doing extra in the bedroom to get me 963 01:05:09,160 --> 01:05:11,960 Speaker 1: hook and he jokes about it afterwards. I wish that 964 01:05:12,120 --> 01:05:14,000 Speaker 1: was a way to teach my man all the things 965 01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:15,920 Speaker 1: this guy knows. Well, it's not I can just tell 966 01:05:15,920 --> 01:05:20,160 Speaker 1: you that right now, he's not Don't even go in 967 01:05:20,160 --> 01:05:22,560 Speaker 1: there and put this pressure on this last boy, because 968 01:05:22,560 --> 01:05:25,600 Speaker 1: he's gonna be do none of this right here. He 969 01:05:26,120 --> 01:05:29,520 Speaker 1: is who he is. You have weak men, and you 970 01:05:29,680 --> 01:05:33,400 Speaker 1: have strong men, you have smart men, you have dumb men, 971 01:05:34,240 --> 01:05:37,680 Speaker 1: you got good men, you got bad men. You got 972 01:05:37,760 --> 01:05:39,760 Speaker 1: a weak one. You said it, and you're not. He 973 01:05:39,840 --> 01:05:41,800 Speaker 1: nothing to come up here and do this here. I 974 01:05:41,920 --> 01:05:43,800 Speaker 1: asked him if he wants to watch pawn, and he 975 01:05:43,880 --> 01:05:46,520 Speaker 1: asked me, what's gotten into you? Well I could have 976 01:05:46,560 --> 01:05:52,800 Speaker 1: told him what they got into you? Thor fu fuck 977 01:05:53,000 --> 01:05:57,520 Speaker 1: the god of fund him far got into you and 978 01:05:57,800 --> 01:06:01,720 Speaker 1: adjusted box and realign this fines and in that with 979 01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:05,200 Speaker 1: his hammer. That's what then got into you. Now I 980 01:06:05,280 --> 01:06:07,120 Speaker 1: can't sleep and I can't get the new guy out 981 01:06:07,120 --> 01:06:10,120 Speaker 1: of my mind. Should I keep settling from mister weak 982 01:06:10,240 --> 01:06:12,520 Speaker 1: or just break up with it? How important is sex 983 01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:14,640 Speaker 1: in the relationship? Well, I don't see how you're gonna 984 01:06:14,640 --> 01:06:22,920 Speaker 1: stay with him because your mind is my mind. My 985 01:06:23,160 --> 01:06:28,680 Speaker 1: bode is here with you, but my mind is on 986 01:06:29,360 --> 01:06:37,080 Speaker 1: the other side of time. Come home, Oh messing mute around. See, 987 01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:39,760 Speaker 1: you can't keep your your body's here with a little 988 01:06:39,800 --> 01:06:42,240 Speaker 1: weak boarder. But your mind is on a thought of 989 01:06:42,360 --> 01:06:46,400 Speaker 1: God and love thunder over on the other side. Now 990 01:06:46,520 --> 01:06:50,040 Speaker 1: you say, how important is sex in the relationship? Well, 991 01:06:50,120 --> 01:06:52,880 Speaker 1: it's not number one because the most important thing in 992 01:06:52,920 --> 01:06:56,840 Speaker 1: the relationship is love. But right after love, that sex, 993 01:06:58,280 --> 01:07:03,440 Speaker 1: right after love. All right, Thank you, Steve. Post your 994 01:07:03,480 --> 01:07:06,320 Speaker 1: comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on 995 01:07:06,440 --> 01:07:09,760 Speaker 1: Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast 996 01:07:09,880 --> 01:07:12,400 Speaker 1: on demand. Now coming up at forty six minutes after 997 01:07:12,480 --> 01:07:15,080 Speaker 1: the hour, we'll talk about Christmas trees, the stories just 998 01:07:15,280 --> 01:07:18,800 Speaker 1: for you, Steve, talk about Christmas trees and some others 999 01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:24,320 Speaker 1: to this. Yeah, oh yeah, get it now. No, you're 1000 01:07:24,400 --> 01:07:28,480 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, guys, October 1001 01:07:28,560 --> 01:07:33,840 Speaker 1: means a holiday season has officially begun. A first Halloween. 1002 01:07:34,480 --> 01:07:37,000 Speaker 1: Here's a costume alert. By the way, there is a 1003 01:07:37,200 --> 01:07:41,400 Speaker 1: sex syat Bernie Sanders costume for sale just in time 1004 01:07:41,440 --> 01:07:44,960 Speaker 1: for Halloween. It includes a greatcoat, cozy mittens, and a 1005 01:07:45,080 --> 01:07:48,600 Speaker 1: face mask to mimic Sanders the way he was looking 1006 01:07:48,880 --> 01:07:55,440 Speaker 1: in the twenty twenty presidential inauguration. Yeah. As far as 1007 01:07:55,520 --> 01:07:59,160 Speaker 1: what makes it sexy, you ask, Well, here we go. 1008 01:07:59,640 --> 01:08:06,160 Speaker 1: The luck doesn't come with any pans. Okay you yeah, 1009 01:08:11,320 --> 01:08:15,800 Speaker 1: what you think, Steve, I missed the whole thing. You 1010 01:08:15,840 --> 01:08:22,639 Speaker 1: don't remember Bernie Sanders his stance at the inauguration? Yeah yeah, 1011 01:08:23,680 --> 01:08:26,800 Speaker 1: and it was a meme on everything. So that's the 1012 01:08:26,920 --> 01:08:42,240 Speaker 1: Halloween outfit. Yeah, no pans anybody wearing on this show. Well, um, Steve, 1013 01:08:42,360 --> 01:08:44,080 Speaker 1: this story is just for you. As we move on, 1014 01:08:44,240 --> 01:08:48,000 Speaker 1: the Christmas tree promotion Board wants to assure people that 1015 01:08:48,200 --> 01:08:51,759 Speaker 1: despite some issues during the year, there should be plenty 1016 01:08:51,840 --> 01:08:54,240 Speaker 1: of trees to go around for the holidays. You know, 1017 01:08:55,400 --> 01:09:02,439 Speaker 1: talk about I don't hear about Christmas tree short and 1018 01:09:02,479 --> 01:09:06,000 Speaker 1: aren't trying to get none of that tree? I know, 1019 01:09:06,280 --> 01:09:09,800 Speaker 1: I know he's so serious about him. Growers did face 1020 01:09:09,920 --> 01:09:15,200 Speaker 1: some difficulties during the growing Rowers as what is this 1021 01:09:15,320 --> 01:09:19,120 Speaker 1: story about? Shit, it's about trees and Christmas, and they're 1022 01:09:20,560 --> 01:09:22,400 Speaker 1: what they're gonna say, Well, what is they trying? All 1023 01:09:22,479 --> 01:09:25,680 Speaker 1: right now? Listen, this is what had happened, Steve. They 1024 01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:29,000 Speaker 1: faced some difficulties during the growing season that included a 1025 01:09:29,120 --> 01:09:33,439 Speaker 1: heat everybody had COVID go ahead. It was a heat 1026 01:09:33,520 --> 01:09:36,559 Speaker 1: wave and we had a rough fan. Damn them trees. 1027 01:09:36,840 --> 01:09:40,439 Speaker 1: What else? Well, the tree suffered burns, Steve, That's what 1028 01:09:40,560 --> 01:09:44,880 Speaker 1: the problem was, burd Yes, have they seen the number 1029 01:09:44,880 --> 01:09:48,960 Speaker 1: of lives we've lost during COVID Yes, Saint about no 1030 01:09:49,120 --> 01:09:51,960 Speaker 1: damn trees, now go ahead, can you let me get 1031 01:09:52,000 --> 01:09:56,559 Speaker 1: it out? How about growers suggests this is a good 1032 01:09:56,640 --> 01:09:59,720 Speaker 1: year for people to try something new since size and 1033 01:10:00,200 --> 01:10:04,439 Speaker 1: she's variety may differ from years past. I'm not trying 1034 01:10:04,640 --> 01:10:11,120 Speaker 1: a damn thing new. They expected natural looking trees, which 1035 01:10:11,160 --> 01:10:13,840 Speaker 1: were more which were more open and layered, to be 1036 01:10:13,960 --> 01:10:16,840 Speaker 1: more widely available. You got to get an artificial treat. 1037 01:10:17,479 --> 01:10:21,320 Speaker 1: That's that's what I'm saying. That's the thing. Look at 1038 01:10:21,360 --> 01:10:26,080 Speaker 1: his damn artificial treat. I bet somebody better bring me 1039 01:10:26,160 --> 01:10:30,240 Speaker 1: a big ass treat. They have to have artificial trees 1040 01:10:30,280 --> 01:10:35,040 Speaker 1: that smell like real cheese. Damn what they smell like? Jay, 1041 01:10:35,479 --> 01:10:40,040 Speaker 1: you get Sports Talk with Junior at the top of 1042 01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:47,719 Speaker 1: the hour. Right after this. You're listening morning show. All right, Junior, 1043 01:10:47,800 --> 01:10:50,960 Speaker 1: what you got in sports talk? Okay? It is man, 1044 01:10:51,040 --> 01:10:54,360 Speaker 1: Let's see I did this week. Boy, it wasn't bad. 1045 01:10:54,400 --> 01:10:57,519 Speaker 1: Oh you're nine a six. He's nine six right now, man, 1046 01:10:57,640 --> 01:10:59,720 Speaker 1: not the fourteen to two last week. But yeah, but 1047 01:10:59,880 --> 01:11:04,360 Speaker 1: I had some major sits in there. Let's go through 1048 01:11:04,400 --> 01:11:08,080 Speaker 1: a man. Washington beat the Atlanta Falcons thirty four to thirty. 1049 01:11:08,160 --> 01:11:12,200 Speaker 1: Damn Falcons. Man, y'all messed up one of my parlay picks. 1050 01:11:12,280 --> 01:11:15,400 Speaker 1: I had the four underdog teams picked. I was fitting 1051 01:11:15,439 --> 01:11:19,120 Speaker 1: to win thirty two hundred dollars and the damn Falcons 1052 01:11:19,560 --> 01:11:25,439 Speaker 1: with forty six seconds. Man, whatever, Atlanta, all right? Houston, 1053 01:11:25,520 --> 01:11:31,559 Speaker 1: Texas got drove forty to another but nothing. All right? 1054 01:11:31,640 --> 01:11:34,400 Speaker 1: We got to Chicago Bars beat the Detroit Lions twenty 1055 01:11:34,439 --> 01:11:39,040 Speaker 1: four to fourteen. Damn Detroit. But here when you picked 1056 01:11:39,120 --> 01:11:42,519 Speaker 1: big dog thirty six to twenty eight, the Cowboys over 1057 01:11:42,600 --> 01:11:44,840 Speaker 1: the Panthers. Man, and it wasn't looking good, but that 1058 01:11:45,000 --> 01:11:48,479 Speaker 1: dark Man. As much as I don't like the Dallas Cowboys, 1059 01:11:48,560 --> 01:11:52,439 Speaker 1: as much as I love Jerry Jones, all the former players, 1060 01:11:52,920 --> 01:11:58,000 Speaker 1: Emmy Michael, yeah, crime, I love Dak, I like Zekiel, 1061 01:11:58,720 --> 01:12:01,680 Speaker 1: I love I love jer I just do not like 1062 01:12:01,920 --> 01:12:06,560 Speaker 1: the damn Cowboys. But they thank you for that. Yesterday, 1063 01:12:07,880 --> 01:12:10,360 Speaker 1: here we go. Man. We got the Dulphins losing to 1064 01:12:10,479 --> 01:12:13,040 Speaker 1: the coach twenty seven to seventeen. I didn't know Winch 1065 01:12:13,200 --> 01:12:15,160 Speaker 1: was playing. I would have picked the coach my bad. 1066 01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:19,040 Speaker 1: Yeah man, okay. The Giants, oh they off the zero, 1067 01:12:19,160 --> 01:12:20,720 Speaker 1: they got it off. They got their first win of 1068 01:12:20,760 --> 01:12:27,040 Speaker 1: the season over the Saints. My husband so mad today. Today, 1069 01:12:29,439 --> 01:12:31,639 Speaker 1: big day for the Chiefs. They beat the Eagles forty 1070 01:12:31,720 --> 01:12:36,639 Speaker 1: two to thirty. You called it up, okay, but he'll 1071 01:12:36,680 --> 01:12:39,240 Speaker 1: go one. This is explaining this one man. The Cardinals 1072 01:12:39,360 --> 01:12:43,200 Speaker 1: beat the Rams thirty seven to twenty. Man, that that 1073 01:12:43,320 --> 01:12:46,280 Speaker 1: surprised me. But I'm gonna get right back on the 1074 01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:51,280 Speaker 1: Cardinal bad wagon. That was quick. That surprise you. This 1075 01:12:51,760 --> 01:12:54,439 Speaker 1: was surprising. The Seattle Seahawks beating the forty nine Its 1076 01:12:54,439 --> 01:13:02,320 Speaker 1: twenty eight to twenty one. Yeah, yeah, yeah, now can 1077 01:13:02,920 --> 01:13:05,799 Speaker 1: well you know what Cleveland Browns over the Minnesota Vikings 1078 01:13:05,880 --> 01:13:12,559 Speaker 1: fourteen seven, and that's all that matters. That's all that matters. 1079 01:13:12,680 --> 01:13:15,479 Speaker 1: Yeah man, they go one man emotionally returned back to 1080 01:13:15,840 --> 01:13:18,439 Speaker 1: New England. You know, Tom Brady did it again. The 1081 01:13:18,520 --> 01:13:22,000 Speaker 1: Buccaneers beat the New England Pagers nineteen seventeen. Last minute 1082 01:13:22,000 --> 01:13:26,599 Speaker 1: fiell go missed by New England. It's a win. It's 1083 01:13:26,640 --> 01:13:29,519 Speaker 1: a win. Nobody shocked by this one though. The Packers 1084 01:13:29,600 --> 01:13:33,760 Speaker 1: over the Steelers twenty seven to seventeen. Many you have. 1085 01:13:33,920 --> 01:13:36,160 Speaker 1: It's the time for being Roethlisberger to go. No, I don't. 1086 01:13:36,160 --> 01:13:40,360 Speaker 1: Can I hope he's stay Yeah if they keep yeah, 1087 01:13:40,560 --> 01:13:45,240 Speaker 1: stay stay we got we got the Ravens over the 1088 01:13:45,280 --> 01:13:48,080 Speaker 1: Broncos twenty three to seven. Man, what a crazy enter 1089 01:13:48,280 --> 01:13:50,760 Speaker 1: that game? You being picked? That on you? You're on 1090 01:13:50,800 --> 01:13:54,559 Speaker 1: a hot streak, man, But what about tonight? Who who 1091 01:13:54,720 --> 01:13:57,280 Speaker 1: is it tonight? Come on, man, Las Vegas Raiders and 1092 01:13:57,320 --> 01:14:00,640 Speaker 1: the Los Angeles Chargers. School be a game, man. But 1093 01:14:00,760 --> 01:14:02,840 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna tell you right now, I'm gonna have 1094 01:14:02,920 --> 01:14:10,880 Speaker 1: to go with you to go to the Ram Raiders. Man, Raiders. Yeah, 1095 01:14:11,120 --> 01:14:14,280 Speaker 1: you know that both go. You know what I'm saying. 1096 01:14:14,400 --> 01:14:18,680 Speaker 1: That's yeah, there's a Las Vegas Raids Ram Raiders and 1097 01:14:18,840 --> 01:14:22,160 Speaker 1: that's getting me good. But I didn't. I didn't. I 1098 01:14:22,280 --> 01:14:25,840 Speaker 1: didn't pick this week give it to me game. But 1099 01:14:26,479 --> 01:14:30,719 Speaker 1: if I had to be a betting man, it's hard 1100 01:14:31,080 --> 01:14:33,720 Speaker 1: because is that is that Stefford that's out there at 1101 01:14:33,760 --> 01:14:37,960 Speaker 1: the Rams that it's a Charger that's justin Herbert? Oh 1102 01:14:38,040 --> 01:14:41,040 Speaker 1: oh oh oh, this is the Chargers that's play Yeah yeah, 1103 01:14:41,080 --> 01:14:46,160 Speaker 1: hell no old Raiders man. Yeah yeah, they't her No, no, no, 1104 01:14:46,360 --> 01:14:49,280 Speaker 1: it's it's it's it's it's it's gonna be a good 1105 01:14:49,320 --> 01:14:50,760 Speaker 1: one man. But I'm with you, Uk, I think the 1106 01:14:50,880 --> 01:14:52,720 Speaker 1: Raiders got this man. It's just something different about this 1107 01:14:52,760 --> 01:14:55,920 Speaker 1: team this season. Man. They look good. They look good. Offensor, 1108 01:14:56,000 --> 01:14:58,160 Speaker 1: Derek car didn't. He took a lot of criticism. This 1109 01:14:58,320 --> 01:15:03,760 Speaker 1: boy's showing up this year. Yeah, I'm Luke man. I'm 1110 01:15:03,760 --> 01:15:06,439 Speaker 1: a little disappointed because I had a great I had 1111 01:15:06,479 --> 01:15:08,960 Speaker 1: picked a lot of underdog teams. I picked the Jets, 1112 01:15:09,000 --> 01:15:11,400 Speaker 1: I picked the Giants, I picked another one, and I 1113 01:15:11,520 --> 01:15:13,960 Speaker 1: picked the Foukers, and my I was fitting wind thirty 1114 01:15:14,080 --> 01:15:17,240 Speaker 1: two honey and Danie Fulkers lost with thirty two seconds 1115 01:15:17,840 --> 01:15:23,479 Speaker 1: through it. Y'all answer all right, guys, thank you, Junior, 1116 01:15:23,560 --> 01:15:25,240 Speaker 1: Thank you, Steve. We'll be back with more of the 1117 01:15:25,280 --> 01:15:28,439 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show at twenty minutes after. Right after this, 1118 01:15:29,240 --> 01:15:34,960 Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. In weird News, 1119 01:15:35,080 --> 01:15:37,760 Speaker 1: a Turkish man who joined a search party to find 1120 01:15:37,840 --> 01:15:41,439 Speaker 1: a missing person was happy, really happy when the person 1121 01:15:41,640 --> 01:15:44,400 Speaker 1: was found, and also very shocked to learn that the 1122 01:15:44,479 --> 01:15:47,640 Speaker 1: missing person he was looking for it was himself. This 1123 01:15:47,840 --> 01:15:52,320 Speaker 1: is how it went down. Fifty year old man, listen 1124 01:15:52,360 --> 01:15:54,840 Speaker 1: to this guy's fifty year old man got drunk one 1125 01:15:54,960 --> 01:15:57,680 Speaker 1: night and just wandered into the woods. I mean, you 1126 01:15:57,800 --> 01:16:01,200 Speaker 1: know how that happens, right? His friend reported him missing, 1127 01:16:01,680 --> 01:16:05,639 Speaker 1: prompting locals to form a search party. After hearing about 1128 01:16:05,640 --> 01:16:08,920 Speaker 1: a missing person, the man decided to join the search party, 1129 01:16:09,240 --> 01:16:13,000 Speaker 1: not realizing that he was the one reported looking for him. 1130 01:16:13,360 --> 01:16:17,160 Speaker 1: It wasn't until he heard others shouting his name that 1131 01:16:17,320 --> 01:16:22,840 Speaker 1: he realized what was going on and replied, Hey, I'm here, here, 1132 01:16:22,920 --> 01:16:32,000 Speaker 1: I am, it's you found me. How you look for yourself? 1133 01:16:32,360 --> 01:16:36,800 Speaker 1: That is how many times has it happened? When you 1134 01:16:36,880 --> 01:16:39,680 Speaker 1: get drunk and wander into the woods, You look for 1135 01:16:39,800 --> 01:16:44,720 Speaker 1: your damn self. Man, know where I was, But to 1136 01:16:44,880 --> 01:16:50,519 Speaker 1: look for myself, that's that's the other level of can 1137 01:16:50,800 --> 01:16:59,040 Speaker 1: I not find me? Look behind the rocks? Pep? Have 1138 01:16:59,160 --> 01:17:02,800 Speaker 1: you ever been drunk and wandered into the woods? Are 1139 01:17:02,840 --> 01:17:12,960 Speaker 1: you kidding me? Yeats coming up? More of the Steve 1140 01:17:13,000 --> 01:17:15,439 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show at thirty three minutes after right after 1141 01:17:15,560 --> 01:17:20,840 Speaker 1: this you're listening to show? All right, it is time 1142 01:17:20,920 --> 01:17:25,040 Speaker 1: now for ask the CLO. Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey 1143 01:17:25,160 --> 01:17:30,400 Speaker 1: in the building. This one CLO is from Terry and Saginaw, Michigan. 1144 01:17:30,520 --> 01:17:34,160 Speaker 1: She says, I'm five ten, curvy model, and I met 1145 01:17:34,240 --> 01:17:37,760 Speaker 1: a handsome man recently at a youth basketball camp. I 1146 01:17:37,880 --> 01:17:41,480 Speaker 1: played ball in college, so I volunteer as a camp annually. 1147 01:17:41,880 --> 01:17:44,320 Speaker 1: When we met, we played a game of horse and 1148 01:17:44,560 --> 01:17:47,400 Speaker 1: I won, so he had to take me out. That 1149 01:17:48,000 --> 01:17:50,439 Speaker 1: was the bet. He took me to a sports bar 1150 01:17:50,800 --> 01:17:55,160 Speaker 1: and he had on basketball shorts, footies and slides and 1151 01:17:55,360 --> 01:17:58,120 Speaker 1: I was dressed like it was a real date. We've 1152 01:17:58,120 --> 01:18:00,320 Speaker 1: been hanging out for three weeks and I feel like 1153 01:18:00,400 --> 01:18:02,439 Speaker 1: one of the boys. How do I get him to 1154 01:18:02,560 --> 01:18:12,040 Speaker 1: notice my breasts and other assets? Hey, sisterhood, have you 1155 01:18:12,120 --> 01:18:17,479 Speaker 1: ever thought that the reason he's treating you as one 1156 01:18:17,560 --> 01:18:21,560 Speaker 1: of the boys is because that's how he sees you? 1157 01:18:23,240 --> 01:18:28,080 Speaker 1: And he met you on a basketball court doing a 1158 01:18:28,240 --> 01:18:31,040 Speaker 1: bet in a game of horse and you won the 1159 01:18:31,240 --> 01:18:36,200 Speaker 1: horse game? Did it ever curry you to lose that 1160 01:18:36,439 --> 01:18:43,800 Speaker 1: game just to feed into the stupid male ego? But 1161 01:18:44,000 --> 01:18:47,240 Speaker 1: now you're the whooped the man? Now the bet was, 1162 01:18:47,479 --> 01:18:50,680 Speaker 1: and who made the bet that who lost would have 1163 01:18:50,760 --> 01:18:53,400 Speaker 1: to take the other person out. Now he lost, he 1164 01:18:53,680 --> 01:18:57,760 Speaker 1: want to lose his soul loser, And maybe he don't. 1165 01:18:57,840 --> 01:18:59,519 Speaker 1: He just see you as one of the guys when 1166 01:18:59,560 --> 01:19:02,439 Speaker 1: he comes to flip flop the basketball shorts. Y'all been 1167 01:19:02,520 --> 01:19:05,160 Speaker 1: going out, But y'all, what else y'all doing? Y'all, y'all, 1168 01:19:05,200 --> 01:19:08,519 Speaker 1: y'all doing anything like man and woman, boy girl, or 1169 01:19:08,600 --> 01:19:13,320 Speaker 1: y'all just going to sports bars out? How do I 1170 01:19:13,439 --> 01:19:22,719 Speaker 1: get them to notice your breast? That's easy, go ahead, 1171 01:19:25,760 --> 01:19:28,960 Speaker 1: o the okay, if you want them to notice your breast, 1172 01:19:29,360 --> 01:19:35,360 Speaker 1: there's something called cleavage, and once you expose cleavage, we 1173 01:19:35,560 --> 01:19:39,960 Speaker 1: gonna notice it. Now, we got a couple of experts 1174 01:19:40,080 --> 01:19:43,800 Speaker 1: on the show that could show you ways to do 1175 01:19:43,960 --> 01:19:45,640 Speaker 1: it if that's what you want to do it. But 1176 01:19:45,800 --> 01:19:48,200 Speaker 1: we could take the faux fools that's on the show 1177 01:19:48,680 --> 01:19:50,720 Speaker 1: and show you how to do it now, Sirlen, we 1178 01:19:50,880 --> 01:19:53,280 Speaker 1: may not have a show if we could do it, 1179 01:19:53,439 --> 01:19:56,080 Speaker 1: But Shirlyn Caller, like on the radio show, they don't 1180 01:19:56,160 --> 01:20:01,920 Speaker 1: do that. No, no, we don't And move on. Okay, 1181 01:20:02,160 --> 01:20:04,800 Speaker 1: are you done with this advice healing? I think you 1182 01:20:04,920 --> 01:20:08,120 Speaker 1: are coming up. It is our last break of the day. 1183 01:20:09,320 --> 01:20:14,960 Speaker 1: We'll have more tomorrow. Today we're out, okay, all right, 1184 01:20:15,680 --> 01:20:18,640 Speaker 1: And in forty nine minutes after the hour, we'll have 1185 01:20:18,760 --> 01:20:21,800 Speaker 1: some closing remarks. From the one and only, our fearless leader, 1186 01:20:21,840 --> 01:20:26,519 Speaker 1: our Captain Steve Harvey. Right after this you're listening to 1187 01:20:28,960 --> 01:20:31,080 Speaker 1: all Right here we are guys on this Monday, our 1188 01:20:31,160 --> 01:20:35,479 Speaker 1: last break of the day. This is it. Like Jay says, 1189 01:20:35,520 --> 01:20:41,479 Speaker 1: there are no more, We're out. I have some closing 1190 01:20:41,520 --> 01:20:48,439 Speaker 1: remarks today. Um. I was thinking about something and I said, wow, 1191 01:20:48,560 --> 01:20:51,960 Speaker 1: you know what, man, I want to share this with 1192 01:20:52,080 --> 01:20:58,360 Speaker 1: people because I had to readjust my thinking. Uh and 1193 01:20:58,560 --> 01:21:04,280 Speaker 1: once I did, that change my success process. And I 1194 01:21:04,400 --> 01:21:08,480 Speaker 1: often hear people making excuses for why they're not successful. 1195 01:21:09,240 --> 01:21:11,560 Speaker 1: So my closer remarks to day is to help you 1196 01:21:11,680 --> 01:21:15,160 Speaker 1: with that part of it. Right here, Listen to this, y'all. 1197 01:21:15,200 --> 01:21:18,360 Speaker 1: It's an adjustment. It's a mental adjustment that you have 1198 01:21:18,479 --> 01:21:22,080 Speaker 1: to make. It's a slight change in the way you're 1199 01:21:22,280 --> 01:21:27,120 Speaker 1: saying things. So here's what I'm saying to you. Stop 1200 01:21:27,760 --> 01:21:34,559 Speaker 1: making excuses why not? Listen to me carefully, stop making 1201 01:21:34,760 --> 01:21:42,800 Speaker 1: excuses why not? And make those excuses your why two. See, 1202 01:21:43,040 --> 01:21:46,840 Speaker 1: I've thought about this thing, man. Most of this excuses 1203 01:21:46,920 --> 01:21:52,880 Speaker 1: that I've heard from myself and from other people. If 1204 01:21:52,960 --> 01:21:57,920 Speaker 1: you took those same excuses that you're using as why 1205 01:21:58,040 --> 01:22:01,800 Speaker 1: you're not accomplishing something while you're not doing something why 1206 01:22:01,920 --> 01:22:05,560 Speaker 1: you're not successful. If you took those same excuses and 1207 01:22:05,800 --> 01:22:09,679 Speaker 1: turn them around and made those excuses your why too, 1208 01:22:10,479 --> 01:22:14,120 Speaker 1: it would be a game changer. See, you need reasons 1209 01:22:14,680 --> 01:22:20,160 Speaker 1: why you should be successful. That's what you need. You 1210 01:22:20,240 --> 01:22:24,760 Speaker 1: don't need excuses. You need to find reasons why you 1211 01:22:24,840 --> 01:22:31,120 Speaker 1: should be successful. Listen, If your excuse is i'm poor, 1212 01:22:32,760 --> 01:22:35,639 Speaker 1: well I would do this, but I ain't got I'm poor. 1213 01:22:37,320 --> 01:22:41,160 Speaker 1: That's a good reason that you should use to make 1214 01:22:41,280 --> 01:22:44,479 Speaker 1: more money. See, the thing that you're using as the 1215 01:22:44,600 --> 01:22:50,000 Speaker 1: excuse should oftentimes become the reason or the motivation if 1216 01:22:50,080 --> 01:22:52,519 Speaker 1: you think about it. But it's up to you now 1217 01:22:52,640 --> 01:22:55,240 Speaker 1: you have to make that adjustment. So if you're sick 1218 01:22:55,280 --> 01:22:57,960 Speaker 1: and tired of being poor, that's a good reason to 1219 01:22:58,080 --> 01:23:02,559 Speaker 1: want to be motivated to make a little spent more money. Now, 1220 01:23:03,080 --> 01:23:07,360 Speaker 1: if your excuse is I don't know the right people. 1221 01:23:08,200 --> 01:23:10,960 Speaker 1: Ever heard that before? Man, I just ain't I just 1222 01:23:11,120 --> 01:23:14,479 Speaker 1: don't know that I ain't met the right people, then 1223 01:23:14,560 --> 01:23:19,320 Speaker 1: that's why you need to start associating with a new group. See, 1224 01:23:19,400 --> 01:23:21,919 Speaker 1: you're not knowing the right people can't be the excuse. 1225 01:23:22,320 --> 01:23:24,320 Speaker 1: It has to be the reason for you to do 1226 01:23:24,479 --> 01:23:27,360 Speaker 1: something else. You need to start associating with a new group. 1227 01:23:28,120 --> 01:23:32,160 Speaker 1: You know something. It's easy to meet people, It really is. 1228 01:23:32,240 --> 01:23:34,360 Speaker 1: It's easy to meet people. You've met all the people 1229 01:23:34,439 --> 01:23:38,880 Speaker 1: you know. How hard was it? You just went to 1230 01:23:38,960 --> 01:23:40,800 Speaker 1: where they was doing a certain thing and you was 1231 01:23:40,920 --> 01:23:43,280 Speaker 1: participating in that certain thing, and then they became an 1232 01:23:43,320 --> 01:23:46,360 Speaker 1: associate of yours. You have to change that. You have 1233 01:23:46,479 --> 01:23:49,599 Speaker 1: to use those same reasons why not to turn them 1234 01:23:49,640 --> 01:23:55,320 Speaker 1: into the reason why too. Your excuse is no one 1235 01:23:55,400 --> 01:24:02,000 Speaker 1: ever taught me how? Well, if nobody ever taught you how, 1236 01:24:02,439 --> 01:24:04,760 Speaker 1: then don't you think that's a good reason that you 1237 01:24:04,880 --> 01:24:09,360 Speaker 1: need to train and educate yourself. See that excuse of 1238 01:24:09,680 --> 01:24:13,920 Speaker 1: nobody ever taught me how? So what they got the Internet? Now? 1239 01:24:14,720 --> 01:24:18,360 Speaker 1: You know you can google anything. If ain'tybody ever taught 1240 01:24:18,400 --> 01:24:20,080 Speaker 1: you how, this is a perfect time for you to 1241 01:24:20,160 --> 01:24:24,479 Speaker 1: train and educate yourself. Stop using these excuses for why 1242 01:24:24,600 --> 01:24:28,519 Speaker 1: not and get these reasons and use them as the 1243 01:24:28,640 --> 01:24:35,640 Speaker 1: why too. If your excuse is your family, your excuse 1244 01:24:35,960 --> 01:24:40,879 Speaker 1: is your family? My family? This my family? That excuse 1245 01:24:41,000 --> 01:24:45,960 Speaker 1: me get some friends? See, you actually get to pick 1246 01:24:46,040 --> 01:24:49,479 Speaker 1: your friends. You were born into the family, and if 1247 01:24:49,520 --> 01:24:52,719 Speaker 1: you were born into the wrong family, pick yourself some friends. 1248 01:24:54,200 --> 01:24:58,840 Speaker 1: Association brings on participation. My family I love them to death, 1249 01:25:00,080 --> 01:25:01,920 Speaker 1: but I can only go so far with them. We 1250 01:25:01,960 --> 01:25:04,040 Speaker 1: can only talk about certain things. We got to stop. 1251 01:25:04,120 --> 01:25:07,639 Speaker 1: The conversation ends because they're not going where I'm going. 1252 01:25:07,760 --> 01:25:10,160 Speaker 1: They don't they don't want what I want. Now, I 1253 01:25:10,240 --> 01:25:12,519 Speaker 1: got some other friends I can bring all these subjects 1254 01:25:12,640 --> 01:25:16,439 Speaker 1: up to. So stop using the excuse that, well, it's 1255 01:25:16,560 --> 01:25:21,840 Speaker 1: my family. Skip your family, get yourself some friends. You 1256 01:25:22,000 --> 01:25:25,600 Speaker 1: get to pick those people. I don't know what to 1257 01:25:25,760 --> 01:25:29,080 Speaker 1: do next, that's your excuse. Well, that would be a 1258 01:25:29,160 --> 01:25:32,080 Speaker 1: good time to develop a relationship with God, wouldn't you say? 1259 01:25:33,080 --> 01:25:35,640 Speaker 1: If you don't ever know what to do next, If 1260 01:25:35,720 --> 01:25:38,000 Speaker 1: you're stuck because you don't know what to do next, 1261 01:25:39,200 --> 01:25:42,720 Speaker 1: this excuse is a good reason to develop a relationship 1262 01:25:42,760 --> 01:25:44,880 Speaker 1: with God, because guess what, I bet he knows what 1263 01:25:45,000 --> 01:25:48,680 Speaker 1: to do next. Trust me, I had to turn that 1264 01:25:48,800 --> 01:25:53,560 Speaker 1: way many times. I'll be turning that way today. I 1265 01:25:53,680 --> 01:25:57,640 Speaker 1: don't know how. I don't know how I'm gonna do that. 1266 01:25:58,080 --> 01:26:00,360 Speaker 1: I just don't know how I'm gonna do it. Then, 1267 01:26:00,479 --> 01:26:03,479 Speaker 1: guess what, this is a good reason for you to 1268 01:26:04,760 --> 01:26:09,080 Speaker 1: use your faith. I don't know how I don't see how. 1269 01:26:09,720 --> 01:26:12,240 Speaker 1: I don't see how I'm gonna make that happen. Well, 1270 01:26:12,439 --> 01:26:14,920 Speaker 1: you need to develop your faith. Faith is the belief 1271 01:26:14,960 --> 01:26:18,040 Speaker 1: in things you cannot see. I didn't see my life 1272 01:26:18,080 --> 01:26:22,400 Speaker 1: I have today, but I faith that I believe that 1273 01:26:22,479 --> 01:26:24,439 Speaker 1: I would have some type of life. And then He 1274 01:26:24,520 --> 01:26:27,920 Speaker 1: messed around and gave me exceedingly abundantly over all, I thought, 1275 01:26:27,960 --> 01:26:31,240 Speaker 1: I asked, that's the beautiful thing about that relationship with God? 1276 01:26:31,400 --> 01:26:34,760 Speaker 1: And let's how about this right, I don't have a plan. Well, 1277 01:26:34,800 --> 01:26:37,240 Speaker 1: if you don't have a plan, guess what you need 1278 01:26:37,320 --> 01:26:41,800 Speaker 1: to dream. You need to dream about something to put 1279 01:26:41,840 --> 01:26:47,360 Speaker 1: a plan to stop using your excuses why not and 1280 01:26:47,520 --> 01:26:50,400 Speaker 1: take those same excuses and make it your why too. 1281 01:26:50,880 --> 01:26:54,200 Speaker 1: Come on, y'all, it's a mental adjustment. All you have 1282 01:26:54,360 --> 01:26:56,759 Speaker 1: to do is changed the way you think from negatives 1283 01:26:56,760 --> 01:27:01,560 Speaker 1: to positive, and the results immediately will follow. It's automatically 1284 01:27:01,680 --> 01:27:05,160 Speaker 1: done that way. Thank you for listening, And if you 1285 01:27:05,280 --> 01:27:09,519 Speaker 1: didn't listen, it's okay too. I'll have something else tomorrow. 1286 01:27:10,000 --> 01:27:12,760 Speaker 1: Maybe it out of hit home. Y'all, have a nice day. 1287 01:27:13,400 --> 01:27:16,519 Speaker 1: See you tomorrow. Talk to God. He'd love to hear. 1288 01:27:16,600 --> 01:27:19,719 Speaker 1: Fun for all Steve Harvey contests no purchase necessary, void 1289 01:27:19,720 --> 01:27:23,000 Speaker 1: where prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at least 1290 01:27:23,120 --> 01:27:26,880 Speaker 1: eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, 1291 01:27:27,000 --> 01:27:31,479 Speaker 1: visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. You're listening to Harvey 1292 01:27:31,520 --> 01:27:32,080 Speaker 1: Morning Show.