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Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Terrence. Please who's calling? Who's this? Hey?

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Speaker 1: both of us. If she's she's cheating on me. You're

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Speaker 1: telling me that you with my wife too, that you've

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Speaker 1: been messing around with my wife. That's not that's not

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Speaker 1: the part I'm trying to talk about. I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: talk about this dude named Alan. Man, That's what I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to get out. We're gonna get to Alan. You

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Speaker 1: saying that my wife? Man, it's some crazy yo. You

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00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 1: know what, Man, I'm about to put my foot right

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Speaker 1: up your because when I don't play those games with her,

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Speaker 1: she with me, were messing around. We're doing this and

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00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 1: doing that. It don't work like that. Do you understand

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying? Do I hear what you're saying? But

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Speaker 1: the beef ain't with me. The beef is with Alan. No,

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Speaker 1: she messing over. She messing over both of us with Alan. Dog.

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Speaker 1: I'm about to call her because there's some right here.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling OK, hold on, bro, I just want you

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00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,640
Speaker 1: to deal with Alan. Are you about to stop? I'm

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Speaker 1: at I'm at the job. Yeah, but I'm about to

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Speaker 1: put my foot in your Do you understand me? No?

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Speaker 1: I hear you? Man? Alan is the one that then

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00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:46,360
Speaker 1: blew this thing out of proportion. Dog, She messing over

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00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 1: me and you with this here. There ain't no me

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Speaker 1: and you. I don't share. Do you see what I'm saying? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I hear you. You don't. You don't hear me. I

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Speaker 1: don't shire. There's no sharing that goes on over here. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I do, I do. I'm just saying, you know, what

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00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:10,720
Speaker 1: are you saying? Leaves me right here? Leave me right now.

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Speaker 1: I'm about to come up with where you at? Right now?

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00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 1: Where are you at? I'm at the job where what

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Speaker 1: Ronnie had I call Ronnie. I'm at the job where

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Speaker 1: Ronnie at. I call Ronnie. I called the ronnicka Ronnie.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's my little nickname too. It all right,

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Speaker 1: but well, hold on, hold on, hold on, ron Ronnie,

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Speaker 1: Ronnie right here, she's right where she right here, right here?

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Speaker 1: You want hue, Okay, cool man here cool? But can

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Speaker 1: I tell you what she's saying? I don't want to

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Speaker 1: hear what she's saying. I'm her on the phone right now. Okay,

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Speaker 1: But can I tell you what she's telling me to

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Speaker 1: tell you? She ain't telling you to tell me damn thing,

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Speaker 1: because the only thing that you is my foot. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: but but but but Ronnie wants me to tell you

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Speaker 1: this man. Just listen to me, Terrence. She wants me

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Speaker 1: to tell you that this is nephew Tommy from the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got franked by your wife, Veronica.

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Speaker 1: You know what, I don't play this yond up, up,

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Speaker 1: yond up. I'm gonna give your old school woman you

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Speaker 1: are no, I'm not all right. I'm in the car.

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Speaker 1: I was on my way over there, about to go

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Speaker 1: to jail, mess to the round with y'all. Hey, let

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Speaker 1: me ask you this man, what is the baddest and

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Speaker 1: I mean the baddest radio show in the land. You

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Speaker 1: already known show nothing. Yeah, coming up at the top

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Speaker 1: of the hour, Thank you, nephew, coming up at the

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Speaker 1: top of the our entertainment and national news right after this,

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Speaker 1: you're listening to show. All right, everybody can make this

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Speaker 1: note to themselves. Doing business with a criminal suspect isn't

477
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:30,560
Speaker 1: always the best way to go. Okay, just make that

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Speaker 1: note for yourself. So okay, Valencia Love put up. We're

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Speaker 1: wondering who put up the money to bail r Kelly

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Speaker 1: out of jail. Well, her name is Valencia Love. She

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Speaker 1: put up the one hundred thousand dollars needed to get

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Speaker 1: r Kelly out on bond back in February when he

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Speaker 1: was arrested on ten counts of aggravated criminal sexual abuse.

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Speaker 1: She also paid his fifty thousand dollars in back child

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Speaker 1: support when he was jailed in March for missing payments.

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Speaker 1: To a national question, before you go any further, this

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Speaker 1: is not a joke. I'm asking a question. Is it

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Speaker 1: true that she owns a daycare? I heard she owned

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Speaker 1: the restaurant restare restaurant care. Yeah, I didn't hear she

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Speaker 1: owned a daycare. Now that was that? That was a

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Speaker 1: serious question. Yeah, yes, the answer had been yes. I

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Speaker 1: ask for restaurant, Okay, cool. I was just asking because

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Speaker 1: then if it was true, then we turned from a

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Speaker 1: question too. I would have several states. Ye, story, It's

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Speaker 1: just it's a restaurant. I just wanted to know. I know, seriously,

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Speaker 1: somebody told me that in a very serious tone, and

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Speaker 1: so I was just asking, was that alert a daycare alert?

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Speaker 1: I didn't hear that. The food in the end of

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Speaker 1: the daycare, Timmy, where did you hit this all? Alright?

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Speaker 1: Here it is here this once it was revealed a

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00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 1: woman helped free R Kelly. Twitter began to track her

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Speaker 1: down and found out she was a forty seven year

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Speaker 1: old and an owner of a couple of businesses in

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Speaker 1: Chicago area, one day care center, the other a restaurant.

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Speaker 1: So she owned both of them, actually both and that's okay.

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Speaker 1: So well, now, after after finding that out and thinking

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Speaker 1: it through a little bit more, album reserved my comments.

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Speaker 1: In a four page motion, Steve Valencia Love claims that

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Speaker 1: she knew R. Kelly personally and that he promised to

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Speaker 1: pay her money back at the time, she said she

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Speaker 1: didn't know about other investigations. Unfortunately, Illinois Judge Lawrence Flood

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Speaker 1: said no to Valencia Love's request because she has no

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Speaker 1: legal basis to get her money back. Meanwhile, R. Kelly

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Speaker 1: is in jail again, this time for federal crime. Wait

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Speaker 1: a minute, hold up, whoa, he's in jail again? He

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Speaker 1: and pop. Yeah, I didn't know that. How long you

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Speaker 1: been in jail? Some months? Yeah, that's been a couple

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Speaker 1: You was on the boat when they picked him up. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you was on the boat when they picked up y'all.

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Speaker 1: We have to say congratulations. This is a big story

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Speaker 1: from my Home station Mix ninety two point three in Detroit.

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Speaker 1: We have to say congratulations to the Detroit Youth Choir.

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Speaker 1: They were a finalist last night on America's Gut Tell

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Speaker 1: Hit Detroit. We are so proud of you. They didn't win.

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Speaker 1: Cody Lee, the Blind Artistic guys, he won the million dollars.

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Speaker 1: But Detroit Youth Choir, they were right there and they

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Speaker 1: represent yeah, all right, switching gears now, ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 1: Miss Anne Tripp. Okay, thank you very much and good morning,

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Speaker 1: and yes, yes, yes, congratulations Detroit. This is a trip

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Speaker 1: with the news. Secretary State Mike Pompeia was accusing Iran

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Speaker 1: of making what he describes as an act of war

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00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:28,359
Speaker 1: by attacking Saudi Arabia's oil infrastructure a few days ago.

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Speaker 1: Rebels and Yemen have cleaned responsibility for it, though, but

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Speaker 1: Pompey was dismissing that one because he says the Whosies

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Speaker 1: just don't have that kind of capability. The equipment used

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Speaker 1: is unknown to be in the hood the arsenal. Meanwhile,

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Speaker 1: President Trump is appointed Robert O'Brien to be his next

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Speaker 1: National security advisor, and this will be the fourth man

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00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 1: appointed to the position by Trump and only three years

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Speaker 1: before him. There were Generals Michael Flynn, HR mcmasses and

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Speaker 1: John boltimost recently, whom he said he fired, but John

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00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 1: Bolton said, no, I quit. Robert O'Brien has been serving

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Speaker 1: as America's point man, by the way, on hostage affairs. Also,

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Speaker 1: President Trump was in California yesterday where he announced that

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Speaker 1: he is revoking that state's long standing authority to regulate

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Speaker 1: its own emission standards for cars and trucks. California was

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Speaker 1: granted the authority to do that to regulate its own

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Speaker 1: emissions because the unhealthy air that was actually kind of

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Speaker 1: famous or infamous to be found in Los Angeles and

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Speaker 1: some other cities, all the smog and stuff, and that's

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Speaker 1: why they got the right in the first place. But

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00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:30,799
Speaker 1: the Trump administration insists that relaxed standards will result in

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Speaker 1: less expensive and safer cars. But California Governor Gavin Newsom

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Speaker 1: says the White House is really trying to only please

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Speaker 1: one constituency, the oil industry. They don't care. He doesn't

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Speaker 1: care about the economy, he says, or consumers or health

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Speaker 1: or anything like that. As a result of an investigation

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Speaker 1: conducted by New Jersey's Attorney General and the Division of

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Speaker 1: civil rights. A white wrestling coach named Alan Maloney, who

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Speaker 1: had an assistant cut in African American kids, dreads off

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Speaker 1: before he would let the man compete. Young man compete well.

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Speaker 1: Alan Maloney has now been suspended himself from refereeing any

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Speaker 1: matches for the next two years. By the way, a

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Speaker 1: black wrestling coach says the same guy Maloney poked him

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Speaker 1: in the chest three years ago and called him the

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Speaker 1: N word when they had a disagreement. The black coach,

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Speaker 1: Preston Hamilton, responded by slamming Maloney to the floor. Troops

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Speaker 1: are being deployed in Bermuda this morning to help with

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Speaker 1: the reparation the preparations needed in advance of the arrival

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Speaker 1: of Hurricane Berto. The Category A three storm is expected

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Speaker 1: just north of Bermuda this morning. It may be kind

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Speaker 1: of a day right now. Any shift that could put

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Speaker 1: it right on top of the island. So we have

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Speaker 1: to see how the winds are going because it can

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Speaker 1: go from really bad to worse. Schools are closed into Bermuda,

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Speaker 1: so of the government offices, and there's no ferry or

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Speaker 1: bus service and a lot of folks try to get out.

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Speaker 1: Yesterday and the day before GM factories remain idle for

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Speaker 1: a fourth day to day, with some forty nine thousand

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Speaker 1: UAW workers still walking picking lines at Union wants a

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Speaker 1: bigger share of the carmaker's profits and better working conditions.

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Speaker 1: GM is said to want to bring labor costs down

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Speaker 1: so that they're closer to auto plants running foreign country

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Speaker 1: cut countries. Finally, today's National Cheeseburger Day. It's what's for

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Speaker 1: dinner if you like burgers. Now back to the Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to show, all right, So

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Speaker 1: people are saying with all of these NFL quarterback injuries,

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Speaker 1: the Jets, the Saints, the Steelers, and now possibly Cam

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Speaker 1: Newton may not start on Sunday due to a foot

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Speaker 1: or an ankle injury. Foot and an ankle injury. Colin

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Speaker 1: Kaepernick's agent said Colin is literally in the best shape

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Speaker 1: of his life. He's been working out five days a week, yeah,

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Speaker 1: at five am, for three years. He wants to play.

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Speaker 1: His agent also has been kind tacking teams in need

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Speaker 1: of a quarterback. So what do you think, Steve, I

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00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 1: think it would be great for the league. The problem

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00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:12,440
Speaker 1: that I'm having right now, though, is this settlement that

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Speaker 1: he signed with the NFL. I'm concerned that it has

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Speaker 1: some stipulations in it. See listen. Okay, okay, First of all,

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Speaker 1: you all do understand this that the NFL it's group

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Speaker 1: of owners. The group of owners hires Roger Goodell. You

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00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:41,600
Speaker 1: do understand this. They hire the commissioner because the commissioner

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Speaker 1: is to represent the shield of the NFL. Now, he's

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Speaker 1: a pretty well liked owner amongst a lot of players

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Speaker 1: and amongst the owners, he's very popular guy amongst them.

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Speaker 1: Crowds boo him, but the players can said to him

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Speaker 1: to be a fair judge of character. I don't know

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Speaker 1: what the deal was that Colins signed the settlement money

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Speaker 1: that they had to pay him for keeping him out

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Speaker 1: of the league. So I don't know if his agent

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Speaker 1: is being fourth right with that, because you would think

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Speaker 1: his phone would ring at this particular time. Yeah, they

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Speaker 1: really need him. Would you have signed that knowing you

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Speaker 1: can't play that money? Okay? Yeah? It must have been

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Speaker 1: a lot of them because you might not play. Hello.

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Speaker 1: And see true, it's hard to get guaranteed money in

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Speaker 1: the NFL. Most players don't get guaranteed. Now, if you

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Speaker 1: get hurt and you don't make the team. You out

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Speaker 1: of money, I don't give it. If you don't. If

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Speaker 1: you signed a four year contract without guarantees and you

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Speaker 1: get cut the second year, they don't pay you. But

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Speaker 1: it's not like that in baseball and basketball. Huh oh. No,

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Speaker 1: Baseball the major and football is number one spectator sport

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Speaker 1: for television and everything. But the problem is they have

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Speaker 1: a sixteen game season. It's eighty six games in the NBA,

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Speaker 1: A hundred and sixty eight and eighty something games in baseball.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I think you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: six to one hundred and sixty two sixteen at the

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Speaker 1: money's not there, okay, but my owners, Dough they clock it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they're getting money at TV contract him, endorsements. I think

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Speaker 1: Colin should play. I would love to see him back.

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Speaker 1: That would be great, all right. Coming up next to

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Speaker 1: thirty four after the Hour, guys, Beyonce says that visiting

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Speaker 1: countries in Africa Steve is always a very emotional experience

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Speaker 1: for her. We'll talk about that right after this you're listening.

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Speaker 1: On Monday, ABC released Beyonce's documentary called Making the Gift,

637
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Speaker 1: which gave fans behind the scene to look at the

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00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 1: making of her Lion King inspired album, It's her self

639
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 1: described love letter to Africa and the Long. In the

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00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:30,360
Speaker 1: hour long special, Beyonce shared intimate, never before seen moments

641
00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 1: with her family as cameras followed her and her husband

642
00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:36,840
Speaker 1: and their children and her mom on a trip to Africa.

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Speaker 1: Steve Beyonce says, visiting countries in Africa is always an

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00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 1: emotional experience for me. Feels like I'm making a peace.

645
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:45,800
Speaker 1: I'm making peace with a part of me that's yeourning

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00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:50,120
Speaker 1: for my ancestral connection. Your thoughts on that, Steve who

647
00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:53,640
Speaker 1: I think She's absolutely right. That is probably the perfect

648
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 1: way to describe it. And that's why I think it's imperative.

649
00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 1: It's if I know, I know people are gonna go, man,

650
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 1: that it's a long way them tickets. Listen to me,

651
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 1: Every African American should go back to their homeland. It

652
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 1: is beyond emotional. It is beyond emotional. You It's it's

653
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 1: a magnetic pool. It's where we're all from. See. America's

654
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:29,279
Speaker 1: our home. I was born here, I was raised here,

655
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 1: My family is here, my friends are here. Things I

656
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:37,919
Speaker 1: love I was cutting made in Cleveland. America's my home.

657
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:42,720
Speaker 1: Make no mistake about that. But Africa is my home land.

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00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 1: When you step off the plane in Araica and Africa,

659
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 1: you feel a very very strong sense of belonging. Let

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00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 1: me tell you something else I've discovered. I'm gonna tell

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00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 1: you something and deep because I really had to come

662
00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:05,040
Speaker 1: to terms with this the other day, because I was

663
00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:08,279
Speaker 1: really searching my soul, man to really find out the

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00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 1: way to describe how I was feeling, because I just

665
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 1: didn't I couldn't put a grip on it. And I

666
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 1: discovered this, America is my home. Yeah, Africa is my

667
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 1: home land. America has my heart, Africa has my soul. Wow,

668
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:35,600
Speaker 1: that is the best way. And I had to write

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Speaker 1: it down because I was just just happening. Let me

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Speaker 1: tell you today the seventeenth, on my morning meditation on

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00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:47,319
Speaker 1: Tuesday morning the seventeenth, at six thirty am, I wrote

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00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:50,480
Speaker 1: this in my journal because I was just wrastling with

673
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 1: how I felt about Africa and America and America is

674
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 1: my home I was born here. Come on, man, there

675
00:43:58,120 --> 00:44:00,920
Speaker 1: was opportunities here that I was able to take advantage of.

676
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 1: Has been a lot of strife that hit me, but

677
00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 1: I dealt with it. My family is here, my brothers

678
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 1: and sisters is here, my mom and daddy buried here,

679
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 1: my family hill, my friends is here. That America my home,

680
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:19,440
Speaker 1: but Africa is my home land. It's a piece of me.

681
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:23,400
Speaker 1: When I was in that slave dungeon and I felt

682
00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:27,280
Speaker 1: and couldn't get up, and I told y'all what happened

683
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 1: to me. One of my ancestors was in that room

684
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,440
Speaker 1: and he was on me. And when I put my

685
00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:37,840
Speaker 1: hand on the wall, I felt pressure on me. And

686
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 1: what made me know it was real, my oldest son,

687
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 1: Broderick Junior, was with me. He was facing that same wall,

688
00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 1: heaving uncontrollably. He couldn't even turn around. That's when I

689
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:54,719
Speaker 1: knew that I had made this boy, and somebody that

690
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:57,480
Speaker 1: was in that male dungeon had made one of us.

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00:44:58,040 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 1: Because there's no there's no, there's nothing beyond my father

692
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:06,280
Speaker 1: in my ancestry dot com. Everybody trying and nothing passed

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00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:10,759
Speaker 1: or my father. Now, America has my heart because of

694
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:14,040
Speaker 1: my mom and daddy and my brothers and my sisters

695
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:20,240
Speaker 1: and my friends and my career and family whew keeping.

696
00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:26,280
Speaker 1: But Africa has my soul. Africa will make you feel

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00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:30,200
Speaker 1: something in your soul that you've never failed here. I

698
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:34,960
Speaker 1: promise you that that's why every African American should make

699
00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:40,479
Speaker 1: it a vow to make a what's what's the word

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00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:47,440
Speaker 1: pil pilgrimage, pilgrimage, pilgrimage to the motherland. It will change

701
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:52,359
Speaker 1: your life forever. That's my speech. Okay, all right, well

702
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 1: read more about Beyonce story. I'm Steve Harvey FM dot com.

703
00:45:57,640 --> 00:45:59,960
Speaker 1: Now coming up next, nephew in the building with today

704
00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 1: frank phone call. That's right after this. You're listening to

705
00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:23,040
Speaker 1: the show coming up at the top of the hour,

706
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:26,200
Speaker 1: right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today.

707
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 1: The subject should I love him or leave him? Is

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00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 1: the subject? Okay, right now, nephew in the building with

709
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:36,720
Speaker 1: today's prank phone call. What you got for us? In after?

710
00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:59,799
Speaker 1: Are you all right about? Oh my god? What is

711
00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:11,600
Speaker 1: Rick James? F Yeah, loved them or lead them? I got?

712
00:47:11,680 --> 00:47:22,799
Speaker 1: I used to do us intermusd then eyes on you.

713
00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:26,759
Speaker 1: What's your girl named? Jail? I can't that girl name

714
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 1: and she was good, but you could frank interest boy girl.

715
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:40,600
Speaker 1: We're just coming on the radio. Yeah, yeah, man, Low Leader,

716
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 1: Low Leader. That girl got out to Low Leader with

717
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 1: her singing self. Hey, I got Kate Dog for y'all.

718
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:50,759
Speaker 1: Kate Dog is the prank called Kate Dog. Just got

719
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:53,160
Speaker 1: out of jail and looking for a few things that's

720
00:47:53,160 --> 00:47:57,239
Speaker 1: old to him. Kate Dog. Hello, Oh yeah, I'm trying

721
00:47:57,280 --> 00:48:00,560
Speaker 1: to reach I'm trying to reach tears. Its appared to

722
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:06,680
Speaker 1: this this ky his uh, his brand his branding? Your

723
00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:09,640
Speaker 1: brother then, yeah, that's my brother. He locked up? White's up?

724
00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 1: Who cause? Yea? Who hey, look I just got that.

725
00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 1: I was actually uh, I was locked up with your brother.

726
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 1: We was on the same TiO together. I was, you know,

727
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:22,480
Speaker 1: that was kind of like most for right there, I

728
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 1: took kill him. He told me that he was. He

729
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:28,200
Speaker 1: had been writing you to tell you and you was,

730
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:30,200
Speaker 1: you know, letting you know I had been taken care

731
00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:32,440
Speaker 1: of him while he was locked down or whatever. I

732
00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:34,239
Speaker 1: know he don't get off for another couple of years,

733
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:37,400
Speaker 1: but like he told me that when he was writing

734
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:40,400
Speaker 1: you that you know, y'all had already got it situated it.

735
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:43,480
Speaker 1: You know, you was gonna take care of me when

736
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:46,439
Speaker 1: I got out. So you know, I, like I said,

737
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:49,440
Speaker 1: I just got out last night, and I wanted to

738
00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:53,040
Speaker 1: come by and pick up the first ten grand. You know,

739
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 1: sometimes this wait wait wait wait, wait wait wait wait wait,

740
00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 1: really how much did you just say? Kenny grand? Yeah?

741
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:00,920
Speaker 1: You know? I mean he told me he had already

742
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:03,399
Speaker 1: wrote you and told you what was up? Oh bro,

743
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:05,960
Speaker 1: I ain't talking to my brother over a year, dude,

744
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:09,759
Speaker 1: So ain't know. Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold

745
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:13,839
Speaker 1: on right? You know? Okay he told nah, you know,

746
00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 1: Peter told me that you you got me straight with

747
00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 1: the first ten grand when I first get out and done.

748
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:21,440
Speaker 1: A couple of months later, you will hit me with

749
00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 1: the next ten grands. It's just twenty grand. Wait wait,

750
00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:26,879
Speaker 1: well over that's twenty grand. Bro. I got a wife

751
00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:29,360
Speaker 1: and kids. I got a families take care of. Ain't no,

752
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:31,239
Speaker 1: I ain't got ten grand to deal with. I gotta

753
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 1: feed four kids and the wife. Okay, okay, So what

754
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:38,879
Speaker 1: you hold on? Hold? How how old? Hold them up? Man?

755
00:49:39,239 --> 00:49:41,880
Speaker 1: So what you're saying Brandon was lying to me the

756
00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:44,400
Speaker 1: whole time. What I'm telling you is just locked up

757
00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:47,520
Speaker 1: eighty man to say anything to say to Ain't no

758
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:49,759
Speaker 1: ten grand over here, Ain't no twenty grand over here.

759
00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 1: You want to get it, Brandon gonna need to wait

760
00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:53,319
Speaker 1: two years till he get out and deal with that.

761
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:56,480
Speaker 1: Get grand no, no, it ain't. It ain't. It ain't been.

762
00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:59,160
Speaker 1: It ain't been the fill like that, plea niga hear

763
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:03,760
Speaker 1: what's says to go? Okay, Nah, I'm coming over the fraggy,

764
00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:08,800
Speaker 1: coming over ten grand. The first ten green is old

765
00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 1: old frad. Now what I ain't got the first. First

766
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:13,600
Speaker 1: of all, what you need to know is just right here.

767
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:16,680
Speaker 1: I don't kill nothing about going back. My thing is

768
00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:19,279
Speaker 1: just right here, just paper supposed to be rid and

769
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:21,440
Speaker 1: took care of your brother all these years while I

770
00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:23,879
Speaker 1: was up in there keeping people up off of them

771
00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:25,920
Speaker 1: on the third till. And now you've been to come

772
00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:29,359
Speaker 1: to me. You're fens to come to me nine How

773
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 1: to put it in his work is now y'all ain't

774
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:33,399
Speaker 1: been to play up. It ain't been them like this. Yeah,

775
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 1: that's what I'm telling y'all. Doesn't put it in work

776
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:37,480
Speaker 1: to provide my family, me and my wife work. And

777
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:39,319
Speaker 1: you telling me that you're telling to come over here

778
00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:41,919
Speaker 1: Friday to get ten grand that I ain't even got

779
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:45,239
Speaker 1: for that's locked up. Hey man, Look, I'm not I'm not.

780
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:47,879
Speaker 1: I'm not feeling first of all all this backing pool.

781
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:51,000
Speaker 1: But like this hill, this ain't nothing too do you understand,

782
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:52,920
Speaker 1: I don't do that. I don't go back and food.

783
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:55,960
Speaker 1: I let you know what it is. It's ten green

784
00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:58,960
Speaker 1: being on Friday now if you need to try to

785
00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:01,840
Speaker 1: reach out to your brother is uh locked in? You

786
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:04,600
Speaker 1: didn't talk to him. But like the deal, I'm coming

787
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:07,399
Speaker 1: looking for terres and I'm looking for my ten grand.

788
00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:11,120
Speaker 1: That's this, that's ill native ten grand. I put some

789
00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:13,400
Speaker 1: tims up beyond. You come over here to my house

790
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:15,840
Speaker 1: to my family about you're gonna get ten grand with

791
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:19,719
Speaker 1: my no great brother that's locked down. Hold on, hold on,

792
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:21,880
Speaker 1: because see you're gonna you're gonna reve around and take this.

793
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:25,360
Speaker 1: You know way what First of all, what did you

794
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:27,080
Speaker 1: just say on him? When I get over with us?

795
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:30,319
Speaker 1: What you say? You you bring your to my house

796
00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:32,480
Speaker 1: with my family here, I'm gonna put some tims up yond.

797
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:35,320
Speaker 1: How about ten thousand dollars and then another ten and

798
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 1: a couple of months you lost so damn blind. I

799
00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:40,520
Speaker 1: ain't got no damn grand. I've worked my often. You're

800
00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:43,239
Speaker 1: gonna tell me that you want ten grand? Another ten

801
00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:44,759
Speaker 1: grand in a few months of taking care of my

802
00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 1: brother while he locked up. Nobody tell you take care

803
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:49,799
Speaker 1: of him. That's a girl man. Let him take care

804
00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:51,440
Speaker 1: of the self, Me and my family and num Bell

805
00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:54,359
Speaker 1: just out of so much. I'm dumb. Hey, hey, hey,

806
00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:57,520
Speaker 1: do look at I understand how it is that you're saying.

807
00:51:57,600 --> 00:51:59,920
Speaker 1: But what you what you gotta looking on mine? For

808
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:02,439
Speaker 1: the laying three and a half years, I've been over

809
00:52:02,480 --> 00:52:05,200
Speaker 1: here taking killed and he telling me y'all gonna take

810
00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:08,320
Speaker 1: kill me. So so here, I don't know what's going on.

811
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:12,919
Speaker 1: What I do know well though, Fried, this Frid I'm

812
00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:16,239
Speaker 1: coming to get teen Graham from Tims. So you got

813
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:19,359
Speaker 1: the six this right here. Anyway you're gonna feast so

814
00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 1: I and that just is right there. Come Fried, I'm

815
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:24,799
Speaker 1: in front of your house. Down what wait, hunt on? What?

816
00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:27,359
Speaker 1: Hunt on? Kate dog you say your name name, Kate

817
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:30,360
Speaker 1: dog baby from the third decade down from the third

818
00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 1: till three tills on the side of my left. I

819
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:35,760
Speaker 1: don't done three decades. You probably don't work the everybody

820
00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 1: in the street and then jail you got with my

821
00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:40,400
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna tall something you bring over here to

822
00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:43,080
Speaker 1: my house. Try to me, my wife and my kids.

823
00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:44,759
Speaker 1: Thing gonna go down like you think it ain't gonna

824
00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 1: go I'm gonna give you a thing I got. Then

825
00:52:46,560 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 1: on them. You come over here, you're gonna be laying down. Bro,

826
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:51,879
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be what donna be laying down? You come

827
00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 1: over here and try to me and my family and

828
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:56,480
Speaker 1: my kids. That ain't gonna happen that way. You okay,

829
00:52:56,560 --> 00:52:58,600
Speaker 1: Then that's then that's that's where we are to him, baby,

830
00:52:58,600 --> 00:53:00,960
Speaker 1: Then we just we just go off this up a Friday,

831
00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 1: and then because it don't make me know, I know

832
00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:04,880
Speaker 1: I ready to tell about we gotta wait to no Friday,

833
00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:07,280
Speaker 1: kay dog, we gotta wait to find I meet you somewhere.

834
00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:10,239
Speaker 1: You're gonna like you think it's gonna go down. Once

835
00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:12,439
Speaker 1: I get you anything I got and lay you down,

836
00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:14,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be in there with my brother Brandon whooping

837
00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:18,839
Speaker 1: his putting me into he doesn't got yourn I'll call you. Hey.

838
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:21,320
Speaker 1: You know, first of all, if you ain't got the

839
00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:24,160
Speaker 1: ten grand, you might well going on brand not anyway.

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Speaker 1: Get this you know you need to do. You need

841
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Speaker 1: to get your out here and get a job like

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Speaker 1: everybody else. I don't care how long you've been in

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Speaker 1: and everybody got a job. I'm busting you won't ten

844
00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:37,080
Speaker 1: been worked for that ten grand and get you out

845
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:40,279
Speaker 1: here and wash cause such grand. Hey, man, you know

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00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:42,719
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna tell you. Know what your your brother?

847
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Speaker 1: One thing ain't about you? He was right about you though,

848
00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:47,680
Speaker 1: he was right about you. You know what I'm saying.

849
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:49,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you what thing else he told me

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00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:52,200
Speaker 1: about Joe? What? What the hell did he tell you

851
00:53:52,200 --> 00:53:54,759
Speaker 1: about me? He told me to tell you who I

852
00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:57,880
Speaker 1: really was. This is nephew Tom and from the Steve

853
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854
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Speaker 1: me to plant phone call you. Who the is this?

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00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:11,719
Speaker 1: This is? This is this is nephew jommy man for

856
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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey born to show your sister the Vita

857
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858
00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:22,840
Speaker 1: I hadn't lit up a cigarette in the house. I

859
00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:26,439
Speaker 1: couldn't smoke in the house. Ta, I'm gonna get hut

860
00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:33,640
Speaker 1: you all right? Man? I am You had me on ten.

861
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:39,399
Speaker 1: I'm like ten brands. I'm gonna come to my wife. Man,

862
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:42,319
Speaker 1: it's all good, man. I gotta ask for what is bad?

863
00:54:42,640 --> 00:54:46,239
Speaker 1: And I mean the sayest radio show in the lane. Man,

864
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:48,680
Speaker 1: you know what it is is Steve Harvey Morning Show.

865
00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:50,279
Speaker 1: You're gonna make me go see my brother. Now it

866
00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:52,920
Speaker 1: is holidays. I'm gonna have to go see that man

867
00:54:53,000 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 1: in jail. Many dog right there, y'all's everybody knows somebody.

868
00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:05,080
Speaker 1: Everybody knows somebody getting out now, you know that? Talking

869
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:09,799
Speaker 1: about my cousin Greensboro, North Carolina. The fool is coming

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Speaker 1: to town. That is this coming side ofday night at

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00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:15,080
Speaker 1: the Carolina Theater. Got a few tickets left. Tickets are

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00:55:15,080 --> 00:55:18,360
Speaker 1: on sale right now and it will be those famous

873
00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:20,759
Speaker 1: two words. It's on this way too, sold out, So

874
00:55:20,800 --> 00:55:24,919
Speaker 1: I will see you very soon. Greensboro, North Carolina, Carolina Theater.

875
00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:27,040
Speaker 1: I think it's on sale right now. The fool is

876
00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:30,359
Speaker 1: coming to town. All right, nephews, Thank you, Thank you.

877
00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:33,200
Speaker 1: Coming up next Strawberry Letters, subject should I Love them

878
00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:35,440
Speaker 1: or leave him? We'll get into it right after this.

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00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 1: You're listening to show. All right, guys, Time now for

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00:55:56,160 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

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Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now. Bugel appinhold

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00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:16,920
Speaker 1: on tight, we got it, Paul you here. It is

886
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:21,040
Speaker 1: the Strawberry letter, Thank you nephew. Subject should I love

887
00:56:21,120 --> 00:56:24,399
Speaker 1: him or leave him? Dear Stephen Shirley. I met an

888
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:27,440
Speaker 1: older guy and I was attracted to him, but played

889
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:30,279
Speaker 1: hard to get. He begged me for a first date,

890
00:56:30,360 --> 00:56:33,279
Speaker 1: and I eventually agreed to go out with him. He

891
00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:35,120
Speaker 1: asked me to pick him up, and I didn't think

892
00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:37,080
Speaker 1: much about it since his house was on the way

893
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:40,239
Speaker 1: to the restaurant. When I got to the house, he

894
00:56:40,320 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 1: came out, and so did a much older lady. He

895
00:56:43,719 --> 00:56:46,600
Speaker 1: got in my car and told me that was his mother.

896
00:56:46,840 --> 00:56:48,680
Speaker 1: That was his mom, and that he lived with her.

897
00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:51,640
Speaker 1: At this point I had an opportunity to tell him

898
00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:54,000
Speaker 1: that I was not interested, but I went out to

899
00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:56,960
Speaker 1: dinner with him anyway. At dinner, he told me that

900
00:56:56,960 --> 00:57:00,160
Speaker 1: he's a convicted felon, but that was years ago and

901
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:02,600
Speaker 1: he's got a great job and a new life now.

902
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:06,080
Speaker 1: I kept seeing this man and eventually went to his home,

903
00:57:06,600 --> 00:57:11,239
Speaker 1: well his mom's house, and saw how filthy his room was.

904
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:14,640
Speaker 1: And I also noticed that his mom's yard was unkept

905
00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:18,240
Speaker 1: and there was trash lying around the driveway and porch there.

906
00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:22,040
Speaker 1: These were red flags, and I told him he should

907
00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:24,960
Speaker 1: do better at helping his mom out around the house.

908
00:57:25,400 --> 00:57:27,880
Speaker 1: Then I invited him to my house to meet my

909
00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:31,240
Speaker 1: two children. I know he talks really hood and street,

910
00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:33,280
Speaker 1: but I thought he would do better when he met

911
00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:37,080
Speaker 1: my children, he did not, and my kids asked him

912
00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:41,480
Speaker 1: why he was talking like a rapper. He kept commenting

913
00:57:41,520 --> 00:57:44,400
Speaker 1: on how nice I kept my house, and after the visit,

914
00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:48,960
Speaker 1: his conversations turned to us making a commitment. He suggested

915
00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:51,480
Speaker 1: moving in with me so we could be closer and

916
00:57:51,600 --> 00:57:54,320
Speaker 1: he could help me out around the house. I was

917
00:57:54,360 --> 00:57:57,960
Speaker 1: excited at first because I really liked this man, but

918
00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:00,760
Speaker 1: then I thought I was being nice eve and he

919
00:58:00,800 --> 00:58:04,560
Speaker 1: could just be using me although he has some character flaws.

920
00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:07,360
Speaker 1: Could I work on this fix er upper and be happy?

921
00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:10,520
Speaker 1: Or should I leave this man at his mama's house?

922
00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:16,040
Speaker 1: Please advise, run, run, run as far away from this

923
00:58:16,080 --> 00:58:18,720
Speaker 1: man as you possibly can. I mean, you got to

924
00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 1: leave this man alone, please. I mean, when you see

925
00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:26,720
Speaker 1: red flags, don't ignore them. That's what red flags are for. Okay,

926
00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 1: let's go through him. He lives with his mom, all right.

927
00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:36,479
Speaker 1: The yard is nasty, his room is nasty. He has

928
00:58:36,560 --> 00:58:38,920
Speaker 1: no car. He doesn't know how to be a good

929
00:58:39,040 --> 00:58:41,760
Speaker 1: role model in front of your children. And if he's

930
00:58:41,800 --> 00:58:44,360
Speaker 1: got such a nice job, in a great job and

931
00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 1: all this stuff like you see in the letter, why

932
00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:49,520
Speaker 1: doesn't he save his money and get an apartment. There

933
00:58:49,600 --> 00:58:53,760
Speaker 1: was no discussion about that in this letter. And you

934
00:58:53,800 --> 00:58:56,400
Speaker 1: know it wasn't until after he saw your place, after

935
00:58:56,440 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 1: he came over there, that he started, you know, like

936
00:58:59,320 --> 00:59:02,520
Speaker 1: kind of pressure you to move in and to be committed.

937
00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:05,960
Speaker 1: He said he would help you around the house. Oh really,

938
00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:08,880
Speaker 1: you would help her, but you're not you. He'll help you,

939
00:59:08,920 --> 00:59:10,800
Speaker 1: but he's not going to help his own mom around

940
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:12,919
Speaker 1: the house. He could at least clean up the yard,

941
00:59:13,120 --> 00:59:17,000
Speaker 1: and what about his room. Come on, I don't get this.

942
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:21,120
Speaker 1: I say, don't let him in your house in this

943
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:23,160
Speaker 1: kind of a way. Don't let him move in. Please,

944
00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:25,640
Speaker 1: this is not how you want to live. You have

945
00:59:25,760 --> 00:59:28,320
Speaker 1: two kids to think about. I think if he was

946
00:59:28,720 --> 00:59:31,480
Speaker 1: and you didn't mention you know, what he was incarcerated

947
00:59:31,520 --> 00:59:33,800
Speaker 1: for or anything like that. You just said he's out.

948
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:35,920
Speaker 1: That was years ago, and he has a great job

949
00:59:36,000 --> 00:59:38,919
Speaker 1: in a new life now. But it just doesn't look

950
00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:41,560
Speaker 1: like it or seem like it. You know, yeah, he

951
00:59:41,600 --> 00:59:44,040
Speaker 1: could be using you, but I say no, it's too

952
00:59:44,080 --> 00:59:46,440
Speaker 1: soon to move in. Don't let him do it. Steve,

953
00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:56,400
Speaker 1: I'm I'm confused. I really am huh about Why? Why

954
00:59:56,520 --> 01:00:00,520
Speaker 1: is she writings? Yeah, what is the purpose of this letter?

955
01:00:01,640 --> 01:00:03,880
Speaker 1: I don't even know why? Why are we? Why are

956
01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:10,040
Speaker 1: we talking to her about? Who? Who are we talking about? That?

957
01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:18,120
Speaker 1: Everything in this letter screams what? Yeah, I mean, the

958
01:00:18,240 --> 01:00:24,960
Speaker 1: whole damn letter. Let's start. I met an older guy

959
01:00:27,080 --> 01:00:31,880
Speaker 1: right down and use attracted to him, but you played

960
01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:36,480
Speaker 1: hard to get Okay, you know, older guy. He begged

961
01:00:36,520 --> 01:00:38,840
Speaker 1: me for a first date. I agree with brother. He

962
01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:42,080
Speaker 1: asked me to pick him up. Right now, let's stop,

963
01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:47,080
Speaker 1: let's let's go. Let's listen, just listen. You met an

964
01:00:47,160 --> 01:00:51,400
Speaker 1: older guy. He asked me to pick him up. I

965
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:54,560
Speaker 1: ain't think nothing about it since his house was on

966
01:00:54,600 --> 01:00:56,720
Speaker 1: the way to the restaurant. When I got to the house,

967
01:00:57,320 --> 01:01:02,720
Speaker 1: he came out, and so did a much older lady.

968
01:01:03,320 --> 01:01:06,400
Speaker 1: Let's circle this. Let's just go for what we got

969
01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:09,120
Speaker 1: so far. I met a older guy. He asked you

970
01:01:09,160 --> 01:01:10,959
Speaker 1: to pick him up. He come out of the house

971
01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:14,360
Speaker 1: with an old ass lady. He got in my car

972
01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:20,360
Speaker 1: and told me this was his mom and he lived

973
01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:23,920
Speaker 1: with her. Let's circle that. At this point I had

974
01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:26,120
Speaker 1: the opportunity to tell him I was not interesting. But

975
01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:33,560
Speaker 1: I went out to dinner with him anyway for what? Why?

976
01:01:34,440 --> 01:01:38,480
Speaker 1: Let me circle that. I went out to dinner with

977
01:01:38,560 --> 01:01:43,760
Speaker 1: him anyway. Then at dinner he told me he's a

978
01:01:43,920 --> 01:01:50,800
Speaker 1: convicted feeling. Let's circle that twice. But that was years ago,

979
01:01:50,840 --> 01:01:53,200
Speaker 1: and he got a good job and got a new life.

980
01:01:53,320 --> 01:01:57,920
Speaker 1: Now I kept seeing this man and eventually went to

981
01:01:58,120 --> 01:02:01,400
Speaker 1: his house, well, his mom's house. Okay, Let's circle that,

982
01:02:01,840 --> 01:02:04,080
Speaker 1: because now about were you? Why are you still talking

983
01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:06,800
Speaker 1: to his ass after this? I don't know, But you

984
01:02:06,840 --> 01:02:10,000
Speaker 1: went back to his mama's house. And then this older

985
01:02:10,120 --> 01:02:14,000
Speaker 1: man you met. You saw how filthy his room was.

986
01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:19,560
Speaker 1: You know, the last time I had a room, I

987
01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:26,320
Speaker 1: was seventeen. Yeah, and last time I took somebody to

988
01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:33,040
Speaker 1: my room other than a dormitory in college. Yeah, all right,

989
01:02:33,040 --> 01:02:36,680
Speaker 1: how filthy his room was. Let's stop down or to

990
01:02:36,800 --> 01:02:41,400
Speaker 1: be right? At twenty three after the hour, a subject

991
01:02:41,400 --> 01:02:44,360
Speaker 1: of today's Strawberry Letters. Should I love him or leave him?

992
01:02:44,640 --> 01:03:05,400
Speaker 1: We'll be back right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve,

993
01:03:05,520 --> 01:03:10,760
Speaker 1: Come on, let's recap. Today's my recap can just be

994
01:03:10,960 --> 01:03:15,760
Speaker 1: a continuation because as I continue, I'll explain it. I'm

995
01:03:15,760 --> 01:03:18,240
Speaker 1: gonna show you everything that's wrong with this letter. This

996
01:03:18,440 --> 01:03:21,960
Speaker 1: letter is should I love him or leave him? Stephen Shirley.

997
01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:26,880
Speaker 1: I met an older guy. I circled that I was

998
01:03:26,920 --> 01:03:29,480
Speaker 1: attracting him, but I played hard to get. He begged

999
01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:31,520
Speaker 1: me for a first date. I eventually agreed to go

1000
01:03:31,560 --> 01:03:34,320
Speaker 1: out with him. He asked me to pick him up.

1001
01:03:34,480 --> 01:03:41,760
Speaker 1: I circled that everything I circle is screaming what I

1002
01:03:41,760 --> 01:03:43,600
Speaker 1: ain't think much about it since his house was on

1003
01:03:43,640 --> 01:03:45,160
Speaker 1: the way to the restaurant. When I got to the

1004
01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:48,959
Speaker 1: house and he came out, and so did a much

1005
01:03:49,080 --> 01:03:53,880
Speaker 1: older lady. I circled that, who is this old ass lady?

1006
01:03:55,800 --> 01:03:58,200
Speaker 1: He got in my car and told me that this

1007
01:03:58,360 --> 01:04:02,800
Speaker 1: was his mom and he lived with her. I circled that,

1008
01:04:03,400 --> 01:04:07,080
Speaker 1: let's go back, older guy, you had to pick him up,

1009
01:04:07,400 --> 01:04:10,760
Speaker 1: he's this old lady. Stay there, and you found out

1010
01:04:10,800 --> 01:04:13,919
Speaker 1: his mama. At this point I had an opportunity to

1011
01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:16,680
Speaker 1: tell him I was not interested, but I went out

1012
01:04:16,720 --> 01:04:20,360
Speaker 1: to dinner with him anyway. I circled that the question

1013
01:04:20,400 --> 01:04:23,600
Speaker 1: I'm begging everybody to ask yourself. Is why is you

1014
01:04:23,680 --> 01:04:26,160
Speaker 1: at dinner with this old ass man to stay at

1015
01:04:26,200 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 1: the house with his mama that you had to pick up?

1016
01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:32,320
Speaker 1: That's all I'm asked At dinner. He told me he

1017
01:04:32,400 --> 01:04:36,400
Speaker 1: was a convicted fellon. This whole letter is going to hell.

1018
01:04:38,040 --> 01:04:44,400
Speaker 1: But I kept seeing the man why. Eventually I went

1019
01:04:44,440 --> 01:04:47,400
Speaker 1: to his house where his mom's house. So I circled

1020
01:04:47,440 --> 01:04:49,920
Speaker 1: that because it took you two visits to get it

1021
01:04:49,960 --> 01:04:52,800
Speaker 1: the first time you pulled up. Next time you went

1022
01:04:52,840 --> 01:04:54,520
Speaker 1: to the damn house and found out it was a

1023
01:04:54,560 --> 01:04:57,160
Speaker 1: mama's house. Stretch yelled on in blue plates, leaning up

1024
01:04:57,160 --> 01:04:59,960
Speaker 1: against the wall on the fireplace, and had that big

1025
01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:03,479
Speaker 1: woodn't and spoon and fox set hanging on the damn wall,

1026
01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:07,640
Speaker 1: that picture of white Jesus, mar Luther King and John F. Kenned.

1027
01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:12,440
Speaker 1: And I noticed that his mom's yard was unkept, and

1028
01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:17,000
Speaker 1: it was trash laying around. I circled that he don't

1029
01:05:17,040 --> 01:05:20,360
Speaker 1: give a damn by his mama. Trash laying around the

1030
01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:25,439
Speaker 1: driveway and the porch that's where he eats. These were

1031
01:05:25,520 --> 01:05:28,120
Speaker 1: all red flags, and I told him he should do

1032
01:05:28,200 --> 01:05:31,400
Speaker 1: better helping out his mom around. Now you know what

1033
01:05:31,600 --> 01:05:33,720
Speaker 1: judge Lyn told her told me one time on the

1034
01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:40,360
Speaker 1: show what she said, women should stop collecting red flags. Ye,

1035
01:05:43,080 --> 01:05:47,160
Speaker 1: women should stop collecting red flags time. I'm gonna let

1036
01:05:47,200 --> 01:05:52,840
Speaker 1: you use that already for love this year, women should

1037
01:05:52,920 --> 01:05:57,040
Speaker 1: stop collecting red flags. I told him he should do

1038
01:05:57,080 --> 01:06:00,040
Speaker 1: better helping his mom out around the house. Then I

1039
01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:02,080
Speaker 1: to him to my house to meet my two children.

1040
01:06:02,280 --> 01:06:07,080
Speaker 1: I circled this, why is he meeting your damn kids?

1041
01:06:07,800 --> 01:06:13,720
Speaker 1: Exactly what redeeming quality has he exhibited where you think

1042
01:06:13,720 --> 01:06:17,840
Speaker 1: it's time for him to meet your damn kids? Now

1043
01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:23,240
Speaker 1: he talks real hood in street. I circled that he

1044
01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:25,840
Speaker 1: stay at home with his mama. Is mama old? He

1045
01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:28,400
Speaker 1: had to pick him up. He lived with his mama.

1046
01:06:28,520 --> 01:06:30,920
Speaker 1: You went out to dinner anyway, he a convicted felling.

1047
01:06:31,320 --> 01:06:34,000
Speaker 1: You went to his mama's house. His room is filtered.

1048
01:06:34,240 --> 01:06:37,560
Speaker 1: It's translating around the driveway in the porch. I invited

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Speaker 1: him to your house to meet the two kids, and

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01:06:39,680 --> 01:06:42,680
Speaker 1: he talked real hood in street. This whole letter is

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01:06:42,720 --> 01:06:44,760
Speaker 1: just going to hell. But I thought he would do

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01:06:44,800 --> 01:06:47,680
Speaker 1: better when he met my children. He did not, And

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01:06:48,200 --> 01:06:53,640
Speaker 1: your kids asked him why was he talking like a rapper?

1054
01:06:53,840 --> 01:06:57,400
Speaker 1: You know why? Because your kids know his whole ass

1055
01:06:57,640 --> 01:07:00,760
Speaker 1: should be talking better than one of the damn piers.

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01:07:02,480 --> 01:07:07,320
Speaker 1: Your kids know that, but you don't. So I circled that.

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01:07:08,760 --> 01:07:11,800
Speaker 1: He kept commenting on how nice I kept my house.

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01:07:11,840 --> 01:07:17,120
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, hell yeah, you just described as mama's house.

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01:07:18,320 --> 01:07:22,720
Speaker 1: And after the visit, his conversation has turned to us

1060
01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:28,760
Speaker 1: making a commitment, a commitment to what he suggested, moving

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01:07:28,840 --> 01:07:31,480
Speaker 1: in with me so he could be closer and he

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01:07:31,480 --> 01:07:33,960
Speaker 1: could help out round the house. He don't help out

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01:07:34,040 --> 01:07:37,800
Speaker 1: round the house. He don't help out round the house.

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01:07:38,000 --> 01:07:40,520
Speaker 1: He don't help out in his filth ass room. He

1065
01:07:40,600 --> 01:07:42,880
Speaker 1: don't help out with nothing on the poach, He don't

1066
01:07:42,960 --> 01:07:45,440
Speaker 1: help out with nothing with the driveway. Where do he

1067
01:07:45,560 --> 01:07:50,760
Speaker 1: clean up at? So he fitn't help you. Well, I

1068
01:07:50,880 --> 01:07:54,880
Speaker 1: was excited at first because I really liked this man.

1069
01:07:55,200 --> 01:07:57,840
Speaker 1: What is it you like? You ain't saying nothing in

1070
01:07:57,840 --> 01:08:01,640
Speaker 1: the letter you like ye? Your whole letter is you

1071
01:08:01,800 --> 01:08:04,720
Speaker 1: just how disappointed you on this man? Then you sound

1072
01:08:04,840 --> 01:08:07,240
Speaker 1: really like him? You like what you must not. You

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01:08:07,600 --> 01:08:11,080
Speaker 1: ain't never handle man before, you never had a good

1074
01:08:11,080 --> 01:08:14,960
Speaker 1: man before. Because if this is what you like, I

1075
01:08:15,160 --> 01:08:16,760
Speaker 1: show what I hate to see, the one you got

1076
01:08:16,840 --> 01:08:22,080
Speaker 1: rid of, the one you had them two kids by lady,

1077
01:08:22,200 --> 01:08:24,559
Speaker 1: you need to up your up your game. I really

1078
01:08:24,560 --> 01:08:26,800
Speaker 1: like this man, but then I have thought I was

1079
01:08:26,880 --> 01:08:32,320
Speaker 1: being you naive and he could be using me. Although

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01:08:32,360 --> 01:08:40,720
Speaker 1: he had some character flaw character flaw. He old his hell.

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01:08:40,920 --> 01:08:43,439
Speaker 1: That ain't a character flaw. He ain't got a car.

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01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:46,639
Speaker 1: That ain't a character flaw. He stayed with Hi Mama.

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01:08:46,760 --> 01:08:50,360
Speaker 1: That ain't a character flaw. He's a convicted felon. That

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01:08:50,520 --> 01:08:53,880
Speaker 1: ain't a character flaw. His room is filtered. That ain't

1085
01:08:53,880 --> 01:08:56,719
Speaker 1: a character flaw. It's chanced on the dryway in the porch.

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01:08:57,040 --> 01:08:59,840
Speaker 1: That ain't a character flaw. He wants to move in

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01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:02,400
Speaker 1: with you so he can help out round house here.

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01:09:02,479 --> 01:09:09,920
Speaker 1: Damn Run all right, Steve Run. Post your comments on

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01:09:10,040 --> 01:09:12,839
Speaker 1: today Strawberry Letter on the Instagram at Steve Harvey fm

1090
01:09:12,920 --> 01:09:15,760
Speaker 1: dot com, and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on

1091
01:09:15,840 --> 01:09:18,400
Speaker 1: demand coming up at forty six after the hour, Our

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01:09:18,479 --> 01:09:22,280
Speaker 1: girl from the Talk Cheryl Underwood. Right after this, you're

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01:09:22,320 --> 01:09:42,000
Speaker 1: listening to morning show coming up at the top of

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01:09:42,040 --> 01:09:45,400
Speaker 1: the hour. It's Carlos Reality Update. But right now please

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01:09:45,479 --> 01:09:49,080
Speaker 1: introduce that girl. Gentlemen, put your hair together. Every thank

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01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:55,000
Speaker 1: you clap for the one and on that shell thr

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01:09:55,600 --> 01:10:08,719
Speaker 1: Hey Junior, Hey Scharley Carlos and Hey Junior, Hey Junior,

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01:10:09,320 --> 01:10:12,320
Speaker 1: Hey Junior. Where are you in the country because I'm

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01:10:12,360 --> 01:10:16,000
Speaker 1: on my way the Hoover Well really Burmingham to do

1100
01:10:16,160 --> 01:10:18,479
Speaker 1: the stardom. So if you are free and you would

1101
01:10:18,479 --> 01:10:21,160
Speaker 1: like to come hang out with me for two days,

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01:10:21,520 --> 01:10:23,240
Speaker 1: you know, I'll be there on Friday and Saturday. I

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01:10:23,320 --> 01:10:26,479
Speaker 1: got two shows on Friday, two shows on Saturday. Yeah,

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01:10:26,520 --> 01:10:30,920
Speaker 1: where are you? Where are you gonna be? Okay? Do

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01:10:30,920 --> 01:10:33,160
Speaker 1: you want to go to Burmingham? Okay, I'll come down

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01:10:34,080 --> 01:10:36,320
Speaker 1: for really you we hang out together. Yeah, we hang out.

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01:10:37,000 --> 01:10:38,720
Speaker 1: The hotels are sold out, so you're gonna have to

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01:10:38,720 --> 01:10:45,639
Speaker 1: sleep in the same room as me. Get ready. Yes,

1109
01:10:45,840 --> 01:10:48,320
Speaker 1: I'll be shaving and plucking hairs out of my chin.

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01:10:48,760 --> 01:10:55,040
Speaker 1: So what what men need to know that after the change? Hey,

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01:10:55,080 --> 01:10:57,040
Speaker 1: I got a question for y'all. I got a question

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01:10:57,080 --> 01:11:02,080
Speaker 1: for y'all. You know Whitney Houston. Uh what Pat Houston?

1113
01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:04,639
Speaker 1: They about to do this hologram tour. But I feel

1114
01:11:04,680 --> 01:11:09,040
Speaker 1: this over only overseas. Yeah, yeah, y'all feel about that.

1115
01:11:09,160 --> 01:11:12,720
Speaker 1: I y'all feel about feeling And you know I love

1116
01:11:12,840 --> 01:11:17,800
Speaker 1: me from Whitney Houston. Love to anybody asking me, huh yeah,

1117
01:11:17,960 --> 01:11:21,040
Speaker 1: well I remember when Whitney Houston was on MERV Griffin.

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01:11:21,439 --> 01:11:24,320
Speaker 1: She had a short natural she was on MERV Griffin.

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01:11:24,360 --> 01:11:26,439
Speaker 1: She loved that that But Steve, what you think about it?

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01:11:26,479 --> 01:11:29,600
Speaker 1: What you think about the hologram? Black people don't like ghosts?

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01:11:30,640 --> 01:11:35,559
Speaker 1: That is that that ray pocket Junr. I ain't fraid

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01:11:35,600 --> 01:11:38,120
Speaker 1: of no ghosts. That it is, Steve. They're gonna be

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01:11:38,200 --> 01:11:44,640
Speaker 1: hard candy show to Detroit. I'm just checking, you know.

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01:11:44,680 --> 01:11:47,840
Speaker 1: I wish it well. I wish you to be successful,

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01:11:48,280 --> 01:11:52,520
Speaker 1: but this will probably do real good overseas. Yea, overseas,

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01:11:54,400 --> 01:11:59,400
Speaker 1: Fox happen. They don't body. Black people don't like it

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01:11:59,520 --> 01:12:06,799
Speaker 1: gold m m no, no not. And you can't do everybody, Steve,

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01:12:07,080 --> 01:12:10,160
Speaker 1: you can't don't do no Luther Andel's hologram. Nobody wants

1129
01:12:10,160 --> 01:12:13,479
Speaker 1: to listen to that. No, that's hurd our art. That

1130
01:12:13,520 --> 01:12:17,000
Speaker 1: makes us cry. But then they're gonna have them talking

1131
01:12:17,040 --> 01:12:22,479
Speaker 1: to the orders. How y'all doing hell? No behind me, Satan,

1132
01:12:22,880 --> 01:12:26,439
Speaker 1: I'm not talking no evil spirit. No, that's my doing it.

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01:12:27,040 --> 01:12:29,880
Speaker 1: I wish you well. I hope we do good. But

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01:12:30,360 --> 01:12:34,080
Speaker 1: how much is the tickets? Well, they're gonna be free

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01:12:34,120 --> 01:12:40,160
Speaker 1: over here. Then you don't shut up. If it ain't

1136
01:12:40,160 --> 01:12:45,599
Speaker 1: a real person, ticket need to be free by doing you.

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01:12:45,800 --> 01:12:49,600
Speaker 1: We gotta get out of you. Start by thank you.

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01:12:49,760 --> 01:12:52,040
Speaker 1: Cheryl coming up at the top of the hour, it's

1139
01:12:52,120 --> 01:13:14,879
Speaker 1: Carlin Reality. You're listening. All right, Tommy, it's that time.

1140
01:13:15,439 --> 01:13:17,400
Speaker 1: Let's go, Low's go, Let's get it. Let's get it.

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01:13:17,439 --> 01:13:23,160
Speaker 1: She is here, Calor Ferrel with what reality update. Oh,

1142
01:13:26,400 --> 01:13:30,360
Speaker 1: let's talk about the Real Housewives of Potomac the Season

1143
01:13:30,479 --> 01:13:33,880
Speaker 1: four the Reunion show, Part one. All right, my girl,

1144
01:13:34,040 --> 01:13:44,080
Speaker 1: Jazelle Bryant, Steve Gazelle Bryant. She announced that, yes, that

1145
01:13:44,280 --> 01:13:50,479
Speaker 1: she and her ex husband, Pastor Jamal Bryant are dating again.

1146
01:13:51,400 --> 01:13:58,759
Speaker 1: All right now, Yes, isn't that good? Yes, Pastor Jamal

1147
01:13:58,840 --> 01:14:02,080
Speaker 1: and Gizelle they were married, she said, I guess about

1148
01:14:02,120 --> 01:14:05,520
Speaker 1: seven years and they got a divorce. They are co parenting.

1149
01:14:05,560 --> 01:14:09,160
Speaker 1: They have three children, beautiful together, three daughters. Yes, those

1150
01:14:09,200 --> 01:14:13,280
Speaker 1: girls are beautiful. And Giselle said that the two have

1151
01:14:13,360 --> 01:14:16,599
Speaker 1: been seeing each other since last year and that Pastor

1152
01:14:16,720 --> 01:14:21,839
Speaker 1: Jamal was heavily pursuing her. And she went on to say,

1153
01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:25,960
Speaker 1: there's nobody who knows me like that man. And I said,

1154
01:14:26,000 --> 01:14:30,240
Speaker 1: all right, girl. She also forgives him for cheating on her.

1155
01:14:31,120 --> 01:14:36,160
Speaker 1: She says that yes, she wanted to. Uh, you know,

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01:14:36,240 --> 01:14:38,920
Speaker 1: they're giving their love a second chance. That's what it seems.

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01:14:38,960 --> 01:14:43,240
Speaker 1: You know what. You know, they've had time away from

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01:14:43,240 --> 01:14:45,840
Speaker 1: each other. That's not bad. You know, people go, I

1159
01:14:46,120 --> 01:14:51,400
Speaker 1: wants to cheat, always are cheated. That's not true. People change, man, Yeah,

1160
01:14:51,479 --> 01:14:56,120
Speaker 1: people change all the time, and for the better. That's outstanding. Yeah.

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01:14:56,160 --> 01:14:59,000
Speaker 1: Gizelle said, you know, people, you know you you're not

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01:14:59,200 --> 01:15:01,800
Speaker 1: You aren't your mistakes. That's what she said. You know,

1163
01:15:01,880 --> 01:15:05,200
Speaker 1: you are not your mistakes. And she has forgiven him,

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01:15:05,400 --> 01:15:08,080
Speaker 1: and so you know they have three children together and

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01:15:08,080 --> 01:15:11,759
Speaker 1: they're dating again, and you know, one of the castmates, Monique,

1166
01:15:11,760 --> 01:15:14,320
Speaker 1: asked her, oh, are you ready to be a first lady,

1167
01:15:14,439 --> 01:15:17,160
Speaker 1: And she's like, whatever the Lord has for me, I

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01:15:17,240 --> 01:15:20,360
Speaker 1: am ready. So good for them, good for Zelle and

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01:15:20,800 --> 01:15:31,479
Speaker 1: Jamal has Eddie Long's old church. I've heard, man, nothing

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01:15:31,560 --> 01:15:35,360
Speaker 1: but really really good things about it. Yeah. Yeah, I

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01:15:35,439 --> 01:15:38,800
Speaker 1: read an article Steve in the Atlanta Journal Constitution. The

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01:15:38,920 --> 01:15:46,400
Speaker 1: church is doing building assistant living, affordable assistant living, yeah,

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01:15:46,439 --> 01:15:50,679
Speaker 1: for senior citizens, medical facility. So they are doing big

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01:15:50,680 --> 01:15:55,200
Speaker 1: things for the community in Atlanta. So congratulations. And they're

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01:15:55,200 --> 01:15:58,519
Speaker 1: just doing God's work down there. People who are close

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01:15:58,560 --> 01:16:01,720
Speaker 1: to me who go to the church. Uh, and I

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01:16:01,800 --> 01:16:04,040
Speaker 1: just think, man, they're doing it. He's doing He's doing

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01:16:04,040 --> 01:16:06,080
Speaker 1: the heck of a job man down there. He really

1179
01:16:06,120 --> 01:16:11,200
Speaker 1: really is right. Uh yeah, Kanye, he was just there. Yeah.

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01:16:11,280 --> 01:16:13,479
Speaker 1: We talked about that earlier this week on the show

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01:16:13,520 --> 01:16:16,280
Speaker 1: when Kanye was there as well. All right, back to

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01:16:16,320 --> 01:16:20,280
Speaker 1: the reunion show. Did you see Shirley, Candice and Ashley

1183
01:16:20,760 --> 01:16:25,320
Speaker 1: they were doing the most. They got him, Steve saying

1184
01:16:25,400 --> 01:16:29,360
Speaker 1: for me again, girl, they got him, yes, Chow, they

1185
01:16:29,400 --> 01:16:34,880
Speaker 1: got on my nerves. Anyway, Candice mother, Candice's mother, Miss Dorothy,

1186
01:16:35,000 --> 01:16:37,360
Speaker 1: was there and talked about their relationship. I just don't

1187
01:16:37,400 --> 01:16:40,280
Speaker 1: understand what's going on with them, mother and daughter. Anyway,

1188
01:16:40,360 --> 01:16:43,680
Speaker 1: Candice bart receipts, brought receipts there, I should say, to

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01:16:43,760 --> 01:16:47,519
Speaker 1: prove that this town home that her and her husband

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01:16:47,560 --> 01:16:50,880
Speaker 1: lived in is actually hers with her mom. Just you know,

1191
01:16:50,960 --> 01:16:54,040
Speaker 1: a whole bunch of drama with that. And there's an

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01:16:54,040 --> 01:16:57,360
Speaker 1: also there's a rumor that Ashley and her husband Michael,

1193
01:16:57,840 --> 01:17:00,160
Speaker 1: that they are not coming back to the show. I

1194
01:17:00,200 --> 01:17:02,599
Speaker 1: don't know if that's true. I don't believe that quite.

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01:17:02,720 --> 01:17:05,760
Speaker 1: Thank you, Junior. That's what I need my know, Yeah,

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01:17:05,800 --> 01:17:08,160
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's true. And finally let me

1197
01:17:08,200 --> 01:17:11,120
Speaker 1: move on. Yeah, before we run out of time, y'all,

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01:17:11,240 --> 01:17:15,360
Speaker 1: we have to say congratulations. This is a big story

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Speaker 1: from my home station NIX ninety two point three in Detroit.

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Speaker 1: We have to say congratulations to the Detroit Youth Choir.

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01:17:24,120 --> 01:17:27,920
Speaker 1: They were a finalist last night on America's Gut tell

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01:17:28,000 --> 01:17:36,200
Speaker 1: Us No Detroit, we are so proud of you. They

1203
01:17:36,280 --> 01:17:42,720
Speaker 1: didn't win. Cody Lee the Blind Autistics SI guys, he

1204
01:17:42,920 --> 01:17:45,760
Speaker 1: won the million dollars. But Detroit Youth Choir they were

1205
01:17:45,880 --> 01:17:51,160
Speaker 1: right there and they represent Yeah. Yep, so that's reality. Update.

1206
01:17:51,560 --> 01:17:53,880
Speaker 1: Hit me up at lip Spark, Carla, and we'll be

1207
01:17:53,960 --> 01:18:14,680
Speaker 1: back at twenty after you're listening to show Well. The

1208
01:18:14,760 --> 01:18:19,160
Speaker 1: chicken sandwich wars are on. First Popeyes versus Chicken Bilelet

1209
01:18:19,960 --> 01:18:24,840
Speaker 1: Now now KFC is rolling out a new version of

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01:18:25,040 --> 01:18:29,400
Speaker 1: their chicken sandwich which features a piece of fried chicken.

1211
01:18:29,840 --> 01:18:37,520
Speaker 1: Check this out. Flapped between two glazed donuts. Oh yeah, delicious,

1212
01:18:37,520 --> 01:18:44,840
Speaker 1: sugar and grease together. What's not the love about that?

1213
01:18:45,240 --> 01:18:54,000
Speaker 1: Right between no, no joke, fried chicken and doughnuts. Sandwiches

1214
01:18:54,040 --> 01:18:58,360
Speaker 1: are currently being tested at locations in Norfolk and Richmond, Virginia,

1215
01:18:58,800 --> 01:19:01,559
Speaker 1: as well as in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. What do you think,

1216
01:19:01,640 --> 01:19:04,759
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, let me ask you something. Is it bread

1217
01:19:04,960 --> 01:19:07,720
Speaker 1: or they're using the two doughnuts as the bread? Yeah?

1218
01:19:07,760 --> 01:19:12,400
Speaker 1: The two donuts tell the bread. Uh? Well, I'll tell

1219
01:19:12,439 --> 01:19:16,599
Speaker 1: you right now. It might taste good because I've had glaze,

1220
01:19:16,640 --> 01:19:19,920
Speaker 1: don't know which, some fried chicken. But if you eat

1221
01:19:19,960 --> 01:19:25,040
Speaker 1: that whole sandwich, what's gonna happen? I strongly suggest that

1222
01:19:25,160 --> 01:19:28,800
Speaker 1: you eat it under the overhang at the emergency room,

1223
01:19:30,240 --> 01:19:33,840
Speaker 1: like a lot of bites up there, and eat your

1224
01:19:33,920 --> 01:19:38,040
Speaker 1: sandwich on the curb in front of the emergency did right,

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01:19:38,520 --> 01:19:42,400
Speaker 1: that's enough cholesterol to bush your heart. Yeah, that's a

1226
01:19:42,439 --> 01:19:47,720
Speaker 1: lot right there. And the sugar. If you don't have diabetes,

1227
01:19:47,760 --> 01:19:51,680
Speaker 1: you wheel all right? All right, We'll have more of

1228
01:19:51,680 --> 01:19:53,960
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up and some trending

1229
01:19:54,000 --> 01:19:56,280
Speaker 1: news at thirty three after the hour. Right after this.

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01:19:56,640 --> 01:20:16,479
Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right, So, Steve, you know,

1231
01:20:16,920 --> 01:20:19,200
Speaker 1: earlier this week we were talking about parenting and our

1232
01:20:19,280 --> 01:20:21,479
Speaker 1: kids and everything, and we didn't get around to the nephew.

1233
01:20:21,560 --> 01:20:24,200
Speaker 1: He's been wanting to ask you this question about parenting

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01:20:24,320 --> 01:20:29,160
Speaker 1: all week. Nephew, you have the floor, all right. So

1235
01:20:29,760 --> 01:20:34,000
Speaker 1: my little girl, Sitney, she turned fifteen. We throw a big,

1236
01:20:34,040 --> 01:20:36,640
Speaker 1: you know, big dinner, and she got a lot of

1237
01:20:36,720 --> 01:20:39,479
Speaker 1: kids there. I mean a lot of teenagers from Jack

1238
01:20:39,560 --> 01:20:42,559
Speaker 1: and jail. And you know it's fine. We got about

1239
01:20:42,920 --> 01:20:45,679
Speaker 1: twenty thirty kids at the table and then at our table.

1240
01:20:45,920 --> 01:20:48,639
Speaker 1: It's more than adults. But I'm starting to see these

1241
01:20:48,640 --> 01:20:52,160
Speaker 1: little boys hugging my daughter and taking pictures with it.

1242
01:20:52,200 --> 01:20:54,200
Speaker 1: I ain't never seen this before. You're gonna have to

1243
01:20:54,240 --> 01:20:57,800
Speaker 1: hit one of them in the face. I don't know how.

1244
01:20:58,520 --> 01:21:00,479
Speaker 1: Listen to me. You're gone, No, just ain't got nothing

1245
01:21:00,479 --> 01:21:02,439
Speaker 1: to do with y'all ladies. Dadda. You had to hit

1246
01:21:02,479 --> 01:21:04,719
Speaker 1: one of them little punk as boys in their face

1247
01:21:05,360 --> 01:21:07,599
Speaker 1: in front of the other boys. But don't let nobody

1248
01:21:07,680 --> 01:21:11,519
Speaker 1: see it but the boys. All right, now go ahead,

1249
01:21:11,640 --> 01:21:17,080
Speaker 1: now let's do the radio as ahead. What how do

1250
01:21:17,320 --> 01:21:20,439
Speaker 1: I handle this as a father? And I don't want

1251
01:21:20,439 --> 01:21:22,639
Speaker 1: to be too hard on it, but I don't want

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Speaker 1: to be too soft on it at the same time, Hey, man,

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Speaker 1: respect my house. I know my daughter's beautiful. I know

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01:21:30,520 --> 01:21:33,720
Speaker 1: you probably attract a tool, but this my house. I

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01:21:33,760 --> 01:21:38,400
Speaker 1: won't you be respectful my house now? In essence, while

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01:21:38,520 --> 01:21:41,960
Speaker 1: they're living in your house, you have some say so

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01:21:42,800 --> 01:21:45,000
Speaker 1: now I'll tell you like I did one of mine.

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01:21:45,080 --> 01:21:49,680
Speaker 1: I said, this is what happened. I'm really trying to

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Speaker 1: be this new person. God made me on this boat

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01:21:52,200 --> 01:21:55,760
Speaker 1: this year, and but the old meet keeps creeping back.

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Speaker 1: Mind dog, he talked all the time. I will see

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Speaker 1: go somewhere and shut the hell up. You know, Tommy, Man,

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Speaker 1: it's hard because in your house you can set rules

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01:22:12,520 --> 01:22:16,639
Speaker 1: and parameters, right, and so just pull the young dude

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Speaker 1: over to the side and just say, listen, man, I

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Speaker 1: got rules in my house, and you have to be

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Speaker 1: respectful of my house. Yeah, don't don't. Don't come in

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Speaker 1: my house handling my daughter. That's you can say that

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Speaker 1: because it's your house and a man, don't don't be

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Speaker 1: over the hug. You know nobody when you and missed

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Speaker 1: my house. House. And that's a good message to have

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Speaker 1: out because after that, dog, it's out your hands. Know

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01:22:39,920 --> 01:22:42,760
Speaker 1: what they do outside the house, it's not because you're

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Speaker 1: not letting them do it in the house. That's what

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01:22:44,280 --> 01:22:47,920
Speaker 1: people have misconception of they think that in parenting, if

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Speaker 1: you don't allow them to do it in the house,

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01:22:49,680 --> 01:22:52,320
Speaker 1: when they get out the house, if you don't let

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01:22:52,360 --> 01:22:53,599
Speaker 1: them do it in the house, when they get out

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01:22:53,640 --> 01:22:55,439
Speaker 1: the house, they're gonna do it. No, they're gonna do

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01:22:55,479 --> 01:22:57,960
Speaker 1: it any damn way. Right. You know, you got people

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01:22:57,960 --> 01:23:00,400
Speaker 1: talking about I let my kids drink and small weed

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Speaker 1: in the house. That way. They ain't out in the

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01:23:01,720 --> 01:23:05,759
Speaker 1: streets drinking and smoking. Yes they are. If they're drinking

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01:23:05,800 --> 01:23:08,040
Speaker 1: a smoking weed in your house, they're drinking a smoking

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01:23:08,080 --> 01:23:10,840
Speaker 1: weed on the street. You be a fool to allow

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01:23:10,840 --> 01:23:13,040
Speaker 1: it to happen in your house. You gotta have some

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Speaker 1: type of rules, man, to give them. Pauls for thought

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01:23:17,200 --> 01:23:19,880
Speaker 1: when they go out the house. Just Paul's for thought.

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Speaker 1: You're not gonna stop. All right, coming up, our last

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Speaker 1: break of the day and some closing remarks from the

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Speaker 1: very wise and very talented too Steve Harvey. Right after

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Speaker 1: this you're listening to all right, here we go, last

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01:23:53,280 --> 01:23:59,800
Speaker 1: break of the day, and um, Steve, yeah, you're this

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01:23:59,880 --> 01:24:01,559
Speaker 1: is the time you get kind of quiet and in

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01:24:01,560 --> 01:24:05,080
Speaker 1: your pensive moment because it's almost time for your closing remarks.

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Speaker 1: But it's been a good day. Rights, it's an it's

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Speaker 1: good you know these closing remarks of late Man. I

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Speaker 1: just want to kind of explain it to everybody. What

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Speaker 1: I've decided to do is, uh, just share with you

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01:24:20,720 --> 01:24:24,880
Speaker 1: some experiences that I've gained uh and and a lot

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Speaker 1: of it has to do with spirituality. Now let me

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Speaker 1: let me just start by saying this. I'm not a

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Speaker 1: very religious person per se. Uh. I think I'm really

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01:24:38,600 --> 01:24:44,599
Speaker 1: a spiritual person, but religious it kind of comes with

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01:24:44,640 --> 01:24:50,280
Speaker 1: a different connotation. I don't claim to be perfect. It

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01:24:50,320 --> 01:24:53,240
Speaker 1: doesn't matter to me what church you go to, what

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01:24:53,400 --> 01:24:57,400
Speaker 1: mosque you go to, what synagogue you go to. It

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01:24:57,400 --> 01:25:01,920
Speaker 1: doesn't matter to me. It's not my business. And I've

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Speaker 1: chosen to be that way. And I think that God

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01:25:04,800 --> 01:25:08,160
Speaker 1: is okay with me being that way, because my message

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01:25:08,360 --> 01:25:12,400
Speaker 1: is to try to convince or to help people understand

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01:25:12,439 --> 01:25:16,439
Speaker 1: that having a relationship with God is really cool. It's

1313
01:25:16,439 --> 01:25:21,760
Speaker 1: the relationship you want with God. Your choice of religion

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01:25:22,080 --> 01:25:25,280
Speaker 1: is none of my business. I have a lot of

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Speaker 1: Muslim friends. I know some great Muslim people around the world.

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01:25:30,040 --> 01:25:32,760
Speaker 1: I know some great Christian people around the world. I

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01:25:32,920 --> 01:25:36,200
Speaker 1: know great Catholics around the world. I know great Jewish

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01:25:36,240 --> 01:25:41,799
Speaker 1: people protesting whatever. I know some really really cool people,

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Speaker 1: and I just decided that my mission is not to

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01:25:46,080 --> 01:25:50,400
Speaker 1: convince you to see it my way. My mission is

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01:25:50,439 --> 01:25:53,880
Speaker 1: to try to help you understand that having a relationship

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01:25:53,920 --> 01:26:00,680
Speaker 1: with God, it's critical for you. It's necessary serry for you.

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Speaker 1: You know, I posted something the other day on my

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Speaker 1: Instagram and it was a picture of a warrior with

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Speaker 1: his head bent and he was on his knee and

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01:26:11,960 --> 01:26:14,160
Speaker 1: he had a sword in his hand and a shield.

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01:26:14,840 --> 01:26:20,080
Speaker 1: And on this Instagram post I posted it, and if

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01:26:20,080 --> 01:26:22,640
Speaker 1: you go on my Instagram you can see it from yesterday,

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01:26:23,320 --> 01:26:25,880
Speaker 1: and this man is on his knees with his head bowed,

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Speaker 1: with his sword in his hand and armor and shield on.

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01:26:29,160 --> 01:26:32,679
Speaker 1: And he said, the devil saw me with my head

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01:26:32,800 --> 01:26:37,280
Speaker 1: down and thought he'd won until I said, a man,

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Speaker 1: So what the paint was saying is my head ain't down.

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Speaker 1: I'm actually praying. And so after I sent that, you know,

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Speaker 1: I was just reading the comments, which which I know better.

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Speaker 1: But the second comment and the capture under it was

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Speaker 1: prayer works. The second comment under their third comment was no,

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Speaker 1: it don't. And you just go, wow, wait a minute, man,

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01:27:05,520 --> 01:27:09,840
Speaker 1: it don't matter what you say, some people gonna they

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01:27:09,920 --> 01:27:12,519
Speaker 1: just dared to counter. But I don't do it for

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01:27:12,560 --> 01:27:14,800
Speaker 1: those people anymore. I do it for those people who

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01:27:14,920 --> 01:27:16,800
Speaker 1: trying to get it. And if you're trying to get

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01:27:16,840 --> 01:27:20,479
Speaker 1: a relationship with God, it's important for you to understand something.

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01:27:21,280 --> 01:27:24,400
Speaker 1: You know what you gotta understand something. Let me sprain

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01:27:24,479 --> 01:27:26,800
Speaker 1: to you what I learned about favor because my life

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01:27:26,840 --> 01:27:29,599
Speaker 1: has a lot of favor on it. But I know

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01:27:29,680 --> 01:27:31,839
Speaker 1: a lot of people who got favor on their life.

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01:27:32,560 --> 01:27:36,920
Speaker 1: Somebody told me one time, favor ain't fair. Favor is

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01:27:37,000 --> 01:27:41,160
Speaker 1: not fair. If favor was fairly giving out, if it

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01:27:41,360 --> 01:27:44,479
Speaker 1: was favor was giving out family, none of us would

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01:27:44,520 --> 01:27:49,760
Speaker 1: get it. Oh, favor ain't fair because if favor was

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01:27:49,840 --> 01:27:53,240
Speaker 1: given out to the just or the righteous, if that's

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01:27:53,280 --> 01:27:56,200
Speaker 1: how fair was passed out, would none of us get it.

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01:27:57,680 --> 01:28:00,960
Speaker 1: Favor ain't fair. That's why you can look over somebody's

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01:28:01,000 --> 01:28:02,800
Speaker 1: life and you can judge them and say, well, they

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01:28:02,800 --> 01:28:05,200
Speaker 1: ain't all this, but they got this. That's cause favor

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Speaker 1: ain't fair. But let me show you what what favor do.

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Speaker 1: Do you know how much favor gods give to you?

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01:28:10,400 --> 01:28:13,680
Speaker 1: To show you that favor ain't fair, Watch this him.

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01:28:13,840 --> 01:28:16,040
Speaker 1: Have you ever woke up in the morning and didn't

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Speaker 1: thank God for waking you up in the morning, but

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01:28:19,360 --> 01:28:22,880
Speaker 1: he woke you up anyway? That was favor. Let me

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01:28:22,920 --> 01:28:25,080
Speaker 1: ask you a question, because I hardly ever do this

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01:28:25,439 --> 01:28:28,439
Speaker 1: when I lay down at night. I have never I

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01:28:28,520 --> 01:28:32,160
Speaker 1: don't recall asking God to wake me up in the morning.

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01:28:32,600 --> 01:28:35,519
Speaker 1: But you know what he did for sixty two years,

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01:28:35,800 --> 01:28:38,559
Speaker 1: he didn't woke me up in the morning. You know

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01:28:38,600 --> 01:28:42,160
Speaker 1: what that was? That was some favor. Favor ain't fail

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01:28:42,280 --> 01:28:44,320
Speaker 1: because guess what, I ain't even asked to be awaken.

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01:28:45,760 --> 01:28:48,360
Speaker 1: I have left the house without thinking him for waking

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01:28:48,400 --> 01:28:51,920
Speaker 1: me up. But he keep waking me up, and he

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01:28:52,040 --> 01:28:54,400
Speaker 1: keep laying me down to sleep, and he keep giving

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01:28:54,439 --> 01:28:58,160
Speaker 1: me another chance, and he keeps me alive when it

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01:28:58,320 --> 01:29:01,120
Speaker 1: seems like I should have been gone. He holds me

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01:29:01,200 --> 01:29:06,200
Speaker 1: when I feel so alone. He corrects mistakes that I've made,

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01:29:06,320 --> 01:29:09,600
Speaker 1: on decisions I've made. He's correcting him from me. You

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01:29:09,640 --> 01:29:14,040
Speaker 1: know what that was, y'all? That was favor. Every time

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01:29:14,160 --> 01:29:17,439
Speaker 1: you take a breath that you have no control over,

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01:29:17,720 --> 01:29:22,519
Speaker 1: can I tell you something that's favor? That's why you

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01:29:24,040 --> 01:29:27,479
Speaker 1: you hear old people talk about grace and favor, and

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01:29:27,640 --> 01:29:30,719
Speaker 1: old people say, all I want is a little more grace,

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01:29:32,439 --> 01:29:35,599
Speaker 1: because great, you can't earn grace, you can't earn favor.

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01:29:36,720 --> 01:29:42,360
Speaker 1: It's just given. Favor is given to the just, Favor

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01:29:42,560 --> 01:29:46,520
Speaker 1: is given to the unjust. Favor is given to the grateful.

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01:29:47,160 --> 01:29:49,960
Speaker 1: Favor is given to people that don't ever say thank you.

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01:29:50,840 --> 01:29:55,160
Speaker 1: All of us have benefited from his favor. What do

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01:29:55,280 --> 01:29:59,160
Speaker 1: you think would happen if you form the closer relationship

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01:29:59,200 --> 01:30:03,400
Speaker 1: with him? Well, tomorrow, I tell you what ha happened,

1389
01:30:03,680 --> 01:30:05,960
Speaker 1: because it happened to me. I just want to share

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01:30:06,000 --> 01:30:09,120
Speaker 1: that with you. Y'all, have a great weekend. Talk to God.

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01:30:09,400 --> 01:30:12,160
Speaker 1: He'd loved to hear from you. Okay, that's a good one.

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