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Speaker 1: I listened to the Black Guy Who Tips podcast because

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Speaker 1: Rod and Karen a hat.

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Speaker 2: She dressed for the job and took a change of

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Speaker 2: and his wife living in a grand apartment above a

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Speaker 2: shoe store. The wife ran idam May, took the elevator

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Speaker 2: up went into the glorious apartment. When she found the

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Speaker 2: which seemed odd to idam Ay, so she began looking

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Speaker 2: for things to do. The husband roused himself and told

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Speaker 1: Get into bed with me, he said.

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Speaker 2: He told her the regular girl stayed in the bed

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Speaker 2: with him all day long. He reassured idam May not

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Speaker 2: to worry. He'd do the cleaning later. He figured that

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Speaker 2: was a fair exchange and a good deal for her,

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Speaker 2: a cleaning girl, not having to clean it all, and

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Speaker 2: still getting paid for it. Idam Ay was in her

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Speaker 2: mid twenties, a mother of three by then married to

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Speaker 2: a pious man who wouldn't stand for another man touching

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Speaker 2: his wife. She knew white men in the South took

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Speaker 2: whatever liberties they wanted with colored women, and there was

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Speaker 2: nothing the women or their husbands could do about it.

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Speaker 2: All her life in Mississippi, she had managed to avoid

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Speaker 2: unwanted advances because she had rarely worked in white people's homes.

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Speaker 2: Now Here, she was in Chicago, a white man expected

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Speaker 2: her to sleep with him, as if that were what

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Speaker 2: any colored woman would just naturally want to do, and

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Speaker 2: no matter what happened, she would have no legal recourse,

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Speaker 2: There would be no witnesses. It just would be a

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Speaker 2: privileged man's word against hers. She was thinking fast. She

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Speaker 2: was as mad as that. She was as mad at

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Speaker 2: the girl who sent her without warning her of what

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Speaker 2: expecting her to climb into bed with him, with his

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Speaker 1: She started to leave, but she had just come.

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Speaker 2: She had come all this way, had spent the train fare,

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Speaker 2: and she needed the money. Her body stiffened and she

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Speaker 2: backed away from the man. Just show me what you want, clean,

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Speaker 2: idam Ay said. Somehow, something in the way she stood

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Speaker 2: or looked straight at the man as she said it

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Speaker 2: let the man know she meant business.

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Speaker 1: He didn't press the matter, and he left her alone.

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Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to the black Out this podcast Hels Rod

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Speaker 2: iTunes and Stitcher all that stuff. And we uh talked

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Speaker 2: about it on the show. We only had three episodes

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Speaker 2: And I know we'll probably only have three episodes next

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Speaker 2: week too, because I know we got what New Year's

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Speaker 2: Day or something around there.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, we got a horness game today, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: We got a Hornets game, So yeah, we might have

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Speaker 2: a short week two weeks in a row. It's holiday

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Speaker 2: season for everybody up in his beats, all right, y'all. Uh,

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Speaker 2: that exert was from the warmth of other sons and

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Speaker 2: That was about when Ida May was looking for work

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Speaker 2: in Chicago and.

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Speaker 1: She got a job, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, to feel in for a woman for a week

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Speaker 2: at cleaning cleaning somebody's house. And it turned out that

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Speaker 2: the dude essentially wanted to prostitute and that that must

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Speaker 2: have been what the other women had been up in

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Speaker 2: there doing, right, and he he left her alone for

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Speaker 2: that week. I guess when she said no and didn't

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Speaker 2: and especially considering that if something would have happened to her, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: people would have believed that white man over her no

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Speaker 2: but you're steeling I know, right, come on, Like that

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Speaker 2: shit was so real and like she was in physical

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Speaker 2: she could have been in physical danger and all this stuff,

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Speaker 2: and also just the resiliency of her to be like no,

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Speaker 2: I'm not doing that, but also I'm gonna stay here

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Speaker 2: I know, I would have probably just went home.

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Speaker 4: Yeah and cusstus mooved the fuck out and we would

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Speaker 2: And this was at a time when black people definitely

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Speaker 2: the parts of Chicago they got cording off to you

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Speaker 2: needed every dollar just to make rent, like, and they

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Speaker 2: charged black people more for rent, not less. So black

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Speaker 2: people pull Black people lazy. Black people don't got jobs.

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Speaker 2: Why are you charging us more for rent? But how

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Speaker 2: does that make sense? White people are paying less. It's

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Speaker 2: the white privileged tax, you know that people don't talk about.

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Speaker 2: You know when people say I don't have privilege as

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Speaker 2: a white person. I was poor, And it's like you

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Speaker 2: don't even understand poor for a white person is not

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Speaker 2: poor for a black person. Poor for a white person

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Speaker 1: But you think it's an.

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Speaker 2: Individual thing, you know, like we as black people think

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Speaker 2: family was here, and it's not just something that happened

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Speaker 4: Right Because I used to think that, But as I

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Speaker 4: Times get tough, people get divorced, people get separated, people

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Speaker 4: You know, as a kid, you just know such such

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Speaker 4: mama has always had an open house like that, and

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And so what I'd have made, like one of

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Speaker 1: In the South, she could have got killed for saying,

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Speaker 2: Of course, she could have been sexually sordy, abused, right, abution,

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Speaker 2: and then at the same time, that's just life.

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Speaker 1: That's like, that was just a job she had. It

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Speaker 3: And what's so fucked up is.

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Speaker 4: Black people and just brown people and general, particularly black people, we.

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Speaker 3: Actually make on the average less. Even though black.

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Speaker 4: Women are the highest educated group in the country, we

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Speaker 4: actually lower than whatever you think the stagnant wages ours

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Speaker 4: we some black people do have generational wealth, because overall

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Speaker 4: we do not have generational wealth. It's hard to build

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Speaker 4: level of maybe even lower income wise than some of

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Speaker 4: these people were back then because of the way the

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Speaker 2: Well, also because rent, because the even earnings wise adjusted

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Speaker 1: There's a difference between making money.

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Speaker 2: And being able to save money and accumulate wealth. Right,

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Speaker 2: So if you're making money but you've really been only

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Speaker 2: you're playing these balloon ass payments every month, and eventually

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Speaker 1: You know, in many of these cases, white.

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Speaker 2: People moved out of these neighborhoods and you would think,

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Speaker 2: what that, Yeah, well the price goes out.

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Speaker 1: No, the price goes up because the black people wanted

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Speaker 2: But then they get these deals or they don't actually

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Speaker 4: So yeah, and they don't also talking to a family

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Speaker 4: read economy of homeowners association fees where she was saying

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Speaker 4: was saying, the association home associating fees started at five

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Speaker 4: hundred dollars a fucking month, and she was like, they

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Speaker 4: it's so high because they really want to price us out.

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Speaker 4: Nobody has five hundred average person's not have five hundred

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Speaker 4: dollars a month to pay on top of their mortgage.

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Speaker 3: And it depends on how your home owns association to

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Speaker 4: Home I'm supposed to get take your home, bitch, you

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Speaker 4: are not taking something that you didn't put a fucking

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Speaker 3: But that's the way they set up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then of course you have a home organization

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Speaker 2: You know, they still I mean they had to. In Charlotte,

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Speaker 1: Where we stayed.

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Speaker 2: They were still getting on these laws off of some

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Speaker 2: upset with this dude, not wanting him to get anything

439
00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:43,560
Speaker 2: years later, and it's just there is no constituency for

440
00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:46,520
Speaker 2: these other groups and these other crimes that that keeps

441
00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:49,360
Speaker 2: that same energy. And it's and I don't care what

442
00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:51,840
Speaker 2: people say, it is weird, it is incongruent.

443
00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:52,320
Speaker 1: It doesn't.

444
00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:54,480
Speaker 2: It's like, even if you just think it's some type

445
00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:57,480
Speaker 2: of cultural phenomenon, it is a weird cultural phenomenon that

446
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Speaker 2: that that that someone can be a racist, someone can

447
00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:05,080
Speaker 2: be a rapist, someone can be a child abuser, someone

448
00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:08,880
Speaker 2: can be a murderer, all these things, and we can

449
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:12,160
Speaker 2: overlook it. We can just be like that person earns

450
00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:15,240
Speaker 2: a living. They can be on TV right now, given

451
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:18,440
Speaker 2: analysis on the NFL, and there's no one standing outside

452
00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:20,639
Speaker 2: the building like hey, you can't.

453
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:22,439
Speaker 1: You don't get to do this, you know.

454
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Speaker 2: So it is something about dogs specifically, and I know,

455
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:30,360
Speaker 2: you know, and I know what bothers me.

456
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:34,800
Speaker 1: Is more about the idea that.

457
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:39,000
Speaker 2: They're capable for giving all these other people, you know,

458
00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:42,840
Speaker 2: like it's it's it's the hug and from the judge

459
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:46,720
Speaker 2: thing again, where I'm not necessarily in a vacuum matter

460
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Speaker 2: to judge for hugging a fucking person who's got convicted

461
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:52,640
Speaker 2: of a crime. You know, maybe, y'all justice does need

462
00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:55,760
Speaker 2: some more compassion in America. Maybe that would fix the system.

463
00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:59,240
Speaker 2: But it's who got the hug for what reason that

464
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Speaker 2: that I'm like, No, why everybody ain't getting a hug?

465
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Speaker 1: What the fuck you in here? Crime?

466
00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:08,320
Speaker 2: Aman says, yes, Karen, wait for him to open the door. Haha,

467
00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:10,600
Speaker 2: and don't let me walk on the traffic side of

468
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Speaker 2: the street. Getting your man to open your door is

469
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 2: part of a black feminism, at least that's the way

470
00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 2: I've always seen it. I almost stopped talking to my

471
00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:20,720
Speaker 2: husband before we got married because of what he thought

472
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:24,160
Speaker 2: my brand of feminism was. Yes, open my door, defeend

473
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:27,640
Speaker 2: me when I need some help, have my back, etcetera, etcetera. Yes,

474
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Speaker 2: I'm strong. Black women have always had to be strong

475
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:31,919
Speaker 2: in this country. I know I can do it on

476
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 2: my own. So did a lot of my ancestors, but

477
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:36,920
Speaker 2: their men didn't always have the chance.

478
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:38,919
Speaker 1: They would have been whipped a lynch.

479
00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:42,800
Speaker 2: You treated me courteously, doesn't negate my strength or freedom ofself.

480
00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:45,800
Speaker 2: Open my door. Damn it, I'm a lady lol haha.

481
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:49,640
Speaker 2: As a black Muslim woman, my feminism is definitely going

482
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:52,160
Speaker 2: to be different from a white woman's. This was another

483
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 2: very fun episode that Mama just spoke to me, love y'all.

484
00:23:56,800 --> 00:24:00,680
Speaker 2: You Yeah, it's you know. It's also interesting too because

485
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:07,920
Speaker 2: like does it have to be labeled something? You know

486
00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:10,600
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Like, uh, I think one of the

487
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:13,399
Speaker 2: issues that that that it happens when people bring up

488
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 2: think brid terms like feminism, womanism, dah da da, We've

489
00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:19,960
Speaker 2: turned every act into part of that some sort of

490
00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:24,800
Speaker 2: a cause. So like opening the door for somebody, if

491
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:27,800
Speaker 2: if you have to throw it into your feminist practice,

492
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:31,160
Speaker 2: then all of a sudden it becomes a debatable thing

493
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,880
Speaker 2: as opposed to like, listen, I like when my man

494
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:36,240
Speaker 2: opens the door for me, the fuck they got to

495
00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:38,879
Speaker 2: do with it, whether I want equal pay or not.

496
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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like you know what I'm saying.

497
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Speaker 2: Like it's funny because I think it's more of a

498
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 2: byproduct of social media and branding because everybody moves everything

499
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:51,080
Speaker 2: into like a thing. It's nobody, there's no like, it's

500
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:54,200
Speaker 2: it's like someone because they know some assholes out there,

501
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:57,120
Speaker 2: like so women's supposed to be equal, but then y'all

502
00:24:57,119 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 2: want us to open it do o for you? And

503
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:01,680
Speaker 2: then of course you got the debate, right, you got

504
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 2: women that have had different experiences in life, like I

505
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:06,800
Speaker 2: open that door for myself, and then you got and

506
00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:08,800
Speaker 2: then you got other people that's like, yeah, open the

507
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:11,440
Speaker 2: fucking door for me, you know, like what they got

508
00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:12,919
Speaker 2: to do with the party t in China, you know,

509
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:17,120
Speaker 2: like I get it's just funny that that they're good

510
00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:21,200
Speaker 2: to the feminism thing, but I feel you. But yeah,

511
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:22,800
Speaker 2: down here, we open the door. It's a bunch of

512
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 2: shit we do down here. That That's another thing. We're

513
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 2: talking about people's experiences in different areas of the country.

514
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 3: And shit, yes it's very different.

515
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:32,120
Speaker 2: Like it's shit people say on Twitter, and I hey,

516
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:34,640
Speaker 2: let them have it. I'm not gonna debate your experience.

517
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 2: But you know when people say stuff like.

518
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Speaker 1: And this something I.

519
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 2: Become aware of on Twitter, and normally it's from like

520
00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:43,960
Speaker 2: prickly ass people. I wouldn't want to be sitting next

521
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 2: to you in the first place. Both people that say

522
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:48,320
Speaker 2: shit like uh, you know, if I say my age,

523
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Speaker 2: don't tell me I look younger than my age.

524
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Speaker 1: This is what my age looks like. I'm like, okay, nigga,

525
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 1: damn you.

526
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 2: You know, in real life, do you know how that

527
00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:59,359
Speaker 2: you know the intent? You know the person was trying

528
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 2: to like invalidate you, insult you, but you But on Twitter,

529
00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 2: you're it's more profitable to take offense. Where in real life,

530
00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 2: even if that bristled you, you didn't like it, most people.

531
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Speaker 1: Just not thank you, girl, and you just move the

532
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 1: fuck on, right.

533
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 4: So I think like, because the way people talk on Twitter,

534
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:19,680
Speaker 4: you will never get shipped done because you would be

535
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:22,280
Speaker 4: constantly talking to fucking everybody because you're always god damn

536
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 4: a fandict.

537
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Speaker 2: I really feel like a big part, since a big

538
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:31,480
Speaker 2: part of social media is dissecting that stuff for attention,

539
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 2: that a lot of times that world just doesn't reflect

540
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Speaker 2: real life.

541
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Speaker 1: For me for me anyway.

542
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:40,479
Speaker 2: So you know, if somebody tell you look younger than

543
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 2: you are, like that's hey, I get what you're trying

544
00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 2: to say.

545
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Speaker 1: All right, I'm drinking a lot of water or whatever.

546
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Speaker 2: I don't know, thank you, but you know, And it's

547
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:51,960
Speaker 2: so anyway, stuff like like these open the door for somebody,

548
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 2: or pump gas becomes one that's.

549
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:57,560
Speaker 3: Just my personal preference, and it varies.

550
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Speaker 4: That's the thing. This shit varies per woman. Some women

551
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 4: don't get fuck about that shit, and some women are like,

552
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:06,720
Speaker 4: just these are the things that I demand in my marriage.

553
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 2: But if your name was black feminism down South on Twitter,

554
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 2: then you can't say that without having to put it

555
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:18,480
Speaker 2: into your feminists like like like it has to become

556
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,159
Speaker 2: an expression of feminism for you.

557
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:23,199
Speaker 1: And I think that's a big that's a tactical mistake.

558
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 2: That's an oversight on a lot of people as far

559
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,640
Speaker 2: because Nigga, I'm not debating whether or not my man

560
00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 2: opens the door for me.

561
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:29,879
Speaker 1: I'm not, you know what I mean.

562
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:33,639
Speaker 2: I'm not debating if who pumps the gas that's our relationship.

563
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:35,800
Speaker 1: Who gives a fuck what they got to do? That

564
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:37,920
Speaker 1: has nothing to do with anything else. Leave me the

565
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 1: fuck out of it, you know. Anyway, It just made

566
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:42,120
Speaker 1: me think about that in mind. I know you didn't

567
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:43,000
Speaker 1: write in about.

568
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:48,239
Speaker 2: That, Sofa King says, regarding your comment when you were

569
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:51,199
Speaker 2: shouting out Wanga's donation. I don't know what part of

570
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 2: Australia Wanga stay at, but Canberra, the capital of Australia,

571
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 2: sixteen hours ahead of Charlotte, so it's always gonna be

572
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:00,920
Speaker 2: day for him. When it's night for y'all and vice versa.

573
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 2: When it's twelve noon on Saturday where you are at Karen,

574
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:08,440
Speaker 2: it's four in the morning on Sunday and Eastern Australia

575
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:10,120
Speaker 2: hashtag information for life.

576
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Speaker 1: Thank you, Sopha Key. I didn't know that, or at

577
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:14,440
Speaker 1: least I forgot it, and I will forget it again.

578
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 3: I just knew what's the day before. That's why on

579
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Speaker 3: New Year's Day New Year's Eve, is Mary Happy New

580
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 3: Year for him? Because we know he dad ahead of us.

581
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Speaker 2: The pole is have you ever surprised someone with a

582
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 2: Christmas gift?

583
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 1: Yes? Or no?

584
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 2: Well, I know I have a few times. Yes, Karen

585
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 2: got a Christmas gift there, Yes, Beyonce.

586
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 1: Shirt I love fans and Beyonce wrapping paper on the box.

587
00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:46,840
Speaker 3: I will with my earrings.

588
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 1: But yes, eight have surprise on the Christmas gift? Have not?

589
00:28:55,480 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 2: Now that maybe maybe they don't celebrate Christmas, maybe they

590
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 2: don't give gifts.

591
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:01,840
Speaker 1: It could be a lot of stuff.

592
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:04,960
Speaker 2: Best says this might be one of the funniest the

593
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 2: Black Autist podcast yet, or at least the funniest feedback podcast.

594
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 2: Every time you stop the wow, I laugh for half

595
00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 2: a minute. I went to a white church in England.

596
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 2: We definitely wrapped up before a black church with us.

597
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 2: Sometimes I visit black mega churches on special occasions.

598
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 1: That was amazing.

599
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 2: At white church, the testimonies might happen after the worship music.

600
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Speaker 2: But being British, we mostly have no charisma. But yeah,

601
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 2: what was y'all? I wonder what y'all churches even sound?

602
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 3: Like?

603
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 1: I never thought about.

604
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 3: That different cultures.

605
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, like you need the extra slavery owner to get

606
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 2: that extra file that I'll bet you know.

607
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 4: That's my testimony to be so long, Like you know,

608
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Speaker 4: that's that two hundred years speak for the ancestors.

609
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 2: Like plus, that's the only time slaves got the time

610
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Speaker 2: off and ship back in the day.

611
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 1: So long church got to be long, you know what I'm.

612
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 3: Saying, because we were trying to get back to work.

613
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Speaker 2: But we didn't have to wear suits. And my mom

614
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 2: didn't care if people were watching her praise. Sometimes we'd

615
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 2: have visiting preachers, remember Pastor Daily of Black Pentecostal Church

616
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Speaker 2: roasting the white people lovingly. Service was no more than

617
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Speaker 2: two hours. Sorry for the length of this, thank you.

618
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 2: See that's because your church is so short. You had

619
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Speaker 2: to apologize for the length of this. This ain't that long.

620
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Speaker 2: Thanks for making me laugh so much and everyone else

621
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Speaker 2: sharing their stories.

622
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Speaker 1: Mam said, just came here to say I love y'all's love.

623
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Speaker 2: I'm Muslim, so no Christmas gifts, but I'm surprised people

624
00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 2: would be day gifts and other random stuff throughout the year.

625
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 2: I'm always surprised with my friends give me a give

626
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Speaker 2: me Christmas gift because they really did.

627
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 1: Not have to. They're so sweet. Yeah, I'm glad and

628
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:40,360
Speaker 1: see that's see.

629
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Speaker 2: Now, look, if this was Twitter, you will be letting

630
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Speaker 2: us down because you're supposed to be like listen, listen,

631
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Speaker 2: I'm a Muslim and I don't celebrate Christmas, and I'm

632
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 2: offended that you would get me some shit.

633
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:54,560
Speaker 1: Okay, let me break down this twelve page dispositioned on

634
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Speaker 1: why the fuck please? But in real life, shit, just

635
00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 1: don't be like that Nigga thinks some shoes.

636
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 3: Right and keep it pushing. It ain't that fucking important.

637
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 2: El hefe leaves a comment on episode twenty fourteen our

638
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Speaker 2: ancestors wild As Dreams. I had a great Christmas this year,

639
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 2: but honestly, the best part was caring, finally saying your cars,

640
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 2: she is honestly a national treasure.

641
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 1: Thanks for making the holiday season that much better and

642
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 1: you're welcome. It was that your cars heard around the world, y'all.

643
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 2: H The poe was do you drink energy drinks daily,

644
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 2: once in a while or never?

645
00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 3: I've never had one those things.

646
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I never drink them.

647
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 2: Sixty six percent never drink them, thirty four percent drink

648
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 2: them once in a while, and zero percent daily. Kind

649
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 2: of surprised because they're addictive, so you would think somebody.

650
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 1: Would be out there drinking them daily. Mm.

651
00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:52,960
Speaker 3: Because I looked at them, I'm like, nah, I'm good.

652
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 3: Damn hear about our heart preputations and all that.

653
00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 4: I'm like, no, you know what, and I naturally, well,

654
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 4: you get older your energy level in.

655
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Speaker 3: The time, but you know, I kind of have internal energy.

656
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 3: I don't need to be wired.

657
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 1: Yeah.

658
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 2: I used to drink jager bombs that have red bull

659
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 2: and ager in them and shit back in the day.

660
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 2: But that was only when I hung out with white folks,

661
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:19,000
Speaker 2: which was, you know, not that often. Do you drink

662
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 2: energy drinks? The answers were, I mean the comments where

663
00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:26,560
Speaker 2: Ms Barnes says, I love my energy drinks with Titosbaka

664
00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:29,200
Speaker 2: Kim says, how roder character just wanted to weigh in

665
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:32,360
Speaker 2: on your nutcracker issue. Ballet has some requirements like hair

666
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 2: must be in a bunch, certain color leotard for level

667
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 2: you have reached, kinds of like belts and martial arts. Generally,

668
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:40,240
Speaker 2: if you are performing, you know months in advance what

669
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 2: is acquired. I have three children who dance from three

670
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 2: to eighteen years of age. They all dance competitively at

671
00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:48,520
Speaker 2: only at one of the first black studios at Charlotte.

672
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:51,120
Speaker 2: There are about four or five. Now, this is the

673
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 2: norm for a tire. It really isn't racism, but I

674
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 2: understand it can appear that it is. I think it

675
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:58,600
Speaker 2: has to do with the uniformity and discipline. I also

676
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 2: think it helps prepare for the dance that a lot

677
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 2: of girls are chosen his career Irene in Miss North Carolina,

678
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 2: Irain in North Miss North Carolina as a product of.

679
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 1: The system of mom owns the studio. All right, kill well,

680
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 1: I appreciate you. Yeah, I don't know enough about it.

681
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:16,280
Speaker 3: You know, It's just I don't know enough about the

682
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 3: world either.

683
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 4: But but but my thing is you have these requirements

684
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 4: and all of a sudden it's a problem, like my thing.

685
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 3: If it was a problem, it should have been a

686
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 3: problem for now.

687
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

688
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:29,479
Speaker 2: I wonder how the parents got blindsided with that, because

689
00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:32,080
Speaker 2: that felt like in the in the article they were

690
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 2: saying like they didn't understand and it was like a

691
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 2: last minute thing, like your kids ain't gonna be able

692
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 2: to do this. It seems like if that was an issue,

693
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:41,240
Speaker 2: that should have been established well up front.

694
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 1: The other thing.

695
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 2: The other thing is like and maybe because I don't

696
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 2: know everything about here, so just you know, but you

697
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 2: can't put the.

698
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:54,280
Speaker 1: The braids in the bun? Yeah you can, So like

699
00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 1: why wasn't.

700
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 2: That acceptable because I'm sure that was part of the

701
00:33:58,000 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 2: you know, like, well we'll just with their braids in

702
00:33:59,640 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 2: a bun.

703
00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 1: And it's like, nah, they can't.

704
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 2: Have braids at I don't know, like you know what

705
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:06,720
Speaker 2: it is to camp And I'm not this is not

706
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:10,280
Speaker 2: knocking you, but I can never be sure when someone

707
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:13,960
Speaker 2: says something isn't racist, but it's based on traditions that

708
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:17,040
Speaker 2: excluded black people for so long, it's hard for me

709
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 2: to just give them the benefit of the doubt, like, oh, well,

710
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:24,759
Speaker 2: I'm sure these traditions have no tinkling of race in them,

711
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 2: you know, like, well, we just like everyone to look uniform.

712
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:29,480
Speaker 2: Well that's what they used to say about black women

713
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:31,320
Speaker 2: in the army when they wouldn't let them have braids,

714
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:34,760
Speaker 2: you know. So, like I said, not saying you're wrong,

715
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:38,720
Speaker 2: not saying you're you know, this is no disrespect or whatever.

716
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 2: I'm just because I truly am ignorant to this world.

717
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:44,720
Speaker 2: But it just felt, I don't know, the article framed

718
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 2: it and the way the parents talked about it made

719
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:49,480
Speaker 2: me feel like it could be unfair to those black girls.

720
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, and the way the parent, the way we're in

721
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:53,439
Speaker 3: the icle, the way the parents was.

722
00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 4: Like we did not know in advance, like my children

723
00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 4: have had their hair like this, and all of a

724
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:00,239
Speaker 4: sudden it's an issue because that's the thing. Even the

725
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 4: white girls have their hairs up in buns, like like

726
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:03,880
Speaker 4: like that's the thing, having your hair up in a bun.

727
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 3: So braves don't kind nothing to do with putting it

728
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 3: up in a bun.

729
00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. So I don't know, just that was a weird article.

730
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:15,480
Speaker 2: Darron Miller says Karen Finley gave it your cars with

731
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 2: several exclamation points. Aman says never needed an energy drink,

732
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,680
Speaker 2: but the story you read sounds like people are abusing

733
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:25,160
Speaker 2: them or low ki addicted to them. I seen friends

734
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 2: drink them if they're driving along distance to stay up

735
00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:29,879
Speaker 2: and study back in the day. But I've never seen

736
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 2: someone drink one every day, multiple times in the day.

737
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,839
Speaker 1: That sounds crazy. I had a friend that drank YEP

738
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:36,320
Speaker 1: when I used to be a waitress.

739
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 3: They used to tell them motherfuckers up, like no, thank you.

740
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 2: Well, dude I played ball with I actually saw him

741
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 2: the other day. He used to drink him a red

742
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 2: Bull before we play basketball every day, just about yeah.

743
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, bro, you wired out here, man, I don't

744
00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 2: know how you doing it. And he'd be like, well,

745
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:54,880
Speaker 2: I worked all night and I'm doing this. I'm like, bruh,

746
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:55,720
Speaker 2: go to sleep.

747
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 3: Rest.

748
00:35:57,239 --> 00:36:00,439
Speaker 2: Then we got one long comment on Colin Kaepernick wait

749
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:05,800
Speaker 2: Colin Capitalism in episode twenty fifteen. This is from k

750
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:09,280
Speaker 2: who says this is not a response to a specific story,

751
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:12,759
Speaker 2: but it's somewhat related to this week's reading Rainbow. The

752
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 2: general idea has seemlarly come up more and more over

753
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 2: the past few months. It's the idea of balancing wokeness

754
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 2: in public settings, especially around white folks set e g.

755
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:21,840
Speaker 1: Corporate and social settings.

756
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:25,279
Speaker 2: You obviously don't want to alienate people by having to

757
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:27,759
Speaker 2: be a well actually type of person and commenting or

758
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 2: critique in everything that someone says it does. However, when

759
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:33,280
Speaker 2: in some white circles, I feel like I'm finding myself

760
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:35,279
Speaker 2: having to speak up more and more to the spell

761
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:36,440
Speaker 2: common stereotypes that.

762
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 1: Are spewing, Oh that they are spewing. For example, I

763
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 1: don't want.

764
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:44,240
Speaker 2: My tax money going to illegal immigrants, when in reality

765
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 2: illegal immigrants are unable to even access most social benefits

766
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:49,439
Speaker 2: that citizens enjoy.

767
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:51,280
Speaker 1: Or another common stereo type.

768
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:54,239
Speaker 2: Women nowadays can just accuse men of anything now ruin

769
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:56,919
Speaker 2: a man's life in reality. I'm not sure that exact number,

770
00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 2: but I heard something like up to ten percent the

771
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:01,840
Speaker 2: claims I'm made by women against men turn out to

772
00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 2: be fossil mechanic. Yeah, and this is even less, It's

773
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 2: like five percent. Last one, my family was born rich,

774
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 2: but we worked hard and pulled ourselves up.

775
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 1: We didn't sit back and rely on welfare.

776
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:15,320
Speaker 2: This one is often associated with the claim that minorities

777
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 2: of milk and the welfare system, when the reality more

778
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 2: white folks.

779
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:20,320
Speaker 1: Used these benefits to any other groups.

780
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 2: All of these and others have led to long ass

781
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:26,240
Speaker 2: discussions and people pretty much throwing out right wing talking points.

782
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 1: I know this was a.

783
00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 2: Bit long wined, but was just curious if others aren't

784
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 2: counting this more and more recently maybe having to do

785
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 2: with Trump, and how they balanced the need to speak

786
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 2: up against harmful rhetoric like this while also trying to

787
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 2: avoid drawing out arguments, especially when the likelihood that the

788
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:40,880
Speaker 2: person will change.

789
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 1: Their mindset is low. Have a great week rest of

790
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:44,320
Speaker 1: the weekend, y'all?

791
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:50,120
Speaker 4: Okay, uh, And I guess my philosophy this way for Trump,

792
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:52,399
Speaker 4: it just actually trumped up with Trump, if that makes sense.

793
00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:54,959
Speaker 4: Like people always had these talk upon listening to any

794
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 4: local a and radio store. Rushing and boff been around

795
00:37:57,719 --> 00:37:58,319
Speaker 4: for fucking ever.

796
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 3: So like these points.

797
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:02,399
Speaker 4: Have been around forever, and this is the thing. It's

798
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:04,400
Speaker 4: a time and a place for it. But on the average,

799
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:08,359
Speaker 4: my words are valuable, my time is valuable, and I'm

800
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:11,920
Speaker 4: not wasting my precious time on somebody that don't actually

801
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:12,440
Speaker 4: give a fuck.

802
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 3: So I have learned to let it go, let it go,

803
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:17,520
Speaker 3: and be like, okay, just look back your eyes and.

804
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:19,880
Speaker 4: Keep it trucking because those because at the end of

805
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 4: the day, those long conversations with those people, guess what

806
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:24,320
Speaker 4: the net result is zero.

807
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:26,799
Speaker 3: They're not gonna change their minds. You're not gonna change

808
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:27,280
Speaker 3: your mind.

809
00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:28,120
Speaker 1: Yeah.

810
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:30,319
Speaker 2: See the thing for me, man, I do pick and

811
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 2: choose when I'm gonna say something like. It's not a

812
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:36,280
Speaker 2: zero sum game where I never say anything. There's sometimes

813
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 2: if I feel like a person's worthwhile or can be reached,

814
00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:41,879
Speaker 2: or certain settings where I feel like the shit they're

815
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 2: saying should not go unchallenging all these front of all

816
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:47,000
Speaker 2: these people. You know, this happens to me a lot

817
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:49,920
Speaker 2: of like the basketball court, right, somebody said.

818
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:51,919
Speaker 1: Something like I'm a homophobic.

819
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 2: Now I will say, in general, I'm funnier than most people.

820
00:38:57,040 --> 00:39:00,279
Speaker 2: So I work and I work through the angle through

821
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:03,759
Speaker 2: mocking and being funny. But not every time and not

822
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 2: all and not all the time. And there's some people

823
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 2: that have done it so much that I'm like, that

824
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:10,799
Speaker 2: person's just the biggot. There's never gonna be the conversation

825
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 2: that wakes them up. There's never gonna be the time.

826
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:15,799
Speaker 2: And a lot of times they like the attention, right,

827
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:19,319
Speaker 2: and they into like it was a guy Mike that

828
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 2: I played ball with, and I realized in my mind

829
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:25,279
Speaker 2: was like, you know what, in his brain, he's going

830
00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 2: back on some message board or somewhere telling him how

831
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:32,040
Speaker 2: he told me off. And one of the things I

832
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:36,200
Speaker 2: think is really uh warped reality or the sense of reality,

833
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:39,440
Speaker 2: is that people go online and you can craft the

834
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:42,839
Speaker 2: image you want, right, whether you're taking your photos from

835
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:45,840
Speaker 2: the neck up or you're putting a filter on there,

836
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 2: or you're not telling people about the time you're fucked

837
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:50,759
Speaker 2: up at work, but you are telling them about the

838
00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 2: time you got the promotion, right, Like we all pick

839
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 2: and choose and cherry pick what makes us look great, right,

840
00:39:56,120 --> 00:40:00,400
Speaker 2: what we consider what the positives. Well, I think this

841
00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:03,720
Speaker 2: is also started to happen with interactions, so people start

842
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:06,680
Speaker 2: saying shit like you know, I was talking to this

843
00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:08,719
Speaker 2: person and they said some folkck and I did this,

844
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 2: this and the other, and they explained this story in

845
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:13,640
Speaker 2: a way that's like almost like something out of a

846
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:16,799
Speaker 2: novel or something out of a TV show or something

847
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 2: where it's like and then I clearly won the debate.

848
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:23,560
Speaker 2: Everyone recognized I was the smartest, and then I walked off, right,

849
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 2: I walked into the home run and I just walked

850
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:27,880
Speaker 2: around the bases and ran off to the sunset.

851
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 1: Right. That's how a lot of people frame their stuff.

852
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:32,920
Speaker 2: So when you see stuff online, it's like, you know,

853
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:35,720
Speaker 2: Christmas clapbacks or some shit, and it's like a person saying,

854
00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:39,839
Speaker 2: my grandma asked, you know where you get all that weight?

855
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:42,040
Speaker 2: And I asked her where you get all them kids from?

856
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:45,680
Speaker 2: Or some shit, and it's like, Nigga, either that didn't happen,

857
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:48,000
Speaker 2: or then your grandma slapt the taste out of your mouth,

858
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:50,680
Speaker 2: because that's the truth, you know what I mean? Like

859
00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:53,279
Speaker 2: like it like it's not like you don't have to

860
00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:53,920
Speaker 2: front from me.

861
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:54,359
Speaker 3: Right.

862
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 2: So a lot of times when I talk about that

863
00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 2: kind of stuff on the show, I'm talking more out

864
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:03,920
Speaker 2: the idea of fronting for people, Like I think there's it's.

865
00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 1: Become kind of a.

866
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 2: I don't know, it's that thing where someone goes I

867
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:11,840
Speaker 2: was wearing my I'm not my ancestors t shirt and

868
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 2: someone had a problem with it, so I said, I

869
00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 2: do belong in first class, ye broke Beckett, And then

870
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:18,960
Speaker 2: she had to walk to the back and I'm like that,

871
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 2: why why did that even have that?

872
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:22,040
Speaker 1: One?

873
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 2: That didn't happen, but too, why do you want to

874
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:26,080
Speaker 2: tell people some shit like that?

875
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:26,879
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

876
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:30,920
Speaker 2: So if there's people and I think, and I've talked

877
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:33,399
Speaker 2: about this before, if there's people you know or think

878
00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:35,280
Speaker 2: you can reach people.

879
00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 1: That really do have a good heart.

880
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:40,760
Speaker 2: But they might not be Twitter ready, they're not social

881
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:44,239
Speaker 2: media woke, they're not they haven't read text and book,

882
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 2: they don't know all that shit. And you know who

883
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:49,880
Speaker 2: these people are in your lives because we all have them.

884
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 3: Now that I'm more understanding too.

885
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:56,080
Speaker 2: Right, you got a cousin that might be talking about females,

886
00:41:56,719 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 2: but you know that you can tea you can talk

887
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 2: to him enough to be like, hey man, so this

888
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:02,319
Speaker 2: is what's fucked up about that?

889
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:04,720
Speaker 1: And know they're not gonna get it on the first try.

890
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 2: And know they're not gonna fucking be on you know,

891
00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:11,319
Speaker 2: wearing like feminist T shirts the next day. There's not like,

892
00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:13,959
Speaker 2: none of that's gonna happen. But you may have said

893
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:16,320
Speaker 2: something that increased their life, something that gave them a

894
00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:17,280
Speaker 2: little more awareness.

895
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 1: It may just be the seed.

896
00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 2: It may be something that they reject and think about later,

897
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:24,640
Speaker 2: Like I've had these things happen in real life. But

898
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 2: I had to pick those people like it, right, It

899
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:31,399
Speaker 2: wasn't everybody, you know. So that's the kind of stuff

900
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 2: I'm talking about. And you know, I've also had discussions

901
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 2: back when I had white friends of the exact nature

902
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 2: of what you brought up, you know, And honestly, those

903
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 2: conversations normally either left me drained, pissed off, you know,

904
00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 2: just it's sad, like it wasn't. These were not good times. Hey,

905
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 2: I just want to watch football in East Wings. And

906
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:57,160
Speaker 2: now I'm talking to you about how welfare and is

907
00:42:57,600 --> 00:42:59,840
Speaker 2: like it's racist for you to be anti welfare and

908
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 2: you're tributing at the black people, and that that that

909
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 2: notion is one of.

910
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 1: Racism that you even would do that that's worked. Now.

911
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:13,160
Speaker 2: I came not relax, you know. And I think with this,

912
00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:16,200
Speaker 2: with this holiday season time, a lot of people who

913
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 2: aren't going to see their families, or people that are

914
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:21,279
Speaker 2: going to see their families and actually just chill the

915
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:24,239
Speaker 2: fuck out. Maybe even privileged people like me who have

916
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:26,719
Speaker 2: a family that's not really that fucked up like that,

917
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 2: are sitting around telling these other people go home and

918
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:32,800
Speaker 2: fight your family. And I think it's stupid. Agree, I

919
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:34,880
Speaker 2: think it's a waste of time. I think it's something

920
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:38,279
Speaker 2: that sounds cool to say, but it's actually not cool

921
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 2: to say. It's actually kind of just a waste of

922
00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 2: everyone's time. And if you did go home and do

923
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 2: those things and start reporting back. I told my uncle

924
00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:47,759
Speaker 2: this shit, there's gonna be a ton of people that

925
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:50,840
Speaker 2: mock you and go, what you want a cookie? You know, like,

926
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:53,360
Speaker 2: just live your life. Don't worry about that shit. And

927
00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:55,879
Speaker 2: and I'm not saying don't worry about those causes. I'm saying,

928
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:58,000
Speaker 2: don't worry about trying to impress a bunch of strangers

929
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 2: on the internet with dope from you know, the time

930
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 2: you cuss at your uncle. It doesn't matter really.

931
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 3: Right, and they don't have to deal with the consequences

932
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:07,320
Speaker 3: of those things.

933
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:10,880
Speaker 4: I do agree with you, Roger. I do kind of

934
00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 4: pick and choose. But most of the time, even with

935
00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:16,360
Speaker 4: people I know, I I because the ship is not

936
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 4: a game, it's not funny. I know I'm gonna get angry,

937
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:22,360
Speaker 4: Like I know me, it's eventually gonna turn to the

938
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:24,359
Speaker 4: fact that well, oh I'm gonna I'm gonna get real

939
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 4: serious with you. And I'm like, no, no, no, no,

940
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:29,440
Speaker 4: I'm gonna nip this in the bud because you're not

941
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 4: gonna like the way I respond, and you're not gonna

942
00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:33,640
Speaker 4: like the way I react. So let's go ahead and

943
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 4: just end this so we don't have to fall out

944
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 4: over some bullshit.

945
00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:37,879
Speaker 3: But nobody's gonna change the first Well, it.

946
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:40,359
Speaker 2: Also takes it doesn't take into accounts some people are

947
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 2: conflicted verse. Sometimes you're telling people to confront people that

948
00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 2: may have abuse them. You're telling people to confront people that.

949
00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:53,040
Speaker 1: May have like it's just more, it's more moving parts

950
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:53,480
Speaker 1: to it. Now.

951
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:57,280
Speaker 2: I'm not saying don't confront these people. I'm saying, don't

952
00:44:57,280 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 2: do it for a fucking pat on the back from

953
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 2: something I'm strangers you know, and if and and don't

954
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:04,359
Speaker 2: do it in vain if you think you can reach

955
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:07,600
Speaker 2: somebody that is totally different, yes than just being like

956
00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:10,280
Speaker 2: I know this dude is racist, let.

957
00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:13,480
Speaker 1: Me go fight with him for what? Yeah, Like, yes,

958
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 1: I'll like real talk.

959
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:17,520
Speaker 2: If it was that bad for you, where you your

960
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:20,799
Speaker 2: family is that fucked up, don't go home, right, I

961
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:22,799
Speaker 2: would tell you straight up like yo, then don't go

962
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:24,480
Speaker 2: home if you if you feel like this shit is

963
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:26,480
Speaker 2: ain't gonna do nothing but stretch you out, and you

964
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:28,400
Speaker 2: have to deal with a bunch of ignorant motherfuckers you

965
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 2: don't really want to fuck with anyway. Hey man, take

966
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:33,560
Speaker 2: a vacation somewhere else, Go somewhere nice, Go to the beach.

967
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:37,400
Speaker 2: That shit would make way more sense than going home

968
00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 2: and fighting your racist grandfather who've been racist ninety years

969
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:42,920
Speaker 2: of his life and about to die anyway, you know,

970
00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:44,840
Speaker 2: don't do it for Twitter, It's what I'm saying.

971
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:48,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, my thing is put like this.

972
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:53,239
Speaker 4: For me to even approach a conversation like that, I

973
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:55,440
Speaker 4: would have to get a fit of the person, because

974
00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:58,520
Speaker 4: over the years I've learned some of y'all motherfuckers. Y'all

975
00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 4: just like to argue for the sake of argument sake,

976
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:04,920
Speaker 4: And when you're talking to somebody that actually they're not

977
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:08,320
Speaker 4: coming from from a place of earnest from the beginning,

978
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:11,359
Speaker 4: They're not coming from a place from a place of Hey,

979
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:15,920
Speaker 4: let's have a conversation. Let's have a real conversation. If

980
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 4: we are both starting on, oh, let's really have a conversation.

981
00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 3: I'm cool with that, but.

982
00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:22,719
Speaker 4: I had to learn some people I would like to

983
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:25,319
Speaker 4: argue just for argument's sake, and I don't like having

984
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:28,359
Speaker 4: conversations with those people because I've had conversations with them

985
00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 4: people and they will make me so fucking furious and

986
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:35,600
Speaker 4: then hey, hey, I'm just joking, and then I'll have

987
00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:37,919
Speaker 4: to smooth be like, motherfucker, this is not a game

988
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:40,360
Speaker 4: for you. Raised my blood, prison fucking nothing, fuck you,

989
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:41,960
Speaker 4: this is not a game to me.

990
00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:43,879
Speaker 1: All Right.

991
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 2: We got the paul, which is do you think Twitter

992
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:51,640
Speaker 2: will get rid of porn? Yes, they will try, but

993
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:54,840
Speaker 2: they will fail, or no way porn is here to

994
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:55,480
Speaker 2: stay cam.

995
00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:57,279
Speaker 3: They will try but they will fail.

996
00:46:57,640 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: All right.

997
00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:00,319
Speaker 2: Eight percent say yes they will get rid of porn,

998
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 2: sixty four percent says they're gonna try and fail that's

999
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:05,600
Speaker 2: on Karen's and twenty eight percent say no way porn

1000
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:08,400
Speaker 2: is in the state. Blue Way Rider says, so Eastern

1001
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:16,279
Speaker 2: financed a coffee shop in gentrified Wood, Oh, Inglewood, she

1002
00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 2: should have financed a coffee shop in the ghetto. This way,

1003
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:22,799
Speaker 2: Pole black folks can have access to cod brew like

1004
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:26,160
Speaker 2: the black capitalist counterparts. That white woman that was handing

1005
00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:29,719
Speaker 2: outqupons for a free cold brew was hyping Easter's investment.

1006
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 2: She should have at least found a light skin to

1007
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 2: hand out q pons, but no, her capitalists behind what

1008
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 2: couldn't help a black fellow black person. If Easter Ray

1009
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:43,480
Speaker 2: had used her money to educate black people about their slavery,

1010
00:47:43,760 --> 00:47:46,000
Speaker 2: she could have had she could have freed on slaves.

1011
00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:51,120
Speaker 2: Camilla Cabello, I always hear that she was always heard

1012
00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:52,800
Speaker 2: that she was a racist against black people. It was

1013
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:54,760
Speaker 2: often repeated on popular black podcast.

1014
00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 1: I assume, yeah, I know that she got racist.

1015
00:47:57,680 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 2: When she blew up. It appears that this happened when

1016
00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 2: she was fifteen. It was also dumb at fifteen and twenty,

1017
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:04,560
Speaker 2: so I have to give her a past.

1018
00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:07,000
Speaker 1: Girl can sing too. Yeah.

1019
00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:11,080
Speaker 2: I was really surprised to find out that that that

1020
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:14,759
Speaker 2: shit was her fans, because for years now, I've seen

1021
00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:18,120
Speaker 2: black people say that she called that Normani a monkey

1022
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:21,560
Speaker 2: and made jokes about it and shit, And I was like, damn,

1023
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:24,400
Speaker 2: she did. And I don't know nothing about these little girls.

1024
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:26,400
Speaker 2: So I'm like, all right, that guess she did it.

1025
00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:30,040
Speaker 2: And then when I went to look up information because

1026
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 2: when that's latest thing happened, I said, oh, that's right,

1027
00:48:32,680 --> 00:48:35,080
Speaker 2: that's something else races she did, and I googled it

1028
00:48:35,120 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 2: and it's like she didn't even do that shit.

1029
00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:40,280
Speaker 1: Normani didn't accuse her of anything.

1030
00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:44,960
Speaker 2: Normandy says, they cool, like why do people insert this.

1031
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:45,279
Speaker 1: This shit in there?

1032
00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:48,719
Speaker 2: And it became like a popular thing to say without verifying.

1033
00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:51,359
Speaker 2: That's so wild to me. I can't trust shit.

1034
00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 1: Man.

1035
00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:55,520
Speaker 2: Remember when Jason will I told the Marlon Negra to

1036
00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:58,479
Speaker 2: stop drawing attention to her blackness because it would mess

1037
00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:00,840
Speaker 2: her up. He also so went on to say that

1038
00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 2: he was trying to help her out hotel ass nigga

1039
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:06,719
Speaker 2: And no, I don't remember that. Uh well, Jason will

1040
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:11,400
Speaker 2: I knows who a Marlin nigger is. Jason Whitlock. Wow,

1041
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:15,879
Speaker 2: I learned something new every day. I guess I never

1042
00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:16,279
Speaker 2: heard that.

1043
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:17,600
Speaker 1: Didn't even look that up.

1044
00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 3: You know, I don't know.

1045
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:21,800
Speaker 1: I don't even keep up with that motherfucker Jason will Like, really.

1046
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 3: Is I know who he is? I don't know who

1047
00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:25,400
Speaker 3: he's still on TV he is?

1048
00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:27,439
Speaker 2: Sometimes I look up, I'll be like, damn, this coon

1049
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 2: is still winning, not like not just him, but like

1050
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 2: sage still. I just randomly have it on something and

1051
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:35,280
Speaker 2: be like, oh damn, that's what they went still catching

1052
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:38,799
Speaker 2: them checks. Congratulations comes you did it all right? We

1053
00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:43,200
Speaker 2: got some emails man, up feedback two thousand and five

1054
00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:45,600
Speaker 2: just from said who says.

1055
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 1: I'm a little behind.

1056
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:50,239
Speaker 2: Okay, no problem, you know people get behind on the show.

1057
00:49:50,239 --> 00:49:53,280
Speaker 2: We're taking a little more breaks now. But I listened

1058
00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:55,640
Speaker 2: to this episode when you spoke about fighting as a

1059
00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:58,240
Speaker 2: kid in your response to white people saying the word nigger,

1060
00:49:58,480 --> 00:50:01,120
Speaker 2: I completely related. I'm from the off West Virginia and

1061
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:03,520
Speaker 2: I grew up with the same experience. I was always

1062
00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:05,600
Speaker 2: in honors class, and as much as the white people

1063
00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:07,760
Speaker 2: hated it, I experienced more issues.

1064
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:10,279
Speaker 1: With the other black people making fun of my own

1065
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:11,200
Speaker 1: on my own block.

1066
00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 2: It seemed normal back then, but as an adult it's

1067
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:17,600
Speaker 2: completely unacceptable. How much fighting took place on a weekly

1068
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:21,320
Speaker 2: of not daily basis, and most fights were no reason

1069
00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:23,880
Speaker 2: other than just to be testing people for weakness.

1070
00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 1: Yep.

1071
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 2: As for white people, I've been called nigga with the

1072
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:30,279
Speaker 2: hardest of ours more times than I could count, and

1073
00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:34,040
Speaker 2: I like you and like you. It's not the word

1074
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:37,560
Speaker 2: so much as that offends me as the intent behind it.

1075
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 2: I got to the point where I didn't even get mad.

1076
00:50:40,080 --> 00:50:42,319
Speaker 2: I just be called nigga and go, really, oh, you

1077
00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:45,200
Speaker 2: just want to fight? And I just thought that environment

1078
00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:48,520
Speaker 2: was local to my area, but it was interesting to

1079
00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:51,000
Speaker 2: hear your experience in the similarities. The next part doesn't

1080
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:52,880
Speaker 2: need to be mentioned on shows you find an underpoort me.

1081
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:54,360
Speaker 1: I'm read it, man, I got you blive.

1082
00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:56,640
Speaker 2: I actually reached out to you when I lived in

1083
00:50:56,719 --> 00:50:58,680
Speaker 2: Charlotte about where to play ball. I played with you

1084
00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:00,759
Speaker 2: and justin at I believe it while see how you

1085
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:03,200
Speaker 2: recommended on Ballsy Sports. I crack up when we talk

1086
00:51:03,239 --> 00:51:05,200
Speaker 2: about the games and the players there because I remember

1087
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:07,960
Speaker 2: most of them and know exactly what you're talking about.

1088
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 2: Love the show, and I've been listening since the beginning

1089
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 2: of y'all the best all you know what that means. Dog,

1090
00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:15,120
Speaker 2: you about to come up on ten years with the

1091
00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:17,759
Speaker 2: Blackout tips at the end of this twenty twenty, Like

1092
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 2: at the end of nineteen twenty nineteen, we'll be going

1093
00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:23,640
Speaker 2: like that'll be a decade of our show. In a decade.

1094
00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 2: People have been listening to what we do for a decade.

1095
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:26,800
Speaker 2: You know, that's crazy.

1096
00:51:26,920 --> 00:51:30,399
Speaker 3: In two thousand and nine, yeah.

1097
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:31,480
Speaker 2: So I thought it was two thousand and ten. It's

1098
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:34,759
Speaker 2: two thousand and nine, one of them. That's how long

1099
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:35,319
Speaker 2: we've been doing it.

1100
00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:37,160
Speaker 4: I think every nine did you were like this the

1101
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 4: first episode and I think it was two thousand and nine.

1102
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 2: Okay, that's crazy a decade. But yeah, So to address

1103
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:46,560
Speaker 2: a couple of things, Yeah, I like I did. I

1104
00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 2: what's weird for me is I never really thought about

1105
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:52,160
Speaker 2: black people's experiences being different than the one I grew

1106
00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:55,520
Speaker 2: up with. So it wasn't until I got to college

1107
00:51:55,600 --> 00:51:57,320
Speaker 2: or something before I met black people that I was like, what,

1108
00:51:57,440 --> 00:52:00,439
Speaker 2: you didn't grow up like that, right, I just black

1109
00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:03,879
Speaker 2: people grew up around black people, and you fought at

1110
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:07,040
Speaker 2: school or at the bus stop or at the basketball court.

1111
00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:09,719
Speaker 1: And it was just kind of kind of what it was.

1112
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:13,680
Speaker 2: And then the you know, you you're fighting and you know,

1113
00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:15,600
Speaker 2: hopefully no one gets killed or no shit, and then

1114
00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:17,880
Speaker 2: you fight again the next day or whatever the fuck,

1115
00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:20,480
Speaker 2: and eventually that's how you learn to respect people.

1116
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:22,200
Speaker 1: And most of the time the just testing you see

1117
00:52:22,239 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 1: of your soft.

1118
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:25,840
Speaker 2: And it's you know, And I think I was watching

1119
00:52:25,880 --> 00:52:30,640
Speaker 2: an episode of Atlanta about the Black school and I

1120
00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:35,600
Speaker 2: was like, fuck, this is a trauma. It is like

1121
00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:38,480
Speaker 2: that was life and I never fucking thought about it.

1122
00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:41,680
Speaker 2: I was I had those stresses. I was stressed about

1123
00:52:41,680 --> 00:52:44,120
Speaker 2: my clothing. I was stressed about who I hung out with.

1124
00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 2: I was stressed about, you know, being too smart. I

1125
00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 2: was stressed about being too stupid. I was stressed about

1126
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:54,439
Speaker 2: a bunch of shit that you know, you know I

1127
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:58,160
Speaker 2: and obviously just regular danger shit, getting robbed, getting shy,

1128
00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:03,320
Speaker 2: get you know, just weird shit that you would think

1129
00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:07,760
Speaker 2: that I got so used to. But until I start

1130
00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:11,960
Speaker 2: seeing people talk about it outside of the way I

1131
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:14,680
Speaker 2: grew up and being like, oh, so there's other ways

1132
00:53:14,680 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 2: to grow up, and that's not really necessarily good, right.

1133
00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:22,359
Speaker 3: My normal is actually abnormal?

1134
00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:26,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like this is like it's fucked up that, you know.

1135
00:53:26,160 --> 00:53:29,480
Speaker 2: And then to consider that there's people who grew up

1136
00:53:29,560 --> 00:53:31,840
Speaker 2: and they just didn't have those pressures and they doesn't

1137
00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:34,680
Speaker 2: mean they didn't have any pressure, they just had different pressures.

1138
00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:34,960
Speaker 3: Right that.

1139
00:53:35,680 --> 00:53:37,880
Speaker 2: And it's one of the reasons that you know, I

1140
00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 2: still work at it all the time. And it's not

1141
00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:46,080
Speaker 2: no disrespect, but I had to unlearn and I'm trying

1142
00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:53,439
Speaker 2: to unlearn my kind of bias and prejudice against black

1143
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:57,279
Speaker 2: people who give me that vibe like they thought they

1144
00:53:57,280 --> 00:54:00,399
Speaker 2: were just special black people and shit because they they

1145
00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:02,880
Speaker 2: were taught that and they had to unlearn it themselves.

1146
00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:05,560
Speaker 2: And if they don't want to unlearn it, then obviously

1147
00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 2: I'm not fucking with them, duh. But I used to

1148
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:12,319
Speaker 2: have no empathy for those people, and I assumed that

1149
00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:15,200
Speaker 2: it was because they were judging me. I'm and I'm

1150
00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:18,239
Speaker 2: really the one passing judgment on them. And I see

1151
00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:21,320
Speaker 2: the cycles of how that continually plays out in blackness,

1152
00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:24,120
Speaker 2: and I think it's very unhealthy. And so I'm trying

1153
00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:26,120
Speaker 2: to get rid of that shit and understand that, hey,

1154
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:28,759
Speaker 2: they just grew up different from me. It's still your

1155
00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:31,239
Speaker 2: responsibility as an adult to get rid of it, but

1156
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:37,279
Speaker 2: it's different. I you know, the thing I realized too, like,

1157
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:39,920
Speaker 2: once you become an adult, the trauma is shit that

1158
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:41,200
Speaker 2: happened to you when you as a kid.

1159
00:54:42,600 --> 00:54:43,160
Speaker 1: Tough luck.

1160
00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 2: It's on you to handle. It's not the world's responsibility.

1161
00:54:47,480 --> 00:54:50,279
Speaker 2: And I think because we now have the ability to

1162
00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 2: craft the world online, people really start trying to apply

1163
00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:55,440
Speaker 2: these things to life.

1164
00:54:55,520 --> 00:54:57,839
Speaker 1: Like I had these things happen to.

1165
00:54:57,800 --> 00:55:00,000
Speaker 2: Me in the world, Go out and fucking be careful

1166
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:02,520
Speaker 2: for around me, and and and and and.

1167
00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:03,399
Speaker 1: Been to what I want.

1168
00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:05,960
Speaker 2: And I mean, sure, if you can get it to happen,

1169
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:07,720
Speaker 2: good for you, But that ain't gonna happen.

1170
00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:15,920
Speaker 1: So I think for me, uh.

1171
00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:15,920
Speaker 2: It bothers me when I see grown ass people that

1172
00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:18,879
Speaker 2: still have these hang ups, you know, but it's help

1173
00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:20,799
Speaker 2: for them to deal with it. And I'm not there

1174
00:55:20,880 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 2: fucking therapist or whatever. And we do a lot of

1175
00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 2: hurt to each other.

1176
00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:25,080
Speaker 1: When we're young.

1177
00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:26,560
Speaker 3: Oh yeah.

1178
00:55:26,680 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 2: Uh And and the and the thing I'm trying to

1179
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 2: recognize is that I don't need to strip away the

1180
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:37,280
Speaker 2: reality of what happened to you in order to say, okay,

1181
00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:39,480
Speaker 2: but it's not healthy for you to carry this to today.

1182
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:41,400
Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying.

1183
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:43,959
Speaker 2: So, yes, there are some black kids who were picked

1184
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:48,200
Speaker 2: on for talking and acting white quote unquote, and most

1185
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:50,680
Speaker 2: of the time people attack them black other black people

1186
00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:53,320
Speaker 2: attack them on something like, well, fuck that, you probably

1187
00:55:53,440 --> 00:55:55,799
Speaker 2: was weird and all this mean shit. But the truth

1188
00:55:55,800 --> 00:55:58,560
Speaker 2: of the matter is, hey, you were a kid. You

1189
00:55:58,640 --> 00:56:00,640
Speaker 2: were a kid, and so of those kids picking on you,

1190
00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:02,560
Speaker 2: and that was fucked up with those kids to do.

1191
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 2: And I'm sorry that they messed. But you're now twenty five,

1192
00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:09,600
Speaker 2: you're now thirty, you're now forty. You can't be mad forever,

1193
00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:12,480
Speaker 2: at least not around me, not around me.

1194
00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:14,239
Speaker 4: But there are some people that are like that, and

1195
00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:17,120
Speaker 4: they never grow past they literally never go past that point.

1196
00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:21,799
Speaker 2: There was I saw someone Jody Turner Smith who just

1197
00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:25,920
Speaker 2: recently got married to the white dude from Dalson's Creek,

1198
00:56:25,920 --> 00:56:28,800
Speaker 2: one of the white dudes from Johnson Creek, Patsy Pacy whatever.

1199
00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:33,000
Speaker 2: I didn't watch that show anyway, and there were people

1200
00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 2: coming at her neck talking about you was it queen

1201
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 2: and Slim and now you married a white man and

1202
00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:38,640
Speaker 2: all this weird shit.

1203
00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:41,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, first of all, Queen Slim, that's a fucking tea.

1204
00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:44,880
Speaker 2: That's a character on a movie, right, But then also like,

1205
00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:48,520
Speaker 2: no one owes you their sex.

1206
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:51,800
Speaker 1: And I understand the racial.

1207
00:56:51,640 --> 00:56:54,719
Speaker 2: Dynamics around it, but micro to macro, leave people to

1208
00:56:54,719 --> 00:56:57,600
Speaker 2: fuck alone. Micro If as long as they're not saying

1209
00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:00,719
Speaker 2: nothing anti black or bad about black people, who gives

1210
00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:03,600
Speaker 2: a fuck, Let them go do whatever they want to agree,

1211
00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:06,680
Speaker 2: like unless they walking around here like all black people

1212
00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:08,880
Speaker 2: ain't shit. That's why I got me a white man. Okay,

1213
00:57:08,920 --> 00:57:11,239
Speaker 2: well then okay, you're gonna get people mad. I get that,

1214
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:13,320
Speaker 2: but just getting mad because you see her with a

1215
00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:15,640
Speaker 2: white man getting married. If they if he love her,

1216
00:57:15,680 --> 00:57:19,600
Speaker 2: he loves her, you know. Anyway, So one of her

1217
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:25,160
Speaker 2: responses was how as a younger black woman, being very

1218
00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:29,760
Speaker 2: dark skinned, she experienced a lot of trauma from black

1219
00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 2: boys and she felt ostracized.

1220
00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:36,400
Speaker 1: And she said she never really felt loved from.

1221
00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:39,840
Speaker 2: Black boys or whatever, and it was a white man,

1222
00:57:40,040 --> 00:57:42,320
Speaker 2: a white It wasn't until she met white dudes that

1223
00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:47,160
Speaker 2: really was appreciative of her skin tone and beauty and stuff. Now,

1224
00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:52,680
Speaker 2: anecdotally that might be true, and that because anti blackness

1225
00:57:52,720 --> 00:57:55,280
Speaker 2: colorism exists within the black community, that's not.

1226
00:57:55,440 --> 00:57:57,720
Speaker 3: And I've met other black women that have said that.

1227
00:57:57,760 --> 00:58:01,360
Speaker 4: They say that they get more criticism and more shit

1228
00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:03,320
Speaker 4: about being black from black people.

1229
00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 2: Right, So this is trauma that she experienced for however long,

1230
00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:10,640
Speaker 2: possibly to this day, from black people.

1231
00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:14,920
Speaker 1: Right now, my gut instig.

1232
00:58:14,480 --> 00:58:16,840
Speaker 2: Is the want to be like, nah, but there had

1233
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:19,200
Speaker 2: to be some black people, but maybe they just fucking

1234
00:58:19,240 --> 00:58:21,960
Speaker 2: weren't or maybe they didn't stick out to her, or

1235
00:58:22,200 --> 00:58:23,840
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Like it could have just

1236
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:27,160
Speaker 2: been that way for her, And there's other black women

1237
00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:30,640
Speaker 2: that have that same experience. Now I have to flip

1238
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:32,880
Speaker 2: it though, because that's an easy one for the people

1239
00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 2: to listen to this show, because most of them are

1240
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:37,080
Speaker 2: like teen black women. The black girl that right is

1241
00:58:37,200 --> 00:58:39,920
Speaker 2: just easy to Yeah, that was fucked up what happened

1242
00:58:39,960 --> 00:58:42,280
Speaker 2: to her? And if she got a white man, fuck y'all.

1243
00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:46,760
Speaker 2: You know, y'all had y'all chance. Totally understand. But let's

1244
00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:49,880
Speaker 2: say that was some black nerd nigga talking about you know,

1245
00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:52,360
Speaker 2: black people picked on me when I was younger and

1246
00:58:52,440 --> 00:58:54,600
Speaker 2: black girls thought I was too nerdy and didn't want

1247
00:58:54,600 --> 00:58:56,880
Speaker 2: to fuck with me. We would be like, get over it,

1248
00:58:57,080 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 2: bitch ass nigga, what you thirty five talking about this?

1249
00:59:00,640 --> 00:59:04,560
Speaker 2: So like, I recognize that there's like a flip on

1250
00:59:04,680 --> 00:59:07,880
Speaker 2: this shit. One side is like it's cool to be like, well,

1251
00:59:07,960 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 2: this was trauming your experience at fourteen. If you want

1252
00:59:10,040 --> 00:59:13,480
Speaker 2: to let that fucking if you want to let that

1253
00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:15,720
Speaker 2: carry out through your whole life, and you want to

1254
00:59:15,800 --> 00:59:18,880
Speaker 2: like form your your you be forty right now, you

1255
00:59:18,920 --> 00:59:20,880
Speaker 2: want to. You can be phil forty, you can be thirty,

1256
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:22,880
Speaker 2: you can be whatever. And this is still how you're

1257
00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:25,040
Speaker 2: making your decisions off of this matrix of things that

1258
00:59:25,080 --> 00:59:27,920
Speaker 2: happening you when you're fourteen. There's some people were okay

1259
00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:30,640
Speaker 2: with doing that, and then there's some people were not.

1260
00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 2: And the truth of the matter is if the things

1261
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:36,000
Speaker 2: really did happen to them, the only thing I can

1262
00:59:36,200 --> 00:59:37,880
Speaker 2: hope for is that they find a way to heal,

1263
00:59:38,160 --> 00:59:41,520
Speaker 2: because I know that the acting out and the pointing

1264
00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:45,400
Speaker 2: fingers that other people shit when after a certain age,

1265
00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:48,640
Speaker 2: not that nobody want to hear it, but the people

1266
00:59:48,680 --> 00:59:50,000
Speaker 2: that want to hear it got an agenda.

1267
00:59:50,760 --> 00:59:50,960
Speaker 3: Right.

1268
00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:54,560
Speaker 4: The average person gonna be like, Okay, dog, I understand this.

1269
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:59,880
Speaker 4: I like, I have compassion, but at some point in time,

1270
01:00:01,120 --> 01:00:03,360
Speaker 4: I can't be stuck in with you.

1271
01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:05,800
Speaker 2: Right, So, like I said, this is knocking her. It's

1272
01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:09,120
Speaker 2: not even knocking the black nerd niggas. It's saying It's

1273
01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:10,960
Speaker 2: something I had to work through myself to be a

1274
01:00:11,000 --> 01:00:15,960
Speaker 2: little bit more empathetic because my reflex was to be

1275
01:00:16,080 --> 01:00:20,040
Speaker 2: defensive because to me, I feel like I'm defending black people.

1276
01:00:20,640 --> 01:00:23,280
Speaker 2: You know, It's like when a gay person, a gay

1277
01:00:23,320 --> 01:00:26,080
Speaker 2: black person, talks about how the most of the homophobia

1278
01:00:26,200 --> 01:00:28,120
Speaker 2: experience in their lives from black people. Well, of course

1279
01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:30,840
Speaker 2: that's who you've been around, but sometimes they take it

1280
01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:33,680
Speaker 2: the next step and go, black people are homophobic and

1281
01:00:33,720 --> 01:00:36,920
Speaker 2: white people aren't, or something like that, and there's this

1282
01:00:37,000 --> 01:00:39,400
Speaker 2: defensiveness that jumps out because it's like, how the fuck

1283
01:00:39,440 --> 01:00:41,880
Speaker 2: did you? But they reached that conclusion through their own

1284
01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:46,439
Speaker 2: anecdotal experiences and their own lives. I can't make them

1285
01:00:46,520 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 2: have a different reality. This is what they experience. They

1286
01:00:48,800 --> 01:00:51,480
Speaker 2: have to deal with that. They got to figure that

1287
01:00:51,560 --> 01:00:54,360
Speaker 2: out and come to whatever conclusions they come to. And

1288
01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:58,720
Speaker 2: I think that's the hardest part to realize, because, like

1289
01:00:58,760 --> 01:01:01,360
Speaker 2: I said, growing up that way, and said you growing

1290
01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:03,880
Speaker 2: up that way, I would have thought me and you,

1291
01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:06,640
Speaker 2: like we probably would click right away because like, oh yeah, niggas,

1292
01:01:06,640 --> 01:01:07,520
Speaker 2: that's how it is, you know.

1293
01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:09,880
Speaker 1: But then there's some other black person's like that's.

1294
01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:11,880
Speaker 2: Not how it is at all, you know, And I

1295
01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:15,160
Speaker 2: had to understand, well, that person got a valid point too,

1296
01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:17,840
Speaker 2: because that's their life and I'm not I can't speak

1297
01:01:17,840 --> 01:01:20,080
Speaker 2: to their life. And you know, I just I'm sad

1298
01:01:20,120 --> 01:01:23,160
Speaker 2: that that shit even bothers people and stuff. And please

1299
01:01:23,160 --> 01:01:26,080
Speaker 2: don't write in and explain why, because I'm not talking

1300
01:01:26,120 --> 01:01:29,640
Speaker 2: about one hundred percent of the time. So and we've

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01:01:29,640 --> 01:01:33,680
Speaker 2: talked about this before to death, but look, man, some

1302
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:36,480
Speaker 2: people really did have these shitty experiences.

1303
01:01:35,880 --> 01:01:39,040
Speaker 1: And they're never gonna get over it, nope, you know.

1304
01:01:39,320 --> 01:01:42,080
Speaker 2: And I've had shitty experiences with black people because that's

1305
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:43,959
Speaker 2: who I grew up around, and people are shitty at

1306
01:01:44,160 --> 01:01:45,080
Speaker 2: a certain age.

1307
01:01:45,120 --> 01:01:48,600
Speaker 1: But it just didn't stick with me in that way.

1308
01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:52,040
Speaker 2: But it did stick with me in other ways where

1309
01:01:52,120 --> 01:01:54,640
Speaker 2: I really like, like I said, I was more worried

1310
01:01:54,640 --> 01:01:58,400
Speaker 2: about the other black kids in the AG program looking

1311
01:01:58,440 --> 01:02:00,560
Speaker 2: at me like what is this nigga doing. I grew

1312
01:02:00,680 --> 01:02:04,920
Speaker 2: up in, you know, an upper class neighborhood, and you

1313
01:02:04,960 --> 01:02:06,760
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, Like they had their own shit

1314
01:02:06,800 --> 01:02:08,720
Speaker 2: where they were looking at like this nigga rides the

1315
01:02:08,720 --> 01:02:09,600
Speaker 2: bus the fuck?

1316
01:02:10,400 --> 01:02:10,600
Speaker 1: You know.

1317
01:02:11,120 --> 01:02:14,560
Speaker 2: So I definitely grew up holding those biases against those

1318
01:02:14,600 --> 01:02:17,520
Speaker 2: type of kids. And now I'm a grown ass adult

1319
01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:19,840
Speaker 2: and I still used to feel that way about those

1320
01:02:19,920 --> 01:02:23,120
Speaker 2: kids like five years ago, and about those adults who

1321
01:02:23,120 --> 01:02:25,760
Speaker 2: those kids, the adults those kids became, and I, you know,

1322
01:02:25,960 --> 01:02:28,480
Speaker 2: obviously I regret it now and I work through it

1323
01:02:28,520 --> 01:02:31,680
Speaker 2: and try to understand, like, if they're not still shitting

1324
01:02:31,680 --> 01:02:33,560
Speaker 2: on me, then now, why.

1325
01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:35,480
Speaker 1: Would I be mad about them? I agreed.

1326
01:02:37,200 --> 01:02:40,200
Speaker 2: Let's see Gwynn Wright saying, oh, she just sent a

1327
01:02:40,200 --> 01:02:43,800
Speaker 2: picture of her Christmas card and it was with her.

1328
01:02:45,320 --> 01:02:47,560
Speaker 1: It was in a Christmas tree. She tied it around

1329
01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:48,320
Speaker 1: a Christmas tree.

1330
01:02:49,120 --> 01:02:49,880
Speaker 3: So sweet.

1331
01:02:50,680 --> 01:02:53,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think, what is she right? Thanks so

1332
01:02:53,760 --> 01:02:56,080
Speaker 2: much you guys. Cards beautiful. Thank you for the joy

1333
01:02:56,200 --> 01:02:57,680
Speaker 2: you have brought me throughout the year. I hope you

1334
01:02:57,720 --> 01:03:00,560
Speaker 2: can have a wonderful holiday. Love you, thank you, thank you.

1335
01:03:02,520 --> 01:03:07,160
Speaker 2: Let's see, uh, wait for the next one, dark Wing

1336
01:03:07,280 --> 01:03:11,360
Speaker 2: duck rights hen, Okay, let's get dangerous.

1337
01:03:13,400 --> 01:03:15,560
Speaker 1: Oh this is so dope. Hold on, let me see

1338
01:03:15,560 --> 01:03:16,560
Speaker 1: if I put this on screen.

1339
01:03:19,440 --> 01:03:24,400
Speaker 2: Uh all right, here we go, we are we are

1340
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:27,680
Speaker 2: day late, brother, Happy holidays from my family to yours.

1341
01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:30,280
Speaker 2: Family did some cosplay that went a little viral, so

1342
01:03:30,360 --> 01:03:32,520
Speaker 2: I figured i'd shared. By the way, no better gift

1343
01:03:32,520 --> 01:03:36,040
Speaker 2: than Black Friday deal. I wasn't going anywhere, but that

1344
01:03:36,160 --> 01:03:39,240
Speaker 2: certainly helped the wallet. I appreciate care and yourself for

1345
01:03:39,360 --> 01:03:42,240
Speaker 2: years of making my brain expand respectfully.

1346
01:03:42,280 --> 01:03:45,600
Speaker 1: In andeous this is.

1347
01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:49,320
Speaker 2: They did some cosplay as Black Panther. The Black Panther's

1348
01:03:49,360 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 2: got a shurry. Yeah, that's that's so dope. Look at this,

1349
01:03:54,680 --> 01:03:55,880
Speaker 2: that's precious.

1350
01:03:57,880 --> 01:03:58,040
Speaker 4: Oh.

1351
01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:01,120
Speaker 1: They even had like the CGI background in there for

1352
01:04:01,200 --> 01:04:02,920
Speaker 1: one of them.

1353
01:04:03,400 --> 01:04:06,520
Speaker 2: Oh man, y'all, y'all like y'all had a blast. I know,

1354
01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:12,640
Speaker 2: is Oh This is so dope. I'll see all this

1355
01:04:12,680 --> 01:04:14,800
Speaker 2: went viral. This is one with Conda Feer over here.

1356
01:04:14,880 --> 01:04:17,160
Speaker 3: Okay, that's precious.

1357
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:20,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's dope. Man, All right, let me go to

1358
01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:21,520
Speaker 1: the next one.

1359
01:04:21,600 --> 01:04:23,920
Speaker 2: Got one more email I believe in and we have

1360
01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 2: some stuff to open up cars and stuff. Episode twenty fourteen.

1361
01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:33,480
Speaker 2: This is just from Tyrone. Call them who says it's up?

1362
01:04:33,560 --> 01:04:33,880
Speaker 1: Y'all.

1363
01:04:33,960 --> 01:04:37,200
Speaker 2: Interesting caffeine fact I picked up in a bar exam seminar.

1364
01:04:37,600 --> 01:04:40,000
Speaker 2: Caffeine has a half life of twelve hours and you

1365
01:04:40,040 --> 01:04:43,640
Speaker 2: cannot reach our em sleep with more than fifteen milligrams

1366
01:04:43,680 --> 01:04:46,040
Speaker 2: or caffeine in your system. Since that seminar, I don't

1367
01:04:46,080 --> 01:04:48,800
Speaker 2: drink any caffeine at the ten thirty am and sleep

1368
01:04:48,840 --> 01:04:49,680
Speaker 2: as a breeze.

1369
01:04:49,840 --> 01:04:53,800
Speaker 1: Hopefully this information helps someone enjoy your new year. My niggas, Tyrone,

1370
01:04:54,000 --> 01:04:54,400
Speaker 1: thank you.

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01:04:54,480 --> 01:04:57,000
Speaker 3: Help somebody sleeps and they won't be up by half

1372
01:04:57,040 --> 01:04:57,360
Speaker 3: the night.

1373
01:04:57,880 --> 01:05:00,760
Speaker 2: Y'all super sensitive to caffeine anyway you are. I just

1374
01:05:00,800 --> 01:05:04,640
Speaker 2: tried to not drink that shit if I can't avoid it.

1375
01:05:04,920 --> 01:05:07,200
Speaker 2: I used to drink it when I had a joby job,

1376
01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:09,840
Speaker 2: and I felt like I couldn't stay awake because I

1377
01:05:09,880 --> 01:05:10,760
Speaker 2: was bored.

1378
01:05:10,800 --> 01:05:13,800
Speaker 1: To tears, and it really was.

1379
01:05:13,920 --> 01:05:16,040
Speaker 2: It really was pointless because then I would come home

1380
01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:17,640
Speaker 2: and not be able to sleep, and now I'm tired

1381
01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:21,920
Speaker 2: tomorrow the job like it's a bad cycle. Late review submission.

1382
01:05:21,960 --> 01:05:24,520
Speaker 2: Kyle says, this podcast is to go. I've been a

1383
01:05:24,520 --> 01:05:26,600
Speaker 2: listener for five to six years now. I love the community,

1384
01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:29,200
Speaker 2: uf Bilt. It's one of my twenty twenty New Year's

1385
01:05:29,240 --> 01:05:32,600
Speaker 2: resolutions to put in on this and become a recurrent donator.

1386
01:05:33,080 --> 01:05:35,600
Speaker 2: But not that you asked, but here are a few

1387
01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:39,680
Speaker 2: of my top moments from twenty nineteen. John Lewis, I

1388
01:05:39,720 --> 01:05:42,400
Speaker 2: know you probably have concussions from the beatens you took

1389
01:05:42,440 --> 01:05:44,640
Speaker 2: on the bridge, but it's Donald Trump.

1390
01:05:44,440 --> 01:05:47,600
Speaker 1: A racist Rod. I guess I said that at some point.

1391
01:05:48,400 --> 01:05:49,080
Speaker 1: I don't remember.

1392
01:05:49,480 --> 01:05:51,040
Speaker 3: I don't remember half stuff I say, y'all.

1393
01:05:51,120 --> 01:05:55,000
Speaker 2: Karen says, all look at the happy niggas plucking the flowers. Karen, hahaha,

1394
01:05:55,920 --> 01:05:58,640
Speaker 2: shed a tear for a coon, Karen, I remember that

1395
01:05:59,080 --> 01:06:01,480
Speaker 2: all three of these literally had me crying. I know

1396
01:06:01,560 --> 01:06:04,240
Speaker 2: you all are probably tired of talking politics, but being

1397
01:06:04,240 --> 01:06:07,320
Speaker 2: from DC, I love a recent episode with Jail and

1398
01:06:07,360 --> 01:06:13,280
Speaker 2: bay Ensley. Between the lighter fun segments to the deeper

1399
01:06:13,280 --> 01:06:15,760
Speaker 2: meaningful topics. This podcast has it all. Keep doing what

1400
01:06:15,760 --> 01:06:18,720
Speaker 2: you're doing and I'll be here every damn day. Happy holidays,

1401
01:06:18,720 --> 01:06:20,240
Speaker 2: all the best. Well, you're gonna be in for a

1402
01:06:20,280 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 2: tree Cayle, because tomorrow Jail Coved.

1403
01:06:23,000 --> 01:06:23,800
Speaker 1: Is gonna be the guest.

1404
01:06:24,360 --> 01:06:27,800
Speaker 2: Yay, so you know, assuming he hasn't forgotten. I'll make

1405
01:06:27,840 --> 01:06:31,560
Speaker 2: sure he hasn't. But yeah, so if you like Jail Coved,

1406
01:06:31,640 --> 01:06:34,920
Speaker 2: you like some politics talk, we'll probably be talking politics

1407
01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:36,240
Speaker 2: and maybe some movies and.

1408
01:06:36,200 --> 01:06:38,520
Speaker 1: Shit like that because that's what Jail's into.

1409
01:06:40,320 --> 01:06:44,520
Speaker 2: All right, we got gifts, we do. Let me open

1410
01:06:44,600 --> 01:06:46,880
Speaker 2: these things up. Some of them hadn't opened yet, but

1411
01:06:47,920 --> 01:06:51,120
Speaker 2: all right. So this one is from Brooklyn shoe Babe

1412
01:06:51,120 --> 01:06:57,280
Speaker 2: aka Rakesha, who says, oh she got me, got us upgrade.

1413
01:06:57,160 --> 01:06:58,720
Speaker 3: One of my favorite movies of the year.

1414
01:06:58,920 --> 01:07:04,200
Speaker 1: Great, Great, Impossible. Yes it is underrated. Go see it yourself, guys.

1415
01:07:04,280 --> 01:07:07,320
Speaker 1: I really can't. I can't. I can't get this movie enough.

1416
01:07:07,320 --> 01:07:08,840
Speaker 3: Problem Enjoy that one.

1417
01:07:08,800 --> 01:07:10,800
Speaker 2: They're riding cam because you love I Possible white Man

1418
01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:11,840
Speaker 2: movies as much as I do.

1419
01:07:12,120 --> 01:07:14,800
Speaker 1: I do. I watch die Hard on Christmas Day this year.

1420
01:07:14,840 --> 01:07:17,520
Speaker 2: He did just a little something to tell you how

1421
01:07:17,600 --> 01:07:20,760
Speaker 2: much I appreciate all you do. Happy Holidays riding Queen

1422
01:07:20,840 --> 01:07:22,280
Speaker 2: Karen Scilly Brooklyn shoe bag.

1423
01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:25,360
Speaker 3: Thank you, baby, we appreciate you.

1424
01:07:26,160 --> 01:07:28,680
Speaker 1: We got some cars. Should I do the cars last

1425
01:07:28,920 --> 01:07:31,120
Speaker 1: up to you. I guess I'll do the cars. Let

1426
01:07:31,160 --> 01:07:34,960
Speaker 1: me look through more of these items we got.

1427
01:07:35,600 --> 01:07:35,720
Speaker 4: Uh?

1428
01:07:36,000 --> 01:07:36,640
Speaker 1: What is this?

1429
01:07:38,280 --> 01:07:42,960
Speaker 2: A two pack Lumon Lucks Advance Motion sense of led,

1430
01:07:43,120 --> 01:07:44,120
Speaker 2: toilet bowl night light.

1431
01:07:44,400 --> 01:07:44,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1432
01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:47,560
Speaker 4: I put that on there so when I'm half asleep,

1433
01:07:48,040 --> 01:07:48,919
Speaker 4: the toilet is lit.

1434
01:07:49,840 --> 01:07:52,360
Speaker 2: Y'all, Camen will go use the bathroom middle of the

1435
01:07:52,440 --> 01:07:56,600
Speaker 2: night and not turn on the light in the bathroom

1436
01:07:56,760 --> 01:07:57,440
Speaker 2: and just go by.

1437
01:07:57,520 --> 01:08:01,760
Speaker 4: Feel like why that's why I put that on the list.

1438
01:08:02,800 --> 01:08:04,600
Speaker 3: I'm like, fuck you, your tourne a light.

1439
01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:06,280
Speaker 2: I can't go back to sleep if you turn on

1440
01:08:06,320 --> 01:08:08,280
Speaker 2: the light, that's when you're really gonna wake up. Not

1441
01:08:08,360 --> 01:08:10,080
Speaker 2: to walk from the bathroom. Took it from the bed

1442
01:08:10,120 --> 01:08:11,080
Speaker 2: to the bathroom.

1443
01:08:11,120 --> 01:08:13,480
Speaker 4: I like like because I because when the light come on,

1444
01:08:13,640 --> 01:08:15,280
Speaker 4: I literally start actually.

1445
01:08:15,040 --> 01:08:17,880
Speaker 3: Just waking up. You're like, fuck now I'm up to

1446
01:08:18,080 --> 01:08:19,519
Speaker 3: four fuck d.

1447
01:08:19,920 --> 01:08:23,599
Speaker 1: That's probably some signs behind that. I don't understand. Enjoy

1448
01:08:23,600 --> 01:08:25,000
Speaker 1: your gift, Jacqueline, Thank you.

1449
01:08:25,040 --> 01:08:26,120
Speaker 3: I will, baby.

1450
01:08:27,160 --> 01:08:32,320
Speaker 2: Uh, we got this one from Allen and it's a it's.

1451
01:08:32,200 --> 01:08:33,320
Speaker 1: A jar opener.

1452
01:08:33,640 --> 01:08:37,800
Speaker 2: Yeah uh, I guess to help people with weak grip

1453
01:08:38,320 --> 01:08:41,160
Speaker 2: because Karen off To asked me to open the jars on.

1454
01:08:41,160 --> 01:08:43,519
Speaker 3: There about saying, now I can open up some jobs

1455
01:08:43,560 --> 01:08:44,120
Speaker 3: on myself.

1456
01:08:45,280 --> 01:08:46,559
Speaker 1: We'll see if this works.

1457
01:08:46,840 --> 01:08:47,240
Speaker 3: We done.

1458
01:08:47,760 --> 01:08:50,120
Speaker 2: I'm gonna put it to the test. Happy holidays, rid

1459
01:08:50,160 --> 01:08:52,200
Speaker 2: of caring. You guys are like the family I never met.

1460
01:08:52,240 --> 01:08:54,479
Speaker 2: Thanks for all you to do for the Blackouts family.

1461
01:08:54,560 --> 01:08:57,360
Speaker 2: Enjoy your gift from Allen. Thank you, Allan, thank you.

1462
01:08:57,360 --> 01:08:59,280
Speaker 4: I'm gonna put it to the test. Baby, i'mna be

1463
01:08:59,400 --> 01:09:01,200
Speaker 4: opening up all types of jaws.

1464
01:09:00,920 --> 01:09:04,080
Speaker 1: Now more pickles than jaars.

1465
01:09:06,080 --> 01:09:08,519
Speaker 4: Got three guys old because I always come in here,

1466
01:09:08,560 --> 01:09:09,439
Speaker 4: but like open up this.

1467
01:09:10,560 --> 01:09:11,960
Speaker 1: All right, we'll see.

1468
01:09:14,000 --> 01:09:14,040
Speaker 4: This.

1469
01:09:14,160 --> 01:09:18,200
Speaker 2: The instructions place the jar opener on the lid, push

1470
01:09:18,280 --> 01:09:21,320
Speaker 2: the opener ford aim to keep the t firmly touching

1471
01:09:21,360 --> 01:09:25,840
Speaker 2: the lid, likely to stop the lid in anti clockwise.

1472
01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:27,439
Speaker 1: So that way all right?

1473
01:09:27,560 --> 01:09:30,240
Speaker 3: Okay, so we're gonna see the word. Hopefully it do it.

1474
01:09:30,720 --> 01:09:32,559
Speaker 3: It'll save me time for Horizon rogers.

1475
01:09:36,040 --> 01:09:39,320
Speaker 2: Think who sent this one? I think the oh, I

1476
01:09:39,360 --> 01:09:41,040
Speaker 2: think this one came with a card give me a

1477
01:09:41,080 --> 01:09:45,479
Speaker 2: second or that. We got this one, which is a

1478
01:09:45,520 --> 01:09:49,240
Speaker 2: gift from you. Oh now, this also from Alan and

1479
01:09:49,479 --> 01:09:55,000
Speaker 2: it is what is this Mota style head bands for

1480
01:09:55,080 --> 01:09:57,000
Speaker 2: women yoga fashion, workout running.

1481
01:09:57,160 --> 01:10:00,200
Speaker 1: Uh so, Cary, you got some yoga head bands over here?

1482
01:10:00,439 --> 01:10:01,040
Speaker 3: Yay?

1483
01:10:02,880 --> 01:10:04,559
Speaker 1: Open this up? What they look like?

1484
01:10:06,160 --> 01:10:06,320
Speaker 5: Uh?

1485
01:10:06,800 --> 01:10:11,040
Speaker 1: Okay, you got this, Put it on and get your

1486
01:10:11,120 --> 01:10:11,640
Speaker 1: workout on.

1487
01:10:13,280 --> 01:10:16,479
Speaker 2: Oh and I guess they have different styles away, wait

1488
01:10:16,560 --> 01:10:17,400
Speaker 2: is this even showing?

1489
01:10:18,040 --> 01:10:20,599
Speaker 1: It's too right? I'm like it's too right. Oh okay,

1490
01:10:21,000 --> 01:10:23,000
Speaker 1: they have different styles and how you can wear them.

1491
01:10:23,560 --> 01:10:24,799
Speaker 3: Oh yes, I'll.

1492
01:10:24,640 --> 01:10:28,839
Speaker 4: Be doing that, so thank you.

1493
01:10:29,000 --> 01:10:30,320
Speaker 3: I'll be head bending it up.

1494
01:10:30,880 --> 01:10:35,840
Speaker 1: That sures all right. Let's see what else you got,

1495
01:10:34,920 --> 01:10:39,840
Speaker 1: Uh okay, and then the rest is cards. All right,

1496
01:10:39,920 --> 01:10:41,760
Speaker 1: let's open up some of these cards. Y'all. Man. We

1497
01:10:41,840 --> 01:10:44,320
Speaker 1: got a lot of cars this year and I haven't

1498
01:10:44,320 --> 01:10:45,559
Speaker 1: even sent all of them out yet.

1499
01:10:49,080 --> 01:10:50,919
Speaker 3: All the other materials is soft.

1500
01:10:51,320 --> 01:10:56,439
Speaker 1: M all right, this card want to open? Okay, there

1501
01:10:56,479 --> 01:10:58,880
Speaker 1: we go. I just gotta get all the way up

1502
01:10:58,880 --> 01:10:59,160
Speaker 1: in there.

1503
01:11:00,479 --> 01:11:04,200
Speaker 2: This one is It says tis the season of sparkle.

1504
01:11:04,320 --> 01:11:08,280
Speaker 2: Look at this black woman on the front yard. Oh precious,

1505
01:11:08,520 --> 01:11:09,960
Speaker 2: I'll be getting them a highing.

1506
01:11:10,240 --> 01:11:12,080
Speaker 1: I don't know why. I'll be finding the right.

1507
01:11:13,800 --> 01:11:17,160
Speaker 2: Rejoice in the Lord you righteous, and give thanks at

1508
01:11:17,160 --> 01:11:21,040
Speaker 2: the remembers of His holiness, Psalm ninety seven twelve. On

1509
01:11:21,080 --> 01:11:23,040
Speaker 2: one side this, it says, make the Christmas season and

1510
01:11:23,080 --> 01:11:25,640
Speaker 2: the days ahead sparkle with moments of love, laughed, and

1511
01:11:25,680 --> 01:11:28,640
Speaker 2: good will, having made Christmas an awesome new year. Thank you,

1512
01:11:28,720 --> 01:11:32,080
Speaker 2: love your podcast, Happy holidays, love Michelle, thank you, thank you.

1513
01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:34,000
Speaker 4: Uh.

1514
01:11:34,240 --> 01:11:38,960
Speaker 1: This one's from Let's See. Oh. On the back instead

1515
01:11:39,000 --> 01:11:41,040
Speaker 1: of follow, instead of follow a la live, it says,

1516
01:11:41,080 --> 01:11:44,599
Speaker 1: ha ha ha ha ha a. Let's see. Let's see

1517
01:11:44,600 --> 01:11:49,719
Speaker 1: what it says. Inside the card, it says, it's Christmas bitches.

1518
01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:53,639
Speaker 3: I like that card.

1519
01:11:54,280 --> 01:11:57,040
Speaker 2: Is Christmas bitches. Have a chill holiday. Happy holidays to

1520
01:11:57,120 --> 01:11:59,680
Speaker 2: my phase. You all deserve all the best things in

1521
01:11:59,720 --> 01:12:03,120
Speaker 2: the new Yeah, keep all keeping all love, jamills all

1522
01:12:03,160 --> 01:12:05,680
Speaker 2: the written one. Ps I slipped a little something in

1523
01:12:05,840 --> 01:12:10,080
Speaker 2: for Justin in here too, for Justin Jay Trill. Should

1524
01:12:10,120 --> 01:12:12,320
Speaker 2: I be opening his ship? I'm gonna opening ship, y'all.

1525
01:12:13,360 --> 01:12:15,200
Speaker 1: All? You got a cute he got a gift card.

1526
01:12:16,320 --> 01:12:17,080
Speaker 1: Let me put this on.

1527
01:12:17,320 --> 01:12:18,679
Speaker 3: He s on his desk.

1528
01:12:19,760 --> 01:12:22,040
Speaker 2: I'm gonna write from Jane. He ain't gonna know who

1529
01:12:22,080 --> 01:12:23,759
Speaker 2: this is justin be batter paying attention.

1530
01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:28,640
Speaker 1: But mm hmm, just no, no, he held even be

1531
01:12:28,760 --> 01:12:29,200
Speaker 1: liking him.

1532
01:12:30,400 --> 01:12:32,120
Speaker 3: He'd be like, y'all like me, y'all really like me?

1533
01:12:33,360 --> 01:12:38,200
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. All right, So I put that on his desk, y'all. Uh.

1534
01:12:39,560 --> 01:12:43,880
Speaker 1: This one is from Oh Boys Leader Brothers LB in

1535
01:12:43,920 --> 01:12:44,320
Speaker 1: the house.

1536
01:12:44,520 --> 01:12:44,880
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1537
01:12:45,680 --> 01:12:45,800
Speaker 4: Uh.

1538
01:12:46,000 --> 01:12:51,840
Speaker 2: It says wishing you Christmas blessings and on the inside

1539
01:12:52,040 --> 01:12:56,559
Speaker 2: it says peace in your heart on this glad Christmas day,

1540
01:12:57,120 --> 01:12:59,240
Speaker 2: like from the shine start to shine on your way.

1541
01:13:00,400 --> 01:13:03,920
Speaker 2: Friendships that gladden, faith that up lifts. May all these

1542
01:13:04,160 --> 01:13:08,200
Speaker 2: and more be a Christmas time gifts, Happy holidays, niggas,

1543
01:13:08,280 --> 01:13:11,040
Speaker 2: Thank you all, thanks for all you do for the

1544
01:13:11,160 --> 01:13:13,400
Speaker 2: fans and friends of the Black Autist Nation. Be safe

1545
01:13:13,400 --> 01:13:16,800
Speaker 2: and enjoy the holidays. Love piece and nappiness Lennard and

1546
01:13:17,160 --> 01:13:19,360
Speaker 2: Mom Dukes that's right and mom.

1547
01:13:21,320 --> 01:13:25,879
Speaker 1: Chilling watching. You know it is hilarious.

1548
01:13:25,920 --> 01:13:27,760
Speaker 4: When you read the cards, you be like, okay, that

1549
01:13:27,840 --> 01:13:31,559
Speaker 4: white folks shit over now, how y'all doing niggas right?

1550
01:13:32,240 --> 01:13:37,559
Speaker 2: Hey, niggas seasons greeting you be marrying bright? Hey, what's

1551
01:13:37,640 --> 01:13:39,559
Speaker 2: up my niggas? How y'all doing.

1552
01:13:41,000 --> 01:13:43,840
Speaker 1: All right? This this one a very simple looking card

1553
01:13:43,960 --> 01:13:46,280
Speaker 1: here with the white elegance. I don't know if I

1554
01:13:46,320 --> 01:13:46,799
Speaker 1: can see.

1555
01:13:46,640 --> 01:13:48,360
Speaker 3: All that's precious.

1556
01:13:48,800 --> 01:13:48,920
Speaker 4: Oh.

1557
01:13:49,080 --> 01:13:51,519
Speaker 2: And then on the back it's got like Christmas like

1558
01:13:51,560 --> 01:13:53,839
Speaker 2: a tree with decorations and ornaments.

1559
01:13:54,800 --> 01:13:54,920
Speaker 1: Uh.

1560
01:13:55,000 --> 01:13:57,280
Speaker 2: And on the inside it says, I hope you too

1561
01:13:57,479 --> 01:14:01,519
Speaker 2: have a great Christmas. I also hope the uh next Uh,

1562
01:14:02,200 --> 01:14:05,799
Speaker 2: let's see, the next year brings you growth.

1563
01:14:06,439 --> 01:14:06,559
Speaker 4: Uh.

1564
01:14:07,840 --> 01:14:10,840
Speaker 2: I guess growth of both continued success, that's what it is. Sorry,

1565
01:14:10,880 --> 01:14:14,400
Speaker 2: this is in cursive. Uh, Peace and joy to you both.

1566
01:14:14,640 --> 01:14:19,920
Speaker 2: Love Bria, Roddy Carron, Merry Christmas. Love oh Becca Becca

1567
01:14:20,000 --> 01:14:22,680
Speaker 2: not Bria Becka, thank you Becca, appreciate.

1568
01:14:22,760 --> 01:14:25,240
Speaker 3: Be pretty card. I like all the cards.

1569
01:14:27,360 --> 01:14:32,439
Speaker 1: Let's see, we got this one. It's a Christmas tree. Uh.

1570
01:14:32,720 --> 01:14:34,519
Speaker 2: And I don't know if you guys can see it's

1571
01:14:34,520 --> 01:14:39,120
Speaker 2: glittery working. It says happy holidays, enjoys new Year.

1572
01:14:40,000 --> 01:14:42,800
Speaker 1: I love you guys. And this is from Stephanie. Thank

1573
01:14:42,840 --> 01:14:44,960
Speaker 1: you Stephanie. You appreciate you.

1574
01:14:45,880 --> 01:14:49,559
Speaker 3: Boom like y'all be getting a lot of ship.

1575
01:14:50,760 --> 01:14:54,080
Speaker 1: Yeah they do. They love us there. Uh this is

1576
01:14:54,280 --> 01:14:57,000
Speaker 1: from let me see, I kind of open it up

1577
01:14:57,040 --> 01:14:57,960
Speaker 1: to see who it's from.

1578
01:14:59,680 --> 01:14:59,800
Speaker 4: Uh.

1579
01:15:00,320 --> 01:15:02,560
Speaker 1: Oh, this one has like a bowl like this is

1580
01:15:02,640 --> 01:15:04,360
Speaker 1: a physical bow. It's not written on there.

1581
01:15:04,800 --> 01:15:08,000
Speaker 2: Oh that's pretty on the top of some boxes and

1582
01:15:08,200 --> 01:15:10,040
Speaker 2: on the inside, who is a long one?

1583
01:15:10,080 --> 01:15:10,479
Speaker 1: We'll see.

1584
01:15:13,040 --> 01:15:16,320
Speaker 2: Dear Rod and Karen absolutely love the show and just

1585
01:15:16,400 --> 01:15:19,439
Speaker 2: wanted to wish you all very merry Christmas. Discover y'all

1586
01:15:19,520 --> 01:15:21,320
Speaker 2: this year with the Game of Thrones we cast and

1587
01:15:21,360 --> 01:15:23,879
Speaker 2: have been hooked ever since. My family and I randomly

1588
01:15:23,920 --> 01:15:25,840
Speaker 2: saying fuck it with black people and guess the race

1589
01:15:26,160 --> 01:15:29,519
Speaker 2: around the house. Love those segments. Oh and reading Rainbow

1590
01:15:29,600 --> 01:15:31,560
Speaker 2: Smiley Face. The work that you and Karen do is

1591
01:15:31,680 --> 01:15:34,839
Speaker 2: very inspirational. Looking forward to more of the black autists

1592
01:15:34,880 --> 01:15:40,040
Speaker 2: in twenty twenty. Always in education, educational, black ass good time.

1593
01:15:40,160 --> 01:15:43,680
Speaker 2: Thank you both, and I think this is Mitzi. And

1594
01:15:44,479 --> 01:15:46,960
Speaker 2: then on the other side it says dear Rodi Karen,

1595
01:15:47,000 --> 01:15:50,519
Speaker 2: wish you all, wishing you and yours all things wonderful.

1596
01:15:50,600 --> 01:15:53,080
Speaker 2: Marry Christmas, right of Karen, and wishing you all the

1597
01:15:53,160 --> 01:15:54,080
Speaker 2: best in the new year.

1598
01:15:55,080 --> 01:16:01,360
Speaker 1: Hussy kisses, Missy. Thank you guys are so sweet, so

1599
01:16:01,680 --> 01:16:04,960
Speaker 1: love this really makes it worse than out the car and.

1600
01:16:05,160 --> 01:16:08,560
Speaker 3: Judge, I really do love the cars. Y'all send it

1601
01:16:08,560 --> 01:16:11,160
Speaker 3: because y'all be finding something. I'd be like, where do

1602
01:16:11,240 --> 01:16:14,840
Speaker 3: y'all find these cars? They be unique and personable. Uh.

1603
01:16:15,040 --> 01:16:17,800
Speaker 2: Now this one once again you can't really tell from here,

1604
01:16:17,880 --> 01:16:20,240
Speaker 2: but these are raised off of the cards.

1605
01:16:20,520 --> 01:16:22,360
Speaker 3: Yeah right, gold luck of gold coins.

1606
01:16:22,520 --> 01:16:25,800
Speaker 2: Then it says joy On the inside, it says Rod

1607
01:16:25,840 --> 01:16:30,479
Speaker 2: and Karen wishing you a wonderful festive season, all the

1608
01:16:30,520 --> 01:16:31,680
Speaker 2: way from Ireland.

1609
01:16:32,439 --> 01:16:33,839
Speaker 3: What Ireland?

1610
01:16:34,080 --> 01:16:34,360
Speaker 4: Wow?

1611
01:16:35,800 --> 01:16:38,479
Speaker 1: I think, it says Mario to us. I think that's

1612
01:16:38,560 --> 01:16:39,519
Speaker 1: like a soccer team. I don't know.

1613
01:16:44,439 --> 01:16:48,320
Speaker 2: And the new decade be joyful and abundant, Mary Christmas

1614
01:16:48,360 --> 01:16:50,639
Speaker 2: Happy Cooins of Christmas, the happy at the New Year's

1615
01:16:51,920 --> 01:16:56,439
Speaker 2: and it says, uh, was it zero x o x

1616
01:16:56,479 --> 01:16:58,200
Speaker 2: o x o XL James.

1617
01:16:59,720 --> 01:17:03,120
Speaker 1: No wag seanad boy. I don't know what that part means.

1618
01:17:03,160 --> 01:17:07,240
Speaker 2: It says the old Mokey mcshane's okay, oh thank you,

1619
01:17:08,479 --> 01:17:13,840
Speaker 2: appreciate you, Okay. Our podcast is all glow. It's around

1620
01:17:13,880 --> 01:17:17,679
Speaker 2: the globe. And I know because some of these addresses

1621
01:17:17,760 --> 01:17:19,080
Speaker 2: y'all want these cards going too.

1622
01:17:19,240 --> 01:17:20,280
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, this is proof.

1623
01:17:21,920 --> 01:17:24,760
Speaker 2: This one has a kitten on the front, and of

1624
01:17:24,800 --> 01:17:30,479
Speaker 2: course it says Santa Paul's, Oh precious and the message

1625
01:17:30,520 --> 01:17:33,320
Speaker 2: inside says, thank you so much for everything you guys do.

1626
01:17:33,479 --> 01:17:35,720
Speaker 2: My dad was sick and in the hospital a couple

1627
01:17:35,720 --> 01:17:38,000
Speaker 2: of years ago. It was touching gold for a while,

1628
01:17:38,360 --> 01:17:40,360
Speaker 2: and the only thing that kept me saying was listening

1629
01:17:40,400 --> 01:17:43,240
Speaker 2: and laughing with the podcast. I appreciate you guys so much.

1630
01:17:43,800 --> 01:17:46,400
Speaker 2: Roder Carron wishing you a warm and cuddly Christmas. I

1631
01:17:46,400 --> 01:17:48,639
Speaker 2: hope you have a great Christmas. An amazing twenty twenty

1632
01:17:48,720 --> 01:17:50,840
Speaker 2: from Sherry. Oh, thank you sharing.

1633
01:17:51,080 --> 01:17:53,720
Speaker 1: Baby, and I'm glad the podcast is able to be

1634
01:17:53,840 --> 01:17:56,960
Speaker 1: there for you. Papa was good got me through some times.

1635
01:17:57,000 --> 01:18:03,120
Speaker 1: I'll tell you that much. Let's get to the next one. Sorry,

1636
01:18:03,200 --> 01:18:08,800
Speaker 1: this car is just a thick old uh what do

1637
01:18:08,880 --> 01:18:17,280
Speaker 1: you call it? Envelope? And the winner is La Land Moonlight.

1638
01:18:18,439 --> 01:18:22,519
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Okay, Christmas tree on the front

1639
01:18:22,800 --> 01:18:25,240
Speaker 1: when you see if I can get the camera to focus.

1640
01:18:25,000 --> 01:18:27,800
Speaker 3: On that, there you go, Oh yeah, we see that.

1641
01:18:27,880 --> 01:18:31,320
Speaker 2: Oh that's pretty all right, And it says have a

1642
01:18:31,360 --> 01:18:34,360
Speaker 2: merry little Christmas because it's a little card with a

1643
01:18:34,360 --> 01:18:34,800
Speaker 2: little tree.

1644
01:18:35,160 --> 01:18:36,960
Speaker 1: Had a wonderful New Year. Thanks for keeping me in

1645
01:18:37,040 --> 01:18:40,280
Speaker 1: the stitches, you guys. Rock Shaked the Hay. Thank you

1646
01:18:40,360 --> 01:18:44,800
Speaker 1: shave than you. We got a few more. Let's y'all.

1647
01:18:44,920 --> 01:18:46,320
Speaker 3: Wasn't playing with the car. I ain't reading with so

1648
01:18:46,439 --> 01:18:48,160
Speaker 3: many cars. I wasn't playing this year.

1649
01:18:48,479 --> 01:18:50,559
Speaker 1: This is all this is all fun for camera because

1650
01:18:50,680 --> 01:18:52,519
Speaker 1: you know I did all the melon.

1651
01:18:52,920 --> 01:18:53,519
Speaker 3: Yes you did.

1652
01:18:53,760 --> 01:18:56,679
Speaker 2: She's just like, listen these I guess from above, Manna

1653
01:18:56,720 --> 01:18:58,000
Speaker 2: from above, I s am.

1654
01:18:58,080 --> 01:18:59,280
Speaker 3: I just hold on to him forever.

1655
01:19:00,479 --> 01:19:01,559
Speaker 1: Okay. Uh.

1656
01:19:01,720 --> 01:19:05,439
Speaker 2: This one has some peacocks on it, Yes, best wishes

1657
01:19:06,160 --> 01:19:08,280
Speaker 2: to use this holiday season, and it says it's been

1658
01:19:08,360 --> 01:19:11,080
Speaker 2: great podcasting with you two. We hope to see you

1659
01:19:11,200 --> 01:19:14,000
Speaker 2: both in person. And twenty twenty is from Alego Allegra

1660
01:19:14,160 --> 01:19:14,800
Speaker 2: and Marianno.

1661
01:19:15,360 --> 01:19:16,519
Speaker 1: I think I just shipped them.

1662
01:19:16,560 --> 01:19:20,639
Speaker 2: I just gave them a shipping name, Allegro. So we're

1663
01:19:20,720 --> 01:19:23,160
Speaker 2: just gonna go, Yeah, we're gonna, y'all Allegriano.

1664
01:19:23,479 --> 01:19:27,639
Speaker 1: There we go. And that's how it's stud That's why

1665
01:19:27,680 --> 01:19:29,240
Speaker 1: I get paid the big bucks to podcast.

1666
01:19:29,320 --> 01:19:31,000
Speaker 3: Got that's how you get shipped.

1667
01:19:31,439 --> 01:19:38,920
Speaker 1: All right, all right? This one all right, here we go.

1668
01:19:39,520 --> 01:19:43,120
Speaker 2: This one says, oh, it's like a black jazz band

1669
01:19:43,360 --> 01:19:46,720
Speaker 2: on the front, like something from the background or the

1670
01:19:47,120 --> 01:19:47,960
Speaker 2: Good Times photo.

1671
01:19:48,120 --> 01:19:49,920
Speaker 1: Do y'all be googling painting.

1672
01:19:49,760 --> 01:19:52,320
Speaker 3: Googling this unique black cards where are y'all finding?

1673
01:19:53,479 --> 01:19:55,840
Speaker 2: Wishing you a merry Christmas and a jam in New Year.

1674
01:19:56,280 --> 01:19:58,680
Speaker 2: Dear carrying a rode, wishing you all the joy of

1675
01:19:58,800 --> 01:20:01,960
Speaker 2: the season and continued success in the new year. Thanks

1676
01:20:02,000 --> 01:20:04,839
Speaker 2: for all that you do, Sincerely, Cassie aka cast Always,

1677
01:20:04,960 --> 01:20:06,000
Speaker 2: thank you, Thank you.

1678
01:20:06,960 --> 01:20:10,280
Speaker 1: That was That was dope. That's a unique one. Y'all

1679
01:20:10,400 --> 01:20:14,759
Speaker 1: must be going to the like the Black Black Cards

1680
01:20:15,200 --> 01:20:18,280
Speaker 1: store like they only get business one time a year.

1681
01:20:20,280 --> 01:20:26,400
Speaker 2: And this one is from uh coach Craig and Carintha. Okay,

1682
01:20:26,560 --> 01:20:32,120
Speaker 2: it says all happy holidays. Holiday happiness is what it says.

1683
01:20:32,640 --> 01:20:35,200
Speaker 2: They went and got theirs done professionally, like I mean.

1684
01:20:35,200 --> 01:20:39,040
Speaker 4: Got the head shots. I mean we see y'all trying

1685
01:20:39,040 --> 01:20:40,519
Speaker 4: to flous in front of everybody.

1686
01:20:40,720 --> 01:20:43,719
Speaker 2: They went to mister print, got it, got it done.

1687
01:20:43,800 --> 01:20:46,400
Speaker 2: I see personal, a little personalized touch.

1688
01:20:46,479 --> 01:20:47,280
Speaker 1: We appreciate you.

1689
01:20:48,680 --> 01:20:50,120
Speaker 3: Y'all went to the professionals.

1690
01:20:50,200 --> 01:20:55,240
Speaker 1: We see what's just one? Uh oh, it's from our

1691
01:20:55,280 --> 01:20:56,680
Speaker 1: girl co coqt.

1692
01:20:58,840 --> 01:21:03,080
Speaker 5: Uh she got the personal life touched to yees personal. Okay,

1693
01:21:03,200 --> 01:21:06,439
Speaker 5: come through red dress well, miss Toe, I'll see you fool.

1694
01:21:07,439 --> 01:21:09,439
Speaker 5: It says happy holiday sitting to hugs and love.

1695
01:21:09,720 --> 01:21:11,280
Speaker 1: Thank you, d thank you.

1696
01:21:13,680 --> 01:21:17,599
Speaker 2: One of my favorite Instagram follows. She is always doing something.

1697
01:21:18,200 --> 01:21:22,040
Speaker 2: Oh and then my parents gave us a card. I

1698
01:21:22,040 --> 01:21:23,519
Speaker 2: don't know how can I end up putting it over

1699
01:21:23,560 --> 01:21:25,760
Speaker 2: here in this pathlbum. I guess they do listen to

1700
01:21:25,800 --> 01:21:28,680
Speaker 2: the show, so we can count. My parents gave us

1701
01:21:28,720 --> 01:21:33,679
Speaker 2: a card and on the inside was a Burton's gift

1702
01:21:34,160 --> 01:21:37,200
Speaker 2: card that says thank you both for your kindness and thoughtfulness.

1703
01:21:37,240 --> 01:21:39,640
Speaker 1: Love always, Dad, Mom and Layla thank you.

1704
01:21:41,160 --> 01:21:43,479
Speaker 2: I had a good time with them on Christmas, went

1705
01:21:43,520 --> 01:21:46,080
Speaker 2: to a bomb Bay grill so good.

1706
01:21:46,840 --> 01:21:48,280
Speaker 1: We showed up the day early.

1707
01:21:48,080 --> 01:21:52,240
Speaker 2: Because sometimes we show up on Christmass somewhere.

1708
01:21:52,400 --> 01:21:53,760
Speaker 1: And uh, I got her some.

1709
01:21:54,000 --> 01:21:59,439
Speaker 2: Ugsu Karen told me what to get, So she got

1710
01:21:59,520 --> 01:22:01,120
Speaker 2: some ugs with the bow on the back.

1711
01:22:01,200 --> 01:22:02,680
Speaker 3: I want to one with the bows on it. I

1712
01:22:02,760 --> 01:22:04,120
Speaker 3: was like, I got you. I don't think she thought

1713
01:22:04,160 --> 01:22:04,920
Speaker 3: we were gonna get them.

1714
01:22:05,160 --> 01:22:07,160
Speaker 1: Well I think she Yeah, she didn't.

1715
01:22:07,200 --> 01:22:10,960
Speaker 2: But you know what it is, because I got all

1716
01:22:11,080 --> 01:22:15,200
Speaker 2: my nephews and nieces something. But the thing is, it's

1717
01:22:15,280 --> 01:22:18,960
Speaker 2: her birthday and Christmas, right, so I wanted her to

1718
01:22:19,040 --> 01:22:21,439
Speaker 2: get something that like, Okay, if I would have spent

1719
01:22:21,760 --> 01:22:24,880
Speaker 2: X amount of money for one. I feel like you

1720
01:22:24,920 --> 01:22:28,040
Speaker 2: gotta double up for both on this case. Just because

1721
01:22:28,479 --> 01:22:31,960
Speaker 2: the Christmas Birthday kids always get cheated. Yeah, they kind

1722
01:22:32,000 --> 01:22:36,240
Speaker 2: of get kind of get so I said, let me get.

1723
01:22:36,400 --> 01:22:38,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go ahead and depend it and get what

1724
01:22:38,200 --> 01:22:41,240
Speaker 2: she wanted. And man, she was so happy and she

1725
01:22:41,400 --> 01:22:44,600
Speaker 2: was she was stretching them boots all around the house and.

1726
01:22:44,840 --> 01:22:46,800
Speaker 1: Took pictures in them and stuff. And I love to

1727
01:22:46,800 --> 01:22:48,280
Speaker 1: see Laila happy like that.

1728
01:22:49,080 --> 01:22:52,320
Speaker 3: I had a ball watching her and them because she

1729
01:22:52,520 --> 01:22:53,920
Speaker 3: told me. I was like, okay, I was like, what

1730
01:22:54,040 --> 01:22:54,320
Speaker 3: you want?

1731
01:22:54,400 --> 01:22:56,679
Speaker 4: She told me, said okay, But I still think because

1732
01:22:57,000 --> 01:22:59,599
Speaker 4: you know, kids do kids tell people what they want.

1733
01:23:00,360 --> 01:23:02,240
Speaker 4: People didn't know the fuck out of kids giving kids

1734
01:23:02,320 --> 01:23:04,200
Speaker 4: bullshit they don't want. Kids don't give a damn about

1735
01:23:04,200 --> 01:23:06,000
Speaker 4: your socks and draws, and BRA's bottom of.

1736
01:23:05,960 --> 01:23:08,040
Speaker 1: The shit that they desire. And she's such a laid

1737
01:23:08,120 --> 01:23:10,519
Speaker 1: back kid, you know what I mean.

1738
01:23:10,640 --> 01:23:14,320
Speaker 2: So like seeing Layla like smiling and happy and walking

1739
01:23:14,400 --> 01:23:17,680
Speaker 2: around like, you know, okay, we hit this gift out

1740
01:23:17,720 --> 01:23:21,880
Speaker 2: the park, you know. So yes, Uh, the last car

1741
01:23:22,240 --> 01:23:26,360
Speaker 2: is made by Sidney Snow is what it says on

1742
01:23:26,439 --> 01:23:26,840
Speaker 2: the front.

1743
01:23:27,400 --> 01:23:30,000
Speaker 1: This is glitter and this break is raised off of

1744
01:23:30,120 --> 01:23:30,599
Speaker 1: the car.

1745
01:23:30,880 --> 01:23:31,799
Speaker 3: Oh that's pretty.

1746
01:23:32,920 --> 01:23:36,599
Speaker 2: And then it says, dear Karen, I couldn't resist sending

1747
01:23:36,640 --> 01:23:39,559
Speaker 2: you some support during this holiday season dealing with Rod's

1748
01:23:39,600 --> 01:23:46,080
Speaker 2: hater ration of capitalism is taxing from afar. So I

1749
01:23:46,200 --> 01:23:50,680
Speaker 2: can only imagine your struggle. The black capitalists of the

1750
01:23:50,680 --> 01:23:54,479
Speaker 2: Black Autist Nation must stand together. I'm sure you agree

1751
01:23:54,560 --> 01:23:56,720
Speaker 2: that Rihanna has been a real leader for us and

1752
01:23:56,840 --> 01:24:00,479
Speaker 2: I I enjoyed giving her money, especially because fenty is

1753
01:24:00,560 --> 01:24:05,040
Speaker 2: absolutely impressive. I love my lip glosses from her. So

1754
01:24:05,160 --> 01:24:07,840
Speaker 2: I wanted you to have this complete sampler, said I

1755
01:24:07,920 --> 01:24:09,439
Speaker 2: hope you glouse.

1756
01:24:09,520 --> 01:24:11,200
Speaker 3: I got make up and lift glouse.

1757
01:24:11,560 --> 01:24:14,639
Speaker 2: Hope you enjoy. If not, maybe Laila will with every

1758
01:24:14,720 --> 01:24:18,120
Speaker 2: good wish. CARIITHA, Oh baby.

1759
01:24:17,960 --> 01:24:19,880
Speaker 3: She ain't get she ain't getting no Fendy lip gloss.

1760
01:24:20,600 --> 01:24:20,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1761
01:24:21,560 --> 01:24:24,720
Speaker 3: She not of that age yet, you know she gets

1762
01:24:24,760 --> 01:24:25,360
Speaker 3: a little older.

1763
01:24:25,479 --> 01:24:30,120
Speaker 4: Yes, Buthnda, I am gonna be wearing my capitalist lip

1764
01:24:30,200 --> 01:24:31,879
Speaker 4: glouse and gonna make my face.

1765
01:24:31,760 --> 01:24:32,439
Speaker 1: Up to Yeah.

1766
01:24:32,560 --> 01:24:36,160
Speaker 2: So Karen got the Fency Beauty by Rihanna Glossy Posse

1767
01:24:36,360 --> 01:24:39,519
Speaker 2: Mini Gloss Bar collection, and of course I'm throwing it right.

1768
01:24:39,439 --> 01:24:39,880
Speaker 1: In the trash.

1769
01:24:40,760 --> 01:24:43,639
Speaker 3: He's trying to get cut because not in this house.

1770
01:24:43,720 --> 01:24:45,080
Speaker 1: Okay, this is a socialist house.

1771
01:24:45,400 --> 01:24:48,040
Speaker 2: Send us some socialist goods, maybe like a bag of

1772
01:24:48,120 --> 01:24:49,640
Speaker 2: potatoes or.

1773
01:24:49,720 --> 01:24:51,200
Speaker 1: Some canvas something.

1774
01:24:51,320 --> 01:24:54,240
Speaker 4: Well, I tell you one thing, you and your buddies

1775
01:24:54,280 --> 01:24:56,320
Speaker 4: better protect you because you throw that in the trash can,

1776
01:24:56,400 --> 01:24:57,280
Speaker 4: it's gonna be sprayed up.

1777
01:24:57,320 --> 01:25:00,920
Speaker 1: Fight up in here, all right, I get it out

1778
01:25:00,920 --> 01:25:03,599
Speaker 1: the trash man, I ain't know. It's gonna be physical

1779
01:25:03,720 --> 01:25:05,560
Speaker 1: violence of capitalists.

1780
01:25:05,600 --> 01:25:05,760
Speaker 3: Fight.

1781
01:25:06,520 --> 01:25:06,800
Speaker 1: Wow.

1782
01:25:07,080 --> 01:25:09,439
Speaker 2: That's really sad to see the kind of abuse and

1783
01:25:09,439 --> 01:25:12,320
Speaker 2: stuff that people promote on the podcast like this.

1784
01:25:14,160 --> 01:25:14,839
Speaker 1: M hmmmm.

1785
01:25:15,800 --> 01:25:17,240
Speaker 3: I'll be a capitalist to the end.

1786
01:25:18,200 --> 01:25:21,719
Speaker 1: All right. Okay, Well that's it for today. That was everything.

1787
01:25:22,840 --> 01:25:25,559
Speaker 2: If you guys are premium, Me and Justin did three

1788
01:25:25,680 --> 01:25:33,240
Speaker 2: new movie reviews last night for a Hidden Life, Hustlers

1789
01:25:34,120 --> 01:25:39,120
Speaker 2: and Little White Women, I mean little women. My bad,

1790
01:25:39,520 --> 01:25:42,000
Speaker 2: I met a little women and we have more coming

1791
01:25:42,560 --> 01:25:43,599
Speaker 2: that we have to review too.

1792
01:25:44,080 --> 01:25:46,160
Speaker 1: But yeah, so we got all that stuff out of

1793
01:25:46,200 --> 01:25:47,920
Speaker 1: the way, so enjoyed.

1794
01:25:48,040 --> 01:25:52,080
Speaker 2: Tomorrow we should have jail Coved on the show, so

1795
01:25:52,360 --> 01:25:55,040
Speaker 2: hopefully people be looking forward to that. And uh, like

1796
01:25:55,160 --> 01:25:57,200
Speaker 2: I said, we'll see what the schedule brings. As the

1797
01:25:57,240 --> 01:26:01,000
Speaker 2: holidays come when we take days off and all that

1798
01:26:01,080 --> 01:26:03,080
Speaker 2: type of stuff. So all right, until next time.

1799
01:26:03,800 --> 01:26:06,479
Speaker 1: Thank you guys for all of the gifts in the car.

1800
01:26:07,439 --> 01:26:07,840
Speaker 1: Thank you.

1801
01:26:08,360 --> 01:26:12,880
Speaker 2: We appreciate y'all, We love y'all, and we just uh,

1802
01:26:13,080 --> 01:26:15,639
Speaker 2: we just had somebody, Susan came to town last night,

1803
01:26:16,920 --> 01:26:20,400
Speaker 2: just so like you know, it's been a happy holidays season,

1804
01:26:20,600 --> 01:26:22,599
Speaker 2: filled with lots of love and getting to see people

1805
01:26:22,680 --> 01:26:25,479
Speaker 2: and all that stuff and and uh we're missing for

1806
01:26:25,520 --> 01:26:25,880
Speaker 2: the world.

1807
01:26:25,960 --> 01:26:28,960
Speaker 1: So all right, y'all, until next time. I love you,