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Speaker 1: So the following program were pre recorded.

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Speaker 2: The courses of this program were pre recorded. Get up

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Speaker 2: like the butt crack at.

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Speaker 3: Dawn, Oh my god, I love you, Big Daddy's.

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Speaker 4: By today, I'm gonna come to your beds side to

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Speaker 4: Oh my goodness, here we go, Elvis Duran in the

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Speaker 4: Morning Show.

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Speaker 5: Hey, relationships are difficult. Heyoff, most of the time is great,

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Speaker 5: but there are moments where you just really just want

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Speaker 5: to well hit them in the face with a hot iron. Okay,

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Speaker 5: maybe an exaggerated exaggerating you don't have to plug it in,

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Speaker 5: keep it cold. Like we were just talking about yesterday,

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Speaker 5: I was hanging out with Alex, my husband, and of

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Speaker 5: course Uncle Johnny's visiting, and uh, I figured out after

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Speaker 5: the day when we had to make decisions like where

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Speaker 5: to go for lunch or what to do this, where

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Speaker 5: to do that, he was like shooting down all my ideas.

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Speaker 5: Everything we did yesterday was what he wanted to do,

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Speaker 5: and I kind of just had to, like I wanted

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Speaker 5: to say something like, hey, this is a partnership. I

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Speaker 5: get to say something here, but I mean when I

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Speaker 5: get a vote, I didn't do it. I'm like, eh,

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Speaker 5: let is have a good day then last night we

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Speaker 5: started arguing about what we're gonna throw away because we're

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Speaker 5: gonna renovate some stuff in the house. He starts in

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Speaker 5: on me with my piano. Well that's gonna go I said, no,

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Speaker 5: it's not hell now, no, not even a conversation. Well,

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Speaker 5: this is my house too, I said, what's my house too,

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Speaker 5: that's my piano. I don't throw away pianos. I don't

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Speaker 5: throw away books. Those are things I don't throw away.

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Speaker 5: You're not to yes, way, we're gonna get round. No,

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Speaker 5: we're not. We're not not gonna happen. And that piano

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Speaker 5: is staying right here. You know, won't negotiate other things,

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Speaker 5: but not that. That's not there's no negotiation there. So

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Speaker 5: in your relationships, I mean, where do you draw the line.

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Speaker 5: There's a line in the sand sometimes where you disagree

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Speaker 5: on things and one of you is going to get

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Speaker 5: your way and one of you is not, Like how

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Speaker 5: does this work for you?

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Speaker 6: See?

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Speaker 7: I think one of the things for me at least,

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Speaker 7: is I wish I had met Heather when I was younger,

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Speaker 7: because I feel like the older you get, the more

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Speaker 7: set in your ways you are. And I am totally

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Speaker 7: immovable on things mate.

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Speaker 5: To be honest, you'll become more set in your ways

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Speaker 5: even when you're with her, and so it just it

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Speaker 5: It becomes very difficult at times because there's a compromise

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Speaker 5: that someone's not willing to make, and a lot of

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Speaker 5: times it's me, you know, and I feel bad because

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Speaker 5: I want that person to have their way, but exactly, look,

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Speaker 5: I don't want to argue with you, but you know,

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Speaker 5: sometimes I need to get it my way.

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Speaker 8: You know.

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Speaker 5: Sometimes it's okay.

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Speaker 9: See there's little things that I'll just give into right away,

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Speaker 9: Like to me, it's like, okay, this is not worth

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Speaker 9: fighting over. But then if there's something that I really

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Speaker 9: really believe in, I will stand my ground and be like, no, this.

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Speaker 5: Is how I really feel good. Yeah, and hopefully he

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Speaker 5: will respect.

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Speaker 9: Oh, of course he does.

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Speaker 10: So I have a really hard time because everybody says,

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Speaker 10: you know, relationships are all about compromise, but at the

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Speaker 10: same time, never settle, And nobody can tell me what

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Speaker 10: the difference between compromising and settling is. So I think

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Speaker 10: that I just act like a big ass all the

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Speaker 10: time and I'm like, no, we're gonna do what I

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Speaker 10: want to do because I'm not settling or compromising.

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Speaker 5: Look at the end of the day, Gandhi, if he

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Speaker 5: wants to have a burger for lunch and you won't

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Speaker 5: have pancakes for lunch, and he gets his way and

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Speaker 5: you get a burger for lunch, it really isn't the

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Speaker 5: end of life.

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Speaker 11: It's not.

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Speaker 5: But after a while when he gets to choose every

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Speaker 5: single lunch you have and you never ever get to say, well,

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Speaker 5: that becomes a problem.

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Speaker 10: Right, Yes, I agree, And I think everybody should have

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Speaker 10: their joint home together, and then each of you should

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Speaker 10: have your own apartments so you can slam a door

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Speaker 10: and decorate however you want to.

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Speaker 5: It works for a lot of people.

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Speaker 10: I think that would be great.

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Speaker 5: Looks and I were not together every day of the week,

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Speaker 5: and I still don't get my way.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, you keep that piano. See if you had your

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Speaker 10: own place all to yourself, that piano could be in

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Speaker 10: the middle of the room. No problem.

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Speaker 5: The piano's not going anywhere. Yeah.

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Speaker 12: Sometimes I let Lisa make a decision that I know

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Speaker 12: is wrong, but I just let her do it just

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Speaker 12: because that's the way she can see that it's wrong

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Speaker 12: than just telling her that, oh my god, no, I'm

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Speaker 12: being serious. So the other day, she wanted something painted

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Speaker 12: a certain color and I said that that's not the

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Speaker 12: right color.

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Speaker 1: She's like, no, it will be.

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Speaker 12: I'm like, it's not.

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Speaker 1: She's like I like it.

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Speaker 12: I'm like, okay, I painted it there at that color

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Speaker 12: and guess what, I was right, it's not the right color.

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Speaker 12: It caused me more work. But at the same time,

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Speaker 12: I knew that she needed to see that it wasn't

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Speaker 12: the right color before just arguing about her.

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Speaker 9: Why do you do this to us?

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Speaker 5: But wait a minute, wait a minute. But on the

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Speaker 5: other hand, you may have painted it her way and

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Speaker 5: actually look back and said, okay, this is a nice color.

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Speaker 12: At least you tried. You know, it looked like somebody

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Speaker 12: backed up to it and just went.

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Speaker 11: It was.

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Speaker 5: It was all crapped on your shutters.

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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 5: Scar?

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Speaker 13: This is why I don't want to move in with

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Speaker 13: my girlfriend or anyone ever, because I see what happens

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Speaker 13: all this stuff. There's oldest resistance. Nobody wants to compromise.

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Speaker 13: Everyone's setting their ways. I'm setting my ways, so I

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Speaker 13: like the way I.

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Speaker 5: Do things in my place. Nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 13: She could do stuff in her place, in her own space,

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Speaker 13: if that works for you.

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Speaker 5: Guys. Amen for well, probably works for both of them.

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Speaker 5: We don't know that, Danielle, stop. I bet you know what.

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Speaker 5: However you do it, you know if you do it? Okay.

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Speaker 5: So on Reddit they did a question for married people

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Speaker 5: share the things you miss most about being single. Oh,

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Speaker 5: I'll give you a few things. Being where I left them.

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Speaker 5: Not having to consider anyone else but making a decision.

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Speaker 1: Got it.

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Speaker 5: Not having to justify myself to another adult if I'm

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Speaker 5: getting takeout two days in a h okay, not having

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Speaker 5: to share my leftovers, cleaning the way I want, having

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Speaker 5: a thing about I have a thing about liking to

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Speaker 5: clean when no one else is around, just because how

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Speaker 5: I do takes time and has a weird system to it.

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Speaker 5: But they don't need to be judging just being alone

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Speaker 5: and being able to do whatever I want. They missed that.

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Speaker 5: Now they're married, they don't get that anymore. Sleeping in

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Speaker 5: the middle of the bed like a starfish.

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Speaker 9: Ah.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah.

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Speaker 5: Quiet. Whenever I want quiet, I have it. I can

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Speaker 5: turn everything off and have quiet now with a wife

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Speaker 5: and three kids. No, it's a madhouse. The other person says,

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Speaker 5: I could I could go without all the farts, Like

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Speaker 5: we have fun our house. We have a lot of

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Speaker 5: fun in our house. The excitement at first dating someone

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Speaker 5: you like, well that goes away, Oh, sometimes controlling the remote,

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Speaker 5: watching anything without constant streaming commentary, traveling alone. I miss

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Speaker 5: traveling alone. See, I love traveling with someone. Money my money.

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Speaker 5: With my money, I could do whatever I wanted to.

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Speaker 6: Do with it. Yeah.

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Speaker 10: I don't understand that one either. I have a lot

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Speaker 10: of questions about the money.

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Speaker 5: What are your questions about the money situation?

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Speaker 10: So Nate had mentioned something earlier today where he was like, oh,

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Speaker 10: it's on me, but he's getting married. So isn't all

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Speaker 10: that money the same money once you get married? Is

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Speaker 10: there really a separate like my money and your money?

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Speaker 10: Because that's why I don't want to believe in marriage.

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Speaker 10: Like my money is my money.

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I don't know, you know, like if

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Speaker 5: Alex and I go out for lunch, she'll go, hey,

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Speaker 5: I'm buying lunch today, or I am buying lunch. I

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Speaker 5: don't know. I just like everyone, everyone treats their finances differently.

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Speaker 9: In my favorite is when I go away on a

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Speaker 9: trip and Sheldon goes go ahead, I go go ahead.

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Speaker 9: What go in your closet? And figure out which pair

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Speaker 9: I threw out. I said, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 9: He goes, You're never gonna know. You have so many

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Speaker 9: damn shoes You're never gonna know which pair is gone.

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Speaker 9: I'm like, gosh, if you touched my shoes you wear

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Speaker 9: so much.

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Speaker 5: That is cruel. Psychological parent He's just poking the bear.

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Speaker 5: There total total, what's frog?

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Speaker 12: There was something in that list that triggered an argument

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Speaker 12: Lisa and I had on Saturday. So it'says how you clean.

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Speaker 12: So Lisa doesn't clean the way that I think a

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Speaker 12: normal person cleans.

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Speaker 1: When Lisa decides to clean the.

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Speaker 12: Bathrooms, she goes around and puts toilet bowl cleaner, like

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Speaker 12: the bleach stuff in the toile bowl and just leaves

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Speaker 12: it for the day and then goes back and cleans

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Speaker 12: it later, which I think is strange. So the other day,

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Speaker 12: I'm driving home and I had to do I had

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Speaker 12: to do a number number two ski. So I'm I'm coming,

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Speaker 12: and you know how we have gp ass that your

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Speaker 12: butt knows when you're getting close to the toilet.

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Speaker 5: Wow, OK, where is this going?

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Speaker 12: I get in the house, I run to the toilet,

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Speaker 12: I lift up the toilet and there's bleach everywhere. So

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Speaker 12: now I've got a time out. I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa,

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Speaker 12: we're not ready it. I had to clean the bleach

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Speaker 12: and I almost had an accident, and I told her,

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Speaker 12: I said, you can't do that anymore. You can't just

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Speaker 12: leave things the bleach in there, because I'm not gonna

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Speaker 5: Like I had to come up. Is there a reason

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Speaker 5: to leave bleach in there?

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Speaker 12: Point it clean, cleans while it sits there, and then

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Speaker 12: she scrubs it later. I'm like, no, no, no, no, just

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Speaker 12: put it in there, brush it, flush the toilet, and

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Speaker 12: it's ready when I need it.

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Speaker 11: To.

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Speaker 10: You to clean the toilet. I will do half. You

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Speaker 10: do the second half.

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Speaker 1: Thanks. Just ask me to do it and I'll do it.

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Speaker 5: Line two are from Teresa from h Amsterdam. Are you

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Speaker 5: calling it from Amsterdam? Teresa?

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Speaker 14: I am Amsterdam, New York. How are you guys?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 5: Hey, love it Amsterdam, New York. Anyway, you're moving in

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Speaker 5: with your you're moving in with your boyfriend. So you're

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Speaker 5: just now you're hearing this conversation, and I don't know

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Speaker 5: if you're freaking out or like, how are you with compromising?

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Speaker 14: So I'm fine with compromising. I know he's more stubborn

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Speaker 14: than I am, which is fine. I'm learning as I go.

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Speaker 15: But I also learned that because.

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Speaker 5: God, God bless you. Let me call me, call me

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Speaker 14: I love listening to you guys.

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Speaker 5: Thank you, Thank you, Teresa, have a great day. Well sure,

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Speaker 5: it's all roses here.

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Speaker 6: Hey.

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Speaker 5: Look, I wouldn't trade it in for anything, but you know, look,

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Speaker 5: wish I'd never done this. Not at all, Not at all.

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Speaker 5: What's scary.

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Speaker 13: Question, are people who refuse to bend and compromise like

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Speaker 5: Yes, ask me for a little bit, Yeah, yeah, Okay,

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Speaker 5: why do you never bend or compromise? It's always your way.

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Speaker 13: I just think that my sometimes my decisions are better.

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Speaker 9: Shifts are all about compromise.

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Speaker 5: We all think our ideas are better.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry, I let him talk.

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Speaker 12: Robin doesn't give a pushback.

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Speaker 13: Lucky that she's very, very you know, she'll go along

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Speaker 5: She's the most easy going person on earth.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I want to save Robin.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, now if it worked for her, and maybe it's fine.

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Speaker 5: You know, it's everyone's different.

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Speaker 5: I don't just like throw it down. It's it's got

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Speaker 10: I don't understand how you guys have such pushback in

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Speaker 5: We were looking at him like we just saw a

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Speaker 5: car wreck, even as a normal Do you have a

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Speaker 9: Or something like? What's going on there?

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Speaker 5: Some people like that, But some people, by the way,

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Speaker 12: Some people like Daniel. Some people like not having to

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Speaker 1: But always I don't know everything.

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Speaker 5: I bet you, look, we know your girlfriend very well.

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Speaker 5: We know her. She she's a very very smart person.

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Speaker 5: I bet she gets her way more than you think

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Speaker 9: He's a good point.

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Speaker 5: She's probably like, look, she's the puppet master, she's manipulating you.

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Speaker 1: It is a great point.

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Speaker 5: But to make decisions that she will agree with. I

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Speaker 5: have an alpha and.

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Speaker 10: You are not in alpha.

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Speaker 12: I was just trying so hard to save you here.

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Speaker 12: I don't need your life raft. That'll be fine out

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Speaker 12: here in the shark something. Oh my god, I love

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Speaker 12: I can't even well, you can't.

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Speaker 6: You just heard it.

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Speaker 10: Trying to rescue me from Alpha says no actual Alpha ever,

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Speaker 10: We're not normal.

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Speaker 18: Elis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 19: What was that?

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Speaker 18: Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 5: We got to get into some horos scopes right now.

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Speaker 5: Producer Sam is in the house. Who are you want

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Speaker 5: to do with today?

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Speaker 20: That cutie behind the glass Scott ebe Okay, let's do it.

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Speaker 21: If it's your birthday today, you share it with Lionel

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Speaker 21: Messi and Mindy Kleig Capricorn. Someone will compliment you today

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Speaker 21: and it'll be the boost you didn't know you needed.

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Speaker 21: Your day is an eight Aquarius.

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Speaker 20: If you wait for the perfect moment to make your move,

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Speaker 21: Your days a six Pisces creates something beautiful for yourself.

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Speaker 21: You've been doing too much for others lately, but your days.

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Speaker 17: Of five aries.

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Speaker 20: Even in your uncertainty, there is purpose in your actions,

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Speaker 17: Your days of nine.

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Speaker 21: Taurus, an unexpected turn of events is going to push

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Speaker 21: go with it. Your day is a seven.

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Speaker 20: Hey gemin I make today about appreciating what you usually

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Speaker 17: It's all very valuable.

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Speaker 9: Your days an eight Cancer.

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Speaker 21: It's not too late to rebuild a lost connection. Find

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Speaker 21: eight Leo.

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Speaker 20: Remember rest is not weakness, it's how strength three news itself.

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Speaker 20: Give yourself permission to replenish. Your day's a seven Virgo.

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Speaker 21: Things you think make you too much are the things

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Speaker 21: that make you loved. Don't be so hard on yourself.

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Speaker 21: Your day is a nine Libra.

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Speaker 20: The stress levels are high today, but trust that soon

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Speaker 20: they will even out.

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Speaker 5: Your day's a nine Scorpio.

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Speaker 21: Remember no effort is ever wasted if it brought you

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Speaker 20: Your day is a ten, And finally, Sagittarius, let go

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Speaker 20: of the time time limits you put on yourself. Instead,

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Speaker 20: just be goal oriented. Your day's a six, and those

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Speaker 20: are your Tuesday morning horoscopes.

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Speaker 5: Hey producer sam Hi, you want to talk about it?

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Speaker 5: Is there something you want to discuss today with the family?

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Speaker 17: Oh my god, what did I do today?

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Speaker 5: You've been the other woman.

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Speaker 17: Oh my god, that thing.

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Speaker 20: Yeah, I have been the other woman in a relationship,

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I why the other one?

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Speaker 5: Well why is this surfacing and making you crazy all

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Speaker 20: We were kind of talking about it the other day

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Speaker 5: Well, let's talk about it. Look, you know there's you know,

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Speaker 5: if you are cheated on, the other woman, is the

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 5: But you wake up and realize, wait a minute, I

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Speaker 17: See that's the thing.

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Speaker 20: I don't blame the other girl for hating me, but

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Speaker 20: I one hundred percent did not know what was going

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Speaker 17: Was dating the Yeah that's sad, I know, I know,

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Speaker 20: Our schedules like didn't line up a lot, so we

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Speaker 20: and said, sweetie, I don't know what conversations you guys

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Speaker 5: Oh wow, So how did you act on that information?

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Speaker 20: I simmered, I finished my beer, I ordered another, and

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Speaker 20: I am said is there anything you want to tell me?

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Speaker 20: He knew what was up, and we kind of had

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Speaker 9: We had a fight.

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Speaker 20: But my very favorite part was I thought he was lying,

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Speaker 17: He didn't think i'd call. He wanted to call my bluff.

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Speaker 20: No.

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Speaker 9: I called her.

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Speaker 17: We were on the phone for like two hours.

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Speaker 5: What a dumb ass?

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Speaker 22: I mean.

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Speaker 5: I mean, it's one thing to dump him because he

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Speaker 17: Yeah, he's a dumb ass.

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Speaker 5: I will tell you though, when you are the other

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 10: I actually had no idea that there was another person.

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Speaker 10: There were pictures of him and another girl everywhere.

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Speaker 5: See that's like blatant hiding it from her very much.

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Speaker 9: So I was with.

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Speaker 5: and it's all done and so I but it wasn't.

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Speaker 5: It was a lie.

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Speaker 9: My phone call was he's I'm pregnant with his baby.

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Speaker 9: That was my god, Yeah, how that goes? It was well,

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Speaker 9: I had no idea they name her Danielle. No, I'm

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Speaker 9: have fun with that? And then I called him out

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Speaker 9: I really did not know. I had no idea.

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Speaker 9: There's still stuff going on so complicated as you deserve

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Speaker 9: more than you know, even if they're telling you that

447
00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:57,360
Speaker 9: it's over, like it's stringing you along and saying, oh, yeah, yeah,

448
00:18:57,359 --> 00:18:59,040
Speaker 9: this week, I'm going to do it. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,

449
00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:01,360
Speaker 9: oh well we're going We're doing this next week, I'm

450
00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:01,800
Speaker 9: going to do it.

451
00:19:01,880 --> 00:19:02,080
Speaker 5: Yeah.

452
00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:03,720
Speaker 9: It's like, you know, come on.

453
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Speaker 10: When you found out you were the other person, did

454
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Speaker 10: you have a conversation with the significant other.

455
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Speaker 17: No, do you think you should?

456
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Speaker 10: I was really torn. So when I found out that

457
00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:15,320
Speaker 10: I was the other person, all of my friends were like, well,

458
00:19:15,320 --> 00:19:16,879
Speaker 10: you're going to say something to this girl, And I thought,

459
00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:19,280
Speaker 10: I don't know. I don't know her at all. I

460
00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:20,679
Speaker 10: feel like she should know, but I don't know if

461
00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:22,040
Speaker 10: it's my place to say something.

462
00:19:22,119 --> 00:19:22,640
Speaker 9: What do you do?

463
00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:23,239
Speaker 11: I don't know.

464
00:19:24,080 --> 00:19:26,239
Speaker 5: Maybe I was in a situation where I was just

465
00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:28,840
Speaker 5: led to believe that he was leaving, and I knew

466
00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:31,639
Speaker 5: who he was, but I didn't I wasn't friends with him.

467
00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:33,880
Speaker 5: But later on I found out that they weren't anywhere

468
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Speaker 5: about to break up.

469
00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:38,080
Speaker 20: And yeah, like I was happy I had that conversation

470
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Speaker 20: with the other woman.

471
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Speaker 9: But I got lucky.

472
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Speaker 20: She was a really receptive, nice person. She could have

473
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Speaker 20: told me to f the write off as soon as

474
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Speaker 20: I called her.

475
00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:47,919
Speaker 5: Yeah, with the bottom line is it was a guiding

476
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Speaker 5: a douche. Yeah, what's up? Scary?

477
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Speaker 13: I read some crazy stat that eighty five percent of

478
00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:56,639
Speaker 13: people married people who cheat never ever wind up getting

479
00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:59,240
Speaker 13: the divorce. They say that they're getting the divorce, but

480
00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:02,119
Speaker 13: they keep that so you could keep hanging on, but

481
00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:05,000
Speaker 13: they say that it never happens because you know it's.

482
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Speaker 10: The horse is expensive.

483
00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:11,959
Speaker 5: Yeah, nothing I'm ever going to experience that. Is this

484
00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:13,680
Speaker 5: a Tiana?

485
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Speaker 9: Hi?

486
00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:14,840
Speaker 23: This is Tiana.

487
00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:17,520
Speaker 5: Hey Tiana, thanks for listening to us. You hooked up

488
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Speaker 5: with a guy, and afterward he casually mentioned that he's

489
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Speaker 5: in a relationship, after he how'd that go?

490
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Speaker 24: Yeah, So he casually mentions his girlfriend, and I have

491
00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:34,120
Speaker 24: this confused, bewildered look, and so do my friends at

492
00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:40,280
Speaker 24: that point. And so I asked him and he's like, oh, yeah,

493
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Speaker 24: I have a girlfriend. We're long distance, and she understands

494
00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:43,920
Speaker 24: I have.

495
00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:52,680
Speaker 5: Needs needs, So he's he therefore renamed you needs. Oh yeah, yeah,

496
00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:54,000
Speaker 5: you are now my needs.

497
00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:55,360
Speaker 23: Oh yeah.

498
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Speaker 24: I was like, no, I'm not about this. So'st away

499
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Speaker 24: after that.

500
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Speaker 1: Wow good.

501
00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:03,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm glad you didn't let him like play around

502
00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:05,399
Speaker 5: with you like a cat plays with a toy. You

503
00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:08,679
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. He should Don't you think he

504
00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:10,520
Speaker 5: should have said something before you guys hooked up?

505
00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:13,960
Speaker 24: Yes, yes, yeah, but I have a feeling he was

506
00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:17,080
Speaker 24: hiding it because many girls probably wouldn't go for that

507
00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:18,000
Speaker 24: if they knew.

508
00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:23,320
Speaker 10: First you're gonna say no, shifty, I'm kind of on

509
00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:24,080
Speaker 10: where I am in life.

510
00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:26,359
Speaker 9: I might have said, yes, yeah, it depends.

511
00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:29,320
Speaker 5: Still, it wasn't for Tiana. All right, all right, well,

512
00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,560
Speaker 5: so now if you hook up, are you a little nosy?

513
00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:34,680
Speaker 5: Do you try to do a little background investigation before

514
00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:35,760
Speaker 5: you go too far with anyone?

515
00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:39,480
Speaker 24: I did after that, but I'm happily married.

516
00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:42,080
Speaker 5: Now, okay, there you go. All right, Tiana, thanks for

517
00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:42,880
Speaker 5: listening to us.

518
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:48,240
Speaker 20: Waking up in the morning taking him on so many things.

519
00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:52,160
Speaker 18: Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

520
00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:55,640
Speaker 2: This is Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

521
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Speaker 5: I can't waite scary just said what he said. It

522
00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:04,120
Speaker 5: really speaks volume. He's like, if you're going to break

523
00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:05,600
Speaker 5: up with someone at a restaurant, if it's a really

524
00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:07,560
Speaker 5: good restaurant and you're enjoying your meal, it should make

525
00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:10,440
Speaker 5: it easier. Well, it happened to me. I don't know,

526
00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:13,440
Speaker 5: but you're saying it because the meal was tasty, then

527
00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:14,840
Speaker 5: your heart wasn't broken.

528
00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:18,040
Speaker 13: Is a comfort thing and people can use it as

529
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Speaker 13: a buffer. So when I got broken up with several

530
00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,959
Speaker 13: years ago, she planned it out according to the courses

531
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Speaker 13: of the meal, with the appetizer, main course in the dessert,

532
00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:28,000
Speaker 13: and she kind of slowly ramped into what was she

533
00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:30,600
Speaker 13: wanted to talk about, and by dessert she tried to

534
00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:32,199
Speaker 13: tie it up into a bow and then she left and.

535
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Speaker 5: She would three blocks from her house. Then you're very forgiving.

536
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:38,400
Speaker 5: And if I'm in love with someone or I'm really

537
00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:40,560
Speaker 5: getting into them, and they took me to a restaurant

538
00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:43,160
Speaker 5: and stready breaking up with me while we're eating, yeah,

539
00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:45,560
Speaker 5: and then you took another bite of what's on that play?

540
00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:46,560
Speaker 5: I would throw it at.

541
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Speaker 10: I would smack that fork right out of someone's hand, like,

542
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Speaker 10: are you kidding me? You're breaking up with me and

543
00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:51,840
Speaker 10: eating the spaghetti?

544
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Speaker 25: No?

545
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:52,560
Speaker 10: Not today.

546
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Speaker 11: No.

547
00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:55,760
Speaker 12: And whoever does the breaking up, they're responsible to pay

548
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Speaker 12: the bill if you break up with me.

549
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Speaker 1: I'm not splitting it with you.

550
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Speaker 5: Yeah great, Oh so okay. So I brought this up

551
00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 5: and I said, hey, text in did you see the

552
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 5: hundreds of texts that came in. This obviously hits a

553
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Speaker 5: nerve with a lot of people breaking up in restaurants.

554
00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 5: Here's someone who said they broke up. I broke up

555
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:14,520
Speaker 5: with my exit Ruby Tuesdays.

556
00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 10: Oh I love I used to work there.

557
00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 5: Found out a lot about him. He ran out of

558
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Speaker 5: the restaurant screaming at me, and the whole restaurant listened in,

559
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:24,399
Speaker 5: and there'd be a lot of people were texting and

560
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:26,680
Speaker 5: saying they didn't break up in restaurants, but they kept

561
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Speaker 5: quiet at their table to listen to the breakup at

562
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Speaker 5: the next table. Oh, I did that, gandhi did that?

563
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Speaker 5: Talk about it.

564
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Speaker 10: So I was at a Mexican restaurant with my ex

565
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Speaker 10: boyfriend and the table behind it was actually a booth.

566
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Speaker 10: Behind us, the guy started to break up with the

567
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Speaker 10: girl that he was with, and the reasons that he

568
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 10: was giving were very specific and fascinating. So I stopped

569
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Speaker 10: talking with my boyfriend at the time and was listening.

570
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Speaker 10: He started talking louder than they were talking, because he

571
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Speaker 10: said it was rude that I was trying to listen

572
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Speaker 10: to this intimate moment of their life, to which I say,

573
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Speaker 10: you're at a booth at Elviacaro right now, why if

574
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:01,919
Speaker 10: I can hear you?

575
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:02,120
Speaker 3: Man?

576
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:03,960
Speaker 1: Like, come on, look at this.

577
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:05,720
Speaker 5: My ex husband took me to my favorite restaurant to

578
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:07,480
Speaker 5: tell me he was serving me with divorce papers. My

579
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:10,120
Speaker 5: best friend's parents, coincidentally, who never go out to dinner,

580
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 5: were sitting at the next table. Never spoke to her again.

581
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,639
Speaker 5: This ahle thinks he wants to make a public display

582
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Speaker 5: of me. Literally, they know his divorce papers were already

583
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:20,280
Speaker 5: on their way as well. Wow, now it's my favorite

584
00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:23,200
Speaker 5: restaurant I go all the time. Here's someone who got broken.

585
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:24,240
Speaker 1: Up with with somebody in public.

586
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, here's the thing at a restaurant. It's it's too

587
00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:30,119
Speaker 5: controlled and it's not an easy escape.

588
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Speaker 1: It really really is.

589
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Speaker 12: You don't know how they'll act. They could become unhinged

590
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 12: and embarrass you and themselves.

591
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:37,359
Speaker 5: Very risky.

592
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Speaker 9: So you think that's what people are hoping they don't

593
00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 9: do that you're in that kind of environment and that

594
00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:43,480
Speaker 9: that will be maybe more controlled.

595
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Speaker 5: You don't know. That's why backfires. I wouldn't play with

596
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:48,560
Speaker 5: that restaurant breakup. I broke up in a restaurant. I

597
00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:51,479
Speaker 5: always wanted to try hot so excited to go, got

598
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:54,040
Speaker 5: dumped from the entrees, came to the table, never lost

599
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:57,640
Speaker 5: my appetite was supposed to be scary techpinion, never lost,

600
00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:01,000
Speaker 5: my appetite, just went on eating. Oh my gosh. But

601
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:04,719
Speaker 5: listen to James on line twenty though. Now this is

602
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 5: I think even riskier. Broke up on Norwegian On Norwegian

603
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 5: getaway on a ship.

604
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 9: Oh that's James, the same room and everything.

605
00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:17,800
Speaker 5: They're on the same vessel. Yeah, you can't escape. What

606
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 5: do you think in James?

607
00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 25: Hey, good morning, guys, good morning. What was I thinking?

608
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:26,399
Speaker 25: It was just it was the end, you know.

609
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:29,919
Speaker 9: But here's my question. If you're on you're on the

610
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 9: cruise with the person, can you get through the whole

611
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 9: cruise and then once you get off the ship do it?

612
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:36,400
Speaker 6: Uh?

613
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:37,200
Speaker 11: No?

614
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 25: Really, I just decided right there I was done.

615
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:42,240
Speaker 1: Wow, one of the cruise.

616
00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 6: Yeah.

617
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Speaker 5: How many days did you have?

618
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Speaker 25: It was day four of day eight? Oh god, No,

619
00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:49,600
Speaker 25: I still had a great time.

620
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Speaker 8: Uh.

621
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Speaker 25: It was Norwegian, and you guys know Norwegian. The ships

622
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:55,200
Speaker 25: are great, the ports are beautiful, but the best part

623
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 25: is the people you meet, you know. So I went out,

624
00:25:57,720 --> 00:25:59,880
Speaker 25: I made a lot of friends, and uh I still

625
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:00,600
Speaker 25: joyed myself.

626
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:01,359
Speaker 6: Wow.

627
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,240
Speaker 5: And the good thing about this is you you got

628
00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:06,119
Speaker 5: to keep the restaurant. You didn't have to give that

629
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 5: up in the breakup. You got to keep the ship.

630
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:08,160
Speaker 5: You're good.

631
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Speaker 25: I took care of the bill.

632
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 5: Okay, I know, But you had four more days with

633
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 5: this person. How did that go?

634
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 6: Well?

635
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:21,880
Speaker 25: We still shared a room, We still shared a bed,

636
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:24,880
Speaker 25: so you know, we definitely both still enjoyed ourselves.

637
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:31,440
Speaker 9: But you broke up with her on the ship and

638
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:32,639
Speaker 9: she still gave you sex.

639
00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 25: I mean you said it me, I don't know you.

640
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 5: You basically said that, yes, Gandhi thoughts all right, James?

641
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:44,800
Speaker 10: What did she do in the middle of the trip

642
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:47,120
Speaker 10: that was so egregious that you couldn't wait till the end?

643
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:48,760
Speaker 10: Like what was the nail on the coffin that you

644
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:50,399
Speaker 10: were like, this is it? Halfway through vacation?

645
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 25: Well, I mean, well, obviously it was like you know,

646
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 25: a bunch of things that built up over time, But

647
00:26:57,440 --> 00:26:59,639
Speaker 25: she kept being late to all the reservations and couldn't

648
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:01,840
Speaker 25: get ready in time, and like that kind of got

649
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:09,359
Speaker 25: a little annoying where I'm was all I should have

650
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:10,880
Speaker 25: done is telling her that the reservation was a few

651
00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 25: minutes earlier, so she got ready earlier. But you know,

652
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:15,400
Speaker 25: water under the bridge?

653
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 5: Well yeah, okay, So may I may I assume that

654
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:23,400
Speaker 5: this this relationship wasn't really all that serious, was it?

655
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:27,520
Speaker 25: I mean I was in it for real, I was

656
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 25: putting in a lot of effort, but I just saw

657
00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:32,880
Speaker 25: that she wasn't. And she said numerous times over the cruise.

658
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 25: Which kind of bothered me was she was she was

659
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:38,639
Speaker 25: perfectly okay with only being good looking. That kind of

660
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:47,159
Speaker 25: bothered me a little bit. Yeah, I guess I don't know,

661
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:51,360
Speaker 25: and maybe it wasn't that serious.

662
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm in hindsight. Well look, you know, uh, the

663
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:58,639
Speaker 5: whole story is great. By the way, you're my favorite

664
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 5: call of the week. You gotta be honest, all right, James.

665
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 25: I appreciate that.

666
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:04,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, But the whole point of this conversation with people

667
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:09,160
Speaker 5: who take take their significant other tour restaurant knowing full

668
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,359
Speaker 5: well when they walk through the door they're about to

669
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:13,120
Speaker 5: break up with them. That was not the case when

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Speaker 5: you went on board Norwegian, was it. You didn't take

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Speaker 5: your breakup? Okay? All right, and there you go. How

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Speaker 5: are you today? By the way, how's your life?

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Speaker 25: I've done it on the fourth day, so.

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Speaker 5: There you go. How's your love life now? James?

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Speaker 8: Single?

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Speaker 25: Doing my fing It's been a few months. I went

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Speaker 25: on another Norwegian cruise after that as a solo traveler,

678
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Speaker 25: had a good time on that and just you know,

679
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Speaker 25: realize that I can have a good time on my own.

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Speaker 25: I don't need to travel with someone, and I actually

681
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Speaker 25: have another, I have another cruise I'm leaving next Friday.

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Speaker 25: Another I love it.

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Speaker 5: Norwegian loves you too. Here's the thing, Uh, solo travel

684
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Speaker 5: on cruise ships is fabulous and I've I have so

685
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Speaker 5: many friends who've so many friends who've done it. And

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Speaker 5: have you done solo a cruise before?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 25: I did one on a Halloween last year and I

689
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Speaker 25: had a great time.

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Speaker 5: Look at you? All right, God, it makes me kind

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Speaker 5: of jealous.

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Speaker 25: What do you mean, don't worry.

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Speaker 13: Solo cruising by yourself and you're you're stuck with it

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Speaker 13: with your own devices.

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Speaker 5: For seven No, some some people it's a nightmare to

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Speaker 5: go with someone else. All right, thank you. Scary, but

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Speaker 5: thank you James. You have a great day, and thanks

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Speaker 5: for listening to us. And Norwegian loves you man, they

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Speaker 5: want you back, all right, thank you very much. Wow,

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Speaker 5: interesting pictures that took a turn. Yeah, but yeah, I

701
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Speaker 5: can't believe all of these texts about being broken up

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Speaker 5: with or breaking up with someone in a restaurant. I

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Speaker 5: don't know. And then when you broke it up, like

704
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Speaker 5: I said before, you and your other love that restaurant, Like,

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Speaker 5: who gets it? Do you go back on your own

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Speaker 5: with friends or with your next date. Do you dare

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Speaker 5: take your next significant other to that romantic restaurant? You know,

708
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Speaker 5: sure you do.

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Speaker 9: There's a problem probably with the weight staff, Like you know,

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Speaker 9: they're used to seeing like, you know, you with Robert

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Speaker 9: and then all of a sudden you come in with

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Speaker 9: Johnny and they're like, what happened to Robert? And sometimes

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Speaker 9: they'll say that right in front of them, Hey what

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Speaker 9: happened to Robert? And then poor Johnny is feeling like

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Speaker 9: crap because he's your new guy at this restaurant. You know,

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Speaker 9: it's crazy.

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Speaker 5: Well, you want to hear another layer to this onion.

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Speaker 5: What if you and your let's say your husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, whatever,

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Speaker 5: go to the same restaurant and then you love it

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Speaker 5: so much when you're cheating on them, you take your

721
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Speaker 5: you take your your side piece to the restaurant. Well no,

722
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Speaker 5: you know, if you're really tipping high, they'll keep it quiet.

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Speaker 5: Oh hello, mister Duran, good to see you. Who's your son?

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Speaker 18: Hey, I'm at sharing.

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Speaker 9: Hey what's up Metro?

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Speaker 5: The moonshote it?

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Speaker 18: This is Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I want to ask you a question. How we

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Speaker 5: did on time?

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Speaker 21: I think.

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Speaker 5: Can you point out a decision that you made that

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Speaker 5: changed the trajectory of your life.

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Speaker 9: Oh my gosh, yes, yeah, I mean.

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Speaker 5: Not faith or getting married or having a kid. Those

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Speaker 5: those naturally will change the trajectory, but something you did,

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Speaker 5: not knowing how impactful it would be. Ye on your future?

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Speaker 1: Yep, yep.

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Speaker 5: Personally froggy, which what was yours?

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Speaker 12: Well, I've had a couple, but I was just thinking

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Speaker 12: actually different than what I told you. Had I not

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Speaker 12: moved here to Jacksonville and started seeing a new uh

742
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Speaker 12: into chronologist, I would never have found my aneurysm when

743
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Speaker 12: I did, I probably would have. I probably wouldn't be here.

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Speaker 12: I'd be well because I had less than thirty days

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Speaker 12: to live when they found it.

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Speaker 1: And there you go, and.

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Speaker 5: Was just moving to you when you did it, you

748
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Speaker 5: had no idea would change your life. What about you, Gandhi, I.

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Speaker 10: Would say my internship in radio for sure. When I started,

750
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Speaker 10: I didn't think that years later I would be working

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Speaker 10: at such an amazing place in an amazing city with

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Speaker 10: all of you. I just thought, oh, this looks fun.

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Speaker 10: Let me get my college credits, and then boom, here

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Speaker 10: we are.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know what, And at the time you just thought, well,

756
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Speaker 5: I don't know where this is gonna where it's gonna leave,

757
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:28,960
Speaker 5: but I'm gonna do it, not knowing you would be

758
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Speaker 5: here today. And that switch, that's that shift in your trajectory.

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Speaker 5: I love that word has led you to a life

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Speaker 5: that you're love it. Look at you now, there you

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Speaker 5: are creating art with your boyfriend.

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Speaker 10: Oh, it's just been amazing. I mean, everything about this

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Speaker 10: experience with all of you has been wonderful. And I mean,

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Speaker 10: sort of to Froggy's point, moving to Boston as well.

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Speaker 10: I think had I never moved to Boston, I wouldn't

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Speaker 10: have maybe caught the attention of some of you guys,

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Speaker 10: or you know, ever been able to live by myself,

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Speaker 10: and just so many things that have to do with

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Speaker 10: getting up and moving and shaking up your circumstances.

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Speaker 13: What about you scary choosing to not go with the

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Speaker 13: cool kids in college and be you know, live on

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Speaker 13: campus somewhere far away and live at home with my

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Speaker 13: parents and go to school there, because that then, you know,

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Speaker 13: gave me the decision to work in radio and then

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Speaker 13: defy my parents' wishes.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, your parents had chosen a different trajectory for your head. A. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: he wanted me to be in accountant and there's nothing

778
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Speaker 5: wrong with that, but it wasn't for you.

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Speaker 1: What about you, Dandie.

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Speaker 9: Mine is the same thing. I was going to the

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Speaker 9: television station at Saint John's University and that's what I

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Speaker 9: wanted to do. While I was there, met some strange

783
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Speaker 9: girl on the elevator, she said, hey, do you want

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Speaker 9: to do the news on the radio station. I was like,

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Speaker 9: sounds like sounds good, went there, fell in love and

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Speaker 9: never left, never even went near the television station. But

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Speaker 9: that was not the plan. So this person that popped

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Speaker 9: out of nowhere changed my whole life.

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Speaker 5: So the reason I bring this up is you're listening

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Speaker 5: right now. You have done something in your life. You

791
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 5: had to make a decision at some times, and sometimes

792
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 5: making decisions the most difficult thing ever, you know, but

793
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 5: you had to and you did. You had the courage

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00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:14,400
Speaker 5: to do so, and it changed your life forever. You

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Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. You should give yourself credit, don't

796
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 5: don't just live your life as if it didn't happen.

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00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 5: It's good to celebrate what you did.

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Speaker 9: Absolutely you really should. Also, my husband, Elvis, if you

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Speaker 9: hadn't wanted to sleep with him first, I probably would

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Speaker 9: never have met him.

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, that trajectory kind of pissed me on a

802
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 5: little bit mine. As I met Alex, I got married,

803
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Speaker 5: you know, and I decided to go in for that

804
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:41,000
Speaker 5: weight loss surgery for you know, the sleeve, and I

805
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:42,960
Speaker 5: lost a lot of weight. You could go on and

806
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,399
Speaker 5: on and on, but all I'm saying is stop down

807
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:46,920
Speaker 5: every once in a while and take stock in the

808
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 5: good things you've decided to do in your life. Sometimes

809
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:51,960
Speaker 5: these decisions were made for you maybe, but if it

810
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:54,480
Speaker 5: was for the better, fine, so be it. I love that.

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Speaker 5: Are we going to eleven?

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Speaker 19: Here?

813
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Speaker 5: Is that I'm trying to confum itively?

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Speaker 6: Well?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, very very cool. So uh yeah, Froggy wanted

816
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 5: to add something to that.

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00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:06,360
Speaker 12: Yeah, when I creepily looked up Lisa's phone number on

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Speaker 12: realpages dot com and called her and left a message

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Speaker 12: on her home line.

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Speaker 1: Back in the nineties, you looked her up on what doctor?

821
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Speaker 5: Yeah, I did.

822
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Speaker 12: I looked up her phone number on the Internet. I

823
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:17,799
Speaker 12: called her and left the message and she called me back.

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Speaker 1: And that's how Lisa, And.

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Speaker 9: Wait, what'd you say? I'm a message?

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Speaker 1: I don't even remember to be honest with you. I

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Speaker 1: don't know.

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Speaker 12: But anyways, we became friends and then we started dating

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Speaker 12: and now we're married. So I mean, that was a

830
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Speaker 12: decision that was strange, but it worked.

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Speaker 5: People are texting in while I was in high school

832
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 5: by Facebook. I liked every single person's post, no matter what,

833
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:36,520
Speaker 5: and caught the eye of mine, now fiance and now

834
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Speaker 5: three kids. Someone texted in. I transitioned at thirty four

835
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Speaker 5: years old. That changed your trajectory absolutely Eeric code eighty six. Oh,

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Speaker 5: I kissed a girl and I liked it. This person's

837
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Speaker 5: has three divorces. Going to trucking school changed my life.

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Speaker 5: Taking a job, going back to school when I was

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Speaker 5: thirty years old. Uh, took a random college course that

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Speaker 5: changed everything about my life. You know what, another big

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Speaker 5: one in our lives that maybe we don't want to

842
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Speaker 5: give credit to because it was such an it still

843
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:10,560
Speaker 5: is an unpleasant situation, is the pandemic. It changed many

844
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Speaker 5: a trajectory. Ye, I don't know. I think it's so great.

845
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:19,280
Speaker 5: Once again, look back on your life and give yourself

846
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 5: some credit for the decision you made. That may have

847
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:23,399
Speaker 5: been a tough decision to make, but look look where

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Speaker 5: we are now. Katie's Online twenty four. Let's just check

849
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Speaker 5: in with some people calling it. Hey, Katie, what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Hi?

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Speaker 15: Oh my god, I'm such a big fan.

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00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 16: I met you at your book review in Huntington and

853
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:36,720
Speaker 16: actually reading your Hi reading your book.

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Speaker 23: Actually I quit my job because of it.

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Speaker 5: Oh God, So you're you become unemployed because of me?

856
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 5: I feel like that's.

857
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Speaker 16: Not very No, No, it was perfect because I was

858
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Speaker 16: in this position. I'm a teacher, by the way, and

859
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 16: I always thought I wanted to be an administ reader.

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Speaker 16: I wanted to be in charge because I'd been teaching

861
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 16: for so long and I had that position, and you

862
00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 16: had talked about how, you know, being on it wasn't

863
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Speaker 16: necessarily what you always aspired to. It was just always

864
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Speaker 16: being yourself and being happy.

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Speaker 3: So I put that job.

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Speaker 16: And I went back to teaching in the classroom about

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Speaker 16: a year and a half ago, and I am loving

868
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Speaker 16: it and I'm actually thinking now about getting a dual

869
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Speaker 16: certification in math and computer science because of it.

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Speaker 5: Who good for you, Katie, And you know what, and

871
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:21,239
Speaker 5: these were all these were all decisions that you made.

872
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 5: That was your courage that got you here. So good

873
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Speaker 5: for you. We're happy for you very much, so.

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Speaker 23: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 26: Oh my god, I'm so happy to be talking to you.

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00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:29,719
Speaker 19: Tell you.

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00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:34,480
Speaker 16: On another kind of sad note, right after I met

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Speaker 16: you in October of twenty nineteen, about two weeks later,

879
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:40,799
Speaker 16: right around I think Danielle my mom passed away. It

880
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 16: was like right around when Danielle's dad passed away, and

881
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:45,359
Speaker 16: that was another catalyst of quitting the job.

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00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 27: So I just wanted to.

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Speaker 16: Say to Danielle that I get you, and every time

884
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:50,759
Speaker 16: you talk about your dad, I just you know, my

885
00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 16: heart goes out to you.

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00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 9: Thank you so much, you too, sending you.

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Speaker 5: To thank you, Katie. It's a pleasure talking to you.

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Speaker 5: I hope you have a great day, and it's sure

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00:37:57,880 --> 00:37:59,319
Speaker 5: as nice to know when you're listening to our show.

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895
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Speaker 5: What is the direction of today's podcast?

896
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Speaker 2: A podcast we record daily when the morning show is finished.

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Speaker 18: Ran In the Morning show. Elvis terran in the Morning show.

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Speaker 5: So you know our friend Dina with the pink hair.

901
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:33,319
Speaker 9: We love her, Yeah, I love her.

902
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 5: Not only is she a very dear friend and what

903
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:39,440
Speaker 5: she's always there for us for hair and makeup when

904
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:41,359
Speaker 5: we need. We haven't needed in quite some time. But now,

905
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:43,799
Speaker 5: you know, lately that's been warming up. You know, she's

906
00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:46,239
Speaker 5: she came to my apartments the other day. She said,

907
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:48,400
Speaker 5: let me bring you some gifts. She also has a

908
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:51,520
Speaker 5: side hustle that came out during the pandemic. She makes candles. Yeah,

909
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 5: these incredible candles. I'm not just saying just like like goops,

910
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:55,880
Speaker 5: vagina candles.

911
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 9: I'm talking about maybe she could have Dina's vagina candle.

912
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:02,840
Speaker 5: Maybe anyway, So she had several candles, but one of

913
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:06,160
Speaker 5: the candles she gave me, which was my favorite, was

914
00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:10,200
Speaker 5: called stolen Hoodie. Oh yes, I'm like, what is this.

915
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:12,800
Speaker 5: She's like, you know when you go to a guy's

916
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:14,319
Speaker 5: house and you spend the night and you do him

917
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 5: and the next day you steal their hoodie and you

918
00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 5: leave and take it home with you. Sniff the candle.

919
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:22,240
Speaker 5: I sniffed. It smelled it. It smelled it. It smelled

920
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:25,680
Speaker 5: like like a guy's hoodie that had been stolen, Like

921
00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:27,399
Speaker 5: you could smell a little bit of a cologne in there,

922
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 5: but you could also smell some musky smell, like a

923
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:34,799
Speaker 5: dirty guy like Nate whatever, not that dirty. What a

924
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:38,200
Speaker 5: brilliant idea, and it got me to thinking about stealing

925
00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:41,399
Speaker 5: guy's hoodies. Gandhi in your dating life? Have you ever

926
00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 5: stolen a guy's hoodie?

927
00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:44,719
Speaker 10: I just Oh, First of all, I have like ten

928
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:46,239
Speaker 10: from my boyfriend, and he called me out for one

929
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:47,480
Speaker 10: of them the other day, so I had to bring

930
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:47,879
Speaker 10: it back.

931
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 5: Right, Yes, they call it if it's like a one

932
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:52,279
Speaker 5: night stand thing and you steal the hoodie, they called

933
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:54,759
Speaker 5: it a screw of an air as you that's right,

934
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:58,280
Speaker 5: I mean, and I mean, Danielle, do you ever swipe

935
00:39:58,320 --> 00:39:59,120
Speaker 5: Sheldon's hoodies?

936
00:39:59,239 --> 00:39:59,359
Speaker 3: Oh?

937
00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:01,800
Speaker 9: All the time, take away and yet sometimes I spray

938
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:04,000
Speaker 9: it with as like cologne and stuff. Oh what you

939
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 9: want to make sure you smell the person exactly.

940
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:11,440
Speaker 5: So So I was looking this up. There's actually something

941
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:12,279
Speaker 5: for a TikTok video.

942
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Speaker 1: I saw.

943
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:14,960
Speaker 5: There's many reasons why it's great to steal his hoodie.

944
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:17,840
Speaker 5: First of all, it really when you're sniffing him, it

945
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:21,879
Speaker 5: releases serotonin and endorphins. There's a scientific thing going on there. Scientifically,

946
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:25,280
Speaker 5: it makes you happy because you're sniffing him right. Secondly,

947
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 5: it makes you look good because sometimes his hoodie is

948
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 5: a couple of sizes larger than you, so you feel

949
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:32,800
Speaker 5: like you just kind of you're just in there, like

950
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 5: rattling around.

951
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 6: Right.

952
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 27: Yeah.

953
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:37,799
Speaker 5: Guys love that too. They like to see uh, they

954
00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 5: like to see people in their hoodie when it's when

955
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:42,200
Speaker 5: it's oversized. There's a sense of security when you're wearing

956
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:44,160
Speaker 5: You're walking down the street and you can lift that

957
00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:46,280
Speaker 5: up and sniff it and you're like, oh, that smells

958
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:49,840
Speaker 5: like him. I'm taken. I'm taken, and this hoodie is

959
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:52,279
Speaker 5: protecting me from the evil world outside.

960
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:52,959
Speaker 1: Right yep.

961
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:55,480
Speaker 5: And it smells it smells like you're you're you're the

962
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:58,880
Speaker 5: person you stole it from. Guy girl, doesn't matter it

963
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:02,640
Speaker 5: all the We all have our our odors, good and bad.

964
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:04,120
Speaker 5: It's kind of fantastic.

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00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:04,319
Speaker 3: Nate.

966
00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 5: Plus, my favorite part of wearing their hoodie is I

967
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:11,440
Speaker 5: stole it and I got away with it because we

968
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 5: like to steal stuff.

969
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:14,239
Speaker 9: Most of the time, they don't get it back. Most

970
00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 9: of the time. It's yours, and that's it pretty much.

971
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 5: Yep now, And I don't feel sorry for you. If

972
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:20,640
Speaker 5: you have a hoodie that was stolen, too bad, go

973
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:25,040
Speaker 5: buy another one. You know what, No it is, it's

974
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:27,160
Speaker 5: not We're not trying to be nice. It really is

975
00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 5: a compliment. You should have a you should always have

976
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:32,720
Speaker 5: like a case of stinky hoodies in the back, ready

977
00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 5: to be stolen, whole case exactly. Yeah, Froggy, what do

978
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:37,840
Speaker 5: you think if I stole your black hoodie?

979
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:38,239
Speaker 1: What would that?

980
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 5: What does your anger smell like? How would that smell anger?

981
00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:43,279
Speaker 5: That's an old thing. But I haven't been angry in

982
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 5: a black hoodie for years. You're that's yesterday's news.

983
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 9: Now angry black T shirt, it's a lot different.

984
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:52,800
Speaker 5: They used to make fun of me because for some reason,

985
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 5: when I wore a black hoodie to work, that meant

986
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:56,279
Speaker 5: that meant I didn't really care that day when I

987
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 5: was getting ready. Translation, I didn't want to deal with

988
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:01,399
Speaker 5: anyone to be s Therefore I was mean. So they

989
00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:04,279
Speaker 5: called those my black hoodie days. But now I wear

990
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:08,839
Speaker 5: black hoodies every day. Same what straight night.

991
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:11,399
Speaker 7: As a guy that's had his hoodie stolen, I can

992
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:15,080
Speaker 7: tell you that sometimes it's not just outright stolen without knowledge.

993
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:18,919
Speaker 7: You sometimes gave it to the person say hell, it's

994
00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 7: cold out here, take this hoodie, and then they would

995
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 7: conveniently forget.

996
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 1: To return it. Yeah, no matter how, get the hell

997
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 1: out of here.

998
00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:28,680
Speaker 5: Don't just steal it. It doesn't matter how you procure

999
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:32,279
Speaker 5: your hoodie. It's yours now. It smells like them, and

1000
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:34,680
Speaker 5: you can't wash it. That's another thing about stolen hoodies.

1001
00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:37,879
Speaker 5: If you wash them, they lose all their magic. It's gone.

1002
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 5: It washes down the drain.

1003
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 10: That's also part of the beauty of the stolen hoodie

1004
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 10: is it's always worn in like a pair of shoes.

1005
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 10: After a while, it's the perfect amount of comfortable.

1006
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:50,360
Speaker 5: Hey, does Dina with the pink hair have a website?

1007
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:51,760
Speaker 5: Can people buy her candles?

1008
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,719
Speaker 10: Yeah, you can go to Dina's Kissing Makeup dot com.

1009
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 5: Oh so okay, so I'm encouraging everyone. Look, we're not

1010
00:42:57,960 --> 00:42:59,720
Speaker 5: making any money off this. We're not getting a percentage

1011
00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:02,080
Speaker 5: at all. We just happened to love Dina. Go check

1012
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 5: out her line of candles, but buy the stolen hoodie.

1013
00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:06,600
Speaker 5: That's my favorite one.

1014
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:08,680
Speaker 9: She has really pretty ones too, that like look like

1015
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:12,239
Speaker 9: a cupcake. And look like a like a cappuccino and

1016
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 9: Daron I don't know how the hell she comes up

1017
00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 9: with this stuff.

1018
00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 11: Uh?

1019
00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:17,359
Speaker 5: Now, what is her website.

1020
00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 10: Again, Dina's Kiss and Makeup dot Com?

1021
00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:23,760
Speaker 5: Is it d n A d I n A Dina's Yes,

1022
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:24,960
Speaker 5: Dina's what.

1023
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:27,400
Speaker 10: Kiss and Makeup dot Com?

1024
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 5: Oh, I get it, kiss and Makeup.

1025
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 9: That's the name of her salon, Dina's Kiss and Makeup.

1026
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:35,920
Speaker 5: Okay, so Dina di a in a. Dina's Kiss and

1027
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:41,080
Speaker 5: Makeup dot Com. Line twenty four is Amanda, Amanda, tell

1028
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:42,440
Speaker 5: me you've stolen a hoodie before?

1029
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, Hi, Well hello.

1030
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:48,880
Speaker 5: Lady, talk about your stolen hoodie? A story. What happened?

1031
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 15: Yeah, when I was in undergrad, I went to a

1032
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 15: house party. I you know, saw a guy that I

1033
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 15: thought was cute. You know, whatever happened, I ended up

1034
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:01,400
Speaker 15: leaving with his hook and then we didn't talk for

1035
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 15: a long time. And then like a year or two later,

1036
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:07,360
Speaker 15: he messaged me and said, give me back my hoodie

1037
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:11,480
Speaker 15: is funny and used it as I guess the way

1038
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 15: to start talking again. And here we are, eight years later,

1039
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:16,520
Speaker 15: with a dog and a house and a cat.

1040
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:28,239
Speaker 5: Hoodie stolen it came from a stolen.

1041
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 15: My roommate from college ended up with what was Daniel.

1042
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:31,360
Speaker 9: I said, she got to name her first kid hoodie.

1043
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:32,799
Speaker 5: She's not having kids.

1044
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 9: She's having kids.

1045
00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:38,400
Speaker 15: I can't believe them on the radio with you guys.

1046
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:41,160
Speaker 5: Well you are and I love that. And there's something

1047
00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 5: about that smell. Do you still have that hoodie? By

1048
00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 5: the way, eight years later?

1049
00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:47,760
Speaker 15: You know what's really funny about it is my roommate

1050
00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 15: from college ended up steeling it.

1051
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 5: From me, and well, don't let her steal your guy. Hello,

1052
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:57,880
Speaker 5: smells like all. Thank you for listening to us. You

1053
00:44:58,000 --> 00:44:58,600
Speaker 5: have a great day.

1054
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 15: Okay, thank you so much.

1055
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:01,799
Speaker 25: It was great talking to you guys.

1056
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 27: I love listening to you in the morning.

1057
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:05,319
Speaker 5: Well, thank you for listening. It's it's a pleasure. Hold on,

1058
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 5: Hold on one second. Here's Joe on line twenty three.

1059
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:07,839
Speaker 25: Now.

1060
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:09,719
Speaker 5: Joe, on the other hand, on the other side, has

1061
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 5: had many a hoodie stolen. Joe, if you could count

1062
00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 5: up the number of hoodies that have been stolen from you,

1063
00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:16,319
Speaker 5: what would that be?

1064
00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:18,720
Speaker 7: Well, good morning everybody.

1065
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:20,959
Speaker 11: First off, well, hello lady that I'm on here.

1066
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:21,960
Speaker 5: I'm glad you're here.

1067
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 11: I've been listening to you guys, since I'm like fourteen,

1068
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:25,720
Speaker 11: this was crazy.

1069
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 5: I know we're old and ancient. Thanks for rubbing that in. No,

1070
00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:34,960
Speaker 5: you're not, Joe, all right? So how many how many

1071
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 5: hoodies have you had stolen from you?

1072
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:40,359
Speaker 11: I probably had honestly about a dozen hoods.

1073
00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:43,640
Speaker 25: From me in college. Like end of my college years,

1074
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 25: I had no hoodies left.

1075
00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 9: So that means you had a lot of girls in

1076
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:48,920
Speaker 9: college years or guys, whatever it is.

1077
00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:51,240
Speaker 25: I wouldn't even say that almost.

1078
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 11: I would say, like my one previous ex girlfriend stole

1079
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:54,799
Speaker 11: all of them.

1080
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:58,239
Speaker 9: Oh, oh my god, sounds well.

1081
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 5: Wait, but now she's an action she had hold on

1082
00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 5: one gone, she's an ex and she has like a

1083
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:04,879
Speaker 5: dozen of your hoodies. She got away with them.

1084
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:06,640
Speaker 8: No if she still has them, but I would like

1085
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:08,880
Speaker 8: some of them back, which would be nice, I know.

1086
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 5: But if you call her or text her or whatever

1087
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:14,439
Speaker 5: to get your hoodies back, that means you're reaching out

1088
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 5: to connect, and so you can't do it. You gotta

1089
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:17,319
Speaker 5: let them go. You got to write them.

1090
00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:17,680
Speaker 8: Off, right.

1091
00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 11: That is very true.

1092
00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:22,000
Speaker 25: That is very very true.

1093
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 5: Anyway, So there you go. So when they stole your hoodies,

1094
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:28,560
Speaker 5: were you was it like a badge of honor? For you.

1095
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:30,359
Speaker 5: I mean, is that a good thing?

1096
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:31,960
Speaker 23: No?

1097
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:34,080
Speaker 25: Because I actually really liked the hoodies and I went

1098
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:36,799
Speaker 25: to school in Albany, so you really needed those that way?

1099
00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:39,719
Speaker 10: Oh yeah, guys need to start having a stockpile of

1100
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:42,320
Speaker 10: crappy hoodies and then you leave those out so that

1101
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:44,360
Speaker 10: they're available for stealing and hide your good ones.

1102
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:46,759
Speaker 5: There you go, Alice in line eight. Then we got

1103
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:52,799
Speaker 5: to roll on. Hey Allison, Hey, you want to know that.

1104
00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:55,879
Speaker 27: I just donated it back a couple of months ago,

1105
00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:58,800
Speaker 27: earlier this year that was full of stolen hoodies?

1106
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:02,240
Speaker 5: Wait? Wait, hold on? How many? How many stolen hood

1107
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:04,240
Speaker 5: hoodies were in this bag you donated?

1108
00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:06,800
Speaker 24: I'm gonna go what half doesn't?

1109
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:08,319
Speaker 6: Wow?

1110
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 5: Okay? So was it a need to move on in

1111
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 5: your life for you? Now have a solid relationship with someone,

1112
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:16,799
Speaker 5: so you you want these hoodies out out of the way?

1113
00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:19,000
Speaker 5: I mean, was there a psychological reason you needed to

1114
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:21,680
Speaker 5: get rid of them? Or you just wanted to donate them?

1115
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:25,000
Speaker 27: They were so old and I didn't need them anymore,

1116
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:26,759
Speaker 27: and they were from guys that don't talk to you.

1117
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 27: They were all scuvenirs.

1118
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:30,880
Speaker 9: I got you.

1119
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:32,399
Speaker 5: Have you washed? Have you washed them?

1120
00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:32,719
Speaker 6: And did it?

1121
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 5: Was it like a bag full of different voice smells.

1122
00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:39,320
Speaker 27: No, no, I them, Okay.

1123
00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 9: The guys.

1124
00:47:40,040 --> 00:47:41,919
Speaker 5: If you wash them, then you cleared them. You cleared

1125
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:43,120
Speaker 5: the guy out. They're gone.

1126
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 1: You're good.

1127
00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:45,360
Speaker 9: They have an idea.

1128
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:48,440
Speaker 5: What's your idea, Danielle.

1129
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:51,400
Speaker 9: Oh my gosh. We start a store and it's just

1130
00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:53,759
Speaker 9: a little store and all it is is people that

1131
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:56,919
Speaker 9: donate the hoodies they have stolen, and then we sell

1132
00:47:57,000 --> 00:48:00,239
Speaker 9: Dina's candle as well, and we either call it in

1133
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 9: hoodies or my ex boyfriend's hoodie.

1134
00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:03,520
Speaker 6: This is it.

1135
00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 9: We're gonna make so much money.

1136
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:07,759
Speaker 5: But the key, the key is you can't wash them.

1137
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:10,240
Speaker 5: They have to still smell like the boy stinky, stinky

1138
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:12,440
Speaker 5: hoodie s thinky hoodies, Steaky hoodies. That's the name of it,

1139
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:15,960
Speaker 5: stinky hoodies. Oh my gosh, you're brilliant. This is like

1140
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 5: the time you came up with rent a gay. Alison.

1141
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 5: We've got to roll. Thank you for calling, and I'm

1142
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 5: glad that you got rid of those hoodies. It's time

1143
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:25,359
Speaker 5: to move on. It's time to start collecting a new

1144
00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:25,920
Speaker 5: a new bunch.

1145
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:28,800
Speaker 25: Okay, one of yours?

1146
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 5: Oh wow, Well, hold on, Nate, can we send Alison

1147
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 5: a hoodie? Do does it have to smell like me.

1148
00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:41,360
Speaker 5: You don't want that. It smells like pancakes, syrup and desperation. Okay,

1149
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:45,000
Speaker 5: hold on, hold on, We'll send her a dirty hoodie. Okay.

1150
00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:47,320
Speaker 5: I've never given away a dirty piece of clothing before

1151
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:51,080
Speaker 5: I did, but I can't. I'm not soiling. They might

1152
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:54,880
Speaker 5: just wear them, scary. I don't soil my clothing.

1153
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 17: Soil is such a gross word.

1154
00:48:58,440 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 5: That's disgusting. It's like, I'm like, come eh, all right,

1155
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:06,960
Speaker 5: we have to move on. Oh there goes Elvis.

1156
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:15,360
Speaker 2: Elvis Duran in the Morning show, Don't answer the phone,

1157
00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:17,319
Speaker 2: Elvis Duran See Elvis.

1158
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 18: Duran phone tap.

1159
00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:21,920
Speaker 5: So Christina says her dad is always yelling at her

1160
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 5: because she's being careless. She leaves the top down on

1161
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 5: her convertible, and she leaves the car parked when she

1162
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:29,600
Speaker 5: goes shopping or whatever. He really feels like something bad

1163
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:32,120
Speaker 5: is gonna happen, someone's gonna break something. He's had him.

1164
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:35,839
Speaker 5: So they thought it would be funny to call from

1165
00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:38,520
Speaker 5: the beach where she left the top down yet again,

1166
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:42,120
Speaker 5: and all of her stuff gets stolen. So she starts

1167
00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:44,239
Speaker 5: the tap and then we'll come up at the end

1168
00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:46,480
Speaker 5: to break it up. So all right, here we go.

1169
00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:47,719
Speaker 5: Here's the phone tip. Listen to.

1170
00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:50,839
Speaker 2: Sad.

1171
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:56,560
Speaker 28: I'm at the beach and I left the top end

1172
00:49:57,160 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 28: and I just went back to it, and everything is gone.

1173
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:01,839
Speaker 29: What's everything like?

1174
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 28: The CD changer, my iPod, my wallet, my phone, my

1175
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 28: your glasses.

1176
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:10,680
Speaker 19: Then the car.

1177
00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 28: I know, well I just left it him because it's

1178
00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:15,680
Speaker 28: always there. I didn't think I should take it out.

1179
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:18,880
Speaker 29: You don't leave that stuff in your call like that, dummy.

1180
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:22,360
Speaker 29: Your wallet is gone, with your license and IDs and everything.

1181
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:25,879
Speaker 28: Yeah, my wile, my license, my credit card, my bag.

1182
00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:29,759
Speaker 6: I was gonna call.

1183
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:32,160
Speaker 28: The parking lot was like empty. I didn't think there

1184
00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 28: was gonna be a lot of people here.

1185
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:40,680
Speaker 29: I car off damage. You got the hands, call the

1186
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:45,040
Speaker 29: bank and casting your bank, credit card and go more

1187
00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:46,800
Speaker 29: vehicle and cantling your license.

1188
00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 28: I can't go to the bank right now.

1189
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:56,640
Speaker 30: I'm at the beach, the beach there, go take care

1190
00:50:56,680 --> 00:50:58,840
Speaker 30: of your more born things today.

1191
00:50:59,239 --> 00:51:00,279
Speaker 6: But what what a out?

1192
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:00,400
Speaker 2: Like?

1193
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:03,359
Speaker 28: The your glasses is what I got that?

1194
00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:07,960
Speaker 29: The important thing is now you got your credit cards

1195
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:11,120
Speaker 29: gone and your license is gone, your idiot. Everything else

1196
00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 29: is replaceable.

1197
00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:16,400
Speaker 28: You understand, yes, but like you think you could do it?

1198
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:20,359
Speaker 29: Maybe enough I ain't doing a dancing for you. You're

1199
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:23,200
Speaker 29: gonna call the police, have him come over, and you're

1200
00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:26,480
Speaker 29: gonna follow the police, be poor for stolen property, and

1201
00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:29,319
Speaker 29: then you're gonna go to the bank and cancel your

1202
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:30,040
Speaker 29: credit card.

1203
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 6: They start your phone too.

1204
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 28: Yeah, my phone is in the car to mama, won

1205
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:34,640
Speaker 28: This is what.

1206
00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 6: Did I tell you? To not leave the phone out

1207
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:39,680
Speaker 6: of your sight, to stay with the phone in case

1208
00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:40,680
Speaker 6: you have to call you.

1209
00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:42,480
Speaker 28: I know that's the reason why I went back to

1210
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:43,000
Speaker 28: my car.

1211
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:49,840
Speaker 6: What kind of an idiot does that? What that money

1212
00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:53,279
Speaker 6: in the open car so you know if somebody could

1213
00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:55,399
Speaker 6: come and take it? What kind of idiot does that?

1214
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:55,919
Speaker 19: Huh?

1215
00:51:56,600 --> 00:51:56,920
Speaker 23: I don't know.

1216
00:51:57,520 --> 00:52:01,080
Speaker 6: You can your mother and now you're going to try

1217
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:03,800
Speaker 6: a vehicle crazy with the yours.

1218
00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:05,920
Speaker 28: You don't even tell her all.

1219
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:07,800
Speaker 6: Do you think she's not gonna know because Mom's not

1220
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:11,120
Speaker 6: like flat out. Yeah, well you're in big trouble because

1221
00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:13,960
Speaker 6: now you really mussed up this time. You're on your

1222
00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:17,319
Speaker 6: freaking sad nonsense. You can't get enough. You can never

1223
00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:22,520
Speaker 6: get enough. Call a police and follow report. What are

1224
00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:27,040
Speaker 6: you're lusting? I am listening so that you say you

1225
00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 6: call the police and tell them where you are and

1226
00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:33,800
Speaker 6: have a come there follow report. Will you're right what?

1227
00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:36,040
Speaker 28: I'm just with my friends at the beach, are tanning.

1228
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 6: You need to beach right now?

1229
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:41,160
Speaker 28: Can you part the half tomorrow because I don't want

1230
00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:43,040
Speaker 28: to miss this, Like it's like the best time to

1231
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:43,920
Speaker 28: be channing right now.

1232
00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:49,759
Speaker 6: I swear to God something and all the friends that

1233
00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:53,200
Speaker 6: you got there, and you go take care of your responsibilities.

1234
00:52:53,719 --> 00:52:55,839
Speaker 6: I don't want to hear that you're doing at three

1235
00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:58,600
Speaker 6: or four o'clock that has to be done right now,

1236
00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:00,239
Speaker 6: but that's when the sun goes way.

1237
00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:02,720
Speaker 28: Can I just leap bore.

1238
00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:10,960
Speaker 6: Right now and you go take care of that right now,

1239
00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:14,440
Speaker 6: but get the rest of to day. It's shot. You

1240
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:16,480
Speaker 6: don't know how to piss it up. I am at

1241
00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:17,560
Speaker 6: your little ass right now.

1242
00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:19,799
Speaker 13: Would you still be pissed off if we told you

1243
00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:21,120
Speaker 13: you just got phone tapped?

1244
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:22,520
Speaker 28: I got you.

1245
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 6: Better, boy, I tell you was in a big trouble.

1246
00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:30,040
Speaker 6: Let me tell you right now.

1247
00:53:31,120 --> 00:53:32,600
Speaker 18: Elvis Duran a phone tap.

1248
00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 31: This phone tab was pre recorded with permission granted by

1249
00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:37,640
Speaker 31: all participates.

1250
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:41,319
Speaker 2: The Elvis Duran phone tap only on Elvis Duran in

1251
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 2: the Morning show.

1252
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:45,640
Speaker 5: All right, I want to bring up something kind of touchy. Okay,

1253
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:49,319
Speaker 5: you have a best friend and you want them to

1254
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:53,600
Speaker 5: be happy. Right, they meet someone, they kind of fall

1255
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:58,759
Speaker 5: for that person. You hate them. You hate them. Not

1256
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:01,080
Speaker 5: only do you just not like them, but you know

1257
00:54:01,120 --> 00:54:03,400
Speaker 5: they're not good for your friend. But you know what,

1258
00:54:03,440 --> 00:54:05,600
Speaker 5: if you get in the middle of it, then you're

1259
00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:08,799
Speaker 5: you're a monster. Like what do you do? And I

1260
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:11,279
Speaker 5: bet everyone listening to the sound of my voice has

1261
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:12,800
Speaker 5: been in this situation.

1262
00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:15,280
Speaker 10: A minute right now, Gandhi, I hate my friend's boyfriend.

1263
00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 10: I really really dislike this person. He's terrible, he's not nice,

1264
00:54:20,480 --> 00:54:24,399
Speaker 10: he's bratty, he's not nice to my friend's family. It's

1265
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:25,880
Speaker 10: just there's not and all of us are on the

1266
00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:27,680
Speaker 10: same page, all the friends are on the same page,

1267
00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 10: or kind of like do we tell? Do we not tell?

1268
00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:31,840
Speaker 10: Because I know if we tell, we're not going to

1269
00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:34,520
Speaker 10: win that battle. It's gonna this person's gonna pick the

1270
00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:35,360
Speaker 10: boyfriend and not us.

1271
00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:37,279
Speaker 5: You have to let your friend live in their life,

1272
00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:39,120
Speaker 5: you know, and I know. But at the same time,

1273
00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:40,799
Speaker 5: then you have to go out and socialize with them,

1274
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:42,960
Speaker 5: and you come up with it. You find yourself coming

1275
00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:44,600
Speaker 5: up with excuses not to go.

1276
00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:47,560
Speaker 10: So many excuses I've run out too.

1277
00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:50,080
Speaker 5: Now there's another side of this story. What if you

1278
00:54:50,239 --> 00:54:52,600
Speaker 5: are the person whose best friend says to you the

1279
00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 5: person you're dating is a loser. You have chosen the

1280
00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:03,839
Speaker 5: wrong person. Get a hold of yourself. You're wasting time

1281
00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:06,160
Speaker 5: with this person. They're using you. They're evil to you,

1282
00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:07,720
Speaker 5: they're me to your family.

1283
00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:08,040
Speaker 25: See.

1284
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:10,920
Speaker 9: I think if it's your best friend, you have to

1285
00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:13,440
Speaker 9: take some of that to heart, because I feel like

1286
00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:15,520
Speaker 9: your best friend is only going to have your best

1287
00:55:15,520 --> 00:55:18,879
Speaker 9: interest in mind, and I feel like maybe they see

1288
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:21,279
Speaker 9: something you don't, so maybe it's worth the investigation.

1289
00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:23,759
Speaker 5: You know, I've been in this situation, have you. Yeah,

1290
00:55:23,840 --> 00:55:25,399
Speaker 5: have you ever had your friend say, Hey, the person

1291
00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:27,960
Speaker 5: you're dating is a total loser, a total Dutch. My

1292
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:31,440
Speaker 5: mom said, well, okay, the thing is, you know you

1293
00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:34,680
Speaker 5: the person you're dating. You immediately take their side and go, hey,

1294
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:37,560
Speaker 5: I know him better than you, right, so you know

1295
00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:40,759
Speaker 5: there are redeeming qualities you don't see. Probably it just

1296
00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:44,120
Speaker 5: so happens when you're around he's a total fop. You know,

1297
00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:47,239
Speaker 5: he's a total idiot. But when I'm along with him,

1298
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:48,080
Speaker 5: it's all good.

1299
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:50,600
Speaker 9: I had a friend's boyfriend hit on me when she

1300
00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:54,320
Speaker 9: left the room and she didn't believe me. That was interesting,

1301
00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:57,360
Speaker 9: that's horrible, And I was like, if he's doing it

1302
00:55:57,440 --> 00:55:58,920
Speaker 9: right in front of you, you walked into the other

1303
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:00,000
Speaker 9: room to get a sandwich.

1304
00:56:01,680 --> 00:56:03,960
Speaker 5: The only problem with this is, what's that scary?

1305
00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 1: If you bond?

1306
00:56:05,239 --> 00:56:06,879
Speaker 13: You know, if you're with your friend and you're trying

1307
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:09,520
Speaker 13: to give advice about the person you're dating, you will

1308
00:56:09,560 --> 00:56:13,200
Speaker 13: eventually get closer and bond closer with the boy the

1309
00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:16,920
Speaker 13: boyfriend or girlfriend, and then you'll be pit against your

1310
00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:17,359
Speaker 13: best friend.

1311
00:56:17,600 --> 00:56:24,000
Speaker 5: There's all sorts of gravitational stuff going on here. Hi, Julie,

1312
00:56:24,040 --> 00:56:27,359
Speaker 5: how are you good? How are you doing well? And

1313
00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:31,359
Speaker 5: thanks for asking? So you were actually elected as the

1314
00:56:31,400 --> 00:56:34,720
Speaker 5: person to break the news, right, tell everyone what happened.

1315
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 22: Yeah, So right after the engagement party, my best friend's

1316
00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 22: family approached me afterwards, crying, literally in tears, asking me

1317
00:56:46,280 --> 00:56:50,680
Speaker 22: to tell him not to marry her, and that I

1318
00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:53,880
Speaker 22: was the only one that I would come off as okay.

1319
00:56:53,960 --> 00:56:55,719
Speaker 22: They were really nervous to tell him.

1320
00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:56,520
Speaker 32: They're all scared.

1321
00:56:56,960 --> 00:57:01,480
Speaker 1: Wow, I mean an entire family, a family.

1322
00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:04,480
Speaker 5: I wanted to use use you as a sacrificial land.

1323
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:08,480
Speaker 5: You're the pery keet. They flew into the mine right.

1324
00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:10,799
Speaker 9: But you know what, it makes sense because a lot

1325
00:57:10,800 --> 00:57:12,399
Speaker 9: of times you don't listen to your family, you listen

1326
00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:14,320
Speaker 9: to your friends. Firsity for your family.

1327
00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:15,560
Speaker 1: So what happened, Julie?

1328
00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 22: So I debated it and I ended up telling them

1329
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:24,560
Speaker 22: it's their responsibility to tell him, not mine.

1330
00:57:24,720 --> 00:57:25,600
Speaker 26: I'm not blood.

1331
00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:28,960
Speaker 22: And if they were all concerned that they should do

1332
00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:30,720
Speaker 22: it because I didn't want to be in a situation

1333
00:57:30,760 --> 00:57:32,280
Speaker 22: where I lost my best friend.

1334
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's a tricky place to be in. So did

1335
00:57:35,240 --> 00:57:37,520
Speaker 5: they follow your advice or what happened?

1336
00:57:38,720 --> 00:57:41,760
Speaker 22: They did not follow my advice. So the day of

1337
00:57:41,800 --> 00:57:45,920
Speaker 22: the wedding, everyone was crying. They were drunk, They were

1338
00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:50,240
Speaker 22: giving loud speeches about how hopefully this will work out.

1339
00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:56,240
Speaker 1: Very it's not good, this is not.

1340
00:57:58,040 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 11: So.

1341
00:57:59,160 --> 00:58:00,000
Speaker 5: How long have they been married?

1342
00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:04,320
Speaker 22: Now they've been married about a year and a half,

1343
00:58:04,520 --> 00:58:10,440
Speaker 22: and am everyone still hates her. There's definitely issues.

1344
00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:11,440
Speaker 10: She lies.

1345
00:58:12,440 --> 00:58:13,840
Speaker 22: It's still it's still all big.

1346
00:58:14,080 --> 00:58:14,720
Speaker 23: It's a circuit.

1347
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:15,520
Speaker 27: We'll does the.

1348
00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:18,680
Speaker 9: Family look at you now and be like you should

1349
00:58:18,760 --> 00:58:19,840
Speaker 9: help us out, lady?

1350
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 22: Yeah, but you know what, on that blood, they should

1351
00:58:23,720 --> 00:58:24,360
Speaker 22: have done it too.

1352
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:27,120
Speaker 5: You should lose one out of sleep over this, not

1353
00:58:27,200 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 5: at all. Do you think your friend, the husband, of course,

1354
00:58:29,920 --> 00:58:31,920
Speaker 5: is starting to come around and see the cracks in

1355
00:58:31,960 --> 00:58:33,600
Speaker 5: the foundation with this woman he married?

1356
00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:37,240
Speaker 22: Oh, I definitely think so. Now when I see him,

1357
00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:38,400
Speaker 22: he does not look happy.

1358
00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:40,320
Speaker 16: Oh that all the time.

1359
00:58:40,520 --> 00:58:42,280
Speaker 22: He's very suppressed that it's her.

1360
00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:43,360
Speaker 15: It's definitely her.

1361
00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:43,880
Speaker 1: Look.

1362
00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:46,439
Speaker 5: There you are on the sidelines watching a friend make

1363
00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:50,240
Speaker 5: make an awful, awful decision with, you know, in their

1364
00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:52,360
Speaker 5: love life and getting married. Sometimes you got to let

1365
00:58:52,440 --> 00:58:53,919
Speaker 5: them do it. They have to learn on their own,

1366
00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:56,200
Speaker 5: you know, and I don't. I don't know anyway. So

1367
00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 5: do you feel fine? You can sleep at night knowing

1368
00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:01,280
Speaker 5: that it's not your fault if you did not have

1369
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:03,360
Speaker 5: to go in and try to save him from this

1370
00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:04,160
Speaker 5: awful marriage?

1371
00:59:04,240 --> 00:59:08,760
Speaker 22: Right, I'm feel fine with it all. I mean, it

1372
00:59:08,840 --> 00:59:10,280
Speaker 22: is what it is. He has to learn from his

1373
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:12,880
Speaker 22: own mistakes. I can't tell him who not to marry.

1374
00:59:12,920 --> 00:59:14,760
Speaker 27: It's on him right there, All.

1375
00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:17,160
Speaker 5: Right, Julie, thanks for listening to us. I don't blame you.

1376
00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:19,920
Speaker 5: You know, you can only take so much responsibility. I

1377
00:59:19,960 --> 00:59:25,400
Speaker 5: can't sit. The whole family voted you're the one. Hello, Laura,

1378
00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:26,640
Speaker 5: Welcome to the show.

1379
00:59:26,720 --> 00:59:26,840
Speaker 6: Hi.

1380
00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:30,280
Speaker 5: Hi, So your best friends hated your boyfriend.

1381
00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:35,600
Speaker 32: Yes, And I've been on both sides of a situation

1382
00:59:35,760 --> 00:59:39,200
Speaker 32: like this, and now looking back, I'm an idiot of course,

1383
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:40,400
Speaker 32: Like you just kind of have to.

1384
00:59:40,600 --> 00:59:41,240
Speaker 23: Work through it.

1385
00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:43,560
Speaker 32: But when there's like all these red signs but you

1386
00:59:43,640 --> 00:59:46,280
Speaker 32: don't let them meet your family, you have to kind

1387
00:59:46,280 --> 00:59:48,880
Speaker 32: of lie about that you're still dating them because your

1388
00:59:48,960 --> 00:59:51,160
Speaker 32: friends and your friends know that you're still dating them.

1389
00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:53,600
Speaker 23: But it's just kind of a sucky.

1390
00:59:53,240 --> 00:59:56,680
Speaker 32: Situation because your best friend can give you advice and

1391
00:59:56,760 --> 00:59:59,200
Speaker 32: tell you that like you know that he's bad for

1392
00:59:59,280 --> 01:00:01,760
Speaker 32: you or so on, but you have like blinders on.

1393
01:00:01,880 --> 01:00:05,160
Speaker 32: You're kind of just stuck in a situation and you

1394
01:00:05,240 --> 01:00:06,360
Speaker 32: have to learn the hard way.

1395
01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:08,760
Speaker 23: And I feel like, as long as they're not.

1396
01:00:09,360 --> 01:00:11,800
Speaker 32: Like physically getting hurt or you know what I mean,

1397
01:00:12,040 --> 01:00:14,480
Speaker 32: there's not really much you can do until they realize

1398
01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:16,240
Speaker 32: it on their own. Because then on the tail end,

1399
01:00:16,640 --> 01:00:18,880
Speaker 32: I have friends or I have a really good friend

1400
01:00:18,960 --> 01:00:22,439
Speaker 32: who you can't trash their boyfriend if they're with them,

1401
01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:25,439
Speaker 32: because they if they go back to them, you can't

1402
01:00:25,440 --> 01:00:27,080
Speaker 32: be like, oh, he's a you know, blah blah blah

1403
01:00:27,080 --> 01:00:29,040
Speaker 32: blah blah, and then they end up being with him

1404
01:00:29,080 --> 01:00:32,320
Speaker 32: and you look like it's just it's a hot mess.

1405
01:00:32,320 --> 01:00:34,720
Speaker 9: You have to worry about them opening their mouths to him.

1406
01:00:34,840 --> 01:00:37,840
Speaker 9: Oh yeah, you tell him, you know, you tell her this,

1407
01:00:37,920 --> 01:00:39,280
Speaker 9: that and the other thing. And then she goes back

1408
01:00:39,280 --> 01:00:41,800
Speaker 9: and tells him what you said, and then he hates you,

1409
01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:43,680
Speaker 9: and it gets just, you know, gets bad.

1410
01:00:43,840 --> 01:00:46,000
Speaker 32: You have to be like swiz, you has to be neutral.

1411
01:00:46,080 --> 01:00:47,400
Speaker 32: You can't say anything, and it.

1412
01:00:47,480 --> 01:00:48,880
Speaker 33: Thinks you got to bite your tongue.

1413
01:00:48,920 --> 01:00:50,200
Speaker 23: But again, I feel like.

1414
01:00:50,600 --> 01:00:53,080
Speaker 32: Now I know, all right, well you're an idiot because

1415
01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:57,320
Speaker 32: you were eating an idiot for a while, Like you're stupid,

1416
01:00:57,440 --> 01:00:58,840
Speaker 32: But you know what, you kind of have to go

1417
01:00:58,880 --> 01:00:59,280
Speaker 32: through those.

1418
01:00:59,440 --> 01:01:03,800
Speaker 5: You gotta learn learn for yourself. The thing is, if

1419
01:01:03,840 --> 01:01:06,040
Speaker 5: you're dating someone your friends don't like and they insult

1420
01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:08,040
Speaker 5: the person you're dating, you feel like they're insulting you.

1421
01:01:08,720 --> 01:01:10,960
Speaker 5: Ahead you're doubting me. I know what I'm doing. You're

1422
01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:12,720
Speaker 5: not You're not sleeping with this guy.

1423
01:01:12,800 --> 01:01:13,840
Speaker 7: You don't know I am.

1424
01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:15,160
Speaker 5: It's all great, And.

1425
01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:17,440
Speaker 10: I've totally done the thing where I had friends who

1426
01:01:17,440 --> 01:01:18,960
Speaker 10: did the make up break up, make up, breakup, and

1427
01:01:19,000 --> 01:01:20,400
Speaker 10: on the first breakup, I was like, well, let me

1428
01:01:20,400 --> 01:01:21,959
Speaker 10: tell you, I didn't like him anyway. He was ugly,

1429
01:01:22,080 --> 01:01:22,360
Speaker 10: he's not.

1430
01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:24,080
Speaker 17: Good enough for you. And then they get back together.

1431
01:01:24,120 --> 01:01:29,680
Speaker 10: I'm like, oh damn, yeah, so true.

1432
01:01:29,840 --> 01:01:31,480
Speaker 5: All right, Laura, thanks for listening to us. Have a

1433
01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:36,200
Speaker 5: good day. Okay to Hi, Maddie. What's going on?

1434
01:01:37,480 --> 01:01:37,560
Speaker 11: So?

1435
01:01:37,800 --> 01:01:40,440
Speaker 23: Why I friend? She met this guy and they dad

1436
01:01:40,600 --> 01:01:44,360
Speaker 23: for two months and they got made and I told

1437
01:01:44,360 --> 01:01:50,840
Speaker 23: her not to and she did it anyway. And but

1438
01:01:50,880 --> 01:01:52,360
Speaker 23: you don't want to be that friend's like I told

1439
01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:55,680
Speaker 23: you so, No, never, you know, she had to learn

1440
01:01:55,680 --> 01:01:56,320
Speaker 23: it on her own.

1441
01:01:56,640 --> 01:01:58,280
Speaker 5: But did she ever come to you, Maddie and say,

1442
01:01:58,320 --> 01:01:59,720
Speaker 5: you know what, I should have listened to you. Did

1443
01:01:59,760 --> 01:02:01,280
Speaker 5: she ever say that to you?

1444
01:02:01,320 --> 01:02:03,200
Speaker 23: No, she's so hardheaded she will admit it.

1445
01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:05,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, I know. Well you gotta live and let live.

1446
01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:06,520
Speaker 1: What are you gonna do?

1447
01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:08,240
Speaker 9: But there is always the opposite too, right?

1448
01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:08,680
Speaker 1: What's that?

1449
01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:11,280
Speaker 9: Don't say anything? Then they break up with the parson

1450
01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:13,920
Speaker 9: and then you go, you know, I never really liked him.

1451
01:02:13,920 --> 01:02:15,400
Speaker 9: And then they say to you, well, what the hell

1452
01:02:15,680 --> 01:02:16,480
Speaker 9: didn't you tell me?

1453
01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:17,800
Speaker 1: Why did you tell me?

1454
01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:18,440
Speaker 17: The blakes?

1455
01:02:18,520 --> 01:02:21,320
Speaker 5: The signs were so offous? All right, Maddie, you're a

1456
01:02:21,360 --> 01:02:23,480
Speaker 5: good friend. You can't help it. She did, she has

1457
01:02:23,520 --> 01:02:25,080
Speaker 5: to do her own thing. Thanks for listening to us.

1458
01:02:25,960 --> 01:02:27,280
Speaker 24: Oh, thank you, it's going to be.

1459
01:02:29,200 --> 01:02:31,400
Speaker 5: We're glad you're on. Thank you. Have a great day today.

1460
01:02:31,400 --> 01:02:32,360
Speaker 5: Finally we talked to Katie.

1461
01:02:32,400 --> 01:02:36,160
Speaker 3: Hi, Katie, Hey, good morning, Hello lady, Hello lady.

1462
01:02:36,200 --> 01:02:37,920
Speaker 5: So all these tragic stories were hearing. You want to

1463
01:02:37,920 --> 01:02:39,880
Speaker 5: hear a happy ending, give it, give us your happy ending.

1464
01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:40,280
Speaker 5: Go ahead.

1465
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:44,440
Speaker 3: So basically I dated this guy for four years. My

1466
01:02:44,600 --> 01:02:47,040
Speaker 3: best friend hated him for three of them. They were

1467
01:02:47,040 --> 01:02:49,880
Speaker 3: actually really good friends for the first four the first

1468
01:02:49,920 --> 01:02:51,000
Speaker 3: one first year.

1469
01:02:51,160 --> 01:02:53,640
Speaker 5: One year, and then your then your best friend hated it.

1470
01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:59,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then actually my dad chimed in and he

1471
01:02:59,400 --> 01:03:01,840
Speaker 3: was like, you gotta let him go. And my best

1472
01:03:01,840 --> 01:03:05,000
Speaker 3: friend's words were like in the back of my head saying,

1473
01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:08,520
Speaker 3: Garrett of him. He's so good for you, right, And

1474
01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:13,840
Speaker 3: I just I got rid of him. And basically all

1475
01:03:13,880 --> 01:03:16,560
Speaker 3: is said and down, and my life is so much better.

1476
01:03:16,720 --> 01:03:18,240
Speaker 33: Okay, I forgot I forgot his.

1477
01:03:18,200 --> 01:03:21,760
Speaker 5: Existence exactly, I know, but no, he's definitely left a

1478
01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:23,960
Speaker 5: footprint on you. And there was obviously if you look

1479
01:03:23,960 --> 01:03:25,760
Speaker 5: at it at a universal you know, you know me

1480
01:03:26,000 --> 01:03:29,040
Speaker 5: the tree hugger. You got to remember that you learned

1481
01:03:29,040 --> 01:03:31,480
Speaker 5: something from that. Something good did come out of that

1482
01:03:31,520 --> 01:03:34,280
Speaker 5: awful situation. It's hard to see it sometimes, can you

1483
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:35,880
Speaker 5: can you actually think about what it could have been?

1484
01:03:35,880 --> 01:03:35,960
Speaker 1: Like?

1485
01:03:36,000 --> 01:03:38,040
Speaker 5: What do you what did you learn from that relationship

1486
01:03:38,080 --> 01:03:38,760
Speaker 5: with this bad guy?

1487
01:03:40,400 --> 01:03:44,760
Speaker 3: I definitely think that I learned that sometimes when the

1488
01:03:44,800 --> 01:03:48,920
Speaker 3: blinders are on, you don't want to listen to anybody.

1489
01:03:49,000 --> 01:03:52,080
Speaker 3: I'm really hard headed. Yeah, so so has this?

1490
01:03:52,200 --> 01:03:54,080
Speaker 5: Has this turned into a person who's a little more

1491
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:56,320
Speaker 5: likely to listen to the consult from friends?

1492
01:03:57,960 --> 01:03:58,320
Speaker 9: Yeah?

1493
01:03:58,680 --> 01:04:03,600
Speaker 3: Most definitely, Yeah, definitely, especially since I'm a very diy person.

1494
01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:06,640
Speaker 33: I have to do it myself.

1495
01:04:06,880 --> 01:04:08,880
Speaker 3: Before I have to listen and ask for help.

1496
01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:12,040
Speaker 5: There you go, so well, now you're on the right path, Katie. Congratulations,

1497
01:04:12,040 --> 01:04:13,440
Speaker 5: good for you, Thank you.

1498
01:04:13,480 --> 01:04:15,400
Speaker 3: I can't even believe I'm talking to you guys right now.

1499
01:04:15,440 --> 01:04:16,880
Speaker 3: I've been trying to call it for years.

1500
01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:17,280
Speaker 25: Why not?

1501
01:04:17,360 --> 01:04:18,960
Speaker 5: But you know what, and you calling in it has been

1502
01:04:18,960 --> 01:04:21,520
Speaker 5: a great contribution. We appreciate it. Now, are you dating anyone?

1503
01:04:21,560 --> 01:04:21,720
Speaker 25: Now?

1504
01:04:22,640 --> 01:04:23,840
Speaker 6: I am? I am?

1505
01:04:24,000 --> 01:04:25,480
Speaker 5: Is anyone get saying right?

1506
01:04:25,680 --> 01:04:25,720
Speaker 19: You?

1507
01:04:25,840 --> 01:04:25,960
Speaker 11: Hi?

1508
01:04:27,960 --> 01:04:28,400
Speaker 12: No?

1509
01:04:28,400 --> 01:04:31,840
Speaker 3: No, no, no, not at all. Actually, my boyfriend's friends,

1510
01:04:31,960 --> 01:04:34,920
Speaker 3: my boyfriend's relationship with my friends are really great. Good

1511
01:04:35,200 --> 01:04:37,840
Speaker 3: We all hang out and we all go on vacations together.

1512
01:04:37,920 --> 01:04:39,880
Speaker 5: It's so much much better this way, isn't it? I mean,

1513
01:04:39,920 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 5: is it better? Love it?

1514
01:04:41,280 --> 01:04:41,680
Speaker 25: Love it?

1515
01:04:42,040 --> 01:04:44,200
Speaker 3: Oh and ye know what's funny. My best friend didn't

1516
01:04:44,200 --> 01:04:45,120
Speaker 3: like this guy at first.

1517
01:04:45,160 --> 01:04:47,840
Speaker 5: Oh well, okay, well okay, sometimes they have to give

1518
01:04:47,840 --> 01:04:50,080
Speaker 5: it a little time. All right, Katie, thank you very much.

1519
01:04:50,280 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 10: Do you have one friend or a person in your

1520
01:04:52,280 --> 01:04:54,080
Speaker 10: life who if they said I really don't like your

1521
01:04:54,080 --> 01:04:55,960
Speaker 10: significant other, you'd be like, all right, this is a

1522
01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:56,400
Speaker 10: bad thing.

1523
01:04:56,840 --> 01:04:59,720
Speaker 5: I would listen to them, and I would maybe I would.

1524
01:05:00,680 --> 01:05:02,960
Speaker 5: I would pay closer attention to what they're talking about

1525
01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 5: and see if there are signs. Yeah, yep, But ten

1526
01:05:04,840 --> 01:05:06,640
Speaker 5: years ago I would say, screw you. Yeah, you know

1527
01:05:06,680 --> 01:05:07,360
Speaker 5: what you're talking about.

1528
01:05:07,360 --> 01:05:09,200
Speaker 9: And you're like a deer in headlight. You're so in

1529
01:05:09,240 --> 01:05:11,960
Speaker 9: love everything, so wonder you just don't see, you know,

1530
01:05:12,000 --> 01:05:13,320
Speaker 9: sometimes what's right in front of you.

1531
01:05:13,320 --> 01:05:14,600
Speaker 5: You got to get into a point in your life

1532
01:05:14,640 --> 01:05:16,400
Speaker 5: where you're like, okay, I'm in charge of my life.

1533
01:05:16,480 --> 01:05:17,680
Speaker 5: If it's not good for me, I need to go

1534
01:05:17,760 --> 01:05:20,360
Speaker 5: the other way and stop coming up with justification and

1535
01:05:20,400 --> 01:05:23,560
Speaker 5: excuses and stuff like that. You're live, don't use the f.

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Speaker 5: Squatters Now, this has been a huge story of late

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01:06:11,640 --> 01:06:15,360
Speaker 5: where people have a house they got from their mom

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01:06:15,360 --> 01:06:17,720
Speaker 5: who passed away or whatever, and it's been empty for

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01:06:17,840 --> 01:06:19,840
Speaker 5: a month or whatever. They go over to check on

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01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:22,040
Speaker 5: the house and you know whatever, make sure the toilets

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01:06:22,040 --> 01:06:25,280
Speaker 5: are flushing. There's someone living in it. Right, They're like,

1556
01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:30,400
Speaker 5: what are you doing here? Well, in some places they

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01:06:30,440 --> 01:06:33,760
Speaker 5: have a right to be there even if you own it.

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Speaker 9: They are squatters without paying you, without paying you, insanity.

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01:06:38,920 --> 01:06:40,520
Speaker 5: I know there have been stories lately here in the

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01:06:40,520 --> 01:06:42,080
Speaker 5: New York area. There was a woman I believe in

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01:06:42,120 --> 01:06:46,520
Speaker 5: Queen's you were saying, she went to a similar conversation,

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01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:48,320
Speaker 5: went to her mom's house.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, her mother passed away. She took some time getting

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01:06:51,600 --> 01:06:54,000
Speaker 10: herself together, went to the house to clean things up,

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01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:57,000
Speaker 10: found people living there, asked them to leave. They told her, no,

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01:06:57,080 --> 01:06:58,760
Speaker 10: we're not leaving, We're going to stay here. So she

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01:06:58,880 --> 01:07:01,200
Speaker 10: changed the locks. She got arrested.

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01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:03,840
Speaker 5: What exactly, Yeah, because she kept them from their house

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01:07:03,960 --> 01:07:08,000
Speaker 5: because they had squatters' rights. Go back to that our favorite,

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01:07:08,000 --> 01:07:11,040
Speaker 5: one of our favorite musicals of all time, Danielle Rent. Yeah,

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01:07:11,160 --> 01:07:14,400
Speaker 5: that was about a bunch of people who really talented people.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, great voices, great voices, dancer living where they were squatting.

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01:07:19,840 --> 01:07:21,640
Speaker 5: Living in the East Village, I guess right.

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Speaker 9: And actually one of their friends owned the property, and

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01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:28,000
Speaker 9: so they thought like they even had more rights.

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Speaker 5: Because right they couldn't get rid of them because they

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01:07:29,760 --> 01:07:34,480
Speaker 5: could sing. Well, something changes everything if you're a singing squatter.

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01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:38,240
Speaker 5: So I it's just it baffles my mind that if

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01:07:38,280 --> 01:07:40,480
Speaker 5: you go out and you pay, you know, money for

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01:07:40,560 --> 01:07:44,440
Speaker 5: an apartment or a house, and someone moves in. I

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01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:47,880
Speaker 5: think in New York State, thirty days is it? Keep

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01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:50,160
Speaker 5: in mind worth saying what we're just reading on the surface, right,

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01:07:50,560 --> 01:07:51,200
Speaker 5: thirty days?

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Speaker 10: It looks like so in some places they said, if

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01:07:53,200 --> 01:07:54,720
Speaker 10: you've been in a place for ten years, then you

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01:07:54,720 --> 01:07:56,760
Speaker 10: have a right to squat there. But then they're saying

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01:07:57,160 --> 01:07:59,040
Speaker 10: thirty days is all it takes in New York State

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01:07:59,280 --> 01:08:01,560
Speaker 10: to be able to squat on someone's property and just

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Speaker 10: stay there.

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Speaker 18: That's crazy.

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Speaker 10: So I could be wrong about this to follows if.

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Speaker 5: You know, look, I think you still technically own it.

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Speaker 5: It's just a very very laborious project project to get

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Speaker 5: them out of there.

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Speaker 12: It's a lot of saw case where some squatters they

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01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:18,800
Speaker 12: were charging other squatters to come in and move in

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01:08:18,800 --> 01:08:20,680
Speaker 12: in a place that they don't even own. So like

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01:08:20,760 --> 01:08:22,680
Speaker 12: there was like a main squatter he was charging other

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01:08:22,760 --> 01:08:25,040
Speaker 12: squatters to live there while they were trying to while

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Speaker 12: the person that actually owned the property was trying to

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Speaker 12: get them out.

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Speaker 10: So these asses can become landlords.

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Speaker 9: Yeah property, that's exactly crazy.

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01:08:33,160 --> 01:08:34,920
Speaker 5: Well, so it kind of makes me scared. I'm want

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01:08:34,920 --> 01:08:38,960
Speaker 5: to get home real quick after work. No really, So okay,

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01:08:40,240 --> 01:08:43,280
Speaker 5: we're trying to figure out where the squatter's rights came from.

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Speaker 5: And I was under the impression I could be wrong here,

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01:08:45,840 --> 01:08:49,320
Speaker 5: maybe very clear that Let's say you're renting. You were,

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01:08:49,520 --> 01:08:52,320
Speaker 5: you have a legal lease with a landlord, and you're

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01:08:52,320 --> 01:08:55,240
Speaker 5: renting an apartment, and then you cannot for whatever reason

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01:08:55,320 --> 01:08:59,840
Speaker 5: pay the rent and there are circumstances there, including pandemic

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01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:04,719
Speaker 5: or whatever. You then I think you've been given rights

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01:09:04,760 --> 01:09:08,280
Speaker 5: to not be pushed out so fast. But what if

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01:09:08,320 --> 01:09:10,439
Speaker 5: you don't have at least you just move into an

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Speaker 5: empty place.

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Speaker 10: Right So this seems like something that was rooted in

1617
01:09:17,560 --> 01:09:22,400
Speaker 10: the settlement of the United States, where everybody was coming

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01:09:22,439 --> 01:09:24,960
Speaker 10: here and just squatting on property that wasn't theirs, and

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01:09:25,000 --> 01:09:26,760
Speaker 10: then they make these laws and say, hey, this is ours.

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Speaker 10: Now you can't get me out now here we are.

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Speaker 5: But that was a land grab. When we're all going

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01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:32,880
Speaker 5: west to pan for gold.

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Speaker 10: In the day, you see a land from other people,

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Speaker 10: and now it continues.

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Speaker 5: I don't I'm just this is one of those stories.

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01:09:38,320 --> 01:09:39,120
Speaker 5: I just don't get it.

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Speaker 1: What's that? But I do know that you know.

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Speaker 7: It's basically maintaining a property right because I had a

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01:09:44,920 --> 01:09:48,840
Speaker 7: vacant lot next to me to my house and doing

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Speaker 7: some research. If they haven't maintained a lot for ten years,

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01:09:52,160 --> 01:09:55,200
Speaker 7: then you can claim ownership. But then, like you said Elvis,

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01:09:55,280 --> 01:09:57,200
Speaker 7: it's a long laborious process.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, to do that. Yeah, if you if you own

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01:09:59,479 --> 01:10:01,840
Speaker 5: the house or the you still own it. But you

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01:10:01,880 --> 01:10:04,160
Speaker 5: can't just call the police and have them kick them

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01:10:04,160 --> 01:10:06,960
Speaker 5: off with their property. Well, depends on what state you're in.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, because in Florida now they just passed the law

1638
01:10:09,880 --> 01:10:12,519
Speaker 12: now that it's illegal squatters that you can't have them

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01:10:13,040 --> 01:10:14,120
Speaker 12: removed from the property.

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Speaker 1: Now in the state of Florida, that's a good thing.

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Speaker 9: I just asked my husband, who's a real estate agent

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01:10:18,280 --> 01:10:20,439
Speaker 9: in New Jersey, So I said, do you know the

1643
01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:22,720
Speaker 9: rules of squatters in New Jersey? And he said no,

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01:10:23,160 --> 01:10:26,080
Speaker 9: They change all the time and they are very intricate,

1645
01:10:26,320 --> 01:10:29,040
Speaker 9: so it's tough to know the exact laws and allowances

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01:10:29,080 --> 01:10:30,439
Speaker 9: of what landlords can do.

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01:10:31,640 --> 01:10:34,360
Speaker 5: I will tell you, huh, not far down the road

1648
01:10:34,360 --> 01:10:38,800
Speaker 5: from our house, out in the country, there's people living

1649
01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:41,880
Speaker 5: there that don't own their house really, and so we're like,

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01:10:42,000 --> 01:10:43,960
Speaker 5: what do we call the police? We're trying to find

1651
01:10:43,960 --> 01:10:46,920
Speaker 5: the owners. We can't find them. Someone passed away, then

1652
01:10:46,920 --> 01:10:49,040
Speaker 5: it got passed down to someone. Someone bought someone in

1653
01:10:49,080 --> 01:10:51,000
Speaker 5: the family bought the house for a dollar, just you know,

1654
01:10:51,080 --> 01:10:53,360
Speaker 5: change the name over to them. Yeah, you can't find them.

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01:10:53,800 --> 01:10:55,080
Speaker 5: Here's Alisha, Alicia.

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Speaker 9: This happened on your street, right right, Yeah, I live

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01:10:58,479 --> 01:10:59,160
Speaker 9: in Connecticut.

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01:10:59,439 --> 01:11:01,880
Speaker 34: A woman in the street passed away and the house

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01:11:01,960 --> 01:11:04,720
Speaker 34: was vacant for months, and when her family finally came

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01:11:04,760 --> 01:11:06,640
Speaker 34: in to sell it, there was actually a squadron in

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01:11:06,680 --> 01:11:11,200
Speaker 34: there who had moved tables and chairs and appliances that

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01:11:11,360 --> 01:11:14,400
Speaker 34: didn't work because there was no power. But he had

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01:11:14,400 --> 01:11:16,920
Speaker 34: a full grown a rug in there. He was living

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01:11:16,960 --> 01:11:20,040
Speaker 34: in there for months at the time, and when somebody

1665
01:11:20,080 --> 01:11:22,600
Speaker 34: actually finally bought the house, he refused to leave, so

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01:11:22,640 --> 01:11:24,680
Speaker 34: they changed the locks, but he broke in through a

1667
01:11:24,680 --> 01:11:26,880
Speaker 34: window and they still let him stay there. The cops

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01:11:26,920 --> 01:11:27,639
Speaker 34: let him stay there.

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01:11:28,560 --> 01:11:32,719
Speaker 5: Well, I don't I don't understand.

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01:11:32,800 --> 01:11:35,280
Speaker 9: It doesn't make sense if it's not yours, it's not yours.

1671
01:11:35,320 --> 01:11:36,759
Speaker 9: I mean, why is it not that simple?

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01:11:36,920 --> 01:11:39,280
Speaker 5: I don't know, but I'm assuming there are there are

1673
01:11:39,880 --> 01:11:42,559
Speaker 5: rights group human rights groups out there that saying no, no, no, No,

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Speaker 5: I mean it was a lot.

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01:11:45,400 --> 01:11:47,160
Speaker 34: It took a lot to finally get him out. Somebody

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01:11:47,200 --> 01:11:49,200
Speaker 34: finally bought the house and started to flip it, and

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01:11:49,240 --> 01:11:51,799
Speaker 34: then they must have filed something to get him out officially.

1678
01:11:52,280 --> 01:11:53,880
Speaker 34: But yeah, he had a full living room in there,

1679
01:11:53,920 --> 01:11:55,479
Speaker 34: he had stuff in the kitchen, he had food in

1680
01:11:55,520 --> 01:11:57,320
Speaker 34: the pantries. He was just living there for free.

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01:11:57,720 --> 01:11:59,280
Speaker 5: Wasn't there a story? I guess I think it was

1682
01:11:59,320 --> 01:12:01,560
Speaker 5: here in New York. There was a guy going online

1683
01:12:02,200 --> 01:12:05,559
Speaker 5: and he was communicating to a lot of immigrants who

1684
01:12:05,560 --> 01:12:08,639
Speaker 5: are coming over the border, saying, here's how you get

1685
01:12:08,640 --> 01:12:11,000
Speaker 5: a house. Look to these houses that they're empty, move in,

1686
01:12:11,280 --> 01:12:13,840
Speaker 5: and so I think he is. They let him have it.

1687
01:12:14,080 --> 01:12:17,439
Speaker 9: Still, I have a question if somebody goes, say, you know,

1688
01:12:17,520 --> 01:12:19,400
Speaker 9: a lot of people get summer homes, so they move

1689
01:12:19,439 --> 01:12:21,559
Speaker 9: out of their mansion because they get a summer home

1690
01:12:21,600 --> 01:12:23,880
Speaker 9: down the beach and it's beautiful, So they're not in

1691
01:12:23,960 --> 01:12:26,920
Speaker 9: their home for three months, Can I technically then move in?

1692
01:12:27,240 --> 01:12:30,040
Speaker 5: Really this happened in California, Los Angeles. There's a mansion

1693
01:12:30,080 --> 01:12:33,720
Speaker 5: like in bel Air. They took it over. They took

1694
01:12:33,920 --> 01:12:36,840
Speaker 5: everyone in the neighborhood knows, and of course California, being

1695
01:12:36,840 --> 01:12:39,439
Speaker 5: an extremely liberal state, They're like, well, no, we can't

1696
01:12:39,439 --> 01:12:39,920
Speaker 5: do anything.

1697
01:12:40,000 --> 01:12:43,160
Speaker 34: Oh look this new hobby because I would.

1698
01:12:43,800 --> 01:12:46,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, God, give me an address. I'm gonna go squat.

1699
01:12:46,560 --> 01:12:48,559
Speaker 9: Seriously, I know some people will get a nice summer

1700
01:12:48,600 --> 01:12:51,639
Speaker 9: home and their other house is not too shabby.

1701
01:12:51,840 --> 01:12:53,639
Speaker 5: Lisia, thank you very much. I hope everything gets worked

1702
01:12:53,640 --> 01:12:54,280
Speaker 5: out on your street.

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01:12:54,960 --> 01:12:55,280
Speaker 6: Thank you.

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01:12:55,320 --> 01:12:58,519
Speaker 10: Love you, guys, love you more so asking for a friend.

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01:12:59,320 --> 01:13:01,880
Speaker 10: If my apartment building has been irritating me with some

1706
01:13:01,920 --> 01:13:04,280
Speaker 10: things and I just stopped paying rent, they can't kick

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01:13:04,320 --> 01:13:04,960
Speaker 10: me out.

1708
01:13:05,560 --> 01:13:08,120
Speaker 5: There's a process they have to go through. Their eviction

1709
01:13:08,240 --> 01:13:12,280
Speaker 5: process is very lengthy. Yeah, they can't just move your

1710
01:13:12,320 --> 01:13:16,000
Speaker 5: stuff in a hotel. If it's a hotel, it's different.

1711
01:13:16,120 --> 01:13:17,000
Speaker 9: Okay, I think I.

1712
01:13:17,000 --> 01:13:19,040
Speaker 10: Think this happens with Airbnb's a lot too. I've seen

1713
01:13:19,040 --> 01:13:22,000
Speaker 10: some videos of people who had a renter. Then those

1714
01:13:22,000 --> 01:13:23,840
Speaker 10: renters just stayed and they couldn't do anything to get

1715
01:13:23,880 --> 01:13:24,799
Speaker 10: them out. It's crazy.

1716
01:13:24,880 --> 01:13:25,519
Speaker 9: It's crazy.

1717
01:13:25,600 --> 01:13:27,160
Speaker 5: We have someone center text. Is this the one you're

1718
01:13:27,160 --> 01:13:31,280
Speaker 5: talking about? Yeah, they're oh listening this morning. I'm going

1719
01:13:31,320 --> 01:13:34,960
Speaker 5: to court this morning for a squad that's living in

1720
01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:38,000
Speaker 5: my Brooklyn property and they've taken me to court for repairs.

1721
01:13:38,520 --> 01:13:41,479
Speaker 5: What so we have the holdover in one court room

1722
01:13:41,520 --> 01:13:44,800
Speaker 5: this morning, and then the case against them is for repairs.

1723
01:13:45,040 --> 01:13:50,080
Speaker 5: They're assuming because I'm not repairing my place I own.

1724
01:13:50,360 --> 01:13:51,920
Speaker 7: I spoke to him. He didn't want to go in

1725
01:13:51,960 --> 01:13:54,000
Speaker 7: the air. Okay, they've been there for two years, and

1726
01:13:54,040 --> 01:13:55,360
Speaker 7: I asked them, well, how much have you spent in

1727
01:13:55,400 --> 01:13:55,880
Speaker 7: legal fees?

1728
01:13:55,920 --> 01:13:58,040
Speaker 1: He goes, I couldn't even calculate that at this point.

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01:13:58,720 --> 01:14:02,960
Speaker 5: Wow, this is so wild. Stefinitely, you work for a

1730
01:14:03,040 --> 01:14:05,680
Speaker 5: landlord tenant court, so you still see all this all

1731
01:14:05,680 --> 01:14:07,320
Speaker 5: the time. So you live in the state of New York.

1732
01:14:07,360 --> 01:14:08,840
Speaker 5: So what's going on in the state of New York

1733
01:14:08,880 --> 01:14:10,320
Speaker 5: as far as squatters.

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01:14:11,040 --> 01:14:14,240
Speaker 8: Well, they have rights after thirty days the landlords or

1735
01:14:14,840 --> 01:14:17,400
Speaker 8: owners have to take them beforet to have them removed

1736
01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:19,880
Speaker 8: and the lesson time that.

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01:14:19,960 --> 01:14:21,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, why do they have this?

1738
01:14:21,160 --> 01:14:22,360
Speaker 5: Why do they have these rights?

1739
01:14:22,600 --> 01:14:24,400
Speaker 1: Where? Where does this come from?

1740
01:14:24,760 --> 01:14:25,760
Speaker 19: New York State law?

1741
01:14:26,439 --> 01:14:27,480
Speaker 8: Thank your congressman.

1742
01:14:28,640 --> 01:14:28,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, but.

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01:14:30,439 --> 01:14:32,559
Speaker 5: At some point, Stephanie, I'm just kind of curious they

1744
01:14:32,640 --> 01:14:35,400
Speaker 5: had to put this into law, and something caused them

1745
01:14:35,400 --> 01:14:37,040
Speaker 5: to put it into law. I'm trying to wonder. I'm

1746
01:14:37,040 --> 01:14:40,120
Speaker 5: wondering what story there is to tell about why squatters

1747
01:14:40,120 --> 01:14:42,040
Speaker 5: have rights, but we can't figure that out.

1748
01:14:43,880 --> 01:14:48,240
Speaker 8: Yeah, I can't figure that out, but they do. They

1749
01:14:48,240 --> 01:14:51,400
Speaker 8: do have rights. And it's a long process. And you know,

1750
01:14:51,439 --> 01:14:53,320
Speaker 8: it goes by how long they've been in the property.

1751
01:14:53,320 --> 01:14:55,200
Speaker 8: If they've been there up to a year, you have

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01:14:55,240 --> 01:14:57,479
Speaker 8: to give them a thirty day notice. A year to

1753
01:14:57,520 --> 01:14:59,800
Speaker 8: two years is a sixty day notice, and anything over

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01:14:59,840 --> 01:15:02,240
Speaker 8: to two years it's a ninety Oh.

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Speaker 5: My god, it could be quite all right. Thank you, Stephanie.

1756
01:15:06,800 --> 01:15:07,559
Speaker 5: Thank you very much.

1757
01:15:08,640 --> 01:15:09,320
Speaker 8: Nice to talk to you.

1758
01:15:09,320 --> 01:15:10,000
Speaker 6: I love you guys.

1759
01:15:10,000 --> 01:15:11,599
Speaker 32: Listen every day for a year.

1760
01:15:11,640 --> 01:15:12,000
Speaker 11: Listener.

1761
01:15:12,160 --> 01:15:13,639
Speaker 5: Well, you know what, we've been here for thirty years

1762
01:15:13,640 --> 01:15:18,719
Speaker 5: because we're squatting doing a great job. They've been trying

1763
01:15:18,720 --> 01:15:20,599
Speaker 5: to the victims for years. All right, Thank you, Stephanie,

1764
01:15:20,600 --> 01:15:22,639
Speaker 5: Thank you very much. What's up? Scary?

1765
01:15:22,760 --> 01:15:26,120
Speaker 13: So, if I own property and you break into my house, yes,

1766
01:15:26,439 --> 01:15:28,880
Speaker 13: you can be arrested for breaking and entering. Yes, So

1767
01:15:29,080 --> 01:15:32,080
Speaker 13: I still own that property and squats show up, why

1768
01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:33,760
Speaker 13: don't they get arrested for breaking it?

1769
01:15:33,840 --> 01:15:35,840
Speaker 5: If they're well in the state of New York, if

1770
01:15:35,840 --> 01:15:38,599
Speaker 5: they're there thirty days there, they are protected more than

1771
01:15:38,880 --> 01:15:43,080
Speaker 5: more so than not so they're okay, okay, oh here

1772
01:15:43,120 --> 01:15:44,720
Speaker 5: you go. What once you use that microphone over there?

1773
01:15:45,160 --> 01:15:47,479
Speaker 7: You found it. Why do squatters have rights? It's to

1774
01:15:47,560 --> 01:15:51,600
Speaker 7: help urban residents find affordable housing. Well, that's extremely affordable.

1775
01:15:53,200 --> 01:15:53,880
Speaker 5: What a good deal.

1776
01:15:54,160 --> 01:15:55,880
Speaker 7: It was a legal right meant to allow people to

1777
01:15:55,880 --> 01:15:58,639
Speaker 7: settle in abandoned or unused properties or to build homes

1778
01:15:58,640 --> 01:16:02,559
Speaker 7: on unclaimed land. The intent was to prevent people and

1779
01:16:02,640 --> 01:16:05,719
Speaker 7: property owners from taking law into their own hands, encouraging

1780
01:16:05,760 --> 01:16:09,560
Speaker 7: resolution through legal channels instead of potential physical confrontations.

1781
01:16:10,880 --> 01:16:12,960
Speaker 10: So initially it did start through colonialism.

1782
01:16:14,160 --> 01:16:17,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeahstead act like land is claimed, I own it.

1783
01:16:17,880 --> 01:16:19,160
Speaker 9: This land is my land.

1784
01:16:19,760 --> 01:16:22,040
Speaker 1: This land it's not your land.

1785
01:16:22,520 --> 01:16:26,040
Speaker 5: From California to New York Islands, from the Redwood Forest

1786
01:16:26,840 --> 01:16:29,240
Speaker 5: to the Gulf Stream Waters. This land's made for you

1787
01:16:29,320 --> 01:16:29,479
Speaker 5: or me.

1788
01:16:29,600 --> 01:16:30,200
Speaker 9: Yes, it is.

1789
01:16:30,360 --> 01:16:31,599
Speaker 10: Apparently you had a point.

1790
01:16:32,479 --> 01:16:32,920
Speaker 5: I don't.

1791
01:16:33,200 --> 01:16:35,200
Speaker 10: I'm just you know, there are abandoned buildings all over

1792
01:16:35,200 --> 01:16:37,000
Speaker 10: the place. So if I go and find a mall

1793
01:16:37,479 --> 01:16:39,519
Speaker 10: and I just sit there for thirty days, then that

1794
01:16:39,560 --> 01:16:40,320
Speaker 10: mall is mine.

1795
01:16:40,640 --> 01:16:42,479
Speaker 5: I don't know, I don't know. It may be a

1796
01:16:42,520 --> 01:16:43,680
Speaker 5: residential thing, maybe a mall thing.

1797
01:16:43,760 --> 01:16:44,120
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1798
01:16:44,200 --> 01:16:45,920
Speaker 5: You can live there, at Gandhi you can live there

1799
01:16:45,920 --> 01:16:51,479
Speaker 5: at the old anti hand stand. This is Gandhi Square mall.

1800
01:16:51,800 --> 01:16:52,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1801
01:16:56,000 --> 01:16:59,800
Speaker 5: So when Centata, Texas, Anna Delvi didn't she squint? Yeah,

1802
01:17:00,840 --> 01:17:01,599
Speaker 5: thinks she did.

1803
01:17:02,200 --> 01:17:02,960
Speaker 17: This is crazy.

1804
01:17:03,120 --> 01:17:08,200
Speaker 5: I know, we're just trying to figure it out. It's

1805
01:17:08,240 --> 01:17:08,839
Speaker 5: so strange.

1806
01:17:08,880 --> 01:17:11,679
Speaker 7: I guess the lesson is every twenty nine days, check

1807
01:17:11,720 --> 01:17:12,439
Speaker 7: on your property.

1808
01:17:12,560 --> 01:17:15,479
Speaker 17: Yeah, if you want to, do you prove?

1809
01:17:15,800 --> 01:17:17,439
Speaker 1: How do you prove along they've been there? How are

1810
01:17:17,439 --> 01:17:18,120
Speaker 1: you going to prove that?

1811
01:17:18,160 --> 01:17:21,400
Speaker 10: I don't know if someone I'm not advocating for this,

1812
01:17:21,479 --> 01:17:24,120
Speaker 10: but if someone hired other people to extract those people

1813
01:17:24,160 --> 01:17:24,719
Speaker 10: from the house.

1814
01:17:24,720 --> 01:17:26,960
Speaker 5: I've heard how they do this. Okay, how you send

1815
01:17:26,960 --> 01:17:30,920
Speaker 5: someone to your house and have them remove the heating system,

1816
01:17:31,040 --> 01:17:34,240
Speaker 5: their finishing system, make sure there's no electricity going to

1817
01:17:34,280 --> 01:17:36,560
Speaker 5: the place. You pull the doors off, the hinges on

1818
01:17:36,600 --> 01:17:37,679
Speaker 5: the front door, of the back door.

1819
01:17:37,880 --> 01:17:38,839
Speaker 9: Okay, a lot of money.

1820
01:17:38,920 --> 01:17:40,240
Speaker 5: It does cost a lot of money.

1821
01:17:42,040 --> 01:17:44,000
Speaker 10: I was thinking more like, hire some big people to

1822
01:17:44,040 --> 01:17:44,920
Speaker 10: just yank am out of the house.

1823
01:17:46,920 --> 01:17:47,880
Speaker 1: How Gandhi style.

1824
01:17:48,960 --> 01:17:50,320
Speaker 9: Now you're going goodbye.

1825
01:17:50,400 --> 01:17:51,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's economical.

1826
01:17:52,080 --> 01:17:54,479
Speaker 9: Yeah yeah, but then they're going to say something, you know,

1827
01:17:54,880 --> 01:17:57,080
Speaker 9: they got hurt and harassment.

1828
01:17:56,720 --> 01:18:01,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, you get taken a jam. Yeah, I don't insanity,

1829
01:18:01,360 --> 01:18:04,759
Speaker 5: I don't know nuts. I just don't know anymore.

1830
01:18:05,000 --> 01:18:06,439
Speaker 10: This was the first time I've been thankful to have

1831
01:18:06,479 --> 01:18:07,040
Speaker 10: no property.

1832
01:18:08,040 --> 01:18:10,320
Speaker 5: They gotta have no property right side, I get We

1833
01:18:10,360 --> 01:18:11,559
Speaker 5: gotta hurry up, I gotta get a home.

1834
01:18:14,840 --> 01:18:20,200
Speaker 2: Waking up in the morning, Elvis Duran in The Morning Show, Apple.

1835
01:18:19,920 --> 01:18:22,839
Speaker 7: Original Films and Warner Brothers Pictures. F Won The Movie

1836
01:18:23,000 --> 01:18:25,559
Speaker 7: is a heart pounding underdog story from the director of

1837
01:18:25,600 --> 01:18:29,000
Speaker 7: Top Gun, Maverick. F Won the movie starring everybody's favorite

1838
01:18:29,000 --> 01:18:31,439
Speaker 7: Brad Pitt, and trust me see it on the biggest

1839
01:18:31,439 --> 01:18:33,759
Speaker 7: screen possible, only in theaters in Imax.

1840
01:18:33,840 --> 01:18:35,839
Speaker 1: June twenty seventh, rated PG. Thirteen.

1841
01:18:42,080 --> 01:18:43,599
Speaker 18: Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

1842
01:18:44,479 --> 01:18:47,439
Speaker 5: We had to actually open up our people's court. Yes,

1843
01:18:48,040 --> 01:18:49,280
Speaker 5: plaintiff first.

1844
01:18:49,040 --> 01:18:51,040
Speaker 9: Right, scary as the plaintiff away, all.

1845
01:18:50,960 --> 01:18:55,360
Speaker 5: Right, plaintiff plush and we really should get a laptop.

1846
01:18:55,439 --> 01:18:57,320
Speaker 9: We should make them swear on the Bible, shouldn't they.

1847
01:18:58,560 --> 01:19:01,400
Speaker 9: Let's not get into that to his mother doesn't want that.

1848
01:19:01,960 --> 01:19:05,840
Speaker 5: All right, scary, you're you're the plaintiff and your your

1849
01:19:06,320 --> 01:19:10,160
Speaker 5: complaints against Samantha. Yes, okay, what a couple of days ago.

1850
01:19:10,200 --> 01:19:14,679
Speaker 13: It was brought to my attention unintentionally by Nate that

1851
01:19:15,240 --> 01:19:18,759
Speaker 13: Sam took a present that I got her for Christmas

1852
01:19:18,800 --> 01:19:21,639
Speaker 13: a couple of years ago, and I paid a lot

1853
01:19:21,640 --> 01:19:23,360
Speaker 13: of money for and.

1854
01:19:23,280 --> 01:19:26,880
Speaker 5: She sold it and just to whoever she did. I

1855
01:19:26,920 --> 01:19:27,920
Speaker 5: don't know where she sold it.

1856
01:19:27,920 --> 01:19:29,920
Speaker 13: I don't know what website, I don't know if she's

1857
01:19:29,920 --> 01:19:32,880
Speaker 13: strapped for cash. But I felt that this was something

1858
01:19:32,920 --> 01:19:36,080
Speaker 13: that I was I put a lot of love and

1859
01:19:36,240 --> 01:19:37,320
Speaker 13: energy time.

1860
01:19:37,160 --> 01:19:40,559
Speaker 5: And hurt your feelings. Can you tell us what? Okay,

1861
01:19:40,560 --> 01:19:40,800
Speaker 5: hold on?

1862
01:19:40,880 --> 01:19:41,599
Speaker 1: What was the gift?

1863
01:19:42,400 --> 01:19:45,000
Speaker 5: What was the gift you bought? It was a very

1864
01:19:45,200 --> 01:19:47,000
Speaker 5: I'm gonna show you exhibit A. Can I give you

1865
01:19:47,040 --> 01:19:47,599
Speaker 5: exhibit A.

1866
01:19:49,040 --> 01:19:50,280
Speaker 9: I'll bring it to the judge.

1867
01:19:52,960 --> 01:19:58,679
Speaker 13: It is a Jonathan Adler authentic canister from his canister collection.

1868
01:19:59,439 --> 01:20:02,640
Speaker 13: Do they say like barbig WIT's and Klaylud's and Ganja.

1869
01:20:02,760 --> 01:20:05,680
Speaker 5: I love that. Let me tell you something. Anything from

1870
01:20:05,760 --> 01:20:08,120
Speaker 5: Jonathan Adler I'm a fan of. That's a great gift.

1871
01:20:08,320 --> 01:20:10,320
Speaker 17: Yeah, Jonathan Adler has some attractive designs.

1872
01:20:10,439 --> 01:20:10,759
Speaker 5: Okay.

1873
01:20:10,840 --> 01:20:14,519
Speaker 13: So so one year she helped me out quite a bit.

1874
01:20:14,680 --> 01:20:16,720
Speaker 13: And you know, a couple of years ago, and it doesn't matter,

1875
01:20:16,800 --> 01:20:18,559
Speaker 13: you gave her again. I gave her a gift for Christmas,

1876
01:20:18,600 --> 01:20:21,600
Speaker 13: and I said, sam in fact, I actually left it

1877
01:20:21,600 --> 01:20:24,000
Speaker 13: on her doorstep because she wasn't home to collect it.

1878
01:20:24,040 --> 01:20:26,360
Speaker 5: Remember that. Okay, that really has nothing to do with

1879
01:20:26,360 --> 01:20:30,439
Speaker 5: what I spent over one hundred dollars on this canister. Okay,

1880
01:20:30,439 --> 01:20:32,760
Speaker 5: it doesn't matter if you spent two dollars or two

1881
01:20:32,760 --> 01:20:35,040
Speaker 5: million dollars. It's a gift, it was thoughtful, it came

1882
01:20:35,080 --> 01:20:38,360
Speaker 5: from the right place. And now I come to find

1883
01:20:38,360 --> 01:20:42,120
Speaker 5: out from Nate that she's sold it online, like as

1884
01:20:42,160 --> 01:20:45,120
Speaker 5: if he never even gave a rats but about it.

1885
01:20:45,160 --> 01:20:45,519
Speaker 1: Okay.

1886
01:20:45,920 --> 01:20:47,320
Speaker 5: You can use the word ass if you want, but

1887
01:20:47,360 --> 01:20:50,360
Speaker 5: you want to say rats but top b u et.

1888
01:20:50,680 --> 01:20:52,360
Speaker 9: But did you sell that on Poshmark?

1889
01:20:52,439 --> 01:20:54,120
Speaker 5: I did sell it on PA Okay, So let's go

1890
01:20:54,160 --> 01:20:57,680
Speaker 5: to Samantha, the UH defendant.

1891
01:20:58,080 --> 01:20:58,320
Speaker 25: All right.

1892
01:20:58,320 --> 01:20:59,800
Speaker 5: I'm still trying to figure out even if you do

1893
01:21:00,120 --> 01:21:02,760
Speaker 5: Scary with the damages will be. I can't quite forget that.

1894
01:21:02,840 --> 01:21:06,200
Speaker 5: But anyway falls back, no, hold on, there's more to

1895
01:21:06,240 --> 01:21:08,400
Speaker 5: it than that, Yes, Samantha, your side of the story.

1896
01:21:08,479 --> 01:21:08,839
Speaker 17: Okay.

1897
01:21:09,000 --> 01:21:11,120
Speaker 20: So I had the gift from Scary. I I very

1898
01:21:11,200 --> 01:21:14,599
Speaker 20: much appreciated it, and I recently started just cleaning out

1899
01:21:14,760 --> 01:21:16,479
Speaker 20: my life things I didn't need.

1900
01:21:16,720 --> 01:21:18,680
Speaker 5: So I came across it, don't need a canister that

1901
01:21:18,680 --> 01:21:20,240
Speaker 5: says barbituates need.

1902
01:21:20,320 --> 01:21:21,240
Speaker 17: I didn't need the canister.

1903
01:21:21,280 --> 01:21:23,320
Speaker 20: I was cleaning stuff out, and I'm like, okay, you know,

1904
01:21:23,680 --> 01:21:25,040
Speaker 20: because gift from Scary.

1905
01:21:24,760 --> 01:21:25,679
Speaker 17: It was really nice.

1906
01:21:25,760 --> 01:21:27,800
Speaker 20: And then I never understood why he got me a

1907
01:21:27,840 --> 01:21:30,599
Speaker 20: canister that said ganja because I don't smoke.

1908
01:21:30,960 --> 01:21:33,320
Speaker 17: I never there was no reference to it whatsoever.

1909
01:21:33,600 --> 01:21:35,320
Speaker 13: It's a play on words, almost like as if it's

1910
01:21:35,320 --> 01:21:37,800
Speaker 13: a cute tea thing, like you say ganja, but there's us.

1911
01:21:38,560 --> 01:21:41,719
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, you had your chance, all right, Please go ahead.

1912
01:21:41,880 --> 01:21:44,280
Speaker 20: We never spoke about it, was never hit on. And

1913
01:21:44,320 --> 01:21:47,240
Speaker 20: then we always talk about how much Scary is king

1914
01:21:47,400 --> 01:21:50,720
Speaker 20: of regifting things. So I started to like, I'm a

1915
01:21:50,720 --> 01:21:53,000
Speaker 20: little suspicious that he didn't regift it to me. So

1916
01:21:53,200 --> 01:21:56,240
Speaker 20: I reached out to our friend who he also bought

1917
01:21:56,240 --> 01:21:59,040
Speaker 20: a gift for that same year, and she got Michael

1918
01:21:59,120 --> 01:22:02,360
Speaker 20: Kore's boots that year, which she picked out when she

1919
01:22:02,600 --> 01:22:03,679
Speaker 20: the same day we both.

1920
01:22:03,479 --> 01:22:05,360
Speaker 5: Got our best assistant.

1921
01:22:06,040 --> 01:22:08,439
Speaker 9: Those were beautiful, those Michael cor boos, and she wore.

1922
01:22:08,880 --> 01:22:10,360
Speaker 5: The same year, I gave her a Chanel bag, so

1923
01:22:10,400 --> 01:22:14,080
Speaker 5: I went, but it isn't okay. By the way, this

1924
01:22:14,240 --> 01:22:16,160
Speaker 5: isn't getting just it's okay.

1925
01:22:16,479 --> 01:22:18,759
Speaker 20: I put two and two together and I realized Scary

1926
01:22:18,840 --> 01:22:21,680
Speaker 20: regifted me this because she got to pick out her

1927
01:22:21,720 --> 01:22:25,000
Speaker 20: own gift that same year, and this meant nothing to him.

1928
01:22:25,040 --> 01:22:27,559
Speaker 5: By the way, me no offense Samantha talking about what

1929
01:22:27,680 --> 01:22:30,000
Speaker 5: other gifts he sent to other people. It really has

1930
01:22:30,120 --> 01:22:32,160
Speaker 5: no bearing on this case.

1931
01:22:32,200 --> 01:22:34,519
Speaker 20: I just realized it was regifted, so I didn't feel

1932
01:22:34,520 --> 01:22:36,600
Speaker 20: badly about.

1933
01:22:36,920 --> 01:22:41,080
Speaker 13: Gifted bought at the Short Hills mall Way credit court statement.

1934
01:22:41,520 --> 01:22:43,280
Speaker 9: Did you buy it for her? Or did you buy

1935
01:22:43,320 --> 01:22:45,320
Speaker 9: it for someone else? Or did someone get.

1936
01:22:45,280 --> 01:22:46,080
Speaker 1: Hold on Danielle?

1937
01:22:46,240 --> 01:22:51,240
Speaker 5: Danielle Scary was the plaintiff. Now he's the defender. All right,

1938
01:22:51,360 --> 01:22:57,400
Speaker 5: here we go, hold on turn playing. Okay, here's okay.

1939
01:22:57,640 --> 01:23:00,599
Speaker 5: Let me just as your judge, the knowledgeable Judge Crotch,

1940
01:23:00,640 --> 01:23:02,360
Speaker 5: I must, I must tell you what's going on here.

1941
01:23:02,720 --> 01:23:04,960
Speaker 5: It has nothing to do with regifting, has nothing to

1942
01:23:04,960 --> 01:23:06,880
Speaker 5: do with the price of the gift. The fact is

1943
01:23:06,920 --> 01:23:09,360
Speaker 5: that It'll keep it simple. You gave her a gift

1944
01:23:09,479 --> 01:23:12,799
Speaker 5: and she sold it. Yeah, okay, set, okay, what damage

1945
01:23:12,840 --> 01:23:14,599
Speaker 5: has been done? Because that's all I can work with

1946
01:23:14,640 --> 01:23:18,120
Speaker 5: emotional damage. Okay, emotional damage. I've upset.

1947
01:23:18,200 --> 01:23:20,679
Speaker 13: I cannot believe that I went out of my way

1948
01:23:20,720 --> 01:23:23,360
Speaker 13: to do this for and she freaking sells it.

1949
01:23:23,600 --> 01:23:24,920
Speaker 5: Okay, well as if it didn't.

1950
01:23:24,760 --> 01:23:26,599
Speaker 9: Mean anything to her. Wait a minute, how many times

1951
01:23:26,600 --> 01:23:28,479
Speaker 9: have we gotten gifts? And I've seen you sell people

1952
01:23:28,600 --> 01:23:30,800
Speaker 9: s'mores makers or what the other thing?

1953
01:23:31,080 --> 01:23:35,840
Speaker 5: What am I going to do with a fund? My

1954
01:23:36,000 --> 01:23:39,120
Speaker 5: point is this, Okay, though, even though she hurt your

1955
01:23:39,240 --> 01:23:43,400
Speaker 5: feelings by selling the gift you gave her, it's not illegal,

1956
01:23:43,520 --> 01:23:47,240
Speaker 5: it's not wrong. You really aren't damaged. There's no damage here,

1957
01:23:47,320 --> 01:23:49,120
Speaker 5: even though your feelers are hurt.

1958
01:23:49,560 --> 01:23:51,400
Speaker 20: Now I love the gift even more in the form

1959
01:23:51,439 --> 01:23:52,880
Speaker 20: of fifty five dollars.

1960
01:23:52,479 --> 01:23:59,559
Speaker 5: She got fifty How much did you spent? Scary? How

1961
01:23:59,600 --> 01:24:00,439
Speaker 5: much you over?

1962
01:24:00,600 --> 01:24:03,360
Speaker 1: Well over a hundred. Who's the bigger one?

1963
01:24:04,920 --> 01:24:05,080
Speaker 11: You know?

1964
01:24:05,120 --> 01:24:07,120
Speaker 5: Who wins out here is whoever bought it from Samantha.

1965
01:24:07,160 --> 01:24:07,759
Speaker 1: That's the winner.

1966
01:24:09,080 --> 01:24:12,080
Speaker 5: This is a this is a frivolous lawsuit.

1967
01:24:13,680 --> 01:24:16,680
Speaker 1: Really can't throw this out of court. I'm throwing it out.

1968
01:24:16,800 --> 01:24:20,240
Speaker 5: This is a waste of the court's time. This is stupid.

1969
01:24:20,920 --> 01:24:22,880
Speaker 5: This is a stupid thing. I can't believe we're wasting

1970
01:24:23,120 --> 01:24:24,360
Speaker 5: our show's time.

1971
01:24:24,120 --> 01:24:26,000
Speaker 9: On this very scary.

1972
01:24:26,400 --> 01:24:28,679
Speaker 5: Whether it's a new gift or regift, it doesn't matter.

1973
01:24:29,320 --> 01:24:32,519
Speaker 5: She sell it to doesn't matter. It's her will you

1974
01:24:32,560 --> 01:24:35,400
Speaker 5: give it to her. It is her property technically, so

1975
01:24:35,439 --> 01:24:36,759
Speaker 5: she can do whatever she wants.

1976
01:24:36,520 --> 01:24:38,760
Speaker 17: To win and now belongs to Deborah Girl for sixty eight.

1977
01:24:40,560 --> 01:24:42,320
Speaker 5: I got a great deal on that day.

1978
01:24:43,360 --> 01:24:46,400
Speaker 1: So there are no winners.

1979
01:24:46,400 --> 01:24:50,479
Speaker 5: There are nothing but losers in this trial to strike scary.

1980
01:24:50,840 --> 01:24:53,360
Speaker 5: One more, one more visit to this court and you

1981
01:24:53,520 --> 01:24:54,519
Speaker 5: lose another case.

1982
01:24:55,760 --> 01:24:58,519
Speaker 1: Where's my defense? No one cares.

1983
01:24:58,760 --> 01:25:00,200
Speaker 9: Nobody would defend.

1984
01:25:00,520 --> 01:25:02,519
Speaker 5: Look, you may be offended. I would be offended. No

1985
01:25:02,560 --> 01:25:04,400
Speaker 5: problem but that you can't take this to a court

1986
01:25:04,400 --> 01:25:07,839
Speaker 5: of law. What a waste of my time and everyone's

1987
01:25:07,840 --> 01:25:12,360
Speaker 5: talking about it. There you go, thanks Scar. You know scary.

1988
01:25:12,439 --> 01:25:13,840
Speaker 5: Next time you want to give someone a gift, just

1989
01:25:13,880 --> 01:25:16,640
Speaker 5: sell it. Scary one.

1990
01:25:16,680 --> 01:25:18,920
Speaker 17: If I take you out for drinks with my earnings.

1991
01:25:18,640 --> 01:25:21,960
Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, you don't owe him anything. You

1992
01:25:21,960 --> 01:25:22,639
Speaker 5: don't ow him anything.

1993
01:25:22,760 --> 01:25:24,120
Speaker 9: You always have that guilt feeling.

1994
01:25:24,240 --> 01:25:27,960
Speaker 5: Sam, Yeah, Danielle, get them out of here, get out,

1995
01:25:28,120 --> 01:25:29,719
Speaker 5: going down a list of things to talk about today.

1996
01:25:29,760 --> 01:25:32,720
Speaker 5: I had to bring this in the list of lost skills.

1997
01:25:33,520 --> 01:25:36,560
Speaker 5: You know what, we live in this day of technology

1998
01:25:36,600 --> 01:25:40,400
Speaker 5: and whatever, and we can get things done arguably faster

1999
01:25:40,560 --> 01:25:43,120
Speaker 5: and more efficiently these days than maybe ten twenty thirty

2000
01:25:43,200 --> 01:25:48,679
Speaker 5: years ago. Things that we have totally totally lost touch

2001
01:25:48,720 --> 01:25:53,000
Speaker 5: with skills and hobbies, they feel outdated. So my list

2002
01:25:52,760 --> 01:25:55,639
Speaker 5: writing letters. When is the last time you wrote a letter?

2003
01:25:56,320 --> 01:25:56,519
Speaker 18: Oh?

2004
01:25:57,280 --> 01:26:00,000
Speaker 10: I actually do do that all the time, but I

2005
01:26:00,040 --> 01:26:02,200
Speaker 10: it's for myself and I write them to myself a lot.

2006
01:26:02,520 --> 01:26:04,559
Speaker 5: See that's cool. You're taking good care of yourself by

2007
01:26:04,560 --> 01:26:07,840
Speaker 5: doing that. Reading a map like you don't have to

2008
01:26:07,840 --> 01:26:09,439
Speaker 5: read it because the map tells you where to go,

2009
01:26:09,680 --> 01:26:16,760
Speaker 5: It reads itself exactly. Remembering phone numbers, forget it.

2010
01:26:17,479 --> 01:26:19,679
Speaker 9: That's the worst. If something was happening to my phone.

2011
01:26:19,720 --> 01:26:21,680
Speaker 9: I don't even know how I get in touch with anybody.

2012
01:26:22,880 --> 01:26:24,719
Speaker 5: The lost art of using a compass.

2013
01:26:25,840 --> 01:26:27,200
Speaker 17: Oh yeah, I don't know if I ever knew how

2014
01:26:27,200 --> 01:26:27,479
Speaker 17: to use it.

2015
01:26:29,240 --> 01:26:30,920
Speaker 5: Isn't the compass Isn't that the thing that you used

2016
01:26:30,920 --> 01:26:32,519
Speaker 5: to you could poke people with in school?

2017
01:26:33,240 --> 01:26:38,280
Speaker 9: Oh that's a different. It's a different with the pencil

2018
01:26:38,320 --> 01:26:39,000
Speaker 9: and the sharp point.

2019
01:26:39,520 --> 01:26:45,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's a different. Well, I use I

2020
01:26:45,200 --> 01:26:46,160
Speaker 5: don't know what's different about it?

2021
01:26:46,160 --> 01:26:48,439
Speaker 1: About a directional compass north south east west.

2022
01:26:49,120 --> 01:26:51,320
Speaker 5: Well, no, that one, but I like the one in school.

2023
01:26:51,320 --> 01:26:55,200
Speaker 5: You could poke people with that. Yeah, having meeting someone

2024
01:26:55,240 --> 01:26:57,160
Speaker 5: with a protractor never was as excited.

2025
01:26:59,000 --> 01:27:00,719
Speaker 10: The compass was definitely more damaging.

2026
01:27:00,880 --> 01:27:02,960
Speaker 5: Now here's one I had a struggle with the other day,

2027
01:27:03,000 --> 01:27:09,040
Speaker 5: and it's handwriting. I am so accustomed to just you know,

2028
01:27:09,200 --> 01:27:12,200
Speaker 5: using my thumb on my phone or whatever. So when

2029
01:27:12,200 --> 01:27:16,439
Speaker 5: it comes time to fill it a birthday card? How

2030
01:27:16,439 --> 01:27:18,000
Speaker 5: many times have you goofed up in wish you had

2031
01:27:18,040 --> 01:27:21,120
Speaker 5: three more birthday cards because figure got how to write

2032
01:27:21,320 --> 01:27:21,759
Speaker 5: a word.

2033
01:27:21,960 --> 01:27:25,120
Speaker 9: Sometimes I buy two just in case because I know

2034
01:27:25,240 --> 01:27:27,320
Speaker 9: I know it's going to happen. You don't cross it out,

2035
01:27:27,360 --> 01:27:28,720
Speaker 9: and I'm like, this is ridiculous.

2036
01:27:28,720 --> 01:27:34,320
Speaker 12: So unless you're a Papyrus, those are expensive where.

2037
01:27:32,960 --> 01:27:35,200
Speaker 5: You know, the card folds and then you mess up

2038
01:27:35,200 --> 01:27:37,000
Speaker 5: the thing that you write on the right side, so

2039
01:27:37,040 --> 01:27:38,439
Speaker 5: you tear it off and just pretend it's like a

2040
01:27:38,479 --> 01:27:45,760
Speaker 5: two sided card. Okay, I've done that. Okay, making a

2041
01:27:45,800 --> 01:27:49,120
Speaker 5: fire from scratch who can never knew how to do it?

2042
01:27:49,280 --> 01:27:49,760
Speaker 10: Never knew.

2043
01:27:50,360 --> 01:27:51,960
Speaker 5: I know Nate can do it because well he's from

2044
01:27:51,960 --> 01:27:54,639
Speaker 5: Erie Pennsylvania. They don't have fire there. Yeah, you get some.

2045
01:27:54,640 --> 01:27:57,120
Speaker 1: Birch bark and a little spark. Why do you.

2046
01:27:57,080 --> 01:27:57,719
Speaker 9: A boy scout?

2047
01:27:57,760 --> 01:27:58,040
Speaker 10: Anyone?

2048
01:27:58,080 --> 01:27:58,320
Speaker 18: Were you?

2049
01:27:58,880 --> 01:28:02,719
Speaker 1: I had allergies around the animals. Okay, but if you don't.

2050
01:28:02,600 --> 01:28:04,479
Speaker 10: Have the birch bark, can you do the thing where

2051
01:28:04,520 --> 01:28:07,639
Speaker 10: you just use like stones or a stick or whatever

2052
01:28:07,680 --> 01:28:08,000
Speaker 10: you do?

2053
01:28:08,200 --> 01:28:12,760
Speaker 7: Yeah, you need a spark and actually dryer lint works fantastic.

2054
01:28:12,920 --> 01:28:18,519
Speaker 5: Stuff is flammable. Sewing? Can you sew a button on?

2055
01:28:19,320 --> 01:28:19,799
Speaker 1: Yes?

2056
01:28:19,880 --> 01:28:23,160
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, I couldn't do it, but it wouldn't last long.

2057
01:28:23,200 --> 01:28:25,280
Speaker 5: I mean I could do it for like the look, Yeah,

2058
01:28:25,560 --> 01:28:29,080
Speaker 5: but it's not going to hold anything my big belly

2059
01:28:29,080 --> 01:28:29,800
Speaker 5: popping it off?

2060
01:28:30,320 --> 01:28:30,799
Speaker 1: Uh?

2061
01:28:31,240 --> 01:28:33,200
Speaker 5: Knitting? Who's knitting these days?

2062
01:28:33,320 --> 01:28:35,920
Speaker 10: Nope, never knew how. I would love to learn, though

2063
01:28:35,960 --> 01:28:37,200
Speaker 10: it seems very relaxing.

2064
01:28:38,240 --> 01:28:39,960
Speaker 9: I can do lanyard. That's about it.

2065
01:28:40,200 --> 01:28:42,439
Speaker 5: Here's here's one. We've lost touch with spelling.

2066
01:28:44,080 --> 01:28:46,160
Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, totally.

2067
01:28:46,040 --> 01:28:46,920
Speaker 18: Because you don't need to.

2068
01:28:47,200 --> 01:28:48,200
Speaker 9: It corrects it for you.

2069
01:28:48,960 --> 01:28:51,960
Speaker 12: Prepell word and you're so off that even autocorrect can't

2070
01:28:52,000 --> 01:28:52,280
Speaker 12: fix it.

2071
01:28:52,320 --> 01:28:54,320
Speaker 1: You're like, really, I'm way off here.

2072
01:28:54,479 --> 01:28:57,639
Speaker 5: I recognize about How about pickling? When the last time

2073
01:28:57,680 --> 01:29:01,800
Speaker 5: you preserved. I do pickled onions from time to time

2074
01:29:01,840 --> 01:29:04,240
Speaker 5: to put on dishes, but that's easy.

2075
01:29:04,439 --> 01:29:08,240
Speaker 9: Specially we buy so much pickled stuff because my husband's British.

2076
01:29:08,280 --> 01:29:13,400
Speaker 9: Those pickle onions are disgusting. What great gosh, oh stop,

2077
01:29:14,880 --> 01:29:15,320
Speaker 9: just stop?

2078
01:29:16,080 --> 01:29:16,559
Speaker 1: How about now?

2079
01:29:16,680 --> 01:29:18,320
Speaker 5: Jam? What does that time you made a good old

2080
01:29:18,360 --> 01:29:19,320
Speaker 5: strawberry jam?

2081
01:29:21,800 --> 01:29:25,439
Speaker 1: Pickle? To make jellies or jams?

2082
01:29:26,320 --> 01:29:27,080
Speaker 5: I make jams.

2083
01:29:27,320 --> 01:29:30,400
Speaker 9: What's the difference difference? What's the difference between a jelly

2084
01:29:30,400 --> 01:29:30,840
Speaker 9: and a jam?

2085
01:29:31,120 --> 01:29:34,240
Speaker 5: Pectan or some kind of stuffing? Look it up jam

2086
01:29:34,320 --> 01:29:37,000
Speaker 5: versus look it up jam versus jelly? There was a difference,

2087
01:29:37,840 --> 01:29:46,000
Speaker 5: something different. Yeah, you did pottery. See this is something

2088
01:29:46,479 --> 01:29:47,160
Speaker 5: Gandhi would make.

2089
01:29:47,200 --> 01:29:47,599
Speaker 1: Pottery.

2090
01:29:47,680 --> 01:29:48,960
Speaker 5: Gandhi would make pottery.

2091
01:29:49,080 --> 01:29:52,160
Speaker 10: Absolutely. I actually went and started to do some pottery

2092
01:29:52,160 --> 01:29:53,960
Speaker 10: classes not too long ago, and now I just have

2093
01:29:54,080 --> 01:29:57,080
Speaker 10: to get them out of the kiln and paint ready

2094
01:29:57,160 --> 01:29:57,360
Speaker 10: to go.

2095
01:29:57,720 --> 01:29:58,439
Speaker 5: Who has a kiln?

2096
01:29:58,560 --> 01:29:58,760
Speaker 8: Show?

2097
01:30:01,120 --> 01:30:03,240
Speaker 10: The lady with the kiln is real stingy about it too.

2098
01:30:03,280 --> 01:30:04,439
Speaker 10: She doesn't like us messing around.

2099
01:30:04,479 --> 01:30:07,080
Speaker 5: There are two things on my list that make me

2100
01:30:07,760 --> 01:30:10,960
Speaker 5: make me a little sad. Well, there's one thing, and

2101
01:30:11,040 --> 01:30:15,919
Speaker 5: it's reading. People are just out of touch and can't

2102
01:30:16,320 --> 01:30:20,280
Speaker 5: focus long enough to read because we work, We live

2103
01:30:20,640 --> 01:30:24,920
Speaker 5: and work in a world that is so distracting. There

2104
01:30:24,920 --> 01:30:27,080
Speaker 5: are so many reasons to pick up your phone and

2105
01:30:27,200 --> 01:30:29,719
Speaker 5: check out Instagram when you could be reading a book.

2106
01:30:29,760 --> 01:30:35,200
Speaker 5: And today yeah, see I'm read into reading too.

2107
01:30:35,479 --> 01:30:37,519
Speaker 9: Yep, I would read. I would rather read a book

2108
01:30:37,600 --> 01:30:40,760
Speaker 9: than watch television. I love reading so much.

2109
01:30:41,920 --> 01:30:44,280
Speaker 5: I happen to agree. And I love hearing that from you. Yes, Gary,

2110
01:30:44,320 --> 01:30:44,640
Speaker 5: what you know?

2111
01:30:44,760 --> 01:30:46,840
Speaker 13: I hear there's not a lot of as much diversity

2112
01:30:46,840 --> 01:30:51,320
Speaker 13: anymore in college courses, like the recreational stuff like ornamental horticulture,

2113
01:30:51,640 --> 01:30:54,080
Speaker 13: or we had glass blowing like do you ever blow

2114
01:30:54,160 --> 01:30:55,160
Speaker 13: glass before.

2115
01:30:56,560 --> 01:31:00,439
Speaker 5: A thing? Class?

2116
01:31:04,400 --> 01:31:07,280
Speaker 12: I swear twelve, especially Danielle and I.

2117
01:31:08,640 --> 01:31:11,400
Speaker 5: There is out in a near my house in Santa

2118
01:31:11,400 --> 01:31:16,120
Speaker 5: Fe into Suki, New Mexico. There's a place that they

2119
01:31:16,200 --> 01:31:19,400
Speaker 5: have glass blowing and they'll put the sign up, we're

2120
01:31:19,439 --> 01:31:23,000
Speaker 5: blowing right now, stop on and I'd live there.

2121
01:31:23,080 --> 01:31:23,760
Speaker 1: Can you pay rent?

2122
01:31:24,479 --> 01:31:24,959
Speaker 5: Yeah?

2123
01:31:25,280 --> 01:31:28,320
Speaker 9: That intrigues me. How they do that, That's just amazing.

2124
01:31:28,600 --> 01:31:30,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, there's some really talented people.

2125
01:31:30,240 --> 01:31:30,760
Speaker 1: These are things.

2126
01:31:30,840 --> 01:31:33,439
Speaker 5: Look, you know, we live in this life where where

2127
01:31:33,479 --> 01:31:35,439
Speaker 5: we feel like we are so lucky to have this

2128
01:31:35,520 --> 01:31:39,439
Speaker 5: technology and access to things just by saying, hey, look

2129
01:31:39,600 --> 01:31:42,320
Speaker 5: this up and she looks it up. You know, but

2130
01:31:42,360 --> 01:31:47,479
Speaker 5: you lose touch with things like you know, spelling and reading,

2131
01:31:49,360 --> 01:31:53,720
Speaker 5: making jam Come on, just get back to work with that.

2132
01:31:54,520 --> 01:31:56,759
Speaker 5: I want to hear all about the weird, wild stories

2133
01:31:56,800 --> 01:31:59,439
Speaker 5: you didn't learn in school. Let my best friend Patty

2134
01:31:59,479 --> 01:32:03,120
Speaker 5: steal her podcast, The Backstory with Patty Steel be your guide.

2135
01:32:03,200 --> 01:32:03,880
Speaker 5: What are you working on?

2136
01:32:03,880 --> 01:32:04,200
Speaker 6: Patty?

2137
01:32:04,320 --> 01:32:05,120
Speaker 18: All right? Elvis?

2138
01:32:05,200 --> 01:32:07,080
Speaker 9: I know you're more of a boat guy than I am,

2139
01:32:07,120 --> 01:32:09,400
Speaker 9: but I don't think anybody wants to be lost at

2140
01:32:09,439 --> 01:32:12,080
Speaker 9: sea at the age of eleven after the rest of

2141
01:32:12,120 --> 01:32:15,719
Speaker 9: your family has been murdered. Man, it's an insane story.

2142
01:32:16,240 --> 01:32:19,679
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2143
01:32:19,960 --> 01:32:26,240
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2144
01:32:26,280 --> 01:32:28,320
Speaker 18: Elvis Duran in the Morning.

2145
01:32:28,000 --> 01:32:32,080
Speaker 5: Show, WHOA all right? There are unwritten rules in life

2146
01:32:32,080 --> 01:32:33,160
Speaker 5: we need to be following, right.

2147
01:32:33,280 --> 01:32:33,559
Speaker 9: Yeah.

2148
01:32:34,040 --> 01:32:35,880
Speaker 5: For instance, if you're at the table and we're passing

2149
01:32:35,960 --> 01:32:38,519
Speaker 5: around a plate full of you know, slices, there's only

2150
01:32:38,520 --> 01:32:39,599
Speaker 5: one left. I can't take it.

2151
01:32:39,640 --> 01:32:41,599
Speaker 10: I never take it, and I always judge the people

2152
01:32:41,640 --> 01:32:43,559
Speaker 10: who just take it without asking. Everyone else if they

2153
01:32:43,600 --> 01:32:45,320
Speaker 10: want to split it, or if they want some of it,

2154
01:32:45,360 --> 01:32:46,200
Speaker 10: I'm like, who are you?

2155
01:32:46,439 --> 01:32:49,200
Speaker 9: Or they say anyone else gonna eat this? Because you

2156
01:32:49,320 --> 01:32:51,120
Speaker 9: know the answer is going to be no. You take

2157
01:32:51,200 --> 01:32:53,880
Speaker 9: it right. So it's like, you know, I think.

2158
01:32:53,720 --> 01:32:55,240
Speaker 10: It should always be to someone want to split this

2159
01:32:55,280 --> 01:32:55,479
Speaker 10: with me?

2160
01:32:55,680 --> 01:32:58,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, Nate. If you borrow someone's car, Nate, you put

2161
01:32:58,040 --> 01:32:59,760
Speaker 5: gas back in it three times, you buy it.

2162
01:33:00,040 --> 01:33:02,200
Speaker 1: Say I've learned it. It took me three times to learn it,

2163
01:33:02,240 --> 01:33:02,840
Speaker 1: but I learned it.

2164
01:33:02,920 --> 01:33:04,439
Speaker 5: Well, it's too late. You know you're gonna get your

2165
01:33:04,439 --> 01:33:07,120
Speaker 5: own car now. Okay, let's see, let's go to line

2166
01:33:07,120 --> 01:33:10,680
Speaker 5: twenty one. Uh Aana, I hope I'm saying her name right?

2167
01:33:10,760 --> 01:33:11,800
Speaker 5: Is this Aana? Is that here?

2168
01:33:11,880 --> 01:33:14,440
Speaker 26: Say your name the morning is Ayana?

2169
01:33:14,520 --> 01:33:17,439
Speaker 5: You are okay, Ayana? That makes sense calling from Philly

2170
01:33:17,439 --> 01:33:20,000
Speaker 5: listening to Q and on two. So uh oh, you

2171
01:33:20,040 --> 01:33:23,880
Speaker 5: have bathroom etiquette in the the Unwritten Rules of Life list.

2172
01:33:23,960 --> 01:33:28,599
Speaker 26: Go ahead, okay. So mine is is you are at

2173
01:33:28,640 --> 01:33:32,519
Speaker 26: someone's house, you know, family, friends, whatever, and you have

2174
01:33:32,600 --> 01:33:35,519
Speaker 26: to use the bathroom, and if you know you're gonna

2175
01:33:35,560 --> 01:33:39,920
Speaker 26: be in there for a little while, you know, flush

2176
01:33:39,960 --> 01:33:43,479
Speaker 26: a couple of times, you know, baby, carry your own

2177
01:33:43,479 --> 01:33:48,439
Speaker 26: little spray, because again you're at someone's house and there's

2178
01:33:48,479 --> 01:33:51,080
Speaker 26: people in there, and like say, I gotta go. I

2179
01:33:51,080 --> 01:33:53,320
Speaker 26: don't want to go in the bathroom behind you and

2180
01:33:53,560 --> 01:33:54,960
Speaker 26: smell what just came out of it.

2181
01:33:55,080 --> 01:33:58,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, very good point.

2182
01:33:58,680 --> 01:34:01,080
Speaker 26: I don't want to see like the little leftovers.

2183
01:34:02,439 --> 01:34:05,479
Speaker 9: I don't understand that. Who in their right mind doesn't

2184
01:34:05,520 --> 01:34:07,280
Speaker 9: turn around and look to make sure.

2185
01:34:07,800 --> 01:34:08,240
Speaker 17: I don't know.

2186
01:34:08,320 --> 01:34:12,040
Speaker 26: I mean I work at an animal hospital, and like

2187
01:34:12,240 --> 01:34:15,280
Speaker 26: we have like a public bathroom, and I've definitely walked

2188
01:34:15,320 --> 01:34:17,080
Speaker 26: in the bathroom women's bathroom a couple of times and

2189
01:34:17,240 --> 01:34:20,479
Speaker 26: definitely a fiend where some people were like, oh, I'm done,

2190
01:34:20,600 --> 01:34:21,200
Speaker 26: dump and go.

2191
01:34:21,560 --> 01:34:24,080
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, leave a clew.

2192
01:34:25,680 --> 01:34:28,519
Speaker 26: Oh so you just forgot to flush, Like even though

2193
01:34:28,520 --> 01:34:30,360
Speaker 26: you just wait, you forgot to flush.

2194
01:34:30,439 --> 01:34:33,679
Speaker 5: All right, Very good, Diana, Diana, we got to remember

2195
01:34:33,720 --> 01:34:35,559
Speaker 5: when you know, the other people may use that bathroom

2196
01:34:35,640 --> 01:34:38,000
Speaker 5: list they board it up and condemn it when you're done,

2197
01:34:38,120 --> 01:34:40,240
Speaker 5: you know. All right, Diana, thanks for listening to us.

2198
01:34:40,240 --> 01:34:43,160
Speaker 5: Have a great day, okay, Michelle, Line twenty four. It's

2199
01:34:43,200 --> 01:34:46,120
Speaker 5: more toilet stuff, you know what, the unwritten rules. We

2200
01:34:46,120 --> 01:34:50,040
Speaker 5: should have the toilet Edition. Hello, Michelle, how are you.

2201
01:34:50,120 --> 01:34:50,920
Speaker 9: That's a good idea.

2202
01:34:52,000 --> 01:34:54,200
Speaker 5: We're okay, so uh yeah, go ahead.

2203
01:34:55,200 --> 01:34:56,839
Speaker 23: So it's time because I'm flushing.

2204
01:34:56,880 --> 01:34:59,280
Speaker 14: You gotta do something about it because it's the cruise.

2205
01:35:00,479 --> 01:35:04,960
Speaker 5: Okay. Thanks. You can't call us and say that.

2206
01:35:05,040 --> 01:35:05,439
Speaker 1: What do you mean?

2207
01:35:05,479 --> 01:35:06,680
Speaker 6: Do what you like?

2208
01:35:06,680 --> 01:35:12,679
Speaker 9: What do you scoop it outlet Michelle?

2209
01:35:12,800 --> 01:35:16,360
Speaker 5: You're not thank you? No, I need answers.

2210
01:35:16,960 --> 01:35:21,080
Speaker 10: What about like walking and riding escalators and elevators, not elevators,

2211
01:35:21,080 --> 01:35:23,160
Speaker 10: but escalators, Like if you're going to just stand there,

2212
01:35:23,200 --> 01:35:24,400
Speaker 10: I think you have to stand to the right and

2213
01:35:24,479 --> 01:35:25,599
Speaker 10: let the people past.

2214
01:35:25,680 --> 01:35:28,040
Speaker 9: There's etiquette, isn't there etiquette? I think so?

2215
01:35:28,080 --> 01:35:30,559
Speaker 10: But I all the time where people don't do it.

2216
01:35:30,479 --> 01:35:33,240
Speaker 5: For instance, at the airport, the walkway, the moving walkway.

2217
01:35:33,640 --> 01:35:35,439
Speaker 5: It's a walkway, it's not a stand away.

2218
01:35:35,720 --> 01:35:37,439
Speaker 9: The reason it's a walkway scary?

2219
01:35:37,479 --> 01:35:38,439
Speaker 5: Has one Ye're scary.

2220
01:35:38,800 --> 01:35:42,320
Speaker 1: Never assume a woman is pregnant. Oh yeah, that's a

2221
01:35:42,360 --> 01:35:42,840
Speaker 1: huge one.

2222
01:35:42,880 --> 01:35:45,600
Speaker 9: I've done that. I've done it.

2223
01:35:47,040 --> 01:35:49,800
Speaker 10: One time I touched someone's belly and I thought that

2224
01:35:49,880 --> 01:35:51,960
Speaker 10: she was like pregnant, pregnant and she had just had

2225
01:35:51,960 --> 01:35:53,719
Speaker 10: the baby. And as soon as I touched her belly,

2226
01:35:53,720 --> 01:35:55,120
Speaker 10: I knew it. I was like, oh my god, I'm

2227
01:35:55,120 --> 01:35:56,160
Speaker 10: such an idiot, right now.

2228
01:35:56,120 --> 01:35:58,000
Speaker 1: That's what. Yeah.

2229
01:35:58,160 --> 01:36:00,920
Speaker 9: I was in a maternity store right and the woman

2230
01:36:01,080 --> 01:36:03,280
Speaker 9: was shopping and I and she had the little bulge

2231
01:36:03,320 --> 01:36:05,040
Speaker 9: and I go, oh, whinner you do? And she says, oh,

2232
01:36:05,040 --> 01:36:07,120
Speaker 9: I just had the baby. Oh my god.

2233
01:36:07,240 --> 01:36:07,599
Speaker 6: That's okay.

2234
01:36:07,640 --> 01:36:09,360
Speaker 5: But that's easy to explain it if you But if

2235
01:36:09,400 --> 01:36:14,320
Speaker 5: you've been nowhere near pregnant, right, I get up, Uh, Froggy,

2236
01:36:14,360 --> 01:36:14,960
Speaker 5: do you have one?

2237
01:36:15,000 --> 01:36:15,439
Speaker 1: I don't know.

2238
01:36:16,040 --> 01:36:17,600
Speaker 12: I'm the same way with the cookies. I told you

2239
01:36:17,640 --> 01:36:20,200
Speaker 12: over the weekend, my son there was one cookie left

2240
01:36:20,200 --> 01:36:23,640
Speaker 12: in the pack. I wanted that last taste cookie and

2241
01:36:23,680 --> 01:36:25,000
Speaker 12: he ate it and he said, oh, there was only

2242
01:36:25,040 --> 01:36:25,360
Speaker 12: one left.

2243
01:36:25,400 --> 01:36:26,760
Speaker 1: I ate and throw it away. No, you don't eat

2244
01:36:26,800 --> 01:36:27,840
Speaker 1: the last cookie, it's mine.

2245
01:36:28,360 --> 01:36:30,640
Speaker 10: Oh can we talk about at a kid on a

2246
01:36:30,640 --> 01:36:32,800
Speaker 10: plane when you're getting off the plane, because I think

2247
01:36:32,800 --> 01:36:35,640
Speaker 10: that this should be something ingrained in everyone. There's an

2248
01:36:35,800 --> 01:36:37,800
Speaker 10: order the way you're getting off the plane. Just let

2249
01:36:37,840 --> 01:36:39,920
Speaker 10: every seat go as it is. Don't be the person

2250
01:36:39,960 --> 01:36:41,320
Speaker 10: in the back of the plane who tries to run

2251
01:36:41,400 --> 01:36:43,000
Speaker 10: up to the front with all your suitcases.

2252
01:36:43,040 --> 01:36:43,879
Speaker 17: That's so rude.

2253
01:36:44,000 --> 01:36:46,360
Speaker 10: I don't understand why if everyone just let the people

2254
01:36:46,360 --> 01:36:46,960
Speaker 10: in front of them go.

2255
01:36:47,200 --> 01:36:47,880
Speaker 9: It would go quickly.

2256
01:36:47,960 --> 01:36:50,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I have more on my list. Don't start

2257
01:36:50,320 --> 01:36:51,400
Speaker 5: drama at a funeral.

2258
01:36:51,560 --> 01:36:53,360
Speaker 17: Oh it's good.

2259
01:36:53,920 --> 01:36:56,800
Speaker 5: Chew with your mouth closed. Scary, okay.

2260
01:36:57,040 --> 01:36:57,240
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2261
01:36:57,240 --> 01:37:00,000
Speaker 5: Don't play loud music in public. Oh, don't eat.

2262
01:36:59,840 --> 01:37:02,280
Speaker 9: My leftovers in the refrigerator without asking me.

2263
01:37:02,680 --> 01:37:04,840
Speaker 5: If you're borrowing something for the third time, buy one

2264
01:37:04,840 --> 01:37:07,519
Speaker 5: of your own. Oh that's okay, I like that one. Yeah,

2265
01:37:07,520 --> 01:37:09,840
Speaker 5: there's one for Nate. You borrowed my car three times.

2266
01:37:09,880 --> 01:37:10,920
Speaker 9: That's three times.

2267
01:37:11,800 --> 01:37:13,920
Speaker 5: Oh, here's one for Gandhi. If someone shows you a

2268
01:37:13,920 --> 01:37:16,000
Speaker 5: photo on their phone, don't swipe left or right. Just

2269
01:37:16,040 --> 01:37:18,720
Speaker 5: look at that phone. Look at that picture. Don't look

2270
01:37:18,800 --> 01:37:19,240
Speaker 5: left right.

2271
01:37:19,320 --> 01:37:19,920
Speaker 9: I'm a monster.

2272
01:37:20,560 --> 01:37:23,040
Speaker 5: Oh another one. If you're waiting for the elevator the

2273
01:37:23,080 --> 01:37:26,519
Speaker 5: door opens, you let the people off before you get off. Yes, yes,

2274
01:37:27,800 --> 01:37:28,400
Speaker 5: right with me.

2275
01:37:28,520 --> 01:37:31,519
Speaker 9: And don't stand right by the elevator when the door's

2276
01:37:31,560 --> 01:37:33,320
Speaker 9: open so that the people trip over you when they're

2277
01:37:33,360 --> 01:37:34,000
Speaker 9: caring exactly.

2278
01:37:34,280 --> 01:37:36,000
Speaker 5: Don't leave your shopping cart in the middle of the

2279
01:37:36,040 --> 01:37:37,640
Speaker 5: aisle when you're bending down to get that can of

2280
01:37:37,640 --> 01:37:38,800
Speaker 5: pork and beans or whatever it is. You know what

2281
01:37:38,800 --> 01:37:42,400
Speaker 5: I'm saying. Oh yeah, move over to the side line.

2282
01:37:42,400 --> 01:37:46,720
Speaker 5: Twenty one is Jerlene, I believe chery. Yeah, Jarrelyne, how

2283
01:37:46,760 --> 01:37:49,520
Speaker 5: are you? I agree with you on this one wholeheartedly.

2284
01:37:49,560 --> 01:37:50,160
Speaker 1: Go right ahead.

2285
01:37:51,280 --> 01:37:54,280
Speaker 32: When people are driving in the fast lane and you

2286
01:37:54,360 --> 01:37:55,920
Speaker 32: see me and everyone.

2287
01:37:55,560 --> 01:37:58,120
Speaker 16: Else passing you, but you still stay in the fastlane,

2288
01:37:58,360 --> 01:37:59,440
Speaker 16: move over.

2289
01:37:59,320 --> 01:38:01,800
Speaker 9: Move over. That's why it's a fact lane.

2290
01:38:02,760 --> 01:38:05,240
Speaker 5: It's a passing lane. Keep that in mind. You can

2291
01:38:05,280 --> 01:38:08,400
Speaker 5: only use that lane to pass people. All right, I'm

2292
01:38:08,439 --> 01:38:10,920
Speaker 5: with you, Jam, Thank you so much. Have a great day.

2293
01:38:11,000 --> 01:38:13,360
Speaker 5: Stay in the right lane unless you're passing Devin Online.

2294
01:38:13,400 --> 01:38:13,599
Speaker 10: Four.

2295
01:38:13,720 --> 01:38:18,400
Speaker 5: Let's go over there. The hello hello, Devin? What's going on?

2296
01:38:18,439 --> 01:38:18,639
Speaker 19: Hello?

2297
01:38:18,840 --> 01:38:19,120
Speaker 6: Hello?

2298
01:38:19,240 --> 01:38:19,479
Speaker 8: Hello?

2299
01:38:20,000 --> 01:38:20,920
Speaker 19: Mine is.

2300
01:38:22,360 --> 01:38:24,759
Speaker 11: When you open the door for somebody and they don't

2301
01:38:24,800 --> 01:38:27,960
Speaker 11: say thank you. That is my biggest pet peeve. I

2302
01:38:28,000 --> 01:38:30,240
Speaker 11: can never stand it when I open the door and

2303
01:38:30,320 --> 01:38:32,120
Speaker 11: I just you know, it's just a common gesture and

2304
01:38:32,120 --> 01:38:33,000
Speaker 11: they just walk right by.

2305
01:38:33,280 --> 01:38:36,200
Speaker 5: Do you ever say you're welcome?

2306
01:38:36,960 --> 01:38:39,639
Speaker 11: Every time you say something snarky, you say you're welcome

2307
01:38:39,680 --> 01:38:41,960
Speaker 11: and they just keep going, and they keep going. It's

2308
01:38:41,960 --> 01:38:43,720
Speaker 11: like they don't even a knowledge, or they just look

2309
01:38:43,800 --> 01:38:45,240
Speaker 11: back and then they keep going.

2310
01:38:45,400 --> 01:38:48,360
Speaker 5: Yes, I agree, say thank you. Don't be a dick.

2311
01:38:50,439 --> 01:38:50,920
Speaker 9: Like my dad.

2312
01:38:51,240 --> 01:38:53,640
Speaker 5: Yes, exactly, Thank you, Devin, have a great day. I'll

2313
01:38:53,680 --> 01:38:56,040
Speaker 5: let this text from the South Southern etiquette one, even

2314
01:38:56,080 --> 01:38:58,679
Speaker 5: if your house is spotless, always apologize for the mass.

2315
01:39:00,520 --> 01:39:03,280
Speaker 5: I love that one. That is so genteel. Here it

2316
01:39:03,320 --> 01:39:06,640
Speaker 5: is summertime, the long days of summer. Of course, the

2317
01:39:06,640 --> 01:39:09,479
Speaker 5: older you get, the faster they go. But we're any

2318
01:39:09,479 --> 01:39:13,960
Speaker 5: of you ever grounded for an entire summer over something

2319
01:39:14,000 --> 01:39:14,679
Speaker 5: stupid you did.

2320
01:39:15,479 --> 01:39:17,639
Speaker 10: I was kind of house arrested for three weeks.

2321
01:39:19,360 --> 01:39:23,720
Speaker 5: Goney, surprise, do you mean how kind of house arrested? Well,

2322
01:39:24,439 --> 01:39:26,880
Speaker 5: house arrest? Was it like the law, I mean the

2323
01:39:27,080 --> 01:39:28,040
Speaker 5: police department.

2324
01:39:28,120 --> 01:39:30,280
Speaker 10: Yeah, it was a combination of the police and my parents.

2325
01:39:30,439 --> 01:39:32,639
Speaker 5: Oh oh, do we need to hear this? I think

2326
01:39:32,640 --> 01:39:32,880
Speaker 5: we do.

2327
01:39:34,880 --> 01:39:38,040
Speaker 10: So it was in fourth grade and four grade, yeah,

2328
01:39:38,080 --> 01:39:41,559
Speaker 10: and I did something stupid and I shoplifted and I

2329
01:39:41,600 --> 01:39:45,439
Speaker 10: got busted at J. C. Penny and we we tried

2330
01:39:45,439 --> 01:39:47,320
Speaker 10: to take a lot of stuff. So it crossed the

2331
01:39:47,400 --> 01:39:49,920
Speaker 10: line of like misdemeanor into what would have been a

2332
01:39:49,920 --> 01:39:53,400
Speaker 10: felony based on the dollar amount. So when I went

2333
01:39:53,439 --> 01:39:55,920
Speaker 10: to the whatever court thing it was when I was

2334
01:39:55,960 --> 01:39:58,840
Speaker 10: a kid, they said, Okay, this is what we're gonna do.

2335
01:39:58,920 --> 01:40:00,920
Speaker 10: We're not gonna punish you too badly, but you cannot

2336
01:40:00,960 --> 01:40:03,320
Speaker 10: leave your house for two weeks. My parents asked it

2337
01:40:03,360 --> 01:40:06,440
Speaker 10: to be three, and then I had to do it. Yeah,

2338
01:40:06,560 --> 01:40:07,960
Speaker 10: And then I had to do a couple of weekends

2339
01:40:08,000 --> 01:40:10,400
Speaker 10: where I went to this like juvie facility and you

2340
01:40:10,439 --> 01:40:13,160
Speaker 10: had to sit through some classes with like the other

2341
01:40:13,200 --> 01:40:13,799
Speaker 10: bad kids.

2342
01:40:15,080 --> 01:40:15,600
Speaker 1: Wow.

2343
01:40:15,680 --> 01:40:18,000
Speaker 10: Yeah, my parents are probably not happy I'm talking about this.

2344
01:40:19,120 --> 01:40:22,040
Speaker 5: So have you ever flip around channels and you see

2345
01:40:22,080 --> 01:40:24,439
Speaker 5: maybe a reality show about a juvie facility or whatever,

2346
01:40:24,520 --> 01:40:27,320
Speaker 5: and you have to remind yourself. Wait, I can't pass

2347
01:40:27,400 --> 01:40:29,400
Speaker 5: judgment on them. I had to do the same thing.

2348
01:40:29,479 --> 01:40:31,800
Speaker 10: Oh, totally, and they'll remind me of it too. I

2349
01:40:31,800 --> 01:40:32,719
Speaker 10: don't know why you're laughing.

2350
01:40:32,840 --> 01:40:33,200
Speaker 8: That was you.

2351
01:40:33,280 --> 01:40:35,439
Speaker 10: I'm like, oh man, I'm sorry. And then I couldn't

2352
01:40:35,479 --> 01:40:37,200
Speaker 10: go to any parties. I had to tell people why.

2353
01:40:37,240 --> 01:40:39,800
Speaker 10: My parents would never just let me say I can't go.

2354
01:40:40,080 --> 01:40:41,800
Speaker 10: They would say, tell them why you can't go.

2355
01:40:42,040 --> 01:40:44,920
Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, damn, Well, so you couldn't leave the

2356
01:40:44,920 --> 01:40:46,800
Speaker 5: house or could you go to school or no? It

2357
01:40:46,840 --> 01:40:47,520
Speaker 5: was summertime.

2358
01:40:47,680 --> 01:40:50,080
Speaker 10: Yeah, I couldn't leave the house, and my dad made

2359
01:40:50,120 --> 01:40:51,800
Speaker 10: me do homework, which he made me do anyway, but

2360
01:40:51,840 --> 01:40:54,280
Speaker 10: he gave me extra stuff. Man, it was terrible. Don't

2361
01:40:54,280 --> 01:40:58,040
Speaker 10: shop with from JZ Penny, don't shop look from anyway, Yeah, anywhere,

2362
01:40:58,120 --> 01:40:59,759
Speaker 10: They'll do it from anywhere. It's bad decision.

2363
01:41:00,479 --> 01:41:03,839
Speaker 5: Duly noted, Yeah, Frog, that was the worst.

2364
01:41:03,920 --> 01:41:07,400
Speaker 1: As a kid. My dad would always make me tell

2365
01:41:07,520 --> 01:41:08,080
Speaker 1: like my friends.

2366
01:41:08,080 --> 01:41:11,040
Speaker 12: I'd get in trouble, which is pretty regular, and kids

2367
01:41:11,080 --> 01:41:13,439
Speaker 12: would come knock on the door and I would open

2368
01:41:13,439 --> 01:41:14,599
Speaker 12: the door and be like, yeah, I can't come out

2369
01:41:14,640 --> 01:41:15,720
Speaker 12: right now, and my dad would go.

2370
01:41:15,760 --> 01:41:17,960
Speaker 1: Tell him why.

2371
01:41:18,160 --> 01:41:20,040
Speaker 12: I'm like, no, I don't want to tell him why,

2372
01:41:20,280 --> 01:41:22,160
Speaker 12: and he's like, if you don't, I'm gonna He would

2373
01:41:22,160 --> 01:41:24,040
Speaker 12: come to the door and tell them why. I'm like, why,

2374
01:41:24,400 --> 01:41:26,160
Speaker 12: why can't I just say I can't come out right now?

2375
01:41:26,320 --> 01:41:28,400
Speaker 12: And why do I have to be humiliated in front

2376
01:41:28,400 --> 01:41:28,880
Speaker 12: of my friends?

2377
01:41:28,880 --> 01:41:31,679
Speaker 5: Because he wanted you to understand now, wanted you, Gandi

2378
01:41:31,720 --> 01:41:34,240
Speaker 5: to understand why this was happening. There was a reason

2379
01:41:34,240 --> 01:41:37,040
Speaker 5: I wasn't kids any reason. It's well, I don't know.

2380
01:41:37,280 --> 01:41:39,839
Speaker 5: I did may yeah I did. Maybe for Gandhi.

2381
01:41:40,000 --> 01:41:42,360
Speaker 10: It was embarrassing. It was horrible. I was a little

2382
01:41:42,360 --> 01:41:44,040
Speaker 10: shoplifter and I did tell all my friends I was

2383
01:41:44,080 --> 01:41:45,920
Speaker 10: a little shoplifter. Was so stupid.

2384
01:41:46,479 --> 01:41:48,080
Speaker 1: Tell you tell your friends you're a thief?

2385
01:41:48,680 --> 01:41:57,040
Speaker 5: Like dude, Wow, lie twenties Lisa, Uh, Lisa, what's going on?

2386
01:41:57,840 --> 01:41:58,080
Speaker 8: Hi?

2387
01:41:58,640 --> 01:42:02,360
Speaker 1: Elvis and everybody, how are you mind? We're doing well?

2388
01:42:02,400 --> 01:42:04,360
Speaker 5: Okay? So what happened? You were fourteen years old? And

2389
01:42:04,400 --> 01:42:05,080
Speaker 5: what did you do?

2390
01:42:06,600 --> 01:42:11,320
Speaker 23: I took my parents' car out. They had just gotten new,

2391
01:42:11,400 --> 01:42:15,479
Speaker 23: a Suzoo Trooper, and I really really wanted to drive

2392
01:42:15,520 --> 01:42:17,960
Speaker 23: it so badly, so I had taken it out on

2393
01:42:18,439 --> 01:42:20,599
Speaker 23: back to school night when everybody was out of the house,

2394
01:42:20,720 --> 01:42:23,760
Speaker 23: and I kept taking it help for a year, and

2395
01:42:23,840 --> 01:42:27,080
Speaker 23: it wasn't until it turned fourteen in the summer and

2396
01:42:27,120 --> 01:42:31,400
Speaker 23: my mom caught me and was pissed. Horrible.

2397
01:42:32,520 --> 01:42:33,200
Speaker 1: What did they do?

2398
01:42:34,240 --> 01:42:37,519
Speaker 23: Oh? My dad gave me a beating right on the

2399
01:42:37,520 --> 01:42:40,759
Speaker 23: front when he got home. And yeah, I was grounded

2400
01:42:40,800 --> 01:42:43,439
Speaker 23: for the rest of the summer. And my best friend

2401
01:42:43,680 --> 01:42:47,479
Speaker 23: was grounded sort of too, just because she and I

2402
01:42:47,560 --> 01:42:50,719
Speaker 23: hung out all the time. So grounded for the summer,

2403
01:42:50,920 --> 01:42:54,799
Speaker 23: and uh, yeah it was. It was not the best decision,

2404
01:42:54,840 --> 01:42:56,760
Speaker 23: but we still talk about it to this day and

2405
01:42:57,400 --> 01:42:59,000
Speaker 23: kind of still can laugh over it.

2406
01:42:59,520 --> 01:43:01,320
Speaker 5: When I look out with the car when I was

2407
01:43:01,360 --> 01:43:04,080
Speaker 5: a kid. Uh, my parents had to come get me

2408
01:43:04,160 --> 01:43:09,479
Speaker 5: because the car didn't start. And you know what, I

2409
01:43:09,800 --> 01:43:11,479
Speaker 5: didn't get a beating on the front yard. I didn't

2410
01:43:11,479 --> 01:43:14,519
Speaker 5: get grounded. They said nothing to me.

2411
01:43:17,120 --> 01:43:18,679
Speaker 9: It was that's the worst.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, no, it was a total mind I mean

2413
01:43:21,160 --> 01:43:24,720
Speaker 5: it was like whoa. And then we got my dad.

2414
01:43:24,840 --> 01:43:26,320
Speaker 5: My dad gave me a hook and he says, I

2415
01:43:26,320 --> 01:43:30,639
Speaker 5: love you, and I went, oh, my good. I mean

2416
01:43:30,640 --> 01:43:33,360
Speaker 5: it was a total reversal in what they should have

2417
01:43:33,439 --> 01:43:35,439
Speaker 5: done right, But it was very, very effective.

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01:43:35,680 --> 01:43:37,720
Speaker 9: I told you. When my brother stole the car, he

2419
01:43:37,760 --> 01:43:41,519
Speaker 9: parked it in a different spot because that spot wasn't available.

2420
01:43:41,600 --> 01:43:44,120
Speaker 9: And I'm like, well, obviously they're gonna find out now,

2421
01:43:44,240 --> 01:43:46,760
Speaker 9: dumb ass, and they did. Like my dad was like,

2422
01:43:46,840 --> 01:43:47,760
Speaker 9: I didn't park there.

2423
01:43:48,760 --> 01:43:49,280
Speaker 1: That happened.

2424
01:43:51,280 --> 01:43:52,720
Speaker 5: Aliens picked it up and moved it.

2425
01:43:52,840 --> 01:43:54,440
Speaker 9: Dad.

2426
01:43:54,479 --> 01:43:57,360
Speaker 12: My wife Lisa stole her mom's car and hit a

2427
01:43:57,520 --> 01:43:59,960
Speaker 12: gutter cover to avoid a car that was driving down

2428
01:43:59,960 --> 01:44:01,800
Speaker 12: the side of the road the wrong way, and she

2429
01:44:01,840 --> 01:44:04,280
Speaker 12: had a call her She blew both both tires on

2430
01:44:04,320 --> 01:44:06,080
Speaker 12: the right side, call her mom to come get her, and.

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01:44:08,400 --> 01:44:13,080
Speaker 5: All right, thanks for listening. Now, I bet, Lisa, when

2432
01:44:13,080 --> 01:44:15,120
Speaker 5: you see in a zuzu, you go, you have these

2433
01:44:15,160 --> 01:44:20,600
Speaker 5: painful memories time you bet? I bet? Thanks thanks for

2434
01:44:20,640 --> 01:44:22,920
Speaker 5: calling on twenty fourth, Madeline. Then we'll move in along.

2435
01:44:23,040 --> 01:44:25,759
Speaker 12: Hey Madeline, Hi, how are you guys?

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01:44:26,040 --> 01:44:27,960
Speaker 5: We're doing okay. See I'm looking at the list of

2437
01:44:28,360 --> 01:44:31,920
Speaker 5: reasons why you were sort of grounded. But it was

2438
01:44:32,320 --> 01:44:34,479
Speaker 5: you didn't do anything bad except have bad grades. It

2439
01:44:34,520 --> 01:44:36,040
Speaker 5: wasn't like you stole the car or anything.

2440
01:44:36,120 --> 01:44:39,040
Speaker 33: Right, No, we just if you got anything lower than

2441
01:44:39,040 --> 01:44:41,200
Speaker 33: a sea in school, my parents would have ground you

2442
01:44:41,240 --> 01:44:42,320
Speaker 33: for the whole summer.

2443
01:44:43,280 --> 01:44:45,000
Speaker 32: And they were worse.

2444
01:44:45,200 --> 01:44:47,519
Speaker 33: So if one parent said you were grounded, the other

2445
01:44:47,560 --> 01:44:49,360
Speaker 33: one went along with it, we might have got a

2446
01:44:49,400 --> 01:44:50,400
Speaker 33: week off and that was it.

2447
01:44:50,600 --> 01:44:55,400
Speaker 5: Wow damn look at that well, Madeline. Wow, God, I'd

2448
01:44:55,439 --> 01:44:59,479
Speaker 5: never I'd still be grounded. I don't think I ever

2449
01:44:59,479 --> 01:45:01,240
Speaker 5: went a but I don't think ever went above us.

2450
01:45:01,400 --> 01:45:03,240
Speaker 5: And if if I did, it was a mistake from

2451
01:45:03,400 --> 01:45:06,520
Speaker 5: someone's part. All right, Madeline, thank you?

2452
01:45:06,560 --> 01:45:06,640
Speaker 8: Now?

2453
01:45:06,760 --> 01:45:09,599
Speaker 5: Did you hold on? Did it work? Did you strive

2454
01:45:09,680 --> 01:45:10,599
Speaker 5: to have better grades?

2455
01:45:11,000 --> 01:45:13,680
Speaker 33: Because I've been doing my first couple of years in

2456
01:45:13,760 --> 01:45:14,240
Speaker 33: high school.

2457
01:45:14,360 --> 01:45:15,960
Speaker 25: My last year I got a's and b's.

2458
01:45:16,200 --> 01:45:17,320
Speaker 9: Yeah, that's good.

2459
01:45:17,680 --> 01:45:20,040
Speaker 5: There you go, all right. You know, maybe they should

2460
01:45:20,080 --> 01:45:24,080
Speaker 5: have grounded me. All right, Madeline, thank you you too.

2461
01:45:24,280 --> 01:45:26,160
Speaker 5: I love how this text says. I'm so glad Elvis

2462
01:45:26,240 --> 01:45:32,840
Speaker 5: gave all these juvenile delinquents of career. Hey too, thank you.

2463
01:45:32,880 --> 01:45:37,040
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2474
01:46:04,560 --> 01:46:06,280
Speaker 18: Wait this dran in the morning.

2475
01:46:06,320 --> 01:46:09,360
Speaker 5: Soon all right, I want to take you someplace. Come

2476
01:46:09,400 --> 01:46:12,720
Speaker 5: with me ready. Yesterday went to this place called back

2477
01:46:12,760 --> 01:46:16,240
Speaker 5: Road Pizza. I liked a pizza, right, I ordered my pizza.

2478
01:46:16,800 --> 01:46:18,760
Speaker 5: They gave me that big steak with a number on

2479
01:46:18,840 --> 01:46:21,600
Speaker 5: it to take to the table. You know, I was

2480
01:46:21,680 --> 01:46:25,360
Speaker 5: number seventeen, and I went and sat down at the

2481
01:46:25,400 --> 01:46:29,360
Speaker 5: table outside. It was under a tree, and the breeze

2482
01:46:29,400 --> 01:46:33,000
Speaker 5: was blowing. It was just a beautiful day. I just

2483
01:46:33,000 --> 01:46:35,800
Speaker 5: wanted to sit there for hours. I was drinking an

2484
01:46:35,880 --> 01:46:38,920
Speaker 5: ice cold beer waiting for my pizza to come out.

2485
01:46:39,200 --> 01:46:42,080
Speaker 5: And I'm not really a beer fan, but it was

2486
01:46:42,200 --> 01:46:46,240
Speaker 5: just a perfect moment. It was great. Then the pizza

2487
01:46:46,320 --> 01:46:48,320
Speaker 5: came out. I had a couple of slices of that

2488
01:46:48,600 --> 01:46:51,080
Speaker 5: brought the rest home. But that moment I was having

2489
01:46:51,200 --> 01:46:54,439
Speaker 5: just with me. I was in a happy space, a

2490
01:46:54,439 --> 01:46:57,479
Speaker 5: happier space I've been in in a long time, from

2491
01:46:57,520 --> 01:47:02,080
Speaker 5: something as simple as a cold beer, a breeze, chirping birds, sunshine,

2492
01:47:02,080 --> 01:47:05,599
Speaker 5: blue skies. It was great. So Gandhi says, well, there's

2493
01:47:05,600 --> 01:47:07,880
Speaker 5: a name for that, that moment, And what did you

2494
01:47:07,880 --> 01:47:08,320
Speaker 5: say it is?

2495
01:47:08,720 --> 01:47:12,160
Speaker 10: Yeah, they're called glimmers. They're supposed to be the opposite

2496
01:47:12,160 --> 01:47:14,160
Speaker 10: of a trigger. So a trigger obviously sends you down

2497
01:47:14,160 --> 01:47:16,519
Speaker 10: a bad path, it makes you upset. A glimmer sends

2498
01:47:16,560 --> 01:47:19,240
Speaker 10: you down a happy path and makes you a little happier.

2499
01:47:18,960 --> 01:47:19,360
Speaker 2: In the day.

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01:47:20,360 --> 01:47:23,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, ice cold beer, pizza, blue sky's, birds, chirping. I

2501
01:47:23,960 --> 01:47:24,919
Speaker 5: was glimmered.

2502
01:47:25,120 --> 01:47:26,240
Speaker 9: That's nice.

2503
01:47:25,680 --> 01:47:27,840
Speaker 5: So when these things happened to you, you need to

2504
01:47:27,840 --> 01:47:31,160
Speaker 5: stop down and recognize them because you owe that to yourself. Like, oh,

2505
01:47:31,200 --> 01:47:34,840
Speaker 5: like Danielle for instance, is there something that triggers you

2506
01:47:34,960 --> 01:47:35,880
Speaker 5: but in a positive way.

2507
01:47:35,960 --> 01:47:39,000
Speaker 9: Yeah, like in the fall, the smell of the air,

2508
01:47:39,479 --> 01:47:41,400
Speaker 9: like you know, it's like, I don't know what it

2509
01:47:41,439 --> 01:47:43,000
Speaker 9: is about it, but if I go outside it on

2510
01:47:43,000 --> 01:47:46,800
Speaker 9: an October day, it takes me back to when the

2511
01:47:46,880 --> 01:47:50,200
Speaker 9: first time. This is gonna sound crazy, I actually called

2512
01:47:50,320 --> 01:47:53,719
Speaker 9: into Z one hundred in New York. I was walking

2513
01:47:53,760 --> 01:47:57,360
Speaker 9: to college. It was a crisp October day and I

2514
01:47:57,479 --> 01:48:00,479
Speaker 9: was on the air talking to whoever the dish was

2515
01:48:00,520 --> 01:48:03,840
Speaker 9: at the time, and in my mind it was the

2516
01:48:03,880 --> 01:48:06,040
Speaker 9: start of my career because they invited me to come

2517
01:48:06,120 --> 01:48:09,040
Speaker 9: up and visit. And I always remember the way that

2518
01:48:09,200 --> 01:48:12,360
Speaker 9: day smelled. So when on October day comes and I

2519
01:48:12,400 --> 01:48:15,120
Speaker 9: smell that chrisp October air, I think of it takes me.

2520
01:48:15,080 --> 01:48:17,559
Speaker 5: Back to that, and it brings you to today and

2521
01:48:17,600 --> 01:48:19,599
Speaker 5: here you're sitting in a chair into ZE one hundred. Yeah,

2522
01:48:19,600 --> 01:48:21,679
Speaker 5: it's crazy, Wow, how wild? So how many years ago

2523
01:48:21,760 --> 01:48:21,960
Speaker 5: was that?

2524
01:48:22,040 --> 01:48:25,880
Speaker 9: Oh my gosh, this scary twenty nine?

2525
01:48:25,960 --> 01:48:29,559
Speaker 5: Okay, so roughly thirty. Okay, listen to what you're what's

2526
01:48:29,560 --> 01:48:31,839
Speaker 5: happening in your brain. The brain's fabulous. By the way,

2527
01:48:31,960 --> 01:48:37,639
Speaker 5: something that happened thirty years ago. A simple whiff of

2528
01:48:38,000 --> 01:48:43,240
Speaker 5: October air is it's a positive glimmer. It's a trigger

2529
01:48:43,439 --> 01:48:46,519
Speaker 5: of great positive things for you. Isn't that great?

2530
01:48:46,600 --> 01:48:46,800
Speaker 6: Yeah?

2531
01:48:46,840 --> 01:48:47,400
Speaker 9: That's awesome.

2532
01:48:47,760 --> 01:48:49,120
Speaker 5: I love that we do that. We all have one.

2533
01:48:49,320 --> 01:48:50,800
Speaker 5: What about you, frog? You got one?

2534
01:48:51,200 --> 01:48:54,800
Speaker 12: When I smell suntan lotion and salt air together, it

2535
01:48:54,920 --> 01:48:56,040
Speaker 12: makes me happy.

2536
01:48:56,080 --> 01:48:57,080
Speaker 5: Wow, I get that.

2537
01:48:57,160 --> 01:48:58,240
Speaker 10: Yeah, that's a good one.

2538
01:48:58,320 --> 01:49:01,479
Speaker 5: Summer right, yep, it is. It's it's a little thing

2539
01:49:01,560 --> 01:49:03,920
Speaker 5: that's like in your brain. It's been there for years.

2540
01:49:04,120 --> 01:49:07,360
Speaker 5: You can't really explain it. Scotty Bees is interesting. Scotty

2541
01:49:07,439 --> 01:49:11,559
Speaker 5: Bee is totally glimmered when he finds himself doing this thing.

2542
01:49:11,920 --> 01:49:14,920
Speaker 31: Tell him what it Isn't having for the teddy berries?

2543
01:49:15,000 --> 01:49:16,920
Speaker 31: Oh no, no, no, that was only okay, just check it.

2544
01:49:18,000 --> 01:49:20,000
Speaker 31: I like to sit out on the porch with a

2545
01:49:20,040 --> 01:49:23,559
Speaker 31: big solo cup full of cherries being cherries and eat

2546
01:49:23,600 --> 01:49:26,680
Speaker 31: them and spit the pits into the bushes, and that

2547
01:49:27,520 --> 01:49:29,240
Speaker 31: just makes me think of summer. It's such a short

2548
01:49:29,280 --> 01:49:32,559
Speaker 31: season too. Cherry season is short, so I enjoy it

2549
01:49:32,560 --> 01:49:33,680
Speaker 31: as much as I possibly can.

2550
01:49:33,720 --> 01:49:35,800
Speaker 5: And I love it so much. So as we talk

2551
01:49:35,840 --> 01:49:38,160
Speaker 5: about these, you're thinking about your own As you're driving

2552
01:49:38,160 --> 01:49:40,080
Speaker 5: to work or whatever you're doing. You talk about this

2553
01:49:40,080 --> 01:49:42,120
Speaker 5: when you get to work. This is actually a fun conversation,

2554
01:49:42,200 --> 01:49:44,599
Speaker 5: as simple as it is as it is, what about

2555
01:49:44,600 --> 01:49:45,400
Speaker 5: you scary.

2556
01:49:46,120 --> 01:49:49,519
Speaker 13: Top down on my way out to Montalk or to

2557
01:49:49,520 --> 01:49:52,040
Speaker 13: the Jersey Shore and pulling over on the side of

2558
01:49:52,120 --> 01:49:55,240
Speaker 13: the road for a lobster roll, having a lobster roll

2559
01:49:55,280 --> 01:49:57,920
Speaker 13: and then eating that lobster roll? Is I'm driving and

2560
01:49:58,000 --> 01:50:02,280
Speaker 13: of just and just the breeze. That is a simple

2561
01:50:02,479 --> 01:50:05,439
Speaker 13: look at you. It takes you just thinking about it

2562
01:50:05,479 --> 01:50:07,479
Speaker 13: is taking you to a place. What about you, gandhi?

2563
01:50:08,080 --> 01:50:08,679
Speaker 17: Oh man.

2564
01:50:09,360 --> 01:50:11,879
Speaker 10: I love when I walk outside and I can actually

2565
01:50:11,920 --> 01:50:15,400
Speaker 10: see stars because like living where we all live, you

2566
01:50:15,439 --> 01:50:18,120
Speaker 10: can't really see any at all, so I get really excited.

2567
01:50:18,439 --> 01:50:21,000
Speaker 10: I love when there's a dog and it comes over

2568
01:50:21,240 --> 01:50:24,280
Speaker 10: and sits with you and does that little and flops.

2569
01:50:25,040 --> 01:50:25,760
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2570
01:50:25,760 --> 01:50:28,240
Speaker 10: And I really like that first snow of the year

2571
01:50:28,560 --> 01:50:31,519
Speaker 10: when it's actually coating the ground and you walk outside

2572
01:50:31,520 --> 01:50:34,519
Speaker 10: and there's that silence because it's all muffle.

2573
01:50:34,600 --> 01:50:37,679
Speaker 9: I love that that first snow that after that, Yeah.

2574
01:50:37,479 --> 01:50:38,880
Speaker 10: This is the first one. The rest of them can

2575
01:50:38,920 --> 01:50:39,320
Speaker 10: go to hell.

2576
01:50:39,520 --> 01:50:42,960
Speaker 5: Sucks after that, You're right that the snow, the snow

2577
01:50:43,080 --> 01:50:47,000
Speaker 5: has that well, it sucks noise in. I mean it's

2578
01:50:47,080 --> 01:50:50,800
Speaker 5: it's like soundproofing for the earth. What about you, straight, Nate,

2579
01:50:51,240 --> 01:50:52,120
Speaker 5: Mine is.

2580
01:50:58,120 --> 01:50:58,679
Speaker 18: In my head.

2581
01:51:00,280 --> 01:51:01,280
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no.

2582
01:51:01,120 --> 01:51:06,879
Speaker 5: No, please please disregard the jury, world, disregard move forward,

2583
01:51:07,120 --> 01:51:09,960
Speaker 5: move forward. Nay, not my station.

2584
01:51:10,880 --> 01:51:13,960
Speaker 7: But my favorite thing is when you're driving and it's

2585
01:51:14,000 --> 01:51:16,599
Speaker 7: usually in a place you've never been before, and then

2586
01:51:16,600 --> 01:51:19,879
Speaker 7: you're just driving and then you happen across this vista

2587
01:51:20,120 --> 01:51:23,120
Speaker 7: and it looks like a Vincent van Go painting and

2588
01:51:23,160 --> 01:51:27,599
Speaker 7: you just realize, wow, this is such a beautiful world.

2589
01:51:28,040 --> 01:51:30,719
Speaker 7: And it's happens for just an instant and you realize

2590
01:51:30,720 --> 01:51:33,760
Speaker 7: that this is everywhere. There's so many different spots where

2591
01:51:33,760 --> 01:51:36,599
Speaker 7: you're just driving or in nature and you just see

2592
01:51:36,640 --> 01:51:40,080
Speaker 7: something that's out of a painting and you realize.

2593
01:51:39,600 --> 01:51:42,320
Speaker 1: Wow, this is a beautiful world we're in. You know,

2594
01:51:43,400 --> 01:51:43,920
Speaker 1: I love that.

2595
01:51:44,280 --> 01:51:46,639
Speaker 5: So, I mean, like I said before, as simple as

2596
01:51:46,760 --> 01:51:50,599
Speaker 5: these things are, they really are everything if you think

2597
01:51:50,640 --> 01:51:52,519
Speaker 5: about it. These are the moments of happiness you get

2598
01:51:52,800 --> 01:51:54,960
Speaker 5: if you're having like a really crapole a day. You know,

2599
01:51:55,640 --> 01:51:57,439
Speaker 5: it's like if one of these things just kind of

2600
01:51:57,439 --> 01:51:58,920
Speaker 5: falls out of heaven and hits you in the face

2601
01:51:58,960 --> 01:52:01,719
Speaker 5: and says, hey, wait a minute, here's something cool here. Yeah,

2602
01:52:01,920 --> 01:52:03,759
Speaker 5: you got it. You have to be aware of it.

2603
01:52:03,880 --> 01:52:07,080
Speaker 5: My nineteen is Nicole. Let's go talk to Nicole. Hey,

2604
01:52:07,080 --> 01:52:07,759
Speaker 5: what's up, Nicole?

2605
01:52:09,160 --> 01:52:10,040
Speaker 19: Hi, how are you?

2606
01:52:10,520 --> 01:52:12,880
Speaker 5: We're doing really well. I don't know. I don't know

2607
01:52:12,960 --> 01:52:14,840
Speaker 5: how we fell into this hole here, but wait, wait,

2608
01:52:14,840 --> 01:52:17,320
Speaker 5: it's kind of an interesting conversation. Go ahead, Well, what

2609
01:52:17,520 --> 01:52:19,920
Speaker 5: did you want to tell us?

2610
01:52:20,520 --> 01:52:25,000
Speaker 19: I love the smell of hot clay during this springtime

2611
01:52:25,080 --> 01:52:27,519
Speaker 19: that's on a baseball field. It just takes me back

2612
01:52:27,560 --> 01:52:31,120
Speaker 19: to my softball playing days and it just makes me

2613
01:52:31,160 --> 01:52:33,280
Speaker 19: so happy. I don't really know how to describe it,

2614
01:52:33,320 --> 01:52:36,880
Speaker 19: but I remember my softball mitt smelling like it, and

2615
01:52:36,960 --> 01:52:38,120
Speaker 19: it just makes me so happy.

2616
01:52:38,840 --> 01:52:39,719
Speaker 9: That's nice.

2617
01:52:40,160 --> 01:52:44,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, the brain slowly dies as we get older,

2618
01:52:44,120 --> 01:52:45,880
Speaker 5: but there are things in our brain that will live forever,

2619
01:52:45,880 --> 01:52:48,160
Speaker 5: and I'm hoping that's one that will live forever for you, Nicole.

2620
01:52:48,200 --> 01:52:49,880
Speaker 5: I love it. Thanks for listening to us.

2621
01:52:50,000 --> 01:52:52,360
Speaker 19: Yeah, I have a great day everyone.

2622
01:52:53,200 --> 01:52:53,599
Speaker 1: I love it.

2623
01:52:54,080 --> 01:52:56,200
Speaker 5: I'm gonna go. Let me have a nice cold beer

2624
01:52:56,200 --> 01:53:01,639
Speaker 5: for breakfast. I don't know, maybe not all right. Shows done,

2625
01:53:01,720 --> 01:53:04,360
Speaker 5: Let's get out of here until next time. Say peace out, everybody,

2626
01:53:04,800 --> 01:53:06,000
Speaker 5: Peace out, everybody,