1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: All right, time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:08,160 Speaker 1: If you need advice on relationships, on dating, work, sex, parenting, 3 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:11,640 Speaker 1: and more, Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey 4 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:15,200 Speaker 1: FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading 5 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, just like we're gonna 6 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:21,120 Speaker 1: read this one right here today. Okay, all right, this time, 7 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 1: let's buckle up, let's hold on tight. We gotta fellow you. 8 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter subject, why is her husband so insecure? Dear Stephen, 9 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen, Shirley. I am happily married and my wife 10 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 1: and I have two kids. The problem is I have 11 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 1: a female friend from college. My female friend is also 12 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:44,840 Speaker 1: married with two kids, and she lives in another state. 13 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: We hardly ever see each other, but we do keep 14 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:51,599 Speaker 1: in touch. Over fifteen years ago, she and I had sex. 15 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 1: My wife knows we were intimate in the past because 16 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 1: we all went to the same college. The other day, 17 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 1: I was talking to my friend on the phone. We 18 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 1: chatted about reality TV shows, I congratulated her on her anniversary, 19 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 1: and we talked about our children. We didn't talk about 20 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 1: anything that we couldn't discuss in front of our spouses. 21 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 1: My wife is cool, but she's no fool. She knows 22 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 1: she has nothing to worry about. My friend's husband is 23 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 1: nuts so cool. He got upset and called my house. 24 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:25,279 Speaker 1: He spoke to my wife about my friendship with his wife. 25 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: He was hoping my wife would be upset, but she 26 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:30,680 Speaker 1: was not. I think he should talk to his wife 27 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 1: instead of calling my house and texting me. I shouldn't 28 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 1: have to deal with all of the FU and f 29 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 1: your family texas, he sends me. I know, so I 30 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:43,399 Speaker 1: cut my friend off completely. I changed my number and 31 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 1: blocked her on social media. My wife told me but 32 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:48,560 Speaker 1: that this lady is my friend, so I should not 33 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: just cut her off like that. What do you think 34 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 1: is cutting her off the right thing to do. If 35 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 1: my wife doesn't have a problem with our friendship, why 36 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: should he. I don't understand why her husband is so upset. 37 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 1: Is so secure, You know, he might be insecure, But 38 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 1: it doesn't matter whether he's insecure or not. He has 39 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 1: a problem with you talking to his wife, simple as that, 40 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: and that is the bottom line. Whether your wife is 41 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 1: okay with it or not, he has a problem with it. 42 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 1: Because you don't know what's going on in their house. 43 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:19,639 Speaker 1: You don't know what she's telling him. You don't know. 44 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: If he knows that you guys had an intimate relationship 45 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 1: in college, all that is probably messing with him and 46 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:29,240 Speaker 1: he doesn't want that to ever happen again. He doesn't 47 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 1: like the fact that another man is talking to his wife. 48 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: You got to give him that you did the right thing. 49 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 1: I'm in agreement with you. Cut it off. That's the 50 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 1: best thing to do. Sorry that you're friends, but she'll 51 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: have to understand that if she's truly your friend, that 52 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:43,639 Speaker 1: it's best for her marriage, and it's best for your 53 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 1: marriage as well, even though your wife is cool with it. 54 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 1: Just cut it off. Form a bond with your wife. 55 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:51,240 Speaker 1: If you need to talk about TV reality shows, you 56 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 1: guys talk about that. Whatever you guys need to talk about, 57 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 1: do it with your wife. It's just dangerous ground when 58 00:02:56,240 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 1: you form friendships with the opposite sex because it can 59 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:03,240 Speaker 1: lead to other things. It doesn't always do that, but 60 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:05,359 Speaker 1: it can lead to other things. And that's I think 61 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 1: what her husband is talking about. Yeah, like I said, 62 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,640 Speaker 1: he may be insecure, but it really doesn't matter. Stop 63 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 1: talking to his wife. And you've done that, so you're 64 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 1: you know, okay, Sorry that you lost your friend though, Steve, 65 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 1: I can't, I can't, I can't, I can't leave this letter. 66 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:29,839 Speaker 1: What's wrong? I mean, dude, what's what's what's wrong with you? Now? Doc? 67 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 1: Man and man, let's take Sherley out of this for 68 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 1: a minute. You should just wrote this letter, dear Steve, 69 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 1: to drag Sherley into this fault. Man, we're talking about 70 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 1: the problem between you and another man. What you're talking 71 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 1: to Sherley about this fault? What you're talking to your 72 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 1: wife bout it? Fault? The problem between you and another man? Damn, Doc? 73 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 1: How old are you and this fifteen years ago? You're 74 00:03:57,680 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: in college? You ate to you in your late thirties. 75 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 1: You're thirty five. You got to be nuts. Let me 76 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 1: tell you why you open the ladder with I'm happily married, 77 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 1: my wife, we got two kids. The problem is I 78 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 1: got a female friend from college. Well, damn that on 79 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 1: the problem. We got to leviate the problem. My female 80 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:19,720 Speaker 1: friend is also married with two kids. She living in 81 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 1: another state. We hardly get to see each other. And dog, 82 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 1: are you listening to yourself? We hardly ever see each 83 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 1: other see each other. For one I'm just asking this 84 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 1: just a question. What did you see each other for 85 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:34,159 Speaker 1: what you're talking on the phone? What you need to 86 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:37,279 Speaker 1: see each other? Fault? But we do keep in touch. 87 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:42,040 Speaker 1: Here we go over fifteen years ago. She and I 88 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 1: had sex. My wife knows we were intimate in the 89 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 1: past because we all went to the same college. What 90 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 1: you're trying to tell me, though, that the reason you 91 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:53,599 Speaker 1: had sex with hood because oh, y'all went to college together. 92 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:56,280 Speaker 1: You know how many chicks I went to college with 93 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:59,480 Speaker 1: I wanted and I couldn't get. So if that was 94 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 1: the rule we went to college together, you know how 95 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 1: much sex out of hand? Well were in college? Come on, 96 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:11,320 Speaker 1: man Berndy's Park, but Man House in Little this girl 97 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 1: in college, Man, I could go down to the list 98 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 1: of girls I was in little when in college and 99 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 1: gave me the time of day. But we was in college. 100 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 1: We cat set now. The other day I was talking 101 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 1: to him, my friend on the phone. We chatted about 102 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:29,039 Speaker 1: reality shows. I congratulate on Anniversity. We talked about our cheerity. 103 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:31,039 Speaker 1: We didn't talked about the anything. We couldn't discuss them 104 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:33,600 Speaker 1: front ousepous. But the key to this whole thing is 105 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 1: we didn't talk about nothing. We could discuss them one 106 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:38,720 Speaker 1: our front our spouse, But spouse wasn't no phone. No, 107 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 1: you write anything you want this letter, but what your 108 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 1: wife and her husband was not on this phone Callcuse 109 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 1: we're just going on what you're telling us. My wife 110 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 1: is cool, but she's no fool. She knows she has 111 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 1: nothing to worry about. My friend's husband is not so cool. 112 00:05:57,400 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 1: He got upset and called my house. He spoke to 113 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:03,599 Speaker 1: my wife about my friendship with his wife. He was 114 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 1: hoping my wife would be upset, but she was not. 115 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 1: You don't understand this. See, bro, you calling his wife? 116 00:06:11,480 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 1: He figure I can call your wife. See once you're 117 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:18,839 Speaker 1: talking to the man wife. The man got the right 118 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 1: to talk to your wife. You see that? That's all 119 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 1: this is? This fail. I have seen this played out 120 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 1: a lot of time. Yeah, and the need of you 121 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 1: getting mad by dude talking to your wife. Are you 122 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:34,920 Speaker 1: over there talking to his wife? That's how this work. Now, 123 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:37,359 Speaker 1: I think he should talk to his wife instead of 124 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 1: calling my house and texting me. You're looking he whipping 125 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 1: your ass holding right there? Better be lucky. We just 126 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 1: got on the texting and talking. Ain't got your ass? Yes, 127 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 1: take us out, will be back and disgust your ass 128 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:59,159 Speaker 1: you're listening show, all right, Steve, back to the Strawberry Letters, 129 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:02,159 Speaker 1: subject white is her husband so insecure? And this was 130 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:04,400 Speaker 1: written by a man. And this man then wrote in 131 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 1: here when he opened the letter, that I'm happily married, 132 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 1: my wife and I got two kids. The problem is 133 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 1: I have a female friend from college. Okay, we've identified 134 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 1: the problem. You know it's a problem. So now what 135 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 1: what you're writing the letter for? Bro? I mean on 136 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 1: the real man, just say his business man, the man. 137 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 1: You out of line on this one, not now you 138 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 1: and your Now, she's married, she got two kids, she 139 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 1: lived in another state. Y'all hardly ever see each other, 140 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:35,760 Speaker 1: but we do keep in touch. Over fifteen years ago, 141 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 1: she and I had sex. We were intermitted in the 142 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 1: past because we all went to the same college. I 143 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 1: can name the kicks. I went to college and we 144 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 1: didn't have sex. Beneath Paul in the Severn, Bernie, I 145 00:07:57,720 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 1: thought you were trying to get me any trick that 146 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 1: it was her name again, that's what hesitate, hesitated, hesitated. 147 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:08,920 Speaker 1: But let me say this, Steve, let me ask no. 148 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 1: I ain't no ask me nothing. I can't ask you 149 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 1: a question ahead because you know a lot of people. 150 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 1: There are two schools of thought of us. A lot 151 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 1: of people think that you can have a friendship with 152 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 1: a member of the opposite sack. You didn't already have 153 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 1: sex with him. That ain't friends now fifteen years ago. 154 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: I don't give a damn out there was fifty years ago. 155 00:08:28,400 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 1: You had sex with him. You didn't elevated the friendship 156 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 1: to somewhere else. Yea, it is somewhere since you wanted it, 157 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:40,199 Speaker 1: then what's stopping you from wanting not? You do remember 158 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 1: having sex with her, don't you ask? Because you mentioned 159 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:46,200 Speaker 1: it in the letter? Yes, and now your husband, her 160 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 1: husband got a problem with it. My friend husband is 161 00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:52,559 Speaker 1: not so cool. He got upset and called my house, 162 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 1: spoke to my wife out our friendship with his wife. 163 00:08:55,160 --> 00:08:57,080 Speaker 1: He was hoping my wife would be upset, but she 164 00:08:57,200 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 1: was not. Not listen to this part. I think he 165 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:02,959 Speaker 1: should talk to his wife instead of calling my house 166 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 1: and texting me. No, no, partner, you call his wife. 167 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 1: This man now has the right to call your wife. 168 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 1: That's how this work. Ain't. No, you can't call my 169 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 1: wife no more, but you steady calling mine. Hold up partners, 170 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 1: That ain't how this work. And you text it. You 171 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: can't text my girl and I can't text your girl. 172 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 1: How this go work? He's talking about this texting though, 173 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:33,679 Speaker 1: I'm surprised it's just texting. What about what he's saying 174 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 1: right here? I you and if your family? Where's the 175 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:44,960 Speaker 1: ass for me? And this lift? That's what's listen, that's mixed. 176 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 1: I'm reading this matter. I don't see ass with me 177 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:54,079 Speaker 1: here nowhere anywhere, because we once you tell me if 178 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 1: me and my family here come, then we got to 179 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:03,079 Speaker 1: get to doing what you're said. I don't understand this 180 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 1: right here. But he's so damn stupid. So then he 181 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 1: says he don't understand all the FU and F your 182 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 1: family Texas he wanted you this Jesus called warning shot. 183 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:18,839 Speaker 1: Hey man, you and your family now the F your 184 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:22,719 Speaker 1: family means you interfering with mine? Yeah yea. So now 185 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:25,440 Speaker 1: since you don't give a damn behind, I'm running mine 186 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:28,960 Speaker 1: over here. I can't possibly care how you running yours 187 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:31,719 Speaker 1: over there, So now here come to F you and 188 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 1: F your family. I'm telling you this dude is clean. 189 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 1: The dude that's insecure is clean, and you better think 190 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 1: the Lord is just Texan. One more time, where's the man? 191 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:51,200 Speaker 1: Where is the ass in this letter because ninety percent 192 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 1: of the men I know, I know, and maybe I 193 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:57,680 Speaker 1: know the wrong type of men, but the nine percent 194 00:10:57,760 --> 00:11:02,840 Speaker 1: of men I know, it's all then elevated this looking 195 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 1: in different cities. Yeah, because we're trying to find somewhere 196 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 1: to meet right now now. So I cut my friend 197 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 1: off complete because you know why you cut him off completely, 198 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:16,079 Speaker 1: because you know you're wrong, because you know the man 199 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 1: defied the warning shot, So you didn't cut your friend 200 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 1: off completely. I changed my number in block turn on 201 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 1: social media that he was to watch this right here. 202 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 1: My wife told me that this lady is my friend, 203 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 1: so I should not just cut off like that. What 204 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 1: do you think your wife's gonna get your ass? Yeah? 205 00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 1: And I see this is why a woman have to 206 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:38,240 Speaker 1: step up and be a woman. Now. See, real women 207 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 1: have to Women have a different responsibility than men. Real 208 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:44,840 Speaker 1: women go, okay, let me keep my husband out of danger. 209 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 1: Let me keep him out of harm's way. That's why 210 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 1: a lot of women don't come home with news to 211 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 1: their husband about something a man saying to him a job, 212 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 1: or something that a man saying to him at a party, 213 00:11:57,040 --> 00:11:59,719 Speaker 1: because she know, I gotta protect my husband because just 214 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 1: cause the man law, he gonna go down here and 215 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 1: do something. This lame. So now this is where your 216 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 1: wife need to stop all this. I don't see why 217 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 1: you can't be her friend because she ignant too. Now 218 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 1: both y'all eignant. Ask people that's married together, and somebody 219 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:16,360 Speaker 1: gonna get their ask on ignance. So he is and 220 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 1: his wife, okay, both of them. Now it's cutting her 221 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:22,800 Speaker 1: off the right thing to do. If my wife doesn't 222 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 1: have a problem with our friendship, why should he? Why 223 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:29,439 Speaker 1: should he have a problem with it because you screwed 224 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 1: his wife. The whole reason he got a problem with 225 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 1: you is because you screwed his wife. Yet well, back 226 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 1: in the day she wasn't his wife. I don't give 227 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 1: a day we find out matter, we know who it is. Yeah, 228 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 1: oh but now y'all talking, So now we automatically got 229 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 1: to wonder what he talking about? And why are you listening? 230 00:12:55,400 --> 00:12:58,079 Speaker 1: All right? Well, I think we get the message. Thank you, Steve. 231 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:00,839 Speaker 1: All right, post your comments on today a Strawberry Letter 232 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:04,560 Speaker 1: at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook, and please 233 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:07,680 Speaker 1: don't forget to check out the Strawberry Letter podcast where 234 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 1: you ask well on demand. Of course, coming up at 235 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 1: forty six after the hours from trending mis Universe News. 236 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:17,199 Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to 237 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 1: The Dave Harvey Morning Show.