1 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your big sister Cheeky's and you've reached 2 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 1: my personal voicemailbox for the Dear Cheekys podcast. I'm here 3 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: to give you advice on anything and everything you need 4 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:31,480 Speaker 1: help with, whether you're going through a breakup or having 5 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: issues with your family, or maybe you have a question 6 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 1: about my personal life. Whatever the case is, I want 7 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 1: to hear from you. Remember these are my thoughts and 8 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 1: my opinions, and if you're suffering from a serious issue 9 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: or hardship, you should seek help from a qualified professional. 10 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: All right, now, go ahead and leave your message at 11 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: the sound of the beab. 12 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 2: Hi Cheeky's. I just want to say, first of all, 13 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 2: thank you. Thank you so much for helping someone like 14 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 2: me that you don't even know through podcasts. A while ago, 15 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 2: I was listening to your journaling episode and I started 16 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 2: doing it and I remember doing it when I was 17 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 2: a teenager. I'm currently twenty seven, I have two kids, 18 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 2: I'm with my fiance, and you know, not all days 19 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 2: are beautiful, and you reminded me that journaling is like 20 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:23,760 Speaker 2: a way of like helping you know yourself. And I 21 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 2: think it was another podcast I listened to where you 22 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 2: were saying that you were with your friends on like 23 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 2: a Girl's Caasi and that you were just like you know, 24 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 2: just saying stuff that happened with your siblings. But you 25 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:35,959 Speaker 2: were also saying, you know, not everything needs to be 26 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:38,399 Speaker 2: out there, like you know, sometimes you can just take 27 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:40,679 Speaker 2: it to God. And I feel like, you know, that's 28 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:42,960 Speaker 2: what I'm doing right now with my journaling, and I 29 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 2: just want to say thank you, chickies, thank you for 30 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 2: helping someone like me that you don't even know that 31 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 2: you're helping. I love you so much, girl, and I 32 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 2: hope everything's good with you in your life. And I 33 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 2: pray nothing but happiness for you. Chiky's thank you so much, love. 34 00:01:56,560 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 1: You, Oh Raquel, that's it. Oh my gosh, Well that's it. 35 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 1: But I'm like, you didn't even leave a question, which 36 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 1: I'm just I'm grateful. First of all. I just want 37 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 1: to say thank you, thank you so much, and you're welcome, 38 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 1: like I do this for you guys. For me, I 39 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:16,680 Speaker 1: always say this. It's like a form of therapy for me, 40 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:21,960 Speaker 1: and it's just right now. It's confirmation because I go 41 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 1: through it as well. You know, I have great days, 42 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 1: I have not so good days. I have really bad 43 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 1: days and oh, thank you that was so sweet, like 44 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: it just it gives me the strength to keep going 45 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 1: on those days where I think am I even making 46 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:46,519 Speaker 1: a difference? Does anyone even listening? Does anyone even care? 47 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 1: And you guys always remind me, so this is just 48 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:53,639 Speaker 1: a beautiful thing. You have no idea what you did 49 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: for me right now, So thank you, thank you for listening. 50 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 1: I'm glad that I'm able to help, and yes, continue 51 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:04,519 Speaker 1: to journal. It's so it's so healing and I'm hoping 52 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 1: and praying that it helps you very very much. So 53 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 1: thank you. Thank you, rackoun sending you a big hug. 54 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I love you. Okay, guys, we have 55 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 1: another question from Kayla. 56 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 3: Oh chegeez. 57 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 4: I'm so thankful and glad you do this for those 58 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 4: who are just concerned and have questions and maybe you 59 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:28,119 Speaker 4: can give some advice. I'm a mom of five. I'm 60 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 4: currently in nursing school. I'm married, but my first child, 61 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 4: who is soon to be thirteen in September, my husband 62 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:41,839 Speaker 4: isn't the father. He accepted me with him. We got 63 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 4: together or back together when I was four months pregnant. 64 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 4: Five months pregnant. Anyways, the sperm donor. We're going to 65 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 4: call him that haven't heard from him or talk to 66 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 4: him in almost thirteen years. He didn't want anything to 67 00:03:56,840 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 4: do with the baby. I left, went back home and 68 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 4: then yeah, everything's history. When do you think it's a 69 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 4: good time to talk to my son about the situation? 70 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 4: And how can I talk to him about it? Obviously 71 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 4: he's soon to be a teenager, and I mean, I 72 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 4: know he's going to be heard eventually. But you know, 73 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 4: my husband loves him the same as our other children. 74 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 4: My husband is an amazing man, Como Hendraska. But anyways, 75 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 4: just a little bit of us. 76 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:31,719 Speaker 1: Thanks girl, me Kayla, Okay, yeah, this I totally get it. 77 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:38,599 Speaker 1: I totally get the not the concern because it's not 78 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:42,479 Speaker 1: necessarily a bad thing. I think, you know, I always 79 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 1: say this rejection is God's protection, and I love to 80 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:49,600 Speaker 1: hear that your husband is a good husband. I was 81 00:04:49,640 --> 00:04:51,839 Speaker 1: going to tell you regardless, he's a great man for 82 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 1: taking this child, your son, his son under his wing 83 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 1: and raising him as his own. Honestly, that's admirable and 84 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:06,160 Speaker 1: we love that. We love him for that. Tell him, 85 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 1: I said, thank you, by the way, because it takes 86 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 1: a real man to do that. I think that it 87 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:19,480 Speaker 1: will be a bit of a shock for your son, 88 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:23,040 Speaker 1: and that's why it's a little bit delicate. I feel 89 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 1: like I don't want to give you the wrong advice. 90 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 1: I think you just need to fill it out. I 91 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:34,359 Speaker 1: wouldn't wait too long, but I do think he's a 92 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 1: little too young right now personally, Like if I put 93 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 1: myself in your shoes, or if it was one of 94 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 1: my nieces or nephews. I think some of the most 95 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 1: critical years in a teenager's life is right when you 96 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 1: become a teenager, which is thirteen eleven, twelve thirteen. You're 97 00:05:52,839 --> 00:05:57,719 Speaker 1: going through puberty. Your hormones are everywhere, you know, fifteen sixteen. 98 00:05:57,760 --> 00:06:00,919 Speaker 1: So I would wait until he's an adult. Personally, I 99 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 1: think once he's eighteen years old, he's an adult. He's 100 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 1: a child. Let him be a child, let him enjoy 101 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 1: and he still has some growing up to do, and 102 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 1: he's going through so much like this is a very 103 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 1: delicate time. So I would just wait until he's eighteen 104 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 1: and he's an adult, and he has the option of 105 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: looking for him if he like, it's his choice at 106 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:29,279 Speaker 1: the end of the day, you know. So that is 107 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:32,279 Speaker 1: my advice. That's what I would do. Obviously, you're the 108 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 1: mother and you're gonna know, pray about it, and when 109 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 1: you feel it, do it. But I do think he's 110 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 1: too young personally, especially if your husband is an amazing 111 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:48,480 Speaker 1: man and probably doesn't even think about it. That's his dad, 112 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 1: that is his dad. And even with my stepdads, I'm like, 113 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 1: those are my dad's. Like I had a sperm donor, 114 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 1: like you said, and then I had my stepdad whan 115 00:06:57,160 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 1: you know, and that's the one that I grew up 116 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 1: with and talk me so much so as social But yeah, 117 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 1: that is my advice and I hope it helps. Again. 118 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 1: I am not a psychiatrist, I am not a psychologist. 119 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 1: I'm not a counselor. I'm not a doctor. I don't 120 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 1: know all the right answers. But I go with my 121 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 1: intuition and I always like to put myself in the 122 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:21,360 Speaker 1: other person's shoes. So that's that's what my heart is 123 00:07:21,400 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 1: telling me right now. So hopefully that helps you a 124 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 1: bit and calms you down a little. I don't think 125 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 1: there's any rush personally. Let him enjoy his childhood and 126 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 1: sending you a big hugbab thank you for trusting me 127 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 1: with that. Information. I appreciate it. Okay, guys. Last question 128 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 1: comes from an anonymous listener. 129 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 3: Let's see, Hey, Tikis, I just want to start up 130 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 3: by saying I love you so so much. I'm according 131 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 3: to set Dury in the morning. 132 00:07:56,480 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 5: But my question to you was, how do you set 133 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:08,120 Speaker 5: boundaries with your siblings? Because me and my sister we 134 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 5: have a beautiful relationship, but I feel like sometimes I 135 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 5: don't know how to set boundaries. I haven't and I 136 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 5: feel like there's things that I'm like, you know, I 137 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 5: don't want you to do that to me, or you know, 138 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 5: I don't want you to act that way towards me. 139 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 5: But because she's my sister, sometimes I don't know how 140 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:34,440 Speaker 5: to set those boundaries in place, or how do I 141 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 5: say these things to her? If I'm making any sense, 142 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 5: because I don't want to hurt her. I want to 143 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:42,240 Speaker 5: hurt her heart. I don't want to hurt her feeling, 144 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:45,720 Speaker 5: but I also want to feel like I'm being hurt. 145 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 5: That makes sense. But yeah, that was all, And just 146 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:52,719 Speaker 5: wanted to say I love you again. 147 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 1: Oh Mama, thank you. I love you too. And what 148 00:08:55,160 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 1: are you doing up at three in the morning. You 149 00:08:57,160 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: need to get some rest, girl, but thank you, thank 150 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 1: you for leaving your question, for thinking of me at 151 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:07,720 Speaker 1: three am. I appreciate that. Okay, I totally get it. 152 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 1: This is something that I've been working on this year. Actually, 153 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 1: I talked about it on Cheeky's and Chill. You know, 154 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 1: setting boundaries. I've been very good with setting boundaries with 155 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 1: people outside my siblings, my extended family, some friends in business. 156 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 1: The most difficult part has been in my relationship, in 157 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 1: my marriage and also with my siblings. And I'm doing 158 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 1: life coaching for it. So I just want you guys 159 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:37,120 Speaker 1: to know that I also have my life coach and 160 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:41,200 Speaker 1: my mentor because sometimes as much as I give people advice, 161 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 1: like I also need to be reminded of certain things, 162 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 1: you know, because you work and you anyway, that's not 163 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 1: the point. The point is that I get it and 164 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 1: it is difficult. Here's one thing that I will tell 165 00:09:53,960 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 1: you tippy toeing around something or someone that is people pleasing. 166 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 1: And I'm telling you because I did that for so 167 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 1: long in my life. I did it with my mom, 168 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 1: I did it with past relationships. I've done it with 169 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 1: my siblings without even knowing for so long. And I'm 170 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:13,599 Speaker 1: the older sister, so I do wish I had a 171 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 1: little bit more information, like are you the younger sister 172 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:17,839 Speaker 1: the older sister, because I think that plays a little bit. 173 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 1: But regardless, it's all in how you say things. I 174 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 1: do think that you have to respect and honor yourself 175 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 1: and honor your feelings. And if your sister loves you, 176 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 1: which I know she does, then she'll understand if you say, hey, sister, 177 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 1: can I talk to you about something like? This has 178 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 1: been bothering me and I wanted to bring this up 179 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 1: and tell you that this makes me uncomfortable. I don't 180 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:44,840 Speaker 1: really like how this makes me feel when you say 181 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 1: this or when you do that, and I would like 182 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 1: it if if you didn't do that. You know, And 183 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 1: it's as simple as that. It's like you know, and 184 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:58,320 Speaker 1: and speaking from the heart. So that's what I suggest. 185 00:10:59,480 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 1: You're gonna resenting your sister if you don't talk about 186 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 1: these things. It's all in the little small details, guys 187 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 1: that start building up. Because when we're upset and they 188 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:10,640 Speaker 1: do something bad to us and we're super quick to say, hey, 189 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 1: I don't like when you do this. It's the small 190 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:14,680 Speaker 1: little things that we're like, Oh, it's not a big deal. 191 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna brush it under the rug, and what 192 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 1: happens is it starts building up and starts building up, 193 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:21,840 Speaker 1: but you start growing resentment towards a person when you 194 00:11:21,880 --> 00:11:24,840 Speaker 1: can prevent that by just saying, hey, like, I don't 195 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:26,839 Speaker 1: really like how you said that right in the moment, 196 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:30,120 Speaker 1: or wait a little bit, but say it right away, 197 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:34,439 Speaker 1: because you don't want your relationship to be surface level. 198 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 1: The sisterhood has to be built on a solid foundation, 199 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:43,680 Speaker 1: and that's part of building a solid foundation in any relationship. 200 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:48,480 Speaker 1: So I do think that you should express it, and 201 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 1: express it in a loving way. I think in person 202 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 1: would be better. Usually I tell people, if you don't 203 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 1: have the courage to say it in person, write a letter. 204 00:11:57,000 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 1: But I feel like you have a good enough relationship. 205 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 1: Don't know why I get that feeling with your sister 206 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:03,960 Speaker 1: to speak to her in person, and I feel like 207 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:07,840 Speaker 1: she will understand. And if she doesn't, Babe, if she 208 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 1: gets upset or defensive, then that's an indication that maybe 209 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 1: you guys need a tiny bit of space, because sometimes 210 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 1: when we step back, that's when we're able to reflect 211 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:22,719 Speaker 1: and analyze a little bit, and maybe you guys can 212 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 1: come back and the relationship can be even stronger, but 213 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 1: I hope that's not the case. But even if it is, 214 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 1: it's okay. And just remember, even with siblings, even with family, 215 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:37,719 Speaker 1: even with parents, there are little seasons, you know, and 216 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:39,960 Speaker 1: we grow out of certain things and we grow and 217 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 1: we blossom and we're different. And I hope that you 218 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:45,679 Speaker 1: guys can always be close, but just know that that 219 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:49,640 Speaker 1: could happen, and I hope that's not the case, though. 220 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 1: I hope my advice helps you, and I hope that 221 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 1: you guys can talk and you can really set healthy boundaries. 222 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 1: Thank you for trusting me and all of you, Raquel, 223 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 1: Kayla and my beautiful anonymous listener, thank you very much. 224 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:07,360 Speaker 1: And for those of you listening right now, thank you 225 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 1: for being here. I hope that my advice can also 226 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 1: help you. And if you have a question, you know 227 00:13:13,679 --> 00:13:16,719 Speaker 1: where to leave it. 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