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Speaker 1: Resident you know, filling in all the time. Of course

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Speaker 1: Big court. What's up, bro? What's going on with your homie?

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Speaker 1: Was cracking? Oh man, You know what, sometimes we have

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Speaker 1: and until I really go two we got married or whatever,

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00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:51,320
Speaker 1: we would be going to go get a test every

426
00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:53,880
Speaker 1: six months because I want to know, right, I want

427
00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:55,480
Speaker 1: to know, because I don't know, because you could be

428
00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:59,080
Speaker 1: sleeping with a woman who has the appearances of being

429
00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 1: wiped you know, um sweet, probably pure bread, but she

430
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:04,400
Speaker 1: may be a beast in that bed room. She may

431
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 1: got more buddies on earth she than all free us

432
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:08,879
Speaker 1: put together. You don't know. I don't want to know.

433
00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:12,920
Speaker 1: And it only takes one time, you know, one time,

434
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:16,200
Speaker 1: And I mean listen, if we get into the science

435
00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:19,280
Speaker 1: of it, uh, you know, and I don't well, I

436
00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:22,960
Speaker 1: don't want to say that to to missdirect anybody, right,

437
00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 1: but like me and you was talking still, it's relatively

438
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:30,520
Speaker 1: hard to get you know, vaginally, you know what I'm saying,

439
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:33,359
Speaker 1: Like you can have sex with a woman vaginally and

440
00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,840
Speaker 1: and not get it and she but the other way

441
00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:39,960
Speaker 1: around is not true though, because if a man is

442
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:44,280
Speaker 1: HIV positive we can infect the woman easier than she

443
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:46,480
Speaker 1: can affect in fact us, you know what I'm saying.

444
00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:49,760
Speaker 1: So um, but I think it's just like I said, Man,

445
00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:52,760
Speaker 1: it's yeah, it's like it's it's I don't think that

446
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:56,240
Speaker 1: that just as a whole people really understand the brevity

447
00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:58,359
Speaker 1: of it like they used to because motherfucker's is more

448
00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 1: afraid think about that, they're more afraid of COVID. Motherfucker

449
00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:08,520
Speaker 1: will wear a mask. But don't dog, raw dog of hooker,

450
00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:11,240
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? And as that was the

451
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 1: craziest thing in the world, dude, it's like in the

452
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:17,720
Speaker 1: year two thousand and twenty two, who would be out there,

453
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:20,679
Speaker 1: raw dog and somebody because not only do you have HIV,

454
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:23,240
Speaker 1: you have a whole of a number of diseases. You

455
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:25,679
Speaker 1: have en them to her piece, you have sent them

456
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 1: to awards, you have all for media, You got gonna rhea,

457
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 1: and you got this other stuff. I don't remember the

458
00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:33,399
Speaker 1: name of it, but they were saying, this thing is

459
00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 1: damn they're worth the leaves. Yeah, yeah, you all gonna suffer.

460
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:40,880
Speaker 1: You're gonna suffer. You stick your chest out every time

461
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:44,440
Speaker 1: you take down a different female, right, m You feel

462
00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:47,359
Speaker 1: like you feel. Yeah, I got got me. You know

463
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:50,439
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, especially if with a ring on. You

464
00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:53,920
Speaker 1: know me, if she married and not chake it down,

465
00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 1: I did something. She gotta go home to that mother.

466
00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 1: And I mean, we ain't gotta argue noticed situation. Yeah,

467
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:07,240
Speaker 1: just say people really don't care know about sex, sex

468
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:11,639
Speaker 1: and sex and everybody from the nightclubs to to to

469
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:16,160
Speaker 1: wherever means somebody in the grocery store. It don't take

470
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:19,399
Speaker 1: a month to have sex with that person. You know,

471
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:22,800
Speaker 1: some men and some women seek to have sex with

472
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 1: other people because their partner are not great in bad

473
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:30,199
Speaker 1: so they're looking for something different and they it's not

474
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 1: a conscious mind. It just I want different, And you

475
00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:37,880
Speaker 1: know what slays? I feel that nothing cuts you off? Brother,

476
00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 1: But you know, without respect, if I'm not doing it

477
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 1: for you in the bad room, please come and tell me. Hey,

478
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:45,359
Speaker 1: I don't think this is work. I like you as

479
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 1: a person. I think you're a wonderful person, but I

480
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 1: need more. Guess what I try tomorrow, but the sun

481
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:53,239
Speaker 1: is still shining. Next thing, don't play with about your

482
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 1: don't happen where you hear that, Norman, ain't nobody's gonna

483
00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 1: keep you one hunted like that until they get mad

484
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:01,879
Speaker 1: at you and say all that motherfucker's got a little

485
00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:07,360
Speaker 1: They don't, they don't. Is that always at the end?

486
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 1: Oh that puks you throw out, But you're still sucking that,

487
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 1: You still student. And that's what I'm saying, because you

488
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:15,879
Speaker 1: knew that dude had a little bick when you're married,

489
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:18,200
Speaker 1: when you got with him, and you decided to get

490
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:20,199
Speaker 1: with him, and you decided to marry shortly, you know,

491
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:23,680
Speaker 1: shortly short of truth. You gotta get that. You gotta

492
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 1: go the vibrator or something like that. You know, we

493
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:31,360
Speaker 1: don't get out playing with the motherfucker's life. That ain't cool. Yeah, definitely, definitely.

494
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:33,919
Speaker 1: But like that's a great point that you made though, James.

495
00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 1: I mean, like you said, sex is so cheap, you

496
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 1: know what I mean. There's there's you know, when you

497
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 1: have that casual ship like that, there's no meaningful connections,

498
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 1: you know, and those are stimes you know, And and

499
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 1: you said, but but you know, to think about it, man,

500
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:50,919
Speaker 1: you know some you at some point it seemed like

501
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 1: as man, you you outgrow that, you know what I'm saying. Theoretically,

502
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 1: at least you should, you know, you should you can't

503
00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:01,360
Speaker 1: keep doing a little boy stuff. I couldn't imagine. I mean,

504
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 1: as many beautiful women as I'm around, and I see,

505
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:07,199
Speaker 1: I'll be honest with you that I don't respond to

506
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,359
Speaker 1: them like that because I gotta like your ass, like

507
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:11,800
Speaker 1: I gotta kind of connect you and be comfortable with you.

508
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:14,360
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? When you when you fourteen, fifteen,

509
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 1: you know, even eighteen years old, the wind blow and

510
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:19,360
Speaker 1: then motherfucker rock up on you. Right, you will put

511
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:21,920
Speaker 1: that the more sucking a blender if it feels good

512
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:24,639
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But you get to a certain age

513
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,320
Speaker 1: where you know your affections, you start looking at the

514
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 1: quality of a woman because at the same time, this

515
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:31,960
Speaker 1: is the woman that's probably gonna raise your kids, you

516
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:35,080
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So you start looking at like like,

517
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 1: you know, like we're in this bad bitch culture, and

518
00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, what constitutes you as a bad bitch? Because

519
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,719
Speaker 1: you got a fake fat ass and you know, an

520
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:46,720
Speaker 1: augmented body. Like I'm looking at what's your education, what's

521
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:49,640
Speaker 1: your personality? Like, you know what I'm saying, what what's

522
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 1: your aspirations? What's ship that's that's the ship that count. Yeah,

523
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 1: with that, you're probably gonna get a responsible adult that

524
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:02,639
Speaker 1: you know most likely doesn't have anything, and if they do,

525
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 1: they probably would let you know. You know, but when

526
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 1: you're chasing them city girls, ain't no telling what you're

527
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:10,560
Speaker 1: gonna come up with. You should be asking. I know,

528
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:15,679
Speaker 1: for me, would attracted me most to my wife was

529
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 1: the fact that she wasn't promiscuous. She was a church girl.

530
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:21,359
Speaker 1: She wouldn't come up to my part with me. We

531
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,120
Speaker 1: sat on the stupid at university, or we were sitting

532
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:26,400
Speaker 1: in their car. You know, I was a young dude.

533
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:27,680
Speaker 1: I was trying to get her to come up there

534
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 1: to the department, but she wouldn't have happen, And that

535
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 1: maybe like her even more maybe valuable. As I looked,

536
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 1: I didn't look at it as the object at that point.

537
00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 1: I look the I was like, man, I'm married this girl.

538
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 1: That's like I'm on raising my kids between your wife

539
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 1: yester years to the wifey I want today. Because a

540
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 1: lot of women don't leave nothing for the mind. You

541
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 1: see everything you see, you see it all right there. See.

542
00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 1: Most of the women of today don't know the worth

543
00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 1: of self meaning hurt. They just there for the moment.

544
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 1: They you know, we got fifty five sixty year old

545
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:17,360
Speaker 1: women prefer forty thirty nine year old young man. How

546
00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 1: can you get a young man of that age when

547
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 1: he has yet to reach his peak? So you actually

548
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 1: planning yourself all this time, all this time, and now

549
00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 1: you have to be mother because the average cat you

550
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 1: get ain't working. Are he doing is laying up playing PlayStation,

551
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:40,640
Speaker 1: doing his thing, and and he he hitting the old ads.

552
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 1: One day you wake up because he didn't hit the

553
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:47,880
Speaker 1: upside the head with the pillow. Now you'll be like, damn,

554
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 1: maybe can you go pay a bill or something for me?

555
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 1: But now it's hard to get rid of that cat.

556
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is a lot of women don't

557
00:29:56,040 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 1: know they worked today. Yeah, that's the fortunately, Yeah, that's right, James.

558
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 1: I mean it's the culture too, just like you know,

559
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 1: on the man's side, you know you have us, you know,

560
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 1: you have the youngsters, you know, preaching this drill and

561
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: this kill and this negative ship. You know what I mean.

562
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 1: It's the same thing with the young girls and the women.

563
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:18,080
Speaker 1: You know, they don't understand the importance of of a union.

564
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 1: Nobody wants to be married. Everybody wants to be a

565
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:23,240
Speaker 1: bad bitch or a baby mama, you know what I mean,

566
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 1: And all of that stuff kind of to still was

567
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 1: saying earlier, Like you said your attraction with your wife,

568
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 1: if I could guess, she probably had a father around,

569
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:34,200
Speaker 1: She probably had a strong father figure, you know what

570
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 1: I'm saying, So exactly the same thing with my wife.

571
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 1: My wife grew up with a father and her she

572
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:42,959
Speaker 1: had her father's love, her father's so she wasn't seeking

573
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 1: that approval and that attention from just anywhere. You know

574
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Because a lot of these girls be

575
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 1: seeking you know, uh, that protection and that attention that

576
00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 1: they didn't get in the house. So um, yeah, the

577
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 1: culture is different now. That's why we gotta like my daughters.

578
00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 1: You know everywhere you still you met my daughters. I

579
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 1: ain't raised no hot girls. I didn't raise none of that.

580
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 1: Even once my oldest daughter became a woman. And I

581
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 1: understand a woman wants to feel sexy. I totally get that, right,

582
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 1: But I used to tell the rule of thumb. If

583
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 1: you're gonna show some cleavage, cover up the bottom half.

584
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 1: If you're going to wear something fitted on the bottom,

585
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 1: cover up the top half. Is one or the other

586
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 1: don't just be you know what I'm saying, don't just

587
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 1: like that leave something. It's like, you gotta talk to

588
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 1: your daughters like you talk to your sons. You can't,

589
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: damn though, you can't discriminating that conversation. And I know

590
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 1: what's uncomfortable to sell, don't you know? When I knew

591
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 1: it was time. When we were in Atlanta, I would

592
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 1: turn around every five minutes and kick some grown asser

593
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 1: looked like he older than me looking at my daughter,

594
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:51,239
Speaker 1: and then we kissed me off. But then that's when

595
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 1: I realized, I said, she's turning into a young lady.

596
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 1: Now I have to have these conversations with it, because

597
00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 1: I understand the power of an older nigga with a

598
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 1: mouth exactly right, exactly. But what you fail to realize,

599
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 1: both of y'all got daughters. Don't take the difference here.

600
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: Your your Your daughters grew up with their mom and

601
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 1: their father. They understand, They see what it is to

602
00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 1: be a man and what type of man they want,

603
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 1: So they're not gonna be out there as reckless as

604
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 1: the young girl that's not around her father all the time.

605
00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:33,479
Speaker 1: So they grew up with values, understanding what it is

606
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 1: and what they want when they get to that point.

607
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:38,840
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, there's not a woman, a

608
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:41,960
Speaker 1: young woman on this planet today that don't go through

609
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:46,440
Speaker 1: the the homeward thing and want to experience what it

610
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 1: feels like or what you know, what is love or

611
00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 1: you know, you see what I'm saying. So where we

612
00:32:56,480 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 1: come in at is we kind of determined from them

613
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 1: their own thought, you see what I'm saying. So every

614
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 1: time we keep saying no, that ain't the one, that

615
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:08,560
Speaker 1: ain't the one, don't do it like this, that makes

616
00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 1: them want to further investigate, you know, certain situations. So

617
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:19,560
Speaker 1: we can only be parents now. The difference with with

618
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 1: with my daughter, having my daughter the whole time for

619
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:27,280
Speaker 1: eight years while her mama was going away doing her thing.

620
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:31,720
Speaker 1: I've explained to my daughter, rowing uncut, you don't want

621
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 1: to cat like your daddy, you don't want to cat

622
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 1: like your uncles. But when they grow up, they want

623
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 1: to see for themselves. So giving it to her, the

624
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 1: the growing uncut, I probably put a little too much

625
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 1: on it because now she won't that rowing uncutting in it,

626
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 1: so she believed, you see what I'm saying, So we

627
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:56,200
Speaker 1: could be doing it the right way. And we could

628
00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 1: be doing it the wrong way at the same time,

629
00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 1: we could be right wrong. I had to say it

630
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:05,479
Speaker 1: ain't my fault because when I allowed her to go

631
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:09,400
Speaker 1: back with her mother. One thing Pops didn't tell her

632
00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:12,440
Speaker 1: is that sweet talk ship, Oh you're so fine, baby,

633
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 1: because I can't go on that character. This is my child.

634
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:18,760
Speaker 1: So when that dude get to talk into the mind

635
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,920
Speaker 1: and she never been in a relationship, is something brand

636
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 1: new to your child, you know what I'm saying, as

637
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 1: a young woman, and she's amazed by that because her

638
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:34,719
Speaker 1: mind is fully developed. Don't understanding that this is bullshit propaganda.

639
00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 1: So they fall into that track regardless of what. But

640
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 1: that's when we say we stepped back and allowed them

641
00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:46,799
Speaker 1: to grow up and be young women, because whether y'all

642
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 1: know it or not, your daughters are its instilled and

643
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:53,279
Speaker 1: I'm already you just don't look at it like that.

644
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:57,680
Speaker 1: But they see the difference of man, you see what

645
00:34:57,719 --> 00:35:00,400
Speaker 1: I'm saying. They already know, Hey, let's pay bill is

646
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:05,560
Speaker 1: real quick and we get right back to y'all. Well,

647
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 1: you know one thing I was gonna say is, you know,

648
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:10,880
Speaker 1: women not knowing their word farm. I was watching the

649
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:14,720
Speaker 1: movie Baby Boy, the other day. It's on It's on Lulu,

650
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,760
Speaker 1: and I haven't seen that movie and maybe fifteen years,

651
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:20,680
Speaker 1: and I just looked at the relationship, and I looked

652
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 1: at it. I said, you know, here you go. You

653
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:26,840
Speaker 1: got Tyree's he asked, two beautiful baby mothers, right, you know,

654
00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:29,040
Speaker 1: he got to Roger Heinson and he got the other girl,

655
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:32,120
Speaker 1: both of them beautiful young ladies. Yet they accepting this

656
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,920
Speaker 1: dude going out cheating on him, she finding condoms in

657
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:37,560
Speaker 1: the back of the car. He don't messed around with

658
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:39,719
Speaker 1: the girl, look at her job and stuff, and she

659
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 1: still puts up with it because she on there like,

660
00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:44,799
Speaker 1: that's my baby daddy. I love him no, and I

661
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 1: wanted to come back he don't love you no more

662
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 1: than I looked at it now, and I looked at

663
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:49,840
Speaker 1: it way different. I give up younger, I said, the

664
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 1: women are pathetic on here. Who would you just sit

665
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,520
Speaker 1: up and accept some bullshit like that? A motherfucker that

666
00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 1: don't work, a motherfucker that don't do enough, but coming

667
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:01,200
Speaker 1: in the late fight. But he ain't saying no bills

668
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 1: and half father to his child. He's still a little boy.

669
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 1: He's still clinging to his mama's titty because every time

670
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 1: he gets mad at her, what do you do? He

671
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:11,480
Speaker 1: leave the house and go home in his room. He

672
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 1: don't even want his mama to have a boyfriend, you know,

673
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:16,839
Speaker 1: until Melvine gets smack him upside the head and you know,

674
00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 1: gets mac right in them. But he's still a little boy.

675
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,319
Speaker 1: And that's the same thing about these guys to chase

676
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:25,080
Speaker 1: these women. See, I'm gonna tell you it takes a

677
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 1: man to be a man. And I'm not knocking what

678
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:30,399
Speaker 1: nobody else do, bro, but it takes a certain level

679
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:32,839
Speaker 1: of maturity to say this is my woman, I'm gonna

680
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:34,919
Speaker 1: hold my house down, I'm gonna take care of my house.

681
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:37,000
Speaker 1: And to take care of my house, that means I'm

682
00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:39,120
Speaker 1: ou off. They're slinging my dick. Ter every sally and

683
00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 1: sues m Well, knowing you got you got young men

684
00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:49,279
Speaker 1: out there like my cheftain. No man until he got

685
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:53,360
Speaker 1: it fifty years old, forty five years old, don't understand

686
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 1: what it is to be a man, don't understand responsibility

687
00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:59,880
Speaker 1: like some of these young women. You're young, you have

688
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 1: the child, you think you love this person. That's why

689
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 1: he's stuck with Goldie because Jody was was that dude,

690
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 1: he didn't have to have no job. We see this

691
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 1: every day. Women fall in love with with with what's

692
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 1: outside on the outside of him. You know, it could

693
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 1: be his dubism, whatever they want to call it, but

694
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:24,440
Speaker 1: both of them. Women love that dude. You know what

695
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 1: I'm saying, not understanding what it's something out there that's better,

696
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 1: but they know what the baby daddy is somebody totally different.

697
00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 1: We always say I'm ship, I'm the baby daddy. I

698
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 1: can go back and hit any time. No, if you're

699
00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:43,799
Speaker 1: not a productive father, everybody don't know how to be

700
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:47,840
Speaker 1: a parent, even young women. They don't know how to

701
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:51,799
Speaker 1: be mothers. And you know what, James, I pushed back

702
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 1: on that a little bit, and I'll tell you why, because,

703
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:56,880
Speaker 1: like my situation is unique. You know, my situation is

704
00:37:56,920 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 1: kind of an anomaly because I've been with mine, I've

705
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 1: been with my wife's. I was fifteen, you know, And

706
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 1: to be very honest with you, when I my wife

707
00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:06,920
Speaker 1: is older than me. So when I was younger, I

708
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:08,759
Speaker 1: was you know, this ain't what it was when I

709
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 1: was fifteen. When I was fifteen, it looked like I

710
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:14,240
Speaker 1: was gonna either go to prison or I was gonna

711
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 1: wind up, you know what I'm saying, dead um. But

712
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:20,759
Speaker 1: even with that, he saw something to me that I

713
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:24,719
Speaker 1: didn't see him myself. So sometimes, you know, when you

714
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 1: speaking to affairs of the heart, you know, yeah, we

715
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 1: could look on because if somebody had to judge me

716
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 1: like that, if somebody would have said, because I mean,

717
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:34,280
Speaker 1: she was in college, she had a two parent household,

718
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:36,640
Speaker 1: she was a good girl, wasn't out there all of that,

719
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 1: you know, But me, I was still complete opposite. So

720
00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:42,840
Speaker 1: it looked like what the funk you doing with this nigger?

721
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:44,319
Speaker 1: Like you know what I mean, you could do so

722
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 1: much better. Hell, it was times where I thought she

723
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:48,759
Speaker 1: could have did better too, you know. But but you

724
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:50,759
Speaker 1: know when you talk about affairs of the heart, and

725
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 1: I think that's what makes the beauty of a relationship,

726
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:55,880
Speaker 1: when people can grow together because motherfucker's changed, you know

727
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:59,280
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So motherfucker might be you know, stuck

728
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:01,319
Speaker 1: on stupid for a second, but you you know, give

729
00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:03,799
Speaker 1: him some time and you love on them and you

730
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:06,279
Speaker 1: support them, and they can turn that corner, you know

731
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 1: what I mean. Because one thing I taught my daughter,

732
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:11,440
Speaker 1: I talked my daughter. I didn't take her to to

733
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:14,080
Speaker 1: to look for men with money and all of that.

734
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:15,920
Speaker 1: Not at all, right, because what I used to tell

735
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 1: her is your mother is here because she chooses to be.

736
00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:21,799
Speaker 1: She don't have to be. You know, she's educated, she

737
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:25,359
Speaker 1: has a career. So I always told my daughter, if

738
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 1: you get with a nigga and he don't got ship,

739
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:30,759
Speaker 1: that's cool. You can rock with that as long as

740
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:36,240
Speaker 1: he is pro actively, exactly exactly actively trying to get something.

741
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 1: If he's okay not having ship, no you don't that.

742
00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 1: I told my daughter the same thing, because it's the

743
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 1: such thing as growing together. You meet that young man. No,

744
00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 1: he may have him a job for UPS. Yeah, you know,

745
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:50,080
Speaker 1: he may have a job at UPS. My whole thing

746
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:52,360
Speaker 1: is this, I've always wanted my daughter just to have

747
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 1: a man. Now there wasn't a damn bum to have

748
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 1: its sense of pride. I don't give with them. If

749
00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 1: people work the ups in the daytime sl and boxes

750
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 1: in the nighttime, had a job with overnight ship, I

751
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:05,439
Speaker 1: would never have my daughter. That's a man, because that's

752
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:07,879
Speaker 1: a man that's gonna provide for us also, and he's

753
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:10,920
Speaker 1: going to do anything. Because I know for me, we've

754
00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:12,840
Speaker 1: all been fortuned on here that we're able to do

755
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 1: what we love. We're living. But if this ship wouldn't

756
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 1: a way, I have no problem. Want to go shut

757
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:20,399
Speaker 1: with ship to take put food on the table. We're

758
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:22,439
Speaker 1: doing what I have to do. I don't have my

759
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:24,880
Speaker 1: My old pride comes from me take being a provider.

760
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:27,439
Speaker 1: My kids ain't never missing no meals. My kids don't

761
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 1: know where it is to come to the house, and

762
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 1: the lights ain't turned on, the biggest thing with them.

763
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 1: The worst thing is if the cable is off or

764
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 1: the internet, I get to pay the build internet. It's

765
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:39,000
Speaker 1: like that happened to me the other day, still about

766
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 1: three days ago. And that's how I fund acause I

767
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:43,520
Speaker 1: don't get to I don't take care of that. That's

768
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 1: the one deal I take care of in the house personally.

769
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 1: Right If the internet is off, Pops, what's wrong with

770
00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:51,640
Speaker 1: the internet? All my bad? Let's be gonna take this thing.

771
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:54,319
Speaker 1: But it's six things I want to read, and I

772
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:56,279
Speaker 1: want the people out here to really pay attention to

773
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,520
Speaker 1: this because I'm tired of seeing our people die with

774
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 1: dumb ship that they don't have to die from. So

775
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 1: this is just a start. This is my contribution. Number one.

776
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:07,200
Speaker 1: Black Americans account for almost half of new affections in

777
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 1: the US each year, despite representing only thirteen percent of

778
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 1: the population. Although prevention efforts have contributed to a decrease

779
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 1: in the number of new HIV diagnosis among Black Americans,

780
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:23,840
Speaker 1: progress has been inconsistent. Black Americans remain more likely to

781
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:27,880
Speaker 1: be exposed to HIV, not because they participated more risky behavior,

782
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:31,040
Speaker 1: but because the prevalence of HIV is much greater in

783
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:34,920
Speaker 1: this community compared with other racial ethnic groups. Number two

784
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:38,880
Speaker 1: and estimated fourteen percent of Black Americans living with HIV

785
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 1: are not aware of their status. Go out and get tested.

786
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 1: They can add years onto your life. They even have

787
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 1: a medicine now that I saw on TV to where

788
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:49,840
Speaker 1: if you sleep with somebody you can take it the

789
00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:53,000
Speaker 1: day after and the knocks down the chances of UK

790
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:56,960
Speaker 1: and HIV exponentially. Go know your status. You don't have

791
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:58,439
Speaker 1: to die. I don't have to be a depth sence.

792
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:01,360
Speaker 1: But go take care of yourself. Go find out what's wrong.

793
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:04,840
Speaker 1: Number three one and two Black men in the US

794
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 1: who are gay will be diagnosed with HIV in their lifetime.

795
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:13,440
Speaker 1: That's some scary as ship. Let's say that's scary yourself

796
00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 1: because you think about it. Even if you're not, you

797
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:18,279
Speaker 1: can say, oh that on the pact me because I'm

798
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 1: not gay. Man. How you know one of them dudes

799
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:23,839
Speaker 1: ain't ain't um living in the shell. One of them down,

800
00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:25,759
Speaker 1: no dudes and he's sleeping with somebody he knows that.

801
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 1: You know, ran across bro. Most of them are. And

802
00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Number Number four, the incidents of

803
00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:37,280
Speaker 1: HIV has decreased, has decreased among Black women in the US.

804
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:39,760
Speaker 1: That's the only good thing I've seen on this motherfucker

805
00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 1: so far. The CDC estimated that the number of HIV

806
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:50,120
Speaker 1: diagnosed among Black women decreased fort However, new infections remain

807
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:52,319
Speaker 1: more common in Black women than the women of other

808
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 1: racial ethnic groups. Number five. Black transgender women are more

809
00:42:56,719 --> 00:42:59,759
Speaker 1: likely to be infected with HIV compared with tranship to

810
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:04,240
Speaker 1: women and the other racial ethnic groups. Number six. HIV

811
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 1: related deaths are more likely to occur in Black Americans

812
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:11,920
Speaker 1: compared with other groups. And that's because we don't find

813
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 1: out what's going on with us. And it's not just

814
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 1: with HIV, is with fum correct um, colon cancer, other diseases.

815
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:23,239
Speaker 1: We just don't go It's almost like we lived in

816
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:26,760
Speaker 1: this delusion, bro, under this cover like to where oh

817
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:29,319
Speaker 1: I'm gonna put this cover over my head, or I'm

818
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:31,560
Speaker 1: gonna hold a penny up to the sun because it's

819
00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 1: blocking the sun out, but the sun is still shine.

820
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:36,839
Speaker 1: It's just an illusion. We think. What you think that's

821
00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 1: a tribute to still you know what, Bro? I think

822
00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:42,440
Speaker 1: it's attributed to people just not wanting to know. Bro.

823
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:44,319
Speaker 1: They feel like if they're go on with life is

824
00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:46,319
Speaker 1: just gonna go away. But it's still there. It's like

825
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:49,760
Speaker 1: the monstrous like and I just said it, it's almost

826
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:51,799
Speaker 1: like holding a penny up to the sun. You can

827
00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:53,360
Speaker 1: hold a penny up to the sun and holding a

828
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:55,520
Speaker 1: certain way looked like you're blocking off the sun. You

829
00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:57,400
Speaker 1: keep thinking you're blocking the sun. You stand out there

830
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:01,279
Speaker 1: and burning death right right? Get black and the mother

831
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: have medical insurance to go get checked. Um, that's what

832
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:12,480
Speaker 1: they should start. Everybody need insurance. A lot of them

833
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:15,520
Speaker 1: don't have games, but you don't. You don't need insurance

834
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:17,840
Speaker 1: to go get checked though. But you're right in saying

835
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:20,719
Speaker 1: that we should have universal healthcare that we we are.

836
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:24,640
Speaker 1: We don't have you know, a one healthcare by large

837
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 1: but you're right though. Number two, a lot of us

838
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 1: are lazy. Like you said, no, don't want to know,

839
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:36,920
Speaker 1: just bro, that's the biggest fear of one's life is

840
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:39,279
Speaker 1: to know that I got this, to know that I

841
00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 1: got cancer, to know that uh I could be dying.

842
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:49,760
Speaker 1: We don't want to know that. As we're talking about HfV,

843
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:53,719
Speaker 1: especially Don Juan, it's always bragging. Yet man, I bag

844
00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:56,120
Speaker 1: this bag the other night. Why I got this bad

845
00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 1: big store. I got my little young big shover ya,

846
00:44:58,000 --> 00:45:01,600
Speaker 1: I got my old bigs over here, them type the dude. Subconsciously,

847
00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:03,920
Speaker 1: they don't want to know because when they're gonna take

848
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:07,560
Speaker 1: their test, they get the thing about every slimy, creepy

849
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:09,800
Speaker 1: crawl a book of band that they don't ring across

850
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:12,279
Speaker 1: in their lifetime, and they start thinking like damn, I

851
00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 1: wonder where the funk's yet right now? Or this one

852
00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 1: looking skin. They get the call of people, what you've

853
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 1: been up to? You good? You know what I mean?

854
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 1: What's yeah? And they do that, bro, and then the

855
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:26,759
Speaker 1: thing you know is my thing is this. It's just

856
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:30,280
Speaker 1: your responsibility as a decent human being into the people

857
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 1: that you love to go make sure that you can

858
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:35,239
Speaker 1: be here I go get man, I'm gonna tell you,

859
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:37,799
Speaker 1: once I hit forty, I started on the dartor more

860
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 1: than ever. If I had a little mark of my skin.

861
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 1: I was taking my ass to the doctor. Man with

862
00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:45,319
Speaker 1: this this road, that's you sure, We'll give me some

863
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:47,799
Speaker 1: blood work just to make sure. I was mad. It's hell,

864
00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 1: my motherfucking doctor. She gave me your physical and I said, well,

865
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 1: when you go do the blood work, I need to

866
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:55,839
Speaker 1: know everything that's going on with me. They still have you?

867
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:57,839
Speaker 1: Have you? You You had a price state check at though.

868
00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:02,000
Speaker 1: Yeah all that dog, Yeah, I did too, bro, like forty.

869
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:03,759
Speaker 1: I think it was forty folk, Bro, I got a

870
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:06,879
Speaker 1: little Asian doctor. Man just just traumatized me. And I'm

871
00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 1: gonna tell you, I'm gonna take you. I don't like

872
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 1: it because I had one of them big turkeys doctors

873
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:13,759
Speaker 1: that came in just here he was with everything. He

874
00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 1: took this finger wrong like my thump myself. Oh man, no, man,

875
00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:18,600
Speaker 1: ain't no other way you can do this with no

876
00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:22,000
Speaker 1: club work, he said, And before hen he said, that's okay.

877
00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:25,759
Speaker 1: You would not stuck up? Man? What is your doing?

878
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:30,799
Speaker 1: What is you do? Know? Hey? Thank God? Man shout

879
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:33,919
Speaker 1: out to shout out to Dr lu Man, I had

880
00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:36,839
Speaker 1: no mine, little Asian sweet woman, you know what I'm

881
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 1: saying that, But I remember I was feeling violated and

882
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:41,920
Speaker 1: of course as me and you know we we we

883
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:44,760
Speaker 1: don't funk with that. You know, we got that nobody

884
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:48,080
Speaker 1: playing with our boot dog. That's what made the toxic

885
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:50,920
Speaker 1: masculinity kick in. But you know it works against us.

886
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:53,920
Speaker 1: But yeah, I told my homeboys to man, that's the

887
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 1: thing too, man, we got to share the information and

888
00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:59,359
Speaker 1: try to encourage each other to to get checked out

889
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 1: and to be proactive and preventative healthcare. You know, because

890
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:04,839
Speaker 1: I was telling my homeboys, like I made it a joke.

891
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 1: I was like, man, like, man, my little doctor violated me. Bro.

892
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:10,120
Speaker 1: But I was like, man, y'all need to do that

893
00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 1: because I know a few guys that I went to

894
00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:14,800
Speaker 1: high school with it died from process prostate cancer. You

895
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Yeah, so you know a lot

896
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:21,480
Speaker 1: of these things, you know, I early detection, you know,

897
00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:24,960
Speaker 1: even just with like for instance, I I had, uh,

898
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:27,920
Speaker 1: I had, I was pre diabetic. Even though I'm in shape,

899
00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:31,359
Speaker 1: I eat right and I exercise, if I hadn't went

900
00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:33,799
Speaker 1: and got a physical and seeing that my A one

901
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:38,000
Speaker 1: C was elevated. Then you know, I very well could

902
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:40,960
Speaker 1: have become a diabetic. But because I caught it quick,

903
00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:44,279
Speaker 1: I was able to make the necessary dietary changes and

904
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:46,640
Speaker 1: got it under control. So now I ain't got to

905
00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:49,400
Speaker 1: take insulin and no ship like that. So you know,

906
00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:52,359
Speaker 1: preventative healthcare, man, we gotta we gotta really support each

907
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:54,839
Speaker 1: other with that and push that in and like like,

908
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 1: like Big Jay said, everybody don't have insurance. This is true,

909
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:01,080
Speaker 1: but there are programs is out there. You know, if

910
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:02,840
Speaker 1: you if you want to get it done, you know

911
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:05,319
Speaker 1: you would seek out the information and their programs that

912
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 1: support people, you know, to get physicals and and get

913
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 1: what they need health wise. M And that's and that's

914
00:48:12,000 --> 00:48:13,759
Speaker 1: the real stuff. And I'm gonna tell you another thing

915
00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:16,920
Speaker 1: you can do we can HV. Another silent killer is

916
00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:20,520
Speaker 1: high blood pressure. I'm gonna tell your brother something. Shout

917
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 1: out to my boy Willie Mammon from the Long Beach Movement.

918
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 1: He's fighting for his life tonight. Um. He was at

919
00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:29,080
Speaker 1: his job and him and his supervisor is real cool.

920
00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:31,440
Speaker 1: The supervisor was joking with him, was heaven sometimes to

921
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 1: come to work early if he had a show and

922
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 1: you know, be on his desk in his office, you know,

923
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 1: taking that little last little minute that before he started shift.

924
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:40,400
Speaker 1: So it's what it was, jumping him like, man, I

925
00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:42,359
Speaker 1: told you about going on our party and come to work.

926
00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:45,160
Speaker 1: Wake up and he noticed he wouldn't respond. He woke

927
00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 1: up and the dude was just real. Despond had a

928
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:48,880
Speaker 1: glaze over his eye. He had a heart attext. So

929
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:52,200
Speaker 1: now he's in the hospital under a medicated coma, fighting

930
00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:54,759
Speaker 1: for his life. I'm gonna tell you something about them

931
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:58,400
Speaker 1: high blood pressure fields. They make your head her sometimes

932
00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 1: they mess with your manhood. Gonna tell you something. You

933
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:03,279
Speaker 1: ain't knocking too much down't no way on with you

934
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:06,040
Speaker 1: didn't hear no more? Go get you, Go get your

935
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:08,839
Speaker 1: blood pressure checked out, man, Go get you go get

936
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:11,920
Speaker 1: your cold and checked out. Man. Go know your status, man,

937
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:13,719
Speaker 1: Go know you safe so you can walk around this

938
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:16,440
Speaker 1: motherfucker with confidence. You know you're here. So what's a

939
00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:20,000
Speaker 1: van of something hits me? I can know I'm perfectly healthy. Man. Health,

940
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 1: Health is wealth man at the end of the day,

941
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,239
Speaker 1: because you think about it, bro, you got what was

942
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:26,439
Speaker 1: it Steve Jobs? He had all the money in the world,

943
00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:28,640
Speaker 1: but he couldn't buy good health. You know, he would

944
00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:31,239
Speaker 1: try to be able to have a week of just

945
00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 1: feeling good. And when you think about cancer patients, you

946
00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:36,440
Speaker 1: think about people who actually died of age, and you

947
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:40,359
Speaker 1: know all these terminal illnesses. Imagine just you know you're

948
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:43,760
Speaker 1: having a common code and how bad you feel them first,

949
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:47,239
Speaker 1: you know too three days. Imagine feeling a hundred times

950
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:49,600
Speaker 1: worse than that all the time. You know what I'm saying.

951
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 1: So you know I didn't have all of it at

952
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 1: one time. I didn't add high blood pressure, high colester. Wrong,

953
00:49:57,600 --> 00:50:01,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna die, Betty my a one he was at eleven.

954
00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:05,520
Speaker 1: Oh wow, I'm talking about with all the four of

955
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:08,839
Speaker 1: these things going on with me, and with motherfucker trying

956
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:11,520
Speaker 1: to snap that globe and tell me to bend over.

957
00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 1: He gotta check. No, you're not, I may do. Motherfucker's

958
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 1: putting me to sleep. And they did think then when

959
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:24,280
Speaker 1: I was days you made him put you to sleep

960
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:27,279
Speaker 1: and do it. Hell yeah, you ain't gonna check that,

961
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:32,640
Speaker 1: So what at least you got it done. Though. I

962
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:36,120
Speaker 1: had to realize that with all of these things, and

963
00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 1: I listened to that doctor tell me, man, you can

964
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:43,160
Speaker 1: lose your eyesight and everything else if you don't big this.

965
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:47,560
Speaker 1: Within a year, they took me off high cholester roll pills.

966
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:50,880
Speaker 1: They took me off the high blood pressure pills. The

967
00:50:50,920 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 1: only thing I got now is my my diabetes. Now

968
00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:58,239
Speaker 1: that I have walked away from the motorcycle, set my

969
00:50:58,520 --> 00:51:00,399
Speaker 1: one see us at a seven and a half eight.

970
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:03,759
Speaker 1: And I'm still trying to get a lawyer. I don't

971
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:08,000
Speaker 1: want to take this other injection to do that. I

972
00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:09,680
Speaker 1: want to do it naturally. I want to try to

973
00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:12,839
Speaker 1: let me think this, let me do this. Well, it's hard.

974
00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 1: What did you do? What did you do to correct

975
00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 1: those things? And what are you doing to correct your

976
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:22,040
Speaker 1: a I stopped beating a lot of handburger food on

977
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:25,000
Speaker 1: that fright ship. I stopped beating all that ship. I

978
00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:28,759
Speaker 1: quit the bread, the rice and all that ship. And

979
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:32,560
Speaker 1: I was able to lose the weight because I was

980
00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:36,439
Speaker 1: at that time, I was two eight seven. Yeah, I'm

981
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 1: two forty now. So I had to I had to

982
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:42,600
Speaker 1: lose the weight. I had to correct my diet. When

983
00:51:42,600 --> 00:51:46,360
Speaker 1: I ate, I only eight portions. You know what I'm saying.

984
00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 1: I didn't need to figures have a big old feast

985
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:52,759
Speaker 1: and constantly eight after twelve o'clock. So I had to

986
00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 1: change a lot of ship because if I didn't, I

987
00:51:56,600 --> 00:51:58,959
Speaker 1: probably wouldn't be here right now. And if I would,

988
00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:03,800
Speaker 1: I'll be doing this ship. Yeah, yeah, able to Congrats

989
00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:08,400
Speaker 1: to you, though, that's difficult to change that, So bro,

990
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:11,120
Speaker 1: that's that. Yeah, congrats because we have to know. And

991
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:15,920
Speaker 1: I did this without without sucking, like really exercise, That's

992
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:18,200
Speaker 1: what I was about saying. I was about to say,

993
00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:21,560
Speaker 1: if you start exercising on the regular, it'll get even better.

994
00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:24,279
Speaker 1: That A one C would correct itself even more. He's

995
00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:27,080
Speaker 1: got damn cigarettes and I gotta I gotta treadmill in

996
00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 1: my room. You use that, Yeah, my gresson used that

997
00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:32,560
Speaker 1: motherfucker moon not do that. What I was gonna tell

998
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:35,040
Speaker 1: your mother will be on that motherfuck morning. Yeah, you

999
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 1: know how to do it, man, Put that motherfucker on

1000
00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:41,040
Speaker 1: two point five three point oh at the at the

1001
00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:43,480
Speaker 1: highest and just get a brisk walk. Do that ship like,

1002
00:52:43,680 --> 00:52:45,760
Speaker 1: do it past it. Do that ship on an empty

1003
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:48,640
Speaker 1: stomach in the morning, and do it boy, thirty minutes,

1004
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:50,400
Speaker 1: do it like you can do it every other day. Bro,

1005
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:52,839
Speaker 1: your weight a drop and your A one C will

1006
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 1: start to correct I learned that because you know with

1007
00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:59,480
Speaker 1: all my other ship, like my my Rotator and all

1008
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:03,320
Speaker 1: that ship. And you know, the EPI Durrows actually fucked

1009
00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 1: me up because it started eating on my carliage and

1010
00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:09,680
Speaker 1: all that ship. So when you when he did the

1011
00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:12,800
Speaker 1: m R I on it, all you've seen was white dots,

1012
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:19,279
Speaker 1: whereas nothing is all funked up. So you're losing your

1013
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:21,680
Speaker 1: momentum and all of this ship. But a lot of

1014
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 1: that has to do with age. Now. You know, I

1015
00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 1: had my major physical at fifty uh fifty five. I

1016
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:33,320
Speaker 1: got another year and a half for my sixties. You

1017
00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:36,600
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, two years. So I man, I

1018
00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:39,719
Speaker 1: just had to figure it, especially with him. I know

1019
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:42,840
Speaker 1: I gotta be alive. I want to see him graduate.

1020
00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:45,920
Speaker 1: I want to see his first girlfriend. So I gotta

1021
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:50,400
Speaker 1: change a lot of ship. And I take them feels

1022
00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:54,000
Speaker 1: every day. That diabetic medicine, I take it every day

1023
00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:57,440
Speaker 1: I take I was doing two shots, he took me

1024
00:53:57,520 --> 00:54:00,640
Speaker 1: off in one. Now I'm just doing a one pin

1025
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:05,759
Speaker 1: once a day dinner, So I know I'm getting better.

1026
00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:10,839
Speaker 1: Ain't kudos to you, bro, because I know you had

1027
00:54:10,920 --> 00:54:13,239
Speaker 1: to not only change what you were doing, but you

1028
00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:16,040
Speaker 1: had to change your mind, your mentality, and that's to

1029
00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:19,239
Speaker 1: do too. And that's the hardest part about it, because

1030
00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:21,239
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you the biggest thing I had to learn.

1031
00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:25,600
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie bro. I love taking down the

1032
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:27,920
Speaker 1: boss plate. I love a good plate. Like you know,

1033
00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:30,440
Speaker 1: I give myself Thanksgiving to where I pretty much eat

1034
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:33,040
Speaker 1: what I want to. But I've cut way back on

1035
00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:35,400
Speaker 1: the red meat because I just don't have to. But

1036
00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:38,879
Speaker 1: I still allow myself that occasional cheak like last night,

1037
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:41,920
Speaker 1: you know, cause I'm driving ship again. I crept off

1038
00:54:41,960 --> 00:54:44,600
Speaker 1: the Timing Burger because I wanted some chili cheese fries

1039
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:47,279
Speaker 1: so bad dog the double chili Burger. The ship is good,

1040
00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:50,439
Speaker 1: is delicious, but it's bad for you. You can't eat

1041
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:52,360
Speaker 1: that ship every dingy because I remember, man, when I

1042
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:58,120
Speaker 1: was maybe dollar thirty, I ballooned up like three five dollars.

1043
00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:01,920
Speaker 1: Every night Friday. I would come on, I would take

1044
00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:03,840
Speaker 1: down me some beer. I would have me at twelve

1045
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:06,600
Speaker 1: pack in Henry wine. Are drink that motherfucker that I

1046
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:09,640
Speaker 1: would go to the bugger fucking um Burger spot chili

1047
00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:12,879
Speaker 1: cheese fries, a big chili cheese fries. I wasn't fat

1048
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:16,200
Speaker 1: because I was still lifting button. I was breathing hard

1049
00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 1: all the time. We're using the stuff man, and I said,

1050
00:55:19,160 --> 00:55:20,920
Speaker 1: you know what, this is not gonna work. Dog, And

1051
00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:24,279
Speaker 1: I just gradually just started saying, you know what, I

1052
00:55:24,360 --> 00:55:26,879
Speaker 1: can have that maybe downalance, but you know what, maybe

1053
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:28,719
Speaker 1: I don't need a medium. Maybe I'll just get me

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00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:32,360
Speaker 1: a small fries with a cheese burger. Yeah. You know

1055
00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:34,479
Speaker 1: what I tell people. You know what I tell people still,

1056
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:37,520
Speaker 1: because you know, I mean, I'm forty six, right and

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00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:40,279
Speaker 1: so um and I didn't pick up a weight. I

1058
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:42,440
Speaker 1: mean I was always athletic, but I didn't pick up

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00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:44,959
Speaker 1: away till I was thirty. And and that was because

1060
00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:46,640
Speaker 1: I think I thought I was having to get sell

1061
00:55:46,680 --> 00:55:48,840
Speaker 1: block ready. But that's a that's a whole another story.

1062
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:51,640
Speaker 1: But I tell people, when you when you do the

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00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:54,279
Speaker 1: right thing, like ninety percent of the time, when you

1064
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:56,960
Speaker 1: eat clean and you kind of exercise and you live

1065
00:55:57,000 --> 00:55:59,840
Speaker 1: a healthy lifestyle, then you can afford to indulge in

1066
00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:03,080
Speaker 1: that ship. You know, because I I pizza, I eat

1067
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:06,880
Speaker 1: boyshit often, but I eat and I eat the right

1068
00:56:06,960 --> 00:56:09,000
Speaker 1: thing nine percent of the time. So when people see

1069
00:56:09,040 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 1: me eating hamburgers and fries, I eat McDonald's in and

1070
00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 1: out all of that ship. But guess what, you know,

1071
00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:17,040
Speaker 1: my lifestyle is in the gym, so I can eat

1072
00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:18,880
Speaker 1: whatever because I'm just gonna burn it, you know what

1073
00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:22,279
Speaker 1: I mean. So I think understanding your body and and

1074
00:56:22,680 --> 00:56:25,279
Speaker 1: your your you're eating habits, and just how your life is,

1075
00:56:25,360 --> 00:56:28,200
Speaker 1: like I say, health as wealth. Man, Just excuse me,

1076
00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:32,480
Speaker 1: you know? Uh? Like like James said, portion control too, man,

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00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:34,840
Speaker 1: a lot like you said that play. Our culture is

1078
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 1: to eat. Like you know, I'm back in Kansas City

1079
00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:40,840
Speaker 1: right now, visiting for Thanksgiving, and the culture here is

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00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:43,920
Speaker 1: way different, my nigga. Like, I went to a restaurant earlier,

1081
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 1: right and I looked around the restaurant. Man of the

1082
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:52,319
Speaker 1: restaurant was obese. You know what I'm saying, I'm the mother.

1083
00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:55,239
Speaker 1: I'm the only motherfucker in there eating grilled chicken. And

1084
00:56:55,360 --> 00:56:57,840
Speaker 1: we remember I'm from the Midwest too, so you know,

1085
00:56:57,920 --> 00:56:59,480
Speaker 1: it's the same thing for me. When I went back

1086
00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:02,680
Speaker 1: through and I hold on and I kept wondering, I

1087
00:57:02,840 --> 00:57:05,160
Speaker 1: kept saying, like I'm sitting in a chair and I

1088
00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:07,320
Speaker 1: kept thinking, like them, I'm in this booth. Why is

1089
00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:10,320
Speaker 1: the fucking table so far from the back of the booth.

1090
00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 1: It's because it gott to fit all these OBEs. Motherfucker's

1091
00:57:13,239 --> 00:57:16,400
Speaker 1: in there, you know what I mean. And I looked around, like, damn,

1092
00:57:16,480 --> 00:57:20,320
Speaker 1: that's crazy. I'm the only one in here eating grilled chicken.

1093
00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:23,200
Speaker 1: Everybody else got these big gas place with gravy running

1094
00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:26,080
Speaker 1: down they fucking arms, and you know, and I know

1095
00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:29,520
Speaker 1: that's our culture, but you know, we gotta we gotta understand,

1096
00:57:29,600 --> 00:57:31,840
Speaker 1: I know, Hew, and listen for some of those that's

1097
00:57:31,880 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 1: listening to watching. I know. You know, sometimes especially when

1098
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:38,600
Speaker 1: people are you know, kind of food challenged and on

1099
00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:41,480
Speaker 1: a budget, eating healthy can be expensive, you know what

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00:57:41,560 --> 00:57:45,000
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So even if you can't afford to always

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00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:47,560
Speaker 1: go to Whole Foods or whatever whatever, you know, like

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00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:50,440
Speaker 1: James said, portion control for what you do have, you know,

1103
00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:54,560
Speaker 1: and just you know that ship with exercise. Man, I'm

1104
00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:56,720
Speaker 1: gonna tell you something. When I went back to Io,

1105
00:57:56,880 --> 00:57:59,480
Speaker 1: when I was just there like maybe three four months ago,

1106
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:02,640
Speaker 1: one thing I realized that I missed, man, because I

1107
00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:05,600
Speaker 1: got aunties. They plant their own greens in their backyard,

1108
00:58:05,680 --> 00:58:08,520
Speaker 1: They plant their own squashing and stuff like that. So

1109
00:58:08,640 --> 00:58:11,360
Speaker 1: I had some greens, string bean, starf and they just

1110
00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:14,600
Speaker 1: remember they tasted different, man, because that stuff comes from

1111
00:58:14,600 --> 00:58:18,160
Speaker 1: their yard, and I know they make food so out

1112
00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:20,880
Speaker 1: of reach for our communities, like the good stuff. The

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00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:23,240
Speaker 1: average person on a budget can't afford to go grocery

1114
00:58:23,240 --> 00:58:25,040
Speaker 1: shop in the whole food. They gotta go to food

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00:58:25,080 --> 00:58:27,280
Speaker 1: for less. And I noticed I don't like me. I

1116
00:58:27,320 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 1: don't even shop for food for less because if you

1117
00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:31,960
Speaker 1: notice the quality, the food is so bad there. Even

1118
00:58:32,000 --> 00:58:34,000
Speaker 1: when you look at the ground beef and food for less,

1119
00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:36,720
Speaker 1: you let's say you buy a tin pound pack of

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00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:39,480
Speaker 1: ground beef. By the time you cook that motherfucker, there's

1121
00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 1: so much oil and ship in there because it's just different.

1122
00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:44,320
Speaker 1: But when you go to an al per cents or

1123
00:58:44,480 --> 00:58:46,600
Speaker 1: Whole Foods or whatever, you fry the ground beef, you

1124
00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:49,400
Speaker 1: notice it's less fat. It's just like they give us

1125
00:58:49,520 --> 00:58:52,240
Speaker 1: the worst of the worst. Ship's think of the Black

1126
00:58:52,280 --> 00:58:55,120
Speaker 1: and Latino communities. When you go to the store, you

1127
00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 1: buying me, you buy some ground I bought some ground

1128
00:58:57,440 --> 00:58:59,040
Speaker 1: beef and food for less because it was the only

1129
00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:02,280
Speaker 1: thing open one time, trying to make some spaghetti. Man,

1130
00:59:02,320 --> 00:59:04,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you that ship was bad. I wanted

1131
00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:06,200
Speaker 1: to throw it away. I was like, it just smelt bad.

1132
00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:08,640
Speaker 1: I was like this is not good, man, And it's

1133
00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:11,120
Speaker 1: fatty as ship. You could see the fat like, yeah,

1134
00:59:11,160 --> 00:59:13,640
Speaker 1: you're right, you're right. That's what I said. I want

1135
00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:16,000
Speaker 1: a five thing of ground beef dog when I swear

1136
00:59:16,520 --> 00:59:19,040
Speaker 1: that stuff is went from like this to like this,

1137
00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:20,640
Speaker 1: and it was just oil and the pin like a

1138
00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:22,720
Speaker 1: whole bout of oil there. And I was like, damn,

1139
00:59:23,480 --> 00:59:26,840
Speaker 1: it's just bad, bro. We have to really like and

1140
00:59:26,960 --> 00:59:29,400
Speaker 1: that sounds hard, bro. But a lot of that stuff

1141
00:59:29,480 --> 00:59:31,400
Speaker 1: is so out of access to us, man, Like I'm

1142
00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:34,600
Speaker 1: talking about even decent fruits and vegetables. That's why I

1143
00:59:34,720 --> 00:59:39,000
Speaker 1: tell people, you know what I missed, the basic stuff.

1144
00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:42,200
Speaker 1: I've been brought to complaining man. Sometimes the house because

1145
00:59:42,280 --> 00:59:45,480
Speaker 1: we wasn't rich, but moms would make contenners sometimes and

1146
00:59:45,520 --> 00:59:47,760
Speaker 1: that after lasts for a few days, she would make

1147
00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:50,640
Speaker 1: a big pot of beans and some hot water bread

1148
00:59:50,760 --> 00:59:53,600
Speaker 1: or some or some corn bread with the butter milk

1149
00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:55,760
Speaker 1: in it. I'm gonna tell you, man, I told her that.

1150
00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:57,680
Speaker 1: I said, my mama missed that so bad. When I

1151
00:59:57,760 --> 00:59:59,120
Speaker 1: come on, I wants you to make a part of

1152
00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:03,160
Speaker 1: beans and some corn bread, some buttermelk corn bread. Corn

1153
01:00:03,240 --> 01:00:08,400
Speaker 1: Bread is still good though I love corn bread because

1154
01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:12,800
Speaker 1: we ain't l a and start eating crossocks and ship though.

1155
01:00:12,960 --> 01:00:14,680
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying, bro. But you know what,

1156
01:00:14,880 --> 01:00:18,520
Speaker 1: no dog, the way we was raised, Bro, the way

1157
01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:20,280
Speaker 1: we was raised, Bro, I think it was just way

1158
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:23,520
Speaker 1: more healthier. But this is what I want to leave

1159
01:00:23,640 --> 01:00:26,960
Speaker 1: my brothers out there with my sisters, my Latino brothers.

1160
01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:31,720
Speaker 1: Go get checked out, man, know your status. Yeah, go

1161
01:00:31,920 --> 01:00:35,400
Speaker 1: with your girl and barely that real conversation and say, look,

1162
01:00:36,040 --> 01:00:38,640
Speaker 1: I love you. We're gonna go respect each other and

1163
01:00:38,680 --> 01:00:40,919
Speaker 1: go be checked out. And when you do get checked

1164
01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:43,720
Speaker 1: out and you find out just that you're cool, don't

1165
01:00:43,760 --> 01:00:45,360
Speaker 1: be out there. That's not a permission to get a

1166
01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:48,880
Speaker 1: pass and go split out. You feel what I mean,

1167
01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:51,920
Speaker 1: take care of yourself. And if you out there running around,

1168
01:00:52,400 --> 01:00:55,920
Speaker 1: wrap a rubber around that motherfucker dog, protect yourself. Prevention

1169
01:00:58,080 --> 01:01:00,600
Speaker 1: where rubber because I'm gonna tell you right out I

1170
01:01:00,800 --> 01:01:03,040
Speaker 1: hear motherfucker's talk about the rubber pup. I'm gonna tell

1171
01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:04,840
Speaker 1: you this. Your stretch of rub arm big as a

1172
01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:08,000
Speaker 1: motherfucker Streux rubber rover. This that motherfucker want. So don't

1173
01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:10,880
Speaker 1: give me that bullshit. You ain't packing. On twelve fifteen,

1174
01:01:10,920 --> 01:01:13,240
Speaker 1: nicks thinking like you're thinking, nigger, that should have fixed

1175
01:01:13,280 --> 01:01:15,720
Speaker 1: your ass. I don't know they have pop with me.

1176
01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:27,880
Speaker 1: Look you by the night story things. I'm buying them

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01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:31,640
Speaker 1: finger things that that you know. N I'm just a yeah,

1178
01:01:33,160 --> 01:01:38,080
Speaker 1: don't don't. Don't do that any funny, but don't y'all

1179
01:01:38,200 --> 01:01:40,600
Speaker 1: take care of yourself. And on that note, we you

1180
01:01:40,880 --> 01:01:48,480
Speaker 1: this motherfucker Gangster Chronicles mass a little well. That concludes

1181
01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:51,240
Speaker 1: another episode of Against the Chronicles podcast. Be sure to

1182
01:01:51,280 --> 01:01:53,520
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01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:01,920
Speaker 1: a comment and rating. Executive producers for The Gangster Chronicles

1186
01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:05,320
Speaker 1: podcast and Norman Steve James McDonald, Aaron m c a Tyler,

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Speaker 1: our visual media directors Brian White, and our audio editors

1188
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Speaker 1: Taylor Hayes. The Gangster Chronicles is a production of I

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