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Speaker 1: As time went on, I never told him that I

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Speaker 1: was still receiving calls from the woman. She even sent

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Speaker 1: He finally came clean and apologized. I was so hurt

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Speaker 1: I forgave him and we're working on our marriage, but

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Speaker 1: we still have our moments. The problem is now this

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Speaker 1: social media pages. My husband has made it clear that

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Speaker 1: he does not want this woman. He said he was

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Speaker 1: one way maybe if you do beat her behind. Since

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Speaker 1: you beat his behind, I'm not opposed to it at all,

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Speaker 1: She's taunting you, she's stalking you. She's throwing her affair

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Speaker 1: What is he doing to stop it all? I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know there's things called restraining orders. Is he helping

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Speaker 1: to the whole thing. I blame him for a lot

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Speaker 1: I think you missed a piece of information here, Darling.

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Speaker 1: She said, what, Darling, that album gonna go back over

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Speaker 1: the letter, But she said that what he doesn't know

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Speaker 1: damn sure, Shelly. This man ain't cheated on you, but

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Speaker 1: So let me take another approach to this. Yet, my

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Speaker 1: hell for hill. She ain't got to do that, but

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Speaker 1: that his wife and mother too been married eleven years.

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Speaker 1: He hadn't had it out with him. He denied it.

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Speaker 1: I think you should. But here's some smarter ways to

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Speaker 1: Posted on her job brought in social media that she yeah,

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Speaker 1: for that. Um, go ahead, star. Would it be no? No?

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Speaker 1: see notify her church. That's that's posted in the littim

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Speaker 1: it's easy. It's easy. It's easy to have a church sister. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: drop this information in that sister Bernice Ferguson is a

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Speaker 1: and yeah and just you could get on social media.

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Speaker 1: You do her on social media? Ship stop she can't

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Speaker 1: stop all in post see go on her face, find

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Speaker 1: all her friends. Now you sending everything to her friends? God,

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Speaker 1: have this happened to you? What just somebody just sending

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Speaker 1: damn Facebook. Just hes just off the huk. Ain't nobody

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Speaker 1: I'm just up in here there. I'm down to slow

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