WEBVTT - I’m Worth a Million... (S3 E10 "All or Nothing") 0:00:01.600 --> 0:00:04.880 Hi, I'm Kristin Davis, and I want to know are 0:00:04.880 --> 0:00:11.239 you a Charlotte? Hello, everybody. We are just going to 0:00:11.320 --> 0:00:14.920 have a little recap of All or Nothing. It's episode 0:00:14.960 --> 0:00:18.439 three ten. It aired August thirteenth, in the year two 0:00:18.440 --> 0:00:22.760 thousand and This is a really, really, really really good episode. 0:00:22.760 --> 0:00:25.880 It's one of my all time favorite episodes. Directed by 0:00:26.239 --> 0:00:29.159 Charles McDougal, one of my favorite directors, and written by 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:32.559 Jenny Banks, one of my favorite writers. And in this 0:00:32.680 --> 0:00:36.360 episode we have great people. Of course, we have Corbett 0:00:36.360 --> 0:00:40.320 it's playing Aiden. We've got Kyle playing Trey, we have 0:00:40.440 --> 0:00:45.480 Franny playing Bunny. We have Josh Hamilton playing George, whom 0:00:45.479 --> 0:00:47.840 I love so much. He's a great actor, you guys, 0:00:48.240 --> 0:00:51.880 and his part's really funny. So this is the episode. 0:00:51.920 --> 0:00:54.160 The gist of this episode is that this is when 0:00:54.280 --> 0:00:57.640 Carrie has been cheating on Big. She has not confessed 0:00:57.840 --> 0:01:00.320 to any of the friends that she has been doing this. 0:01:01.000 --> 0:01:04.560 She is trying to just kind of move along with 0:01:04.600 --> 0:01:07.440 Aiden as though it didn't happen, and focus on the 0:01:07.440 --> 0:01:09.760 fact that she has a wonderful boyfriend. And then she'd 0:01:09.800 --> 0:01:12.560 be walking along and she'll have these flashbacks of the 0:01:12.600 --> 0:01:15.800 sex with big, and then she's like, oh God. And 0:01:15.959 --> 0:01:18.680 she's really really good when she has these, because I mean, 0:01:18.720 --> 0:01:21.840 we've all been there, and she's you know, internally riddled 0:01:21.880 --> 0:01:26.640 with guilt and trying to kind of somehow muddle her 0:01:26.680 --> 0:01:29.240 way through, and she's like, I'm never doing it again, 0:01:29.440 --> 0:01:32.039 and you know whatnot, so let's. 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:32.960 Talk about it. 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:39.040 Basically, what happens is she's got these flashbacks. We come, 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:42.440 we start at Samantha's new apartment in the meatpacking district. 0:01:42.720 --> 0:01:46.160 We're having this little like party. 0:01:46.360 --> 0:01:48.960 Where one of the really funny, very. 0:01:49.120 --> 0:01:53.040 Time type things we're talking about is how you can 0:01:53.080 --> 0:01:56.360 have anything delivered, because Samantha says, I said, oh, did 0:01:56.400 --> 0:01:58.240 you make these whatever we're eating, and she says, no, 0:01:58.320 --> 0:02:00.720 I have them delivered, just like the dinner and the 0:02:00.840 --> 0:02:03.920 drinks and the DVDs. And we're like, oh, you can 0:02:04.000 --> 0:02:07.240 have DVD's delivered, Like it's it's so much the year 0:02:07.280 --> 0:02:10.359 two thousand, it really makes me laugh. So she's like, yes, 0:02:10.400 --> 0:02:13.120 you can have anything you want delivered. Yesterday I had 0:02:13.160 --> 0:02:15.920 condoms delivered. And then someone says, I hope you didn't 0:02:15.919 --> 0:02:19.880 have sex with the delivery guy and she's like no, anyway, 0:02:20.160 --> 0:02:23.120 it's pretty entertaining, and she goes to the window. Samantha 0:02:23.120 --> 0:02:24.960 goes to the window and her this is her beautiful 0:02:25.000 --> 0:02:27.560 new apartment in the meatpacking district that she bought. She 0:02:27.600 --> 0:02:30.440 goes to the window and she opens the window and 0:02:30.480 --> 0:02:33.600 she kind of shouts to the meatpacking district like. 0:02:33.720 --> 0:02:35.239 We've got it all. 0:02:35.680 --> 0:02:38.680 Basically, she wakes up the next morning, she has these 0:02:38.800 --> 0:02:41.799 huge windows, the sun is shining on her face, and 0:02:41.960 --> 0:02:46.080 she is sick. Samantha is sick. We have rarely seen 0:02:46.120 --> 0:02:50.960 Samantha sick. And she goes to try to shut the 0:02:51.040 --> 0:02:54.600 curtains and she breaks her curtain rode. It falls on 0:02:54.720 --> 0:02:57.080 her because she's kind of delirious because she's got a fever. 0:02:57.760 --> 0:03:00.480 And so then it's like, breaks my heart. This whole 0:03:00.680 --> 0:03:04.000 montage breaks my heart. She starts going through her black 0:03:04.000 --> 0:03:07.360 book and calling the guys that she casually has sex 0:03:07.400 --> 0:03:09.520 with and asking them if they could come over and 0:03:09.560 --> 0:03:12.639 hang her curtain rod, and all of them say no. 0:03:13.360 --> 0:03:17.080 It is really sad to watch. I felt really really 0:03:17.120 --> 0:03:20.200 bad for her, and I fully relate to this because 0:03:20.840 --> 0:03:23.720 it's tough being a single goal and having stuff break 0:03:23.720 --> 0:03:25.760 around your house. And my advice is to call the 0:03:25.800 --> 0:03:29.560 handyman I'm sure we all remember that Charlotte actually has 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:33.240 sex with her handyman in the second season because she's 0:03:33.280 --> 0:03:35.720 so excited that he comes over and fixes something at 0:03:35.760 --> 0:03:37.680 her house. I mean, I relate to all this. I 0:03:37.720 --> 0:03:39.800 know it's probably very sexist for me to say this 0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:43.080 or whatever, but it is very relatable, and. 0:03:43.000 --> 0:03:44.440 I feel really bad for Samantha. 0:03:44.520 --> 0:03:48.040 So eventually, luckily in the episode, Samantha calls Carrie and 0:03:48.120 --> 0:03:50.480 Carrie does go over there to take care of her. 0:03:50.680 --> 0:03:54.360 And I had fully forgotten that Samantha basically makes her 0:03:54.440 --> 0:04:01.480 make the syrup that people in Atlanta drink, which is 0:04:01.520 --> 0:04:05.240 like cold medicine codeine, which I don't think Samantha has, 0:04:05.480 --> 0:04:10.800 and what's the drink, like Fanta or whatever. Yeah, it's 0:04:10.880 --> 0:04:14.640 kind of funny. So she has Carrie make this medicine 0:04:14.680 --> 0:04:17.120 for her, this drink, and she's like, give me my drink. 0:04:17.520 --> 0:04:20.960 It's pretty funny. It's a pretty funny little scene. So 0:04:21.240 --> 0:04:24.919 Carrie's over there with six Samantha. No wait, she confesses 0:04:25.000 --> 0:04:27.560 after the party, I forgot. So once the girls leave 0:04:27.600 --> 0:04:30.200 the party, it's just Carrie and Samantha, and Carrie decides 0:04:30.240 --> 0:04:32.599 that Samantha is the person that she should confess to 0:04:32.720 --> 0:04:36.200 because Samantha might not judge her, which of course she's right, 0:04:36.480 --> 0:04:39.240 and Samantha is a very good listener and says, you know, 0:04:39.760 --> 0:04:41.440 I'm not going to judge you, and Carrie says, like, 0:04:41.480 --> 0:04:43.360 go ahead, go ahead, judge me just a little bit. 0:04:43.440 --> 0:04:46.320 Samantha's like, not my style, and that I thought was 0:04:46.320 --> 0:04:49.440 a really beautiful moment, and I think it's great to 0:04:49.440 --> 0:04:50.920 have a friend who's not going to judge you. I 0:04:50.920 --> 0:04:54.200 think that's important because obviously Carrie's being hard enough on herself, 0:04:54.520 --> 0:04:58.599 which doctor Orna in our Companion episode this week does 0:04:58.720 --> 0:05:03.000 say that Carrie feeling guilty is a sign of being 0:05:03.200 --> 0:05:07.880 healthily integrated in your mind to your actions. So I 0:05:07.920 --> 0:05:11.000 think that's very important that Carrie got the stamp of 0:05:11.040 --> 0:05:15.000 approval of being a healthy person from doctor Orna. And 0:05:15.040 --> 0:05:17.080 I want all the people who hate Carrie to hear that, 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:23.520 because if she was really a full narcissist, she would 0:05:23.520 --> 0:05:26.560 probably not even feel guilty. That Orna didn't spit that out, 0:05:26.560 --> 0:05:28.680 but I think that's really what she was saying, is 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:31.840 that they compartmentalized to the extent where they're not even 0:05:31.880 --> 0:05:34.799 really necessarily aware of the things. 0:05:34.640 --> 0:05:35.159 That they're doing. 0:05:35.200 --> 0:05:37.599 That they shouldn't be doing, so they don't even feel guilt, 0:05:37.680 --> 0:05:39.039 which is terrifying to think of. 0:05:39.440 --> 0:05:41.880 So Carrie is not that person. She's not that person 0:05:41.880 --> 0:05:42.200 at all. 0:05:42.839 --> 0:05:47.240 So she confesses to Samantha before Samantha gets sick. Samantha 0:05:47.320 --> 0:05:49.839 is a very good friend, does not judge her, and 0:05:49.880 --> 0:05:52.520 then Carrie tells Samantha it's not so. Samantha says, so 0:05:52.560 --> 0:05:56.040 you're having an affair and Carrie says, no, no, no, no, 0:05:56.120 --> 0:06:00.240 it's just this one time. So you're like mhmm, because 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:05.320 of course we all know that's not true. Then Carry 0:06:05.360 --> 0:06:07.360 goes after over there and takes care of her, which 0:06:07.400 --> 0:06:11.320 is really adorable. Then Samantha's better and comes to my 0:06:11.400 --> 0:06:13.680 engagement party, so we'll get to that in a second. 0:06:14.000 --> 0:06:16.920 So we find Charlotte in Burgdorf's. 0:06:17.080 --> 0:06:18.960 This is the scene I remember so well that I 0:06:19.040 --> 0:06:23.320 talked to someone about Kyle. I guess we were in Burgdorf. 0:06:23.480 --> 0:06:26.760 We had somehow hauled a big crane up there, and 0:06:26.880 --> 0:06:30.920 Charletts wanted this shot, kind of an aerial tracking shot 0:06:31.080 --> 0:06:33.320 through the China department. I don't know if you guys 0:06:33.360 --> 0:06:36.160 remember in the first season, Charlotte goes out with the 0:06:36.200 --> 0:06:38.719 guy that Carrie had dated because she thinks he's the 0:06:38.760 --> 0:06:41.920 marrying type, but then she does not date him when 0:06:41.920 --> 0:06:44.480 they see some china in a window and he doesn't 0:06:44.760 --> 0:06:46.960 like the pattern that she likes. He likes a different 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:49.320 pattern that she does not approve of. Charlotte has some 0:06:49.440 --> 0:06:53.680 very specific opinions about china patterns. 0:06:54.520 --> 0:06:57.400 So we're in Burgdorf. I'm flipping this plate over. 0:06:57.520 --> 0:06:59.200 I'm looking at it, and then I'm looking at who 0:06:59.240 --> 0:07:01.960 made it, and we did it like thirty six times, 0:07:02.040 --> 0:07:06.080 That's what I remember. And Kyle's there, and Kyle comes 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:09.200 over and looks at the china and says, I believe 0:07:09.200 --> 0:07:13.760 He says fourteen hundred dollars, which does seem insane, but 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:17.160 apparently that is the actual price of the actual plate 0:07:17.200 --> 0:07:18.760 that I was holding, which. 0:07:18.560 --> 0:07:21.040 Is also like crazy. I don't think I. 0:07:21.080 --> 0:07:23.040 Knew at the time that I'm like flipping over a 0:07:23.080 --> 0:07:25.720 fourteen hundred dollars plate in burger If I think, I 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:30.840 would have been really scared. But Kyle Trey says, you know, oh, 0:07:30.920 --> 0:07:32.320 you know. He kind of makes a space and he's like, 0:07:32.440 --> 0:07:35.400 I can't afford that because we'll be eating ramen off 0:07:35.440 --> 0:07:39.800 of this based on my china debt and Charlotte pouts 0:07:40.520 --> 0:07:43.360 and then he's like, oh, I can't take that face. 0:07:43.880 --> 0:07:45.600 And I'm like, see, this is all because I saw 0:07:45.720 --> 0:07:48.560 Bunny do that alrighty thing, you know, where she put 0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:50.160 his hand on his arm and then he does what 0:07:50.200 --> 0:07:53.600 she wants. But it's not a good relationship situation to 0:07:53.640 --> 0:07:56.760 be pouting to get what you want. So I was like, wow, 0:07:57.040 --> 0:07:59.320 I blank that part out. That was interesting. 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:02.120 Tray's like, yeah, yeah, we'll register for that. 0:08:02.200 --> 0:08:06.520 And then I say, did you do your wedding your 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:09.920 engagement party list and he says, oh, yeah, I almost forgot. 0:08:10.040 --> 0:08:11.880 So he gets these papers out, he hands them to me, 0:08:11.960 --> 0:08:15.960 he walks away. The China saleslady's looking at us. I 0:08:15.960 --> 0:08:18.640 think because we kiss or something. She's like disapproving or whatever, 0:08:18.640 --> 0:08:23.680 which was interesting. And then I look at the papers 0:08:23.720 --> 0:08:26.800 and I see his really really messy handwriting, which I 0:08:26.840 --> 0:08:29.080 was also interested in, like, I do not think that 0:08:29.080 --> 0:08:32.600 that's Kyle's handwriting, but okay, and then I look at 0:08:32.600 --> 0:08:35.360 a paper behind that and I say what's this and 0:08:35.400 --> 0:08:36.400 he says, oh, that's. 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:36.800 A pre nup. 0:08:36.960 --> 0:08:39.319 You know, it's just normal. Everyone in my family does one. 0:08:39.920 --> 0:08:43.280 And I look kind of shocked. And then we he says, oh, 0:08:43.360 --> 0:08:45.520 just have your lawyer look over it. We cut two 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:50.319 lunch with the girls. Who is my lawyer, Miranda, Miranda 0:08:50.360 --> 0:08:53.319 Hobbs is my lawyer. She's reading over She's like, oh, 0:08:53.320 --> 0:08:56.120 it's all standard. But Charlotte, Charlote's got some big eyes, 0:08:56.200 --> 0:09:00.520 and she's like, but it's so unromantic. And basically she 0:09:00.679 --> 0:09:01.520 I'm saying, like is it? 0:09:01.960 --> 0:09:02.559 What do I do? 0:09:02.880 --> 0:09:05.599 And Miranda's saying, oh, it's just normal. You know a 0:09:05.640 --> 0:09:08.080 lot of people get prenups. Carrie's like, oh, yeah, a 0:09:08.080 --> 0:09:10.480 lot of people get prenups. And Miranda says, you know, 0:09:10.559 --> 0:09:13.240 this is just an opening offer. You can negotiate. And 0:09:13.280 --> 0:09:15.360 I say, but I don't want to. It's not romantic. 0:09:15.840 --> 0:09:18.160 And she says, oh, you know, it's pretty standard. And 0:09:18.200 --> 0:09:20.960 then she goes, oh, but this is odd. He has 0:09:21.000 --> 0:09:24.319 you on a on a vestment thing something like that. 0:09:24.360 --> 0:09:27.959 I'm not, obviously not not versed in prenup language, where 0:09:28.400 --> 0:09:32.360 if you have a boy you get oh here it 0:09:32.400 --> 0:09:35.080 is here it is for every five years they're married, 0:09:35.160 --> 0:09:38.920 she gets a percentage of five hundred thousand dollars over 0:09:39.040 --> 0:09:43.960 thirty years. I mean, that's lame people. And obviously Charlotte 0:09:43.960 --> 0:09:47.600 feels the same way. And then if Charlotte were to 0:09:47.640 --> 0:09:51.000 have a boy child, she gets one hundred thousand dollars 0:09:51.040 --> 0:09:54.079 free and clear. And then Carrie says, well, what does 0:09:54.120 --> 0:09:58.360 she get for a girl? And Miranda says nada. And 0:09:58.640 --> 0:10:01.600 as doctor Orna and I talk about, that is horrifying, 0:10:02.200 --> 0:10:04.880 and for some reason Charlotte doesn't seem horrified. 0:10:04.559 --> 0:10:06.360 Enough in that scene. I don't know why. 0:10:06.600 --> 0:10:08.200 I don't know if I wanted to be horrified and 0:10:08.240 --> 0:10:10.000 they didn't want me to be horrified, or if I'm 0:10:10.080 --> 0:10:12.480 just generally upset and they didn't want me to be 0:10:12.520 --> 0:10:16.000 specifically upset about that. But it does seem really fully 0:10:16.240 --> 0:10:19.760 one hundred percent insane that somehow he would give me 0:10:19.760 --> 0:10:21.720 one hundred thousand dollars if I had a boy baby, 0:10:21.800 --> 0:10:23.400 but nothing if I had a girl baby. 0:10:23.520 --> 0:10:25.439 What the heck? Man is just wacky. 0:10:25.520 --> 0:10:29.760 And also, five hundred thousand dollars over thirty years, based 0:10:29.840 --> 0:10:32.800 on every five years, that's a horrible deal. 0:10:32.920 --> 0:10:35.559 That's a horrible deal. So I hadn't really thought. 0:10:35.400 --> 0:10:37.440 About all these numbers, because back at the time, I 0:10:37.440 --> 0:10:39.760 don't think I was paying attention to the numbers. I 0:10:39.800 --> 0:10:41.960 think I was so stressed by the scene that I 0:10:42.000 --> 0:10:44.880 knew was coming where I have to try to negotiate 0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:47.360 with Bunny and the engagement party scene and I have 0:10:47.480 --> 0:10:51.120 to say to her, I'm worth a million, which lives 0:10:51.120 --> 0:10:53.439 on on the internet, which is of course a joy, 0:10:53.760 --> 0:10:56.520 but at the time, so scared, you guys, to do 0:10:56.559 --> 0:11:00.200 that scene, so scared, so weird to do a scene 0:11:00.200 --> 0:11:04.840 where you're actually saying a number, a figure of money 0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:07.880 that you're worth to marry someone. 0:11:08.080 --> 0:11:09.720 It's very, very weird. 0:11:10.400 --> 0:11:13.080 But when I watched the scene, I did really love 0:11:13.120 --> 0:11:16.959 it because I love Franny Sternhagen, who's playing Bunny, and 0:11:17.360 --> 0:11:20.400 I remember the scene because I was in such a panic, 0:11:20.960 --> 0:11:23.200 and I remember Jenny talking to me about it. I 0:11:23.200 --> 0:11:26.160 remember Charles talking about it, I remember Darren. I think 0:11:26.559 --> 0:11:29.760 Michael Patrick, like so many people, had a lot of 0:11:30.280 --> 0:11:34.520 ideas about how I was supposed to do it, and 0:11:34.559 --> 0:11:37.080 I feel I feel like what they wanted was for 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:40.680 me to be very strong, and when I watched it, 0:11:40.880 --> 0:11:42.120 I felt like I was strong. 0:11:41.920 --> 0:11:44.079 Because I think just to even say it is strong. 0:11:44.440 --> 0:11:46.240 But I don't know if I delivered it the way 0:11:46.240 --> 0:11:48.480 they wanted, because I remember feeling at the time that 0:11:48.520 --> 0:11:50.200 I hadn't done what they wanted. 0:11:50.440 --> 0:11:52.040 But when I look back on it, I think I 0:11:52.080 --> 0:11:52.720 did fine. 0:11:52.800 --> 0:11:54.640 It's one of those ones where I'm like, see that 0:11:54.679 --> 0:11:57.280 I was worried for no reason there. But I do 0:11:57.320 --> 0:11:59.200 really like that scene because I don't feel like we 0:11:59.280 --> 0:12:02.320 see stuff like that very often. And I also feel 0:12:02.400 --> 0:12:06.800 like it is, of course showing us a lot about 0:12:06.800 --> 0:12:10.120 that family that they would have this prenup that apparently 0:12:10.120 --> 0:12:13.719 everyone in the family signs. That's kind of bonkers, right, 0:12:14.360 --> 0:12:16.760 And I do feel like Charlotte should have been worried. 0:12:17.160 --> 0:12:20.000 But I also feel like when I say I just 0:12:20.040 --> 0:12:21.720 really love him and I want to marry him, I 0:12:21.720 --> 0:12:24.680 do think that's one hundred percent true. And also what 0:12:24.720 --> 0:12:27.320 I've forgotten is like I go to the girls to 0:12:27.360 --> 0:12:29.760 tell them like, oh, I did it. I negotiated with 0:12:29.800 --> 0:12:34.240 Bunny and I signed the papers, and they're like great, baby. 0:12:34.480 --> 0:12:36.319 And then they don't call me baby. They say great. 0:12:36.679 --> 0:12:39.320 And then Kyle comes and says, can I steal my bride? 0:12:39.320 --> 0:12:41.400 And I go off with him and I kiss, and 0:12:41.440 --> 0:12:44.640 I think Sir Jessica Carrey says something like at the 0:12:44.760 --> 0:12:46.440 end of the episode, I think she says something like 0:12:46.559 --> 0:12:50.480 and then there were three. I'm just like, oh God, 0:12:50.800 --> 0:12:53.439 it seems like I'm leaving them. I totally forgot about that. 0:12:53.480 --> 0:12:56.000 But we all know it doesn't last, so it's gonna 0:12:56.040 --> 0:12:58.280 be fine, you guys. But I had a moment of panic. 0:12:58.360 --> 0:13:01.080 I'm like, don't do that, Charlotte. Leave them, don't leave 0:13:01.080 --> 0:13:04.040 them into a scary family. That's not smart. That's how 0:13:04.040 --> 0:13:05.840 I felt watching it. I don't know how you guys 0:13:05.840 --> 0:13:08.480 feel watching it, but that's how I felt. Okay, then 0:13:08.720 --> 0:13:10.400 let's go back to Samantha for a second. Did I 0:13:10.440 --> 0:13:11.080 carry everything? 0:13:11.280 --> 0:13:14.520 Yes? I did? I did. Oh no, I forgot. She's sick. 0:13:14.720 --> 0:13:17.040 Carrie goes over there to make her medicine for her. 0:13:17.240 --> 0:13:21.000 Samantha says some totally crazy Charlotte like things. It was 0:13:21.200 --> 0:13:24.920 I didn't remember this at all. She basically says I 0:13:25.000 --> 0:13:27.520 should have gotten married because there's no one to hang 0:13:27.559 --> 0:13:30.880 her curtain rod right, and Gary's just looking at her 0:13:30.920 --> 0:13:35.439 like who are you? And then later on, thank goodness, 0:13:36.760 --> 0:13:38.880 I mean, she just say we are all alone, Carrie, 0:13:39.000 --> 0:13:40.120 and Carrie says, no, we're not. 0:13:40.200 --> 0:13:42.359 We have each other, which is adorable. 0:13:42.679 --> 0:13:45.280 And then luckily at the end, when Samantha feels better 0:13:45.360 --> 0:13:48.360 to come to my engagement party, and Carrie says something like, yeah, 0:13:48.400 --> 0:13:51.079 you were saying some crazy Charlotte like things. She says, oh, yeah, 0:13:51.120 --> 0:13:52.920 I'm fine now you know I had a fever. And 0:13:52.920 --> 0:14:07.599 you're like, oh, well, golly, that was scary. That was scary, Samantha. 0:14:08.200 --> 0:14:10.680 So let's talk about Miranda for a second, because I 0:14:10.760 --> 0:14:12.760 had remembered that Joshua was on the show. I'm a 0:14:12.760 --> 0:14:15.480 big josh Hamilton fan, but I did not remember this 0:14:15.520 --> 0:14:17.840 part at all. So when we're at the early scene 0:14:17.880 --> 0:14:22.920 where Miranda is reading the prenup to me, this handsome lawyer. 0:14:22.640 --> 0:14:25.240 Walks by and he's like, oh, you're working over lunch and. 0:14:25.160 --> 0:14:27.200 She's like yeah, and he said, oh, you sent me 0:14:27.200 --> 0:14:29.760 to this hip restaurant. And Carrie's like him and looks 0:14:29.760 --> 0:14:32.440 at Samantha, I mean sorry, Miranda like, oh, you're not him, 0:14:32.880 --> 0:14:35.360 which is also funny. And then it turns out they 0:14:35.360 --> 0:14:37.080 have a date that night, so they go on the 0:14:37.160 --> 0:14:38.760 date and then they make out in the hallway, but 0:14:38.800 --> 0:14:41.160 then the guy has to go his character's name. 0:14:41.320 --> 0:14:45.840 Let's see, his character's name is George. 0:14:46.360 --> 0:14:48.720 George has to go back to Chicago where he lives, 0:14:49.080 --> 0:14:51.600 and she says, you know what we do it agangst 0:14:51.640 --> 0:14:53.880 is all very hot, and heavy in the hallway, and 0:14:53.920 --> 0:14:56.760 he says, of course, I come and go all the time, 0:14:57.200 --> 0:15:00.400 but there's also the phone, and she's like, okay. So 0:15:00.440 --> 0:15:04.280 then they start having phone sex, and it's kind of. 0:15:06.040 --> 0:15:08.400 I feel bad saying this. It's a little cliched. 0:15:08.560 --> 0:15:11.520 Okay, it's a little cliched phone sex where I had 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:14.560 to think through, like what do people actually say? 0:15:15.000 --> 0:15:17.000 And I feel like it. I guess if you have. 0:15:17.360 --> 0:15:21.080 Never had sex with the person and then you're having 0:15:21.120 --> 0:15:24.160 phone sex first, which kind of seems odd, but I 0:15:24.160 --> 0:15:26.320 guess that might happen in life, then you might just 0:15:26.400 --> 0:15:28.440 go to kind of like the stock things that you 0:15:28.480 --> 0:15:30.440 would say, which I feel like is what they're doing. 0:15:30.760 --> 0:15:33.040 But I also feel that in the year two thousand, 0:15:33.280 --> 0:15:36.160 we have probably not seen characters on television show having 0:15:36.160 --> 0:15:38.000 phone sex, right, so so I'm going to give our 0:15:38.040 --> 0:15:40.960 writers a break there. But I did think, like, we 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:43.240 need to be more creative at our Phone sex was 0:15:43.280 --> 0:15:46.160 really what I was thinking, because they were having basically 0:15:46.200 --> 0:15:49.240 it seems like they're having phone sex every night, and 0:15:49.280 --> 0:15:53.240 then the really entertaining thing happens, which is at. 0:15:53.080 --> 0:15:54.320 One point, oh, I forgot this. 0:15:54.400 --> 0:15:57.640 At one point, Miranda's having phone sex and I call 0:15:57.760 --> 0:16:01.080 her about the prenupt to tell her that Bunny's not 0:16:01.120 --> 0:16:04.040 going to negotiate, and I'm like, I'm in a panic 0:16:04.080 --> 0:16:06.320 on the other line, but she's having phone sex. She's like, Charlotte, 0:16:06.320 --> 0:16:08.200 I've got to go, and you can hear me trying 0:16:08.200 --> 0:16:10.360 to talk to her and she clicks over right, which is. 0:16:10.400 --> 0:16:10.960 Kind of funny. 0:16:11.400 --> 0:16:14.560 Then the next time we see them having phone sex, 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:17.920 he gets another call and he clicks over and then 0:16:17.920 --> 0:16:21.600 he comes back to continue the phone sex, but he's 0:16:22.240 --> 0:16:24.840 skipped ahead in the phone sex to a part that 0:16:24.840 --> 0:16:28.000 they weren't at, which alerts her that something is off, 0:16:28.040 --> 0:16:30.120 and she's like, no, no, you were kissing my breast 0:16:30.440 --> 0:16:33.440 and he's like, no, no, I was thrusting and she's like, no, no, 0:16:33.520 --> 0:16:33.960 you weren't. 0:16:34.000 --> 0:16:35.680 We hadn't gone to that, and then. 0:16:35.520 --> 0:16:38.680 He goes, oh uh, and she says, wait a minute, 0:16:38.760 --> 0:16:41.320 and she sits up. Are you having phone sex with 0:16:41.360 --> 0:16:44.600 other people? And he's like, well, Miranda, we never said 0:16:44.600 --> 0:16:48.400 that we were exclusive. Like he's kind of entertaining, and 0:16:48.920 --> 0:16:51.160 that's the end of George. We don't get to see 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:53.760 Q Josh Hamilton again, which is kind of sad. And 0:16:53.920 --> 0:16:56.320 apparently I read in the notes that he was in 0:16:56.360 --> 0:17:00.240 the other room. He wasn't recorded pre recorded, And this 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:02.840 is something that we would very commonly do, especially in 0:17:02.880 --> 0:17:05.160 the early days, Like if we had a phone conversation 0:17:05.920 --> 0:17:09.879 that was in any way important, right, like, like I 0:17:09.920 --> 0:17:12.800 mean really any phone conversation, if there was any way 0:17:12.880 --> 0:17:15.359 that the other actor could be there, we would do 0:17:15.440 --> 0:17:18.119 it that way. Because what you're left with if you 0:17:18.200 --> 0:17:19.840 don't do it that way, you would never have a 0:17:19.880 --> 0:17:23.359 pre recorded voice of the other person because that would 0:17:23.359 --> 0:17:26.199 be weird. You would have the script supervisor read it. 0:17:26.240 --> 0:17:28.520 But of course the script supervisor is probably a woman. 0:17:28.640 --> 0:17:31.840 They normally are I don't know why, and they're just 0:17:31.880 --> 0:17:35.240 reading it kind of like without emotion or whatever. 0:17:35.400 --> 0:17:36.920 So it's hard to do your. 0:17:36.840 --> 0:17:39.119 Performance in the same way that you would do it 0:17:39.560 --> 0:17:43.280 with the actual other actor. Right. So like even if 0:17:43.359 --> 0:17:47.000 it was you know, I don't remember if I also 0:17:47.119 --> 0:17:48.960 was in the other room to call Miranda, I could 0:17:48.960 --> 0:17:50.960 have been, but I also could have been on another 0:17:50.960 --> 0:17:53.520 set doing another scene, right, So you're always trying to 0:17:53.600 --> 0:17:55.560 make it work out that you're free for the time 0:17:55.600 --> 0:17:57.879 that they need you to do the other off camera, 0:17:58.400 --> 0:18:02.119 you know, voice, which is your your performance, your side 0:18:02.200 --> 0:18:05.800 of the phone performance, right, But I remember, like I 0:18:05.840 --> 0:18:08.720 have an argument with Miranda coming up down the line 0:18:08.800 --> 0:18:11.840 where I say, I choose my choice. I choose my choice. 0:18:11.880 --> 0:18:14.520 Do you guys remember that? I remember one hundred percent. 0:18:14.640 --> 0:18:18.320 She came and sat on my apartment set so that 0:18:18.520 --> 0:18:21.120 we could actually act with each other. I can't see 0:18:21.119 --> 0:18:23.159 her because I'm on the phone, right, She's like behind 0:18:23.200 --> 0:18:25.160 the wall. But you know, it makes a huge, huge 0:18:25.200 --> 0:18:28.320 difference in your performance for phone conversations. I don't know 0:18:28.359 --> 0:18:30.320 if everybody does that or not, but that's what we do. 0:18:30.920 --> 0:18:36.080 That's what is preferable, I think. Anyway, Carrie, let's discuss. 0:18:36.400 --> 0:18:40.600 Oh my goodness me, this is just like the height 0:18:40.760 --> 0:18:46.760 of Carrie's really intense drama, but also the height of 0:18:46.840 --> 0:18:52.840 Sarah Jessica's like incredible acting, like incredible acting. I felt 0:18:52.840 --> 0:18:56.520 like it was so real and grounded what she always is. 0:18:56.600 --> 0:18:59.680 But just the guilt when you're just like just can 0:18:59.800 --> 0:19:02.439 eat hardly think straight because you feel so guilty. And 0:19:02.480 --> 0:19:05.680 of course Aiden's just being super sweet, because that's always 0:19:05.680 --> 0:19:07.639 how it is when you've done something bad to somebody. 0:19:07.680 --> 0:19:10.040 They're being super sweet because they don't even know. It's 0:19:10.080 --> 0:19:14.320 super interesting. So first we see Carrie and she's you know, 0:19:14.960 --> 0:19:17.160 happy and kissing Aid and then she's saying that she's 0:19:17.200 --> 0:19:19.600 going to go off with us, and he says, oh, 0:19:19.640 --> 0:19:23.480 what do you guys talk about? And she says, oh, 0:19:23.560 --> 0:19:25.359 you know, we braid each other's hair. 0:19:26.680 --> 0:19:27.600 It's really funny. 0:19:27.880 --> 0:19:30.359 And then he goes, well, don't you talk about the 0:19:30.440 --> 0:19:31.280 Fellas and. 0:19:31.200 --> 0:19:34.520 She's like, uh, well, you know, I guess it comes up. 0:19:34.720 --> 0:19:37.359 Which I'm just laughing because, you know, this is like 0:19:37.440 --> 0:19:40.199 the commentary about the show right at this point is that, 0:19:40.359 --> 0:19:43.080 you know, we talk about men, and we talk about 0:19:43.080 --> 0:19:45.680 men in the ways that people didn't used to think 0:19:45.720 --> 0:19:48.359 women talk about men, which is all very interesting. And 0:19:48.400 --> 0:19:51.600 then at some point he says something about his head 0:19:51.600 --> 0:19:54.560 of hair or whatever. I can't remember why, and then 0:19:54.600 --> 0:19:56.880 he says he's not losing any and then apparently later 0:19:56.920 --> 0:19:58.600 in the show we're going to see some rogue and 0:19:58.600 --> 0:20:00.760 there's gonna be some conversation about So that's one of 0:20:00.800 --> 0:20:02.960 those things that the Internet would be very upset with now, 0:20:03.240 --> 0:20:05.879 but we didn't have Instagram back in the olden days, 0:20:06.040 --> 0:20:09.360